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CONTENTS<br />
Tech Careers<br />
Aren’t for<br />
Everyone, But<br />
Are an Option<br />
for All Women<br />
Spring <strong>2021</strong>: The<br />
Tech Savvy Women Issue.<br />
It’s Finally Time to Breathe!<br />
Summer <strong>2021</strong>: The Women and<br />
Wellness Issue.<br />
Working Towards an Equitable<br />
World for All<br />
Fall <strong>2021</strong>: The Women and Justice<br />
Issue.<br />
features<br />
8<br />
7<br />
A Letter from the<br />
President<br />
Emily van Eerten<br />
introduces the issue.<br />
Spring Archives: 2017, 2018, 2019,<br />
2020, <strong>2021</strong><br />
Elsie Bose takes a look through the<br />
Spring archives.<br />
16 Team Favorites<br />
Elsie Bose, Liz MacNiven, Karen<br />
Boeker, Berit Torkildsen and<br />
Michele Hendrikse Du Bois pick<br />
out some of their favorites from the<br />
last five years.<br />
54<br />
Hospitality is<br />
Simply Love<br />
on the Loose<br />
Winter <strong>2021</strong>:<br />
The Women<br />
and Hospitality<br />
Issue.<br />
21<br />
Summer Archives: 2017, 2018,<br />
2019, 2020, <strong>2021</strong><br />
Elsie Bose takes a look through the<br />
Summer archives.<br />
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29 That’s Inspired<br />
Georgia Regnault, Sallie<br />
Chaballier, Cynthia Smith-Ayed,<br />
Rick Chizmadia, Margaret<br />
Hilditch, Mary Stewart Burger and<br />
Liz MacNiven tell us what and who<br />
inspires them.<br />
35<br />
44<br />
50<br />
Fall Archives: 2017, 2018, 2019,<br />
2020, <strong>2021</strong><br />
Elsie Bose takes a look through the<br />
Fall archives.<br />
Souvenirs from<br />
Around the<br />
FAWCO World<br />
A series of photos<br />
from FAWCO<br />
members.<br />
Winter Archives: 2017, 2018, 2019,<br />
2020, <strong>2021</strong><br />
Elsie Bose takes a look through the<br />
Winter archives.<br />
59<br />
A Club Inspires:<br />
AWG Paris<br />
64 Sharing Inspiring Women<br />
Liz MacNiven explains how and<br />
why you should share the magazine.<br />
65<br />
69<br />
The Evolution of Our Feature<br />
Articles<br />
Liz MacNiven and Michele<br />
Hendrikse Du Bois highlight the<br />
changes in the Inspiring Women<br />
feature articles since the magazine<br />
first began.<br />
“The Right Amount of Sleep is a<br />
Foundation For Living a Full and<br />
Meaningful Life.”<br />
Brenda Nielson tells us about<br />
how best to get some sleep.<br />
in every issue<br />
5<br />
6<br />
71<br />
A Note from the Editor<br />
Liz MacNiven<br />
Five Years On, How We Got Here<br />
More about what you can find in this<br />
issue from Elsie Bose.<br />
Invitation to a Garden Party<br />
72<br />
Inspiring You<br />
73<br />
75<br />
More About This Issue<br />
Our Advertisers<br />
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“W<br />
e<br />
who make a<br />
must find time<br />
to stop and<br />
thank the people<br />
difference in our<br />
lives.”<br />
A Note from<br />
the Editor<br />
John F. Kennedy<br />
After five years of creating Inspiring Women four<br />
times a year, there are certainly a number of<br />
people I should stop and thank!<br />
1. The FAWCO Board: I’d like to especially thank<br />
the board that first agreed to the proposal to start<br />
the magazine back in 2017, led by Sallie Chaballier.<br />
The current board continues to support our<br />
efforts and new ideas and we very much<br />
appreciate this. I would especially like to mention<br />
Ann Marie Morrow, VP Communications, who is<br />
our boss. She is always quick to come to our<br />
rescue when we are having technical struggles and<br />
helps us generally with whatever it is we need. You<br />
really make a difference in our lives Ann Marie,<br />
thank you!<br />
2. The IW Team: This has grown from two to six<br />
willing members since the first issues. So a “shout<br />
out” to each of them.<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
Elsie: this magazine wouldn’t even exist<br />
without your drive and vision. It is an honour<br />
and a pleasure to work with you. Thank you.<br />
Michele: the change since you joined the<br />
team in the variety of feature articles is huge.<br />
Thank you for all you do on that.<br />
Karen: without your work the subscribers<br />
and FAWCO members wouldn’t get their<br />
copies of the magazine via email.<br />
Thank you.<br />
<br />
<br />
Berit: thank you<br />
for being willing<br />
to bring your<br />
knowledge of<br />
social media to a<br />
group that was<br />
struggling with it!<br />
Hayley: You’ve not been part of the team for<br />
long but thank you for being so willing to<br />
take over some of the work from me.<br />
3. The IW Proofing Team: Each member of the<br />
team (Carol-Lyn, Celeste, Janet, Janis, Jenny, Karen,<br />
Lauren, Laurie, Mary D, Mary Stewart, Sallie and<br />
Tamar) is invaluable. Your red pens make all the<br />
difference to the quality and professionalism of<br />
our output. Thank you!<br />
4. The IW Readers: We work hard to make this<br />
magazine the best it can be and we appreciate<br />
each and every one of you that reads it. We are<br />
especially grateful to those of you who have<br />
become direct subscribers and persuaded many<br />
of your friends and family to become subscribers,<br />
too (see p. 64 for more on this). Thank you.<br />
5. Our Advertisers: Each one of you contributes<br />
to the work of Inspiring Women and thus to the<br />
work of FAWCO. Thank you.<br />
Liz x<br />
Inspiringwomen.editor@fawco.org<br />
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Five Years On, How<br />
We Got Here<br />
Inspiring Women Magazine founder Elsie Bose<br />
considers the four Cs.<br />
When purchasing a diamond one considers the<br />
four Cs: Cut, Clarity, Color and Carats. (Notice the<br />
“s” on Carat…)<br />
Inspiring Women has its own four Cs. I realized<br />
this after spending the last few months reviewing<br />
each issue of the magazine in anticipation of our<br />
five-year anniversary. As I re-read them, I realized<br />
that we have established four important planks<br />
that form the foundation of our work.<br />
1. Communication Our 6-woman team lives in<br />
four different time zones. Many FAWCO teams<br />
operate with the same time issues so they will<br />
recognize the challenges. We plan our meetings in<br />
advance; we ask everyone to be on time. (It<br />
doesn’t always work out that way!) We give<br />
everyone the time they need to express their<br />
thoughts and opinions. WE STAY POSITIVE.<br />
2. Creativity With each issue we always expect to<br />
have something different: a new element or<br />
improvement of an element from previous<br />
issues. I love to pose the question, “What if?”. (If<br />
one could hear eyes rolling, I am sure the sound<br />
would be thunderous!). Our “what if” sessions<br />
are not meandering missions to nowhere. We<br />
work with purpose and passion! We listen and<br />
value every new idea. Sometimes it takes a while<br />
to get to a place where we can all agree, but THE<br />
TEAM IS PATIENT.<br />
3. Collaboration This team does not dawdle! To<br />
successfully get the magazine out on time we<br />
always remain open to the idea of working<br />
together on some projects. We are not shy about<br />
giving input during the process on things we like<br />
and things we don’t. Real life, good and bad,<br />
also goes on for each of us. If someone needs<br />
help, another one of us pitches in without missing<br />
a beat.<br />
4. Community The magazine wouldn’t exist<br />
without the very special members that we<br />
showcase in each issue. We have said before that<br />
we are astonished and amazed at what these<br />
women have achieved. Their stories are the<br />
reason for the success of the magazine. The<br />
feature stories submitted by members help us<br />
further explore the themes of every issue. We<br />
would not have lasted five years without the<br />
support of the FAWCO boards. The leap of faith<br />
they take to “let us do us” boosts our confidence<br />
and enthusiasm for the project. We are grateful to<br />
all of our advertising partners who invest in the<br />
magazine because they believe that our readers<br />
hold the values their brands represent. And we<br />
are thankful to our enthusiastic subscribers who<br />
have cheered us on at every opportunity.<br />
For me, I am incredibly grateful to our team. Each<br />
issue is a fantastic experience. We work so well<br />
together! I won’t say that we are without drama,<br />
but the drama always revolves around how we<br />
can make each issue and each one of us better. It<br />
is an absolute privilege to work with each one of<br />
them. Together we have crafted from our four Cs<br />
a diamond of a magazine.<br />
Which brings me to my fifth “C”- to Liz, Michele,<br />
Karen, Berit and Haley, the next time we see each<br />
other in person, the Champagne is on me!<br />
Elsie<br />
advertising@fawco.org<br />
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A Letter from<br />
FAWCO’s<br />
President<br />
One of the pleasures of being involved with FAWCO is the opportunity to meet interesting people who<br />
have lived similar lives, just in different countries under different circumstances. The details varied but<br />
the themes were the same, and the cumulative delight at the variations in the human experience was<br />
humbling and INSPIRING. At my first FAWCO conference in 2000, I would go back to my hotel room at<br />
the end of each day pinching myself over the extraordinary women I just happened to be talking<br />
with. With a few more conferences under my belt, I simply expected that every woman I met would<br />
reveal herself to be amazing in her own unique way within the first few sentences. And that expectation<br />
was met time and time again. It might turn out that the woman next to me at a gathering had been the<br />
executive editor of a major international newspaper (!) or someone who ran cooking classes for refugee<br />
boys (!) or worked at the UN in a field I support (!) or perhaps had just researched and written a book (!)<br />
or sung at Covent Garden (!) or had survived a terrorist attack (!) or blogged about her yearlong tour<br />
around the world (!) or had fled a war torn region (!) or … the possibilities were endless, and endlessly<br />
fascinating. I wanted to meet everyone.<br />
Clearly, my experience was not unique. In 2017, with the founding vision of Elsie Bose and Liz MacNiven<br />
and the support of many others, FAWCO set out to highlight the accomplishments and fascinating<br />
stories of a wide cross section of FAWCO members from all of our clubs. Setting a theme for each<br />
quarter, the magazine has given all of FAWCO the opportunity to get a better understanding of the<br />
entire organization through the lens of those who are drawn to the mission of FAWCO and their own<br />
clubs. We are a group that endeavors to help each other settle into new lives, and we in turn extend our<br />
support to help our communities, local and global. And we bring our impressive intellect, our significant<br />
skills and our purpose-filled passions, inspired by each other, to accomplish more together than we<br />
could on our own. We LEAN ON our club members when we need support ourselves, and we LEAN IN to<br />
our clubs and FAWCO community as we give of our individual talents for the betterment of society.<br />
Congratulations to the Inspiring Women Team for five years of helping us connect with so many of<br />
the extraordinary women in FAWCO! May the magazine and the ideals of those profiled within continue<br />
to flourish!<br />
Emily<br />
Emily van Eerten<br />
FAWCO President<br />
president@fawco.org<br />
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Spring Archives: 2017<br />
“We Hope You<br />
Like It and<br />
Recognize<br />
Yourself in It!”<br />
Inspiring Women launches its<br />
first issue.<br />
The magazine started its journey in the summer<br />
of 2016. With a very simple idea … “Introducing a<br />
new online magazine highlighting the<br />
achievements of individual FAWCO club members<br />
worldwide. The intent is to create a fun and<br />
informative magazine.”<br />
The original plan was very simple. Select a theme<br />
for each issue and send out a request to the club<br />
reps and presidents asking for nominees. The IW<br />
“Team” would create a questionnaire (how hard<br />
could that be?) and send it out to the<br />
candidates. They would return the forms filled<br />
with pithy prose as well as include dozens of<br />
studio perfect photos and we would copy and<br />
paste it all into layout – JOB DONE!<br />
Well, not exactly. Through the next few months,<br />
we established processes and set up guidelines.<br />
Some of our big ideas didn’t quite work out and it<br />
was back to the drawing board from time to<br />
time. The launch originally planned for December<br />
2016 was moved to March 2017 in time for the<br />
FAWCO Conference in Mumbai.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• This issue is the SHORTEST issue to date, only<br />
40 pages. It contained eight profiles and four<br />
features in total.<br />
• The cover shows Alena Nesbitt, daughter of<br />
former FAWCO Foundation President<br />
Suzanne Wheeler.<br />
• The first issue is the only regular issue that<br />
was printed. All quarterly issues are published<br />
solely online.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Grace Wong-Folliet (AAWE Paris) and her freshly<br />
baked macarons.<br />
The profiles clearly illustrate the “How It Started”<br />
to “How It’s Going” story. From fund manager to<br />
wine maker, trade association executive to<br />
freelance photographer, these women’s personal<br />
values, “their brands” were validated by the<br />
choices they made.<br />
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Spring Archives: 2018<br />
“I Run Like<br />
a Girl – Try to<br />
Keep Up!”<br />
Pushing ourselves beyond<br />
expectations: Women in Sport<br />
and Fitness.<br />
There is something unbelievably surrealistic when<br />
we are able to stretch our physical capabilities. It<br />
is powerful, it is satisfying, and it makes us want<br />
to push ourselves to the next level of success.<br />
Women in sports in this moment is a topic that is<br />
more exciting and challenging than ever. We are<br />
participating in so many different sports,<br />
something that would have been unheard of ten<br />
years ago. For this issue, we were looking for<br />
women who achieved success as a champion, a<br />
participant, a coach, or an organizer in the sport<br />
of their choice. Or perhaps someone for whom<br />
going for the gold was more significant than<br />
winning the gold.<br />
The women in this issue had different reasons for<br />
participating and excelling in their sport of<br />
choice. They ran faster, jumped higher, and as a<br />
result achieved their “personal bests” both in and<br />
out of sport. Their stories describe winning in<br />
their own personal way.<br />
Fun fact about/from the issue<br />
• We were pleased to showcase 11 profiles in<br />
the magazine featuring eight different<br />
sports. Something for everyone to enjoy!<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Whether winning a decisive victory or achieving<br />
their personal best, participation in sports has<br />
proved to be life-transforming for many<br />
women. Success in competition provides a new<br />
dimension to non-sport activities. Sports can<br />
unite us as teams on the field and as well as in<br />
daily life.<br />
Samantha Day (AWC Vienna) posing in her very unusual<br />
cycling “kit”!<br />
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Spring Archives: 2019<br />
“The Beauty of<br />
Showing<br />
Compassion”<br />
So many great stories, it required<br />
two issues: Women Who Persist<br />
Part 2.<br />
We began our third year of Inspiring Women<br />
with a theme that resonated loudly with our<br />
readers. We first presented “Women Who Persist”<br />
in our fall 2018 issue. The magazine received<br />
more profile nominees than any previous<br />
issue. Each story was so compelling, so<br />
empowering, that the editorial staff felt it was<br />
important to run two issues in order to be able to<br />
include all of them.<br />
These women are committed to a wide range of<br />
causes in all corners of the world. Sometimes,<br />
their missions take them to painful places with<br />
spirit-crushing obstacles. But still they<br />
persist. And they succeed.<br />
We asked:<br />
“Big issue or small, what is it about these women<br />
that motivates them to step out on the ledge of a<br />
troubled world and join the journey to make it a<br />
better place. There are challenges everywhere we<br />
look. What made these women different that<br />
they did not look away?”<br />
Fun fact about/from the issue<br />
• With the launch of this issue, the mighty<br />
Inspiring Women team had published over<br />
500 pages of content. That’s a lot of profiles,<br />
features, quotes, photos and ads!<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Sarah Wallace (AWC Genoa) campaigning for human rights.<br />
These “Sheroes” have much common; they have<br />
passion for their causes, the courage of their<br />
convictions and unbounded energy and<br />
determination to right the wrongs. While they<br />
may not reach consensus on how to achieve<br />
the goal, there is never any compromise on<br />
achieving it.<br />
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Spring Archives: 2020<br />
“Their Boundless<br />
Energy Helps to<br />
Make Our Clubs<br />
Relevant and<br />
Ready for the<br />
Future”<br />
Getting to know the members<br />
who are the future of FAWCO:<br />
Gen Y and Millennial FAWCO<br />
Women – The Under 40s.<br />
For our first issue of 2020 we turned our focus to<br />
the younger members of our clubs. We asked,<br />
“Who are they, what interests them and how will<br />
they contribute to our clubs?” We were curious<br />
about who has inspired them. What was their<br />
vision for the future? How, in their opinion, can<br />
our individual clubs and FAWCO remain relevant<br />
and play a role in that future?<br />
The women profiled in this issue add a further<br />
dimension to life under 40. Many live in a place<br />
very different from where they were raised. They<br />
have jobs and careers in fields that were unheard<br />
of just 10-15 years ago. While failure is not an<br />
option, a few mistakes have helped them along<br />
their way. They have been told that they were<br />
brave to step outside their comfort zone.<br />
Perhaps they possess (or are possessed) by an<br />
elevated sense of curiosity. They are fearless,<br />
but not reckless. The profiles proved that this<br />
group is living and thriving and ready to make<br />
their mark.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• We published our first poetry feature,<br />
Fickle+n written by Jane Mobille (AAWE, Paris).<br />
• 24 Hours in Luxembourg, a club’s guide to the<br />
city, was featured in anticipation of the<br />
Interim Meeting, scheduled for Luxembourg<br />
in March 2020, which was cancelled. We hope<br />
it will prove useful in 2022!<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Opera singer Brenda Turner (AWC Berlin) in performance.<br />
These women have accomplished so much<br />
already – it was quite breathtaking! And they<br />
aren’t finished. Many are continuing up the path<br />
where they started their life’s journeys while<br />
others have discovered a different route.<br />
Regardless of the direction, they are all<br />
determined to be successful at whatever they do.<br />
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PROFILE <strong>2021</strong><br />
Tech Careers Aren’t for Everyone,<br />
But Are an Option for All Women<br />
Spring <strong>2021</strong>: The Tech Savvy Women Issue.<br />
The introduction of tech into our lives for many of us was a combination of curiosity, amusement,<br />
frustration, and eventually, acceptance. And while most of us were working out what was happening,<br />
the industries that are “technology” marched forward.<br />
Unfortunately, women were not part of the parade.<br />
We asked,” Are there members who have moved along the technology tide, coders, website designers,<br />
those who are creating the ‘internet of things’? Those who are redefining reality, virtual or<br />
augmented. We are interested in those creating content for digital platforms. Do you know any of the<br />
influencers who dominate popular media? Finally, where have women climbed high enough in these<br />
industries to break the glass ceiling?“<br />
The women profiled in this issue are changing that. A glance at their backgrounds and experience truly<br />
blows the mind. They are software engineers, web security experts, logistic specialists, web designers,<br />
graphic designers, social media mavens, and more. What they “do” is incredibly interesting and, at<br />
times, unbelievably mind-boggling! But the vital piece in all of their stories is how they use<br />
technology and their skills to bring others along.<br />
Specializing in<br />
Web Security<br />
Susan Spälti, member of the AWC<br />
Bern, Switzerland, describes her<br />
roles in operations research and<br />
internet security.<br />
Although I was born in Pittsburgh, PA, my family<br />
moved every five years between Pittsburgh and<br />
New Jersey. I am one of eight siblings – five girls<br />
and three boys – and my father jokingly referred<br />
to me as “number three child, number two<br />
daughter.” Since we moved so often, we quickly<br />
learned that home was not a house or place, but<br />
where the family was.<br />
I am a child of the 60s and 70s. Very turbulent<br />
times to be sure, but gender roles really had not<br />
evolved. Commercials told women to “bring home<br />
the bacon,” but they still had to “fry it up in a pan.”<br />
Men got the Marlboro man. True, my father went<br />
to work, and my mother stayed at home, but both<br />
Susan Spälti<br />
had bachelor degrees, and my mother worked for<br />
four years in her field until the children came.<br />
They expected their children, regardless of sex, to<br />
help with the housework, take care of the younger<br />
siblings, earn their own pocket money and apply<br />
themselves to schoolwork to the best of their<br />
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mathematics as soon as I graduated. OSU was<br />
quite a shock. I went from attending a school with<br />
three departments in one building to one with<br />
three buildings per department. Plus, pure<br />
mathematics was a little too esoteric for me. I quit<br />
after two semesters and got a summer internship<br />
in Washington DC.<br />
Discovering OR<br />
I loved DC and decided to look for a full-time job<br />
there. In 1979, the Cold War was still “hot,” – and<br />
the Department of Defense and its contractors<br />
were offering many jobs for people with my skill<br />
The first desktop computer I used.<br />
abilities. We were encouraged to read, explore<br />
new things, go outside to play, and have lots of<br />
fun. We all understood that we would go to<br />
college if we wanted and were able to. My mother<br />
said, “you raise children to leave home” and my<br />
parents were determined to provide us with the<br />
necessary tools.<br />
Leaving home<br />
I left home when I was 17 to attend Allegheny<br />
College, a small liberal arts school in northwestern<br />
Pennsylvania. I thought I wanted to be a medical<br />
doctor, and Allegheny had a good pre-med<br />
program. As part of pre-med, I had to take many<br />
science courses, including mathematics. After one<br />
college-level course, I was hooked and majored in<br />
math. I loved its beauty and logic. I enrolled at<br />
Ohio State as a graduate student in pure<br />
With my father, husband and Professor Liebling at my<br />
PhD Defense.<br />
With my father, husband and Professor Liebling at my PhD<br />
Defense.<br />
With my family in about 1972.<br />
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Consulting from home<br />
While caring for two small children, my husband<br />
and I started a small consulting firm that<br />
developed algorithms, database models, etc. for<br />
the Swiss version of Social Security. Our office was<br />
at home so we could be with the children. After<br />
almost 20 years of working at home, I took a new<br />
job. I enjoyed going to an office outside of my<br />
house and honing my skills in Identity and Access<br />
Management, an internet security field. I worked<br />
in this field until I retired in 2020. My husband<br />
continued with our consulting firm until he retired<br />
a few years ago.<br />
set. I accepted a job with a defense contractor,<br />
devising algorithms to solve logistics problems<br />
and “discovered” Operations Research (OR), a type<br />
of applied mathematics. I loved OR and decided to<br />
go back to graduate school part-time. I got my<br />
masters in OR from George Washington University<br />
in DC and then decided to go full-time for my PhD.<br />
I got a fellowship for the PhD program at Carnegie<br />
Mellon University (CMU) in Pittsburgh and moved<br />
there in 1984.<br />
Moving to Switzerland<br />
At CMU, I met my Swiss husband, Karl, a visiting<br />
research fellow from the University of Bern. He<br />
specialized in OR, and we “clicked” on more than a<br />
professional level. As he only had a one-year<br />
fellowship, one of us had to relocate. Since he had<br />
a job and I was just starting out, I applied to and<br />
was accepted at the École Polytechnique Fédérale<br />
de Lausanne. We married in July 1985, and I<br />
moved to Bern in September. The plan was to<br />
finish my degree, and then we would move back<br />
to the States.<br />
After my retirement, we had planned to travel,<br />
play golf and enjoy life. Although the traveling<br />
and golf plans are now on hold, we enjoy walks to<br />
see the llamas in our village (yes, we’ve got llamas,<br />
or are they alpacas?), talking with each other, our<br />
friends, and our relatives (albeit remotely) and just<br />
being together.<br />
The future for the industry<br />
Although I started out as a mathematician and<br />
was formally trained as a STEM (Science,<br />
Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics)<br />
student before that became an acronym, I ended<br />
my career as an IT specialist in Identity and Access<br />
Management (IAM). Most understand the concept<br />
of authentication. When you try to log onto an<br />
application, you are asked your username and<br />
password to “authenticate” who you are. IAM asks<br />
the following questions: Are you allowed to do<br />
what you want? What resources can you “access”?<br />
In today’s world of increasing data breaches and<br />
more rigorous compliance requirements, IAM, a<br />
relatively new field, is constantly evolving and will<br />
continue to do so. Privileged Access Management<br />
(PAM), a subcategory of IAM, is the new hot topic.<br />
In an enterprise, PAM deals with user accounts<br />
that have special access above that of a standard<br />
user, such as system administration accounts.<br />
I was granted my degree in June 1990 but still<br />
have not moved back to the States. While I was<br />
finishing, I was completing another project. In<br />
September 1990 I gave birth to our daughter,<br />
Nina. Fifteen months later, in December 1991, we<br />
welcomed our son Jacques.<br />
My mentors<br />
My earliest mentors were my parents. They<br />
encouraged me to explore many fields and always<br />
be curious. My doctoral advisor, Prof. Thomas<br />
Liebling, was a wonderful mentor who provided<br />
guidance on how to thoroughly analyze problems<br />
and present my results in a comprehensible<br />
fashion. Finally, my husband Karl. Perhaps not a<br />
mentor, but he and I worked as a team, both<br />
professionally and privately, so that we could give<br />
our customers quality solutions while<br />
simultaneously raising a family.<br />
Enjoying Swiss Glüwey with my daughter Nina in 2019.<br />
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Many famous security breaches involved these<br />
special access accounts, and PAM controls,<br />
monitors, and audits such accounts.<br />
Quick-fire questions for Susan<br />
1. What things about your career in technology do<br />
you apply to your daily life? Being in IT Security, I<br />
find myself very cautious when dealing with all<br />
things involving the internet. I have learned not to<br />
“click” on something just because I can; I keep the<br />
software and operating systems on my computer<br />
and all devices up to date. I also believe in reading<br />
the manual. In my career, I have spent a lot of<br />
time cleaning up “issues” that could have been<br />
avoided if someone had just bothered to read the<br />
manual first.<br />
2. If you could work with one famous person, past<br />
or present, who would it be and why? I would have<br />
loved to work with Grace Hopper (1906-1992), an<br />
admiral in the US Navy, mathematician, and<br />
computer scientist who, amongst other things,<br />
invented the compiler, an intermediate program<br />
that translates English language instructions into<br />
”computer” language. And better yet, she coined<br />
the term “bug” for an error in your program after a<br />
moth got into the circuits of the Mark I, a<br />
precursor of electronic computers, which she<br />
helped design. I spent a lot of time “debugging”<br />
my code.<br />
With my husband Karl in Cape Elizabeth, Maine.<br />
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FEATURE<br />
Team Favorites<br />
We asked the Inspiring Women team to go back through the issues, each taking<br />
one year from the last five and answer the same questions.<br />
What was your favorite overall issue theme and why?<br />
ELSIE (2017) Women Rebranded, Spring 2017: It was the first theme for the very first issue of Inspiring<br />
Women. Initially, we selected it because FAWCO had recently rebranded itself, but moreover, the theme<br />
encapsulated life’s journey for many of us - starting out in life imagining how our careers, vocations and<br />
passions were going to play out and how moving away from one’s home country (or joining an<br />
organization of women from another country!) changed that journey.<br />
LIZ (2018) Women Who Persist issue, Fall 2018. We were overwhelmed by how many incredible women<br />
were nominated for the issue, to the extent that we had to split the issue in two and run a part two early<br />
in 2019. The women in this issue do the most extraordinary work and they are all very modest about<br />
their achievements.<br />
KAREN (2019) Women Who Persist II, Spring 2019. We had so many women<br />
who fall under this category that we decided to run two issues for the same<br />
topic, which speaks for itself. For me, this issue (and part I in 2018)<br />
represents FAWCO so well. Many of the women who persist had lifechanging<br />
experiences, and they used them to turn them into something<br />
good for the world around them. What an example, what role models, what<br />
an inspiration!<br />
BERIT (2020) Visualizing A Point of View, Fall 2020 which highlighted the<br />
talented photographers of FAWCO. Having taken four years of photography<br />
in high school and attempted a photography degree in London many years<br />
ago, this really teased out the shutterbug in me that had been lying dormant<br />
for the better part of two decades!<br />
MICHELE (<strong>2021</strong>) Women and Wellness, Summer <strong>2021</strong> perhaps because of the<br />
times we are living. Focusing on wellness – mind and body - was perfectly<br />
timed and I enjoyed reflecting on the different perspectives offered.<br />
What was your favorite feature article and why?<br />
ELSIE (2017) What to Wear: When we started the magazine in 2017, our focus<br />
was on elevating the exceptional women in FAWCO clubs. The process of<br />
nominating and selecting seemed daunting and we didn’t think we had enough<br />
woman power to also research and develop features. An article about a club or<br />
a region and maybe an interesting recipe or two were about all we thought we<br />
could handle. Liz had an excellent relationship with two terrific writers, Robin<br />
Meloy Goldsby and Jane Mobille and asked them to help us out. Each contributed wonderfully crafted<br />
and insightful articles in our early years.<br />
It was difficult to select a favorite from their articles but in our Summer 2017 “Designing Women” issue<br />
Robin wrote about the role that the clothes she wore and the outfits she designed for herself played in<br />
crafting her professional persona as a pianist from her early years to now. This really resonated with<br />
me, not only in terms of her evolution; I also certainly related to some of the trendy things she wore<br />
(and why) during her early years!
LIZ (2018) We have been very fortunate to have Robin Meloy Goldsby write various essays for us. I<br />
particularly like “Don’t Eat Pie”, Spring 2018. In this essay she regales us with tales of her time as an<br />
exercise instructor in New York. It’s laugh out loud funny.<br />
KAREN (2019) “Saudi Arabia: Empowering Nurses” by Angela Wilkins-Bassett.,<br />
Fall 2019. It has all the right keywords for me: equality, appreciation for<br />
diversity and difference, teamwork, compassion, working abroad to improve<br />
women’s health and at home for uninsured and underserved patients and<br />
while doing this, coming to the conclusion that we all can learn so much for<br />
ourselves while teaching them. Rereading it struck a nerve because little did<br />
we know then HOW critical nurses and medical personnel would become.<br />
BERIT (2020) Cyndy B. Waters feature article Seaweed, Fall 2020 has to be my<br />
favorite feature article from the year. Her photographs capture an<br />
indescribable beauty that is women working together for a common goal, to<br />
release themselves from the constraint of their homes and being able to<br />
provide an income to support their children's education. Their story is a moving one. Cyndy's keen eye<br />
evokes a sense of being in Zanzibar with these amazing women with waves crashing at your feet and the<br />
sun bouncing off the water - truly awe inspiring.<br />
MICHELE (<strong>2021</strong>) Recipes for Wellness, May <strong>2021</strong>. I love the variety of ideas and creativity that the<br />
authors used to present their recipes.<br />
Do you have a favorite cover photo from the year and what is it you like about it?<br />
ELSIE (2017) Our cover for Women Rebranded, Spring 2017. For the launch, I wanted a cover that<br />
conveyed three things: energy, fearlessness, and fun. I probably drove Liz to distraction talking about<br />
“my vision” for the cover. I was constantly grabbing photos off the internet, sending them to her, “like<br />
this!” I’d write. But the reality was, we had no staff photographer and<br />
screen grabs were a first-class no-no (GDPR and copyright issues were<br />
setting people’s hair on fire at the time).<br />
During one of my many stays at former FAWCO Foundation President<br />
Suzanne Wheeler’s home in Paris, I was blathering on about “my vision”<br />
and how frustrated I was because I was sure there was a perfect photo<br />
somewhere within FAWCO. I asked her if she had anything. She pulled out<br />
her phone/camera and we started to plow through. We found a photo of<br />
her daughter, Alena, doing a cartwheel on the beach. “Yes, something like<br />
this.” Liz and I played around with it, cutting out some background, and lo<br />
and behold, something “like this” became it!<br />
I love working on the covers because we know that the right photo grabs<br />
our readers. We beg and borrow (we do not steal!) to get the right one for<br />
each issue. But the first one really set the bar for all the rest that followed.<br />
LIZ (2018) The cover for Winter 2018, Women in Music, was of Christine Federspiel-Huvos. I love the<br />
power you can see in her face and hand as she sings. I find myself hearing her voice in my head just by<br />
looking at the photo.<br />
KAREN (2019) The cover for the Health and Well-Being, Fall 2019 is my favorite. At the Inspiring<br />
Women team, we constantly try to improve the magazine, including the layout. Don’t forget, none of us<br />
has a professional background in publishing a magazine, and we most certainly have limited resources.<br />
If you look at the magazine cover before and compare it with No. 3 in 2019, you hopefully notice a<br />
change – it is a much lighter more inviting cover. This, for me, was the beginning of the ever-improving<br />
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layout of Inspiring Women; I am proud of all of us. Of course, that’s not the only reason! The woman<br />
on the cover, Carol Brazle, started the Caring Hearts Pillows Project with Rozanne van Rie, is a cancer<br />
survivor. The photo was taken by Brigitte Meuwissen, a member of AWC Antwerp. In my opinion, Carol<br />
looks outstanding; she is at peace with herself, smiles, is calm and healthy. She is a role model in that<br />
respect. I wish we women would always feel and look so comfortable with ourselves; that is true beauty.<br />
BERIT (2020) I am a bit of a magpie in that I love vibrant colors, so it might not come as a surprise when<br />
I say that my favorite cover from the year has to be Sisters Act: Women in Drama!, Winter 2020.<br />
Verónica Isola is absolutely stunning in her red dress and her expression captures the joy that she gets<br />
from being on stage. Admittedly it was the first issue that I worked on as part of the Inspiring Women<br />
Magazine team, so it will always hold a special place in my heart.<br />
MICHELE (<strong>2021</strong>) This is a tough question. Choosing the cover for every issue is<br />
a challenge as we often like multiple covers, each for different reasons. This<br />
holds true when choosing a favorite from the year. If I really have to choose<br />
one, I think it is the November <strong>2021</strong> cover: Not only is it a beautiful photo but<br />
it celebrates celebrations. It’s a happy photo.<br />
Tell me who your favorite three nominees from the year were<br />
ELSIE (2017) Megan Morris, Fall 2017: While all the women in this issue were<br />
extraordinary in their commitment to education, Megan’s story made me feel<br />
very upbeat - a young woman, committed since childhood to help others. Her<br />
passion for teaching seems to be integrated into her being. A woman who<br />
makes the most crucial of professions seem effortless and fun. I loved the photo of her in the ladybug<br />
costume, teaching her students.<br />
Sunny Eades, Winter 2017: This was a wonderfully exuberant and visually rich issue. Sunny is a friend<br />
and her name suits her beautifully, a woman with charm and grace and full of talent. Her personality<br />
comes through in her gorgeous paintings, joyful and serene. She would have also been a great<br />
candidate for an earlier issue that year, “Designing Women,” having worked designing interiors for both<br />
autos and aircraft in her early years.<br />
Carolien Krijnen Summer 2017: Let’s be honest, who isn’t inspired by<br />
someone who lives above her very own chocolate workshop? I loved<br />
Carolien’s story for many reasons, living in Antwerp, one of my truly favorite<br />
cities. She took her passion for chocolate and turned it into an exciting,<br />
delicious business. I was struck by her comment when referring to her life in<br />
Antwerp: “Since we’re centrally located, people drop by every once in a while,<br />
and if I am not running from one appointment to the next, I am happy to<br />
pause and have a coffee with them.” What a charming and talented woman<br />
she is!<br />
LIZ (2018) Krishna Thakrar, Spring 2018: I had never heard of pickleball<br />
before I read about Krishna. I loved the fact that she quickly became so<br />
interested and involved in it that she even set up a club in her host country,<br />
the Netherlands.<br />
Anna Eklund-Cheong, Summer 2018: I am basically in awe of anyone who can write poetry and there is<br />
something very special about a good Haiku. So to read about someone who has won an “honourable<br />
mention” for a haiku she wrote is very special. The haiku is also listed in the Living Haiku Anthology!<br />
Katrin Thürbach, Fall 2018 : I know Katrin personally as she is a member of my club, AIWC Cologne, so<br />
yes, I am a little biased. But what I like about her story it really shows us how one woman can make a<br />
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difference by taking small actions. Not everyone is destined to be Malala or Greta Thunberg. But we can<br />
all make a difference in the world as long as we try to.<br />
KAREN (2019) Rosemary Singleton Rauber, Spring 2019 : Rosemary was asked to write about her<br />
experiences being a first-time attendee at a FAWCO Interim Meeting. What she wrote exactly described<br />
my impressions when I attended my first FAWCO Biennial Conference in Mumbai in 2017, and I am sure<br />
many felt the same their first time. I just hope many more women in the FAWCO world will have the<br />
chance to attend FAWCO conferences, interim and regional meetings, and enjoy the professionalism,<br />
competence, appreciation, and friendship that occurs when FAWCO women meet each other.<br />
In addition, I was so impressed with her artwork “Calculated Risks” that she showed at the interim<br />
meeting: It is an art project contrasting images of people seeking refuge. They have calculated the risk<br />
of leaving their homes, often taking perilous journeys, against the calculated risks people make in their<br />
everyday life going on vacation. These are eye-opening paintings. https://www.artplace.ch/calculated-risks<br />
Rebecca de Fraites, Summer 2019 : Although she wrote in the travel issue “Women Inspired by Their<br />
Cities” about the tragic fire that destroyed significant parts of Notre Dame<br />
in Paris, it is also a story about perseverance, hope, coherence, and good<br />
storytelling skills with a pinch of (gallows) humor.<br />
Juliah Rais-Morres, Winter, 2019 : Reading about Juliah and her life was just<br />
great from beginning to end. If you haven't read it yet, please do - it is time<br />
well spent! As a German and a teacher who is passionate about reading<br />
and making a positive impact on teenagers' lives, now living in Singapore<br />
and thus close to Malaysia, there are so many little pieces to Juliah's story<br />
that captivate me and make me smile inside. Looking back at Juliah's life<br />
journey, it's easy to see the common thread woven into her life story.<br />
BERIT (2020) I really enjoyed Tamara Krautkramer's profile piece, Kenya<br />
Culminates A Photo Journey, Fall 2020. For me, a great photographer has<br />
the ability to transport you to where the photo is taken. I feel Tamara does<br />
this with ease. Her bold use of color truly appeals to me. Even in her photos where color isn't<br />
predominant, the lighting is exquisite, telling a story with ease.<br />
Another favorite from that issue is Haley Green's Finding Myself In London Through A Lens, Fall 2020.<br />
Since the age of 17 I have been a self proclaimed Anglophile. Having lived in London for a short stint,<br />
and been back to England on numerous occasions to visit friends and family, Haley's photos evoke such<br />
wonderful memories. She captures everyday life with such ease. I particularly love the photo of the man<br />
walking his dogs in the rain under his umbrella; it transports me back to the rainy autumn days I<br />
enjoyed so much. (I had the honor of meeting Haley in Edinburgh at our Biennial Conference in 2019,<br />
where she shared with me her Instragram handle, postcards.from.london. If you are an Instagram user,<br />
I highly recommend you follow Haley. Her photos are Absolutely Fabulous...pun-intended!)<br />
Lastly I really enjoyed Tammy Mayer's profile Living Zero-Waste, Spring 2020<br />
in France and her feature article Zero Waste, from. I will always be fascinated<br />
by the lives of others and how we end up where we do. Sometimes it can<br />
feel inevitable where we end up, while with others it's all a bit of chance!<br />
After reading about Tammy's journey to France, it seems like she falls into<br />
the former category, rather than the latter, with a little bit of chance thrown<br />
in for good measure. How fitting is it that she would find a social club whose<br />
core is dedicated to the UN SDGs, something that was dear to her?<br />
Tammy's tips on how to live a Zero Waste life I found to be immensely<br />
intriguing, inspiring, yet overwhelming! (Admittedly I was relieved to read<br />
that she herself wasn't completely zero waste, as this made me feel like I<br />
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wasn't a dreadful person for not doing everything on the list!) We could all do with consuming less and<br />
I’m happy to say I have managed many of her suggestions since reading them.<br />
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MICHELE (<strong>2021</strong>) Stacey Harris-Papioannou, Winter <strong>2021</strong>: Greece is one of my<br />
happy places. The culture, including the warmth of their hospitality toward<br />
strangers, is one of the many things I love about Greece. I loved reading<br />
about Stacey’s journey and the experiences she shared about living,<br />
integrating, and thriving in Greece.<br />
Cat Conner, Spring <strong>2021</strong>: I worked with, well really relied on, Cat when I was<br />
president of the FAWCO Foundation. Her technology skills, determination to<br />
solve issues, and patience were quite impressive. I loved reading about how<br />
she didn’t start out in technology and how she has created a career out of<br />
doing something she enjoys but wasn’t part of her official education.<br />
Lindsay Nygren, Fall <strong>2021</strong>: “I’ve learned through my involvement with justice,<br />
that no task is too small or insignificant.” Reading about all the things Lindsay has already done and<br />
what she still wants to do inspires hope - hope that future generations will carry on and do more.<br />
What do you like most about the magazine in general?<br />
ELSIE (2017) When we start out each year planning the themes for each issue, we always feel like we<br />
know what direction the profiles will take. When we did an issue on food, we profiled chefs, of course!<br />
For our issue on sports, we profiled runners, EXACTLY. And for Women and Drama, we profiled<br />
actresses, precisely what we hoped for. And in all cases, these women have achieved so many amazing<br />
things in their lives. However, the little gift package that we unwrap with every issue is the profile or<br />
feature about someone who took a different path and made considerable impact in those fields in a<br />
totally unique and innovative manner.<br />
LIZ (2018) I love the wide variety of women we profile. Each issue has a theme which makes them<br />
different anyway, but even within the theme, we rarely get two candidates the same. The women are so<br />
inspiring to me whatever they do. They find themselves, often living outside their comfort zones,<br />
making a good life and usually being quite humble about what they have achieved. When I first contact<br />
the candidates, I regularly get the response “but I’m not inspiring.” I disagree.<br />
KAREN (2019) Although I am passionate about reading, I sometimes have to make an effort to open the<br />
magazine (even though I am part of the team). But when I am ready to open it and start reading, I am<br />
ALWAYS so inspired by the featured women's lives, stories, passion, and achievements that I can't stop<br />
reading and thinking and admiring them for what they do and share. Reading about FAWCO women<br />
around the globe is a constant reminder for living and enjoying (if possible) your life to the fullest.<br />
BERIT (2020) My mother has always said I am like my maternal grandmother<br />
(I should hope so, I am her namesake) … and that like her, I love reading<br />
about other people's lives. Being a part of a FAWCO club is inspiring in itself,<br />
but there is something to be said about having a publication like Inspiring<br />
Women Magazine. It grants us access to women all over the globe that we<br />
normally would not have known about or been privy to. Their stories are<br />
uplifting and motivating and encouraging, something we all need in our<br />
lives! Long live Inspiring Women Magazine!<br />
MICHELE (<strong>2021</strong>) The diversity. I love the variety of themes and the diversity<br />
of the women chosen to represent the themes. Some themes are more<br />
serious, but all the issues have a balance of hearty and lighter stories. All the<br />
issues are educational and uplifting. Truly, each issue is a collection of some<br />
of the best examples there are of inspiring women.
Summer Archives: 2017<br />
“Anything Is<br />
Possible If You<br />
Allow Destiny to<br />
Cross Your Path”<br />
FAWCO creativity on show for our<br />
Designing Women Issue.<br />
The theme for this issue was about women who<br />
design – taking an idea beyond the point of<br />
creation. We were interested in the process of<br />
vision, to design, to fruition. We wanted to know if<br />
the women’s exposure to different cultures<br />
moves them from their vision or enhances it. And<br />
what defines a designer’s success?<br />
We asked:<br />
“Is there a member of your club involved in the<br />
wide world of design? Perhaps they are an<br />
architect, a town planner, a graphic designer,<br />
dress maker, engineer, interior designer,<br />
landscape/floral designer, textile/fashion/jewelry<br />
designer? In their field, have they done<br />
something of particular interest? We are looking<br />
for someone who designs and has done<br />
something with it, for instances where the design<br />
became more than just a sketch on a pad.”<br />
We weren’t surprised that we received profiles of<br />
such accomplished designers. They dared to face<br />
the challenges of never-been-done-before<br />
skepticism. Their ultimate success in a wide<br />
range of “disciplines” redefines that word.<br />
Fun fact about/from the issue<br />
• The cover was by Clydette DeGroot from AWG<br />
Paris. The image of the singer remains a<br />
complete mystery!<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
“ChocAlicious” Creator Carolien Krijnen (AWC Antwerp).<br />
Creativity breeds creativity! The women profiled<br />
in this issue weren’t successful in only one field<br />
of design. Their achievements in one area<br />
motivated them to try other things. Culture, too,<br />
played a big role in their process, whether the<br />
culture was home grown or came from their<br />
host countries.<br />
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Summer Archives: 2018<br />
“She Has a Way<br />
With Words...”<br />
A profound influence and impact:<br />
Women of Words and Language.<br />
The word is … illuminating. Fascinating. Funny.<br />
Frustrating! How does one become successful in<br />
the world of words? We were interested in<br />
finding out what makes people pick up their pens<br />
and articulate their thoughts and visions in a way<br />
that makes its mark on others.<br />
A good cookbook writer can make your mouth<br />
water. A romance novelist should make you cry,<br />
and critical writers should make you think. We<br />
wanted to know: how do they measure success?<br />
And what about “the process”? Do ideas come in<br />
the shower, on the subway, in the garden, or<br />
sitting in an office from 9 to 5? Does chocolate<br />
really help?<br />
Our profilees live with words and work in a<br />
variety of genres – fiction, non-fiction, writers of<br />
columns, curriculums, and haikus. We explored<br />
the beauty of the spoken word as well as how to<br />
effectively use the “best” words online via the<br />
various social media.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• The Inspiring Women team was so inspired<br />
by the achievements of all our profilees in this<br />
issue, we stretched our own “creative<br />
envelope” and wrote new and unique titles<br />
for all of our profiles and features.<br />
• We added a new member to our Inspiring<br />
Women team, Karen Boeker, AWC Denmark,<br />
as our Distribution Manager.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
You cannot truly appreciate the depths of talent<br />
of those who are “good writers” until you attempt<br />
to write yourself. A guiding principle for good<br />
communication is saying more with less. What<br />
distinguishes these excellent writers from others<br />
is the ability to use beautiful words in a way that<br />
vividly paints the picture they want you to see.<br />
Victoria Kellaway (AWC Bogotá), a journalist at home<br />
amongst “friends”!<br />
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Summer Archives: 2019<br />
“Letting No Grass<br />
Grow Under Our<br />
Feet”<br />
The travel issue: Women Inspired<br />
by Their Cities.<br />
Welcome to our first “travel issue”! We thought<br />
that the best way to get readers around the world<br />
was to ask FAWCO members to tell us about how<br />
they came to fall in love with the cities they live in<br />
and how they have been able to convert that love<br />
in way that can be shared with others.<br />
We asked:<br />
“Please send us candidates from your club who<br />
make your city come alive for visitors. These<br />
members either do this as a passion or do it for a<br />
living. They can specialize in the mainstream or<br />
the quirky features of your town.”<br />
One of the wonderful aspects of being part of<br />
FAWCO is talking to members of clubs from other<br />
cities. We know that we all have at least one thing<br />
in common: the desire to take adventures<br />
beyond our borders and experience things that<br />
make us grow and expand our personal<br />
horizons. We are curious. But we are not afraid.<br />
Fun fact about/from the issue<br />
• Members were asked to submit their favorite<br />
photos of their host/home countries for our<br />
“Project 62” photo competition. We presented<br />
some of the photos at the FAWCO<br />
Conference. And – yes! There was a quiz! We<br />
asked readers to test their “world traveler”<br />
knowledge.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Mary Stange (former AWC Bogotá member, now Individual<br />
FAWCO member) hugging the Tree of Wishes on a hike to<br />
La Chorrera Falls, Colombia.<br />
Contributors to this issue were not at a loss for<br />
words when talking about the places they lived!<br />
No matter how remote or exotic a place is, to<br />
them it is their home away from home and there<br />
is something unique about it that they willingly<br />
share with others.<br />
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Summer Archives: 2020<br />
“This Wasn’t<br />
Exactly the<br />
Summer We<br />
Expected”<br />
The COVID-19 issue<br />
FAWCO Women: Isolating Apart,<br />
Learning Together.<br />
The world was facing one of the biggest<br />
challenges in modern history. How we acted and<br />
reacted would set the agenda for us as we moved<br />
ahead. After originally planning a “Women and<br />
Photography” issue, the Inspiring Women team<br />
felt that it was important to capture what was<br />
happening at that moment and share it with<br />
our readers.<br />
For this very special issue we wanted to profile<br />
FAWCO club members who were called to take<br />
action in some way because of the COVID-19 virus<br />
pandemic. We asked, “Who are the medical<br />
professionals, teachers, community leaders in the<br />
forefront of the fight against COVID-19? Are there<br />
women in our clubs who have chosen to use their<br />
skills and talents in a unique way to assist others<br />
in getting through the pandemic?”<br />
This issue offered profiles in courage, patience,<br />
and hope. We learned about members who<br />
performed with grit and grace in nearly the same<br />
breath. And there was caring and kindness on<br />
every page.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• The Luxembourg Interim Meeting was<br />
planned for March. The last time FAWCO<br />
cancelled its meeting was in 1940, at the<br />
advent of World War II.These decisions are<br />
not taken lightly and those empowered to<br />
make them had to take the health of the<br />
members and the organization into<br />
consideration. Not something anyone<br />
expected when they volunteered to help<br />
coordinate the event!<br />
• We officially introduced two new members of<br />
the Inspiring Women Team. Berit Torkildsen<br />
(AWC Oslo) is our Social Media Manager, and<br />
Michele Hendrikse Du Bois (Munich IWC,<br />
FAUSA) is our Features Coordinator.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Joannie Guy (AW of Aquitaine) ready for work in an LA<br />
hospital during the COVID-19 crisis.<br />
Smart women made sacrifices to help others.<br />
Their achievements made a difference in their<br />
towns, hospitals and schools. Generosity<br />
abounded in this issue. Members gave their time<br />
to help others. They shared their ideas, their tips,<br />
and their humor. When others fell, they lift them<br />
up again.<br />
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PROFILE <strong>2021</strong><br />
It’s Finally Time to Breathe!<br />
Summer <strong>2021</strong>: The Women and Wellness Issue.<br />
What a challenge <strong>2021</strong> was for us to maintain personal wellness! The COVID-19 pandemic is a 21stcentury<br />
scourge. It remains to be seen what this virus’s damage will be to health and wellness.<br />
We wanted “to profile women who promote the significance of wellness in daily life and offer the means<br />
to achieve it. We wanted to profile women who work in traditional or naturopathic medicine, exercise,<br />
or meditation. Or they may work in mental health or the arts, nutrition, or diet and they might offer a<br />
means to restore personal order or seek adventure.”<br />
We profiled members who are in tune with the many facets of wellness. Their stories explain how they<br />
made their journey—topics such as promoting good health by pushing the boundaries of our physical<br />
limitations or changes to diet. There were articles about members who support mental health. The<br />
search for wellness spans many disciplines, but they all have one thing in common: they are offering an<br />
opportunity for others to find the key to personal peace and calmness.<br />
“Yoga Brings Me<br />
Zen in an<br />
Instant!”<br />
Maija Airas-Ceri, member of ICW<br />
of Torino, discovered the magic of<br />
yoga when she was pregnant.<br />
Today she teaches it both<br />
on- and off-line.<br />
Maija Airas-Ceri<br />
I grew up in a single-family house in a residential<br />
area of Hollola, Finland, a village close to Lahti<br />
which is a city famous for its winter sports (ski<br />
jumping and cross-country). We spent our winters<br />
cross-country skiing and ice skating. In the<br />
summer we played in the forests and swam in the<br />
nearby shallow lakes. When I was seven years old,<br />
my family moved to Toronto, Canada, for a year.<br />
Since in Finland, children don’t start school until<br />
age seven, my very first year of school was in<br />
Canada, learning to speak, read and write English.<br />
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Germany and recruited me to work for her<br />
company in the automotive industry.<br />
Feeling homesick<br />
After a few years in Munich, working in a very<br />
international role in the automotive industry and,<br />
traveling from Malaysia to Brazil, I got homesick. I<br />
transferred to work in Ulm, Germany for the<br />
Finnish telecom company Nokia. I ended up<br />
staying there for 13 years, in the beginning doing<br />
marketing and traveling the world, launching new<br />
mobile phones; later I transferred into research &<br />
development leading an innovation team.<br />
Enter Cupid!<br />
I met my husband, French-Italian Alexandre/<br />
Alessandro in Ulm. We got married in Finland in<br />
the summer of 2005, and our two boys were born<br />
in Germany in 2006 and 2008. In 2012, my<br />
husband’s company transferred him to Lyon,<br />
France. I followed him six months later, when<br />
Nokia laid off its entire workforce in Ulm.<br />
Me in the 1970s.<br />
Leaving home<br />
After finishing high school at age 18, I moved away<br />
from home to study textile engineering in a nearby<br />
town called Tampere. I ended up traveling<br />
extensively during my student years - skiing and<br />
taking cultural trips in Europe. I also did two<br />
summer job trainee exchanges: one in Lyon,<br />
France and another one in Barcelona, Spain, as<br />
well as a longer one-year exchange in Rennes,<br />
France. After graduating, I worked for the Finnish<br />
elevator company Kone in the global after-sales<br />
department. Then an old roommate of mine from<br />
university called me. She had moved to Munich,<br />
Home today<br />
In Lyon, I started my own company, Gotta Joga,<br />
developing yoga apps for European women. In<br />
2016, my husband was transferred again, now to<br />
his hometown of Torino (after 17 years abroad).<br />
So here I am with my now 12- and 14-year old<br />
sons, living in Torino and spending the weekends<br />
and holidays in the nearby mountains skiing,<br />
hiking and riding my mountain bike.<br />
What is wellness?<br />
For me, wellness is harmony and self love. I<br />
started seeking wellness to take care of myself:<br />
practicing yoga, eating healthy, spending much<br />
time in nature and (pre-COVID-19) sharing<br />
experiences with my friends and family. In Finland<br />
we all live in houses that have saunas. For us,<br />
cleaning and relaxing in the sauna is the primary<br />
Teaching a yoga class.<br />
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wellness activity. We use the sauna at least twice a<br />
week, often combined with a dip in a lake or snow.<br />
Becoming interested in wellness<br />
I grew up in the middle of wonderful Finnish<br />
nature. It was natural for me to spend time and do<br />
sports outside. In my teens, when I went to high<br />
school in the nearby city and later to study in the<br />
university, it became obvious that the time for<br />
sports was no longer natural. It became necessary<br />
for me to add sports to my schedule in order to<br />
feel well and fit for studying.<br />
I felt the mind-body connection very strongly from<br />
the time I began studying. I did lots of aerobics<br />
and stretching to keep fit. Whenever possible, I still<br />
went skiing, hiking or rollerblading outside.<br />
An introduction to yoga<br />
When I got pregnant in Germany, through my<br />
midwife, I got introduced to yoga. The preparation<br />
for giving birth and the post-natal gym were very<br />
yoga-inspired. Soon after, a Finnish yoga teacher<br />
came to live in Ulm, and we started a Finnish yoga<br />
group in a garage. It was a life-changing<br />
experience for me. I remember that the euphoric<br />
feeling after the first yoga classes reminded me of<br />
the relaxed feeling after coming out of sauna. I<br />
haven‘t stopped practicing since then.<br />
With my husband and kids in 2012.<br />
starting to teach was too difficult for me, that I had<br />
started too late to advance into teaching.<br />
I continue to practice with Amy Petty, my trainer<br />
from the teacher training. Thanks to COVID-19,<br />
she is also teaching online now. Despite the<br />
distance between Seattle and Torino, we are in<br />
touch several times a week. I also find great<br />
inspiration from my teacher and anatomy genius,<br />
Valentina Amato, from Torino. Also Anu Visuri, my<br />
first yoga teacher and my business partner, has<br />
been my inspiration in learning and teaching yoga.<br />
And Vanessa de Haas, my teacher from Lyon,<br />
France, is a yoga genius with whom I continue<br />
practicing today.<br />
Misconceptions about yoga<br />
Many people think that in order to practice or<br />
teach yoga you need to be flexible, young and<br />
skinny. (Instagram phenomenon?) Yoga is really<br />
for everybody. Teaching yoga is a professional skill<br />
just like any other: you do it with passion and<br />
continuous study. You do not have to be a<br />
professional gymnast to be a good yoga teacher. It<br />
is more important to have good pedagogic skills<br />
and good training. Modern yoga is very advanced<br />
in the study of anatomy, taking into account the<br />
needs of different people and body types.<br />
Yoga in the snow.<br />
After 10 years of practice (and starting my own<br />
yoga app business) with teachers in Germany,<br />
France and Italy, I attended a 200-hour yoga<br />
teacher training (certified by Yoga Alliance) in<br />
Turin, Italy. It was organized by a local yoga studio<br />
with the lead teacher, Amy Petty, from Seattle,<br />
Washington in the US. So I have formal training in<br />
modern postural yoga as a Vinyasa yoga teacher<br />
as well.<br />
Overcoming obstacles<br />
I started yoga relatively late (at almost 40 years<br />
old). I also have a yoga business, where I work with<br />
many top European yoga teachers. I felt like<br />
The future of yoga?<br />
During the last year, the online offering of yoga<br />
has exploded as yoga studios had to close down.<br />
We at IWC Torino also do our yoga classes via<br />
Zoom with the hope of being able to do outdoor<br />
classes during the summer.<br />
Benefits of yoga for me<br />
It brings me zen in an instant. Also for a busy<br />
mom, yoga is something you can do any time and<br />
anywhere. Even 15 minutes is already a good<br />
practice. It is important for us moms to take care<br />
of ourselves; we are thus in a happier place with<br />
our loved ones and our colleagues/clients. I am<br />
also happy to be able to make a living as a nomad<br />
via yoga; not by teaching, but through my digital<br />
yoga service “Yoga with Gotta Joga.”<br />
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With some of my yoga friends.<br />
Important influences in my life<br />
My mom has been the most hard-working,<br />
generous person I ever met, giving me an example<br />
of someone who never gives up and always keeps<br />
on going. My dad was an innovator and gave me a<br />
good brain that is able to learn.<br />
A different life?<br />
Wellness is already my third career after<br />
marketing and engineering. I think that if I had<br />
lived in another period of time, e.g., the Middle<br />
Ages, I would have been an artisan. I love to create<br />
practical things out of concrete materials: textiles,<br />
clay, paper, wood and even food.<br />
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FEATURE<br />
That’s Inspired!<br />
Each quarter for the last five years we have told you about FAWCO members who<br />
inspire us. The Inspiring Women Team decided to ask a few FAWCO friends two<br />
simple questions: “Who Inspires You? And “What Inspires You?” We wanted to<br />
know who and what motivates each of them. Thanks to those who responded!<br />
Margaret Hilditch, Munich IWC, former FAWCO Foundation<br />
Secretary<br />
Who Inspires You?<br />
I think top of my list would be – Michelle Obama. In her<br />
book, Becoming, she speaks about her role in the<br />
White House. She highlights the normalcy of life as a<br />
wife, a mother, a career woman and her demanding<br />
role and unfailing support as the president's wife. A<br />
major inspiration is her ability to be supportive while<br />
still being her own person. As a young, inexperienced<br />
RAF wife in the 70s, I knew there would be little<br />
sympathy if I decided life was too hard with my<br />
husband constantly on deployment and me home<br />
alone with the children. With hindsight, I realized that I<br />
became more resilient and mature, embracing the<br />
challenges and discovering new avenues for my<br />
talents. I never regretted a moment of our time in<br />
military service.<br />
The Hilditch Family in the early days.<br />
What Inspires You?<br />
People who embrace the challenges and<br />
difficulties in life regardless of their circumstances<br />
and situations. In a fast-changing world, we need<br />
people, like Michelle Obama, as role models who<br />
are inspirational, supportive, inventive and<br />
compassionate as we grow and change.<br />
The Obama Family, 2011.<br />
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Sallie Chaballier, AAWE Paris, former FAWCO President<br />
Who Inspires You?<br />
My friend (and fellow AAWE Paris member)<br />
Sher Betz inspires me through her work<br />
running ”Les Amis de Hampaté Bâ”, a charitable<br />
association that provides scholarships and<br />
academic support to deeply disadvantaged girls<br />
in Niamey, Niger. Sher personally mentors 60<br />
scholarship girls, giving them the<br />
encouragement and support they need to<br />
complete their schooling and escape the cycle<br />
of dropping out of school, early marriage and<br />
childbirth.<br />
Sher Betz at the Collège Hampaté Bâ in Niamey, Niger.<br />
Sher says, “Year after year, I plant seeds and<br />
see the girls growing and blossoming: they are<br />
a new promise for Niger, a country that<br />
desperately needs, talented young women like<br />
them. Their success has an immense impact on<br />
their life path and on that of their families.<br />
What Inspires You?<br />
It may sound corny, but Paris inspires me. I am very fortunate to live in the historic center of arguably<br />
the most beautiful city in the world, and all I need to cheer up is to walk down my street to the bridge<br />
on the Seine five minutes away and admire the light and the beauty.<br />
A spectacular view of Paris on the Seine, from the Pont Louis Philippe. Photo taken by Sallie!<br />
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Georgia Regnault, AWC of The Hague, former FAWCO President<br />
Who Inspires You?<br />
I am inspired by my six grandchildren, ranging<br />
in age from 17-9, as they confront the world<br />
they are growing up in and their thoughts on<br />
improving and saving it.<br />
2019 photo of Georgia’s inspirational grandkids!<br />
What Inspires You?<br />
I am inspired by my 12-year attendance and upbringing at the all-girls Quaker school, Lincoln, in<br />
Providence, RI during the 1950s. It taught me that one should stop sometimes and just be alone with<br />
one's thoughts and that I could do anything as a woman in the future.<br />
Picture of school exactly as it was when I went there -- same red door!<br />
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Cynthia Smith-Ayed, AIWC Casablanca, former FAWCO Foundation<br />
VP Communications.<br />
What Inspires You?<br />
The most inspiring thing for me as an adult was joining a group of women runners. Support, advice,<br />
encouragement was in abundance. Running my first marathon at age 50 (husband was waiting at<br />
the finish line) and dozens of other ones around the world allowed me to see a different view of many<br />
famous cities. More importantly it taught me not to say, “I can't” but to say, “what do I need to do?”<br />
Who Inspires You?<br />
My husband of 44 years, Jaloul Ayed. He is an economist, international banker, classical music<br />
composer, writer, and my best friend. He has always aspired to be the best version of himself and<br />
therefore does the same for those close to him.<br />
Cynthia, center, back row with Casablanca Running Group.<br />
Jaloul Ayed.<br />
Rick Chizmadia, FAUSA, former FAUSA President<br />
What Inspires You?<br />
Making music, performing and sharing with<br />
others to make them feel good!<br />
Who Inspires You?<br />
My friend Tyler Collins. He passed away in<br />
2019. He was the most selfless, caring person<br />
that I have ever met. He would go out of his<br />
way to help you and make you feel welcome.<br />
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Mary Stewart Burgher, AWC Denmark, FAWCO US Voting Chair<br />
Who Inspires You?<br />
It’s very brief: “my mom and Lucy”. My mother,<br />
Pauline Arnold Schweppe, worked to grow and<br />
develop every day of her life and that<br />
development included becoming a therapist in<br />
her 50s and increasing service to women and<br />
homeless people.<br />
Aretha Franklin<br />
Mary Stewart (R) with Lucy Laederich and Judy Furukawa.<br />
During my first catching of FAWCO fever I was in<br />
awe of the leaders I met. As voting by Americans<br />
overseas became my passion, Lucy Laederich<br />
(AAWE Paris and long-serving US Liaison)<br />
became a hero to me. I watched her use her<br />
knowledge, wit, elegance and networking skills to<br />
fight for the interests of Americans overseas in<br />
many arenas. Like many leaders, she enabled coworkers<br />
to develop new skills to use in the cause<br />
and inspired others to take up the torch when<br />
she had to lay it down.<br />
What Inspires You?<br />
Two things: excellence and service.<br />
Excellence in the arts is particularly inspiring. I have been singing since age eight and I love to hear great<br />
singers individually, but especially in groups. Watching them is delightful too, as the best sound comes<br />
from good technique as well as a good voice. Favorites include Bjørk, Aretha Franklin (give yourself a<br />
treat and listen to her rendition of Nessun Dorma) and choirs such as Soweto Gospel Choir, Les<br />
Mysteres des Voix Bulgares, Chanticleer and my favorite in Denmark, Sokkelund Sangkor, have given<br />
me transcendent experiences. The arts also constitute service to society and many great artists serve<br />
society in more than one way. For example, did you know Aretha Franklin was very active in the US civil<br />
rights movement?<br />
One of my club’s and FAWCO’s primary attractions are the opportunities that they offer for service.<br />
These opportunities also benefit the volunteers by enabling them to develop new skills and abilities.<br />
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Liz MacNiven, AIWC Cologne, Inspiring Women Editor<br />
Who Inspires You?<br />
I am inspired by her majesty Queen Elizabeth II. In<br />
2022, aged 96, she celebrates her Platinum Jubilee<br />
which means she will have served our country for<br />
70 years and is an extraordinary achievement. She<br />
is the longest-reigning British monarch and the<br />
longest-serving female head of state in history.<br />
Certainly not everything is rosy in the house of<br />
Windsor, but I am very grateful for what she does.<br />
What Inspires You?<br />
In the summer of 2016 I got a phone call from the<br />
inspiring Sallie Chaballier who was VP<br />
Communications of FAWCO at the time. She told<br />
me that Robin Goldsby, a fellow member of<br />
AIWCC, musician, writer of numerous fabulous<br />
books and an all round lovely woman, had<br />
recommended me for a new position in FAWCO –<br />
Inspiring Women magazine editor. Robin<br />
thinking I was good enough for the job inspired<br />
and encouraged me to agree!<br />
Robin Meloy Goldsby.<br />
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Fall Archives: 2017<br />
“Passion with a<br />
Purpose”<br />
The FAWCO Target Project is<br />
highlighted in the Educating<br />
Women Issue.<br />
The theme for this issue was a “no-brainer”. As<br />
FAWCO clubs entered the heart of the<br />
membership year, many would focus on the<br />
Target Program: Education, Empowering Women<br />
and Girls through Knowledge and Skills. Our<br />
theme, Women in Education, supported those<br />
efforts. We knew this issue had to be special.<br />
We asked:<br />
“Is there a member of your club involved in the<br />
wide world of education? They can be involved in<br />
traditional roles, in academics or, educators who<br />
have traveled a different path, school<br />
administrators who have made a difference or<br />
advocates working to improve education in their<br />
communities. Lecturers, trainer, sports coach,<br />
sports instructor; any kind of educator in fact! “<br />
The women we selected were blessed with a<br />
special vision. Their mission was to bring<br />
education to everyone, whether in traditional<br />
settings or outside their comfort zone. Because<br />
education is absolute: with it, we have everything,<br />
without it, we have nothing.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• This issue of Inspiring Women was the first<br />
issue on the Yumpu platform. We had an<br />
incredible 7130 views!<br />
• During this time the Inspiring Women team<br />
added Marie-Bénédicte Luxem from AWC<br />
Zurich to our team as our Cover Coordinator.<br />
Her contribution greatly improved our work.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
“Passion” is a word that is repeated throughout<br />
the profiles and features in this issue. Educating<br />
others is a calling. In addition to the many<br />
formidable skills one must have to teach, one<br />
must have strength, discipline, courage and a<br />
never-ending source of optimism.<br />
Megan Morris (AIWC Düsseldorf) with her students.<br />
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Fall Archives: 2018<br />
“The Difference is<br />
That These<br />
Women Did Not<br />
Look Away”<br />
Women Who Persist, Part 1.<br />
This issue profiled women from our clubs who are<br />
walking the walk. Through their insistence and<br />
their persistence, they set out to right a wrong,<br />
elevate justice and make the case for a better<br />
human condition.<br />
We asked:<br />
“What is it about these women that motivates<br />
them to step out on the ledge of a troubled world<br />
and join the journey to make it a better place?”<br />
Big issue or small, we wanted to dive deeply into<br />
the psyche of those who take those very<br />
important steps. Women’s rights, children’s<br />
rights, poverty, hunger, health or the<br />
environment – there are challenges everywhere<br />
we look. The women we profiled chose their path<br />
and never looked back,<br />
As members of FAWCO, these women take the<br />
organization to a higher place. While they do not<br />
feel what they do is extraordinary, their energy<br />
and determination inspire us to achieve more in<br />
this world.<br />
Fun fact about/from the issue<br />
• The Inspiring Women team received a record<br />
25 nominations for this issue. (A record that<br />
still stands today!)<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
As one would expect, the response to the call for<br />
candidates for this issue was nothing short of<br />
overwhelming. Their stories were so outstanding<br />
that the Inspiring Women team made the<br />
decision to carry over this theme to the Spring<br />
2019 issue, so all the profiles were published.<br />
Jenny Ciucci (Heidelberg IWC) with young women from<br />
“Children First” in Cambodia.<br />
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Fall Archives: 2019<br />
“Improving the<br />
State of Women’s<br />
Health is the<br />
Cornerstone to<br />
Improving<br />
Everyone’s<br />
Health”<br />
Targeting healthy lives: the<br />
Health and Well-Being Issue.<br />
Earlier in 2019, FAWCO launched Target Program<br />
4.0 at the Biennial Conference. “Ensuring Healthy<br />
Lives and Promoting Well-Being to Improve the<br />
Lives of Women and Girls" would be the focus of<br />
our next campaign.<br />
Soon, FAWCO Representatives and Presidents<br />
would begin their clubs’ education and awareness<br />
programs. From prenatal care for girls, basic<br />
access to healthcare, cancers in women,<br />
reproductive rights, violence against women and<br />
girls and mental health to aging, there was a lot<br />
of ground to cover.<br />
For the fall issue, Inspiring Women profiled<br />
FAWCO members who are or have been on the<br />
frontlines of health issues.<br />
We asked:<br />
“We want to hear stories from doctors, nurses,<br />
researchers, social workers – any advocates from<br />
your club who are working or have worked to<br />
improve the health of women and girls.“<br />
The women profiled for this issue were<br />
motivated by individual life experiences.<br />
However, they defined their success in one<br />
strong, unified chorus – to help others.<br />
Fun fact about/from the issue<br />
• The look of the magazine is ever evolving and<br />
we went big with a “new look” cover.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Dawn Parker (FAUSA and AWEP) on the job as Director of<br />
Nursing Ministry of National Guard Health, Dammam,<br />
Saudi Arabia.<br />
Helping others brought about two distinct<br />
outcomes. The first was the satisfaction of being<br />
able to help patients and clients attain wellbeing.<br />
The other was the women’s passion to<br />
teach others, whether it was mentoring<br />
colleagues or elevating well-being awareness in<br />
their communities.<br />
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Fall Archives: 2020<br />
“Visualizing a<br />
Point of View”<br />
FAWCO photographers focus their<br />
lenses on the world: Women and<br />
Photography.<br />
Those who choose photography as the medium<br />
to artistically express themselves do not have a<br />
blank canvas; there are pictures are all around<br />
them. Their art starts with reality. The creation of<br />
their art is in how they shape the existing scene<br />
through the use the light, color and perspective.<br />
Their artist’s palette also includes a unique item,<br />
serendipity, to be at a place at the exact time<br />
when everything or nothing is perfect.<br />
Photography as a window on the times is<br />
essential. The pictures reveal the current “state of<br />
play”. They help to form and inform our beliefs<br />
and move many people from spectators to<br />
participants. The photographers who take these<br />
pictures speak truth to power; no language or<br />
voice is required.<br />
The Inspiring Women team wanted to know<br />
more about the FAWCO members who have<br />
chosen the lens of a camera to do their<br />
talking. Whether as an expression of art or to<br />
reveal the truth, their pictures are the best way to<br />
illustrate their achievements.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• This issue was our longest issue, coming out<br />
at 107 pages.<br />
• The magazine contains a record 216 photos<br />
in total.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Strength and confidence in a photo by Brigit Meuwissen<br />
(AWC Antwerp) who was inspired by the Black Lives Matter<br />
movement.<br />
The FAWCO women who were profiled in this<br />
issue were amazing artists and storytellers. Their<br />
photos were beautiful, exquisite, and hopeful.<br />
They were strong, confident images but not<br />
lacking in grace, a reflection of the character of<br />
our members.<br />
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PROFILE <strong>2021</strong><br />
Working Towards an Equitable<br />
World for All<br />
Fall <strong>2021</strong>: The Women and Justice Issue.<br />
Justice was selected as one of the themes for the <strong>2021</strong> issues in the later part of 2020. George Floyd was<br />
murdered in May of that year. This horrific incident brought to a crescendo the Black Lives Matter<br />
movement and the tympanic roar for justice resounded around the world. How the rule of law would be<br />
disseminated would be a crucial measure of how we value this basic human right now and in the years<br />
to come.<br />
We were eager to profile members who have been seeking justice from grassroots or gleaming<br />
corporate offices. Inequities exist for women, so they view justice through a different lens. Living in<br />
places outside one’s home country adds other filters to the lens. And what role does culture have in<br />
how we view justice?<br />
The women profiled are “on the ground” dealing with the most difficult issues and situations; refugees<br />
and immigration policy, women’s rights, discrimination in education as a barrier to equality, sexual<br />
violence against women, to highlight a few. And because justice is at its best when there is a balance in<br />
the distribution of the rule of law, a program for fathers’ rights.<br />
These women came from various educational and cultural backgrounds. But no matter how or when<br />
they started their journey, they all want to achieve the same thing: a better and more equitable world<br />
for everyone.<br />
“Justice is Truth<br />
in Action”<br />
Kelsey McKay, member of FAUSA<br />
and founder of the non-profit<br />
organization RESPOND Against<br />
Violence, tells us about her work<br />
in the field.<br />
Kelsey McKay<br />
I was born in Florida, where both of my parents<br />
grew up. We quickly moved to Texas, then<br />
Australia (where we lived in Sydney and Perth),<br />
then England and Boston. In 1990 our family<br />
moved to Jakarta, Indonesia where we lived for<br />
eight years until I graduated from high school. I<br />
attended the Jakarta International School starting<br />
in the 5 th grade and was lucky to have a hold on<br />
moving through the end of high school. We would<br />
generally come home for three months during the<br />
summer, where I would get a taste of American<br />
life—going to the beach and making up dance<br />
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psychology. There was no major for changing the<br />
world, but I did manage to graduate with honors<br />
with a psychology degree where I focused on<br />
research, statistics, and how they were used to<br />
impact social issues. At the time, I didn’t realize<br />
that I had fallen into what would be my career.<br />
Me aged about four.<br />
routines with my cousins, shopping at a mall, and<br />
going to the same summer camp year after year.<br />
It was at that camp many years later that I met my<br />
husband. I always loved feeling like a typical<br />
American kid for a few months every year, but I<br />
always knew that I was different than everyone<br />
else because of the other nine months.<br />
Leaving home<br />
I left Indonesia after graduating from high school<br />
and moved to Austin, Texas, where I attended the<br />
University of Texas. It was an odd transition<br />
because while I looked like many of the girls<br />
around me, I couldn’t have been more different. I<br />
had never worn makeup, I didn’t know what a<br />
sorority or khaki shorts were, and I wore flip-flops<br />
year-round.<br />
Today<br />
I live in Austin, Texas, with my husband, Jared, and<br />
an (almost) 11-year daughter and (almost) nineyear-old<br />
son. After college, I was grateful to stay in<br />
Austin for law school, and then I just never left. In<br />
2005 I started working as a prosecutor and spent<br />
the next 12 years navigating the world of criminal<br />
justice and learning everything I could about<br />
violent crime and trauma and became a subjectmatter<br />
expert in asphyxiation-related crimes.<br />
Somewhere during that time (2010 and 2012), we<br />
had two children and started a real estate and<br />
renovation business! In the seven years before<br />
COVID-19 I was traveling a few times a month<br />
across the country, training and consulting with<br />
different agencies.<br />
What is justice?<br />
This is a question I ask a lot when I’m training<br />
police officers, attorneys or advocates—all who<br />
work to achieve justice. For me, personally, it<br />
means the validation of truth. The tagline for the<br />
non-profit RESPOND Against Violence I recently<br />
started is: “Justice is truth in action.” It’s difficult<br />
because it seems like such a simple concept, and<br />
an achievable goal—but with an uneven playing<br />
field that punishes survivors, it’s hard to do.<br />
Getting involved<br />
At first, I thought becoming a prosecutor was<br />
essentially a way to do volunteer work that I was<br />
During college, I really became engaged in<br />
learning and consuming information and<br />
processing my perspective and thoughts. I never<br />
took extracurriculars like sports or art—I always<br />
used extra hours to take classes or seminars that<br />
would make me think: epidemiology, presidential<br />
elections, the rhetoric of utopia, political<br />
philosophy, and so on.<br />
Finding my passion<br />
I struggled early on, not quite knowing what to<br />
study, trying economics, special education,<br />
journalism, government, statistics, and<br />
Me with RESPOND colleagues.<br />
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understand their perspective to be able to teach<br />
them effectively.<br />
With my family.<br />
passionate about but have benefits, a paycheck,<br />
and be an adult. I was doing “justice” every day,<br />
on every case to the best of my ability. Some days<br />
seemed more significant than others, like trials or<br />
verdicts that sent murderers, rapists or child<br />
abusers to prison. But I started to see that my<br />
involvement or a guilty verdict was not nearly as<br />
significant to the victim or the broken system in<br />
which I was working in. Over the years, I started to<br />
see routine injustice and failures that were<br />
ignored over and over again at the cost of people<br />
and lives. At first, I always believed that victims<br />
were only hurt by criminals who abused them. In<br />
time, I learned that punishment often came from<br />
the trauma of the system that failed to protect<br />
them in a meaningful way.<br />
I spent years working on the local level, trying to<br />
fix the failures one by one, only to discover that<br />
most parts of the criminal legal system are very<br />
resistant to change on the systemic level. When I<br />
left prosecution, I was worried about the survivors<br />
who might not get justice but knew that<br />
meaningful change just could not occur one case<br />
at a time.<br />
Different perspectives<br />
I love learning about a different perspective. I’ve<br />
been lucky to be able to focus a lot of my energy<br />
on the very specific topic of strangulation and<br />
asphyxiation-related crimes, which has also<br />
forced me to understand the issues and<br />
challenges that surround this oftenmisunderstood<br />
type of violence. It has forced me<br />
to learn about aspects of crime that I would never<br />
have navigated. My expertise in the area has also<br />
given me the opportunity to think about the topic<br />
from every perspective. When you walk into an<br />
auditorium full of doctors or police officers or<br />
army generals or defense attorneys, you have to<br />
Fifteen years ago, I discovered an issue: our<br />
community was not responding to strangulation<br />
crimes in a uniform or informed way. Since then,<br />
I’ve talked to anyone who would listen. First our<br />
cadet academy, then our paramedics and<br />
eventually the ERs, probation and parole boards,<br />
people on the plane next to me, and anyone who<br />
dares to sit next to me at a dinner party. As I<br />
found solutions, I have traveled the country to<br />
help the criminal system better respond to these<br />
crimes. Seeing that the same problem exists<br />
everywhere allows the solutions I’ve developed to<br />
be utilized universally.<br />
Rewarding aspects<br />
One of the most rewarding aspects has been<br />
conversations with survivors, especially those who<br />
exist in a world of sexual exploitation. Those<br />
conversations and relationships provide me an<br />
understanding of a world that originally motivated<br />
me to do this work. Growing up in Southeast Asia,<br />
I often saw children and women in vulnerable<br />
positions but lacked insight into how complex the<br />
situation was for them. It is the predators behind<br />
the shadows that force them to the front. Until we<br />
see in those shadows, we will continue to punish<br />
survivors. Talking to survivors and learning from<br />
them has taught me how to create policies that<br />
support safety rather than punish survival.<br />
What’s next?<br />
I hope the future holds a generation that<br />
prioritizes humanity and equality despite<br />
appearance and circumstances. I hope we see<br />
change that provides the vulnerable with a more<br />
consistent and reliable system to live in a safe<br />
world for themselves and their children. I’m<br />
encouraged by my colleagues around me, who I<br />
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Giving a presentation.<br />
have found over the years who speak the same<br />
language as me and fight for justice in new ways.<br />
I often encounter defensiveness on issues where<br />
conversations and perspectives are the solutions.<br />
The way we speak to each other in this world<br />
becomes too adversarial (similar to the court<br />
system) and builds walls rather than bridges.<br />
Headlines themselves are rarely informative nor<br />
are they an effort to change the hearts and minds<br />
of society. But they encourage division and<br />
judgment. To shift culture on topics like crime,<br />
gender, and race, we have first to be informed by<br />
truth and accept that the reality for one person is<br />
not necessarily the experience of another. If we<br />
listen more, understand others, we can work<br />
together on issues. There is so much division in<br />
the world and conversations are the bridge to<br />
working together.<br />
I worry that we don’t have enough voices on our<br />
side, and I’m discouraged that gender-based<br />
violence is seen as just a women’s issue—because<br />
women can’t make men stop abusing them. Only<br />
men can do that. But I find good men are often<br />
defensive on the topic. What I have discovered,<br />
through years of training in a male-dominated<br />
culture (policing), is simply that men don’t live in<br />
the same world as I do. Men don’t fear women the<br />
way women fear men. So when the first<br />
responder to a gender-based crime is a male with<br />
a gun—there is an automatic barrier, and it is the<br />
role of an officer (not a traumatized victim) to try<br />
to bridge that gap.<br />
Injustices that I see<br />
After seeing thousands of people victimized by<br />
violence and working with both survivors and<br />
those charged with crimes, I learned that the<br />
criminal legal system often does not help. People<br />
are often defined as a defendant or a victim –<br />
without any context of their experience. As a<br />
result, victims who struggle to live through their<br />
situation are often criminalized for surviving. I see<br />
predators manipulate law enforcement,<br />
communities and judges and worry that our<br />
current system often empowers them by<br />
punishing victims. We need to humanize<br />
populations who face adversity and struggle, due<br />
to trauma, and penalize actual offenders who are<br />
dangerous and pose a risk to our safety. Right<br />
now, we see anyone who commits any type of<br />
crime as a criminal rather than making a<br />
distinction between people and dangerous<br />
criminals. As a result, survivors get caught up in<br />
the penal system as they navigate survival.<br />
The issues are layered and we have a system that<br />
silos every topic rather than dealing with the<br />
complexity. The root cause of addiction,<br />
homelessness and so many other issues is<br />
domestic violence and yet the conversation about<br />
prevention and accountability for that crime still<br />
remains silent.<br />
Policy needs to be evidence-based so that we can<br />
solve real problems with authentic solutions.<br />
Otherwise, we are just making the same mistakes<br />
over and over again and calling it a solution.<br />
When justice is attached to politics, power, or<br />
money – I see this all the time – avoiding<br />
transparency and accountability cover up truth<br />
and progress. At RESPOND Against Violence, we<br />
hope to create sustainable change through<br />
proven practice.<br />
With my daughter.<br />
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A typical day for me<br />
My days are absolute chaos. My eyes open and<br />
my immediate hope is that my body rested and<br />
slept well enough to take on the day. Regardless<br />
of the reality, the morning starts with coffee and a<br />
few deep breaths. I’ve almost stopped watching<br />
the news but usually wake up around 2:00 a.m.<br />
for an hour and read Heather Cox Richardson’s<br />
historical review of the day. I get a sweet kiss and<br />
smile from my son, an early bird, and I get to<br />
work. I always dream of taking things off my to-do<br />
list but rarely end the day with anything checked<br />
off. There hasn’t been a day in the last five years<br />
that I’ve been able to read every email, text, or<br />
voicemail I’ve received.<br />
Before COVID-19, I was traveling about 50% of the<br />
time. Since then, my days are a variation of<br />
helping a prosecutor, colleague, or police officer<br />
with a case; supporting a survivor or a family<br />
member understand the reality of the system<br />
they entered; meeting with colleagues from<br />
around the country to develop forward-thinking<br />
approaches, training, or policies; building power<br />
points; presenting virtually to conferences or<br />
communities; working on a variety of publications<br />
to make sure that practitioners have evidencebased<br />
research to support their work; making a<br />
smoothie; making sure the kids are alive; Zoom<br />
meetings; taskforce meetings; reading journal<br />
articles; working on curriculums; scheduling<br />
conferences; creating resources without funding;<br />
trying to keep up with emails, requests; getting a<br />
phone call to deal with an emergency; making<br />
sure the kids did school; figuring out what to do<br />
for dinner. And then watching America’s Got<br />
Talent with the kids, and we all crash. Once in a<br />
while, I have time to wash my hair. Other days I<br />
use dry shampoo.<br />
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Souvenirs from Across the FAWCO World<br />
Jump right in! It is midnight and the<br />
sun still bathes a serene glow over the<br />
lakes and forests of Finland in the<br />
summer.<br />
Finland is known for its beautiful<br />
nature and is great for exploring at all<br />
times of year, but there is something<br />
special about the light summer nights<br />
at a Finnish mökki (cabin).<br />
Ann Marie Morrow, FAWCO 1st VP and<br />
member of AWC Finland, Region 2<br />
Frankfurt is a vivid mix of old and<br />
new architecture. This is a view<br />
of the Frankfurt skyline with<br />
Römer Cathedral in the background<br />
from one of six bridges right in<br />
town, crossing the Main River.<br />
Danita Waterfall-Brizzi, President, AIWC<br />
Frankfurt, Region 5<br />
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The Eiffel Tower is one of the most<br />
iconic structures in the world. Just<br />
like the Statue of Liberty in NYC, it<br />
represents a city and the feelings<br />
and ideas associated with that city.<br />
For me, Paris represents creativity,<br />
stimulation and romance. I chose<br />
this photo of the Eiffel Tower because<br />
it was taken at sunrise, when the<br />
city is still sleeping; you have the<br />
impression you are alone to take in<br />
the beauty of the iron lady and keep<br />
her as your own personal secret and<br />
romance.<br />
Krystal Kenney, Member-at-large, AWG<br />
Paris, Region 3<br />
The streets of Bogotá are filled with<br />
the shouts of "Aguacate, aguacate!"<br />
from mobile vendors with carts piled<br />
high with bright green orbs. Choosing<br />
the right avocado is a quintessential<br />
skill and art form in Colombia,<br />
utilizing all of one's senses. You<br />
don't just tell the vendor the number<br />
you want to buy, but for when you<br />
want them – to ensure they will be<br />
perfectly ripe when you need them to<br />
be. "Four, please, two for today and<br />
two for Thursday." To me, there's no<br />
better souvenir than experiencing<br />
Colombia's rich agriculture and food<br />
culture in this way.<br />
Mary Stange, FAWCO Rep, AWC Bogotá,<br />
Region 10<br />
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Dunnottar Castle is a must. It is one<br />
of the favorite locations for our<br />
photography club to meet, as you<br />
always get a different photo.<br />
Caroline Aylmer Sanford, AAW of<br />
Aberdeen, Region 1<br />
Sunset on the Arabian/<br />
Persian Gulf at the<br />
Saudi Aramco beach.<br />
This beach is popular<br />
because it is one of the<br />
few places in Saudi<br />
where people can wear<br />
bathing suits to enjoy<br />
the beach and the<br />
beautiful waters of the<br />
Gulf. The people in the<br />
photo are dressed in<br />
traditional Saudi garb.<br />
Therese Hartwell, former<br />
President and FAWCO Rep,<br />
AWEP, Region 9<br />
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Hassan II mosque. This beautiful<br />
mosque in Casablanca was built to<br />
commemorate the former king’s<br />
(Hassan II) 60th birthday. The<br />
mosque stands right at the edge of<br />
the water, and its 210-meter-tall<br />
minaret is one of the city’s major<br />
landmarks. The building showcases<br />
the talent and craft of Moroccan<br />
artisans. The miles-long coast of<br />
Casablanca and Ain Diab are very<br />
important to the citizens. Walking,<br />
running, swimming and football are<br />
enjoyed there every day. The minaret<br />
can be seen throughout this area.<br />
Cynthia Smith-Ayed, RC and FAWCO Rep,<br />
AIWC Casablanca, Region 7<br />
This photo, taken from Piazzale<br />
Michelangelo, is emblematic of<br />
Florence and its status as an<br />
open-air museum city, the<br />
cradle of the Renaissance.<br />
Diedre Pirro, FAWCO Rep, AILO<br />
Florence, Region 8<br />
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Our favorite place to visit will always<br />
be the Grand Place. Filled with<br />
festivals all summer long and special<br />
events throughout the year, it never<br />
disappoints. One such event takes<br />
place every two years that is a<br />
carpet made of flowers. The carpet,<br />
measuring 77 m x 24 m, is prepared<br />
by about 120 volunteers who place<br />
nearly one million begonias in less<br />
than four hours.<br />
Heather Bloemperk, FAWCO Rep AWC<br />
Brussels, Region 4<br />
One of my favorite places<br />
to walk is along Elliot Bay<br />
and the Puget Sound in<br />
West Seattle. The views<br />
encompass Mt. Baker to the<br />
north, the Olympic<br />
Mountains to the west, Mt.<br />
Rainier to the south and,<br />
across Elliot Bay, the<br />
Seattle skyline. The<br />
outdoor art along the way<br />
complements the natural<br />
beauty of the area.<br />
Michele Hendrikse Du Bois,<br />
Regional and Seattle Metro<br />
Coordinator, FAUSA<br />
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For months, I walked across this<br />
bridge over the Limmat river every<br />
evening to the main train station<br />
after my German class, so I equate<br />
this view with my becoming a part<br />
of Zürich. I guess, when I close my<br />
eyes and think of Zürich, this is<br />
what I see.<br />
Laurel McDonald, FAWCO Rep AWC Zürich,<br />
Region 6<br />
The dabbawalas are a lunchbox<br />
delivery and return system that<br />
delivers hot lunches from homes and<br />
restaurants to people at work in<br />
India, especially in Mumbai.<br />
Between 175,000 and 200,000<br />
lunch boxes are moved each day and<br />
it is frequently claimed that<br />
dabbawalas make fewer than one<br />
mistake in every six million<br />
deliveries, which has sparked the<br />
interest of many business studies.<br />
If you have the chance to visit<br />
Mumbai, go to Churchgate at 11:30<br />
a.m. and watch – fascinating!<br />
Karen Boeker, now member of AWC<br />
Denmark, in 2014-2015 member of ACIW<br />
Mumbai, Region 11<br />
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Winter Archives: 2017<br />
“Art is the<br />
Beauty and<br />
Brightness in the<br />
Universe”<br />
The Women in the Arts issue was<br />
a feast for the eyes.<br />
The perfect theme for the dark days of<br />
winter. There was never any doubt that FAWCO<br />
clubs possessed members with amazing artistic<br />
gifts. The choices would be difficult!<br />
We asked:<br />
“Filling a space in a beautiful way, that’s what art<br />
is to me” – Georgia O’Keeffe. The winter issue will<br />
be devoted to FAWCO club members who have<br />
found a beautiful way to fill the space – and have<br />
made an impact through their work. Their<br />
accomplishments can be in any art discipline –<br />
we leave it for you to decide: What is Art?”<br />
Art is everywhere but it takes a unique talent to<br />
harness it and re imagine it in a different form so<br />
that mere mortals can enjoy it. Our collection of<br />
profilees were outstanding artists from a wide<br />
range of mediums, as well as those who worked<br />
to preserve art by sharing its history with others<br />
or creating exhibits for others.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• The feature “Just for Fun” was introduced in<br />
this issue.<br />
• QR codes were made available enabling<br />
readers to use the app to learn more about a<br />
topic or product.<br />
• By the year’s end, we had profiled at least one<br />
member from every FAWCO region.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Sunny Eades (North American Connection) hard at work.<br />
Many great artists through the ages possessed<br />
complicated personalities or unusual habits. Our<br />
profilees had none of that. The level of talent was<br />
extraordinary, and all our artists were warm,<br />
generous and unassuming, reinforcing Inspiring<br />
Women’s core belief – these women exist in all<br />
our clubs from all walks of life … they are you.<br />
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Winter Archives: 2018<br />
“It’s Joy – It’s<br />
Music!”<br />
The soundtrack of the FAWCO<br />
world: Women in Music.<br />
This issue was a great collection of profiles and<br />
the perfect way to end to the year.<br />
A piece of music achieves greatness when it<br />
disrupts time. We were looking for candidates for<br />
this issue that dared to create the language, the<br />
sound, the movement that enter the most private<br />
parts of an individual’s soul. They say those with<br />
musical talent have a gift – but how did they<br />
receive it?<br />
We asked:<br />
“Is music their passion or salvation?”<br />
The people profiled in this issue have astonishing<br />
talent. They shared with us their stories of how<br />
they came to music (or how it came to them).<br />
How did they find the balance between<br />
containing and controlling their talent and<br />
stoking the fire of creativity to achieve artistic<br />
success? Some of our profilees have chosen to<br />
guide others in maximizing their musical<br />
abilities. They shared with us their stories of what<br />
musical success means to them.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• Rick Chizmadia, a member of AWC Zurich and<br />
FAUSA, was the first man to be profiled in<br />
Inspiring Women. Rick has many talents, and<br />
it was a pleasure to include him in this issue.<br />
• The Inspiring Women team used the<br />
advantages of our online platform to bring<br />
sound to this issue. We asked each of our<br />
profilees to provide a link to their music. It<br />
was a special holiday gift from them to all<br />
our readers!<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
Robin Goldsby (AIWC Cologne) at the piano.<br />
Those individuals who can harness the energy of<br />
their artistry and carefully craft it into an original<br />
moment have all of our respect. In music, finding<br />
a new way to play the notes or finding delight in a<br />
fresh way to use your vocal gifts not only moves<br />
music forward, but it also moves the world.<br />
These profilees helped to fuel the movement.<br />
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Winter Archives: 2019<br />
“We Can Bridge<br />
Our Cultural<br />
Differences with<br />
Food”<br />
A fabulous “Foodies” tour<br />
featuring FAWCO members and<br />
their kitchens: Women and Food<br />
and … Drink.<br />
At the end of the year, no matter what holiday<br />
you celebrate or where you celebrate it, food<br />
plays a special part. For this issue we wanted to<br />
profile women whose joie de vivre comes from<br />
food and drink.<br />
We asked:<br />
“Do they teach a cooking class; do they make their<br />
own beer; have they written a cookbook; do they<br />
run a restaurant? While simply drinking<br />
champagne does not really qualify you (we would<br />
have too many profiles if that were the case)<br />
being a sommelier would! “<br />
The women profiled were a fascinating and<br />
diverse group of who, while not living in their<br />
home countries, have found their passion in their<br />
host countries through food and drink.<br />
Clearly the passion starts with the wonderful<br />
food and dishes that they discovered while living<br />
in a new place. To understand the history of food<br />
is to understand better the history of the world.<br />
They showed us that food is essential for good<br />
health. How we eat food and deliver it has an<br />
impact on the environment.<br />
Fun facts about/from the issue<br />
• Inspiring Women added a new feature, 24<br />
Hours in … where FAWCO club members<br />
shared insider tips about what to see and do<br />
in their cities. We took our maiden trip to<br />
Paris with AAWE and AWG Paris.<br />
• The team brought back an earlier feature,<br />
Seasonal Recipes, for this issue. Our recipes<br />
included everything from traditional turkey<br />
from the UK to bibingka from the Philippines.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
“Cooking is fun”. Barbara Abdeni Masssaad<br />
(AWC Lebanon).<br />
When the team chooses a theme for each issue,<br />
there is usually a subtheme that emerges from<br />
those featured in the magazine. In this issue,<br />
addition to their love of food and drink, the single<br />
trait that the profilees had in common was their<br />
passion for sharing.<br />
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Winter Archives: 2020<br />
“Bravo! Author!<br />
Encore!”<br />
Sisters Act : Women in Drama.<br />
The Inspiring Women team selected drama as<br />
the theme for the last issue of 2020.<br />
We asked:<br />
“What is it about you that you are able to give<br />
oneself over to a character taken from a script<br />
and perform it in front of others?” At a minimum<br />
it requires bravery and brazenness. We also<br />
explored what happens when one plays a part but<br />
has no script. To bravery and brazenness, one<br />
adds a bit of bungee-jumping-like madness. Or<br />
consider the performer that is only allowed one<br />
tool – their voice, to create a character. It would<br />
be like describing a ladder without being allowed<br />
to use your hands.<br />
There is also more to acting than the accolades<br />
from the crowds. We examined the lives of those<br />
whose write and perform to promote wellness,<br />
and a sense of peace.<br />
And, importantly, plays can give us clearer insight<br />
and better appreciation of other cultures and<br />
countries. In the darkness of a theater,<br />
sometimes a new light of understanding shines.<br />
Fun fact about/from the issue<br />
• Another major design change of the magazine<br />
was made to give it a more professional and<br />
modern feel.<br />
What inspired us about the issue<br />
There is an undeniable optimism about people in<br />
the entertainment industry. They do not select<br />
their profession as a last resort. While there is<br />
disappointment to deal with, they get back up<br />
and take control of their situation.<br />
Caroline Wagner Jacobson (AWC Amsterdam) and a famous<br />
friend!<br />
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PROFILE <strong>2021</strong><br />
Hospitality is Simply Love on the<br />
Loose<br />
Winter <strong>2021</strong>: The Women and Hospitality Issue.<br />
As <strong>2021</strong> came to a close, getting together with family and friends for year-end celebrations was a very<br />
real possibility. We hoped that those celebrations would be very special as we waited so long to be with<br />
each other. Social events were back on the calendar and everyone hoped it would be a grand and<br />
beautiful experience.<br />
We wanted to profile women who have succeeded in making people feel welcome and special – the<br />
perfect definition of “savoir faire”. We asked,” Perhaps there is a member who has started a unique<br />
business that caters to providing hospitality services to others? Or is there a member who has built a<br />
reputation as a welcoming light in your community?<br />
Enter some of FAWCO’s hospitality experts. Not only do they know how to “par-tay”, but they also do it<br />
in different languages and in unusual venues.<br />
How one is made to feel welcome is the very essence of hospitality. Sharing secrets about one’s city is<br />
the best gift for any guest. And because FAWCO is a worldwide organization, we have the added<br />
perspective of exploring these experiences in different cultures.<br />
The people profiled in this issue demonstrated the ability to have “grace under pressure”, they can think<br />
on their feet and will do whatever it takes to achieve the dreams of their guests.<br />
Life With a<br />
Headset and<br />
Clipboard<br />
Sanya Jefferies, member of AWC<br />
London, on why there is never a<br />
dull moment as a professional<br />
event planner.<br />
Sanya Jefferies<br />
I was born in New York City, and I am a New<br />
Yorker at heart. I moved to a small town in<br />
Connecticut about 45 minutes outside of New<br />
York when I was young and stayed there through<br />
high school. I spent a lot of my time acting and<br />
dancing, and at one point spent upwards of 18<br />
hours a week doing classical ballet.<br />
One thing that sticks in my mind from my<br />
childhood was my parents’ ability and drive to fully<br />
immerse me in the world of the arts. Even though<br />
we were outside of NYC, we were constantly<br />
making the quick trip into the city to see<br />
Broadway shows, go to museums, experience<br />
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went on to work on global experiential events for<br />
a stock photo company, Shutterstock. This was<br />
great because I got to pair my passion for travel<br />
with work. I was able to execute events all over the<br />
world including Singapore, Cannes, London and<br />
Berlin. This was also where I started to get<br />
exposed to and build my love for design. After my<br />
time at Shutterstock, I began working at a midsize<br />
event agency called Production Glue. While at<br />
Production Glue I was able to work on everything<br />
from conferences to 20,000-person festivals.<br />
Early days.<br />
different exhibits and even to stand on the red<br />
carpet of the MTV Video Music Awards for more<br />
years than my dad is willing to count.<br />
Leaving home<br />
Once I graduated from high school I moved to<br />
South Carolina to attend the College of<br />
Charleston. My love for theatre and the arts never<br />
waned; but wanting a career that was not built on<br />
auditioning over and over, I decided to major in<br />
arts management, which is a business<br />
management degree with a strong focus on the<br />
arts. I loved living in Charleston and getting to<br />
experience a new area of the country. Also, being<br />
15 minutes from the beach made for a pretty<br />
great college experience.<br />
During my senior year of college I decided to study<br />
abroad. I was never great with languages, and<br />
there wasn’t one specific country I was drawn to. I<br />
decided to do my semester abroad with Semester<br />
at Sea, and it was one of the best experiences of<br />
my life. I was able to travel by ship visiting 12<br />
countries over three months and met some of my<br />
best friends to this day. It was an experience that I<br />
wouldn’t trade for anything.<br />
Next steps<br />
After graduating from college, I fulfilled my dream<br />
of moving back to New York City. I was hired as an<br />
executive assistant at MTV, a place where I had<br />
dreamed of working since I was a young. I loved<br />
being able to help create the pop culture that<br />
everyone in the world got to experience. I then<br />
I married my husband, Tim, a few years after<br />
graduating. Fun fact: we are actually high school<br />
sweethearts and had been together since we were<br />
15! We had always wanted to live abroad and were<br />
waiting for the opportunity to come around. It<br />
finally happened when Tim’s company asked him<br />
to transfer to London in 2019! I took a leap of faith<br />
and quit my job, starting over as a freelance event<br />
producer in a new city. It was going great until<br />
COVID-19 hit; now we are finally starting to see a<br />
resurgence in the industry and it seems like<br />
people are ready to come back with a vengeance!<br />
Early memories of good hospitality<br />
I was surrounded by events at an early age. My<br />
family always had a party or a to-do for<br />
everything. Some of my earliest memories of<br />
events are from the Academy Awards parties<br />
that my parents hosted every year. The planning<br />
for these events took months from figuring out<br />
the themed invitation to the menu - the scale<br />
was huge!<br />
The year Titanic was nominated, my mom made<br />
the entire last meal they served onboard; when<br />
Babe was nominated, we served an entire roast<br />
pig; and for My Big Fat Greek Wedding, we went<br />
into Queens and rented a gyro machine. (We ate<br />
gyros for weeks.) The invitations were just as<br />
On my wedding day.<br />
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attendees would cheer them on and then vote on<br />
their favorite at the end.<br />
When I was working at Shutterstock, we decided<br />
to fully rebrand this event, and I got to work on<br />
every aspect of it from the ground up. This<br />
rebrand really piqued my love for design and<br />
event design. It was so much fun to have an<br />
impact on every aspect of the event: choosing<br />
locations and venues, event design, catering and<br />
on-site activation.<br />
We took Pixels of Fury on a world tour, bringing it<br />
to five countries and as many US cities. This event<br />
really meant a lot to me because it was something<br />
I was able to develop and build from start to<br />
finish. I love working in events and seeing an<br />
entire project from beginning to end.<br />
Setting up for an event.<br />
creative: they were printed on dog tags (Saving<br />
Private Ryan), engraved into rings (Lord of the<br />
Rings) and even printed directly onto chocolate<br />
(Chocolat). The process of getting creative and<br />
seeing my ideas come to life is one of my absolute<br />
favorite parts about events!<br />
What I enjoy/don’t enjoy about it<br />
I love to see people enjoying the work that I put<br />
into an event. There are few jobs where you can<br />
actually see your creativity and thoughts come to<br />
life, and I love knowing that something I did is<br />
putting a smile on someone's face.<br />
The thing I like least about hosting events is<br />
budgets! I always wish we had enough funds to do<br />
everything that we wanted!<br />
My favorite event<br />
I’ve hosted a ton of different events and they’ve all<br />
had their ups and downs. If I had to pick one I<br />
would say it would be “Pixels of Fury.” It was an<br />
experiential event that I hosted when I worked at<br />
Shutterstock. The event included a live design<br />
competition for graphic designers whose design<br />
challenge had to be completed in 20 minutes only<br />
using stock images from Shutterstock. These<br />
designers would work in real time on huge<br />
screens situated around the venue, while<br />
Hospitality disasters<br />
We were activating a Pixels of Fury event at<br />
Cannes International Lions Festival of Creativity<br />
that would be our largest of the year. We had<br />
prime real estate on the French Riviera with over<br />
one thousand RSVPs and even more trying to get<br />
through the gate. With the main competition over,<br />
the event was still going strong - we had plenty of<br />
booze and a great DJ and people were having a<br />
wonderful time. At 11pm, the bartenders<br />
unanimously decided that they were done serving<br />
and left the site. I was shocked! We had the venue<br />
for another hour and a thousand guests still on<br />
site – and they were thirsty! Refusing to let my<br />
party down, I rallied the production crew and<br />
recruited two people to join me in tending the bar.<br />
For the next hour, it was me and some colleagues<br />
serving the beer and wine to thirsty partygoers;<br />
and we were able to make sure that everyone<br />
there had a great time and plenty to talk about in<br />
the morning!<br />
Entertaining friends<br />
I love cooking and baking food from my home<br />
country. In England, a lot of foods are similar, but<br />
some are drastically different. I love seeing locals<br />
try to “put their finger on” what they are eating. It<br />
is always a good laugh to see what local dish they<br />
can compare it to. My favorite time was when I<br />
made a berry cobbler, which was looked at very<br />
skeptically until someone decided it was just like<br />
an apple crumble. After that, everyone ate it<br />
happily, although they seemed to think it would be<br />
better with custard than ice cream.<br />
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The importance of planning<br />
I am always the planner! Whether it is drinks with<br />
friends, dinners, birthday parties or even BBQs, I<br />
am always the one finding a venue or planning the<br />
menu. I would say that I am a walking rolodex of<br />
restaurants, venues and event spaces in any city I<br />
live in. Sometimes it is fun, but sometimes it would<br />
be nice to just relax and enjoy! That is why I hired<br />
a wedding coordinator for my own wedding. My<br />
friends and family were surprised, but I wanted to<br />
make sure I could enjoy the day and not attend<br />
my own wedding with a headset and a clipboard.<br />
A dream place to work?<br />
I have always dreamed of working at Disney<br />
World. Disney is always at the forefront of event<br />
technology, hospitality and creativity. Their<br />
attention to detail and the resources they offer<br />
would make working there so exciting. I think it<br />
would be inspiring to enjoy so much creative<br />
freedom and to be able to work with their<br />
storylines and characters.<br />
With camera operator (and friend) on the Red Carpet, 2013<br />
Video Music Awards in Brooklyn, New York.<br />
With co-workers after working 15 hour days for seven days non stop. We had just finished our last day and decided to go to<br />
the Pride Celebrations in NYC instead of going home for some much needed sleep!<br />
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CLUB FEATURE<br />
A Club Inspires:<br />
AWG Paris<br />
In their centenary year, Cathy Farnan, former Club President, tells us the<br />
club history and Julien McKinney Young, current Club President, introduces<br />
us to it today. AWG Paris is one of seven clubs in FAWCO’s Region 3.<br />
CATHY: When and why was your club started,<br />
and by whom? The beginnings of the American<br />
Women’s Group in Paris are shrouded by the<br />
passage of time, world wars and missing<br />
documents. We know that our women’s<br />
association was originally started in 1921 and<br />
called the American Women’s Club in Paris.<br />
and women of nations associated with the USA in<br />
the Great War, to create a center of social and<br />
educational activity and to assist in furthering<br />
American philanthropy in France. Despite the<br />
changes throughout the world, our mission and<br />
philosophy haven’t changed significantly in over<br />
100 years!<br />
Sharon Nossiter (President 2017 – 2019) reached<br />
out to the American Library in Paris and learned<br />
that the American Women’s Club in Paris (AWC<br />
Paris) was referenced in the first edition of the<br />
directory published by the American Chamber of<br />
Commerce in 1925. AWC Paris was noted as a<br />
“service club that really serves”, and their<br />
objectives included to serve American women<br />
either resident or visiting in France, to encourage<br />
friendly relations between the women of the USA<br />
With the lockdowns in Paris during COVID-19, I<br />
turned to the Internet to learn a bit more about<br />
our origins. First of all, I apologize that I am neither<br />
a researcher nor a writer, but the information that<br />
I found really is quite fascinating! It would be a<br />
wonderful book about the evolution of women’s<br />
clubs and how women throughout the decades<br />
created something bigger than themselves for the<br />
greater good and to make an everlasting impact<br />
on their adopted communities. Beginning with<br />
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quickly evolved into a service club. The younger<br />
(and mostly single) working women connected<br />
AWC Paris with the YWCA to provide<br />
accommodations and a social salon for the<br />
American women involved in the Great War or the<br />
social works connected to the wounded. Miss<br />
Constance Clark, who had studied hotel<br />
management and hospitality at Simmons College<br />
in Boston and had experience with Hostess House<br />
at Camp Lewis, was asked to supervise the project.<br />
In 1919, after the end of the Great War, with<br />
continued financial support from the YWCA, AWC<br />
Paris focused its efforts on assisting the American<br />
Gold Star Mothers. The mothers and sisters of the<br />
fallen Americans wished to visit their loved ones'<br />
graves, and the members of AWC Paris provided<br />
rooms, directions and assistance to over 100,000<br />
Gold Star families.<br />
https://chroniclingamerica.loc.gov/ (a Library of<br />
Congress website of America’s historic<br />
newspapers), I found multiple references in the<br />
society pages of the New York Herald, Washington<br />
Evening Star and many other US newspapers. As<br />
an early version of Facebook, these weekly pages<br />
reported announcements regarding American<br />
arrivals in Paris with specific references to the<br />
American Women’s Club in Paris luncheons,<br />
Thanksgiving dinners and speaker events. And to<br />
my great surprise, I found references to AWC Paris<br />
as early as 1914!<br />
So who were these original founders of the<br />
American Women's Club in Paris, and how did<br />
AWC Paris become AWG Paris? The earliest<br />
reference, in 1914, to the American Women’s Club<br />
in Paris (AWC Paris) announces the formation of an<br />
“exclusive club in Paris” by Lady Randolph Churchill<br />
(mother of Winston Churchill) and Mrs. Charles<br />
Clark. While Lady Randolph Churchill primarily<br />
resided in London, she spent quite a bit of time in<br />
Paris socializing with her international friends. In<br />
the early 1900s, women’s clubs were popping up in<br />
cities all over the US and in major cultural cities<br />
throughout the world. Newspapers reported on<br />
their local clubs as well as on significant events<br />
from clubs overseas. However, the winds of war<br />
were swirling, and France and the UK became<br />
deeply involved in the Great War. As many wealthy<br />
Americans departed Paris, this elite social club<br />
As the economy of France rebounded in the 1920s,<br />
many American women followed their husbands<br />
overseas to live an expatriate life. Paris was full of<br />
joie de vivre in the 1920s: the Jazz Age, the Lost<br />
Generation, writers, photographers, socialites and<br />
travel by ship were booming. By March 1921, the<br />
YWCA had decided to withdraw from Paris.<br />
Without the funding from the YWCA, the American<br />
Women’s Club in Paris needed to evolve once<br />
again. The members wished to carry on their<br />
mission of service to American women visiting<br />
France, but did not want to charge for their<br />
assistance to women searching for their loved<br />
ones. In the spring of 1921, a clever invitation was<br />
sent to all the women’s clubs in the USA, offering<br />
local women’s clubs an opportunity to affiliate with<br />
AWC Paris for a small membership fee!<br />
AWC Paris was formally incorporated in New York<br />
City on March 25,1925. The first official President<br />
of AWC Paris was Mrs. Louise Sherwood Connett;<br />
Members of AWC Paris at a luncheon, tea and fashion show<br />
in 1933.<br />
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together to discuss the need for an American<br />
women’s organization. These women led the<br />
charge to nominate Dorothy Leet as the President<br />
of the freshly re-organized American Women’s<br />
Group in Paris.<br />
Thus, in 1952, the American Women’s Group in<br />
Paris (AWG Paris) was officially reborn, according<br />
to a reference in the Journal Officiel de la<br />
République, “Groupement de femmes<br />
américaines à Paris, encourager et developper des<br />
activités sociales, cuturelles et éducatives parmi les<br />
femmes américaines en France et contribuer à<br />
promouvoir les relations franco-américaines dans<br />
tous les domaines possibles. ”<br />
Mrs, Louise Connett, who served as the FAWCO 1st VP<br />
from 1932 to 1934 and was the second FAWCO President,<br />
succeeding Caroline Curtis Brown, was also the first<br />
President of AWC Paris!<br />
First VP, Mrs. Louise E. Berry-Wall; Second VP,<br />
Mrs. Margaret A. Beekman, and over 35 other<br />
members served in various committee chair and<br />
board positions.<br />
While the AWC Paris had proved to be adaptable<br />
to the times, in 1936 it became very clear that it<br />
would be difficult for the club to continue in Paris<br />
with the approach of WWII. Americans were<br />
leaving Paris in droves, and those expats who<br />
chose to stay often sent their wives and children to<br />
safer residences in the US. According to the AWC<br />
Paris minutes in our archives, the last regular<br />
meeting of the AWC Paris was held on October 13,<br />
1936 at the Hotel Lancaster with only seven<br />
members present and primarily concerned the<br />
sale of the AWC club building. The Executive<br />
Committee determined that the club would<br />
continue meeting informally, but officially the AWC<br />
Paris would be in abeyance until further notice.<br />
Although we haven’t researched much beyond the<br />
early 1950s, the Washington Evening Star<br />
(November 23, 1958) reported on the “American<br />
Women in Paris Tour of New UNESCO Building”<br />
and (May 19, 1959) reported on a “Conference<br />
Slated for Paris,” with the American Women’s<br />
Group in Paris hosting the 14th Biennial of the<br />
Federation of American Women's Clubs Overseas.<br />
The more I learn about the remarkable women of<br />
AWC Paris who forged friendships, created<br />
communities and contributed to society, the more<br />
proud I am of how AWG Paris has remained true to<br />
its origins, continuing to foster and encourage<br />
social, cultural and educational activities among<br />
American women living in France and to assist in<br />
furthering Franco-American relations. I don’t know<br />
what challenges the next 100 years will bring to<br />
AWG Paris, but given the club’s ability to pivot over<br />
the years, I have great faith that the members of<br />
AWG Paris will continue to welcome American<br />
Perhaps the intrepid women of AWC Paris weren’t<br />
able to meet in Paris, but not even a world war<br />
would prevent them from gathering together.<br />
Declaring that the “friendships made in Paris are<br />
precious ones,” many AWC Paris members met in<br />
New York in 1938 with the intention of “carrying<br />
on” the AWC Paris mission.<br />
After the end of WW2, on November 28, 1949, a<br />
group of 16 American women representing<br />
different circles in Paris were asked to come<br />
Dorothy Leet in 1949.<br />
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esidents and visitors for decades to<br />
come…”Friendships made in Paris are precious!”<br />
Final Note: Many of the early founders of the AWC<br />
Paris received recognition and Medals of Honor for<br />
their philanthropic and charitable works in France<br />
and Europe, including the Legion of Honor from<br />
the French government for their work with the<br />
Women’s War Relief Corps (a division of the Red<br />
Cross in France), War Blinded and the Sailors &<br />
Soldiers Clubs.<br />
JULIEN: How many members do you have, and<br />
what are their nationalities? We have 217 active<br />
members, of whom 143 (66%) are American, 27<br />
(12%) are French and 9 (4%) are British, and we<br />
also have members from Finland, India, Ireland,<br />
Germany, Denmark, Colombia, South Africa,<br />
Sweden and the Philippines.<br />
How does the club run? The Club has an elected<br />
board. Board members are suggested by the<br />
membership and by the Nominations Committee.<br />
The slate of proposed officers is voted on as a<br />
whole by the active membership.<br />
What kind of events do you have in your club?<br />
Our Activities Team organizes our events which<br />
can be paid, such as a tour of a museum, or free,<br />
such as the monthly Cafe Chat. For example, last<br />
November, they organized 29 different events<br />
attended by 138 members. The events included a<br />
sit-down potluck Thanksgiving dinner for members<br />
and families, a visit to an artist’s studio, a guided<br />
tour of Père Lachaise Cemetery, a hike in the<br />
countryside, tennis, French-English Conversation<br />
Exchange (over coffee), cheese tasting, an evening<br />
apéro social get-together and a weekly jogging<br />
group that meets in the Tuileries Garden.<br />
Do you raise money for any particular cause?<br />
We support Serve The City, a group that provides<br />
food and items to the homeless, and La Soupe<br />
(L’Église de la Sainte Trinité ) who provide free<br />
lunches to those in need, as well as the FAWCO<br />
Target Project. Last spring we held a Zoom<br />
“Games Night” to raise money for Les Maisons de<br />
Femmes, an organization that helps domestic<br />
violence victims.<br />
What else would you like us to know about<br />
your club? As you can see our members were<br />
always an adventurous and courageous group. Life<br />
in Paris through the years of the Great War and<br />
the years after were hard. The American Women’s<br />
Club partnered with the YWCA to help those in<br />
need and created a lively and warm-hearted<br />
"home away from home” for its members.<br />
Not much has changed in the ensuing century of<br />
AWG Paris’s existence. During the COVID-19<br />
pandemic – even during the national lockdown –<br />
AWG Paris members continued our support of the<br />
homeless community within Paris and FAWCO’s<br />
Target Project. We learned how to do things online<br />
and extended our social and educational activities<br />
to the “Zoom verse.” As soon as it was possible,<br />
our members met in person outdoors as much as<br />
possible. We happily continue the culture of<br />
courage, adventure and caring that has<br />
characterized our club from its very inception.<br />
AWG Paris Board Members and former President Cathy Farnan.<br />
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FEATURE<br />
The Evolution of Our Feature<br />
Articles<br />
Editor Liz MacNiven and Features Coordinator Michele Hendrikse Du<br />
Bois highlight the changes in the Inspiring Women feature articles<br />
since the magazine first began.<br />
in existence over 40 years and hosts many events<br />
during the year. Their monthly shopping bazaar<br />
sounds a lot of fun, and it raises money that goes<br />
back into the local Filipino community, so it helps<br />
others, too. Read about them here: A Club Inspires<br />
Early prose articles<br />
For the first couple of years, these were written<br />
for us by Robin Meloy Goldsby, member of AIWC<br />
Cologne, Germany, and by Jane Mobille, a member<br />
from AAWE Paris, France.<br />
Liz: In 2017, when we sat down to create the very<br />
first issue of Inspiring Women, we knew that<br />
whilst we wanted to showcase the amazing and<br />
inspiring worlds that the women of FAWCO live<br />
in, a magazine with just one type of article could<br />
get rather monotonous. So we came up with<br />
three other features for the issue: one on a<br />
FAWCO region, one on a specific club and a special<br />
prose feature.<br />
Club features<br />
Our club and regional features have been a mix of<br />
large and small, distant and closer to home. Over<br />
the last five years we have featured a total of 21<br />
clubs from all the FAWCO Regions, under the<br />
banner “A Club Inspires.”<br />
Robin wrote mostly under the heading “Home and<br />
Away.” Here are highlights from my own two<br />
favourite articles of hers.<br />
Home and Away: Everyone Here Speaks English<br />
(click to read) – I think many of us who have lived<br />
in a second language can really relate to the trials<br />
involved that Robin so eloquently describes:<br />
“English had always been my protection, my<br />
armor, my waterproof layer of textured wool that<br />
keeps me comfortable and dry. German, in spite of<br />
all my years of practice, still feels more like an illfitting<br />
coat from a secondhand store, purchased<br />
for me by someone who wasn’t sure of my size.”<br />
FAWCO clubs come in all shapes and sizes, but<br />
we ask them the same questions, which we hope<br />
give our readers ideas they might copy in their<br />
own clubs. We also ask contributors to tell us<br />
some more about their city or region and give us<br />
some top tips of places to see if we are ever there<br />
in person.<br />
I only have space here to highlight one of the<br />
features, so I am going to choose one that feels far<br />
away and exotic to me! (Editor’s privilege maybe?)<br />
AWC The Philippines, in Region 10 (now), has been<br />
Robin Meloy Goldsby.<br />
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Home and Away: Circle Back Home (click to read) –<br />
Robin describes life as a series of ever-widening<br />
circles, some of which intersect, some that don’t,<br />
but most of which should be appreciated. “A good<br />
circle brings me joy: a perfect white plate holding<br />
my not-so-perfect dinner; the silver-blue irises of<br />
my daughter’s eyes; a symmetrical pancake I’ve<br />
Jane Mobille.<br />
cooked myself; a New York City bagel, unadorned.<br />
(…) Circles. Curves. Loops. They define my life.<br />
They have led me far away. They will also lead me<br />
home. Eventually. Zu Hause. Home. At Last.”<br />
Jane Mobille, our other early writer, works as a life<br />
coach, so she often uses what she has learned<br />
from this work to reflect on the theme of an issue.<br />
Our February 2018 issue had the theme Women in<br />
Sport and Fitness. Jane wrote about how some of<br />
her clients had used sport as a way to combat<br />
other issues in their lives.<br />
Sport & Fitness - Antidotes to Life’s Challenges<br />
(click to read). While telling the client stories, Jane<br />
encourages us readers to think of ways that sport<br />
and fitness could improve our own lives if we let it.<br />
“We can all take comfort in the knowledge that<br />
sport and fitness are available as a way to work<br />
through the challenges and suffering that we will<br />
face at different times in our lives. Really, aren’t<br />
they the most perfect antidotes?”<br />
musical instrument I would be..” We ended up with<br />
four pianos, four cellos, two French horns, a drum<br />
kit, a sax, a singer and a bass! (Click here to see the<br />
answers: Part 1, Part 2)<br />
I played the cello many years ago, and it can be a<br />
simply beautiful sound. So I especially like what<br />
UK-based Robin Smirnov, a singer and member of<br />
Chilterns American Women’s Club International,<br />
said about it: “I would be a cello for sure! A cello is<br />
beautiful and curvy and makes the most divine<br />
dark and powerful sounds. Girl power at its best.”<br />
Features by new members<br />
Determined to keep things fresh, in early 2018 we<br />
introduced another new feature. Called “First<br />
Take,” it was designed to give newer club members<br />
a voice in the magazine. Our first one was written<br />
by two women (Lyn Herr and Teresa Perez y<br />
Landazuri), new to their club in Hamburg,<br />
Germany, who were so enthused after attending a<br />
FAWCO fundraiser and awareness evening that<br />
they went home and organized a fundraiser<br />
themselves! The family fun run was a big success,<br />
with more than 120 participants, and raised over<br />
£2000. Click here to read: First Take<br />
Then there was my personal favourite First Take,<br />
which was written by Celeste Bennekers of AWC<br />
Antwerp. She wrote a wonderfully evocative<br />
feature about the first FAWCO event she attended,<br />
which was a glittering fundraising concert held at<br />
the Hall of Mirrors at the Paleis op der Meir in<br />
Antwerp, Belgium. I love what she says in it about<br />
a FAWCO woman from Germany she met at the<br />
concert: “Not only is she a woman of expat life –<br />
the true definition of courageous, strong and<br />
defiant – but also what I am quickly learning to be:<br />
a FAWCO woman – one who takes all that<br />
Mixing things up<br />
Towards the end of 2017, we decided it was time<br />
to mix things up a little and added a new feature<br />
to the magazine. Called “Just For Fun,” it asked the<br />
women profiled in the issue to answer an (often<br />
humorous) question such as “If you were an<br />
animal what would you be?”, “What do you want to<br />
be when you grow up?”<br />
My own favourite question came in the December<br />
2018 Women in Music issue, and was “If I were a<br />
Celeste Bennekers in the Hall of Mirrors.<br />
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knowledge and energy to transform it into<br />
something more meaningful and worthwhile than<br />
her own agenda.” Click here to read the whole<br />
article: First Take.<br />
There were two more First Take articles in total.<br />
One was about attending the 62nd Commission on<br />
the Status of Women meetings in New York for the<br />
first time, written by Karen Boeker of AWC<br />
Denmark. Click here to read: First Take. There was<br />
another about attending a first FAWCO Interim<br />
Meeting in The Hague. This was written by<br />
Rosemary Rauber from AWC Zurich, who had been<br />
invited to show her artwork, Calculated Risks, at<br />
the meeting. Click here to read: First Take.<br />
Expanding the number of features<br />
The feedback from readers on our increased<br />
number of features was very positive, so in Spring<br />
2019 we decided to look for new writers. Via posts<br />
on social media, we let FAWCO members know the<br />
types of articles we were looking for and<br />
encouraged them to send their work in to us. We<br />
were thrilled with the results.<br />
member of AIWC Cologne, it was about her<br />
experiences giving birth in her non-native country.<br />
She starts the article, “Before I begin, I’d like you to<br />
recall the most frightening thing that’s ever<br />
happened to you; something you had no control<br />
over and where the total outcome of the situation<br />
depended on someone else.” Click here to read<br />
more: “Everyone Has a Story. Welcome to Mine!”<br />
We also introduced an occasional feature called<br />
“24 Hours in….” where a local club member gives<br />
us the top tips on where to go and what to see in<br />
their adopted city or area. We have featured Paris,<br />
Luxembourg and Florence (click on place names to<br />
read) so far. If you would like to submit something<br />
about where you live, do please get in touch!<br />
By the fall of 2020 it had become clear that<br />
features would be approximately half the content<br />
of our magazine and that readers were enjoying<br />
the mix of these and the profiles. So it was time to<br />
get some help with commissioning more: enter<br />
Michele Hendrikse Du Bois!<br />
Michele:<br />
From our Travel issue of June 2019, you may<br />
remember the article written by Rebecca De<br />
Fraites about the devastating fire in the Notre<br />
Dame Cathedral in Paris. Click here to read: Paris,<br />
France: April 15, 2019 – The Fire.<br />
I also enjoyed the article by Jennifer Barnet of AWC<br />
Amsterdam, which was about some of the trials of<br />
hosting visitors as expats and had some great tips<br />
for those visitors! Click here to read: Be Our Guest.<br />
Just Don’t Let the Cat Out<br />
One of our most commented-on features was<br />
printed in the Health & Well-Being Issue in<br />
September 2019. Written by Tracie Mayer,<br />
Tracie Mayer with her son, Marc.<br />
I was thrilled to join the Inspiring Women<br />
magazine team, but I was immediately challenged<br />
by the uncertainty brought to FAWCO member<br />
clubs by COVID-19. What should we do with the<br />
new and popular feature “24 Hours in…” when it<br />
looked like no one would be travelling for a while?<br />
What about club profiles, which often focused on<br />
events – also on hold or evolving due to stay at<br />
home mandates?<br />
COVID-19 features<br />
What came out of a need to temporarily replace<br />
“24 Hours in…” is still one of my favorite visual<br />
pieces. The magazine’s theme was Visualizing a<br />
Point of View, so we asked members to submit<br />
their favorite souvenir photos. The result was<br />
Souvenirs from Across FAWCO’s World, a photo<br />
essay covering all 11 FAWCO regions and FAUSA.<br />
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Following the success of the souvenir photos, we<br />
started including a montage feature related to<br />
each issue’s theme. Sometimes these were written<br />
by an individual; others were compilations from<br />
multiple members. I particularly like our Recipes<br />
for Wellness in the May <strong>2021</strong> issue and the sister<br />
features in the September <strong>2021</strong> issue, where<br />
members of the FAWCO Human Rights Team<br />
share what justice means to them and why they<br />
are part of the Human Rights Team.<br />
When the Summer 2020 issue was produced, we<br />
all thought the COVID-19 crisis would soon end.<br />
However, as we all know, that was not to be. We<br />
found that for the next year, many features,<br />
whatever the magazine’s theme, had a COVID-19<br />
angle. We made great efforts to balance the need<br />
to address the seriousness of the situation and<br />
how it was affecting our lives with positive and<br />
optimistic articles.<br />
symbolic, uplifting or just simply beautiful help tell<br />
the stories our writers are sharing.<br />
FAWCO Member Clubs continue to inspire<br />
Throughout 2020 and <strong>2021</strong>, in true FAWCO<br />
fashion, FAWCO Member Clubs evolved and<br />
continued to offer support and activities to their<br />
members, even if those services were provided<br />
virtually. So the feature “A Club Inspires”<br />
continued, and in 2020 we visited IWC Sorrento,<br />
AWC Oslo, AWC Zurich and AWC London, and in<br />
<strong>2021</strong> AWC Perth, AWC Zurich, AWA Vienna and<br />
AWA of Kenya.<br />
Finally, for the Winter <strong>2021</strong> issue, we reintroduced<br />
“24 Hours in…” with a visit to AILO Florence. With<br />
the hope of seeing COVID-19 in the rearview<br />
mirror and travel ahead of us, we are ready for<br />
this too once again, to become a regular feature.<br />
Photos, photos and more photos<br />
Our final issue for 2020 was Sister Act: Women in<br />
Drama. As in the previous issue “Visualizing A<br />
Point of View,” the focus on drama produced<br />
fabulous photos and an increase in active links<br />
to videos.<br />
The two photograph-intensive issues generated<br />
lots of positive feedback, so we started asking for<br />
“as many photos as possible” to be submitted by<br />
each person profiled or writing a feature article.<br />
The addition of photos, whether silly, poignant,<br />
AWC London members on a trip to a peony farm in Kent.<br />
Fresh ideas – expanding our writer base<br />
In <strong>2021</strong>, we started looking at The FAWCO<br />
Foundation’s Education Award and Development<br />
Grant recipients to see if there were any<br />
connections to our themes. Of course there were!<br />
This new source added previously untapped<br />
FAWCO members and their children to our pool<br />
for profiles and as feature writers. Our first piece<br />
was by 2018 Education Award recipient Fintan<br />
Viebahn in the Women and Technology issue What<br />
is Data Privacy?<br />
We continue to look for new feature ideas and<br />
writers. For example, we were thrilled when Mary<br />
Adams offered to pen an original poem, In<br />
Character, specifically for our magazine.<br />
Starting in 2022, we are introducing “Inspiring<br />
Reads”, a short feature focused on a book written<br />
by a FAWCO or FAUSA member.<br />
Do you have an idea for a feature you would<br />
like to write or know someone who should be<br />
writing for us? Upcoming themes are<br />
announced in each current issue and are on<br />
the FAWCO website, so take a look; and if you<br />
have an idea, please contact us at<br />
inspiringwomenfeatures@fawco.org.<br />
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FEATURE<br />
The feature articles, in every issue of Inspiring Women, cover widely differing aspects of the theme of<br />
the issue. In the summer of <strong>2021</strong> the theme was Women & Wellness and Brenda Nielson sent us the<br />
following article about getting more sleep. It was one of our favorite articles of <strong>2021</strong> and a topic of<br />
importance to so many of us (!), so we thought it was worth reprinting for you here in the <strong>Highlights</strong><br />
issue. Hope it helps you to get some more sleep...<br />
“The Right Amount of Sleep is a<br />
Foundation For Living a Full and<br />
Meaningful Life.”<br />
Brenda Nielson, holistic health instructor and member of AWC<br />
Denmark, tells us about how best to get some sleep.<br />
We all know how it feels when that alarm clock<br />
rings too early or, after a poor night’s sleep we are<br />
simply not feeling at our best. So how much sleep<br />
do we really need? Babies can sleep 12-14 hours<br />
in total a day and the need falls off until the teen<br />
years. Adults need from 7.5 to 9 hours of sleep per<br />
night until around age 70, when we’ll benefit from<br />
an extra hour or so, which could be a midday nap.<br />
Teens are a bit of a special case and can be<br />
confusing and frustrating to parents because they<br />
can be full of energy one moment and the next be<br />
found in deep slumber, apparently shirking their<br />
duties. In fact, teens possess the energy and<br />
recoverability of childhood but the rapid physical,<br />
social, mental, and emotional growth of the teen<br />
years is so intense that teens need more sleep<br />
than adults – just like their grandparents. But<br />
instead of napping, however, extra night time<br />
sleep usually works best for teens.<br />
A few decades ago, it became popular for career<br />
folks to sleep six or fewer hours a night (a type of<br />
alpha-badge in our high pressure, get-it-done,<br />
faster world.) In fact, this conflicts with more<br />
recent sleep research that reveals a pattern of 90-<br />
minute sleep cycles, where we alternate between<br />
dreaming and mental processing and rapid eye<br />
movement (REM) sleep and the deeper, delta and<br />
theta wave, non-REM sleep when toxins and waste<br />
products are removed and cells repaired. Waking<br />
up in the middle of one of these cycles can cause<br />
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Suggested essential oils for sleep (see text for usage)<br />
Select a total of 5-7 drops essential oils from this list. Mix and match, according to your mood:<br />
Atlas cedarwood Cedrus atlantica (endangered,<br />
source responsibly)<br />
Clary sage Salvia sclarea<br />
Eucalyptus Eucalyptus globus (for stuffy airways)<br />
German or Blue chamomile Matricaria recutita/<br />
Matricaria chamomilla<br />
Lavender Lavendula officinalis or L. angustifolia<br />
Roman chamomile Anthemis nobilis/<br />
Chamaemelum nobile<br />
Rose Rosa damascena (strong; maximum 1-2 drops Rose otto, Rose absolute or Rose CO2 extract)<br />
Vanilla Vanilla Oleoresin, Vanilla CO2 Extract or Vanilla Absolute (do not purchase products<br />
labeled vanilla essential oil)<br />
Virginia cedarwood Juniperus virginiana<br />
Ylang ylang Cananga odorata var genuina (Extra or Complete)<br />
grogginess until that 90-minute cycle is completed.<br />
Most adults thrive on five of these 90-minute<br />
cycles per night = 450 minutes or nine hours a<br />
night, most nights. Sorry, weekend catch-up<br />
doesn’t have quite the same effect. To adjust your<br />
sleep cycle, wake up at the same time every day,<br />
including weekends. If you need more or less<br />
sleep, adjust the time that you go to bed.<br />
Occasional morning grogginess CAN be helped<br />
by caffeine but wait until around 10:00 a.m.<br />
before that cup of coffee if you want to avoid<br />
stressing your stress-sensitive adrenals and<br />
disturbing your circadian rhythms. Caffeine has a<br />
half-life of around eight hours so, for a good<br />
night’s rest, your last cup of coffee should be early<br />
to mid-afternoon.<br />
We all know about creating a relaxing and clutterfree<br />
sleep area, airing out the bedroom and the<br />
effect that blue light from computer, television<br />
and phone screens has on falling asleep. But did<br />
you also know that Feng Shui’s ideal placement of<br />
your bed should allow you to see your bedroom<br />
door; and that your head should be in the east?<br />
In the text box, I have recipes for using essential<br />
oils to wind down toward healthy sleep. Swirl 3-5<br />
drops of pure essential oils into your bath just<br />
before you get in. Or you could diffuse 3-5 drops<br />
of essential oils into your bedroom after airing<br />
out. Or you could make a room and pillow spray<br />
by adding 5-7 drops of essential oils to a 10-30 ml<br />
spray bottle that has been filled with a<br />
combination of purified water and vodka. Shake<br />
before using and make in small quantities to keep<br />
your oils fresh. My recipes are utilizing pure,<br />
therapeutic grade essential oils, but be sure to test<br />
yourself for allergies before using them.<br />
Getting the right amount of sleep is a foundation<br />
for living a full and meaningful life. Sleep needs<br />
vary from person to person and throughout our<br />
life but quality sleep can make a difference in our<br />
careers, relationships, physical and mental health<br />
and even our weight. Poor sleep hygiene could<br />
mean giving up on our goals and dreams because<br />
we lack the energy and vitality to make it happen.<br />
Love yourself enough to figure out what works for<br />
you, so you can get your best night of sleep, night<br />
after night. I wish you sweet dreams!<br />
Brenda Nielson hails from AWC Denmark. She<br />
writes and teaches about holistic health (including<br />
sleep!) and personal development based on science,<br />
tradition and the ancient mystery schools. She<br />
holds degrees in radiography, naturopathy ibm,<br />
aromatherapy and metaphysics. Sign up for her<br />
newsletter or receive an e-workbook on your sleep<br />
habits: brlyni@gmail.com using the description<br />
“Sleep.”<br />
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INSPIRING YOU<br />
Founded in 1931, FAWCO is a global women’s NGO (non-governmental<br />
organization), an international network of independent volunteer clubs and<br />
associations comprising 56 member clubs in 28 countries on six continents.<br />
FAWCO serves as a resource and a voice for its members; seeks to improve the<br />
lives of women and girls worldwide, especially in the areas of human rights,<br />
health, education and the environment; advocates for the rights of US citizens<br />
overseas; and contributes to the global community through its Global Issues<br />
Teams and The FAWCO Foundation, which provides development grants and<br />
education awards. Since 1997, FAWCO has held special consultative status with<br />
the UN Economic and Social Council.<br />
OUR MISSION STATEMENT<br />
FAWCO is an international federation of independent organizations whose<br />
mission is:<br />
• to build strong support networks for its American and international<br />
membership;<br />
• to improve the lives of women and girls worldwide;<br />
• to advocate for the rights of US citizens overseas; and<br />
• to mobilize the skills of its membership in support of global initiatives<br />
for education, the environment, health and human rights.<br />
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MORE ABOUT THIS ISSUE<br />
The Inspiring Women Team<br />
Liz Elsie Karen Berit Michele Haley<br />
For more information about this magazine, please contact a member of the Inspiring<br />
Women team:<br />
Editor-in-Chief, Liz MacNiven, inspiringwomen.editor@fawco.org<br />
Advertising and Sponsorship Manager, Elsie Bose, advertising@fawco.org<br />
Distribution Manager, Karen Boeker, iwdistribution@fawco.org<br />
Social Media Manager, Berit Torkildsen, iwsocialmedia@fawco.org<br />
Features Coordinator, Michele Hendrikse Du Bois, inspiringwomenfeatures@fawco.org<br />
Profiles Coordinator, Haley Green, inspiringwomenprofiles@fawco.org<br />
Acknowledgements:<br />
Thanks to all our 308 profilees from 60 FAWCO clubs over the last five years, with thanks also<br />
for the use of their photos and those of their friends and families.<br />
Additional thanks to the Inspiring Women team, as well as Cathy, Cynthia, Emily, Georgia,<br />
Julien, Margaret, Mary, Rick and Sallie for their additions to this special issue.<br />
Special thanks to the proofreading team of Karen Boeker (AWC Denmark), Sallie Chaballier<br />
(AAWE Paris), Janet Davis (AIWC Cologne), Mary Dobrian (AIWC Cologne), Tamar Hudson<br />
(AIWC Cologne), Janis Kaas (AAWE Paris/FAUSA), Carol-Lyn McKelvey (AIWC Cologne/FAUSA),<br />
Lauren Mescon (AWC Amsterdam), Mary Stewart Burgher (AWC Denmark) and Jenny Taylor<br />
(AIWC Cologne and AIWC Düsseldorf).<br />
Please note: images used in this publication are either sourced from the authors themselves or<br />
through canva.com.<br />
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OUR ADVERTISERS<br />
We are very grateful to our advertising partners for helping us make Inspiring Women a<br />
success. Our objective for Inspiring Women was to produce an upbeat and informative<br />
magazine that would engage members across the FAWCO world, with the hope that its popular<br />
appeal would attract advertisers. When new first started we asked our advertisers to take a<br />
leap of faith with us. They did and we have not looked back.<br />
To keep annual dues costs low, FAWCO needs revenue from outside sources. Throughout the<br />
years it has relied on advertisers and sponsors to augment its income. This revenue has<br />
allowed FAWCO to improve services and the flexibility to try the latest innovations to enhance<br />
the FAWCO experience. FAWCO’s advertising partners believe in our mission and support our<br />
goals. Some directly support our activities and projects.<br />
Over the last few years, FAWCO club members have partnered with us to advertise their<br />
products and services. EVERYONE benefits from their participation. These women are<br />
enthusiastic and bring high energy to the organization. They have much to share beyond their<br />
products and services and it is wonderful to see this group grow each year.<br />
In this special issue of Inspiring Women, we wanted to acknowledge all of FAWCO’s current<br />
advertisers. We encourage club leadership throughout the FAWCO network to share our<br />
publications with their membership. Our advertising partners have valuable products and<br />
services, and we want your members to take advantage of what they offer. Please do what you<br />
can to support them!<br />
For more information on these advertisers or if you have any questions about FAWCO’s<br />
advertising program, please contact Elsie Bose: advertising@fawco.org.<br />
with special thanks to:<br />
BetterHelp p.63<br />
Janet Darrow p.15<br />
London & Capital p.76<br />
London Realty p.58<br />
My Expat Taxes p.58<br />
Ponte Travel p.43<br />
Rodan + Fields p.34<br />
The Pajama Company p.28<br />
The Short List p.2<br />
Yummylicious Serums Paris p.63<br />
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