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<strong>Glamsquad</strong><br />

MAY <strong>2021</strong><br />

Aberdeen<br />

Fashion<br />

Week Holds<br />

Virtual Show<br />

Healthy<br />

Living:<br />

Food For<br />

Every Age<br />

<strong>Glamsquad</strong><br />

Advocacy:<br />

Is Leah<br />

Sharibu<br />

Dead or<br />

Alive?<br />

SEFI<br />

ATTA:<br />

NIGERIA’S WRITING EXPORT<br />

TO THE WORLD<br />

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Inside<br />

<strong>Glamsquad</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong><br />

<strong>May</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

HEALTH<br />

HEALTHY LIVING:<br />

Food For<br />

Every Age<br />

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8<br />

Why I<br />

Setup The<br />

Aberdeen<br />

Fashion<br />

Week<br />

- Lydia Cutler<br />

SEFI ATTA:<br />

Nigeria’s Writing Export<br />

To The World<br />

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The Team<br />

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Editor-In-chief /<br />

Publisher :<br />

Remmy Ifueko Diagbare<br />

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We pay for exclusive celebrity stories.<br />

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ur cover, this month, features Sefi Atta<br />

- the award-winning Nigerian author,<br />

playwright and screen writer from the<br />

Yoruba extraction whose books have been<br />

translated into many languages worldwide. Her<br />

plays have featured on BBC Radio and performed<br />

on international stages around the globe.<br />

Sefi started out in accountancy, qualifying as<br />

a Chartered Accountant in England, a Certified<br />

Public Accountant in the United States (her<br />

adopted home) and holds a Master of Fine Arts in<br />

Creative Writing.<br />

In this exclusive interview with <strong>Glamsquad</strong>,<br />

she shares her experience transitioning from<br />

accountancy to becoming a wordsmith, working<br />

with Kunle Afolayan on the adaptation of her<br />

book: Swallow for a forthcoming Netflix original,<br />

“The Nollywood Issue and Life as an African Writer”.<br />

Also in this edition, as part of our contribution to<br />

the Children’s Day celebration, we pay tribute to<br />

Leah Shuaibu - the brave, young girl still being held<br />

captive by Boko Haram for refusing to renounce<br />

her Christian faith and ask the question no one is<br />

answering: Is Leah Shuaibu dead or alive?<br />

See <strong>Glamsquad</strong> Advocacy and all our fashion<br />

and beauty stories packaged for your reading<br />

pleasure.<br />

Enjoy!<br />

R .<br />

Remmy Diagbare<br />

Editor - in-Chief<br />

Disclaimer:<br />

Please note that all photos used in this special digital edition of<br />

<strong>Glamsquad</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> were sourced freely online.<br />

<strong>Glamsquad</strong> maintains no rights over the images/photos, while we have<br />

tried to give appropriate credit where due, we are aware some artistes<br />

were not credited.<br />

We remain committed to supporting intellectual property and creativity.<br />

<strong>2021</strong> Tegali Communications<br />

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6 Skirt Trends You<br />

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<strong>2021</strong><br />

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FASHION<br />

6 Not Res<br />

Skirt Tren<br />

Word By Amenna Daayo<br />

Mini skirt:<br />

A mini skirt is with no doubt No. 1<br />

most fashionable skirt in <strong>2021</strong>. Yes,<br />

a mini skirt is the most fashionable<br />

spring-summer <strong>2021</strong> skirt. Any mini<br />

skirt!<br />

Mini skirts leave everyone craving<br />

for more and give your legs the<br />

freedom – and air they need.<br />

Gone are the days when people<br />

think wearing a mini makes you look<br />

trashy.<br />

For the best looks, go for fishnet,<br />

opaque stockings, or over-the-knee<br />

socks. The top can be either casual,<br />

like a T-shirt or smart-casual blouse<br />

worn underneath a cool blazer or<br />

long jacket.<br />

Long Skirts, short skirts,<br />

micro-mini skirts,<br />

regardless of the length, I<br />

just love skirts!<br />

More and more people are<br />

welcoming any opportunity to<br />

break out of my sweatpants<br />

and slip into something<br />

refreshingly different—<br />

especially as we move into a<br />

warmer season ahead.<br />

Interestingly, almost all the<br />

designers in the recent fashion<br />

shows/exhibition, including<br />

the S/S <strong>2021</strong> featured many<br />

exciting skirt trends. Now,<br />

no one can hide under<br />

the excuse that skirts look<br />

outdated or misplaced in<br />

today’s fashion landscape.<br />

For many, it feels like a lifetime<br />

since they’ve worn a skirt, but<br />

there is no doubt that all the<br />

striking skirt trends that graced<br />

the runways have captured<br />

their attention more than ever.<br />

Below, I’m sharing the six<br />

standout skirt styles that<br />

reigned on the runways and<br />

are taking over Instagram.<br />

From the prettiest sheer pieces<br />

that have us lusting for a<br />

romantic summer to the rise<br />

of the fun and frivolous micromini,<br />

check out what the new<br />

season has to offer, and don’t<br />

be left out!<br />

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ds You Should<br />

ist In <strong>2021</strong><br />

Tiered skirt<br />

Another striking trend is the<br />

Rustic skirt style! This spring,<br />

we saw tiered and ruffled<br />

skirts, whether maxi, midi,<br />

or mini, float down the<br />

runways. They smoothly<br />

penetrated the world of<br />

fashion. You can style a<br />

skirt like this with a white<br />

shirt tied in a knot.<br />

A maxi or midi skirt with<br />

ruffles looks<br />

best. It is very<br />

stylish to<br />

combine<br />

such a<br />

romantic<br />

skirt with<br />

rough<br />

boots<br />

or large<br />

sneakers.<br />

Wrap-up skirt<br />

The wrap skirt is perhaps the easiest option to<br />

style. It will perfectly match everything from a<br />

white shirt to a printed T-shirt, so feel free to pair<br />

it with your favorite items.<br />

Remember that if you have a full belly or<br />

thighs, the wrap knot will add volume to your<br />

figure, so you shouldn’t choose this skirt.<br />

Line up the skirt with your waist or hips. Some<br />

people prefer to wear wrap skirts at their<br />

natural waist, while others like to secure them<br />

around their hips. Whatever your preference, a<br />

wrap-up skirt got you covered!<br />

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Denim skirt<br />

Denim never gets out of<br />

fashion! Even the denim skirts<br />

pattern of the 90s are as trendy<br />

as ever. One of the hottest<br />

trends is pairing a denim skirt<br />

with a denim shirt, although<br />

you can never go wrong with<br />

denim no matter what you<br />

wear it with.<br />

Denim skirts are good because<br />

they fit perfectly almost all<br />

body types.<br />

Cut-out<br />

skirt<br />

You may have thought of the<br />

average leg cut on the skirt, but<br />

you’re mistaken. The Cut-out skirt<br />

has us feeling our 90s festival<br />

fantasy.<br />

Be careful with the cut-out skirts<br />

because they can be tricky to<br />

wear, but you will have to figure out<br />

which styles flatter your figure and<br />

trust me, you will love yourself more<br />

when you get the perfect piece for<br />

your figure.<br />

Skirts with cut-outs at the top – on<br />

the waistline or the hips – are a<br />

huge trend this season. The boldest<br />

fashionistas even wear special<br />

thong panties that pop out at the<br />

top of the skirt.<br />

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FASHION<br />

Knitted skirt<br />

Knitted skirts are demanding their right of place and<br />

deservedly so! They should be worn by those who do<br />

not have problems with the hips because the knitted<br />

skirt draws attention to them very much. If you have a<br />

non-standard figure, where the hips are wider than the<br />

top, it is better to choose a-line skirts.<br />

If you have an hourglass figure, this skirt will be the best<br />

option.<br />

Wear a knit skirt with a draped sleeved sweater, a<br />

short-sleeved sweater, a roll neck, or a chunky sweater.<br />

Whichever your choice, be sure to get the best!<br />

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SEFI<br />

ATTA:<br />

Nigeria’s Writing<br />

Export To The World<br />

Words by Ifueko Diagbare<br />

Atta is the author of novels Everything Good Will Come, Swallow, A Bit of<br />

Difference and The Bead Collector; a short-story collection, News From<br />

Home; a children’s book, Drama Queen; and Sefi Atta: Selected Plays.<br />

She recently co-wrote a forthcoming Netflix original movie adaptation of her<br />

novel, Swallow, with Kunle Afolayan.<br />

In this exclusive interview with the <strong>Glamsquad</strong>, she shares her experience of<br />

working with Afolayan and talks about her next play, Ikoyi Girl, and her latest<br />

novel, The Bad Immigrant, which will be published in <strong>2021</strong>.<br />

She lives in the USA with her husband and daughter.<br />

First, I want to thank you<br />

for granting this interview.<br />

It is indeed a privilege. You<br />

started out as an accountant<br />

and qualified as a chartered<br />

accountant and CPA. How did<br />

you transition from numbers<br />

to letters, and when did you<br />

realise you had a flair for<br />

writing?<br />

Thank you for interviewing me.<br />

I am honoured. I transitioned by<br />

learning my craft – for example,<br />

I studied for a Master of Fine Arts<br />

in Creative Writing. I wrote oneact<br />

plays at first, but I couldn’t<br />

get them produced in Lagos.<br />

This was during Abacha’s regime,<br />

when not much was happening<br />

on the theatre scene. I was<br />

living in Mississippi at the time,<br />

so I entered radio plays for the<br />

BBC’s African Performance<br />

competition. Two of them won<br />

prizes and they were broadcast<br />

internationally. It was wonderful<br />

to reach such a wide audience<br />

early in my career. After that,<br />

I published my debut novel<br />

Everything Good Will Come,<br />

which was followed by a second<br />

novel, Swallow, and a collection<br />

of short stories titled News From<br />

Home. I returned to stage plays<br />

when theatre finally picked up<br />

again in Lagos. I honestly can’t<br />

describe this as having a flair.<br />

What I have is a keen interest in<br />

telling stories in different forms.<br />

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When you look back on your journey<br />

from 2005, when you published<br />

Everything Good Will Come, to the<br />

awards and accolades you have<br />

received for your novels, short stories,<br />

plays and screenplays, what passes<br />

through your mind? Do you wish you<br />

had started writing earlier and not<br />

worked as an accountant first?<br />

No. I’m grateful for those years. For a<br />

start they gave me stories, which I have<br />

recreated and shared. They also gave<br />

me conflict, which was necessary. I may<br />

never have become a writer had I been<br />

fully satisfied with the corporate life. I’m<br />

even glad I was bored with it because<br />

my mind often wandered while I was at<br />

work, which only gave me more stories to<br />

tell.<br />

“<br />

I’m still the girl who<br />

believed she was<br />

equal to boys, while<br />

observing that men<br />

and women were<br />

expected to behave<br />

differently.<br />

Your work also offers perspectives on<br />

neocolonialism and a witty look at the<br />

intersection between African cultures<br />

and those of the Western world. For<br />

someone who was born and raised in<br />

Nigeria, and who has also spent most<br />

of her adult life immersed in Western<br />

culture, which would you say has the<br />

greater appeal, and do you achieve<br />

your intended purpose in choosing this<br />

theme as a frame for your stories?<br />

I wouldn’t say either has a greater<br />

appeal, but the duality you refer to is<br />

a force that drives my narratives. My<br />

Nigerian identity came first and I haven’t<br />

lost it. I’m still the girl who believed she<br />

was equal to boys, while observing<br />

that men and women were expected<br />

to behave differently. My education<br />

and accountancy career in England<br />

broadened my consciousness because<br />

I was regarded as a black foreigner<br />

there. Now that I live in the United States,<br />

where racial and other identities are<br />

constantly discussed, the language of<br />

such discourse puts my experiences<br />

in perspective. My migration certainly<br />

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informs some of my stories, but not all<br />

of them.<br />

You are a prolific writer, and you seem<br />

to flow fluidly from writing novels to<br />

short stories, plays and screenplays.<br />

How are you able to wear these<br />

different hats, and with such effortless<br />

élan?<br />

I hope I’m not giving that impression.<br />

I work very hard on my craft, as many<br />

other writers do. I am just compelled<br />

to tell stories, and I tell them in any<br />

form I can. Plays are my favourite and<br />

screenplays come next, now that I’ve<br />

written a few. I thoroughly enjoy writing<br />

dialogue.<br />

Let’s talk about your new<br />

collaboration with Kunle Afolayan.<br />

Your novel Swallow is going to be<br />

produced as a film for Netflix. That<br />

must be an exciting proposition. How<br />

much of the novel was infused into<br />

the movie, and were you able to<br />

retain your voice as you co-wrote the<br />

script with him?<br />

The screenplay focuses on Tolani’s<br />

journey alone. The novel is about<br />

her mother’s journey as well, but we<br />

couldn’t include that in the film. Our<br />

collaboration was exciting enough for<br />

me. Then Kunle signed the deal with<br />

Netflix, which was fantastic. I had to<br />

stay focused on developing the script<br />

with him, though. With a collaboration,<br />

writers have to give up full control in<br />

the interest of harmony, but it helps to<br />

work with a partner who understands<br />

storytelling well. Kunle has been in the<br />

business for as long as I have, and we<br />

have mutual trust and respect.<br />

What was the experience like, and<br />

were you involved in selecting the<br />

cast? Who for instance did you have<br />

in mind to play Tolani Ajao?<br />

We had a lot of fun and we were<br />

very much in sync. Kunle would say<br />

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something like, “You know that part where such<br />

and such happens,” and I would know why he<br />

had reservations because I’d had them myself.<br />

He would come up with an idea and I would<br />

say, “Please give me time to think about it.” By<br />

the next day, I would be in agreement, or at<br />

least open to making changes. After we finished<br />

the script, I let go. He sent me stills now and<br />

then, but I wasn’t involved in the production. I<br />

don’t even know how the film will be edited.<br />

What is your opinion on the quality of movies<br />

produced by Nigerians?<br />

Kunle wasn’t the first director I worked with.<br />

He wasn’t even the first director I talked to about<br />

Swallow, but he was the first to make things<br />

happen. I’m relatively new to the industry, but<br />

I’ve followed the progression of Nollywood for<br />

years. There is a lot of talent. However, people<br />

aren’t always in the right roles. We have writers,<br />

producers, actors and directors who are not<br />

skilled at what they do, so the standard isn’t<br />

always consistent. The joy, of course, is seeing<br />

our lives play out on screen and, for better or<br />

worse, I can’t look away.<br />

From this experience, how would you suggest<br />

the industry should move forward and be an<br />

alternative voice pushing the black narrative?<br />

I see Nollywood as an additional, rather than<br />

alternative voice for the black narrative. We<br />

need better scripts – of international standard.<br />

We need to take time to develop scripts. It<br />

shouldn’t be the norm to churn them out in a<br />

matter of days. We need script readers who can<br />

recognise good writing. In general, we need<br />

people in the industry to find what they’re good<br />

at doing, stick to it and develop their skills. When<br />

that happens, the synergy will be amazing.<br />

Let’s also talk about your other projects – your<br />

forthcoming novel, The Bad Immigrant, and<br />

your monologue, Ikoyi Girl.<br />

What is the novel about? What inspired it and<br />

what would you want the reader to come<br />

away with?<br />

I’d been living in the United States for<br />

about ten years and I had a lot to say about<br />

my experiences there. Once I found the right<br />

voice, I was able to draft The Bad Immigrant. I<br />

wrote it from the perspective of a Nigerian man<br />

who was reluctant to migrate to America, but<br />

ended up doing so for the sake of his family. As<br />

the book description states, the novel exposes<br />

the realities of migration, such as the strains of<br />

adjustment and the stifling pressure to conform<br />

without loss of identity. It covers a wide range<br />

of issues, including interracial and interracial<br />

tensions, and familial stresses exacerbated in a<br />

new environment. With every novel I’ve written, I<br />

would like readers to think they’ve spent time with<br />

people, rather than fictional characters. This one<br />

will be published in the US in November <strong>2021</strong>.<br />

What is the subject of the monologue? What is<br />

your intention for it?<br />

I drafted Ikoyi Girl in 2019, with the intention<br />

of staging it in Nigeria. It is set in contemporary<br />

Lagos, before the COVID-19 pandemic and<br />

SARS protests, and it introduces a new voice<br />

to Nigerian theatre – a millennial who is a selfconfessed<br />

product of her elitist society. She gives<br />

an account of unhappy events in her life, at the<br />

end admitting that she is fortunate nonetheless.<br />

Her ability to satirise Lagos society makes for<br />

comedic moments, but her failure to admit<br />

her complicity in the problems of that society<br />

is tragic. It’s a work-in-progress. I’m hoping it will<br />

eventually be produced for the stage, but in the<br />

meantime a fellow writer, Chibundu Onuzo, has<br />

read it online.<br />

You had said in one interview that you were no<br />

longer going to explore the African woman/<br />

girl crafting her own liberation from social<br />

expectations. Is The Bad Immigrant a deviation<br />

from feminist narrative?<br />

I was referring to Everything Good Will<br />

Come, which has a feminist narrative. I have<br />

revisited the girl/woman conflict in other books,<br />

but my stories are not feminist stories. I’m not<br />

consciously bound to ideology while I am writing.<br />

My characters say whatever they want to say<br />

and do whatever they want to do. I choose my<br />

narrators carefully, though, as I have to be able<br />

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“<br />

In general, we need<br />

people in the industry to<br />

find what they’re good<br />

at doing, stick to it and<br />

develop their skills.<br />

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to spend time with them. The<br />

Bad Immigrant is my first male<br />

protagonist, so you could say<br />

I’ve transitioned yet again – in a<br />

sense.<br />

Finally, you need to tell me<br />

about yourself. What is your<br />

fashion obsession? Also, apart<br />

from your books, what other<br />

books inspire you or what do<br />

you relax with?<br />

I read plays, which is unusual.<br />

People generally don’t read<br />

plays. I read everything from the<br />

canonical works to modern and<br />

contemporary playwrights. I’m<br />

not fashion conscious, but I do<br />

admire people who have style.<br />

My mother religiously bought<br />

copies of Vogue and Harper’s<br />

Bazaar, and I would pore over<br />

the photos and articles. She<br />

worked as a model while she<br />

was a student in London. My<br />

aunt, Shade Thomas, was one<br />

of Nigeria’s first fashion designers<br />

and she trained at Central Saint<br />

Martins. They were glamorous<br />

young women. I never was,<br />

and these days I spend most<br />

of my time in black polyester<br />

Adidas-inspired active wear<br />

from Walmart. That’s my writing<br />

uniform. I only make an effort<br />

with my appearance when I go<br />

out. I’ve taken to wrapping my<br />

hair up in Ankara head ties of<br />

late, because I’m transitioning<br />

my locks to grey.<br />

What is your most expensive<br />

splurge? You don’t need to<br />

reveal the price if you don’t<br />

wish to, but what is it that you<br />

would splurge on and the price<br />

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wouldn’t matter?<br />

It’s hard to say, as my<br />

expensive is someone else’s<br />

cheap and vice versa. I<br />

remember bargains more.<br />

I once bought a beautifully<br />

sculpted Yohji Yamamoto<br />

skirt from a discount store in<br />

Mississippi. I’m still proud of that<br />

find. It cost $20.<br />

“<br />

I may never have<br />

become a writer had<br />

I been fully satisfied<br />

with the corporate<br />

life.<br />

What is your greatest pleasure?<br />

Or what is it that gives you the<br />

greatest pleasure – apart from<br />

your daughter, husband and<br />

your writing? Notice I put your<br />

child first. Did I put them in the<br />

correct order of importance?<br />

My husband and daughter<br />

are important to me in different<br />

ways, and ordinary family<br />

moments give me great<br />

pleasure. I love to eat – with my<br />

family, especially. My husband<br />

makes the best barbecues. My<br />

daughter is an expert at finding<br />

unusual restaurants, but we<br />

haven’t eaten out in over a year<br />

because of the pandemic.<br />

Last question. What advice<br />

would you give to young or<br />

indeed to older women like<br />

me who have one thousand<br />

and one story ideas in their<br />

head, but don’t have a clue<br />

about how to put the ideas on<br />

paper?<br />

Study the craft of creative<br />

writing, as I did, and keep going.<br />

If writing stories is that important<br />

to you, you will get them done,<br />

one way or another. I don’t<br />

even have an agent but, with<br />

a handful of supporters and<br />

an independent publisher, I’ve<br />

managed to sustain my career.<br />

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Aberdeen<br />

Fashion Week<br />

<strong>2021</strong> to Hold<br />

Virtually From<br />

28-30 <strong>May</strong><br />

Words by Sebastiane Ebatamehi<br />

Save the date! Aberdeen<br />

Fashion Week <strong>2021</strong> will<br />

take place from Friday<br />

28 <strong>May</strong> to Sunday 30<br />

<strong>May</strong> <strong>2021</strong>.<br />

Due to the ongoing restrictions<br />

associated with the pandemic,<br />

this year’s show will be held<br />

virtually, but organizers and<br />

partners of the high-profile event<br />

have promised that it will be<br />

bigger, better, and live up to the<br />

hype!<br />

With virtual back-to-back shows,<br />

viewers all over the world will have<br />

a dose of a digital multi-sensory<br />

showcase experience.<br />

The show organizers - Lydia<br />

Cutler, Claire Tough, Ali Campbell,<br />

Sean Duncan, Clair Clark, Madiha<br />

Iqbal & Fay Hardy have worked<br />

very hard and are ready to host<br />

the world.<br />

Speaking about the highly<br />

anticipated event, the Managing<br />

Director of Aberdeen Fashion<br />

Week, Ms. Lydia Cutler said they<br />

are looking forward to another<br />

bigger and even better show in<br />

October, assuming events will be<br />

allowed then.<br />

Fashion lovers & buyers can<br />

follow the <strong>Glamsquad</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

across the various online platforms<br />

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or the official handles of the event to get<br />

real-time updates of Aberdeen Fashion Week.<br />

Other publicity partners include; World Fashion<br />

Media News (USA) and Ganap TV (Philippines).<br />

A few names to showcase at the digital<br />

show include;<br />

Angela Thouless - Tribe All (Scotland), Susan<br />

Anne Petty - Dacoot Creations (Scotland),<br />

Scott MacLeod - Kiss My Kunst (Scotland),<br />

Lydia Cutler - Kemunto Fashions (Scotland),<br />

Jade Duffield - Jade Elizabeth (Scotland),<br />

Alison Bruce - Flower & Willow World<br />

(Scotland),<br />

Wobia Wovareri - Wobia Clothing &<br />

Accessories (England),<br />

Inger Helen Vorley - The Fountain (Scotland),<br />

Lee Carnegie- Triple Aces LAC (Scotland),<br />

Raya Kovacheva - Raya Kovacheva<br />

Jewellery (Scotland),<br />

Bench Bello - BWear Manila (Philippines),<br />

John Guarnes - John Guarnes Atelier<br />

(Philippines),<br />

Mohammed F Noori - Fadnoori Couture<br />

(Pakistan),<br />

Linda Mirembe - Linmirr Accessories<br />

(England),<br />

Cameron Traa- Traa Clothing (Scotland),<br />

Marianne Mwiki - Culture Inspired<br />

(Scotland),<br />

Sole Koi - Akita Arigato (USA),<br />

Omama Masood – Aura (Pakistan),<br />

Vandana Evanna - Evanna Fashion<br />

House (Singapore),<br />

Coralsjewelslaces (England),<br />

GIFT University - Student Thesis Collection<br />

(Pakistan),<br />

National Textile University - NTU (Pakistan),<br />

and many more.<br />

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For the very first time, this<br />

year’s virtual show shall welcome<br />

international fashion professional,<br />

Muhammad Fawad Noori, who will<br />

be talking about his new trackable<br />

dress, this dress was sponsored by Kia<br />

Motors, Korea.<br />

Vandana Evanna from Singapore<br />

will also be talking about her new<br />

book on how to sell fashion.<br />

The show also welcomes Chris<br />

Patterson, the Aberdeen music artist<br />

who made the Aberdeen Fashion<br />

Week theme song. He will be<br />

performing with his band during the<br />

Digital Fashion Week, other performers<br />

to include; Ulianka Maksymiuk,<br />

multi-award-winning artist, Babugee<br />

Omosayansi Music Artist & Felix<br />

Omondi, Comedian from Kenya, and<br />

lastly but not least, music artist Marisa<br />

Di Muro from London. Southstreet24<br />

has also allowed our designers to use<br />

their music for the videos.<br />

The show is a huge opportunity for<br />

all creative professionals from around<br />

the globe to showcase on a global<br />

platform.<br />

Mark your calendars people, thank<br />

us later!<br />

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INTERVIEW<br />

Why I<br />

Setup The<br />

Aberdeen<br />

Fashion<br />

Week<br />

- Lydia Cutler<br />

L<br />

ydia Cutler is originally from Kenya, she<br />

also lived in India, Australia and the UK. She<br />

moved to England in 2000 for her Masters in<br />

education in Leeds where she met her exhusband.<br />

She eventually moved to Aberdeen<br />

in Scotland in 2001 where she founded the Aberdeen<br />

Fashion Week which is celebrating its 8th edition<br />

virtually this year.<br />

Lydia has been sketching clothes since the age of<br />

7 and learnt tailoring in Junior Secondary school. A<br />

magazine with bridal dresses which someone brought<br />

into her home sparked a keen interest in fashion<br />

design in her. Even though she went into teaching<br />

as a career, fashion design gradually became her<br />

work and great joy in life. Her label Kemunto Fashions<br />

which she started in Australia received great success.<br />

Lydia showcased her collections in fashion weeks<br />

in London and New York City. She won several<br />

awards in Paris and London. She started a bridal<br />

shop in Australia and travelled to various countries to<br />

showcase her wedding dresses.<br />

She now owns a Bridal Salon ,which carries<br />

bridal gowns for sale and rental, evening wear and<br />

crochet wear in a picturesque village, Peterculter, in<br />

Aberdeenshire country, in Scotland.<br />

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What’s Aberdeen Fashion<br />

Week all about?<br />

Aberdeen Fashion Week is a<br />

fashion trade show that caters for<br />

fashion designers worldwide; we<br />

showcase the latest fashion trends<br />

from designers to buyers and<br />

fashion lovers. I started Aberdeen<br />

Fashion Week in 2013<br />

How many designers typically<br />

take part, and is it an African<br />

Fashion Week showcasing African<br />

designers?<br />

We don’t have an actual<br />

number as we invite designers via<br />

a designer call advert on Social<br />

Media; designers interested then<br />

get in touch with us. We also<br />

have several return designers that<br />

showcase yearly.<br />

How has the covid pandemic<br />

impact the Fashion Week, and<br />

what is the future for fashion post<br />

covid:?<br />

Due to the pandemic, we have<br />

now moved on to do fashion week<br />

digitally; this is not the same as<br />

seeing models on the runway. We<br />

now have to showcase via the new<br />

norm of the online showcase.<br />

Tell us about the upcoming<br />

fashion week. How many<br />

designers and what’s going to<br />

happen during the shows?<br />

The following shows are on 29-<br />

30 <strong>May</strong> <strong>2021</strong>. Presently, we have<br />

19 designers, but all together, 35<br />

designers have shown interest and<br />

are yet to apply.<br />

The shows will broadcast via<br />

our Facebook group: Aberdeen<br />

Fashion Week, and our YouTube<br />

channel Fashion Art Media TV.<br />

How many designers are<br />

participating? Put us through pre<br />

and post-event?<br />

We have 19 designers presently,<br />

but this number is bound to rise.<br />

What is the outcome of the<br />

shows. Do you have buyer’s<br />

coming? Do participating<br />

designers get orders, and<br />

what happens after in terms of<br />

commerce?<br />

We have invited buyers from<br />

small boutiques to watch online<br />

and get in touch with designers<br />

interested in their collections.<br />

What’s the message you will<br />

like to pass on to your followers<br />

about this show?<br />

Please subscribe to our YouTube<br />

channel or Facebook page to<br />

watch the shows, mark dates on<br />

your calendars to watch the event.<br />

Can we meet the showcasing<br />

designers?<br />

Designers showcasing are from<br />

Scotland, England, Pakistan, the<br />

Philippines & the USA. All designers<br />

have their interviews presently on<br />

our YouTube channel, Fashion<br />

Art Media & our website www.<br />

aberdeenfashionweek.org. There,<br />

you will get their contact details<br />

too.<br />

How do you get funding to<br />

organize the show, and how do<br />

you plan to get into mainstream<br />

fashion?<br />

Designers pay a fee to<br />

showcase; this is what we use<br />

to organize the shows; we are,<br />

however, looking for sponsors<br />

to make our show even more<br />

significant. We already are<br />

mainstream fashion since some of<br />

our designers have sold to buyers<br />

for the mass market.<br />

Tell us a bit about your<br />

background and what is the<br />

plans for the fashion week?<br />

I am a multi-award-winning<br />

fashion designer originally from<br />

Kenya, now living in Scotland. My<br />

commercial fashion design career<br />

started in Perth, Australia, in 2008.<br />

After showcasing in many fashion<br />

weeks globally, I decided to start<br />

Aberdeen Fashion Week here in<br />

Scotland. I recognized its need,<br />

mainly because Aberdeen City is<br />

the Capital of Oil & Gas in Europe,<br />

expatriate families were missing<br />

out on the latest fashion trends.<br />

We intend to continue building<br />

fashion week to a bigger and<br />

higher level. My colleagues<br />

are versatile; they work with<br />

international models, designers,<br />

media personalities and buyers in<br />

the most gracious way; we love<br />

what we do.<br />

How can people take part in<br />

the shows and where can one<br />

get tickets to attend?<br />

We are always looking for new<br />

creatives and models; they can<br />

get in touch via our website www.<br />

aberdeenfashionweek.org or<br />

Social Media, Facebook, and<br />

Instagram.<br />

A word to our readers on<br />

Fashion Week and what they<br />

should expect?<br />

Please, make sure to watch our<br />

Digital Fashion Week showcase; it is<br />

online, you don’t have to leave the<br />

comfort of your home, and it is free<br />

of charge to watch-dates: 29-30<br />

<strong>May</strong> <strong>2021</strong>.<br />

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BEAUTY<br />

HOW TO MASTER<br />

MAKEUP LOOKS FOR<br />

EVERY AGE<br />

Words by Glory Live<br />

THE BEST MAKEUP<br />

TIPS FOR the 20s<br />

Makeup Tip #1: Opt for<br />

sheer coverage. An everyday<br />

makeup mistake is using a<br />

heavy foundation when you<br />

don’t need it. It’s an easy trap<br />

to fall into—assuming that the<br />

more your foundation covers,<br />

the more perfect your skin will<br />

look.<br />

Makeup Tip #2: Color<br />

correct dark circles under the<br />

eye. If you notice dark circles in<br />

your 20s (hello, sleepless nights!),<br />

you can use a colour-correcting<br />

concealer to disguise them.<br />

Makeup Tip #3: Embrace<br />

illumination. Highlighters of every<br />

shade and texture imaginable<br />

are all the rage, and if you’re in<br />

your 20s, you’re in luck.<br />

First, let’s start with the facts: first,<br />

no rule says your age should<br />

dictate what makeup you wear.<br />

Second, if your goal is to look<br />

younger longer, there are a few<br />

makeup tips that can help (or<br />

murder) your cause.<br />

As we age, skin can lose<br />

elasticity, firmness, and radiance<br />

due to hereditary and<br />

environmental factors –<br />

especially in these parts.<br />

While a proper skincare routine is<br />

paramount to keeping skin<br />

looking youthful, an ill-fitting<br />

makeup routine may not be<br />

doing you any favors in the youth<br />

department. Just as different<br />

skincare products and skincare<br />

routines suit people of different<br />

ages, how you do your makeup<br />

should depend mainly on your<br />

age. If you think back to 10 years<br />

ago, chances are you aren’t<br />

wearing your makeup the same<br />

way and with good reason.<br />

What works in terms of eye<br />

makeup, face makeup, and lip<br />

color for a woman in her 20s<br />

may not be right for a woman in<br />

her 40s, and vice versa. Instead<br />

of guessing how to do your<br />

makeup the best way for your<br />

age, follow our handy-dandy<br />

tips. We’re sharing the best<br />

makeup tips to use when you’re<br />

in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s+<br />

right here—right now!<br />

So, grab yourself a glass of wine<br />

and read away…<br />

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MAKEUP TIPS<br />

FOR the 30s<br />

Makeup Tip #1: Wear matte<br />

finishes. As pretty as shimmer<br />

can be, it isn’t always the most<br />

flattering in action. If you’ve started<br />

to notice fine lines and wrinkles<br />

forming, you’ll want to steer clear<br />

of products with lots of shimmers.<br />

Otherwise, the shimmer can draw<br />

attention to things you’d prefer to<br />

distract from, like wrinkles. Stick<br />

with matte face powder and<br />

foundation to play it safe.<br />

Makeup Tip #2: Choose<br />

lightweight concealer. It can<br />

be oh-so-tempting to cake on<br />

concealer to cover up all of your<br />

complexion concerns, but you’ll be<br />

better off applying a lightweight<br />

concealer with a light hand. The<br />

more concealer you wear, the<br />

more likely it is to crease and settle<br />

into wrinkles.<br />

Makeup Tip #3: Define with<br />

contour powder. With age, skin can<br />

start to lose its firmness and sag.<br />

While you can’t get rid of sagging<br />

skin, you can use a contour<br />

powder to fake a more sculpted<br />

look.<br />

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TIPS FOR the 40s<br />

Makeup Tip #1: Always use a primer.<br />

As you get older, you may notice that<br />

applying makeup is becoming increasingly<br />

challenging. That’s often due to changing<br />

the texture of your skin. If it isn’t completely<br />

smooth, makeup may not go on quite as<br />

easily. That’s why you should consider using<br />

a primer.<br />

Makeup Tip #2: Fill in your brows. Thick<br />

brows are more popular than ever, but<br />

they aren’t always easy to achieve as you<br />

age. Thankfully, you can lean on eyebrow<br />

makeup for help. Give your brows a quick<br />

swipe of brow mascara.<br />

Makeup Tip #3: Skip harsh eyeliner. For<br />

older eyes, thick or overly harsh eyeliner isn’t<br />

your friend. Skip liquid eyeliner, which can<br />

be hard to create a soft effect with, and use<br />

a pencil you can smudge out.<br />

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THE BEST MAKEUP TIPS FOR 50s+<br />

Makeup Tip #1: The fifties and on used to be about<br />

finely traced brows, lips, and a poreless powder finish.<br />

Nowadays, you’ll see less of the makeup looks of yesteryear<br />

and more celebration of natural skin, since women in<br />

their sixties have been polled as having the highest selfconfidence<br />

of any age range -- now that’s something to<br />

celebrate!<br />

Makeup Tip #2: As matte, full-coverage finishes tend<br />

to age the skin and make harsh lines appear more severe;<br />

50+ women are opting for light, radiant coverage in the<br />

way of a skin-plumping tinted moisturizer or BB Cream.<br />

Makeup Tip #3: Overall, they’re choosing creamy,<br />

skin-healthy fruit makeup formulas, with powder only<br />

added as needed to reduce shine spots. A return to the<br />

dewy, fresh-faced glow of youth is the goal here: there’s no<br />

better way to do it than to keep skin healthy, hydrated, and<br />

unhindered.<br />

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WELLNESS<br />

HEALTHY LIVING:<br />

Food For Every Age<br />

20S, 30S, 40S, 50+<br />

Words by Amenna Dayo<br />

It’s common sense that<br />

food is what ultimately<br />

keeps you strong, healthy,<br />

and functioning at peak<br />

performance for your best<br />

life ever.<br />

But what you ate in your<br />

twenties may not be what<br />

your body needs as you<br />

hit your thirties, forties,<br />

and fifties. From hormonal<br />

changes to bone density,<br />

things change from one<br />

decade to the next—and<br />

that’s putting it lightly.<br />

Learning how to feed your<br />

body properly as you grow<br />

older can prevent diseases<br />

and other unnecessary<br />

complications from arising.<br />

The goal here is to live a<br />

long, happy, and healthy<br />

life, which is why we’ve<br />

identified the dietary<br />

building blocks to help you<br />

age well, one decade at<br />

a time! And after you learn<br />

what to turn to, make sure<br />

you steer clear of these<br />

20 Foods That Age You 20<br />

Years!<br />

The 20S - Foods That Are Best For<br />

Individuals In This Age Range Include:<br />

Protein: From chicken to steak,<br />

protein is an essential building block.<br />

When you’re in your twenties, you’re still<br />

growing and often burning the candle<br />

at both ends.<br />

Complex Carbohydrates: Complex<br />

carbohydrates like sweet potatoes,<br />

quinoa, and brown rice are great for<br />

sustainable energy, especially in your<br />

twenties when<br />

you’re<br />

super<br />

active.<br />

sweet potaotes<br />

Nuts and Seeds: These foods<br />

come packed with everything you<br />

need, from vitamin A to<br />

zinc. Plus, there’s a<br />

healthy dose of<br />

antioxidants,<br />

fats,<br />

protein, and<br />

phytonutrients.<br />

nuts & seeds<br />

20 s<br />

Calcium-Rich Foods:<br />

Calcium-rich foods include<br />

sesame seeds, dark leafy<br />

greens, oranges, broccoli,<br />

and calcium-fortified<br />

foods like cereal and<br />

bread.<br />

bread<br />

Hormone-<br />

Balancing<br />

Foods: Boosting<br />

your diet with<br />

foods that balance<br />

your hormones and yoghurt<br />

keep you hydrated can<br />

make<br />

sure you glow and prevent blemishes. I<br />

recommend foods like blueberries, yoghurt,<br />

walnuts, and oatmeal.<br />

Liver Cleansers: Cleansing the<br />

liver with lemon juice, garlic, and<br />

onions can go a long way with<br />

keeping you healthy in the long run,<br />

despite the desire to enjoy the parties<br />

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30 s<br />

The 30s - Foods that are best for<br />

individuals in this age range include:<br />

Super Foods: Superfoods are<br />

essential, especially olive oil.<br />

They’re rich in polyphenols, which<br />

are powerful brain-protective<br />

antioxidants. Coconut oil, wild<br />

salmon, blueberries, turmeric, eggs,<br />

dandelion greens, and walnuts are<br />

all just the shortlist that yields peak<br />

performance benefits.<br />

coconut oil<br />

Vitamin E: Avocados and pine nuts<br />

are rich in vitamin E, which is vital for<br />

reproduction; they increase male<br />

fertility and reduce miscarriages<br />

because they help regulate the<br />

menstrual cycle.<br />

avocados<br />

eggs<br />

Iron:<br />

You need iron<br />

to have healthy red blood<br />

cells; without it, you can<br />

become anaemic and feel<br />

tired all the time. You need<br />

foods such as dried beans,<br />

eggs, yolks, liver, lean red<br />

meat, poultry, salmon, tuna,<br />

oysters, almonds, and whole<br />

grains.<br />

Antioxidants: To keep<br />

this natural ageing process<br />

as slow as possible, eat tons<br />

of antioxidants. Berries, tropical<br />

fruit, colourful vegetables, and green leafy<br />

vegetables are among the most antioxidantrich<br />

foods you could grab to look and feel<br />

youthful.<br />

Fatty Fish and<br />

Eggs: Foods<br />

that can<br />

promote the<br />

maintenance of<br />

fish<br />

balanced hormones<br />

are essential. Fatty fish and<br />

eggs filled with healthy fats and vitamin D,<br />

both of which can help boost your hormones.<br />

Veggies: Eat<br />

lots of colourful<br />

veggies to<br />

ensure your<br />

bodies can still<br />

handle issues relating to high cortisol<br />

levels and fat storage from stress.<br />

vegetables<br />

Folic Acid: Carol Cottrill, a<br />

nutritional consultant and author,<br />

recommends low-sugar fortified<br />

cereal, as they offer iron and folic<br />

acid in one bowl. (For lunch, have<br />

some leafy greens, which are full<br />

of folic acid and antioxidants!)<br />

lemon<br />

Low-Fat Dairy: The bottom line is you start<br />

losing bone mass after 35—so you must<br />

consume enough calcium. I recommend<br />

low-fat choices like milk, cheese, yoghurt and<br />

cottage cheese.<br />

cheese<br />

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40 s Fermented Foods: A daily serving of<br />

sauerkraut, kimchi, kefir, sour pickles,<br />

kombucha, or live culture yoghurt can<br />

help balance your gut bacteria.<br />

Natural Phytoestrogens: By the time you<br />

soy<br />

The 40S - Foods<br />

That Are Best For<br />

Individuals In This<br />

Age Range Include<br />

reach your forties—and as long as you haven’t had breast cancer<br />

or some other condition that would encourage you to keep your<br />

estrogen levels low—eat more foods natural phytoestrogens (plantbased<br />

estrogen) like soy and cruciferous vegetables.<br />

pepper<br />

Bright Foods and<br />

Veggies: As a rule of<br />

thumb, the brighter the<br />

fruit or veggie, the more<br />

antioxidants. So,<br />

think blueberries,<br />

strawberries, oranges,<br />

beets, peppers, and<br />

more!<br />

Omega-3: Ensure<br />

adequate omega-3<br />

intake to control<br />

inflammation and<br />

to keep your body<br />

performing at its<br />

peak. I recommend<br />

3g-5g of liquid fish oil<br />

daily to prevent this.<br />

Heart-Healthy Foods: Garlic,<br />

onions, leek, turmeric, olives,<br />

flaxseed oil, and green<br />

leafy veggies<br />

are among<br />

the best<br />

foods for<br />

this.<br />

garlic<br />

Whole Grains: Eat unrefined<br />

whole grains like whole wheat,<br />

brown rice, and oats to help keep<br />

blood pressure and cholesterol<br />

checked. They aid digestion and<br />

make you feel<br />

full on less<br />

food.<br />

brown<br />

rice<br />

Coconut: Coconut is rich in fibre,<br />

helps fight Candida Albicans, fungi<br />

viruses, and bacteria, and the fatty<br />

acids in coconut can boost brain<br />

function.<br />

coconut<br />

Seaweed and Sunflower<br />

Seeds: Sunflower seeds are rich<br />

in vitamin E, folate, selenium,<br />

and magnesium, making these<br />

delicious seeds fantastic for<br />

cardiovascular health, mental<br />

health, and thyroid health.<br />

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50+ - Foods That Are Best For<br />

Individuals In This Age Range<br />

Include:<br />

High Fiber Veggies: To balance<br />

hormones, such as leptin, the diet must<br />

contain high fibre vegetables to stabilize<br />

leptin levels by making you feel full longer.<br />

The fibre found in cabbage, broccoli or<br />

Brussel sprouts helps stabilize blood sugar<br />

and insulin by slowing down digestion.<br />

Turmeric: Turmeric is the best food to<br />

eat at all times in your life, but particularly<br />

in your forties and fifties because it<br />

supports an anti-inflammatory lifestyle.<br />

Many studies indicate inflammation may<br />

play a role in causing and exacerbating<br />

diseases such as Alzheimer’s, cancer, and<br />

diabetes.<br />

Plant-Based Protein: Animal protein<br />

can slow metabolism, but protein remains<br />

an essential element for health and<br />

longevity. So, decreasing animal protein<br />

and increasing plant protein can be a<br />

great way to give your body what it needs.<br />

Whole grains, lentils and beans provide<br />

some of the best sources of plant-based<br />

protein.<br />

B-Vitamins: Good options rich in B6<br />

and help prevent heart disease include<br />

bananas, potatoes, and pomegranates.<br />

Meanwhile, eggs, fish, and chicken are<br />

high in B12 and support a healthy nervous<br />

system.<br />

Eggs: Eggs are low in calories and are<br />

a complete protein, making this food<br />

great for building muscle and maintaining<br />

a healthy weight. They’re also rich in the<br />

antioxidants lutein and zeaxanthin, which<br />

are essential for eye health.<br />

Basil: As you get older, strong bones<br />

become increasingly important. A great<br />

source to build your bones is vitamin K—<br />

and basil is rich in it. Sprinkle some on<br />

salads to reduce the risk of atherosclerosis,<br />

osteoporosis, diabetes, and cancer.<br />

Brazil Nuts: Brazil nuts filled with vitamins<br />

and nutrients that support so many<br />

vital functions as you get older. They<br />

contain selenium, calcium, iron, copper,<br />

magnesium, manganese, potassium,<br />

phosphorus, zinc, and fibre. This exotic<br />

nut helps to support healthy cholesterol<br />

levels, which prevents blood clotting and,<br />

consequently, reduces the risk of heart<br />

attacks and strokes.<br />

broccoli<br />

turmeric<br />

beans<br />

bananas<br />

eggs<br />

basil<br />

brazil nuts<br />

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ADVOCACY<br />

Leah<br />

SHARIBU<br />

Dead or Alive?<br />

A Tribute to a brave young girl who paid<br />

the ultimate price for her faith.<br />

By Eucharia Ebube<br />

ast 3 years, Boko<br />

LHaram terrorists<br />

stormed and<br />

kidnapped 109<br />

students from<br />

Government Girls’ Science and<br />

Technical College, Dapchi, Yobe<br />

State, in northeast Nigeria. Five<br />

students were killed and other<br />

students were released apart<br />

from Leah Sharibu because<br />

she refused to comply with their<br />

captors’ demand to convert to<br />

Islam. Islam is the major religion<br />

in Yobe State, followed by<br />

Christianity. Thus, Leah, daughter<br />

of Nathan and Rebecca Sharibu,<br />

became the unlikely symbol of<br />

defiance in the face of religious<br />

persecution.<br />

We do not know if Leah<br />

Sharibu is still alive or not, healthy<br />

or sick but rumour has it that Boko<br />

Haram militants killed Sharibu<br />

along with an unidentified person<br />

referred to as “Alice” because of<br />

the Nigerian government’s refusal<br />

to accede to Boko Haram’s<br />

demands.<br />

Leah Sharibu will be marking<br />

her 18th birthday in captivity on<br />

<strong>May</strong> 14, <strong>2021</strong> (if she is still alive).<br />

Who would believe that Leah,<br />

at her age three years ago,<br />

would consent to become<br />

a mother? She wanted go<br />

to university and she would<br />

have been starting university<br />

now but she is still in captivity.<br />

If they forced her and<br />

raped her, we cannot say that<br />

she consented.<br />

When other students<br />

captured were released, Leah<br />

sent a message to her mother,<br />

saying: “My mother, you should not<br />

be disturbed. I know it is not easy<br />

missing me but I want to assure you<br />

that I am fine where I am… I am<br />

confident that, one day, I shall see<br />

your face again. If not here, then,<br />

there at the bosom of our Lord<br />

Jesus Christ.”<br />

Parents of then 15-year-old Leah<br />

Sharibu, kidnapped by Boko Haram<br />

terrorists in 2018, might have lost all<br />

hope in the Nigerian government<br />

rescuing their daughter by now.<br />

Everyday reminds us that we<br />

have a precious soul that has<br />

been denied her freedom, her<br />

leah sharibu<br />

fundamental<br />

human right!<br />

Leah Sharibu has been gone<br />

for too long; let the government<br />

tell us how they are going to bring<br />

her, along side the remaining<br />

Chibok girls, back. The fact that<br />

the government was able to<br />

bring back the 100 girls that were<br />

adopted alongside Leah Sharibu<br />

shows that they have the capacity<br />

to bring about the release of the<br />

now young woman.<br />

Let us remind the authorities<br />

in the military, para-military,<br />

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intelligence and other security<br />

agencies and the Presidency that<br />

unless they also work hard to negotiate<br />

the release of Leah Sharibu, they will<br />

not be able to talk about peaceful<br />

resolution of conflicts arising from<br />

insurgency that has afflicted this<br />

administration.<br />

How many birthdays does Leah<br />

Sharibu need to mark in captivity<br />

before our Commander-in-Chief<br />

would realise that he needs to protect<br />

the lives of Nigerian citizens, including<br />

children like Leah Sharibu?<br />

This article is to remind the Federal<br />

Government that the nation is still<br />

waiting for freedom for Citizen Leah<br />

Sharibu, the only Dapchi schoolgirl<br />

and Christian who is still being held in<br />

captivity because of her faith.<br />

We should continue to appeal to our<br />

leaders to please use the doggedness<br />

with which they handled the case of<br />

Zainab Aliyu’s release for Leah Sharibu.<br />

This is one of the ways Nigeria’s leaders<br />

can show Nigerians that they are<br />

capable of the responsibility power<br />

places on them!<br />

Despite the president’s<br />

assurance to the mother of Leah,<br />

there has been no update on the<br />

plight of the unlucky girl several<br />

months after.<br />

As things stand now, tens<br />

of thousands of children and<br />

students in Nigeria are missing out<br />

on their education because of<br />

the authorities’ failure to protect<br />

schools, particularly in northern<br />

Nigeria, from attacks by insurgents<br />

and other armed groups, Amnesty<br />

International said recently.<br />

Osai Ojigho of Amnesty<br />

International said: “Between<br />

December 2020 and March<br />

<strong>2021</strong>, there have been, at least,<br />

five reported cases of abductions<br />

in northern Nigeria. The threat<br />

of further attacks has led to the<br />

closure of about 600 schools in<br />

the region. Whatever authorities<br />

are doing to tame this tide, it is not<br />

working.”<br />

The frequency of the insurgents’<br />

attacks show just how unsafe<br />

Nigerian schools have become,<br />

while Nigeria lackluster justice<br />

system has only emboldened the<br />

perpetrators.<br />

Attacks against school children,<br />

teachers and school buildings show<br />

a callous disregard for the right to<br />

life and the right to education by<br />

both the bandits and insurgents<br />

on one hand, and the Nigerian<br />

authorities who have failed to end<br />

these horrifying attacks, on the<br />

other.<br />

The Nigerian authorities risk<br />

loosing a generation due to their<br />

failure to provide safe schools<br />

for children in a region already<br />

devastated by Boko Haram<br />

atrocities.<br />

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FEATURE<br />

G lamView<br />

Failure is a Myth<br />

Rooted in the Origin<br />

of Nothingness<br />

By Bose Panama<br />

“We are all terrified of failing. But we mostly fear things because<br />

we didn’t take the time to unpack what those fears were.” TL; DR:<br />

Failure is familiar territory for<br />

everyone. We have all either<br />

failed numerous times or<br />

helplessly watched as others<br />

fail around us. It could be that<br />

cousin, sister, neighbour, friends,<br />

family who just suffered failure at<br />

something so tangible to them<br />

now, but that thing turned out to be<br />

intangible and incongruous later.<br />

Yet you watch them fret<br />

endlessly and watch countless<br />

reliving of the pain and suffering,<br />

which is often palpable.<br />

Often, failure comes through<br />

heartbreak, loss or grief, either from<br />

relationship breakdown, eviction,<br />

homelessness, abandonment,<br />

unemployment or even death.<br />

The endless anxiety and how<br />

we often keep ourselves awake<br />

all night bereft with worry thoughts<br />

that don’t help but exacerbate<br />

the trajectory of our knotted<br />

frustrations. ‘require us to let go of<br />

the thoughts that don’t make us<br />

strong.’<br />

We all do the same when failure<br />

stares menacingly from a blurred<br />

vision; we end up keeping ourselves<br />

awake all night nonstop worrying<br />

about the outcome of our failures.’’<br />

We took years off of our life and put<br />

ourselves in horrible places mentally<br />

and physically.’’<br />

The important thing we need to<br />

know is that: Failure is so transient,<br />

always having a false crutch even<br />

its grip on us is not or will never be<br />

firm because at every juncture of<br />

failure, we are at the crossroad of<br />

thoughtful anxiety, confusion and<br />

chaos sometimes embedded in it is<br />

frustration.<br />

At the end of our journey down<br />

the abyss, we learn something<br />

poignant, and that is, failure is<br />

nothing; Failure is like the origin of<br />

zero. It fades into nothingness, and<br />

we can sigh with relief several years<br />

down the line and say out loud,’’<br />

And you know what we learned<br />

in the end? It generally didn’t<br />

matter.’’Yessssss imagine finding out<br />

eventually that failure is nothing and<br />

that failure will pass and this failure<br />

now will mean nothing later<br />

Our “fear of failure” took over<br />

our grip on reality, and we inevitably<br />

envisioned it as poison or wound<br />

translating into a ripple effect that<br />

was worse than the actual failure;<br />

We think Failure is worse than the<br />

actuality of the failure itself’. Adele<br />

failed at her relationship so much,<br />

so she was so grief-stricken crying<br />

out in distress ‘ ‘never mind; I will find<br />

someone like you was her plea. Oh<br />

no, you certainly ‘don’t want a jerk<br />

like you should have been the title<br />

of her lyric. Nonetheless, her debut<br />

sold 300 million, translating her to<br />

the Matriach of broken hearts. If<br />

I approach Adele now and say<br />

in the same circumstances will<br />

you sing’ unbreak my heart say<br />

you love me again’ instead? She<br />

will scoff in my face because her<br />

failure or failed relationship earned<br />

her a billion at the bank. Her single<br />

was the fastest in the annals of<br />

history, knocking down Michael<br />

Jackson, even Whitney Houston<br />

Saving, all my love for you, paled<br />

into insignificance, eh? Failure<br />

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is nothing; it is so overrated it is<br />

nothing to be scared of, my dear.<br />

The next time you fail to take<br />

a deep breath, smile, go to the<br />

shops, buy yourself a favourite<br />

bottle of wine, in fact, a bottle of<br />

champagne and invite your friends<br />

around, call them for an impromptu<br />

party once they are in and they ask<br />

what is the celebration? Confidently<br />

say that is for later, let’s enjoy today,<br />

then tell them the news and watch<br />

their face drop for you because of<br />

their ignorance about failure. Then<br />

pop the champagne and say I am<br />

celebrating failure as an anecdote.<br />

Everyone’s perception of failure<br />

is always 1000 worse than how<br />

the actual loss is mapped out. A<br />

woman left at the altar will say,<br />

‘no one will ever want me’ yes,<br />

someone will love you and even<br />

marry you!<br />

A woman who had a child out<br />

of wedlock will say, am a broken<br />

plate no; you will find your Prince<br />

charming broken plate or not.<br />

Talking of finding your Prince or<br />

Knight in shining armour, Meghan<br />

Markle’s first marriage’s failure<br />

played out as a grim tale. She sent<br />

her wedding ring back in the post<br />

to Ingleston. Was it that it was pretty<br />

painful for her dear soul, but little<br />

did she know her prince charming<br />

is coming that will make her cup<br />

complete and together conquer<br />

the world?<br />

She went on to marry her prince,<br />

already a divorcee. Who said failure<br />

has a sting? Not in the Markle world,<br />

she has the Markle miracle and<br />

married her prince.<br />

When her marriage ended,<br />

she could have hung her head<br />

in shame and said, who will want<br />

me now? ‘No, no no honey girl,<br />

look to your right, there is money<br />

money money’. All of a sudden<br />

epic event started happening for<br />

her; she went on a quest of’ ‘Finding<br />

Freedom’. On the toe with that<br />

trajectory came stumbling through<br />

a successful move to America<br />

with her prince and a son in toe;<br />

torrential blessings for her 100 million<br />

Netflix deal, Spotify deal, Oprah<br />

interview, even taking an influential<br />

newspaper to task and winning<br />

her privacy case. Yeah! Winning<br />

her high court ruling and battle for<br />

substantial damages, is anything<br />

stopping this girl? ‘This girl is on fire!<br />

Bring it on; this woman is an<br />

unstoppable failure. You have no<br />

grip on reality; wait for this. She is<br />

now expecting her second child,<br />

a daughter? Just for a minute,<br />

juxtapose her failed first marriage<br />

with where she is right now. Are you<br />

kidding? Failure is nothing is the<br />

origin of nothing and nothingness.<br />

Meghan Markle life story bears<br />

eloquent testimony to the fact that<br />

failure is the origin of nothingness;<br />

don’t take it seriously when next it<br />

makes an unannounced visit as it<br />

always does<br />

Remember when next you see<br />

failure, don’t entertain the warped<br />

view of failure; give it a lighthearted<br />

welcome. Don’t have a pity party,<br />

have a champagne lunch. Make it<br />

a celebratory show, and tell people<br />

what failure is- call it out. Failure<br />

has a masked success; don’t let<br />

it get to you; turn the poison of<br />

failure into a fuel propelling you<br />

to your subsequent victory. Flip it,<br />

immediately turn your wound to the<br />

wisdom. I hear you say ‘how?’ When<br />

you receive that letter of dismissal,<br />

go all-out, review your CV, apply,<br />

apply, don’t feed that failure. Your<br />

next better job is round the corner,<br />

so have a party in anticipation of<br />

your next new job.<br />

When that thing, that<br />

circumstance doesn’t work out, stay<br />

calm. It is not for you! A Markle type<br />

of miracle is very nigh; take heed<br />

and let your head rule, not your<br />

thoughts, not your mind! You are the<br />

captain of your life, the master of<br />

your life ‘ We only have one life. It’s<br />

a travesty to waste it on anything,<br />

not failure, at least!<br />

Bose Panama is a UK based<br />

Immigration lawyer and a<br />

contributor to <strong>Glamsquad</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong><br />

FEATURE<br />

Power<br />

Women:<br />

In Their Own<br />

Words<br />

“I think that there is a lot of inner<br />

strength in all of you and every one<br />

of us just to carry on and wherever<br />

we are, push, push, push.”<br />

- Christine Lagarde European<br />

Central Bank<br />

“We’ve got one shot at this life,<br />

and to not be productive with<br />

what we’ve been given, to me, is<br />

a travesty.”<br />

- MELLODY HObson ARIEL<br />

Investments<br />

“You don’t have to be the boss<br />

to be a leader. You can be in a<br />

leadership role in any seat that<br />

you’re sitting in.”<br />

- Stacey Cunningham<br />

NYSE<br />

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