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Contents <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong><br />
THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />
THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />
— Churchyard mobility, 7<br />
— Platinum Jubilee, 7<br />
— For your prayers in <strong>May</strong>, 7<br />
— Christian Basics Part 4, 9<br />
— Ascension Day, 9<br />
— STAY, 10-11<br />
— On Reflection: Lamentations, 13<br />
— From the editor's desk, 13<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 15<br />
features<br />
— <strong>May</strong> matters, 17<br />
— Hedgehog signs, 19<br />
— Platinum events, 20-21<br />
— <strong>The</strong> War in Ukraine, 22-23<br />
— World Turtle Day®, 25<br />
around the villages<br />
— Art for the Jubilee, 27<br />
— Pearson Hall AGM, 27<br />
— S&SE outing, 27<br />
— Horticultural shows, 29<br />
— Knit a Corgi, 29<br />
— Village Rounders, 29<br />
history, 31<br />
HEALTH<br />
— Dr Simon Ruffle, 33<br />
HOME & GARDEn<br />
— Feeding for the future, 35<br />
— In the garden, 35<br />
THE ARTS<br />
— Dick Bouts meal, 37<br />
— Book Reviews, 37<br />
— Poetry Corner, 38<br />
This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />
<strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong> — Ascension<br />
<strong>The</strong><br />
<strong>Parish</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong><br />
the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />
CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />
<strong>The</strong> Ark Garden in 'Jubilee purple' bloom.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Ark was officially opened 5 years ago<br />
on Sunday 7 <strong>May</strong> 2017.<br />
Picture: Peter Rennie<br />
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Services at<br />
St Andrew’s<br />
Sunday 1 <strong>May</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am Family Service<br />
— 4.00pm Choral Evensong<br />
followed by tea in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />
Sunday 8 <strong>May</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />
STAY and Sunday Club<br />
Sunday 15 <strong>May</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am Family Communion<br />
— 3.00pm Messy Church in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />
Sunday 22 <strong>May</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist<br />
— 6.00pm Sunday at Six in <strong>The</strong><br />
Ark with refreshments served<br />
on arrival from 5.50pm.<br />
Sunday after Ascension 29 <strong>May</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist<br />
OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />
Morning Prayer is held in church<br />
every Tuesday at 9.30am.<br />
Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />
held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea<br />
and coffee is available following the<br />
service.<br />
Home Communion at Signature at<br />
Sonning is held on the first Monday<br />
of each month at 11.00am. Visitors<br />
must comply with the care home's<br />
Covid restrictions so please check with<br />
Signature at least four days before.<br />
the sciences<br />
— Spirit of Humility, 38<br />
PUZZLE PAGE, 39<br />
children's page, 41<br />
information<br />
— Church services, 3<br />
— From the registers, 3<br />
— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />
— Advertisers index, 42<br />
From the register<br />
BAPTISMs<br />
— Sunday 13 March, Cameron Robert Baer<br />
FUNERALs<br />
— Friday 25 March, Jean Collin, Interment of ashes in the churchyard<br />
— Friday 8 April, Vanessa Louise Jones, at Easthampstead Park Crematorium
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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />
DEAR FRIENDS,<br />
As a child of the 80's I grew up as a huge fan of the TV series, <strong>The</strong> A Team. On<br />
a Friday or Saturday night it was staple viewing, back when we only had thee<br />
channels and no video machine! My favourite character was Hannibal Smith,<br />
the cigar smoking leader of the group of mercenaries and his famous catch<br />
phrase was 'I love it when a plan comes together.' Bizarrely, from 40 years ago, this<br />
came into my mind the other evening when I witnessed our STAY on Friday<br />
youth group in full flow in <strong>The</strong> Ark and garden with 62 young people all having<br />
a wonderful time. Indeed, on numerous occasions over the last five years, since<br />
<strong>The</strong>resa <strong>May</strong> opened the Ark on 7 <strong>May</strong> 2017 in the middle of a general election,<br />
I have had reason to recall Hannibal’s words, whether it be at our Rendezvous<br />
lunches, Messy Church, lively post service fellowship, Sunday Club, funeral and<br />
baptism receptions and much else besides.<br />
In addition, the provision of the parish office, a meeting room and a vicar’s<br />
study has been a literal God send and we are now so much more efficient in<br />
running this busy and growing parish.<br />
A DEEPER MEANING<br />
<strong>The</strong> name '<strong>The</strong> Ark' was an obvious choice but on a personal level it has<br />
a deeper meaning for me. <strong>The</strong> biblical story of Noah being called to build an<br />
ark, miles from the sea, with all the scepticism and perhaps even ridicule<br />
that resulted, rang a bell or two as we sought to sell the idea of new facilities<br />
and gain permissions and funding. From my earliest days here I was aware<br />
that if we were to become the church that had been aspired to in the <strong>Parish</strong><br />
Profile document produced in 2008 to recruit a new vicar, we would need a new<br />
building. It took 8 years to lay the groundwork and bring it to fruition and I<br />
don’t mind admitting that, at times, the anxiety and stress was almost too<br />
much to bear. That said, achieving anything worthwhile is going to be difficult<br />
and so that was no surprise.<br />
I think it is worth restating that every penny of the final cost of the building<br />
and landscaping was raised by the fund raising committee, not, as is sometimes<br />
mistakenly reported, through selling parish land. Through patient hard slog,<br />
grants were awarded, gifts were given and funds were raised at numerous<br />
events. At times, as the costs inevitably increased, it felt almost overwhelming,<br />
but throughout, there was one verse from the Psalms that kept me sane:<br />
'Be still and know that I am God' (Ps 46).<br />
THE PLAN THAT CAME TOGETHER<br />
As I look back on the whole project it is striking how much God was at work.<br />
In October 2013, it seemed like the planning application was in serious trouble<br />
because of the extensive root system of two large trees that were in the middle<br />
of what is now the garden. <strong>The</strong>re was a storm, and as one tree collapsed, it took<br />
the other one with it, without damaging any graves or buildings. Despite the<br />
jokes that I was out there with a chain saw — I was in France at the time! — it<br />
really did feel like things were starting to go our way. <strong>The</strong>n, the week before<br />
the grand opening, with £150,000 still to raise, I was astonished to receive a<br />
call to tell me that a letter sent many months before to a philanthropist who<br />
I had never met and who had no idea how much money we had left to raise,<br />
was giving us £100,000. Two days later, a cheque arrived for £50,000, again<br />
from someone I didn’t know and who knew nothing of how much we needed.<br />
I remind myself of that miraculous happening when times are tough or when<br />
God might feel remote. Our church was truly blessed through this project<br />
and I believe this is because <strong>The</strong> Ark has enabled us to now properly fulfil our<br />
calling as Christians to be a blessing to the communities we are called to serve.<br />
However, there can be no resting on our laurels. <strong>The</strong>re is always more to be<br />
done and, under God, I believe we are now well equipped for the task.<br />
Warm wishes.<br />
Jamie<br />
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Notices<br />
Churchyard mobility<br />
We have a lovely churchyard that<br />
is also rather large. <strong>The</strong> distance<br />
from our small car park and other<br />
entrances to either the church or<br />
<strong>The</strong> Ark is not inconsiderable for<br />
those with mobility issues. <strong>The</strong> PCC’s<br />
‘Everybody Welcome’ agenda focuses<br />
continuously on how we can make<br />
our church more welcoming and<br />
hospitable and with this in mind I<br />
am delighted to tell you of a recent<br />
decision of the PCC.<br />
We will be purchasing a four<br />
seater, electric golf buggy that will<br />
enable those who are elderly or frail<br />
to comfortably make the journey. A<br />
rota of approved volunteer drivers<br />
will be established and all is covered<br />
by existing church insurance.<br />
<strong>The</strong> total costs are being<br />
generously met by Christina<br />
Goodacre, in memory of her late<br />
husband, Peter, and by Janet<br />
Robson, in thanksgiving for the<br />
work of our church.<br />
<strong>The</strong> plan is to formally inaugurate<br />
the vehicle as part of our Jubilee<br />
celebrations on 5 June, although it<br />
may be in use before then.<br />
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Mothering Sunday: Thanks t0 (left to right) Ellie, Molly, Penny and Liz, every<br />
lady attending the 10.30am Mothering Sunday service received a posy of<br />
spring flowers. <strong>The</strong> floral four, helped by Liz's husband Dave, made over 100!<br />
Platinum Jubilee<br />
In addition to the Scarecrow Festival<br />
and other celebrations across<br />
the parish, we will be hosting a<br />
community service of celebration<br />
on 5 June at 11am. <strong>The</strong> 103rd<br />
Archbishop of Canterbury, Lord<br />
Carey, will be preaching. This will<br />
be followed by a drinks reception in<br />
<strong>The</strong> Ark garden, all finishing before<br />
the Sonning village street party gets<br />
underway.<br />
Special floral arrangements will<br />
fill the church for the Bank Holiday<br />
weekend, provided by our wedding<br />
and funeral florist, Nicky Watters.<br />
Jamie<br />
Peter Renniee<br />
FIVE YEARS ON: Officially opened 5 years ago this month, <strong>The</strong> Ark at St<br />
Andrew's Church, and its garden, will be the setting for a Platinum Jubilee<br />
reception after a community celebration to mark Her Majesty <strong>The</strong> Queen's<br />
Platinum Jubilee. <strong>The</strong> special service of thanksgiving will start at 11am on<br />
Sunday 5 June in the presence of the 103rd Archbishop of Canterbury, Lord<br />
Carey, who will be preaching.<br />
For your prayers in <strong>May</strong><br />
— For all who use <strong>The</strong> Ark at St Andrew's Church<br />
— For the Falkland Island conflict veterans, 40 years on<br />
— All parish plans for the Platinum Jubilee next month<br />
— For all who are thinking about being confirmed in November<br />
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Christian Basics — Part 4<br />
Rev Paul Hardingham's series on the foundations of the Christian faith<br />
Why the Cross?<br />
Indy Biddulph<br />
<strong>The</strong> cross is a picture of violence, yet the key to peace;<br />
a picture of suffering, yet the key to healing;<br />
a picture of death, yet the key to life;<br />
a picture of utter weakness, yet the key to power;<br />
a picture of capital punishment, yet the key to mercy and<br />
forgiveness;<br />
a picture of vicious hatred, yet the key to love;<br />
a picture of supreme shame, yet the Christian’s supreme boast.<br />
THE KEY<br />
<strong>The</strong> cross really is the key to everything! Although a<br />
horrifying instrument of torture and death, it is also a<br />
symbol of love and peace. On the cross Jesus died to deal<br />
with the problem of our sin and defeat the powers of<br />
death and evil. He identified with our sufferings and set<br />
us an example of self-sacrificial love.<br />
As Peter writes, ‘He himself bore our sins in his body on the<br />
tree, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by<br />
his wounds you have been healed . . . Christ died for sins once<br />
for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God’<br />
(1 Peter 2:24, 3:18)<br />
Jesus died in our place on the cross and took away our guilt,<br />
to pay the full penalty for our sin. Access to God’s presence<br />
is now open to all, symbolised by the Temple curtain being<br />
torn in two from top to bottom. <strong>The</strong> barrier between us and<br />
God was torn down in order ‘to bring us to God’.<br />
THE BRIDGE<br />
Jesus is the bridge providing access between us and<br />
God. ‘If Jesus Christ is to be our Saviour then he must be<br />
able to place a hand upon a pardoning God and another hand<br />
on a penitent sinner and draw them together in an act of<br />
reconciliation’ (Bishop Handley Moule).<br />
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Ascension: Thursday 26 <strong>May</strong><br />
Where<br />
did<br />
Jesus<br />
go?<br />
In Salvador Dali’s<br />
picture of Jesus’<br />
ascension (shown<br />
right on a postage<br />
stamp) all you can<br />
see are his feet! As<br />
we celebrate the<br />
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event this month,<br />
it prompts the question ‘where did Jesus go?’ Peter says<br />
Jesus ‘has gone into heaven and is at God’s right hand’ (1<br />
Peter 3:22). However, the New Testament tells us three<br />
things about what Jesus is doing at the Father’s side.<br />
At Pentecost Peter said that Jesus is ‘exalted to the right<br />
hand of God, He has received from the Father the promised<br />
Holy Spirit and has poured out what you now see and hear…<br />
<strong>The</strong> Lord said to my Lord: Sit at my right hand' (Acts 2: 33 -4).<br />
Peter is affirming Jesus’ position of authority and power<br />
at the heart of the universe. By pouring out the gift of the<br />
Holy Spirit upon us, Jesus gives us a foretaste of the life<br />
of heaven — eternal life, forgiveness, healing, release and<br />
God’s provision for our lives.<br />
LIVING WITH REALITY<br />
When Stephen, the first Christian martyr, was being<br />
stoned to death by the Jewish authorities he points out, ‘I<br />
see heaven open and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of<br />
God.’ (Acts 7:56). Our experience of heaven is only ever partial,<br />
as we live with the reality of suffering and setbacks. However,<br />
Jesus is still on the throne! We are called to trust him daily.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Bible also tells us that ‘Christ Jesus who died….is<br />
interceding for us.’ (Romans 8:34, cf Hebrews 7:25).<br />
Even when we don’t know how to pray, we have the<br />
assurance that Jesus is already praying for us! He knows<br />
our needs even better than we do ourselves, so when we<br />
feel condemned or defeated in our Christian lives, we have<br />
somebody on our side!<br />
TRANSCENDS AND EMBRACES<br />
<strong>The</strong> Ascension reminds us that the risen Jesus lives in<br />
the immediate presence of God, and both transcends and<br />
embraces our present experience. This truth lies at the heart<br />
of the 'up' language used to describe the event.<br />
‘Heaven relates to earth tangentially so that the One who is in<br />
heaven can be present simultaneously anywhere and everywhere<br />
on earth: the ascension therefore means that Jesus is available,<br />
accessible, without people having to travel to a particular spot on<br />
the earth to find him.’ (Tom Wright).
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STAY IN THE CLASSROOM, ON<br />
STAY on Sunday<br />
Our group that meets every 2nd,<br />
4th & 5th Sunday of each month<br />
continues to deepen faith, challenge<br />
world views and grow our confidence<br />
in who God is and who he calls us to<br />
be in the world. Most recently<br />
we have looked at the theme of<br />
relationships and covered<br />
topics such as: ‘Is it ever ok<br />
to judge others?’ and ‘What<br />
is our relationship with<br />
our phone like?’ <strong>The</strong> young<br />
people were shocked to<br />
learn that the first mobile<br />
phones didn’t have the<br />
internet, didn’t have snap<br />
chat or instagram, they<br />
barely worked as a phone<br />
sometimes with poor<br />
reception in many places!<br />
STAY in Schools<br />
As part of the STAY youth work we<br />
continued this month with our work<br />
in all four local schools through<br />
assemblies and mentoring. Plus we had<br />
the privilege of being part of the values<br />
day at Sonning School and a special<br />
prayer activity with Piggott students.<br />
Values Day at Sonning<br />
On Thursday 24 March, I had the<br />
privilege of helping at Sonning<br />
School with their ‘School Values Day’.<br />
We covered curiosity and respect<br />
with years 3 and 4 and we looked at<br />
courage and aspiration with years<br />
5 and 6. Some of the answers to the<br />
questions were simply brilliant and<br />
at times humorous:<br />
Q: What are you scared of?<br />
A: 'Smelly cheese', 'Spiders' and<br />
'Roller coasters'.<br />
Q: What are you interested in?<br />
A: 'Tech', 'Bugs and insects' and 'God'.<br />
Prayers for Ukraine<br />
Our work at <strong>The</strong> Piggott School Wargrave continues<br />
to help grow and embed the school's Christian values<br />
and vision among the students. This month we had the<br />
privilege of leading students in writing positive thoughts,<br />
messages of hope and prayers, on blue and yellow leaves,<br />
for the people of Ukraine. We then took their leaves<br />
and added them to the reflection room tree.<br />
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etached Project<br />
's Detached Project in Charvil moved from serving 45 hot chocolates, to 45 cold<br />
s, back to 45 hot chocolates within a week as we had a few days of balmy 18°C<br />
hen straight back to 5°C the following week!<br />
on Friday<br />
d record numbers at STAY on Friday this month with a whopping 62 young people attending one week. This was a fantastic evening of<br />
mes, yummy baked treats and a final thought on the question; ‘When is it OK to be competitive and how should we behave when we<br />
o win?' Youth club continues to be from 6.45pm-8.15pm in <strong>The</strong> Ark, every Friday in term time.<br />
also had a wonderful response, so far, to people donating and sponsoring the new equipment for our second upper room in <strong>The</strong> Ark. If<br />
uld like to donate any amount, please get in touch with Hilary in the church office on office@sonningparish.org.uk — thanks!
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On reflection . . .<br />
Lamentations<br />
By Elizabeth Spiers<br />
An ancient map ofJerusalem Mihail Ivanov, dreamstime.com<br />
Lamentations is not an easy read. Perhaps you’ve been<br />
tempted to skip it. It’s about the aftermath of a national<br />
disaster caused by sin. Thought to be written by Jeremiah,<br />
it laments — gives passionate expression to sorrow or grief<br />
— the devastating results of God’s judgement.<br />
In five poems, Jeremiah tells of the complete and utter<br />
desolation of the once proud city of Jerusalem. This didn’t<br />
come out of the blue. God isn’t like that. He sent many<br />
prophets, including Jeremiah, with messages to warn the<br />
people to repent but the warnings fell on deaf ears. Now that<br />
it had happened, the results of God’s judgement were raw and<br />
desperate. It is shocking to read in chapter 4:10 that mothers<br />
were so hungry they ate their own children.<br />
<strong>The</strong> important message of Lamentations is that we cannot<br />
keep disobeying God and his word and think that God will<br />
ignore it. It is right to grieve over the sin that has wrecked<br />
havoc in our lives resulting in a broken home perhaps or a<br />
prison sentence. We don’t do much lamenting these days<br />
but this book shows us that we must take responsibility<br />
for the consequences we are now enduring. We know God<br />
is merciful and gracious. We often overlook that he is also<br />
righteous and holy, wanting obedience from his children<br />
and reserving the right to discipline us when we go astray.<br />
In Ezekiel 34:14, God says he is a ‘jealous’ God. We are not to<br />
worship anyone or anything other than him.<br />
LEARN TO TRUST<br />
In the middle of his lamentations, Jeremiah finds the<br />
strength of hope in the Lord. 'Because of the Lord’s great love,<br />
we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. <strong>The</strong>y are<br />
new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself,<br />
'<strong>The</strong> Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.' <strong>The</strong> Lord<br />
is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him<br />
(Lamentations 3:22–25). Jeremiah tells us how to pray with<br />
hope in the midst of our self-induced suffering. He clings to<br />
the truth that regardless of the suffering he sees around him,<br />
God is still on his throne and that he still loves his people.<br />
We always have hope in God. Every new morning brings<br />
a new opportunity to start afresh. We are in control of our<br />
time and the decisions we make. We must learn to trust God<br />
while we still can’t see the way forward. And God’s mercies<br />
are new every morning. Great is his faithfulness toward<br />
those who cry out to him and seek him in their sorrows. He is<br />
the binder of broken hearts. He will never turn away anyone<br />
who cries out to him.<br />
From the desk<br />
of the editor<br />
editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />
Why there is always<br />
space for God . . .<br />
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Sitting at my desk before starting work on this issue, I had<br />
in mind to include an article about sea creatures called<br />
manatees which look similar to the walrus but are more<br />
closely related to the elephant. <strong>The</strong>ir history goes back<br />
to the beginning of time and is mentioned in the Bible<br />
frequently in the account of the Israelite's journey from<br />
captivity in Egypt to their Promised Land. In the Bible<br />
manatees are called sea cows and their skins were used as<br />
waterproof coverings to protect valuable items used in the<br />
worship of God. We can only assume that the Israelites ate<br />
them — they are said to taste like 'corned beef' or 'pork',<br />
the latter being strange because pork is a forbidden food<br />
for the Jewish people.<br />
THE INSIDE STORIES<br />
However, as you can see inside, two other articles about<br />
creatures that were around in Biblical times and are also<br />
still with us today, namely hedgehogs (page 19) and sea<br />
turtles (page 25) have come to the top of the list, so the<br />
manatees idea remains on my desk!<br />
Hedgehogs and sea turtles, despite surviving for<br />
millions of years are facing uncertain futures because of<br />
environmental changes and hunting them for food or, in<br />
the case of turtles, their valuable shells. <strong>The</strong> organisers of<br />
World Turtle Day® on 23 <strong>May</strong>, say that about 61% of turtles<br />
worldwide are threatened or already extinct. <strong>The</strong>ir aim is<br />
to raise worldwide awareness of the situation and so try to<br />
save them from extinction.<br />
Hedgehogs, although good for our gardens, are facing<br />
a similar decline in numbers but in their case we can help<br />
reverse the decline by simply making our gardens and<br />
community more friendly, and safer, places for them to live<br />
in and to visit.<br />
THE WAY FORWARD<br />
Turtles and hedgehogs, are, of course, only two of the<br />
many serious issues facing our world which are being<br />
caused by human greed and selfishness. <strong>The</strong> war in Ukraine<br />
and the persecution of millions people because of their<br />
religious beliefs in other parts of the world are prime<br />
examples of even more serious issues. <strong>The</strong>re are so many<br />
bad things going on in our world today that is difficult to<br />
see where we are heading, and what will happen next.<br />
<strong>The</strong> good news is that despite all the changes going on<br />
around us, there is one unchanging source of hope that has<br />
been with us, not for millions of years like the hedgehogs<br />
and turtles but for about 4.5 billion years when the earth<br />
was created. That source is, of course, God. And this is why<br />
I never limit the number of articles about God's love for us<br />
in this magazine. As Elizabeth Spiers writes in the adjacent<br />
column, 'We must learn to trust God while we still can't see the<br />
way forward.'
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Below, an impression of the tensions<br />
experienced by Christians in Pakistan<br />
are followed by an appeal giving the<br />
opportunity to support Christian<br />
children going through school in<br />
Pakistan.<br />
An incident in Lahore in February<br />
resulted in a murder case being<br />
brought against 150 to 200 Muslims.<br />
An altercation with a Christian<br />
shopkeeper was reported to the police<br />
and was settled. However, the next day<br />
a mob of up to 200 Muslims went to<br />
the shop armed with clubs, iron bars<br />
and guns. <strong>The</strong> shopkeeper was hit on<br />
the head with a brick and died of his<br />
injuries.<br />
<strong>The</strong> previous day Pakistan’s Prime<br />
Minister, Imran Khan, said that his<br />
government had 'zero tolerance' for<br />
anyone taking the law into their<br />
own hands. He was responding to<br />
a mob lynching of a man accused of<br />
'blasphemy' in Punjab.<br />
Mr Khan’s words were echoed by<br />
the special representative to the Prime<br />
Minister on Religious Harmony, Hafiz<br />
Muhammad Tahir Mehmood Ashrafi,<br />
who said that the culture of being<br />
'judge, jury and executioner' could<br />
no longer continue, and that no one<br />
should think of 'running the country as<br />
per their own desires'.<br />
An article in <strong>The</strong> Spectator on<br />
1 April suggested that Mr Khan’s<br />
presidency may be coming to an end<br />
since he had lost his majority in the<br />
National Assembly. <strong>The</strong> writer, Kunwar<br />
Khuldune Sahid, points out that in the<br />
75 year history of the country not one<br />
of the prime ministers has served their<br />
5 year term.<br />
A vote of no confidence was due to<br />
take place on Sunday 3 April.<br />
However, prior to a vote taking<br />
place, Mr Khan dissolved parliament<br />
and called fresh elections. <strong>The</strong> deputy<br />
speaker had refused to accept the<br />
motion against him. Mr Khan alleged<br />
that the vote was a 'foreign conspiracy'.<br />
<strong>The</strong> information minister has<br />
confirmed that Mr Khan remains as<br />
prime minister, until elections are held<br />
in 90 days from 3 April.<br />
Kunwar Sahid reported in an earlier<br />
article in <strong>The</strong> Spectator that there<br />
has been a rise in jihadist attacks in<br />
Pakistan.<br />
He says that the recent spate in<br />
jihadist violence has been claimed by<br />
Tehrik-e-Taliban Pakistan (TTP).<br />
In January a Christian priest was<br />
shot dead by gunmen in Peshawar<br />
while going home from mass. TTP and<br />
affiliated groups bombed churches<br />
across Pakistan in recent years.<br />
A Muslim man tried to break a large<br />
concrete cross on top of a church in the<br />
Christian community of Green Town,<br />
Lahore.<br />
Failing to dislodge it, he sat on it<br />
and chanted 'Allahu Akbar' (God is<br />
the greatest), the traditional Islamic<br />
affirmation which is often used by<br />
jihadists when they attack. A crowd<br />
gathered in the street but there was no<br />
violent response by the people.<br />
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<strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church by Colin Bailey<br />
Pray for children, peace and stability in Pakistan<br />
FORWARD<br />
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Outside Copenhagen Town Hall candles are lit during a vigil for Pakistan peace<br />
FORWARD<br />
Please pray for peace and stability<br />
within Pakistan, in the light of the<br />
political uncertainty, and for security<br />
for all Pakistan’s citizens in particular<br />
at-risk minorities including the<br />
Christian community.<br />
FORWARD<br />
More than 11,000 poor Christian<br />
children attend Christian schools<br />
in Pakistan supported by Barnabas<br />
Fund. Thanks to that support, the<br />
schools can charge minimal fees.<br />
This makes it affordable for the<br />
parents, who work in low-paid jobs<br />
such as labouring, domestic service, or<br />
brick kilns.<br />
<strong>The</strong> free schools provided by the<br />
Pakistan government are usually very<br />
tough for Christian children, who<br />
are made to feel so inferior and face<br />
pressures so great that some drop out<br />
of education altogether, since their<br />
parents cannot afford private schools.<br />
If you would like to donate to the<br />
Christian Schools in Pakistan project<br />
(Ref. 41-1209), please follow the<br />
bottom link below or call Barnabas<br />
Fund on<br />
0800 587 4006 or 0167 256 5031<br />
References and further reading:<br />
Killing of Christian shopkeeper (Barnabas Fund article) - https://www.barnabasfund.org/gb/news/over-150-pakistani-muslims-face-murder-accusation-following-killing-of-c/<br />
Imran Khan (<strong>The</strong> Spectator) - https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/is-this-the-end-of-imran-khanapr/03/pakistan-imran-khan-parliament-vote-no-confidence-early-elections<br />
Christian schools in Pakistan (Barnabas Fund article) - https://www.barnabasfund.org/gb/latest-needs/christian-schools-in-pakistan-your-donation-gives-christian-children-hap/<br />
Christians living in terror (<strong>The</strong> Spectator) - https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/pakistan-s-christians-are-living-in-terror<strong>The</strong> example of Pakistan’s Christians (Barnabas Fund article) -<br />
https://www.barnabasfund.org/gb/news/editorial-pakistan-s-christians-are-example-and-a-witness-to-their-natio/<br />
Vote of no confidence article (<strong>The</strong> Guardian) - https://www.theguardian.com/world/<strong>2022</strong>/apr/03/pakistan-imran-khan-parliament-vote-no-confidence-early-elections<br />
Vote of no confidence article (<strong>The</strong> Telegraph) - https://www.theguardian.com/world/<strong>2022</strong>/
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Make <strong>May</strong> the month<br />
that matters for you<br />
and those who matter<br />
Judging by the number of special days and weeks this month, <strong>May</strong> is certainly<br />
the time when we are prompted to remember and take action about the health<br />
and wellbeing of those we love, those we have special concerns for, those who<br />
help us, others in times of need, and ourselves. It is a month of awareness that<br />
looks at life from beginning to end while thanking some of the people who help<br />
us along the way.<br />
Traditionally in the UK, <strong>May</strong> begins<br />
with maypole celebrations that date<br />
back 2,000 years to about the time<br />
that Christianity began in the Middle<br />
East. Roman soldiers occupying<br />
the UK celebrated the change from<br />
the cold dark days of winter to the<br />
coming spring and summer, a type<br />
of climate they were probably more<br />
familiar with.<br />
<strong>The</strong>ir response was to dance<br />
around decorated trees to thank<br />
Flora, the Roman goddess of<br />
flowering plants.<br />
Sadly, today, in some parts of the<br />
world, the <strong>May</strong> Day celebrations are<br />
still celebrated by the military but with<br />
parades and displays of their tools of<br />
war, rather than the gifts of God.<br />
NEW BORN<br />
<strong>The</strong> new life in nature that the<br />
<strong>May</strong>pole celebrates heralds a month<br />
when we think and act for the health<br />
and wellbeing for the young, the<br />
elderly, the dying and the in between.<br />
<strong>The</strong> international Day of the<br />
Midwife is on 5 <strong>May</strong>. Sponsored by<br />
the World Health Organisation,<br />
this year's theme is: 'Midwives<br />
with women: celebrate, demonstrate,<br />
mobilize, unite.' <strong>The</strong> aim, says WHO,<br />
is to emphasize the importance<br />
of mobilizing communities and<br />
maintaining provision of essential<br />
health services, particularly as<br />
countries continue to respond to the<br />
Covid pandemic.<br />
Coupled with this, is Maternal<br />
Mental Health Awareness (2-8 <strong>May</strong>)<br />
Week which dedicated to talking<br />
about mental health problems<br />
during and after pregnancy. It’s aim<br />
is to raise public and professional<br />
awareness of perinatal mental health<br />
problems, advocating for women<br />
affected by it, changing attitudes<br />
and helping families access the<br />
information, care and support they<br />
need to recover.<br />
CHILDREN<br />
Our minds are then focussed<br />
on the needs of children and<br />
their wellbeing with Foster Care<br />
Fortnight from 9-22 <strong>May</strong>, in the<br />
middle of which is the National<br />
Children's Day on 16 <strong>May</strong>.<br />
Foster Care Fortnight is said<br />
to be the UK’s biggest foster care<br />
awareness raising campaign. It is<br />
organised by the Fostering Network.<br />
<strong>The</strong> campaign began in 1977 to<br />
'showcase the commitment, passion<br />
and dedication of foster carers.' It<br />
also supports fostering services to<br />
highlight the need for more foster<br />
carers. Thousands of new families<br />
are needed every year to care for<br />
children, with the greatest need<br />
being for foster carers for older<br />
children, sibling groups, disabled<br />
children and unaccompanied asylum<br />
seeking children.<br />
<strong>The</strong> reports we have been<br />
receiving from the Ukraine war<br />
suggest that the demand could be<br />
substantially increased.<br />
ADULTHOOD<br />
<strong>May</strong> is also the month when<br />
awareness of issues that not only<br />
affect the young, but people of<br />
all ages. For example, <strong>The</strong> Stroke<br />
Association has designated <strong>May</strong> as<br />
its annual stroke awareness month<br />
which is being promoted with the<br />
headline 'Make <strong>May</strong> Purple'— hence<br />
our purple heading above!<br />
<strong>The</strong> aim is to increase awareness<br />
of stroke, stroke prevention and<br />
treatment and to raise funds for<br />
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much needed research into this<br />
condition, and support for stroke<br />
survivors.<br />
<strong>May</strong> has also been declared<br />
the international measure your<br />
blood pressure month, and the<br />
international skin cancer awareness<br />
month.<br />
Led by the International Society<br />
of Hypertension this campaign has,<br />
in the past 3 years, screened around<br />
4 million people in 100 countries<br />
and found over a million people with<br />
inadequately treated hypertension.<br />
<strong>The</strong> international skin cancer<br />
campaign takes place every <strong>May</strong>.<br />
It aims to raise awareness of the<br />
dangers of unprotected sun exposure<br />
and educate people about the ways to<br />
help prevent skin cancer.<br />
Also in <strong>May</strong> is the Big Asthma<br />
Bake Sale so look out for, and<br />
support, groups baking and selling<br />
cakes to raise money for Asthma<br />
and Lung UK, a registered charity<br />
that funds vital research into this<br />
widespread complaint that affects<br />
the lives of over 8 million adults and<br />
children, that's about 12% of the<br />
population.<br />
From 3-8 <strong>May</strong>, it is also Deaf<br />
Awareness Week and from 17-22<br />
<strong>May</strong>, Dementia Awareness week<br />
— two further issues that are also<br />
widespread.<br />
TAKE A WALK<br />
But <strong>May</strong> is not only the month for<br />
raising awareness of several of the<br />
most serious problems facing us, and<br />
donating time and money to help, it<br />
is also about looking after our own<br />
health. Yes, <strong>May</strong> is walking month<br />
when we are all encouraged to step<br />
outside our cosy homes and enjoy<br />
the beauty of the open countryside<br />
in spring, which is a free gift from<br />
God who created it for our health and<br />
pleasure!<br />
Further information about all the campaigns<br />
mentioned in this article, and how to support<br />
them, can be found by searching online.
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<strong>The</strong> signs are<br />
looking good<br />
for Charvil’s<br />
hedgehogs!<br />
By Karen Ostrowski<br />
Have you noticed the hedgehog road<br />
signs that have recently appeared on<br />
Charvil’s roads?<br />
Last year, prompted by an increasing<br />
number of hedgehog fatalities on<br />
our roads and thinking that warning<br />
signs would help, local residents<br />
Sarah Swatridge, Dawn Brenton and I<br />
independently wrote to Wokingham<br />
Borough Council. We were fortunate<br />
to have the support of local councillor<br />
Sam Akhtar, who on our behalf, chased<br />
the relevant department of the council,<br />
and in March all our efforts came to<br />
fruition.<br />
SAFE HAVEN<br />
In the summer, responding to a plea<br />
from our local hedgehog rescue centre,<br />
Sarah, Dawn and I were fortunate to<br />
be in a position where we could each<br />
take on a release hedgehog in the hope<br />
of giving them a safe haven in our<br />
respective gardens.<br />
Dawn collected her hedgehog,<br />
Phoebe, I received another female<br />
called Twinkle and Sarah was given<br />
Arthur who had been orphaned as a<br />
baby and hand reared.<br />
'For my family', Dawn says, 'Seeing<br />
these endearing creatures visiting<br />
our garden and thriving in the area is<br />
one of the great things about living in<br />
Charvil.'<br />
Our release hedgehogs came from<br />
Herbie Hedgehog Rescue in Lower<br />
Earley, which is our nearest hedgehog<br />
rehabilitation centre. It is run by<br />
Shweta Saikumar (details below). We<br />
Karen, Dawn and Sarah, Charvil's hedgehog guardians<br />
happily watch the hedgehogs' nightly<br />
activities on our trail cameras.<br />
However, along with joy comes<br />
concern. Knowing that hedgehogs<br />
travel over a mile in the course of a<br />
night and desperately wanting our<br />
releases, along with our regular prickly<br />
garden visitors, to thrive, we came up<br />
with the idea of applying for the road<br />
signs.<br />
I am happy to report that more and<br />
more houses in Charvil are linking<br />
up their gardens with hedgehog<br />
highways — gaps in fences — to<br />
create a safe wildlife corridor, and I’m<br />
hoping that the new road signs will<br />
help to increase awareness of the local<br />
hedgehog population.<br />
As Sarah says, '<strong>The</strong>se signs take us<br />
a step closer to becoming Wokingham<br />
Borough’s first hedgehog friendly<br />
parish.'<br />
HOW TO HELP<br />
You can also help hedgehogs by<br />
support feeding with cat biscuits and<br />
leaving out bowls of water. Branded<br />
hedgehog foods are available, however,<br />
they are not regulated, so please<br />
check that they do not contain meal<br />
worms, sunflower seeds, nuts, raisins<br />
or honey, as these can be harmful to<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong> 19<br />
Janpietruszka, dreamstime.com<br />
15 MILLION YEARS OF HEDGEHOGS<br />
A hedgehog is any of the small spiny<br />
mammals of the subfamily Erinaceinae<br />
and the order Insectivora. <strong>The</strong>re are<br />
15 species of hedgehog in four genera,<br />
found through parts of Europe, Asia,<br />
Africa, and New Zealand. <strong>The</strong>re are no<br />
hedgehogs native to the Americas or<br />
Australia. Hedgehogs have changed<br />
little over the last 15 million years<br />
and are mentioned in the Bible — for<br />
example, Isaiah 14:12. Like many of the<br />
first mammals they have adapted to a<br />
nocturnal, insectivorous way of life.<br />
hedgehogs. When gardening, please<br />
check the undergrowth before using a<br />
strimmer, never light a bonfire without<br />
a thorough search, and be mindful<br />
that some dogs attack hedgehogs.<br />
Other useful information can be<br />
found on the website of <strong>The</strong> British<br />
Hedgehog Preservation Society:<br />
https://www.britishhedgehogs.org.uk/<br />
SICK OR INJURED<br />
If you discover a sick or injured<br />
hedgehog, please contact Herbie<br />
Hedgehog Rescue as soon as possible,<br />
either by phone, 0759 879 4442,<br />
(leaving a voicemail), by text message<br />
or facebook message:<br />
http://www.facebook.com/herbiehedgehogrescue<br />
Arthur Sarah Swatridge Twinkle Karen Ostrowski Phoebe Dawn Brenton
20 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong><br />
PLATINUM JUBILEE EVENTS<br />
500 horses and 1,000 performers<br />
in 'very special' Jubilee celebration<br />
IN THE PRIVATE GROUNDS OF WINDSOR CASTLE FROM 12 - 15 MAY<br />
In celebration of Her Majesty <strong>The</strong> Queen’s Platinum Jubilee,<br />
a very special event is being held in the private grounds of<br />
Windsor Castle from 12 - 15 <strong>May</strong>.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Celebration will involve more than 500 horses and 1,000<br />
performers who will create a 90-minute piece of spellbinding<br />
arena theatre. Taking part will be actors and artists, musicians,<br />
international military displays from the Commonwealth,<br />
Viacheslav Nemyrivskyi, dreamstime.com<br />
Europe and our own armed forces, dancers and global<br />
equestrian displays.<br />
And the good news is that this special Jubilee celebration<br />
will be open to the public, although you will need to book in<br />
advance.<br />
To find out more, go to:<br />
https://platinumjubilee.com/platinum-jubilee-celebration<br />
A 'great variety' of<br />
Jubilee Scarecrows<br />
are heading for<br />
Sonning . . .<br />
Barbara Carr, one of the organisers of the forthcoming<br />
Scarecrow trail for the Jubilee celebrations in Sonning<br />
Village, sends this update:<br />
Thank you so much to all those who are opening their gardens,<br />
have offered to help, and to all who have registered Scarecrows<br />
— we have a great variety!<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is still time to enter a Scarecrow so get on the phone<br />
or e-mail me now! We have room for more Scarecrows from<br />
individuals and from organisations. <strong>The</strong> last date to register<br />
is Friday 20 <strong>May</strong>. If you are not registered your scarecrow will<br />
will not be on the Trail Map that thousands of visitors will be<br />
following on Thursday 2 June and Friday 3 June from 10am<br />
to 5pm. Coinciding with the trail, Sonning Art Group will be<br />
staging an exhibition of their work in Pearson Hall, so don't<br />
forget to call in there on your way round.<br />
2018: <strong>The</strong> Ark at St Andrew's had a visit from Noah's Ark (made by the<br />
Sunday Club) during the Scarecrow weekend<br />
Sue Peters<br />
Please also phone or email if you can offer to help during the<br />
two days by making cakes, serving refreshments, manning one<br />
of the gardens that will open for visitors, or selling trail maps.<br />
If you have a place on the route for a Scarecrow let me know<br />
as we need display areas from Sonning Bridge up Thames Street,<br />
village end of Charvil Lane, High Street, Pearson Road, Pound<br />
Lane down to Ligugé Way, and Sonning Lane up to Berkshire<br />
Sports.<br />
To register a Scarecrow, offer to help, or find out more, email: Barbara.carr71@hotmail.co.uk or phone 0118 934 5886
Jubilee Street Parties — send us<br />
your pictures for our souvenir issue!<br />
Street parties are at the top of the list of<br />
events that Buckingham Palace asks the<br />
nation to hold as we celebrate Her Majesty<br />
<strong>The</strong> Queen's unprecedented achievement<br />
of serving the United Kingdom and the<br />
Commonwealth for 70 years.<br />
<strong>The</strong> village of Sonning's street party is on<br />
Sunday 6 June from 2.30pm in Pearson<br />
Road (near Pearson Hall). <strong>The</strong> road will be<br />
closed for the street party which is being<br />
organised by the Sonning and Sonning<br />
Eye Society. <strong>The</strong> names of everyone<br />
attending the party must be registered.<br />
Tickets will be available at Pearson Hall<br />
on 23 April between 10am and 12noon.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Sonning street party follows the<br />
special parish celebration service in St<br />
Andrew's Church at 11am, when the 103rd<br />
Archbishop of Canterbury, Lord Carey,<br />
will be preaching.<br />
Charvil <strong>Parish</strong> Council has told us that<br />
it will be supporting local street parties,<br />
although they could not give any details.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y also told us that a treasure hunt<br />
might be being arranged, but again, no<br />
further details were available when we<br />
went to press.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong> 21<br />
Below is the Jubilee Calendar for<br />
events arranged in the parish of<br />
St Andrew's Church.<br />
<strong>The</strong> July issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
will include a souvenir section for the<br />
Jubilee celebrations so please send your<br />
photographs (of the highest possible<br />
resolution please) to us and we will try to<br />
include as many as possible.<br />
Please note: the deadline for our July<br />
issue will be extended by 6 hours to 6pm on<br />
Monday 6 June for your Jubilee photographs<br />
which should be emailed to:<br />
editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Platinum Jubilee Diary<br />
SATURDAY 28 MAY — SUNDAY 5 JUNE<br />
SATURDAY 28 MAY SUNDAY 29 MAY MONDAY 30 MAY<br />
Sonning Regatta<br />
on the<br />
River Thames<br />
12 noon - 6pm<br />
Adult Wetland Walk<br />
led by Ali Driver<br />
Meet in St Andrew's<br />
churchyard at 2pm<br />
Children's Tennis<br />
at the<br />
Sonning Tennis Club<br />
2pm - 4pm<br />
TUESDAY 31 MAY WEDNESDAY 1 JUNE THURSDAY 2 JUNE<br />
Put your feet up!<br />
Vladgavriloff, dreamstime.com<br />
Children's Pond Dipping<br />
led by Ali Driver<br />
10am - 12 noon<br />
Children's Football<br />
7 - 11 years, 1pm - 3pm<br />
Berkshire County<br />
Sports Ground<br />
Sonning Scarecrows<br />
10am-5pm<br />
Cherished Car Display<br />
Bishops Close 1pm - 4.30pm<br />
Art Exhibition<br />
Pearson Hall 10am - 5pm<br />
FRIDAY 3 JUNE<br />
Sonning Scarecrows<br />
10am-5pm<br />
Cherished Car Display<br />
Bishops Close 1pm - 4.30pm<br />
Art Exhibition<br />
Pearson Hall 10am - 5pm<br />
SATURDAY 4 JUNE<br />
Sonning Elegant Picnic<br />
Reading Blue Coat<br />
7.30pm - 11.45pm<br />
SUNDAY 5 JUNE<br />
Platinum Celebration<br />
Service for Her Majesty<br />
<strong>The</strong> Queen at 11am<br />
Sonning Village Street<br />
Party in Pearson Road<br />
2.30pm
22 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong><br />
THE WAR IN UKRAINE<br />
'With tears in my eyes and happiness in my heart…'<br />
Responding to the plight of millions of Ukrainians, Twyford resident Debbie Martin (above left), began organising donations of<br />
everyday items that could be sent to Ukraine in a lorry. As we went to press, lorry number 9 had arrived in Folkestone! Each lorry<br />
has between £50,000 to £60,000 worth of donations made by local people. On lorry number 8, which will be driven into West<br />
Ukraine — Lviv and Rivne — was the enormous collection of 'smiles in shoeboxes' (above left) that included gifts and toys for<br />
children. <strong>The</strong>y will then be transported on smaller vehicles and taken where they are very much needed. Here, Debbie tells the<br />
moving story of one of the gifts that had been sent to Ukraine on an earlier lorry . . .<br />
With tears in my eyes and happiness in my heart… Someone kindly gave me Polly<br />
during the early donations. Before Polly was sent to Ukraine, I wrote my email<br />
address on the back of the luggage tag asking if the receiver was able to let me know<br />
that Polly had arrived safely and had found her way into the arms of a child.<br />
I never thought in a million years that I would hear anything, but it is with so much<br />
joy I can share with you all that Polly is safely in the arms of Mariia. Below is the<br />
translation from the amazing letter Mariia has sent me.<br />
Hello dear friend!<br />
I am Nataly. Recently my niece received a gift from you and asked me to help her with sending<br />
a letter to you.<br />
'Hi Debbie!<br />
My name is Mariia. I am 6 years old. I am from Ukraine. Thank you for Polly! I really like it. I<br />
named it Polina [Ukrainian version of the name 'Polly']. When the war is over, I will be glad if<br />
you come to visit me."<br />
Debbie, all Ukrainian people and I personally really appreciate your support and support<br />
from people all over the world. Thanks to such wonderful and careful people we are still alive<br />
and hopefully we will survive in this cruel and senseless war where too many innocent people<br />
are dying every day. I really hope that this madness will be over soon.<br />
Just let me know if some day you decide<br />
to visit Ukraine. We will be happy to show<br />
you our beautiful country.<br />
Stay safe and healthy.<br />
Best wishes from Mariia and Nataly<br />
Look at the difference we are making<br />
— it's never too late to donate and if<br />
anyone would like to donate a small teddy<br />
with a message on a luggage tag let me<br />
know!<br />
debbiemrtn4@gmail.com<br />
#westandwithukraine<br />
Left: Mariia's letter to Debbie<br />
Right: Mariia with Polina (Polly the doll)<br />
Right above: Polly before being shipped to Ukraine
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong> 23<br />
Fleeing for their lives: ordinary people from Ukraine find themselves forced into becoming refugees.<br />
Nigel Beeton, who retired recently as an NHS radiographer, enjoys writing poetry. He is also editor of the parish magazine for St<br />
Mary with St Peter, Bury St Edmunds. Nigel writes: ‘Now our thoughts are overshadowed by the terrible situation in Ukraine. I<br />
looked at the masses of people on the station platforms, and I thought, only a couple of months ago, each one of those people had<br />
a life, a home, a shop to buy food, perhaps somewhere to grow daffodils, maybe a church to worship God, and their own hopes and<br />
dreams for the future. Now they are just part of a mass of people shuffling towards a westbound train.’ Here's one of his poems . . .<br />
<strong>The</strong> Refugee<br />
By Nigel Beeton<br />
Palinchak, dreamstime.com<br />
All that I was, I no longer am<br />
All that I have, I hold in my hand<br />
My home, my love, my world are all gone<br />
One among thousands, I shuffle along.<br />
Only last week I knew who I was<br />
All that has gone, and only because<br />
Someone in a land a long way away<br />
Turned life into hell one terrible day.<br />
Palinchak, dreamstime.com<br />
CHRISTIAN CHARITIES HELPING THE<br />
PEOPLE OF UKRAINE<br />
Christian charities that are helping the people of<br />
Ukraine would welcome your support:<br />
Barnabas Fund: https://www.barnabasfund.org/gb/<br />
Christian Aid: https://www.christianaid.org.uk<br />
Methodist Church UK: https://www.allwecan.org.uk<br />
Samaritan’s Purse: https://www.samaritans-purse.org.uk<br />
Transform Europe: Network: https://www.ten-uk.org<br />
World Vision: https://www.worldvision.org.uk<br />
Operation Mobilisation: https://www.uk.om.org/Appeal/ukraine-in-crisis<br />
He started a war, his heart icy cold<br />
He rained down his hell on the young and the old<br />
I ran for my life for I had no choice<br />
And nobody heard the fear in my voice.<br />
Everything’s gone, and all that is ‘me’<br />
Summed up in a word – the word ‘refugee’.<br />
I have no control, no say in my fate<br />
Just one in a crowd, I stand and I wait.<br />
Waiting for what? <strong>The</strong> future’s unclear,<br />
For armed men have taken all that I held dear<br />
Along with my hopes, and all I had planned<br />
All swept away by the tanks in my land.<br />
One thing alone puts a smile on my face<br />
A far nicer stranger has come to this place;<br />
A bed for the night? A cup of hot tea?<br />
And – best of all – someone who sees me as me.
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feature — 5<br />
Still alive after<br />
thousands<br />
of years,<br />
but for how<br />
much longer?<br />
World Turtle Day®: 23 <strong>May</strong><br />
Throughout my life, writes Bob<br />
Peters, I have collected and kept<br />
things that I thought at the time<br />
might, one day, be useful, or because<br />
they were unusual or interesting —<br />
well, a least to me!<br />
One of my 'treasures' is a large shell<br />
that was once home for a turtle. Such<br />
'trophies' were made illegal in 1977<br />
by the Convention on International<br />
Trade in Endangered Species of Wild<br />
Fauna and Flora. Even so, turtles<br />
continue to be harvested illegally for<br />
human consumption and trade of<br />
their parts. Some are also killed for<br />
medicine and supposedly 'religious'<br />
ceremonies.<br />
HUNDRED YEARS<br />
<strong>The</strong> shell, which measures 24 x<br />
18 inches, came into my possession<br />
about 50 years ago, but it had been in<br />
my first wife's, family for, it was said,<br />
more than 100 years previously. My<br />
first wife died of cancer, as did most<br />
of her closest family, so the actual<br />
history of the turtle shell has been<br />
lost in time. <strong>The</strong> story goes that one<br />
of the Victorian family members was<br />
a seafarer who travelled the world<br />
and brought it home with him. It was<br />
thought that he picked it up in the<br />
Caribbean.<br />
<strong>The</strong> shell had been mounted on a<br />
wooden easel and it stood in several<br />
family homes as an ornament before<br />
my wife's great aunt gave it to us.<br />
I used it to attract the attention of<br />
schoolchildren when leading assembly<br />
and family service talks about God's<br />
amazing creation; it always worked!<br />
<strong>The</strong> shell came to mind when I<br />
read that there is a special awareness<br />
day for turtles on 23 <strong>May</strong>. I also learnt<br />
that there are about 356 species of<br />
turtles living in salt and fresh water<br />
in all continents except Antarctica.<br />
<strong>The</strong> turtle is thought to be one<br />
of the most ancient of creatures and<br />
the word ‘turtle’ is mentioned in the<br />
Bible, which should not surprise us<br />
because today there are thousands of<br />
seas turtles in the waters around the<br />
Middle East. <strong>The</strong> turtle is mentioned<br />
in the King James version of the Old<br />
Testament book of Leviticus 15:29 as<br />
an offering that a woman could make<br />
to be cleansed after giving birth, ie, if<br />
she could not afford a lamb:<br />
'And if she be not able to bring a lamb,<br />
then she shall bring two turtles, or two<br />
young pigeons; the one for the burnt<br />
offering, and the other for a sin offering:<br />
and the priest shall make an atonement<br />
for her, and she shall be clean'.<br />
Wirestock, dreamstime.com<br />
Later translations of the Bible<br />
changed this to ‘two turtle doves’,<br />
a bird named after the 'tu tu' sound<br />
that it makes, although another<br />
theory is that the name came from a<br />
distinctive black band on the bird’s<br />
neck that makes it look like its head<br />
can be retracted into its body, just as<br />
a turtle does.<br />
We will never know the truth<br />
about the 'turtle' in the Bible,<br />
although it is certainly possible that<br />
it’s the sea creature because the<br />
Israelites lived off the produce of<br />
both the land and the sea — turtle<br />
meat and eggs are still a source of<br />
food and income for many people<br />
around the world — but I like to<br />
think that the Bible referred to sea<br />
turtles because it gives me a good<br />
reason for using it!<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong> 25<br />
Andibyte, dreamstime.com<br />
SMUGGLING<br />
World Turtle Day® celebrates these<br />
gentle animals that have survived<br />
200 million years, yet they are rapidly<br />
disappearing because of smuggling,<br />
habitat destruction, climate change,<br />
the cruel pet trade, and live exotic<br />
food markets.<br />
<strong>The</strong> organisers of World Turtle<br />
Day® say that about 61% of turtle<br />
species worldwide are threatened or<br />
already extinct.<br />
According to their experts, they<br />
are the most threatened of the major<br />
groups of vertebrates, more so than<br />
birds, mammals, and fish. It is why<br />
they say: 'Education is so important in<br />
every country globally so that turtles<br />
can be treasured, not eliminated'. To<br />
learn more about World Turtle Day®<br />
visit:<br />
https://www.worldturtleday.org/<br />
Inside the<br />
shell<br />
can be<br />
seen<br />
the<br />
internal<br />
structure of<br />
the turtle whose home it was 150 years ago.
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Preparing exhibits for the Jubilee show<br />
Sonning Art Group continues to be busy preparing for its exhibition in the Pearson Hall during the Jubilee Scarecrow<br />
Trail. As well as displaying many works of art, they are creating a scarecrow called '<strong>The</strong> Queen Bee'. Not only will<br />
it highlight the importance of looking after the bees and other insects in our gardens, it will be a tribute to Queen<br />
Elizabeth's remarkable Platinum Jubilee. Visitors to the exhibition will be able to enjoy a range of the Art Groups<br />
most recent work such as Kay Mottram's Kingfisher in pearlised acrylics and Jill Watkins' cheeky fox painted in<br />
watercolours.<br />
An invitation for all Pearson Hall users<br />
<strong>The</strong> Pearson Hall AGM will be held in the committee<br />
room at Pearson Hall on Wednesday 22 June, 6.30pm for a<br />
6.45pm start. Everyone who uses Pearson Hall is welcome<br />
to attend.<br />
Sonning & Sonning Eye Society outing<br />
<strong>The</strong> next outing is a tour of the 'boutique' Fairmile<br />
Vineyard in Henley on 21 June at 10.30am. Make your own<br />
way there (and home again!) and picnic in the grounds or<br />
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Horticultural shows<br />
are back on the agenda<br />
<strong>The</strong> Twyford and Ruscombe<br />
Horticultural Association held<br />
its Spring Show for the first time<br />
in two years on 26 March and,<br />
although it was smaller than the<br />
shows of the past, it went well.<br />
<strong>The</strong> good weather meant that teas<br />
could be taken on the terrace and an<br />
enjoyable afternoon was had by all.<br />
For the first time, some of the entries<br />
were judged by the visitors. It was an<br />
idea that proved successful, so it will<br />
be continued at this year's Summer<br />
and Autumn Shows.<br />
STRIP THE WILLOW<br />
<strong>The</strong> Summer Show will be held<br />
at Loddon Hall, Twyford, RG10 9JA<br />
on Saturday 11 June. Details are in<br />
the TRHA show schedule, and on the<br />
website: https://trha.org.uk/<br />
In the meantime, this month will<br />
see a willow stripping experience at<br />
the TRHA Store in Loddon Hall Road<br />
on Sunday 1 <strong>May</strong>. All members and<br />
their families will be welcome.<br />
On Sunday 29 <strong>May</strong> there's a<br />
bring and buy plant sale at the store<br />
when you can share your cuttings<br />
and seedlings and, perhaps, find<br />
something new for your garden.<br />
<strong>The</strong> association's store is well<br />
stocked for all your horticultural<br />
needs and you can get advice from<br />
the knowledgeable volunteers.<br />
You can become a member for<br />
only £8 per year, or £7 if you are<br />
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A newsletter, with information on<br />
the Association’s activities, as well<br />
as topical tips, is published monthly.<br />
Paper copies are distributed to those<br />
members who cannot receive it<br />
electronically. Details of all activities<br />
can also be found on the TRHA<br />
website:<br />
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fun way in which anyone with knitting needles can get involved in the coming<br />
celebrations. Search the internet for ‘knitting patterns for corgis’ and you<br />
will find a wide variety of free patterns on offer. Knitted corgis could help<br />
decorate house windows, local shops and will look great with scarecrows!<br />
Village rounders is<br />
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Sonning Cricket Club will be opening<br />
its bar and Sonning Primary School<br />
PTA will be cooking a BBQ.<br />
<strong>The</strong> first strike is at 5.30pm!<br />
IN THE ARK AT ST ANDREW'S CHURCH<br />
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. . . 150 YEARS AGO on 18 <strong>May</strong><br />
1872 that Bertrand Russell, Welsh<br />
philosopher, mathematician, historian,<br />
and writer was born. He won the 1950<br />
Nobel Prize in Literature.<br />
. . . 125 YEARS AGO on 26 <strong>May</strong><br />
1897 that Bram Stoker’s horror novel<br />
Dracula was published.<br />
. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 27 <strong>May</strong> 1922<br />
that Christopher Lee, British film actor<br />
was born. He was best known for his<br />
his role as Dracula. (Died 2015)<br />
. . . 90 YEARS AGO on 9 <strong>May</strong> 1932 that<br />
London’s Piccadilly Circus was lit with<br />
electrical lighting for the first time.<br />
It later became famous for its neon<br />
lighting and video advertising displays.<br />
. . . 60 YEARS AGO on 25 <strong>May</strong> 1962<br />
that the new Coventry Cathedral was<br />
consecrated. <strong>The</strong> previous one had<br />
been destroyed by German bombing<br />
during World War II.<br />
. . . 50 YEARS AGO on 28 <strong>May</strong> 1972<br />
that Prince Edward, Duke of Windsor,<br />
died. He was formerly Edward VIII,<br />
until his abdication in December 1936.<br />
. . . 40 YEARS AGO on 27-28 <strong>May</strong> 1982<br />
that the Battle of Goose Green took<br />
place during the Falklands War.<br />
. . . 25 YEARS AGO on 1 <strong>May</strong><br />
1997 that the Labour Party won a<br />
landslide victory, ending 18 years of<br />
Conservative rule. Tony Blair became<br />
Prime Minister.<br />
. . . 15 YEARS AGO, on 3 <strong>May</strong> 2007<br />
that 3 year old Madeleine McCann<br />
went missing while on holiday with her<br />
parents in Praia da Luz, Portugal. Her<br />
disappearance is the most reported<br />
missing person case in history.<br />
. . . 1o YEARS AGO on 18 <strong>May</strong> 2012<br />
that social media network Facebook<br />
went public. Its initial public offering<br />
raised $16 billion, the third-largest<br />
amount in US history.<br />
. . . 5 YEARS AGO on 7 <strong>May</strong> 2017 that<br />
<strong>The</strong> Ark at St Andrew's Church was<br />
opened by <strong>The</strong> Rt Hon <strong>The</strong>resa <strong>May</strong> MP<br />
Prime Minister and First Lord of the<br />
Treasury, and dedicated by <strong>The</strong> Rt Revd<br />
and Rt Hon Lord Carey of Clifton, Lord<br />
Archbishop of Canterbury (1991-2002).
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HEALTH<br />
Dr Simon Ruffle writes . . .<br />
Atishoo! Bless you!<br />
Your chance of getting ill is least if you are born in the<br />
month of <strong>May</strong>1 (If you are born in New York)<br />
Commentary on the study suggests that the research needs<br />
to be widened. Diseases change throughout the year. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
are often environmentally driven with different parasites,<br />
viruses and bacteria enjoying different conditions. It is also<br />
driven by human behaviour.<br />
After a warm summer we all decide to hot house our children<br />
and cram ourselves into trains and tubes. Respiratory illness<br />
abound and stomach bugs have a feast.<br />
Washing hands, wearing masks and staggering your<br />
journeys or working from home have, unequivocally, shown<br />
to reduce transmission of pathogens.2<br />
It needed a pandemic to show how irresponsible it is to go<br />
to work with illnesses. I know! It’s the economy, stupid.3<br />
I wonder how many hours of lost work are created by<br />
‘soldiering on’ and/or the need of proof of sickness driving<br />
people to seek NHS medical advice when not necessary.<br />
THE MOTHER OF INVENTION<br />
When the pandemic hit us, the rapidity of primary care<br />
service redesign to try to keep a service going, still affects<br />
our staffing numbers quite dramatically.<br />
My surgery very quickly, with our local Clinical<br />
Conditioning Group and other practices gained the ability to<br />
work remotely and online.<br />
In a moment of madness we also changed our whole<br />
system that was more conducive to working in tandem with<br />
other practices. ‘Teams/Zoom’ became the norm. We soon<br />
learnt of their frailties and the benefits which we will smooth<br />
out but it is early days.<br />
MOTHER NATURE FINDS A WAY<br />
Whatever we do, the planet and nature, finds its way to<br />
foil us. <strong>The</strong> disease that really kicks off at this time of year is<br />
absolutely necessary for life on earth but it makes one in four<br />
of us miserable to varying degrees — hay fever!<br />
We have no cure, we can only make some of the symptoms<br />
more tolerable:<br />
— sneezing and coughing<br />
— a runny or blocked nose<br />
— itchy throat, mouth, nose and ears<br />
— itchy, red or watery eyes<br />
— loss of smell<br />
— headache<br />
— earache<br />
—feeling tired<br />
— pain around your temples and forehead<br />
If you have asthma, you might also have a tight feeling in<br />
your chest; be short of breath, wheeze and cough<br />
TREATING HAY FEVER YOURSELF<br />
Hay fever will last for weeks or months, unlike a cold,<br />
which usually goes away after 1 - 2 weeks, and currently there<br />
is no cure and you cannot prevent it. But you can do things to<br />
ease your symptoms when the pollen count is high.<br />
— put Vaseline around your nostrils to trap pollen<br />
— wear wraparound sunglasses to keep pollen out of your eyes<br />
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— shower and change your clothes after you have been<br />
outside to wash off pollen<br />
— stay indoors whenever possible<br />
— keep windows and doors shut as much as possible<br />
— vacuum regularly and dust with a damp cloth<br />
— buy a pollen filter for the air vents in your car and a<br />
vacuum cleaner with a HEPA filter<br />
— do not cut grass or walk on grass<br />
— do not spend too much time outside<br />
— do not keep fresh flowers in the house<br />
— do not smoke or be around smoke – it makes your<br />
symptoms worse<br />
— do not dry clothes outside – they can catch pollen<br />
— do not let pets into the house, if possible, as they can<br />
carry pollen indoors5<br />
— Keep a link to the pollen forecast so you can plan your days.6<br />
MEDICATIONS<br />
Simon Ruffle<br />
All commonly used medications for hay fever are available<br />
without prescription. You practice nurse or GP has little more<br />
to offer despite the NHS advice that your GP can prescribe<br />
steroid sprays, which are also available without prescription.<br />
During pregnancy some who suffer get better, others<br />
well, don’t ask! I have no idea who would be who! <strong>The</strong> normal<br />
therapies are safe in pregnancy, your pharmacist can advise.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is a lot of talk about hay fever injections. Two different<br />
therapies are being confused. One is a long acting injection of a<br />
steroid into one of your big muscles. While effective these can<br />
open you up to infection, bone thinning, and a deficiency in<br />
your natural steroid production that can cause a problem with<br />
how you respond to illness; it can be fatal.<br />
<strong>The</strong> other is a repeated set of injections, known as<br />
immunotherapy which is becoming more available on the<br />
NHS but it is expensive in time commitment from patients<br />
and clinicians alike and referral is months. It is reserved for<br />
when other therapies have failed.<br />
Most failure of treatment is because we wait for symptoms<br />
to start. Once this has happened I’m afraid it is too late. <strong>The</strong><br />
allergy response has started, the nerve endings and mucous<br />
membranes are already ‘primed to react.’ <strong>The</strong> best advice is<br />
to know when your own symptoms start in the year. Keep an<br />
eye on the pollen count and start eye drops, nasal spray and<br />
antihistamine before the symptoms are established.<br />
References:<br />
1. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/could-your-birth-month-indicate-your-risk-of-disease/<br />
2. https://www.thelancet.com/journals/landig/article/PIIS2589-7500(21)00003-0/fulltext<br />
3. James Carville 1992<br />
4. Plato (Republic circa 600 BCE)<br />
5. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/hay-fever/<br />
6. https://www.metoffice.gov.uk/weather/warnings-and-advice/seasonal-advice/pollenforecast#?date=<strong>2022</strong>-04-03®ion=se
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HOME AND GARDEN<br />
Feeding the Future – an exciting<br />
new study that you can be part of!<br />
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In the garden<br />
Researchers at the University of Oxford are looking for as many volunteers<br />
as possible to complete an online survey to improve future research on the<br />
health impacts of different diets.<br />
How can we know which foods are<br />
good for us, and which ones aren’t?<br />
To investigate this, researchers<br />
use large scale observational<br />
studies which track people over<br />
time to see if certain diets appear<br />
to be linked to a higher risk of<br />
developing disease.<br />
RISKS<br />
But because UK diets have<br />
changed so much over recent<br />
years — for instance, with the<br />
rise of new plant based milk and<br />
meat alternatives — we have very<br />
limited information about what<br />
modern diets actually contain.<br />
This makes it very difficult<br />
to understand why certain diets<br />
may be associated with different<br />
disease risks.<br />
Dr Keren Papier, a nutritional<br />
epidemiologist at the University<br />
of Oxford, explained: 'Studies have<br />
shown, for instance, that plant-based<br />
diets are associated with a lower<br />
risk of heart disease. But these diets<br />
can be interpreted very differently<br />
in real life; some vegetarians and<br />
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vegans may eat many nutritious foods<br />
such as whole grains, fruits, vegetables,<br />
and pulses, while others may solely eat<br />
white pasta, tomato sauce, white bread<br />
with margarine, and crisps.'<br />
FEED<br />
To address this, Dr Papier and her<br />
colleagues have launched a new study<br />
called Feeding the Future (FEED),<br />
which aims to generate an up-to date<br />
picture of what UK adults following<br />
different diets are actually eating.<br />
<strong>The</strong> researchers are looking for<br />
as many UK residents as possible<br />
to complete a short, one-off survey<br />
about the foods they eat, and why.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y hope the results will increase<br />
our understanding of how disease<br />
risks may vary for different diets, and<br />
inform future research and dietary<br />
recommendations.<br />
'Whether you are a carnivore, vegan,<br />
vegetarian, pescatarian or flexitarian,<br />
we would really like to hear from you.<br />
'By taking the survey, you can help<br />
contribute to important research,<br />
without even leaving your home' added<br />
Dr Papier.<br />
HOW TO HELP BY TAKING PART IN THE FEED SURVEY<br />
<strong>The</strong> survey is open to all UK adults over 18 years old and can be found at:<br />
https://oxford.onlinesurveys.ac.uk/feeding-the-future-study-feed<br />
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<strong>The</strong> number one tip from the Royal<br />
Horticultural Society this month<br />
is to watch out for late frosts and<br />
to protect any vulnerable plants.<br />
Writing this at the end of March<br />
when many of us had been lulled<br />
into thinking summer is almost<br />
here because of some unusually<br />
warm temperatures, it was a<br />
surprise to wake up to snow flurries<br />
and frost. We need to take that<br />
RHS warning seriously!<br />
Here is another serious suggestion<br />
from RHS — be nice to slugs and<br />
snails!<br />
<strong>The</strong> society has recently began a<br />
campaign to encourage us to see the<br />
gastropods in our gardens in a better<br />
light. It says that the species play a<br />
key role in garden ecosystems, and<br />
thus are in need of some ‘positive<br />
PR’. It seems that only nine of the 44<br />
known species in the UK are likely<br />
to threaten our gardens, and that all<br />
of them play a vital role in recycling<br />
dead plant material and animal<br />
waste, and acting as a food source for<br />
hedgehogs (see page 19), frogs, birds,<br />
beetles and flies.<br />
In fact, the RHS’s principal<br />
entomologist says that we should<br />
consider our slugs and snails not as<br />
marauding pests bent on eating our<br />
flowers and vegetables, but rather as<br />
‘garden visitors’.<br />
'Our gardens would be duller<br />
and messier without them,' said Dr<br />
Andrew Salisbury.<br />
You can find out more about the Feeding the Future study here:<br />
https://www.ceu.ox.ac.uk/research/feeding-the-future-study-feed<br />
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<strong>The</strong> ARTS — 1<br />
Dirk Bouts<br />
meal to<br />
remember<br />
By Rev Michael Burgess<br />
When we celebrate the Eucharist<br />
and make our communion, we are<br />
remembering that special meal<br />
Jesus shared with his disciples on the<br />
eve of his arrest and death. But do<br />
we always appreciate what we are<br />
doing? Sometimes the monotony of<br />
repetition and distractions will get in<br />
the way. We fail to recognise Christ’s<br />
gift at communion for what it truly is.<br />
In the 15th Century the prosperous<br />
burghers of the Flemish town of<br />
Louvain commissioned the artist<br />
Dirk Bouts to paint a special<br />
altarpiece devoted to the Eucharist<br />
for the church of St Peter.<br />
Dirk Bouts portrayed the Last<br />
Supper in a room looking out to his<br />
own town of Louvain.<br />
<strong>The</strong> faces of the servers in the<br />
room and the cooks looking through<br />
the hatch were modelled on the<br />
burghers who commissioned the<br />
work. Other faces are modelled on<br />
theologians at the new university<br />
Book Reviews<br />
Celtic Prayer – Caught Up in Love<br />
Edited by David Cole<br />
(Brother Cassian),<br />
BRF, £12.99<br />
This rich collection of<br />
essays, conversations<br />
and reflections from<br />
30 members of the<br />
Community of Aidan and Hilda distils<br />
the ancient wisdom of the Celtic<br />
Christians and applies it to the lived<br />
reality of contemporary readers.<br />
It offers deep spiritual truths woven<br />
beautifully with usable prayers.<br />
101 Great Big Questions about God<br />
and Science<br />
By Lizzie Henderson<br />
and Steph Bryant,<br />
Lion Children’s Books,<br />
£9.99<br />
Have you ever wondered<br />
how the universe began,<br />
who visited the artist. <strong>The</strong>y wanted<br />
to ensure he kept his theological feet<br />
on the ground while his imagination<br />
took flight.<br />
And so around the scene of the<br />
Last Supper, Bouts has painted Old<br />
Testament scenes foreshadowing<br />
that holy communion: Melchizedek<br />
offering bread and wine in return for<br />
Abraham’s offering, the eating of the<br />
first Passover, the gathering of the<br />
manna in the wilderness, and Elijah<br />
wakened by the angel to eat and<br />
drink before setting out for Horeb.<br />
Signs of sacrifice, the Passover of<br />
the old covenant, daily food and food<br />
for the journey — all key aspects of<br />
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share in.<br />
what the point of life might be, or<br />
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Questions asked by children with<br />
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When we see the bread and wine<br />
taken up and offered, we remember<br />
not only the Last Supper, when Jesus<br />
fed his disciples with the sacrifice<br />
of his life, but those occasions when<br />
God reached out to feed his people<br />
of old.<br />
We rejoice that the food our Lord<br />
gives us in the Eucharist feeds us<br />
now and enables us to make our<br />
journey through life to the eternal<br />
banquet offered in the heavenly<br />
kingdom.<br />
It is perfect for those who would<br />
like to know more about the history<br />
behind the Easter story, and can be<br />
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Together in Mission – from All<br />
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THE ARTS — 2<br />
Poetry Corner<br />
THE SCIENCES<br />
A spirit of humility<br />
By Dr Ruth M Bancewicz, church engagement director at <strong>The</strong> Faraday<br />
Institute for Science and Religion in Cambridge<br />
hairymuseummatt (original photo), DrMikeBaxter (derivative work),<br />
CC BY-SA 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons<br />
Spirit Sealings<br />
By Steven Rolling<br />
Based on John: 14:13-21<br />
Tune: Coe Fen – ‘How shall I sing that majesty’<br />
Whate’er you ask now in my name<br />
It shall be done, the same<br />
Said Jesus, so that Father be<br />
Glorified in Son, see<br />
And if we shall ask anything<br />
He will do it, will bring<br />
To us he things of God’s good hand<br />
To folk of every land<br />
And Christ will pray the Father too<br />
To send Comforter to you<br />
That He may abide for ever<br />
Remain, leave you never<br />
Even the Spirit of truth, He<br />
Shall with you, in you be<br />
He whom the world cannot receive<br />
<strong>The</strong> not see, know, believe<br />
Comfortless He will not us leave<br />
Nor stay in sadness, grieve<br />
For Christ shall come to us again<br />
<strong>The</strong> Spirit’s presence then<br />
<strong>The</strong>y that have His commands and keep<br />
<strong>The</strong>m, they are e’er His sheep<br />
And they are those who do Christ love<br />
Inspired by grace above<br />
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<strong>The</strong>y too be by the Father loved<br />
He holds them, His encoved*<br />
And Christ will love them, and will show<br />
Himself to them, they know<br />
<strong>The</strong>n of His presence, kindly blessed<br />
In Him they find their rest<br />
Come to our hearts now, holy dove<br />
Spirit of truth and love<br />
*encoved = encovenanted<br />
A few years ago I visited the Smithsonian Museum’s Hall<br />
of Human Origins. Our guide, the curator of anthropology,<br />
was keen to help Christians understand his research.<br />
Whatever you make of the evidence for human evolution,<br />
the fact remains that other species a bit like us were<br />
around before we came on the scene — or in the case of<br />
Neanderthals, at the same time.<br />
Part of the exhibit included lifelike reconstructions of the<br />
face and hair of several different hominins, displayed on<br />
pillars at the right height for each species. So I could crouch<br />
down to ‘meet’ Homo floriensis or stand tall to look into<br />
the eyes of Homo heidelbergensis. Most of these — beings?<br />
creatures? — were on other branches of the evolutionary tree<br />
to us, and we share a common ancestor much further back. I<br />
did, however, feel as if I was meeting my forebears.<br />
As I walked between the statues I asked myself, 'Why us?'<br />
<strong>The</strong>re’s evidence that Neanderthals used symbolism as we<br />
do, and also buried their dead. Did they have the potential<br />
to evolve to a point where they could do similar things to us?<br />
<strong>The</strong> curator explained how, as the ice ages came and went,<br />
human beings moved around but other species appear to<br />
have stayed put and suffered the consequences — they just<br />
weren’t ready yet for that big change. As I took in the displays<br />
about how we began to gather socially around a fire, make<br />
music or write, I felt humbled. We managed to adapt, but we<br />
could so easily have disappeared with the rest.<br />
AN EQUAL SHARE IN MANKIND<br />
In his book <strong>The</strong> Message of Creation, theologian David<br />
Wilkinson shares his view that being made in the image of<br />
God has nothing to do with our own cleverness or abilities,<br />
but is a gift. God created us on purpose — I believe through<br />
the long slow process of evolution — and chose to enter into a<br />
relationship with us, making us his representatives on earth.<br />
Thankfully I don’t have to figure out how to interact with<br />
other humanlike hominins today. I do, however, have an<br />
equal share in humankind’s God-given commission to tend<br />
and keep creation.<br />
Am I ready to go further than ensuring my own species’<br />
survival — not necessarily because we have evolved further<br />
than our ice age ancestors, but because I have one of the ‘new<br />
hearts’ promised in Ezekiel 11:19? Can I work together, in a<br />
true spirit of humility, with people from all over the world to<br />
ensure the full diversity of life can flourish?
CROSSWORD<br />
1 2 3 4 5 6 7<br />
8 9<br />
12<br />
16<br />
10 11<br />
13 14 15<br />
18 19<br />
20 21<br />
Across<br />
Across<br />
- (8)<br />
1 Deject (8)<br />
- (4)<br />
5 Pal (4)<br />
8<br />
- Parody<br />
(5)<br />
(5)<br />
9 - Humorous; done in done fun (7) in fun (7)<br />
10 - In a a relaxed manner manner (7) (7)<br />
12 12 - Hammers (7) (7)<br />
14 Majestic (7)<br />
14 - Majestic (7)<br />
16 Ancient warship (7)<br />
16 - Ancient warship (7)<br />
18 Spiny egg-laying mammal (7)<br />
18 - Spiny egg-laying mammal (7)<br />
19 Eg Pacific or Atlantic (5)<br />
19<br />
20<br />
- Eg<br />
Become<br />
Pacific or Atlantic<br />
weary<br />
(5)<br />
(4)<br />
20 21 - Become Continues weary (4) obstinately (8)<br />
21 - Continues obstinately (8)<br />
CODEWORD<br />
17 - Noes (anag) (4)<br />
6 3 19 6 3 14 23 10 9<br />
17 1 1 6 3 18 19 15 3 25<br />
11 1 4 20 17 17 17<br />
17 22 1 6 15 17 19 5 17 20 25<br />
8 17 11 1 3 1<br />
14 17 5 3 25 21 16 15 8 15 8 3<br />
5 11 25 11<br />
3 25 11 16 26 1 25 25 1 8 15 11<br />
14 19 5 4 15 1<br />
1 18 3 25 2 16 8 7 16 5 17<br />
17 15 16 17 2 1 13<br />
26 15 10 10 16 25 3 25 16 3<br />
8 24 14 12 1 18 25 3 25<br />
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z<br />
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13<br />
C H<br />
14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26<br />
T<br />
17<br />
SUDOKU<br />
Each of the nine blocks has to contain all the<br />
numbers 1-9 within its squares. Each number<br />
can only appear once in a row, column or box.<br />
WORDSEARCH<br />
PRAY FOR UKRAINE<br />
Lord, we pray for Ukraine, a nation in which<br />
70% of the population call themselves<br />
Christian. You, Lord, make wars cease to the<br />
end of the earth; you break bows, shatter<br />
spears, and burn shields with fire [Psalm<br />
46:9]. And so, we ask you now to save the<br />
lives of many people in Ukraine. De-escalate<br />
this crisis. We hear of wars and rumours of<br />
wars (Matt. 24:6], but you Lord are our rock,<br />
our fortress and our deliverer. Our hope is in<br />
you. And so we address the nations now. In<br />
the name of Jesus we say: 'Be still and know<br />
God! He is exalted among the nations; He<br />
shall be exalted in the earth.' [Psalm 46:10]<br />
Kyrie eleison – Lord have mercy.<br />
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PUZZLE PAGE — the answers will be published in the next issue<br />
Down<br />
Down<br />
1 - Shallow food container (4)<br />
1 Shallow food container (4)<br />
2 - Type of spade (6)<br />
2 Type of spade (6)<br />
3 - Have an effect on 3 Have an effect on another (9)<br />
4 Urges to 4 - act Urges (6) to act (6)<br />
6 Gave out 6 - loud Gave out puffs loud puffs of air of air (6)<br />
7 Our galaxy 7 - Our (5,3) galaxy (5,3)<br />
11 Junctures; events (9)<br />
11 - Junctures; events (9)<br />
12 Fail to look after properly (8)<br />
12 - Fail to look after properly (8)<br />
13 Shrivel (6)<br />
13 - Shrivel (6)<br />
14 Plant with oil rich seeds (6)<br />
14 - Plant with oil rich seeds (6)<br />
15 A way out (6)<br />
17 Noes (anag) 15 - A way (4) out (6)<br />
QUIZ : <strong>The</strong> Queen's Early Years<br />
UKRAINE<br />
SHIELDS<br />
SPEARS<br />
CRISIS<br />
WAR<br />
CEASE<br />
EARTH<br />
BREAK<br />
BOWS<br />
BURN<br />
FIRE<br />
SAVE<br />
MANY<br />
LIVES<br />
LORD IN<br />
OUR YOU<br />
ROCK BE<br />
HOPE STILL<br />
SHATTER<br />
FORTRESS<br />
DELIVERER<br />
April<br />
Solutions<br />
CROSSWORD<br />
C O U R T E O U S L Y<br />
A P O X N O A<br />
U T U S U R P S I R<br />
D O I N G D I E M<br />
A O H E N E R V E<br />
C O N V E R S E D<br />
I S N S T F<br />
O N E U T R I N O<br />
U N D U E R U G R<br />
S I X R D O R I C<br />
L O T I R A T E E E<br />
Y T S T N S S<br />
P O R T R A I T I S T<br />
CODEWORD<br />
R A G S A P O S T A T E<br />
E R C R U R X<br />
T S U N A M I B E R E T<br />
R F P M J A R<br />
O F F E R A M E R I C A<br />
S I L C G V<br />
P R E A C H S T A N Z A<br />
E A I S I G<br />
C O R R O D E V O D K A<br />
T L U Q I W N<br />
I D O L S U P S W E P T<br />
V B L I M L L<br />
E V E R Y O N E A L L Y<br />
SUDOKU<br />
WORDSEARCH LAST SUPPER<br />
EASTER EGG EXAM?<br />
1. Stone on the Easter tomb<br />
2. About 90 million<br />
3. Joseph Fry<br />
4. <strong>The</strong> Easter bunny<br />
5. A cuckoo<br />
6. Ukraine<br />
1. Where was <strong>The</strong> Queen born?<br />
2. What time of day was <strong>The</strong> Queen born?<br />
3. What is the date of <strong>The</strong> Queen's birthday?<br />
4. Where did <strong>The</strong> Queen live as a child?<br />
5. Where was <strong>The</strong> Queen educated?<br />
6. What did <strong>The</strong> Queen win at the age of 13 years? Tomert, dreamstime.com
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ADD Plumbing 12<br />
All Aerials 40<br />
All Waste Clearance 40<br />
Barn Store Henley 16<br />
Berkshire Stump Removals 40<br />
Big Heart Tree Care 40<br />
Blandy & Blandy Solicitors 14<br />
Blinds Direct 26<br />
Blue Moose 8<br />
Bridge House 43<br />
Bridges Home Care 26<br />
Bull Inn 8<br />
Callaghan Carpets & Flooring 40<br />
Chimney Sweep, Thames 40<br />
Chiropody, Linda Frewin 40<br />
Chris the Plumber 32<br />
Clark Bicknell 40<br />
Complete Pest Solutions 40<br />
Computer Frustrations 40<br />
Cruz Kitchens 28<br />
Design for Print 28<br />
EMDR Hypnotherapist 30<br />
Freebody Boatbuilders 6<br />
Fields Pharmacy 32<br />
French Horn 44<br />
Gardiners Nursing 8<br />
Great House Sonning 24<br />
Handyman and Decorating Services 40<br />
Haslams Estate Agents 2<br />
Hicks Group 16<br />
Intersmart Electrical Installations 40<br />
James Autos 40<br />
Jones & Sheppard Stone Masons 32<br />
Kingfisher Bathrooms 26<br />
MC Cleaning 40<br />
Mill at Sonning 4<br />
M & L Healthcare Solutions 12<br />
Mortgage Required 18<br />
Muck & Mulch 28<br />
Odd Jobs 40<br />
Painter and Decorator 40<br />
Pearson Hall Sonning 24<br />
Reading Blue Coat School 26<br />
Richfield Flooring 14<br />
Sabella Interiors 34<br />
Seniors Helping Seniors 12<br />
Shiplake College 14<br />
Signature Care Homes 36<br />
Sonning Golf Club 32<br />
Sonning Scouts Marquees 30<br />
Smallwood Garden Services 40<br />
Style by Julie 6<br />
Thames Valley Water Softeners 6<br />
Thames Valley Wills Service 40<br />
Tomalin Funerals 24<br />
Walker Funerals 12<br />
Water Softener Salt 28<br />
Window Cleaner 16
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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>May</strong> <strong>2022</strong> 43<br />
BRIDGE HOUSE<br />
of TWYFORD<br />
Because you deserve<br />
the very best<br />
Welcome to Bridge House Nursing Home<br />
Established for 35 years, the elegant Georgian Grade II listed Bridge House has extended its facilities to<br />
include a beautiful, light-filled and airy purpose built nursing home.<br />
Our philosophy is built upon helping residents maintain their independence and dignity, whilst ensuring<br />
their needs and expectations are fully met. We believe that being independent means having the freedom<br />
of choice and flexibility over how the day is spent. Working closely with families and professionals<br />
is fundamental in delivering and maintaining the required level of health and wellbeing.<br />
At Bridge House, our comprehensive facilities and care provision is designed to deliver skilled,<br />
professional and individually planned care in an unobtrusive manner.<br />
Call 0800 230 0206<br />
Visit www.bridgehouseoftwyford.co.uk<br />
INDEPENDENT LIVING • ASSISTED LIVING • NURSING HOME<br />
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<strong>The</strong> French Horn,<br />
Sonning. Quality.<br />
A continuing commitment to<br />
wonderful food and wine.<br />
0118 969 2204<br />
www.thefrenchhorn.co.uk