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NEWCASTLE<br />
FREE<br />
<strong>2023</strong> EDITION<br />
Dear Counsellor,<br />
Help my Family<br />
Please<br />
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Babies and<br />
IVF Success<br />
BABY NOT<br />
SLEEPING?<br />
What is the<br />
Best Birth<br />
Course in<br />
Australia?<br />
YOUR<br />
HEALING<br />
BIRTH<br />
WE INTERVIEW<br />
OBSTETRICIAN,<br />
DR ANDREW BISITS<br />
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Contents<br />
5. Becoming a Mother<br />
6. My Kids Market<br />
8. The Doula Sherpa<br />
11. Making Babies and IVF Success<br />
12. <strong>Baby</strong> Not Sleeping?<br />
14. Babies – Perfect One Day,<br />
Concerning the Next?<br />
16. Healing Birth Storytelling<br />
19. Dear Counsellor – Help our Family<br />
20. <strong>Baby</strong> Boutique, Clinic and Classes<br />
22. Mental Health in Parenthood<br />
24. Yoga, Self Care to Health Care<br />
26. An Intimate Interview with<br />
Obstetrician, Dr Andrew Bisits<br />
30. Birth Where You Feel Safest<br />
32. Birth Movement, <strong>2023</strong> Calendar<br />
33. Your Placenta – Too Good to<br />
Waste<br />
34. “Body-Health” For Birth and<br />
Recovery<br />
36. Journey to Private Practice<br />
Midwife<br />
38. Healing Trauma, Healing Birth<br />
41. Friendly with Your Vagina?<br />
44. Best Birth Course in Australia?<br />
Enquiries<br />
Natalie Meade<br />
M: 0406 934 645<br />
FB and I: @<strong>Newcastle</strong>baby<br />
www.newcastlebaby.com.au<br />
Cover Photography<br />
Jessica Ross Photography<br />
www.jessicaross.com.au<br />
Models: Mother and Archer<br />
@Natashajheard<br />
<strong>Newcastle</strong> <strong>Baby</strong> wishes to acknowledge<br />
Aboriginal people as the Traditional Custodians of<br />
the land on which we work, live and play and<br />
pay respect to Elders past, present & emerging.<br />
Logo design @mamagum.au<br />
Welcome<br />
Welcome to <strong>Newcastle</strong> <strong>Baby</strong> <strong>2023</strong>! Inside these<br />
pages you’ll find a gathering of humans who are<br />
passionate, highly qualified in their field and genuinely<br />
caring about you. Welcome to this gathering of heartcentred<br />
services - all local and all small business.<br />
In this day of ‘scroll scroll scroll’, we want to gift you<br />
something to hold steady in your hands, something<br />
infused with our love. The magazine you hold, for<br />
free, took months of labour from all of us and we take<br />
pleasure in knowing it will find its way to just the right<br />
person, at just the right time.<br />
Yes, Dr Google may give you some clues at 3am,<br />
but when the sun comes up you are left with the<br />
challenge of finding a real live person to talk to. We<br />
are here to support you throughout, pregnancy,<br />
birth and postpartum. We have shared our jewels<br />
of wisdom in our articles and we have shared our<br />
personal phone numbers with you too, to freely call<br />
us, at any time. We are here for you when those<br />
feelings of overwhelm inevitably arise. Mention<br />
<strong>Newcastle</strong> <strong>Baby</strong> when you call, we’d love to know<br />
how you found us.<br />
At <strong>Newcastle</strong> <strong>Baby</strong> we have a dream. A dream<br />
where all your fears, worries and concerns are heard,<br />
truly heard and where the support you find is healing<br />
and life changing.<br />
In warm-hearted connectedness.<br />
Natalie andAll<br />
© <strong>Newcastle</strong> <strong>Baby</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />
All rights reserved, Views expressed by contributors do not necessarily reflect those<br />
of the publisher. The editorial and advertising content, products and services in this<br />
publication are not an explicit endorsement by Natalie Meade or <strong>Newcastle</strong> <strong>Baby</strong><br />
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SHE BIRTHS® WEEKEND COURSE<br />
NEWCASTLE<br />
98% of couples say She Births® allowed them to create a beautiful birth<br />
Scientifically Verified Better Births<br />
Photograph by Jerusha Sutton<br />
She Births® is a scientifically verified childbirth education program that<br />
provides a unique 'toolkit' of skills for both mum and birthing partner.<br />
Holistic & evidence-based.<br />
A proven program offering support to make the journey into<br />
parenthood easier.<br />
Empowering mums to have a better birth experience and partners to<br />
provide effective support and advocacy.<br />
We cover everything you need to know about the birth process. Enabling<br />
you and your partner to work as a team, feel less pain, minimise<br />
interventions, have a safer delivery & create a beautiful and bonding birth<br />
exerience, no matter what unfolds.<br />
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Join certified She<br />
Births® educator<br />
Nichola Kinnane for a<br />
two-day birth<br />
preparation course here<br />
in <strong>Newcastle</strong>.<br />
Contact:<br />
1300 100 743 (SHE)<br />
nichola@shebirths.com<br />
shebirths.com<br />
She Births® , when compared to hospital courses, is proven to create a:<br />
65% Reduction<br />
In Epidural<br />
British Medical Journal, July 2016<br />
44% Reduction<br />
In C-Section<br />
50% Reduction<br />
In Augmentation<br />
53% Reduction<br />
In Resuscitation<br />
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Matrescence - The Becoming of a Mother<br />
rusha Sutton<br />
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There is a time of life where our bodies<br />
physically change, hormones run wild, our<br />
brains rewire, we have a huge identity shift<br />
and it’s not adolescence, it’s motherhood.<br />
This transition known as Matrescence was<br />
coined by anthropologist Dana Raphael in<br />
the 1970s and is a developmental process<br />
where we not only birth our babies but<br />
rebirth ourselves, so why have we never<br />
heard about it?<br />
During pregnancy and motherhood the<br />
brain undergoes big changes like an increase<br />
in neurons, brain pruning, and an increase in<br />
oxytocin receptors (the hormone of empathy,<br />
love and bonding). We are reprogramed to<br />
respond to our baby’s non-verbal cues - we<br />
are literally being rewired for love.<br />
But this rewiring isn’t all baby gazing. We<br />
feel the push of craving space and meeting<br />
our own needs (the individual world of the<br />
Maiden), and the pull of needing to tend to<br />
and care for our baby (the relational world<br />
of the Mother). This split is compounded<br />
by cultural expectations and a lack of<br />
understanding, leaving mothers to feel the<br />
pressure of the mother we think we should be.<br />
So how can we change the narrative?<br />
Start by asking yourself what is the image<br />
of the ideal mother you hold in your mind?<br />
Does she feel totally satisfied in her new<br />
role? Is there an expectation that she will<br />
automatically know what to do?<br />
Let this go. Mothering is learnt and<br />
like everything you get better at it with<br />
experience. Matrescence is an opportunity<br />
to break these stories down and get a doover<br />
of the past, reinvent ourselves and heal.<br />
Because if there is one person you meet<br />
post-birth, it’s not your baby it’s you. Children<br />
can mirror the unloved and unintegrated<br />
aspects of Self and while we respond to our<br />
babies with kindness and patience we need<br />
to be treating ourselves in this way too.<br />
As a She Births® Educator I believe that<br />
Birth is an amazing Rite of Passage and no<br />
two journeys are the same, however with<br />
great education and support every birth<br />
can be beautiful no matter what unfolds.<br />
Pregnancy, labour and becoming a<br />
mother takes more than just 9 months. It is<br />
an opportunity to evolve. Let’s make these<br />
conversations important and be curious<br />
about our own unique journey as you<br />
prepare for the birth of your baby and the<br />
birth of yourself as a mother and a family.<br />
Nichola Kinnane, Mob: 0411 518 727<br />
Email: nichola@shebirths.com<br />
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My Kids Market - so<br />
uch to ove!<br />
Your local market to buy, sell, and recycle<br />
pre-loved and new baby and kids goods.<br />
You’ll love the look on your child’s face<br />
when they discover a new toy, or play in<br />
an activity corner. Browse with friends or<br />
chat to other Mums in a fun social vibe, and<br />
of course, nothing beats finding a 'market<br />
treasure' especially your favourite kids brands<br />
at bargain prices. Be welcomed by our<br />
friendly, market team and enjoy the buzzing<br />
energy as the doors open wide. Why not<br />
consider setting up a stall and recycling<br />
gently used items to happy new homes - all<br />
while earning you dollars!<br />
About ‘My Kids Market’ (fondly known<br />
as MKM):<br />
We are a team of NSW mums visiting ten<br />
different locations on a rotating cycle.<br />
Although impacted by the last two years,<br />
our <strong>Newcastle</strong> Market has bounced back<br />
and full of joy - a reflection of the incredible<br />
support we receive from the <strong>Newcastle</strong><br />
Community. Local businesses, mums and<br />
families have always jumped in and helped<br />
us share our events to reach new families.<br />
<strong>Newcastle</strong> is a place we consider as one of<br />
our ‘warm homes’.<br />
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A little bit about myself, Jennifer…I am a<br />
mum of two young adult boys and I first<br />
discovered baby markets when my youngest<br />
was just two and fell in love with the concept<br />
immediately. Ten years later ‘My Kids Market<br />
NSW’ was born and I am so proud of all we<br />
do:<br />
n Saving thousands of tonnes of baby and<br />
kids items from landfill including large items,<br />
toys, clothes and more.<br />
n Giving parents a place to make money<br />
through recycling<br />
n Helping families save money as they buy<br />
essential baby and kids items<br />
n Creating a sense of community, cohesion<br />
and belonging<br />
n Supporting new businesses to launch by<br />
showcasing at MKM<br />
What Shoppers say: “I love the atmosphere<br />
and the excitement of the markets. What<br />
‘unicorn’ am I going to find this time?”<br />
“I love that I am teaching my boys about<br />
recycling our toys, both as a shopper and a<br />
stallholder.”<br />
What Stallholders say: “We are so pleased to<br />
have sold our baby goods that were taking<br />
up space in our home… now other parents<br />
and children can enjoy them!"<br />
“What a great event, I was highly impressed<br />
with how organised and successful the<br />
markets were. I will definitely be back again,<br />
both as a shopper and a stallholder."<br />
Discover three <strong>Newcastle</strong> MKMs’ in <strong>2023</strong>!<br />
(Market dates, pg 25).<br />
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<strong>Baby</strong> Sensory <strong>Newcastle</strong><br />
Contact:<br />
Sarah Williams<br />
0402 220 589<br />
<strong>Newcastle</strong>-nsw@babysensory.com<br />
<strong>Baby</strong> development classes filled with sensory<br />
delights<br />
IBCLC<br />
LACTATION CONSULTANT<br />
Children’s entertainment<br />
and nannying services<br />
Alisha Charles | M: 0404 030 174<br />
Leeshii’s Fun & Games<br />
leeshii.entertainment<br />
BREAST/CHEST/BODY FEEDING SUPPORT<br />
Hello, I am a Registered Nurse and Midwife, Child &<br />
Family Health Nurse and International Board Certified<br />
Lactation Consultant. I offer antenatal & postnatal feeding<br />
support on Awabakal & Worimi Country - <strong>Newcastle</strong>, Lake<br />
Macquarie & surrounds. I'm here to help with anything<br />
feeding related and would love to help you on your<br />
feeding journey.<br />
0423231955<br />
amy@acs-lactation.com.au<br />
www.facebook.com/ibclc.amy<br />
ibclc.amy<br />
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“Asking<br />
your husband<br />
to be your sole guide<br />
through labour is like asking<br />
him to lead the way on a climb<br />
of Mt. Everest. He may be smart<br />
and trustworthy, and you may love<br />
him, but in the Himalayas you’d<br />
both be a lot better off with a<br />
Sherpa!” - Pam<br />
England<br />
Photo credit @shanrosephotography<br />
The Doula Sherpa (for your birth adventure)<br />
Laying here with my dog, curled up on<br />
our sofa, I cast my mind back a decade...<br />
pregnant with our first child; a different<br />
house, a different couch. I had no idea<br />
what a ‘doula’ was then. My husband and I<br />
engaged a private obstetrician (OB) under<br />
the direction of my GP. At this time, I had not<br />
considered my needs, outside of physical<br />
safety, or what I wanted from my birth.<br />
Simply by choosing the private hospital<br />
(despite a low-risk pregnancy) I was now in<br />
medically managed care and more likely to<br />
receive interventions in labour and birth.<br />
In hindsight, I chose a high-risk biomedical<br />
expert not a physiological birth expert, as I<br />
had been conditioned to believe birth was<br />
a medical event. I had no concept of it as<br />
a rite of passage. I simply could not grasp<br />
that through the process of birthing, I would<br />
be shedding my former skin and rebirthing<br />
myself as a mother. And, that I would be so<br />
enlivened by the experience, I would later<br />
gestate a career allowing me to support and<br />
empower other women in birth.<br />
I check my phone for the tenth time this<br />
hour. I am on-call for two women due this<br />
month. I want to see if either is showing signs<br />
that labour is near. “Stomach cramps and<br />
a mild euphoric feeling” accompanied by<br />
a vomit and butterfly emoji. Hmm, could<br />
be soon. I need to get off the couch and<br />
make dinner, scrambled eggs perhaps? My<br />
children are hungry and asking if I will be<br />
home to put them to bed. “Yes, if there’s no<br />
birth” is my standard response.<br />
My youngest enquires, “Are her waters<br />
intact?”, I nod, smile and reach for the frying<br />
pan.<br />
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Kate who sent the<br />
message is a 32 yearold<br />
woman with no risk<br />
factors and intending to<br />
birth at the local public<br />
hospital. Kate wanted<br />
a doula to help provide<br />
continuity of care<br />
through her pregnancy,<br />
birth and postpartum.<br />
Her husband had not<br />
previously heard of<br />
this role. At our first meeting, we laughed<br />
over the pronunciation of the Greek word<br />
‘doolah’ (meaning: to mother the mother).<br />
I explain the role using the analogy of<br />
going on a trek. Imagine the labour and<br />
birth journey as an epic hike up the great<br />
mountains of the Himalayas. The woman<br />
and her partner have chosen to embark on<br />
this adventure together. The doula is chosen<br />
by the couple and works for them. She has<br />
walked this trail countless times through clear<br />
skies and stormy weather. They have built trust<br />
in her and she understands what they both<br />
want from the journey. As challenges arise,<br />
she guides them to push past mental and<br />
physical barriers. She knows what is required<br />
and will help them navigate the winding<br />
paths and steep peaks. The sherpa provides<br />
unwavering support every step of the way.<br />
Midwives, I explain, are the medic stops.<br />
They are skilled medical professionals that<br />
work for the hospital and ensure you are<br />
clinically cared for. For this woman, in the<br />
public system, she can expect one, two or<br />
three different midwives, depending on shift<br />
changes and staff allocations.<br />
An obstetrician is the helicopter rescue if<br />
you or your baby encounter complications<br />
and need to be air-lifted off the mountain<br />
with obstetric instruments<br />
or a cesarean-section.<br />
In the private system,<br />
the OB is the main care<br />
provider. For women with<br />
complex needs this can<br />
be a suitable option and<br />
there are some excellent<br />
doctors that practice<br />
woman-centred care.<br />
Kate has been coming<br />
to prenatal yoga with<br />
me since 12 weeks. She wants a natural<br />
unmedicated birth and no unnecessary<br />
intervention. They understand their options<br />
and together we developed a ‘birth map’<br />
so they feel prepared. Once labour is<br />
established, I will join them in their home<br />
and assist to optimise her body’s natural<br />
response. I provide support for them to stay<br />
at home as long as they want and remain<br />
with them until after they have their baby. I<br />
debrief the birth experience postpartum and<br />
ensure they have all the support they need<br />
for early parenting.<br />
I support women to optimise their<br />
experience of pregnancy and embrace<br />
the journey towards motherhood. I believe<br />
an empowered birth is one where every<br />
decision is made with confidence, no matter<br />
what unfolds. I offer specialised prenatal<br />
yoga, birth mapping and full spectrum doula<br />
services. I am your Sherpa through this major<br />
life transition.<br />
Sarah Newling<br />
PH: 0417 711 300<br />
www.yogimama.com.au<br />
https://birthmap.life<br />
IG: @sarah.yogimama<br />
FB: @sarahyogimama<br />
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YOUR Birth<br />
YOUR Midwife<br />
Servicing our<br />
Hunter<br />
community from<br />
the Coast<br />
to the Valley.<br />
Di Longworth<br />
Professional, safe, relationship-based care.<br />
Tailored to your needs for your pregnancy<br />
and birth journey.<br />
*Medicare rebates available<br />
"TO CHANGE THE WORLD, WE MUST<br />
FIRST CHANGE THE WAY THE BABIES<br />
ARE BEING BORN."<br />
~ MICHEL ODENT<br />
www.valleybirths.com.au 0412 974 294 di@valleybirths.com.au<br />
<strong>Newcastle</strong> Kinesiology Practice<br />
Camille Addison<br />
I am passionate about<br />
working with women to<br />
mentally process and<br />
release all things birth<br />
related. This includes<br />
mental preparation prior<br />
to giving birth, working<br />
through birth fear and<br />
trauma, understanding<br />
your birthing experience<br />
and processing postnatal<br />
issues, such as flashbacks,<br />
depression and anxiety.<br />
0422 294 427<br />
camille@newcastlekinesiologypractice.com<br />
www.newcastlekinesiologypractice.com<br />
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Making Babies, and IVF<br />
Success, 1, 2, 3!<br />
ST<br />
IES<br />
Starting a family can be a time<br />
of excitement and joy, but the<br />
road there isn’t always easy.<br />
It used to be thought<br />
that genetics were set. But<br />
science has taught us that<br />
our child’s genes, in utero and<br />
as they grow as children into adults, are<br />
changeable! In a nut shell - we can shape<br />
our baby’s journey with the food we eat!<br />
All humans on a conception journey,<br />
IVF or otherwise, enjoy great benefits<br />
with lifestyle advice from a certified<br />
fertility dietitian, and advantages to this<br />
are reflected in the long-term health of<br />
your child as they progress to adulthood,<br />
minimising the greater risk of obesity, type 2<br />
diabetes, heart disease, allergy and some<br />
psychological conditions.<br />
There are five key factors needed for<br />
healthy conception where nutrition can<br />
help:<br />
1. Healthy sperm (ask me more)<br />
2. Healthy egg/s (ask me more)<br />
3. Ovulation (when the egg is released from<br />
the ovary - preferably in a timely manner)<br />
4. The egg and the sperm need to join<br />
together to create an embryo<br />
5. The embryo needs to implant into the<br />
uterus (this requires establishing a healthy<br />
uterus)<br />
In Australia 1 in 6 couples<br />
require IVF. The experience is not<br />
widely or openly talked about in<br />
society, but if you have a friend<br />
who has been through it, you’ll<br />
know it is commonly: time costly;<br />
expensive; intrusive; and, even,<br />
sometimes, painfully emotional.<br />
By applying my expert knowledge and by<br />
working together on your journey, we can<br />
expect a shorter time to conceive, fewer IVF<br />
cycles needed (if any) and with all of this,<br />
vastly reduced costs.<br />
When we work together, I order and<br />
analyse the useful and relevant blood<br />
tests, I provide an analysis of your ideal<br />
supplement requirements (to enhance your<br />
fertility/pregnancy health) and I work with<br />
you to enjoy and follow evidence-based,<br />
personalised, dietary advice.<br />
First steps today. Are you aware of your<br />
intakes from the range of various food<br />
groups, and their effects on fertility? Contact<br />
me for a chat,<br />
Sally Marchini.<br />
Tel: 02 4971 0770<br />
https://www.marchininutrition.com.au/<br />
I: @marchini.nutrition<br />
FB: MarchiniNutritionAPD<br />
The Belmont Specialist Centre, 30 Glover St,<br />
Belmont, or by TeleHealth<br />
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<strong>Baby</strong> not leeping? Can you Relate?<br />
Holis<br />
Holis<br />
SCARLETT 10 WEEKS OLD<br />
ISSUES: Fights sleep, has<br />
a dummy that doesn’t<br />
help her sleep. If she<br />
falls asleep, will wake<br />
crying within five minutes.<br />
Experiences wind, reflux,<br />
constipation and is unsettled and unhappy all<br />
the time. Mum feels like she is losing her mind.<br />
KEY SOLUTIONS: Adjustments to awake times<br />
(to be age appropriate), increased tummy<br />
time, changed formula, and educated<br />
about tired signs. When Scarlett was tired we<br />
responded with gentle settling that allowed<br />
her to love going to sleep.<br />
RESULT: “Natalie came into our home and<br />
with her gentle approach, helped us make<br />
some simple changes and she is now<br />
sleeping through her sleep cycles. This has<br />
made life so much easier for the whole family<br />
as she is so easy to get to sleep- anyone can<br />
do it! Thank you!”<br />
Jess and Scarlett. Ellalong. NSW<br />
HARPER 8 MONTHS OLD<br />
ISSUES: Will only sleep if<br />
being held or slept with<br />
by a parent or sucking<br />
on a bottle. If parents<br />
attempt to put her in<br />
her cot she will scream<br />
and fight hysterically. This can go on for<br />
hours. Mum feeling anxious, confused and<br />
worthless. Trying to stay positive for Harper’s<br />
development but it’s very hard.<br />
KEY SOLUTIONS: Age-appropriate daily<br />
routine, increased variety of solids, respected<br />
her tired signs, identified personal sleep<br />
windows, applied gentle settling techniques<br />
in the cot that she responded to quickly.<br />
RESULT: “The Harper we had prior to your<br />
consultation changed in one week and she<br />
is a much calmer, happier baby. Nathan<br />
and I sum up your program in two words and<br />
that is “LIFE CHANGING”. Natalie, you have<br />
saved this household!”<br />
Tiffany, Nathan and Harper. Chisholm. NSW<br />
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LEO 1 YEAR OLD<br />
ISSUES: Two short day sleeps, frequent night waking. Has a dummy.<br />
Relying on use of mum and dad’s bed in the day, or the car, to fall<br />
asleep. 8pm bedtime. Solely relying on breastfeeding for settling and<br />
resettling overnight. Minimal solids.<br />
KEY SOLUTIONS: Introduced regular meal times, active play time, one<br />
day sleep and a consistent bedtime of 7pm. Increased the amount<br />
and variety of family foods, water and attention to reducing additives.<br />
Implemented a consistent and responsive sleep strategy.<br />
RESULT: “When Natalie arrived her kind nature just filled the room. No aggressive tactics,<br />
just a few small tweaks here and there. Natalie came Monday and Leo has slept through<br />
every night since that Wednesday! We went from walking zombies to people. We are truly<br />
grateful for Natalie.”<br />
Ree and Leo. Stockrington. NSW<br />
Start with my FREE short videos and see more success stories at www.sleepandsettle.com.au<br />
Natalie Ebrill ❚ RN ❚ CFHN ❚ <strong>Baby</strong> Sleep Consultant ❚ 0434 953 953<br />
Sleep and Settle ❚ Established 2004<br />
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Holistic Nature Play for Children<br />
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I support families to<br />
holistically heal attachment<br />
wounds, nervous system<br />
dysregulation & create a<br />
happy, healthy, connected<br />
family.<br />
www.karlaholisticcounsellor.com<br />
karlpleis@gmail.com<br />
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Babies – Perfect One Day,<br />
Concerning the Next?<br />
As mothers, some days we see our babies<br />
as complete perfection, other days we may<br />
wonder about little differences in the way our<br />
cherubs look or behave. A mum might see<br />
a flatter spot on the back of the skull, or the<br />
face or forehead may appear uneven. We<br />
may notice our little angel is favouring one<br />
breast or turning their head more to one side<br />
than the other. Does one eye look smaller<br />
than the other? We may reassure ourselves<br />
that we are being an over-worried mum and<br />
brush the concern aside. Interestingly, an<br />
asymmetrical head shape, and other things<br />
we may want to ignore, could be a marker<br />
of potential health challenges.<br />
As we all know, early intervention is very<br />
important. No-one knows baby like their<br />
parent and noticing these little differences<br />
early on can be a game changer for your<br />
child’s development.<br />
Let us look at flat heads as an example of<br />
one of the many infant issues we see at our<br />
chiropractic practice (and please know that<br />
Chiropractic care of children is extremely<br />
gentle, using light, fingertip pressure). Flat or<br />
uneven head shape (or plagiocephaly, as it<br />
is called in medical language), has become<br />
much more common since 1992, when<br />
parents began to be told to place their<br />
babies on their backs for sleep. Interestingly,<br />
it is thought that it is not so much the fact<br />
that baby sleeps on their back that causes<br />
a flat spot, but rather the lack of movement<br />
that babies do when they are placed this<br />
way when awake. Less movement results<br />
in less muscle activation and therefore less<br />
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muscle tone. This may<br />
cause baby to favour<br />
turning their head in<br />
one direction with even<br />
the slightest difference<br />
in contraction from side<br />
to side. The resulting<br />
imbalances in muscles,<br />
spinal bones and nerves<br />
are what a chiropractor<br />
tends to.<br />
Did you know that<br />
full and symmetrical<br />
movement patterns are<br />
essential for optimum development of your<br />
baby’s brain? Studies have shown that<br />
children with a history of flat heads have<br />
a higher risk of learning and coordination<br />
challenges in school, they may suffer speech<br />
delays and score lower on cognitive and<br />
academic tests compared to their peers. So,<br />
getting to this issue early is very important!<br />
The great news is that parents can very<br />
much play an active role in helping their<br />
child reach their peak potential in life. The<br />
most effective way to increase neck strength<br />
and mobility, and thereby stimulate baby’s<br />
core and brain, is tummy time. Babies are<br />
born in flexion; arms and legs tucked in,<br />
and the spine curled. Extension of the spine<br />
and limbs is a sign that the brain and body<br />
are developing and getting stronger. This is<br />
what we want to promote by placing baby<br />
face down, encouraging them to straighten<br />
the spine and lift the head even just for 30<br />
seconds at a time. Resting<br />
on a parent’s chest with<br />
the opportunity to lift the<br />
head and gaze into their<br />
eyes is a wonderful way to<br />
do tummy time and create<br />
connection. Be aware that<br />
if baby continues to find this<br />
position difficult, it can be<br />
a sign it may need some<br />
attention.<br />
When is the best time to<br />
start tummy time? Many<br />
young babies loudly<br />
express their dislike of the position, and since<br />
we as parents do not wish to create stress or<br />
hurt our little ones, we often choose to delay<br />
this ‘chore’. However, the best time to start is<br />
the day baby is born!<br />
Be well and have fun, Dorte Bladt<br />
We want to help you and baby do<br />
this ‘hard work’. Join us for our special<br />
“Tummy Time for Tiny Tots” session<br />
held the second Wednesday of every<br />
month. Your hosts are passionate,<br />
professional chiropractors with a special<br />
interest in children’s health. Mention<br />
‘<strong>Newcastle</strong> <strong>Baby</strong>’ to get complimentary<br />
registration.<br />
To register, email info@<br />
familychiropracticcharlestown.com.au<br />
or call 4942 4842.<br />
References:<br />
n Early diagnosis and treatment of children with skull deformations. The challenge of modern medicine n A. Binkiewicz-<br />
Glińska Developmental Period Medicine, 2016 n Cognitive Outcomes and Positional Plagiocephaly BR. Collett,<br />
Pediatrics 2019 n Case-Control Study of Neurodevelopment in Deformational Plagiocephaly ML. Speltz Pediatrics<br />
2010 n Long-Term Developmental Outcomes in Patients With Deformational Plagiocephaly RI. Miller and SK. Clarren,<br />
Pediatrics 2000<br />
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Pe<br />
Healing through irth torytelling<br />
Every woman and child’s birth<br />
experience is unique. For some,<br />
their births are peaceful and<br />
empowering, for others birth can<br />
be traumatic with not so many<br />
enjoyable moments to reflect on.<br />
All of your births and all of your<br />
stories are so important. Storytelling is a<br />
beautiful educational and healing tool that<br />
dates back as far as time itself. Over the<br />
course of their lives, you will tell your children<br />
so many different stories about the world<br />
through books and play. Just like you teach<br />
them about every other aspect of life, you<br />
can tell your children about their birthing day.<br />
Talking to children about their birth allows<br />
them to understand more deeply where they<br />
came from and how they got here. Some<br />
aspects of your birth might feel too heavy to<br />
tell young children. You can choose ageappropriate<br />
language and simple, easy to<br />
understand concepts, to start to explain<br />
any difficult parts of your children’s birth to<br />
them. It might feel quite hard to be able to<br />
communicate the details of a particularly<br />
traumatic birth to your child. Please seek all<br />
the support you need as you do this.<br />
Sharing your birth story with your child<br />
can be a transformational and<br />
healing experience for you as a<br />
mother. If your birth was traumatic<br />
or difficult, telling your story can<br />
help. Storytelling can allow you to<br />
reclaim the parts of your story that<br />
may feel lost or less than ideal.<br />
Telling your children their birth story in<br />
your own words, can give you a sense of<br />
empowerment and ownership of your birth.<br />
You can explain to your children the<br />
difficult parts and what you used to get<br />
through them, or you can focus on your<br />
favourite bits, and how those parts made<br />
you feel.<br />
If you had a positive birth experience,<br />
re-telling your story will keep the beautiful<br />
energy surrounding your birth alive and<br />
present in your children’s lives as they grow<br />
up. Continuing to share your stories with<br />
your children can help you protect your<br />
precious birthing memories.<br />
There is no right or wrong way to share<br />
your birth story with your child. We can be<br />
the generation that normalises telling their<br />
children how they were born.<br />
Tiarny McCook<br />
tiarny@yourbirthstorybook.com.au<br />
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Dear Counsellor<br />
– Help my Family<br />
Please!!<br />
Many of us have brains wired up to expect<br />
danger at every corner, are triggered easily,<br />
imagine rejection where there is none, take<br />
things personally, avoid, strike out, self loathe,<br />
and so much more. The good news is, the<br />
brain can be healed through great therapy<br />
sessions. I help clients and families feel better<br />
every day. I help families become more safe,<br />
more connected and calmer, more present<br />
and happier. I love my work and I am super<br />
passionate about families.<br />
How are we shaped? We come into the<br />
world wired to connect. Beginning in utero<br />
and from our first breath, we embark on<br />
a quest to feel safe in our bodies, in our<br />
environments, and in our relationships with<br />
our caregivers. The autonomic nervous<br />
system is our personal surveillance system,<br />
always on guard, asking the question, “Is<br />
it safe?”. Feeling unsupported/unsafe as a<br />
child, our nervous system and brain can wire<br />
up to become overreactive, hypervigilant,<br />
sluggish and other forms of dysregulation. A<br />
dysregulated nervous system is an incredibly<br />
common experience and often results in<br />
behavioural issues and disconnection with<br />
the people around us.<br />
When our primary caregivers are<br />
unable to meet our needs of safety, trust,<br />
attunement, love and connection, an<br />
insecure attachment is formed. An 'anxious'<br />
attachment can present as an overly fussy<br />
child that cannot easily be soothed and<br />
an 'avoidant' attachment can present as<br />
a reclusive child that rarely cries, seems not<br />
to need you and plays on their own. Once<br />
recognised and understood, we can work<br />
towards a more 'secure' attachment.<br />
An intrinsic part of building safety<br />
and connection is coming into a secure<br />
attachment with others and ourselves. In my<br />
work, I help clients to be able to connect<br />
with others, and themselves. I help clients<br />
start by feeling calmer, more present,<br />
enjoying connecting with their breathing,<br />
with their body. Learning to be an observer<br />
of their thoughts, feelings and reactions - not<br />
a slave to them. Sessions bring pleasure, as<br />
clients get breakthrough moments that lift<br />
a big load off their shoulders, shifting their<br />
old negative feelings into positive feelings –<br />
feelings like curiosity and relief for example.<br />
Your family system might not even take<br />
much to repair! Families can benefit from<br />
one single session!<br />
Karla Leis Ph: 0458 888 362<br />
www.karlaholisticcounsellor.com<br />
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Sweet <strong>Baby</strong> Fox,<br />
Boutique, Clinic<br />
and Classes<br />
Browse our beautiful <strong>Baby</strong> Boutique, get a<br />
free baby health check, learn in a class &<br />
socialise with other mums - all in one place!<br />
Sweet <strong>Baby</strong> Fox was a long time coming!<br />
I first thought about opening a beautiful<br />
baby boutique in Warners Bay back in 1996<br />
when my son Max was 4 & my daughter<br />
Kathryn was 1. Life got in the way however<br />
my dream was put on the back burner while<br />
I got busy raising kids & being a mumma.<br />
With a deep love for the retail & cafe<br />
lifestyle of Warners Bay, in 2015, my husband<br />
Grant & I opened ‘Fox & Willow Emporium,’<br />
our ladies clothing, shoes & homewares<br />
boutique on the waterfront. With Fox &<br />
Willow being so popular, in 2019 we realised<br />
it was the right time for my long-dreamed-of,<br />
baby store! So, we took on a little shop in the<br />
Table One Espresso Arcade & ‘Sweet <strong>Baby</strong><br />
Fox’ was born!<br />
Then with the stars aligning again, an<br />
opportunity was presented and in October,<br />
2022 we were able to spread across two<br />
more shops and create a huge premises. This<br />
gave <strong>Baby</strong> Fox the space it needed for all<br />
our beautiful stock & to create activities &<br />
services for our mummas & babies to enjoy –<br />
with heaps of play room for the young ones!<br />
In our beautiful community space, new<br />
mums access FREE baby health/Blue Book<br />
check-ups, with well-known <strong>Newcastle</strong><br />
registered nurse, clinic sister, Ruth Scott.<br />
Feedback has been that Ruth is amazing<br />
& mums are also enjoying interacting &<br />
chatting in the air-conditioned waiting space<br />
that has our child play area, water cooler &<br />
plenty of seating, change table and space<br />
for prams.<br />
At our boutique: We pride ourselves on<br />
having the stock you need the day you pop<br />
in. We stock a fantastic range of babies &<br />
toddlers clothing with sizes, where possible,<br />
from 00000-4. We also stock a beautiful<br />
PREMI baby clothing range with sizes starting<br />
at a tiny 800grams & up!<br />
Some of our brands in store include:<br />
♥ Toshi (including Toshi Swim) ♥ Wilson<br />
& Frenchy ♥ Aster & Oak ♥ Love Henry<br />
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♥ Snuggle Hunny ♥ Pretty Brave<br />
We also carry a great selection of:<br />
♥ Kinderfeet Trikes ♥ Balance Bikes ♥ Micro<br />
Scooters ♥ Helmets ♥ Silicone products<br />
including bibs, feeding bowls, plates &<br />
cutlery ♥ Wooden toys & educational puzzles<br />
♥ Rubber soled shoes ♥ Dummies - we are<br />
<strong>Newcastle</strong>s’ largest stockist of BIBS Dummies<br />
with our ‘rainbow of colours’ wall with<br />
dummy sizes 1-3 & glow in the dark night<br />
time dummies ♥ First oral care toothbrushes<br />
& flavour free fluoride free babies toothpaste<br />
♥ Byron Bay EcoNaps re-usable nappies &<br />
swimmers ♥ Haaka breastfeeding & milk<br />
storage accessories ♥ OiOi Pram bags &<br />
Nappy bags ♥ Tethers, dummy chains, inkless<br />
print kits, milestone cards ♥ <strong>Newcastle</strong> brand<br />
‘Willow by the sea’ baby & mumma skincare<br />
♥ Books – a great childrens' book section<br />
with family favourites, Australian author’s &<br />
indigenous stories<br />
Some of our stuffed toy brands and toys,<br />
include:<br />
♥ Jellycat ♥ Sesame Street ♥ Playschool<br />
♥ Paddington Bear ♥ Winnie The Pooh ♥<br />
Dinkum Dolls ♥Dozy Dinkums ♥ MiniLand Dolls<br />
Book a workshop:<br />
Check out our website to book yourself a<br />
spot to some of our small group classes or<br />
interactive activities at affordable prices,<br />
example workshops include:<br />
♥ Mums & Bubs Yoga ♥ Sleep & Settling<br />
for Babies ♥ Feeding my new baby ♥<br />
Introducing Solids ♥ <strong>Baby</strong> & toddler first aid<br />
with paramedic, Sam♥ Toddler Talk - Toilet<br />
training, tantrums & sleep ♥ Sensory play,<br />
intro to music, messy play. ♥ Calm birth,<br />
Hypnobirthing workshops ♥ guest speaker,<br />
<strong>Newcastle</strong> Author, Anna Cusack discussing<br />
her fabulous book ‘Mama you’re not broken’<br />
- unmasking the unspoken emotions of<br />
modern motherhood.<br />
Our vision is to provide a beautiful, relaxing<br />
& inclusive community space where people<br />
can browse our gorgeous baby items, have<br />
a chat to friendly, helpful staff, enjoy a<br />
teaching class or play class with Bub, then<br />
meet up with family & friends for coffee or<br />
lunch in beautiful Warners Bay. We can’t wait<br />
to see you!<br />
Kylie, Mel & Team!<br />
Free Clinic –<br />
No appt needed<br />
Classes, Interactive<br />
Play & Yoga Sessions<br />
BOOKING REQUIRED,<br />
QR code will take<br />
you to the link.<br />
Sweet <strong>Baby</strong> Fox<br />
Boutique, Clinic &<br />
Classes - OPEN 7 DAYS<br />
4/450 The Esplanade Warners Bay NSW<br />
2282 (Table 1 Espresso Arcade)<br />
T : (02) 4948 5919<br />
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Mental Health<br />
in Parenthood<br />
Sometimes a parent needs every day of the<br />
year to be an “R U OKAY?” day. Sometimes,<br />
when that parent can share the truth, their<br />
answer will be “No, I am NOT okay”.<br />
Even when you delight in being a parent,<br />
and it brings you joy, pregnancy and early<br />
parenthood, can still leave you stretched<br />
beyond recognition! You might very suddenly<br />
find yourself feeling exhausted, strung out,<br />
frustrated, alone or desperate for a rest or a<br />
moment to yourself. When you give so much<br />
time, energy and attention<br />
towards meeting the needs of<br />
a baby, there isn’t always a<br />
lot of time left over for yourself.<br />
Add in fluctuating hormones,<br />
sleep deprivation, and a big<br />
shift to your identity!<br />
For some parents, mood<br />
difficulties can be severe<br />
enough to be diagnosed as<br />
a mental health disorder. 1<br />
in 5 women will experience<br />
anxiety, depression, or both,<br />
within 12 months of giving<br />
birth. Fathers are also struggling too, with 1<br />
in 10 dads suffering mental health difficulties.<br />
What this data shows us is that it is relatively<br />
common to find it difficult to cope as a<br />
parent. The good news is, there is help<br />
available.<br />
Firstly, it can be helpful to be aware of<br />
early warning signs. Signs of mood being<br />
impacted include: not feeling your usual self,<br />
feeling low or crying, being irritable or feeling<br />
bouts of rage, having trouble connecting<br />
to your baby, or anxiety that stops you from<br />
living your life like normal.<br />
Secondly, if you ever notice that your<br />
mood has been affected more days than<br />
not, for a two-week period, check in with<br />
your GP, who can refer you to a psychologist<br />
for further guidance and support (ask how<br />
Medicare rebates can make this affordable).<br />
And finally, make an appointment to<br />
come and discuss your situation. There<br />
are parents, every day, who reach out for<br />
strategies and support.<br />
There are also things that you can do<br />
right now, today. Connection helps us feel<br />
worthwhile and supported: speaking with<br />
a friend, accessing support, asking for help<br />
can all help your mood. Doing things that<br />
feel soothing or joyful can give<br />
you a much needed, short<br />
break from stress and sadness.<br />
Looking after your physical<br />
health can help your body<br />
stay in balance and your mind<br />
feel steadier.<br />
It’s ok if you’re not feeling<br />
ok. Many parents don’t. But it<br />
doesn’t have to stay that way.<br />
Dr Shanna Logan, Clinical<br />
Psychologist<br />
The Hummingbird Centre.<br />
Ph: 4946 0919<br />
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BABY | TODDLER | CHILDREN<br />
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Warrior Hearts<br />
Young Warrior Hearts is a locally<br />
operated business, focusing on mindfulness<br />
and positive psychology education for<br />
children, adolescents and teens.<br />
‘Peaceful Kids‘ and ‘Peaceful Teens‘ are<br />
intervention programs aim to support<br />
kids/teens to understand emotions,<br />
lessen anxiety, increase resilience, and<br />
develop emotional intelligence.<br />
These programs are fully<br />
accredited and have been independently<br />
reviewed by the ‘Be You’<br />
programs directory (Beyond Blue<br />
affiliate) and ‘Meditation Australia’.<br />
@youngwarriorhearts<br />
youngwarriorhearts@gmail.com<br />
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Yoga for Mama - when Self-Care<br />
Becomes Health Care<br />
Becoming a mother is one of the most<br />
transformative events in a woman’s<br />
life. Beyond the physical changes, her<br />
matrescence will come with emotional,<br />
mental and social shifts. My passion is<br />
about supporting mamas through these<br />
changes with yoga.<br />
Entering a yoga space feels special and<br />
sacred: the grounding of the mats and<br />
props, the serenity in your teacher’s voice,<br />
the smiles of other women as you arrive<br />
and settle in together, the worries of the<br />
outside world fade away.<br />
Yoga at any stage of your motherhood<br />
journey is a beautiful way to slow down,<br />
connect, heal and feel nurtured. Enjoy<br />
movements that strengthen, stretch<br />
and prepare, and find your safe haven<br />
in breathing exercises, meditations,<br />
visualisations and relaxation.<br />
In Fertility Yoga, benefit from calming<br />
the nervous system, reconnecting with and<br />
trusting your body’s natural wisdom and<br />
rhythms, and in this way, fully support your<br />
24<br />
reproductive health - in both body and<br />
mind.<br />
In Prenatal Yoga, prepare physically<br />
and mentally for birth. Relieve common<br />
pregnancy ailments through movement<br />
and stretching. Enjoy connecting with<br />
baby, learn the power of breath and<br />
sound and then later, re-connect to these<br />
resources as you labour, and birth.<br />
In Postnatal Yoga, feel supported, rebuild<br />
strength and heal, as you connect with<br />
your new self, your recovering postpartum<br />
body, your baby and your village (a group<br />
of mamas goes a long way!). When a baby<br />
is born, so is the mother.<br />
I found my deep love for perinatal yoga<br />
while training as a yoga teacher during my<br />
first pregnancy. The connections I had with<br />
my body, breath and baby were magical,<br />
and provided me with a whole new level of<br />
love and strength. My second pregnancy<br />
needed a lot of emotional healing. Through<br />
my practice and my own motherhood<br />
experience, I discovered that supporting<br />
women with yoga would become my<br />
purpose.<br />
It is necessary for women to find a space<br />
where they can just be themselves, laugh<br />
and cry, and feel restored, refreshed<br />
and relaxed. Sometimes this is all they<br />
want and need. Yoga, on and off the<br />
mat, is a vehicle to honour ourselves and<br />
give ourselves some love, gratitude and<br />
compassion. So, what might start as a selfcare<br />
practice ends up as a well-rounded<br />
health care practice. Come and join in.<br />
Marion Loisance Ph: 0411 275 156<br />
IG and FB: @yogaformama<br />
website: www.yogaformama.com.au<br />
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An Intimate Interview with,<br />
Obstetrician, Dr Andrew Bisits.<br />
(Head of Obstetrics, John Hunter Hospital, 2007-2015)<br />
Background info: During<br />
his time at John Hunter<br />
Hospital Dr Bisits was<br />
highly accomplished<br />
supporting low-risk<br />
breech to birth vaginally<br />
and working with<br />
midwives to establish the<br />
Belmont Birthing Centre!<br />
Thank you, Andrew!<br />
Nat (Interviewer,<br />
Natalie Meade): “I see<br />
you as probably one of<br />
the best obstetricians in<br />
the world! How do you<br />
describe yourself?”<br />
[Andrew has a big, long laugh]<br />
Dr AB (Dr Andrew Bisits): “I certainly do not<br />
describe myself like that. I am purely an<br />
Obstetrician.”<br />
I am moved by his humbleness<br />
Nat: “Your time running the JHH has made<br />
you quite famous, What do you see as your<br />
proudest achievements?<br />
Dr AB: “One of them, is that I actually<br />
came to understand birth…a little, better…<br />
I always reflect on when our first baby was<br />
born…I was useless at the time of that<br />
birth”<br />
At that time DR AB had been working for<br />
four years, full time, as a trainee OB.<br />
Nat: “You felt useless…”<br />
Dr AB: “I learnt a lot from that birth, from<br />
just watching my wife…she just wanted<br />
everything to be quiet… She just wanted to<br />
curl up - and labour like that.<br />
Nat: “And the birth went<br />
well?”<br />
Dr AB: “Yes it did. That birth<br />
was a real learning in its own<br />
right. But it was only after the<br />
birth of our second, that the<br />
totally, indescribably unique,<br />
nature of birth hit me.”<br />
Nat: “What happened in that<br />
birth?”<br />
Dr AB: “It was just at the time<br />
of him being born…I saw<br />
someone leaving the world,<br />
as in dying, and I saw him<br />
birthing into the world, and<br />
this overwhelming experience has stayed<br />
with me every day since.”<br />
As he shares this, strong emotion rises up<br />
in him as he continues.<br />
Dr AB: “As you can see it was<br />
overwhelming then and still is now.”<br />
I do my best to delve deeper, extremely<br />
curious about his personal revelations<br />
Dr AB: “They’re the only words I can use<br />
to describe it. I keep on thinking about<br />
that and then I keep on seeing the total<br />
uniqueness of birth - in each birth.”<br />
Nat: “There is a deep emotion then, that<br />
you bring to your work?”<br />
Dr AB: “Ah, yes… and that allowed me<br />
a greater ability to relate to the situation<br />
of the birth, it has given me the ability to<br />
know, and feel at times, what might be<br />
right and what might not be right. And that<br />
often flies in the face of what is currently<br />
described as evidence.”<br />
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Nat: “How do you balance this ‘intuition’,<br />
with the level of responsibility on your<br />
shoulders”?<br />
Dr AB: “The responsibility sometimes we<br />
perhaps overstate, because essentially this<br />
is a normal process that on most occasions<br />
looks after itself. Birth is very different to<br />
other medicine where you are dealing with<br />
something broken and you work to fix it.”<br />
Nat: “We could call you an old, wise,<br />
obstetrician, couldn’t we”? [we both laugh<br />
at the use of the word “old”]. “How are you<br />
different to a newer, fresher, OB in the field?”<br />
Dr AB: "Well I think, it would be a natural<br />
thing for someone younger to come in and<br />
want to control things and minimise risks,<br />
and they find it difficult to relate to the total<br />
uniqueness of every birth, it’s just seen as a<br />
‘way of having the baby’, and that’s ‘not<br />
much different to a caesarean’. That's not<br />
a criticism by the way, that's probably close<br />
to how I started out.”<br />
We discuss communication styles<br />
Dr AB: “I talk with each woman, not in<br />
terms of ‘this is what you have to do’, or<br />
‘allowed to do’, but instead I will say: ‘this is<br />
probably what’s advised for you and now<br />
you can consider this, in your situation”.<br />
Nat: "How many trainee OBs have you<br />
passed this onto?"<br />
Dr AB: "Quite a good few, I hope. But it’s<br />
met with active and passive resistance.<br />
Because of the social circumstances of<br />
birth there seems to be a need to discuss<br />
risk in a blunt and authoritative way. I don’t<br />
think anyone deliberately does it, but<br />
women often feel scared into decisions -<br />
the women say this themselves.”<br />
Nat: “What’s the solution?”<br />
Dr AB: “I’ve been having discussions with a<br />
professional negotiator, a mother, who we<br />
worked with for her birth, she is proposing<br />
a “negotiating paradigm’. You would tell<br />
the pregnant woman the risk, but also<br />
acknowledge other significant needs<br />
in the woman, that will modify how she<br />
understands that risk. The discussion would<br />
also acknowledge the needs of the OB.<br />
Not just one person has the ‘answer’. The<br />
problem is, stats are often mentioned as if<br />
we do have the certainty, but it’s anything<br />
but a certainty. In the cold light of day,<br />
statistics about risk, are only averages.”<br />
This frankness reminds me of how Andrew<br />
spoke up about OBs “overtreating women”<br />
in “Birth Time, the Documentary”.<br />
Nat: “If one of your children were birthing<br />
your grandchild what advice would you<br />
give them?”<br />
Dr AB: “I did have this recently! My son's<br />
partner was birthing and I will be direct<br />
here, I was concerned because she was<br />
planning to birth in our hospital. I was<br />
worried; is she going to be railroaded, with<br />
the best of Intentions, into this and that?<br />
I was worried that small, mild problems,<br />
could mushroom into huge ‘potential<br />
problems’ and her special birth experience<br />
be taken from her - inadvertently.”<br />
Nat: “What did you say to her?”<br />
Dr AB: “My advice to her was to get into<br />
one of the Midwifery groups. I also got<br />
my son and her doing a private birth<br />
course - which was great for them. This<br />
approach later helped to cushion her from<br />
the world of potential problems and even<br />
when small mild issues did arise (a bit of<br />
blood pressure), her birth was able to stay<br />
special.”<br />
Thank you Andrew, Natalie.<br />
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Cat-Napping<br />
Awake Windows<br />
Early Rising<br />
4-6mo Survival Guide<br />
Toddlers<br />
Overnight Waking<br />
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Birth Where you Feel Safest<br />
– with onfidence.<br />
Imagine choosing where you feel safest to<br />
birth. Then feeling so respected throughout<br />
your pregnancy, that when the time comes<br />
to birth your baby, your body and mind<br />
are able to fully surrender to the process, in<br />
your chosen setting, with your chosen care<br />
provider.<br />
This then might beg the question - is your<br />
birth care provider supporting you and your<br />
family in such a way that you feel safely held<br />
and respected?<br />
As a privately practicing Midwife through<br />
Morosini Midwifery, I provide continuity<br />
of care to women regardless of where<br />
they choose to birth. All women, birthing<br />
anywhere, deserve a birth worker that can<br />
give them the time they need to prepare<br />
for the birth of their baby and, equally<br />
as important, time that focuses on their<br />
transition into motherhood.<br />
How women can enhance their birth journey<br />
Hire a private midwife to accompany you<br />
to birth in hospital. This it is where a Privately<br />
Practicing Endorsed Midwife manages<br />
your pregnancy care, attends your birth in<br />
hospital and then provides care postnatally<br />
for six weeks. In this care model, unless the<br />
midwife holds visiting rights, when they<br />
attend the birth in hospital, they rescind<br />
their right as the primary care provider and<br />
instead, take up a support and advocacy<br />
role during your birth.<br />
Another action I encourage women<br />
to take, is to dive deeper with their birth<br />
education. One book I recommend all<br />
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women read is “Reclaiming<br />
Birth as a rite of Passage” by<br />
Rachel Reed. Here you can<br />
gain an understanding of your<br />
birthing rights and foster selftrust.<br />
This can empower you to<br />
feel confident in the choices<br />
you make - with your needs at<br />
the forefront.<br />
Carefully consider your<br />
model of care. Continuity of<br />
care is a model that allows<br />
for women to have a primary<br />
midwife or team that are<br />
dedicated to following them<br />
through their entire pregnancy<br />
journey. It is available within<br />
the <strong>Newcastle</strong> region at<br />
two facilities; The Hunter Midwifery Group<br />
Practice (HMGP), John Hunter M3Team and<br />
Belmont Midwifery Group Practice.<br />
n The HMGP midwives can care for healthy<br />
women who wish to birth at John Hunter<br />
Hospital. A woman is allocated a primary<br />
midwife. The goal in this practice is to have<br />
the primary midwife be present for the<br />
majority of the woman’s pregnancy care<br />
and where possible, for the birth.<br />
n The M3Team is a case load service where<br />
women with complex medical needs can<br />
be cared for by a team of midwives and<br />
doctors who support them through their<br />
complexities and at the birth at John Hunter<br />
Hospital.<br />
n The BBS offer the same level of care as<br />
HMGP but to women wishing to birth at<br />
home, or at Belmont Birth Centre.<br />
These continuity programmes through<br />
John Hunter are incredible options if they suit<br />
your needs. However, the number of women<br />
versus the number of available midwives<br />
means these programmes<br />
aren’t always available to all<br />
women, or to women of all<br />
health complexities. There is<br />
also no guarantee in these<br />
programmes that you will<br />
have your allocated primary<br />
midwife at your labour and<br />
birth.<br />
Birthing at home. I often<br />
hear, is homebirth an option<br />
for me? What defines a<br />
woman’s ability to birth at<br />
home or at hospital? My<br />
answer? Choice. Homebirth<br />
is my favourite to support<br />
because of the beauty that<br />
unfolds when a woman is<br />
completely undisturbed.<br />
If I can pass on any wisdom to you today<br />
it would be, to remember that you hold the<br />
choice to decide what is best for you, so<br />
long as you acknowledge and claim that<br />
power. You are the expert of you. In the end,<br />
in your search for a care provider that can<br />
meet your needs, you need to foster selftrust<br />
and have total confidence with your<br />
care provider, ensuring that when you are<br />
with them, you feel safe enough to ask any<br />
questions, discuss desires, and do all the work<br />
needed to prepare for motherhood without<br />
judgment or fear.<br />
Along your journey, tune-in more and<br />
more to your body, and birth where your<br />
body feels safest, let that guide you, each<br />
day, to where you need to be.<br />
If you would like to discuss your birthing<br />
options and are keen to explore more, I<br />
would love to hear from you.<br />
Ineka Morosini Ph: 0434 743 065<br />
www.morosinimidwifery.com<br />
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Birth-Meeting Calendar, <strong>2023</strong>.<br />
@<strong>Newcastle</strong>BirthMovement (RSVP Natalie: 0406 934 645)<br />
5th January<br />
2nd February<br />
2nd March<br />
Positive/Wisdoms<br />
Birth Story Circle<br />
Placentas, cords,<br />
first feeds and<br />
more.<br />
Birth: Duty of care,<br />
decision making,<br />
and can I say "no<br />
thanks?"<br />
6th April<br />
4th May<br />
1st June<br />
<strong>2023</strong> Meetings with thanks to @Awesome<strong>Newcastle</strong><br />
Birth anxiety, life<br />
anxiety and<br />
problem solving<br />
6th July<br />
Shaping your birth<br />
environment.<br />
What works, what<br />
hinders?<br />
5th October<br />
Common birth<br />
fears - and their<br />
solutions!<br />
The hormones<br />
of Birth and<br />
Mothering<br />
3rd August<br />
Sleep, sanity,<br />
stitches, and<br />
other fourth<br />
trimester topics<br />
2nd<br />
November<br />
Positive/Wisdoms<br />
Birth Story Circle<br />
Positive/Wisdoms<br />
Birth Story Circle<br />
7th September<br />
Questioning<br />
Inductions? Are<br />
any natural?<br />
7th December<br />
Come and enjoy a<br />
sound-bath<br />
healing session,<br />
for pregnancy<br />
32<br />
Great birth prep - free, welcoming & super informative.<br />
Meetings are always the first, Thursday night of each month, 7.00pm-8:30pm @Hamilton<br />
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Your placenta – Too Good to Waste!<br />
Is this due to a rise in women taking<br />
ownership of their birth story and beyond?<br />
Perhaps a greater understanding of the<br />
healing properties it holds? Or simply that<br />
they know someone who did it and thought<br />
hey, I might give it a go too!<br />
An extraordinary organ that grows for one<br />
powerful purpose, then shows itself the door?<br />
Welcome to the magical world of the<br />
placenta! I had heard about women<br />
honouring their placenta by planting it<br />
under a tree. Then there were cultures who<br />
consumed their placentas for postpartum<br />
recovery, and as a great believer in the<br />
wisdom of women, I needed to know more.<br />
“Does it taste like chicken?”<br />
Seven years as a professional placenta<br />
encapsulator has given me the experience<br />
to answer all the questions but I am still<br />
fascinated by the placenta.<br />
Initially when introducing myself as a<br />
Placenta Encapsulation Specialist or<br />
Placenta “Alchemist”, I was often met with<br />
confused silence or a million questions.<br />
However in the past five years there has<br />
been a definite shift towards the recognition<br />
of what we do as well as an increased<br />
interest in and acceptance of utilising the<br />
placenta as part of a mother’s postpartum<br />
care regime.<br />
All I know is, I love my work, the women<br />
love their capsules, and the feedback is<br />
glowing: Containing protein, iron, stem cells<br />
and B vitamins, some of the most common<br />
benefits reported by mothers are:<br />
n Helping to balance hormones therefore<br />
combatting the ‘<strong>Baby</strong> Blues’<br />
n Increased energy<br />
n Reduction of post-natal bleeding in<br />
comparison to previous births<br />
n Increase milk production<br />
n An overall happier, more enjoyable<br />
post-natal period<br />
Whether you’ve had a history of postnatal<br />
issues or just want to ensure you feel like<br />
‘you’ again, placenta encapsulation can<br />
be a step in the right direction in taking<br />
control of your postpartum recovery and<br />
being the very best version of you for your<br />
growing family.<br />
Ana Batterham<br />
Owner/Founder Ph: 0407 713 272<br />
www.theoxytocincollective.com.au<br />
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“Body-Health” for birth and recovery<br />
With great knowledge, guidance, and<br />
support, it is truly amazing how the womans’<br />
body transforms during a pregnancy, to birth<br />
a baby, and then can regain function and<br />
strength following. In society, we do not talk<br />
about this nearly enough. All we see is social<br />
media creating a false picture of pregnancy<br />
and ‘bouncing back’ following birth.<br />
When I hear women say they feel their<br />
body is ‘broken’, I feel disheartened for their<br />
unsupported journey and it drives my passion<br />
as a women’s health and pelvic health<br />
physiotherapist. I wish every woman knew<br />
what I knew and that women health physios<br />
are here for you!<br />
Pregnancy is an extraordinary journey,<br />
your body changes in ways you couldn’t<br />
even imagine, and this is happening<br />
throughout every bodily system – heart,<br />
lungs, ligaments, hormones, and muscles<br />
throughout the whole pelvic floor. With all<br />
these changes you may experience new<br />
areas of pain such as back pain, pelvic<br />
girdle pain, pubic bone pain, hip pain, rib<br />
pain and wrist pain. Coupled with bladder<br />
leakage, haemorrhoids, constipation, and/<br />
or painful sex, and the desire to prevent<br />
damage, this is where excellent, specific,<br />
women’s’ health physio advice is crucial.<br />
My top tips for a body-healthy pregnancy<br />
are:<br />
1. See a women’s health physio<br />
2. Move your body every day<br />
3. Get familiar with your pelvic floor muscles<br />
(and vagina!) – if you don’t know how to<br />
squeeze, this is NORMAL. Let’s learn how to!<br />
4. Learn what to look out for if your pelvic<br />
floor isn’t working well – (conditions can<br />
and do worsen without rehabilitation and<br />
can, and do, with some women, lead to<br />
incontinence of urine and faeces).<br />
5. Manage aches and pain straight away<br />
6. Give yourself a break – why do we think<br />
we need to continue doing everything we<br />
were previously doing AND grow a human at<br />
the same time? You’re allowed to be tired,<br />
grumpy and moody.<br />
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You’ve given birth, now what? Things you’re<br />
probably thinking now:<br />
n My body looks and feels different, will it ‘go<br />
back’ to normal?<br />
n Will I be able to be, comfortably, sexually<br />
intimate with my partner?<br />
n When can I exercise? Is there a safe way<br />
to build up to what I used to do? e.g. Can I<br />
get out of bed normally? Can I do sit ups?<br />
n I just need to make it to six weeks, and I will<br />
‘bounce back’<br />
Your baby has continual check-ups<br />
throughout their early life; what about mum?<br />
One, quick check, with a health nurse is not<br />
enough to support full, body-health. Your<br />
pelvic floor has stretched 2.5 times its normal<br />
resting length, it needs specific attention to<br />
be rehabilitated correctly. I have seen again<br />
and again, the biggest mistake a woman<br />
can make is to go back to a gym or activity<br />
without proper guidance.<br />
How I work with you:<br />
We begin with a post-natal assessment<br />
(ideally 4-6 weeks post birth), however if it<br />
is past that, no worries! I see<br />
women months and years<br />
post birth, and I am so thrilled<br />
you have made the decision<br />
to come. Your first assessment<br />
can feel scary, but once it’s<br />
complete, you will think, why<br />
didn’t I come sooner? It usually<br />
includes:<br />
n A detailed birth history<br />
n Assessment of bladder<br />
and bowel function, postural<br />
and musculoskeletal and<br />
abdominal separation/diastasis<br />
recti muscle<br />
n Pelvic floor exam to assess strength, tears/<br />
stitches/scars and assess prolapse, and for<br />
some, caesarean scar tissue assessment.<br />
From our assessment we have a strong<br />
foundation knowledge of you, your body,<br />
and your goals, and we can move forward<br />
towards a good body-health plan. Our plan<br />
will focus on whatever you desire, and I love<br />
getting women back to what they enjoy. We<br />
will of course do pelvic floor strengthening<br />
and abdominal separation rehab. We need<br />
Inner-strength to prevent further injury.<br />
If you want to walk, run, lift weights, jump<br />
on the trampoline, play sport – this is what<br />
we will focus on, without fearing your insides<br />
will ‘fall out’, without fear of leaking, and<br />
without pain.<br />
Here is my recipe for pelvic floor success:<br />
1. Locate your pelvic floor muscles and learn<br />
how to switch them on<br />
2. Strengthen them A LOT<br />
3. Make exercises ‘functional’(ask me how)<br />
4. Next, strengthen the muscles on the<br />
outside of the pelvis – hamstrings, glutes, and<br />
abs. The outside muscles matter<br />
too!<br />
5. Learn what pelvic floor<br />
dysfunction signs are – e.g. a<br />
heavy/dragging etc<br />
6. Never push on the toilet – sit<br />
there, take your time and relax!<br />
Laura, Ph: 4072 1408<br />
www.physiofemina.com.au<br />
E: admin@physiofemina.com.au<br />
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Journey to Private Practice Midwife<br />
She was breathing heavily through each<br />
contraction, focusing. Thought to be birthing<br />
imminently, she was brought into Emergency.<br />
She was young, fit and having a baby…<br />
Within 20 minutes she had three<br />
examinations by three different health<br />
professionals. Her hand was cannulated.<br />
Bright lights, people filled the room. She was<br />
exposed, vulnerable… she was just trying<br />
to have a baby. I comforted her as best I<br />
could. I heard later that she had once been<br />
a victim of assault.<br />
Labour stalled resulting in a caesarean.<br />
Now a Midwife, I recognise interference<br />
with the flow of birth (stress) can affect the<br />
dilation of the cervix. My own experiences<br />
(as an Obstetric-trained Registered Nurse)<br />
had included witnessing uncomplicated<br />
hospital births in New Zealand, having two<br />
births at home there, and another two in an<br />
Australian Birth Centre, Midwifery-Led. I also<br />
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grounding for my understanding that this was<br />
a valid choice.<br />
Tocophobia describes the fear of<br />
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I knew that I had to leave the job that I<br />
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Healing Trauma through a “Healing Birth”<br />
“She sits in the dark clutching her baby as<br />
tears roll down her face. Her physical wounds<br />
are healed but it still doesn’t feel “right”. She<br />
doesn’t feel normal. Not completely herself.<br />
She looks at her child and remembers the<br />
day that was supposed to be the greatest<br />
day of her life when she met her baby for<br />
the first time. But instead of being filled with<br />
joy, she is filled with hurt…anguish…deep<br />
sadness. As her fingers trace the scar that<br />
remains, the negative thoughts and feelings<br />
flood her mind”<br />
Currently, 1 in 5 women will experience<br />
perinatal depression and anxiety in Australia.<br />
Further, 1 in 10 partners will experience<br />
postnatal depression. With induction,<br />
episiotomy, and caesarean section rates at<br />
all-time highs, society more disconnected,<br />
and social media pressuring women to be<br />
the “perfect mum”, mental health issues will<br />
continue to worsen.<br />
So, how do we ensure our birth experience<br />
is a positive one? As women we need to<br />
prioritise our care and experience, invest the<br />
time and money worthy of this moment we<br />
will recall for the rest of our lives.<br />
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and<br />
over and expecting different results.” – Albert<br />
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After supporting many women to achieve<br />
a healing birth, I feel this is MY most important<br />
role as a midwife. The sheer elation and<br />
joy each woman has, the natural high that<br />
lasts not only weeks, but months and years,<br />
the look in their eyes as they finally feel they<br />
have transitioned into motherhood and are<br />
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To begin the journey to a healing birth<br />
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requires remembering the past hurt. It is<br />
a pivotal first step to take the opportunity<br />
to share your story, identify its impact on<br />
you, and plan for how you can use it,<br />
to shape an alternative experience this<br />
time. Partners need to be involved in this<br />
process as they are often traumatised by<br />
the same experience and this can lead<br />
them to hold apprehension throughout<br />
subsequent pregnancies, if not supported to<br />
address their own experience and feelings.<br />
Debriefing is continuous throughout your<br />
pregnancy as you reflect and move forward<br />
together.<br />
A key part to achieving a healing birth is<br />
the choice of care provider. Someone that<br />
truly and empathetically listens to your every<br />
concern, provides positive support, believes<br />
in your ability, and is aligned with your belief<br />
system.<br />
Research consistently shows that<br />
pregnancy and birth outcomes are<br />
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care by a skilled midwife, otherwise<br />
known as continuity of care. Within this<br />
paradigm, you are provided the opportunity<br />
to develop an intimate connection with<br />
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education, help you work through fears, give<br />
you new strategies to utilise and be there to<br />
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If you are unable to access continuity<br />
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Choosing the right care provider for<br />
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Our scars will always remain, but rather<br />
than being a symbol of what we feel is<br />
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into a reminder of the strength of our<br />
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How Friendly are you with your Vagina?<br />
A common question I ask in consultations,<br />
but one you may not have thought about<br />
recently. I love to ask all the intimate<br />
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cervical fluids, itches, irritations, thrush,<br />
bladder infections, inflammation, discharge,<br />
PMS, libido…. My mission is to support the<br />
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The Vaginal Microbiome is your Intimate<br />
Ecology, an intricate & dynamic micro<br />
ecosystem that constantly fluctuates<br />
throughout the menstrual cycle and<br />
a woman’s entire life. Your hormones,<br />
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on your Vaginal Health impacting structure<br />
& tissue health, libido & Vaginal Microbiome<br />
balance. Paying attention to your Vaginal<br />
health is essential in times of transition<br />
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I ran into a lovely mumma, who like many<br />
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with 5yr and 3yr old babes keeping her on<br />
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We worked together for six weeks and<br />
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Understanding what is normal & healthy<br />
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What is the BEST irth<br />
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I am a private birth educator with thirteen<br />
years’ experience and I am not going to<br />
waste your valuable time telling you about<br />
‘one private birth course’, over ‘another’.<br />
ALL private courses have the same key<br />
concepts, philosophies and helpful tips<br />
and tools and they are all very, very good!<br />
However, in your quest to perhaps decide<br />
hospital or private course? I’m going to help<br />
you to find an answer, and the place to start<br />
is to ask yourself a few questions…<br />
What is the purpose of education? Is it to give<br />
you predominantly, empowering information<br />
about your ability to birth, and how to birth<br />
and help you switch on the mumma bear<br />
and your instincts? Or is it to mould you into<br />
being a “good patient”? To align with your<br />
care provider’s preferences?<br />
What are your personal feelings about<br />
birth? Do you believe that birth is a natural<br />
process and that as modern women we can<br />
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educate, prepare and remember this deep<br />
truth? Or do you believe birth is a medical<br />
event and that many womens’ bodies are<br />
broken and need fixing?<br />
Depending on your answers, you may be<br />
seeking a medical course run in the hospital<br />
system and facilitated by a medical care<br />
provider, or, an independent, privately run,<br />
holistic course?<br />
Privately run birth courses are very special,<br />
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becoming a mother and parenting.<br />
Your educator will help you fall in love<br />
with birth, your body and your baby,<br />
be amazed by your uterus, be blown<br />
away by how powerful your hormones<br />
are, have breakthrough moments about<br />
unhindered/undisturbed birth, and explore<br />
communication skills so that you can feel<br />
confident speaking with your care provider<br />
about your needs and desires at your next<br />
appointment.<br />
In a privately run course, groups are small<br />
enough to ask personal questions, admitting<br />
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In a private birth course you will enjoy these<br />
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n Communication and assertiveness skills,<br />
relationship and team-work<br />
n B.R.A.I.N.S tool, for making fully informed<br />
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n Self-awareness, mind-set work, the<br />
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n Honouring that birth is not just about a<br />
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Once you want to do a private birth course,<br />
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Type “private birth course Hunter” (or similar)<br />
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Read about your educator, their passions,<br />
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