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FAMILY PLANNING • PREGNANCY • BIRTH • INFANCY
FAMILY PLANNING • PREGNANCY • BIRTH • INFANCY
Mother
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Setting up a
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Quick and easy
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CONTENTS
ISSUE 26
Features
16 MAKE IT WONDERFUL
Five things you can do to help you
have a more positive birth experience
22 “SAY MA-MA”
When should your child start
speaking? Here’s what parents
should look for if concerned about
language development
16
MAKE IT
WONDERFUL
Five things you can
do to help you have
a more positive
birth experience
28 GET A MOVE ON!
Infants need lots of active
movement and play—and there are
simple ways to help them get it
36 EMOTIONAL ROLLER
COASTER
Yes, the ‘terrible 2s’ are full-on,
but let’s look at things from a
child’s perspective
42 NEW-SCHOOL IDEAS
Why—and how—we should make our
classrooms active learning spaces
48 DAD MATTERS
6 ways fathers can share love
and connection with their babies,
preschoolers and young children
52 KEEP WATCH
With young children—as well as
older children and adolescents—
getting more screen time than ever,
it’s important for parents to keep it
at healthy levels
28
56 MONEY-WISE
A nine-month plan for getting your
family’s finances in order before
baby arrives
60 FUTURE FOODS
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TRAVEL &
OUTINGS:
CUT THE COSTS,
NOT THE FUN
7 ways you and your
family can holiday on a
shoestring budget
66
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Regulars
12 THE BUZZ
News, views and trends for pregnancy,
birth and motherhood
66 WHAT’S FOR DINNER?
In Trish van der Nest’s latest cookbook,
Cooking with Love, she shows how to prepare
delicious, healthy meals for those gathered
around your table
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70 DECOR: SPACE OUT
Is that small room in your house just
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74 TRAVEL & OUTINGS:
CUT THE COST, NOT THE FUN
7 ways you and your family can holiday
on a shoestring budget
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90 GROWING UP FAST!
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MANAGING
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Ashley van Schalkwyk
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And so we’ve come to another
year-end—this time perhaps with
more hope and happiness, as the
worst of the pandemic seems
behind us and we can once more
breathe easy (excuse the pun).
Moms (and dads) can also
breathe easy with all the
informative articles we’ve gathered in this edition,
making the journey of
parenthood a little less
stressful.
You can look forward
to learning more
about: how to prepare a
positive birth experience
for yourself; baby’s
language development
(“when is he going
to start talking?”);
how to survive your
toddler’s terrible 2s, by
seeing things from her
perspective; ways in
which fathers can share
love and connection
with their young
children.
There are also helpful articles on introducing
more traditional African wholefoods such as
sorghum and teff into your family’s diet, and
decorating a small room in a way that makes it
seem bigger. And we offer a useful nine-month
budgeting plan for getting your finances in order
before baby arrives.
As in every edition, our Best Buys pages are
brimming with trending goodies for mom, baby and
tot; we serve up some of Trish van der Nest’s latest
healthy, family-friendly recipes that don’t sacrifice
on flavour; and a travel industry expert shares tips
on how to holiday on a shoestring budget.
Once again, we hope you find some inspiration,
motivation and information among these pages.
See you in 2023!
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The
BUZZ
The latest news, views and trends for pregnancy, birth and motherhood
BABY BULLETIN
Which little celeb babies have arrived over the past quarter?
Actor Alec Baldwin is a father of eight!
His wife Hilaria gave birth to a girl, Ilaria
Catalina Irena Baldwin, in September.
It was baby no. 1 for actor Nicolas
Cage and his wife Riko: a little daughter
named August Francesca Coppola
Cage, born in September.
In August, gospel singer
Isaac Houghton and his
wife Adrienne Bailon
(from The Real) welcomed a
baby boy, Ever James.
He was born via surrogate.
Sophie Turner of Game of Thrones
fame and her husband, the Jonas
Brother Joe, welcomed their second
daughter in July.
It’s a family of four
for movie director
Quentin Tarantino after
his wife Daniella gave
birth to their second child
in July—a baby sister
for their son Leo.
FBI star Missy Peregrym welcomed
her second baby, daughter Mela
Joséphine, with husband Tom Oakley
in July. She shared on Instagram
that she “had the most profound
experience” welcoming her baby girl
in a home water-birth.
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THE BUZZ
CHEERS!
The 5 best drinks for pregnant women
Your water needs increase during pregnancy. Staying
hydrated is crucial for your baby’s growth and
development—and with summer approaching, a cool
beverage will be just the thing to keep you refreshed.
Water
Make H2O your default drink during pregnancy (and all
the time, really!). Water helps your body absorb essential
nutrients from food. Give your glass a boost with mint sprigs,
a squeeze of lemon or lime juice, sliced cucumber or even
a few muddled berries.
Milk
You need 1 000mg of calcium per day during pregnancy to
support your baby’s growing bones and teeth, as well as keep
your circulatory, muscular and nervous systems in working order.
And milk is one of the very best calcium sources. If you don’t do
dairy, fortified soy milk (unsweetened) is a good alternative.
Seltzer
Try a sparkling water spritzer as an alcohol-free alternative that’s
hydrating and fun. If you’re craving something sweet, add a slice
of fresh fruit or a splash of 100% (pasteurised) fruit juice.
Fruit and veggie smoothies
Blended fruits and veggies are a delicious way to meet your
daily produce needs. Stick with liquids like water, milk or plain
yoghurt instead of juice, and limit or skip sweeteners. To make
your smoothie more satisfying so
you stay fuller longer, add a source
of healthy fat like peanut or
almond butter.
Source: www.whattoexpect.com
Ginger tea
Hot or iced, ginger tea is a tasty option that’s safe to
drink during pregnancy. Studies show that ginger can
help soothe an unsettled stomach and ease
pregnancy-related nausea. Brew your own tea
by steeping freshly sliced ginger root in boiling water.
CHILD’S PLAY
The worst things to
put on a baby registry
When you’re making a baby registry, it’s
easy to throw everything on your list. But
there are some items you should think
twice about. Think rather about practical
things you can use and enjoy in the long
term. From being unnecessary to taking
up space, there are good reasons to
avoid these baby products:
Baby Wipe Warmer
It’s not going to make much of a
difference. It won’t make baby
less fussy during nightly changes, and it
won’t prolong the life of your baby wipes.
Diaper Genie
In some ways, a diaper genie makes
sense. But most parents take dirty
nappies out of the house quickly,
anyway, so using a traditional dirt bin
may be just as effective as the genie.
Baby Shoes
While they can be cute, they
can easily fall off and get
lost. Moreover, many babies
don’t like having things
on their feet, and it just
adds an unnecessary
step to getting your baby
dressed.
Bottle Warmer
Many parents heat up their baby’s bottle,
but you don’t want to get him used to a
warm temperature. There’ll be times when
you’re out-and-about and have to offer
him a lukewarm bottle. It’s easy enough
to warm a bottle with hot water.
Changing Table
You’ll likely be changing your baby
wherever is convenient (like the floor),
rather than carrying her all the way to the
bedroom to use the changing table. A
changing table is also more dangerous,
since your baby can roll off. Consider
asking for a changing mat.
Nursery Steriliser
This steriliser uses UV LED technology to
sanitise small items in seconds (like stuffed
animals and pacifiers). But given that you
can throw a teddy or baby clothes in the
washing machine, or sanitise a soother with
hot water, a steriliser can easily become
another device simply taking up space.
Source: www.babygaga.com
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THE BUZZ
MOVIE MAGIC
6 great kids’ films to give moms more than an 80-minute break...
We understand that it sometimes helps for kids’ screen time to last
longer than a 24-minute episode. So here’s our cheat sheet to six great
children’s films on Showmax that they can watch to give you more
than an 80-minute break when you have other things to do.
SPIDER-MAN: NO WAY HOME
(10-12PG LV)
This instalment sees Peter Parker turn to
Doctor Strange for help after Spider-
Man’s identity is revealed. When a
spell goes wrong, dangerous foes from
other worlds start to appear, forcing
Peter to discover what it truly means
to be Spider-Man. On Showmax, you
can also rewatch 2017’s Spider-Man:
Homecoming, as well as Sam Raimi’s
Spider-Man trilogy.
SPACE JAM: A NEW LEGACY
(PGLV)
The long-awaited sequel to the 1996
favourite, Space Jam: A New Legacy
sees a rogue AI trap basketball
champion LeBron James and his son
in a digital space, forcing LeBron,
Bugs Bunny and a gang of notoriously
undisciplined Looney Tunes into the
highest stakes basketball game ever as
they face the AI’s digitised champions
on the court.
SING 2
(PG)
The sequel to 2016’s Sing (also on
Showmax), Sing 2 follows the everoptimistic
koala, Buster Moon (Matthew
McConaughey) and his cast as they
plan to launch their most dazzling
stage extravaganza yet in the glittering
entertainment capital of the world.
But to get their show on at the Crystal
Tower Theater in glamorous Redshore
City, they need to win over ruthless
mogul wolf Jimmy Crystal, and persuade
reclusive lion rock legend
Clay Calloway (voiced
by U2 frontman Bono, in
his animated film debut)
to return to the stage.
Get ready for big dreams,
spectacular hit songs, and
a reminder of the power
of music to heal even the
most broken heart.
THE BOSS BABY: FAMILY
BUSINESS (PG)
The Boss Baby 2 catches up with the
now-adult Templeton brothers who’ve
drifted apart, until a new boss baby sets
out to bring them together again—and
save childhood along the way. The allstar
voice cast includes Alec Baldwin,
who reprises his role as the Boss Baby,
alongside the likes of James Marsden,
Jeff Goldblum, Lisa Kudrow, Eva
Longoria and Jimmy Kimmel. The Boss
Baby 1 is also available on Showmax.
PAW PATROL: THE MOVIE
(All ages)
No city’s too big, no pup’s too small!
Based on the beloved preschool TV
series, the movie tails Ryder and his pack
of puppy hero friends to Adventure City,
where greedy Mayor Humdinger is turning
the bustling metropolis into a state of
chaos. Plus, there’s a courageous new
girl pup on the squad: Liberty.
CLIFFORD THE BIG
RED DOG (PGV)
Heroes don’t get any bigger than Clifford,
the Big Red Dog. Based on the beloved
series of 80 children’s books by Norman
Bridwell, the story centres on a tiny puppy
called Clifford who, it’s said, will only grow
as much as his new best friend loves him.
As it turns out, though, young Emily loves
Clifford quite a lot...
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PREGNANCY Preparing for birth
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Preparing for birth PREGNANCY
Make it
wonderful
Five things you can do to help you have a
more positive birth experience
By Claire Parker
If you have concerns
over a suggestion your
care providers have made,
or have questions, don’t
be afraid to ask.
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PREGNANCY Preparing for birth
Whether
you’re a
first-time
mum or
have had
children
before,
you’re probably willing to try
anything to ensure you have the
most positive birth experience you
can. After all, the kind of birth
experience you have can not only
affect your own mental health, but
can have an effect on parent-child
bonding, as well as partner-topartner
relationships for years
after giving birth.
It can be confusing to know
what to expect or where to turn to
for advice, especially as maternity
services have changed due to falling
staff numbers and the continued
impact of COVID-19. But here are
a few things you can do yourself as
you navigate your maternity care,
which may help you have a more
positive birth experience:
Understanding what your body’s
going through, and making a
personalised plan for your birth, may
help you feel more prepared and less
anxious about what to expect.
2. KNOW YOUR CARERS.
Being cared for by one nominated
midwife, or being assigned to
a team of familiar midwives,
is shown to be associated with
better outcomes for you and your
baby—including decreased chance
of having a premature labour
and lower likelihood of needing
interventions (such as birth with
the help of forceps). You’re also
more likely to be satisfied with
your overall experience.
When an allocated midwife is not
an option, this makes choosing the
right birth partners crucial. They
can not only offer you reassurance,
encouragement and support but
can be your advocate, help you try
different positions in labour and
help provide you with snacks and
drinks. Most typically, these would be
trusted loved ones. But be aware that
research shows birth partners may
also feel anxious or overwhelmed at
taking on this role, and may struggle
with seeing a loved one in pain. So
it’s important to be realistic about
your expectations, and choose the
right person. It may be that the
best birth partner for you is a
close friend or relative.
1. GET EDUCATED.
Studies have shown that signing
up for antenatal classes can
help reduce fear, depression and
anxiety—both during pregnancy
and after birth.
Typically, antenatal classes
will help you understand what’s
happening to your body during
pregnancy and explain the birth
process. They may also teach
you coping strategies to help
relax during labour, alongside
guidance on caring for your new
baby. Antenatal classes can also
be a great way of meeting other
parents going through the same
thing as you.
Another option is creating a
personalised care and support
plan. This is a tool you can use
with your care providers to
explore what’s important to you—
and discuss what your range of
options are, such as your preferred
place of birth, or whether you
prefer skin-to-skin contact with
your baby immediately after birth.
Studies have shown that signing up
for antenatal classes can help reduce
fear, depression and anxiety—both
during pregnancy and after birth.
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PREGNANCY Preparing for birth
3. CHALLENGE CARE
RECOMMENDATIONS
IF YOU AREN’T HAPPY.
There are likely to be many
other options available to you,
such as where you may give
birth, or how you want to be
cared for during labour.
During antenatal appointments,
be sure to pause, think and
ask about benefits, risks and
alternatives to the care being
proposed. Research shows how
important choice and personalised
care are for expectant parents who
want their voices and preferences
to be acknowledged, and to receive
consistent advice.
If you have concerns over a
suggestion your care providers
have made, or have questions,
don’t be afraid to ask. If you prefer,
take your birth partner with you,
who can empower you to ensure
your voice is heard. After all, care
providers are duty-bound to ensure
you make fully informed choices.
4. DON’T ALWAYS LISTEN
TO YOUR FRIENDS AND
FAMILY.
Once people hear you have a baby
on the way, it seems everyone feels
the need, without asking, to tell you
the full (and often graphic) details
of their own children’s birth. But
it’s perfectly acceptable to politely
change the subject if you don’t
want to listen, or if hearing these
stories makes you nervous or worry.
It’s also worth remembering
that each person has a different
labour and birth, even with their
own children—so what was true for
someone else is likely not to be the
same for you.
While it can be helpful for some
people to debrief after the birth, it’s
okay to avoid hearing this yourself
if it makes your nervous, and
maybe suggest they speak with a
professional about their experience
instead of telling you.
5. VISIT YOUR PREFERRED
PLACE OF BIRTH.
Many maternity units are now
opening up their doors to tours and
informal visits—and those that
aren’t yet, are doing
this virtually.
Becoming familiar with where
you may give birth—even down to
where you may park on the day—
can help you feel more confident
about giving birth. It may also
remove some of the unknown,
helping you regain a sense of
control, which in itself is linked to
a more positive birth experience.
For those planning a home
birth, speak to your midwife about
how you can improve your space
to facilitate the most safe and
positive experience. For one of the
most important days of your life,
visualising where this will take
place ahead of time can help you
feel more confident and in control.
Ultimately, it’s important to
remember that no one can predict
exactly how your labour and birth
journey will go. Even after heeding
the above steps, there’s always a
chance you may need to consider a
plan B, C or even D. But no matter
what, remember you’ve done your
very best, and you’re not likely to
repeat this exact experience the
next time.
Claire Parker is a senior lecturer
in Midwifery at Anglia Ruskin
University
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BABY Speech
“Say
ma-ma”
When should your child start speaking?
Here’s what parents should look for if concerned
about language development
By Michelle St Clair & Vanessa Lloyd-Esenkaya
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Speech BABY
For the children themselves, it can
be very frustrating when they’re
unable to express their thoughts
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BABY Speech
For some
children, a delay
in early language
milestones may be the
first sign of a long-term
disorder of language
development.
Children develop at
varying rates in
all sorts of ways,
from when they
take their first
steps to when
they understand
that their own perspective may
be different to someone else’s.
Language is no different, so there’s
no set age at which a child should
start talking.
There are, of course, certain
milestones that most children
achieve in their communication
at certain ages, and it can be a
daunting time for parents who
see their friends’ children begin
speaking earlier than their
own. For most children, this is
likely just the natural variation
in when children achieve their
own milestones. For others, this
could be a temporary language
delay that will eventually see
them catch up without any
intervention.
But for some children, a delay
in early language milestones may
be the first sign of a long-term
disorder of language development.
So what should parents look for
if they’re concerned about their
child’s language development?
IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT
SPEECH
Generally, children begin to
babble from around the age of 6
months and say their first words
between 10 and 15 months
(most start speaking at about
12 months). They then begin
to pick up increasing numbers
of words and start to combine
them into simple sentences
after around 18 months.
It’s important to note that
language is not just the sounds we
make with our voice. The idea that
language is only speech is a huge
misconception. We take it for granted,
but understanding the language used
by those around us is a very complex
task. We need to have knowledge
of the words being used, have a
concept of what those words mean in
different contexts, and understand
the meaning of a sentence based on
the order of the words. These are
called receptive language skills.
Parents should be aware
that from the earliest stages of
language development, children
understand more than they
can communicate themselves.
Indeed, it’s through children’s
understanding of the language
surrounding them—in other
words, what parents, siblings and
caregivers are saying—that they
build their own language skills.
Some conditions affecting
speech, such as a stutter, are
highly noticeable. In contrast, the
problems children have when they
aren’t developing language in the
typical fashion can sometimes
be hidden. Sometimes seemingly
complex instructions can be
readily understood due to the
overall context. For example,
telling your child to “go and get
your coat and boots on” may be
understood due to the context of
getting ready to leave the house
and understanding the words
“coat” and “boots”.
Other instructions with a
less clear context, such as “get
the blue and black book that is
under the blanket on the chair”,
require a better understanding
of the language itself and may be
harder for children with language
difficulties. It’s often difficult to
identify an underlying language
problem in many children,
particularly when they’re good at
using the social context.
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BABY Speech
WHEN TO SEEK HELP
For the children themselves, it can
be very frustrating when they’re
unable to express their thoughts or
when they don’t fully understand
what’s going on around them. A
child who has temper tantrums
but finds it hard to say why they’re
distressed may have an underlying
language difficulty. This may
signal language delay, which is
not uncommon. If you notice that
your child finds it hard to follow
simple instructions, this could be
due to a difficulty in understanding
language, which may indicate a
more persistent problem.
About 70% to 80% of children
with expressive delays catch up
with their language by the age of
4. For others, this may highlight
developmental language disorder
(DLD), a long-term impairment of
language skills. Even experts find
it difficult to tell language delay
and disorder apart before primary
school. DLD is thought to affect
7.6%, or one in 15 children. DLD
can affect expressive and receptive
language skills and it lasts into
adulthood.
All children have the capacity to
thrive, but children with DLD may
need extra support to achieve their
full potential. Rather than ‘wait
and see’, it’s a good idea to seek
professional advice, particularly
if your child is between 18
and 30 months and appears to
have problems understanding
language, uses very few gestures
to communicate, and is slow at
learning new words. The first step
is to contact a local speech and
language therapy service.
BOOSTING LANGUAGE
SKILLS
Language is flexible and there’s no
such thing as too much language
input. Whatever level of language
development your child has, there
are always things you can do to
boost their language skills further.
For example, when you’re playing
with your toddler, watch where
their eyes are going and label the
things they see. If they say “horse
running”, you can build on this
with: “Yes, the horse is running!
Where is he running to?” This
helps children learn new words
and concepts as well as learn about
how better to structure sentences.
Reading books together is great
for building language skills, as
you can find new words in books
for things not often seen in real
life, such as zoo animals. It’s also
valuable in promoting attention
and listening skills. Be sure to ask
lots of ‘why’ and ‘how’ questions
to get more language out of your
child, rather than questions that
can be answered with a “yes” or
“no”. Watching videos or children’s
television can be similar, but only
if you’re watching and discussing
the videos or shows together.
It sounds simple, but having
back-and-forth conversations with
your child can help enormously.
Not only can this be incredibly
rewarding socially but it can help
build and expand their language
and wider social communication
skills. Try to build this into regular
activities such as talking with your
child while doing the supermarket
shop.
Michelle St Clair is a senior
lecturer in Psychology, and Vanessa
Lloyd-Esenkaya a postdoctoral
research associate in Psychology,
both at the University of Bath
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BABY Development
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Development BABY
Get a
move on!
Infants need lots of active movement and play
—and there are simple ways to help them get it
By Danae Dinkel
When people set personal
fitness goals and establish
their physical exercise
routines, there’s a group of
cuddly individuals often
left out... infants!
Historically, infant
active movement has been perceived as a personality
characteristic. It’s assumed that infants are
plenty active on their own, without needing adult
intervention to encourage movement. However,
research is revealing that the choices, behaviours
and everyday habits of adults have a big influence
on how much infants move.
I’m a physical activity teacher and researcher.
For the past five years, I’ve conducted several studies
exploring infant movement, seeking to identify
what supports the development of lifelong physical
activity habits.
I’ve learnt that many parents and other
caregivers want to encourage infants to actively play
and move. However, they often don’t know for sure
how much physical activity an infant needs, nor do
they often recognise how their own behaviours may
be limiting an infant’s physical activity. Fortunately,
there are several easy—and fun—ways to add more
physical activity to an infant’s daily life.
WHY INFANTS NEED MOVEMENT,
AND HOW MUCH
Study of infant movement is a relatively new field,
so there’s still much to learn. However, one of the
field’s foundational studies was published in 1972,
and it found that increased infant physical activity
can improve motor development. More recent
research shows that increased infant movement
can improve bone health and personal-social
development: skills related to improving their
independence or interacting with others, such as
feeding themselves or waving goodbye.
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BABY Development
The World Health Organisation
(WHO) suggests infants should be
physically active several times a
day, especially through interactive
floor-based play. Similarly, the
American Academy of Paediatrics
recommends opportunities for
interactive play throughout the day,
along with at least 30 minutes of
‘tummy time’ with an adult.
Yet, half the parents
participating in our research
reported they hadn’t heard of
these recommendations and did
desire more specific guidelines on
encouraging active play.
WHAT ARE THE BARRIERS?
While research is ongoing, I and
other researchers have identified
three major barriers to infant
active movement: screen time,
restrictive devices and ‘gendered
play’—gender-related stereotypes,
beliefs and practices in relation to
how children play.
The American Academy of
Paediatrics and other organisations
discourage allowing infants any
screen time other than video
chatting. However, a recent review
found that children ages 0 to 2
years may be getting between 36
and 330 minutes of screen time
per day. A 2019 analysis of data
gathered between 2008 and 2010
found that children’s screen time
increased from 53 minutes a day at
age 1 to more than 150 minutes per
day by age 3, which suggests screen
time habits begin taking shape at
very early ages.
Furthermore, the WHO suggests
infants should spend no more than
one hour at a time in a restrictive
device. Yet, many adults overuse
car seats, strollers, high chairs or
other ‘containers’ that constrain
movement.
Research into adult physical
activity consistently shows that
males are more active than
females, regardless of age. Our
research suggests this gap may
begin during infancy and be
related to gendered play.
In our 2020 study exploring
infant motor development in
relation to parents’ promotion
of play, we found that parents
of male infants more often
encouraged play that promoted
gross motor skills: movement
involving the large muscles that
support activities like walking,
running or kicking. Parents
of female infants more often
made statements that promoted
fine motor skills, which involve
smaller movements of the hands
and arms, and support activities
like reaching and grasping.
We found that females had
significantly higher fine motor
skills than male.
We’ve documented additional
barriers as well, including time
spent eating, tending to the
infant’s sleeping schedule or other
care needs; a need to baby-proof
surroundings; or weather and other
environmental concerns.
HOW TO SUPPORT
INFANT MOVEMENT
Fortunately, there are many ways
to break down these barriers—and
none requires buying expensive
baby gear.
Encourage tummy time
Two to three times a day, place an
awake infant on his or her tummy
for a few minutes, and then play
and engage with them. This is the
primary method of supporting
movement for infants who are not
yet mobile.
Explore movement together
Doing activities that help infants
learn about movement, such as
bouncing your child on your lap
and singing and playing pattycake
or peekaboo, can encourage
infants to move. Infants also watch
what the adults around them do—
including how active they are!
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BABY Development
In one of our studies, many
mothers reported being
physically active themselves, but
few realised it was important
to role-model regular physical
activity for infants.
CREATE SAFE PLAY
SPACE
As infants learn to move and
get better at controlling their
feet and hands, even normal
household objects—such as small
items they can shove into their
mouths and choke on—become
potential hazards requiring adult
intervention. Protect them by
clearing clutter and removing
potentially dangerous objects
from a space that’s at least 1.5
by 2 metres.
No equipment? No problem!
It doesn’t take new or costly gear
to encourage infant movement. Use
things around the house: Pillows
can be piled into a ‘mountain’
to crawl over. Mixing bowls and
measuring cups can double as toys.
Two to three times a day, place an
awake infant on his or her tummy
for a few minutes, and then play
and engage with them.
Adults can also turn their own
bodies into an infant climbing gym.
For example, sit on the floor with
legs spread out and encourage your
infant to pull him/herself up or
crawl over them.
Get outside
It’s recommended you take your
infant outside two to three times
per day, weather permitting. Our
research suggests children are
more physically active when
they play in parks, playgrounds
and other open areas that allow
for gross motor activities like
crawling and walking. The benefits
of active outdoor play may also
include improved self-control,
attention, communication and
social development.
Finally, it need not be up to
parents alone. Research has
linked social support by siblings
and peers, childcare providers and
teachers with increased physical
activity in children.
Trust me, as both a physical
activity researcher and a working
mother of three—including an
11-month-old just learning to
walk—I can attest that when adults
and older children play with my
baby, it gives me an opportunity to
accomplish something on my to-do
list, and provides my infant with
more opportunities to enjoy moving.
Danae Dinkel is an associate
professor in the Department of
Health and Kinesiology at the
University of Nebraska Omaha
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TODDLERS Behaviour
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Behaviour TODDLERS
Emotional
roller coaster
Yes, the ‘terrible 2s’ are full-on, but let’s look
at things from a child’s perspective
By Rochelle Matacz & Lynn Priddis
Being able to understand
the world from the child’s
perspective helps a parent
anticipate, interpret and respond
to the child’s behaviour
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TODDLERS Behaviour
Meet Eli. He
entered the
second year
of his life
with gusto
and now, aged
18 months,
he’s discovering new things every
day—including ideas he wants to
try out immediately. Like, right
now. Waiting is not an option.
Combined with his passion for
life, he often becomes emotionally
overwhelmed and erupts into
frequent meltdowns. Words and
phrases like “no”, “do it myself” and
“mine” are used often.
Sometimes the smallest thing
ends with Eli kicking, biting and
crying. Although he’s still developing
a command of words, he shouts “I
don’t love you, Dad!” with devastating
accuracy. These outbursts happen at
home and out in public.
Research shows tantrums occur
in 87% of 18- to 24-month-olds,
91% of 30- to 36-month-olds, and
59% of 42- to 48-month-olds
—often on a daily basis.
The ‘terrible 2s’ may sound
accurate, but branding toddlerhood
(18 months to 36 months) this
way is an injustice to this group.
The generic label fails to grasp
the huge developmental growth
happening at this age. It also
fails to celebrate the developing
emotional life of a toddler, at
once complex, multifaceted and
exhilarating.
WHAT’S GOING ON?
Eli is at a ‘developmental
touchpoint’, where a unique surge
in capacities is coupled with
behaviour falling apart. At this
age, children begin to establish
independence while simultaneously
needing to learn ways of coping
with intense feelings such as fear,
anger, frustration and sadness.
Researchers are still discovering
what a normal trajectory for
emotional regulation development
looks like, and what may help or
hinder it.
Intense, uncontrolled
feelings and defiance
are normal at this age.
But it can be challenging for
parents to support their toddlers
through this stage.
Focusing solely on a toddler’s
behaviour fails to capture the
significant role sensitive caregiving
plays in social and emotional
development in the early years.
A core component of sensitive
and responsive parenting is a
parent’s capacity to put themselves
into the mind of their very young
child and understand the child’s
behaviour has meaning and is
driven by internal experiences
such as feelings, thoughts, desires
and intentions.
A CHILD’S-EYE VIEW
Being able to understand the world
from the child’s perspective helps
a parent anticipate, interpret and
respond to the child’s behaviour in
ways that build a child’s capacity to
regulate their emotions.
Eli’s dad didn’t experience
tantrums with his first child, who
had a calmer disposition, so he
finds Eli’s emotional outbursts
hard to tolerate. He becomes angry
when Eli refuses to do what he’s
told and yells at him to “stop it!”.
This frightens Eli, who sometimes
retreats and sometimes escalates
in his distress.
Eli’s dad is unaware of his
toddler’s internal experiences and
is confused by his own ‘out-ofcontrol’
feelings when parenting
him. Frequent emotional outbursts,
coupled with an authoritative
parenting style, place children at
risk of developing more serious
emotional and behavioural
problems.
Eli’s dad needs to understand
that his primary role at this stage
is to put his child’s experiences
at the centre of his mind. This
requires him to try to make sense
of what Eli is communicating about
himself through his behaviour and
to respond in a sensitive way. This
can help a child like Eli not be
overwhelmed by intense feelings.
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TODDLERS Behaviour
3 GUIDELINES FOR
PARENTS:
1. Be aware of your own
responses.
Tantrums can be emotionally
activating for parents. Being
aware and making sense of
your own feelings will help
you respond sensitively to
your child’s distress. When
Eli’s dad makes sense of his
struggles with managing
anger, he’s calmer—enabling
him to focus on Eli’s
emotional experiences.
2. Identify and validate
your child’s difficult
feelings.
Young children need help from
their parents to recognise that
the feelings they’re expressing
through their behaviours are
just that: feelings that will
pass in time. They need help
to name them, work out what’s
causing them and figure out
what may help.
3. Search for underlying
meaning.
Remember not to take
emotional outbursts
personally. Viewing a tantrum
as a means of communication
helps parents consider the
likely causes of a child’s
distress and to think through
possible solutions.
MAKING CHANGES
With new insights, parents like
Eli’s dad can can help their child
put themselves back together
again after emotional outbursts,
which may be less frequent. With
consistent support, toddlers can
learn to tolerate frustration, gain a
sense of control of strong feelings,
and find words to express what’s
happening inside them.
Parenting a toddler is no easy
task. Today’s parents have the
advantages of remarkable leaps in
neuroscientific and developmental
knowledge. However, these can
be difficult to access and even
more difficult to put into practice.
Unwittingly, we can fall back into
the familiar ways we were parented,
or we may attempt to try to do the
opposite of how we were parented—
only to find we have lost direction.
Investment in early
intervention programmes for
everyone, or at a targeted level
where the parent-child relationship
is in trouble, could provide the
building blocks for lifelong
emotional well-being for families
and for society.
Rochelle Matacz is manager of the
Pregnancy to Parenthood Clinic
at Edith Cowan University. Dr
Lynn Priddis is a clinical and
counselling psychologist with the
Lifespan Psychology Centre in
Western Australia.
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New-school
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Why—and how—we should make our
classrooms active learning spaces
Experts around the world
have concluded that the traditional
classroom is actually a passive space
where students listen without interacting.
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EDUCATION Classroom
South Africa’s
educational
system faces many
challenges. As
technology, innovation
and youth culture
have advanced to the
stage that children now have access
to smart devices that can aid them
immeasurably, they’re subject to the
practices and systems of education
and schooling that were designed
for a different era.
The consequences of the
pandemic amplified the need for
change. For much of 2020 and
2021, students had to conduct
their studies remotely, causing the
need for traditional models to be
broken and highlighting the fact
that online learning can not only
empower students but instil in
them the desire to take charge of
their own education.
The need has arrived to
provide students with a holistic
education that uses technological
advancements, enhances learning
spaces, and encourages lateral
thinking and teaches skills they
can take forward into the everchanging
future.
It’s in this spirit that Shaun
Fuchs, entrepreneur and long-time
educationalist, launched Centennial
Schools this year. He aims to
address the needs of modern
school students in this new era of
educational change. “It’s becoming
more difficult to find genuinely
revolutionary reform at the system
level in existing schools,” he says.
In a stark break from
educational norms, the schools
will address vital aspects
hampering South Africa’s
current education and apply new
approaches in teaching.
One of the core elements that
needed to be addressed was the
spaces in which students learn.
Traditional school classrooms
all look the same: rows of desks
and chairs facing the blackboard,
a teacher’s desk and chair at the
front. It’s how teaching has taken
place for generations—but do these
spaces actually help students learn?
The short answer is no. Experts
around the world have studied
classroom setups and concluded
that the traditional classroom is
actually a passive space where
students listen without interacting.
Human beings by nature are not
passive creatures, yet children are
expected to learn while sitting
passively for hours on end.
Simple things like allowing students
to stand while working, or face
their peers in a classroom, already
increase their active learning.
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EDUCATION Classroom
“Setting up your
classroom for active
learning is actually
quite easy and does
not require expensive,
integrated technology,”
Fuchs says. “All schools can
implement active learning spaces
to a certain extent. Taking active
steps toward arranging the desks
in a circle so that students can
make eye contact with each other;
whiteboards and moveable chairs;
in a classroom with grouped tables
instead of rows, teachers can move
around freely to answer students’
questions during class.”
Even these low-tech measures
have reported significant
improvement in student
performance. “Studies show that
students in active learning spaces
outperformed those in traditionalstyle
classrooms when the same
course was taught in both settings,”
Fuchs reveals. “Our school has
taken the concept of active learning
to new heights by establishing
Learning Hubs that are fluid,
active and collaborative.”
He explains: “We have
seamlessly integrated technology
into spaces that are designed
around teaching and learning,
giving teachers and students the
tools they need to succeed in a
physical setting that promotes
collaboration and supports multiple
learning styles. While connected
devices are an important part of
modern learning environments,
audiovisual equipment and even
classroom furniture are essential to
creating spaces that are conducive
to teaching that focuses on futureready
skills.
“Perhaps the simplest example
of this is the standing desk, which
gives students a break from sitting
all day, heightens alertness and
even helps burn calories. In the
business world, adults move around
throughout their workday, going
from ergonomic chairs in their
offices to conference tables and
quiet corners, depending on the
task at hand. It’s important that
our students be allowed to do the
same: for example, they have a
dedicated workspace, and instead
of students moving every period,
the teachers move. This not only
saves teaching time, it also keeps
students focused.
“Over and above that, our furniture
options also come equipped with
USB or three-prong charging ports,
helping our students keep their
devices powered up throughout the
day,” he adds.
• And these Learning Hubs have
paid off, as evidenced by a survey
conducted by the school:
• Up to 70% of the students
reported better grades, better
attendance, or improved
creativity in newly designed
active learning environments.
• Students who use standing desks
reported a 17% increase in calorie
expenditure compared with those
who use traditional desks.
• 70% of parents say standing
in the classroom has a positive
impact on their child’s
behaviour.
“Classrooms should always be
attractive, inviting environments
that children want to spend time
in,” Fuchs concludes.
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Fathers offer children
diverse experiences and can
positively impact their long-term
development and well-being.
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Whether you’re a father, parent
or caregiver, or are contemplating
becoming one, here are some ways
to share love and connection with
your young child:
1. LISTEN
Children are learning intensively
from birth to age 3, in ways parents
may not imagine. Create space and
time to watch, wait, wonder and
Create space and time to watch,
wait, wonder and listen to how
your child perceives the world.
listen to how your child perceives
the world. Allow yourself to feel
and explore the magic of the world
through your child’s eyes. This will
provide your child the experience
of feeling seen and heard, to know
they’re important and worthy of love.
This will help you form a trusted
and secure connection with them.
2. SHARE
Create trust by sharing yourself:
who you are, what you love, your
history and childhood. Children
seek connection from birth, well
before they can talk. Communicate
and talk with your baby and young
child, and they will learn about
the world. As humans, sharing
our feelings and experiences,
and taking the risk of being
vulnerable, is important to building
meaningful, loving connections.
There’s strength and beauty in the
vulnerable gift of yourself.
3. PLAY
From infancy, children learn through
play. It’s how they understand,
process and make meaning of the
world. Play is fun and engaging
and it allows for attuned, loving
and responsive connection. Engage
and play with your child in
developmentally appropriate ways.
Consider something that interests
your child, and also share what
you enjoy with them. Sharing play
can help build a loving, trusting
relationship that will last a lifetime.
4. READ
Reading and sharing stories (real
or imagined) is a wonderful way to
connect and share a loving snuggle
time. This is important for children
to create a love of reading and
develop listening, critical thinking
and literacy skills and experience a
calm relaxing time together, feeling
secure and connected. You may also
discover brilliant magical moments
when your child shares their
world with you.
5. ADVENTURE AND
EXPLORE
When children are preschoolers
and older, imagining a world and
building a fort is exciting. This
kind of open-ended play using
simple objects from around the
home develops spatial reasoning
and problem-solving skills.
Pitching a tent or gazing at the
moon allows children to see, hear
and experience the world from
a new perspective. Going on a
nature hunt to discover the many
facets of the outdoors allows
children to understand the world
and allows you to share your
interests and knowledge with
them. For example, finding a snail
can be one of the most brilliant
events: You could explore how
they live and move, observing
the snail’s shell. You may discuss
fascinating insights about shapes,
or patterns in nature. Share in the
awe and wonder.
6. MODEL LOVE
Be intentional about how you live
your life, what you show your child
and how you treat the people you
and your child love. Remember,
they are watching and learning
from you all the time. Be the best
dad or caregiver you can be.
Love gets under your child’s skin
and lives within them forever.
It fills their hearts and teaches
them they are always enough—and
allows them to confidently sparkle
and shoot for the stars. The ripple
effect of love is incredible. Create a
ripple with your child and see what
beauty and wonder evolves.
Nikki Martyn is the programme
head of Early Childhood Studies at
the University of Guelph-Humber
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PARENTING Screen time
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Screen time PARENTING
Keep
watch
With young children—as well as older children and
adolescents—getting more screen time than ever, it’s
important for parents to keep it at healthy levels
By Catherine Draper
It comes as no surprise that children
have been spending more time
watching screens since the advent
of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Parents and caregivers in many
parts of the world—including South
Africa, where I’ve done research on
children’s healthy behaviours—have had a
hard time managing their children’s screen
time in these last two years. Juggling workingfrom-home
commitments, online educational
activities, economic challenges, and illness and
grief have been realities, to varying extents,
across most households. Screen time offered
a welcome relief when it had all become too
difficult to manage.
Global studies have found that young
children, as well as older children and
adolescents, are getting more screen time than
ever. Concerns have been expressed about the
impact on their social development and mental
health, in South Africa among other countries.
Screen time is a concern for young children
across a range of settings in South Africa. It
can potentially entrench unhealthy habits that
become increasingly difficult to change.
Guidelines about healthy levels of screen
time may seem unattainable now, and
returning to pre-pandemic screen time levels
seems unlikely. Guidelines from the World
Health Organisation, as well as those developed
in South Africa, recommend no screen time
for children under the age of 2, one hour a
day or less for children from 2 to 5 years, and
less than two hours (of sedentary, recreational
screen time) for children over 5 years.
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PARENTING Screen time
Despite their
protests, children
thrive with healthy
boundaries and
rules—even if they
can’t see it.
Many parents and caregivers may
be worried about how to keep
screen time at healthy levels in the
home. What can they do to shift
things in the right direction, while
still staying sane? Drawing on my
research and experience, here are
some helpful pointers and things
to consider:
CONTENT IS KEY
Keeping an eye on what children
are watching or playing on screens
is critical to ensure they’re being
exposed to content that is ageappropriate
and beneficial for their
holistic development. For example,
is it enhancing skills that they
will need at school, such as colours,
shapes and numbers for young
children; and social skills that help
them engage in a positive way with
their peers for older children and
adolescents?
WHEN YOU CAN,
CHOOSE TIME TOGETHER
From a developmental perspective,
the benefits of in-person
engagement trump those from
screen time, especially for younger
children. The interactions between
a caregiver and child are crucial
for their cognitive, social and
emotional development. This
doesn’t have to use expensive
resources: talking and singing
offer excellent opportunities to
stimulate development, and develop
nurturing connections. For older
children and adolescents, try to
match screen time with time
together to achieve a healthier
balance.
IT’S OKAY TO MAKE
RULES
Despite their protests, children
thrive with healthy boundaries
and rules—even if they can’t see it.
Simple rules around screen time
can make a significant difference
for achieving healthy screen time
levels, and also have a positive
impact on relationships in the
home. Examples include no devices
at mealtimes, having a weekly
screen-free day or a day off from
social media, or having a family
screen time curfew on certain days.
These have an impact
on parents’
and caregivers’
own screen time
behaviours, but
it’s essential that
they’re role models.
Boundaries and rules
may seem radical at first,
but why not start out with
a trial period and see how it
goes? And brainstorm some
other activities that children
would like to do with their
friends and family members
instead of screen time.
POWERING DOWN
The negative impact of screen
time on sleep is well documented.
Limiting screen time as bedtime
approaches is probably the most
important boundary. As much as
it seems to help children sleep,
the level of stimulation provided
by screens is generally too much
to help them ‘power down’ for the
night. Plus, the blue light emitted
by screens actually tells their
brains it’s not time to go to sleep.
Screen time can have a negative
impact on their sleep quality, and
how long they sleep. Given the
wide range of benefits of sleep for
children, this isn’t a resource you
want to cut down on.
Making the healthy choice isn’t
always the easy choice; COVID-19
no doubt made these choices even
harder. But every small change to
promote healthy levels of screen
time is a step in the right direction
for the health, well-being and
development of children. While
‘the earlier the better’ applies when
making positive changes, it’s never
too late to start.
Catherine Draper is an
associate professor in the
Developmental Pathways
for Health Research
Unit at Wits
University
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FINANCE Budgeting
Money
wise
A nine-month plan for
getting your family’s
finances in order before
baby arrives
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Budgeting FINANCE
If you’re an expectant
parent, you’ve probably
learnt enough medical
terminology to pass for
a fledgling OB/GYN,
grasping complexities
such as alpha-fetoprotein
levels and epidural anaesthesiology.
But studies indicate you should be
paying as much attention to the
jargon of financial well-being.
This nine-month plan will
help you nurture your nest egg
as your pregnancy progresses.
People who commit to a financial
plan save twice as much money
as those who just wing it. And the
more financial decisions you work
out ahead of time, the more fun
you’ll have with your new baby.
FIRST MONTH
Cut down credit card debt.
The first trimester is the time for
cleaning up your financial act. A
good place to start is with credit
cards. Balances in the tens of
thousands of rand cost a whole lot
more in annual interest—money
you’ll need for new expenses. They
also hamper your growing family’s
ability to get loans. Consider
transferring your balance to a
credit card with a lower interest
rate. Once you’ve switched, charge
as little as possible until you’ve
paid off your debt.
Track your spending.
Next, you’ll need to create a new
budget. From there, keep track
of all of your family’s expenses
(both big and small) to get a better
picture of your monthly spending.
You can keep receipts and take
notes on your phone, or in a
spreadsheet. When the time comes
to crunch the numbers (the third
month), this careful tracking will
help you determine your family’s
spending patterns so you can
identify areas you may need to cut
back on when baby arrives.
SECOND MONTH
Update your beneficiaries.
Double-check for and delete any
out-of-date beneficiaries on any
company-sponsored life insurance
and retirement plans, particularly
if you were single when you started
your job. Your parents, siblings or
even a previous partner may still
be listed rather than your child.
THIRD MONTH
Check up on your credit.
Even if you pay your bills on time
every month, errors can slip into
your credit report. Save time and
aggravation by correcting mistakes
now, when your life is relatively
sane. Having a strong credit score
is important when you’re a parentto-be
and potentially looking into
big purchases such as a home or a
car in the near future. You can get a
free credit score and report through
the ClearScore app (Google Play and
App Store). Limit yourself to only
one check per year—any more than
that can hurt your rating.
Crunch the numbers.
Take all the numbers from the
expenses you have tracked the
past few months and put them in
a spreadsheet or budget-tracking
app (if you haven’t already). This
will give you a full picture of your
current expenses—before you
give them a makeover to prepare
for baby. Your goal is not to just
break even, but to save money
regularly. Too many people are not
saving any money for retirement,
an emergency fund, or other
long-term financial goals. When
creating your new budget, keep in
mind your upcoming childrearing
costs: food, clothing, shelter,
transportation and childcare.
Couples who are struggling to save
may want to book an appointment
with a certified financial planner,
a pro trained to help clients set
monetary goals.
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FINANCE Budgeting
FOURTH MONTH
Make a friend in HR.
Get a full briefing about maternity
or paternity benefits from your
company’s human resources
department.
Practise austerity.
In the second trimester, you
need to make sure you’re
putting something away. Start by
earmarking funds to offset the loss
of income you expect from any
unpaid maternity leave. Figure out
what the gap will be and then try
to make up for it beforehand. If
you plan to furnish a nursery from
scratch (or purchase pricey baby
gear), set aside additional savings
toward that goal. Put the amount
you’ll soon spend on baby into
short-notice savings accounts or
money-market accounts. You should
have a tidy sum by your due date
—if you begin today.
FIFTH MONTH
Do the daycare shuffle.
Your second trimester is a
great time to evaluate childcare
options—before your energy wanes
and mobility becomes complicated.
To get the most bang for your buck,
check nannies’ references. Confirm
that daycare administrators
have degrees in early childhood
education, and that staffers receive
child development training—and
that caregivers don’t come and go
with the seasons.
SIXTH MONTH
Buy life insurance.
Most expectant parents should
insure themselves for at least
six to eight times the amount
of their gross annual salary to
cover the anticipated dependent.
Stick to term life, preferably
20 years or less.
Write a will.
Though you may be loathe to
decide who would raise your child
and manage their finances should
both parents die, it’s easier to
write a will and choose a guardian
before the baby is born.
SEVENTH MONTH
Jump-start an education fund
If your new budget leaves any room
for education savings, start saving
for your future scholar before you’ve
even settled on a baby name. If you’d
like family and friends to shower
you with money instead of booties
and rattles, have them contribute
to your child’s education fund.
EIGHTH MONTH
Factor in friends’ benevolence.
Right now, some of your mom’s
friends are almost certainly
knitting yellow blankets in
honour of your baby’s arrival.
Your pals are also busy organising
showers behind your back. People
tend to be unbelievably generous
when a child is born, so you may
want to see what you receive
before you buy any but the most
basic baby goods.
Keep your eye on retirement, too.
With nursery walls to paint and
breathing exercises to practise, your
third trimester is not the obvious
time to be saving for retirement—but
it’s an important goal to prioritise.
Parents who plan to stop working,
even for only a few months, should
vow to continue budgeting money
toward their retirement.
NINTH MONTH & BEYOND
Cover your baby.
Most medical aid companies allow
new parents 30 days after delivery
to add their newborn to their
policy. In any case, it makes sense
to start filling out the enrollment
form now, leaving blanks for
the baby’s name and birth date.
Assign your partner the task of
adding those details and getting
the paperwork to the relevant
department as soon as you and
your baby come home from the
hospital.
Aside from that, the final month of
your pregnancy is time for putting
your feet up, both fiscally and
literally. Relax, pour a cup of tea,
and pat yourself on the back for
preparing your family’s finances
for your new arrival.
Source: Parents.com
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NUTRITION African wholefoods
Much work
is still to be done to
mainstream these
foods in the commercial
food market
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African wholefoods NUTRITION
Future
foods
Many people are not aware of the health benefits
of traditional African ingredients—Local Village Foods
is trying to change that
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NUTRITION African wholefoods
Traditional African
superfoods
that have long
been a staple of
many African
communities’ diets
are increasingly
finding their way onto the
global banquet table—although
much work is still to be done to
mainstream these foods in the
commercial food market.
Local Village Foods, the
brainchild of young South African
entrepreneur Sipamandla Manqele,
is an ethics-driven business aimed
at making African wholefoods and
ingredients more accessible.
“Food is the currency for true
connection and helps us celebrate
and appreciate the significance
of our diverse traditions. It
accompanies all of life’s most
significant moments and plays
a critical role in the social and
traditional life of African cultures
and their peoples,” she says. “And
yet, at the global banquet table,
African foods and ingredients—
together with the continent’s
diverse food traditions—remain
underrepresented.”
In 2016, after travelling
extensively, Manqele (an
experienced South African
entrepreneur and food production
specialist) recognised the untapped
potential of uniquely African
produce in the domestic and global
food market, and established Local
Village Foods.
The business sources 90% of
its ingredients from small-scale
producers based across Africa,
including Nigeria, Malawi, Benin,
Zimbabwe and South Africa and is
committed to ethical sourcing and
traceability.
FUTURE-PROOF FOODS
Local Village Foods’ primary product
portfolio includes commodities
and value-added products that
incorporate African indigenous
ingredients such as indigenous
grains (fonio and teff), gluten-free
flour (sorghum and tiger nut flour),
canned foods, legumes (bambara
groundnuts and tiger nuts) and
African superfoods (moringa).
The company also continues to
develop innovative food products
including fusilli pasta made from
the moringa plant, and snack
bars made with moringa and
amaranth grain.
While the company’s products
are plant-based and veganfriendly,
they are also ideal
for those looking for healthier
alternatives to highly processed
and unhealthy foods. “Many
people are not aware of the
health benefits of traditional
African foods. Many of them
are considered superfoods
due to their nutritional
value; superfoods have a
very high nutritional
density when
incorporated into
a well-balanced
diet, which
helps to promote
heart health
(antioxidants), weight
loss, improved energy
levels and a stronger immune
system. They’re also considered
‘future-proof’ foods, owing to the
fact that they can be produced
sustainably and in areas with low
rainfall levels,” explains Manqele.
A 2019 report by Knorr and
the WWF, titled “Future 50
Foods”, identified 50 foods that
should be eaten more frequently
owing to their high level of
nutrition, the fact that they have
a lower impact on the planet
than animal-based foods, are
affordable, accessible and taste
good. Local Village Foods sources
and distributes many of
these superfoods.
“Those unfamiliar
with African wholefoods
can expect tastes like
earthy, sweet and light
flavours in teff grain,
to sweet nutty flavours
similar to coconut in tiger
nuts, or even flavours similar
to peanuts—although slightly
sweeter and less oily—
in bambara,” explains
Manqele.
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NUTRITION African wholefoods
DRINK OF CHOICE
In addition to its flagship
wholefoods offering, Local Village
Foods also sells the Bissap Beverages
product line. The beverage is
colourant-free and preservative-free,
and is available in Hibiscus Classic
or Hibiscus Ginger variants.
Bissap is a natural plant-based
African drink brewed from roselle,
a species of the hibiscus plant
extensively consumed in West Africa.
Across the continent it’s known
by many names including wonjo,
dabileni, tsobo, zobo or sobolo and
is frequently the drink of choice for
times of gathering and celebration.
HAVE A TASTE
Local Village Foods products are
all sold online at localvillage.
africa, takealot.com and Zoot.co.za,
plus they are available at select
pharmacies, retailers, delis and
supermarkets across southern Africa.
There are delicious recipes
using Local Village Foods products
to be found on the company’s blog
page (localvillagefoods.com/blog),
for those who are new to the world
of African wholefoods. “We work
closely with chefs, food influencers
and recipe developers to devise
these dishes,” says Manqele.
She adds that her personal
favourite product is fonio, because
it can be used as a side dish or as a
nutrient-dense breakfast cereal. “I
would also recommend people to try
our delicious zesty snack bar that
contains real local fruits and the
baobab superfood.”
So bring a taste of Africa to
your dinner table and enjoy a
healthy feast!
AN AFRICAN HARVEST
Local Village Foods has
recently launched The African
Harvest Table series, which
features an informative
guide to indigenous African
ingredients for adults in the
form of a coffee-table book
(R895) as well as a fun and
engaging children’s activity
book (R49.99).
The book series explores
the rich multitude of local
ingredients from across the
continent, which are the
cornerstones of indigenous
culinary dishes. From the
simple staples, such as cassava,
to the seasonal delicacies like
marula, the series unpacks the
origins, uses and similarities of
the foods that have sustained
Africans for generations.
“Through rich imagery
and in-depth insights, we seek
to educate the young and old
about the foods that sustain the
people of this continent we call
home,” says Manqele.
The books can be ordered at
localvillage.africa/productcategory/literature.
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NUTRITION What’s for dinner?
SHOW THEM
SOME LOVE
Trish van der Nest shows how to prepare delicious,
healthy meals for those gathered around your table
Cooking with Love aptly describes Trish van der
Nest’s approach to food. This passionate foodie
loves nothing more than to see family and friends
gathered around her table, eating a meal she’s
prepared. This book pays tribute to some of the
friends, family, chefs and cookbook authors whose
recipes have become part of her own culinary
journey. As a homeopath, Trish understands the
role that good nutrition plays in supporting and
maintaining well-being, and her healthy carbconscious
recipes show it’s possible to prepare
delicious, family-friendly meals without sacrificing
any flavour, texture or taste. Try them for yourself!
Sticky Chilli Chicken
Serves 4 to 6
When my children were growing up, this was an easy
dinner dish to whip up in a flash. For a healthier
version, use xylitol or erythritol instead of sugar.
INGREDIENTS
• 2 cups (500ml) water
• ½ cup (125ml) white wine vinegar
• ½ cup sugar or non-nutritive sweetener (see Notes)
• 3/4 cup (cup (85ml) soy sauce or tamari (see Notes)
• 3 red chillies, deseeded and finely chopped
• 1 Tbsp grated ginger
• 1kg chicken pieces
• 1 cup chopped fresh coriander or parsley, for garnish
METHOD
1. Combine the water, vinegar, sugar or sweetener,
soy sauce or tamari, chillies and ginger in a large pan.
Simmer over a medium heat for 3–5 minutes.
2. Add the chicken pieces, cover with a lid and cook
for 35 minutes, turning occasionally.
3. Remove the lid and continue cooking for another
25 minutes, turning the chicken until it is cooked
through and coated in the sticky sauce.
Scatter over the fresh herbs before serving.
NOTES
• Tamari is a gluten-free alternative to soy
sauce.
• Instead of sugar, use the same quantity of a
granular non-nutritive sweetener like xylitol
or erythritol.
• For oven-cooking, arrange the chicken in an
ovenproof dish and pour over the warmed
chilli sauce. Cover with a lid or foil and cook
in a preheated oven at 180°C for 35 minutes,
then remove the lid and cook for a further 25
minutes, turning the chicken once or twice.
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What’s for dinner? NUTRITION
Spaghetti with Bacon and
Prawns in Garlic Butter
Serves 4
My son Matt is always searching for dishes
he can whip up in minutes, and this ticks all
the boxes. If you’re avoiding carbs, choose baby
marrow spirals or gluten-free pasta (see Notes).
INGREDIENTS
• 400g spaghetti
• 60g garlic butter, softened
• 2 tsp lemon juice
• ½ cup roughly chopped fresh basil
• 4 rashers streaky bacon, chopped
• 500g cooked and peeled prawns, roughly
chopped
• 1 Tbsp olive oil
METHOD
1. Cook the pasta according to the
package instructions. Drain and
place in a serving dish.
2. While the pasta is cooking, mix together the
garlic butter, lemon juice and half the basil.
3. Heat the butter mixture in a pan. Add the
bacon and fry until crispy, then add the
prawns and cook, stirring, until just pink. (If
you are using baby marrow noodles, add them
to the pan at this stage, and cook for 3–4
minutes, until just tender.)
4. Spoon the bacon and prawn mixture over
the cooked pasta. Drizzle with olive oil and
scatter over the remaining basil. Serve
immediately.
NOTES
• Use frozen, medium-sized cooked and peeled
prawns, with the shells removed. If necessary,
remove the black veins before cooking.
• Because vegetable noodles don’t swell the
way cooked pasta does, you need twice the
quantity. To serve 4, use 800g baby marrow
noodles.
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NUTRITION What’s for dinner?
Karen’s Cassata-style Ice Cream
Makes 2 litres; serves 8 to 10
My friend Karen Wales shared this wonderfully retro ice cream,
which combines cherries, chocolate and nuts in a way that is
reminiscent of old-school Italian cassata. Serve it in slices, or
scoop it into waffle cones for alfresco eating. At Christmas, Karen
adds red and green cherries and serves it in a tree-shaped mould
because the colours look great on the table!
NGREDIENTS
• 2 litres vanilla ice cream
• 100g mixed nuts, roughly chopped
• 100g glacé cherries, halved or
roughly chopped
• 2 Peppermint Crisp bars, crushed,
plus extra
• 2 Crunchie bars, crushed, plus
extra
METHOD
1. Allow the ice cream to soften just
enough to scoop into a bowl. Add
the nuts, cherries and chocolates
and stir through. (Work quickly to
ensure the ice cream doesn’t get
too soft.)
2. Scoop the mixture back into the
ice cream container, or into a
loaf pan that has been lined with
cling wrap, allowing some overlap.
Smooth the surface, replace the
lid or fold over the cling wrap, and
return to the freezer for 4–6 hours,
or until set.
3. To serve in slices, place a warm
cloth around the loaf pan for a
few seconds, then invert it onto a
platter and carefully remove the
pan. Remove the cling wrap and
sprinkle over extra chocolate bits
and/
or cherries and
nuts.
Recipes and images from “Cooking with
Love” by Trish van der Nest (R320).
Published by Penguin, an imprint of
Penguin Random House South Africa, 2022.
Used with permission.
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DECOR Small rooms
Space out
Is that small room in your house just depressing?
Here are simple ways to make it appear bigger
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Small rooms DECOR
Having a small
room can be a
pain. It looks
more like
a cupboard
than
somewhere
to live in—and if you have guests
staying in it, you actually feel
embarrassed by its size. You’d give
anything to make it bigger, but
unfortunately, renovation just
isn’t possible.
Luckily, it’s possible to make
it seem bigger! Here’s a simple
guide to help you do just that,
with everything you need to know
about how to make a small room
appear larger than it really is.
EASY ON THE DECOR
When it comes to decorating
a small house to make it look
bigger, you definitely shouldn’t
clutter it with decor. Putting
lots of pictures on the walls and
filling the space with big, chunky
furniture will only make it look
even smaller. Keep things more
minimalistic when decorating
small places—and think about
smart storage that will keep your
stuff neatly stored away without
taking up a ton of room.
PAINT IT BIGGER
When you’re thinking about
how to make a small bedroom
look bigger, you should also be
thinking about colours that make
a room look bigger—the two go
hand in hand. If you fill your
room with dark objects and paint
the walls in dark colours, you’re
going to make your already-small
space seem tiny. So stick to light,
bright colours. Keep things plain
on the wall with a fresh white
that will really open the space up.
Then add hints of bright colour
in your decor, such as yellow, light
blue and green.
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DECOR Small rooms
STORE AWAY
Clever storage is one of the easiest
ways to make a room look bigger.
It’ll help keep surfaces clear and
create more space to move around,
creating the illusion of a much
larger area.
It may be pretty straightforward
to find good storage solutions for
large spaces, but what about small
bedroom storage ideas? Here are
some easy ways to create more
storage in even the littlest of
rooms:
• Opt for multifunctional
furniture pieces such as a
table that’s both bedside
cabinet and desk.
• Clothing storage ideas for
small bedrooms can be
particularly hard. If you don’t
have space for a wardrobe, try
open railings instead.
• Make sure the drawers in
anything you buy are long
and deep so they can keep
lots of stuff.
• Use the full height of the room
for extra storage. The less
often you use something, the
higher up it can be stored.
SHELVE IT
One of the easiest
bedroom storage
solutions is to put
up a lot of shelves.
These can be used
for anything from
books and magazines
to additional shoe or
clothes storage.
COVER AN ENTIRE
WALL WITH SHELVING.
This may seem like a lot, but if
you do the whole side, it becomes
more of a feature wall. Not only
does this give you loads of storage,
but it’s also a great way to display
art, plants and your favourite
possessions.
USE A VINTAGE
WARDROBE.
Shelving doesn’t have to be open.
Try going to retro and second-hand
furniture sales and look for pieces
with lots of in-built shelving.
BUILD A LADDER-
SHELVING UNIT.
It’s surprisingly easy to
make your own shelving out
of an old step ladder. There are
plenty of online guides—try this
YouTube video by HGTV for a start:
bit.ly/3cSXETh
UTILISE ALL THE SPACE
YOU HAVE.
For example, try getting under-thebed
storage boxes.
Once you’ve got the hang of making
small spaces look larger, you can
transform your rooms and create
areas that you love. Don’t be afraid
to get creative with storage, and
remember to keep your colours
bright. You’ll create a more
welcoming space in no time.
Source: www.cleanipedia.com
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LEISURE Travel
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Travel LEISURE
Cut the cost,
not the fun
7 ways you and your family can holiday
on a shoestring budget
Choose a destination
that’s close to home,
which will result in a
significant saving on fuel
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LEISURE Travel
With
summer
almost
upon us,
everyone
is
yearning
to get away from it all to enjoy a
long-overdue break. But the idea
of a holiday nowadays is often so
foreign to many South Africans,
that they simply don’t even
consider it due to the perceived
cost. Yet, armed with a little insider
info, your next vacay could be just
around the corner.
Seasoned traveller and
renowned expert in the travel
industry, Rioma Cominelli (director
of First Loyalty Plus), says:
“With a little tightening of one’s
belt, monthly saving and expert
planning, you can be en route to
your first—or next—family holiday
before you know it!”
Here are her 7 top tips to get
you moving in the right direction:
1. TRAVEL TO A LOCAL
DESTINATION.
Location, location, location! Choose
a destination that’s close to home,
which will result in a significant
saving on fuel—and who couldn’t
do with that right now? Don’t be
fooled into thinking you must
travel miles to relax and unwind;
sometimes the very best gems are
right on our doorstep.
2. BOOK IN ADVANCE,
AND FOR A SHORTER
PERIOD.
Booking far in advance will not only
allow you more time to save for the
trip but will also be significantly
cheaper than booking at the last
minute (when demand is higher).
Choosing to go away for four nights
instead of six is savvy—that way, you
won’t rack up the cost of a full week.
And while this may seem too short,
consider that five days away is still
better than only a weekend away.
3. CONSIDER OFF-PEAK
TIMES.
If you have small children or are
retired, and you’re not governed by
school holidays or weekends, then
take advantage of out-of-season/
mid-week specials. This way you’ll
be assured of stretching your budget
even further, as school holidays and
weekends are usually charged at
peak season/higher rates.
4. OPT FOR SELF-
CATERING
ACCOMMODATION.
It’s almost always cheaper to
book self-catering apartments
or cottages rather than hotel
rooms. Eating out is also
expensive, so save costs by
eating in. This needn’t mean
hours in the kitchen for mom—
pack a picnic for a fun, outdoor
adventure, enjoy family braais,
or make use of ready-made
pizzas or meals.
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LEISURE Travel
5. MAKE A LIST.
What good is a summer
holiday without your fave
cozzie, hat and book that
you’ve now forgotten at home?
If you don’t make a list to
ensure everything gets packed,
you’ll be forced to waste time
and money shopping for things
you’ve left behind. So, keep costs
down by not having to spend
unnecessarily.
6. ENJOY FREE
ACTIVITIES.
They say the best things in
life are free—and how much
better when you’re on holiday!
First Group Hotels & Resorts,
for example, has daily planned
activities that won’t cost you
a cent. In addition, you can go
on a hike, go for a bike ride in
the mountains, make use of
sports facilities such as tennis
courts, do some fishing or spend
a day at the beach. Don’t be
pressurised into thinking you
need to jam activities into every
minute of the day to enjoy your
holiday—this will be a stressful
(and expensive) mistake.
7. JOIN A LOYALTY
PROGRAMME.
Accommodation is notorious
for eating up the largest slice
of your holiday budget, and one
of the easiest ways to minimise
this is to sign up for a loyalty
programme. As a member of
First Loyalty Plus, for example,
you’ll score up to 50% discount
on accommodation, meals, etc.
Cominelli concludes, “The
benefits of a family holiday
go far beyond the obvious rest
and relaxation; it’s the lifelong
memories that you’ll create
when you’re away from the daily
grind, which will last for years
to come. By planning your next
holiday smartly, you’ll be far
more likely to make that dream
an affordable reality.”
REWARD YOURSELF
First Loyalty Plus is South Africa’s best all-round rewards
programme that offers members up to 50% off a host of amazing
lifestyle products, in addition to giving them an opportunity
to earn rewards that can be redeemed for things like luxury
accommodation, spa treatments, once-in-a-lifetime experiences
and even an impressive selection of goodies in the online store.
For more information, visit firstloyaltyplus.co.za.
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BEST BUYS Beauty
NEVER TOO LATE
Break up
with those
bad skin
habits
Are you treating your skin blindly and just doing what you’ve been
told to do so you can claim you have a ‘skincare regime’? Don’t feel
bad, most of us are guilty of this—because let’s face it, life gets busy
and our skincare can take second place.
Tumi Lehutso from Fundamentals Skincare (fundamentalsskincare.co.za)
says that caring for your skin can come first, and
it can be easy. We all know that you should remove your makeup
before sleeping, drink enough water, and choose the right products.
So, let’s get a bit beyond the basics:
COMMON BAD HABIT 1:
USING TOO MANY PRODUCTS
Sometimes it’s too much of a good thing, like
having a different moisturiser for every day.
With so many skincare choices available, you
can often overuse or combine products, which
can worsen your skin. Stick to products your
skin needs—and keep going.
COMMON BAD HABIT 2:
NOT LAYERING CORRECTLY
This is something most of us are guilty of,
as it’s common to mix skincare formulas to
boost their potency—but some combinations
just don’t complement each other. These
include AHAs and retinoids, vitamin C and
retinoids, and salicylic acid and retinoids.
Mixing formulas and creating a cocktail of
actives nonchalantly can be dangerous, as these
ingredients can overstimulate your skin and
possibly lead to damaged skin.
COMMON BAD HABIT 3:
NOT APPLYING SUNSCREEN
Whether it’s going to the beach for the
afternoon or just walking from your workplace
to your car or public transport, sunscreen
is necessary to protect your skin from sun
damage. Some people still believe they only
need to apply sunscreen if they’re going to
be sitting in the sun for long periods of time.
However, dermatologists and aestheticians
everywhere will tell you that this is incorrect.
It’s crucial that you keep your skin safe from
sun damage every day, even when you won’t be
spending much time in the sun.
COMMON BAD HABIT 4:
EXFOLIATING TOO MUCH
Exfoliation is crucial and so satisfying when
done, but only to a certain extent. Too much
or too little can land you in a pickle of bad
and sensitive skin—this being irritation, skin
flaking and general pain. You may even be
unable to get certain facials or use certain
types of makeup because your skin is just too
sensitive. You only need to exfoliate a few
times a week. Additionally, you should only
exfoliate with chemical exfoliators, as physical
exfoliators very often lead to over-exfoliating
in different areas; penetration is not even, and
very often these types of exfoliators are too
harsh and can damage your skin barrier.
COMMON BAD HABIT 5:
PICKING AT BREAKOUTS
No matter your age, at some point you’ll
experience a breakout. When this happens,
don’t be tempted to pick at pimples. Not only
can this bad habit scar your face, but it can also
lead to the pimple rupturing underneath the
skin surface. If a pimple bursts underneath
the skin, it exacerbates inflammation on the
surface of the skin, which can cause even more
breakouts over time. If you feel you need to
extract a pimple, talk to a professional about
removal methods.
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Beauty BEST BUYS
1
2
1. SKNLOGIC RETINOL
0.5% BOOSTER (R280) AND
PROTECT SPF40 (R305)
The next-generation, fast-absorbing
encapsulated retinol
formula in SKNLOGIC’s
Retinol Booster dramatically
reduces the appearance
of fine lines, wrinkles and
hyperpigmentation. Added
soyaglycone maximises the effect
of the retinol. SKNLOGIC Protect
is a full-spectrum sun-protection
cream that also provides antiageing
benefits. It goes beyond
UVA and UVB protection to help
defend from blue light (digital
pollution) and environmental
pollution, as well as infrared light
emitted by the sun.
Online at www.sknlogic.com or
leading salons and spas across the
country
2. FUNDAMENTALS PEPTIDES
MOISTURISER (R175)
While noticeable ageing may start in
your 30s, premature ageing starts in
your 20s. That’s why skincare is so
important. This new peptide cream
is a highly concentrated moisturiser
that provides a boost of hydration
to the skin, and targets signs of
early ageing (such as fine lines and
wrinkles) by increasing collagen
production. It’s a veritable peptide
warrior with 2% hyaluronic acid,
1% copper tripeptide and 1% acetyl
hexapeptide, which can be used
morning and night—one product
that does it all.
fundamentals-skincare.co.za
4. SKIN CREAMERY SKIN
SCENT (R450)
Skin Scent gently merges with
your skin’s own natural smell
into something surprisingly
familiar. Inspired by
aromachology, itt captures your
unique aura with a contrasting
blend of earthy, citrus and spicy
notes. Vetiver, lime and coriander
soften into a milky rose to subtly
amplify your natural essence.
Like your skin, but better.
skincreamery.com
5. W7 VERY VEGAN
EYESHADOW PALETTES
(FROM R175)
W7 now has a range of makeup
products approved and
certified by the Vegan
Society. The eyeshadow
palette features a blend
of 12 matte and metallic
eyeshadow colours for a
natural, everyday glam.
“Pretty Wild” contains
springtime shades
comprising oranges,
coppers, pinks and
purples for bright but delicate
looks; while “Au Naturel”
contains autumnal colours
such as nudes, golds, browns
and smokes for a
warmer look.
takealot.com, superbalist.com
and www.caretobeauty.com
4
5
3. HAIRTAMIN MOM (R550)
Our bodies go through many changes
throughout pregnancy. Often times,
our hair changes too—with hair
shedding or thinning being a
common side effect. This vegan hair
vitamin has been formulated into
a complete prenatal and postnatal
dietary supplement to help nourish
your and your baby’s body, as well
as your hair. It even helps
with morning sickness!
superbalist.com
3
6
6. CLARINS RESCULPTING
FLASH ROLLER (R610)
This roller massage, inspired by
Clarins’ Spa expertise, promotes
lymphatic drainage and depuffs
facial features. The two
curved edges of the zinc gua sha
conform to the contours of your
face and provide precise pressure
and massage for a lifting and
purifying effect. A pure moment of
spa relaxation in your own home.
www.clarins.co.za
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WIMPY LAUNCHES MULTILINGUAL
AFRICAN FOLKTALE COLLECTION
ENCOURAGING DIVERSITY,
INCLUSION AND LITERACY
It’s no secret that Wimpy is one
of SA’s most loved restaurants, a
familiar family favourite where
young and old are welcome. As a
proudly South African restaurant,
Wimpy recognises Mzanzi’s richness
and has partnered with Ethnikids, an
online children’s bookstore started
by five South African moms, for a
second year to give children access to
an African folktale collection in their
home language.
Passionate about kids and
their education, Wimpy has again
partnered with Ethnikids to bring
its edu-tainment philosophy to life.
“Children are close to our hearts and
core to our offering. Our collaboration
with Ethnikids
enables us to
bringing real
South African
stories to
kids in a fun
and engaging
way,” says Jodi
Law, Brand
Manager,
Wimpy.
In a country with
11 official languages,
mother tongue books
are not readily
available, and most
children’s books lack
cultural context.
“It is critical that
children are exposed
to literature that
includes diverse
ethnicities, this
positively impacts
a child’s self-image
and develops pride in who they
are and where they come from”
says Seago Maapola, educational
psychologist.
Stories that speak about who
we are play an important role in
representation, guiding what we
should be proud of. “When there is
a lack of representation, children
are exposed to a single narrative
based on stereotypes, this leads
to them experiencing negative
psychological outcomes and often
feeling like they’re not good
enough,” adds Maapola.
Wimpy commissioned
Ethnikids to develop a
multilingual, multicultural
folktale collection giving
children access to diverse
characters and stories
that they can relate to and
identify with. The collection
is based on five South
African folktales, with some
of SA’s most talented authors
and illustrators collaborating
to provide children tales
that represent the rainbow
nation’s melting pot of cultures.
The books are available on the
Wimpy website in all 11 official
languages, as well as in Khoe/
Nama the original Bantu language
of the Khoisan people that is being
advocated to become one of SA’s
official languages. The English
versions are available at Wimpy
restaurants nationwide with every
kid’s combo meal.
“This year’s campaign includes
an interactive online and inrestaurant
experience encouraging
children to engage with the stories.
Children can choose their own ending
by scanning a QR code at the back of the
books, using their own imagination
to expand on the narratives” adds Law.
A second phase of the campaign will enable
kids to collect 3D cardboard puppets from each
of the featured books. These fold-out scenes will
include different characters and allow kids to
make use of their imagination, acting out scenes
and making up their own characters.
Visit https://wimpy.co.za/kids/
mzanzi-stories/ to find out more.
BEST BUYS for Babies
Our favourite things
A pick of the latest quality must-haves for your little one
5
1
2
3 4
6
1. THE TASTY TIE (R175)
A stylish and practical (and
oh-so-cute!) silicone teether,
crinkle toy and clip-on baby tie
accessory all in one. The clipon
feature prevents dropping,
making the tie a must-have in
the car or on your travels. The
tie also helps babies gain control
over their movements as they
work toward self-feeding. At
the end of the tie, there’s a soft
silicone tip with little bumps
that help baby soothe sore gums.
www.kidsemporium.co.za
2. MAXI-COSI MICA
PRO ECO I-SIZE CAR
SEAT (R9 899)
This car seat (from birth to 4
years) uses Eco Care, which
means it has 100% recycled
fabrics—the first sustainable car
seat of its kind. The smart builtin
FlexiSpin rotation makes
the Mica Pro Eco a smoothly
rotating 360° car seat—you
need use only one hand! It’s
unbelievably quick and easy to
get your little one in and out
of the car. What’s more, the
5-point safety harness will keep
your baby safe and secure at
all times, with multiple recline
positions and extra padding for
cushioning.
azbaby.co.za
3. BAOCARE BABY
BAOBAB & GREEN
ROOIBOS OIL (R200)
This gentle baby oil serum is
made with the gentlest plantbased
ingredients to give
your little one’s skin all the
nurturing attention it needs. It
soothes irritations, insect bites,
cradle cap, nappy rash, teething
rash and other skin irritations
common among babies.
See www.baocare.co.za for
stockists or to purchase online
4. TOMMEE TIPPEE
DREAMMAKER (R859.99)
Developed by sleep scientists,
the Dreammaker is a proven
sound and light sleep aid that
helps your little one sleep
better by simulating ideal
sleep conditions, rather
than stimulating him. The
soothing red light encourages
the production of the sleep
hormone melatonin, and is
minimally stimulating so won’t
disturb baby (or you) once
asleep. The rhythmic pulses
of soft light mimic the slow,
deep breaths of baby’s relaxed
breathing rate, which helps him
drift off to sleep. And pink noise
mimics the natural sounds of
the womb and encourages baby
to fall asleep faster, deeper and
for longer.
See www.tommeetippee.co.za
for stockists or to purchase
online
5. TOMMEE
TIPPEE SMUSHEE 1ST
SELF-FEEDING SPOON
(R179.99)
A self-feeding spoon that’s
perfect if your little one
wants to take feeding into
her own hands. There’s no
right or wrong way to hold
the Smushee, so your baby can
simply dunk the spoon in her
bowl and the food will grip and
stay on. BACSHIELD protects
the spoon’s surface by reducing
bacteria by up to 99.99%.
See www.tommeetippee.co.za
for stockists or to purchase
online
6. WELEDA CHILDREN’S
TOOTH GEL (R130)
Children’s Tooth Gel looks
after new and developing
teeth and provides natural
protection against cavities
forming. With extracts of
organic calendula flowers
to keep gums healthy, silica
for thorough cleaning, and
natural flavours of fennel
and spearmint, it makes
cleaning teeth a happy ritual.
It contains no ingredients
that could cause harm if
swallowed—no fluoride, either.
www.shopweleda.co.za
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Growing up fast!
Here are a few nifty products for mommy’s big girl and big boy
1. STEPHEN JOSEPH
DOUBLE-WALL STAINLESS
STEEL WATER BOTTLE (R349)
An adorable double-walled bottle
to keep your kiddo hydrated—
whether with hot chocolate or cool
lemonade. These bottles have been
designed to hold enough of your
tot’s favourite beverage without
wearing out his little hands.
Free of all the bad stuff like BPA,
phthalates and PVC, but full of all
the good stuff, like leak-proof lid
with easy-open button, and sturdy
stainless steel construction.
www.faithful-to-nature.co.za
and takealot.com
2. MELISSA & DOUG
ANIMAL RESCUE SHAPE
SORTING TRUCK (R399.90)
With this rugged safari truck, two
cheerful rescue rangers are ready to
zoom across the savannah to help
their six animal friends. Lift and
remove the cargo door to unload the
colourful animals, then count and
stack the solid-wood pieces before
loading the truck and securing the
door in its track.
toykingdom.co.za
3
3. DINNER WINNER
KIDS’ DINNER TRAY (R399)
Dinner Winner makes food fun!
The goal is to get to the finish
line, where a special covered treat
awaits, so even fussy eaters will
clean their plate. Dinner Winner
is moulded from 100% virgin
melamine, and is food-safe and
dishwasher-safe.
takealot.com
4. COCOMELON
SNACKTIME JJ DOLL (R729)
This bento-style toy lunchbox—in
the shape of popular CoComelon
character JJ—comes with a threepiece
tray, a fork, a spoon, and
some toy food items like a piece
of toast with egg, an apple and an
ice lolly. This is the perfect toy
for preschoolers to learn about
counting and about the different
food groups, all while discovering
colour when sorting shapes and
building various foods. Your little
one will enjoy listening to songs
and sounds when he feeds JJ and
presses the doll’s tummy.
Loot.co.za, takealot.com
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5. OH SO HEAVENLY TOTS
‘N TODDLERS FOREST FUN
GENTLE BUBBLE BATH
(R62.99) & ALL-PURPOSE
EMOLLIENT CREAM
(R39.99)
The creamy bubble bath forms
masses of bubbles to make bath time
fun time. Infused with 100% natural
rooibos, the extra mild, colourfree
and soap-free formulation is
clinically proven to be gentle on the
softest, most precious skin. After the
bath, use the emollient cream (with
rooibos and shea butter) to intensely
hydrate and nourish your tot’s
delicate skin for up to 24 hours.
Clicks stores nationwide, and online
at www.clicks.co.za
6. THE FRONT-FACING
BOOKSHELF (R1 790)
All the books you’ve so carefully
chosen for your child are easy for
her to see and reach on this frontfacing
bookshelf. Even before a
child is able to read, seeing the
colourful and engaging cover
illustrations gives her an insight
into the contents of the story, and
so encourages her to want to read it,
either on her own or with mom or
dad during story time.
studiodoodle.co.za
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BEST BUYS for Moms
Easy does it
Novel products to give mummies a helping hand
1. PHILIPS AVENT SINGLE
ELECTRIC BREAST PUMP (R3 900)
Inspired by baby and effective for mom,
the Natural Motion technology of the
Philips Avent Electric Breast Pump keeps
milk flow at an optimum and gently
adapts to your nipple size and shape. It
provides the perfect balance of suction
and nipple stimulation—inspired by the
natural way babies drink. The quiet motor
allows you to express milk anywhere,
discreetly, while the soft and adaptive
silicone cushion is gentle and comfortable.
Better yet, the breast pump expresses
quickly, meaning you’ll get more milk out
in less time.
Baby City, Dis-Chem and Babies R Us
stores, or online at www.takealot.com
or www.medhealthsup.com
2. THE KINDNESS CO.
FLY AWAY REPELLENT (R79.99)
This 100% natural fly repellent
contains no harmful chemicals,
toxins or poisons. Spray on all
surfaces like countertops, door
frames and window frames—and
when dining outdoors, spray on
tables or tablecloths to repel flies or
bees for at least two to three hours.
Not to worry, this product won’t kill
the flies or bees, just repel them.
www.thekindnessco.co.za
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4. SLEEPY BOTTLE (R2 300)
The world’s first totally portable
baby formula maker—no more
nighttime trips to the kitchen!
Sleepy Bottle keeps formula dry
and warms water to a perfect
37°C while you sleep. When baby
awakes, just twist and shake to
mix the formula with the water—
it’s ready in seconds. Great for
daytime feeding, too.
www.kidsemporium.co.za
5. SOPURE MITE-FREE
BABY FABRIC SPRAY
(R139.95 FOR 500ML)
This spray aids in neutralising
allergy-causing proteins in mites
and their excretion. It can be used
on beds, pillows, bedding, cots,
curtains, carpets, car seats, fluffy
toys and upholstery. It also aids
in eliminating viruses, bacteria,
moulds and mildew without using
harmful chemicals or additives.
Free from fake scents and
anything animal, the innovative
pure formulation is 100% nontoxic.
Gentle on fabrics, babies
and the planet.
sopure.co.za
3. BRAMLEY AFRICAN
COLLECTION TISSUE OIL
(R26.99)
This premium range from
Bramley Cosmetics—formulated
with selected 100% naturals oils
and elegantly fragranced with
delicious sweet floral scents—
will enhance and amplify your
mood and confidence. There
are two variants: Argan Oil &
Macadamia, and Aloe Vera & Olive
Oil. Argan oil is known as liquid
gold for its restorative properties,
while aloe vera is known for its
intensive moisturising and cooling
properties. These tissue oils will
help prevent stretch marks, scars,
dark spots and assist with an
improvement in skin texture and
tone. The oils spread easily and are
quickly absorbed.
Selected PEP Stores nationwide
5
4
6
6. PHILIPS AVENT
ADVANCED ELECTRIC
STERILISER (R3 020)
Sterilise up to six feeding
bottles with accessories in just
10 minutes, after which time the
steriliser automatically turns
itself off. The new drip tray
protects the heating plate from
milk droplets, reducing
the chance of unpleasant
odours. Sterilising is gentle,
effective and chemical-free,
using the power of pure
steam, to keep your baby’s
items sterile for up to 24
hours. The steriliser also
kills 99.9% of germs, for
peace of mind at every feed.
Baby City, Dis-Chem and
Babies R Us stores, or online
at www.takealot.com or
www.medhealthsup.com
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B
We love
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KS
Bedtime stories, a touch-and-feel book,
and a new release of Peter Rabbit
are all among this quarter’s
favourite reads for
youngsters
TEN MINUTES
TO BED: WHERE’S
LITTLE UNICORN?
by Rhiannon Fielding (R170)
It’s almost time for bed... but where’s
Twinkle? Travel through the Land of
Nod and help find the little unicorn to
say goodnight! This magical lift-the-flap
adventure features sturdy, durable
flaps on every spread as young
children search for Twinkle, meeting
all their favourite characters from the
Ten Minutes to Bed series along the
way: from Rumble the Dinosaur to
Flicker the Dragon.
FLAP! RATTLE! STOMP!
by Irene Berman (R187)
Meet a guinea fowl mom looking
for her chicks, a porcupine
rock star, and a bad-tempered
young buffalo in this beautifully
illustrated collection of South
African animal stories.
PEPPA’S TINY CREATURES
by Ladybird (R190)
It’s a lovely day, so Mummy and
Daddy Pig are taking Peppa and
George on an exciting nature walk—
and your little one can touch and feel
all the amazing things they find along
the way! Little hands will love to feel
the fluffy bee, the bumpy tree trunk,
the shimmery butterfly, the soft grass
and the shiny snail’s shell.
BLUEY: THE POOL
by Ladybird (R170)
On a trip to the pool, Bluey and
Dad tease Mum about being fussy
and over-prepared, but they soon
realise that’s what makes the fun
things possible. Little fans of Bluey
will love this 24-page board book
that makes a perfect bedtime story.
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LEISURE Reading
THE TALE OF
PETER RABBIT
—120TH
BIRTHDAY
EDITION
by Beatrix
Potter (R190)
This original tale
sees Peter Rabbit
at his most
adventurous,
cheekiest and
lovable self as
he wriggles
into Mr
McGregor’s garden—and into young reader’s
hearts. Beatrix Potter’s original text appears
here in full, along with her beautifully engaging
illustrations in a new format that’s perfect to
introduce children to this famous rabbit.
AMARA
GOES TO
THE
OLYMPICS
by Ms YJ Banda (R150)
Amara’s bullies are mean and harsh. But this
year, she decides to try out for the school
Olympics. She tries out for not one, not three,
but all the events. Will the little girl with a
flower ribbon in her big, curly hair who gets
teased so often; the sick, scared girl at
the hospital who couldn’t reach high
places, beable to successfully
compete? Or will she just make
a huge fool of herself?
PROTECT OUR PLANET: TAKE
ACTION WITH ROMARIO (R190)
Meet Romario Valentine, an 11-year-old eco-warrior
from Durban, South Africa. Through his tree planting,
beach clean-ups, avian art and other conservation
projects in Africa and other parts of the world, this
young activist has become a dynamic campaigner
for the future health of our planet. In Protect our
Planet, Romario enthusiastically guides young
nature lovers through key environmental topics:
from recycling and reforestation to pollution
solutions and climate change.
All books published by Penguin Random House
THE
MIDNIGHTERS
by Hana Tooke
(R250)
Ema Vašková has
always felt different. It
doesn’t help that she
appears to predict
events before they
happen, and has
a peculiar fear of
shadows... When Ema
is sent to stay with her
eccentric uncle in Prague, she fears she’ll lose
the chance to ever fit in. But then she meets Silvie, a
girl who finally sees Ema for the extraordinary person
that she is. But then disaster strikes. Silvie goes missing,
and it’s up to Ema to find her. Now she must gather the
courage to hunt the city, find her friend, and uncover
the secrets of the one clue Silvie left as to where she
may be—inside the mysterious Midnight Guild.
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