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VOL. 3 ISSUE IV<br />
METRO DETROIT CHALDEAN COMMUNITY <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />
INSIDE<br />
CHALDEANS KILLED IN<br />
THE ARMENIAN GENOCIDE<br />
SINGLE WOMEN<br />
ENJOY INDEPENDENCE<br />
CELEBRATING<br />
MOTHERHOOD<br />
TEACHER MAKES<br />
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How We Mourn<br />
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CONTENTS<br />
THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 3 ISSUE IV<br />
<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />
on the cover<br />
31 STREAMLINED FUNERALS<br />
BY LINDA JABORO<br />
New guidelines have supporters and detractors<br />
31<br />
features<br />
32 COMING TOGETHER<br />
BY LYNN DEGRANDE<br />
Panel discussion offers insight on religious diversity<br />
34 LEST WE FORGET<br />
BY KEN MARTEN<br />
Chaldeans also victimized in Armenian Genocide<br />
12 34<br />
36 ON THEIR OWN<br />
BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />
Single women enjoy their independence<br />
38 HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
Motherhood: A love story<br />
26 40<br />
46 HUNDREDS ATTEND<br />
CHAMBER DINNER<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA-GARMO<br />
Community members honored, Iraq situation updated<br />
42<br />
sports<br />
42 CATCHING FIRE AT BROTHER RICE<br />
BY STEVE STEIN<br />
Vinnie Sarafa puts injury behind him<br />
departments<br />
8 FROM THE EDITOR<br />
10 YOUR LETTERS<br />
12 NOTEWORTHY<br />
14 CHAI TIME<br />
16 CALC CORNER<br />
17 BOUSHALA<br />
BY CARL HAKIM<br />
Eggplant Montinello<br />
18 HALHOLE!<br />
24 RELIGION<br />
24 OBITUARIES<br />
25 ECONOMICS AND ENTREPRISE<br />
La Kabbr: Winning team presents<br />
tasty treats<br />
26 IRAQ TODAY<br />
28 THE DOCTOR IS IN<br />
BY ELLIOTT ATTISHA, D.O.<br />
Are your kids getting<br />
enough sleep?<br />
44 ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT<br />
BY CHRISTINA GAPPY<br />
Hip Hop and R&B with a<br />
Middle Eastern flair<br />
40 MAKING A DIFFERENCE<br />
BY CHRISTINA GAPPY<br />
Doctor Literacy<br />
48 EVENT<br />
St. George Fundraiser<br />
54 CLASSIFIED LISTINGS<br />
<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 7
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It is written in the Bible in the<br />
book of Ecclesiastes that,<br />
“there is an appointed time<br />
for everything, and a time for<br />
every affair under the heavens<br />
— a time to be born, and a<br />
time to die; a time to plant, and<br />
a time to uproot the plant — a<br />
time to kill, and a time to heal;<br />
a time to tear down, and a time<br />
to build — a time to weep, and<br />
a time to laugh; a time to<br />
mourn and a time to dance.”<br />
This month, it is time for us to tackle<br />
a sensitive, yet timely issue — how<br />
we mourn our dead within the<br />
Chaldean community. Some believe<br />
that the ways in which we handle funerals<br />
and wakes — traditions that can be<br />
traced back to the villages of Iraq —<br />
are viewed as centuries too old and<br />
now is the time for change. Linda<br />
Jaboro informs us of the new rules that<br />
have been implemented for Chaldean<br />
funeral practices. Common with human<br />
nature, some community members<br />
challenge the modifications.<br />
Some people find comfort in tradition.<br />
However, as time goes by and<br />
Chaldeans become more acclimated,<br />
the younger generation finds the need<br />
to break away from customs; the struggle<br />
between the generations may<br />
become more evident as these new<br />
funeral practices are implemented. I<br />
found this true at my father’s funeral. I<br />
felt like I was in some kind of time warp<br />
— living in 2002 but trapped in a time<br />
long before I was born — with the<br />
chanting, the loud outbursts of crying<br />
and the streams of black clothing. I<br />
learned to appreciate the need for one<br />
person to mourn one way while another<br />
finds comfort in silence. This month<br />
it was time to look into the way we bury<br />
the dead and honor life as Chaldeans<br />
now living in the U.S.<br />
Just like there comes a time for a<br />
bird to leave its mother’s nest, there<br />
comes a time for some single women to<br />
move out from beneath her parents’<br />
wings. Although not socially acceptable<br />
in some families, there are Chaldean<br />
women in our community solely supporting<br />
themselves. It is believed in our<br />
culture that women go from their<br />
father’s home to their husband’s home.<br />
However, times have changed. Joyce<br />
Wiswell chatted with some of those<br />
women who are now on their own.<br />
As some young women embark on<br />
solo living, some people say it’s time<br />
we all get along. Some community<br />
members thought it was time to talk<br />
VANESSA<br />
DENHA-<br />
GARMO<br />
EDITOR<br />
about diversity in Michigan.<br />
Primarily in Oakland County,<br />
Chaldeans interact with many<br />
other ethnic and racial groups.<br />
Writer Lynn DeGrande writes<br />
her debut article for the<br />
Chaldean News on a recent<br />
diversity session in West<br />
Bloomfield.<br />
For Crystal Kassab Jabiro, it<br />
is time to celebrate motherhood<br />
for the first time. She writes a<br />
poignant essay followed by<br />
quotes from various women in our community<br />
about the joys of motherhood as<br />
we celebrate Mother’s Day in May.<br />
While life without a child quickly<br />
becomes a faint memory for Crystal,<br />
a group of Chaldeans are saying it is<br />
about time that we remember what<br />
has been called “the forgotten genocide.”<br />
Although several states recognize<br />
the Armenian Genocide’s place<br />
in history, it is still not acknowledged<br />
on the federal level. Ken Marten gives<br />
us the history of the event — which<br />
includes the often-omitted fact that<br />
thousands of Chaldeans and<br />
Assyrians were killed as well.<br />
The book of Ecclesiastes continues<br />
to say there is, “a time to scatter<br />
stones, a time to be far from embraces.<br />
A time to seek and a time to lose; a<br />
time to keep and a time to cast away; a<br />
time to rend and a time to sew; a time<br />
to be silent and a time to speak; a time<br />
to love, and a time to hate; a time of<br />
war and a time of peace.”<br />
With that said, I say we must all<br />
pray that when we are faced with any<br />
one of those life experiences we find<br />
the time to accept it, appreciate it<br />
and learn from it.<br />
Alaha Imid Koullen<br />
(God Be With Us All)<br />
Vanessa Denha-Garmo<br />
vdenha@chaldeannews.com<br />
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your LETTERS<br />
Quotable<br />
I would like to say bravo to you. I am<br />
very proud of you, you are an inspiration<br />
to our Chaldean community. I love<br />
the Chaldean News and it is the only<br />
paper I read. It’s very informative, fun<br />
and well presented.<br />
I am 40 years young, married with<br />
three kids. We own a liquor store. I live<br />
in Troy, I have a son who goes to Wayne<br />
State and my other two kids attend Troy<br />
Schools. My wife is very religious, which<br />
I am very proud to say, and I am too.<br />
God is all in the feeling that we create<br />
and draw to ourselves. He is the<br />
image that is portrayed through our<br />
ancestors, that God is power, wisdom,<br />
love and caring, and we give Him glory<br />
every day through our life.<br />
My reason for saying all this is, me<br />
and my wife preach God mercy to<br />
people and I preach patience, wisdom<br />
and making the right decisions in life.<br />
Also I write quotes, which is something<br />
I really enjoy. Here is one: Earth is your<br />
stage, life is your script, live with confidence,<br />
and let God be your director.<br />
One more: If your life is with God you<br />
will not be forgotten.<br />
May God bless you and inspire<br />
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in their life.<br />
Art Seba, Troy<br />
More on Yonadam Kanna<br />
Regarding “Kanna Dodges Tough<br />
Issues During Detroit Visit” (March<br />
<strong>2006</strong>): It shocks me how a professional<br />
newsmagazine can lead the readers<br />
into a path far from reality.<br />
The correct slate name of Yonadam<br />
Kanna is Alrafidayen and not Beth<br />
Nahrain, whom is associated with<br />
another Assyrian political party known<br />
to be anti-Chaldean. I expect the<br />
Chaldean News to remain more neutral<br />
and to research the subject more thoroughly.<br />
I see this as a cheap tactic in<br />
order to confuse readers. Furthermore,<br />
the article failed to say that Mr. Kanna<br />
had an honorary dinner with President<br />
Bush and heads of the Senate.<br />
The second paragraph is misleading<br />
also; Mr. Kanna does not represent the<br />
Iraqi Christians, he represents the<br />
ChaldoAssyriansSyraics specifically and<br />
the Iraqi people in general, and 83 percent<br />
of the ChaldeanAssyriansSyraic<br />
voters around the world elected Mr.<br />
Kanna. The Chaldean News should<br />
know that it is politically incorrect to identify<br />
Slate 740 with being a religious voice<br />
in politics. The Chaldean News claims<br />
that Mr. Kanna has stumbled a bit, but<br />
fails to tell its readers how.<br />
You talk about the crisis facing the<br />
Iraqi Christians, and how the Christian<br />
churches are a target for terrorists. The<br />
Chaldean News is trying to tell its readers<br />
that we are being killed because of<br />
our religion, but just like Mr. Kanna said,<br />
mosques have been a crucial target as<br />
well for the insurgents and so have<br />
police stations, grocery stores, and<br />
every place in Iraq. Mr. Kanna never flat<br />
out denied that churches were threatened;<br />
in one day the insurgents attacked<br />
five churches, but in one day the insurgents<br />
attacked 27 mosques and recently<br />
bombed one of the biggest mosques<br />
in Samara. This leads to the conclusion<br />
the bombings are indiscriminate, which<br />
Mr. Kanna has numerously tried to<br />
explain to the people of our community.<br />
It seems to me that you are hiding<br />
the fact that Mr. Kanna was greeted at<br />
Shenandoah Country Club by the<br />
Chaldean Chamber of Commerce’s<br />
Saad Hajjar, and by Shenandoah<br />
President Mike Sarafa. During the<br />
meeting, Mr. Hajjar acknowledged Mr.<br />
Kanna’s hard work and dedication to<br />
our cause in Iraq. You then continue to<br />
say that Mr. Kanna brushed off the<br />
notion that there is no future for<br />
Christians in Iraq, but state that Mr.<br />
Kanna did not give an explanation. It is<br />
obvious that The Chaldean News fails<br />
to see that Mr. Kanna is a Christian and<br />
has a strong voice in the Iraqi<br />
Parliament. You need to understand that<br />
he is trying his best to unify and protect<br />
our community in Iraq. He was the first<br />
member of Parliament that brought forth<br />
the united ChaldoAssyrianSyriac name<br />
in the Parliament.<br />
The Chaldean News has tried to<br />
attack Mr. Kanna by stating that he has<br />
a nationalistic point of view in Iraqi politics.<br />
Mr. Kanna is not only in the<br />
Parliament to represent our people, but<br />
is in the parliament to represent Iraqis.<br />
The reason why Mr. Kanna was unenthusiastic<br />
about the Assyrian Academic<br />
Society’s Nineveh Plains Project was<br />
because it contained some false information<br />
towards other ethnic groups in the<br />
Nineveh Plains. Mr. Kanna’s dream is to<br />
one day have a self-governing city in the<br />
Nineveh Plains where our people can live<br />
peacefully with their language, religion<br />
and culture side by side with their Iraqi<br />
brothers. Mr. Kanna is in no way against<br />
humanitarian projects to assist the<br />
Nineveh Plains people.<br />
The Chaldean News needs to stop<br />
trying to separate our beloved nation<br />
by adding slashes and commas<br />
between the AssyrianChaldeanSyraic,<br />
they should know that we are all one<br />
people who share the same goals, and<br />
the same home.<br />
Finally I have the utmost respect for<br />
the Chaldean News for its role in promoting<br />
our ChaldoAssyrian culture, but why<br />
are you attacking a man that has devoted<br />
all his life for the unity and the survival of<br />
our nation? And why we have not seen<br />
any attacks on other Iraqi leaders?<br />
Alaa Mansour<br />
Assyrian Democratic Movement<br />
Michigan Chapter<br />
10 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 11
NOTEworthy<br />
IRAQ GETTING MASTERCARD<br />
Security Financial Services (SFS), a Chaldeanowned<br />
company, has been licensed through the<br />
central bank of Iraq to offer MasterCard services<br />
and pre-paid Internet access Aman cards.<br />
SFS plans to install more than 500 point-ofsale<br />
stations in shops, hotels and other businesses<br />
in Baghdad, with the goal of having 2,500<br />
installed by year’s end. ATM machines will also be<br />
installed throughout the country.<br />
“With the availability of the electronic<br />
debit/credit system, the average Iraqi citizen need<br />
no longer be bothered by the inconvenience<br />
involved in constantly carrying sufficient amounts<br />
of cash to purchase the goods and services they<br />
need to survive, nor do they need to worry about<br />
the safety risks involved in carrying cash while<br />
walking the streets,” said the company in a statement.<br />
The development is also touted as providing<br />
an attractive incentive to international companies<br />
to enter the Iraqi market, which would increase<br />
competition and availability of goods and services.<br />
SFS, whose president is Kenny Zair, opened<br />
an office in Baghdad in September 2003 for the<br />
project, which the company calls “a labor of love.”<br />
IRAQ MURDER HITS<br />
CLOSE TO HOME<br />
Tragedy stuck the family of Fr. Wisam Matti of<br />
Mother of God Church on April 6 when his sister,<br />
Wasan Matti, was killed by Islamic terrorists in<br />
Doura, Baghdad.<br />
Wasan was killed by gunshot from members of<br />
an Islamic group, Fr. Wisam said. She was in a<br />
car returning from a doctor visit with her husband<br />
and 2-year-old daughter. Wasan was six months<br />
pregnant and would have celebrated her 30th<br />
birthday on April 18.<br />
“She was happy in her life, and at the same<br />
time she put her life in God’s hands,” said Fr.<br />
Wisam. “When I called her, always she was telling<br />
me, ‘don’t worry about me Brother, God is always<br />
with me and I put myself in God’s hands. He will<br />
take care of me.<br />
“She was,” he added, “a very humble and satisfied<br />
person.”<br />
BOOKS FOCUS ON<br />
CHRISTIANITY<br />
Author, speaker and teacher Cheryl<br />
Dickow has published a new book for<br />
women, Reclaiming Your Christian<br />
Self in a Secular World. The book<br />
seeks to inspire women to renew their<br />
commitment to their Christian identity<br />
by giving examples of women in<br />
Scripture and ways to incorporate<br />
their traits into daily life.<br />
Dickow is also the author of<br />
Raising Christian Children in a Secular<br />
World, which uses Bible passages to<br />
illustrate life qualities that parents<br />
should instill.<br />
Both books are available through<br />
the website AskKnockSee.com.<br />
HOTELIER WILL RUN<br />
HENRY FORD WEST<br />
BLOOMFIELD<br />
Gerard van Grinsven will become the new<br />
president and chief executive officer of the<br />
new Henry Ford West Bloomfield Hospital<br />
in June. Van Grinsven is currently the vice<br />
president and area general manager for the<br />
Ritz Carlton Hotel in Dearborn.<br />
The 300-bed, $310-million Henry Ford<br />
will open in West Bloomfield, which is 20<br />
percent Chaldean, in July 2008. “The commitment<br />
to making Henry Ford The Ritz-<br />
Carlton of health care is truly there, and I am<br />
eager to begin contributing to the team’s<br />
goals,” Van Grinsven said in a statement.<br />
POLICE MAKE ARREST<br />
IN STORE SHOOTING<br />
Farmington Hills Police have arrested<br />
Herman Lewis Cheese for the shooting and<br />
attempted armed robbery at the Orchard<br />
Market Place on February 22. A Chaldean<br />
man, Jeffrey Ammouri, was shot in the incident<br />
but is expected to fully recover.<br />
Cheese, 26, has been charged with<br />
assault with intent to murder, possession of<br />
a firearm in the commission of a felony,<br />
assault with intent to rob while armed, and<br />
three counts of firearms possession.<br />
A $10,000 reward was posted in connection<br />
with this case for information leading<br />
to the conviction of the assailant(s).<br />
Farmington Hills Police put up $5,000 from<br />
its Narcotics Forfeiture Fund, and the<br />
Chaldean American Chamber of<br />
Commerce matched the amount. Police<br />
Chief William Dwyer declined to comment<br />
on the status of the reward, but said, “We<br />
definitely had help from the public because<br />
of the media attention.”<br />
Cheese is being held in Oakland County<br />
Jail. His bond has been set at $1 million<br />
cash. A second suspect remains at large.<br />
STUDENT WINS<br />
ESSAY CONTEST<br />
Jeniece Faranso, 18, a full-time college student, won<br />
an essay contest at Oakland Community College,<br />
enabling her to participate in a week-long trip abroad<br />
to get a better glimpse into global affairs. She will<br />
tour Austria among nine other students.<br />
Faranso wrote on her views regarding globalization<br />
and how she expects it to play out in the future.<br />
On June 8, she will extend her knowledge about global<br />
affairs by touring Austria with nine other students<br />
from OCC, along with many students from community<br />
colleges across the nation.<br />
PEOPLE<br />
Randall A. Denha has returned to Cox<br />
Hodgman & Giarmarco PC as a partner<br />
specializing is estate planning,<br />
business planning and asset protection<br />
planning. He also serves as chief<br />
general counsel for Wireless Toyz.<br />
Theresa Abbo has joined<br />
Shenandoah Country Club as catering<br />
and sales director. She was most recently<br />
the banquet manager at the Hyatt<br />
Regency Dearborn, and has been in the<br />
hospitality industry for 13 years.<br />
The Beale Group has made two<br />
new hires: Mark Bacall and Harry<br />
Barash. Bacall has five years of development<br />
experience with Bacall<br />
Development. Barash brings nine<br />
years of commercial real estate experience<br />
and was most recently with<br />
Landmark Commercial Real Estate.<br />
Sister Helen Essa has celebrated<br />
her 50th anniversary as a Dominican<br />
nun. Sister Helen entered the convent<br />
at age 20 as a teacher, and retired from<br />
Guardian Angels Catholic Church in<br />
Clawson in 2005. A mass and dinner<br />
were held in her honor.<br />
Denha<br />
Abbo<br />
Essa<br />
12 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
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<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 13
CHAI time<br />
May 6: Rida el Abdallah performs<br />
at Hope: A Concert for Iraq<br />
May 16: Brigadier General<br />
Mark T Kimmitt<br />
May 28: Mega 80s perform at the<br />
St. Mary’s Polish Country Fair<br />
May 21: Celebrate Birmingham comes<br />
to Old Woodward<br />
CHALDEANS CONNECTING<br />
COMMUNITY EVENTS IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />
[Wednesday, May 3]<br />
CIAAM: General membership meeting at<br />
Shenandoah Country Club.<br />
[Thursday, May 4- Sunday, May 7]<br />
Michigan International Women’s Show: Annual<br />
event takes place at Rock Financial Showplace in<br />
Novi. $8. www.internationalwomenshow.com.<br />
[Sunday, May 6]<br />
Hope: A Concert for Iraq: Rida el Abdallah, Sawsan<br />
Kizy and Miami DJ perform in a benefit show sponsored<br />
by the National Arab American Medical<br />
Association’s Michigan Chapter and Nidhal’s<br />
Pharmacy. Tickets are $50-$100 and include dinner.<br />
Proceeds will buy medical emergency supplies in<br />
Iraq. Bella Banquet Hall, Warren. Tickets on sale at<br />
Nidhal’s Pharmacy (248) 477-2131, Saraha<br />
Restaurant (586) 264-0400 and various other outlets.<br />
[Wednesday, May 10]<br />
Quarterly Networking Meeting: Chaldean American<br />
Chamber of Commerce event gives the chance to<br />
meet and greet with cocktails and hors d’oeuvres. 6<br />
p.m., World of Erhard, 38700 Grand River in<br />
Farmington Hills. RSVP by May 8 to (248) 538-3700<br />
or lkalou@chaldeanchamber.com.<br />
[Saturday, May 13 - Sunday, May 14]<br />
Birmingham Fine Art Festival: Artists, entertainment<br />
and family activities at Shain Park, downtown<br />
Birmingham. (248) 644-1700 or www.bbcc.com.<br />
[Tuesday, May 16]<br />
A conversation with Brigadier General Mark T<br />
Kimmitt: The Chaldean American Chamber of<br />
Commerce hosts this discussion on the Iraq war<br />
and the future of the country’s minorities. 7 p.m.,<br />
Shenandoah Country Club. RSVP to (248) 538-<br />
3700 or lkalou@chaldeanchamber.com.<br />
[Friday, May 19]<br />
Infertility: RESOLVE of Michigan’s 6th Annual Ask<br />
the Expert Dinner Program with keynote speaker John<br />
S. Hesla, MD, nationally recognized reproductive<br />
endocrinologist from the Portland Center for<br />
Reproductive Medicine. 5 p.m., the Auditorium in<br />
Beaumont Hospital’s Administration Building, Royal<br />
Oak. $33 per person/$65 per couple for non-members.<br />
(248) 975-8866 or www.resolveofmichigan.org.<br />
[Friday, May 19 - Saturday, May 21]<br />
Detroit Hoedown: 24th annual country music<br />
festival takes over Detroit’s Hart Plaza.<br />
http://www.wattsupinc.com/current_events/hoedown.<br />
[Sunday, May 21]<br />
Celebrate Birmingham: Parade along Old<br />
Woodward Avenue and party at Shain Park with<br />
games, food and entertainment. (248) 644-1800<br />
or www.enjoybirmingham.com.<br />
[Thursday, May 25]<br />
Chaldean American Ladies of Charity: CALC<br />
holds its 45th Annual Meeting and Elections. Guest<br />
speaker is Ava Maria radio host Teresa Tomeo. 6:30<br />
p.m., Shenandoah Country Club. (248) 352-5018.<br />
[Friday, May 26 - Monday, May 29]<br />
St. Mary’s Polish Country Fair: 34th annual event<br />
includes food, rides, Vegas tent and more. Hours:<br />
Friday, 5-11 p.m., Saturday and Sunday, 11 a.m.-11<br />
p.m., Sunday, 11 a.m.-8 p.m. (Vegas tent stays open<br />
later all days). 3535 Indian Trail, Orchard Lake.<br />
(248) 706-6775.<br />
Please let us know what is going on in the community.<br />
Fax your information to The Chaldean<br />
News Editorial Department. Subject: Chai Time<br />
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<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 15
CALC corner<br />
NOTE from the<br />
PRESIDENT<br />
We hope everyone had a Happy Easter. We know spring<br />
is upon us and much is to be done for <strong>2006</strong>. First, I<br />
want to share with you the importance of being a member<br />
of the CALC and why your support is vital to keep<br />
this organization going. Our yearly dues are a mere $35<br />
and with that money and commitment, we are able to<br />
make difference in the lives of so many people. I hope<br />
you renew your membership and continue to support the<br />
CALC. Don’t forget about our elections coming up on<br />
Thursday, May 25. The event will feature a special<br />
guest speaker, Teresa Tomeo, talk show host from<br />
WDEO Ave Maria Radio and professional speaker.<br />
— Clair Konja, President<br />
SAVE THE DATE JUNE 17<br />
CALC WALKATHON<br />
Please join us for our CALC 3K-5k Walkathon<br />
on Saturday, June 17 at 10 a.m. at Drake Park<br />
in West Bloomfield. $10 admission fee.<br />
Proceeds benefit Gleaners Food Bank.<br />
SERVICE WITH SMILES<br />
The CALC served a lunch meal to more than<br />
70 of the Chaldean Manor senior citizens on<br />
Monday, April 10. The meal, provided by<br />
Sabah and Batool Jabrou, included beef kabob<br />
sandwiches, tabbouli, and a dessert. The seniors<br />
came early to play bingo and socialize<br />
before enjoying lunch. Volunteer members of<br />
the CALC dished out and served the meal.<br />
Thank you to those who provided helping<br />
hands and a warm smile.<br />
ACTS OF KINDNESS<br />
In a compassionate service to others, CALC<br />
volunteers Margaret Butti, Maureen Bacall and<br />
Nithal Rassam brought joy, delicious Chaldean<br />
food and friendly conversation to Chaldean<br />
patients at St. Anthony’s Nursing Home in<br />
Warren on April 7. Our gratitude goes out to<br />
those CALC women who gave of their time and<br />
heart. What a wonderful way to serve others.<br />
EASTER FOOD DRIVE<br />
With the help of dozens of volunteers, more than 100<br />
Chaldean needy families were supplied boxes of food<br />
for Easter. The effort was led by the CALC and a<br />
group of dedicated young members of the community.<br />
The food drive was held on Thursday, April 6<br />
through Saturday, April 8. When the call went out for<br />
help, the CALC was overwhelmed with the generosity<br />
of community volunteers willing to donate Easter<br />
baskets and food. Numerous local stores and grocers<br />
kindly donated food and candy to make Easter a<br />
special day for these families. The CALC sincerely<br />
thanks those who donated food, candy and other<br />
supplies. They include:<br />
Food Giant / Sam Denha, 8 Mile Foodland / Mike<br />
and John Denha, Family Foods Marketplace / Wally<br />
and Frank Hakim, Family Foods Superstore / Chris<br />
Denha, Bill Cholagh, Family Foods Market / Sam<br />
Hamama, Pontiac Iga / Mike Salmo, Harper Food<br />
Center / Ronnie Ayar, Food Town Supermarket /<br />
Raad Ayar, Bill Arabo, Vons Supermarket / Sam and<br />
Anthony Ayar, 7 Foodland / Chuck Watha, Trepco<br />
Wholesale / Wesam Paulis, Martin and Snyder /<br />
George Daiza, Capital Wholesale / Sam Haddad,<br />
Value Wholesale / John Loussia, Liberty Wholesale /<br />
Mike Dickow, Crown Supermarket / Mike Sheena,<br />
Mazen Foods / Salam Jiddou, Eddie’s Produce /<br />
Imad Denha, Serra Produce / Anthony Serra,<br />
Tradewell Wholesale / Sahir Gappy, Mikes Fresh<br />
Market / Carlo Kouza, Delone Arabo, Sav-A-Lot<br />
Pontiac / Eddie Bahoora, Ryan Foods / Raad<br />
Kathawa, Value Center Market / Terry Farida,<br />
Shoppers Market / Emmet Denha, Bobby Dawood,<br />
K&G Food Mart / Mark Kassa, Saturn Foods / Chris<br />
Kassa, United Wholesale / Hani Mio, Z & A Produce<br />
/ Kevin Ayar, University Foods / Norman Yaldo, Save-<br />
A-Lot / Dave Kalasho, Bob and Sons Produce / Kevin<br />
and Mark Hanna, Michigan Wholesale Mart / Eddie<br />
Denha, D&B Grocers / Bobby Hesano.<br />
Numerous others generously gave of their time to<br />
package food and supplies and drive it to various<br />
homes. Their efforts are much appreciated. We sincerely<br />
thank the following people for their time and<br />
help on this project:<br />
Paul Shallal, Rita Shallal, Anthony Yasso, Shavon<br />
Yasso, Mark Marouki, Anees Katou, Flora Kuza,<br />
Farah Shammami, Christopher Denha II, Claudine<br />
Denha, Valerie Denha, Vera Denha, Linda Zetouna,<br />
Julian Katty, Jeremy Katty, Nolan Katty, Anne Seba,<br />
Matthew Seba, Stefan Kalabat, Anthony Kalabat,<br />
Janie Arafat, Maureen Bacall, Nidhal Rassam, Janeen<br />
Fakhouri, Corbin Yaldoo, Melody Mio, Lawrence Mio,<br />
Tallia Mio, Crystal Rabban, Riad Katrib, Joanna<br />
Karcho, Rawaa Yaldo, Fallon Jamil, Nancy Toma,<br />
Tilden Hermiz, Amanda Jamil, Andrea Jamil,<br />
Alexandria Black, Chris Jamil, Andrew Jamil, John<br />
David, Kevin Hana, Olivia Bock, Josh Bock, Kristen<br />
Sagmani, Mark Pattros, Chris Attisha, Amanda<br />
Alkaeib, Vanessa Konja, Rita Abbo, Matthew Abbo,<br />
Mark Abbo, Salwa Arabo, Sammantha Arabo, Evan<br />
Kajy, Avis Kajy, Brandon Ayar, Ryan Yono, Karen<br />
Konja, Julie Garmo, Tasia Yaldo, Candace Garmo,<br />
Claire Konja, Darrin Sitto, Shelby Sagmani, Gina<br />
Kalabat, Zena Kasgorgis, Valerie Kasgorgis, Randa<br />
Khami, Rita Kajy, Tarvis Kajy, Jessica Kashat.<br />
A special thanks to Fadia Nissan at the CALC<br />
office and Shavon Yasso, who called the needy families,<br />
coordinated the effort and helped put together<br />
the Easter Baskets. Samira Jabero from Greenfield<br />
Union helped organize the list of needy families. More<br />
than 215 Easter baskets were delivered to needy children<br />
in the Detroit metro community. An additional 50<br />
baskets went to children at a homeless shelter in<br />
Macomb County.<br />
We are immensely grateful to Chris Denha who<br />
facilitated and solicited all the food, which included<br />
turkeys for each family from Chaldean-owned supermarkets<br />
and wholesalers. Chris spent so much of his<br />
week traveling from store to store to pick up food and<br />
turkeys and driving it to Mother of God Church Hall,<br />
where the groceries were unloaded and then packaged<br />
for delivery. He was assisted in this strenuous<br />
effort by Eddie Denha, who donated a large amount of<br />
produce, and then also volunteered his time and truck<br />
to help pick up food and take it to the church hall.<br />
An Oakland Technical Center student, Krystal<br />
Yaldo, gave 20 Easter baskets to the Children of the<br />
Grace of Hope in Pontiac (underprivileged children).<br />
Krystal said when the children received the baskets,<br />
it made her feel like she was on the Oprah Show’s<br />
favorite things giveaway, that’s how excited the children<br />
were.<br />
The CALC thanks Father Manuel Boji for welcoming<br />
us at the Church Hall to package all the boxes for<br />
delivery and Father Jacob Yasso for his assistance<br />
with the families and the use of Sacred Heart Church.<br />
16 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />
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1 large eggplant<br />
3 vine tomatoes<br />
3 large round balls<br />
fresh mozzarella cheese<br />
15 large basil leaves<br />
5 large eggs<br />
1/2 cup flour<br />
3 tablespoons<br />
grated parmesan cheese<br />
1 tablespoon parsley<br />
2 cups oil<br />
Pinch salt and pepper<br />
Balsamic glaze<br />
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Flour<br />
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Peel eggplant. Slice in half-inch rounds. Beat eggs and combine<br />
grated parmesan cheese, parsley, salt and pepper. Dip<br />
eggplant in flour then dip in egg batter. Fry eggplant in oil.<br />
Let eggplant cool on paper towel to absorb oil.<br />
Slice tomato and mozzarella each about a quarter-inch thick.<br />
To assemble, take one piece of eggplant, layer with slice of<br />
mozzarella, tomato, basil leaf, then repeat. Add chopped<br />
tomatoes and basil on top. Top with balsamic glaze.<br />
Serve cold, or bake at 350 degrees for about 15 minutes<br />
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<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 17
HALHOLE!<br />
[Births]<br />
Sydney Ann<br />
Tommy & Renee Jadan were blessed with the birth of their<br />
first child, Sydney Ann, on January 19, <strong>2006</strong> at 4:15 p.m.<br />
She weighed 7 lbs., 12 oz. and measured 20 inches. Proud<br />
grandparents are Talal & Widad Jadan and Naim & Jolet<br />
Matti. Sydney’s godparents are Amy Bakko and Joey Matti.<br />
Alexander Joseph<br />
Andrew is proud to announce the arrival of his baby brother,<br />
Alexander Joseph, born on October 8, 2005 at 2:46 a.m.<br />
He weighed 5 lbs., 15 oz. and was 20 inches long. Proud<br />
parents are Joe & Arlene Mazo. Alexander is the seventh<br />
grandchild for Kadri & Nadira Mazo and the fourth for Sabih<br />
& Bushra Nakara.<br />
Sean Joseph<br />
Joe & Areej Alnaraie are proud to announce the birth of their<br />
third child, Sean Joseph. He was born on March 11, <strong>2006</strong><br />
at 2:02 a.m. He weighed 5 lbs., 12 oz. and was 18.5 inches<br />
long. Melanie and Patrick, his older siblings, love and<br />
adore him very much! Sean is the third grandchild for<br />
Akram & the late Balkees Alnaraie and the fifth for Sabih &<br />
Bushra Nakara.<br />
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[Births]<br />
Alexa Grace<br />
Alexa Grace was born on November 28, 2005 to Layth &<br />
Noreen Barash. She weighed 7 lbs., 12 oz. and was 21<br />
inches long. Big sisters are Gabriella (10), Alannah (9) and<br />
Lia (4). Alexa is the fourth grandchild for Victoria & the late<br />
Daniel Daiza, and the ninth for Wadie & Nazhat Barash.<br />
Godparents are Harry Barash and Chanel Putrus.<br />
Jacob Samie<br />
Salwan & Reem Sawa are proud to announce the birth of their<br />
first child, Jacob Samie. Jacob was born at Mt. Clements<br />
General Hospital on January 18, <strong>2006</strong> at 10:27 a.m. weighing<br />
7 lbs., 6 oz. and measuring 21 inches long. Jacob is the ninth<br />
grandchild for Samie & Josepha Sawa, and the first for Sabah<br />
& Amal Souka. Godparents are Sahrab & Mayada Dado.<br />
[Engagements]<br />
Rachel and Steve<br />
Rachel Madden and Steve Antone became engaged on April 1,<br />
<strong>2006</strong>. Rachel is the oldest daughter of Tom & Linda Madden<br />
of Milford; Steve is the youngest son of Zuhair & Rosemary<br />
Antone of Farmington Hills. The wedding will take place in<br />
October <strong>2006</strong> at Orchard Lake St. Mary's with the reception<br />
at the Shenandoah Country Club. Rachel works at Tapper's<br />
Diamonds & Fine Jewelry in West Bloomfield; Steve is a pediatrician<br />
at Northeast Pediatrics in Rochester Hills.<br />
Lina and Carlo<br />
Carlo Tato and Lina Kasyouhanan celebrated their engagement<br />
on April 19, <strong>2006</strong>. Carlo is the son of Kamal & Maisoon<br />
Tato and Lina is the daughter of Ablhad & Amira Kasyouhanan.<br />
Carlo is president of Traveling Teams and Lina is an operations<br />
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November <strong>2006</strong> at St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Church<br />
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Rachel and Steve<br />
Jacob Samie<br />
Lina and Carlo<br />
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<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 19
HALHOLE!<br />
[Engagements]<br />
Dawood and Tara<br />
Tara Noocha and Dawood Dawood celebrated their<br />
engagement on April 8, <strong>2006</strong>. Tara is the daughter of Najla<br />
& the late Ronnie Noocha. Dawood’s parents are Ishkahn &<br />
Najma Dawood. The couple plans to wed in April 2007 at<br />
St. Joseph Chaldean Catholic Church.<br />
Mark and Avita<br />
Amer & Klara Kuza are pleased to announce the engagement<br />
of their daughter, Avita Kuza, to Mark Bacall, son of<br />
Jacob & Anne Bacall. Mark proposed to Avita on August<br />
21, 2005. The couple plan a September <strong>2006</strong> wedding at<br />
St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Church with the reception<br />
at Shenandoah Country Club. They plan to honeymoon in<br />
the South Pacific Islands of Tahiti in French Polynesia. Avita<br />
is completing her masters degree in Art History at Wayne<br />
State University and also working at D’alleva’s Salon. Mark<br />
is actively working in commercial real estate development.<br />
[Weddings]<br />
Krystle and Kelly<br />
On January 12, <strong>2006</strong>, Kelly Kal Dabish, son of Khaled &<br />
Najat Dabish, waited at the altar for his bride-to-be, Krystle<br />
Rita Karoumy, daughter of Amer & Dawlat Karoumy, at St.<br />
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of Honor were Danny Dabish and Fallon Karoumy. The<br />
reception was held at Penna’s of Sterling Heights. The<br />
couple enjoyed a honeymoon in Honolulu and Las Vegas.<br />
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HALHOLE!<br />
[Weddings]<br />
Jeffrey and Sandy<br />
Jeffery Farida and Sandy Toma were pronounced husband<br />
and wife on February 25, <strong>2006</strong> at St. Thomas Chaldean<br />
Catholic Church. The Best Man was Jeff Gappy, first<br />
cousin of the groom, and the Maid of Honor was Kate<br />
Toma, sister of the bride. Jeffery is the son of Hamid &<br />
Enaam Farida and Sandy is the daughter of Sahira & the<br />
late Thomas Toma. Family and friends celebrated at<br />
Shenandoah Country Club after the ceremony. The couple<br />
honeymooned in Costa Rica.<br />
Crystal and Dani<br />
Crystal Hanna and Dani Sitto were married on September<br />
4, 2005 at Mother of God Church, with a reception following<br />
at Penna’s of Sterling Heights. Dani is the son of Azez<br />
& Faiza Sitto, and Crystal’s parents are Jackline & the late<br />
Samir Hanna. The Best Man was Fadi Sitto and the Maid of<br />
Honor was Melanie Nafsu. The couple honeymooned in<br />
Hawaii, visiting Oahu and Maui.<br />
George Jr. and Rhana<br />
George Jr. Dabish and Rhana Dalal were married on April<br />
14, 2005 at St. Joseph Chaldean Catholic Church, with a<br />
reception following at Penna’s of Sterling Heights. George<br />
is the son of George & Carmela Dabish, and Rhana is the<br />
daughter of Raja Dalal. The Best Man was David Dabish<br />
and Maid of Honor was Zena Dalal. The couple honeymooned<br />
in Hawaii.<br />
Jeffrey and Sandy<br />
George Jr. and Rhan<br />
Crystal and Dani<br />
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<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 23
RELIGION<br />
PLACES OF PRAYER<br />
CHALDEAN CHURCHES IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT<br />
THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS THE APOSTLE IN THE UNITED STATES<br />
ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC DIOCESE<br />
Mar (Bishop) Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />
www.chaldeandiocese.org<br />
MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; 248-356-0565<br />
RECTOR: Rev. Manuel Boji<br />
PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Wisam Matti<br />
MASS SCHEDULE: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday 10 a.m. in<br />
Sourath (Aramaic) and Arabic, Tuesday 5:50 p.m. in Sourath and Arabic,<br />
Saturday 5:30 p.m. in English, Sunday 8:30 a.m. in Arabic and Sourath,<br />
10 a.m. in English, 12 p.m. in Sourath<br />
<strong>MAY</strong> CALENDAR<br />
KEY OBSERVATION DATES<br />
S M T W T F S<br />
1 2 3 4 5 6<br />
7 8 9 10 11 12 13<br />
14 15 16 17 18 19 20<br />
21 22 23 24 25 26 27<br />
28 29 30 31<br />
SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
310 W. Seven Mile Road, Detroit, MI 48203, 313-368-6214<br />
PASTOR: Rev. Jacob Yasso<br />
MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Saturday 5 p.m. in Sourath, Sunday 8:30 a.m. in<br />
Arabic and Sourath, 10 a.m. in English, 12 p.m. in Sourath<br />
1 Rabban Hormizd the Martyr<br />
2 Mart Shmoni<br />
14 Mar Addai<br />
Mother’s Day<br />
15 Our Lady of the Fields<br />
22 St. Rita<br />
25 Ascension<br />
MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
24010 Coolidge Hwy, Oak Park, MI 48237, 248-547-4648<br />
PASTOR: Rev. Stephen Kallabat<br />
PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Shlaman Denha<br />
MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Friday 10 a.m in Sourath, Sunday<br />
10 a.m. in Sourath and Arabic, 12:30 p.m. in Sourath<br />
ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI; (586) 254-7221<br />
MASS SCHEDULE: Sunday: 10 a.m. in Sourath, 12 p.m. in English and Sourath,<br />
2 p.m. in Sourath and Arabic; Baptisms: 3:30 p.m. Sundays<br />
ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
2442 E. Big Beaver Rd., Troy, MI 48083, 248-528-3676<br />
PASTOR: Rev. Emanuel Shaleta<br />
PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Jirjis Abrahim, Rev. Andrew Younan<br />
MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Friday 10 a.m in Sourath, Saturday 5 p.m. in<br />
Soureth, Sunday 8 a.m. in Soureth,10 a.m. in English,<br />
12 p.m. Soureth, 2 p.m. in Soureth and Arabic<br />
ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322, 248-788-2460<br />
PASTOR: Rev. Frank Kalabat<br />
Rev. Emanuel Rayes (retired)<br />
MASS SCHEDULE: Monday-Friday 10 a.m. in Sourath, Saturday<br />
5 p.m. in English, Sunday 9 a.m. in English, 10:30 a.m. in<br />
English, 12:30 p.m. in Sourath<br />
ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
2560 Drake Rd., Farmington Hills, MI 48335, 248-478-0835<br />
PASTOR: Rev. Toma Behnama<br />
MASS SCHEDULE: Sunday 12 p.m., Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 6 p.m.<br />
All masses are in Syriac, Arabic and English<br />
obituaries<br />
Athir Hamama<br />
Athir Hamama was born on April 23, 1963 in Baghdad, Iraq.<br />
After courageously battling cancer for almost two years, he died<br />
on April 10, <strong>2006</strong> at the age of 42. He passed away peacefully<br />
with all of his family by his side just as he wished.<br />
Athir was a compassionate, thoughtful, warm, caring human<br />
being. He was a son, a brother, an uncle and a friend ... our<br />
hero. He was a fighter. It took everything out of him to stay alive.<br />
But the cancer never changed Athir, never broke his spirit. He<br />
defied all odds with his positive attitude. We will all miss him<br />
and we will be forever grateful for all the wonderful memories we<br />
shared with him. And though he may not be with us physically,<br />
his spirit always will.<br />
Athir Hamama is survived by his parents, Yousif and Ester;<br />
his siblings, Salwan (Nahed) Hamama, Haifa (Ryath) Lousia,<br />
Sawsan (Mike) Bahri, Firas (Venis) Hamama, and Danny<br />
Hamama; and his nieces and nephews, Raymond, Shawn,<br />
Devon, Farrah, Travis, Tiffany, Joey, Amber, Matthew and Skylar.<br />
The family would like to thank everyone for all of the support<br />
and prayers received from family and friends. May he rest in<br />
peace with our Lord.<br />
Victoria Yono<br />
Victoria Yono passed away on March 23, <strong>2006</strong>. She was 79<br />
years old. She was the beloved wife of the late Jamil Yono. She<br />
was mother of Nizar (Raja), Nabby (Mary Ann), Nameer<br />
(Nedhal) Yono, Nasreen (Ameer) Yaldo, Nedal, Basil Sulaka and<br />
Nuhooth (Talal) Oraha. Mrs. Yono is also survived by her sister,<br />
Gladys (Francis) Loussia; 12 grandchildren and two great<br />
grandchildren. She was predeceased by her brother, Joseph<br />
(Nahida) Hailo.<br />
24 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
ECONOMICS and enterprise<br />
The people behind<br />
La Kabbr: Rwaida<br />
Korkis (left), Janna<br />
Mansoor and<br />
Farouk Mansoor.<br />
La Kabbr: Winning team presents tasty treats<br />
BY DAN SHRINER<br />
Rwaida Korkis is the first to admit that<br />
she knew little about running a restaurant.<br />
But by teaming with friends<br />
Farouk Alfalah Mansoor and his wife, Janna,<br />
they found a winning partnership that has led<br />
to a four-star dining gem.<br />
La Kabbr restaurant in Sterling Heights<br />
brings a blend of Mediterranean-style food<br />
along with a touch of American influences and<br />
a few other inspirations that all seem to complement<br />
one another.<br />
Korkis’ primary business focus is in wireless<br />
telephone service but several months ago<br />
she and the Mansoors decided to venture into<br />
the restaurant business by relying on Farouk’s<br />
skills as a chef and building on each person’s<br />
strengths. It has been a successful and tasty<br />
partnership thus far.<br />
“I always loved his food and they always<br />
wanted to open their own restaurant, so this<br />
has been a very good match,” Korkis said.<br />
“We all have our own departments.”<br />
Korkis participated in the decoration of the<br />
beautiful restaurant while the Mansours handle<br />
the cooking and day-to-day management.<br />
The dining room blends beautiful colors, brass<br />
lamps, paintings and other artwork, with background<br />
music from Iraq. An outside area<br />
offers quiet dining.<br />
Surprisingly, the restaurant’s prices are<br />
extremely reasonable. Soups and salads range<br />
from $3.25 to $7.25. Sandwiches are $3.25 to<br />
$3.95. Main dishes, which include soup or<br />
salad, are $10.95 to $22.95. Meals are served<br />
with torshi and fresh bread made by Farouk.<br />
La Kabbr’s kabobs and kaftas, lamb and<br />
other meats are char-grilled and Farouk said<br />
he has many other culinary secrets that he<br />
plans to keep for the enjoyment of his patrons.<br />
Try the quzi or the tashreeb, lamb chops that<br />
are French cut, marinated and char-grilled.<br />
Farouk is a trained chef both in the United<br />
States and in Iraq and had specialized in Italian<br />
and American cuisine. He worked previously at<br />
Alafindi in West Bloomfield. He said he has<br />
blended his formal training, self-training and<br />
love of cooking into a mix of styles that remind<br />
diners of food from Iraq, Greece, Italy, Turkey,<br />
India and other Middle Eastern locales.<br />
La Kabbr is located at 43734 Schoenherr. It is<br />
open from 11 a.m. to 11 p.m. Monday through<br />
Friday and from noon to midnight on Saturday and<br />
Sunday. Call (586) 532-9340.<br />
<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 25
IRAQ today<br />
PHOTO BY SAMIR MIZBAN/AP<br />
Iraqis turn to blogging<br />
BY MARIAM FAM ASSOCIATED PRESS WRITER<br />
BAGHDAD, Iraq/AP<br />
Zeyad is a 27-year-old dentist. He<br />
works for a government clinic<br />
with broken dental chairs and no<br />
anesthetics. At home, when gunfire<br />
rattles his neighborhood, Zeyad’s family<br />
cowers in one room murmuring<br />
prayers while he types away on his<br />
computer.<br />
Zeyad is a blogger.<br />
Unheard of in Saddam Hussein’s<br />
Iraq, blogging is providing ordinary<br />
Iraqis with a voice — a chance to vent<br />
and reflect on the changes reshaping<br />
their country. For the outside world, the<br />
generally anonymous Internet postings<br />
offer raw insider views and insights in<br />
which sorrow and joy, hope and<br />
despair, fear and defiance coexist as<br />
the violence of the insurgency and now<br />
sectarian divisions swirl around Iraqis.<br />
“The West should listen to the opinions<br />
of the simple Iraqi people. They<br />
only hear from analysts and politicians,”<br />
said Zeyad, who agreed to discuss his<br />
blogging only if his family name wasn’t<br />
revealed for security reasons. “This is a<br />
good window into the world.”<br />
Zeyad penned his first entry in his<br />
Healing Iraq blog in October 2003<br />
about Iraq’s new currency, calling it<br />
“wonderful and so symbolic” that the<br />
distribution of the new dinar coincided<br />
with the anniversary of a referendum<br />
that re-elected Saddam. He has gone<br />
on to chronicle his thoughts on all<br />
aspects of life in the new Iraq.<br />
A self-described agnostic born into<br />
a Sunni Muslim family, Zeyad has<br />
seethed at the growing influence of<br />
Muslim clerics, saying it made him fear<br />
for the future of freedom in Iraq. “I want<br />
to be able to buy my vodka without having<br />
to look left and right. I want to be<br />
able to walk with my girlfriend in the<br />
street while holding hands together<br />
without people glaring at me. Is this<br />
TOO MUCH to ask?” he wrote. “Do I<br />
have to immigrate and leave my country<br />
for wanting to do all that?”<br />
But there were moments of pride<br />
and exhilaration, too. One came when<br />
Iraqis voted for an interim legislature in<br />
January 2005, their first democratic<br />
election in decades. “Hold your head<br />
up high. Remember that you are Iraqi,”<br />
Zeyad wrote that day. “Iraqis had voted<br />
for peace and for a better future,<br />
despite the surrounding madness. I sincerely<br />
hope this small step would be<br />
the start of much bolder ones.”<br />
More recently, his blog has tackled<br />
grimmer subjects: explosions,<br />
assassinations, street fighting —<br />
An unidentified Iraqi man makes use of one of the many Internet cafes in Baghdad.<br />
common themes in many Iraqi blogs.<br />
“Please don’t ask me whether I<br />
believe Iraq is on the verge of civil war<br />
yet or not,” Zeyad wrote. “All I see is<br />
that both sides are engaged in tit-for-tat<br />
lynchings and summary executions.”<br />
Zeyad said Health Ministry officials<br />
deem the trip to his clinic on the outskirts<br />
of Baghdad too risky. That is why<br />
the chairs have not been fixed and the<br />
anesthetics were not provided. “We<br />
don’t work,” he said.<br />
Still, Zeyad knows that under<br />
Saddam’s regime, he could not have<br />
dreamed of having a blog, let alone<br />
publicly criticizing the government.<br />
Like Zeyad, who moved with his<br />
family to Britain when he was 1 and<br />
returned to Iraq at 7, most Iraqi bloggers<br />
seem relatively young and welleducated<br />
— and they write in English.<br />
While they often mull over the same<br />
events, their opinions vary, often along<br />
sectarian lines.<br />
Take a March 26 raid by U.S. and<br />
special Iraqi forces on a mosque compound<br />
in northern Baghdad during<br />
which at least 16 people were killed.<br />
Zeyad wrote simply that American soldiers<br />
clashed with Shiite Muslim militiamen<br />
who resisted the search, but<br />
another blogger who uses the pen<br />
name Hammorabi took a sharply different<br />
view: “The killing of the worshippers<br />
in al-Moustafa mosque by the American<br />
forces should be investigated and<br />
those who are responsible for it should<br />
be punished.”<br />
The third anniversary of the invasion<br />
of Iraq also evoked divergent emotions<br />
among bloggers. While lamenting the<br />
violence in Iraq, a blogger who uses the<br />
pseudonym The Mesopotamian praised<br />
the war that ousted Saddam.<br />
“The blood and sacrifices by the<br />
American soldiers and people will never<br />
be forgotten,” The Mesopotamian<br />
wrote. “It was right, it was just and it<br />
was ordained by God that a murderer<br />
and tyrant should be overthrown.”<br />
Not really, argued a woman blogger<br />
who calls herself Riverbend. Writing in<br />
her Baghdad Burning blog, she said<br />
the war “marked the end of Iraq’s independence.”<br />
“I don’t think anyone imagined three<br />
years ago that things could be quite this<br />
bad today,” Riverbend wrote.<br />
Her writings brought international<br />
attention to Iraqi blogging. Some of her<br />
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Britain and that won her a Lettre<br />
Ulysses Award for the Art of<br />
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Her Web musings, often critical but<br />
also sprinkled with humor, have drawn<br />
mixed reviews, with some readers<br />
questioning whether she really is an<br />
Iraqi woman. She has not been<br />
deterred, offering up her dismay at the<br />
hardships of daily life.<br />
“The thing most worrisome about the<br />
situation now is that discrimination based<br />
on sect has become so commonplace,”<br />
Riverbend wrote. “The typical Iraqi<br />
dream has become to find some safe<br />
haven abroad.”<br />
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<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 27
the DOCTOR is in<br />
Are Your Kids Getting Enough Sleep?<br />
Is your child tired, cranky, aggressive,<br />
hyperactive or easily distractible? If so, the<br />
most likely culprit is poor sleep. The<br />
symptoms of poor sleep are many, and the<br />
consequences can range from a mild disruption<br />
of behavior to serious school and<br />
home problems. Starting from infancy, it is<br />
important to establish healthy sleep habits<br />
for your child. With the help of the age-specific<br />
guidelines below, your child — and you<br />
— will be on the way to a good night’s sleep.<br />
Newborns sleep 10.5 to 18 hours a day.<br />
They should always be placed to sleep on<br />
their backs at the first sign of drowsiness. Holding<br />
or rocking the baby to sleep is not recommended<br />
since it teaches the infant to depend on you to initiate<br />
sleep. For babies having difficulty falling asleep,<br />
consider playing music that simulates womb sounds.<br />
Choose a firm, tight-fitting mattress and remove pillows,<br />
quilts, stuffed toys and other soft products<br />
from the crib.<br />
Infants should sleep for a 6-8 hour stretch at<br />
night; by 6 months of age, this should increase to 10-<br />
12 hours. Keep stimulation to a minimum when feeding<br />
and changing them during the night. At 4-6<br />
months of age, begin delaying your reaction to fussiness.<br />
If the infant continues to cry, check on him or<br />
her; however, avoid turning on the light, picking them<br />
up or rocking them. Response time should increase<br />
each time to give the child an opportunity to fall<br />
asleep. By 6 months, nighttime feedings are unnecessary<br />
and most infants should sleep through the<br />
night.<br />
Toddlers need about 12-14 hours of sleep a day.<br />
Many toddlers experience sleep problems including<br />
resisting going to bed and nighttime awakenings.<br />
Encourage the use of a safe security object such as<br />
a blanket or stuffed animal to help the child fall<br />
asleep, especially if he or she wakes up in the middle<br />
of night. Some children may benefit from a nightlight<br />
or from leaving the door slightly open.<br />
By 18 months, naptimes decrease to one per day<br />
for 1-3 hours. The best nap times are midmorning<br />
(9-11) and early afternoon (12-2:30). Naps taken<br />
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Preschoolers sleep 11-13 hours each<br />
night. As with toddlers, difficulty falling<br />
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common. With further development of imagination,<br />
preschoolers commonly experience<br />
nighttime fears and nightmares. Consider<br />
an easily accessible “nighttime kit” that<br />
includes activities (flashlight, book, CD) to<br />
help relax your child during nighttime awakenings.<br />
School-age children still need somewhere<br />
between 9 and 12 hours of sleep at night. At this<br />
age, kids tend to become more sleep deprived<br />
because of an increasing demand on their time from<br />
school, sports and other extracurricular activities. In<br />
addition, TV, Internet and video games, as well as<br />
caffeine products, lead to difficulty falling asleep,<br />
nightmares and sleep disruptions. It is important to<br />
realize the importance of adequate sleep and to protect<br />
the child’s sleep time. Inadequate sleep can<br />
lead to mood swings, hyperactivity and cognitive<br />
problems that can impact a child’s ability to learn.<br />
Adolescents need about 8-9.5 hours of sleep per<br />
night. At this age, schedules are even more demanding<br />
— leaving the typical teenager chronically<br />
sleep deprived. Lost sleep adds up over time;<br />
an hour lost per night is equivalent to a full night<br />
without sleep by the end of the week. Sleep<br />
deprivation can lead to decreased attentiveness,<br />
decreased short-term<br />
memory, inconsistent<br />
performance<br />
and delayed response time. Poor consequences<br />
include bad tempers, school problems, stimulant use<br />
and driving accidents (more than half of asleep-at-thewheel<br />
car accidents are caused by teens).<br />
Sleep is an essential component to a child’s<br />
health — just like immunizations, growth and development.<br />
Bedtime should be an enjoyable part of the<br />
day. For children of all ages, consider a simple bedtime<br />
routine such as reading, singing or a warm bath.<br />
Never use sending your child to bed as a threat. If<br />
the feeling around bedtime is a good feeling, your<br />
child will fall asleep easier.<br />
It is important to know that most children have the<br />
ability to sleep well. If you have any concerns about<br />
your child’s sleep behavior, be sure to discuss it with<br />
your pediatrician.<br />
Elliott Attisha, D.O., is a pediatrician at Providence Park<br />
in Novi. For more information visit the American Academy<br />
of Pediatrics at www.aap.org and the National Sleep<br />
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30 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
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New guidelines have supporters – and detractors<br />
Traditions have been part of the Chaldean culture for<br />
centuries. Without them, one might say, there is no<br />
culture. But as times have progressed, many old traditions,<br />
particularly the rituals that accompany funerals, are<br />
now seen as archaic.<br />
From the wearing of black for many days to the mourner’s<br />
“hibernation,” funerals have become more than just burying<br />
the deceased, evolving into an intense ritual that, according<br />
to some community leaders, is well overdue for change. And<br />
change is exactly what has come in the form of new rules and<br />
guidelines drawn up by Chaldean clergy and community leaders.<br />
“There are many old ideas and thoughts in our Chaldean<br />
community that should be changed to the better,” said Father<br />
Wisam Matti of Mother of God Church in Southfield.<br />
Jerry Yono, owner of the Southfield Funeral Home, is one<br />
of many who support the changes. “I am a servant<br />
of the people and I am a servant of the<br />
church. I try to do whatever I can to make it<br />
easy for the families and for the clergy,” he said.<br />
“I want our people to know that these changes<br />
were not done by me; it was by the Chaldean<br />
Archdiocese.<br />
“I just want our people to understand that<br />
there does need to be some change and more<br />
understanding,” Yono continued. “I am hoping<br />
for positive feedback from our community and hopefully we<br />
will see some understanding and respect for these changes.”<br />
RESISTING CHANGE<br />
Thus far though, reaction has been mixed. “People don’t<br />
like change. Our community wants these changes, but no<br />
one wants to be the first to do it,” said Michael George, who<br />
helped come up with the new guidelines. “I have already had<br />
encounters with people from the community asking me why<br />
we are changing our traditions.”<br />
Maher Dabish, an entrepreneur who lost two of his<br />
uncles — Adil and Alos Dabish — this past July, believes<br />
others should not have input on how he mourns. “Basically<br />
what they are saying is forget the dead and just hurry up and<br />
forget your loved one,” he said of the changes. “‘Life goes on<br />
and we don’t care and let’s take what we have been doing for<br />
many years and forget it.’”<br />
Passionate about the subject, Dabish continued, “I feel like<br />
they are saying, ‘who cares that this deceased person came to<br />
church and was loved and respected by many.’ And the feeling<br />
I am getting is some people, such as the church and the<br />
funeral home, are tired of doing the same thing day in and day<br />
out. It seems that some people are too busy working and have<br />
no time to see the deceased, so this is why they want change.<br />
Getting rid of our old-fashioned ways is like saying, ‘stop<br />
speaking Chaldean.’ We have been like this for many years.”<br />
BY LINDA JABORO<br />
Others, however, hope the new rules will allow them more<br />
time to mourn for their loved ones. Gloria Jarbow, a mother of<br />
three who recently buried her father, Korgias Zetouna Karroma,<br />
said she didn’t really have much time to mourn her loss.<br />
“I was so busy with worrying about pleasing everyone during<br />
my father’s funeral that I didn’t even get a chance to say a real<br />
goodbye,” Jarbow said. “I had to leave the burial services early<br />
because I wanted to make sure I could be home in time to have<br />
everything ready for all the people who were coming by to pay<br />
their respects. I’m thankful for all the people who paid their<br />
respects, but wished that I had more time. I’m hoping with these<br />
new guidelines, funerals can become more about the deceased<br />
and less about catering to the people who come to pay their<br />
respects. I understand that we need to make sure that everyone<br />
is appreciated, but it just gets to be too much sometimes.”<br />
“I am hoping for positive<br />
feedback from our community<br />
and hopefully we will see<br />
some understanding and<br />
respect for these changes.”<br />
– JERRY YONO<br />
MAKING A CONNECTION<br />
Fr. Wisam believes the new rules will only make the community<br />
stronger. “As a Chaldean priest, I see these arrangements as good<br />
steps to make every Chaldean believer belong to the large family<br />
that is the church,” he said. “The point here is to make this<br />
a real connection between every believer and the church, and<br />
at the same time make this connection with other believers.”<br />
The community can be missing the most important value<br />
of the funeral itself and concentrating on other less important<br />
things, Fr. Wisam said. “In practice of funeral arrangements,<br />
there are two sides. The first is the spirit of occasion, which is<br />
the inner life of that celebration of entering the kingdom of<br />
heaven. The second are the forms or manifestation. So, what<br />
we need really today is to discover the big mistake — that is,<br />
we care about these forms and we forget the core of the occasion.<br />
The heart of the funeral is to share with others the lost<br />
dear person and give to them hope in resurrection.”<br />
Fr. Wisam said the changes have another benefit. “The<br />
Chaldean priests now are more able to serve our community<br />
by summarizing their time,” he said.<br />
Along with the clergy, Yono hopes the new guidelines<br />
will eventually be embraced. “I don’t think that some things<br />
will change for a long time because we still have many older<br />
generations that still believe in it,” the funeral director said.<br />
“Hopefully in the future the younger generation will<br />
encourage these new modifications.”<br />
THE NEW RULES<br />
Funeral masses will be held<br />
at the parishioner’s church as<br />
a result of the elimination of<br />
the funeral procession.<br />
The funeral procession has<br />
been eliminated in its entirety.<br />
Local government, police<br />
departments and churches<br />
do not condone funeral processions<br />
because of safety<br />
concerns.<br />
Only the immediate family<br />
should proceed to the cemetery<br />
on their own after the<br />
mass to meet the funeral<br />
director and witness the burial.<br />
Immediately following the<br />
funeral mass, family members<br />
wishing to attend the burial<br />
services should meet inside<br />
of the cemetery gate and wait<br />
for the funeral director to proceed<br />
to the gravesite or<br />
chapel for the committal service.<br />
That service will no<br />
longer be held at the church.<br />
THE PROPOSED<br />
GUIDELINES<br />
Visitation at the funeral home<br />
is recommended to be limited<br />
to one day.<br />
Because of the large crowds,<br />
people paying their respects<br />
to the family should limit their<br />
length of visitation. This will<br />
relieve congestion in the<br />
funeral home and parking lot<br />
and discourage socializing.<br />
Those paying their respects<br />
(such as shaking hands) at the<br />
funeral home do not need to do<br />
so a second time upon leaving.<br />
Extended family should refrain<br />
from going to the deceased’s<br />
home after visitation at the<br />
funeral home, and after the<br />
burial in the evening.<br />
Luncheons after the funeral<br />
mass should be eliminated.<br />
If a funeral luncheon is<br />
desired, it should be at the<br />
deceased’s home with only<br />
the immediate family. If the<br />
family is too large, then it can<br />
be at a catering hall (but not<br />
recommended).<br />
The Sunday after the funeral<br />
(seventh day optional by family)<br />
should be a memorial mass<br />
with only the immediate family.<br />
No one should wear black<br />
except the very immediate family.<br />
Friends who come to the<br />
funeral homes and burial masses<br />
are shocked at the mass of<br />
black, are intimidated and feel<br />
they are disrespectful because<br />
they do not wear black. Black<br />
ties should be worn only by the<br />
very immediate male family<br />
with any color suit.<br />
<strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 31
coming together<br />
Panel discussion offers insight on religious diversity<br />
BY LYNN DEGRANDE<br />
Though they may worship very differently,<br />
the Chaldean, Jewish and Muslim panelists<br />
found much common ground at a Lakes<br />
Area Community Diversity Council panel discussion<br />
held March 21 at Shenandoah Country Club.<br />
Fr. Manuel Boji of Mother of God Chaldean<br />
Catholic Church, Rabbi Joshua Bennett of Temple<br />
Israel, and Imam Mohamed El-Sayed of the<br />
Islamic Unity Center were panelists. Council cochair<br />
Marc Siegler moderated the discussion.<br />
Through questions presented by the Council and<br />
the audience, the religious leaders provided information<br />
on religion and diversity on both local and<br />
international levels.<br />
The men offered advice for practice of religious<br />
beliefs in everyday life. Imam El-Sayed recommended<br />
prayer and connection with the Creator.<br />
Fr. Boji emphasized, “The main thing in<br />
Christianity is this brotherhood, this loving God<br />
through others.”<br />
All panelists said they would like educators to<br />
grant consideration to religious holidays of all<br />
faiths. “Every Jew in your classroom may observe<br />
holidays differently,” noted Rabbi Bennett. Thus,<br />
educators understanding holidays will aid students<br />
with their days of observance, he said.<br />
THROUGH THE GENERATIONS<br />
The panelists agreed each faith experiences generational<br />
differences. “I think every faith goes through<br />
this kind of moderation of faith from generation to<br />
generation. That doesn’t mean the faith itself is<br />
changing,” said Fr. Boji. Both Rabbi Bennett and<br />
Imam El-Sayed noted children question and learn,<br />
leading to an understanding of religious tradition.<br />
Interfaith marriages pose challenges for all religions.<br />
Among the Jewish community, division<br />
exists regarding officiating at these marriages,<br />
while the Muslim community experiences many<br />
such unions. “I have made the decision to fall on<br />
the side of interfaith marriages because I really<br />
believe this is an opportunity to reach out and to<br />
create a Jewish community that is vibrant and<br />
growing,” Rabbi Bennett said. All agreed communication<br />
is essential to the success of the marriage.<br />
In response to an audience question on religious<br />
conversion, the panelists advised each is<br />
open to faith changes, and all offer classes. In the<br />
Muslim tradition, converts must also perform the<br />
pilgrimage to Mecca. Rabbi Bennett noted<br />
though traditionally not a proselytizing religion,<br />
Judaism is open to people finding the faith and<br />
making it their own. Fr. Boji said, “God’s house<br />
and doors are open to everybody.”<br />
The panelists felt today’s press portrays cultures<br />
and religions unfairly, and that the media focus on<br />
negative elements. “We are allowing the extreme of<br />
all the religions to paint the color of the religions,”<br />
said Imam El-Sayed. Rabbi Bennett commented<br />
that failure to report good events is a problem.<br />
Imam El-Sayed responded to the question of<br />
interfaith conferences. He indicated the mission<br />
of the Unity Center is to share with the community.<br />
“Not one month goes by without interfaith<br />
meetings,” he said.<br />
STRESSING EDUCATION<br />
Fr. Boji addressed the view of the Chaldean family<br />
toward education. “Today, parents work harder so<br />
boys and girls can pursue higher education,” he<br />
said, noting the importance of education as the<br />
main weapon of the minority in Iraq.<br />
Imam El-Sayed expressed the animosity<br />
between the Sunni and Shiite develops much like<br />
all conflict. “Humans each believe they are right<br />
and focus on what makes each different, and that<br />
just grows to obliterate equality,” he said.<br />
The question of whether offspring of a woman<br />
convert to Judaism are considered Jewish fell to<br />
Rabbi Bennett. He explained children born after<br />
conversion are deemed Jewish, but those children<br />
born prior to conversion, as well as adopted children,<br />
must convert individually.<br />
Fr. Boji remarked upon differences between the<br />
Chaldean and the Roman Catholic Church. He<br />
said this mainly involves rituals, citing baptism,<br />
marriage and fasting observations as examples. He<br />
said, “Diversity is shrinking toward Romanizing in<br />
America,” though the Chaldean community<br />
strives to retain their rites for continued diversity.<br />
Another question on conversion was directed<br />
to Imam El-Sayed. He advised an individual is<br />
free to enter or leave the faith. He said should an<br />
individual decide to leave on his own, “That is his<br />
relationship between him and his God.”<br />
In conclusion, Siegler shared an experience while<br />
observing second- and third-grade students. He said<br />
a child used a box of crayons of different shapes, sizes<br />
and colors to define diversity, explaining, “My grandmother<br />
says this box is diversity because we can take<br />
it and blend it together into whatever we want.”<br />
The Lakes Area Community Diversity Council<br />
was created in the early 1990s. Co-chair Cathy<br />
Ferguson said the Council exists to provide programs<br />
to educate residents on a variety of diversity<br />
topics.<br />
Rabbi Joshua Bennett (left) Marc Siegler, Imam Mohamed El-Sayed, Fr. Manuel Boji and Walled Lakes Schools’ Cathy<br />
Ferguson take a moment together after the panel discussion.<br />
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lest we forget<br />
Chaldeans also victimized in Armenian Genocide<br />
An ABC World News feature in 1999 called<br />
it “the forgotten genocide” — the<br />
Ottoman Empire’s early 20th-century<br />
slaughter of approximately 1.5 million Christian<br />
Armenians living within the borders of presentday<br />
Turkey.<br />
When it is remembered, it’s called the<br />
Armenian Genocide. But even that somber title,<br />
say a growing knot of historians and activists,<br />
omits large numbers of the genocide’s Christian<br />
victims — the ChaldoAssyrians and Pontic<br />
Greeks — who had lived for centuries in the<br />
Muslim-dominated empire.<br />
“The genocide was prosecuted against the<br />
Christian people living in the Ottoman Empire,”<br />
said activist Jacklin Bejan of San Jose, California.<br />
“To be fair, it was a Christian slaughter. It was a<br />
Jihad.”<br />
According to Bejan, the number of<br />
ChaldoAssyrians who died during the genocide is<br />
estimated between 600,000 and 750,000. The estimated<br />
number of Pontic Greeks — so named after<br />
their Greek dialect — is 250,000 to 300,000.<br />
“The three communities we’re all integrated, so<br />
the best reference is Christian,” Bejan said. “This is a<br />
BY KEN MARTEN<br />
forgotten history that needs to be brought forward.”<br />
The genocide began in 1915 during World War<br />
I (1914-1918), after the Ottoman Empire allied<br />
with Germany and the Austro-Hungarian Empire<br />
against Great Britain, France and czarist Russia. It<br />
lasted until the early 1920s. According to historians,<br />
the Ottoman Empire disarmed Armenian<br />
civilians, fearing they were sympathetic to<br />
Christian Russia. Approximately 40,000<br />
Armenians in the Ottoman army were reassigned<br />
to slave labor battalions.<br />
ARMENIAN HISTORY<br />
In A.D. 301, the ancient kingdom<br />
of Armenia in the<br />
Caucasus between the Black<br />
and Caspian seas was the first<br />
to adopt Christianity. A series<br />
of invasions through the centuries<br />
incorporated the kingdom<br />
into other empires, including<br />
the Roman, Persian,<br />
Byzantine and Ottoman Turks,<br />
and scattered Armenians<br />
throughout Eurasia.<br />
The Ottoman Empire ceded<br />
Armenia to czarist Russia in<br />
1823. Armenia became part of<br />
the Soviet Union in 1922 and<br />
A DAY IN APRIL<br />
The genocide began in earnest on April 24, 1915,<br />
when 300 Armenian political and intellectual leaders<br />
in Constantinople (present-day Istanbul) were<br />
arrested and then hanged or shot. Another 5,000<br />
Armenian civilians in Constantinople were killed<br />
in the streets. Today, April 24 is commemorated<br />
around the world as Armenian Remembrance Day.<br />
In the following years, the Ottoman Empire’s<br />
Christians were killed, starved or forced to move<br />
while their villages were destroyed or re-occupied.<br />
According to the Armenian Research Center at<br />
the University of Michigan-Dearborn, the<br />
Ottoman Empire’s actions were condemned by<br />
government representatives of both its wartime<br />
enemies and allies — Austrian, German, British,<br />
French, Russian and American.<br />
Less is known about how atrocities against<br />
ChaldoAssyrians began, and their subsequent suffering.<br />
Bejan, who is part Armenian and part<br />
Assyrian, hopes to correct that. In 2000 and 2001,<br />
she organized historical conferences to draw attention<br />
to the genocide’s ChaldoAssyrian victims.<br />
Several obstacles block the path to greater<br />
understanding of the genocide.<br />
“Our community is less active,” Bejan said of<br />
the ChaldoAssyrian community. “We cannot<br />
declared its independence on<br />
September 23, 1991 amidst the<br />
Soviet breakup. Several elections,<br />
although flawed, have<br />
been held.<br />
In 1992, fighting between<br />
Armenia and mostly Muslim<br />
Azerbaijan - also a former Soviet<br />
34 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
compare to the activism of<br />
Armenians. They have whole<br />
libraries committed to recording<br />
the genocide. They’ve been<br />
working for 80 years to record<br />
the history.”<br />
Moreover, the Turkish government<br />
has downplayed the<br />
genocide, refraining from characterizing<br />
it as such and counting<br />
the number of Armenian<br />
deaths at far lower than the estimated 1.5 million.<br />
STALLED RESOLUTION<br />
Bejan said Turkish organizations have lobbied the<br />
U.S. government to not pass House Resolution<br />
956, the Armenian Genocide Resolution.<br />
Co-sponsored by 140 members of Congress, the<br />
resolution was on the House schedule for passage in<br />
2000. But President Bill Clinton requested that<br />
Republican congressional leaders withdraw the resolution,<br />
citing concerns that American interests in<br />
the Middle East could be threatened if it were passed.<br />
They agreed and yanked it from the schedule.<br />
Congressmen Joe Knollenberg (R-Bloomfield<br />
Hills) is a co-chair of the Congressional<br />
Armenian Caucus. While he isn’t Armenian, his<br />
district includes one of the United States’ largest<br />
concentrations of Armenian-Americans (as well<br />
as Chaldean Americans).<br />
“The Genocide happened,” Knollenberg wrote<br />
in an e-mailed statement. “It’s time the United<br />
States admitted this fact. The only way to prevent<br />
future atrocities is to affirm the ones of the past and<br />
take a united vow that they never happen again.<br />
We can’t afford to be apathetic or unsure. The<br />
United States has a responsibility to lead the world<br />
and admit the truth of the Armenian Genocide.<br />
This legislation will show the world that America<br />
is not going to forget this horrible crime.”<br />
The Armenian Genocide Resolution doesn’t<br />
contain any reference to ChaldoAssyrians or<br />
Pontic Greeks.<br />
“For the U.S. Congress to pass a resolution<br />
without including the other two ethnic groups<br />
would be a shame,” Bejan said. “It’s a dark page of<br />
history, this rap sheet of genocide. We want equal<br />
recognition for us.”<br />
This feature is the first in a series of stories on<br />
the Armenian Genocide<br />
PHOTO COURTESY WWW.IMIA.CC.DUTH.GR/TURKEY<br />
GENOCIDE<br />
BY DEFINITION<br />
The term “genocide”<br />
(literally “murder of a<br />
race”) was coined by<br />
Professor Raphael<br />
Lemkin (1900-1959) in<br />
1944 and refers to the<br />
intentional destruction<br />
or attempted destruction<br />
of a national, ethnic,<br />
racial, or religious<br />
group, whether in<br />
wartime or peacetime.<br />
Genocide is defined as<br />
killing members of the<br />
group, causing serious<br />
bodily harm to members<br />
of the group, or otherwise<br />
attempting to bring<br />
about its destruction,<br />
including preventing<br />
births or transferring<br />
children away from the<br />
group. Although the<br />
legal definition of genocide<br />
does not extend to<br />
political groups, the<br />
term is often used colloquially<br />
to refer to largescale<br />
political violence.<br />
SOURCE: THE WORLD ALMANAC<br />
AND BOOK OF FACTS <strong>2006</strong><br />
Above:<br />
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When Renee Antoon first moved into<br />
her new condo, she spent a good<br />
amount of time in awe and wonder. “I<br />
would touch the sink, the counter, the bathtub,<br />
saying ‘it’s all mine,’” she recalled with a laugh.<br />
What made Antoon’s rite of passage all the<br />
more notable is how hard it can be for women in<br />
the Chaldean community to set up housekeeping<br />
on their own. Many eyebrows were raised when<br />
Antoon moved out of her parents’ house and purchased<br />
her Royal Oak condominium seven years<br />
ago, at the age of 23.<br />
“What kind of mother lets her daughter move<br />
out?” was a typical response, said<br />
Antoon, a marketing professional.<br />
“People thought my parents kicked me<br />
out or that I was not close to my family.”<br />
Marcine Karmo, who rented an apartment<br />
with a Chaldean friend at age 26,<br />
can relate. “Even though my parents are<br />
very Americanized, they didn’t really<br />
approve of it,” she said. “It’s not like they<br />
disapproved, but they didn’t like the idea<br />
of it. But I knew it was time for me to go.”<br />
Now 39, Karmo still enjoys living independently.<br />
Six years ago, she bought a<br />
condo in Southfield and said she has no<br />
regrets — “although I could have saved a<br />
lot of money if I’d stayed with my parents.”<br />
When Julie Garmo’s parents sold their<br />
house last year, she knew it was time to<br />
try living on her own. “I’d been thinking about it<br />
for a while, and it presented the opportunity,” she<br />
said. “But it’s a hard thing to do in our community.”<br />
Garmo, a travel consultant, said she’s glad she<br />
went ahead.<br />
“It’s not like I couldn’t come and go as I please<br />
with my parents, but now no one has to worry<br />
about me if I’m out later,” she said. “And knowing<br />
I’m going to leave a clean house and come back to<br />
a clean house is what I like the most.”<br />
Thirty-seven-year-old Mary Kalou decided it<br />
was time to leave her parents’ home nine years<br />
ago. “To me it was a natural progression,” she said.<br />
“It’s not a normal part of our culture but I felt like<br />
it was something I really needed to do. I was so<br />
lucky that my parents didn’t necessarily agree, but<br />
they were still very supportive.”<br />
A few years later, Kalou made an even bigger<br />
BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />
leap, relocating to Atlanta to pursue her career in<br />
the technology industry.<br />
“I thought I would come down and try it for a<br />
while, and that while has turned into three and a<br />
half years,” she said.<br />
Though she has bought a house in Atlanta,<br />
Kalou hopes to return to Metro Detroit one day to<br />
be closer to family.<br />
DOUBLE STANDARD?<br />
Some women say a double standard exists in the<br />
community, in which young men are encouraged<br />
to buy their own homes but women are expected<br />
Clockwise<br />
from top left:<br />
“Knowing I’m going to leave a<br />
clean house and come back<br />
to a clean house is what I like<br />
the most,” said Julie Garmo.<br />
Independent living suits<br />
Marcine Karmo.<br />
Renee Antoon at a quiet<br />
moment at home.<br />
to live with their parents until marriage.<br />
“I was ostracized like I had a disease,” said<br />
Antoon. “My mom said, ‘everyone will be talking<br />
about you,’ and she was right.”<br />
But Kalou said it is actually hard for all<br />
Chaldeans to move out. “You’re expected to grow<br />
up, get married and have a family, and until you do<br />
that, you remain with your family,” Kalou said. “Our<br />
parents don’t want their kids to be by themselves.”<br />
Karmo said young Chaldean men didn’t know<br />
how to react to the news that she had her own place.<br />
“They thought maybe I got into trouble and<br />
was outcast from my family,” she said. “On the<br />
other hand, some guys really liked the idea because<br />
they thought I was this wild girl.”<br />
Indeed, the perception of hot and cold running<br />
men and all-night parties still tends to follow these<br />
women. “They think we’re having these wild parties,”<br />
Garmo laughed.<br />
“I’m working and going to sleep when I get<br />
home!” Karmo said. “Having my own place means<br />
I’m not going out as much.”<br />
LESSONS LEARNED<br />
Whether or not they one day become wives and<br />
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“I know some women in their 30s who have not<br />
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responsibility,” Karmo said. “Paying a cell phone and<br />
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“Chaldean girls are so sheltered and our parents<br />
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“A lot more girls are getting the courage to<br />
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In preparing for her first Mother’s Day,<br />
Crystal Kassab Jabiro asked other<br />
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“As unprepared as I was for motherhood,<br />
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Words cannot truly describe<br />
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Right when she born I felt so different,<br />
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Motherhood: A love story<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
Hannah for the first time, I realized that<br />
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Najor is a kindergarten<br />
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Najor received her bachelor’s degree at the<br />
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sports<br />
Vinnie Sarafa<br />
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on the ball.<br />
catching fire<br />
at brother rice<br />
Vinnie Sarafa puts injury behind him<br />
BY STEVE STEIN<br />
Slowly but surely, the rifle arm that opposing<br />
base-runners fear is being reloaded.<br />
After undergoing surgery in November to<br />
repair a torn labium in his right shoulder,<br />
Birmingham Brother Rice High School senior catcher<br />
Vinnie Sarafa feels he’s making steady progress.<br />
“I have my good days and my bad days,” said<br />
Sarafa, who was injured diving for a ball in the<br />
outfield while playing summer baseball last year.<br />
He fought through pain all summer until a doctor<br />
discovered the tear.<br />
Brother Rice baseball coach Bob Riker is seeing<br />
more good than bad from Sarafa. “Vinnie has<br />
bounced back from his surgery a lot quicker than I<br />
thought he would,” Riker said.<br />
Sarafa threw out 14 of 17 base-stealers last season,<br />
his first as Brother Rice’s starting catcher. He<br />
tossed out six of nine potential stealers through 16<br />
games this spring. After Sarafa graduates from<br />
Brother Rice, he’ll continue his baseball career at<br />
the University of Michigan. The 6-foot, 215-<br />
pounder will join the U-M team as a “preferred<br />
walk-on.” If he progresses, he could eventually<br />
earn a scholarship. A 4.1 grade-point average student,<br />
Sarafa turned down a scholarship offer from<br />
Kalamazoo College even though it’ll be tougher<br />
earning playing time at U-M.<br />
“You can’t go wrong going to Michigan,” said<br />
the 18-year-old Farmington Hills resident. “I know<br />
I’ll be comfortable there. A couple of my former<br />
Brother Rice teammates are playing for Michigan<br />
and they really like it. I’m going to keep playing<br />
baseball until someone says I can’t.”<br />
Sarafa has been a starter at Brother Rice for four<br />
seasons, the first two as designated hitter and the<br />
last two as catcher. “It’s amazing that Vinnie was<br />
able to crack our lineup when he was a freshman<br />
and sophomore,” Riker said. “Those were the best<br />
teams I’ve had at Brother Rice since I became coach<br />
in 1998. Nine guys from those teams are playing<br />
college baseball, most at Division I schools.”<br />
Brother Rice went 36-4 in Sarafa’s freshman year.<br />
It lost 5-2 to Holland West Ottawa in the Division<br />
1 state championship game. The Warriors were 29-6<br />
when Sarafa was a sophomore. They fell 2-0 to the<br />
eventual state champion, Ann Arbor Pioneer in the<br />
state semifinals. Brother Rice was 20-13 last season<br />
and the Warriors started 11-5 this spring.<br />
Sarafa’s high school career batting average<br />
through 102 games was .338. He had 90 hits, three<br />
homers, 29 doubles, three triples and 76 RBI. He’s<br />
earned All-Catholic League honors for his success<br />
on the diamond and in the classroom.<br />
Sarafa has been playing summer travel baseball<br />
for the North Farmington-West Bloomfield<br />
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and back-up catcher. In 385 games over<br />
eight seasons with the Cobras, Sarafa is batting<br />
.412 with 377 hits, 18 homers, 80 doubles, 12<br />
triples and 332 RBI. The Cobras have gone 334-<br />
84-9 since Sarafa joined the team.<br />
When he was 12, Sarafa helped the Cobras hit<br />
five consecutive home runs during a game at the<br />
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“Vinnie has been a respectful, stellar kid since<br />
day one,” said Cobras manager Alan Borsen.<br />
Sarafa will be the 17th member of his family to<br />
graduate from Brother Rice. Haithem Sarafa (his<br />
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ARTS & entertainment<br />
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Peter Zora produces hip hop and R&B<br />
with a Middle Eastern flair<br />
BY CHRISTINA GAPPY<br />
Becoming a doctor, lawyer or engineer is what<br />
many Chaldean parents urge their children<br />
to do. Peter Zora was no exception. But he<br />
followed his heart instead, and has found success in<br />
the music business.<br />
In high school, Zora was focused and studious at<br />
the University of Detroit Jesuit High School. He<br />
played on the football team, but surprisingly was<br />
never involved in any of the school’s music groups.<br />
After graduating in 2000, Zora attended<br />
the University of Michigan — on a full<br />
ride through various scholarships. He<br />
studied there for almost two years until he<br />
decided to leave and pursue music.<br />
This, Zora said, was not an easy move<br />
to make. “It was a decision that many<br />
people in my family and community discouraged<br />
me from making,” he said. “But I<br />
knew that I needed to try something different<br />
to be as successful as I wanted to<br />
become, and I didn’t want any opportunities<br />
to pass while I was in school.”<br />
Zora began networking in business<br />
and entertainment circles and gained the<br />
nickname “Petey Franchise” from others<br />
who had seen the success and knowledge<br />
that Chaldeans demonstrate in the business<br />
and retail world. At first his nickname<br />
was a joke, but now people call him<br />
that more often and even some of his music is<br />
credited to “Petey Franchise.”<br />
Zora started by working closely with Mike<br />
Winans as an engineer in a local recording studio<br />
and soon began to produce and write songs. One<br />
of the first relationships the two established was<br />
with Shannon “Slam” Lawrence, a major record<br />
label executive who works directly under rap<br />
mogul P. Diddy at Bad Boy Entertainment. This<br />
was only the beginning of Zora’s encounters with<br />
big-name musical producers and celebrities.<br />
“Slam” connected Zora and Winans to the<br />
people producing Chris Brown’s debut album at<br />
Jive Records. They submitted some songs for the<br />
project and were able to sell “Just Fine” on<br />
Brown’s debut album, which has sold more than<br />
one million copies worldwide.<br />
“The success of Chris’ album opened many<br />
doors for me,” Zora said. “I have sat through<br />
meetings and made business contacts with many<br />
A&Rs [professionals responsible for the creative<br />
aspect of music] and vice presidents from many of<br />
the major record labels including SonyBMG,<br />
Universal, Jive and Atlantic Records, while<br />
meeting with others who have offered me publishing<br />
deals through huge entertainment conglomerates.”<br />
Zora is currently working on several projects,<br />
including opening a local recording studio on the<br />
Southfield/Oak Park border. “Anyone who is<br />
interested in learning about music production or of<br />
the equipment can come by,” he said. He is also<br />
working on songs being submitted for singer<br />
Omarian’s new album, as well as for the girls from<br />
the hit MTV television series “Making the Band<br />
3.”<br />
Zora hopes to become a well-known name in<br />
the music production business where “people will<br />
go out and search for me rather than me trying to<br />
seek out the music buyer.” He also wants to see<br />
more Chaldeans flourish in the business because<br />
he believes the Chaldean culture has much to<br />
offer. Zora recently has worked on projects with<br />
other Chaldean musicians such as Adad Raikany,<br />
with whom he has become a production partner,<br />
and he plans to collaborate with other talents such<br />
“I knew that I<br />
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“Many producers have used Middle Easterninfluenced<br />
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that our culture has a place in mainstream<br />
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Zora knows it is going to take years of hard work<br />
and dedication to fully realize his dreams, which<br />
include developing his own music publishing company<br />
and one day possibly running a joint venture<br />
with other major companies to release his own<br />
artists. His eyes are firmly on the prize. “Every day I<br />
wake up,” Zora said, “I think to myself what I have<br />
to do today that will let me reach my goals.”<br />
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Speaking briefly in Arabic, one of the four languages in<br />
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Continuing in English, Ross acknowledged the many<br />
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event, which included several dignitaries, Ross provided the<br />
community with the latest information regarding many issues<br />
Iraqi Christians currently face. Ross participated in the process<br />
of forming the Interim Iraqi Government and drafting the new<br />
constitution, and assisted in developing a program to support<br />
the emergence of a moderate political center in preparation for<br />
elections.<br />
Ross explained that in order to form a democracy in Iraq,<br />
the rights and prosperity of the minorities and the larger community<br />
must be obtained — that the language in the constitution<br />
must include those rights.<br />
Chaldean Chamber members have inquired about how to<br />
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The evening’s agenda did not completely focus on Iraq. The<br />
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ly working on getting the Armenian Genocide, in which thousands<br />
of Chaldeans were killed, recognized on the federal level.<br />
“I am very humbled by this honor,” said Knollenberg. “I just<br />
did what I believed was the right thing to do.”<br />
The Chaldean American Ladies of Charity was honored<br />
with the Humanitarians of the Year Award for its service to the<br />
Chaldean community as well as the community at large. In<br />
existence since 1961, the women run a tight ship; more than 98<br />
percent of donations go directly to helping the needy. This year<br />
they celebrate their 45-year anniversary at Shenandoah<br />
Country Club on September 16.<br />
“We thank the chamber for recognizing the hard work of the<br />
Chaldean American Ladies of Charity,” said Clair Konja, president.<br />
“This organization and these ladies remain strong<br />
because of the continuous effort of our volunteers, board members<br />
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James Jonna, Business Person of the Year, founded Jonna<br />
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chairman of the board. Speaking in Sourath (Aramaic), Jonna<br />
wished the audience and their families God’s blessing of good<br />
health and hope. “I am proud to be an American,” said Jonna.<br />
“This country has given us great opportunity. I’m also proud to<br />
be recognized tonight.”<br />
Broadcaster Murray Feldman served as master of ceremonies.<br />
Co-chairs of the event were Amal Berry Brown, vice<br />
president of business development with Comerica Bank, and<br />
Frank Jonna, CEO of Jonna Companies.<br />
The Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce is a partnership<br />
of Chaldaen businesses and professionals working<br />
together to strengthen members’ business, increase job opportunities,<br />
encourage expansion and promote Chaldean business and<br />
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1. Congressman Joe<br />
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Ambassador Christopher<br />
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5. Murray Feldman and Clair<br />
Konja of the Chaldean<br />
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Humanitarians of the Year<br />
6. Ed Babbie (left), Sammi<br />
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Sue Boji, Seima Jonna,<br />
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Some 1,000 people gathered for a<br />
fundraiser for St. George<br />
Chaldean Catholic Church on<br />
April 19. After mass at the new church,<br />
a gala dinner was held at Penna’s of<br />
Sterling Heights with Bishop Ibrahim<br />
Ibrahim as keynote speaker. The event<br />
raised about $270,000 for the new<br />
church. At least two similar events are<br />
planned each year until St. George’s<br />
$5.2 million debt is paid off.<br />
1. Guests enjoy the event.<br />
2. Fr. Manuel Boji (left), Salman Konja and Fr. Shlaman Denha<br />
3. Bishop Ibrahim Ibrahim<br />
4. Kamal Kakos (left), Mahir Dosha, Ghassan Kanno, Talal Kakos and Basem Naem<br />
5. Janafer Shaba (left), Tamra Dabish, Jessica Kakoz and Dena Kamil.<br />
Standing behind them is Ahlam al-Makeh.<br />
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From the low $300’s<br />
HILLS OF BOGIE LAKE<br />
Beautiful Wooded, Private<br />
Estate-Sized Home Sites<br />
28 Beautiful acres of untouched<br />
green space and an 800-foot<br />
long boulevard entry.<br />
Community clubhouse with<br />
gathering room and patio, pool,<br />
tot lot, and sports court.<br />
For more information call (248) 366-2800<br />
WATERFORD<br />
From the $150’s<br />
CEDAR ISLAND<br />
TOWNE CENTRE PARK<br />
Enjoy Ultra-Convenience!<br />
For more information call (248) 673-3445<br />
On Bogie Lake Rd., south<br />
of Cooley Lake Rd.<br />
KEEGO HARBOR/ WEST BLOOMFIELD<br />
From the $240’s<br />
LANDSCAPE INCLUDED!<br />
ADDINGTON CORNERS<br />
Last Chance to Own Here!<br />
New condominium home in Commerce Twp./Novi<br />
• Complete GE kitchen appliance package<br />
• 2 Bedrooms; 2 1/2 Baths<br />
• Sparkling swimming pool and clubhouse<br />
• Minutes from 12 Oaks Mall, restaurants and more!<br />
• Walk to Kroger ® , Starbucks ® , Panera<br />
Bread ® and other conveniences within<br />
the towne centre.<br />
• Ranch, ranch style and town home<br />
floor plans, sure to please any lifestyle.<br />
Attached garages and basements<br />
(per plan)<br />
HARBOR VILLAGE<br />
Great “Lakes Area” Location<br />
• West Bloomfield Schools<br />
• Classic Neo-Traditional<br />
architecture<br />
• Walk to shops, conveniences<br />
and recreational areas<br />
• Quick Occupancy<br />
Homes Available!<br />
For more information call (248) 706-5900<br />
COMMERCE/ WISE RD.<br />
COOLEY LAKE<br />
SALES CENTERS OPEN DAILY FROM 11-6 P.M.<br />
Visit www.ivanhoehuntley.com for<br />
information on all of our great communities<br />
Information and pricing subject to change at any time without notice.<br />
BOGIE LK.<br />
BOGIE LK.<br />
BOGIE LK.<br />
OXBOW LK.<br />
BOGIE LK.<br />
UNION LK. RD.<br />
24<br />
ORCHARD LK RD.<br />
On Crescent Lk. Rd.<br />
S of M-59 (behind Kroger)<br />
Summers, East of Orchard Lake Rd.<br />
just North of Commerce Rd.<br />
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LOWER STRAITS LAKEFRONT<br />
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CONDO FOR SALE IN BIRMINGHAM<br />
1,100+ Sq. Ft. + finished basement.<br />
Excellent location. Walking<br />
distance from downtown<br />
Birmingham. $285,000.<br />
Call 248-593-9919<br />
HOUSE FOR SALE/RENT<br />
EAST LANSING<br />
2 BLOCKS FROM MSU<br />
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Appliances inc. Washer/Dry<br />
Lg, Yard/Garage. Rent $800 or<br />
Buy $99,000. 248-755-6464<br />
HOUSES FOR SALE<br />
LAKEFRONT CUSTOM BUILT<br />
Home in 2005 on Cass Lake. 5<br />
bedrooms, 8 bath. Walkout finished<br />
basement w/kitchen. $2,787,000.<br />
Call 248-225-7711 Niran Bahoora<br />
BEAUTIFUL OVER 3,000 SF<br />
Custom Colonial on top of a hill<br />
(2.5 Acre of land). Walkout basem.<br />
Priced at $494,000. (Priced Well<br />
Under Market Value) Call: Maria<br />
Molnar 248-990-3210 or go to<br />
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WEST BLOOMFIELD - STUNNING!<br />
Home has everything - 4 bdrms, 3<br />
car garage. Gourmet kitchen w/granite<br />
island, huge master suite w/sitting<br />
area and many extras. Beautiful lot<br />
backing to commons. $619,000 Call<br />
Cathy @248-478-6000<br />
CHARMING 4-BEDROOM COLONIAL<br />
in West Bloomfield. Newer ceramic<br />
tile and updated carpet, new garage<br />
door, large family room and living<br />
room. Award-winning West<br />
Bloomfield Schools. $289,900. Call<br />
Brian Loussia, Keller Williams Realty,<br />
(248) 735-9139 or (248) 252-1179.<br />
CASS LAKE WATERFRONT<br />
1,800 sg. ft. 3 BR, 2 baths. Finished<br />
walkout basement. New bathrooms<br />
with granite countertops, Jacuzzi in<br />
master bath. $595,000. Call for an<br />
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FARMINGTON HILLS<br />
3 BR, 2.1 Bath Ultra contemporary<br />
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