Island Parent Fall 2023
Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens
Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens
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CUTITOUT!<br />
Be Gentle with Yourself<br />
While we experience profound<br />
love and great joy when we<br />
become parents, it can also<br />
be shocking. We soon discover that we<br />
can’t control another person. We can’t<br />
make them poop on the potty, be nice<br />
to their sibling, care about homework,<br />
or joyfully unload the dishwasher.<br />
If we invest our mental energy in<br />
constantly worrying about our kids<br />
and trying to get them to listen to us,<br />
we become depleted. When we try too<br />
hard, attempting to be their one-person<br />
entertainment centre and doing everything<br />
for them, we exhaust ourselves.<br />
When we hold the bar too high because<br />
we don’t understand the nature of<br />
childhood, we see their behaviour as<br />
deliberate, and we find ourselves overreacting.<br />
Tell yourself:<br />
1. My child is just trying to cope<br />
right now.<br />
2. This is a stage that kids go<br />
through.<br />
3. I can get through this, and I can<br />
cope.<br />
4. I can see some humour in this situation<br />
and anger won’t make it better.<br />
5. Children can’t help but be impulsive,<br />
it’s natural.<br />
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