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Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens

Vancouver Island’s Parenting Resource for 35 Years: Out & About in Nature: Rain or Shine • The Cool of Volunteering at School • Lessons from a Little Kid • Setting Kids Up for Success at School • Be Gentle with Yourself • Tweens & Teens

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CUTITOUT!<br />

Be Gentle with Yourself<br />

While we experience profound<br />

love and great joy when we<br />

become parents, it can also<br />

be shocking. We soon discover that we<br />

can’t control another person. We can’t<br />

make them poop on the potty, be nice<br />

to their sibling, care about homework,<br />

or joyfully unload the dishwasher.<br />

If we invest our mental energy in<br />

constantly worrying about our kids<br />

and trying to get them to listen to us,<br />

we become depleted. When we try too<br />

hard, attempting to be their one-person<br />

entertainment centre and doing everything<br />

for them, we exhaust ourselves.<br />

When we hold the bar too high because<br />

we don’t understand the nature of<br />

childhood, we see their behaviour as<br />

deliberate, and we find ourselves overreacting.<br />

Tell yourself:<br />

1. My child is just trying to cope<br />

right now.<br />

2. This is a stage that kids go<br />

through.<br />

3. I can get through this, and I can<br />

cope.<br />

4. I can see some humour in this situation<br />

and anger won’t make it better.<br />

5. Children can’t help but be impulsive,<br />

it’s natural.<br />

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22 <strong>Island</strong> <strong>Parent</strong> Magazine <strong>Island</strong><strong>Parent</strong>.ca

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