Fredericksburg Guidebook Winter 2023

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FALL/WINTER 2023-24 Contents
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11-20 Calendar of Events
22 Featured Article
The Allstate Community Theater
24 Featured Article
How Is Your Organizational Culture?
25 Travel and Tourism
27 Featured Poem
Applesauce
28 Featured Article
Love Your Home Again
30 Featured Article
Healthy Generations Area Agency On Aging
31 Featured Article
Gifting Our Treasures
31-32 Senior Living & Lodging
33 Featured Article
Adventure On! BSA
34 Relocation
Community Services 34
Relocation Guide 35
36 Maps
36-37 Downtown Historic Map
38-39 Area Map
40-41 Civil War Map
42-43 Featured Article
Jackson’s Moon
46 Featured Article
The Most Valuable Weapon We Have Is
Our Awareness
47 Featured Article
Are You Hurting Your Success?
48 Featured Article
Enhancing Your Decision Making
& Risk Prevention
49 Shopping
64 Featured Article
Winter Survival Tips For Your Birds
66-67 Central Park
68 Restaurants
Restaurant Guide 80
81 Featured Article
Relationships Matter...Nurture Them Everyday
82 Featured Article
Fredericksburg Art Scene
83 Coupons (and throughout book)
C = Merchants offering coupons
84 Wineries & Breweries
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WHAT KEEPS YOU UP AT NIGHT?
BILL HUGHES
I ask this of people that raise issues
about their personal or work life in
conversation. When asked if they have
talked with someone who might help,
often I’m told, “I’m good.” Are you? If
it’s keeping you up, perhaps you need to
talk to someone.
As a certified personal and
organizational development coach,
trainer, and DISC consultant, I offer a
no-obligation consultation to help you
find answers. Contact me at
william@leadingeagles.com to schedule
a meeting.
WILDERNESS PRESIDENTIAL
RESORT
Take a break from the hustle and
bustle of everyday life as you relax and
reconnect with friends and family at
Wilderness Presidential Resort. We
offer budget-friendly accommodations
and recreation amenities for every
member of the family. The resort is
nestled in the heart of the
Chancellorsville and Wilderness
Battlefields with over 600 acres of
beautiful forests and waterways. It’s
easy to make memories with our daily
planned activities, campsite access,
camp cottage rentals and fully stocked
cabins. Visit our website for all of our
activities. See ad on page 2.
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AR•TI•FACT - FREDERICKSBURG’S
FABULOUSLY UNIQUE SHOPPING
Established by Cheryl Roy of Deep Creek Vintage
How come I didn’t know about this place? A question frequently asked because
Artifact is 5700 sq. Ft. Of visual delight quietly tucked behind the Spotsylvania
Visitor Center in Massaponax. Artifact is quickly becoming the shopping destination
for many unique items including exquisite estate antiques, primitives, antique &
vintage furniture, seasonal decor, lighting and art, just to name a few. The talented
artisans at Artifact thoughtfully create and produce jewelry, soaps, pressed flowers,
handbags and more while using sustainable and repurposed materials. Creative
experiences are offered in workshops where you can create one-of-a-kind pieces
for your home or gifting. There is something for everyone whether you prefer
traditional, whimsical or trending decor.
You will find Artifact on most social media platforms.
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ONGOING
Please visit FXBG.com for event
updates in the Fredericksburg area.
FIRST FRIDAY of Each Month
5pm - 9pm
706 Caroline Street, Fredericksburg, VA, USA
FXBG First Friday is an event that happens on the
first Friday of every month that celebrates the
amazing art, community, and vibrancy of
Downtown Fredericksburg. From 5pm to 9pm
during every First Friday, adults aged 21+ can
purchase a beer, wine or cocktail at a
participating restaurant and enjoy it while
strolling within the marked boundaries
Downtown. See the Sip and Stroll link below for
additional details on Sip and Stroll! For details
check out FXBG.com
NOVEMBER
Thru November 12th
Riverside Center Presents The Bridges of
Madison County
95 Riverside Parkway, Fredericksburg
Based on the best-selling novel and major motion
picture starring Meryl Streep and Clint Eastwood,
The Bridges of Madison County tells the story of
Francesca Johnson, a beautiful Italian woman who
married an American soldier to flee war-ravaged
Italy, looks forward to a rare four days alone on
her Iowa farm when her family heads to the 1965
State Fair. When ruggedly handsome, National
Geographic photographer, Robert Kincaid, pulls
into her driveway seeking directions, though,
what happens in those four days may very well
alter the course of Francesca's life. This sweeping
romance about the roads we travel, the doors we
open, and the bridges we dare to cross will leave
audiences breathless. www.riversidedt.com/thebridges-of-madison-county-2023
for tickets.
November 3
FXBG First Friday – Canal Quarter
4:00pm-10:00pm
Canal Quarter Arts, Princess Anne Street
Experience the sights sounds and flavors in the
Downtown Fredericksburg, Virginia Canal
Quarter! Haley’s Honey Meadery – Honey
Tastings, Mead, Cider & Food Specials. Canal
Quarter Arts – Art Show with refreshments
Sprelly – In Store Tastings and Samples. 10am –
5pm Red Dragon Brewery – Flavor Release, Food
Truck, Art Show and Cornhole Tournament.
4-10pm. Always Flavored: Hot Sauce Tastings &
1/2 Sandwich Specials for $5. For more info and
updates log onto
FXBGFirstFridayCanalQuarter.com/
November 3
FredVends Holiday Market at Hurkamp Park
4:00pm-9:00pm
500 William St, Fredericksburg
Shop local this holiday season during First Friday
in downtown Fredericksburg! Artisans, live
holiday music by Ryan French, food, and drinks!
November 3
FXBG First Friday - Sip & Stroll
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
706 Caroline Street, Fredericksburg
FXBG First Friday happens every first Friday of
each month in downtown Fredericksburg. Walk
through the art galleries, shop in the stores that
are open late, listen to live music and
performances along the streets, ride the free
trolley through town to explore our city.
See the shops that are open late, the street
performers, the map and more at
fxbgfirstfriday.com
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November 4
Fall Craft Fair (Brooke Point Dance Team)
9:00 am-2:30 pm
Brooke Point High School,
1700 Courthouse Road, Stafford
Indoor Event. $3 Entry Fee (Cash/CashApp/Venmo)
Lots of amazing Crafters & Vendors!! Unique
handmade items, clothing, jewelry, body care
items, home decor, household items, accessories,
sweet treats, food trucks, door prizes &
PERFORMANCES BY THE DANCE TEAM!!!
For more information or to request an application
for crafter/vendor, please email us at
bpcraftfair@gmail.com. Add us on Facebook:
Bpdance Craft Fair Registration fee $50 Per space.
Sponsored by The Brooke Point Dance Team
Boosters.
November 4
Night in Washington’s Day
Historic Kenmore,
1201 Washington Ave., Fredericksburg
7:00 - 9:30 pm
Experience the 18th century in a whole new light!
This year, we’ve got a brand-new take on our
annual Night in Washington’s Day Program.
Explore the illuminated grounds, 1775 mansion,
and outbuildings of Historic Kenmore to see how
surprisingly active nights were in the 18th
century. Take in the dining, dancing, and drinking
of the gentry and hear the words of the enslaved
people who worked day and night on the
property. Hands-on activities create an up-close
look at lighting techniques from long ago. Guests
will discover how nighttime transformed from a
fearful darkness to an illuminated extension of
liveliness in history! Advance ticket purchase for
an entry time is required. Entry times are in half
hour increments. $15.00 – adults. $7.00 –
students (ages 6-17). Free – children (age 5 &
under) (Plus online processing fee.) Questions?
Email learn@gwffoundation.org
or call 540-370-0732.
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November 4
UMW'S Jazz4Justice:10th Anniversary Concert
7:30 – 9:00 PM
Dodd Auditorium, Fredericksburg
Presented by Legal Aid Works® and the
University of Mary Washington. The UMW Jazz
Ensemble, directed by Doug Gately.
General Admission Tickets: $10 Students &
Seniors: $5 Net proceeds to benefit Legal Aid
Works® and the UMW Jazz Ensemble Call
Katerina Vollten, Development Director, at 540-
371-1105 Ext. 122 or Email:
kvollten@legalaidworks.org
November 5
FredNats Salute to Veterans 5K & Bravo Mile
The Fredericksburg Area Running Club (FARC) has
teamed up with the Fredericksburg Nationals to
host a fun 5K and one mile race dedicated to our
Military Veterans. This family friendly event
boasts a flat, fast USATF Certified Course with
top finisher awards and lots of prizes. Both races
are open to all ages and runners/ walkers are
welcome. Participants in both events receive a
custom race shirt, unique finisher’s medal, finish
line refreshments, and a sense of pride and
accomplishment. The post race celebration
features games, concessions and military themed
displays. Proceeds from the race will be donated
to the Fredericksburg Chapter of Team Red White
and Blue. The FredNats Salute to Veterans 5K and
Bravo Mile is a great event where you, your
family and friends can celebrate our Veterans at
the ballpark- a great American pastime! Races
start and finish in the FredNats Stadium at 42
Jackie Robinson Way Fredericksburg, VA 22401-
Bravo Mile begins at 9:30 am and the 5K race
begins at 10:00 am. Registration is open on:
RunSignup.com/Race/VA/redericksburg/FredNats5k.
November 11
FXBG Walks – Right up your Alley
10am - 12pm
706 Caroline Street, Fredericksburg
Explore the back streets and untold stories of
Fredericksburg. Stroll along some of the city’s
oldest alleyways and learn about the lifeways
and activities of the communities within them.
Walk with historian and history teacher, Barbra
for a 2-hour guided walking tour. Meet outside
the Visitor Center at 10:00 a.m. Wear
comfortable walking shoes. Tour happens rain or
shine. Tickets are $15 per person, plus $1
processing fee (children under 10 are free) See
the additional walks that are happening on our
FXBG Walks page.
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SELFIE SOCIAL, LLC
Selfie Social, LLC. is an immersive self-service
photography studio. Allow your imagination
to take flight through art and pictures. We
provide scenes, murals, ring lights, and props,
and you provide the smile. Looking for
something “different”? We’re the ideal place to
take selfies in the Fredericksburg area. An
interesting place to spend some time before a
major event or hosting a fun party or event. If
you like good family-oriented people with great
customer service we’re the place for you!
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November 11
FXBG Women’s Lifestyle Expo
10:00am-4:00pm
Fredericksburg Convention Center, Carl D Silver
Parkway, Fredericksburg Enjoy a day of shopping,
pampering, wine tasting, and more with the ladies
in your life at this FREE event!
Bingo! Handbags of Cash! Giveaways! For
additional information or questions contact Linda
Rudd: linda@telemediabroadcasting.com (540)
809-1220
November 11
Fredericksburg Veterans Day Procession
10:00am
Procession Route: Along Washington Avenue from
Mary Ball Street to George Street.
Veterans and Veteran Groups are invited to
register to be in the procession. No commercial,
for-profits, nor political campaigns will be
permitted in the procession.
November 11-12
Holiday Open House Weekend
All Day Sunday
706 Caroline Street, Fredericksburg
The annual Holiday Open House Weekend is the
official start of the holiday season in Downtown
Fredericksburg, Virginia. Downtown is decorated.
Shops are full of gifts. Restaurants are full of
cheer. Holiday music is in the air. Santa takes a
break from his workshop to greet you with a
smile. Also, be sure to try out our annual Window
Wonderland contest, which involves solving
riddles placed in downtown windows and voting
for the most-beautiful displays. Stop by the Visitor
Center for your riddle sheet.
November 12
Books at Belmont Speaker and Book Signing
Series: Carla Mae Jansen
3:00pm-4:00pm
Fannie Roots House, 224
Washington St, Falmouth
Carla Mae Jansen was first inspired to write this
book for her science classes years ago, but she
was motivated to finish it for her children. She will
share a kid-friendly lesson on dinosaurs. Stay after
the event to search for dino prints in our garden
paths. Author lecture in the Pavilion followed by a
meet and greet. Books can be purchased online or
onsite at the Museum Store. Free; no registration
required.
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EVENTS
November 16
FAM Lecture Series: Johnny P. Johnson:
The Color of Love
7:00pm-8:30pm
Fredericksburg Area Museum, Princess Anne
Street, Fredericksburg The City of Fredericksburg
has many talented artists. One has distinguished
himself beyond the color palette—the
extraordinary artist and educator Johnny P.
Johnson. A local icon in the city of Fredericksburg
and beyond, his life far exceeds his artistry. While
the bold, colorful paintings of Johnny Johnson are
coveted by art collectors and citizens here and
abroad, few know of the countless lives he
touched as a humanitarian, civil rights activist,
church and community leader, star athlete,
cultural diplomat, and family man. Evening with
an Expert will take place at the FAM (907 Princess
Anne St) on November 16, 2023, from 7:00 pm –
8:30 pm and will conclude with a light reception
with the speaker, Ambassador Pamela E.
Bridgewater. Lecture tickets are $20 for nonmembers
and $10 for members. Visit
Fredericksburg Area Museum website for details.
November 20
Children’s Tree Lighting & Jingle Bell Sing-along
4:00 pm – 5:30 pm, Hurkamp Park, FREE
November 22-30
Riverside Center Presents Miracle
on 34th Street
Meal Service: 11:30am,
Performance Starts: 1:30pm
95 Riverside Parkway, Fredericksburg
Performing Arts! A holiday classic from the writer
of the musical theatre masterpiece, The Music
Man!, and based on the movie of the same name,
Meredith Willson’s Miracle on 34th Street follows
Kris Kringle as he takes on the cynics in this
beloved holiday classic. Single mother Doris
Walker doesn’t want her six-year-old Susan’s head
filled with romantic notions. When their neighbor,
Fred Gaily, tries to woo Doris by charming Susan
and taking her to see Santa Claus at Macy’s,
where Doris works, Doris is not impressed. But
when it turns out that Macy’s Santa may, in fact,
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November 18
Call for Entries: Wee Christmas, 9th Annual
Wee Christmas Doll House & Miniatures Show
10:00am - 5:00pm
Kenmore, Washington Avenue, Fredericksburg
Call for entries for our 9th annual Wee Christmas
Dollhouses and Miniatures Exhibit at Historic
Kenmore! If you have a dollhouse, room box,
covered vignette, or unique miniatures display
that would wow spectators, that is no small feat!
Entrée forms due November th. Drop off at
Kenmore Dec. 2nd.
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or business need not be a big hassle. Just let
Goosehead do it for you! Goosehead is an
independent agency that represents over 50
different insurance companies all across the
USA and will shop for you to find the best
combo of coverage and price for your individual
needs. So whether brand new to the area or a
long term resident let us help you with your
insurance needs.
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be the real Kris Kringle, a wave of love spreads
across New York City that melts even the most
cynical hearts. Filled with humor, spectacle, and
such beloved songs as “Pinecones and
Hollyberries,” “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like
Christmas,” and “My State, My Kansas,” this
joyous, heartwarming musical is pure family
entertainment.
https://www.riversidedt.com/miracle-2023
November 25
Call for Entries: Gingerbread Contest 37th
Annual Gingerbread Contest & Exhibit
10am - 5pm
George Washington's Ferry Farm, Kings Highway,
Is your gingerbread confection perfection? Does
your icing piping conjure up pure artistry? Show
off your edible creativity at Ferry Farm’s 37th
Annual Gingerbread Contest and Exhibit. This
year’s theme will bake up smiles – “A Critter
Christmas.” Entry drop-off is November 25-
December 2. See entry form for full details. Link
below. On December 4, judges will select 1st
through 3rd place ribbons and prizes in each level.
Exhibit visitors will select a People’s Choice during
the month of December. The winner will be
announced on Ferry Farm’s social media at 5pm on
December 30. A plaque will be awarded to the
People’s Choice winner. See entry forms and recipe
on our website. https://kenmore.org/events
November 25
Small Business Saturday
Downtown Fredericksburg
Starting at 8am, hours vary by location
DECEMBER
December 1st, 2nd, 3rd
FXBG Holiday Craft Show
9:00am-5:00pm
Fredericksburg Convention Center,
Carl D Silver Parkway, Fredericksburg
Celebrate the season with gifts for yourself or
loved ones in this festive shopping experience
featuring local artists and vendors. Shop 250+
local shops and vendors featuring quality, handcrafted
holiday décor, home goods, jewelry, bath
and body products, gourmet delights and more.
The Show will be decorated to get you in the
holiday spirit! We will have holiday music playing,
a bar set up, and many aisles – to walk and shop!
Friday, December 1st – 9:00am – 5:00pm
Saturday, December 2nd – 9:00am – 5:00pm
Sunday, December 3rd – 9:00am – 3:00pm,
www.tixr.com/groups/fredtickets
December 2, 3, 6, 9, 10, 13, 14, 16, 17, 20,
21,23,24,27
Riverside Center Presents Miracle on 34th Street.
5:30pm-10:00pm
95 Riverside Parkway, Fredericksburg
Celebrate the Christmas season at Riverside Center
for the Performing Arts!
For details and tickets: www.riversidedt.com
December 1
Stafford County Tree Lighting Festival
Community festivities begin at 6 PM.
George L. Gordon, Jr. Government Center1300
Courthouse Road, Stafford, VA 22554
Welcome the holiday season with Stafford
County’s 3rd annual Tree Lighting Festival held at
the George Gordon Government Center on Friday,
The magic of the evening will include holiday
musical performances, artisans and crafters,

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family-friendly activities, food vendors and Santa.
Bring your family and friends to celebrate an
evening of festive holiday cheer.
See the shops that are open late, the street
performers, the map and more at
fxbgfirstfriday.com
EVENTS
December 1
FredVends Holiday Market at Hurkamp Park
5:00pm-9:00pm
500 William St, Fredericksburg
Join us for a holiday market in the park during
First Friday! The market will feature local artisans,
food, drinks, and live music! Free and open to the
public.
December 1
FXBG First Friday - Sip & Stroll
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
706 Caroline Street, Fredericksburg
FXBG First Friday happens every first Friday of
each month in downtown Fredericksburg. Walk
through the art galleries, shop in the stores that
are open late, listen to live music and
performances along the streets, ride the free
trolley through town to explore our city.
December 2
9th Annual Wee Christmas
Dollhouses & Miniatures Exhibit
Historic Kenmore
1201 Washington Ave., Fredericksburg
ENTRY FORMS DUE: NOVEMBER 18
DROP OFF DATE: DECEMBER 2
If you have a dollhouse, room box, covered
vignette, or unique miniatures display that would
wow spectators, that is no small feat!
This delightful event is inspired by Kenmore’s
replica dollhouse in the Crowninshield Building
Visitor Center. The exhibit runs from December 3-
30 and on January 5, 6, and 7 during Twelfth
Night at Kenmore. Each exhibitor receives four
free passes to the Wee Christmas exhibit at
Historic Kenmore and the Gingerbread House
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Contest & Exhibit at George Washington’s Ferry
Farm. Questions? Email learn@gwffoundation.org
or call 540-370-0732.
December 2
Rain Date: December 9
46th Annual Christmas Parade
(Spotsylvania, VA)
For Details:
https://www.spotsylvania.va.us/1939/46th-
Annual-Christmas-Parade-1222023
December 2
FXBG Winter Wine Festival
11:00 AM to 4:00 PM
Fredericksburg Fairgrounds, Airport Avenue.
Get out of the COLD and join us INSIDE our
heated buildings for an amazing day of VIRGINIA
WINE. Check out and sample some Award-
Winning WINE. $. To purchase tickets:
www.eventbrite.com/e/fxbg-winter-wine-festival-
2023-tickets
December 2
Fredericksburg Christmas Parade
Starts at 5:30pm
706 Caroline Street, Fredericksburg
This year’s theme is “Christmas Under the Sea.”
The parade is held along Caroline and Princess
Anne Street in Downtown Fredericksburg. Come
early & stay late!! Enjoy downtown shops &
restaurants before & after!
December 2,3,4
FXBG Holiday Craft Show
9:00am-5:00pm
Fredericksburg Convention Center, Carl D Silver
Parkway, Fredericksburg
Celebrate the season with gifts for yourself or
loved ones in this festive shopping experience
featuring local artists and vendors. Shop 250+
local shops and vendors featuring quality, handcrafted
holiday décor, home goods, jewelry, bath
and body products, gourmet delights and more.
The Show will be decorated to get you in the
holiday spirit! We will have holiday music
playing, a bar set up, and many aisles – to walk
and shop!
December 3
Fredericksburg Blue and Gray Half Marathon
7:30am-11:00am
Old Mill Park
Don't miss out on the 23rd anniversary of this
December tradition. Race along the banks of the
beautiful Rappahannock River and through
historic Fredericksburg on your way to completing
one of the most memorable half marathons
Virginia has to offer. All participants will receive a
long-sleeve technical t-shirt and finisher medal!
December 3 - 30
37th Annual Gingerbread
Contest & Exhibit
Ferry Farm
268 Kings Highway, Fredericksburg
On December 4, judges will select 1st through 3rd
place ribbons and prizes in each level. Exhibit
visitors will select a People’s Choice during the
month of December. The winner will be
announced on Ferry Farm’s social media at 5pm
on December 30. A plaque will be awarded to the
People’s Choice winner. Questions? Email
learn@gwffoundation.org
or call 540-370-0732.

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EVENTS
December 9
Frosty 5K and Reindeer Run
9am-11am
Embrey Mill Park
Run or walk with us on December 9th on a scenic
5K course along the rolling hills of Mine Road in
Stafford, VA. Kids 12 and under can join the fun
in the 1 Mile Reindeer Run! Costumes always
encouraged - we've seen Santas, Olafs, reindeer,
and snowmen! Bring on the holiday cheer! All
finishers will receive a long-sleeve race t-shirt and
custom finisher's medal. This race benefits
Gwyneth's Gift Foundation.
December 9 - 10
Rappahannock Model Railroaders Annual
Christmas Train Show
9:00am-5:00pm
21 Cool Springs Rd, Fredericksburg
The show will feature operating train layouts,
model train vendors, and activities for the young.
Location: Fraternal Order of Eagles Lodge #4123,
21 Cool Springs Road, Fredericksburg, VA 22405
Dates:
Saturday – December 09, 2023 – 9am to 5pm and
Sunday – December 10, 2023 – 10am to 4pm.
Cost of admission: Adults $10; Youth aged 13-17,
$5; Children 12 and under free.
Club members will be available to answer your
questions regarding model railroading and our
club’s activities. We are a non-profit organization,
and our Christmas Show enables us to provide
displays at activities such as scouting, museums,
local community events and care facilities.
See our web site at www.rmrailroaders.com/ for
further information and directions to the Eagles
Lodge. Facebook:
www.facebook.com/RMRailroaders/
December 16
Sounds of the Season
2:00pm-3:30pm
1019 Princess Anne St, Fredericksburg
The Chamber Chorale of Fredericksburg presents
holiday classics along with the traditional carol
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WINE & DESIGN FREDERICKSBURG
Wine & Design is the perfect place to
unwind and have fun. We offer a range
of affordable private and public paint
and sip parties for all ages, groups and
talents. From girls nights out to
birthday parties, work events to date
nights, Wine & Design has you covered.
What’s better than toasting to a good
time with friends? To us, not much.
Wine & Design is a fun way to create
memories and masterpieces. Bring your
friends or significant other and enjoy a
glass of wine during one of our twohour
classes. We’ll provide the
canvases and paint brushes as a local
artist guides you through the evening,
stroke-by-stroke.
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sing-along at 2pm and 7pm on December 16th.
Tickets are available in advance or at the door.
ccfbg.org
December 16
Downtown Cookie Tour
4:00pm-8:00pm
December 16
Historic Fredericksburg Holiday Walk
3:00pm-8:00pm
620 Caroline St, Fredericksburg
Start at the Italian Station Coffee Shop between
3:00 PM and 5:00 PM and finish by 8:00 PM. We
will offer a group walk at 3:30 PM or you may
walk on your own. Walk free, or $3.00 for
AVA/ICC credit. The Fredericksburg Walking Club
is celebrating the holiday season with a 5K or 10K
walk at your own pace through historic
Fredericksburg. Join us for the lights and sights of
the season and enjoy the beautiful holiday
decorations. We will have a checkpoint with
homemade goodies from 4:00 PM – 6:00 PM.
Contact fredericksburgwalkingclub@gmail.com
for questions or more information.
JANUARY
January 17th through 31st,
February 1st through 25th
Riverside Center Presents: Jersey Boys
Meal: 11:30am, Show: 1:30pm
95 Riverside Parkway, Fredericksburg
The musical EVERYONE has been waiting for!
With phenomenal music, memorable characters,
and great storytelling, Jersey Boys follows the
fascinating evolution of four blue-collar kids who
became one of the greatest successes in popmusic
history. Winner of Best Musical at both the
Tony Awards® and Olivier Awards®, Jersey Boys
takes you behind the music of Frankie Valli and
The Four Seasons to discover the secret of a 40-
year friendship as the foursome work their way
from the streets of New Jersey to the heights of
stardom. Enjoy electrifying performances of charttopping
hits including “Sherry,” “Big Girls Don’t
Cry,” “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You,” “Dawn,” and
“My Eyes Adored You,” which brought The Four
Seasons the highest honor: induction into the
Rock ‘n’ Roll Hall of Fame Content .Warning:
Jersey Boys contains strong language.
Wednesday Matinees
11:30am-12:45pm: Meal Service & Light Fare
Offerings
12:45pm: Show Only Arrival
1:30pm: Performance Start
Thurs. – Sat. Evenings
5:30pm-6:45pm: Meal Service & Light Fare
Offerings
6:45pm: Show Only Arrival
7:30pm: Performance Start
Sunday Matinees
1:00pm-2:15pm: Meal Service & Light Fare
Offerings
2:15pm: Show Only Arrival
3:00pm: Performance Start
For details and tickets:
https://www.riversidedt.com
KINGDOM FORCE ACADEMY
Kingdom Force Academy, a Christian private
school in Fredericksburg, VA, for middle and
high school students, offers multiple options
to parents: in school instruction full time or a
Hybrid model or virtual with mandatory in
person tutoring every Friday. For all other
children ages 9 – 16 we offer tutoring in
person or virtually due to distance. We also
offer English as a Second Language for kids!
OPEN ENROLLMENT. Come see the KFA
Difference: a new era in Christian education!
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Brian R. Schobel, CPA
Are you looking for a trusted
business or tax advisor who will help
plan and mold your financial future?
Hello, I am Brian Schobel, a Certified
Public Accountant serving clients in
the Fredericksburg area. My work
ethics are impeccable and shine
through in my work as does my
commitment to integrity, objectivity,
and competence.
I take pride in helping clients
achieve their goals. With years of
accounting and business experience,
my team and I provide strategic
insight using various tools and
reporting techniques to help drive
revenue, reduce overall expenses,
and increase client profitability.
We are QuickBooks experts,
providing tax preparation and
planning.
If you are interested in a free
consultation to discuss your financial
future, reach out to me directly by
email at brian@bookkeepingbrian.com
or call my cell phone at (610) 568-
5008.
Reach out to me today... for a
partnership that will help you
achieve your financial dreams.
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THE ALLSTATE COMMUNITY THEATER
A Manfredi Insurance Family Gift to Fredericksburg
If you are a part of Fredericksburg, then you know Live Theater is the town thing. An all new
venue with experienced talent has entered the arena. The all-new 6,000 sft, 200 six level seating,
overlooking the massive 45ft stage, known as the Allstate Community Theater of Fredericksburg, a
$250,000 gift from Manfredi Insurance Group to the theater community. Located at 810 Caroline
Street, the new theater has professional sound and lighting, nostalgic concessions-stand, serving beer
and wine as well.
Ray and Cathy Manfredi created this wonderful space with the theater community in mind. After
COVID hit the area so hard it was clear to the family that many theater groups had to cancel shows and
survive on reserve funds. Prior to COVID these same actor troupes struggled to find venues to put on
shows, typically resorting to school stages, library meeting rooms, or other available space at a
premium that was both costly and counterproductive to putting on a great show.
The Manfredi’s decided they would build a multi-purpose shared resource facility where any
theater group in the area could come and use and share in the resources of the professional grade
lighting, sound, and stage scenery, without the cost. The Allstate Community Theater is managed by
Stage Door Productions (established 1999) and works closely in partnership with Fredericksburg Theater
Ensemble (established 2011). In addition, groups like, Fredericksburg Institute for the Performing Arts
(Workshops and Classes), Keep Your Heart Ministries (Spiritual Concerts), Children’s Playhouse Theater,
Late-Night Karaoke, and other groups use the facility as well, keeping the stage active all year round.
In fact, this year alone, there will be close to 22 full-length productions (plays or musicals) on the stage,
or about two per month.
At the new theater you can see amazing plays, comedies, dramas, and even some thoughtprovoking
edgy theater. In addition, the community will have access to workshops and classes for all
ages, both youth and adult, for theater related fields, including acting, costuming, improv, light and
sound training, set design and constructions, as well as many other avenues of skill building. Any
budding artist or seasoned professional looking to take on new challenges should look here for skill
building opportunities.
Although shows for the most part are live productions, they also have a large projections screen
and will have some classic and edgy films in the after dark program. First up is Rocky Horror Picture
Show during Pride Week.
Still to come at the facility is a small Children’s Workshop Theater Stage, a Dance Studio, and new
Dressing Rooms, and Fully Loaded Green Room with all the things a star needs to get ready before a
show. The project is far from complete, but the results this far are amazing. If you have not yet visited
the new theater, you must do so. You can find tickets to most of the shows at
Www.AllstateCommunityTheater.org, but check back often because every two weeks more
performances are added to the annual schedule. On sale now are tickets to Annie Jr, Improv Live,
and A Christmas Carol – the latter runs for three weekends in December and
always sell out so reserve early.
Bottom line – if you like live theater, you will love this new theater, the
Allstate Community Theater, a gift from Manfredi Insurance to our historic
community, located at 810 Caroline Street Fredericksburg. If your performance or
professional group needs a venue to hold a meeting or put on a show, contact
ray@stagedoorproductions.org. Please contact Manfredi Insurance Group at 877-
971-8830, if you would like to thank the agency for supporting Fredericksburg arts.
Ray Manfredi
Completed seating tiers
Ray Manfredi, primary benefactor,
putting primer down on the
seating tiers.
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Auditorium and stage as set for the production
Over the River and Through the Woods

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HOW IS YOUR ORGANIZATIONAL CULTURE?
My client who was a newly appointed vice president was given the mandate to “change the culture of
the organization.” This organization experienced frequent leadership changes at the senior levels. The
members from different groups often struggled to work together. The organization had some dedicated
individuals who made extraordinary contributions but, overall, the organization was known for missed
deadlines and a lack of innovation. This client wanted to create a unified, high performing team. The desire
for culture change like this is not unique and achieving it is not easy.
Culture describes an assortment of unique qualities in a group that passes from one generation to the
next (Kotter & Heskett, 1992). We see culture in the way a group dresses, speaks, celebrates, and interacts
with each other and with outsiders. As new members enter the group, the group shares its culture through
formal training, and rewarding or discouraging behaviors according to the group norms. You can see various
cultures in groups of pilots, accountants, military, and construction trades. Culture helps a group hold its
identity.
Culture goes beyond these visible aspects and exists at a deeper level within a group’s traditions, values,
and beliefs. Values give a leader the greatest opportunity to influence an organization’s culture. Values assist
us in decision-making by establishing the rules and priorities we use to guide our choices. A technology
company may value innovation and being the first to market new technologies. To be first, the organization
may be willing to go to market before the product is perfect. These values may be fine for a gaming company,
but they are not acceptable for an aviation manufacturer.
I worked with a large warehouse retailer that emphasizes safety as one of their core values, not simply
something they practice. For example, every associate, no matter the position, is trained to speak up when
they see a safety concern and to present process improvement ideas to the organization.
Richard Daft (2002) tells us that in organizations with a strong leader, culture is most often the reflection
of the values a leader demonstrates most clearly. Those values serve to shape the culture as the group
members align their values with the organization’s values. Shared values increase the group member’s
motivation and sense of effectiveness within the group. When you think of some of the greatest sports teams,
who consistently excelled year after year, it was because the coach held the players to a set of values. John
Wooden, the famous UCLA basketball coach, led his teams to ten national championships, seven of them in
a row. Those victories were the product of a deliberate culture that the coach passed on to many of his players
and coaching staff (The Pyramid of Success, 2023).
When leaders don’t take care of the organization’s culture, the culture becomes weak. Weak cultures
have unclear norms and behaviors are confusing. Weak cultures are often difficult places to work because the
inconsistencies lead to unclear expectations and poor alignment between individuals' values and the
organizational culture (Warrick, 2017). Over time, group performance declines as group members begin to
work to their own standards. As standards break down, motivation and commitment also follow suit. Weak
cultures also create opportunities for sub-cultures to emerge. Sub-cultures often prove counterproductive as
groups compete for resources.
Back to the VP. He knew that since an undesired culture had established itself, changing it would be a
challenge. We worked together on a plan that would begin to change the corporate culture. First, the
leadership team had to create a new vision for the organization that focused on what is most important to
the organization, their values. Then specific strategies for achieving that vision, including changing the
culture, were created. The change in culture had to start at the top of the organization and work its way down
into the workforce. Since most people resist change, the leadership needed to make a compelling case for
change and create a sense of immediacy. The leadership team gathered key influencers from the workforce
to help evangelize the change process. Employees were rewarded for behavior that positively contributed to
the organization’s culture and performance. The vice president has since moved to another organization and
the change process is still underway. If you are interested in addressing culture in your organization, I would
love to work with you to facilitate that change.
Lou Kelley is a Leadership Coach, and owner of THE HONING STONE, LLC who resides in the
Fredericksburg, VA area. He is a retired Marine and civil servant, a graduate of Regent University with
a Master’s in Organizational Leadership. He and his wife have been married for over 26 years and
they the proud parents of three amazing young adults.
Lou.Kelley@thehoningstone.com • www.thehoningstone.com
References
Daft, R. L. (2002). The Leadership Experience. Mason, OH: South Western.
Kotter, J. P. (2012). Leading Change. Boston: Harvard Business Review Press.
Kotter, J., & Heskett, J. (1992). Corporate Culture and Performance. New York, New York: The Free Press. Retrieved from
https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=pWudzigl0ucC&oi=fnd&pg=PR7&ots=PKECvolghj&sig=rC4WDBcysw0poqKHf31KyhKhqMM#v=onepage&q&f=false
Kouzes, J. M., & Posner, B. Z. (2017). The Leadership Challenge (6th ed.). Hoboken, New Jersey: John Wiley & Sons.
The Pyramid of Success. (2023, September 3). Retrieved from The Wooden Effect: https://www.thewoodeneffect.com/pyramid-of-success/
Warrick, D. D. (2017). What leaders need to know about organizational culture. Business Horizons, 395-404.
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by Lou Kelley

TRAVEL
& TOURISM
TROLLEY TOURS OF FREDERICKSBURG is the city’s only tour that includes historic
homes, attractions and the famous Sunken Road: site of the Battle of Fredericksburg.
Thirty-five monuments, markers and attractions are included in the tour along with the
Confederate and Federal Cemeteries and America’s Oldest Masonic Cemetery. Tickets
are available online. Information also can be found at the Downtown Fredericksburg’s
Visitor Center, located at 706 Caroline Street.
Wine tours include shuttle bus transportation, tasting fees at three
wineries, a boxed lunch and bottled water.
Learn more at www.fredericksburgtrolley.com/wine.
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TRAVEL & TOURISM
FredericksburgGuidebook.com
Ride a Luxury Bus on a Progressive
Meal at Five Downtown Restaurants
Appetizer
Soup and Salad
Pasta • Entrée • Dessert
Check us out on
fredericksburgguidebook.com
for more details on participating restaurants
To book your ticket call
540-899-5353
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TRAVEL & TOURISM
WASHINGTON HERITAGE MUSEUMS
Step into the Age of Revolution at Washington
Heritage Museums. Tour the home of George
Washington's mother, Mary. After learning about
her life, explore the verdant gardens and visit the
museum store. Discover the era's medical
practices at the Hugh Mercer Apothecary Shop.
Crab claws, spider webs, and herbs each served
a purpose in healing Fredericksburg's residents.
Step into the Rising Sun Tavern to acquaint
yourself with period travel and entertainment in
what was originally the private home of George
Washington's brother, Charles. Complete your
day with a visit to the Mary Washington
Monument.
Mary Washington House – 1200 Charles St.
Hugh Mercer Apothecary Shop – 1020 Caroline St.
Rising Sun Tavern – 1304 Caroline St.
Mary Washington Monument – 1500 Washington Av.
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Love Your
Home Again
by: Pam Kuper
Your home is a reflection of your personality, taste, and
style. While it's tempting to rely on cookie-cutter designs and
trends, there's a unique charm in using your own furniture and
decorations to change the look of your space. By infusing your personal touch, you can create a warm, inviting
atmosphere that truly feels like home. In this article, we'll explore how changing wall paint colors, adding new
curtains, and incorporating throw pillows can help you achieve a fresh, personalized look.
Personalized Wall Paint Colors: One of the most effective ways to transform your home's ambiance is by
changing the wall paint colors. Rather than opting for generic shades, choose colors that resonate with you
and reflect your personality. Whether you prefer calming pastels, bold and vibrant hues, or timeless neutrals,
your choice of paint can set the tone for the entire room. By selecting colors that make you feel comfortable
and inspired, you'll create a space that genuinely feels like your own.
Curtains as Statement Pieces: Curtains play a crucial role in defining the atmosphere of a room. They not
only control natural light but also add a touch of elegance and style. Invest in curtains that match your
aesthetic – whether it's luxurious drapes, bohemian prints, or minimalist sheers. By selecting curtains that
resonate with your taste, you'll enhance the overall look and feel of your home. You can even switch them
out seasonally to keep things fresh and exciting.
The Power of Throw Pillows: Throw pillows are versatile and cost-effective tools for transforming your living
space. These small accessories can introduce texture, color, and personality into a room. Experiment with
different shapes, sizes, and patterns to create a layered and visually appealing look. Mixing and matching
throw pillows allows you to change your decor seasonally or whenever you crave a new vibe in your space.
Plus, they provide the perfect opportunity to incorporate your favorite colors and motifs.
Personalized Decorations: Personalized decorations are the heart and soul of your home's interior design.
Family photos, artworks, heirlooms, and souvenirs tell your unique story. Display these items strategically to
create a space that feels deeply personal and meaningful. Whether it's a gallery wall of cherished memories
or a collection of vintage finds, these decorations will turn your house into a home with character and history.
Evolving with Your Style: The beauty of using your own furniture and decorations is that they can evolve
with your changing tastes. Unlike trendy, mass-produced decor, your personal items hold sentimental value
and adapt to your style over time. This flexibility ensures that your home remains a dynamic and ever-evolving
reflection of your personality and interests.
Monica McClellan, owner of White Willow Staging and Design recommends rearranging your furniture.
Sometimes all it takes is a new arrangement of your existing furniture to give a room a fresh look. Also, switch
around your accessories. If you have a collection of artwork, vases and other decorative items, try moving
them to new spots around the house. Lastly, she recommends repurposing everyday objects. There are endless
possibilities for repurposing old items. For example, you could use old books to make a coffee table riser.
The idea is to use what you have and save money so that you can use that money for home
improvement projects such as upgrading a kitchen or bath or putting a new roof on your home. Your return
on those items will provide a terrific return on your home when you are ready to sell.
Infusing your home with your own furniture and decorations, including personalized wall paint colors,
curtains, and throw pillows, allows you to create a living space that is uniquely yours while saving money.
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VIDA CUSTOM PRINTING
Vida Printing offers unique and reliable printing to customers. We stand for
customer satisfaction by ensuring that ideas for your project come to life. Vida
printing offers a wide variety of products, from t-shirts and cards for your business to
banners, posters and more. We have made a statement to provide the work of the
highest quality. Let us bring your vision to life!
Vida Custom Printing is a local print shop in Fredericksburg, VA that offers the
print services that you need - from screen printing to custom sign printing &
more.Whether you're coaching a little league team or making plans for your annual
family reunion, Vida Custom Printing is the place to get screen-printed t-shirts,
hoodies and more in Fredericksburg, VA. Our local print shop offers everything from
sign printing and vinyl wrap printing to embroidery services. We can also print posters
and business cards to help you advertise for your company.Call 703-719-2031 now
or stop by our local shop for more information about our printing services. We'll be
happy to give you a free quote.
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Healthy Generations Area Agency on Aging;
Nobody teaches you how to age, but we can guide you along the way.
Most people don’t know what an agency on aging is
or how much one can help as we grow older. Whether it be for
you, your spouse, mom and dad, or friends and neighbors, there
are approximately 622 agencies on aging covering the entire
United States addressing the needs and concerns of all older
persons. The Rappahannock Area Agency on Aging, Inc., a
private non-profit corporation was organized in July 1976,
under the code of Virginia. In November of 2016, the agency
became known as Healthy Generations Area Agency on Aging
or HGAAA for short. HGAAA, functioning as the Area Agency on
Aging for the City of Fredericksburg, and the surrounding
counties of King George, Caroline, Spotsylvania, and Stafford, is
supported by federal, state, and local funding, grants from the Mary Washington Hospital Foundation and the
Community Foundation of the Rappahannock River Region, as well as private donations and client
contributions.
Area Agencies on Aging have the responsibility for developing services to meet the needs of those 60
years old and older, their families and caregivers. Through the years HGAAA has provided programs such as
Weatherization Assistance which guaranteed safe household heating systems, as well as making a home more
energy efficient and putting money back into the owner’s pockets rather than into heating bills; the Indoor
Plumbing Program that brought first time indoor plumbing to households without such. Can you even imagine
not having running water in your house? Since 1976, HGAAA has increased the number of people it serves
and the programs provided to the community.
With its mission of enhancing the quality of life for all older citizens, the agency sets out to assist those
remaining in their homes, or what we’ve come to call Aging in Place. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention defines aging in place as: “the ability to live in one's own home and community safely,
independently, and comfortably, regardless of age, income, or ability level.” Older Americans Act programs
speak to the Social Determinants of Health categories of health behaviors, environmental and physical
influences, and social and economic factors. What an agency on aging cannot address are the genes you
inherit and the health care you choose to receive. Let’s break down just how Healthy Generations Area Agency
on Aging accomplishes its mission.
Healthy behaviors include proper nutrition, personal care, and evidence-based wellness programs, as
well as home health and healthy transitions from medical facilities. Programs in place such as the Home
Delivered Meals Program can provide proper nutrition to those who are home bound and can’t prepare their
own meals. The Homemaker Program assists in keeping a home sanitary and provides necessary errands for
those who are unable to accomplish such tasks. This program alone has provided the ability for many clients
to remain in their homes with light housekeeping, dusting and vacuuming, changing bed linens, doing laundry
and completing grocery shopping that allows clients to remain independent longer. Evidence based wellness
programs are provided by HGAAA and include topics that address balance, exercise and management of
chronic diseases such as diabetes, high blood pressure, and COPD. The Long-Term Care Ombudsman program
works to resolve problems related to the health, safety, welfare, and rights of individuals who live in LTC
facilities, such as nursing homes, assisted living facilities, and community-based care. Ombudsman programs
promote policies and consumer protections to improve long-term care services and supports at the facility,
local, state, and national levels. Transitions of living situations can be guided by caring staff who are trained
in resources available to the community. Healthy Generations’ newest program provides vouchers for fresh
fruit and vegetables bought at local Farmers Markets. All of these programs work together to provide healthier
ways to age.
40% of all social determinants of health fall under the socioeconomic heading. These include items such
as socialization at an agency Senior Café, transportation, emergency services assistance to prevent utility
cutoffs or other financial emergencies, and Medicare insurance counseling. Did you know that as a health
issue, social isolation is the equivalent of smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Attending a senior center prevents this;
join us for better health.
Services are available to those aged 60 or older, with the exception of the training/employment program which
is available to income eligible citizens aged 55 or older. Information and guidance are available to all. There are
many more services to talk about and we’d love for you to look at our website, www.healthygenerations.org,
or call us at 540-371-3375 to learn what Healthy Generations can do for you.
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by: Patricia Holland, Executive Director

SPRING ARBOR SENIOR LIVING
Here at Spring Arbor, we lead with
heart. Residents enjoy an engaging and
active lifestyle that promotes
independence and wellness in this
premiere senior living community in
Fredericksburg. Residents have many
opportunities to participate in a variety
of life enriching activities and events
designed to stimulate the mind, body,
and soul; from word games, art
activities, and book clubs to one of our
signature Wise & Well fitness exercise
classes. To learn more about Spring
Arbor Senior Living and to schedule a
tour, please call 540-548-2133.
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SENIOR LIVING
.
Gifting Our Treasures
Years ago, as a very special Christmas present, my
grandfather gifted me his mother’s China. Nothing fancy,
just pieces he and his brother would purchase at the local
supermarket when they were boys and give to her on
special occasions. I will never forget the day my
grandfather gave me this China. He gifted me probably his
most treasured possession and the love on his face for both
me and his mother will be forever etched in my mind.
I often hear children and grandchildren tell their
parents/grandparents they do not want any of the family
keepsakes. My advice is to do it anyway. Feel free to break
up sets of China and furniture and give your family a piece
of you. Gifting memories can bring joy to families and
smiles to both gift giver and receiver.
As for me, it’s not the China but the memory of this
special time with my grandfather and his past that is
perhaps my most treasured possession..
Written by,
Kimberly Moulds
Smooth Transitions Fredericksburg
STFBURG.com • 540-847-2131
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LODGING
HAMPTON INN & SUITES
Hampton Inn & Suites at Fredericksburg South
(I-95, Exit 126) is the area’s address for stylish
and comfortable lodging. With 121 guest
rooms and suites, our guests will enjoy
exceptional service and amenities to make
their stay a home on the road. Start your day
with the On the House (tm) Hot Breakfast and stay
connected with our free wireless high speed
internet. For your convenience we have
electronic check in & key from your phone.
Choose from standard rooms, executive king
rooms with microwave and refrigerator, or
spread out in a spacious guest suite. There are
meeting rooms ranging from 600 to 1200 sq.
ft., as well as an on property fitness center and
an indoor pool. Find us off exit 126, I-95, 10
minutes from downtown. We're close to
history at Downtown Fredericksburg and
Spotsylvania National Military Park and the
sprawling entertainment, shopping, and dining
of Central Park retail complex. Call us at 540-
898-5000 for reservations and more
information.
COUNTRY INN & SUITES
Country Inn & Suites is located on Rt. 1 off
I-95 at exit 126. This luxury inn is centrally
placed between Historic Downtown
Fredericksburg and Spotsylvania's
Southpoint & Cosner's Corner Shopping
centers. Convenient, comfortable, and
always accommodating, and welcome to
the Country Inn Suites. They offer a hearty
breakfast, spacious affordable non smoking
rooms, and friendly personable staff.
Hosting a meeting or special event? They
have space for up to 170 guests, and a
professional staff to assist with planning
and set up. They have coffee and fresh
baked cookies 24 hours a day. Take a dip in
their large indoor pool with spa. Fitness
room and business center are also on site.
All rooms are equipped with high speed
wireless internet, microwave and fridge.
They're pet friendly too! Come stay at The
Country Inn And Suites and they'll show you
what hospitality is all about.
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Scouting gives young people the opportunity to explore a world beyond the boundaries of
everyday life. It presents them with chances to try new things, make friends, provide service to
others, build self-confidence and develop leadership skills. These experiences help Scouts while
they are young, and stay with them throughout their adult lives, helping them to grow into
exceptional men and women who respect their families, communities, religions, country and
themselves. They learn to Be Prepared. For Life.
Scouting has lots of different programs and age-levels:
Cub Scouts – year-round
program for young boys and
girls ages 5-10 and their families
Venturing – year-round program
for young men and women ages
14-20 (or 13 and have completed
8th grade)
Scouts BSA – outdoor program
to develop character, citizenship,
leadership, and fitness for boys
and girls ages 11-17
Sea Scouts – year-round program
for young men and women ages
14-20 (or 13 and have completed
8th grade) – nautical adventures
on and in water
Exploring – Real-World, Hands-on Career Discovery – for young men and
women ages 14-20 (or 13 and have completed 8th grade)
Scouting happens in a “unit” – a Cub Scout Pack, a Scouts BSA Troop, a Venturing Crew,
an Explorer Post, or a Sea Scout Ship. To LEARN MORE and FIND A SCOUT UNIT near you
please visit BeAScout.org and explore the map, email BeAScout@NCACBSA.org or call 301-
530-9360.
The National Capital Area Council was organized in 1911 and today stands as one of the oldest and largest councils in
America. The Council territory includes the District of Columbia; Frederick, Montgomery, Prince George’s, Calvert, Charles, and
St. Mary’s counties in Maryland; and in Virginia the counties of Arlington, Fairfax, Prince William, Loudoun, Fauquier,
Spotsylvania, Caroline, King George, Stafford and Culpeper as well as the independent cities of Alexandria, Falls Church, Fairfax,
Manassas, Manassas Park and Fredericksburg.
The mission of the BSA is to prepare young people to make ethical and moral choices over their lifetimes by instilling in
them the values of the Scout Oath and Law. The Aquia District is part of the National Capital Area Council (NCAC) of the Boy
Scouts of America (BSA). The Aquia District includes Stafford County, Virginia, and Marine Corps Base Quantico. For more
information on Scouting in the Fredericksburg area, including how to donate, join or volunteer, contact Kristy Freeman,
District Executive, at Kristy.Freeman@Scouting.org or call Kristy at 540-267-3866. 33

RELOCATION
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COMMUNITY SERVICES
Alzheimer's Association, Greater Richmond Chapter
2217 Princess Anne Street, Suite 106-1F
Fredericksburg, VA 22401
(540) 228-1502 • Website: www.alz.org/grva/
American Red Cross
4836 Southpoint Pkwy., Fredericksburg, VA 22407
Phone: 540-373-5176 Fax: 540-373-0500
Website: rappahannockarea.redcross.org
Birthright of Fredericksburg, Inc.
2006 Lafayette Blvd., Suite 202, Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Phone: 540-898-8558 HOTLINE: 1-800-550-4900
Website: www.birthrightoffredericksburg.com
Boys and Girls Club of the Rappahannock Region
200 Gunnery Road, Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Phone: 540-368-9531 Fax: 540-368-9537
Website: www.bgcrr.com
Fred. Area HIV/AIDS Support Services
415 Elm Street, Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Phone: 540-371-7532 X10 • Fax: 540-371-8446
Website: www.fahass.org
Legal Aid Works
500 Lafayette Blvd, Ste 100, Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Phone: 540-371-1105 Website: legalaidworks.org
A nonprofit organization that provides free civil legal services
to low-income individuals and groups within the city of
Fredericksburg and sixteen counties in the Rappahannock
River watershed.
Lloyd Moss Free Clinic
13011 Sam Perry Blvd., Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Phone:540-741-1061 • Website: www.mossfreeclinic.org
Loisann’s Hope House
902 Lafayette Blvd., Fredericksburg VA 22401
Phone: 540-371-0831 • Website: Loisannshopehouse.org
New Life For Youth Men's Ranch
1500 Log Cabin Road, Beaverdam, VA 23015
Office-804-448-2750
New Life For Youth Mercy House (Women's Home)
2915 Broad Rock Blvd., Richmond, VA 23224
Office-804-230-4485
Rappahannock Area Council
For Children and Parents
www.RACCAP.ORG, 540-785-6217
Educating Parents With Continuing Support Around A Free Dinner
Rappahannock Big Brothers Big Sisters
325A Wallace Street, Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Phone: 540-371-7444 Fax: 540-371-7445 • www.rbbbs.org
Rappahannock Refuge, Inc.-Hope House
902 Lafayette Boulevard, Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Phone: 540-371-0831 • Website: www.hopehouseva.org
Safe Harbor Child Advocacy Center
540-891-6280, www.safeharborva.org
Brief description: Since 2008, Safe Harbor Child Advocacy
Center has addressed child abuse and neglect in our community
through the identification and coordination of education,
intervention, and advocacy services.
SERVE
15 Upton Lane, Stafford, VA 22554
Phone: 540-288-9603 • Fax: 540-288-9599
Vets on Track Foundation
www.VetTrack.org • www.facebook.com/VOTFoundation
Federal EIN: 46-3805203 • Virginia State ID: 07697485
Coverage Area: Northern Virginia, Richmond and the
Hampton Roads area. Mission: We furnish homes for veterans
and first responders who are transitioning into permanent housing
from living on the streets. We provide everything from furniture
and accessories to dishes, bath towels and art for the walls. We
turn empty houses into warm inviting homes.
Vet’s Retreat Virginia, Inc.
Military, First Responders, Family, Volunteers
Taking action to confront and reduce persistent challenges in
our Service community: depression, PTSD, substance abuse
and suicidal thoughts.
Vetstretreatvirginia.org info@vetsretreatvirginia.org
UMFS
Unwavering champions for children & families
1320 central Park Blvd. Suite 310, Fredericksburg, VA. 22401
540-898-1773 • UMFS.org
The Thurman Brisben Center
Located at 471 Central Road, Fredericksburg, has been providing valuable
services for the community since 1987; and is the only emergency
homeless shelter in all of Planning District 16, which includes the City of
Fredericksburg and the counties of Caroline, King George, Spotsylvania
and Stafford.
The Center serves men, women and children and is classified as a programmatic facility which offers homeless
individuals and families an on-site safe and structured program to help them achieve and maintain selfsufficiency
and independence.
For more information on the Thurman Brisben Center and National Hunger and Homelessness Awareness
Week please visit our website at www.brisbencenter.org.
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GENERAL RELOCATION INFORMATION
CABLE TV
Cox Cable (540) 373-6343
Servicing Fredericksburg & S. Stafford
Comcast Cable TV (540) 395-3289
Servicing Spotsylvania & N. Stafford
ELECTRICITY
Dominion VA Power (888) 667-3000
Rappahannock Electric Co-op (800) 552-3904
Northern Neck Electric Co-op (800) 243-2860
FREDERICKSBURG VISITOR’S CENTER
706 Caroline Street (540) 373-1776
FREDericksburg Regional Transit
www.RideFRED.com. (540) 372-1222
NATURAL GAS
Columbia Gas (800) 543-8911
Commonwealth Gas Service (540) 898-2817
Commonwealth Propane (540) 898-0357
Foster Fuel & Cool (540) 898-2151
RADIO
Q95.9 and Thunder 104.5 (540) 891-9696
LaPositiva 1350 (540) 361-1278
Bluegrass 89.5 FM (540) 582-9700
POST OFFICE
Fredericksburg (540) 370-0948
600 Princess Anne Street is open 8:30am-5pm Monday -
Friday and 9am-2:30pm Sat. 24 hours access to PO boxes
and stamp machines.
Falmouth (540) 373-8860
On U.S. 17 near the England Run Shopping Center. Open
8:30am-5pm Monday - Friday and 9am-1pm Saturday.
Spotsylvania (540) 582-5151
7420 Brock Rd. in the Courthouse area. Open 8am-5pm
Monday - Friday and 9am-1pm Saturday.
Stafford (540) 659-4775
on Rte 1 next to Aquia Terrace. Open 8am-5pm
Monday - Friday and 9am-1pm Saturday.
RECYCLING CENTER
www.fredericksburgva.gov/publicworks/recycle.asp
TELEPHONE
Verizon (540) 954-6222
VOTER REGISTRATION
Spotsylvania (540) 582-7124
Stafford (540) 658-4000
Fredericksburg (540) 372-1030
WATER & SEWER
Fredericksburg Utility (540) 372-1182
Stafford Utility (540) 658-8616
Spotsylvania Utility (540) 898-4096
FredericksburgGuidebook.com
RELOCATION
RELOCATION
Guide
Tell Them That The
Guidebook Sent You!
Entertainment & Recreation
Special Services
Coupon Available
Ad Page
Map Page
Grid No.
Description
1781 Brewing Co. 540-842-0199 Y 84 39 N1 84
11109 Plank Road
A. Smith Bowman Distillery 540-373-4555 86 39 K9
1 Bowman Drive
Meyer Fine Art 914-391-0608 3 37 E6 62
1015 Caroline Street
Paragon Theater & Penny Lanes 17 39 L6
51 Towne Center Blvd.
Pots and Palettes 540-373-7046 Y 6 39 N8 58
10655 Spotsylvania Ave
Rush Hour Live Escape Games 540-684-6695 Y 9 39 L5
1 Towne Centre Blvd, Ste 3100
Selfie Social, LLC 540-823-1277 13 39 K6 13
1277 Emancipation Hwy
The Allstate Community Theater 23 36 D5
810 Caroline St • allstatecommunitytheater.org
Trolley Tours of Fredericksburg 540-898-0737 25 36 C5 25
Urban Air Adventure Park 1 39 M4
4254 Plank Road 540-684-3354
Visitor’s Centers
Fredericksburg 540-373-1776 26 36 C5
706 Caroline Street
Spotsylvania 540-507-7090 26 39 O8
4704 Southpoint Parkway
Stafford 540-654-1015 26 38 I6
224 Washington Street
Washington Heritage Museums 27 27
Mary Washington House - 1200 Charles Street 37 F4
Hugh Mercer Apothecary - 1020 Caroline Street 37 E5
Rising Sun Tavern - 1304 Caroline Street 37 F5
Mary Washington Monument
-1500 Washington Ave. 37 G3
Wilderness Presidential Resort Y 2 39 N1 8
9220 Plank Road • 540-972-7433
Wine & Design Fredericksburg 19 36 C6 19
502 Sophia Street 540-809-0899
BRS, CPA 571-444-5032 21 39 N1 21
11205 Arbor Mill Ct,
Central Park Insurance 540-891-1160 12 39 M8
2609 Lafayette Blvd
Damsel in Defense 540-379-3585 49 48
www.stunninglyprotected.com
Doxa Design Lab. www.doxadesignlab.com 14 14
Fredericksburg Convention Center 7 39 K5
2371 Carl D. Silver Pkwy 540-548-5555
Junkman Joey 540-419-8258 16
junkmanjoey.com
Leading Eagles, Bill Hughes 571-318-1601 8 8
www.leadingeagles.com
Legacy Tactical & Arms 571-330-42999 87 37 E6
921 Caroline Street
Lori Bonnell, NextHome Stellar Realty 44 39 J7
2800 Princess Anne St 540-993-2800
Manfredi Insurance Family 888-971-8830 23
Off Leash K9 Training 888-413-0896 41 37 E6 41
1013 Caroline Street
One Stop Painting & Handyman Services 8
540-294-1755
Pam Kuper, Reator - Century 21 3
571-242-7621
Robin Gaita, Simpson Properties 18
757-870-5474
Scott Cleveland, ReMax 540-371-2211 6 38 I6
107 Carter Street
Spring Arbor Senior Living 540-548-2133 31 39 K5 31
5308 River Road
Spotsylvania Towne Center 540-786-6660 5 39 L5 49
The Village at Towne Center
137 Spotsylvania Mall
The Bibb Agency 15 37 H5 15
2217 Princess Anne Street 571-349-9069
Tippin Tins 703-565-7297 63 63
www.tippintins.com
Vida Custom Printing 703-719-2034 29 29
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Historic Old Town Fredericksburg
No. Grid Place
Fredericksburg Visitors Center
Built in 1824 by Anthony Kale.
1 E-5 Fredericksburg Baptist Church
2 C-1 Brompton
3 D-6 Center for Creative Arts (Silversmith House)
4 E-7 Chatham
5 E-3 City and Confederate Cemeteries
6 C-5 Courthouse (1852)
7 E-7 Ferry Farm
8 E-5 Fredericksburg Area Museum
9 B-1 Fredericksburg Battlefield Visitors Ctr
10 D-5 George Washington Masonic Museum
and Masonic Lodge
1
2
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No. Grid Place
11 E-5 Hugh Mercer Apothecary Shop
12 F-3 Hugh Mercer Monument
13 E-5 James Monroe Museum
14 F-3 Kenmore Plantation
15 G-3 Mary Washington Grave & Monument
16 F-5 Mary Washington House
17 D-4 Masonic Cemetery (1784)
18 D-5 National Bank Museum
19 B-1 National Cemetery
21 D-5 Presbyterian Church
22 C-1 Richard Kirkland Monument
23 F-5 Rising Sun Tavern
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Spottswood Street
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6
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No. Grid Place
24 A-6 Rocky Lane & City Dock
25 D-5 St. George’s Church
26 F-5 St. James’ House
28 G-3 Thomas Jefferson Religious
Freedom Monument
29 D-6 The Card Cellar
30 C-2 The Sunken Well
31 E-6 Off Leash K9 Training
32 E-6 R&R Antiques
33 E-6 Legacy Tactical & Arms
34 H-5 Lori Bonnell,
NextHome Stellar Realty
35 H-5 The Bibb Agency
36 D-6 Favor
37 D-5 Fredericksburg Cupcake
38 E-6 Goddess Grove
40 C-6 Brocks Riverside Grill
No. Grid Place
41 B-5 The Alpine Chef
42 B-4 Colonial Tavern
43 D-5 Jabberwocky Children’s
Books and Toys
44 D-5 Latitudes
45 D-6 Soup & Taco Etc.
46 E-2 Soup & Taco II
47 D-6 Abner B’s Ice Cream
48 E-5 Made In Virginia Store
50 C-6 Wine & Design
Fredericksburg
51 D-5 Spirits
52 E-5 CoolCat Cupcakes
53 D-5 City Vino
54 E-6 Capital Ale House
55 H-5 Suad’s Majles
No. Grid Place
56 C-5 Visitor’s Center
57 C-5 Trolley Tours of Fredericksburg
58 D-6 Fredericksburg Jeweler
59 E-5 Oldies But Goodies
61 E-4 Natural Mystics
62 B-1 Battlefield Restaurant
63 D-5 Allstate Community Theater
64 C-5 Gifted Boutique
65 B-3 Eats, A Burger Joint
66 E-6 Tapa Rio
67 E-5 Possum-bilities
68 E-5 The Dragon’s Den & Treasures
69 E-6 Meyer Fine Art
70 E-6 Renaissance & Rendezvous
71 C-5 Retro Relix
E F G H
University of
Mary Washington
61
52
34
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32 69 31 38
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55
66
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Stafford
STAFFORD LAKES
PKWY
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ROOKS
OAK
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G
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Exit 143A
GARRISONVILLE
ROAD
610
QUANTICO
MARINE CORPS
BASE
P R I N C E
W I L L I A M
C O U N T Y
F A U Q U I E R
C O U N T Y
GARRISONVILLE ROAD
612
610
EXIT 143
R A P PA H A N N O C K
C U L P E P E R
C O U N T Y
I V E R
R A P I D A N R
HOPE ROAD
MINE ROAD
R
I V E R
SHELTON SHOP ROAD
630
ROAD
COURTHOUSE
Exit 140
ROAD
COURTHOUSE
C A R O L I N E
C O U N T Y
613
EXIT 126
630
630
607
208
95
208
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601
EXIT 118
601
EXIT 140
630
608
95
EXIT 133
EXIT 130
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BYP
BYP
MOUNTAIN
AQUIA LANDING
PARK
LAKE ANNA
L O U I S A
C O U N T Y
Local Outdoor Fun
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DOC STONE
GARRISONVILLE ROAD
610
Exit 143A
GARRISONVILLE ROAD
NORTH
STAFFORD
610
HOPE
MINE ROAD
Exit 140
VIEW ROAD
ROAD
COURTHOUSE
RAMOTH CHURCH RD
1
2
630
ROAD
Embrey Dam
Old Mill Park
Falmouth Beach
Brooks Park
Pratt Park
Alum Springs Park
City Docks
Virginia Outdoor Center
Motts Landing
ESKIMO HILL
1
MOUNTAIN
STEFANIGA
VIEW ROAD
OLIVE ROAD
MOUNT
95
KELLOG MILL ROAD
POPLAR
ROAD
ROAD
1
2
3
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5
6
7
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9
Motts Reservoir Maury
Playground
BROCK
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12
Memorial Creation Park
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I V E
CHURCH
ROAD
TRUSLOW
For
Location
of Downtown
ROAD
P L A N TAT I O N D R
BEREA
BUS
17
ROAD
DEACON
INTERNATIONAL PKWY
WARRENTON ROAD
WHITE
Merchants
Pick Up A
Walkin
WY
VIEW ROAD
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STAFFORD
1. D3 Cinnaholic
2. D3 Abner B’s Ice Cream
3. I6 Stafford Visitor’s Center
5. I6 Scott Cleveland, ReMax
6. I6 Amy’s Cafe
FREDERICKSBURG
11. K6 Selfie Social LLC
12. K5 Fredericksburg
Convention Center
13. K5 Wild Birds Unlimited
14. J7 My Casa Restaurant
15. L6 Hexes and Healing
16. J6 Renee’s Crepes & Cakes
17. K6 Fred Vegas Bins
18. L6 Reclaim Arcade
19. K5 Nothing Bundt Cakes
20. J7 Fredericksburg Co-Op
21. K9 A. Smith Bowman Distillery

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DOCK
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WILDERNESS
ATTLEFIELD
MOTTS
RESERVOIR
MOTTS
LANDING
9
Spotsylvania
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32
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29
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30
40
LORIELLA
PARK
36
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CORNER
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Battlefield
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FER
UTLER RD
RIVER
ROAD
RAPPAHANNOCK RIVER
DRIVE
RUN
SANFORD
CHATHAM
BRIDGE
CAROLINE STREET
PRINCESS ANNE STREET
OLD
TOWN
See map
pg. 32
4
FERRY ROAD
COOL SPRINGS
CHATHAM
HEIGHTS RD
5
CELEBRATE VIRG
BLVD
LAFAYETTE
AVE.
RAPPAHANNOCK
DIXON
FALL HILL
ST
TIDE
LANDSDOWNE ROAD
BRAGG ROAD
LAFAYETTE BLVD
63
620
639
University
of
Mary
3
2
STREET
Washington
AND GREY PARKWAY
Mary
Washington
Athletic Field
WILLIAM
17
BUS
BLUE
1
BUS
3
KINGS
GREENBANK ROAD
ROCKY
J
11
AMELIA ST
12
Virginia
Welcome
Center
Mary
Washington
Hospital
639
Fredericksburg
ROAD
Exit 130
RIVER
1
ROAD
SALEM CHURCH
FURNACE MINE ROAD
706
610
95
HARRISON
ROAD
620
NK ROAD
HO OD DR
ROAD
95
95
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Joseph Mills Dr
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636
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BYPASS
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PLANK
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Exit 126
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LEAVELLS ROAD
SMITH STATION
208
ROAD
ROAD
ROAD
CHURCH
CATHARPIN ROAD
Q
ROAD
SE ROAD
NNA PARKWAY
ROAD GORDON
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
22. J7 Lori Bonnel,
NextHome Stellar Realty
25. J7 Mason Dixon Café
SPOTSYLVANIA
26. N8 Pots and Palettes
27. N7 Hard Times Cafe
28. M8 Central Park Insurance
29. K5 Spring Arbor Senior Living
30. L5 Rush Hour Live Escape Games
31. O8 ar-ti-fact
32. M4 Durango Grill
33. N1 BRS, CPA
34. N1 Wilderness Presidential Resort
35. N1 1781 Brewery
36. L5 Spotsylvania Towne Center
The Village at Towne Center
37. P8 Country Inn and Suites
38. O8 Spotsylvania Visitor’s Center
39. O8 Hampton Inn & Suites
40. L6 Paragon Theater
& Penny Lanes
41. M7 Mi Tierra Taco & Grill
42. M7 Lisa’s Finders Keppers
43. M4 UrbanAir Adventure Park
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Wilderness Battlefield
May 5-6, 1864
This conflict introduced Union
General, U.S. Grant to Lee in
battle. Even though the battle
ended in a stalemate, Grant
pressed southward, “On to
Richmond”
CIVIL
BATTLEG
of Fredericksburg,
Chancellorsville
Battlefield
April 27 - May 6, 1863
Action in the battle included a
spectacular military maneuver by Lee
and his most trusted subordinate,
Stonewall Jackson; but the day ended
in calamity when Jackson was fatally
wounded by his own troops.
Spotsylvania Battlefield
May 8-21, 1864
On the most direct route to Richmond,
lay the crossroads at Spotsylvania
Court House, where warring troops
engaged for 2 weeks, including 20
hours on May 12 in the most intense
hand-to-hand fighting of the war at
the “Bloody Angle”.
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WAR
ROUNDS
potsylvania & Stafford
Stafford Civil War Park
400 Mount Hope Church Rd, Stafford
(not shown on map)
Opened in April 2013 and is the site
of 1863 winter encampments and
fortifications of the Union Army’s
11th Corps, 1st and 3rd Divisions,
following the December 1862 Battle
of Fredericksburg.
Fredericksburg
Battlefield
December 11-15, 1862
Called Lee’s most one-sided
victory, the Battle of Fredericksburg
focused on the Stone Wall at
Marye’s Heights.
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JACKSON’S MOON
By Erik F. Nelson
On May 2, 1863, near a place called Chancellorsville in Spotsylvania County, a near full
moon rose shortly after sunset. A few hours earlier, a Confederate attack led by Stonewall
Jackson had come crashing out of the woods near Wilderness Church and rolled up a poorly
deployed Union corps. The attack had been stunningly successful, but the assault formations
inevitably lost cohesion during an advance of more than two miles. The well-lit landscape,
however, provided the Southern command with a rare opportunity to consider pressing the
advance into the night.
While line officers hastily regrouped their tired fighting men, Jackson used the
favorable visibility to ride forward and reconnoiter. He knew the Union army was also
rallying and wanted to strike before it could consolidate a new position. During this pause
in the fighting, the Southern foot soldiers were not aware their commander had gone ahead
to scout the terrain. When a group of horsemen approached from where the Yankees were,
backlit by the bright moon, the Southern infantry opened fire.
Captain Francis A. Donaldson was a Union soldier at Chancellorsville and described
the night Jackson was shot as follows: “The night was a glorious one, the full moon shining
brightly and making objects quite distinct in the surrounding woods. An occasional cloud
would now and then obscure it, only to make its rays more brilliant as they again burst forth
and illuminated the forest.”
Historians writing of that spring battle have not consistently made clear the
atmospheric conditions during the period when Jackson’s flank attack lost momentum.
James I. Robertson’s biography of Stonewall Jackson (1997) for example, presents seemingly
conflicting statements. The author notes how on the night of May 2, 1863, “the full moon,
unencumbered by clouds, bathed the Wilderness in a silvery light (p. 726).” On the preceding
page, however, he writes that “it was dark when Lane reached the Plank Road (p.725).” On
the next page, he recounts that “sounds became audible some 200-300 yards in the pitchblackness
ahead (p. 727).” The “pitch-blackness ahead” could have meant the shadows cast
by the moon, but the author does not say that.
In 1996, Blue and Gray Magazine published an article detailing the exact time of sunset
and moonrise that day at Chancellorsville. Donald W. Olson and Russell L. Doescher,
professors at Southwest Texas State University, had developed a program that calculated
atmospheric conditions on specific dates in the past and they revealed that the conditions
on May 2, 1996, were going to replicate those of May 2, 1863. The National Park Service
invited visitors to the Chancellorsville battlefield that evening, to see what those conditions
looked like on the ground. Nearly 200 people availed themselves of that unusual
opportunity.
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Near the site where Jackson was shot, the moon came up 41 minutes before sunset on
May 2, 1996, just one minute earlier than it had on the day of Jackson’s flank attack. On both
days, the moon’s face was 99 percent full. That night in 1996 revealed just how bright the
woods west of Chancellorsville had been when Jackson rode toward the Federal lines. The
experience became perhaps the closest someone could get to a precise Civil War moment.
Jackson surely realized that the moonlit landscape made it feasible for Southern troops
to press forward after sundown. George Washington once wrote that “favorable moments, in
love as in war, once lost, are seldom regained.” The bright night appears to have beckoned
to the aggressive Jackson as his favorable moment, to be seized and exploited. What might
have been, however, got cut short by a volley of musketry.
Note: Sun and moon data for specific days and places in the past is now readily available
from the Naval Observatory. A website at https://aa.usno.navy.mil/data/RS_OneDay can
be
1 Franics A. Donaldson, Inside the Army of the Potomac: The Civil War Experience of Captain Francis A.
Donaldson, ed. I Gregory Acken (Mechanicsburg: Stackpole Books, 1998), p. 241.
2 James I. Robertson, Jr., Stonewall Jackson: The Man, The Soldier, The Legend (Simon & Shuster MacMillan:
New York, 1997).
Erik Nelson was a planner with the City of Fredericksburg for 32 years and is now a consulting urbanologist.
He holds a graduate degree in history from the University of California, Santa Barbara.
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45

The Most Valuable Weapon We Have Is Our Awareness
by Montana (Leo Damone) Hairston
I recently had the pleasure of meeting a young
lady by the name of Samantha. After introducing
herself in one of my personal protection classes she
proceeded with an emotional explanation of why she
was there in hopes that her testimony would help
someone in the room. She began by telling us that she
lives a momentous lifestyle which was comfortable for
her until she encountered a strange man who had
followed her home one evening after work. She
described the encounter as the scariest moment of her
life as she stood face to face alone with a stranger. She
said she remembered thinking he probably knew my
name, obviously my address, and possibly what time I
would leave in the morning and come home in the
evening. As she stood in the class with tears in her
eyes, she pleaded for every woman in the room to get
serious about their personal safety. This moment
changed the lives of everyone in the room that day,
including mine. My hope is that her testimony helps
motivate you to elevate your state of awareness.
It’s no secret, crime is on the rise and every time
we tune into media platforms there are reports of
more and more victims whose lives have been ravaged
by criminals! The stories we hear tend to seem like
pages from fiction novels until it hits close to home.
Unfortunately, we can never predict if or when we
might meet evil face to face but being aware can mean
the difference between life and death.
What Does Awareness Really Mean?
Awareness in simple terms, to be
knowledgeable, concerned about or well informed of
your surroundings. Many mistake paranoia for
awareness but there is a huge difference! People who
are paranoid typically worry because of a knowledge
deficiency and lack of planning. Safety and awareness
aren’t some mystical art that requires years of military
or police caliber training. Awareness is simply
equipping yourself with the knowledge you need to
recognize dangers that are present around you every
day. Much like Samantha many of us get caught up in
our daily routine and neglect the obvious hazards that
are right around us all along.
Nonverbal cues are often the first sign of bad
intentions.
Always look confident, make eye contact, and
limit distractions like phone usage while in public
places.
If your eyes are on your phone, they can’t be on
a possible threat approaching you. Making eye contact
and looking confident will often make a perpetrator
think twice about messing with you because they are
looking for an easy target not a fair fight!
You Recognize Room For Improvement
- Now What?
The next step is understanding the dangers that
exist around you every day and formatting a plan of
action in the event you are face to face with an
encounter. Being able to recognize a threat before it
engages can provide you with valuable moments
needed to activate your P.S.P (personal safety plan) The
average engagement happens within a 3 sec window
within a 3-yard radius. Deploying a P.S.P should always
start with retreating or deescalating. If neither of these
two options are possible and you can’t hide from the
attacker, you must be ready and willing to fight
because your life could depend on it. Keep in mind, not
every encounter is firearm worthy! Layering your
protection with an OC spray, taser/stun gun or some
other form of less than lethal weapon in conjunction
with your firearm if you choose to carry one would be
a great idea. If you can get away without pulling out or
using your firearm you will save yourself from
unnecessary criminal and civil charges, thousands in
lawyer fees, and possible long-term trauma.
At this point many of you have been wondering
what happened to Samantha's attacker. Fortunately
for her, a neighbor was leaving their garage and the
noise scared him off and he hasn’t returned. She knew
she needed to prepare herself in the event he showed
up again thus her urgency for training, knowledge, and
a P.S.P. I hope her experience pushes your sense of
urgency to live in a heightened state of awareness. We
can only pray that favor falls on our side like Samantha
and if it doesn’t may preparedness be your grace!
Here are a few tips to help improve
your awareness:
Alternate your departure/arrival times and
alternate travel routes to and from destinations that
you travel too often. This not only can throw someone
off who is following you but it helps raise a red flag if
you are seeing the same person/vehicle on different
routes and at different times.
Be conscious of behavior (body language),
mannerisms (nervousness), and aggressive tones that
seem unsettling. Trust your instincts!
If something feels off, it usually is. I would rather
you trust your gut and be wrong about a threat than to
not trust your instincts and walk into a bad situation!
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By: Montana (Leo Damone) Hairston - USCCA (United
States Concealed Carry Association) and NRA
(National Rifle Association) Safety Instructor

Are You Hurting Your Success?
by John F. Gillespie, Jr.
In our pursuit of excellence, we often find ourselves trapped
in a paradoxical predicament: the more we value the stakes and
outcomes, the more unnecessary pressure we put on ourselves,
inadvertently sabotaging our performance results and potential for
success. This phenomenon, rooted in psychological intricacies and
societal expectations, has far-reaching implications across many
areas of our lives.
The Psychology Behind Self-Imposed Pressure: The desire
for success and the fear of failure are natural human motivations,
but when taken to extreme levels, they can lead to self-imposed pressure. The fear of not meeting
expectations, whether from ourselves or others, triggers a cascade of anxiety and stress. This can
subsequently hinder our cognitive functioning and decision-making processes, leading to suboptimal
performance. Paradoxically, the very pressure we inflict upon ourselves to enhance performance becomes
a stumbling block in our path to success. Understanding this concept can help reduce pressure and anxiety,
increase authenticity and confidence, lower desperation signals, and give you a relaxed demeanor.
Example 1: Academic Performance
Consider the scenario of a student preparing for a crucial exam. They recognize the importance of the test
in determining their academic future, which fuels their desire to excel. However, this increased importance
can lead to more pressure. The student may adopt a perfectionistic approach, setting unrealistically high
standards. As a result, anxiety and fear of failure may impair their ability to focus during study sessions,
disrupt their sleep patterns, and even trigger a mental block during the exam itself. Consequently, their
performance suffers, and the desired success becomes increasingly elusive.
Example 2: Professional Presentations
In the corporate world, the pressure to deliver outstanding presentations can hinder professionals'
performance. The knowledge that a presentation could influence a promotion, business deal, or reputation
can lead to a cycle of overthinking and self-doubt. This excess pressure can lead to stumbling over words,
forgetting key points, and projecting nervousness to the audience – all of which detract from the
presentation's effectiveness.
Reducing Self-Imposed Pressure: Strategies for Success: While the phenomenon of self-imposed
pressure is deeply ingrained, there are strategies that individuals can employ to mitigate its negative effects
and enhance their performance when the stakes are high.
1. Embrace Realistic Expectations: Setting achievable goals is vital. While aiming for excellence is admirable,
striving for perfection can set us up for failure. Acknowledging that no one is infallible and that mistakes
are part of the learning process can alleviate unnecessary pressure. Setting specific, measurable, and
attainable goals provides a clear roadmap to success without overwhelming oneself.
2. Mindfulness and Self-Compassion: Practicing mindfulness helps ground us in the present moment,
reducing anxiety about the future outcome. Additionally, cultivating self-compassion enables us to treat
ourselves with the same kindness we would offer a friend. This perspective shift allows room for mistakes
and fosters resilience, ultimately enhancing performance.
In conclusion, the paradox of self-imposed pressure on performance is a multifaceted phenomenon
that affects individuals across various aspects of their lives. The desire for achievement is natural, but when
combined with unrealistic expectations and societal pressures, it can lead to suboptimal outcomes.
Recognizing the detrimental effects of excessive pressure is the first step toward a solution. By adopting
strategies such as embracing realistic expectations and practicing mindfulness and self-compassion,
individuals can alleviate the burden they place on themselves and enhance their performance in
situations where success is paramount. Ultimately, by navigating the delicate balance between
ambition and self-care, individuals can redefine success and achieve their goals without sacrificing
their well-being.
Submitted by John F. Gillespie Jr., CEO Exemplar llc.
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The Importance of Situational Awareness for Personal Safety:
Enhancing Decision-Making and Risk Prevention
by Lori Knowles
In today's rapidly changing world, personal safety has become a top priority for individuals.
Whether navigating through crowded city streets, traveling to unfamiliar places, or simply going about
daily routines, being aware of one's surroundings and understanding the dynamics of a given situation
can significantly enhance personal safety. Situational awareness plays a crucial role in empowering
individuals to make informed decisions, identify potential risks, and take proactive measures to protect
themselves. This article emphasizes the significance of situational awareness in personal safety and
explores strategies to develop and maintain this vital skill.
Responding to Emergencies:
In critical situations, situational awareness can be instrumental in responding effectively and swiftly.
By actively observing their surroundings, individuals can identify signs of emergencies, such as fires,
accidents, or acts of violence. This awareness enables individuals to take appropriate action, such as
alerting authorities, evacuating the area, or providing aid to those in need. Being situationally aware
enhances the ability to remain calm and make quick decisions during high-stress situations, potentially
saving lives.
Personal Security Measures:
Situational awareness complements personal security measures, reinforcing their effectiveness.
While employing security measures like locks, alarms, pepper spray, stun devices, or self-defense
techniques is essential, being situationally aware enhances their overall impact. By combining personal
security measures with situational awareness, individuals can proactively assess vulnerabilities, adjust their
behavior accordingly, and identify potential weaknesses in their security strategies.
Developing Situational Awareness:
Developing situational awareness requires deliberate effort and practice. Here are some strategies
to enhance personal situational awareness:
a. Mindful Observation: Cultivate the habit of actively observing your surroundings, paying
attention to details and changes in the environment. Be suspicious of people loitering on the
streets or near the entrance to your home or office. Look around before your leave or enter any
space, such as your car, home, office, elevator, or any building. Be aware of exits, emergency
resources, and potential risks.
b. Risk Assessment: Continuously evaluate potential risks in different environments and situations.
Consider factors such as lighting, people's behavior, and the overall atmosphere to identify
potential threats. Look for items and people that appear out of place. Do not touch anything that
is on your car or placed behind a tire.
c. Maintain a confident, alert mindset: Do not look like an easy target; walk tall and look others in
the eye, greet them; do not walk with earbuds in or with your head down looking at your phone;
if carrying a purse, use the cross-body strap; carry a self-defense item in your hand.
d. Maintain your personal space: Set your boundary’s and have a plan should someone violate
your space. If you are attacked, your options include: fighting, fleeing freezing, posturing,
and complying. Try to move away, but be prepared to take actions should you need to
defend yourself.
e. Information Gathering: Stay informed about the local area, crime rates, and potential hazards.
Utilize available resources, such as news, community forums, or safety apps, to understand
specific risks associated with different locations.
f. Trusting Your Instincts: Learn to trust your gut feelings and intuition. If a situation feels unsafe
or uncomfortable, it is important to take it seriously and take appropriate action to ensure
personal safety.
g. Practice Scenarios: Engage in mental exercises or simulations that simulate potential safety
Situational awareness is an indispensable skill for personal safety in an increasingly complex world.
By being attentive to your surroundings, recognizing potential risks, and making informed decisions, you
can significantly enhance your safety and well-being. Developing and maintaining situational awareness
requires consistent practice and a proactive mindset. By embracing this skill and integrating it into your
daily practice, you can navigate various environments with confidence, reduce vulnerabilities, and ensure
your personal safety.
For more information or to schedule a safety training for your group or organization,
please send an email to LoriLKnowles@stunninglyprotected.com
Lori has been a Safety Educator and representative with Damsel In Defense since 2021. She retired from Stafford County Fire and Rescue
Department and continues to serve the community by volunteering with a local Rescue Squad. Lori’s mission is to help you PROTECT
yourself, PREPARE for the unexpected, and to help you PREVENT violent crime.
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THE CARD CELLAR
No more running around crowded malls
- get all your gifts in one convenient
location at The Card Cellar. Visit their
expanded store on 915 Caroline Street
in the historic downtown area of
Fredericksburg, VA. For years they have
been known for their sports store and
still have the widest variety of sports
collectibles in the area. Now they are
also extending their talents to include
an eclectic mix of gifts for men and
women.
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LISA’S FINDER’S KEEPERS BOUTIQUE
(WHERE YOU GO TO GET THE GOOD
STUFF)
Antiques & Vintage Pretties, Retro,
Weird Stuff, Cool Junk. If you’re
looking for a unique one-of-a-kind gift
for that special someone in your life,
then Lisa’s Finder’s Keepers Boutique is
your one stop shop! Come Check Out
All Our Treasures! We offer pay by
phone & free local delivery. Layaway,
& gift certificates are available.
UNIQUE ANTIQUES MALL
Come and explore 25,000 square feet of
the Unique Antiques Mall. Find beautiful
artisan pieces, home décor (ranging from
mid-century modern to vintage retro)
and many kinds of collectibles. With
more than 140 vendor booths, you will
find everything you are looking for.
Double your shopping fun by bringing
your furry friend with you. Pets are
always welcome. Unique Antiques Mall is
located at 9600 James Madison Pkwy, Rt.
301 King George, VA, 22485. Open 10
AM - 5 PM. Closed Tuesdays. 540-625-
2006.
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LATITUDES FAIR TRADE STORE
Latitudes features unique hand-crafted and
high-quality gifts including jewelry, clothing,
stone and wood carvings, housewares,
baskets, home décor, greeting cards, books,
toys, and seasonal items from around the
world!
We are a fair-trade store. Our mission is to
build relationships and ensure sustainable
incomes for marginalized artisans and
farmers around the globe. They are paid a
fair wage and are treated with dignity and
respect, working their way out of poverty
and difficult situations. This enables them to
provide for their families and make a better
life for themselves.
Make a positive difference in our world, the
environment, and the lives of others. Come
see the extraordinary craftsmanship of our
products and learn the stories behind the
artisans.
OFF LEASH K9 TRAINING
Joe Zitzelberger is the owner of Off Leash
K9 Training, Fredericksburg. They opened
OLK9 almost four years ago here in town
and have been voted Best Dog Trainers by
the Freelance Star three years in a row. Him
and his company have trained nearly 5000
dogs in the local area with many of them
being rescues. Joe and his team have also
trained several of the local pro athletes
dogs, to include Max Scherzer, Gio
Gonazalez, Anthony Rendon and many
more! He was recently featured alongside
Caitlin (Director of SPCA) in an exhibit at
the Fredericksburg Area Museum for the
work that we’ve done in the community.
Off Leash K9 Training, Fredericksburg has
two locations in the area, with the newest
one being in the heart of the city on
Caroline Street!
Shop for Good...
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Curated Gifts
Personalization
New Mom and Baby
Books & Journals
@giftedfxbg
Candles
and More.
GIFTED
SELF-CARE + GIFT BOUTIQUE
w ww.GiftedFxbg.com
(540) 681-1032
604 Caroline Street
Fredericksburg Va
GIFTED BOUTIQUE
A new addition to the Fredericksburg
community, Gifted Boutique is a specialty gift
shop with a focus on mindfulness and selfcare.
Everything from uniquely curated gift
sets to personalized items. You’ll find bath and
body products, books, various novelties,
loungewear and much more. We aim to make
gifting a fun and meaningful experience for
everyone. Should you seek a gift for someone
special we hope you also find a little
something for yourself. Located at 604
Caroline Street, Downtown Fredericksburg.
THE DRAGON’S DEN & TREASURES
The Dragon’s Den & Treasures is a small
family owned-business and a lifelong dream
fully realized. We offer an assortment of
goods, spanning from metaphysical tools to
colonial knick-knacks situated in historic
Fredericksburg! Naturally, we couldn’t
forget the abundance of dragon merch we
house in this fantastical shop! We have a
copious amount of crystals to choose from,
whether as a small gem to tuck away in
your pocket, fashion on your wrist, or a
hefty piece for an impressive display in your
home. Dragons store all sorts of goodies in
their dwellings; come take a little peek. The
Dragon's Den & Treasures is located at 1002
Caroline St., Fredericksburg, VA. 22401
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POSSUM-BILITIES
Possum-bilities is a fun and unique store
that is owned and operated by a
licensed wildlife rehabilitator. Whether
you want to treat yourself or that
someone special, we have beautiful
wildlife and nature-related gift items
and amazing local art from over 30 local
artists. We also value education, and
you can interact with a possum
Ambassador from our possum rescue,
Awesome Possumz, in the store
Thursday through Monday. We host fun
events (with possums) for kids and
adults. So come on in and explore the
Possum-bilities!
GODDESS GROVE
Goddess Grove was envisioned by a
mother and two daughters with the idea
of creating a beautiful environment full
of self-love, self-importance, and
empowerment. Also, with the idea that
it is important for women to be positive
sources of energy for one another.
Reminding women that self-care and
self-love is the route to a happy,
beautiful, and well-balanced life.
It is important that a woman never
forget her own value. She should never
forget to feed her inner Goddess.
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FRED-VEGAS BINS
Fred-Vegas Bins, we take the art of
shopping very seriously and strive to
make your experience as fun and
efficient as possible. We opened our
store for those who are always on the
lookout for that perfect product:
affordable, lasting, and usable. All
merchandise is sourced from high-end
retailers such as Amazon, Walmart,
Lowes, Home Depot, and Target. Our
team members are committed to
assisting you in finding the items you’re
looking for and are there for your every
need. We have a unique way of pricing
our items as shown below. Each item is a
set price each day. Come see us today!
LADY LEGACY
Lady Legacy brings classic style to
Fredericksburg with a modern twist.
Tops, bottoms, dresses and the most
unique accessories and handbags. Lady
Legacy also offers wardrobing, styling,
and special occasion dressing for your
next exciting event. So whether you are
looking to freshen your style or heading
back into the office, Lady Legacy can
help you feel and look your best with
outfits that will turn heads while staying
a classic! Stop by today to find out for
yourself all Lady Legacy has to offer.
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CITY VINO ~ YOUR WINE STORE
IN DOWNTOWN FREDERICKSBURG
City Vino is a boutique wine and gourmet
food shop in downtown Fredericksburg,
offering a variety of wines from around the
world. Their focus is on small production
wines that highlight the qualities of a
particular grape or region. The owner, Rita
Allan, has a passion for wine and a desire to
share that with Fredericksburg. City Vino
also carries a selection of gourmet food
products, gift baskets and other wine
related accessories.
JABBERWOCKY CHILDREN’S
BOOKS & TOYS
Jabberwocky Children’s Books and Toys has
been a delightful fixture of Downtown
Fredericksburg since 1985. Here you will
find so many things to tickle the
imagination of children of all ages; in fact,
people have been known to get lost for
hours while perusing the aisles! Games,
puzzles and books, of course, keep people
coming back year after year. Some of the
lines you will find here are Folkmanis
Puppets, Fat Brain Toys, Mindware, Melissa
& Doug and Jelly Cat. Books range from
toddler board books to edgy young adult
fiction. Be sure to check out their great
science section as well as the history
section.
THE MADE IN VIRGINIA STORE
The Made In Virginia has the best selection
of Virginia sourced and themed products!
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Visit us at 920 Caroline Street to browse
our unique array of gifts, souvenirs, wine,
and gourmet foods including Virginia
peanuts, ham, fudge, and so much more!
Gift baskets are available year-round to
send to your favorite Virginian or someone
that needs a little love from Virginia! After
all, Virginia is for lovers!
FAVOR CHOCOLATES
OF FREDERICKSBURG
Favor Chocolate Boutique specializes in
elegant chocolate gifts and decadent
chocolate treats, emphasizing high quality
ingredients and ethical sourcing. Guests at
Favor will find Neuhaus chocolates,
handmade in Belgium, and Cluizel
chocolates, handmade in France, as well as
artisan chocolates crafted by various
chocolatiers around the US. Also for sale
at Favor are original artworks created by
local artists, plus signed books by local
authors. We offer a variety of gluten-free,
soy-free, dairy-free/vegan, and/or organic
options. *Favor is not nut safe.* Some
chocolates are seasonal and our selections
change frequently, so stop by often to try
something new.
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RENAISSANCE AND RENDEZVOUS
Renaissance and Rendezvous ignite the
imagination for history. It provides
essential supplies and artifacts for
Renaissance Fair enthusiasts, Mountain
Men reenactors, Pow-Wow participants,
and Live Action Role Players. Renaissance
merchandise includes armor, swords,
knives, shields, and other weaponry like
mace and spears. Rendezvous focuses on
Mountain Men and American Indian trade
and includes furs, American Indian apparel
and jewelry, pottery, medicine wheels and
dream catchers, and American Indian
focused art. Specialty items include a
Pirate section, rocks and minerals, animal
skulls, and a great selection of authentic
Mexican Baja.
R & R ANTIQUES
R & R has a collection of individual dealers
with a wide selection of various items.
Located at 1001 Caroline Street, and voted
“Best Antique Mall In the Burg, 2019!,” it is
noted as the largest antique mall in Olde
Towne. Offering mahogany, cherry, oak and
walnut furniture, Civil War memorabilia, old
quilts, period clothing, vintage man cave
items, oil paintings, photography, glassware,
jewelry, old games, oriental fare, miniature
furniture, lots of vinyl, Blu-ray, CD’s and
DVD’s – there are many items
R & R has to offer.
POTS & PALETTES
Pots & Palettes pottery painting studio is a fun
place for the whole family to spend creative
time together! Just walk in to paint pottery or
get a mini lesson on the spot; no
appointments necessary. We also offer wheelthrowing
pottery classes. Have fun with
friends and family or paint that one-of-a-kind
piece for a loved one. See what's going on at
our website, www.potsandpalettes.com. See
ad on page 6.
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RECLAIM ARCADE
Reclaim Arcade is a unique retro-modern
entertainment venue merging popular
vintage arcade games and pinball of the
70s, 80s, and 90s with a modern
atmosphere serving food and craft beer,
wine, and cider. Take a step back in time
with 75+ games and growing, all on free
play. Day passes and membership options
available. Rent the party room for an
unforgettable birthday or rent the full
arcade for your next event. Visit
reclaimarcade.com to learn more!
SPOTSYLVANIA TOWNE CENTRE
Spotsylvania Towne Centre is the premier
destination for great shopping, great dining
and a great time, Located at the junction of
Interstate 95 and Route 3, Spotsylvania
Towne Centre offers an incredible array of
130 businesses. Popular names like Macy’s,
Belk, JCPenney, Dick’s Sporting Goods and
Costco anchor the enclosed mall. The
Village, an adjacent outdoor shopping
district, offers even more dining and
shopping options, Paragon Theatres, Penny
Lanes Bowling and a Residence Inn by
Marriott. (540) 786-6660.
www.spotsylvaniatownecentre.com.
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RETRO RELIX
We started our passion for vintage glass as
collectors. Our collection quickly grew past
the bookshelves in our living room. We
realized our dream to share our finds with
the Fredericksburg community, and opened
our doors in April 2023. We are not your
typical thrift store we offer more than just
vintage glass, we have retro home and
kitchen decor, trading cards, and sports
memorabilia. Retro Relix has a little
something for everyone, whether you want
to add to your collections or add some flare
to your home. You can find us at 610
Caroline Street or on IG:
@Retrorelix.fburg.va
HEXES & HEALING
While discovering my own spiritual path, I
felt pulled to help others discover their
own. Hexes & Healing is more than an
awesome Witchy Store, we welcome
everyone. Whether you are new on your
journey or seasoned in your craft. Let us
help provide the tools necessary to perfect
your practice. Everyone's beliefs are
respected and we hope you'll allow us to
be a part of your journey.
NATURAL MYSTICS
Started in 2001, Natural Mystics has
everything you are looking for in a modern
alternative smoke shop as well as being a
bit of a blast from the past. It is a funky
little counter-culture store featuring tiedyes,
tapestries, incense, aromatherapy,
healing crystals, jewelry, bumper stickers,
unique gifts, and novelties. Natural Mystics
also carries high-quality smoking
accessories like grinders, rolling papers,
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vaporizers, and the best of production and
heady glass pipes and pendants from local
as well as national artists. Come by and
check us out for some positive vibes and a
psychedelic shopping experience. One love!
OLDIES BUT GOODIES
ANTIQUES AND COLLECTIBLES
OBG Antiques' invites you to come visit
our 6,000 sq' ft Antique Mall. Located in
Downtown Fredericksburg Va - 918
Caroline St. We offer a variety of antiques,
memorabilia and vintage items. Such as:
Furniture, Military Items, Jewelry, Coins,
Toys, Albums, Signs, Books, Tools, Art and
MUCH, MUCH MORE... Dealer Discounts
Available... Open 7 Days / Fri-Sat Open
until 7pm. We look forward to seeing
you. For more information, please call 540-
370-1942.
FREDERICKSBURG CUPCAKE
Fredericksburg Cupcake opened it’s doors in
November of 2017. We started in 2010 as a
boutique cupcake shop located in Alexandria,
Virginia at 1022 King Street, between Patrick
Street and Henry Street. Due to popularity
and demand, we decided to expand our
operations to Fredericksburg, Virginia!
Fredericksburg Cupcake is a unique cupcake
boutique bakery located at 206 George
Street and one-of-a-kind! As you walk
through the front door, you will be greeted
with a unique decor consisting of a European
contemporary minimalist style. Gracing the
contemporary decor, the building adds a
warm eclectic touch. With its signature
colors throughout the boutique,
Fredericksburg Cupcake is sure to leave a
lasting impression. All of our cupcakes are
baked fresh every day! You will never have a
cupcake that has been refrigerated nor
leftover from a previous day, this is our
guarantee to you!
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NOTHING BUNDT CAKES
To find the perfect recipe for joy, you need
the perfect ingredients. That's what our
founders Dena Tripp and Debbie Shwetz were
for each other. In 1997, Dena and Debbie
founded Nothing Bundt Cakes in their Las
Vegas home kitchens, and it has since grown
to more than 430 bakery locations in 40+
states and Canada, offering a modern spin on
a classic treat. Select from 8", 10" and Tiered
Bundt Cakes all crowned with our signature
cream cheese frosting and perfect for all
types of celebrations. Our Bundt Cakes are
handcrafted in every bakery in a variety of
delicious flavors and sizes. To top it all off,
our bakeries offer a wide selection of retail
items, including party supplies, décor, and
gifts, making Nothing Bundt Cakes the perfect
one-stop celebration shop.
MEYER FINE ART OF VIRGINIA
Fredericksburg’s newest art gallery features
original American and European artwork.
Come see paintings and sculptures dating
from the 15th century to the mid 20th
century as well as a few contemporary
artists. We are located in downtown
Fredericksburg, at 1015 Caroline St. and are
open Wed.-Sat. 11am-7pm, Sundays 12-
5pm. We offer appraisals and
conservation services for art as well as
frames. At MFA of VA, we encourage and
teach stewardship of our past and present
but most of all, make it fun to collect it.
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FREDERICKSBURG FOOD CO-OP
The Fredericksburg Food Co-op is a fullservice
community-owned grocery store
located at 320 Emancipation Hwy,
Fredericksburg VA 22401. The focus of our
co-op is on locally grown and locally
sourced products. We offer a great selection
of organic and natural foods and non-toxic
wellness and household products. As a
community-owned cooperative, we make
decisions to maximize service to our owners
and our community. Striving to be a
gathering place for people and ideas as well
as a place to shop. Aiming to implement the
most environmentally sustainable practices
in all aspects of our operation and to join
others in working toward positive
environmental goals for our community. We
collaborate with other businesses and
entities in our community and put a special
focus on sharing best practices on nutrition,
wellness, and the benefits of moving toward
a more plant-based diet. Our success relies
on the broad support of both our owners
and the community.
TIPPIN TINS
Tippin Tins, is a 1992 double horse trailer
restored into a one-of-a-kind mobile bar that’s
a must have for any and every event. Big or
small, this trailer does it all! Equipped to hold
up to four full-sized kegs, our trailer packages
offer many different options and add-ons.
Have you ever seen a bar run completely off
solar panels? Tippin’ Tins solar panel feature
eliminates the noisy generators that reek of
gas. Love music? Tippin’ Tins has a complete
killer sound system, with an optional DJ
included in one of our packages. Tippin’ Tins
serves most of Northern Virginia at no
additional charge. Need to bring the party a
little farther? Send us a message and we can
accommodate at an additional fee. Pick a
package and contact us to begin booking a
unique and unforgettable experience for both
you and your guests!!
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Winter Survival Tips for Your Birds
When severe weather impacts wild food supplies, some species of birds will turn to bird feeders
as a critical food resource. It is during these times that feeders play their most vital role. If a storm is
of long duration or extreme impact, a feeding station may mean the difference between life and
death for these birds.
Freezing temperatures are only one factor that birds must overcome in order to survive winter.
Wind, storms and wet weather can also rob birds of their ability to stay warm, even at moderate
temperatures.
The most often overlooked winter survival challenge for birds is having to endure a long period
of darkness during a winter night.
Songbirds and other small passerines may use up 75-80% of their fat reserves in one winter
night. Their daily challenge is to find enough food to not only make it through each day, but to also
replace their fat reserves for the coming night -- all in the course of limited daylight hours.
WINTER SURVIVAL TIPS FOR YOUR BIRDS:
Feeders:
• Keep birds dry while they dine. Add a dome cover or hanging baffle to your feeders. Not only
will it help keep the squirrels out of your feeders, it can provide your birds some protection
from the elements while they are eating.
• Placing seed in a ground feeder entices birds such as sparrows, juncos, doves, quail, pheasants,
towhees and thrashers.
• Position feeders near cover but in the open to allow birds to watch for danger.
Food:
• During winter, consider changing some of the types of foods you offer to birds. Many nonmigratory
birds change their diets to replace insects and vegetation from the summer months.
Providing high calorie and high fat foods is important when temperatures drop.
• Suet is a high-energy, pure-fat substance which is invaluable in winter when insects are harder
to find and birds need many more calories to keep their bodies warm.
• Fat is the most concentrated energy source that a bird can consume and stored body fat is the
primary energy supply that fuels a bird between meals and through these long winter nights.
• On cold nights, sleeping birds need high calorie foods to keep their bodies warm.
• Seed/Suet Cylinders are a great option in winter! They last long and do not have to be filled
everyday like traditional feeders. They come in a variety of blends and suet that provide great
winter time calories and energy.
Heated Bird Baths / Bird Bath Heaters
• Birds need water in winter to help stay warm and to properly digest food.
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BROCK’S RIVERSIDE GRILL
Brock’s Riverside Grill is celebrating over 20
years of excellence and would like to thank
Fredericksburg for all your support over the
years. Brock’s is committed to exceeding
our guests’ expectations and continually
strives to improve. We believe our handcarved
steaks, fresh seafood and salads will
allow us to provide outstanding food and
service for years to come. Outside seating,
upscale dining, private rooms and a classic
long bar make Brock’s the place for any
occasion. From intimate dinners to wedding
receptions, rehearsal dinners, office parties,
birthday celebrations, etc., there’s no better
place than Brock’s.
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CINNAHOLIC
Our mission is to solve everyone’s dessert
cravings while having a positive impact
on the world. We’re proud to serve
create-your-own cinnamon rolls and
other sweet treats like made-from-scratch
brownies, cookies, and edible cookie
dough. Select from over 20 unique
frosting flavors and a variety of fresh and
decadent toppings for your cinnamon roll.
Mix and match flavors to create a new
experience every visit! We look forward
to serving you and your loved ones at our
Stafford, VA location!
COOL CAT CUPCAKES
Cool Cat Cupcakes specializes in baking
amazingly delicious cupcakes, that just
happen to be allergy-friendly and vegan.
The passion behind our business began
with the desire to make delicious treats
for our own children who have food
allergies. Our mission is to bake safe and
delicious cupcakes for EVERYONE to
enjoy. We are located in Downtown
Fredericksburg in a lovely little shop at
1000 Charles Street. Come in and enjoy
our mid-century atomic vibe, and try
what some have called the best
cupcakes you will ever taste. We also
take custom orders and are available for
catering. We recommend placing your
order as early as possible to secure your
desired date.
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HARD TIMES CAFE FOUR MILE FORK
Hard Times Cafe Four Mile Fork opened in
Fredericksburg October 2004 and is owned
and operated by Glenn Melvin. Hard Times
Four Mile Fork is a 14,000 sq. ft. restaurant,
sports bar, billiard room and the largest livemusic
venue in the tri-county area. The
establishment is a first-class sports-viewing
facility and live-entertainment venue that
attracts sports and music fans from near and
far. National touring music artists such as
Saving Abel, Fuel, Alien Ant Farm, Drowning
Pool, We Are Harlot, 10 Years, Nonpoint, The
Fighting Jamesons, Saliva and Confederate
Railroad have all played the Hard Times
stage. For more information visit
www.facebook.com/HardTimesCafeFour
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AMY’S CAFÉ
Amy’s Café sits on West Cambridge Street, on
the Stafford side of the Rappahannock River ,
under the Falmouth Bridge. Originally built
over 200 years ago the by America’s first selfmade-millionaire,
the historic building has
survived the Civil War and natural disasters
including several floods. Amy’s Café has
been open for almost 16 years, serving a
down-home style menu with charm.
SUAD MAJLES
Welcome to Suad's Majles, Suad is the
Owner and Majles is the Arabic word for
Living Room. So welcome to Suad's
Livingroom where you feel at home! Lots of
love, good vibes and happiness. Serving the
finest Bahraini unique Desserts, Coffee,
Salads, & Sandwiches. COME ENJOY SOME
TIME WITH ME.
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MY CASA RESTAURANT
A restaurant serving Salvadoran and
Mexican food near the University of Mary
Washington in Fredericksburg. My Casa
Restaurant is at 2018 College Avenue —
the former location of The General Store
Restaurant. They offer dine-in and carryout,
and plan to add delivery soon. They’re
open daily for lunch and dinner. The
delicious-looking menu features a variety
of pupusas, fajitas, entrees, soups,
quesadillas, tacos, enchiladas, burritos and
more. My Casa Restaurant now has a liquor
license.
MASON DIXON CAFE
Mason-Dixon proudly offers scratch made
breakfast, lunch, dinner and brunch that
can be described as southern comfort with
a twist! Breakfast is served all day
featuring delicious chicken & waffles,
omelets, pancakes, stuffed French toast
and much more. Lunch and dinner choices
include our gourmet burgers, sandwiches,
house-made soups & desserts. Check out
our daily specials on Facebook or
Instagram. We also have weekly specials
Monday-Friday, which include half price
hot dogs, Wine Wednesdays and kids
eating free!
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THE SUNKEN WELL TAVERN
The Sunken Well Tavern offers breakfast,
lunch, dinner and daily specials. Come dine in
a relaxing atmosphere as you watch sports in
HD or surf the internet on your laptop.
Hearty breakfasts, delightful lunches and
dinners to-go are all on tap at our
neighborhood oasis. For breakfast, try
chocolate chip pancakes or the New Jersey
Sunrise, which features ham, home fries,
eggs and cheese. When lunchtime rolls
around, choose from a large array of salads,
burgers, wraps and sandwiches, including a
Maryland crab cake sandwich served with a
choice of fries, onion rings or pasta salad. For
dinner, enjoy nightly specials. Call to find out
what they are tonight! Be sure to come on
down to The Sunken Well Tavern on
Littlepage Street, one block from Downtown
Fredericksburg. 540-370-0911.
ABNER B’S ICE CREAM –
FREDERICKSBURG AND STAFFORD’S
HOMETOWN CREAMERY - Established in
2011, Abner Butterfield’s Ice Cream proudly
brings the Fredericksburg region’s best
hand-dipped ice cream and frozen desserts
to 821 Caroline Street in downtown historic
Fredericksburg and to Stafford’s Embrey Mill
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Town Center at 1630 Publix Way. Abner B’s
has created over 400 ice cream, sherbet,
sorbet, and frozen yogurt flavors and hand
crafts ice cream fresh daily in both shops!
Over 90 flavors are signature creations
unique to our style of made fresh in shop
ice cream where the fresh cream flavor rises
to the top complimented by fruits,
chocolates, nuts, candies, and cookies. All
the classic flavors and variations plus local
favorites like Molasses Gingersnap, Banana
Pudding, Honey Orange, Cherry Vanilla,
Pecan Sandy, Cocochocochip, Cookie
Dough, Espresso Cookies and Cream,…and
too many others to count! 24 flavors served
daily in your favorite sprinkled cone or in
splits, sundaes, shakes, malts, frappes, and
ala modes. And while you’re at it, pick up a
pint or one of our ice cream pies from our
‘grab ‘n go’ freezer! Abner B’s - the “Dessert
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RENEE’S CRÊPES & CAKES
Get your taste buds ready for Renee's
Crêpes & Cake, a family owned and
operated business. Honoring French
tradition, we make each crepe to order. You
can watch as the chef use a wooden paddle
to spread the batter evenly across the
griddle. Then comes your choice of
toppings. From delicious sweet & savory
crepes to amazing homemade cakes,
sandwiches, pita breads, salads and soups.
Catering is also now available. There's
something for everyone. Bonn-A-Petite!
COLONIAL TAVERN...
HOME TO THE IRISH BRIGADE
This community cornerstone is known for:
a friendly staff, delicious Irish/American
fare, and cold Irish beer. The restaurant is
housed inside the original depot, of the
former Virginia Central Railway. New
employee owners: Michael Papapetrou and
Jared Gunter feel humbled that the
Colonial Tavern is voted among the “Best 8
Pubs in Virginia,” for the 2nd year. Visit for
Monday Night “Open Mic,” more live
music on Wednesday-Saturday nights and
some weekend afternoons. Sundays
feature brunch and free evening trivia.
Hours: Monday and Wednesday through
Saturday, 11:30 a.m. until midnight;
Sunday: 11:00 a.m. until 9:00 p.m. Food is
served until an hour before closing. Check
out the current menus and nifty
merchandise, at www.irishbrigadetavern.com.
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THE SOUP & TACO ETC.
A tradition in downtown Fredericksburg
both for college students and families.
Come in and enjoy a variety of tacos and
soups made from scratch using all fresh
ingredients. Fish Tacos voted “Top Notch”
by Northern Virginia Magazine. Also voted
“Best Tacos in Virginia” two years in a row.
You can also enjoy authentic dishes from
Mexico and Latin America. Enjoy good food
with a margarita, mojito or homemade
sangria. The Soup and Taco is family-ownedand-operated.
For more information, call
540-899-0969.
THE SOUP AND TACO II
The Soup and Taco II is located at 806
William Street. Come in and enjoy a great
margarita, a beer or a glass of wine in a
cozy and friendly atmosphere. There is a
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more extensive menu, including fajitas,
sandwiches and more Latin American
specials. Soup and Taco ll also has a cozy
patio.
TAPA RIO
Tapa Rio is a family-owned-and-operated
restaurant located in Downtown
Fredericksburg. The owners have worked
in the restaurant industry for over 20 years,
both in Virginia and DC. After many years
of working for others, they decided to
open their own restaurant in the heart of
Fredericksburg. They prayed for God to do
his work! If He wanted to give them the
opportunity to own their own place and let
the public taste their talents, then He
would let it happen. When they found
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and prepared daily. They cook to order and
are very passionate about their food. They
don’t just prep it or cook it for you, they
give each plate extra love. Tapa Rio has a
selection of wines from Chile, Argentina,
Spain and Italy. The menu is like no other
in Fredericksburg. Come visit the
beautifully remodeled restaurant and enjoy
the beautiful view of the river.
THE ALPINE CHEF
Come to downtown Fredericksburg, and
enjoy the glamour of the original historical
train station setting! Dine on the heated
Biergarten patio inside the great hall or in
one of our cozier rooms by the fireplace...
With the delicious offerings presented by
German Chef Jannec Hornig – from handcut
steaks and fresh seafood to old world
favorites – you will be transported to
Europe. Enjoy our imported German
draught beers and wine, as well as craft
cocktails. Owners Jannec and Katherine
Hornig have created an atmosphere of
relaxation and romance with an authentic
menu that will leave you satisfied from
brunch to dinner, and if you have enough
room, homemade desserts! This familyowned
restaurant will have everything you
need and is guaranteed to bring you back
for more. Following strict Covid procedures
we aim to keep all guests and staff safe.
Delivery, takeout and catering are also
available. Stop by to enjoy our seasonal
menus and the classics, or just to say hello,
because here, “Du Bist Familie!”
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EATS
Born here in Fredericksburg, in the
grooviest decade – the 70s, Kelly Hunt
is proud to be part of this great
community. Eats proudly features local
farm raised beef smash burgers. We
partner with small local businesses like
Tilly’s Homemade Ice Cream and
Freddy’s Donuts for our super Donut
Sandys. This is your place for out-ofsight
freshly made burgers, dogs, fried
seafood and delicious desserts, all
served in a retro atmosphere. Dine-in,
take-out and drive-up! Come hang
with us… it’s the only joint you won’t
want to pass!
BATTLEFIELD RESTAURANT
Battlefield Restaurant is a hometown
favorite. Family owned and operated
since 1988, it is located directly across
from the Battlefield Visitor Center and
offers an old style diner menu and feel
including a full menu daily with huge
breakfast platters and down-home
southern dishes. Open early 7 days a
week, stop by for one of our famous
Hubcap pancakes, our homemade chip
beef gravy, or an omelet. You won’t leave
hungry!
CAPITAL ALE HOUSE
Located in Downtown
Fredericksburg, Capital Ale House is
the perfect destination for beer and
food lovers alike! Featuring Virginia
pasture-raised beef and other
locally-inspired American and
German cuisine, an 80’ bar with over
60 beers on tap, competitively
priced to-go growler and six-packs
and private dining spaces for all your
party needs, Capital Ale House has
something to offer for everyone!
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MI TERRA TACO & GRILL
Mi Tierra Taco & Grill is a family-owned
business that has thrived for over two
decades, originating in Alexandria,
Virginia, before spreading its delicious
flavors to Fredericksburg, Virginia. This
restaurant is set apart is not only its
mouthwatering dishes, their fresh made
to order meals but that’s it’s owned by
two sisters set to empower women of
all backgrounds.
DURANGO GRILL
At Durango our philosophy is very
simple: the guest is the very reason for
our existence. Therefore we make every
effort possible to ensure that each and
every guest has the most enjoyable
experience possible. Our commitment
to you is that our food will be fresh, hot
and of the highest quality. We serve
items from Wings & Baby Back Ribs to
our Signature Steak or T-Bone. In the
mood for Fish & Shrimp? Our service
will be friendly, sincere and efficient. In
other words: “We are here for you!”
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Abner B’s Ice Cream www.abnerb.com 74 36 $ MC, V, DIS, AMX
821 Caroline Street
Abner B’s Ice Cream www.abnerb.com 74 38 $ MC, V, DIS, AMX
1630 Publix Way, Stafford
Amy’s Cafe 540-373-3663 71 39 B,L,D $ X X X X X X MC, V, DIS
103 West Cambridge
Battlefield Rest. 540-846-9661 78 36 B,L $ X X X X
1018 Lafayette Blvd.
Brock’s Riverside Grill 540-370-1820 68 36 L,D $ X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
503 Sophia Street
Cinnaholic 802-Gourmet 69 38 $ MC, V, DIS, AMX
825 Wonder Rd, Stafford
Capital Ale House 540-371-2337 85 36 L,D $ X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
917 Caroline Street
Colonial Tavern - Irish Brigade Y 75 36 L,D $ X X X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
406 Lafayette Blvd. 540-373-1313
CoolCat Cupcakes 540-604-0271 69 37 $ MC, V, DIS, AMX
1000 Charles Street
Durango Grill 540-548-2093 Y 79 39 L,D $ X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
4256 Plank Road
Eats, A Burger Joint 540-940-6400 78 36 L,D $ X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
701 Lafayette Blvd
Hard Times Café 540-710-6771 70 39 L,D $ X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
5099 Patriot Highway
Mason Dixon Café
2100 Princess Anne Street
540-371-1950 72 39 B,L,D $ X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
Mi Tierra Taco Bar & Grill 540-370-7507 79 39 B,L,D $ X MC, V, DIS, AMX
10756 Patriot Hwy
My Casa Restaurant 540-751-7306 72 39 L,D $ X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
2018 College Avenue
Renee’s Crepes & Cakes 540-368-0420 75 39 B,L $ X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
2020 Augustine Ave.
Soup & Taco
813 Caroline Street
540-899-0969 76 36 L,D $ X MC, V, DIS, AMX
Soup & Taco II 540-899-0941 76 37 L,D $ X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
806 William Street
Spirits 540-371-9595 88 36 B,L,D $ X X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
816 Caroline Street
Suad’s Majles 540-940-6432 71 37 B,L $ MC, V, DIS, AMX
2629 Princess Anne Street
Tapa Rio 540-373-0870 77 37 L,D $ X X X X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
1101 Sophia Street
The Alpine Chef 540-656-2101 Y 77 36 L,D $ X X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
200 Lafayette Blvd.
The Sunken Well Tavern 540-370-0911 74 36 B,L,D $ X X X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
720 Littlepage Street
Tim’s II at Fairview 540-775-7500 73 L,D $ X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
5441 Pavilion Drive, Fairview Beach
Tim’s at Lake Anna 540-894-5011 73 L,D $ X X X X MC, V, DIS, AMX
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Relationships Matter…Nurture Them Every Day
by: William Hughes
I recently went to a memorial service for a friend. We had planned to play golf, but that day didn’t
come fast enough. Instead, I joined with friends to pay respects and celebrate his life. I’ve been to too
many of these of late; it’s inevitable as we get older. And, as I drove home that holiday weekend, the heavy
traffic gave me plenty of time to think.
I was reminded of a recent reunion of my state championship hockey team up north from over 45
years ago. One Friday, while in Hawaii, I was informed of the Monday luncheon and that for the first time,
our coach was to attend along with every living member of the team. My closest teammate, who
happened to be the team captain, asked me to kick it off because he knew that I liked to speak, and he
doesn’t! With our coach attending, I told him I’d get there, ready to go.
He relayed to me that a couple of underclassmen were undecided about attending because of issues
over playing time. I told him to have them come.
Having been so informed, it was important
to find the right words. Words matter. I didn’t
have Woodrow Wilson’s week to prepare for a
10-minute public speaking gig, I had a flight
home, two days to prepare, and then a train ride!
Upon getting home, I dug into my library and
opened “Today Matters,” signed by the author,
John C. Maxwell. The title felt right. I focused my
words on the laws of relationships and attitude.
“Relationships give me fulfillment” and “Attitude
gives me possibilities.”
Coach molded our different personalities into a team with a shared winning attitude. This team grew
from a doormat one year to one of the most potent in the state the next, culminating in a state
championship. The personalities sometimes conflicted with each other, but Coach kept “all that” off the
ice and, over the years, as these teenage conflicts dissolved, many kept in touch with each other. Victory
and maturity forged stronger relationships that lasted over the decades.
At the restaurant, there was much joy and great surprise by my attending from out of town. After
thanking everyone for coming, the captain turned it over to me. I began by identifying the significance of
the event because as we get older, we must pay respect to our relationships that matter, and this team’s
accomplishment was significant to all. Achieving what we did as a group made a difference in every one
of our lives, an early lesson in the action necessary to be successful in any endeavor. Given this
relationship with each other, we needed to recognize that and feel fulfilled.
I reminded everyone that it didn’t come easy. This was a team formed because key players returned
home from prep or private schools to play for the town. A far stronger unit was instantly created. Our
Coach had the personality, knowledge, and experience to mold us and build a winning attitude in us.
Successful hockey teams are anchored by “the room,” the locker room. Relationships inside the room are
key, and then there is attitude. Attitude is that which creates a winning (or losing) identity, and
relationships are the backbone.
Everyone must buy in. With the little luck that every championship team wins with, it was our
attitude that drove us to victory. I closed by expressing personal gratitude to my teammates. Most
importantly, I finished by praising our Coach for his leadership in molding a bunch of teenagers to success.
It was an easy gig as I knew the group and the story’s end. The challenge was to ensure everyone left
feeling appreciated. The two underclassmen both addressed me afterward to thank me for expressing
what it took to be a part of a team and were happy they came.
On the train ride back home, I felt honored to have had a part in putting structure to the day, but in
the end, ensuring those two teammates departed feeling a sense of fulfillment was particularly satisfying.
“Relationships give fulfillment.”
And so it was at that memorial service, I had that sense of fulfillment coming
together with many friends to give thanks to a man who valued his relationships with his
family and friends. If we all nurtured our relationships better, I’m sure we’d have a better
world.
William Hughes, the owner of Leading Eagles LLC, finds fulfillment by helping organizations improve
overall productivity and performance. He is a certified coach, trainer, and speaker with Maxwell
Leadership. Find him at www.leadingeagles.com
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The Fredericksburg Art Scene
by Maria Riegger
Few people, visitors or residents, in the city of Fredericksburg, Virginia, are aware that
the city has become a mecca for artists. The region’s natural beauty, along with its important
historic landmarks, stimulates the imagination and nurture creativity. How to immerse
yourself in Fredericksburg’s art scene? We offer a brief guide to get started.
To immerse yourself in Fredericksburg’s art scene start by visiting the Gari Melcher’s Home
and Studio displaying the works of a great American painter who lived in the area until his
death in 1932. You can tour his home and studio
and view his paintings at leisure.
Fredericksburg also has many art galleries that
exhibit works by multiple local artists for viewing
and purchasing. For example, Liberty Town Art
Workshops is easily accessible downtown with
ample parking. You’ll find everything from jewelry,
paintings and ceramics displayed in a large 2-story
building. In addition, Liberty Town offers classes for
children and adults. While visiting downtown
Fredericksburg, also go to Fredericksburg Center for Gari Melcher’s Home and Studio
the Creative Arts located on historic Sophia Street.
The Center offers classes for those wanting to
improve their artistic skills. In Fredericksburg, many
individual artists have their own studios-galleries
showcasing their work accessible to the visitor. One
such studio is Joelle Cathleen Studios located on
Canal Street. Fredericksburg also has several
restaurants featuring a feast for the eyes and a feast
for the palate. Sunken Well Tavern on Littlepage
Street displays art works by local artists once a
month in a casual atmosphere. At La Petite Auberge
you can enjoy the works of local artists in an
Liberty Town
ongoing display while you dine in elegant
surroundings. How about treating yourself to a
glass of beer at Adventure Brewing Co., located in
Eagle Village, where local artists exhibit their works.
The first Friday of the month at Adventure Brewing
Co. is particularly worth checking out since they
welcome patrons with an opening night reception
with live music, and light fare, where you can meet
the artist, whose works are being displayed that
month.
So go ahead, don’t be shy. Immerse yourself in
the Fredericksburg art scene. Be prepared to be
amazed.
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1781 BREWING CO.
Our Mission to create truly distinct farmhouse ales
and lagers on our Virginia farm, Reap what you Sow,
sustainability at 1781 Brewing Co, means leaving
little to no trace and replacing our carbon footprint
in meaningful ways. We are continually listed as a
Corporation for Conservation by Ducks Unlimited
and other nonprofits. In 2017, 1781 Brewing Co.
contributed to help conserve over 248,000 acres of
wetlands which are the most at-risk ecological
systems. We also are involved in several USDA
environmental programs for wetlands and forest
and maintain 60 acres of deciduous forest and
buffer zones for the Chesapeake Bay Watershed. All
1781 Brewing Co.'s spent grains and brewery refuse
goes to either compost for our vegetable garden or
to another local farmer, Todd Schlund for his Pork
production.
WILDERNESS RUN VINEYARDS
Wilderness Run Vineyards began as a twinkle-in-theeye
of Robert and Denise Pagan as they looked
across the farm they had raised their family upon.
With the help of their son Harry and lifelong friend
Brandon (and many others), they started reclaiming
what were once dairy pastures and began planting
long rows of vines. After seeing the fruits of their
labor and all of the natural beauty of the property,
they decided what they had built must be shared.
Wilderness Run Vineyards has continually set goals
for the growth of the vineyard and farm. Every year
they have planted an average of an acre of new
grapes. The addition of 1781 Brewing Co. on the
farm has added to a variety of new beverage
options for patrons. The combination of vineyard
and brewery located on their historic property has
allowed them to holdfast to ethos; making the most
out of time with family, serving patrons as they are
our family and giving back to the community.
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