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WINTER <strong>2023</strong>/<strong>24</strong> • Volume 13 Issue 4 • greybrucekids.com<br />
EYE SPY<br />
Good vision<br />
key to good<br />
overall health<br />
LOVE, PEACE<br />
AND UNITY<br />
in troubled times<br />
CONCUSSIONS<br />
Recognize the signs<br />
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FROM THE PUBLISHER<br />
Enjoy the season!<br />
Somehow it’s winter again in <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong>. Each year the holiday season seems to creep<br />
up on me more quickly.<br />
CONTENTS<br />
4 Concussion awareness<br />
10 Sharing your memories<br />
While I’m well aware winter always comes after fall, I’m always surprised by the first<br />
snowfall (which happened on Halloween this year, a cruel joke!), leaving me, like many<br />
others, scrambling to get snow tires on, finish raking leaves, put away patio furniture<br />
and then think about the long list of Christmas duties that lie ahead.<br />
Many of us – especially those Moms who want everything to be just perfect for their<br />
family during the holidays – find this time of year exhausting. Though it’s easier said<br />
than done, we should all take a step back and remember that our loved ones aren’t<br />
going to remember every perfect little detail of the holiday season, they’re going to<br />
remember the warmth and comfort they felt, the laughs the family shared, and the<br />
feeling of togetherness more so than the decorations or presents.<br />
Give yourself a break, take a breath, and be sure to savour every minute with your<br />
family, as they grow up so quickly!<br />
Regardless of whether or not we are ready, the holidays will be over and we’ll be left<br />
with the snow and cold, so we might as well enjoy it, check out the activities at the<br />
local arena, hopefully get the snowmobile out, play in the snow with the kids or<br />
hunker down with a good book or movie and wait it out until spring.<br />
14 Eye health<br />
18 Cultural celebrations<br />
22 Postpartum fathers<br />
26 Resources<br />
30 Recipes<br />
In this issue we have an informative article about a very important and seemingly alltoo-common<br />
topic of concussions, by physiotherapist Kyle Kortegaard. We also have<br />
health stories on the importance of vision screening by <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Public Health and<br />
what postpartum depression looks like in men around the holidays, contributed by<br />
Chanel Wainscott.<br />
Writer and memory keeper Arlen Wiebe also writes about the importance of keeping<br />
the past alive and recording the life story of both yourself and your aging loved ones.<br />
Chandrashekhar Tripathi also shares an<br />
article about cultural diversity in <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong><br />
and how holidays are celebrated in many<br />
different ways.<br />
I hope you have a safe and healthy holiday<br />
season surrounded by those you love, and<br />
all the best in 20<strong>24</strong>!<br />
Amy Irwin, Publisher<br />
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HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />
CONCUSSIONS<br />
WITH HOCKEY SEASON UPON US, IT’S IMPORTANT<br />
TO KNOW THE SIGNS BY KYLE KORTEGAARD<br />
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Another hockey season is well underway. Those of us with young children<br />
get to see them develop their skating skills, as those with older kids start<br />
to see the transition toward contact hockey.<br />
In either case, we are likely to witness some falls, trips, and collisions; and<br />
inevitably, some injuries. There’s one injury that can happen to any player<br />
at any time out on the ice – concussion – and we parents and coaches need<br />
to be on lookout for them.<br />
WHAT IS A CONCUSSION?<br />
A concussion is an injury to the brain and is often referred to as a mild<br />
traumatic brain injury (mTBI). Don’t be fooled by the word “mild,” as every<br />
concussion should be taken very seriously. Concussions are not always obvious<br />
like other injuries we see in sports. They cannot be seen on X-ray, CT scans, or<br />
MRIs. A concussion can change how a person thinks, acts, and feels.<br />
HOW DO CONCUSSIONS HAPPEN?<br />
In sustaining a concussion, we often think of a direct blow or impact to the<br />
head. However, indirect blows to the head, where the head and neck are<br />
quickly whipped around as the result of a hit to the body, can also cause<br />
a concussion. In either case, the brain is moved quickly within the skull,<br />
imparting a rapid stretch and strain on nerve fibres within the brain, leading to<br />
a brain injury. The stress on the brain cells causes an immediate shift in their<br />
chemical makeup. The brain starts correcting this imbalance, but it takes an<br />
enormous amount of energy (glucose or blood sugar). At the same time, there<br />
is a reduction in blood flow to the brain, further limiting the supply of glucose<br />
to the brain. This leads to an “energy crisis” as the brain tries to heal itself,<br />
which can last seven to 14 days in adults, and up to 30 days in children and<br />
adolescents. 1<br />
HOW TO RECOGNIZE CONCUSSION<br />
Concussion should be suspected following any direct or indirect blow to the<br />
head. Checking in with your child, even after what may appear to be a minor<br />
bump, collision, or fall, is always warranted to identify a potential head injury.<br />
Some common signs and symptoms include:<br />
• Headache<br />
• Nausea or vomiting<br />
• Dizziness<br />
• Balance problems<br />
• Fatigue and drowsiness<br />
• Sleeping difficulties<br />
• Sensitivity to light/sound<br />
• Irritability<br />
• Difficulty concentrating and/or remembering<br />
• Feeling “foggy” mentally<br />
• Visual problems<br />
• Sadness and depression<br />
• Nervousness and increased anxiety<br />
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Symptoms may present immediately following the injury or may be delayed in their onset, so it<br />
is important to watch for any signs or symptoms in the hours or days after a potential concussive<br />
injury. One sign or symptom is enough to suspect concussion.<br />
If you suspect this is the case, they should be assessed by their doctor as a first step. The physician<br />
will help determine the severity of the head injury, rule out potential serious injuries, and direct<br />
you in next steps of management and treatment. If your child is experiencing a progressively<br />
worsening headache, excessive confusion or disorientation, significant unsteadiness or coordination<br />
issues, weakness or tingling in the arms or legs, or repeated vomiting, they should be taken to the<br />
emergency room as these features may indicate a more serious, medically urgent, injury.<br />
EARLY MANAGEMENT FOLLOWING A CONCUSSION INJURY<br />
Knowing some basic management strategies in the first few days following a concussion can<br />
drastically change the trajectory of recovery. Our visual system often gets wrapped up in<br />
concussion injuries due to extensive connections between our eyes and brain. Therefore, visual<br />
stimulation should be avoided in the acute stages (first few days) of concussion. This means no<br />
screens – TV, smartphones, tablets, computers, and video games – and no reading. This can be<br />
very challenging in today’s tech-heavy culture. Listening to audio books or sports games on the<br />
radio (at a tolerable volume) is a temporary, recommended alternative that won’t overwhelm your<br />
child’s healing nervous system.<br />
Current consensus guidelines recommend one to two days of complete rest, followed by a<br />
gradual return to activity. 2 Research now supports getting back to light activity within a few days<br />
post-concussion as opposed to strict rest until symptoms resolve. In fact, one study found that<br />
those who undergo prolonged, strict rest have a higher symptom burden and slower resolution of<br />
symptoms, 3 while other studies have found no difference in recovery outcomes. 4,5,6<br />
Early return to light aerobic exercise at a sub-symptom threshold, such as going for an easy walk,<br />
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is safe and encouraged, so long as it does not aggravate your<br />
child’s symptoms (or if symptoms do worsen slightly, they should<br />
return to baseline fairly quickly). There is no cookie-cutter<br />
approach to concussion recovery – each concussion is unique, and<br />
management should be individualized to each person.<br />
Your child may be referred by your doctor for rehabilitation after<br />
a concussive injury. Health care professionals trained to assess<br />
and treat concussions include physiotherapists, occupational<br />
therapists, chiropractors, athletic therapists, and osteopaths.<br />
They will help educate you on the nature of concussions, your<br />
child’s specific presentation, and management strategies during<br />
healing and recovery.<br />
Specific exercises are often prescribed to help integrate the visual<br />
and balance systems so that they can work in unison again.<br />
Optometrists and ophthalmologists may be involved to assess<br />
the health and function of your child’s eyes. Vision therapy can<br />
be another compliment to concussion rehab when the visual<br />
system is not integrating well with the rest of the brain.<br />
COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS<br />
Myth: It’s not a concussion if the person didn’t lose<br />
consciousness or get “knocked out.”<br />
This is a common misconception, and in fact, the majority of<br />
concussions occur without a loss of consciousness. 7 Recovery<br />
may be lengthier and more complex if the person loses<br />
consciousness, but it is not needed to cause a concussion.<br />
Myth: You shouldn’t sleep after concussion.<br />
In the past, it was thought that falling asleep soon after<br />
concussion increased the risk of slipping into a coma. That is not<br />
the case with concussions as there is no bleeding of the brain or<br />
structural damage that would cause complications like a coma.<br />
As mentioned above, if your child is displaying any signs or<br />
symptoms outside of those consistent with concussion and more<br />
consistent with a serious injury to the head, seek immediate<br />
medical attention.<br />
Myth: You can’t get a concussion if you don’t hit your head.<br />
Another common assumption is that if there was no direct<br />
impact to the head, there cannot be a concussion. This is also<br />
incorrect. With indirect blows to the head, where the body is hit<br />
or moved suddenly causing the rapid acceleration/deceleration<br />
of the head, the brain can be quickly shaken within the skull,<br />
causing a concussive injury. Some examples of this are being in<br />
a rear-end or side-swipe car accident, being cross-checked from<br />
behind in hockey causing the neck and head to be whipped<br />
backward, or slipping on ice and catching yourself before<br />
actually falling to the ground.<br />
Myth: Your child can return to their sport as soon as they<br />
feel better.<br />
Once your child’s symptoms have resolved (clinical recovery),<br />
it does not necessarily mean that their brains have completely<br />
healed yet (physiological recovery). Symptoms may abate within<br />
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a few days to a week post-concussion however, it has been<br />
suggested that physiological recovery may take up to 30 days<br />
in children and adolescents. 2 Therefore, a cautious approach<br />
should be taken when returning to sport and it should be based<br />
on functional recovery (ie. no symptom exacerbation during<br />
sport-specific tasks, normalized balance, concentration, reaction<br />
time, etc.) rather than symptom experience alone. Following<br />
concussion, the brain is left more susceptible to cellular injury 8<br />
and, if another head injury is sustained within the window of<br />
healing from the original concussion, more severe damage to<br />
the brain may occur. This was the case with Rowan Stringer, a<br />
17-year-old rugby player from Ottawa, who tragically died in<br />
2013 from what’s called “Second Impact Syndrome.”<br />
ROWAN’S LAW<br />
In the week before her last game, Rowan Stringer was hit twice<br />
during play and was believed to have sustained a concussion<br />
with each hit. Afterwards she knew something was off by the<br />
way she was feeling, and she had let one of her teammates know,<br />
but did not tell her parents about her symptoms. In her final<br />
game a few days later, she sustained another hit which caused a<br />
catastrophic secondary brain injury because her brain was still<br />
in a vulnerable state from the previous recent concussions. She<br />
sadly succumbed to her injuries four days later.<br />
In 2018, new legislation called ‘Rowan’s Law’ was introduced<br />
and passed by the Ontario government, and set out a framework<br />
for concussion prevention, detection, and management within<br />
youth sports. Rowan’s Law applies to every sport organization<br />
in the province, and requires that all coaches and officials<br />
review concussion awareness resources prior to the start of<br />
their respective seasons. 9 The law also requires that each sport<br />
organization around the province develop and follow a returnto-sport<br />
protocol following concussion injuries. Concussion<br />
awareness resources have been developed and made available<br />
to the public. Every parent of a child in sport is encouraged<br />
to read these resources and know where to access them. They<br />
can be found at www.ontario.ca/page/rowans-law-concussionawareness-resources.<br />
With return-to-sport and return-to-school protocols in place,<br />
parents and health care providers can follow a stepwise,<br />
graduated plan to ensure kids recovering from concussion can<br />
return to their activities safely. The Rowan’s Law e-booklet<br />
(found at https://files.ontario.ca/mtcs-rowans-law-bookletages-15-and-up-en-2019-05.pdf)<br />
lays out common steps in<br />
graduated return-to-sport protocols which are consistent with<br />
current international consensus guidelines. 2,10 There should be<br />
a minimum of <strong>24</strong> hours between each step and if the athlete<br />
experiences any symptoms they must return to the previous step.<br />
We as parents, coaches, and trainers have a responsibility to<br />
ensure our children’s and players’ safety above all else. It is always<br />
better to err on the side of caution if you suspect your child may<br />
have sustained a concussion. Recognize the signs and symptoms<br />
of a concussion and remove the athlete from play, even if they<br />
insist they feel OK. Remember, competitive kids often do not<br />
want to take themselves out of the game, so we need to be very<br />
direct in our communication with them.<br />
Get your child assessed by a physician or nurse practitioner,<br />
then follow a graduated return to sport (Rowan’s Law, 2018).<br />
Reach out to a trained allied health professional if you need extra<br />
guidance in managing a concussion injury. Most concussions in<br />
children will resolve within one to four weeks. Recovery requires<br />
patience and an understanding on how and when to ease back<br />
into usual activities like school and sport. Please take advantage<br />
of the free concussion awareness resources that are out there –<br />
they could save your child’s life.<br />
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References<br />
1. Haller, S. and Walter, K. (<strong>2023</strong>). Best Practices in Concussion<br />
Management. Shift Concussion Management. https://www.<br />
shiftconcussion.ca/training<br />
2. McCrory, P. et al. (2017). Consensus statement on concussion<br />
in sport – the 5th international conference on concussion in sport<br />
held in Berlin, October 2016. British Journal of Sports Medicine,<br />
51(11).<br />
3. Thomas, D., Apps, J., Hoffman, R., McCrea, M., & Hammeke,<br />
T. (2015). Benefits of strict rest after acute concussion: a<br />
randomized controlled trial. Pediatrics, 135(2); 213-23.<br />
4. De Kruijk, J., Leffers, P., Meerhoff, S., Rutten, J., & Twijnstra,<br />
A. (2002). Effectiveness of bed rest after mild traumatic brain<br />
injury: a randomized trial of no versus six days of bed rest. Journal<br />
of Neurology, Neurosurgery, and Psychiatry, 73(2); 167-72.<br />
5. Gibson, S., Nigrovic, L., O’Brien, M., & Meehan, W. (2013).<br />
The effect of recommending cognitive rest on recovery from sportrelated<br />
concussion. Brain Injury, 27(7); 839-42.<br />
6. Buckley, T., Munkasy, B., & Clouse, B. (2016). Acute cognitive<br />
and physical rest may not improve concussion recovery time. The<br />
Journal of Head Trauma Rehabilitation, 31(4); 233-41.<br />
7. McCrory, P. Meeuwisse, W., Echemendia, R., Iverson, G.,<br />
Dvorak, J., & Kutcher, J. (2013). What is the lowest threshold to<br />
make a diagnosis of concussion? British Journal of Sports Medicine,<br />
47(5).<br />
8. Signoretti, S., Lazzarino, G., Tavazzi, B., & Vagnozzi, R.<br />
(2011). The pathophysiology of concussion. The Journal of Injury,<br />
Function, and Rehabilitation, 3(10); 359-68.<br />
9. Rowan’s Law (Concussion Safety) (2018). https://www.ontario.<br />
ca/laws/statute/s18001<br />
10. Patricios, J. et al. (<strong>2023</strong>). Consensus statement on concussion<br />
in sport: the 6th International Conference on Concussion in Sport–<br />
Amsterdam, October 2022. British journal of Sports Medicine,<br />
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COMMUNITY<br />
Saving Your<br />
Memories<br />
THE “WHY” AND “HOW” OF SAVING YOUR PRECIOUS RECOLLECTIONS<br />
BY ARLEN WIEBE<br />
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People have always been captivated by a compelling story.<br />
Since the birth of language, people from all cultures have<br />
been telling stories that both instruct and entertain.<br />
Long ago, people gathered around a fire at the end of a long<br />
day to hear myths, legends, fables, epic poems, proverbs,<br />
chants, rhymes, and songs. Storytellers preserved and passed a<br />
community’s stories down the generations.<br />
A big shift occurred when people created written language to<br />
record spoken words. People weren’t completely dependent on a<br />
community storyteller to preserve the oral stories anymore. With<br />
the printing press, books could be easily mass produced, and<br />
more people learned to read.<br />
Today, another huge shift has occurred. Instead of a communal<br />
experience around a living fire, families now congregate facing a<br />
glowing electronic screen. The storytelling task seems to be taken<br />
over by filmmakers and television writers.<br />
WHY ARE STORIES SO POWERFUL?<br />
It’s incredibly fortunate that stories are both instructive and<br />
entertaining. While it might be possible to commit bits of<br />
knowledge to memory if we try hard enough, stories help us<br />
engage with our history, traditions and values much more easily.<br />
Stories help us to create order and make sense of our lives. They<br />
help us appreciate how other people think and feel. Stories use<br />
language in a way that is unlike our everyday way of speaking<br />
and writing. Stories fashion ordinary words and events into<br />
extraordinary dramas.<br />
SHOULD YOU RECORD YOUR<br />
PERSONAL STORIES?<br />
Yes! Our personal stories can be extremely valuable to ourselves<br />
and our families. We can preserve important family stories<br />
for our children and grandchildren. We can gain insight into<br />
our struggles and choices and share our wisdom. We can find<br />
direction for the rest of our lives and heal, especially if our lives<br />
have been shaped by pain or tragedy. We can connect names and<br />
stories to old family photos or add details to the family tree.<br />
Have you ever thought you’d like to know what your ancestors’<br />
lives were really like, in their own words? Consider how your<br />
own life will be interesting to your descendants. Even people<br />
that don’t know us may be interested in our stories. Many people<br />
enjoy reading the personal anecdotes, stories and essays in the<br />
“First Person” section of The Globe and Mail. Maclean’s magazine<br />
publishes “My Arrival: The Lives of New Canadians” on the last<br />
page of each issue. CBC posts personal stories and experiences in<br />
its online “First Person” columns.<br />
I’ve started writing about my own childhood experiences and<br />
coming to terms with how they have affected my adult life.<br />
A CANADIAN BOY IN CALIFORNIA<br />
I could see my boyhood coming to an end when I was 12 years<br />
old. The curious warmth of springtime in Winnipeg had come<br />
back like a long-lost relative returning from a freezing and<br />
miserable journey. Light green leaves were budding once more<br />
on ancient elm trees as I walked south along Arlington Street,<br />
turned west onto Wolseley Avenue, and begrudgingly arrived at<br />
my weekday destination, Laura Secord School.<br />
Like all boys of school age should be, I was in a terrible hurry<br />
for the unbearable monotony of the daily academic ordeal to be<br />
done for the year. I was exhausted from trying to speak and write<br />
in my teacher’s funny foreign language. Pourquoi apprenais-je<br />
le français when my forebears spoke Plautdietsch, Nederlands,<br />
or Russki yazyk and wrote in Hochdeutsch? Other kids in my<br />
class came from families that spoke even more exotic languages.<br />
Why were we all being forced to learn a language not one of our<br />
families had ever spoken and likely never would?<br />
And why this inanely prescribed schedule? All this writing,<br />
reading, presenting, doing, and going here and there at the<br />
same time every day. Had the adults who ran the school given a<br />
maniacal villain permission to set up a labyrinth of torture? Why<br />
were we tested for our ability to remember the random order of<br />
letters in words or how numbers changed themselves when they<br />
met the funny symbols on the page?<br />
Once the clock on the classroom wall was finally persuaded to<br />
place a short stingy hand on the number three and its longer<br />
hand on six, I fled the prison and quickly reversed the route I<br />
had slowly walked that morning.<br />
Once at home, I put on a blue jersey, white pants, and cap<br />
and held my baseball glove in my hand. I finally felt free of all<br />
restraints. My mother had mercifully signed me up for a team<br />
through the R.A. Steen Community Centre, located on the far<br />
end of the field behind my school. We played our games in a<br />
sunken double baseball diamond circled by a gravel walking and<br />
biking path, near Omand’s Creek.<br />
I tried all the baseball positions in the field but I most enjoyed<br />
pitching. Standing high on an elevated mound. Controlling the<br />
start of each play. Deciding where to place the baseball to the<br />
waiting batters.<br />
I always held the baseball with the fastball grip. I hadn’t been<br />
taught how to throw any other kinds of pitches. Instead of<br />
variety, I tried to throw the same pitch again and again, laser<br />
focused on the shifting strike zone. Sometimes the ball would<br />
thread through that invisible rectangle between the elbows and<br />
knees of the cocky boy poised at home plate. Other times, it flew<br />
out of control, avoiding that rectangle, and rolling to the chain<br />
link fence behind our catcher.<br />
Most of my pitches flew past the boys at the plate. On the<br />
rare occasion when the batter made contact with the ball, my<br />
teammates organized themselves around the ball, stopped it, and<br />
threw it to first base.<br />
Midway through the baseball season, my mother got an<br />
emotional phone call. My absent father lay dying in a Regina<br />
hospital. She and I dropped everything and immediately drove<br />
600 kilometres west across Manitoba and Saskatchewan to visit<br />
the man my mother had once given her heart to and that we<br />
barely knew anymore. When we entered my father’s hospital<br />
room, I saw a sickly, shriveled man in a hospital gown. He could<br />
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A childhood photo of Arlen<br />
Wiebe and his mother.<br />
barely sit up in his bed to greet us. Who was this person? I stood<br />
there stoically, listening to my parents catching up on years of<br />
missed time together.<br />
My father had three brothers. His brother Jake, from B.C.,<br />
came with his wife and two kids to visit in the hospital. Once<br />
his daughter, Shalom, had seen my father and left the room,<br />
she started to sob in the hallway. I watched her from my dad’s<br />
bedside. Why was she so upset? It wasn’t her father dying, it<br />
was mine. If anyone should be worked up, it should be me. I<br />
looked inside myself to find something that matched my cousin’s<br />
emotion but there was nothing there.<br />
We returned to Winnipeg and the baseball season continued. A<br />
few weeks later, there was another difficult phone call. We buried<br />
my father beside a little country church on the Saskatchewan<br />
prairie.<br />
Soon after, my mother was very surprised to receive a large<br />
payment from my father’s life insurance policy that had been<br />
kept active. This set the gears in motion for my mother’s next<br />
step. She had always dreamed of studying to become a pastor<br />
and now she had the money to do it. She wanted to study at a<br />
seminary in California. All that summer, my mother prepared<br />
us to move. I was devastated. I didn’t want to live in a foreign<br />
country without friends or anything familiar.<br />
In late August, my mother and I boarded an airplane that took<br />
us from Winnipeg to Minneapolis, then on to Los Angeles. We<br />
crossed that huge airport to catch a tiny airplane to take us to<br />
Fresno. We moved into a small apartment on the campus where<br />
my mother would study the Bible and theology.<br />
I would attend school as a light-skinned Canadian among a sea<br />
of black and brown faces. I would travel to Yosemite National<br />
Park, San Francisco, and Hollywood. I would be forced to adapt<br />
to many new things as I started Grade 7. My Canadian boyhood<br />
had come to an end in California.<br />
WHAT’S INVOLVED WITH RECORDING<br />
YOUR PERSONAL STORIES?<br />
Recording your personal stories is a way to connect generations<br />
and preserve memories. Sometimes called a personal history, it<br />
could be a memoir, a tribute, a life story, a family biography, an<br />
oral history, a legacy letter, or ethical will.<br />
If you work on your own personal history or that of a loved one,<br />
your only cost is your time and expenses. If you hire a personal<br />
historian, the cost will range in price from a few hundred dollars<br />
(audio and/or transcripts for oral history), to thousands of<br />
dollars (a life story with photos), to tens of thousands of dollars<br />
(longer or more complex projects).<br />
WHAT FORMAT DOES PERSONAL<br />
HISTORY TAKE?<br />
Personal histories can be recorded in many ways. Here are some<br />
areas in which personal historians may have expertise.<br />
Audio recordings/CDs – Recording your stories electronically<br />
in an audio file or a CD allows your children, grandchildren,<br />
and great-grandchildren to hear you telling your stories with<br />
your own voice. Would you enjoy hearing stories told in the<br />
voices of your ancestors?<br />
Books – A book can be narrative only or it can feature photos,<br />
documents, and other illustrations. Books can be paperback or<br />
hardcover, simple or elegant.<br />
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Art books, scrapbooks, handmade books – These are one-of-akind<br />
products that can include written stories, photos, drawings,<br />
scraps of fabric, pressed flowers, jewelry, and any other kind of<br />
valued memento.<br />
Photo books, collages, calendars – These products are mostly<br />
photos or drawings combined with very few written words. You<br />
could create a beautiful photo book, a poster-sized collage, or<br />
a photo calendar with pictures of family members included on<br />
their birthdays, anniversaries, or other important dates.<br />
Photo videos – You can use photos, home movies, slides,<br />
videotapes, and other memorabilia to create a memorable video<br />
set to music.<br />
DVDs – You can capture a person’s voice, personality, gestures,<br />
and spirit for posterity on video. This kind of project can be<br />
simple or complex, include individual or group interviews, and<br />
range from short tribute to TV-style biography.<br />
Ethical wills or legacy letters – An ethical will or legacy letter is a<br />
statement of your personal values, beliefs, life lessons, and a message<br />
you want to convey to your family, friends, and community.<br />
Legacy planning – Legacy planning helps you preserve your<br />
values and heritage for future generations. Tasks might include<br />
taking care of historical family documents and photos, creating<br />
an archive, preparing material for an obituary, or memorial<br />
service planning.<br />
Family websites – It’s becoming increasingly popular for<br />
families to create a website to preserve and share family stories<br />
and information. These sites might include a family tree,<br />
genealogy, photos, letters, stories, videos, and sound files.<br />
Unique products – Some people enjoy being creative with their<br />
precious memories. A special quilt could be made of valued<br />
fabrics or decorations. Inspiring images and music can lead to a<br />
painting, drawing, mural, collage, memory box or multimedia<br />
presentation. Valued recipes could be collected into a family<br />
cookbook. What else could you imagine?<br />
TELL YOUR STORY<br />
People now recognize that reminiscence and life review are<br />
important life processes. Working through our memories to find<br />
patterns, meaning, and values are key to a fully examined life.<br />
Many of us think about interviewing our aging family members<br />
but put it off until later. When we finally find the time, it may<br />
be too late, the loved one could be too frail to tell their stories or<br />
their memories may have faded. Or worse, they may have passed<br />
away. If recording your own stories or that of a loved one is<br />
important to you, take the first step today to making it happen!<br />
ARLEN WIEBE is a personal historian, writer, musician, and teacher<br />
living in Owen Sound. He enjoys helping people find meaning and<br />
purpose through writing their life stories, memoirs, and family history.<br />
You can learn more about him at your-life-stories.ca. You can contact<br />
him by email at arlen.wiebe.writer@gmail.com or by text/phone at 226-<br />
668-3352..<br />
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HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />
EYE SPY<br />
GOOD VISION KEY TO<br />
GOOD OVERALL HEALTH<br />
BY JODY KROEPLIN<br />
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They say the eyes are the window to our soul – the part of the<br />
body that reflects our true emotions, thoughts, and feelings.<br />
Our eyes – and, more specifically, our vision – are also a window<br />
to learning and knowledge, particularly as we grow.<br />
For children, good vision can play a critical role in physical<br />
development, success in school, and overall well-being. Children<br />
who cannot see the board in school, focus on a picture, or follow<br />
words in a book may struggle to achieve their full learning<br />
potential, according to the Ontario Association of Optometrists<br />
(OAO). Vision problems can also impact a child’s hand-eye<br />
coordination for physical activities and even impact their social<br />
development. However, many parents are unaware of just how<br />
important good vision is to their child’s overall health and<br />
development.<br />
According to the OAO:<br />
• Almost three-quarters of Ontario parents are unaware that<br />
vision problems can cause speech difficulties.<br />
• Nearly two-thirds of Ontario parents are unaware that<br />
vision problems can lead to developmental delays.<br />
• Half of Ontario parents do not realize that a vision problem<br />
may cause short attention spans in children.<br />
OVERALL WELL-BEING<br />
Roughly 80 per cent of what children learn is gained through<br />
vision, according to the Vision Institute of Canada. However,<br />
vision problems can go undetected in early childhood because<br />
children cannot always recognize that they have vision issues.<br />
They believe everyone sees the world as they do.<br />
Although many activities in the classroom and at school<br />
can draw attention to possible vision concerns in children,<br />
extracurricular or household activities also rely on vision-based<br />
skills. Many eye health concerns, if caught early, can be treated.<br />
Some common signs and symptoms of vision problems in<br />
children include:<br />
• Squinting.<br />
• Excessive blinking.<br />
• Excessive eye rubbing.<br />
• Tearing, red, itchy, or burning eyes.<br />
• Holding objects close to the eyes.<br />
• Headaches or eye strain.<br />
• Blurry vision or double vision.<br />
• Eye turn (strabismus).<br />
• Turning or tilting the head.<br />
• Covering or closing one eye.<br />
Other, less obvious, signs of vision problems in children can<br />
include:<br />
• A dislike of near work.<br />
• A short attention span.<br />
• Daydreaming during work time.<br />
• Skipping words, letters, or lines when reading or taking<br />
notes from the board.<br />
• Using a finger or moving the head to track when reading.<br />
• Trouble reading, difficulty remembering what was read, or<br />
poor comprehension.<br />
• Delayed learning of the alphabet.<br />
• Persistent letter, number, or word reversals.<br />
• Not completing assignments on time.<br />
• Difficulty with geometric shapes.<br />
• Poor hand-eye coordination.<br />
• Poor performance in school.<br />
• Behaviour problems.<br />
IMPORTANCE OF EYE EXAMS<br />
As many as one-quarter of children have a vision problem,<br />
according to the OAO. However, thousands of children start<br />
school each year without ever having an eye exam. Regularly<br />
visiting an optometrist is key to ensuring vision issues are<br />
diagnosed and treated as quickly as possible and maintaining<br />
healthy vision and overall health.<br />
The OAO recommends that children have a comprehensive<br />
eye examination by an optometrist at six to nine months of<br />
age, two to five years of age, and every year after age five, or<br />
as recommended by an optometrist. Eye exams performed by<br />
optometrists look at the structural development of the eye and<br />
identify any underlying health conditions.<br />
The Ontario Health Insurance Plan (OHIP) covers the cost of<br />
a comprehensive eye examination once every 12 months for<br />
individuals with a valid OHIP card who are 19 years of age and<br />
younger or 65 years of age and older. Additional vision support<br />
is available for people accessing Ontario Works, the Ontario<br />
Disability Support Program, Non-insured Health Benefits<br />
Program or Interim Federal Health Program.<br />
‘Eye See… Eye Learn’ is a program made possible by<br />
participating optometrists and corporate partners Onesight<br />
EssilorLuxottica Foundation Canada and Modern Optical<br />
Canada. The program provides Junior or Senior Kindergarten<br />
students in need of prescription eyeglasses with one<br />
complimentary pair of frames and lenses.<br />
LOCAL VISION SCREENING PROGRAM<br />
In 2018, the Ontario Public Health Standards outlined that,<br />
in collaboration with community partners, Public Health<br />
units will provide visual health supports and vision screening<br />
services. Since the 2022/23 school year, <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Public<br />
Health (GBPH) has, in partnership with District A9 Lions<br />
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Club International, conducted vision screening with Senior<br />
Kindergarten students in schools within <strong>Grey</strong> and <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
counties with the goal of increasing awareness of visual health<br />
and the availability of OHIP-covered comprehensive eye exams<br />
with an optometrist.<br />
During the last school year, screening was provided to every SK<br />
classroom within the Bluewater District School Board, <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Catholic District School Board, Ecole Catholique Saint-<br />
Dominique-Savio, and Kikendaasogamig Elementary School.<br />
During the in-school screening, three vision screening tests<br />
are used to help assess the most common vision impairments<br />
in young children. Screening takes an average of 20 minutes<br />
or less per child and results are sent home with students in<br />
an information letter. The letter encourages families to book<br />
a routine, comprehensive eye examination for their child,<br />
regardless of their vision screening results, with an optometrist.<br />
GBPH collects screening data for analysis and interpretation, as<br />
specified by the Ministry of Health.<br />
This school year, GBPH and District A9 Lions volunteers are<br />
again visiting public elementary schools in <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong>. Schools<br />
will be sending home notification letters with SK students about<br />
the upcoming screening clinics, issued from GBPH. Following<br />
the screening, students will be sent home with a letter indicating<br />
the results of the screening and recommendations for ongoing<br />
eye health.<br />
Regardless of their screening results, all children are strongly<br />
encouraged to visit an optometrist for a comprehensive eye<br />
exam. In-school screenings do not replace this necessity for eye<br />
health. If you have any questions about the in-school vision<br />
program, results from the in-school vision program, or need<br />
support in finding a local optometrist or vision resources, call<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Public Health at 519-376-9420 x 3110 or 1-800-<br />
263-3456, or email schools@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca.<br />
TIPS FOR PROTECTING VISION<br />
Eat well – Eating a variety of fruits and vegetables provides our<br />
bodies with important vitamins and nutrients – many which are<br />
necessary for maintaining healthy eyes.<br />
Limit screen time – Uncorrected vision can become worse with<br />
increased screen time. Protect children’s vision by encouraging<br />
frequent breaks from digital devices, as well as near-vision<br />
activities like reading and writing.<br />
Get a good night’s sleep – Sleep is an essential component to<br />
our health to allow the body to heal. This includes resting our<br />
eyes impacted by eye strain and irritants in the environment.<br />
Go outside – Physical activity and Vitamin D from the sun are<br />
not the only benefits to our eyes when it comes to outside play.<br />
Allowing our eye muscles to relax and break from the many<br />
hours of near-vision activities we do each day is important to eye<br />
health.<br />
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Put on sunglasses – With outside play comes sun exposure and<br />
ultraviolet (UV) rays. Wearing sunglasses with 100 per cent UV<br />
protection will help to protect your eyes from the harmful effects<br />
that UV can have on your eyes over time.<br />
Wear protective eyewear – If you play sports or are involved<br />
in other activities that may cause injury to the eye, protective<br />
eyewear can prevent about 90 per cent of eye injuries.<br />
Sources<br />
Proper Vision & Hearing Identification for Schools, Ontario<br />
Association of Optometrists (OAO) and the Ontario Association of<br />
Speech-Language Pathologists and Audiologists.<br />
Eye See...Eye Learn® Program - Ontario Association of Optometrists<br />
Keep an Eye on Your Child’s Vision | CDC<br />
The Eye Exam | The Canadian Association of Optometrists<br />
Vision Problems and Learning | The Canadian Association of<br />
Optometrists<br />
GBK<br />
JODY KROEPLIN is a Registered Nurse who has worked at <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
Public Health for 18 years. She is part of the School Health Team.<br />
Jody’s main interest in Public Health work is supporting the community<br />
with knowledge and skills to promote health and well-being. In her<br />
spare time, Jody enjoys being with her family and friends, camping,<br />
the outdoors, and watching her children play various organized sports<br />
within the community.<br />
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COMMUNITY<br />
LOVE, PEACE, AND UNITY<br />
in troubled times<br />
CORE MESSAGES OF CULTURAL CELEBRATIONS ARE UNIVERSAL<br />
BY CHANDRASHEKHAR TRIPATHI<br />
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Amidst the ongoing global turmoil and<br />
strife, the search for messages of love,<br />
peace, and unity becomes increasingly crucial.<br />
This article explores how diverse winter<br />
festivals celebrated in Canada offer a beacon of<br />
hope during these challenging times.<br />
Through the lenses of Christmas, Hanukkah,<br />
Eid, Bodhi Day, and Diwali, we discover that,<br />
despite their cultural and religious diversity, the<br />
core message of these celebrations is universal<br />
– oneness (vasudhaiv kutumkam – whole<br />
world is one family), acceptance, and the<br />
spread of goodwill. These festivals inspire us<br />
to transcend chaos, discover common ground,<br />
and collaborate for a brighter future.<br />
In Canada’s multicultural landscape, the<br />
celebration of diversity is fundamental to<br />
society. Canadians firmly believe in ‘unity<br />
in diversity,’ where individuals from various<br />
ethnic backgrounds coexist harmoniously,<br />
contributing collectively to the nation’s<br />
progress. This inclusive spirit is beautifully<br />
demonstrated in multicultural festivals that<br />
introduce people to new cultures, languages,<br />
cuisines, and traditions. For the past 18 years,<br />
these festivals have been a consistent force<br />
in fostering unity and understanding among<br />
communities.<br />
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As we embrace the<br />
lessons from each<br />
festival, we find<br />
inspiration to rise<br />
above the turmoil and<br />
chaos that plague the<br />
world. The message<br />
is crystal clear – let’s<br />
work together for a<br />
brighter future.<br />
Major local employers like <strong>Bruce</strong> Power play a significant role in<br />
bringing together diverse populations, significantly transforming<br />
communities like Kincardine and Port Elgin into diverse hubs,<br />
exemplifying the success of multicultural integration. The<br />
festivals celebrated also play a pivotal role in unifying people,<br />
promoting forgiveness, and spreading the message of love and<br />
understanding.<br />
Christmas – One of the most important festivals of Christians,<br />
Christmas is observed on Dec. 25 and celebrates the birth<br />
of Jesus Christ. It is characterized by exchanging gifts within<br />
families and friends and gifts brought by Santa Claus. Christians<br />
wear new clothes and attend special prayers in the church<br />
and light the candles. The churches and houses are lit up and<br />
decorated during Christmas. The period of celebration varies<br />
in different countries from one day to several days. In modern<br />
marketing society, like all other celebrations, this is heavily<br />
commercialized. People decorate Christmas trees with toys and<br />
other decorative items, but the message of Christmas being a<br />
time of joy, peace and sacrifice for others remains.<br />
Hanukkah (Hebrew) – Also known as the Festival of<br />
Rededication, Hanukkah is an eight-day Jewish celebration<br />
beginning on the 25th day of Kislev, according to the<br />
Hebrew calendar. The festival is observed in Jewish homes<br />
by the kindling of lights on each of the festival’s eight nights,<br />
one on the first night, two on the second and so on. The<br />
holiday is called Hanukkah meaning “dedication,” which also<br />
commemorates the Miracle of the Oil (one-day olive oil used<br />
to fuel the eternal flame in the Temple miraculously lasted for<br />
eight days). The history of this festival chronicles the Jewish<br />
people celebrating the revolution against the suppression and<br />
assimilation of the Jewish religion.<br />
Eid al-Fitr and Eid a-Adha – Often abbreviated to Eids,<br />
these are Islamic holidays. Eid al-Fitr is a feast-breaking that<br />
marks the end of Ramadan, the month of fasting (austerity<br />
for goodness), which is observed on the 10th day of the last<br />
month of the Islamic lunar calendar. Eid a-Adha is celebrated<br />
to commemorate Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his son<br />
at the behest of God. It is also called the ‘Festival of Sacrifice’<br />
or ‘Greater Eid.’ The celebrations start after the annual Hajj<br />
pilgrimage to Mecca. Families celebrate both Eids by spending<br />
time with friends and relatives, exchanging gifts and attending<br />
services at mosques.<br />
Bodhi Day – In commemoration of the enlightenment of the<br />
Buddha, Bodhi Day is traditionally celebrated by Buddhists<br />
on the eighth day of the 12th lunar month, so this year it falls<br />
on Dec. 8. It celebrates how Siddhartha Gautama, who was<br />
born in a Hindu family in India, became the central figure and<br />
founder of Buddhism. It is said Gautama lived a life of extreme<br />
discipline and abstained from indulgences, while continuing<br />
meditation under the Pipal tree until he was able to find the<br />
cause of suffering and how to achieve liberation from it. Families<br />
celebrate this important moment in their religion by hanging<br />
up multi-coloured lights and lighting candles, meditating and<br />
snacking on rice and milk called Khir, which is the first meal the<br />
Buddha ate after his enlightenment.<br />
Diwali – Originating from the Sanskrit word ‘Deepavali,’ Diwali<br />
literally means rows (avali) of lights (deepa), which is popularly<br />
known as Festival of Lights. It is regarded as the most important<br />
Hindu festival of the lunar calendar and is celebrated with great<br />
excitement across India (Bharat) and by Indians living abroad.<br />
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Celebrations continue over a period of five days, each of which<br />
has its own significance. The days are named as Dhanteras,<br />
Narak Chaturdashi, Lakshmi Puja, Padava and Bhaiya Dooj.<br />
Before the start of the festival, spring cleaning is undertaken<br />
to welcome the goddess Lakshmi (the giver of wealth).<br />
Traditionally, rows of clay lamps filled with oil were lit, but now<br />
candles are used and the celebration starts with prayers, sweets,<br />
songs and fireworks. This practice symbolizes the vanquishing<br />
of ignorance (darkness) by knowledge (light) and celebrates the<br />
victory of good over evil by driving away the evil sprit.<br />
There is an exchange of gifts and the distribution of sweets,<br />
which symbolizes the dispelling of the bitterness of the past and<br />
renewal of friendship for times to come. It also means to drop<br />
the regrets of the past and the worries of the future and to live in<br />
the present.<br />
When true wisdom dawns, it gives rise to celebration of every<br />
moment of life.<br />
In Hinduism, Diwali marks the return of Lord Rama to<br />
his kingdom of Ayodhya after defeating the demon king<br />
Ravana, in the epic Ramayana. It also celebrates the slaying<br />
of the demon king Narakasura by Lord Krishna. Both signify<br />
the victory of good over evil. In Jainism, Diwali marks the<br />
attainment of moksha by Mahavira in 527 BC. In Sikhism,<br />
Diwali commemorates the return of Guru Har Gobind SinghJi<br />
to Amritsar after freeing several kings imprisoned in by the<br />
Emperor, Jahangir.<br />
Diwali is also the day on which Emperor Vikramaditya ascended<br />
the throne, and when many Hindu start their New Year (Samvat<br />
– started 2,080 years ago).<br />
As we embrace the lessons from each festival, we find inspiration<br />
to rise above the turmoil and chaos that plague our world. The<br />
message is crystal clear – let’s work together for a brighter future,<br />
where love, peace, and service prevail. These festivals serve as<br />
a unifying force, fostering understanding, and acceptance. By<br />
embracing these principles, we can transcend the strife and<br />
create a world where peace, love, and unity flourish.<br />
I have taken the first step by greeting my neighbours during<br />
their festivals and sharing our traditions with open doors<br />
and warm smiles. I extend an invitation to you to join us in<br />
spreading the message of love, peace, and service. Together, we<br />
can build a more harmonious and compassionate world. GBK<br />
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environmental field, he passionately champions principles of diversity,<br />
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wellness and the pursuit of life goals through a balanced lifestyle.<br />
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HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />
Connecting<br />
THROUGH ISOLATION<br />
A POSTPARTUM FATHER’S GUIDE TO HOLIDAY MINDFULNESS<br />
AND DISTRESS TOLERANCE BY CHANEL WAINSCOTT<br />
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The holiday season is a time that invokes a multitude of memories, enveloping<br />
us in a sensory tapestry of sight, sound, touch, taste, and emotion. It’s during<br />
this time that we create traditions that become cherished memories. The familiar and<br />
comforting sights and sounds of the holidays can also bring a sense of novelty each<br />
year, as we become more deeply involved in the festive rituals.<br />
That warm feeling of belonging, of being part of something greater, is what many<br />
argue defines the essence of the holidays. However, in the same breath, for some, the<br />
holidays can be a period of heightened isolation, a time when they feel like they don’t<br />
fit in or lack a sense of purpose. It can serve as a stark reminder of the family and<br />
stability they long for but may not have.<br />
Within this group of individuals, we might find the new father on the challenging<br />
journey of postpartum life. This person understands the weight of their legacy and the<br />
responsibilities they now bear. They can share how it feels to be surrounded by many<br />
but still grapple with a profound sense of loneliness.<br />
One-in-10 new fathers experience depression, a condition marked by feelings of<br />
anger, physical symptoms (headache, stomach issues, etc.), and an urge to cope using<br />
substances. Anxiety often accompanies postpartum fathers’ experience. Unfortunately,<br />
the stigma surrounding men’s emotional well-being often prevents them or their<br />
friends from opening up about this common experience. For postpartum fathers, the<br />
three- to six-month mark is when depression tends to hit the hardest. If this period<br />
falls within the holiday season, the situation can become even more challenging due<br />
to the added stressors of dark, cold weather, painful memories, and overall exhaustion.<br />
It’s common for those with postpartum depression to isolate themselves from others<br />
during this time. However, it’s important to remember that change can arise from<br />
adversity. By seeking out rewarding connections and engagement, the momentum<br />
gained from your efforts can make a significant difference in your mental health. This<br />
approach is known as behavioural activation. Now, let’s explore two ways to foster<br />
genuine connections during the holidays.<br />
PRACTICING MINDFULNESS<br />
Mindfulness is a powerful way to connect with the reality of the present moment. By<br />
doing so, you can tap into the goodness in your life and establish deeper connections<br />
with others and the universe while reducing tension and stress. Mindfulness involves<br />
neither rejecting nor clinging to the present moment. Rejection takes effort and<br />
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energy, diverting you from what is constantly<br />
evolving in the present. Attachment, however, keeps<br />
you preoccupied with the past or future, preventing<br />
you from fully experiencing the now. The beauty of<br />
mindfulness is that you can practice it anywhere,<br />
anytime, and while doing anything. But how can<br />
you do it?<br />
The holiday season is a time that can evoke (and<br />
create) a plethora of memories, engaging all five of<br />
your senses – sight, sound, touch, taste, and feel.<br />
One straightforward way to practice mindfulness<br />
during this period is by observing both your internal<br />
and external worlds. Take a moment to notice the<br />
aroma of a delicious dessert, the sensation of your<br />
stomach excitedly anticipating a bite, the softness<br />
of your holiday sweater, and the high pitch of<br />
your baby’s squeals and babble. Once you become<br />
adept at observing these sensations, you can further<br />
enhance your mindfulness by describing your<br />
experience with words and labels. When a thought<br />
or feeling arises, acknowledge it, give it a name, and<br />
describe the physical sensations associated with it.<br />
Here is what these skills can look like as an internal<br />
dialogue in response to the above observation: “His<br />
laughter made me think of my childhood and the<br />
caring parents I never had. I’m feeling angry. I’m<br />
feeling tense in my jaw.” To make the most out<br />
of this exercise, it is important not to hold onto<br />
this experience. Imagine that this observation and<br />
description is a cloud in the sky – here one moment<br />
and floating on outside of view the next.<br />
Throughout this process, immerse yourself<br />
completely in the activities of the current moment.<br />
If you’re playing a game with your family and/or<br />
baby, allow your attention to be fully absorbed in the<br />
experience.<br />
DISTRESS TOLERANCE SKILLS<br />
It’s crucial to acknowledge that the holiday season<br />
can bring about high stress levels for many people.<br />
However, it’s essential to remember that this period<br />
is relatively short-lived. If we can develop the ability<br />
to tolerate the challenging aspects of the holidays,<br />
we can navigate through them. You may feel<br />
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overwhelmed at times, but there are opportunities to engage<br />
with others and partake in activities that can significantly benefit<br />
your mental health by combatting isolation. Here are some ways<br />
to build distress tolerance skills while remaining connected to<br />
the people and events around you.<br />
First, use your mindfulness skills to monitor the signs of<br />
increasing stress in your body and the thoughts and emotions<br />
that may drive you towards isolation. When you recognize these<br />
initial warning signs, it’s a crucial moment to stop what you’re<br />
doing. Resist the urge to react impulsively and take a step back<br />
from the situation. Breathe deeply and reconnect with your<br />
earlier observations and descriptions. Compare these with the<br />
current situation, and then move forward with awareness. Ask<br />
yourself, what actions will improve the situation, and which<br />
might make it worse?<br />
After evaluating your current state of being, you can name<br />
that your anger is increasing and you feel like you’re out of<br />
“mindfulness fuel.” Taking space to yourself would make the<br />
situation better, but following through with the urge to storm<br />
out of the house might make it worse. This is a moment where<br />
you can take a premade sandwich bag of ice water to the<br />
bathroom and apply it to your forehead as a way to calm your<br />
nervous system. Returning back to the function, you can offer<br />
to help a friend or family member set the table for the evening.<br />
If thoughts of unworthiness or self-doubt arise, practice selfsoothing<br />
techniques. Play soothing music and retreat to the<br />
couch and wrap yourself in a cozy blanket. In these moments,<br />
focus on the positive aspects of your present experience and find<br />
meaning in them. As you observe yourself returning to a state of<br />
calm, you can attempt to rejoin the group and fully engage in<br />
the next activity or conversation with mindfulness and a sense of<br />
well-being.<br />
Incorporating these changes into your life may take time and<br />
effort, but remember that new behaviours must be learned and<br />
practiced in the situations where they are most needed. It’s not<br />
just about acquiring the skills but using them effectively when<br />
it counts. Additionally, it’s important to recognize that change<br />
requires continuous effort. While doing your best is a great start,<br />
it’s also necessary to push a little harder for growth. The fact that<br />
you’re committed to making positive changes in your life is a<br />
significant step in the right direction.<br />
As you journey through the challenges of postpartum depression<br />
and work on enhancing your mental well-being, remember that<br />
with perseverance and the right support, you can find yourself<br />
in a better place at the end of it all. You’ve got this, and there is<br />
hope for brighter days ahead. GBK<br />
CHANEL WAINSCOTT is a qualifying psychotherapist who specializes in<br />
perinatal mental health. She can be reached at info@carecultivator.ca or<br />
www.carecultivator.ca for additional resources and support.<br />
‘Share your personal or family story with future generations’<br />
• We record you telling your stories and<br />
transcribe your words<br />
• We suggest writing prompts to help<br />
you recall important memories<br />
• We research your family history<br />
• We write and edit your stories<br />
• We publish a custom-made book or<br />
other creative memory project<br />
__________________________________________<br />
ARLEN WIEBE<br />
Personal Historian<br />
at Your Life Stories<br />
www.your-life-stories.ca<br />
arlen.wiebe.writer@gmail.com<br />
226-668-3352<br />
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RESOURCES<br />
ABUSE<br />
Assaulted Women’s Helpline<br />
Crisis line: 1-866-863-0511<br />
www.awhl.org<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />
(<strong>Bruce</strong> and <strong>Grey</strong> Children’s Aid Societies<br />
amalgamated April 1, 2012)<br />
1-855-322-4453<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
1-800-567-2384; 519-371-4773<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Saugeen First Nation - Kabaeshiwim<br />
Respite Women’s Shelter<br />
519-797-2521<br />
cgeorge@saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />
www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />
Sexual Assault and Partner<br />
Abuse Care Centre<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Services<br />
1-888-525-0552 or www.gbhs.on.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Victim Services <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Perth<br />
Crisis: 1-866-376-9852<br />
Administration: 1-888-577-3111<br />
info@victim-services.com<br />
www.victim-services.com<br />
Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />
Owen Sound - 1-866-259-4823<br />
Walkerton - 1-866-994-9904<br />
attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />
http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />
Women’s Centre (<strong>Grey</strong> and <strong>Bruce</strong>)<br />
Administration: 519-376-0755<br />
Crisis: 1-800-265-3722<br />
womenscentre@bmts.com<br />
www.bmts.com/~womenscentre<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Women’s House Serving <strong>Bruce</strong> and <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Sexual assault crisis: 1-866-578-5566<br />
Crisis line: 1-800-265-3026<br />
Administration: (519) 396-9814<br />
crisis@whsbg.on.ca<br />
www.whsbg.on.ca<br />
Kincardine<br />
BREASTFEEDING<br />
Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />
1-866-507-2021 or 519-881-1920<br />
RN/certified Lactation Consultant available<br />
www.bafht.com<br />
Walkerton<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />
1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Hanover Family Health Team<br />
RN/Certified Lactation Consultant<br />
519-506-4348<br />
www.hanoverfht.ca<br />
La Leche League Canada<br />
Owen Sound; 519-376-5916; www.lllc.ca<br />
Moms Walkerton<br />
New Mom support<br />
320 Durham St.., Walkerton; 519-379-6769<br />
Support groups<br />
Southampton, Port Elgin, Paisley, and Tara -<br />
519-797-2010<br />
Kincardine, Ripley, Tiverton, and Lucknow -<br />
519-368-4847<br />
South-<strong>Bruce</strong> Breastfeeding Buddies -<br />
519-881-1920<br />
Wiarton and <strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula - 519-534-0912<br />
Markdale - 519-369-3381<br />
Owen Sound - 519-372-1330<br />
The Mama Nurse<br />
www.themamanurse.com<br />
CHILDBIRTH<br />
Glamma Doula<br />
Christine Piotrowski, Postpartum Doula<br />
www.glammadoula.com; 519-477-9985<br />
Hanover and District Hospital Obstetrics/<br />
Family Centred Care Birthing Centre<br />
519-364-2340<br />
admin@hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />
www.hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />
Jessica Connor Doula Services<br />
519-580-0612 or jconnor.doula@gmail.com<br />
www.jessicaconnor.ca<br />
Midwives <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
519-371-2886<br />
www.midwivesgreybruce.com<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Owen Sound Hospital Labour and Delivery<br />
519-376-2121<br />
www.gbhs.on.ca/owensound.php<br />
Walkerton Hospital Family Birthing Centre<br />
519-881-1220<br />
www.sbghc.on.ca<br />
CHILD CARE<br />
Acorn Montessori<br />
705-606-1642<br />
Thornbury<br />
Amabel-Sauble Child Care Centre<br />
519-422-3611<br />
Sauble Beach<br />
Beaver Valley Outreach<br />
519-599-2577<br />
Bobi’s Playschool<br />
519-538-5483<br />
Meaford<br />
Brockton Child Care Centre<br />
sbross@brockton.ca<br />
Brooke Montessori Toddler Program<br />
519-376-3447, Owen Sound<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County Childcare Services<br />
519-881-0431 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Walkerton<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula Family Centre<br />
519-793-4100<br />
Lion’s Head<br />
Chesley Nursery School<br />
519-363-9544<br />
Durham Nursery School<br />
519-369-6973<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County Childcare Services<br />
519-376-73<strong>24</strong>, www.greycounty.ca/childcare<br />
Hanover Montessori Children’s House<br />
1-800-906-7036 or 519-364-6455<br />
Happy Hearts Day Care Centre<br />
519-376-1284<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Inglenook Creche Day Care<br />
519-371-9471; Owen Sound<br />
<strong>Kids</strong> & Us Community Childcare<br />
and Family Education Centres<br />
Ayton - 519-665-2022<br />
Dundalk - 519-923-2182<br />
Durham - 519-369-9911<br />
Holstein - 519-334-3132<br />
Markdale - 519-986-3692<br />
Osprey - 519-922-2333<br />
Paisley - 519-353-7220<br />
www.kidsandus.ca<br />
<strong>Kids</strong> Street Nursery School - Port Elgin<br />
519-389-9050<br />
Kinhuron Integrated Day Nursery School<br />
Co-op<br />
519-396-4532<br />
Kincardine<br />
Le Jardin des decouvertes - Owen Sound<br />
519-371-4411<br />
Military Family Resource Centre - Meaford<br />
519-538-1371 x6509<br />
mfrc.meaford@gmail.com<br />
www.cafconnection.ca/Meaford/Home.aspx<br />
Meaford Co-operative Nursery School<br />
519-538-3854<br />
Nawash N’Shiime Day Care Centre<br />
519-534-3909<br />
Neyaashiinigmiing (Cape Croker)<br />
OneList – Find and apply for child care<br />
brucecountychildcare.ca<br />
greycountychildcare.ca<br />
Queen of Hearts Nursery School<br />
109 Balmy Beach Rd., Owen Sound<br />
www.queenofheartsnurseryschool.com<br />
Sandbox Daycare - Hanover<br />
519-506-7263<br />
Saugeen First Nation G’Shaw-da-Gawin<br />
Day Care Centre<br />
519-797-<strong>24</strong>19<br />
gshawdagawin@bmts.com<br />
www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />
Saugeen Shores Childcare Centre<br />
519-832-<strong>24</strong>00<br />
Tobermory Primary Place<br />
519-596-2606<br />
Unity House - Owen Sound<br />
519-371-8686<br />
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Viola Jean’s Garden Daycare - Owen Sound<br />
519-416-5633 or 519-371-2362<br />
Wiarton <strong>Kids</strong> Den Day Care/<strong>Kids</strong> Club<br />
School age Program<br />
519-534-4434<br />
Wiarton Nursery School<br />
519-534-2121<br />
Wooden Hill Child Care Centre (La Colline<br />
De Bois) at Notre Dame School<br />
519-376-6952<br />
Owen Sound<br />
YMCA Childcare<br />
Arran Tara - 519-376-0484<br />
Hanover - 519-364-4938<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-9622<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-0484<br />
Port Elgin - 519-832-6225<br />
Ripley - 519-395-5570<br />
ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />
DIET/NUTRITION<br />
EatRight Ontario<br />
Ministry of Health Promotion and Sport<br />
1-877-510-5102; www.eatrightontario.ca<br />
Foodlink <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
Find locally grown meat, fruit and produce<br />
www.foodlinkgreybruce.com<br />
Good Food Box<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />
519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />
1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Hanover Family Health Team<br />
519-506-4348; www.hanoverfht.ca<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
1-800-567-2384, 519-371-4773<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
Ontario Student Nutrition Program <strong>Grey</strong><br />
<strong>Bruce</strong><br />
www.osnp.ca<br />
EDUCATION<br />
Academy of Learning - Owen Sound<br />
1077 2nd Ave. E., Suite B (2nd floor)<br />
519-371-6188 or www.academytraining.ca<br />
Adult Learning Centres<br />
Collingwood, Port Elgin, Markdale, Owen<br />
Sound, Walkerton, Wiarton<br />
www.adultlearningcentres.com<br />
Bluewater District School Board<br />
1-800-661-7509 or www.bwdsb.on.ca<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong>-<strong>Grey</strong> Catholic District School Board<br />
519-364-5820 or www.bgcdsb.org<br />
Conseil Scolaire Catholique Providence<br />
(French Catholic School Board)<br />
1-888-768-2219; www.cscprovidence.ca<br />
Edgehill Country School, Durham<br />
www.edgehillschool.org<br />
Georgian Tutors<br />
www.georgiantutors.com<br />
EMPLOYMENT SERVICES<br />
JobsWork<br />
Aimee Kim, Job Developer, akim@clkd.ca<br />
519-396-9434 x223<br />
Leads Employment Services<br />
1051 2nd Ave. E Owen Sound<br />
1-866-955-3237<br />
www.leadsservices.com<br />
Live<strong>Grey</strong><strong>Bruce</strong><br />
www.livegreybruce.ca<br />
VPI Employment Strategies (Walkerton)<br />
519-881-4900 or 1-855-260-4900<br />
jobswalkerton@vpi-inc.com<br />
www.vpi-inc.com<br />
YMCA Employment Services<br />
1450 1st Ave. W., Suite 4A, Owen Sound<br />
519-371-9222<br />
employmentservices@ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />
FAMILY SUPPORT<br />
211 Ontario<br />
Online database of services in your area<br />
www.211ontario.ca<br />
Aspire Youth Services Inc.<br />
Ryan McLeod, CPT, RSW, MSW, CYC (BA)<br />
ryanmcleodplaytherapy@gmail.com<br />
aspireyouth.ca; 416-417-7098<br />
Big Brothers Big Sisters<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-4449<br />
www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/bbowensound<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3565<br />
www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/kincardine<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />
1-855-322-4453<br />
www.bgcfs.ca<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Mentorship<br />
504 10th St., Suite 2, Hanover<br />
519-506-5065; www.brucegreymentorship.ca<br />
Building Gender Diverse Communities<br />
Karen Houle, 519-377-3171 x238<br />
2spiritmentor@mwikwedong.com<br />
https://rb.gy/3qmoe1<br />
Chippewas of Nawash Unceded First Nation<br />
- Native Child Welfare - Cape Croker<br />
519-534-3818<br />
supervisor.ncw@gbtel.ca<br />
www.nawash.ca<br />
Counselling <strong>Bruce</strong> County<br />
616 Market St., Port Elgin<br />
519-266-3674<br />
www.counsellingbrucecounty.com<br />
EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />
Chesley, Hanover, Kincardine, Markdale,<br />
Meaford, M’Wikwedong (Owen Sound), Owen<br />
Sound (East Ridge), Port Elgin, Thornbury,<br />
Wiarton<br />
1-800-616-8116<br />
Family Support Initiative<br />
519-371-4802; fsi@hopegb.org<br />
mhagb.ca<br />
Frontier Therapy<br />
www.frontiertherapy.ca<br />
Grandparent Network<br />
For grandparents raising grandchildren<br />
Meets first Monday of month at 9:30 a.m.<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Call Mary Nuckowski at 519-371-<strong>24</strong>98<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Supervised Access Program<br />
519-371-5991; pc-superacc@bmts.com<br />
www.supervisedaccess.ca, Owen Sound<br />
<strong>Kids</strong> Help Phone<br />
1-800-668-6868 (<strong>24</strong> hours)<br />
www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />
Multiples in <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
http://multiplesinbrucecounty.webs.com<br />
Nemesis Group Services<br />
Owen Sound; 519-372-<strong>24</strong>25<br />
www.nemesisgroupservices.com<br />
Parent Help Line<br />
1-888-603-9100<br />
Penetangore Wellness<br />
www.penetangorewellness.com<br />
PFLAG Owen Sound<br />
1-888-530-6777 x570<br />
https://pflagcanada.ca/ontario/<br />
owensoundon@pflagcanada.ca<br />
Salvation Army<br />
Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />
Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />
Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />
Wiarton - 519-534-0353<br />
Trans Lifeline<br />
1-877-330-6366; translifeline.org<br />
Victim Services <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Perth<br />
Crisis: 1-866-376-9852; Admin: 1-888-577-3111<br />
info@victim-services.com;<br />
www.victim-services.com<br />
Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />
1-866-259-4823 - Owen Sound<br />
1-866-994-9904 - Walkerton<br />
attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />
http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />
FINANCIAL SUPPORT<br />
Beaver Valley Outreach (Thornbury)<br />
519-599-2577; info@bvo.ca; www.bvo.ca<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> Children are Special Foundation<br />
Directs donations to the children programs<br />
provided by <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family<br />
Services (formerly Children’s Aid)<br />
1-855-322-4453 ext 4133<br />
Social Services<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County - 1-800-265-3119<br />
www.grey.ca/health-social-services/<br />
Owen Sound<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County - 1-800-265-3005<br />
www.brucecounty.on.ca/ontworks.php<br />
Walkerton<br />
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RESOURCES<br />
United Way of <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />
519-376-1560 or manager@unitedwaybg.com<br />
www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com<br />
YMCA of Owen Sound and <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong><br />
519-376-0484 or ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />
FOOD BANKS/HOUSING<br />
Beaver Valley Outreach - Thornbury<br />
519-599-2577, info@bvo.ca or www.bvo.ca<br />
Durham District Food Bank<br />
Monday and Friday, 9 a.m.-noon<br />
Flesherton and Area Food Bank<br />
Marian Doyle, 519-599-3576<br />
Kincardine Ministerial Food Bank<br />
519-396-2185 or circlek@bmts.com<br />
Lion’s Head and District Food Bank<br />
519-793-3860 or helen.rick@amtelecom.net<br />
Markdale and District Food Bank<br />
519-986-1432<br />
Meaford Food Bank<br />
519-538-4550<br />
Paisley Food Bank<br />
Immanuel Evangelical Mission Church<br />
307 Balaclava St.; 519-353-5270 (Carol)<br />
Salvation Army<br />
Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />
Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />
Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />
Tobermory Food Bank<br />
519-596-1501<br />
Walkerton and District Food Bank<br />
519-881-0168<br />
Wiarton Food Bank<br />
519-534-0353<br />
Habitat for Humanity <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
1-866-771-6776 or habitatos@bmts.com<br />
www.habitatgreybruce.com<br />
Ontario Tenants Rights<br />
ontariotenants@hotmail.com<br />
www.ontariotenants.ca<br />
Safe ‘n Sound Homelessness Initiative<br />
519-470-7233; www.safensoundgreybruce.com<br />
Subsidized housing<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County - 1-800-265-3022<br />
www.brucecounty.on.ca/socialhousing.php<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County - 376-5744<br />
http://bit.ly/vVG1k0<br />
HEALTH CARE<br />
ActivEars Hearing Centres Inc.<br />
Owen Sound, Hanover, Durham<br />
226-784-3288<br />
www.activears.com<br />
Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />
1-866-507-2021<br />
www.bafht.com<br />
Walkerton<br />
Canadian Mental Health Association<br />
<strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> Branch<br />
Administration - 519-371-3642<br />
Crisis: 1-877-470-5200<br />
jralph@cmhagb.org; www.cmhagb.org<br />
Collingwood General and Marine Hospital<br />
705-445-2550; www.cgmh.on.ca<br />
Connect Rehabilitation, Yoga and Fitness<br />
1100 16th Ave. E., Owen Sound<br />
admin@connectrehab.com; 519-372-2121<br />
www.connectrehab.com<br />
ConnexOntario Help Lines<br />
Drug and alcohol - 1-800-565-8603<br />
Gambling - 1-888-230-3505<br />
Mental health - 1-866-531-2600<br />
www.connexontario.ca<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Services (hospitals)<br />
Lion’s Head - 519-793-34<strong>24</strong><br />
Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />
Meaford - 519-538-1311<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />
Southampton - 797-3230<br />
Wiarton - 534-1260<br />
www.gbhs.on.ca<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit - Owen Sound<br />
1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Hanover and District Hospital<br />
519-364-2340/info@hdhospital.ca<br />
www.hdhospital.ca<br />
Healthy Babies, Healthy Children<br />
519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Hanover Family Health Team<br />
519-506-4348 or dford@hanoverfht.ca<br />
www.hanoverfht.ca<br />
Healthy Smiles Ontario<br />
Dental for families making under $20,000/yr<br />
Register through the health unit<br />
Online: http://bit.ly/JAqJbY<br />
Honouring Life Network<br />
www.honouringlife.ca<br />
Hope<strong>Grey</strong><strong>Bruce</strong> - Owen Sound<br />
Mental Health and Addiction Services<br />
519-371-4120 or www.mhagb.ca/gbchc/<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
1-800-567-2384 or 519-371-4773<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
<strong>Kids</strong> Help Phone (<strong>24</strong> hours)<br />
1-800-668-6868 or www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />
Kincardine Family Health Team<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-2700<br />
Ripley - 519-395-2601<br />
www.kincardinefht.ca<br />
Mino Bimadsawin Health Centre<br />
57 Mason Dr., Saugeen First Nation<br />
519-797-3336<br />
M’Wikwedong Native Cultural Resource<br />
Centre - Owen Sound<br />
1-866-202-2068 or admin@mwikwedong.com<br />
www.mwikwedong.com<br />
Owen Sound Crisis Pregnancy Centre<br />
1-888-371-2004; oscpc@wightman.ca<br />
Pediatric clinics<br />
Hanover - 519-364-2340<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />
Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />
Penetangore Wellness<br />
www.penetangorewellness.com<br />
Poison Control Centre<br />
1-800-268-9017<br />
Postpartum depression<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit - 1-800-263-3456<br />
Keystone Child, Youth and Family Services -<br />
1-800-567-2384<br />
Ripley Physical Therapy and Wellness<br />
519-395-HEAL; info@ripleyptandwellness.ca<br />
https://ripleyptandwellness.ca/<br />
Sensational Skills Occupational Therapy<br />
226 Queen St., Kincardine; 519-270-KIDZ<br />
ashleysimmonsot@gmail.com<br />
South <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Health Centre (hospitals)<br />
Chesley - 519-363-2340<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />
Durham - 519-369-2340<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />
www.sbghc.on.ca<br />
South East <strong>Grey</strong> Community Health Centre<br />
55 Victoria St., Markdale<br />
519-986-2222 or 1-855-519-2220<br />
info@segchc.ca or www.segchc.ca<br />
St. John Ambulance First Aid training<br />
519-364-7004 or grey.bruce@on.sja.ca<br />
Online: http://bit.ly/t3Ye8g<br />
TeleHealth Ontario<br />
1-866-797-0007<br />
TVCC<br />
519-3370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />
www.tvcc.on.ca<br />
LIBRARIES<br />
Blue Mountains Public Library/<br />
L.E. Shore Memorial Library<br />
519-599-3681 or thebluemountainslibrary.ca<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County Public Library<br />
opac.brucecounty.on.ca; 519-832-6935;<br />
libraryinfo@brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Cargill - 519-366-9990<br />
Chesley - 519-363-2239<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3289<br />
Lion’s Head - 519-793-3844<br />
Lucknow - 519-528-3011<br />
Mildmay - 519-367-2814<br />
Paisley - 519-353-7225<br />
Port Elgin - 519-832-2201<br />
Ripley - 519-395-5919<br />
Sauble Beach - 519-422-1283<br />
Southampton - 519-797-3586<br />
Tara - 519-934-2626<br />
Teeswater - 519-392-6801<br />
Tiverton - 519-368-5655<br />
Tobermory - 519-596-<strong>24</strong>46<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-3<strong>24</strong>0<br />
Wiarton - 519-534-2602<br />
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Collingwood Public Library<br />
519-445-1571; www.collingwoodpubliclibrary.ca<br />
Dundalk/Southgate Public Library<br />
519-923-3<strong>24</strong>8; http://southgate-library.com/<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Highlands Public Library<br />
Flesherton - 519-9<strong>24</strong>-2<strong>24</strong>1<br />
Kimberley - 519-599-6990<br />
Walter Harris Memorial Library (Markdale) -<br />
519-986-3436; greyhighlandspubliclibrary.com<br />
Hanover Public Library<br />
519-364-1420 or www.hanoverlibrary.ca<br />
Meaford Public Library<br />
519-538-1060<br />
www.meaford.ca/meaford-library-home.html<br />
Owen Sound and North <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Union Public Library<br />
519-376-6623; www.owensound.library.on.ca<br />
West <strong>Grey</strong> Public Library system<br />
www.westgreylibrary.com<br />
Durham (main) branch - 519-369-2107<br />
Elmwood and area - 519-363-3321<br />
Neustadt - 519-799-5830<br />
Ayton/Normanby - 519-799-3<strong>24</strong>2<br />
MUSEUMS<br />
Billy Bishop Heritage Museum - Owen Sound<br />
519-371-0031 or www.billybishop.org<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County Lighthouse Museums<br />
Cabot (Lion’s) Head - 519-795-7780<br />
Chantry Island (Southampton) - 866-318-8889<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3468<br />
Point Clark - 519-395-<strong>24</strong>94<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County Museum, Cultural Centre &<br />
Archives - Southampton<br />
519-797-2080 or www.brucemuseum.ca<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula Visitors Centre<br />
519-596-2233 or http://bit.ly/rQQFf6<br />
Tobermory<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> Power Visitors’ Centre<br />
519-361-7777; www.brucepower.com<br />
Chesley Heritage & Woodworking Museum<br />
519-363-9837<br />
Craigleith Heritage Depot - Thornbury<br />
519-599-3131<br />
www.thebluemountains.ca/Craigleith-Heritage-Depot.cfm<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Roots Museum & Archives<br />
1-877-GREY ROOTS; www.greyroots.com<br />
RR4 Owen Sound<br />
Meaford Museum<br />
519-538-5974<br />
www.visitmeaford.com/meaford-museum.html<br />
Owen Sound Marine and Rail Museum<br />
519-371-3333; www.marinerail.com<br />
Paddy Walker Heritage Society - Kincardine<br />
519-396-1850<br />
www.walkerhousekincardine.com<br />
South <strong>Grey</strong> Museum - Flesherton<br />
519-9<strong>24</strong>-2843 or museum@greyhighlands.ca<br />
www.southgreymuseum.ca<br />
St. Edmunds Township Museum - Tobermory<br />
519-596-<strong>24</strong>79<br />
http://bit.ly/vEdicK<br />
Tobermory Maritime Association<br />
519-596-2700; www.tobermorymaritime.ca<br />
Treasure Chest Museum - Paisley<br />
519-353-7176 or http://bit.ly/1PjTS1D<br />
NEWCOMER SERVICES<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Settlement & Langauge Services<br />
519-371-9222 or settlement@osgb.ymca.ca<br />
ONLINE SUPPORT<br />
www.211.ca<br />
LGBT YouthLine: www.youthline.ca<br />
www.mentallyfit.ca<br />
www.pathwaysawareness.org<br />
www.shelternet.ca<br />
www.targetyouth.ca<br />
www.thehealthline.ca<br />
www.wesforyouthonline.ca<br />
PLAYGROUPS<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Play<br />
Monthly inclusive playgroup<br />
<strong>Grey</strong>bruceplay@gmail.com<br />
EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />
Chesley, Paisley, Kincardine, Port Elgin, and<br />
Wiarton - 1-800-616-8116<br />
Hanover, Markdale, Meaford, M’Wikwedong<br />
(Owen Sound), Owen Sound (East Ridge), and<br />
Thornbury - 1-866-483-7774<br />
SPECIAL NEEDS<br />
Autism Ontario <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Chapter<br />
226-787-0333 or marti@autismontario.com<br />
http://bit.ly/tO6kam; Owen Sound<br />
Autism Parent Support Group<br />
Community Living Kincardine & District<br />
519-396-9434 or www.clkd.ca<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County Children’s Services Resource<br />
Program<br />
1-800-265-3005 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Walkerton<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula (Wiarton) Association<br />
for Community Living<br />
519-534-0553<br />
Community Living Kincardine & District<br />
519-396-9434; www.clkd.ca<br />
Community Living Meaford<br />
519-538-4165<br />
Community Living Owen Sound<br />
and District<br />
519-371-9251 or communitylivingowensound.ca<br />
Community Living Walkerton & District<br />
519-881-3713 or www.clwalkerton.org<br />
Georgian Riding Association<br />
for Challenged Equestrians<br />
519-372-2721; grace@log.on.ca<br />
Wicklen Stables, RR5 Owen Sound<br />
Hope Haven Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />
519-986-1<strong>24</strong>7; www.hopehavencentre.org<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
Owen Sound; 1-800-567-2384<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
PRANCE Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />
519-832-2522 or prance@bmts.com<br />
Miramichi Farms, Hwy. 21 Port Elgin<br />
Reading Rescue Ontario<br />
519-794-4745 or soehner@bmts.com<br />
www.readingrescueontario.ca<br />
Holland Centre<br />
South <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Youth Literacy Council<br />
519-364-0008 or info@sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />
www.sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />
Hanover<br />
Special Therapy and Education<br />
Program of Saugeen (STEPS)<br />
519-797-1935<br />
info@stepsahead.ca; www.stepsahead.ca<br />
Southampton<br />
TVCC<br />
519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />
www.tvcc.on.ca<br />
United Way of <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />
519-376-1560; unitedwaybg@bmts.com<br />
www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com/<br />
Owen Sound<br />
SPEECH/LANGUAGE<br />
<strong>Bruce</strong> County Childcare Services<br />
1-800-265-3005; www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Walkerton<br />
Closing the Gap Healthcare Group<br />
Rehab Express <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />
1-866-990-9901 or www.closingthegap.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
South West Community Care Access Centre<br />
In-Home Services<br />
Owen Sound - 519-371-2112<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-1181<br />
www.sw.ccac-ont.ca<br />
TVCC<br />
519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />
www.tvcc.on.ca<br />
VOICE for Hearing Impaired Children<br />
Support, speech and language therapy<br />
<strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong> chapter is free to families<br />
www.voicefordeafkids.com<br />
WISH PROGRAMS<br />
Children’s Wish Foundation of Canada<br />
1-800-267-9474<br />
on@childrenswish.ca or www.childrenswish.ca<br />
Ajax, ON<br />
Make-A-Wish - Southwestern Ontario Chapter<br />
519-471-4900 or www.makeawishswo.org<br />
London, ON GBK<br />
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RECIPES<br />
Soup season!<br />
TURKEY BARLEY SOUP<br />
This soup is rich with the flavour of roasted<br />
turkey. You can make this hearty soup with a<br />
fresh turkey leg or leftover turkey.<br />
ROASTING TIME: 25 MINUTES<br />
PREPARATION TIME: 35 MINUTES<br />
COOKING TIME: 2 HOURS<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
500 g turkey leg or 4 cups turkey, cooked and diced<br />
1 cup barley (pot or pearl)<br />
1½ cup carrots, diced<br />
1 cup onion, diced<br />
1 cup each fennel root and celery, diced<br />
1 tbsp vegetable oil<br />
6 whole black peppercorns<br />
1 bay leaf<br />
1 tsp salt<br />
4 cups sodium-reduced chicken broth<br />
2 tbsp fresh parsley and thyme leaves, chopped<br />
Fresh thyme sprigs<br />
INSTRUCTIONS<br />
Place turkey leg on parchment paper-lined rimmed baking sheet. Roast<br />
at 375 F for 25 minutes.<br />
Meanwhile, in medium pot, cook barley in 3 cups water until tender,<br />
about 25 to 30 minutes or according to package instructions. Drain and<br />
set aside. Remove turkey from oven, set aside.<br />
In large pot, combine, carrots, onion, fennel, celery and oil. Cook over<br />
medium heat until vegetables start to soften, about 5 minutes. Add<br />
peppercorns, bay leaf, salt and turkey leg. Add broth and 1 cup water;<br />
cover and bring to boil. Reduce to simmer, cook for 1 hour. Remove<br />
turkey leg from pot, dice meat discarding skin and bones. Add barley<br />
and turkey to pot. (If using cooked diced turkey add it here.) Add<br />
parsley and thyme; simmer for 5 to 10 minutes, or until heated through.<br />
Ladle into soup bowls and garnish with thyme sprigs.<br />
Tip: Pre-cooking barley prevents it from absorbing too much broth when<br />
adding it to the soup.<br />
POTATO SOUP WITH CHEDDAR CROUTONS<br />
PREPARATION TIME: 15 MINUTES<br />
COOKING TIME: 25 MINUTES<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
1½ tbsp butter<br />
4 cups yellow-fleshed potatoes, cubed and peeled<br />
2 carrots, chopped<br />
1 large onion, chopped<br />
4 cups water<br />
1 tsp salt<br />
¼ tsp pepper<br />
1 cup milk<br />
2 tbsp fresh dill, chopped<br />
1 tbsp white wine vinegar<br />
CROUTONS<br />
2 tsp butter, at room temperature<br />
4 slices whole wheat bread<br />
4 slices cheddar cheese<br />
INSTRUCTIONS<br />
In large pot, melt butter over medium heat. Add potatoes, carrots and<br />
onion; cook covered for 8 minutes, stirring frequently. Stir in water,<br />
salt and pepper, scraping up any bits from the bottom; cover and<br />
bring to boil over high heat. Reduce to medium-low and simmer until<br />
vegetables are tender, about 15 minutes.<br />
Croutons: Meanwhile, heat large skillet over medium heat. Spread<br />
butter on one side of each bread slice; place 2 slices buttered side down<br />
in skillet. Top with cheese to fit bread and remaining slices of bread,<br />
butter side up. Cook for 3 to 4 minutes per side or until bread is<br />
toasted. Cool slightly and cut into cubes.<br />
In blender, purée soup in batches until smooth; return to pot. Stir<br />
in milk. Heat over medium heat just until steaming. Stir in dill and<br />
vinegar. Ladle soup into bowls and top with croutons. GBK<br />
Recipes courtesy Foodland Ontario<br />
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