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YEARS<br />

Serving Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye<br />

<strong>2024</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> John King Trophy and Gold Award<br />

Best <strong>Magazine</strong> of the Year 2018<br />

National <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Awards<br />

Best Overall 2015, 2020, 2022, 2023<br />

Best Content 2016, 2021<br />

Best Editor 2019<br />

Best Print 2018<br />

Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning & Sonning Eye since 1869<br />

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Church of St Andrew<br />

Serving Sonning, Charvil & Sonning Eye<br />

the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY


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<strong>The</strong> John King Trophy and Gold Award<br />

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Best Content 2016, 2021<br />

Best Editor 2019<br />

Best Print 2018<br />

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Contents <strong>July</strong>/<strong>August</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />

THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />

— Confirmation, 7<br />

— Corinne Robertson, 7<br />

— Housing, 7<br />

— Rendezvous Lunch Club, 7<br />

— Vicar's Silver Anniversary, 7<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Choir, 7<br />

— For your prayers, 7<br />

— STAY, 8-9<br />

— Why I am a Christian, 10-11<br />

— Christian marathon, 13<br />

— From the editor's desk, 13<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 15<br />

FEATURES<br />

— First man on the moon, 17<br />

— Sea Sunday, 19<br />

— Sainsbury Singers, 20-21<br />

— Election night bed time? 21<br />

—around the villages<br />

— Scarecrow Trail, 22-23<br />

— 100 baby hats, 24<br />

— Sonning Art Group, 24<br />

— Sonning School, 25<br />

— D-Day 80th Anniversary, 27<br />

HISTORY<br />

— St Aidan, 28<br />

— Was it really, 29<br />

— Jean-Baptiste Vianney, 29<br />

HOME AND GARDEN<br />

— A foot in the garden, 31<br />

— God in the Garden, 31<br />

FASHION<br />

— Summer wardrobe, 33<br />

THE ARTS<br />

— Summer reading, 34<br />

— Bach's Heavenly Choir, 35<br />

— Poetry Corner, 35<br />

THE SCIENCES<br />

— World wonders, 37<br />

— Seeds of time, 37<br />

PUZZLE PAGES, 38-39<br />

children's page, 41<br />

information<br />

— Church services, 3<br />

— From the registers, 3<br />

— Local Trades and Services, 40<br />

— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />

— Advertisers' index, 42<br />

This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />

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Picture: Doyouthinkhestrawus,<br />

the <strong>2024</strong> most popular scarecrow<br />

EDITORIAL DEADLINE<br />

<strong>The</strong> editorial deadline for every issue<br />

of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is 12 noon on<br />

the sixth day of the month prior to the<br />

date of publication.<br />

<strong>The</strong> deadline for the September<br />

issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is:<br />

Tuesday 6 <strong>August</strong><br />

at 12 noon<br />

From the Registers<br />

YEARS<br />

the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />

BAPTISMS<br />

— Sunday 12 May<br />

Amelia Rose Fladee Bailes<br />

Finlay Peter Sterland Sherriff<br />

— Sunday 9 June, Oliver James<br />

Preston<br />

WEDDINGS<br />

— Saturday 1 June, Joshua David<br />

John Endacott Palmer and<br />

Stephanie Lalo Dolly Audeh Chbat<br />

FUNERALS<br />

— Friday 10 May, Michael George<br />

Butler, interment of ashes<br />

— Friday 10 May, Molly Jeanette<br />

Woodley, service in church,<br />

followed by cremation at Reading<br />

Crematorium<br />

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Services in<br />

St Andrew's<br />

Church<br />

Sonning<br />

Sunday 7 <strong>July</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Service<br />

— 4.00pm Choral Evensong<br />

followed by Tea in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

Sea Sunday 14 <strong>July</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

Sunday 21 <strong>July</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Communion<br />

— 3.00pm Messy Church<br />

Sunday 28 <strong>July</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10. 30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

Sunday 4 <strong>August</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist<br />

Sunday 11 <strong>August</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist<br />

Sunday 18 <strong>August</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Communion<br />

Sunday 25 <strong>August</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10. 30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist<br />

OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />

Morning Prayer is held in the church<br />

every Tuesday at 9.30am.<br />

Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />

held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea<br />

and coffee follows the service.<br />

Home Communion at Sonning<br />

Gardens Care Home is held on the first<br />

Monday of each month at 11.00am.


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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />

D e a r F r i e n d S,<br />

Well, the General Election is almost upon us, and I wonder if you have all<br />

been riveted at each twist and turn? At the time of writing this, I don’t<br />

sense the main party campaigns have achieved much traction with the<br />

public, but perhaps that will change as we approach election day.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Boundary Commission has brought about some significant changes<br />

so that our own geographical church parish will now have three MP’s<br />

representing our communities.<br />

THANK YOU THERESA<br />

For the last 27 years, most of our parish has been represented by<br />

<strong>The</strong>resa May and for all that time she and Sir Philip have worshipped at<br />

St Andrew’s. As she is not a candidate in this election, I feel able to pay<br />

tribute to her tireless work for the Maidenhead Constituency now that<br />

she has stepped down. I have known several MPs over the years, from<br />

different parties, and all have been honourable and hardworking, with a<br />

clear sense of public service. <strong>The</strong>resa is someone for whom the notion of<br />

service over self is deeply ingrained, and I believe she has been an excellent<br />

representative for our area. When Home Secretary and then Prime<br />

Minister, I was impressed that her Constituency work and engagements<br />

carried on regardless, despite her heavy national and international<br />

responsibilities.<br />

I think that is one of the strengths of our Parliamentary system; that<br />

you can be the leader of the nation, fielding a call from the US President<br />

one minute and then going to open an allotment or meet a constituent to<br />

assist with their domestic concerns. I know many constituents who have<br />

been quietly helped by <strong>The</strong>resa and her Parliamentary case workers, and it<br />

is to be hoped that our new MP’s follow her fine example. I wish her well<br />

in her ‘retirement’, knowing full well that she will be busier than ever with<br />

new projects, especially her Global Anti-Slavery Commission, taking her all<br />

over the world in the process.<br />

NON-POLITICAL?<br />

Vicars’ letters, especially at election times, should rightly steer clear of<br />

politics and I always have, except for the referendum on EU membership,<br />

but that was not a party-political matter. Some of our bishops are not quite<br />

so disciplined and the recent appearance of Bishop Rose of Dover on BBC<br />

Question Time, during an election, when she said all those coming to Kent<br />

illegally are fleeing 'unsafe' France, is beyond parody.<br />

I will say that I do believe all adults have a responsibility to vote and I<br />

am dismayed at those who can’t be bothered or somehow don’t think it is<br />

their duty to participate.<br />

Apparently, in a recent poll, over 50% of 18–24-year-olds didn’t know<br />

what D-Day was. <strong>The</strong> largest seaborne military action in history, to rid<br />

Europe of an evil stranglehold, and far too many have no idea of it. It<br />

seems incredible to me. I am not suggesting that we all need to be well<br />

versed in military history, rather, it is what that seismic event enabled,<br />

that is apposite, namely our freedom. Surely, central to this is the<br />

democratic right, and I would argue, responsibility, to vote. So, let’s make<br />

sure we do just that on 4 <strong>July</strong>, 7am -10pm, and don’t forget your photo ID!<br />

Warm wishes.<br />

Jamie


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Confirmation<br />

We will be welcoming Bishop<br />

Timothy Wambunya (Hon Assistant<br />

Bishop), to lead a Confirmation<br />

service on Sunday 24 November in<br />

St Andrew's Church Sonning. If you<br />

would like to know more about being<br />

Confirmed — usually from the age<br />

of 11 up to any age! — please speak<br />

with Jamie or Westy.<br />

From the choir stalls<br />

By Richard Meeham MA ARCO<br />

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Corinne Robertson<br />

Our children and families minister<br />

has successfully completed her<br />

probation period, and, following an<br />

appraisal with the vicar, Westy and<br />

a warden, has been permanently<br />

appointed. Please keep her in your<br />

prayers as her ministry continues to<br />

develop and blossom.<br />

Housing<br />

Our youth minister, Chris West and<br />

his family have now moved to the<br />

church house in Charvil, and we are<br />

renting an apartment for Corinne<br />

and her husband in Sonning. <strong>The</strong><br />

Taylor Wimpey House in Woodley,<br />

where the Wests were living will be<br />

let commercially for the time being.<br />

Rendezvous Lunch Club<br />

After five years cooking for the<br />

Rendezvous Lunch Club, Emma<br />

Saville has stepped down as she<br />

has moved away to run her new<br />

hotel. She was a wonderful, cheerful<br />

presence among us and we are<br />

thankful for all she contributed,<br />

both at our lunches and for funeral<br />

and baptism receptions.<br />

We are delighted to announce<br />

that Kathy Wright from Sonning's<br />

Village Hamper will be taking over<br />

the catering for us. <strong>The</strong> lunches take<br />

place on the 2nd and 4th Tuesdays<br />

of the month. <strong>The</strong> cost is £10 for a<br />

two course meal, including filter<br />

coffee afterwards. To book please call<br />

Hilary in the <strong>Parish</strong> Office on 0118<br />

969 3298 or email:<br />

office@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

Silver Anniversary<br />

Rev Jamie will have been a priest<br />

for 25 years on Wednesday 3 <strong>July</strong><br />

and would be pleased to share the<br />

anniversary with members of the<br />

church family at the Wednesday<br />

10.00am communion service that<br />

day in <strong>The</strong> Ark — perhaps, weather<br />

permitting, an outdoor service.<br />

Anticipating autumn<br />

It might seem strange to look ahead to the autumn. Thinking about choir<br />

rehearsals as the nights draw in, might seem as if we were wishing away the<br />

summer of adventure and time with friends. Nevertheless, the new academic<br />

year will be upon us before we know it, and so it seems fitting that we should<br />

arrive in a state of readiness.<br />

St Andrew’s Children’s Choir<br />

In a few weeks, several of our<br />

exceptional young singers will no<br />

longer be of school age and go on to<br />

the next stage of life.<br />

In May, we started our 'Intrepid<br />

Voices' programme, to introduce<br />

students in school years 5-7 to choral<br />

singing. This, we hope will feed into<br />

our regular children’s choir rehearsals<br />

which run from 17.30 to 18.30 on<br />

Fridays, and support St Andrew’s<br />

Church in their more familyorientated<br />

services twice a month.<br />

This is a joyful way to learn new<br />

skills, and is even more appealing<br />

in that the singers can earn pocket<br />

money for their work. It is worth<br />

repeating the excellent personal<br />

benefits that making music can do<br />

for the individual, and anyone in<br />

years 5-7 who is interested in singing<br />

is encouraged to join. For further<br />

details, please contact the director of<br />

music on music@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

For your prayers<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Police and security services safeguarding<br />

the election<br />

— For those preparing for Confirmation<br />

— For all being ordained this month<br />

— For the Reading Salvation Army’s work with<br />

the homeless<br />

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Choral Scholarships<br />

As part of our choral programme,<br />

we are delighted to invest in the<br />

development of choral singers, and<br />

to support the wider life of the<br />

community in Sonning and beyond.<br />

Young people, typically between<br />

the ages of 16 and 19, who are both<br />

suitably musically accomplished<br />

and with the appropriate mind set<br />

are recompensed for these skills<br />

in recognition of the commitment<br />

required for the role.<br />

Remunerations range from<br />

£1,000-£1,600 per annum,<br />

depending on experience.<br />

We will be holding auditions in<br />

<strong>July</strong> <strong>2024</strong> for anyone interested in<br />

becoming a scholar from September-<br />

<strong>July</strong> 24/25.<br />

If you know someone who might<br />

be interested in applying for the<br />

scholarship, please contact the<br />

director of music on:<br />

music@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

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St Andrew's Youth<br />

email or text me, Westy, for<br />

ideas, a chat or to encourage<br />

what we are doing:<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk 0794 622 4106<br />

STAY in May Holiday Activities<br />

During the May half term we had three days of<br />

super fun activities. We played sports one day; took<br />

the young people to Thorpe Park for a day; and we<br />

went swimming at Coral Reef on one day. Each<br />

activity was filled with lots of laughter.<br />

STAY Scarecrow Trail<br />

Young people love the Scarecrow Trail and this year<br />

it was no different. We made David and Goliath<br />

in partnership with STAY and Sunday Club. <strong>The</strong><br />

children loved counting the sheep, marking their<br />

height against Goliath’s and throwing bean bags at<br />

the Goliath target.<br />

Family Service Children's Talks<br />

On the first Sunday of each month, St Andrew's has<br />

a family — all age — service at 10.30 am. We sing<br />

modern worship hymns, a young person reads the<br />

Bible, and STAY say the prayers of intercession. Plus,<br />

we have an interactive talk aimed at the children<br />

and young people. For the May Family Service the<br />

talk was about the Holy Spirit. Three examples were<br />

used of how, without the Holy Spirit, we would be<br />

like a pile of wood without fire, a kite without wind<br />

or a flannel without water. We would be pretty<br />

useless and unable to be Christ like. But with the<br />

Holy Spirit we are able to bring warmth, life and use.<br />

STAY in Schools<br />

During May we led assemblies in three of the local<br />

schools. In the primary schools we asked, ‘What<br />

does the Bible say about unity?’ and at Piggott<br />

Secondary School we asked: ‘What does the Bible<br />

say about our words and speech?’<br />

We continue to offer over 30 mentoring sessions<br />

in the schools as well as the Christian Union (CU)<br />

on a Monday at Piggott.<br />

Deanery Day<br />

It was an honour and privilege to be invited to the<br />

Reading and Sonning Deanery Day at Greyfriars in<br />

Reading town centre. It was amazing to see over 100<br />

people, together with Bishop Olivia, Archdeacon<br />

Stephen Pullin and many other clergy, youth<br />

workers, children's workers and volunteers. <strong>The</strong> day<br />

was about encouraging each other, sharing ideas<br />

and praying for our schools, churches and ministries<br />

among children and young people. During a short<br />

interview with Kathryn Aboud from Oxford Diocese<br />

I was able to share a good news story of two young<br />

people coming to faith through our schools work,<br />

being baptised on Easter Sunday and now plugging<br />

into local church youth groups.<br />

STAY on Monday<br />

Our fortnightly group met on Monday nights<br />

for two socials and a session thinking about our<br />

purpose, our hopes and our futures. We meet in<br />

young people's homes and the first Monday of each<br />

month is now a social so they can invite friends.<br />

STAY on Sunday<br />

Our Sunday group met twice in May in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

upper room, we looked at how Jesus prays and<br />

the story of David and Goliath. With David and<br />

Goliath we thought about the giants in our lives<br />

and the things God gives us to help cope with the<br />

obstacles life throws at us.<br />

STAY on Friday<br />

Our weekly youth club continues to welcome many<br />

local young people in <strong>The</strong> Ark from 6.45pm-8.15pm.<br />

Since we began in 2019, youth from 32 different<br />

schools have been represented.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se continue to include, and have grown<br />

since it started, basketball, four square, football,<br />

volleyball, cookie baking, nail bar, crafts, PS5 and<br />

XBox, manhunt games, board and card games,<br />

pool, table football and ping pong.<br />

All young people are welcome from years 7-13<br />

and year 6 are welcome on the fourth Friday of<br />

each month.


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Defeating<br />

the giant<br />

scarecrows<br />

in our lives<br />

May was a busy month! We were hard at work,<br />

crafting our entries for the Sonning Scarecrow<br />

Trail, and much of the month was focused on<br />

David and Goliath!<br />

In Sunday Club and Messy Church we read from<br />

the Bible, as well as from a couple of children's<br />

picture books, to get a larger picture of what we<br />

can learn from David and Goliath.<br />

We talked about how our trust in God is what<br />

helps us, now and in the future, to defeat all of the<br />

'giants' in our lives!<br />

Whether we are worried about moving<br />

from primary to secondary school, sad about<br />

a friendship, or even worried about a family<br />

member, if we look to God, pray, and trust in our<br />

faith, we see that love always wins in the end.<br />

To put this learning to action, some of the<br />

activities then included creating sheep for a<br />

scavenger hunt during the Scarecrow Trail,<br />

creating edible slingshots out of sweets, decorating<br />

cardboard feet to understand what it means to<br />

'walk in giant shoes', and more!<br />

MENTORING<br />

In schools during May, I continued mentoring<br />

students. Many of them really enjoy the fidget<br />

toys that I provide, which helps them to process<br />

their emotions and find the joy, even in the sad or<br />

difficult conversations.<br />

At one of the schools I have been meeting with<br />

the student worship leaders, and we have been<br />

planning a school-wide values day and reflecting<br />

on how we can show love to our community.<br />

It's wonderful to see how passionate and<br />

motivated the students are to be leaders in the<br />

school and further engage with other students and<br />

help out local communities.<br />

TRAINING<br />

Corinne<br />

I also had the opportunity to travel into London<br />

for a youth worker gathering and training day.<br />

Youth workers gathered at St Paul's Hammersmith<br />

from all over the country to worship together,<br />

reflect, network, and attend workshop sessions,<br />

varying from advice on how to manage conflict to<br />

how to help young people hear God.<br />

It was a great day and helped to further my<br />

professional development!


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KATHERINE KARALUS ANSWERS THE QUESTION . . .<br />

Why am I a Christian? . . . Because others<br />

ignited the spark of faith within me!<br />

When reflecting on the question, especially over my relatively recent journey that led to me<br />

becoming a Christian over the last 4 years, I realised the main reasons were that it took me nearly<br />

40 years to decide, and that I never had anyone to tell me why I would want to — but then, I’d never<br />

really made time to ask!<br />

Being inspired and encouraged by others has played a big part in finding my own path to faith, and in<br />

developing my own relationship with God. Hearing, and feeling, other people's strong flame of faith has<br />

helped to ignite the spark of curiosity within me.<br />

In John 8:12 Jesus said: 'I am the light of the world, whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will<br />

have the light of life', and I am so grateful to have finally discovered from others the joy, peace and comfort of<br />

inviting his light into my heart for myself. <strong>The</strong> least I can do, if it's God's will, is to share my story about my<br />

coming to faith, in the hope that it may help ignite even a tiny spark somewhere, for someone, or at least<br />

share some of the warmth and light that I have discovered.<br />

Coming to faith for me has been like a spark coming to light<br />

and becoming a flame burning bright. A spark I believe that<br />

has potential in everyone to ignite, burn out or remain unlit,<br />

depending on our choices.<br />

When I was a child, my flame was not alight at all. I was lucky<br />

to have a happy and stable upbringing but I didn’t grow up a<br />

Christian, prayer was only something we did in assembly to keep<br />

us quiet.<br />

Faith and church was something so distant I felt it 'wasn't for<br />

us’ but life was good and that was that.<br />

A TINY FLICKERING SPARK<br />

My life, however, took an unexpected turn when I was 18 years<br />

old and my Dad sadly died and something definitely changed. I felt<br />

in my heart that he had gone to a better place and I often had this<br />

sense of ‘the universe looking after me’, when strange coincidences<br />

happened.<br />

I felt this deep sense of love, a fatherly love, and would put it<br />

down to my Dad looking out for me. Looking back now I see that<br />

the Holy Spirit was at work in the physical sense. <strong>The</strong>re was a tiny<br />

spark occasionally flickering and a feeling that God was with me<br />

all that time ago. Curiosity was making my 'faith candle' flicker.<br />

Life continued well for me into my 20s and early 30s, and I was<br />

fairly content with my spirituality being based on a ‘feeling that<br />

there was probably a God’ but I wasn’t sure about Jesus but that<br />

was OK, right?<br />

HOPE IS COMING<br />

It was in my mid 30s when the next spark of curiosity came<br />

through a tragedy for two close friends. George passed away<br />

leaving his wife Louise and their one and three year olds, Charlie<br />

and Jamie. Through this tragedy came a miraculous chain of<br />

events which gave Louise, who was then atheist, such experience<br />

of the Holy Spirit and God's power that she<br />

is now not only an avid Christian, but has<br />

written a book called ‘Hope is Coming’.<br />

Her life’s biggest challenge was an<br />

inspiration. Louise noticed that for some<br />

people, her new faith created an awkward void<br />

between them and they grew distant, however,<br />

for me it drew us closer.<br />

My spiritual yearning to know more<br />

and to have my own journey deepened. Her<br />

encouragement and words helped to<br />

ignite my flame of curiosity.<br />

What struck me about Louise’s story, was that it started with a<br />

desperate plea to God. In a moment of desperation, in the dark, in<br />

her car, she shouted with all her might: 'God if you’re real now is the<br />

time to show me!'<br />

George still died. God didn’t answer immediately, but we often<br />

don’t see it at the time. She invited him in and he showed her<br />

beyond doubt. This recognition that Louise had invited him in, is<br />

important because it was this that started the next phase of my<br />

own journey.<br />

A MESSY COMMUNITY<br />

I was very lucky to meet Tsering. We married and had<br />

two wonderful children, Eddison and Arlie. We agreed it was<br />

important to bring the children up with the right values and that<br />

belonging to a community was important for us. Even though<br />

Tsering didn’t have an active faith, he had been exposed to it in<br />

a Catholic family and school so we went to a church where we<br />

lived in Windsor but it just felt so alien. I felt like a fraud. I didn’t<br />

understand what was going on. And being honest, I didn’t connect<br />

or feel anything in my heart.<br />

We moved to Sonning four years ago into hopefully our long<br />

term family home. Arlie was four months old, which is hard to<br />

believe looking at the size of her now, and Eddie was not even two.<br />

<strong>The</strong> community of Messy Church, and the warm welcome<br />

from people at St Andrew's, was like an olive branch for us as<br />

newcomers. A safe environment, I didn’t feel a fraud. It was just to<br />

meet people and feel part of the community.<br />

For parents, many will relate to the early months of sleepless<br />

nights with two kids under two years taking its toll, but out of<br />

nowhere I was also diagnosed with a rare, incurable medical<br />

condition. Life had been so rosy and my future was suddenly<br />

uncertain. My return to work after maternity was a difficult one<br />

and my condition led to other physical and emotional impacts.<br />

Bit by bit it felt like the lowest time of my life. Struggling, I found<br />

myself retreating, needing help, and seeking the smallest and<br />

simplest of things that would help get me through each day. In<br />

that darkness I began to feel the light of God in my life.<br />

During Lent we read Matthew 7:7 ‘seek and thee shall find, knock<br />

and the door will open’. This really resonated with me. I was seeking<br />

whether I knew it or not. I was seeking the light and God was<br />

helping me to find it. In darkness the smallest rays of light guide<br />

you, and by following the urges of my heart, and, encouraged by


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people I really trusted, I began to ask for<br />

help. I felt drawn to talk to Rev Kate, a<br />

fellow mum of young kids, and who, in<br />

turn, recommended the Alpha course. This<br />

was quite a game changer for us. As I look<br />

back I can see it was God at work.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Alpha course had come along at the<br />

right time. Being online, and encouraged<br />

by the leaders, my husband and I did the<br />

course together. I had not heard of it before<br />

and felt nervous because I didn’t know<br />

what to expect.<br />

By exploring faith and learning from<br />

others, Alpha enabled us to talk about stuff<br />

we didn’t know how to before.<br />

I was encouraged to realise that no<br />

one had all the answers, and doubts and<br />

questions only deepened our faith.<br />

It made us realise that being a<br />

Christian is about having a relationship with God. This<br />

relationship means starting to talk to him through prayer, and<br />

listening to what he is showing you.<br />

This was fundamental understanding that I had never<br />

realised, and it encouraged me to just give it a try.<br />

THE FOUNDATION<br />

<strong>The</strong> connection with the other members of the Alpha<br />

group, and the practical advice for someone who had no idea<br />

how to read the Bible or to pray, created the foundation for our<br />

relationship with God and with each other, and with our kids.<br />

Even hearing myself say these things, it can still feel alien.<br />

Prayer can still feel awkward, but, like any relationship, the more<br />

you put into it the more you get out of it, and it gets easier over<br />

time. You won’t get to know someone by watching from a distance<br />

and not talking to them.<br />

Going to church and taking part in Alpha, helped my head to<br />

understand, but the leap of faith has come from me believing that<br />

I will never truly understand but I am still willing to give it a go.<br />

During this time of exploration, life was tough, I was<br />

questioning God's path for me, but he spoke to me in ways he<br />

knew I would hear.<br />

When feeling down we often go into control mode, thinking we<br />

know what is best for us and that we have to achieve it. I thought<br />

I knew best but was actually seeking direction in life and he really<br />

showed me the path to take, It was so random, so profound.<br />

THANKING AND HOPING<br />

I could look back on the previous six months of struggle and<br />

see how he was helping me to be patient, distracting me and<br />

ultimately proving he is in control — not me! God's plan is not<br />

always our plan, so what is the point of worrying?<br />

All the stress that we humans put on ourselves through<br />

believing we are in control, starting to let go of this by truly<br />

having faith in God's plan for me was like lifting a huge weight off<br />

my shoulders.<br />

Giving my worries to God sounded too good to be true! By<br />

starting to thank, ask and pray, and hoping that it is God's will,<br />

has provided me with the real comfort to navigate life's troubles,<br />

pressures, and disappointments.<br />

I still feel a novice with prayer, but one thing I now know<br />

through really giving it a go, is that it works.<br />

As a humble person it never felt right to pray for things for me,<br />

and being lucky in life the people I felt really needed prayer always<br />

seemed too distant.<br />

That was until one day when Billy, a friend's three year old,<br />

suddenly fell very, very ill. It was close to home. He is the same age<br />

as Arlie.<br />

His life was in the balance. It felt so unnecessary. I felt<br />

compelled to pray with more vigour than I had for anything. I<br />

asked for forgiveness, I thanked him, I prayed in my head, I tried<br />

out loud, I prayed with Tsering, and Eddie and Arlie, I prayed over<br />

Zoom with others I didn’t know.<br />

MY SIGN<br />

It felt weird, like any new habit, but it also felt right. I asked<br />

God to really show me. <strong>The</strong> spread of the prayerful support<br />

from others was like a wildfire, it felt the best way to help. <strong>The</strong><br />

connection it gave with strangers who were also praying for Billy<br />

was electric.<br />

I was so confident that this was my moment with God for him<br />

to show up that I drove to Bristol to see Billy in hospital after 6<br />

months of non-stop seizures.<br />

His mum, a non Christian, was beyond grateful for the prayer<br />

army she called it, and we were both so moved by the Holy Spirit<br />

when the day I arrived she said it had been the first time in six<br />

months he hadn’t had a seizure. That was my sign.<br />

I knew in that moment, in my heart God was answering our<br />

prayers. We kept going. It has been a long complicated journey,<br />

but a year and a life altering operation later and Billy is making a<br />

miraculous recovery against the odds.<br />

Sadly, I understand this won't always be the case for everyone,<br />

or for every prayer. But God knew that was how I would hear him<br />

and trust him. He wasn’t just going to pop into my life one day, I<br />

had to demand that he show me.<br />

<strong>The</strong> more I pray, the more signs I see, and the greater peace I<br />

feel. Like any new habit it gets easier.<br />

A DIFFERENT SORT OF CHURCH<br />

Messy Church led to Sunday Club with the kids, and this led<br />

Tsering and I to the modern worship of Sunday at 6 which was<br />

enlightening to me. It is Church in a way I never knew existed.<br />

<strong>The</strong> family services and amazing team and congregation at<br />

St Andrew's has connected with our family at every stage.<br />

I don’t believe that I would have been able to become<br />

a Christian as fully and as rapidly as I have if it wasn’t for<br />

St Andrew's Church and so for all of you who have played a role<br />

whether you know it or not, I am eternally grateful and thank<br />

God for bringing us to Sonning!<br />

<strong>The</strong> Confirmation programme 18 months ago was perfect<br />

timing and having our children baptised two weeks later was a<br />

fitting milestone to our journey as we left behind my 30s to start a<br />

new chapter in life as a Christian family.<br />

SHARING THE LIGHT<br />

So why am I Christian? It's because others shared their faith,<br />

encouraged my faith, helped ignite my spark and burn my flame<br />

brighter and, importantly, because I invited Jesus into my life and<br />

asked God to show me his way.<br />

It's now up to me to keep that flame alight. God's spark is in all<br />

of us. We can choose to let it ignite our faith, keep it burning or let<br />

it go out, and, even more importantly, we can help to ignite and<br />

keep each other's 'candle's' burning brightly!


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Friday 26 <strong>July</strong> sees the start of the <strong>2024</strong> Olympic Games in Paris, writes<br />

Canon Paul Hardingham. In describing the Christian life as a marathon race,<br />

the writer of Hebrews (12:1-2) challenges us to finish well.<br />

‘throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles’<br />

As in a normal race, we have to get rid of any burdens that weigh us down,<br />

for example, possessions, worries, what others think of us and besetting sins —<br />

wrong habits or attitudes.<br />

We can cast our burdens on the Lord (Psalm 55:22) and be assured of his<br />

forgiveness (1 John 1:9).<br />

'run with perseverance the race marked out for us’<br />

<strong>The</strong> Christian life is like a marathon not a sprint race. It calls for endurance.<br />

<strong>The</strong> course is marked out for us, as we all have a unique race to run, with its<br />

opportunities and difficulties.<br />

God knows our path and will provide all that we need to complete the race.<br />

‘fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith’<br />

<strong>The</strong> runner keeps their focus on the finishing line and avoids all<br />

distractions. Our focus is on Jesus, who has run the race before us (‘author’),<br />

but is the one who can show us how to finish well (‘perfecter’).<br />

We are also surrounded by a ‘great cloud of witnesses’<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are God’s people, both past and present, who are cheering us on!<br />

During the 1992 Barcelona Olympics, the British athlete Derek Redmond<br />

was running in the 400 metres semi-finals. About 250 metres from the finish<br />

his hamstring tore, and he fell to the ground in pain.<br />

However, his father ran on to the track to support him in completing the<br />

race. Let’s not forget that whatever we face, God is there beside us to enable us<br />

to finish the race!<br />

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From<br />

the<br />

editor's<br />

desk<br />

Helping each other<br />

As in previous years, this issue of<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> covers <strong>July</strong><br />

and <strong>August</strong> so that I, and the<br />

other regular contributors and<br />

proofreaders can have a break. I was<br />

going to say 'enjoy' a break, but I<br />

know that most of the contributors,<br />

despite what they say, actually enjoy<br />

writing for us!<br />

I am sure that you will join me<br />

in thanking them for making time<br />

in their lives to write their regular<br />

contributions and spend time<br />

carefully reading every word we<br />

publish.<br />

A magazine like this would be<br />

very difficult to produce singlehanded,<br />

although I know that many<br />

churches struggle to find people to<br />

write and produce their magazines.<br />

As vice chairman of the<br />

Association for Church Editors, I<br />

regularly hear about the problems,<br />

caused by the lack of time and the<br />

lack of volunteers to help them, that<br />

most editors have when trying to<br />

produce their magazines. So, thank<br />

you again, everyone who helps!<br />

FINANCE<br />

<strong>The</strong> other main problem that<br />

many editors have is how they<br />

finance their magazine, the<br />

main costs being printing and<br />

distribution. Fortunately, we have<br />

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and organisations who recognise<br />

the opportunity such magazines<br />

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advertising pages, especially when,<br />

like ours, it is delivered free to every<br />

home in our ecclesiastical parish of<br />

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THE PERSECUTED CHURCH BY COLIN BAILEY<br />

<strong>The</strong> danger of being a Christian worsens in Somalia<br />

Hargeisa, biggest city of Somaliland<br />

This month we look at the Federal Republic of Somalia, continental Africa’s easternmost country.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Somali Republic was created<br />

in 1960 from the former British<br />

Somaliland protectorate and the<br />

Trust Territory of Somaliland, with<br />

boundaries drawn up by Italy and<br />

Britain.<br />

In 1969, the president was<br />

assassinated and a military coup<br />

d’etat followed.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Somali Democratic Republic<br />

continued until 1991 when the<br />

military regime of President Siad<br />

Barre was overthrown.<br />

A new internationally backed<br />

government was installed in 2012,<br />

and the country is said to be 'inching<br />

towards stability'.<br />

THE YOUTH<br />

<strong>The</strong> BBC reports that the<br />

authorities face a challenge from<br />

al-Qaeda-aligned Al-Shabaab<br />

insurgents.<br />

Al-Shabaab means 'the youth' in<br />

Arabic. It is banned as a terrorist<br />

group by both the US and the UK.<br />

<strong>The</strong> group advocates the Saudiinspired<br />

Wahhabi version of Islam,<br />

while most Somalis are Sufis.<br />

Al-Shabaab has imposed a strict<br />

version of Sharia in areas under<br />

its control and it has carried out<br />

terrorist attacks in Kenya, including<br />

the 2015 massacre at Garissa<br />

University where Christian students<br />

were targeted and 148 people died.<br />

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Somalia ranks at position<br />

number 2 in Open Doors’ World<br />

Watch List of countries where<br />

Christians face persecution.<br />

Al-Shabaab has repeatedly<br />

expressed its desire to eradicate<br />

Christians from the country.<br />

Estimates put the number of<br />

Christians in Somalia at only a few<br />

hundred out of a total population of<br />

17.3 million.<br />

Most, if not all, are converts<br />

from a Muslim background.<br />

<strong>The</strong> dangers of being a Christian<br />

are extreme.<br />

Open Doors states that, if<br />

discovered, believers could be killed<br />

on the spot, and that the dangers<br />

facing Christians in recent years<br />

appear to have worsened with<br />

Islamic militants intensifying their<br />

hunt for Christian leaders.<br />

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Open Doors supports Somali<br />

Christians through discipleship<br />

training and equipping them to cope<br />

with severe persecution.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y ask us to keep praying for<br />

our brothers and sisters in Somalia<br />

by:<br />

— Thanking God for the bravery of<br />

believers in Somalia<br />

— Asking that they feel the warmth<br />

and joy of the Lord’s presence<br />

— Praying that they be encouraged<br />

and be provided ways to meet<br />

and share safely with other<br />

believers<br />

— Asking for the Lord to soften the<br />

hearts of the persecutors and<br />

show them he is Lord<br />

— Praying for the brothers<br />

and sisters to be supernaturally<br />

protected and strengthened<br />

References and further reading<br />

Open Doors World Watch List –<br />

Somalia: https://www.opendoorsuk.<br />

org/persecution/world-watch-list/<br />

somalia/<br />

Somalia entry in Wikipedia: https://<br />

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somalia<br />

Somalia Country Profile on BBC:<br />

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/worldafrica-14094503<br />

BBC article on Al-Shabaab:<br />

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/worldafrica-15336689


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It's 55 years since man first<br />

walked on the Moon —<br />

what will be the next step?<br />

Armstrong image: Rorem, dreamstime.com<br />

20 <strong>July</strong> 1969, will always be known as one of the most iconic dates in history<br />

as it is the day that man first landed on the moon. Neil Armstrong and Buzz<br />

Aldrin were the astronauts on the crew of the Apollo 11 Space Mission, and<br />

the first humans to land on the moon. It was an event that changed the world.<br />

Neil Armstrong took the first-ever<br />

human steps on the moon, and said<br />

his now famous quote: 'That's one<br />

small step for man, one giant leap for<br />

mankind'.<br />

It was the first of six United States<br />

crewed missions and landings to<br />

the moon and it estimated that 650<br />

million viewers worldwide watched<br />

the first steps on the Moon.<br />

After their return to Earth the<br />

astronauts went on what was called<br />

the 'Giant Leap' tour, visiting 23<br />

countries in 38 days.<br />

ELECTRONICS<br />

I was fortunate, writes Bob<br />

Peters, to have been one of the<br />

millions and it was indeed, a<br />

'lifetime moment' that changed our<br />

world beyond recognition.<br />

I was nearing the end of a<br />

degree course in what was then the<br />

relatively new subject of electronic<br />

engineering. It was only offered by a<br />

handful of universities.<br />

After graduating, I stumbled<br />

into a career as a journalist writing<br />

about the electronics industry. I<br />

was the only member of a 16 person<br />

team of journalists that had any<br />

formal training in electronics —<br />

the others had mostly been local<br />

newspaper or business journal<br />

journalists and the editor came from<br />

a fashion magazine.<br />

Electronic engineering was a<br />

new, fast growing business that was<br />

a direct spin-off from the American<br />

project to walk on the moon.<br />

Eight years before the moon<br />

landing in 1961, President John F<br />

Kennedy believed America was<br />

capable of safely sending a manned<br />

crew to the moon and having them<br />

return safely.<br />

At the time, America was in<br />

the midst of the Cold War with the<br />

Soviet Union, which was far ahead<br />

of the United States when it came to<br />

space exploration.<br />

This was the main reason why<br />

JFK's words were taken so seriously,<br />

and people quickly got to work.<br />

In 1966, NASA tested the<br />

strength of its launch vehicle and<br />

spacecraft by sending an unmanned<br />

mission to the moon and two years<br />

later Apollo 7 was launched with a<br />

crew to safely orbit the Earth and<br />

return. It was a very successful test<br />

of the systems that would send man<br />

to the moon. It was not without risk<br />

— in 1967 three astronauts lost their<br />

lives.<br />

Apollo 11 lifted off on 16 <strong>July</strong><br />

1969 from the Kennedy Space<br />

Center, carrying three astronauts,<br />

Moonscape image: Gualberto Becerra P, dreamstime.com<br />

Neil Armstrong, Buzz Aldrin, and<br />

Michael Collins.<br />

<strong>The</strong> spacecraft entered the Moon's<br />

orbit on 19 <strong>July</strong>, and the next day,<br />

Neil Armstrong and Buzz Aldrin<br />

navigated Eagle, the lunar landing<br />

module to descend onto the moon's<br />

surface. It landed on the Moon at 8.17<br />

pm on 20 <strong>July</strong>, and Neil Armstrong<br />

radioed the now also iconic message<br />

'<strong>The</strong> Eagle has landed.'<br />

Millions watched on TV as at<br />

10.39 pm Neil Armstrong made his<br />

way out of the lunar module, and at<br />

10.56 pm set his foot on the Moon,<br />

making him the first man to ever<br />

walk on the Moon.<br />

SCIENCE FICTION?<br />

On the Earth there was a huge<br />

spin-off resulting from the new<br />

materials and electronic systems<br />

developed for the Moon project. As<br />

I delved into the background of the<br />

new products that were flooding<br />

the market, time after time, I would<br />

meet development engineers who<br />

would tell me that this particular<br />

material or product or technology<br />

was a direct result of the moon<br />

landing.<br />

I was also told that one day we<br />

would all be walking around with a<br />

handheld device that could be used<br />

as a phone, a pocket computer and<br />

numerous other things. All this was<br />

science fiction 55 years ago. I wonder<br />

what the next 55 years will achieve?


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feature — 2<br />

Seeing Sea<br />

Sunday sense<br />

Look around your home. How much<br />

of the contents in your cupboards,<br />

wardrobe, rooms, and even garage<br />

came to you over the seas, via the<br />

great merchant ships? What would<br />

your home be like without them?<br />

Yet when did you last give a thought<br />

to the people who brought them to<br />

you?<br />

It is a curious fact that seafarers are<br />

one of the most important, and yet<br />

invisible, groups of people in our<br />

society.<br />

We depend on them to fill our<br />

homes and businesses with an<br />

endless variety of goods, and yet<br />

we rarely see them, rarely speak to<br />

them, and rarely even remember<br />

their existence.<br />

It suddenly makes Sea Sunday,<br />

which this year is on 14 <strong>July</strong>, seem<br />

good sense.<br />

DEMANDING<br />

Sea Sunday gives us an annual<br />

opportunity to give thanks for the<br />

seafarers of the world, and to pray<br />

for their personal well-being.<br />

Working at sea is a lonely<br />

occupation. It separates families for<br />

months on end. It can sometimes be<br />

dangerous, and it is always physically<br />

demanding work.<br />

So this month, on Sea Sunday,<br />

let’s pause and give thanks to God<br />

for the seafarers of the world. Let’s<br />

remember how their work enriches<br />

our lives.<br />

Let’s pray for them, for their<br />

families, and let’s support the<br />

organisations that offer them<br />

care and support through their<br />

chaplaincy work.<br />

In doing so, we will join<br />

thousands of other Christians<br />

around the world who each year<br />

remember the seafarers who make<br />

our prosperity possible.<br />

This Christian concern for<br />

mariners is not something new,<br />

it dates from Biblical times —<br />

think of Noah and the Ark in the<br />

Old Testament, while in the New<br />

Testament, we can read about Paul's<br />

concern for the safety of seafarers<br />

when he warned the crew that it<br />

wasn’t a safe time of year to sail:<br />

'I can see that our voyage is going to<br />

be disastrous and bring great loss to ship<br />

and cargo, and to our own lives.'<br />

On that occasion Paul’s words<br />

were ignored, and the ship sailed<br />

into a violent storm. By the third day<br />

they ‘finally gave up all hope of being<br />

saved.’<br />

Paul urged the sailors to 'keep<br />

courage, because not one of you will be<br />

lost, only the ship will be destroyed.'<br />

His confidence rested on an<br />

angelic promise: 'Do not be afraid,<br />

Paul. You must stand trial before<br />

Caesar; and God has graciously given<br />

you the lives of all who sail with you.'<br />

Only the sovereign God, who<br />

created the wind and waves, can<br />

promise to save people from a storm.<br />

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Yan Zabolotnyi, dreamstime.com<br />

What does this mean for us in our<br />

circumstances today?<br />

So, how do you face up to storms<br />

in your life? Do you worry and panic?<br />

God doesn’t necessarily prevent<br />

storms from taking place, but we<br />

can trust his purpose through them.<br />

We can also help others who care for<br />

those who risk their lives at sea on<br />

our behalf.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are several Christian<br />

organisations who work with<br />

seafarers, and who need our support<br />

in their chaplaincy work. <strong>The</strong>y offer<br />

resources for Sea Sunday and include:<br />

— Mission to Seafarers:<br />

https://www.missiontoseafarers.org/<br />

— Apostleship of the Sea:<br />

http://www.apostleshipofthesea.org.uk/<br />

— Sailors’ Society:<br />

https://www.sailors-society.org/<br />

Men of the Sea<br />

Your first disciples, Lord, were men of the sea:<br />

Hardy fishermen from the shores of Galilee.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y knew from experience the perils of the deep…<br />

<strong>The</strong>y also knew your presence with them in their darkest hours.<br />

We pray for those who face like hazards today…<br />

Lord of the sea, be near to guard them in every danger…<br />

And let them hear Your voice above the tempest,<br />

‘It is I, be not afraid’’<br />

So bring them to their haven in peace. Amen<br />

From a prayer by Frank Colquhoun


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feature — 3<br />

Claude looks backwards, and forwards, t<br />

Recently, I visited the Hexagon to listen to the musical<br />

Kipps, performed by the Sainsbury Singers. I say ‘listen to’<br />

as my eyesight is such that I can’t enjoy the staging, but<br />

the music was as good as ever. I met some old friends whom<br />

I used to sing and perform with in the Sainsbury Singers,<br />

many years ago.<br />

From my previous articles, you may remember that I was<br />

encouraged by Barbara’s father (Roly) to take her home after<br />

a dance one evening. Well, that was a Sainsbury Singers’<br />

gathering!<br />

Roly was one of the founding members of the Sainsbury<br />

Singers, started by Frank Sainsbury in 1938. In the early<br />

days, the performances were in Palmer Hall, which was in<br />

West Street. My father and a friend helped with the scene<br />

shifting, although I am not sure when they started, but I<br />

became involved with this when I was 18 in 1952.<br />

DRESS REHEARSAL<br />

After one show, I joined the chorus as a bass in Desert<br />

Song. Obviously, I wasn’t around for two years (1955-1957)<br />

because of my National Service (which I have written about<br />

in a previous article), but I returned to be part of the chorus<br />

in <strong>The</strong> Arcadians in 1957.<br />

Barbara performed too.<br />

We would have our dress rehearsal on the Monday<br />

and then performances from Tuesday to Saturday. We<br />

performed in the Town Hall, when the Concert Hall would<br />

be transformed by scaffolding, curtains and staging into a<br />

theatre!<br />

REMEMBRANCE<br />

I remember on one occasion that there was a team of us<br />

who, after the final Saturday evening performance, stayed to<br />

change the theatre back to the concert hall. This was because<br />

the next day was Remembrance Sunday and the Town Hall<br />

needed to be cleared in case it rained! It took all night and<br />

we finished by having breakfast that morning in the Police<br />

Station, which was then in Valpy Street.<br />

I well remember the show ‘<strong>The</strong> White Horse Inn’ and even<br />

some of the words, with my costume of lederhosen! My aunt<br />

Dorothy came to watch and, after the show, she remarked<br />

on the fact that I had come on with the wrong hat! She was<br />

right!<br />

FAMILY AFFAIR<br />

<strong>The</strong> Sainsbury Singers were very much a family affair with<br />

myself, Barbara and Roly being part of the company. He had<br />

a lovely voice and always had a leading part.<br />

Barbara’s mum was responsible for costumes and my<br />

father was a scene shifter.<br />

My mum was part of the in-house work team, selling<br />

programmes and helping the audience.<br />

Barbara’s much younger brother used to ‘help’ my mother.<br />

He got on very well with her and would enjoy playing tricks!<br />

One of his favourites was deliberately setting the bolts<br />

down on the doors so that when she quietly closed them as<br />

<strong>The</strong> cast of HMS Pinafore 1968 — Claude is in the second row, third from the left.<br />

the performance began, they made a loud scraping noise and<br />

everyone would turn in their seats to see what was happening!<br />

Our final show was a time when Frank Sainsbury was ill.<br />

Roly was asked to take over as conductor, which he thoroughly<br />

enjoyed. So much so, that he wanted to do this for future shows.<br />

Frank Sainsbury disagreed and there was a big bust up and rift<br />

between them.<br />

FAMILY TIES<br />

This split the Sainsbury Singers. Some stayed but others left<br />

with my family. Roly formed the New Elizabethan Singers with<br />

those that came with him.<br />

I actually disagreed with Barbara’s dad and wanted to stay<br />

with the Sainsbury Singers but family ties meant that I felt I<br />

had to go with the rest of the family.<br />

<strong>The</strong> New Elizabethan Singers were a choral group and we<br />

met in Reading.<br />

Mary Richards had been a fine cellist in the orchestra of the<br />

Sainsbury Singers shows and so she knew Roly well. She lead a<br />

children’s and adult singing group in Purley.<br />

When she wanted to form a new group, she borrowed<br />

some of the New Elizabethan Singers as she especially wanted<br />

more men. This group was known as the Thames Vale Singers,<br />

which Mary lead and conducted, and we performed in Purley<br />

Memorial Hall.<br />

<strong>The</strong> shows were mainly Gilbert and Sullivan which Roly<br />

produced. Barbara and I had started our family by then and so<br />

often had to take it in turns going to rehearsals. Sometimes we


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o the 'proms'<br />

were lucky enough to have baby sitters and then we would buy<br />

fish and chips on the way home!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re was a lot of cross over between the members of the<br />

Thames Vale Singers and the New Elizabethan Singers and it<br />

was where Barbara’s brother met his future wife.<br />

We also made some lifelong friends, Patsy and Ray.<br />

After a New Elizabethan rehearsal, which was in a hall on<br />

Friar Street that is now converted into a shop, we would troop<br />

off to the launderette and then went to the pub while we waited<br />

for our clothes to be ready. <strong>The</strong>re was usually quite a party in<br />

the launderette!<br />

LOOKING FORWARD<br />

Mary Richards also taught piano to my son, Paul, for free<br />

from her house on the corner of Oxford Road and Elsley Road<br />

near Purley.<br />

On one occasion, I parked at the side of her house on Elsley<br />

Road, which was a steep hill.<br />

I left Rachel in the car — she was quite young at the time —<br />

to take Paul into the house. Rachel was fiddling and managed to<br />

release the handbrake, and so the car naturally rolled forward<br />

and across the Oxford Road. Luckily, it wasn’t busy and there<br />

were no cars at the time. You can imagine how much trouble I<br />

was in!<br />

I always enjoyed singing and we were in a church choir<br />

all this time. Happily, my family have continued the musical<br />

traditions in their different ways and I am looking forward to<br />

the upcoming Prom season again.<br />

David Pickup, a solicitor, and an occasional contributor to<br />

this magazine, considers the coming General Election . . .<br />

Going to the Country<br />

Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there<br />

is no authority except that which God has established. <strong>The</strong><br />

authorities that exist have been established by God. For the one<br />

in authority is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong,<br />

be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

are God’s servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the<br />

wrongdoer. <strong>The</strong>refore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities<br />

. . . Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay<br />

taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honour,<br />

then honour. (Extracts from Romans 13)<br />

When will you go to bed on 4 <strong>July</strong>?<br />

This month we have a chance to vote for our Members of<br />

Parliament, and the leader of the party that can command<br />

a majority will form the government. <strong>The</strong>re is a concern<br />

that ‘voter engagement’ is low, meaning that we are not<br />

very interested any more. <strong>The</strong> turnout at the 2019 General<br />

Election was 67.3% which was slightly up from 2015. <strong>The</strong><br />

lowest turnout in a General Election was recorded in 1918 at<br />

57.2%, due to the end of the First World War.<br />

Between 1922 and 1997 turnout remained above 71%. At<br />

the 2001 General Election the turnout was 59.4%. For people<br />

under the age of forty it is much less.<br />

Should we be concerned? Voting turnout has been fairly<br />

stable since 1918 at between 60% and 70%. <strong>The</strong> numbers that<br />

vote in this country are similar to most other countries.<br />

For the first time at a UK general election, those voting at<br />

a polling station will need to show photo ID. Voters should<br />

check now if they have an accepted form of ID, and if not to<br />

apply for free ID, called the Voter Authority Certificate .<br />

To answer my own question, I am not sure when I go<br />

to bed on election night. I do not always stay up all night.<br />

Election excitement begins to wane in the early hours!<br />

Politics seems to be a spectator sport for most of us. We<br />

enjoy the shocks and surprises and the live results when the<br />

spotlight is on a constituency.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Christian teaching on politics is clear. We should<br />

respect those in authority and admire those who seek it.<br />

Most people enter politics for good reasons. Perhaps we<br />

should remind them they are God’s servants.<br />

Please remember your<br />

donations for the<br />

Woodley Food Bank<br />

Please inside remember St Andrew's your<br />

Church which is open<br />

10am - 4pm every day<br />

donations for the Woodley Food<br />

Bank and place them in the box<br />

just inside St Andrew's Church.<br />

Thank you!


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AROUND THE VILLAGES — 1<br />

2<br />

All photographs by Indy Biddulph


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1<br />

1<br />

3<br />

Best in the village?<br />

Followers of the Scarecrow Trail were invited to vote for their favourite<br />

exhibit. <strong>The</strong> top three favourites, identified above by the numerals 1,2 and 3 in<br />

the red circles were:<br />

1: DoYouThinkHeStrawUs<br />

2: Singing in the Rain<br />

3: Despicables<br />

FoStAC, <strong>The</strong> Friends of St Andrew’s Church, thank everyone who baked beautiful cakes and helped<br />

serve refreshments over the two days of the Scarecrow Trail weekend. It helped FoStAC to raise over<br />

£1,400 which will help fund the repair of the Vestry wall inside St Andrew's Church.


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Hats off to Ann and Gerry for their<br />

100/100 'knitivity' challenge!<br />

Sparks must have been flying off the knitting needles of Ann Way (above<br />

left), a member of the Inner Wheel Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh as, with<br />

some help from fellow member Gerry Luckhurst, she succeeded in knitting<br />

100 baby hats for the maternity unit of the Royal Berkshire Hospital.<br />

Why 100 baby hats? Because ‘100 for 100’ is an initiative to find unusual ways<br />

of celebrating Inner Wheel's centenary year.<br />

Inner Wheel UK began in the UK in 1924 and is now one of the largest<br />

organisations for women with over 100,000 members in more than 100<br />

countries. Its membership has been open to all women since April 2012.<br />

<strong>The</strong> club's Reading Maiden Erlegh group meets at Sonning Golf Club on the<br />

third Thursday evening of every month and welcomes new members to join in<br />

the fun, take part in activities, raise funds for charity and support the local<br />

community.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is more information about Inner Wheel Club Maiden Erlegh and the<br />

worldwide organisation on:<br />

https://www.innerwheelrme.org or email them at iwcrme@gmail.com.<br />

Sonning & Sonning Eye Society diary dates<br />

Garden Party Afternoon Tea with fizz on Sunday 28 <strong>July</strong> 3-5.30 pm. Tickets<br />

are £15 each. It will be at Gordon and Mary Jones home in West Drive. Tickets<br />

must be purchased in advance online or by contacting Penny Feathers on<br />

penny.feathers@btinternet.com or 0118 934 3193.<br />

Village Walk with John Turney on Saturday 20 <strong>July</strong> starting at 10.30am<br />

outside St Andrew's Church. John will take the group through the village<br />

pointing out buildings and the interesting people who lived there. <strong>The</strong>re is no<br />

charge but places must be reserved by text or calling Heather Kay 0785 177 5467.<br />

Artists sell 20 works<br />

of art during the<br />

Scarecrow Trail<br />

Sonning Art Group's exhibition of<br />

work that is a regular feature of the<br />

Scarecrow Trail included their own<br />

'scarecrow' in the form of Barbie<br />

who generated at lot of interest<br />

from visitors who bought over 20<br />

pictures produced by the group's<br />

members.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Group meets every Friday from<br />

12 30-4 pm in Pearson Hall, Sonning<br />

and unusually have a few spaces for<br />

new members. If interested call in at<br />

the hall, or leave a note, giving your<br />

details to Sue Bell at Pearson hall<br />

and you will be assured of a warm<br />

welcome whether you are a beginner<br />

or an established artist.


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around the villages — 1<br />

around the villages — 3<br />

Scarecrow makers and pond dippers make<br />

plans for the Sonning Village Show . . .<br />

Fresh from the fun of building scarecrows, the pupils of Sonning Primary<br />

School went 'eco dipping' in Ali's Pond. Now they are making plans for the<br />

Sonning Village Show that will be held as usual in the school grounds.<br />

To create their Scarecrow Trail entry<br />

the pupils worked with residents of the<br />

Signature at Caversham Care Home.<br />

This was part of a joint project<br />

between the school and the care home<br />

that encourages the children and the<br />

residents to work together in craft<br />

activities under the banner heading<br />

of 'Birds of a feather, flock together'<br />

and which is designed to represent<br />

community, connections and care.<br />

<strong>The</strong> project was led by a parent,<br />

Hannah of Greener Health Physio,<br />

Sonning, who also works at the<br />

Signature at Caversham Care Home.<br />

No sooner had the Scarecrow Trail<br />

finished, the pupils set to work on<br />

their next 'Eco Day' on Wednesday 5<br />

June.<br />

This was led by Miss Haworth and<br />

the focus of the day was biodiversity.<br />

Pupils enjoyed activities in school,<br />

and a number of classes visited Ali’s<br />

Pond to do some pond dipping. She<br />

said: 'It was excellent to be out in the<br />

local area, and it reminded us of how<br />

fortunate we are to live in an area<br />

that has so many places to visit and<br />

enrich everyone's education. We also<br />

made the most of our school grounds,<br />

checking over our developing growing<br />

area and using our grounds to look for<br />

nature, mini beasts and other signs of<br />

natural life.'<br />

<strong>The</strong> school is now making plans<br />

for the Sonning Village Show which,<br />

as always, takes place in the school<br />

grounds. This year it will be on<br />

Saturday 14 September when there<br />

will be stalls run by the PTA, local<br />

organisations, live music, maypole<br />

dancing, BBQ and bar, competitions<br />

organised by the Sonning Village<br />

Show committee and Phil Sherwood,<br />

Sonning School's headmaster, will<br />

be bringing some of his animals<br />

including the infamous Pablo the Pig!


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HISTORY — 1<br />

<strong>The</strong> Irishman who changed English history<br />

St Aidan statue; Georgesixth, dreamstime.com, and sunset at Lindisfarne; Derekwatt, dreamstime.com<br />

St Aidan statue on Lindisfarne, georgesixth, dreamstime.com<br />

Sunset over Lindisfarne, derekwatt, dreamstime.com<br />

<strong>August</strong> 31st is the Feast Day of St Aidan who died on that<br />

day in the year 651 AD. He was born in Ireland, but is a<br />

strong contender for the title of the first English bishop,<br />

although honours did not mean a great deal to this<br />

austere but captivating character.<br />

In 635 he went to Northumbria at the invitation of Oswald,<br />

the local ruler. Oswald had spent several years of his<br />

childhood on Iona, and when he succeeded to the throne<br />

of his northern kingdom he was shrewd enough to realise<br />

that the Christian faith would be an ideal unifying force to<br />

pacify rival tribes of warlords.<br />

Oswald's invitation was not immediately successful.<br />

<strong>The</strong> first missionary from Iona returned in despair,<br />

claiming that the barbarity of the Northumbrians made<br />

them unconvertible. But as Aidan listened, he felt the<br />

unmistakable call of God to try again.<br />

'Perhaps you were too harsh on them', he found himself<br />

suggesting to the travel-stained missionary. Shortly<br />

afterwards, Aidan found himself at the head of a party of<br />

brothers heading for Northumbria. He was never to see his<br />

beloved Iona again.<br />

THE REST IS HISTORY<br />

<strong>The</strong> monks made the long journey to Northumbria<br />

on foot, singing psalms as they went. <strong>The</strong>ir need to ward<br />

off the powers of evil with prayer was genuine, for these<br />

were dangerous times to travel unarmed through remote<br />

country.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y arrived safely at Oswald's castle in Bamburgh,<br />

where he offered them lavish hospitality and assumed that<br />

they would establish their community there.<br />

However, the brothers realised that to live under the<br />

king's protection would make it difficult to avoid the<br />

world's temptations and establish a rapport with the local<br />

people. <strong>The</strong>y saw the tidal island of Lindisfarne on the<br />

horizon and chose it as their base. <strong>The</strong> rest, as the saying<br />

goes, is history.<br />

Aidan was much loved as a teacher and evangelist;<br />

though stern in his own self-discipline, he was prepared to<br />

travel to the most inaccessible villages, where he cared for<br />

the local people with compassion and gentleness. In time<br />

his influence grew and noble people joined the stream of<br />

visitors to Lindisfarne.<br />

After Oswald's death in 642, his brother Oswin<br />

succeeded him as king. Oswin was concerned about<br />

Aidan's habit of walking everywhere. <strong>The</strong> saint was ageing<br />

rapidly, his body weakened by years of harsh fasting and<br />

exposure to the elements.<br />

Oswin wondered what would happen to him one day on<br />

the road, and also he felt that such a lowly means of travel<br />

was not appropriate for a bishop. So he gave Aidan one<br />

of his finest horses, complete with a beautifully worked<br />

saddle and bridle.<br />

Aidan did not feel able to risk offending the king by<br />

spurning his generosity, but he rode out of the palace with<br />

a heavy heart. He knew that people would relate to him<br />

differently now that he had the trappings of affluence,<br />

and that it would be dangerous to stop and rest with such<br />

valuable belongings beside him.<br />

<strong>The</strong> king had intended to give him comfort, but his<br />

gesture had had the opposite effect. Aidan had learnt that<br />

possessions, and the need to protect them, make it more<br />

difficult to follow God with an undivided heart. <strong>The</strong> story<br />

goes that he gave the horse, complete with saddle, to the<br />

first beggar he met outside the palace gates.<br />

HUMBLED BY INTEGRITY<br />

A more pragmatic Christian might have reasoned<br />

that keeping on the right side of Oswin would lead to<br />

opportunities that were too valuable to risk.<br />

Indeed, the king was angry when he heard what<br />

Aidan had done. 'That horse was fit for a king, not for some<br />

vagabond,' he protested. 'I could have found you an old nag if<br />

you wanted to give it away.'<br />

Aidan's reply was simply, 'What do you think, O King?<br />

Is the son of a mare worth more in your eyes than the Son of<br />

God?'<br />

<strong>The</strong>re was an awkward silence; then the King removed<br />

his sword, knelt at Aidan's feet and asked his forgiveness.<br />

When he returned to the banqueting table, it was with a<br />

beaming smile.<br />

Sadly, he too was to perish in battle shortly afterwards;<br />

these were violent times. Yet Oswin, whose culture<br />

demanded that he should appear all-powerful in the<br />

eyes of his followers, had been publicly humbled by the<br />

integrity of a simple monk who had challenged his values.


HISTORY — 2<br />

Was it really . . .<br />

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A saint for everyone<br />

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. . . 750 YEARS AGO on 11 <strong>July</strong> 1272 that Robert I (Robert<br />

the Bruce) was born. He was King of Scotland 1306-29.<br />

. . . 125 YEARS AGO on 1 <strong>July</strong> 1899 that Gideons International<br />

was founded. <strong>The</strong> evangelical Christian association places<br />

free Bibles in hotel rooms, hospitals, schools, military bases<br />

and prisons around the world.<br />

. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 11 <strong>July</strong> 1924 that British sprinter<br />

Eric Liddell won the men’s 400 metres gold medal at the<br />

1924 Olympics in Paris. He preferred 100 metres, but<br />

because the heats were on a Sunday he refused to run.<br />

. . . 90 YEARS AGO on 4 <strong>July</strong> 1934 that Marie Curie, Polishborn<br />

French physicist died. She was the first woman to<br />

win a Nobel prize which she received for her work on<br />

radioactivity.<br />

. . . 75 YEARS AGO on 27 <strong>July</strong> 1949 that the first successful<br />

test flight of the de Havilland Comet, the first commercial<br />

passenger jet, took place.<br />

. . . ALSO 75 YEARS AGO on 29 <strong>July</strong> 1949 that the BBC<br />

began broadcasting regular weather forecasts on TV.<br />

. . . 70 YEARS AGO on 5 <strong>July</strong> 1954 that the BBC launched<br />

the first daily television news programme in the UK.<br />

. . . 65 YEARS AGO on 25 <strong>July</strong> 1959 that the first hovercraft<br />

crossed the English Channel.<br />

. . . 60 YEARS AGO on 28 <strong>July</strong> 1964 NASA launched the<br />

Ranger 7 space probe on a mission to the Moon.<br />

. . . 30 YEARS AGO on 21 <strong>July</strong> 1994 that Tony Blair was<br />

elected leader of Britain’s Labour Party. He became Prime<br />

Minister in 1997.<br />

. . . 25 YEARS AGO on 1 <strong>July</strong> 1999 that the Scottish<br />

Parliament was officially opened by Queen Elizabeth II.<br />

. . . 15 YEARS AGO on 5 <strong>July</strong> 2009 that the Staffordshire<br />

Hoard was discovered by a metal detectorist in<br />

Hammerwich, a village in Staffordshire. It is the largest<br />

hoard of Anglo-Saxon gold and silver ever found, and<br />

consists of around 4,600 items dating from the 7th<br />

Century.<br />

Jean-Baptiste Vianney<br />

Jean-Baptiste Vianney, who died on 4 <strong>August</strong> 1859, is the<br />

saint for those whose passion is to help people find peace<br />

with God.<br />

Vianney was born near Lyons in 1786, the son of a peasant<br />

farmer. With no money for schooling, he first became a<br />

shepherd. But, like David in the Bible, his deep personal faith<br />

and zeal soon drew him away from guiding sheep to guiding<br />

people.<br />

It took Vianney nine years to become a priest — he<br />

couldn’t learn Latin, and he had to hide for a year to avoid<br />

being conscripted into Napoleon’s army. But, eventually, in<br />

1815, at the age of 29, he was ordained, and after a curacy,<br />

was sent to the tiny village of Ars-en-Dombes near Lyons.<br />

Here he remained for the next 40 years, becoming known<br />

simply as the ‘Curé d’Ars’.<br />

GOD GIVEN GIFT<br />

Gabitzu, wikipedia commons<br />

Vianney proved that it did not take Latin to be an<br />

excellent parish priest. His ability to preach with simplicity<br />

and passion, and his gifts as a truly outstanding spiritual<br />

director soon had the people flocking to him for help.<br />

At one time in Vianney’s ministry, he was spending up to<br />

16 hours a day hearing confessions and counselling people.<br />

He had a God-given ability to discern the real issues in life,<br />

and to put his finger on the real causes of the problems.<br />

As Vianney’s fame spread, tens of thousands of people<br />

went to the Curé of Ars-en-Dombes — 20,000 in 1855<br />

alone. <strong>The</strong> rich, poor, famous and obscure, all of them were<br />

welcomed, prayed with and helped by this extraordinary<br />

parish priest — sometimes up to 300 of them a day.<br />

It was an exhausting routine, but Vianney felt he could<br />

not retire. And so eventually he died at work in his parish, on<br />

4 <strong>August</strong> 1859. By then he was widely loved and respected<br />

not only by Roman Catholics, but also by the Protestants.


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HOME AND Garden<br />

Afoot in the garden<br />

By Ray Puddefoot<br />

Lavandula stoechas<br />

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CERATOSTIGMA (shrubby plumbago) Masses of small<br />

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ERIGERON VINSKIANUS<br />

From Mexico it has a continuous display of white daisy<br />

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ERYSIMUM ‘BOWLES MAUVE’<br />

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HARDY FUCHSIAS<br />

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Drought tolerant and also easy from cuttings.<br />

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Hardies for sustained summer colour<br />

HARDY GERANIUMS<br />

Flowering continuously include ‘Ann Folkard’, ‘Russell<br />

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HYDRANGEA ANNABELLE<br />

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the autumn. <strong>The</strong>re is a new pink flowering form.<br />

LAVANDER STOECHAS<br />

French and Spanish lavenders send out new flowers<br />

throughout the summer.<br />

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— Move pots and baskets to a shady area of the garden.<br />

— Place pots in saucers to add a reservoir.<br />

— Dead head and trim bedding plants before you<br />

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shortly afterwards and pots will stay moist for longer.<br />

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— Ask family, friends or friendly neighbours to check and<br />

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FASHION BY HARRIET NELSON<br />

It's <strong>July</strong> and we are officially in the heights of summer,<br />

with temperatures gradually increasing each day. Fashion<br />

follows suit with more summer essentials filling the high<br />

streets weekly. This month, I want to discuss the upcoming<br />

summer essentials you need to update your wardrobe for<br />

the hot weather ahead.<br />

What is summer without the salty waves, tan lines, and a<br />

refreshing dip in the sea? Living in sunny Cornwall during<br />

my time at university, I loved the summer weather. I miss<br />

taking the opportunity to have a quick dip in the ocean<br />

and sunbathe at the beach whenever I had a spare couple of<br />

hours.<br />

Now I'm back home and working, I don't have the luxury<br />

of a spontaneous beach day, and I long for my next holiday.<br />

Thankfully, the weather has recently improved, and I can<br />

finally bring my summer wardrobe out. But what will I be<br />

wearing?<br />

MIDI OR MAXI?<br />

Levi's have recently been trending online with their new<br />

summer skirts. <strong>The</strong>se long denim skirts are beautiful and a<br />

classic wardrobe piece for a summer wardrobe.<br />

<strong>The</strong> longer midi and maxi denim skirts are everywhere,<br />

and with 90s fashion trending hard, it's no surprise that<br />

youngsters everywhere have been wearing them. I have<br />

recently bought two...Oops!<br />

One is a cargo-style blue denim skirt with pockets, and<br />

the other is a plain black denim skirt, both with a slit, ready<br />

for the chic summer ahead. I find these skirts perfect for the<br />

current weather, especially as the evenings can still be chilly.<br />

Levi's will always be a staple brand in wardrobes all over<br />

the world; the brand's most famous pair of jeans — Levi's 501<br />

— turned 151 years old this year and is still fashion's most<br />

iconic jeans and it is still a staple in many wardrobes today.<br />

FLATTERING TROUSERS<br />

Another summer essential to add to your list is linen,<br />

or cotton, trousers. This basic, but breathable, wardrobe<br />

standard, some would think, would be lower on some<br />

people's lists to buy for the summer. However, if you know<br />

me, you will know that I wear my black pair of cotton<br />

trousers everywhere!<br />

Mine are from Zara, and these flattering trousers go<br />

with any top. You can style it up or down, depending on the<br />

occasion. Mostly, I wear them casually, with a crop top and<br />

my pair of Nike Jordan shoes to finish the look. You can<br />

easily add a pair of heels and a lovely top to elevate the look.<br />

If you want to feel relaxed and comfortable this summer,<br />

why not buy yourself some trousers you can wear repeatedly,<br />

that will feel good all summer long!<br />

Another essential wardrobe piece is a classic swimming<br />

costume. For those who don't usually venture into the sea for<br />

a quick dip in the calm ocean, warm or cold, now's the time to<br />

do so this summer.<br />

<strong>The</strong> brand 'Free People' has some beautiful bikini designs<br />

and costumes of all shapes and colours. <strong>The</strong>se swimming<br />

costumes come in many different patterns tailored for<br />

everyone. I prefer a full swimsuit to a bikini, and I have<br />

recently purchased a beautiful black one.<br />

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What will you be wearing now summer is here?<br />

Harriet Nelson<br />

Even if you're not a keen swimmer, you will probably<br />

want to look and feel your best when sunbathing and<br />

relaxing by your hotel pool. I'm looking forward to wearing<br />

my new costume while lazing in the French sunshine,<br />

reading my book, or hanging out with my friends around the<br />

pool. I can now tick this essential clothing item off my list<br />

ready for my holiday!<br />

JAZZY OR CLASSIC FRAMES?<br />

Finally, the last essential summer item everyone needs is<br />

a good pair of sunglasses. I recently acquired my new brown<br />

square frames from the brand 'Joules'.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are only a few wardrobe essentials that, no matter<br />

the season, will always make a welcome addition to any<br />

outfit, and that's sunglasses for the sunny weather ahead!<br />

Not only will they protect your eyes from damaging UV rays,<br />

but they will also look stylish and can be worn any day of any<br />

season.<br />

If you're tired and sleep-deprived and want to cover your<br />

eyes, try shades. Feeling relaxed and stylish and wanting to<br />

pull your perfect outfit together, put some stylish frames on<br />

to amplify your summer mood. With the sunshine on the<br />

horizon, it is time to elevate your look with a jazzy pair or a<br />

classic, clean look to feel elegant in this warm weather.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are my top four essential items that you should<br />

consider this summer. Everyone has different ideas about<br />

fashion and what they should wear, but it's always great to<br />

get inspiration from the people around you, magazines, TV,<br />

and perhaps even TikTok, and change your style just a little<br />

as the sunny weather arrives. Hopefully, some of my daily<br />

essentials will inspire you to change your wardrobe this<br />

summer. What summer fashions will you try?


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THE ARTS — 1<br />

Summer holiday reading suggestions<br />

God’s Promises for Everyone<br />

by Shell Perris, SPCK, £9.99<br />

Wherever you<br />

go, God is with<br />

you. He won't<br />

leave you on<br />

your own. He is<br />

always enough.<br />

It offers 50<br />

promises of<br />

God. Each<br />

page takes a<br />

Biblical promise and brings it to life<br />

in a short thought-provoking line of<br />

lyrical prose. On each page there is a<br />

promise, a black and white silhouette<br />

illustration with a splash of colour,<br />

a lyrical piece of prose that inspires<br />

hope, comfort and peace and the Bible<br />

verse reference.<br />

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explore together, or to mark a Baptism<br />

or First Communion.<br />

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Kingsley series<br />

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and lows of growing<br />

up. When Antigone<br />

Kingsley (Tig),<br />

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fruitful relationships,<br />

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Have No Fear – being salt and<br />

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share Jesus with our friends, despite<br />

our fears. He argues that it is possible<br />

to stand up to the pressure society<br />

places on us, and in so doing we’ll find<br />

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gospel should enlarge<br />

our hearts and make<br />

us generous, before<br />

addressing the practical questions<br />

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where that giving should be directed.<br />

It can be read in less than an hour<br />

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It would also be ideal for pastors who<br />

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speak about congregational giving.


THE ARTS — 2<br />

Lord of Life<br />

By Steven Rolling<br />

Tune: Ewing (‘Jerusalem the golden’)<br />

Based on a prayer by Mother Teresa (1910-1997)<br />

1. Dear Jesus, help me to spread<br />

Your fragrance, by you led<br />

Everywhere that I go, pray<br />

Fill me with you each day<br />

Flood my soul with your Spirit<br />

And life, my path be lit<br />

By you, and possess my whole<br />

Being, e’en all my soul<br />

2. Utterly, that my life be<br />

Radiance of yours, see<br />

Shine through me, and be in me<br />

That every soul freely<br />

I meet may feel your presence<br />

And go forth refreshed hence<br />

3. Let them look up and see no<br />

Longer me, but you know<br />

You only, Jesus, Saviour<br />

Be the influence sure<br />

That I share, witnessing to<br />

Your mercies ever new<br />

Others be brought into your<br />

Kingdom for evermore<br />

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Johann Bach's musical love of Paradise<br />

In 1956 a small novel by a German<br />

writer, Johannes Rüber, appeared<br />

in an English translation. It was<br />

called ‘Bach and the Heavenly Choir’<br />

and tells of Pope Gregory XIX’s<br />

desire to elevate Johann Sebastian<br />

Bach to the ranks of the saints.<br />

To bring together the Lutheran<br />

bishop and his own cardinals, he<br />

organised a great Bach festival in<br />

Rome where he announced his plan<br />

and the reasoning behind it: J S<br />

Bach's faith had become music.<br />

In that realisation lies the grace<br />

and glory of Bach’s achievement,<br />

and is one reason why his works are<br />

treasured today. <strong>The</strong> irony is that<br />

the bulk of his music was never<br />

published in his lifetime. <strong>The</strong> six<br />

Brandenburg Concerti, beautifully<br />

copied out and offered, were never<br />

performed and the music put in a<br />

cupboard.<br />

His music in all probability would<br />

have been lost for ever had it not<br />

been for a young Mendelssohn,<br />

who found a manuscript of the<br />

St Matthew Passion in his music<br />

teacher’s house.<br />

He recognised it for its brilliancy<br />

and beauty and ordered a massive<br />

search to unearth the decaying<br />

manuscripts.<br />

JOYOUS<br />

So much of Bach’s music was<br />

inspired by his joy in believing.<br />

Consider one of the six motets, ‘Jesu,<br />

meine freude’ (Jesus, my joy).<br />

It was probably written for a<br />

memorial service in <strong>July</strong> 1723. In his<br />

other works, freude, or ‘joy’, releases<br />

new movement. In this motet, the<br />

word is kept within the constraints<br />

of the chorale melody that acts as a<br />

framework for the motet.<br />

<strong>The</strong> word that brings a joyous<br />

release is Geist, Spirit. When it<br />

appears, each voice joins in the chase<br />

as notes spill over the page and into<br />

our ears, proclaiming the inspiration<br />

of God’s Spirit in human life.<br />

This spirit of joy helps us realise<br />

that what makes Bach’s music so<br />

vital and rewarding is that total<br />

sense of movement and dance.<br />

Wilfred Mellers wrote a book<br />

‘Bach and the Dance of God,’ showing<br />

how so much of Bach’s music is<br />

dance-inspired from lively gavottes<br />

to more stately sarabandes that can<br />

be heard in both the instrumental<br />

and choral music.<br />

Widor, like Bach a great organist,<br />

wrote that ‘For me Bach is the greatest<br />

of preachers.’<br />

And what does he preach? That in<br />

the end, all is dance and life in the<br />

power of God’s Spirit. In ‘Jesu, meine<br />

Freude’ as in all his music we hear<br />

and relish the movement and pulse<br />

of his compositions that open up for<br />

us a world where all is joy and dance.<br />

That is how Dante ended his<br />

vision of Paradise, where everything<br />

is movement and dance, and what<br />

moves the sun and stars is love.<br />

Poetry Corner<br />

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Lighting Path, Hannu Viitanen, dreamstime.com


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THE SCIENCES<br />

Exploring<br />

big questions<br />

about the<br />

wonders of<br />

our living<br />

world<br />

Dr Ruth M Bancewicz, church<br />

engagement director at <strong>The</strong> Faraday<br />

Institute for Science and Religion<br />

in Cambridge writes on the positive<br />

relationship between science and the<br />

Christian faith.<br />

It’s important to have debates about<br />

science and Christian faith and to<br />

dig into the hot topics, but we can’t<br />

exist solely on a diet of controversy.<br />

I find it helpful, at times, to<br />

simply enjoy the wonders revealed<br />

by science and the big questions they<br />

raise about meaning and purpose.<br />

What’s the universe for? What do<br />

you do with your feelings of awe and<br />

wonder? Where do we get our sense<br />

of the value of the living world from?<br />

I had the privilege of meeting a<br />

group of Christian scientists and<br />

theologians who shared thoughts<br />

about these big questions, and will<br />

share some of their thoughts here.<br />

FUNDAMENTAL<br />

<strong>The</strong> Oxford-based theologian<br />

Alister McGrath said that 'science is<br />

wonderful at asking questions. Some of<br />

those questions can be answered, but<br />

very often when you do answer them,<br />

they simply open up yet more questions.<br />

'But of course, there are some more<br />

fundamental questions I think science<br />

simply cannot answer…questions like,<br />

‘Why am I here?’”<br />

IMPRESSIVE<br />

Rhoda Hawkins, a physicist<br />

at Sheffield University, has had a<br />

similar experience.<br />

'I never cease to be amazed at quite<br />

how impressive the world is, and how<br />

impressive the mechanisms are for how<br />

things work...It really is beautiful in<br />

many ways, and it leads me to think<br />

A family making time to explore the living world.<br />

about God. I’m not saying that I have<br />

any proof, but I’m saying that by looking<br />

at the world around me it tells me more<br />

about God and it leads me to worship<br />

him.'<br />

APPRECIATION<br />

Another scientist who appreciates<br />

beauty is Jeff Hardin, who explained<br />

that 'studying the wonders of the<br />

living world is an exercise in art<br />

appreciation. For me, God is the creator<br />

of everything… so the joy of discovery<br />

is also the joy of appreciating the world<br />

that God has made…and leads me to<br />

thank God for the amazing world that<br />

we have to enjoy and to explore.'<br />

MARVELLOUS<br />

I will close with some words from<br />

Jeff Schloss, who — like the others<br />

quoted above — finds that Christian<br />

faith makes science more satisfying<br />

for him.<br />

'Once I became a Christian … I<br />

had the sense that I was studying the<br />

marvels of the natural world, which<br />

are marvellous in their own right but<br />

become more profoundly engaging and<br />

enticing when one thinks that you’re<br />

studying the works of God.'<br />

Perhaps if we can spend more<br />

time listening to people like this, our<br />

discussions about science and faith<br />

will also be richer and deeper.<br />

Quotes from videos on<br />

https://www.wondersofthelivingworld.org<br />

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Seeds of time<br />

Buried seeds don’t always die.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y can lie dormant, remaining<br />

alive but inactive until the earth is<br />

turned over. Top of the list of longlived<br />

seeds are the narrow-leafed<br />

campion, buried by squirrels in the<br />

Siberian permafrost over 30,000<br />

years ago. When they germinated,<br />

they became healthy plants that<br />

produced seeds of their own.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Bible contains many links<br />

between seeds and spiritual growth,<br />

the parable of the sower being the<br />

most famous in Matthew 13.<br />

A person may hear or experience<br />

something of God which has the<br />

potential to germinate into a life of<br />

following God, resulting in the fruit<br />

of others coming to know God.<br />

But things can happen that snatch<br />

that seed away, killing it before it has<br />

finished germinating, or choking its<br />

growth.<br />

What about the knowledge of<br />

God that gets trampled, churned too<br />

deep in the mire of life to receive the<br />

warmth and light it needs to develop<br />

into faith?<br />

<strong>The</strong> possibility of that moment of<br />

connecting with something divine,<br />

scrap of knowledge, or snatch of<br />

conversation resulting in a changed<br />

life may seem infinitesimally small,<br />

but as the narrow-leafed campion<br />

illustrates, it is not!


38 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>July</strong>/<strong>August</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

PUZZLE PAGE — 1<br />

BIBLE CROSSWORD<br />

Fighters Verse Search by Ralph<br />

Across<br />

1 - Relating to the Jewish day of rest (10)<br />

7 - Point of view (Matthew 22:17) (7)<br />

8 - 20th Century Brethren philanthropist whose construction<br />

company became one of the UK’s biggest, Sir John — (5)<br />

10 - Girl’s name (4)<br />

11 - Peter was accused of being one in the courtyard of the high<br />

priest’s house (Luke 22:59) (8)<br />

13 - <strong>The</strong> fifth of the ‘seven churches’ (Revelation 3:1–6) (6)<br />

15 - ‘Now the famine was — in Samaria’ (1 Kings 18:2) (6)<br />

17 - Banned by the seventh Commandment (Exodus 20:14) (8)<br />

18 - Insect most closely associated with itching (1 Samuel 24:14) (4)<br />

21 - Bantu tribe which gives its name to tiny landlocked country<br />

in southern Africa (5)<br />

22 - Familiar material in churches that use an overhead projector (7)<br />

23 - Last book of the Bible (10)<br />

Ralph's ‘verse search’ grid above contains the names of 24<br />

fighters (people and planes) whose names begin: 2C; E; 2F;<br />

2G; 2H; L; 6M; 2N; P; R; 2S; T; W. If you find all 24 you will<br />

also notice that the unused letters in the grid spell out a<br />

relevant verse from the King James Bible. You might even<br />

manage to identify the verse. Good luck, and God Bless!<br />

Write your answers here . . .<br />

Down<br />

1 - <strong>The</strong> young David’s favourite weapon (1 Samuel 17:40) (5)<br />

2 - ‘Your vats will — over with new wine’ (Proverbs 3:10) (4)<br />

3 - Once yearly (Exodus 30:10) (6)<br />

4 - Milled it (anagram.) (3-5)<br />

5 - Region north of Damascus of which Lysanias was tetrarch (Luke 3:1) (7)<br />

6 - Comes between Philippians and 1 <strong>The</strong>ssalonians (10)<br />

9 - Lake where the first disciples were called (Luke 5:1–11) (10)<br />

12 - Abusive outburst (8)<br />

14 - Are loud (anagram) (7)<br />

16 - Printing errors (6)<br />

19 - ‘Take my yoke upon you and — from me’ (Matthew 11:29) (5)<br />

20 - Jacob’s third son (Genesis 29:34) (4)<br />

ANSWERS TO LAST MONTH'S WORD SEARCH<br />

ASTER<br />

VIOLET<br />

ORCHID<br />

PANSY<br />

LOTUS<br />

ROSE<br />

LILY<br />

LOBELIA<br />

SALVIA<br />

HYDRANGEA<br />

BUTTERCUP<br />

DAHLIA<br />

FRANGIPANI<br />

HIBISCUS<br />

HOLLY HOCK<br />

HONEYSUCKLE<br />

CHRYSANTHEMUM<br />

LOOSE STRIFE<br />

NASTURTIUM<br />

OLEANDER<br />

RHODODENDRON<br />

SAFFRON<br />

SWEET WILLIAM<br />

ANTIRRHINUM<br />

BOUGAINVILLEA<br />

<strong>The</strong> hidden Bible verse was from Job 14:2<br />

(Good News Bible)<br />

WE GROW AND WITHER<br />

AS QUICKLY AS FLOWERS


PUZZLE PAGE — 2<br />

CROSSWORD<br />

1 2 3 4 5 6 7<br />

8<br />

9 10<br />

11 12<br />

13<br />

14 15 16<br />

SUDOKU<br />

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answers in the next issue<br />

June Solutions<br />

CROSSWORD<br />

C O M M I N G L I N G<br />

I F U E I E A<br />

N F S P A S M W E D<br />

D U B A I R B E I<br />

E E C E S I R E N<br />

P L A C A R D S F<br />

E T L A I I<br />

N S P A C E M A N<br />

D O M E D A C P I<br />

E O E T U N L I T<br />

N U T L U R E S O U<br />

T E T O E R M<br />

E S T A B L I S H E D<br />

17 18<br />

20 21 22<br />

23 24<br />

Across<br />

ACROSS<br />

In these times (8)<br />

1 - In these times (8)<br />

- (4)<br />

5 - Agitate (4)<br />

9<br />

-- Operatic<br />

songs (5)<br />

songs (5)<br />

10 - - Of Of enormous effect (7) effect (7)<br />

11 - Duplication (12) (12)<br />

14 - Allow (3)<br />

14 - Allow (3)<br />

15 - Freedom from war (5)<br />

15 - Freedom from war (5)<br />

16 - Mountain pass (3)<br />

16 - Mountain pass (3)<br />

17 - Blasphemous (12)<br />

17 20 - Blasphemous - Progress (12)(7)<br />

20 22 - Progress - Unexpected (7) plot<br />

element (5)<br />

22 - Unexpected plot element (5)<br />

23 - Abominable snowman (4)<br />

23 - Abominable snowman (4)<br />

24 - Speaking many<br />

24 - Speaking many languages (8)<br />

languages (8)<br />

CODEWORD<br />

19<br />

Down<br />

DOWN<br />

1 - Close by (4)<br />

1 - Close by (4)<br />

2 - Palest (7)<br />

2 - Palest (7)<br />

3 - Detailed<br />

3 - Detailed<br />

reports<br />

reports<br />

(12)<br />

(12)<br />

4 - Absolutely 4 - Absolutely (3) (3)<br />

6 - Musical 6 - Musical speeds speeds (5) (5)<br />

7 - Not long ago (8)<br />

7 - Not long ago (8)<br />

8 - Science of biological<br />

processes (12)<br />

12 - Hang with cloth (5)<br />

12 - Hang with cloth (5)<br />

13 - Alphabetical list of<br />

terms 16 (8) - Critical (7)<br />

16 - Critical (7)<br />

18 - Crave; desire (5)<br />

18 - Crave; desire (5)<br />

19 - Proofreader's mark<br />

8 - Science of biological processes (12)<br />

13 - Alphabetical list of terms (8)<br />

19 - Proofreader's mark meaning 'let it stand' (4)<br />

21 - Self-esteem (3)<br />

meaning 'let it stand' (4)<br />

21 - Self-esteem (3)<br />

19 18 16 12 6 16 10 9 17 25 22 25<br />

11 22 14 16 9 2<br />

16 23 13 19 6 15 13 17 9 19 11 16<br />

26 26 14 16 25 10<br />

16 10 11 13 3 19 17 9 17<br />

10 14 26 19 14 18 9 25 16 8<br />

14 21 13 25<br />

7 17 21 1 19 22 26 16 17 9<br />

6 16 11 20 19 17 8 16 18<br />

14 8 16 2 17 4<br />

5 8 16 10 20 19 18 14 26 19 16 13<br />

16 7 11 10 5 10<br />

17 16 16 17 9 16 18 26 16 18 11 24<br />

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z<br />

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13<br />

14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26<br />

K L Y<br />

Each of the nine blocks has to contain all the<br />

numbers 1-9 within its squares. Each number<br />

can only appear once in a row, column or box.<br />

WORDSEARCH FOR SEA SUNDAY<br />

14 <strong>July</strong> brings us Sea Sunday, the day<br />

when Christian churches remember, pray<br />

and give thanks for the more than 1.5<br />

million merchant seafarers worldwide. If<br />

seafarers seem irrelevant to your daily life,<br />

think again: 80% of everything you buy in<br />

the shops comes to you by sea. Merchant<br />

seafarers quite literally keep our global<br />

economy afloat. Yet it is a tough life, far<br />

from loved ones. Merchant ships are harsh<br />

working environments, never mind the<br />

threat of piracy or even shipwreck.<br />

To help the seafarers, a worldwide<br />

network of port chaplains has sprung up.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y offer hospitality and friendship, as<br />

well as practical, emotional and spiritual<br />

support, providing almost a ‘home from<br />

home’ in hundreds of ports, in more than<br />

50 countries. You might wish to support<br />

one of these three well-known societies:<br />

<strong>The</strong> Mission to Seafarers (Anglican), <strong>The</strong><br />

Apostolate of the Sea (Roman Catholic), and<br />

<strong>The</strong> Sailors’ Society (inter-denominational).<br />

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vicar@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

— Youth Minister: Chris West (Westy)<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk / 0794 622 4106<br />

— Licensed Lay Minister: Bob Peters<br />

bob@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 377 5887<br />

— Children and Youth Minister: Corinne Robertson<br />

corinne@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Churchwardens<br />

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<strong>Parish</strong> Office Manager<br />

— Hilary Rennie, office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Parochial Church Council<br />

— Secretary: Hilary Rennie 0118 969 3298<br />

— Treasurer: Jerry Wood 0118 969 3298<br />

Director of Music, Organist and Choirmaster<br />

— Richard Meehan MA ARCO<br />

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