August 2024 Parenta Early Years Magazine
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FREE Early Years Magazine Out Now!
The August edition of Parenta's FREE 40-page early years magazine is ready to download now and do we have a special edition for you!
Our focus now turns to the holidays …and beyond! We have selected our top fun and affordable summer activities (for both rain and shine!), and we take a sensitive look at the effects of separation anxiety and how to support children if they spend longer periods than usual with parents or grandparents during the summer break.
Looking ahead, don’t miss Paloma Forde’s must-read parents’ guide to starting the new academic year, and much more!
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Issue 117<br />
AUGUST <strong>2024</strong><br />
Discussing<br />
Separation Anxiety<br />
Tech tools for<br />
young learners<br />
Helping children to<br />
self-regulate<br />
+ lots more<br />
EYFS activities<br />
inside!<br />
This month…<br />
Literacy<br />
Fun and affordable<br />
Summer Holiday activities<br />
Starting the new academic year: 12 Top Tips for Parents<br />
Addressing Cash Flow Issues in your <strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong> Setting
30<br />
12<br />
24<br />
Hello<br />
Welcome to our family<br />
Welcome to the <strong>August</strong> edition of <strong>Parenta</strong> magazine!<br />
In <strong>August</strong>, our focus turns to the holidays …and beyond! We have selected our top fun and affordable summer activities (for<br />
both rain and shine!), and we take a sensitive look at the effects of separation anxiety and how to support children if they<br />
spend longer periods than usual with parents or grandparents during the summer break. Looking ahead, don’t miss Paloma<br />
Forde’s must-read parents’ guide to starting the new academic year. Our sector experts, as always, have given us so much to<br />
read. This month, guest authors include Dr Sarah Moseley who explores enhancing digital literacy with the use of technology,<br />
music expert Frances Turnbull, who looks at supporting socio-emotional development, Gina Bale jumps into Fundamental<br />
Movement Skills, and Priya Kanabar explores self-regulation and soothing.<br />
We have a short webinar break during <strong>August</strong>, but please rejoin us on Tuesday 17th September, for “Safeguarding in the<br />
<strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong>” led by safeguarding expert Yvonne Sinclair. Yvonne will delve into the latest changes to safeguarding guidance<br />
and the “Keeping Children Safe in Education” (KCSIE) document. This session is designed to keep you and your staff informed<br />
and compliant with current safeguarding standards and will include essential strategies for creating a safe and supportive<br />
environment for children.<br />
Don’t forget to register at www.parenta.com/webinars - you will earn a CPD certificate if you attend! Make sure to share the<br />
magic of our magazine with your friends, colleagues, and parents alike. They can receive their own copy in digital or printed<br />
format by signing up at www.parenta.com/magazine.<br />
Allan<br />
16<br />
Regulars<br />
8 Write for us<br />
36 EYFS Activities: Literacy<br />
News<br />
4 What do our customers say this month?<br />
6 Cash flow issues in your early years setting<br />
10 Childcare news and views<br />
Advice<br />
26<br />
14 Discussing separation anxiety<br />
20 Fun and affordable Summer activities<br />
24 How staff well-being can help your business succeed<br />
28 The importance of routines<br />
30 Strategies for teaching social skills to children and adults<br />
34 Resisting the effects of influencers<br />
Industry Experts<br />
38<br />
12 Helping children to self-regulate<br />
16 Tech tools for young learners -Enhancing digital skills<br />
and inclusivity: part 1<br />
22 Starting the new academic year - 12 top tips for<br />
parents of young children<br />
26 Musical medicine: Supporting socio-personal<br />
development through musical relationships<br />
32 Embracing change<br />
38 Can’t play: The importance of fundamental<br />
movement skills in the early years<br />
2 <strong>August</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | parenta.com<br />
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Cash flow issues<br />
in your early<br />
years setting<br />
Dr Allan Presland<br />
“Revenue is vanity, profit is sanity. But cash<br />
is king.”<br />
The origin of this famous business quote<br />
remains disputed, but its relevance has<br />
never been greater, especially in running a<br />
childcare business.<br />
All businesses face a common challenge:<br />
revenue rarely follows the same pattern<br />
as costs. This discrepancy becomes<br />
particularly pronounced at month-end<br />
when payroll pressures often mount.<br />
Ensuring that sufficient cash is available<br />
during these times can often be a<br />
significant challenge.<br />
In childcare businesses, this issue is<br />
magnified by the need to maintain high<br />
standards of care and education, which<br />
can lead to fluctuating expenses. Effective<br />
cash flow management is crucial to be<br />
able to navigate these financial pressures<br />
and ensure the smooth operation of the<br />
business.<br />
Of course, a significant portion of your<br />
income comes from your local authority<br />
in the form of funding. However, you<br />
now have the opportunity to charge a<br />
“sustainability” fee to ensure the long-term<br />
viability of your childcare services. It’s vitally<br />
important that you invoice for these fees<br />
regularly and, just as crucially, that the<br />
revenue generated from them is collected<br />
promptly.<br />
It’s a controversial topic, but many<br />
profitable settings charge for these extras<br />
and the official government guidance is<br />
clear:<br />
“Government funding is intended to deliver<br />
15 or 30 hours a week of free, high-quality,<br />
flexible childcare. It is not intended to cover<br />
the costs of meals, other consumables,<br />
additional hours or additional services.”<br />
“Local authorities should:<br />
Ensure that providers are aware that they<br />
can charge for meals and snacks as part<br />
of a free entitlement place and that they<br />
can also charge for consumables, such<br />
as nappies or sun cream, and for services<br />
such as trips and specialist tuition. Local<br />
authorities should ensure that providers<br />
are mindful of the impact of additional<br />
charges on parents, especially the most<br />
disadvantaged. Providers, who choose to<br />
offer the free entitlements, are responsible<br />
for setting their own policy on providing<br />
parents with options for alternatives to<br />
additional charges, including allowing<br />
parents to supply their own meals or<br />
nappies or waiving or reducing the cost of<br />
meals and snacks.”<br />
“Ensure that providers and parents are<br />
aware that the <strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong> Pupil Premium<br />
(EYPP) provides additional funding to<br />
providers to support eligible children<br />
in early years settings and that the<br />
Disability Access Funding (DAF) supports<br />
eligible, disabled children’s access to<br />
the entitlements. Subject to parliament<br />
passing the relevant regulations, eligibility<br />
for EYPP and for DAF will be extended to<br />
all children accessing the free entitlements<br />
from April <strong>2024</strong>.”<br />
With my other hat on, I am involved with<br />
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the accounts of many businesses. Almost<br />
without exception, I am always amazed<br />
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is money owed to them by their customers.<br />
My first question is always the same: “Why<br />
is your money sitting in your customer’s<br />
bank account instead of yours?”<br />
If you find yourself short of cash at the end<br />
of the month, the first place to look is your<br />
aged receivables report, sometimes called<br />
an aged balance or aged debtor report,<br />
from your nursery management software.<br />
This report highlights who hasn’t paid,<br />
allowing you to address the issue with<br />
those parents.<br />
The next step though is the most<br />
important, and the one that is so<br />
frequently missed by setting owners. You<br />
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Childcare news<br />
and views<br />
Stephen Morgan appointed as<br />
minister with responsibility for<br />
early years<br />
Stephen Morgan, the Labour MP for<br />
Portsmouth South, has been appointed<br />
as the minister with responsibility for<br />
early years. Morgan, who has served<br />
as the MP for Portsmouth South<br />
since 2017 and was the first Labour<br />
representative for that constituency,<br />
has previously held the roles of<br />
Shadow Minister for Education and<br />
Schools and Shadow Minister for<br />
Defence.<br />
During his tenure as Shadow<br />
Minister for Education and Schools,<br />
Morgan was vocal in challenging the<br />
Conservative government on various<br />
early years education and childcare<br />
issues. He raised concerns about the<br />
costs for families, efforts to reduce<br />
provider closures, maintaining or<br />
increasing the availability of early<br />
education places, and ensuring highquality<br />
provision.<br />
Announcing his new role on the social<br />
media platform X, Morgan stated:<br />
“Every child deserves to get the best<br />
start in life. Honoured to be joining<br />
@bphillipsonMP’s Ministerial team<br />
@educationgovuk to deliver better<br />
childcare and early education. I can’t<br />
wait to get started.”<br />
Commenting, Neil Leitch, CEO of<br />
the <strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong> Alliance, said: “We<br />
welcome Stephen Morgan as minister<br />
with responsibility for the early years.<br />
“There’s no question that Mr Morgan<br />
begins this role at a particularly<br />
challenging time for the sector, with<br />
providers continuing to face severe<br />
staffing shortages and significant<br />
underfunding in the run-up to the next<br />
phase of the entitlement expansion.”<br />
“As such, we look forward to working<br />
closely with him to ensure that<br />
the views, needs and concerns of<br />
providers are represented at the<br />
highest level, and that our sector finally<br />
gets the respect, recognition and<br />
support it both needs and deserves.”<br />
Purnima Tanuku OBE, Chief Executive<br />
of National Day Nurseries Association<br />
(NDNA) said - “The early education<br />
and care is an inspiring sector,<br />
shaping the future of our youngest<br />
children. Providers and practitioners<br />
work tirelessly to support children in<br />
their development, offering muchneeded<br />
reassurance to parents. We<br />
look forward to working with the new<br />
Minister Stephen Morgan on giving<br />
children the best start in life through<br />
high-quality early education and care.”<br />
“The Minister takes up his role at<br />
a time when the sector is facing<br />
a number of challenges ahead of<br />
expansion. We want to work with him<br />
and the team to offer constructive<br />
solutions to some of the challenges<br />
providers face on the frontline.”<br />
“If we make the first five years count<br />
we know that it improves outcomes for<br />
children, shapes their lifelong learning<br />
and boosts the economy.” Read the full<br />
story here.<br />
Latest Ofsted and annual<br />
Government statistics<br />
The latest Ofsted figures, published on<br />
July 11th, reveal that although childcare<br />
places have slightly increased,<br />
providers have decreased, resulting in<br />
fewer low-income families accessing<br />
two-year-old places. Specifically, the<br />
number of registered places rose by<br />
1,370, which is less than a 1% increase.<br />
In contrast, government data<br />
indicates a record low in the number<br />
of disadvantaged two-year-olds<br />
accessing the 15-hour entitlement.<br />
Key figures from Ofsted (March<br />
2023 to March <strong>2024</strong>) include:<br />
A 2% decline in the number of<br />
providers registered with Ofsted,<br />
down by 1,440, mainly due to a<br />
reduction in childminders<br />
The number of registered<br />
childminders decreased by 1,340<br />
(5%) to 26,500, with a slower<br />
decline compared to previous<br />
years<br />
Providers on the <strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong><br />
Register offered 27 million<br />
childcare places, an increase of<br />
1,370 (less than 1%)<br />
97% of childcare providers were<br />
rated Good or Outstanding in their<br />
latest inspection, a 1% increase<br />
from the previous year<br />
Additionally, an analysis by the <strong>Early</strong><br />
<strong>Years</strong> Alliance shows that nearly half<br />
of all local council areas in England<br />
have experienced a drop in available<br />
places.<br />
Neil Leitch, CEO of the <strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong><br />
Alliance, said, “These Ofsted figures<br />
once again paint an extremely<br />
concerning picture of capacity in the<br />
early years sector.”<br />
“Despite a marginal increase in the<br />
number of overall places nationally,<br />
the continued fall in the number of<br />
providers, alongside the fact that<br />
just under half of individual local<br />
authorities have actually seen a<br />
decline in places – shows how urgently<br />
key sector challenges – namely,<br />
staffing and underfunding – need to be<br />
addressed ahead of the next phase of<br />
the expansion.“<br />
“What’s more, given much of this<br />
decline is once again down to falling<br />
childminder numbers, it’s clear<br />
that much more must be done to<br />
encourage childminding professionals,<br />
who are a vital source of quality,<br />
flexible care and education, to join and<br />
remain in the sector.”<br />
The National Day Nurseries<br />
Association highlighted that while<br />
there had been a growth in out-ofschool<br />
providers, there has been a loss<br />
of provision on the <strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong> Register.<br />
Purnima Tanuku, chief executive of the<br />
National Day Nurseries Association<br />
(NDNA) said, “It is good news to<br />
see that the proportion of good and<br />
outstanding providers in the sector<br />
is growing. This is a testament to the<br />
amazing work happening day in,<br />
day out across the country in very<br />
challenging circumstances.”<br />
“Once again we are still seeing<br />
providers being lost in the early years<br />
part of the childcare sector. The growth<br />
in the number of school-aged childcare<br />
settings masks the loss of another 161<br />
nurseries and pre-schools in the last<br />
financial year. This cannot continue at<br />
a time when the government is offering<br />
parents more funded places and we<br />
should be seeing expansion.”<br />
The latest annual government<br />
statistics, also released on July 11th,<br />
show a decline in the number of twoyear-olds<br />
from low-income families<br />
accessing the 15-hour entitlement.<br />
Specifically, there has been a 7% drop<br />
since last year, marking the lowest<br />
recorded level. While a declining birth<br />
rate may partly explain this trend, the<br />
low uptake is also due to the freezing<br />
of the income threshold and changes<br />
to the benefits system, which have<br />
reduced eligibility for many low-income<br />
families.<br />
In 2023, 115,900 disadvantaged twoyear-olds<br />
were registered for the 15-<br />
hour entitlement, down from 157,000<br />
in 2015.<br />
Leitch added, “With the sector now<br />
in the midst of an early entitlement<br />
expansion focused on working<br />
families, it is absolutely crucial that<br />
any future early years policies look<br />
to narrow the disadvantage gap<br />
before even more children lose out –<br />
especially given that a recent National<br />
Audit Office report into the expansion<br />
raised concerns that it may only widen<br />
it further.”<br />
Tanuku added, “The figures around<br />
children with SEND reflect the<br />
increasing numbers of children with<br />
growing needs that providers are<br />
telling us about from the frontline,” she<br />
said. “Since 2020 the proportion of<br />
children with SEN has grown from 3.5<br />
per cent of two-year-olds to 5 per cent<br />
and from 6.6% of three- and four-yearolds<br />
to almost 9%. This may only be<br />
the tip of the iceberg as we know that<br />
access to specialist services is delaying<br />
the identification of issues and plans<br />
being put in place.”<br />
Education minister Stephen Morgan<br />
said, “I know from personal experience<br />
just how hard early educators work<br />
– and this government is determined<br />
to make early years our top priority,<br />
reset our engagement with the sector<br />
and set every child on the journey to<br />
improved life chances.”<br />
“It’s encouraging that uptake of<br />
established offers and availability of<br />
places look to be heading in the right<br />
direction, but there is clearly much<br />
more to do to make the plans work for<br />
families across the country.”<br />
“From creating tens of thousands<br />
of new nursery places to investing<br />
in breakfast clubs in every primary<br />
school, over the coming weeks, we will<br />
set out our plan to make sure every<br />
child gets the best start in life.” Read<br />
the full story here.<br />
10 <strong>August</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | parenta.com<br />
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Priya Kanabar<br />
Helping children to<br />
self-regulate<br />
Children require support and<br />
understanding from childcare practitioners<br />
to manage their behaviour and feelings.<br />
It’s a learning process that happens<br />
gradually, piece by piece. In this article,<br />
let us explore ways in which we can give<br />
children the tools of self-sufficiency, to aid<br />
this process.<br />
We can observe children closely to identify<br />
their preferences; for example, notice how<br />
a child is instantly calmed when they put<br />
their hand on their key worker’s arm. Some<br />
just love the feel of skin and this sensory<br />
experience makes them feel content;<br />
it also creates a bonding experience,<br />
familiarity, and a much more pleasant way<br />
of tiring themselves out than crying.<br />
During the time they are distressed,<br />
they may not be focussed on what<br />
soothes them; so reminding them can<br />
be useful. For younger children, it may<br />
be a case of placing a hand on the<br />
arm as a distraction, which signals our<br />
encouragement. This reassuring and<br />
caring attitude is essential in making<br />
children feel loved by knowing them so<br />
well.<br />
When children act impulsively, consider<br />
how, even as adults, we struggle to hold<br />
back, so it’s understandable that they may<br />
not necessarily consider the ‘right’ thing to<br />
do. Similarly, a child who is in the middle<br />
of a conflict may hit instead of talking<br />
about how they feel or using a pillow to<br />
vent their frustration. This is why we must<br />
provide objects like punch bags so they<br />
can be free to express their frustration and<br />
not bottle it all up until they become more<br />
overwhelmed. They just need reassurance;<br />
someone to understand ‘why’ as opposed<br />
to simply implementing rules, which<br />
disregards their right to feel. We all need to<br />
learn appropriate ways to express intense<br />
feelings and it starts in the early years;<br />
being directed by positive role models<br />
is so important. In this way, children can<br />
develop positive habits.<br />
What would you do if a child keeps calling<br />
their friend, getting louder and louder;<br />
giving them barely a few seconds to<br />
respond in between? They need to learn<br />
patience; they cannot get a response<br />
straight away all the time, and this is a<br />
realistic expectation to carry with them<br />
throughout their lifetime. Until they learn<br />
to distract themselves, leave the situation<br />
and come back when their friend is ready<br />
to answer, there will be this urge to fulfil<br />
their wants as quickly as possible. In<br />
this instance, a practitioner may need<br />
to intervene before a conflict arises.<br />
However, to let both children know it is<br />
perfectly OK not to talk to someone until<br />
you feel ready must be made clear. We<br />
must not pressurise others, instead we<br />
need to be respectful and understand that<br />
everyone does things in their own time.<br />
Nevertheless, jumping in to resolve the<br />
conflicts constantly will result in children<br />
relying on adults to intervene when things<br />
get tough, never really talking to resolve<br />
the matter (assuming that talking would<br />
be their chosen method).<br />
What becomes apparent from working<br />
in the early years sector is that there<br />
are two sides to self-regulation during<br />
a conflict. One child is learning to be<br />
patient, calm, and appropriate, whereas<br />
assertiveness, individual rights and<br />
implementing boundaries are the skills<br />
another must learn. The practitioner’s role<br />
consists of keeping a close eye (noticing<br />
details) and implementing rules; the rest<br />
can be child-led. Impulsive reactions that<br />
happen towards others or during times<br />
of wanting something right now, need<br />
to be managed. The difference between<br />
‘needing’ and ‘wanting’ is a huge learning<br />
curve for toddlers.<br />
Take a child who has severe anxiety but<br />
is distracted very easily by humour; they<br />
have a love of jokes which a practitioner<br />
may have learnt through months of<br />
following their interests. Once they have<br />
had ample opportunity to express their<br />
emotions as they choose to, intervention<br />
may be needed in the form of a lighthearted<br />
conversation, about the<br />
practitioner’s experiences or a joke. As<br />
exaggerated or animated as it may be,<br />
teaching a child how to pull themselves<br />
out of a hole is extremely important here;<br />
particularly to avoid long-term anxiety<br />
that could lead to depression, low selfesteem<br />
and letting a worry take control,<br />
manifesting itself into millions of little<br />
worries.<br />
Considering these points, no matter how<br />
much we choose to help, they must find<br />
their own ways to resolve problems as<br />
they get older. What do they do on their<br />
own accord, whilst playing, if struggling<br />
to get their shoes on or when someone<br />
pushes them? Instead of swooping in to<br />
save them, figure out what they need to<br />
work on and what is working for them.<br />
This is the thinking time children need to<br />
process things without external noise. The<br />
way children react tells us a lot about their<br />
ability to manage their own behaviour.<br />
Once both the key worker and child have<br />
learnt these, repetition is essential with<br />
little help, to eventually none. Some need<br />
quiet time away, a hug, or a laugh…<br />
whatever makes them feel in control of<br />
their emotions. We must encourage self-<br />
regulation; this is a huge part of inclusive<br />
practice. We have all been there when<br />
we tried everything to stop a child from<br />
crying, later realising the one thing that<br />
would have turned the situation around<br />
completely!<br />
There is so much I could say about selfregulation<br />
in the early years but the most<br />
important is to help develop life skills<br />
and to make children feel confident in<br />
expressing their unique personalities with<br />
self-love. With our guidance and direction,<br />
they feel valued at the thought of being<br />
known so well by us through our close<br />
bonds.<br />
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Discussing<br />
separation<br />
anxiety<br />
Separation anxiety is common in babies<br />
and young children and is part of their<br />
natural development as they develop<br />
secure attachments with their primary<br />
carers. From the age of around 6 months,<br />
most children begin to prefer their main<br />
primary carer over and above others as<br />
they form strong bonds and relationships<br />
with them. In time, usually from the age<br />
of around 9 months, children begin<br />
learning to trust a wider range of adults<br />
and caregivers such as extended families<br />
and other caregivers. All this is part of<br />
the normal development processes<br />
playing out in the children, but there are<br />
times when this behaviour can seem<br />
problematic if the child becomes unusually<br />
distressed or is unable to be left with<br />
anyone other than the primary carer.<br />
Separation anxiety happens when children<br />
begin to realise that they are dependent<br />
on their caregivers for their needs, be<br />
they physical needs such as being fed, or<br />
emotional support when the child is scared<br />
or feels insecure. If the main caregiver<br />
or caregivers go away because of work,<br />
social or other commitments, then the<br />
child may experience separation anxiety.<br />
This can result in the child becoming upset<br />
or overwhelmed, clinging on to parents<br />
and having tantrums when the caregiver<br />
tries to leave. In most cases, this can be<br />
managed by other caregivers whom the<br />
child trusts and they usually grow out of<br />
separation anxiety as they develop.<br />
In a few cases, however, the child can<br />
develop separation anxiety disorder if their<br />
symptoms are much more than would be<br />
expected for their developmental age, and<br />
this can cause problems in later life too if<br />
they become distressed or face problems<br />
with their daily activities due to their<br />
anxiety.<br />
Recognising separation<br />
anxiety<br />
Symptoms of separation anxiety disorder<br />
include:<br />
❤ Repeated and intense distress when<br />
thinking about being separated<br />
from the main caregiver or loved<br />
ones that is disproportionate to their<br />
developmental age<br />
❤ Constant and intense worry about<br />
losing a parent/carer or loved one<br />
(death, illness, disaster)<br />
❤ Constant worry that something bad<br />
will happen to them causing them to<br />
be separated from their carer<br />
❤ Refusing to leave the home due to<br />
separation anxiety<br />
❤ Not wanting to be home alone or<br />
in another safe space without their<br />
parent/carer even though they have<br />
reached an age where this might be<br />
expected (e.g. sleepovers, holidays)<br />
❤ Repeated nightmares involving<br />
separation<br />
❤ Other health issues related to anxiety<br />
such as headaches, stomach aches,<br />
panic attacks<br />
Triggers & risk factors<br />
Some degree of separation anxiety is to be<br />
expected in young children, however, there<br />
are some risk factors and life events that<br />
can contribute to a more severe reaction in<br />
children. These can include things such as:<br />
❤ Divorce or separation of parents<br />
❤ Changing schools or moving to a new<br />
area<br />
❤ Death of a loved one which can<br />
include a beloved pet or other<br />
relatives<br />
❤ Being removed from parents/carers<br />
for a short time or taken into care<br />
❤ Trauma, disasters, especially related<br />
to loss<br />
❤ Family history of anxiety<br />
Some researchers have identified that<br />
genetics may play a role in separation<br />
anxiety becoming separation anxiety<br />
disorder. Separation anxiety disorder<br />
most often begins in childhood but it<br />
may continue into the teenage years<br />
and sometimes into adulthood if not<br />
recognised and treated. Complications of<br />
separation anxiety disorder include other<br />
anxiety disorders such as generalised<br />
anxiety disorder, panic attacks, phobias,<br />
social anxiety disorder, agoraphobia,<br />
obsessive-compulsive disorder and<br />
depression.<br />
How to help children<br />
with separation anxiety<br />
Like everything in early years practice, it<br />
is important that practitioners understand<br />
the situation behind children who display<br />
separation anxiety and do not judge the<br />
child as being ‘naughty’ or ‘difficult’ when<br />
all the child is trying to do is express that<br />
they are fearful, insecure or afraid of being<br />
abandoned. These are massive emotions<br />
for anyone, let alone a toddler.<br />
Here are some tips to help:<br />
❤ Stay calm and be patient with<br />
children, never angry or impatient<br />
❤ Try distracting the child with an<br />
interesting object or activity<br />
❤ Suggest a buddy/friend to meet at the<br />
entrance who could help the child into<br />
the setting by coming in with them<br />
❤ Be careful what you say in these<br />
situations and keep things positive –<br />
try to avoid saying things like “Don’t<br />
be shy” or “Stop being silly”<br />
❤ Support the parents/carers to leave<br />
the child by having the key person<br />
meet and greet the child in the<br />
morning, establishing a routine that<br />
the child understands and can trust<br />
❤ Allow children who have separation<br />
anxiety to keep a trusted toy or object<br />
such as a teddy or a comfort blanket<br />
– this can ease their anxiety and they<br />
are often reassured by these objects.<br />
Over time, as the child becomes more<br />
confident, you can encourage them to<br />
reduce their reliance on the comfort<br />
object<br />
❤ Talk to the parents to see if there are<br />
strategies that they are using at home<br />
or other venues that are working<br />
in those situations – remember to<br />
be sensitive if parents/carers are<br />
separated which can increase the risk<br />
of children feeling separation anxiety<br />
❤ Stay positive for the children and the<br />
parents/carers and talk in reassuring<br />
terms<br />
❤ Use books and social stories to<br />
explain to the children about different<br />
situations where children may be<br />
left safely (such as school/clubs),<br />
emphasising that the parents/carers<br />
come back<br />
❤ Reinforce the positive aspects of<br />
the day to the child when they are<br />
collected so that it is something they<br />
will look forward to tomorrow<br />
❤ Ensure that your staff are well trained<br />
and understand about attachment<br />
and child development<br />
Helping parents & carers<br />
You can support parents and carers to<br />
help their children with separation anxiety<br />
in a few ways. Giving them information<br />
about separation anxiety and normalising<br />
the situation will help alleviate their own<br />
worries and concerns. You can also<br />
suggest that parents help their children by<br />
practicing leaving their children for short<br />
periods of time. Children need to learn that<br />
parents/carers will return and then they<br />
can trust them to come back so this can be<br />
done in small steps.<br />
Be aware that not all families live together<br />
and there may be children who share<br />
their time between parents/carers which<br />
may increase their separation anxiety.<br />
Be understanding and try to talk to both<br />
parents/carers without taking sides.<br />
If you are worried that children are<br />
becoming overwhelmed on a regular<br />
basis or the separation anxiety persists as<br />
the children get older, then you can talk to<br />
the parents and suggest they seek more<br />
professional help such as a GP referral<br />
to a paediatrician or other healthcare<br />
professional.<br />
More information<br />
❤ Separation anxiety - NHS (www.nhs.<br />
uk)<br />
❤ Separation anxiety disorder -<br />
Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic<br />
❤ How to Help Children with Separation<br />
Anxiety (firstdiscoverers.co.uk)<br />
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Dr Sarah Moseley<br />
Tech tools for<br />
young learners<br />
Enhancing digital skills and inclusivity: part 1<br />
struggle, do not view the use of such<br />
tools as an extra difference to their peers.<br />
This has a huge impact on the stigma<br />
often associated with the use of assistive<br />
technologies in older learners.<br />
Supporting language<br />
acquisition with technology<br />
When thinking about language acquisition<br />
in the early years, we imagine all of the<br />
activities which encourage listening and,<br />
when developmentally appropriate,<br />
speaking. Singing nursery rhymes,<br />
discussions during play, practitioners<br />
speaking to babies in arms during feeds,<br />
encouraging early words and sentences<br />
(asking for milk or a snack), describing<br />
leaves and things we pick up on a walk,<br />
practitioners speaking with each other and<br />
modelling conversations, listening activities<br />
with instruments and objects, putting<br />
music on, asking questions, pointing at<br />
objects while talking about them, reading<br />
stories... ; the list goes on and on.<br />
Exposure to language, especially with<br />
good modelling, is central to so much<br />
work in early years settings. There is<br />
nothing which can replace the importance<br />
of a caregiver who speaks to a child and<br />
reacts when they start experimenting<br />
with sounds and languages themselves.<br />
However, as we know, one-on-one<br />
interaction is not always possible, but<br />
there are lots of creative ways we can<br />
continue to offer this motivation and<br />
encouragement.<br />
Technology to support<br />
language<br />
Technology is a great support in providing<br />
many different opportunities for linguistic<br />
input - both for first language acquisition<br />
as well as introducing new languages for<br />
children who may have moved or have<br />
a different home language. Recordable<br />
items (talking pegs, talking tins, talking<br />
postcards etc.) are excellent ways to blend<br />
technology into the setting, and they<br />
can be used in a variety of flexible ways<br />
including role play areas, ways to record<br />
what they find out, delivering messages,<br />
displays and more!<br />
Great role modelling of language is<br />
fantastic, but children also thrive in an<br />
environment where they feel they can<br />
practice language with peers who are<br />
at the same level of acquisition as they<br />
are. Their initial conversations may be<br />
monosyllabic, but it is wonderful to see<br />
this grow and develop when they have<br />
so many tools at their disposal - from<br />
chatting about their day to booking<br />
pretend shopping orders over the ‘phone’!<br />
When children are getting used to using<br />
technology to speak, they can also move<br />
on to using it to record themselves talking<br />
and singing, and then easily listen back.<br />
This is great for giving them a safe way<br />
to listen to their own speech and keep<br />
improving, as well as build the foundations<br />
for the essential role that speech-to-text<br />
and text-to-speech will play in later years. <br />
Enhancing minimally verbal<br />
communication<br />
Technology also plays a vital role<br />
in enhancing communication for<br />
minimally verbal children. Devices and<br />
apps designed for augmentative and<br />
alternative communication (AAC), such<br />
as communication boards and speechgenerating<br />
devices, provide children<br />
with the means to express themselves<br />
effectively. Introducing these tools in EYFS<br />
allows children to explore different ways<br />
of communicating, fostering their ability<br />
to interact with peers and educators. As<br />
they become more adept at using these<br />
technologies, minimally verbal children<br />
can participate more fully in classroom<br />
activities and social interactions, promoting<br />
inclusivity and boosting their confidence<br />
from the start.<br />
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In today’s fast-paced digital world, it<br />
is crucial to integrate technology into<br />
early childhood education to cultivate a<br />
generation of computer-literate individuals.<br />
The <strong>Early</strong> <strong>Years</strong> Foundation Stage (EYFS)<br />
framework offers a robust structure for<br />
nurturing young minds. When paired with<br />
assistive technology, it can significantly<br />
enhance learning outcomes for all<br />
children, particularly those with diverse<br />
learning needs. This article delves into<br />
the integration of assistive technology<br />
within the EYFS framework, highlighting<br />
strategies to support all learners and foster<br />
a digitally-literate generation.<br />
The importance of digital<br />
literacy in early years<br />
Digital literacy refers to the ability to<br />
effectively and critically navigate, evaluate,<br />
and create information using a range<br />
of digital technologies. In the early<br />
years, fostering digital literacy helps<br />
children develop essential skills such as<br />
communication, problem-solving, critical<br />
thinking, and creativity. These skills are not<br />
only vital for academic success but also for<br />
future workforce readiness.<br />
Integrating technology into early childhood<br />
education also prepares children for<br />
a world where digital competence is<br />
increasingly necessary. By introducing<br />
children to technology early on, we can<br />
create a foundation that supports lifelong<br />
learning and adaptability in a digital world.<br />
The role of assistive<br />
technology<br />
Assistive technology includes any device,<br />
software, or equipment that helps children<br />
to learn and communicate effectively. This<br />
can range from simple tools like pencil<br />
grips to advanced software applications<br />
and communication devices. For children<br />
with special educational needs and<br />
disabilities (SEND), assistive technology<br />
can be a game-changer, enabling them<br />
to participate fully in the learning process<br />
and reach their potential.<br />
Integrating assistive technology within the<br />
EYFS framework can promote inclusivity<br />
by providing personalised learning<br />
experiences tailored to each child’s unique<br />
needs. This approach ensures that all<br />
children, regardless of their abilities,<br />
can thrive in a supportive and engaging<br />
learning environment. Something I have<br />
experienced is the importance of providing<br />
opportunities for children to become<br />
confident with these tools early on. By<br />
integrating assistive technology into your<br />
universal offer, children who may later<br />
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Fun and affordable<br />
Summer activities<br />
Imaginative play<br />
Encourage your children’s imagination with<br />
role-playing and storytelling activities.<br />
Homemade obstacle course: Create<br />
an obstacle course in your garden using<br />
household items like chairs, ropes, and<br />
cardboard boxes. This activity promotes<br />
physical fitness and problem-solving skills.<br />
Counting and sorting games: Use<br />
everyday items like buttons, coins, or pasta<br />
to create counting and sorting games.<br />
These activities help develop early maths<br />
skills.<br />
Alphabet and phonics games: Create<br />
flashcards with letters and pictures and<br />
play matching or memory games. This is a<br />
great way to reinforce early literacy skills.<br />
Keeping your early years children<br />
entertained during the summer holidays<br />
doesn’t have to be expensive. With a little<br />
creativity and planning, you can provide<br />
a variety of fun, educational, and budgetfriendly<br />
activities that will create lasting<br />
memories. Enjoy the summer with your<br />
little ones!<br />
More information and ideas<br />
Dress-up and role play: Use old clothes,<br />
hats, and accessories to create a dressup<br />
box. Let your children’s imaginations<br />
run wild as they pretend to be different<br />
characters.<br />
Community resources<br />
Take advantage of local community<br />
resources for budget-friendly activities.<br />
? www.hungrylittleminds.campaign.<br />
gov.uk/<br />
? www.bbc.co.uk/tiny-happy-people<br />
? www.busytoddler.com/50-awesomesummer-activities-for-toddlers/<br />
? www.andnextcomesl.com/p/playideas-for-kids.html<br />
? www.lotc.org.uk<br />
? RSPB – lots of ideas for fun activities<br />
from pond dipping to identifying<br />
different birdsong<br />
? www.dayoutwiththekids.co.uk/hub/<br />
things-to-do/free-family-days-out<br />
? www.kidsdaysout.co.uk/<br />
Storytime: Read books together or make<br />
up your own stories. Create a cosy reading<br />
nook with pillows and blankets to make<br />
storytime extra special.<br />
Educational activities<br />
Combine fun with learning through these<br />
engaging educational activities.<br />
DIY science experiments: Simple<br />
experiments, like baking soda and vinegar<br />
volcanoes or making slime, can be both<br />
fun and educational. These activities<br />
excitingly teach basic scientific concepts.<br />
Library visits: Many libraries offer free<br />
storytime sessions, craft activities, and<br />
book lending services. It’s a great way to<br />
encourage a love for reading.<br />
Community events: Look out for free or<br />
low-cost community events, such as fairs,<br />
concerts, or outdoor film nights. These<br />
events can provide a fun day out without<br />
breaking the bank.<br />
Local museums and galleries: Some<br />
museums and galleries offer free<br />
admission days or special activities for<br />
children. Check out what’s available in<br />
your area.<br />
Summer holidays are a fantastic time for<br />
children to explore, learn, and have fun.<br />
However, finding activities that are both<br />
engaging and budget-friendly can be<br />
challenging. Here are some creative and<br />
low-cost ideas to keep your early years<br />
children entertained this summer, come<br />
rain or shine.<br />
Bug and bird watching: Equip your little<br />
ones with a magnifying glass or a pair<br />
of binoculars and explore your garden<br />
or a nearby park. Teach them about the<br />
different insects and birds they spot.<br />
Arts and crafts at home<br />
Let your children mould and shape their<br />
creations.<br />
Water fun<br />
Keep cool and have a splash with these<br />
water-based activities.<br />
? www.attractionsnearme.co.uk/top-10/<br />
family-days-out-on-a-budget/<br />
? www.goodto.com/family/100-freethings-to-do-with-the-family-inlondon-111427<br />
? www.beanstalkcharity.org.uk/<br />
Outdoor adventures in<br />
nature<br />
Nature offers endless opportunities for fun<br />
and learning, and it’s free!<br />
Nature scavenger hunt: Create a list<br />
of items for your children to find, such as<br />
different types of leaves, rocks, flowers,<br />
or insects. This activity can enhance their<br />
observational skills and love for nature.<br />
Picnics in the park: Pack a simple lunch<br />
and head to a local park. Bring along a<br />
blanket, some toys, and enjoy a relaxed<br />
day outdoors.<br />
Unleash your child’s creativity with some<br />
DIY arts and crafts projects.<br />
Recycled art projects: Use old<br />
magazines, cardboard boxes, and other<br />
recyclable materials to create art. From<br />
making collages to building mini forts, the<br />
possibilities are endless.<br />
Nature crafts: Collect leaves, sticks, and<br />
stones during your outdoor adventures<br />
and use them to create art. Leaf rubbings,<br />
rock painting, and stick sculptures are<br />
great projects to try.<br />
Homemade playdough: Make your own<br />
playdough with simple ingredients like<br />
flour, salt, water, and food colouring.<br />
Garden water play: Set up a sprinkler, fill<br />
up a paddling pool, or create a DIY water<br />
table using a large container and some<br />
plastic toys. These activities provide hours<br />
of entertainment and help beat the heat.<br />
Water balloon games: Fill up some<br />
water balloons and play games like water<br />
balloon toss or dodgeball. These games<br />
are perfect for a hot summer day.<br />
DIY slip ‘n slide: Use a large plastic sheet<br />
and a garden hose to create your own slip<br />
‘n slide. Add a little soap to make it extra<br />
slippery and fun.<br />
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As the summer draws to a close, the<br />
anticipation of a new academic year<br />
begins to build. For parents of young<br />
children, this transition can be both<br />
exciting and daunting. Whether your child<br />
is entering pre-school for the first time<br />
or returning for another year, thoughtful<br />
preparation can ease the transition and<br />
set the stage for a successful year ahead.<br />
Here are some practical tips to help<br />
parents and children get ready for the new<br />
academic year.<br />
1. Establish a routine early<br />
Routine is crucial for young children. Start<br />
implementing a school-year schedule<br />
Paloma Forde<br />
Starting the new<br />
academic year<br />
12 top tips for parents of young children<br />
at least two weeks before the first day<br />
of school. Gradually adjust bedtime and<br />
wake-up times to align with the school<br />
schedule. This helps your child adapt to the<br />
new routine without the added pressure of<br />
early school mornings. Consistent routines<br />
also include mealtimes, playtimes, and<br />
quiet times, which provide a sense of<br />
security and predictability for your child.<br />
2. Create a positive mindset<br />
Talk to your child about the upcoming<br />
school year positively and encouragingly.<br />
Share your excitement and highlight the<br />
fun aspects of school, such as making<br />
new friends, engaging in interesting<br />
activities, and learning new things.<br />
Reading books about starting school can<br />
also help children visualise what to expect<br />
and reduce any anxiety they may have.<br />
3. Organise school supplies<br />
together<br />
Involve your child in the process of<br />
shopping for school supplies. Allow them<br />
to pick out their backpack, lunch box,<br />
and other necessary items. This not only<br />
makes them feel involved but also builds<br />
excitement for the new school year. Label<br />
all supplies with your child’s name to<br />
prevent loss and to help them identify their<br />
belongings.<br />
4. Visit the school<br />
If possible, arrange a visit to the school<br />
before the academic year starts.<br />
Familiarising your child with their new<br />
environment can significantly reduce firstday<br />
jitters. Show them their classroom, the<br />
playground, and other important areas. If<br />
you can, introduce them to their teacher or<br />
any staff they will interact with regularly.<br />
5. Practice independence<br />
skills<br />
Encourage your child to practice skills<br />
they will need at school. This includes<br />
using the bathroom independently,<br />
washing their hands, opening their<br />
lunch box, and dressing themselves.<br />
The more independent your child is, the<br />
more confident they will feel at school.<br />
Role-playing scenarios, such as asking<br />
the teacher for help or interacting with<br />
classmates, can also be beneficial.<br />
6. Set up a homework station<br />
Create a dedicated space at home for<br />
your child to do homework or engage in<br />
educational activities. This area should be<br />
quiet, free from distractions, and stocked<br />
with necessary supplies like crayons,<br />
paper, and books. Having a designated<br />
homework station reinforces the<br />
importance of learning and helps establish<br />
good study habits from an early age.<br />
7. Plan healthy meals and<br />
snacks<br />
Good nutrition is vital for your child’s<br />
energy and concentration. Plan and<br />
prepare healthy meals and snacks that are<br />
easy to pack and eat. Involve your child in<br />
choosing and preparing their lunch; this<br />
can make them more likely to eat it. Ensure<br />
that meals are balanced and include a<br />
variety of fruits, vegetables, proteins, and<br />
whole grains.<br />
8. Encourage social<br />
connections<br />
Arrange play dates with classmates before<br />
the school year starts. Building friendships<br />
outside of school can help ease social<br />
anxieties and create a sense of belonging.<br />
These connections can make the transition<br />
to school smoother as your child will have<br />
familiar faces around them.<br />
9. Communicate with<br />
teachers<br />
Establish a good line of communication<br />
with your child’s teacher from the<br />
beginning. Attend any orientation sessions<br />
and keep in touch regularly. Teachers<br />
can provide valuable insights into your<br />
child’s progress and behaviour, and a<br />
collaborative relationship ensures that any<br />
issues are addressed promptly.<br />
10. Monitor and limit<br />
screen time<br />
With the start of the school year, it’s<br />
important to monitor and limit your child’s<br />
screen time. Excessive screen time can<br />
interfere with sleep and reduce the time<br />
spent on physical activities, reading,<br />
and other beneficial pursuits. Set clear<br />
boundaries and encourage alternative<br />
activities like outdoor play, reading, or<br />
family games.<br />
11. Stay organised<br />
Use calendars or planners to keep track<br />
of important dates, such as school events,<br />
parent-teacher meetings, and deadlines<br />
for forms or projects. Staying organised<br />
reduces stress and ensures that you and<br />
your child are prepared for what’s ahead.<br />
12. Foster a love of learning<br />
Encourage your child’s curiosity and love of<br />
learning through everyday activities. Read<br />
together, explore nature, and engage in<br />
educational games. Show enthusiasm<br />
for learning and celebrate your child’s<br />
achievements, no matter how small. This<br />
positive reinforcement builds a lifelong love<br />
of learning and academic success.<br />
Preparing for the new academic year<br />
involves more than just buying school<br />
supplies. It’s about creating a supportive<br />
and positive environment where your<br />
child feels confident and excited to<br />
learn. By establishing routines, fostering<br />
independence, and staying organised,<br />
you can help ensure a smooth transition<br />
and a successful start to the school<br />
year. Remember, your involvement and<br />
enthusiasm set the tone for your child’s<br />
attitude towards school. Here’s to a<br />
fantastic academic year ahead!<br />
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How staff well-being<br />
can help your<br />
business succeed<br />
strategy with staff, and regularly review<br />
and adapt it. Remember, communication<br />
and conversations with staff are crucial for<br />
success.<br />
Ways to promote<br />
well-being<br />
Our changing world<br />
There are hundreds of ways to promote<br />
well-being in your setting, and the options<br />
you choose will depend on your budget,<br />
preferences and staff. For example, there’s<br />
no point in setting up a running club to<br />
promote fitness if everyone would rather<br />
go swimming!<br />
Businesses are evolving beyond just<br />
focusing on profits; they are increasingly<br />
aware of their impact on the planet<br />
and their employees. Sustainability now<br />
includes not only environmental practices<br />
but also the personal well-being of staff.<br />
A sustainable business should also<br />
prioritise the personal well-being of its<br />
employees. For years, Fairtrade has<br />
promoted fair practices, and now many<br />
businesses are seeking ways to enhance<br />
the well-being of their staff and customers.<br />
This shift is positive, especially considering<br />
that research shows 58% of the world’s<br />
population spends one-third of their lives<br />
at work. That’s a significant amount of time<br />
to spend in an environment that doesn’t<br />
contribute to your well-being. Employees<br />
are increasingly aware of this and now<br />
expect more from their employers than<br />
just being paid. To remain competitive,<br />
employers must stay attuned to their<br />
employees’ concerns. This is especially<br />
crucial in the early years industry, where<br />
recruiting and retaining qualified, highquality<br />
staff can be challenging.<br />
A happy workforce is a more productive<br />
workforce, so read on for some tips and<br />
strategies to keep your business in the<br />
know.<br />
Understanding<br />
“well-being”<br />
The term “well-being” is used widely<br />
across all walks of life. But what does<br />
actually mean? Well-being is influenced<br />
by various factors, including personal<br />
circumstances, mental and physical health,<br />
relationships, family situation, career, and<br />
finances. As an employer, you can’t fix all<br />
these challenges, but you can positively<br />
impact work-related aspects such as<br />
relationships, workload, morale, team<br />
dynamics, environment, and schedules.<br />
The WHO defines well-being in the<br />
following terms:<br />
“Well-being is a positive state experienced<br />
by individuals and societies. Similar to<br />
health, it is a resource for daily life and<br />
is determined by social, economic and<br />
environmental conditions. Well-being<br />
encompasses quality of life and the ability<br />
of people and societies to contribute to<br />
the world with a sense of meaning and<br />
purpose. Focusing on well-being supports<br />
the tracking of the equitable distribution<br />
of resources, overall thriving and<br />
sustainability. A society’s well-being can<br />
be determined by the extent to which it is<br />
resilient, builds capacity for action, and is<br />
prepared to transcend challenges.” (WHO<br />
Glossary of Terms 2021).<br />
Benefits of promoting<br />
well-being<br />
Companies that prioritise employee wellbeing<br />
see significant benefits, including<br />
reduced absenteeism and presenteeism<br />
(working while unwell). Poor mental health<br />
is believed to cost between £1,205 and<br />
£1,560 per employee per year. Mentally<br />
healthy workplaces lead to increased<br />
motivation and productivity, higher profit<br />
margins, and improved staff recruitment<br />
and retention. Effective health and wellbeing<br />
programs can show a 230% return<br />
on investment (ROI), while employee<br />
assistance programs can offer up to 500%<br />
ROI.<br />
Planning for change<br />
Improving employee well-being starts with<br />
a commitment to change. Assess your<br />
current situation, outline your development<br />
plans, cost them, and get management<br />
buy-in if applicable. Develop resourced<br />
and time-driven plans, launch your<br />
Relationships - good relationships are<br />
key to a happy workplace. Encourage a<br />
culture of two-way communication and<br />
responsibility for well-being. Employee<br />
assistance programs (EAPs) provide<br />
confidential counselling for workplace<br />
or personal problems. Develop good<br />
employee-manager relationships and<br />
listen to employees’ concerns.<br />
Work/life balance - promote policies that<br />
encourage a healthy work/life balance.<br />
Consider flexibility in work schedules,<br />
adequate staffing levels, provision for<br />
emergencies, and opportunities for unpaid<br />
leave or volunteering.<br />
Career development - recognise<br />
and reward good work, support<br />
career development, and have regular<br />
conversations about personal goals.<br />
Consider training, mentoring, volunteering<br />
schemes, and planning for retirement.<br />
Social interactions - foster social<br />
interactions through regular social time,<br />
buddy systems, social committees, wellbeing<br />
challenges, and after-work sports<br />
clubs. Encourage activities that help staff<br />
build strong relationships.<br />
Workplace environment - create a<br />
comfortable workspace with room for<br />
breaks, green spaces, healthy snack<br />
options, and clean facilities. Offer<br />
amenities like exercise classes, and<br />
wellness programs.<br />
Mental health - protect good mental<br />
health by promoting stress-reducing<br />
activities. Offer an understanding and<br />
supportive approach for staff struggling<br />
with mental health issues. Promote<br />
mental health awareness, open culture,<br />
mentoring programs, and time off for<br />
medical appointments.<br />
Physical health and fitness - encourage<br />
physical activity through subsidised fitness<br />
schemes, cycle-to-work days, charity runs,<br />
and health check-ups. Be mindful not to<br />
dictate personal lives and get staff buy-in<br />
for health initiatives.<br />
Benefits packages, apps, and paid-for<br />
options - offer popular perks such as<br />
discounted gym memberships, healthcare,<br />
meditation apps, and retail vouchers. Use<br />
reward cards to let employees choose their<br />
rewards.<br />
Resources<br />
? Employee well-being: 43 Ways<br />
to Create a Happier Workplace<br />
(positivepsychology.com)<br />
? Health and well-being Resources for<br />
Small Businesses | FSB<br />
? Healthy Working Wales - Public Health<br />
Wales (nhs.wales)<br />
? samh.org.uk/get-involved/workplace/<br />
looking-after-my-wellbeing-at-work<br />
? Staff Health and well-being |<br />
nibusinessinfo.co.uk<br />
? Global Employee Benefits and<br />
Rewards Platform | Perkbox<br />
? 7 Strategies to Improve Your<br />
Employees’ Health and Well-Being<br />
(hbr.org)<br />
? Mind Guide for Small Businesses<br />
? Mental Health for Small Workplaces -<br />
Mental Health at Work<br />
References<br />
? “You will spend 90,000 hours of<br />
your lifetime at work” (https://<br />
kassandravaughn.medium.com/<br />
you-will-spend-90-000-hours-of-<br />
your-lifetime-at-work-are-you-happy-<br />
5a2b5b0120ff)<br />
? “Promoting well-being” (https://who.<br />
int)<br />
? “ROI for workplace health” (https://<br />
wayahead.org.au)<br />
? “Workplace learning & development<br />
report 2018 | LinkedIn learning”<br />
(https://linkedin.com)<br />
Click here for<br />
more references<br />
& information.<br />
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Frances Turnbull<br />
Musical medicine<br />
Supporting socio-personal development<br />
through musical relationships<br />
This beautiful Welsh lullaby was written by<br />
Edward Jones in 1784, the official harpist<br />
of the Prince of Wales. It is often sung in<br />
Welsh, and the beautiful tune has been<br />
used for a number of hymns, particularly<br />
at Christmas time. Recorded by a number<br />
of singers and male voice choirs, it has<br />
even been recorded by Peter, Paul and<br />
Mary, and even in Monty Python. With six<br />
or more verses, we have only included<br />
the first three, all with vivid, comforting<br />
imagery, and the traditional rocking motif.<br />
Little boy blue<br />
Relationships are a fundamental part<br />
of life, AKA (also known as) social and<br />
personal development. Our ability to<br />
understand others gives us the additional<br />
skills of being able to learn, to shop, to<br />
travel, and even to earn. These skills<br />
develop from very early on. Whether we<br />
learn through nature (we are born with<br />
the knowledge) or nurture (we learn by<br />
example) is still debated, but we do know<br />
that we get better at interactions the more<br />
we practice. Musical games are a great<br />
way to introduce socially complex ideas.<br />
Turn-taking, smiling and having our needs<br />
met are the foundations to concepts<br />
including rule of law, charitable work and<br />
even healthcare.<br />
The Ages & Stages Questionnaire<br />
provides clear examples of the average<br />
development of children from 2 months<br />
old. For example, babies are born with a<br />
sucking reflex, but the continued ability<br />
to suck, even at 2 months, even when<br />
not feeding, demonstrates the start of<br />
their desire to communicate. Even crying<br />
when hungry, wet, tired or wanting to be<br />
held is a form of communication, with a<br />
direct relationship to the development of<br />
personal value and self-esteem. Babies<br />
will smile, watch their own hands, and<br />
also anticipate being fed.<br />
As they get older, babies will try to hold<br />
their bottles, smile at mirrors, and act<br />
differently with strangers. This shows their<br />
growing confidence in their familiar adults<br />
and their ability to recognise patterns of<br />
familiarity. Reaching out for toys at 6-8<br />
months and drinking out of cups with help<br />
show their interest in interacting with their<br />
environment, while actions like moving<br />
their arms through sleeves shows their<br />
desire to work with their important adults.<br />
At 12 months, babies will often hug toys,<br />
displaying affection. They will also try to<br />
get your attention through touch, and<br />
will help to undress themselves, showing<br />
their understanding of daily activities. By<br />
18 months, they will begin to ask for help<br />
and begin to imitate adult behaviours like<br />
wiping, sweeping or combing.<br />
Children are inherently aware of their<br />
vulnerabilities and recognise that the more<br />
they become like their important adults,<br />
the sooner they will become independent.<br />
Copying actions and activities shows that<br />
children understand their environment and<br />
how to anticipate what will happen next.<br />
All through the night<br />
Sleep my child and peace attend thee,<br />
All through the night<br />
Guardian angels God will send thee,<br />
All through the night<br />
Soft the drowsy hours are creeping,<br />
Hill and dale in slumber sleeping<br />
I my loved ones’ watch am keeping,<br />
All through the night<br />
Angels watching, e’er around thee,<br />
All through the night<br />
Midnight slumber close surround thee,<br />
All through the night<br />
Soft the drowsy hours are creeping,<br />
Hill and dale in slumber sleeping<br />
I my loved ones’ watch am keeping,<br />
All through the night<br />
While the moon her watch is keeping<br />
All through the night<br />
While the weary world is sleeping<br />
All through the night<br />
O’er thy spirit gently stealing<br />
Visions of delight revealing<br />
Breathes a pure and holy feeling<br />
All through the night<br />
Little boy blue,<br />
Come blow your horn.<br />
The sheep’s in the meadow,<br />
The cow’s in the corn.<br />
Where is the boy,<br />
Who looks after the sheep?<br />
He’s under the haystack,<br />
Fast asleep.<br />
Will you wake him?<br />
No, not I,<br />
For if I do,<br />
He’s sure to cry<br />
This ancient rhyme was first printed in<br />
Tommy Thumb’s Little Song Book around<br />
1744. From the description, Little Boy<br />
Blue was a “hayward”, a parish officer<br />
employed to keep the livestock off the<br />
village crops. It may have been inspired by<br />
Shakespeare’s King Lear (first performed<br />
in 1606), or even earlier, in George<br />
Homans book “English Villagers of the<br />
13th Century”, where he states: “Little Boy<br />
Blue was a hayward.” The rocking and<br />
repetitive motif of the rhythm of the song<br />
gives it its characteristic lullaby lilt, with an<br />
unhurried feeling of going back and forth,<br />
back and forth. The imagery of farmstock<br />
in meadows, although problematic to a<br />
village crops, instead has the feeling of a<br />
warm summer’s afternoon, warm enough<br />
to even send the hayward/guard to sleep.<br />
Danny boy<br />
Oh, Danny boy, the pipes, the pipes are<br />
calling<br />
From glen to glen, and down the mountain<br />
side.<br />
The summer’s gone, and all the roses<br />
falling,<br />
It’s you, it’s you must go and I must bide.<br />
But come ye back when summer’s in the<br />
meadow,<br />
Or when the valley’s hushed and white<br />
with snow,<br />
It’s I’ll be there in sunshine or in shadow -<br />
Oh, Danny boy, Oh Danny boy, I love you<br />
so!<br />
But when ye come, and all the flowers are<br />
dying,<br />
If I am dead, as dead I well may be,<br />
Ye’ll come and find the place where I am<br />
lying,<br />
And kneel and say an Avé there for me.<br />
And I shall hear, though soft you tread<br />
above me,<br />
And all my grave will warmer, sweeter be,<br />
For you will bend and tell me that you love<br />
me,<br />
And I shall sleep in peace until you come<br />
to me!<br />
This modern lullaby has been adopted<br />
by Ireland. It was written by an English<br />
solicitor in 1910, to an Irish folk tune.<br />
Despite the fiddler being unnamed in<br />
the original transcription, the tune was<br />
named Londonderry Air, and evokes<br />
strong emotions felt by everybody, of loss,<br />
departure and death. Even more than this,<br />
it creates feeling of hope and meaning, of<br />
reuniting and togetherness. It is this reason<br />
that makes it such a powerful contender<br />
for modern lullabies.<br />
Social and personal development is very<br />
much a learning experience. Through<br />
repeated interactions, we learn to hope,<br />
trust, dream, and to love. And what better<br />
way to share love than through soothing<br />
lullabies.<br />
References<br />
? www.classicfm.com/discover-music/<br />
danny-boy-lyrics-history-traditionalirish-song/<br />
? www.bestkc.com/wp-content/<br />
uploads/2017/05/3-year-ASQ-<br />
ENGLISH.pdf<br />
? Songs about socio-personal<br />
development<br />
? Songs about problem-solving<br />
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Life is full of routines, from our daily<br />
commute to our mealtimes and bedtime<br />
rituals, many of us thrive on the comfort<br />
we get from knowing what we are doing<br />
and what is expected of us. We often have<br />
our own little quirks, for example, the order<br />
we eat our food, the way we like to do the<br />
dishes, or the route we take around the<br />
supermarket. This is because we humans<br />
value the routines we have. They make us<br />
feel secure and in control, and this reduces<br />
our stress levels and means we can<br />
operate more efficiently.<br />
Children also like routines – in fact they<br />
thrive on them. They feel much more<br />
confident and safe when they have<br />
predictable and familiar routines. That<br />
is not to say that everything must be<br />
regimented and there is no room for<br />
change or surprise; these things are<br />
important too. However, there should be<br />
some degree of daily, weekly and annual<br />
scheduling, with routines that allow<br />
both children and adults in the setting to<br />
understand what will happen so they can<br />
feel comfortable, secure, and can access<br />
the learning that you provide.<br />
What are routines?<br />
There are many things that we can think of<br />
as routine in our daily lives. They include:<br />
⏰ Waking up times<br />
⏰ Getting washed and dressed<br />
⏰ Mealtimes<br />
⏰ Daily commute or journey to the<br />
setting<br />
⏰ How personal belongings are stored<br />
and kept safe<br />
⏰ Approach to a ‘to do’ list<br />
⏰ Getting out and putting away toys or<br />
craft items<br />
The importance<br />
of routines<br />
⏰ Playtime schedules and breaks<br />
⏰ Collection and end-of-day routines<br />
⏰ Housework or chores<br />
⏰ Bath times and bedtimes<br />
When everyone knows and understands<br />
the routines, things tend to go more<br />
smoothly because people know what is<br />
expected of them, how they fit into the<br />
bigger picture, and what other people are<br />
expected to do as well. It doesn’t matter if<br />
one family’s or setting’s routine is different<br />
from the people next door, as long as<br />
everyone involved understands their own<br />
routines.<br />
In addition, there are routines that play<br />
out over longer periods. For example,<br />
there are routine cycles for term times and<br />
holidays, or summer and winter sporting<br />
events, as well as annual cultural routines,<br />
for example religious celebrations like<br />
Diwali or Christmas.<br />
When it comes to establishing routines in<br />
your setting, you will have several things to<br />
consider including:<br />
⏰ The reason for setting up the routine<br />
⏰ The skills and qualifications of your<br />
staff<br />
⏰ The number of people/children<br />
involved<br />
⏰ Who will do what?<br />
⏰ Safeguarding and health and safety<br />
requirements<br />
⏰ Timing and logistical elements such<br />
as whether things need to be done by<br />
a certain time<br />
⏰ Any special needs that people/<br />
children have<br />
Why routines are important<br />
When babies are born, their routines are<br />
usually dictated by physical needs - eating,<br />
pooping and sleeping, and these things<br />
are usually child-led but managed by the<br />
primary caregiver. As children grow older,<br />
they develop the ability to think more<br />
independently and can follow familiar<br />
activities and routines themselves. This<br />
helps to give them a sense of belonging,<br />
independence and self-confidence.<br />
They also begin to learn the ‘rules’ of<br />
socialisation and start to understand how<br />
they fit in with other people, learning to<br />
work together and achieve common goals.<br />
Having established and familiar routines<br />
helps children:<br />
⏰ Feel safe and secure<br />
⏰ Feel in control of their environment<br />
⏰ Understand what is happening and<br />
what will happen next<br />
⏰ Remember to do important things e.g.<br />
clean teeth<br />
⏰ Engage fully in play and learning<br />
experiences<br />
⏰ Transition more easily from one<br />
activity to another<br />
⏰ Manage their emotions better<br />
⏰ Create good habits<br />
You may have noticed how unsettling<br />
it can be for children if there is an<br />
emergency, or a change of routine due<br />
to an unforeseen circumstance. Some<br />
children with special needs such as autism<br />
in particular, may be extremely distressed<br />
if their routines change. Some children<br />
can display challenging behaviours if they<br />
feel dysregulated due to sudden changes<br />
in routine. Consistent routines can also<br />
help children’s physical well-being too<br />
since they can support the body’s natural<br />
rhythms around sleeping, eating and<br />
waking, synchronising with the body’s<br />
need to be active or calm at different<br />
times.<br />
How to create effective<br />
routines in your setting<br />
Remember that a routine and a schedule<br />
are different things. A schedule shows the<br />
main events that will happen in the day,<br />
such as drop off, playtime, lunchtime and<br />
collection. A routine will set out the steps<br />
needed in each part of the schedule,<br />
such as how children will be greeted,<br />
put their coats away and where they will<br />
go immediately afterwards. Consistent<br />
schedules and routines are needed for the<br />
setting to run smoothly.<br />
When creating routines, it’s important to:<br />
⏰ Create routines that have a purpose<br />
and are clearly laid out and recorded<br />
in writing<br />
⏰ Consider the setting’s layout and try<br />
to make this as intuitive as possible so<br />
that it works with the routines you are<br />
trying to set. For example, place the<br />
coat hangers near the door or in the<br />
classrooms so that children are not<br />
expected to travel large distances to<br />
hang up their coat<br />
⏰ Make roles and responsibilities clear<br />
⏰ Review routines regularly and adjust<br />
as necessary<br />
⏰ Give children (and adults) positive<br />
feedback when they attempt the<br />
routines. Remember that the children<br />
will be learning so they may not get<br />
everything perfect the first few times<br />
but nonetheless, remember to praise<br />
their efforts over the outcome.<br />
⏰ Create visual clues to help children,<br />
such as hand-washing posters, clear<br />
direction signs or visual timetables<br />
⏰ Offer rewards and incentives<br />
⏰ Ensure staff are modelling appropriate<br />
behaviour and responses<br />
⏰ Teach the routines you want them<br />
to understand, and re-establish<br />
your expectations especially after<br />
weekends, holidays or long breaks<br />
⏰ Involve parents and communicate<br />
any problems or challenges to<br />
them – for example trying to prevent<br />
unsafe parking, or making sure that<br />
the setting knows if there is to be a<br />
change of person collecting the child<br />
⏰ Inform everyone if there are necessary<br />
changes to established routines or<br />
one-off emergencies. Remember to<br />
factor in the child’s ability to manage<br />
their own stress and emotions, and<br />
see things from their perspective<br />
⏰ Be patient<br />
And finally… be flexible!<br />
“Rules are meant to be broken” as the<br />
saying goes, and no one likes to feel<br />
so regimented that there is no room<br />
to manoeuvre, so make sure that you<br />
are also flexible and adaptable in your<br />
routines too. Spontaneity and creativity<br />
are skills to develop so allow these in your<br />
setting too. If a fox, rare bird or deer graces<br />
your outdoor space one morning, you<br />
could allow the children time to wonder at<br />
the nature that came to visit and to put the<br />
toys away in ten minutes!<br />
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Strategies for teaching<br />
social skills to children<br />
Communication skills: Active listening,<br />
speaking, appropriate language use<br />
Self-awareness skills: Understanding<br />
one’s own emotions and asking for<br />
support<br />
General awareness skills: Reading<br />
body language, developing empathy<br />
Speaking: Encourage conversations,<br />
give topics for short talks, and use<br />
pair and share sessions<br />
Eye Contact: Gradually introduce eye<br />
contact through games and mirror<br />
activities<br />
Self-awareness skills<br />
Enhancing social skills in adults<br />
Many adults can also benefit from<br />
improving their social skills. Strategies for<br />
adults include:<br />
Self-help books<br />
Online courses and videos<br />
“Social skills”. A phrase which is widely<br />
used, but what does it really mean? Simply<br />
put, it’s the ability to interact effectively<br />
with others. From expressing our feelings<br />
to fostering relationships, these skills are<br />
essential for navigating the world. While<br />
some children may struggle to master<br />
social skills, many adults also find social<br />
interactions challenging. In this article, we<br />
will look at strategies for teaching these<br />
vital skills to children and offer advice for<br />
adults looking to enhance their own social<br />
abilities.<br />
Why teach social skills?<br />
Developing social skills is an experiential<br />
process, not a natural ability. We learn<br />
through observations, experiences,<br />
and interactions. The many responses<br />
available to us, to a simple question like<br />
“Hello, how are you?” depend on factors<br />
such as:<br />
Personal awareness<br />
The other person’s feelings<br />
Context of the situation<br />
Language proficiency<br />
Ability to read body language and<br />
facial expressions<br />
Understanding humour, mockery, and<br />
sarcasm<br />
Tone of voice<br />
Since there’s no single correct way to<br />
respond in social situations, teaching<br />
social skills involves navigating a multitude<br />
of socially acceptable behaviours, which<br />
vary across cultures and personal<br />
preferences.<br />
and adults<br />
Children need help developing their skills<br />
over time and in increasingly complex<br />
situations. They need to observe, practice,<br />
and receive feedback to master these<br />
skills.<br />
Benefits of developing<br />
good social skills<br />
Research shows that children with strong<br />
social skills have several advantages over<br />
their peers with less developed skills.<br />
Long-term benefits include:<br />
Better relationships and stronger<br />
friendships<br />
Greater success in life<br />
Reduced stress and anxiety<br />
Decreased reliance on social<br />
assistance<br />
Lower risk of substance misuse<br />
For young children, specific advantages<br />
include:<br />
Improved social and emotional<br />
vocabulary<br />
Ability to share and take turns<br />
Enhanced empathy<br />
Better management of complex<br />
emotions<br />
Resilient friendships<br />
Calmness in challenging moments<br />
Conversely, poor social skills can lead to<br />
difficulties such as:<br />
Avoidance of eye contact<br />
Struggles with meaningful<br />
connections<br />
Inability to express desires<br />
Challenges with small talk and<br />
interpreting social cues<br />
Feelings of isolation and<br />
awkwardness<br />
The good news is that social skills can<br />
be taught and learned at any age,<br />
making early years settings ideal for this<br />
instruction.<br />
What social skills can<br />
be taught?<br />
Social skills span a wide range of abilities,<br />
often categorised into groups such as:<br />
Friendship/relationship skills:<br />
Making, developing, and maintaining<br />
friendships<br />
Social knowledge skills: Knowing<br />
what to do in different situations<br />
Confidence skills: Assertiveness, selfconfidence,<br />
and independence<br />
Teaching social skills<br />
to children<br />
General principles<br />
1. Focus on one skill at a time: Start<br />
small and build up, creating a<br />
learning ladder to guide children<br />
through their progress.<br />
2. Model and actively teach the skill:<br />
Children learn by observing adults<br />
and peers. Use proactive lessons and<br />
resources like social stories, drama,<br />
and role-play.<br />
3. Practice the skill: Provide opportunities<br />
for children to practice with others,<br />
building confidence through repeated<br />
efforts.<br />
4. Give constructive feedback: Offer<br />
specific feedback on behaviours and<br />
link it to desired values. Remember to<br />
praise effort rather than outcomes.<br />
5. Use opportunistic situations: Reinforce<br />
lessons during daily interactions and<br />
activities.<br />
Games, lessons, & ideas<br />
Communication skills<br />
Listening: Use different sounds, read<br />
stories with comprehension checks,<br />
and play memory games like the<br />
shopping game<br />
Use emotion cards, The Blob Tree, and<br />
consistent labelling of feelings to build<br />
emotional vocabulary<br />
Help children recognise emotions in<br />
others with activities like identifying<br />
feelings from emojis and discussing<br />
characters in stories<br />
Friendship/relationship skills<br />
Teach teamwork through games and<br />
activities<br />
Encourage friendship-building<br />
with buddy systems and group<br />
categorisation games<br />
Read books about friendships and<br />
role-play scenarios<br />
Social knowledge skills<br />
Explain social situations using social<br />
stories and role-play<br />
Teach skills like sharing, table<br />
manners, and personal space<br />
through practical activities<br />
Confidence skills<br />
Build self-esteem by allowing children<br />
to try things independently and learn<br />
from mistakes<br />
Use drama and role-play to practice<br />
confidence, independence, and<br />
assertiveness<br />
Special needs education<br />
Children with special educational needs<br />
may struggle more with social skills. In<br />
these cases, work closely with parents and<br />
seek specialist advice if necessary. Tools<br />
like the Zones of Regulation and Blob Tree<br />
can be especially helpful.<br />
Specialist services (e.g., speech and<br />
language therapy)<br />
Individual training and coaching<br />
Group or team training events<br />
Social skills are essential throughout life,<br />
and it’s never too late or too early to start<br />
learning or enhancing these skills.<br />
Teaching and learning social skills are a<br />
continuous process that benefit individuals<br />
at any stage of life. Whether working with<br />
young children in early years settings or<br />
helping adults improve their interactions,<br />
the principles and strategies outlined in<br />
this article provide a foundation for forging<br />
strong social skills that contribute to overall<br />
well-being and success.<br />
References and further<br />
information<br />
NCSE guide on developing social skills<br />
Teaching toddlers social skills<br />
Social-emotional activities for toddlers<br />
Speech and language kids<br />
Emotions toolkit for kids<br />
The Blob Tree<br />
Social communication skills<br />
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more references<br />
& information.<br />
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Pam McFarlane<br />
Embracing change<br />
change management. There are a number of models from which to choose but two of the<br />
easiest to understand are Lewin’s Change Management Model and Kubler-Ross Change<br />
Management Framework.<br />
Lewin’s Change Management Model<br />
Kurt Lewin developed his model in the 1950’s, dividing the process of change into 3 steps:<br />
ebb and flow and the difficult times will<br />
pass.<br />
Creating a supportive culture is central<br />
to managing change. One of the most<br />
effective forms of support is coaching. This<br />
requires active listening, really hearing and<br />
acknowledging people’s thoughts and<br />
fears. This is followed by exploring options<br />
and encouraging them to find their own<br />
solutions to managing change. Support<br />
is further entrenched by checking in with<br />
people, reviewing how they are coping<br />
and celebrating the wins as they happen.<br />
If there is one thing we, as early years<br />
professionals share, it is the experience of<br />
change.<br />
Every day is different.<br />
Firstly, we work with children. A child can<br />
surprise you in a nano second! Their ability<br />
to shift focus and swiftly dive into their next<br />
adventure is uncanny. Your plans have to<br />
go out of the window, your expectations<br />
have to adjust and you have to follow their<br />
lead into a wonderland of activity that you<br />
had no idea existed.<br />
Then, we work with people. It’s easy to<br />
work with most of our colleagues, whilst<br />
others present more of a challenge.<br />
However we learn how to respect each<br />
other as co-workers and we mosey and<br />
muddle through difficult times and rejoice<br />
together at times of celebration. But, just<br />
as we get to the point of understanding<br />
and appreciating each other’s strengths<br />
and weaknesses and the team shows<br />
signs of growth, somebody leaves! Then<br />
another! New people are hired and we<br />
start the process all over again, affecting<br />
us on an individual as well as on a team<br />
level.<br />
The way technology is developing at<br />
such a rapid rate brings ever-increasing<br />
change to the way we manage nurseries,<br />
record observations, plan activities, assess<br />
learning, study, share knowledge and<br />
communicate. This techno-race affects<br />
everyone who works within a setting, from<br />
apprentices to owners.<br />
A massive change that is happening<br />
more and more often, is the acquisition<br />
of smaller, private nurseries by nursery<br />
chains. Staff members are often<br />
overwhelmed by the seismic shift they<br />
encounter as they let go of the known<br />
and start embracing the new. A similar<br />
effect is felt when there is a change of<br />
management within a setting – the future<br />
is unknown and the present is unsettling.<br />
For the new manager, their concern is<br />
finding out what needs to be changed<br />
followed by deciding when and how to<br />
effect those changes.<br />
And how can we forget Ofsted? Changes<br />
in ratio, in the way inspections are done,<br />
EYFS changes, new legislation... the list<br />
goes on. Receiving an “Inadequate” or<br />
“Requires improvement” grading from<br />
Ofsted shatters a team’s morale. Changes<br />
on numerous levels must be made - and<br />
quickly!<br />
When we at EnRich coach and train<br />
managers and leaders, we spend a<br />
significant amount of time studying<br />
change, specifically change management.<br />
Change is inevitable.<br />
Managing change well is crucial.<br />
Socrates notes that “The secret of change<br />
is to focus all of your energy not on fighting<br />
the old, but on building the new”. That is<br />
great advice but just how do we do that?<br />
Managing change is a concept that<br />
encompasses both business and personal<br />
areas of life. In terms of business, Rachel<br />
Breitbach, the Change Management and<br />
Agility Practice Lead at Farwell, describes<br />
it as such; “Change management helps<br />
you look at the impacts to people – how<br />
they’re going to react to the barriers to<br />
adopting that change – and help them,<br />
ultimately, to be able to adapt and move<br />
forward.”<br />
So, to do just that, it’s a good idea to<br />
familiarise ourselves with models of<br />
Unfreeze, change and<br />
refreeze<br />
Unfreeze: this is the preparation phase;<br />
a time for analysis of how things are<br />
working now and what needs to change. It<br />
is also the time for managers and leaders<br />
to communicate the changes (and the<br />
reasons for these) to their staff members.<br />
Change: this is the time when the<br />
changes are put into practice; clear<br />
communication is vital as is support for<br />
every person affected by the change.<br />
Refreeze: this is time to check in with staff,<br />
embed new strategies, ensuring these<br />
are being followed and results achieved.<br />
Reviewing processes and reflecting on<br />
progress is key to lasting effective change.<br />
“Recognising these stages helps us realise<br />
that we pass through this process, we<br />
do not stay forever in the painful, often<br />
confusing, melting puddle of change – a<br />
new shape is emerging!”<br />
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross<br />
Change Management<br />
Framework<br />
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross explains change<br />
management in a different way. Her<br />
original model was used to describe the<br />
experience and stages of grief. However,<br />
this model is also used to describe how<br />
we manage change. Her 5 stages are:<br />
Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and<br />
Acceptance.<br />
Denial: people do not want to hear<br />
about change, it can be threatening and<br />
uncomfortable.<br />
Anger: when change is forced upon<br />
people, feelings of anger arise.<br />
Bargaining: compromises are suggested<br />
to avoid as much change as possible.<br />
Depression: people can feel powerless,<br />
upset, hopeless and even depressed.<br />
Acceptance: when change is inevitable,<br />
and there are no more options to avoid<br />
change, a point of acceptance is reached.<br />
This model gives off rollercoaster vibes! It<br />
shows that change is not a static process,<br />
rather it moves and undulates and takes<br />
us in a new direction even through the<br />
valleys. We understand that change has<br />
Importantly, when the framework of<br />
our setting is secure and in place,<br />
change is easier to navigate. Knowing,<br />
understanding and living out our setting’s<br />
ethos, values and culture will make us feel<br />
stable even as we ride the rollercoaster<br />
of change or wade through puddles of<br />
uncertainty.<br />
Alan Watts, an English philosopher, writer<br />
and speaker, said this about change,<br />
“The only way to make sense out of<br />
change is to plunge into it, move with it,<br />
and join the dance.”<br />
However you manage change, whether<br />
it’s by paddling through puddles, riding a<br />
rollercoaster or by joining the dance, do it<br />
with all the power you have. A new thing is<br />
coming. Embrace the change!<br />
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from Pam:<br />
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Resisting the effects of<br />
Have you ever bought something you<br />
didn’t need, would never wear/use or that<br />
didn’t suit you just because you couldn’t<br />
resist? We all do it, from a chocolate bar at<br />
the checkout to the latest trendy gadget,<br />
we have all bought things we don’t need<br />
and fallen prey to the lure of influencers<br />
and clever marketing. When times are<br />
tough though, we need to be more<br />
mindful of our purchases and make sure<br />
that we can afford, and only buy the things<br />
we really need.<br />
We don’t need everything – many of us<br />
have more than we really need, and our<br />
houses are creaking under the strain<br />
of excessive clutter, creating a stressful<br />
environment. It’s time to take stock and<br />
review the pull that influencers and other<br />
marketing strategies have on us, be that<br />
on our business or personal life. Taking<br />
back control of your spending will make a<br />
positive difference overall.<br />
influencers<br />
FOMO<br />
Many of us suffer from ‘FOMO’ or the ‘Fear<br />
Of Missing Out.’ It is driven by a need to<br />
fit in, a desire to have what others have,<br />
and the social pressure to conform and do<br />
the same things as our friends, family and<br />
other people we admire. It can cause real<br />
anxiety and lead people to do many things<br />
that seem ‘out of character’ to others that<br />
know them well.<br />
Psychologists refer to the “Locus of control,”<br />
which is how much control a person<br />
feels they have in their own behaviour.<br />
It is defined as being either internal or<br />
external, and as with most things, exists<br />
on a spectrum with most people sitting<br />
somewhere in between the extremes.<br />
Those with a high internal locus of control<br />
are usually:<br />
? Aware of themselves as being in<br />
control<br />
? Confident in their own opinions<br />
? Less concerned with the opinions of<br />
others<br />
? Less likely to be influenced by external<br />
factors<br />
? More likely to resist social media<br />
pressures<br />
People with high external locus of control<br />
often:<br />
? Think that they have little control over<br />
situations<br />
? Are less confident in their own views<br />
and opinions<br />
? Are more susceptible to outside<br />
influence<br />
However, since this is a spectrum, there<br />
are ways to affect this and gain back your<br />
own control. Here, we’ve listed our top 10<br />
tips to help you with this:<br />
1. Reduce time on social media<br />
and advertising<br />
This is a simple one – reduce the<br />
amount of time you spend looking<br />
at social media and advertising. Set<br />
limits on your phone or computer and<br />
pause the television when the adverts<br />
come on. You can skip through them<br />
on fast forward after 3 minutes.<br />
2. Use the controls you do have<br />
All online devices have an off button!<br />
However, if you are struggling to limit<br />
your time online, then at least reduce<br />
the amount of adverts and influences<br />
that you are exposed to. Don’t<br />
subscribe to advertisers’ channels and<br />
unsubscribe, unfollow, or block people<br />
or things that feel bad. You can also<br />
turn off notifications on a laptop or put<br />
it into focus mode to stop you being<br />
interrupted.<br />
3. Know what you really want<br />
It is important to understand yourself<br />
well and have good self-awareness<br />
if you want to de-emphasise the<br />
importance of other people’s<br />
opinions. Take the time to work out<br />
what you like and what you don’t,<br />
which style of clothes/make-up suits<br />
you and remember that these can<br />
change over time. Your style aged<br />
50 is unlikely to be the same as<br />
when you were a teenager! Learn to<br />
trust your own judgement and your<br />
instincts.<br />
4. Get your priorities right<br />
When it comes to money, it is<br />
important to have a budget and stick<br />
to it. Prioritising your important bills<br />
such as rent/mortgage, utility bills<br />
and transport costs will help you keep<br />
your finances on track and reduce the<br />
chance of overspending. When you go<br />
shopping, create a shopping list and<br />
only buy the things on your list. If you<br />
always buy yourself a treat, then add<br />
it to the list but put a money limit next<br />
to it, so you know what you can afford.<br />
If shopping with children, get them to<br />
hold the list so they are engaged in<br />
that, rather than sneaking additional<br />
things into the trolley!<br />
5. Do your research<br />
When you know that you want to buy<br />
something, be proactive rather than<br />
reactive. Actively search out reviews<br />
online and look for diverse opinions<br />
and trusted reviews and test sites<br />
from companies such as “Which?” or<br />
Trustpilot. Review all the evidence and<br />
ask others for their opinions. It doesn’t<br />
mean you have to take their opinion,<br />
but at least you will have heard all the<br />
evidence and can make up your own<br />
mind based on research.<br />
6. Learn from your mistakes<br />
Don’t repeat the same errors over<br />
again. If you still have items of clothing<br />
in your wardrobe that have never<br />
been worn and still have the tags<br />
on them, take a picture and put it in<br />
your purse. That way, you will remind<br />
yourself of past errors when you are<br />
tempted in a shop. And remember<br />
that deals that seem too good to be<br />
true, usually are!<br />
7. Don’t buy in haste<br />
Take time over your purchases.<br />
When you are interested in buying<br />
something, stop and think:<br />
- Do I NEED it?<br />
- Do I LOVE it?<br />
- Do I have somewhere to put it?<br />
If the answer to any of the above<br />
questions is ‘no’, don’t buy it. Another<br />
tip is to have a picture of something<br />
you really want and are saving up for<br />
in your purse so that when you are<br />
tempted to buy something else, you<br />
can be reminded of the holiday/car/<br />
pet you really want.<br />
8. Understand the marketing<br />
Marketeers are clever and they use<br />
different techniques to entice you.<br />
These include time-limited offers,<br />
multi-pack discounts and sales. These<br />
can be genuine and lead you to a<br />
bargain, but use the tips above to<br />
plan your purchases so that you can<br />
take advantage of genuine offers on<br />
the things you really want, rather than<br />
have the companies take advantage<br />
of you.<br />
9. Understand the truth<br />
Remember that many influencers<br />
present an unrealistic or overly<br />
optimistic image of themselves and<br />
the products they endorse. Learn<br />
to see behind the image to the<br />
marketing strategies that are being<br />
used and be more discerning about<br />
what is real and unreal.<br />
10. Enlist help if needed<br />
Get a friend to go shopping with you<br />
if you feel out of control. You can even<br />
give them your purse if you trust them<br />
enough!<br />
Click here for<br />
more references<br />
& information.<br />
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EYFS activities:<br />
Literacy<br />
Literacy plays a crucial role in shaping children’s curiosity, love for learning, and ability to build connections and<br />
flourish. <strong>Early</strong> exposure to literacy helps children expand their vocabulary, express themselves, and comprehend<br />
what they read, equipping them with essential skills for success in reading and in life. Reading is a fundamental<br />
skill that not only brings comfort and enhances concentration but also empowers children with the knowledge<br />
to engage with and understand the world. Through reading, children are introduced to new words, experiences,<br />
emotions, and viewpoints, enabling them to broaden their perspectives and cultivate a lifelong passion for reading<br />
and continuous learning.<br />
We have picked our favourite step-by-step literacy activities!<br />
Morning routine:<br />
1. Self-registration:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Create a welcoming and engaging selfregistration<br />
area where each child has<br />
their own personalised name card<br />
Make a space with two sections:<br />
“Absent” and “Present” where children<br />
can move their name card from the<br />
“Absent” list to the “Present” list when<br />
they arrive each morning<br />
Use visual cues such as fun stickers<br />
or drawings to make the process<br />
appealing and encourage children to<br />
actively participate in tracking their<br />
attendance.<br />
2. Name places:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Create a sense of ownership and<br />
belonging by providing individual name<br />
places for each child on tables or mats.<br />
Personalise these name places with<br />
colours, patterns, or images that<br />
match with each child’s interests or<br />
preferences<br />
Encourage children to recognise and<br />
interact with their name places during<br />
group activities or mealtimes, which will<br />
give them a sense of identity and pride<br />
in their space<br />
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3. Naming paintings:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Create a culture of creativity and selfexpression<br />
by prompting children to<br />
label their artwork with their names or<br />
descriptive words<br />
Provide a dedicated display area<br />
where children can showcase their<br />
labelled paintings, giving them a sense<br />
of accomplishment and pride in their<br />
creations!<br />
Encourage children to share the stories<br />
behind their paintings, promoting<br />
communication skills and building<br />
confidence in expressing their thoughts<br />
and ideas<br />
Reading and writing for pleasure:<br />
1. Story time:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Incorporate regular story time into the<br />
daily routine, setting aside dedicated<br />
moments for reading stories, poems,<br />
and rhymes, and singing songs with the<br />
children<br />
Select a diverse range of books that<br />
cater to children’s interests, including<br />
a mix of fiction, non-fiction, and<br />
culturally diverse stories to captivate<br />
their imagination and broaden their<br />
understanding of the world<br />
Engage children actively by asking<br />
open-ended questions and encouraging<br />
them to predict the story’s outcome,<br />
share their thoughts, and make<br />
connections to their own experiences<br />
2. Book corner:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Create an inviting and cosy book corner,<br />
using comfortable seating, cushions,<br />
rugs, and shelves to display a variety of<br />
books at children’s eye level<br />
Organise books in a visually appealing<br />
and accessible way, with different<br />
categories or themes clearly labelled to<br />
encourage children to explore different<br />
Creative activities<br />
1. Model descriptions:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
When making their models, encourage<br />
children to describe their models or<br />
creations using descriptive words and<br />
phrases<br />
Provide writing materials for children<br />
to independently write or draw<br />
descriptions<br />
During group time, have children read<br />
their descriptions aloud, to encourage<br />
language development and confidence<br />
in public speaking<br />
O Display the creations alongside<br />
the descriptions, creating a visual<br />
representation of the children’s ideas<br />
and allowing others to appreciate their<br />
work and understanding<br />
2. Cooking activity:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Incorporate cooking activities into the<br />
curriculum by finding suitable recipes<br />
online<br />
Read the recipe aloud to the children,<br />
highlighting key ingredients and steps.<br />
Involve children in the cooking process,<br />
referencing the recipe to promote<br />
reading skills and the ability to follow<br />
instructions<br />
Encourage children to discuss and share<br />
O<br />
genres and topics<br />
Rotate and update the book selection<br />
regularly to maintain children’s interest<br />
and introduce them to new stories,<br />
authors, and illustrators<br />
3. Display labels<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Integrate literacy into the classroom<br />
by labelling pegs for children to hang<br />
their belongings, display areas, and toy<br />
storage<br />
Include both written words and<br />
corresponding pictures to support<br />
language development and make it<br />
easier for children to identify and locate<br />
their personal belongings<br />
Involve children in the process of<br />
creating and updating the labels,<br />
promoting their involvement and sense<br />
of responsibility within the learning<br />
environment<br />
their observations and experiences<br />
during the cooking activity, further<br />
enhancing their language development<br />
and understanding of sequencing<br />
3. Providing resources:<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
O<br />
Ensure that a variety of resources such<br />
as books, pencils, paper, computers,<br />
and tablets are easily accessible to<br />
children for self-directed activities<br />
Organise a reading area with a range<br />
of books at different reading levels and<br />
genres to cater to individual preferences<br />
and interests<br />
Place writing materials in accessible<br />
areas, encouraging children to<br />
creatively express themselves through<br />
drawing and writing<br />
Integrate technology by incorporating<br />
child-friendly interactive learning<br />
apps or digital books on tablets or<br />
computers, promoting digital literacy<br />
alongside traditional literacy skills<br />
By following these step-by-step activities, you<br />
can create a literacy-rich environment that<br />
fosters a love for reading and writing while<br />
integrating language and literacy skills into<br />
everyday routines and activities. We hope you<br />
enjoy them! Find out more here.
Gina Bale<br />
Can’t play<br />
The importance of fundamental<br />
When assessing your little ones, ask<br />
yourself whether they have the physical<br />
strength and balance to develop their<br />
Fundamental movement skills. Are they<br />
ready? Do they have any gaps in their<br />
development?<br />
To balance and develop their skills, they<br />
need core muscle strength for balance.<br />
This is the stable base for the rest of the<br />
body, the “inside out”.<br />
There are 40+ Fundamental Movement<br />
Skills (FMS) that children need to master by<br />
the time they leave primary school. FMS<br />
are divided into three areas: Locomotor<br />
skills; Manipulative skills; and Nonlocomotor<br />
skills.<br />
Current issues in primary<br />
schools<br />
movement skills in the early years<br />
In Primary Schools, research by the<br />
University of South Wales has shown<br />
that those typically teaching PE and FMS<br />
are not trained movement specialists.<br />
They lack confidence and don’t see the<br />
importance compared to other essential<br />
curriculum areas. We must do all we can<br />
to help our little ones develop their FMS in<br />
the early years.<br />
Imagine reaching primary school and<br />
discovering you can’t play! If you can’t run,<br />
catch or throw, you can’t join in activities<br />
that require the FMS to participate.<br />
The role of early years<br />
educators<br />
From birth, the myelination process<br />
begins. The first 5 years are the most<br />
important. Every experience the child has,<br />
from sensory to physical, will trigger the<br />
myelination process in the brain. The more<br />
access your little ones have to physical<br />
experiences, and repeated muscle<br />
movements, the more myelin forms<br />
around the neurons.<br />
Techniques for developing FMS<br />
Once this concept is understood, it<br />
becomes easier to help children develop<br />
their Fundamental Movement Skills<br />
through the “chunk it up,” “slow it down,”<br />
and “repeat” system. This gives you the<br />
outcome of what is also known as “muscle<br />
memory,” or “automaticity”. It is in fact, the<br />
myelination of the neurons in the brain.<br />
Movements from walking to picking up<br />
an object happen without having to use<br />
conscious thoughts.<br />
Encourage them to repeat activities by<br />
being creative, so they enjoy it. When they<br />
enjoy activities, their brain rewards them<br />
with positive feelings. When their brain has<br />
had enough, it will want to do something<br />
else.<br />
As early years educators, it is our role to<br />
work with and cooperate with their brains,<br />
by finding and creating playful ways for<br />
them to enjoy the activity again, and<br />
again, and again!<br />
Challenges and considerations<br />
An important note... try not to repeat<br />
yourself and let it become boring and<br />
they stop engaging in the activity. Your<br />
ability to be creative and imaginative is so<br />
important.<br />
If they struggle with a movement, even<br />
when you have “chunked it up”, and<br />
“slowed it down”, remember that the brain<br />
can only take a couple of corrections at a<br />
time and your little ones’ memory skills are<br />
related to their ages.<br />
Their memory skills impact their<br />
Fundamental Movement Skills. These skills<br />
develop from the brain, into the larger<br />
muscle groups, and into their fine motor<br />
skills. This is a “top-down” process, which<br />
also includes the vestibular system.<br />
When you see your little ones wobbling or<br />
plopping, their brain is discovering balance<br />
along with the core muscles engaging<br />
and helping them to develop strength.<br />
Propping them up doesn’t help them.<br />
It can slow their natural development<br />
process.<br />
Falling and wobbling is a great lesson for<br />
the brain. It starts to identify what muscles<br />
are needed to balance and where upright<br />
is. This is the “top-down” to go with the<br />
“inside out”.<br />
Practical activities<br />
While we facilitate fun, and engaging,<br />
activities to develop their fundamental<br />
movement skills, it is vital that we<br />
model (demonstrate), and verbalise the<br />
movements correctly.<br />
This is important for many reasons as your<br />
little learners could be visual, auditory,<br />
or kinaesthetic learners. There is the<br />
school of thought that all children start<br />
as kinaesthetic learners which shows<br />
how important it is for them to see the<br />
movement, to copy you and then explore<br />
what it feels like.<br />
Questions to ask yourself<br />
✨ Are they struggling with specific<br />
movement skills?<br />
✨ Are there gaps in their development<br />
process?<br />
✨ What activity will help them build<br />
competency in that movement skill?<br />
✨ Are you modelling movements<br />
correctly for the little ones?<br />
✨ Are you being creative and<br />
imaginative with as many physical<br />
activities as possible?<br />
Activity ideas:<br />
✨ Join the Littlemagictrain and take<br />
a journey to the Amazon and the<br />
children can take turns wearing the<br />
train driver’s hat<br />
o Go through tunnels (crawling),<br />
and travel across bridges<br />
(tiptoeing). Go off the tracks<br />
(rolling) down a hill. And anything<br />
else that you encounter on the<br />
way<br />
✨ Join the frogs as they hop across the<br />
pond on rocks to find yummy frog<br />
snacks<br />
o<br />
Develop from all 4s (hands and<br />
feet) to 2 legs<br />
✨ Stepping over and under the spider’s<br />
web. Don’t wake the spider up!<br />
o Develop from crawling<br />
underneath to stepping over<br />
the web. They could also tiptoe<br />
across the web (rope or gym<br />
bench) and jump off at the end<br />
✨ Find a way to get past a sleeping<br />
jaguar blocking the path out of the<br />
Amazon<br />
o Tiptoeing, running, jumping<br />
over him. You can develop their<br />
jumping from 2-to-2 feet, 2-to-1<br />
foot, and 1-to1- foot as they leap<br />
In conclusion, the development of<br />
Fundamental Movement Skills in the early<br />
years is critical for ALL children’s overall<br />
growth and ability to participate in various<br />
physical activities from playing with friends<br />
to PE in primary school.<br />
All early years educators play a vital role<br />
in fostering these skills through creative,<br />
repetitive, and enjoyable activities that help<br />
them develop these core developmental<br />
skills. This not only prepares them for<br />
primary school but, contributes to their<br />
well-being, and physical health.<br />
By understanding the importance<br />
of incorporating playful, engaging<br />
methods, you can ensure that your little<br />
ones develop the necessary physical<br />
competencies (physical literacy). Adapt<br />
your approach to ensure all your little ones<br />
are engaged as you encourage a lifelong<br />
love for being active. Don’t forget you are<br />
their role model!<br />
Click here for<br />
more resources<br />
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