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Contents <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />

THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />

— Being bolder Christians, 7<br />

— Our senior youth minister, 7<br />

— Communion chalice, 7<br />

— For your prayers, 7<br />

— STAY, 8-9<br />

— Why I am a Christian, 10-11<br />

— From the editor's desk, 11<br />

— Bad news for the world, 13<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 15<br />

FEATURES<br />

— Ekiden in Sonning, 17<br />

— Help raise funds to beautify, 19<br />

— Zero Waste Week, 20-21<br />

— Holy Cross Day, 21<br />

around the villages<br />

— Rotary Club, 22<br />

— Short Mat Bowls, 22<br />

— RNLI, 22<br />

— Guide Dogs, 22<br />

— Sonning and Sonning Eye, 23<br />

— Female voices, 23<br />

— Old wall repairs, 23<br />

— My Cancer My Choice, 24<br />

— Sonning Village Show<br />

— TRHA, 25<br />

— Sonning Club, 25<br />

— Twinning for 30 years, 27<br />

— WI's 60 years, 27<br />

— Scarecrow financials, 27<br />

— Toys and Teens Appeal, 27<br />

HEALTH<br />

— Dr Simon Ruffle on Shingles, 29<br />

HOME AND GARDEN<br />

— A foot in the garden, 31<br />

— Claude's garden photos, 31<br />

FASHION<br />

— Baggy v Skinny Jeans, 33<br />

THE ARTS<br />

— Gabriel Fauré, 34,<br />

— Prayer Petitions, 34<br />

— Book Reviews, 35<br />

THE SCIENCES<br />

— Christianity through science, 37<br />

— Ordained scientist? 37<br />

PUZZLE PAGES, 38-39<br />

children's page, 41<br />

INFORMATION,<br />

— Church services, 3<br />

— From the registers, 3<br />

— Local Trades and Services, 40<br />

— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />

— Advertisers' index, 42<br />

This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />

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Picture: Ekiden in Sonning<br />

Peter Rennie<br />

EDITORIAL DEADLINE<br />

<strong>The</strong> editorial deadline for every issue<br />

of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is 12 noon on<br />

the sixth day of the month prior to the<br />

date of publication.<br />

<strong>The</strong> deadline for the October<br />

issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is:<br />

Friday 6 <strong>September</strong> at 12 noon<br />

From the Registers<br />

YEARS<br />

the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />

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Services in<br />

St Andrew's<br />

Church Sonning<br />

Sunday 1 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Service<br />

— 4.00pm Choral Evensong<br />

followed by Tea in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

BAPTISMS<br />

— Sunday 14 July<br />

Riley Michael Freeman, and Jacob Anthony Freeman<br />

Ivy Grace Emily Cojocaru, and Amelia Marian Cojocaru<br />

Sunday 8 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

Sunday 15 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Communion<br />

— 3.00pm Messy Church<br />

Sunday 22 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

Sunday 29 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />

Morning Prayer is held in the church<br />

every Tuesday at 9.30am.<br />

Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />

held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea<br />

and coffee follows the service.<br />

Home Communion at Sonning<br />

Gardens Care Home is held on the first<br />

Monday of each month at 11.00am.<br />

WEDDINGS<br />

— Saturday 2 June, Mathew Terrence Apsey-Brown and Fay Sarah Govett<br />

FUNERALS<br />

— Monday 17 June, Christopher Dunbar French-Drayton, interment of ashes<br />

in churchyard<br />

— Thursday 4 July, Ann Kathleen Lawrence, interment of ashes in churchyard<br />

— Friday 5 July, John Clifford Watts and Marion Edith Watts, interment of<br />

ashes in churchyard<br />

— Monday 8 July, Sophie Louise Watkins, funeral service in church and burial<br />

in churchyard<br />

— Tuesday 16 July, Keith Hubert Fisher, funeral service in church and burial in<br />

churchyard<br />

— Thursday 1 August, Catherine Mulherine, interment of ashes in churchyard


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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />

D e a r F r i e n d S,<br />

We have a visitor’s book in church and every day when I lock up it is interesting<br />

to see where visitors have come from and what their reflections are. So many<br />

speak of the peace they find within the building and the tangible presence of<br />

God, which is gratifying. Yesterday someone had written 'this place is full of<br />

history and hope' and this struck me as profound.<br />

In terms of our history, a church was founded on our present site in the<br />

mid-7th Century, and it is almost mind blowing to think of all who have gone<br />

before us, worshipping, praying, serving and sharing their most significant<br />

family moments here, both joyous and heartbreaking.<br />

As Vicar, I am aware of following 58 other priests that we have records<br />

of, going back to 1222, with many more serving previously, now lost in the<br />

mists of time. Some stayed many years and left their mark, such as Canon<br />

Hugh Pearson, with our village hall and main street named after him and the<br />

stunning reordering of the church building left largely untouched today. Many<br />

others are just a name on a wall plaque in church, and that is an important and<br />

sobering realisation for those who serve in this role.<br />

<strong>The</strong> comments were also timely as we are in the wake of the hideous murder of three precious little girls at their<br />

dance class in Southport, and the subsequent riots, protests and counter protests. I am very conscious of the comments<br />

in our visitor’s book; 'Full of history and hope'. We are rightly proud of so much of our history as a nation and for those who<br />

have enriched our culture through literature, art, music, science, engineering, architecture and much else besides. <strong>The</strong><br />

Christian church has been so much a part of this, not least with the founding of schools, universities, charities, hospitals<br />

and the Christian ethos of service before self. <strong>The</strong> notion of service, of putting the other person first, was epitomised<br />

by Her Late Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II, whose second anniversary of death we mark this month. <strong>The</strong> motivation for<br />

Christians to serve, not to be served, to provide education and healthcare comes from Jesus Christ himself.<br />

SENSE OF HOPE?<br />

So, we have an undeniably rich national history, but what about our sense of hope at this time? I am 51 years of<br />

age, and I don’t think I have ever witnessed such a lack of hope as evidenced across so many of our communities, for<br />

various reasons. It is distressing to witness the violence in many deprived towns and cities, and the Police must respond<br />

accordingly, with the law upheld, without fear or favour. However, the law must also be applied equally, to whichever<br />

group is breaking it, and I am not certain that this has been the case in recent months. Such a perceived 'two tier'<br />

approach will inevitably be counterproductive.<br />

In the past we have looked to our political leaders to give hope, most notably Churchill in the dark days of WWII.<br />

Mrs Thatcher was elected in 1979 with a promise to reverse national decline after the disastrous ‘winter of discontent’<br />

and power shortages and strikes through the 1970s. Mr Blair campaigned with the song 'Things can only get better', and<br />

won a large majority with many people hoping he would be proved right. At the recent General Election, the two main<br />

campaigns didn’t seem to gain much traction, and Sir Keir Starmer’s party was elected with only about 20% of the<br />

electorate’s votes. For whatever reason, I haven’t witnessed much appetite from the public to seek hope from our present<br />

political leaders, and I include the last government, and so where can we find it as a nation?<br />

Well, I suggest if we look to our Christian history, and most especially to the author and perfector of the faith that<br />

this nation has been built upon, Jesus Christ, we will be well on our way to finding the only hope that is real, alive and<br />

life changing. At this turbulent time for our country and across the world may all Christians wake up and proclaim this<br />

eternal hope with confidence and boldness.<br />

'Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing,<br />

that you may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Spirit'.<br />

(Romans 15.13)<br />

Warm wishes,<br />

Jamie


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<strong>The</strong> adjacent article is based on<br />

extracts from the presidential speech<br />

made by the 98th Archbishop of York,<br />

Stephen Cottrell (pictured above)<br />

at the Church of England General<br />

Synod held in July. Many readers will<br />

remember him well from the time he<br />

served as the Area Bishop of Reading,<br />

2004–2010, before becoming Bishop<br />

of Chelmsford, 2010–2020.<br />

Our senior youth minister<br />

Christopher West (Westy) has been<br />

accepted for non-residential training<br />

for the priesthood and begins this<br />

month. He will remain as youth<br />

minister throughout the three-year<br />

period of training and then will serve<br />

his curacy in this parish. Please keep<br />

him, Gem and Phoebe in your prayers.<br />

Communion chalice<br />

At the start of the Covid pandemic<br />

we suspended the sharing of the<br />

common cup. <strong>The</strong> Bishop of Reading<br />

has now instructed all churches that<br />

it is time to reinstate the Biblical<br />

precedent of sharing the cup. Her<br />

letter requesting this is posted on the<br />

church noticeboard. We shall reinstate<br />

this at the beginning of <strong>September</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Bishop makes the point that those<br />

who are not comfortable with this can<br />

simply receive the wafer and opt out of<br />

receiving wine.<br />

FOR YOUR PRAYERS<br />

— Thanksgiving for our late Queen’s<br />

faith and service<br />

— For HM <strong>The</strong> King in his role as<br />

Defender of the Faith<br />

— For all starting at new schools<br />

colleges and universities<br />

— For Westy as he begins his training<br />

for the priesthood<br />

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Let us be bolder . . .<br />

In a letter that was sent a few weeks ago to faith leaders from the Prime<br />

Minister, Sir Keir Starmer, it is clear that he sees, and wants to understand<br />

more, about the impact people of faith have on communities today.<br />

Let’s be clear, we know that<br />

politicians of all parties admire and<br />

covet the values that underpin our<br />

faith:<br />

INSTINCT<br />

During the cost of living crisis<br />

that still rocks so many of our<br />

poorest communities, during the<br />

Covid pandemic, and by continued<br />

commitment to social justice, our<br />

values mean that it is our instinct to<br />

put the needs of others before our<br />

own.<br />

But this is where we may need to<br />

be a bit more bold.<br />

We need to say that these values<br />

that we hold dear do not exist in a<br />

vacuum.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y are shaped by beliefs and<br />

practices, by what God has done for<br />

us in Jesus Christ, and by what we<br />

do in response, the daily reading<br />

of scripture, the life of prayer and<br />

worship, the iron rations of the<br />

sacramental life.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se values then become real<br />

and become the lived outworking of<br />

a Christian life.<br />

This is the best advertisement for<br />

the Gospel.<br />

REKINDLED<br />

<strong>The</strong> great Archbishop, William<br />

Temple, articulated a Christian<br />

vision and a Christian narrative for<br />

the world, one which shaped what<br />

we came to know as the post war<br />

consensus and the beginnings of a<br />

welfare state and a vision which I<br />

pray will be rekindled and reworked<br />

in our own day.<br />

Here in this Synod, and following<br />

the publication of the Housing<br />

Commission report, Coming Home,<br />

we have also been engaged with<br />

the massive challenges that face<br />

our society today, not least how to<br />

provide decent housing.<br />

Other huge challenges face our<br />

new government, our nation and our<br />

world, of which we in the Church of<br />

England stand ready to help because<br />

the scriptures that shape us demand<br />

it.<br />

I was recently in New York, and<br />

I had a very powerful and moving<br />

meeting with the UN Deputy<br />

Secretary who spoke about the<br />

need of shared values as a way of<br />

countering extremism and populism<br />

and of the growing recognition<br />

within the UN of the importance,<br />

and the place of faith, in ensuring<br />

that there is a narrative for the<br />

world.<br />

This narrative is about our<br />

common humanity, our respect for<br />

the earth and all people in it, and<br />

of how developing this narrative,<br />

this story, and confronting hateful<br />

extremism, needs the active voice of<br />

healthy communities of faith.<br />

ROOTED IN CHRIST<br />

As a new government forms,<br />

let us be bold in presenting the<br />

Christian narrative for human wellbeing,<br />

a narrative that is rooted in<br />

Christ and makes no sense without<br />

him; let us pray for our King and<br />

government and our new Prime<br />

Minister.<br />

William Temple once famously<br />

said, 'I believe in the holy Catholic<br />

Church, and sincerely regret that it does<br />

not presently exist.'<br />

He knew that the Church God<br />

longs us to be, transcends our<br />

current divides and disagreements,<br />

and requires a greater trust in God<br />

and in each other.<br />

At his enthronement as Bishop of<br />

Manchester William Temple said:<br />

'I come with a burning desire; it is<br />

that in all our activities, sacred and<br />

secular, ecclesiastical and social, we<br />

should help each other to fix our eyes on<br />

Jesus, making him our only guide…<br />

'Pray for me, I ask you, not chiefly<br />

that I may be wise and strong, or any<br />

other such thing, though for these<br />

things I need your prayers.<br />

'But pray for me chiefly that I may<br />

never let go of the unseen hand of<br />

the Lord Jesus, and may live in daily<br />

fellowship with him.'<br />

Sisters and brothers, let us tread<br />

the path of the way of Jesus Christ.


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St Andrew's Youth<br />

email or text me, Westy, for<br />

ideas, a chat or to encourage<br />

what we are doing:<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

0794 622 4106<br />

STAY in Schools<br />

During June and the first half of July we finished<br />

our schools work for the academic year with some<br />

end of year assemblies, mentoring sessions and<br />

Christian Union sessions. My favourite moment<br />

at CU this year was when a year 7 student, with<br />

varying learning needs, said a prayer thanking God<br />

for making him the way he is. I echoed his prayer<br />

and said yes, that’s a brilliant thing to thank God<br />

for!<br />

STAY on Friday<br />

<strong>The</strong> remaining 7 weeks of youth club were a blast.<br />

We finished on Friday 19 July with a water fight, at<br />

the request of the young people. We played water<br />

balloon volleyball, we played cops and robbers with<br />

water pistols and water balloons and we ended with<br />

leaders v young people in an all out water fight to<br />

the end! <strong>The</strong>re wasn’t a dry person left!<br />

STAY on Monday<br />

Our fortnightly group on a Monday evening met<br />

for the last three times before the summer break.<br />

We finished some more of the STIR cards (https://<br />

www.starttostir.com/shop/products/the-discipleshippack)<br />

and we had a BBQ social at our new house in<br />

Charvil. <strong>The</strong> young people played a lot of Spikeball<br />

in preparation for the tournaments at Satellites<br />

summer camp.<br />

STAY on Sunday<br />

Our fortnightly Sunday group met four times in<br />

June and July before the summer holidays and the<br />

themes continued along the same lines as the main<br />

adult congregation. We looked at various gospel<br />

stories, played lots of games, ate lots of yummy<br />

treats and prayed for each other's exam results and<br />

summer holidays.


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We're all going<br />

on our summer<br />

holidays . . .<br />

With the summer holidays<br />

starting in July, we<br />

wrapped up a final Sunday<br />

Club, Messy Church, and<br />

general school's work until<br />

<strong>September</strong>.<br />

Corinne<br />

During Sunday Club, we celebrated a couple of<br />

our year 6 students – as year 7 students no longer<br />

attend Sunday Club and are encouraged to move up<br />

to STAY with Westy.<br />

We will surely miss the leadership and guidance<br />

of these year 6 students and continue to pray for<br />

them as they move to secondary school and join in<br />

with the older, young people during STAY on Sunday,<br />

STAY on Friday, and all our other STAY activities!<br />

During Messy Church, we celebrated with the<br />

theme of Biblical seasides, which felt very fitting<br />

with the summer holidays quickly approaching!<br />

After creating some lovely crafts, such as the tea<br />

light lighthouses, listening to a Bible story about<br />

Jesus calming the storm, and singing one of our<br />

favourite songs — Our God is a Great Big God! — our<br />

amazing catering volunteers supplied party foods,<br />

so we enjoyed a picnic outside in the sunshine all<br />

together.<br />

One of our young leaders planned some outdoor<br />

games for everyone, including sack races and<br />

parachute fun!<br />

School work finished with the end of the school<br />

term, and I look forward to continue mentoring<br />

some of the students again in the autumn.<br />

At Sonning School I had the opportunity to<br />

meet the year 6 students and guide them through<br />

prayer journeys, having them reflect on their time<br />

at primary school and getting them ready for the<br />

move to secondary school.


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WESTY, ST ANDREW'S CHURCH SONNING'S YOUTH MINISTER, WRITES OUR NEXT ARTICLE IN<br />

THIS<br />

Why am I a Christian?<br />

So I can tell people about an<br />

amazing, unique person<br />

<strong>The</strong> following is based on Westy's first sermon in St Andrew's Church Sonning after his<br />

successful application to begin part-time training to become an ordained priest in the Church<br />

of England. It's a process that will be undertaken in parallel with his work as our youth minister<br />

and will take several years to fulfil his childhood dream . . .<br />

When I was 16 years old I sat on the staircase of a<br />

friend's house during a party. One of my mates turned to<br />

me and said, what do you want to be when you’re older? I<br />

replied: 'I am going to be paid to tell people about Jesus.'<br />

He laughed and said, that’s not a job. No one gets paid to<br />

do that. I replied, 'in fact I am going to find someone to<br />

pay me to go to university so I can be qualified and debt<br />

free to tell people about Jesus.' He laughed even louder<br />

and told me I was dreaming!<br />

In 2003, aged 23 years old, I moved to Reading and I met<br />

a chap called Chris Evans who is now the head teacher at<br />

Reading School. He asked me what I was doing in Reading,<br />

to which I replied: 'I’m here to find someone to pay me to go to<br />

university to study to become a qualified youth worker.'<br />

'I'LL DO IT,' HE SAID!<br />

So off I went to get my degree in Youth and Community<br />

Work and Applied <strong>The</strong>ology, and since that day I’ve been<br />

paid to tell people about Jesus and the wonder of living<br />

life to the full in his kingdom.<br />

Now, with the support of Jamie and everyone here at St<br />

Andrew's, I have been given the chance to tell even more<br />

people about Jesus by being ordained in the Church of<br />

England.<br />

WHY I WANT TO TALK ABOUT JESUS<br />

So why am I a Christian, and why do I want to tell<br />

people about Jesus?<br />

<strong>The</strong> best starting place for my answer is in the Bible and<br />

here are two examples from the Gospel of Mark:<br />

'<strong>The</strong> apostles gathered round Jesus and reported to him all they had<br />

done and taught. <strong>The</strong>n, because so many people were coming and<br />

going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them,<br />

‘Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.’ So<br />

they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place. But many<br />

who saw them leaving recognised them and ran on foot from all the<br />

towns and got there ahead of them. When Jesus landed and saw<br />

a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like<br />

sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things.'<br />

(Mark 6, 30-34)<br />

'When they had crossed over, they<br />

landed at Gennesaret and anchored there.<br />

As soon as they got out of the boat people<br />

recognised Jesus. <strong>The</strong>y ran throughout that<br />

whole region and carried those who were ill on<br />

mats to wherever they heard he was.<br />

And wherever he went — into villages, towns<br />

or countryside — they placed those who were ill in<br />

the market-places. <strong>The</strong>y begged him to let<br />

them touch even the edge of his cloak, and all<br />

who touched it were healed.' (Mark 6:53-56)<br />

WHAT DOES THIS TELL US?<br />

When reading these verses I asked myself,<br />

what do these passages tell us about Jesus?<br />

Here are my answers . . .<br />

— Jesus had authority and was a fair leader.<br />

— Jesus wants to spend time with us, he<br />

wants to give us rest and he cares that we<br />

get what we need.<br />

— Jesus was popular and full of compassion.<br />

— Jesus taught people many signs, wonders and was a<br />

great story teller.<br />

— Jesus was recognisable.<br />

— Jesus was for the people, healed the people and showed<br />

care for them.<br />

— Jesus travelled all over the place to tell people about<br />

the kingdom of God.<br />

— Jesus had power like no other man ever has, even the<br />

edge of his cloak had healing power.<br />

WHY CHRISTIANITY IS IMPORTANT!<br />

So, why are these things important?<br />

Firstly, they wouldn’t have been written down by eye<br />

witnesses if they weren’t important. And, secondly, I think<br />

these things are all important because they show us just<br />

how remarkable Jesus is:<br />

— <strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who has<br />

more authority or fairness than Jesus.<br />

— <strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who wants to


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spend time with us and who cares about our deepest needs.<br />

— <strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who is<br />

more popular or compassionate. Did you know that<br />

Jesus is the single most written about person in the<br />

world.<br />

— <strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who is as<br />

great a story teller or miracle worker than Jesus.<br />

— <strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who is<br />

more recognisable. He is the most painted man ever to<br />

have lived.<br />

— <strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who has<br />

cared more for the entire human race than Jesus.<br />

— <strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who has<br />

more focus on one single task, to tell people about the<br />

kingdom of God.<br />

MY FUNDAMENTAL BELIEF<br />

It’s such good news that he knew everyone needed to<br />

hear it. This is one my fundamental beliefs because there<br />

is no life better lived than one that is with Jesus Christ.<br />

No amount of money, no amount of status, no amount<br />

of influence will ever satisfy than the love you can receive<br />

from Jesus Christ.<br />

He is the source of all life, the beginning and the end.<br />

<strong>The</strong> one for whom, in whom and because of whom the<br />

world exists.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re has never been another human being who has<br />

more power than Jesus. <strong>The</strong> Bible tells us that even his<br />

clothes are saturated with the power of the Holy Spirit.<br />

WORDS AND ACTIONS<br />

During my first service in St Andrew's Sonning, Rev<br />

Jamie invited the congregation to shake the hand of one<br />

person near them and say Jesus loves you. <strong>The</strong>n they were<br />

asked to shake the hands of the people around them. And<br />

so on.<br />

Within minutes, he said, it will get to the back of the<br />

church, and it did. Let all your words and your actions<br />

speak the love of Jesus to others, he said. And it did!<br />

In Mark 11:24 it says:<br />

'<strong>The</strong>refore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe<br />

that you have received it, and it will be yours.'<br />

And in Matthew 7:7 it says:<br />

'‘Ask and it will be given to you;<br />

seek and you will find;<br />

knock and the door will be opened to you.<br />

NO SECRET<br />

Being a Christian is not about belonging to a secret<br />

society and it is not for a chosen few. Being a Christian is<br />

a choice we can all make. Just remember:<br />

— Whatever it is you need, Jesus has it;<br />

— Whatever it is you want, Jesus knows what is best<br />

for you,<br />

— Whatever it is you have, Jesus wants you to use it<br />

for his kingdom and his glory.<br />

This is why I am a Christian, and why I have always<br />

wanted to earn my living telling people about him!<br />

From the<br />

editor's desk<br />

Waste not,<br />

want not . . .<br />

When I think of <strong>September</strong>, I can't help thinking about<br />

my father. He was born on 13 <strong>September</strong>, a day my very<br />

superstitious mother insisted was the unluckiest of the<br />

year — especially if, as it does this year, falls on a Friday.<br />

He would always agree with her while reminding her that<br />

he had still married her anyway!<br />

He was born in Bethnal Green, East London, but like<br />

many families just before the war, his family moved to<br />

Southend-on-Sea. It was here he met my mother, despite,<br />

having lived in the next street to her in Bethnal Green,<br />

they had never met previously.<br />

He left school when he was 12 years old and joined the<br />

Royal Horse Artillery's stable in East London where he<br />

began as a 'lad' mucking them out, grooming the horses<br />

and polishing the leather saddles. When the war started<br />

the horses were replaced by motorcycles and he became<br />

a dispatch rider carrying messages between the troops.<br />

<strong>The</strong> bikes were soon replaced with vehicles and his future<br />

was sealed as a lorry driver, a job he did for the rest of his<br />

life. <strong>The</strong> favourite place he had driven to in the war was<br />

Jerusalem and I have a copy of a Bible he brought home<br />

with him.<br />

MUCK AND MONEY<br />

One of his favourite sayings was 'where there's muck<br />

there's money' which, after the war, he put into practice by<br />

collecting the waste fat and bones from butcher shops and<br />

slaughter houses. He sorted it to resell to soap, glue and<br />

fertiliser manufacturers in London. All the meat cloths<br />

that the waste fat and bones came in were sold to a laundry.<br />

It was a mucky, very smelly job, but one that earned good<br />

money. All that he was doing was reusing 'waste' products.<br />

I'm sure that my Dad would have been interested in this<br />

month's issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> where we feature Zero<br />

Waste Week on the centre pages. <strong>The</strong> idea behind the week<br />

is not to waste anything and that all 'rubbish' has a value.<br />

As my father taught me, reusing waste is not a new idea,<br />

but it is one that many of us neglect. It's too easy to throw<br />

things away but if we don't change our ways we are in great<br />

danger of our world dying around us by being smothered<br />

with rubbish.<br />

RECYCLE THIS MAGAZINE — PLEASE!<br />

A lady in church said to me recently that she always<br />

feels bad when she puts <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> in the recycling<br />

bag. My response was, please do! <strong>The</strong> more things that<br />

we recycle the greater the chance we have of saving our<br />

environment. Much of the paper used for our magazine<br />

has been recycled previously anyway and we keep copies<br />

online going back to 1869. Please recycle this magazine<br />

after you have read it. You know it makes sense!


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Very bad news for the wider world . . .<br />

<strong>The</strong> Church of England’s General<br />

Synod has voted to create a day<br />

of prayer for Christians who face<br />

oppression and violence around the<br />

world.<br />

A background paper highlighted<br />

the plight of millions of Christians<br />

worldwide facing high levels of<br />

persecution and discrimination for<br />

their faith. In North Korea, where<br />

Christianity is illegal, believers risk<br />

imprisonment, torture, or execution.<br />

Similarly, in parts of the Middle East<br />

such as Iraq and Syria, extremist<br />

groups have targeted Christians,<br />

leading to mass displacement and<br />

atrocities.<br />

In China, the government<br />

imposes strict regulations on<br />

religious practices, frequently<br />

raiding and demolishing<br />

unregistered churches.<br />

Sub-Saharan Africa also sees<br />

severe persecution with Nigeria’s<br />

Boko Haram attacking Christian<br />

villages, churches, and schools,<br />

resulting in countless deaths and<br />

abductions.<br />

In Pakistan, blasphemy laws are<br />

often misused to unjustly imprison<br />

Christians and incite mob violence<br />

against them.<br />

#REDWEDNESDAY<br />

A <strong>2024</strong> report by ‘Open Doors’<br />

concluded that 317 million<br />

Christians face ‘very high or high<br />

levels of persecution’ across its<br />

ranking. This equates to one in seven<br />

Christians worldwide.<br />

Geographically, it found that one<br />

in five Christians face persecution in<br />

Africa and two in five Christians face<br />

persecution in Asia.<br />

<strong>The</strong> top five countries are: North<br />

Korea, Somalia, Libya, Eritrea and<br />

Yemen.<br />

Background information<br />

provided to Synod members also<br />

highlighted existing initiatives<br />

to highlight the plight of<br />

persecuted Christians, including<br />

#RedWednesday on 29 November and<br />

<strong>The</strong> International Day of Prayer for<br />

the Persecuted Church — together<br />

with initiatives more broadly<br />

aimed at promoting Freedom of<br />

Religion or Belief (FoRB) such as the<br />

International Day Commemorating<br />

Jesus statue by Gustavo Facci, Argentina<br />

the Victims of Acts of Violence Based<br />

on Religion or Belief.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Pew Research Centre has<br />

reported that overall FoRB is in<br />

decline, paralleling the global<br />

deterioration of democracy and<br />

human rights in general.<br />

Its <strong>2024</strong> report found that<br />

government restrictions on religion,<br />

laws, policies and actions by state<br />

officials that limit religious beliefs<br />

and practices, reached a new peak<br />

globally in 2021.<br />

NATIONAL DAY<br />

Harassment of religious groups<br />

and interference in worship were<br />

two of the most common forms of<br />

government restrictions worldwide<br />

in 2021.<br />

As a response to this crisis, the<br />

Synod backed the motion from<br />

the Diocese of London which<br />

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highlighted the issue, and has<br />

proposed a national ecumenical day<br />

of prayer and action dedicated to the<br />

Persecuted Church.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Bishop of Winchester,<br />

Philip Mounstephen, said: '<strong>The</strong><br />

biggest threat is from overbearing,<br />

authoritarian nationalistic<br />

governments who are bolstered by their<br />

own particular theology: so Putin’s<br />

regime in Russia is bolstered by the<br />

concept of Russkiy Mir: a theology<br />

shamefully expounded by the Russian<br />

Orthodox Church.<br />

'President Xi’s ambitions for Chinese<br />

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concept of Tianxia: literally ‘all under<br />

heaven’ — a geopolitical system with<br />

China at the centre and President Xi at<br />

the centre of the centre.<br />

'All these ideologies are very bad<br />

news for minorities of every sort, and<br />

bad news for the wider world too.'


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This month we hear about the<br />

second regional International<br />

Religious Freedom (IRF) Asia<br />

Summit. <strong>The</strong> conference took place<br />

in Tokyo in July. More than 150<br />

people from around the world met<br />

for two days to discuss and advocate<br />

for religious freedom.<br />

Topics discussed included the impact<br />

of genocide in the region, religious<br />

pluralism, enshrining religious<br />

freedom in Asian democracies, and<br />

freedom of belief under authoritarian<br />

governments. Benedict Rogers,<br />

CEO of Hong Kong Watch (pictured<br />

right), chaired the panel for the lastmentioned<br />

topic.<br />

In his remarks he stated that<br />

Asia includes 'some of the world’s most<br />

brutal and most repressive authoritarian<br />

regimes'.<br />

Four of these are communist, he<br />

explained: China (which now includes<br />

Hong Kong), Vietnam, Laos, and North<br />

Korea. Plus, he added, the military<br />

dictatorship that seized power in a<br />

coup in 2021 in Myanmar (Burma).<br />

In most of these countries, he said,<br />

religious freedom has been repressed<br />

very severely for a long time. In North<br />

Korea, for example, being a Christian<br />

means literally risking your life, risking<br />

execution for reading the Bible, or a<br />

lifetime in a prison camp for praying.<br />

In Myanmar, under successive<br />

military dictatorships, Christians have<br />

faced restrictions, discrimination and<br />

in recent years war crimes and crimes<br />

against humanity.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Muslim community - in<br />

particular the Rohingya community -<br />

face a genocide.<br />

CHINA<br />

Rogers turned his attention to<br />

China. He believes that there have<br />

been periods of intense persecution<br />

as well as periods of relaxation. At the<br />

moment we are seeing, he claimed,<br />

perhaps the worst period since the<br />

Cultural Revolution which includes the<br />

intensifying persecution of Christians.<br />

In Hong Kong, religious freedom<br />

is impacted by 'the dismantling of<br />

freedom itself'. Once one of Asia’s<br />

freest and most open cities, it is being<br />

turned into a police state.<br />

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Asia has 'some of the world’s most brutal<br />

and most repressive authoritarian regimes'<br />

Benedict Rogers, CEO, Hong Kong Watch<br />

On the panel, Bob Fu, the founder<br />

and president of China Aid, a nonprofit<br />

Christian NGO based in Texas,<br />

has a mission to advance religious<br />

freedom and the rule of law for all in<br />

China. He summarised the basic trend.<br />

He echoed Rogers’ comment about<br />

the (between 100 and 130 million)<br />

Chinese Christians experiencing the<br />

worst persecution for four decades.<br />

<strong>The</strong> goal of the regime of Xi<br />

Jinping has changed from 'control'<br />

to 'eradication'. <strong>The</strong>y have seen, he<br />

said, for the first time in 40 years, the<br />

Chinese Communist Party (CCP) forbid<br />

all children, students and even medical<br />

doctors, to believe in the Christian<br />

faith.<br />

Millions of Chinese Christians were<br />

forced to sign a Communist Partyprepared<br />

form to renounce their faith<br />

in public.<br />

Christian parents, children and<br />

employers were encouraged by local<br />

regulations to betray each other — for<br />

example, if they found a copy of the<br />

Bible 'under the pillow'.<br />

This only happened, he said, during<br />

the Cultural Revolution of Chairman<br />

Mao in the 1960s.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are monetary incentives,<br />

whereby anybody who reports these<br />

kind of 'illegal religious activities'<br />

would be rewarded. <strong>The</strong>y are also<br />

seeing the CCP totally banning<br />

Christian private education. All the<br />

foreign missionaries, for the first time<br />

since 1955, were kicked out — even<br />

those engaging in humanitarian<br />

charitable activities like helping<br />

orphans or training the orphanage<br />

teachers.<br />

Under the banner of Sinicization<br />

— the process of assimilating non-<br />

Chinese groups into Chinese culture<br />

— the CCP ordered the churches to<br />

sing the Communist Party’s national<br />

anthem before they participate<br />

in worship and Xi Jinping’s and<br />

Chairman Mao’s pictures were<br />

mandated to be put on the pulpit.<br />

This is really, he said, the first step<br />

toward 'elimination'.<br />

NORTH KOREA<br />

Also on this panel, Rev Tim Peters,<br />

who founded Helping Hands Korea in<br />

1996, spoke about how the government<br />

of North Korea under Kim Jong Un<br />

had become increasingly repressive to<br />

its population in general but also to its<br />

Christian population.<br />

It was making it more and more<br />

difficult for people to leave the country<br />

without permission.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is mining of the border areas<br />

– not mines for the country’s enemies<br />

but for their own population who<br />

might attempt to leave.<br />

Meanwhile, China is upping its<br />

surveillance along the Sino-North<br />

Korean border to detect escapees.<br />

Detention and then forcible<br />

repatriation to North Korea can follow,<br />

with the prospect of incarceration<br />

there.<br />

Please pray for support and<br />

strengthening of faith of Christians<br />

in these countries, and for the work of<br />

the Christian agencies.<br />

References / further reading<br />

International Religious Freedom Summit<br />

Asia Regional Conference <strong>2024</strong>:<br />

http://irfsummit.asia/<br />

International Christian Concern report:<br />

https://www.persecution.org/<strong>2024</strong>/07/25/<br />

spotlight-on-religious-freedom-at-irfsummit-asia/<br />

IRF Summit video 'Panel Four'<br />

Freedom of Belief Under Authoritarian<br />

Governments : https://youtu.be/8zPwp8wnC0?si=fw3dkVuCjfaS5OdG<br />

Helping Hands Korea:<br />

http://helpinghandskorea.org<br />

China Aid: http://ChinaAid.org<br />

Hong Kong Watch:<br />

http://hongkongwatch.org


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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 17<br />

<strong>The</strong> day Ekiden ran through Sonning<br />

On Monday 24 June the inaugural UK Ekiden came through Sonning with a<br />

handover point at the St Andrew's Church Ark.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Ekiden is a Japanese long<br />

distance relay format running race<br />

which traces its roots back hundreds<br />

of years to a time when runners<br />

relayed important messages between<br />

stations along predetermined routes.<br />

<strong>The</strong> UK Ekiden was launched in<br />

admiration and celebration of the<br />

100th Hakone Ekiden which took<br />

place in January <strong>2024</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Hakone Ekiden is run over<br />

two days, between Tokyo and<br />

Hakone on day 1, and returning on<br />

day 2. It is televised live on Nippon<br />

TV!<br />

<strong>The</strong> UK race has incorporated<br />

many aspects of the Japanese race<br />

including passing a Tasuki sash<br />

between runners instead of a baton<br />

and also follows an iconic route.<br />

<strong>The</strong> race emphasises teamwork,<br />

endurance and camaraderie, and is<br />

also intended to strengthen the close<br />

bonds between the UK and Japan.<br />

<strong>The</strong> 76 mile race was run from<br />

Oxford to Windsor roughly along the<br />

Thames path split into 10 legs with<br />

teams of 10 runners each running<br />

one of the legs.<br />

<strong>The</strong> seventh leg was from Sonning<br />

to Henley, with a short diversion<br />

away from the river at Lower<br />

Shiplake to allow a large hill to be<br />

run up and down!<br />

Running this leg for Cambridge<br />

University was Sonning resident<br />

James Rennie. Cambridge started<br />

the leg in third place behind<br />

Oxford University and Birmingham<br />

University but finished in second<br />

with a combination of good running<br />

by James, who was the fastest<br />

runner on that leg, and unfortunate<br />

navigation by Birmingham whose<br />

runner was spotted north of Henley<br />

before eventually making his way<br />

back to the handover!<br />

As a spectator sport it was a little<br />

slow with action happening for<br />

each of the changeovers then long<br />

waits for the next team to come in!<br />

Nevertheless, it was great to see <strong>The</strong><br />

Ark in use with the teams preparing<br />

for their runs and recovering from<br />

the previous leg.<br />

<strong>The</strong> race was ultimately won by<br />

Oxford University with Cambridge<br />

University following in second and<br />

Birmingham University in third<br />

place.


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Reaping what we sow?<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 19<br />

Help Ian to raise funds to beautify<br />

your parish Church<br />

To mark his 70th birthday this month, Charvil resident, Ian<br />

McCann (pictured right), is undertaking a sponsored cycling<br />

marathon with his son, David, from Lands End to John O'Groats.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y plan to cycle over 100 miles every day for nine consecutive<br />

days — that's over 980 miles!<br />

All <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> readers, church members and Charvil,<br />

Sonning and Sonning Eye residents are invited to make donations<br />

on a Just Giving Crowd funding page at:<br />

https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/fostaccycling<br />

All the donations will be given to the Friends of St Andrew's<br />

Church (FoStAC) to be used for the repair and beautification of<br />

your parish church, St Andrew's, that serves Charvil, Sonning and<br />

Sonning Eye.<br />

Images from Dreamstime.com (left to right) Jittawit Tachakanjanapong; Allexxandar; Alessio Andrea Balza<br />

A journalist once asked Billy Graham’s daughter why God allowed all the problems in the world today. Here is what<br />

his daughter, Anne Graham Lotz replied:<br />

'I believe God is deeply saddened by<br />

this, just as we are, but for years we've<br />

been telling God to get out of our<br />

schools, to get out of our government<br />

and to get out of our lives.<br />

'And being the gentleman he is,<br />

I believe he has calmly backed out.<br />

How can we expect God to give us<br />

his blessing and his protection if we<br />

demand he leave us alone?<br />

'In America some years ago<br />

people complained that they did not<br />

personalities would be warped and<br />

we might damage their self-esteem<br />

(Dr Spock's son committed suicide).<br />

We said an expert should know what<br />

he's talking about. And everyone said<br />

OK. '<strong>The</strong>n someone said teachers<br />

better not discipline our children<br />

when they misbehave.<br />

<strong>The</strong> schools feared bad publicity,<br />

and said there was no difference<br />

between proper discipline and cruel<br />

humiliation. And we said OK.<br />

'<strong>The</strong>n the entertainment industry<br />

said, ‘let's make TV shows and<br />

movies that promote profanity,<br />

violence, sadistic cruelty and<br />

illicit sex. Let's record music that<br />

encourages rape, drugs, murder,<br />

suicide, and satanic themes.’ And we<br />

said it's just entertainment, it has<br />

no adverse effect, nobody takes it<br />

seriously anyway, so go right ahead.<br />

'Now we're asking ourselves why<br />

our children have no conscience,<br />

want prayer in their schools. And the<br />

why our society is so violent and<br />

authorities said OK. <strong>The</strong>n someone<br />

WE SAID OK<br />

dangerous, why no one seems to<br />

said: ‘you better not read the Bible<br />

in school ... the Bible says thou shalt<br />

not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love<br />

your neighbour as yourself.’ And so<br />

everyone said OK.<br />

'<strong>The</strong>n Dr Benjamin Spock said we<br />

shouldn't spank our children when<br />

they misbehave because their little<br />

'<strong>The</strong>n some of our top elected<br />

officials said it doesn't matter what<br />

we do in private, as long as we do our<br />

jobs. Agreeing with them, we said it<br />

doesn't matter to me what anyone,<br />

including our leaders, do in private<br />

as long as I have a job, and the<br />

economy is good. And we said OK.<br />

know right from wrong, and why<br />

it doesn't bother people to cheat,<br />

threaten and even kill each other.<br />

Probably, if we think about it long<br />

and hard enough, we can figure it<br />

out.<br />

'I think it has a great deal to do<br />

with we reap what we sow!'


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feature — 3<br />

Become one of the many millions<br />

of people who are trying to save<br />

our world from being smothered<br />

by rubbish<br />

Every year, millions of people all around the world commit to reducing their landfill<br />

waste for a week during <strong>September</strong> — saving money, preserving resources and having<br />

fun in the process. <strong>The</strong> campaign was started by Rachelle Strauss in 2008 and all the<br />

information on these pages can be found on the Zero Waste website where there is<br />

more information . . .<br />

https://www.zerowasteweek.co.uk/<br />

Rachelle Strauss states:<br />

'My mission is to empower you to rethink ‘rubbish’ as a valuable resource.<br />

I encourage you to make small changes that lead to more sustainable consumption<br />

patterns.<br />

I educate so that you can easily and effectively reduce landfill, save money and<br />

participate in the circular economy in line with the global goals for sustainable<br />

development.<br />

Small changes lead to more sustainable consumption patterns.'<br />

It's simple to take part<br />

in Zero Waste Week<br />

Choose an action that will help you reduce your<br />

waste, do it every day throughout Zero Waste<br />

Week in <strong>September</strong> and share your experience<br />

with others in person or online using the hashtag<br />

#ZeroWasteWeek.<br />

Here's a step by step plan:<br />

Save the date. Zero Waste Week takes place the week<br />

beginning the first Monday in <strong>September</strong>, so the dates<br />

change each year. Check your calendar for the first<br />

Monday in <strong>September</strong> and that will be the first day of<br />

the campaign week!<br />

Download a resource for hints, tips and ideas.<br />

Pick a theme — popular ones in the past have been<br />

food waste, plastic packaging and repair.<br />

Set a goal — will you reduce your landfill waste by<br />

10%? Banish food waste for two days? Or go all in and<br />

challenge yourselves to a completely waste free week?<br />

Think about your why — WHY do you want to<br />

achieve your goal? This will keep you accountable<br />

to yourself and on the bandwagon when things get<br />

tough.<br />

Declare your challenge — tell colleagues, friends<br />

and family members. Take to social media, using the<br />

hashtag #ZeroWasteWeek<br />

Invite others — it’s so much more fun to do<br />

challenges with others. Set up a Zero Waste challenge<br />

at work, your local community, at home or with your<br />

customers.<br />

Have fun — enjoy your week, learn from your<br />

mistakes and celebrate your successes.<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 21<br />

Holy Cross Day: 14 <strong>September</strong><br />

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<strong>The</strong> Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross, celebrated every year on 14 <strong>September</strong>, recalls the<br />

discovery of the 'True Cross' by Saint Helena, and the dedication of the church built by Emperor<br />

Constantine on the site of the Holy Sepulchre and Mount Calvary. <strong>The</strong> Cross is a symbol of<br />

triumph, the sign of Christ’s victory over death.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Church of the Holy Sepulchre is also known as the Church of the Resurrection. It was built in<br />

the 4th Century in the Christian Quarter of the Old City of Jerusalem. It is also the seat of the Greek<br />

Orthodox Patriarchate of Jerusalem and is considered to be the holiest site in Christianity, and has<br />

been the most important pilgrimage site for Christians since the 4th Century.<br />

Holy Cross Day dates from 14 <strong>September</strong> 335, and we have Helena, the mother of a Roman<br />

Emperor to thank for it. Helena was a devout Christian, and after her son, Constantine, was<br />

converted, they agreed that she should travel from Rome to Israel, and seek out the places of special<br />

significance to Christians.<br />

THE SIMPLE WOODEN CROSS<br />

Around 135 AD, much of Jerusalem had been destroyed by the Romans, but even so, Helena<br />

finally located what she believed to be the sites of the Crucifixion and of the Burial of Christ, a fact<br />

that modern archaeologists think may be correct. <strong>The</strong> sites were so close together that she built one<br />

large church over them — the Church of the Holy Sepulchre. It was built in honour of the Cross, and<br />

was dedicated on 14 <strong>September</strong> 335.<br />

<strong>The</strong> sign of the Cross has been used by Christians since early times. Tertullian, writing his De<br />

Corona (3:2) around AD 211, noted that Christians seldom did anything significant without making<br />

the sign of the cross, but why a cross?<br />

We often put our initials or some sort of personal mark on something to show that it belongs to<br />

us. <strong>The</strong> Cross is seen as the personal mark of Jesus Christ and it is the one we mark on ourselves as<br />

a sign that we belong to him. In the book of Revelation, we can read that the servants of God are<br />

‘sealed’ or ‘marked’ on their foreheads as a sign that they are his. This 'mark' was the cross.<br />

But why a cross? A preacher once put it this way: if you were explaining to someone how to make<br />

a cross, you would say: 'Draw an I.' That is you standing before the Lord, saying, ‘Here I am’. <strong>The</strong>n<br />

cancel that vertical stroke with a horizontal stroke as if to say: 'Lord, I abandon my self-will and<br />

make you the centre of my life instead. I abandon myself to your love and service.'<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are many different designs of crosses in use by different Christian groups but they all have<br />

their roots in simple wooden cross on which Jesus was crucified.


22 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

AROUND THE VILLAGES — 1<br />

Rotary raises over £8,000 for charity<br />

<strong>The</strong> Rotary Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh's annual Charity Golf Day at<br />

Sonning Golf Club on 4 July, attracted a record turnout with 26 teams and<br />

over 100 players.<br />

<strong>The</strong> day's success extended into the evening with a dinner compered by golfing<br />

comedian Aaron James, who also conducted a charity auction featuring items<br />

donated by local golf clubs and businesses.<br />

<strong>The</strong> auction and other fund raising activities raised over £8,000 for Rotarysupported<br />

charities. <strong>The</strong> majority of which will benefit Rotary’s Community<br />

Food Aid and children's programmes which support local food banks, churches,<br />

families, and various local children's charities. Since the pandemic, the club<br />

has donated over £30,000 to these vital causes.<br />

Scott Trathen, joint president of the Rotary Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh,<br />

commented, 'It was a superb way to raise money for our programme. Everyone<br />

enjoyed a great day and contributed generously to all the fund raising activities. We<br />

are grateful for the support of so many local businesses and especially Sonning Golf<br />

Club.'<br />

Since its inception, the club has raised over £500,000 for both local and<br />

international causes. Serving the communities in East and South Reading,<br />

including Sonning, Wargrave, and Twyford, the club meets every Tuesday<br />

evening at various locations. More from: https://www.readingmaidenerlegh.org/<br />

Bowlers wanted<br />

VlaS-Secretariaat, CC0,<br />

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Charvil Short Mat Bowls Club is<br />

seeking new members.<br />

It's a friendly group who play on<br />

Tuesday afternoons in Charvil<br />

Village Hall from 2–4pm and on<br />

Wednesday evenings from 7–9pm<br />

indoors from <strong>September</strong> to April at<br />

Charvil Village Hall.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>2024</strong>/25 seasons start<br />

on Tuesday 17 <strong>September</strong> and<br />

Wednesday 18 <strong>September</strong>.<br />

For further details contac:<br />

Gerry on 0118 969 4022<br />

or 0777 078 7791.<br />

Charvil Fete<br />

This year's Charvil Village Fete will<br />

be held in East Park Farm playing<br />

fields on Sunday 1 <strong>September</strong> from<br />

2-6pm. Charvil <strong>Parish</strong> councillors<br />

invite all residents to their stand<br />

at the fete to hear about the latest<br />

neighbourhood plan developments,<br />

a potential youth council, and the<br />

community orchard.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Village Hamper<br />

opens for its third<br />

guide dog training<br />

session<br />

In early June, Kathy, the owner<br />

of <strong>The</strong> Village Hamper in Sonning<br />

High Street, opened her doors again<br />

to host her third guide dog puppy<br />

training session.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are important sessions<br />

during their training programme<br />

because they provide pups with<br />

invaluable experience as well as<br />

learning how to remain calm in busy<br />

settings with lots of food around.<br />

You can find out more about guide<br />

dogs and their training at:<br />

https://www.guidedogs.org.uk/ or call<br />

into <strong>The</strong> Village Hamper to look at<br />

the notice board for flyers about<br />

guide dogs.<br />

MORE LOCAL SUPPORT FOR THE RNLI<br />

Following their successful summer garden party, the Sonning branch of the Royal National Lifeboat Institution<br />

were able to send more than £2,000 to the organisation's head office. Sonning branch thanks all who so generously<br />

contributed to the evening and to David and Laura Haldane who lent them their garden.<br />

RNLI Sonning Branch's next event will be a supper to celebrate 200 years of the RNLI. This will include a three course<br />

meal and a speaker recollecting his experience of his RNLI rescue. It will be held in Pearson Hall on Saturday 5 October at<br />

7.15 for 7.30pm, Tickets are £25 per person. <strong>The</strong>y will be available from David Bates on 0118 969 7753


AROUND THE VILLAGES — 2<br />

Sonning and Sonning<br />

Eye Society diary . . .<br />

Village Walk: 20 <strong>September</strong> with<br />

Pam Szadowski. Meet at <strong>The</strong> Mill<br />

<strong>The</strong>atre at 10am. <strong>The</strong> walk will take<br />

you through the village looking at<br />

various properties and St Andrew's<br />

Church. <strong>The</strong>re is no charge but places<br />

must be booked online or by sending<br />

Heather Kay a text message on:<br />

0785 177 5467.<br />

Talk: <strong>The</strong> History of Reading<br />

Hospitals — Pearson Hall<br />

PLEASE NOTE CHANGE OF DATE<br />

<strong>The</strong> talk is now on 4 October at<br />

7.30pm. Lionel Williams' talk will<br />

cover the history and changes to<br />

Reading Hospitals from 1837 to the<br />

present day.<br />

To book online: sonning.org.uk or<br />

email penny.feathers@btinternet.com<br />

tickets include a soft drink or wine.<br />

£5 members £6 guests.<br />

Talk: Secret Thames<br />

18 October 7.30pm. Duncan Mackay,<br />

author of '<strong>The</strong> secret Thames' will<br />

present an illustrated talk giving an<br />

insight into some of the river's more<br />

obscure areas. Booking as above.<br />

Visit: Harcourt Aboretum, Oxford<br />

October date and details to come.<br />

AGM: Pearson Hall Saturday 16<br />

November 7.15pm. Meeting and<br />

Supper following the official part of<br />

the meeting, a three course meal and<br />

a talk by a member of othe village<br />

community. Tickets are £25 and<br />

include the meal. Details above.<br />

Charvil Hall Voices<br />

14 <strong>September</strong>, 2-4.15 pm, a singing<br />

afternoon for female voices. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

will be working on a medley of songs<br />

from the musical 'Wicked' arranged<br />

for 2-part choir. Cost: £15 includes<br />

music and refreshments.<br />

5 October, 2-4pm, singing a trio<br />

of Abba songs for female voices,<br />

including: Mamma Mia, Super<br />

Trouper and Money, Money, Money,<br />

arranged for 2-part choir. <strong>The</strong> cost<br />

is £12 which includes music and<br />

refreshments<br />

<strong>The</strong> sessions are led by local<br />

music teacher and choir director,<br />

Suzanne Newman. Places need to<br />

be booked and paid for in advance.<br />

Contact Suzanne for details:<br />

suzanneynewman@btinternet.com<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 23<br />

Old wall repairs completed<br />

If you have walked through the St Andrew's churchyard during the summer<br />

you may have seen some specialist work taking place on the old brick and flint<br />

wall beside the footpath that runs from the Sonning Lane entrance through<br />

the churchyard. This work, which was commissioned by the Parochial Church<br />

Council, is now complete.<br />

It was undertaken by Mathias Restoration Ltd who had previously restored<br />

the flint work on the East face of the Vicar's Vestry and which had been funded<br />

by the Friends of St Andrew’s Church (FoStAC). Mathias Restoration is a long<br />

establish family business with over 50 years experience being passed down to<br />

the current generations.<br />

<strong>The</strong> work on the brick and flint wall was funded by the PCC with the help<br />

of a generous donation from the Fire Station Trust. Traditional materials were<br />

used and it is expected that the new lime mortar will fade in time to match the<br />

remaining old mortar.


24 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

around the villages— — 31<br />

Triumphant trio trot the Thames Path<br />

for My Cancer My Choices<br />

Three valiant volunteers completed the gruelling challenge of walking the entire<br />

Thames Path's 203 miles (due to diversions). That's the equivalent of nearly eight<br />

marathons in 15 days. <strong>The</strong>y clocked up an incredible 423,516 steps!<br />

<strong>The</strong> 'Thames Trotters', set out on 8<br />

June at the river’s source, and walked<br />

over 200 miles finishing at the Thames<br />

Barrier on 22 June.<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir aim was to raise funds for<br />

the Charvil-based charity, My Cancer<br />

My Choices (MCMC), that provides<br />

complementary therapies and<br />

support to people living with, and<br />

beyond, cancer across Berkshire.<br />

<strong>The</strong> three trotters were Mandy<br />

Barter, from Streatley, who founded<br />

the charity 9 years ago after her own<br />

cancer diagnosis; Fiona Pearce, from<br />

Wokingham, who has been a member<br />

of the charity’s fundraising committee<br />

for many years; and Nicki Brown,<br />

of Checkendon, who volunteers as<br />

a complementary therapist for the<br />

charity.<br />

EXPEDITION<br />

During the 15 day expedition, they<br />

were joined by 27 other family, friends,<br />

supporters and users of the charity’s<br />

services. <strong>The</strong>y all walked for a day, a<br />

few days or even a week, as well as<br />

raising additional funds and boosting<br />

the Trotters’ morale.<br />

So far they have raised an incredible<br />

£12,000, an amount that will keep<br />

the entire charity operating for over a<br />

month, and so ensure that more people<br />

can benefit from their services.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Trotters had many 'adventures'<br />

along the way, surviving deluges<br />

and baking sun, navigating through<br />

diversions and path closures, including<br />

a trip on Ringo, a Pink Flamingo<br />

pedalo, to get them across a bridge<br />

closure, and they appeared on national<br />

radio.<br />

BLISTERS<br />

Despite horrendous blisters from<br />

day two, Fiona was determined to<br />

finish the tortuous trek, and said,<br />

'Walking the length of the Thames<br />

Path over 15 days was a big challenge<br />

but it exceeded all my expectations.<br />

For me it was more than a walk and I<br />

have changed as a result of all I have<br />

experienced along the way.<br />

'My fellow Trotters, Mandy, Nicki and<br />

Claire (who joined for the second week),<br />

are so inspiring to be around.<br />

'<strong>The</strong> most amazing outcome is the<br />

extraordinary amount we have raised for<br />

MCMC which has increased fourfold from<br />

our original £3K goal.<br />

'Nearly 300 people have donated so far<br />

and this keeps on growing. I am proud to<br />

have been part of this amazing journey,<br />

but very glad my blisters can start to heal<br />

and I don't have to wear my walking boots<br />

any more!'<br />

GRATITUDE<br />

<strong>The</strong> Trotters expressed their huge<br />

gratitude to all the people who joined<br />

them en route, donated, ferried them<br />

around and fed them — even their taxi<br />

driver who donated his fare!<br />

<strong>The</strong> support has been incredible,<br />

and Mandy commented, 'I feel elated<br />

that we have raised vital funds for My<br />

Cancer My Choices, which will help people<br />

with cancer access therapies that make a<br />

difference to their lives.<br />

'I’m delighted we have completed this<br />

really tough challenge and I would really<br />

encourage people to explore the Thames<br />

Path in all its beauty.<br />

'On a personal level, walking 203 miles<br />

is a significant achievement in my 60th<br />

year, and 15 years post cancer. I hope it<br />

highlights the benefits walking has on<br />

mental and physical health.'<br />

SPONSORSHIP<br />

If you’d like to sponsor the Thames<br />

Trotters, please visit https://www.<br />

justgiving.com/team/thamestrotters<br />

All the donations will go to support<br />

the charity in its mission is to empower<br />

people with cancer, enabling them to<br />

make active choices to enhance their<br />

well-being, as they come to terms with<br />

their diagnosis.<br />

Specialist therapists volunteer their<br />

time to offer a range of one-to-one and<br />

group therapies, such as acupuncture<br />

and reflexology, which help manage<br />

the side effects of conventional<br />

treatment and improve mental and<br />

physical health.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se choices are offered from<br />

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restricted by an individual’s finances or<br />

cancer stage.<br />

<strong>The</strong> charity has around 65<br />

volunteers and recently won the King’s<br />

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For more information visit:<br />

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around the villages — 1<br />

around the villages — 4<br />

Sonning Village Show<br />

Robert Farquhar (pictured right)<br />

presents Jill Watkins with the<br />

Sonning Art Club Chairman's Cup. <strong>The</strong><br />

subject chosen for the latest award<br />

was humour and it attracted many<br />

excellent pictures causing much fun<br />

and laughter. Jill Watkins' pencil<br />

drawing of Danny De Vito was the<br />

deserved winner.<br />

If you would like to see more of the<br />

Sonning Art Group's work it will be<br />

on show during the Sonning Village<br />

Show on Saturday 14 <strong>September</strong> at<br />

the Sonning CofE Primary School. <strong>The</strong><br />

children's art prize money has been<br />

increased this year. It is now £5 for first<br />

prize, £3 for second and £2 for third<br />

prize. Entries to be submitted on the<br />

day between 10am and 12 noon. <strong>The</strong><br />

Village Show will open at 2pm.<br />

TRHA in bloom<br />

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Despite the poor spring weather,<br />

things have been blooming for<br />

the Twyford and Ruscombe<br />

Horticultural Association.<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir popular bring and buy plant<br />

sale in June raised over £500 to be<br />

used for essential maintenance on<br />

their horticultural store in Loddon<br />

Hall Road, Twyford.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Summer Show in June was<br />

also successful with 100 more entries<br />

than last year and the enthusiasm of<br />

the competitors could be seen in the<br />

quality of the exhibits.<br />

Efforts to encourage younger<br />

growers resulted in all the local<br />

schools entering the competition for<br />

the new Schools Challenge Cup.<br />

<strong>The</strong> standard of all the entries<br />

was high and this year the cup was<br />

won by Happy Hours Preschool<br />

Group.<br />

TRHA is non-profit making and<br />

the quiz evening raised over £400<br />

which was shared between two<br />

local gardening charities, Twyford<br />

Growers and Growing Places of<br />

Wokingham.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Association is now preparing<br />

for the Autumn Show which will<br />

be held on Saturday 7 <strong>September</strong> at<br />

Loddon Hall, Twyford, RG10 9JA.<br />

A trip to the RHS Garden at<br />

Hyde Hall, Essex is planned for 25<br />

<strong>September</strong>. For details and all other<br />

information: https://trha.org.uk


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Almost 30 friendly<br />

years of twinning<br />

Abbaye-St-Martin, Liguge<br />

Lesley Green, Sonning Twinning Association, writes<br />

Sonning was officially twinned with Ligugé near Poitiers<br />

in France in 1995 and the twinning charter which hangs<br />

in the Pearson Hall, Sonning, outlines the intention and<br />

purpose of this link.<br />

It encourages a fostering of friendship and mutual<br />

understanding between the people of Ligugé and Sonning<br />

and seeks to promote cultural exchanges between our two<br />

communities as well as forging sporting, social, cultural<br />

and professional links between citizens of all ages.<br />

Next time you are in Pearson Hall you might also<br />

notice the painting of a bandstand located in the Parc de<br />

Sonning in Ligugé!<br />

Many thanks to Rob and Jackie Jones for hosting our<br />

Summer Barbecue! It was lovely to see many members<br />

enjoying the warm sunshine and sharing memories of<br />

twinning activities, both in Sonning and Ligugé.<br />

It has also been good to welcome some new members<br />

but there is always space for more! Membership is £5<br />

individual or £10 for a family so if you would like to<br />

join please contact our treasurer Trefor Fisher on trefor.<br />

fisher@hotmail.com or 0778 988 0072.<br />

Next year will be the 30th anniversary of the twinning<br />

and we are already planning for this!<br />

In the meantime you will be most welcome at our next<br />

event which is the Autumn Supper in the Pearson Hall on<br />

Saturday 2 November at 7.15 for 7.30pm. Save the date and<br />

keep a look out for further details soon!<br />

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WI looking forward to<br />

their 60th anniversary<br />

If you have been wondering what the WI have been<br />

doing lately then you will pleased to hear they have been<br />

extremely active as always!<br />

As well as their regular monthly meetings — 7.30pm on<br />

the third Monday of the month in Pearson Hall — in<br />

April they flexed their muscles at a skittle evening with<br />

a fish and chip supper, served many hundreds of cups of<br />

tea with slices of delicious homemade cake and met some<br />

lovely people.<br />

In June several members attended the National WI<br />

AGM in the Albert Hall as well as going to a performance<br />

at the Mill <strong>The</strong>atre.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n came <strong>The</strong> Village Rounders match, an annual<br />

event that the WI inaugurated many years ago!<br />

In July they cruised up the river from Maidenhead to<br />

Windsor as well as enjoying a summer supper, hosted by<br />

José and Rodney Huggins — and then there were all the<br />

lunches and evening meals out.<br />

You will be met by some of the members at the<br />

forthcoming Sonning Village Show on Saturday 14<br />

<strong>September</strong> at the Sonning CofE Primary School where<br />

they will be serving teas and running a Bag Tombola.<br />

Come October, Sonning Glebe WI will be celebrating 60<br />

years, so watch this space for more exciting happenings.<br />

To find out more go along to one of their monthly<br />

meetings: 7.30pm Pearson Hall, third Monday of the<br />

month.<br />

Scarecrow financials<br />

As reported previously, the Scarecrow Weekend proved to<br />

be yet another very successful Sonning Village event with<br />

both its main objectives being achieved — for a weekend<br />

of family fun and the opportunity to raise some extra cash<br />

for local good causes.<br />

<strong>The</strong> organisers have said that after the outstanding<br />

expenses have been paid, there will be almost £14,000<br />

available for local causes, so keep watching this space —<br />

and if you have any suggestions for those good causes let<br />

them know. contact@sonningscarecrows.com<br />

Toys & Teens Appeal<br />

<strong>The</strong> organisers of the annual Toys and Teens appeal are<br />

keen to hear from volunteers interested in being involved<br />

this year. <strong>The</strong>y need help from experienced van drivers<br />

and book sorters. <strong>The</strong>y are particularly keen to hear from<br />

anyone who has worked in a library or school, but this<br />

experience is not essential.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are unpaid, volunteer roles and you will need to<br />

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Please contact them on social media, or by email to<br />

express your interest.<br />

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HISTORY<br />

Was it really . . .<br />

. . . 865 YEARS AGO on 1 <strong>September</strong> 1159 that Pope<br />

Adrian IV, Nicholas Breakspear, the only English<br />

Pope, died.<br />

Father of English medicine<br />

. . . 400 YEARS AGO on 10 <strong>September</strong> 1624 that<br />

Thomas Sydenham, English physician, was born. He<br />

became known as the ‘father of English medicine’.<br />

His textbook on medicine became the standard<br />

medical textbook in England for the next 200 years.<br />

. . . 250 YEARS AGO on 4 <strong>September</strong> 1774 that<br />

British explorer Captain James Cook became the first<br />

European to discover New Caledonia in the southwest<br />

Pacific, during his second voyage.<br />

. . . 150 YEARS AGO on 21 <strong>September</strong> 1874 that<br />

Gustav Holst was born. This British composer,<br />

arranger and educator is best known for <strong>The</strong> Planets.<br />

. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 25 <strong>September</strong> 1924 that<br />

British racing driver Malcolm Campbell broke the<br />

land speed record for the first time. He recorded a<br />

speed of 146mph in a 1921 Sunbeam Grand Prix car at<br />

Pendine Sands, Carmarthen Bay, Wales.<br />

. . . 90 YEARS AGO, on 22 <strong>September</strong> 1934 that the<br />

Gresford Colliery Disaster took place in Wales. An<br />

explosion killed 266 miners and rescuers. It was one<br />

of Britain’s worst coal-mining disasters, but the cause<br />

of the explosion remains unknown.<br />

. . . 80 YEARS AGO from 17-25 <strong>September</strong> 1944 that<br />

Operation Market Garden took place. <strong>The</strong> Allies<br />

attempted a massive airborne invasion of Germanoccupied<br />

Netherlands, but they were forced to<br />

withdraw. <strong>The</strong> story was told in the film A Bridge Too<br />

Far. <strong>The</strong> operation included the Battle of Arnhem.<br />

. . . 75 YEARS AGO on 1 <strong>September</strong> 1949 that the<br />

Christmas song Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer<br />

was released.<br />

. . . 70 YEARS AGO on 15 <strong>September</strong> 1954 that the<br />

iconic photograph of Marilyn Monroe’s billowing<br />

skirt as she stood over a New York subway grate was<br />

taken during filming for <strong>The</strong> Seven-Year Itch.<br />

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Four hundred years ago, on 10 <strong>September</strong> 1624, Thomas<br />

Sydenham, (pictured above) the English physician who<br />

became known as the 'father of English medicine', was<br />

born in Dorset.<br />

His textbook on medicine, 'Observationes Medicae', became<br />

the standard medical textbook in England for the next 200<br />

years. It is still possible to purchase an original copy of the<br />

textbook if you are prepared to pay over £1,850!<br />

Sydenham came from a Puritan family, and his<br />

medical studies were interrupted by his fighting for<br />

the Parliamentarians in the Civil War. He had a deep<br />

Christian faith and believed in simple remedies based on<br />

natural theology. His treatments contrasted with many of<br />

the complex, speculative prescriptions of his time.<br />

COURAGEOUS MIND<br />

His work generally led to a more scientific approach<br />

to medicine, and he was compared to Hippocrates, the<br />

ancient Greek ‘Father of Medicine’. When he studied<br />

medicine at Oxford, he became a friend of renowned<br />

chemist Robert Boyle and philosopher John Locke.<br />

Sydenham had an astute and courageous mind that<br />

rejected much of the received wisdom of his day. He<br />

stressed the importance of observation, stating: 'You must<br />

go to the bedside.'<br />

One of his achievements was to identify and<br />

differentiate scarlet fever and measles, two extremely<br />

dangerous diseases at the time. He recommended fresh<br />

air and exercise, and also diagnosed St Vitus’ dance,<br />

sometimes called Sydenham’s chorea, for the first time.<br />

He was a founder of clinical medicine and<br />

epidemiology, and his treatise on gout — from which he<br />

himself suffered — was considered a masterpiece.<br />

He also wrote a book on fevers and treated victims of<br />

the Great Plagu in 1665, as well as introducing laudanum<br />

into medical practice for pain relief.


HEALTH<br />

Dr Simon Ruffle writes ... Shingles,<br />

a slightly misunderstood disease<br />

Shingles is the result of a pox virus. <strong>The</strong>re are many versions of pox viruses, most are<br />

inconsequential for humans. But there are a few that are not, for example, Coxpox,<br />

Monkeypox, Parapox, Molluscum Contagiosum, Smallpox, Varicella and, arguably,<br />

the most important, Vaccinia Smallpox which was declared eradicated in 1980 and the<br />

last case was in 1977. Before then it ravaged the world killing millions in its time.<br />

Most pox viruses enter through broken skin and cause<br />

a localised reaction. Some, like Smallpox and Varicella<br />

become systemic, spreading through the body causing other<br />

organs to become involved and the rash more generalised.<br />

Molluscum and Cowpox usually remain localised unless<br />

spread by scratching. Rarely, Cowpox can cause severe illness.<br />

BLOSSOM THE COW<br />

Edward Jenner noticed that milk maids often suffered<br />

from painful blisters on the hand caught from the udders of<br />

cows. But they did not suffer from Smallpox or, if they did, it<br />

was minor, and they recovered well.<br />

He applied to the ethics committee before researching<br />

this further and he took pus from a milkmaid’s infected hand<br />

and inoculated his gardener’s son, James Phipps.<br />

I was joking about the ethics committee because a few<br />

months later he exposed James to Smallpox (Variola) a<br />

number of times and little Jimmy, fortunately for Jenner,<br />

and the world, never fell ill.<br />

To complete this tale, the hide of Blossom the cow, who<br />

allegedly infected Sarah, was stripped and hangs in the<br />

library of St George’s Hospital University.<br />

We get the word vaccination from ‘vacca’ which is Latin for<br />

cow. Inoculation with Smallpox pustules pre-dates Jenner<br />

and caused milder, survivable Smallpox but also killed a few!<br />

Vaccinia is the pox virus that is found in the Smallpox<br />

vaccine which has saved millions of lives and due to<br />

eradicating the disease, and effectively still is. <strong>The</strong> vaccine<br />

against Smallpox does not contain any Smallpox virus, live<br />

or denatured. <strong>The</strong> Vaccinia virus is used which gives 95%<br />

immunity. Its origin is lost and it resembles a Horsepox virus<br />

and not a Cowpox virus as most people thought<br />

CHICKEN POX<br />

Varicella Zoster causes Chickenpox. Usually a mild self<br />

limiting illness in children. It is far nastier in adults and<br />

can rarely cause significant illness including chest and<br />

brain complications. It has nothing to do with chickens. It<br />

is thought to be named after peck marks that chickens can<br />

leave on skin or the resemblance of the lesions to chickpeas.<br />

<strong>The</strong> majority recover fully, although most of us can find a<br />

scar somewhere. Approximately 95% of people who say they<br />

have never had Chickenpox actually have if they are tested.<br />

Pregnant women were tested for antibodies, as<br />

Chickenpox in pregnancy can cause problems with the baby.<br />

Varicella has a nasty little trick. Once the body has<br />

attacked the initial infection the sneaky little poxy virus<br />

hides in the nerve roots, often near the spine. This takes the<br />

name of Herpes Zoster, despite it still being Varicella Zoster<br />

virus, or Shingles<br />

Many years after an attack of Chickenpox a nasty itchy<br />

painful area can occur on any part of the body. Often<br />

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characterised by a<br />

burning pricking pain.<br />

A few days later a rash<br />

appears that creeps along the distribution of where the<br />

nerve supplies the skin, as in the picture above. This is in the<br />

distribution of one of the thoracic nerves, a common area to<br />

get Zoster. I mention creeping because that is the origin of<br />

the word Herpes — to creep.<br />

As an aside, the slang term ‘the pox’ was used to describe<br />

Syphilis which isn’t pox. Neither is the ‘clap’ which is often<br />

called poxy, that’s gonorrhoea, (from ‘Clapier’ or rabbit hutch,<br />

a slang name for a place where humans go to do what rabbits are<br />

famed for!) and finally, cold sores and genital sores are the<br />

Herpes virus not pox.<br />

Cingulus is medieval Latin for girdle and thus we get<br />

the English Shingles. As seen in the photo that I took with<br />

permission.<br />

You cannot catch Shingles you already have it.<br />

You can catch Chickenpox from Shingles if in contact with<br />

it but if covered it is almost impossible.<br />

Most Shingles settles in 7-10 days and the rash subsides<br />

completely over a few weeks. Like Chickenpox once the scabs<br />

are dry you are not infective.<br />

But again Herpes (Varicella) Zoster has one more evil trait.<br />

<strong>The</strong> virus can affect the nerve so that it continually signals<br />

pain.<br />

This is known as port herpetic neuralgia and is disabling,<br />

especially if in the head, face or around the genitals but can<br />

affect any area. Patients have been known to become suicidal<br />

and ordinary painkillers do not work and just cause more side<br />

effects and misery. Fortunately there are now medications<br />

that can suppress the pain and occasionally surgery can be<br />

used.<br />

CONTROVERSIAL<br />

<strong>The</strong> most important strategy is to not allow Shingles<br />

to develop. We have a vaccine. People with suppressed<br />

immunity over 50 can get the vaccine.<br />

If you turned 65 before 1 <strong>September</strong> 2023 you will be<br />

eligible from the age of 70.<br />

If you turned 65 after 1 <strong>September</strong> 2023 you are eligible.<br />

<strong>The</strong> vaccine is not that effective after 80 years of age and<br />

thus will not be given to people who have reached 80 years of<br />

age. <strong>The</strong> reason for the staging of the vaccination is purely on<br />

supplies.<br />

Vaccination of children against Chickenpox is still a little<br />

controversial and the immunity drop off from vaccination<br />

needs further studying, but the data from the US and those<br />

who have been vaccinated in the UK may be available soon,<br />

but it put children and adults though multiple tests.<br />

Don’t underestimate nature's poxy little tricks especially<br />

when it comes to something that can be mostly prevented.


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HOME AND Garden<br />

A garden<br />

take-a-way<br />

visit<br />

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AFOOT IN THE GARDEN by Ray Puddefoot<br />

It’s a pleasure for a gardener to visit a great garden and be<br />

inspired to change their own humble plot. Over many years<br />

I have amassed a long bucket list of gardens I have wanted<br />

to visit! Bodnant Gardens in North Wales was always near<br />

the top of my list but no longer as we visited last April.<br />

Bodnant Gardens is so amazing we visited again this year.<br />

Nestled in a sheltered valley south of Conway and not far<br />

from Snowdonia, Bodnant is a lush paradise. It is famous<br />

for its laburnum tunnel, rhododendrons, azaleas, trees and<br />

streams tumbling down rocky streams into a valley. This year<br />

I came away thinking, how do we create a garden in our dryer<br />

soils that looks and feels as verdant as Bodnant— not the<br />

wet spring of <strong>2024</strong>? My key thoughts are:<br />

— Shelter from wind.<br />

— Light shade from a pergola or small trees that do not<br />

cast dense shade.<br />

— A water feature/irrigation system to increase<br />

retentiveness, ie adding organic matter and mulching.<br />

— Regular feeding.<br />

— Avoid killer plants that stop other plants from<br />

growing, for example, conifers and dense evergreens.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se measures would also be good for the environment<br />

as they absorb carbon and support wildlife. I would add that<br />

trees and shrubs with purple foliage cast dark shade.<br />

TASKS FOR SEPTEMBER<br />

— <strong>September</strong> is a time to enjoy the last of the summer<br />

sun, plan for any changes you want to make and<br />

preparing for the autumn and winter ahead.<br />

— Check fences and paving for wobbly posts and slabs.<br />

— Trim hedges and remove any unsightly stems from<br />

herbaceous perennials.<br />

— If the soil is moist enough, plant pot grown trees,<br />

shrubs, perennials and spring flowering bulbs.<br />

— Edge lawns, apply autumn treatments and raise the<br />

mower blades to help shade out moss.<br />

— Cut back, lift and divide perennials that have finished<br />

flowering.<br />

— Take semi ripe cuttings from plants like lavender, hebe,<br />

salvia, rosemary and penstemon.<br />

— Direct sow seeds of half-hardy annuals like calendula,<br />

cornflower, flax, larkspur, love-in-a-mist and poppies.<br />

SEPTEMBER TOP TIPS<br />

— Plant potted trees and shrubs<br />

— Lift and divide herbaceous<br />

— Trim hedges<br />

— Sow half-hardy annuals<br />

— Take semi-ripe cuttings<br />

Looking through some photos<br />

recently, I came across<br />

several family gardens from<br />

the past.<br />

My father was a very keen gardener but one thing my<br />

mum used to moan about was that he always grew flowers<br />

in a straight row. In fact, everything was grown in straight<br />

rows!<br />

He grew a lot of vegetables and, during the war, he kept<br />

three allotments going.<br />

It was hard for people in the war, because my dad<br />

used to work 12 hours a day, with three weeks on nights<br />

alternated with three weeks in the day time.<br />

Apart from the hours he worked as a metal turner, he<br />

kept these allotments going as well. I don’t recall him ever<br />

sitting down, he was always on the go.<br />

APPLE CRICKET<br />

One of the photos of his garden included a cold frame<br />

which I built for him when I was about 18, probably not<br />

long after I started work. He used to bring on plants,<br />

mainly vegetables, under it.<br />

I enjoyed gardening myself, particularly growing<br />

dahlias. A lot of veg also came from my garden — beans<br />

and runner beans, and I always grew lots of tomatoes in<br />

the greenhouse.<br />

When we lived in Church Road, the garden was split<br />

into three. <strong>The</strong> top part, next to the house, was the<br />

attractive bit; the second section contained my vegetable<br />

patch and the bottom section had fruit trees, mainly<br />

apples.<br />

<strong>The</strong> boys and I liked playing apple cricket in the garden<br />

with the windfalls. When they were thrown, the batsman<br />

whacked them with the cricket bat and they split into<br />

many pieces. Unbeknown to me, during one game, Paul<br />

picked up a tennis ball in between throwing apples. I<br />

whacked it, thinking it was an apple, and it flew over<br />

many gardens never to be seen again!<br />

I don’t know how we got away with it as my shirt was<br />

always splattered with apple spit!


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FASHION BY HARRIET NELSON<br />

Baggy v Skinny Jeans<br />

<strong>September</strong> means we say goodbye to the lovely summer<br />

days and await the shorter and duller days of winter.<br />

Likewise, fashion also changes with jumpers reappearing<br />

in stores and our winter wardrobe coming out of storage.<br />

Our summer denim shorts are turning into denim jeans,<br />

the staple of most of our wardrobes.<br />

Throughout my life, I have always worn a pair of jeans<br />

although in many different styles and jeans of all styles have<br />

dominated the fashion runways for several seasons now.<br />

We can always rely on a good pair of jeans to make us feel<br />

comfortable and stylish in most everyday outfits.<br />

Denim was first used as a hard wearing material for work<br />

clothes in America during the mid 19th Century. Denim<br />

was the main fabric used within farm and industrial wear<br />

throughout this era because of its strong fabric, which kept<br />

the pockets and seams from bursting while working.<br />

Jeans first became fashionable in the UK when denim<br />

fabric was used for trousers in the 1950s. Zippers were<br />

incorporated for the first time after the war, and the<br />

younger generation began wearing denim trousers as leisure<br />

wear.<br />

Levis invented these jeans, and they have always been<br />

a staple brand in wardrobes all over the world. <strong>The</strong> brand's<br />

most famous pair of jeans — Levi's 501s — turned 151 years<br />

old this year and is still one of fashion's most iconic jeans.<br />

Many consider it the best company to purchase jeans in any<br />

style, skinny or baggy!<br />

DIFFERENT GENERATIONS<br />

Today, among different generations, there is still an<br />

argument about whether skinny or baggy jeans are more<br />

stylish, with the ongoing debate causing a generational<br />

divide on TikTok where the younger generation is showing<br />

viewers why they think baggy jeans are superior.<br />

Over recent years, this outgoing generation, including<br />

myself, has switched and opted for straight-leg styles and<br />

mom jeans instead of the skin-tight styles that dominated<br />

the late 2000s and most of the 2010s. Skinny jeans were<br />

all the rage growing up in my teens, and I always wore my<br />

favourite Jamie jeans from Topshop.<br />

Historically, skinny jeans have been favoured by<br />

millennials, while Gen-Z have loved the baggier look, but<br />

is it now slowly changing? This year comfort is getting top<br />

priority, especially after the 2020/2021 lockdowns during<br />

Covid.<br />

MAKE OR BREAK YOUR LOOK<br />

Popular in the '90s and early 2000s, baggy jeans started<br />

making a significant comeback in the fashion world around<br />

this unsettling period. People swapped their smarter outfits<br />

for more relaxed ones during this time at home, and the<br />

fashion industry has seen a shift in what customers now<br />

prioritise: to look good but also feel comfy. Because of this<br />

shift, baggier clothes styles have become more popular over<br />

the last couple of years. Baggy jeans are now more popular<br />

because customers can quickly move around comfortably.<br />

This style is prevalent online and is making a comeback.<br />

Street-style clothing has embraced the denim trend, and<br />

TikTok has told the masses why this style of jeans can make<br />

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or break your look depending on how you style your look.<br />

Celebrities like singer Billie Eilish are showing the world<br />

it's okay to embrace the baggy look! As people embrace this<br />

flexible and comfortable fashion, baggy jeans naturally<br />

return to our wardrobes this winter.<br />

RECYCING TRENDS<br />

Although baggy jeans may be popular, some people<br />

speculate that skinny jeans will return to the fashion world<br />

in a few years. It's no shock that most trends from the past<br />

recycle themselves in the industry and become vintage and<br />

popular. It has been a while since we've seen baggy jeans, and<br />

they're back bigger and better than before, so why shouldn't<br />

we expect the same for our beloved skinny jeans? Throughout<br />

2007, skinny jeans were at the top of high-street fashion.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y received more love than the classic bell bottoms and<br />

baggy pants, which had mainly taken the lead in fashion and<br />

had been famous for ten years.<br />

Popularised by celebrities like Britney Spears, Christina<br />

Aguilera, and Paris Hilton, low-rise and skinny jeans became<br />

a symbol for the rebellious younger generation looking to<br />

make a statement within their wardrobes. <strong>The</strong> skinny jeans<br />

were a massive hit and will always be a decade's defining<br />

fashion for both men and women! Runways for winter<br />

fashion this season have slowly been incorporating skinny<br />

jeans into their collections again. <strong>The</strong>se stunning outfits look<br />

great for the cold season, and I'm excited to see if this trend<br />

takes off again.<br />

So the question is, are you a lover of skinny or baggy jeans,<br />

and what style will you wear for the winter season ahead?


34 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

THE ARTS — 1<br />

'Nothing much to<br />

write home about'<br />

At the end of his life in 1924, Gabriel Fauré, the French composer,<br />

(pictured right) said to his sons, 'When I am no longer here, you will<br />

hear it said of my works, ‘After all, that was nothing much to write<br />

home about!’ You must not let that hurt or depress you. It is the way<br />

of the world.'<br />

His concern was ill-founded, for Fauré’s compositions, vocal,<br />

choral and instrumental, have become standard works in concert<br />

programmes, and are much loved by all who value the beauty and joy of<br />

music.<br />

Curiously, the one work of Fauré’s<br />

that is most frequently performed,<br />

his Requiem, had a lukewarm<br />

reception at its first performance.<br />

That was in 1888 at the funeral of<br />

an important Parisian architect in<br />

the Church of the Madeleine.<br />

Afterwards the priests there told<br />

Fauré that the church’s own musical<br />

repertoire did not require this new<br />

addition, and so for over 20 years the<br />

Requiem was virtually ignored.<br />

Now it is one of the most<br />

loved and sublime settings of the<br />

Requiem.<br />

Is it because of the graceful,<br />

fleeting lines of melodies that<br />

Debussy compared to the gesture of<br />

a beautiful woman?<br />

Or is it because of the resigned,<br />

yet optimistic approach to death and<br />

eternal life that is at the heart of<br />

Fauré’s setting.<br />

He wrote, 'It has been said that<br />

my Requiem does not express the fear<br />

of death, and someone has called it<br />

a lullaby of death. But it is thus that<br />

1. Jesus said, When you pray, not be<br />

As the hypocrites, see<br />

Who love to pray that all folk view<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir piety anew<br />

I see death: as a happy deliverance,<br />

an aspiration towards happiness<br />

above…'<br />

Written on the death of his<br />

parents, the Requiem in many ways<br />

marks the end of Fauré’s youth.<br />

It was a youth that could be<br />

said to have begun with another<br />

beautiful choral work, the Cantique<br />

de Jean Racine.<br />

This was composed in 1865 when<br />

Fauré was just 20 years old, and<br />

finishing his studies at the École<br />

Niedermeyer.<br />

Yet however youthful, it has<br />

all the hallmarks of the great<br />

composer: a serenity and a delicacy<br />

in setting the words, and a clarity of<br />

line and beauty of proportion that<br />

makes the work sing out its prayer.<br />

It addresses Jesus the word and<br />

asks that he will watch over us and<br />

send us his grace. If we have been<br />

forgetful, then stir our hearts again.<br />

Receive this song, it prays, which<br />

is your gift to us returned in full<br />

measure.<br />

Prayer Petitions<br />

By Steven Rollings<br />

Matthew 6 v.5-15 parts; Tune: St Hugh (Lord, teach us how to pray aright)<br />

3. And pray to your Father, He be<br />

In that place secretly<br />

And he who sees you praying there<br />

Open reward shall share<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Cantique points to God as the<br />

author of all beauty. <strong>The</strong> music we<br />

compose is his inspiration and gift in<br />

our lives, which we offer to the world<br />

and to him.<br />

In the novel God’s Apology by<br />

Olivia Fane, the ten-year old girl,<br />

Joanna, talks of music as God’s gift<br />

in this way.<br />

'I have come,' she says, 'because the<br />

lines of communication between our two<br />

worlds has been frayed. Music is the<br />

language of God. We can not only hear<br />

it, we can also sing it. So, sing now: sing<br />

in joy and in pain, sing to God.'<br />

As we listen to Fauré’s Requiem or<br />

Cantique, we can rejoice in that gift of<br />

music, and find it opening up God’s<br />

world of beauty and harmony for us<br />

to hear and enjoy.<br />

5. Be not you therefore like them, for<br />

Your Father knows for sure<br />

What things you need before you ask<br />

Yet join here in prayer’s task<br />

2. Such have their reward as from men<br />

No further reward then<br />

But when you pray, to your room go<br />

And close your door then so<br />

4. But when you pray do not use vain<br />

Repetitions, no gain<br />

<strong>The</strong>y bring, though some think they shall be<br />

Heard for much speaking free<br />

6. After this manner, so do pray<br />

As ‘<strong>The</strong> Lord’s Prayer’ each day<br />

His is the kingdom and the power<br />

And the glory each hour


THE ARTS — 2<br />

Book Reviews<br />

Enduring Wisdom – Words of Hope<br />

and Inspiration by Her Majesty<br />

Queen Elizabeth II, SPCK, £10.99<br />

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Queen's Christmas speeches, offering<br />

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throughout her 70 year reign.<br />

This treasury of quotations speak<br />

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Her late Majesty Queen Elizabeth<br />

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countries from 6 February 1952 until<br />

her death on 8 <strong>September</strong> 2022. Her<br />

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verified reign of any female head of<br />

state in history.<br />

Elizabeth II was queen regnant<br />

of 32 sovereign states during her<br />

lifetime and remained the monarch<br />

of 15 realms by the time of her death.<br />

She was also Patron of more than 600<br />

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Baby's Little Bible<br />

By Sarah Toulmin, SPCK, £7.99<br />

This baby Bible is a<br />

treasured gift and<br />

a perfect starter<br />

Bible to share with a<br />

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Written by<br />

Sarah Toulmin,<br />

who shared the<br />

Bible stories she<br />

loved with her own little ones.<br />

Her ultra simple retellings of 20<br />

favourite stories, from creation to<br />

the resurrection, are filled with a<br />

sense of wonder, expressing God's<br />

love for creation. Combining with<br />

Kristina Stephenson's heartwarming<br />

illustrations, this delightful little Bible<br />

offers lots to look at, and point to, on<br />

the page, to create the perfect focus for<br />

parent and child. Baby's Little Bible is<br />

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gift edition, presented with gilt edges<br />

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Against the Flow - <strong>The</strong> Inspiration of<br />

Daniel in an Age of Relativism<br />

By John C Lennox, SPCK £16.99<br />

This richly detailed<br />

study of Daniel by<br />

Professor John C<br />

Lennox adds life<br />

and depth to our<br />

understanding of<br />

both the man and<br />

the book named after<br />

him, while drawing<br />

out the parallels<br />

between the spiritual and intellectual<br />

challenges he faced and those faced by<br />

Christians today.<br />

<strong>The</strong> book of Daniel tells the<br />

story of four teenage friends, born<br />

in the tiny state of Judah about 26<br />

centuries ago, who were captured by<br />

Nebuchadnezzar, emperor of Babylon.<br />

Daniel describes how they eventually<br />

rose to the top echelons of imperial<br />

administration.<br />

Although forced to live in exile,<br />

Daniel and his friends remained<br />

faithful to the one true God. But they<br />

did not simply treat their devotion<br />

to God as a private matter; they<br />

maintained a high-profile witness in a<br />

pluralistic society highly antagonistic<br />

to their faith. That is why their story<br />

has such a powerful message.<br />

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Signal Fire - A guide to putting prayer<br />

into practice<br />

By Martin Saunders, SPCK, £11.99<br />

This book explores<br />

the different ways<br />

in which we can<br />

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opportunities to<br />

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aspects of prayer, equipping young<br />

people with a prayer life of their own.<br />

Prayer is a refuge in times when<br />

everything else is failing; it's a compass<br />

when we're lost and a firework when<br />

we're joy-struck. Prayer is the subject<br />

of a thousand distinct metaphors, and<br />

they're all both true and insufficient.<br />

Why? Because prayer is direct<br />

connection with God, and the pathway<br />

to making sense of life itself.<br />

<strong>The</strong> book encourages young<br />

people to develop a life of prayer and<br />

connection with God and invest in this<br />

key practice of lasting faith. Martin<br />

Saunders, director of innovation at<br />

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points for reflection and discussion at<br />

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It can be used alone by a young<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Quiet Path — Contemplative<br />

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This is a book for<br />

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It explores how the ordinary<br />

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recognising and writing can help us<br />

discover depth and spirituality in<br />

everything we encounter and find a<br />

deeper awareness of God's presence.


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THE SCIENCES<br />

Christianity through scientific eyes<br />

Iranian Night Sky<br />

Alister McGrath is well-known as a theologian, but he started out as a<br />

scientist. After becoming a Christian as a student, he wanted to learn about<br />

his new faith, so he studied theology at the same time as completing his PhD<br />

in molecular biophysics. He has not lost touch with science, but has continued<br />

to write and speak about how science and Christian faith work together. In<br />

this extract from a recently released interview, he shares his experience of<br />

being a scientist and a Christian.<br />

I think my most vivid experience of<br />

wonder took place in the 1970s when<br />

I was on vacation in Iran.<br />

We were travelling on a bus in the<br />

middle of the night because it wasn’t<br />

hot then, but the bus broke down.<br />

We found ourselves in the middle<br />

of this solemn black desert, and the<br />

night sky shone with a brilliance<br />

like I had never seen before. I was<br />

overwhelmed with it. It made me<br />

think there is something really<br />

wonderful here.<br />

I was a Christian by that time<br />

and I knew how Christianity could<br />

answer that. It just struck me, that<br />

sense of wonder has two possible<br />

outcomes:<br />

DEEPER LEVEL<br />

One is science. This universe is<br />

wonderful, what’s it all about?<br />

But of course, it is also about<br />

religion, the deeper levels of things<br />

that science can’t really engage with.<br />

I think one of the things I have<br />

discovered over time is that maybe<br />

this sense of wonder opens both the<br />

gateway to science and to faith, and<br />

that those two together are able to<br />

answer questions which on their own<br />

they simply couldn’t.<br />

I think science is wonderful at<br />

asking questions. Some of those<br />

questions can be answered, but<br />

very often when you do answer<br />

them, they simply open up yet more<br />

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questions. But of course, there are<br />

some more fundamental questions I<br />

think science simply cannot answer<br />

– they transcend its capacities to<br />

answer, and you might think of nonempirical<br />

questions like, ‘Why am I<br />

here? What is the meaning of life?<br />

What is good and how do I live a good<br />

life?’<br />

REAL AND GOOD<br />

“<strong>The</strong>se are real questions and<br />

they’re good questions but they’re<br />

not scientific questions. And the<br />

psychologists tell us that we really<br />

need answers to those questions<br />

if we are to lead a fulfilled human<br />

existence.<br />

You find some scientists who say,<br />

‘Well because science can’t answer<br />

them there are no answers to be<br />

given’, but actually most realise<br />

that there are answers waiting to be<br />

discovered – it’s just that science can’t<br />

deliver them.<br />

'Science fills in part of a big picture<br />

but there are parts of the picture you<br />

have to fill in from somewhere else.<br />

Science is part of the answer but only<br />

part, and faith supplements it, giving<br />

us a vision of life that is exciting and<br />

reliable, and also something that we<br />

can inhabit meaningfully.'<br />

For more information:<br />

wondersofthelivingworld.org<br />

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Ordained<br />

scientist?<br />

At the age of 48 the Cambridge<br />

Professor John Polkinghorne decided<br />

he’d done his bit for physics and that<br />

it was time for a different sort of<br />

adventure, so he trained for ordination<br />

in the Church of England.<br />

40 years later he said, 'It’s one thing to<br />

go to church on Sundays but to give up<br />

a professorship and train for something<br />

else — that was a bit more than a<br />

gesture. I think a lot of people realised I<br />

was religious but they didn’t expect me<br />

to take it that seriously…people were<br />

saying, ‘Oh John what are you up to?’<br />

<strong>The</strong>y weren’t thinking so much about<br />

my becoming a clergyman but just the<br />

fact that I was a Christian.' (From Test of<br />

Faith, Paternoster, 2009)<br />

John saw his science work as a<br />

Christian vocation where he felt a<br />

responsibility to use his talents. Once<br />

ordained he found himself engaged<br />

in the conversation about science and<br />

religion. One of his main messages was<br />

that 'I’m not a vegetarian butcher. <strong>The</strong>re<br />

is a cousinly relationship between thinking<br />

about theology and thinking about science.'<br />

COSMIC<br />

When asked for a Bible passage to<br />

appear at the end of a 2009 interview he<br />

chose Colossians 1:15–20: ‘He is the image<br />

of the invisible God, the first-born over all<br />

creation. For by him all things were created:<br />

things in heaven and on earth, visible and<br />

invisible, whether thrones or powers or<br />

rulers or authorities; all things were created<br />

by him and for him. He is before all things,<br />

and in him all things hold together. And<br />

he is the head of the body, the church; he<br />

is the beginning and the first-born from<br />

among the dead, so that in everything he<br />

might have the supremacy. For God was<br />

pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him,<br />

and through him to reconcile to himself all<br />

things, whether things on earth or things in<br />

heaven, by making peace through his blood,<br />

shed on the cross.’<br />

John’s explanation for his choice:<br />

'I value this passage because it speaks<br />

of the cosmic significance of Christ, the<br />

one in whom all things hold together and<br />

who redeems all things (notice, not just<br />

all people) by the blood of His cross. Here<br />

meet my deepest religious beliefs and my<br />

strongest scientific concerns.”


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PUZZLE PAGE — 1<br />

BIBLE CROSSWORD<br />

A Fishy Verse Search by Ralph<br />

Across<br />

1 & 3 - Two of the disciples who witnessed the transfiguration of<br />

Jesus (Luke 9:28) (4,3,5)<br />

3 - See 1 Across<br />

8- ‘Let us draw — to God with a sincere heart in full assurance<br />

of faith’ (Hebrews 10:22) (4)<br />

9 - O Simon is (anag.) (8)<br />

11 - Form of government under the direct rule of God or his<br />

agents (10)<br />

14 - How Jesus found his disciples when he returned to them<br />

after praying in Gethsemane (Luke 22:45) (6)<br />

15 - In <strong>The</strong> Pilgrim’s Progress, the name of the meadow into<br />

which Christian strayed, which led to Doubting Castle (2-4)<br />

17 - Glad sin rat (anag) (10)<br />

20 -Spinal column (Leviticus 3:9) (8)<br />

21 - Valley of the Balsam Tree with a reputation of being a<br />

waterless place (Psalm 84:6) (4)<br />

22 ‘<strong>The</strong> oracle of Balaam son of Beor, the oracle of one - - sees<br />

clearly’ (Numbers 24:3) (5,3)<br />

23 - Adam and Eve’s third son (Genesis 4:25) (4)<br />

Ralph's ‘verse search’ grid above contains the names of 34<br />

fish whose names begin: 3A; 3B; 4C; D; 2E; F; G; K; L; 2M;<br />

4P; 3R; 7S; T. If you find all 34 you will also notice that the<br />

unused letters in the grid spell out a relevant verse from<br />

the Good News Bible. You might even manage to identify<br />

the verse. Good luck, and God Bless!<br />

Write your answers here . . .<br />

Down<br />

1 - David’s great friend (1 Samuel 20:17) (8)<br />

2 - ‘<strong>The</strong> Lord... will bring me safely to his — kingdom’ (2 Timothy<br />

4:18) (8)<br />

4 - ‘I, Daniel, mourned for three weeks. I ate no choice food;<br />

— — or wine touched my lips’ (Daniel 10:3) (2,4)<br />

5 - Seeking to vindicate (Job 32:2) (10)<br />

6 - Female servant (Isaiah 24:2) (4)<br />

7 - ‘For Christ died for — once for all’ (1 Peter 3:18) (4)<br />

10 - ‘Offering spiritual sacrifices — to God through Jesus Christ’<br />

(1 Peter 2:5) (10)<br />

12 - Jesus said that some people had renounced this ‘because of<br />

the kingdom of heaven’ (Matthew 19:12) (8)<br />

13 - One of the three men thrown into the furnace for refusing to<br />

worship Nebuchadnezzar’s golden image (Daniel 3:20) (8)<br />

16 - ‘You have — of good things laid up for many years. Take life<br />

easy; eat, drink and be merry’ (Luke 12:19) (6)<br />

18 - ‘<strong>The</strong>re before me was a white horse! Its rider held — — ,<br />

and he was given a crown’ (Revelation 6:2) (1,3)<br />

19 - Equipment to Charity Hospitals Overseas (1,1,1,1)<br />

ANSWERS TO RALPH'S JULY/AUGUST VERSE SEARCH<br />

CHARLEMAGNE<br />

CHURCHILL<br />

EISENHOWER<br />

FOKKER<br />

FRANCO<br />

GARI BALDI<br />

GENGIS KHAN<br />

HANNIBAL<br />

HURRICANE<br />

LENIN<br />

MACARTHUR<br />

MESSERSCHMITT<br />

MONTGOMERY<br />

MOSQUITO<br />

MUHAMMAD ALI<br />

MUSSOLINI<br />

NAPOLEON<br />

NELSON<br />

PATTON<br />

ROMMEL<br />

SONNY LISTON<br />

SPITFIRE<br />

TITO<br />

WELLINGTON<br />

<strong>The</strong> hidden Bible verse was from 2 Timothy 4: 7<br />

(King James Bible)<br />

I HAVE FOUGHT A GOOD FIGHT,<br />

I HAVE FINISHED MY COURSE.


PUZZLE PAGE — 2<br />

CROSSWORD<br />

1 2 3 4 5 6 7<br />

8<br />

9 10<br />

SUDOKU<br />

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answers in the next issue<br />

July and<br />

August<br />

Solutions<br />

11 12<br />

13 14 15<br />

17 18 19<br />

16<br />

20 21<br />

22 23<br />

Across<br />

Across<br />

Low platform for a lectern (4)<br />

1 - Low platform for a lectern (4)<br />

Viewing (8)<br />

3 - Viewing (8)<br />

- Fanciful daydream (7)<br />

9 - Fanciful daydream (7)<br />

10 Lover of Juliet (5)<br />

10 - Lover of Juliet (5)<br />

11 Do extremely well at (5)<br />

11 - Do extremely well at (5)<br />

12 - Atomic particle (7)<br />

12 - Atomic particle (7)<br />

13 - Hire for work (6)<br />

13 - Hire for work (6)<br />

- Agreement (6)<br />

15 - Agreement (6)<br />

- Cyclone (7)<br />

17 - Cyclone (7)<br />

- Less common (5)<br />

18 - Less common (5)<br />

- Covered with water (5)<br />

20 - Covered with water (5)<br />

- Not attached (7)<br />

21 - Not attached (7)<br />

- Abiding (8)<br />

22 - Abiding (8)<br />

- Depend on (4)<br />

23 - Depend on (4)<br />

Down<br />

Down<br />

1 - Distinguish between (13)<br />

1 - Distinguish between (13)<br />

2 - Type of chemical bond (5)<br />

4 - A person in general (6)<br />

4 - A person in general (6)<br />

5 - Restrict within limits (12)<br />

5 - Restrict within limits (12)<br />

6 - Steep in; engross (7)<br />

6 - Steep in; engross (7)<br />

7 - Amiably (4-9)<br />

7 - Amiably (4-9)<br />

8 - Someone skilled in<br />

14 - Wreath of flowers (7)<br />

penmanship (12)<br />

16 - Vertical pillar (6)<br />

14 - Wreath of flowers (7)<br />

16 - Vertical pillar (6)<br />

19 - Cause to stop sleeping (5)<br />

2 - Type of chemical bond (5)<br />

8 - Someone skilled in penmanship (12)<br />

19 - Cause to stop sleeping (5)<br />

Each of the nine blocks has to contain all the<br />

numbers 1-9 within its squares. Each number<br />

can only appear once in a row, column or box.<br />

WORDSEARCH<br />

CROSSWORD<br />

N O W A D A Y S S T I R<br />

E H E E B E E<br />

A R I A S S E I S M I C<br />

R T C O P E<br />

R E P R O D U C T I O N<br />

G S I R H T<br />

L E T P E A C E C O L<br />

O T P M R Y<br />

S A C R I L E G I O U S<br />

S O O S C S<br />

A D V A N C E T W I S T<br />

R E S G R A E<br />

Y E T I P O L Y G L O T<br />

CODEWORD<br />

I N E X P E R T S O L O<br />

C L A E T V<br />

E Q U I P J U S T I C E<br />

D D A E O R<br />

E R C U B I S T S<br />

R A D I A N T O E H<br />

A Z U O<br />

M S Z W I L D E S T<br />

P E C K I S H E N<br />

A H E V S F<br />

G H E R K I N A D I E U<br />

E M C R G R<br />

S E E S T E N D E N C Y<br />

SUDOKU<br />

CODEWORD<br />

14 19 11 13 3 2 8 15 4 12 16 1<br />

9 13 23 13 14 16 19<br />

9 17 23 14 16 11 5 4 19 10 14 3<br />

12 15 22 4 12 24 26<br />

11 8 16 3 14 20 23 14 16 11 14 3<br />

19 15 3 12 17 9<br />

11 19 16 18 19 3 8 3 2 17 14 15<br />

5 8 11 23 11 14<br />

14 21 11 13 19 16 1 14 19 7 17 14<br />

Remembering John Bunyan<br />

After the Bible, John Bunyan’s Christian<br />

allegory, the Pilgrim’s Progress, is one<br />

of the most celebrated and widely read<br />

books in the English language. It has been<br />

translated into more than 100 languages<br />

around the world and is a Christian classic.<br />

Names of people and places from its<br />

pages are known wherever English is<br />

spoken: Mr Great-Heart, Mr Valiant-for-<br />

Truth, Giant Despair, Madame Bubble,<br />

the Slough of Despond, Vanity Fair, the<br />

Delectable Mountains, the Hill Difficulty and<br />

the Celestial City. Bunyan was a popular<br />

preacher of Baptist conviction, but because<br />

of his opposition to the Established<br />

Church and because he did not have a<br />

Church of England preaching licence, he<br />

was imprisoned in 1661. It was in prison<br />

that he wrote Pilgrim’s Progress. He is<br />

remembered by the worldwide Church on<br />

30th August.<br />

WORDSEARCH<br />

BIBLE CROSSWORD<br />

9 12 12 17 16 19 6<br />

19 7 8 22 14 12 16 11 14 16 3 14<br />

15 23 18 10 14 25 15<br />

4 19 3 2 14 15 14 22 17 8 2 3<br />

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z<br />

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13<br />

T<br />

14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26<br />

Q D<br />

JOHN<br />

BUNYAN<br />

PILGRIMS<br />

PROGRESS<br />

GREAT<br />

HEART<br />

VALIANT<br />

TRUTH<br />

GIANT<br />

DESPAIR<br />

MADAME<br />

BUBBLE<br />

SLOUGH<br />

DESPOND<br />

VANITY<br />

FAIR<br />

DELECTABLE<br />

MOUNTAINS<br />

HILL<br />

DIFFICULTY<br />

CELESTIAL<br />

CITY<br />

PRISON<br />

PREACHING<br />

LICENSE


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