17.09.2024 Views

NC-2024-Summer-Fall

Transform your PDFs into Flipbooks and boost your revenue!

Leverage SEO-optimized Flipbooks, powerful backlinks, and multimedia content to professionally showcase your products and significantly increase your reach.

Nazareth<br />

SISTERS OF<br />

THE HOLY<br />

FAMILY OF<br />

NAZARETH<br />

HOLY FAMILY<br />

PROVI<strong>NC</strong>E<br />

// VOL 18 //<br />

// NO 2 //<br />

SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

CONNECTIONS<br />

FAMILY IS THE HEART OF OUR MISSION<br />

Eucharistic<br />

Congresses<br />

STORY ON PAGE 12


MESSAGE FROM THE<br />

PROVI<strong>NC</strong>IAL SUPERIOR<br />

“THERE IS A SEASON AND A TIME<br />

FOR EVERY PURPOSE UNDER<br />

HEAVEN.” (ECCLESIASTES 3:11)<br />

Times and seasons of our lives inspire us to look deeply<br />

into our experiences as one provincial administration<br />

completes its term of office and another courageously<br />

begins its ministry. In the musical “Fiddler on the Roof,”<br />

we recall the words from the song, “Sunrise, Sunset”:<br />

“Sunrise, sunset, swiftly fly the years, one season<br />

following another laden with happiness and tears.”<br />

During the past six years, through the publication of<br />

Nazareth Connections, we were able to share with you,<br />

our friends, the many joys and blessings we celebrated<br />

— and yes, some challenges — without forgetting God,<br />

the Creator of all that is good who knows our<br />

every need.<br />

The summer Olympic Games began July 26, <strong>2024</strong>, in<br />

Paris, France. We know a few months prior to the<br />

opening of the Olympic Games, a flame was lit at<br />

Olympia, Greece. From there, the flame was carried<br />

for numerous weeks to the host city, mainly on foot by<br />

runners but also using other forms of transportation.<br />

Throughout the torch relay, the flame announced the<br />

Olympic Games and spread a message of peace and<br />

friendship among people.<br />

On August 25, <strong>2024</strong>, unlike the Olympic Games, there<br />

won’t be a torch relay leading to the transition of the<br />

provincial administration, but rather a symbolic torch<br />

will be passed along. A torch with a flame that will<br />

burn brightly each day with the charism and mission<br />

of the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth; a flame<br />

that will radiate light to guide and direct the provincial<br />

administration in the responsibilities entrusted to them.<br />

Together, we as Holy Family Province stand on the<br />

threshold of transition. Just as in the time of Mother<br />

Foundress, the tides of time carry us through the<br />

mysteries lived by the Holy Family: joy, sorrow, blessings,<br />

and challenges. May we always reverence the passage<br />

of time and turn to God with gratitude for all that has<br />

been, for all that is, and for all that is yet to come.<br />

We transition each day. Some transitions are routine<br />

while others are life-changing and require courage,<br />

risk, and trust in God’s Divine Providence. In closing,<br />

I want to share with you a poem written by Joyce<br />

Rupp entitled “Crossing Over.”<br />

Crossing over into the unknown, crossing over from<br />

a secure land to one whose roads I never walked.<br />

Companion and Guide, you are my transition coach.<br />

You say to me: “Cross over the bridge. Go ahead,<br />

come on over. It’s sturdy enough.<br />

Don’t look down, though, or you might get terrified<br />

and never walk across.<br />

Don’t look back too long or you will lose courage<br />

and want to stay right where you are.<br />

Hang on. Keep going. That’s what bridges are for, to<br />

get you to the other side.Trust me to protect you.”<br />

For all of us, in transition who have bridges to cross,<br />

bless us, God of the journey, gift us with the desire to<br />

go ahead.<br />

Help us to trust that the bridge will be strong and<br />

the risk will be worth it.<br />

In the Holy Family,<br />

Sister Kathleen Maciej<br />

2


VOLUME 18 //<br />

NUMBER 2 //<br />

SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

Nazareth Connections is published<br />

three times a year by the Sisters of<br />

the Holy Family of Nazareth<br />

in the USA.<br />

Editor:<br />

Emily Dillon<br />

Contents<br />

JUBILARIANS<br />

4 Sister M. Bernadette Sznurkowska<br />

5 Sister Marietta Dudzinski<br />

Sister Rita Partyka<br />

6 Sister Theadora Krause<br />

ARTICLES<br />

7 Bethany House of Hospitality<br />

9 Associate Lisa Schiro<br />

12 Eucharistic Congresses<br />

15 Blessed M. Stella and Her<br />

Ten Companions<br />

IN MEMORIAM<br />

16 Sister M. Audrey Merski<br />

DEVELOPMENT<br />

17 Thank You from Our<br />

Development Office<br />

18 Announcing the Blessed<br />

Foundress Giving Society!<br />

2023 Province Financials<br />

19 <strong>2024</strong> “Glimpsing Grace”<br />

Stay-at-Home Social<br />

Sister Kathleen Maciej.<br />

Sister Cathy Fedewa advocating for migrants<br />

and refugees.<br />

CSFN Sisters in Nazareth Academy High School<br />

lobby ready to leave for the IEC programs in<br />

August 1976.<br />

Sisters Edyta Krawczyk, Molly Bernadette<br />

Spiering, Faustina Ferko, Josephine Garrett,<br />

and Hanna Paradowska at the <strong>2024</strong> National<br />

Eucharistic Congress.<br />

HOW ARE YOU CALLED TO LOVE?<br />

We invite you to pray with us, to listen to God’s call with us, and to<br />

love with us as we strive to recognize God in ordinary experiences.<br />

Learn more about our community life, our ministries, and our mission at<br />

nazarethcsfn.org/about-us. Contact Sister Emmanuela Le, CSFN, National<br />

Vocation Director, at 682-203-9675 or vocations@nazarethcsfn.org.<br />

Proofreaders:<br />

Sister Angela Szczawinska<br />

Sister Mary Ellen Gemmell<br />

Katherine Barth<br />

Sister Lucille Madura<br />

Amanda Giarratano<br />

Province Communications Committee:<br />

Sister Mary Ellen Gemmell<br />

Sister Angela Szczawinska<br />

Amanda Giarratano<br />

Katherine Barth<br />

Heidi Scheuer<br />

Sister Emmanuela Le<br />

Sister Marcella Louise Wallowicz<br />

Sister Michele Vincent Fisher<br />

Sister Rebecca Sullivan<br />

Design/Print:<br />

McDaniels Marketing<br />

Questions, comments, suggestions?<br />

Please contact:<br />

Communications Department<br />

Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth<br />

310 N. River Road<br />

Des Plaines, IL 60016<br />

(847) 298-6760<br />

communications@nazarethcsfn.org<br />

nazarethcsfn.org<br />

facebook.com/csfn.usa<br />

instagram.com/csfn.usa<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

3


JUBILARIANS<br />

Jubilarians<br />

A TIME TO CELEBRATE<br />

Sister M. Bernadette Sznurkowska – 75 Years<br />

Sister M. Bernadette Sznurkowska’s 75 years as a religious reflect the many<br />

rewarding opportunities to have served God, lay people, and the community in<br />

many places: Philadelphia, Florida, and Rome.<br />

Sister Bernadette grew up in her home parish of St. Stanislaus in New Haven,<br />

CT, and said the sisters in St. Stanislaus School influenced her decision to enter<br />

religious life. Starting in 1951, Sister Bernadette has ministered in education and<br />

local administration at the convents and schools in the Philadelphia area. From<br />

1960-1968, she also served in Florida with two other sisters at Plantation, FL,<br />

and opened St. Gregory School.<br />

Sister Bernadette enjoys growing flowers and working on puzzles with her current prayer ministry at Mount<br />

Nazareth, PA.<br />

“I was blessed with a family – mother, father, brothers, and sisters – who have always been supportive of me<br />

in my religious life.”<br />

4


Sister Marietta Dudzinski – 75 Years<br />

The call to religious life for Sister Marietta Dudzinski blossomed from<br />

reading many books on the lives of the saints, which ignited a fire within<br />

her to become a sister. Working with the Nazareth Sisters had finally<br />

solidified the decision.<br />

Coming from her home parish of St. Stanislaus Church in Erie, PA, Sister<br />

Marietta praises the awesome, beautiful, and loving God she serves.<br />

Having experienced grace upon grace and blessings upon blessings<br />

through her many years of service in the field of education and<br />

community of the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, she is full of<br />

gratitude to the Lord for all the opportunities He has given her to<br />

grow spiritually.<br />

“I am blessed to have been a blessing to many students and people I encountered over the many years of<br />

plenty. I give God all the praise, honor, and glory for all He has done for me.”<br />

From 1989-2020, Sister Marietta worked in education in Cleveland, OH, as well as in Detroit, MI. From<br />

2011-2019, she focused more on spiritual needs and instilling values. Though she is retired, she still feels<br />

the call to evangelize by spreading the Gospel of Christ to those people whom God places in her path<br />

by praying for inspiration to help them in their spiritual needs and instilling biblical values. Since she<br />

is surrounded by many sick, lonely, and forgotten people, as well as workers and outside visitors,<br />

Sister Marietta hopes they know they are loved and cared for.<br />

“May my ministry be a blessing to them and give them strength, hope, and trust in God’s Word and in<br />

building a deeper relationship with Jesus.”<br />

Sister Rita Partyka – 75 Years<br />

In describing her 75 years in religious life, Sister Rita Partyka says, “My<br />

whole life has been a life of giving and receiving love from God and<br />

from others.”<br />

Growing up in Scranton, PA, at the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary<br />

Parish, Sister Rita said it was the Lord’s call, as well as her father’s<br />

sister, Sister M. Pancratilla Partyka, CSFN, that influenced her decision<br />

to enter religious life. After making her vows, Sister Rita taught at<br />

the elementary level for seven years in New York, then three years in<br />

McAdoo, PA. She went to the Novitiate in Meadowbrook, PA, afterward<br />

as the sub-mistress for three years before going to Colegio Espiritu Santo in Puerto Rico from<br />

1965-1978.<br />

Additionally, Sister Rita taught high school English, journalism, and religion before becoming the Superior<br />

of the convent and high school principal. She worked on vocation promotion at the high school and<br />

directed both the school newspaper and the National Honor Society. After her time in Puerto Rico, she<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

5


Sister Rita Partyka Continued<br />

transferred to the Novitiate as the Mistress of Novices, where she began the Association of the Holy<br />

Family Program with a group of women, calling it FIAT. From 1981-1983, Sister Rita then served as the<br />

Assistant Provincial until becoming the Provincial Superior of the then-Immaculate Conception Province<br />

in Philadelphia from 1983-1989. After finishing her term, she became the Superior of our mission in the<br />

Philippines and served there until 1992 when she was elected Assistant Superior General.<br />

Besides serving the congregation from 1992-2001 in Rome, Italy, as well as being the Assistant Superior<br />

General, Sister Rita was the CSFN General Liaison for Religious Formation, assisting the various<br />

provinces with their formation programs. She also served as the General Coordinator of the Association<br />

of the Holy Family and was involved in general Visitations. Upon returning to the U.S., she worked as the<br />

Assistant Archivist of the Philadelphia Province until the merge of the provinces in 2007. From 2002-2019,<br />

she also worked as the Director of the Association of the Holy Family, then as the Area Director of the<br />

Mid-Atlantic Area of the Association after the merge.<br />

As a prayerful, faithful, committed sister, Sister Rita continues to minister to other sisters in the<br />

community and to families through prayer and sacrifice. She is deeply grateful to God for calling her to<br />

religious life and has treasured every moment of sharing with her sisters in community, ministering to<br />

families through education of their children, and working with the associates for so many years.<br />

“God has blessed me abundantly. I have put my heart and soul into every ministry He has called me to.<br />

And He has not been outdone in generosity.”<br />

Sister Theadora Krause – 50 Years<br />

After being in religious life for 50 years, Sister Theadora Krause<br />

appreciates the willingness of the sisters to consider opportunities<br />

beyond their comfort zones.<br />

From 1981-2000, Sister Theadora served in healthcare as a nurse, nurse<br />

practitioner, Vice President of Patient Care Services, and an ethicist in<br />

Altoona, PA. From 1998-2007, she served on the CSFN Leadership<br />

Teams as a councillor of the former St. Joseph Province in Pittsburgh,<br />

PA, before serving at the James E. VanZandt VA Medical Center in<br />

Altoona, PA, as a nurse practitioner and facilitator of the Traumatic<br />

Brain Injury Clinic for veterans who have been deployed in recent wars and conflict zones. She also<br />

served as the chief ethics consultant/ethicist for clinical and organizational ethics issues that arise. In <strong>2024</strong>,<br />

Sister Theadora was elected Provincial Superior for the Holy Family Province, USA.<br />

As a compassionate, educated, and mission-driven sister, Sister Theadora enjoys travel, reading political<br />

histories, and discussing complex issues.<br />

“I was fortunate to be integral to the merging of our five American provinces from 2003-2007. During<br />

that time, I was honored to witness the struggles we experienced as well as the courage we had to<br />

overcome them to unite for a preferred future. My professional energies have been in healthcare, but<br />

facilitating the merger was by far the most surprising of opportunities for me.”<br />

6


ARTICLES<br />

Compassionate<br />

Care for Migrants:<br />

Bethany House of<br />

Hospitality<br />

A TIME TO SERVE<br />

By Sister Cathy Fedewa<br />

There are those seeking a better, safer life in this<br />

country. Our Statue of Liberty declares, “Give me<br />

your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning<br />

to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming<br />

shore.” Those words originally addressed the crowded<br />

ships coming from Europe. Now they continue<br />

to come by sea, but also by land and air. Are they<br />

welcomed?<br />

Some come as a matter of CHOICE because they<br />

prefer our country’s opportunities, resources, beauty,<br />

freedom, and education. Thousands seek those<br />

same ideals because of the poverty, violence, and<br />

persecution they experience in their homeland. So, it<br />

is not a choice — it is a desperate NECESSITY, a<br />

matter of survival. And many know they will not be<br />

welcomed. They may be turned back. They may die<br />

trying to reach this land. But they still try; that is what<br />

desperation does.<br />

work today looks a little different, but it is achieving<br />

the same end — care and supporting and encouraging<br />

individuals, but also advocacy for the safety and<br />

security for their families, even to the point of simply<br />

keeping those families together. Faith and civic groups<br />

as well have been able to tap the generosity and selfgiving<br />

efforts of people willing to give generously of<br />

their time, talent, and treasure to help the newcomers<br />

in many ways, whether that be finding shelter, supplying<br />

physical needs, helping to educate, providing legal<br />

guidance, or simply befriending those “lost” in finding<br />

their way in this new and strange life.<br />

Our province is a founding member and sustaining<br />

community of Bethany House of Hospitality, a ministry<br />

offering housing and support services to young<br />

immigrant women as they journey to independence.<br />

When unaccompanied minors come into the United<br />

States, they are placed in shelters until they can be<br />

united with their family here. If they have no family<br />

and turn 18 years old, they can no longer remain in<br />

those shelters. They are on their own at that point.<br />

Bethany House takes in these young women and<br />

offers them the shelter and services (legal, educational,<br />

psychological, medical, etc.) to help them as they<br />

journey in their efforts to achieve asylum, become<br />

independent, and pursue their dream of living fruitful<br />

lives in this country. Some of our residents also come<br />

from border shelters as young, single mothers with<br />

small children. As a founding board member, I am<br />

privileged to assist in helping develop and support<br />

these programs. I also assist on the board of Viator<br />

House of Hospitality, which is a similar program serving<br />

young men.<br />

Mother Foundress knew in her heart why so many<br />

left their homelands to come to the land of promise,<br />

only to find themselves in squalid conditions with<br />

no medical help, no education, and no one willing to<br />

serve their needs. That is what prompted her difficult<br />

decision to bring half the community across the ocean<br />

to help those migrants.<br />

Sisters have assisted migrants since the days we<br />

first came to this country — sometimes directly,<br />

giving shelter, sustenance, and encouragement —<br />

and sometimes indirectly through the education,<br />

healthcare, and social services that dealt with the<br />

systems that kept so many in poverty. Much of the<br />

Sister Cathy Fedewa teaching ESL.<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

7


assistance with food, clothing, and translation that helps<br />

them move on in the next step of their journey. It also<br />

works with staffing some of the new shelters in the<br />

city popping up as a result of the busloads of migrants<br />

sent from Texas with nowhere to go and no resources.<br />

They have also managed to help some families find<br />

housing with the assistance of generous persons, some<br />

even willing to share their own homes.<br />

So many migrants know little or nothing of the English<br />

language. One group, as a sponsored ministry of the<br />

Dominican Sisters, established Aquinas Literacy Center,<br />

which offers classes at a low cost to adults in one area<br />

of the city. Right next to what is known as Chinatown,<br />

most students are Latino or Chinese. I’ve so often<br />

felt the limitation of not knowing another language to<br />

speak and share with immigrants, but I found I can help<br />

others learn English. I have been fortunate to assist<br />

students who spoke Spanish, Chinese, and Arabic. I may<br />

not be able to assist hundreds but I can help a few.<br />

I was fortunate to become acquainted within a year<br />

after I came to Chicago with a group called Sisters and<br />

Brothers of Immigrants. As a religious group in the<br />

archdiocese, we have provided advocacy, educational<br />

events, interfaith prayer, and public witness to help the<br />

public become aware of the circumstances immigrants<br />

face as well as offering options for ways they can join<br />

in these efforts. Many of the members of this group<br />

have also been part of other groups and efforts to<br />

address issues of immigration.<br />

The Interfaith Community for Detained Immigrants<br />

(now the Illinois Community for Displaced Immigrants)<br />

started with a ministry visiting immigrants detained by<br />

the government at centers in Illinois and Wisconsin.<br />

The main purpose for the visits was to let these<br />

immigrants — most of whom were undocumented —<br />

know someone cared about them and was willing to<br />

listen to their stories, and sometimes assist in some<br />

small way since so many were separated from their<br />

families and children and had no one to help them. It<br />

was a privilege to walk with these men and women,<br />

even for short visits.<br />

This group grew in several different directions,<br />

especially when all the detention centers in Illinois<br />

closed. ICDI now works with migrants passing<br />

through the city at the Greyhound station, needing<br />

The most recent group established is called the<br />

Sanctuary Working Group and is hard at work finding<br />

housing for newly arrived immigrants. Several faith<br />

groups are involved; one home they have been able<br />

to set up is the SWG House of Hospitality, where<br />

at this time, there are two families and three single<br />

men living in a group setting together. While receiving<br />

guidance from case workers, they are addressing legal,<br />

educational, and healthcare needs preparing them to<br />

be able to live independently.<br />

Funds are short and there is only one staff member, so<br />

volunteers like me spend a few hours on weekends to<br />

be present to these residents and sometimes help with<br />

language needs. Other volunteers help with driving to<br />

legal and healthcare appointments.<br />

Living in Chicago certainly affords numerous and<br />

diverse opportunities for assisting our brothers<br />

and sisters newly arrived in our country. It offers an<br />

opportunity to continue in the ministry that brought<br />

Mother Foundress and our sisters here to this city and<br />

this country. Our sisters in other parts of the country<br />

are also active in this ministry. I join with them in spirit<br />

and I am grateful I have a wealth of opportunities here<br />

as part of my retirement ministry.<br />

Sister Becky Sullivan and Sister Cathy Fedewa getting<br />

ready to participate in Walk for Refugee Kids.<br />

8


“I came to Ascension Holy Family Hospital to<br />

interview for a public relations position. I was a year<br />

out of college and had interviewed all the way up the<br />

line when I found myself in front of Sister Patricia<br />

Ann Koschalke, who was starting to look at me<br />

funny. I thought I must have said something wrong,<br />

but when I asked about it, she said, ‘No, I just have<br />

a position open in the development office and I’ve<br />

interviewed a lot of people for it, and I think you<br />

might be a good candidate. Would you be interested<br />

in interviewing for that job instead?’” Lisa eventually<br />

acquired the development position, but was a little<br />

worried about her lack of skills needed for the role.<br />

Sister Patricia Ann only said, “I will teach you how I<br />

want it done.”<br />

Associate<br />

Lisa Schiro<br />

Our Association of the Holy Family nurtures the<br />

spirituality of lay individuals who have dedicated<br />

themselves to living Nazareth spirituality in their<br />

families, in their workplace, and in the world.<br />

These women and men help advance the mission<br />

and ministry of our Congregation through faithful<br />

listening, loving relationships, and recognizing<br />

God’s presence in their daily encounters. After a<br />

period of orientation and discernment, they make a<br />

commitment to daily prayer and living the values of<br />

the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth (CSFN)<br />

within their families and parish communities. While<br />

each member brings a unique perspective to the<br />

association, all associates are committed to advancing<br />

the mission and ministry of the Sisters of the Holy<br />

Family of Nazareth.<br />

Meet Lisa Schiro, an associate of 13 years, who<br />

first found herself face to face with one of our<br />

sisters at the beginning of her career in a most<br />

unexpected way.<br />

Sister Patricia Ann became Lisa’s mentor after that.<br />

Over the next 12 years, they would do everything<br />

together, from praying before every meeting to<br />

attending wakes, funerals, special occasions, and<br />

lunches with donors. “I learned the way Sister<br />

wanted the office run in her hospital,” Lisa explained.<br />

It was a wonderfully fulfilling career. We made many<br />

friends and held fun and very successful special<br />

events like gala dinners and golf outings.”<br />

While working at the hospital and raising her young<br />

family, Lisa’s first husband passed away.<br />

“The sisters really circled around me with emotional<br />

support,” Lisa said. When her daughter, Samantha,<br />

started struggling with separation anxiety in school<br />

as a new kindergartner, her good friend Tom, an<br />

electrical contractor at the hospital and a good<br />

donor to the sisters, said, “Call the sisters.”<br />

The next day, Lisa brought Samantha to meet Sister<br />

Julie Kozielska, the principal at St. Emily Catholic<br />

School in Mt. Prospect, IL. Sister Julie assured Lisa<br />

and Samantha that St. Emily’s was a good fit and<br />

there was nothing to be worried about. “You’re going<br />

to start coming to school here,” Sister Julie said.<br />

“You are going to be safe here. You know the sisters.<br />

Everything’s going to be OK.” Samantha never cried<br />

again and she was successful in kindergarten because<br />

of the sisters, said Lisa.<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

9


During that same time, Sister Sandra Marie<br />

Sosnowski asked Lisa how she was doing.<br />

“I’m really having a hard time,” Lisa said. “I’m still<br />

in this ‘angry’ phase and I can’t get things back to<br />

normal.” Sister Sandra Marie looked her in the eyes<br />

and said, “Oh Lisa, things are never going to go back<br />

to normal. You have to create a new normal.”<br />

“It was like a light bulb went on,” Lisa remembered.<br />

“It helped so much.”<br />

After the hospital merged with Resurrection and<br />

Sister Patricia Ann moved on to fulfill a new role,<br />

Lisa left the hospital and accepted a development<br />

position with The Little Sisters of the Poor in<br />

Palatine, IL, for the next five years. It was during this<br />

time in her life that she began her discernment to<br />

become an associate.<br />

“When I was approached about<br />

becoming an associate, it was an<br />

easy YES. I was already deeply<br />

connected and was familiar with<br />

their charism. And I missed working<br />

with the Sisters of the Holy Family.<br />

It was like the calling had always<br />

been there. It was a mere formality<br />

and a way I could make it more<br />

permanent.”<br />

- Lisa Schiro<br />

After working with Sisters Lauren Sosnowski and<br />

Dolores Kazmierczak discerning her membership, Lisa<br />

became an associate in 2011. “It was really meaningful<br />

for me because it was a much deeper dive into my<br />

feelings about it. And I was discerning without even<br />

realizing they were discerning me as well. You can’t just<br />

declare to everyone in the room that you want to be<br />

an associate. You need to make sure they’re going to<br />

honor your relationship with the sisters and treat it<br />

with respect. I truly embraced my discernment with<br />

Sisters Lauren and Dolores.”<br />

The sisters’ impact on Lisa’s life had gone way beyond<br />

her membership in the Association, however. “My<br />

adult children know the sisters and my husband has a<br />

relationship with the sisters as well.”<br />

Sister Michael Marie Franzak in particular was one<br />

of the sisters working at St. Emily’s when Samantha<br />

went to school there. When Lisa got remarried there<br />

in 2002, it was to Tom Schiro, the very electrical<br />

contractor who told her years before to call the sisters<br />

in her time of need. The entire church had been filled<br />

with sisters, including Sister Michael Marie and a few<br />

others who sang and played beautiful music at the<br />

wedding ceremony.<br />

10


Lisa and Tom had become friends while working at<br />

Ascension Holy Family, though Sister Rosemarie<br />

Machalski in particular credits herself as their<br />

matchmaker. One day, Lisa was walking out of<br />

daycare after dropping Samantha off when she<br />

stopped Lisa and said, “I think you should date Tom<br />

Schiro. We collectively think that he would be a<br />

good husband.” Lisa and Tom were married two<br />

years later and each year get a handful of sisters<br />

who remember their role in pairing the couple up!<br />

“We always get an anniversary card now. During<br />

the pandemic, we finally realized after all these<br />

years, Tom and Sister Rosemarie share the same<br />

birthday. We never knew it!”<br />

Today, Lisa works as the Senior Director of<br />

Development for Presbyterian Homes, a Life Plan<br />

Community organization in the Chicago area.<br />

Though her whole career has centered around<br />

fundraising, she has been able to work with<br />

residents and their families every day. “I not only<br />

get to apply what I’m doing here for my own family,<br />

but for those families as well. Being able to transmit<br />

what I glean from the sisters and using that as a leg<br />

extension for the congregation and for the ministry<br />

keeps me engaged. If I can be a calming person in<br />

my family, more understanding and less judgmental<br />

when family tension occurs, then I’m supporting the<br />

family and by extension doing the sisters’ work to<br />

enhance families as well.”<br />

The Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth are<br />

called to extend the Kingdom of God’s love among<br />

themselves and others by living the spirit of Jesus,<br />

Mary, and Joseph, whose lives were centered in<br />

the love of God and one another. Their witness to<br />

this love through dedicated service to the Church,<br />

especially in ministry to the family, is what guides<br />

their mission and service daily.<br />

“I have always appreciated the way the sisters<br />

approach their ministries,” Lisa continued. “They<br />

really are invested and involved in a very subtle way.<br />

Even Sister Michael Marie, who uses a lot of her<br />

ministry through music, the extension of that to<br />

her own sisters, to her own path, and to others, is<br />

beautiful to witness. They all bring their individual<br />

talents to the table and nothing is ever diminished.<br />

Sister Patricia Ann in particular knitted my son’s<br />

baptismal jacket and has always had a green thumb.<br />

Whether it’s sewing, gardening, or baking, the<br />

sisters find a way to use that part of themselves<br />

and deliver it to others through their ministry.<br />

Sister M. Lucille Madura and Sister Sandra Marie<br />

Sosnowski used to deliver a small bag of cookies<br />

and bread every Christmas Eve, and my kids would<br />

use the bread for French toast every Christmas<br />

morning. Even today, they still make French toast<br />

every Christmas morning as a tradition. It was neat<br />

to have the sisters be a part of our Christmas like<br />

that. It’s very much to honor them.”<br />

For Lisa, being an associate means taking her role<br />

as an extension of their ministries. Even when life<br />

gets busy and her attention taken up by the busier<br />

seasons of work, the challenge to remain connected<br />

through the role of an associate guides her daily.<br />

“Staying involved and aligned with the sisters<br />

fuels my work.” From the witness of sharing their<br />

own talents and skills to maintaining relationships<br />

through investment of time and deep connection,<br />

there is no greater strength that keeps Lisa’s heart<br />

within the sisters’ mission.<br />

To learn more about our Association,<br />

visit our website, nazarethcsfn.org.<br />

1999(7), left to right: Sister Patricia Ann Koschalke, President,<br />

Holy Family Hospital; Bruno Cecchin, Golf Outing Co-Chair; Dr.<br />

Jim Naatz, DN Staff at Holy Family Hospital; Tom Schiro, Golf<br />

Outing Co-Chair; Lisa Schiro, Director of Development at Holy<br />

Family Hospital.<br />

Ascension Holy Family Hospital, known as Holy Family<br />

Hospital at the time, at the corner of Golf and River<br />

Roads in Des Plaines, IL, just east of the Provincialate.<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

11


Eucharistic<br />

Congresses<br />

From August 1-8, 1976, in conjunction with our<br />

country’s bicentennial, the United States hosted<br />

the 41st International Eucharistic Congress<br />

(IEC) in Philadelphia, PA. The event brought 1.5<br />

million Catholics, 44 cardinals, and 417 bishops<br />

to the birthplace of the U.S. Among the keynote<br />

speakers were two future canonized Saints:<br />

Cardinal Karol Wojtyla (later Pope John Paul II)<br />

and Mother Teresa of Calcutta. The theme of the<br />

Congress was The Eucharist and the Hungers<br />

of the Human Family. Conferences and events<br />

explored different aspects of physical and<br />

spiritual hunger.<br />

prelates, including Cardinal Wojtyla. This was<br />

Sister’s first encounter with the future Pope John<br />

Paul II, but not the last. In leadership capacity,<br />

Sister Janice — as Provincial Superior of our<br />

former Immaculate Heart of Mary Province and<br />

later as Provincial Superior of the former Blessed<br />

Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd Province —<br />

attended several General Chapters in Rome.<br />

During these Chapters, delegates met in a private<br />

audience with Pope John Paul II at the Vatican and<br />

attended Mass celebrated by him in his private<br />

chapel. Sister recalled another meeting with<br />

the future Saint at the time of the beatification<br />

of Mother Foundress in 1989. Sister had the<br />

privilege of meeting him during his visit to<br />

our generalate.<br />

Three key events highlighted the IEC: a candlelight<br />

procession from the Cathedral of Saints Peter<br />

and Paul along the Parkway, a day dedicated to<br />

various ethnic groups, and the closing liturgy in<br />

JFK Stadium. Along with the conferences and<br />

keynote talks, these parallel the highlights of the<br />

<strong>2024</strong> National Eucharistic Congress: the National<br />

Eucharistic Pilgrimage, the Spanish, English,<br />

Vietnamese, and Eastern-rite liturgies, and the<br />

closing liturgy at Lucas Oil Stadium.<br />

350,000 people processed a 1-mile route along<br />

the Parkway on one August evening in 1976.<br />

This summer, hundreds of thousands processed<br />

more than 2,600 miles over the span of two<br />

months from four corners of the United States to<br />

Indianapolis. At the IEC, the gift to the Church of<br />

the various ethnic cultures was celebrated in 22<br />

distinct liturgies.<br />

Sister Janice Kobierowski, although ministering<br />

in New England in 1976, was in the city for her<br />

summer home visit. Her family resided within<br />

Saint Adalbert Parish, which hosted the Polish<br />

12


1976 was a special year for Sister Marguerite Therese<br />

Maguire not only because of the IEC, but it was also<br />

the year of her final vows. Sister reflected on her<br />

attendance at the closing liturgy, noting what a moving<br />

experience it was to hear more than 100,000 singing<br />

the official hymn, “Gift of Finest Wheat,” which has<br />

endured over the years. Another sister commented<br />

she was touched by the sending forth hymn, “To Jesus<br />

Christ Our Sovereign King,” an experience of the<br />

call to mission that this year’s Congress attendees<br />

also shared. Nearly 50 years after the IEC, the Holy<br />

Spirit is once again empowering Catholics to witness<br />

their faith in the Real Presence and invite others into<br />

relationship with Our Eucharistic Lord.<br />

On May 31, <strong>2024</strong>, Holy Family University was a stop<br />

along the Seton Route of the National Eucharistic<br />

Pilgrimage. Fifteen permanent pilgrims accompanied<br />

the Blessed Sacrament from Norwich, CT, along<br />

the eastern coast. The opportunity to pray with<br />

these pilgrims before the Blessed Sacrament in the<br />

university chapel was extended to our sisters in the<br />

Mid-Atlantic area. Our sisters were moved by the<br />

faithful witness of these young men and women.<br />

Ironically, on May 31 the Church celebrates the Feast<br />

of the Visitation, the first Eucharistic Procession, when<br />

Mary carrying Jesus in her womb visited Elizabeth.<br />

In 1976, another sponsored ministry, Nazareth<br />

Academy High School, was also a stop for Congress<br />

participants — in particular, the Polish delegation to<br />

the IEC, including the future Pope John Paul II.<br />

St. Teresa of Calcutta at the IEC Candlelight Procession.<br />

Left to right: Sister M. Annette Zajkowska, Sister M. Justine<br />

Petner, Sister M. Laurenta Blacharska, and Sister M. Charlotte<br />

Niemczyk.<br />

Detailed pen and ink drawing of the exterior of the<br />

Cathedral of SS. Peter and Paul.<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

13


In 1976, many of our sisters worked “behind<br />

the scenes” at the Congress, participating in the<br />

archdiocesan 1,000-voice choir and daily liturgies,<br />

hosting pilgrims and prelates, and preparing<br />

students for various roles in the week’s events.<br />

In <strong>2024</strong>, some of our sisters had a more visible<br />

role in the Congress and the Revival. Sister<br />

Josephine Garrett was a keynote speaker on<br />

Day 3 of the Congress. The author of Hope: An<br />

Invitation and host of the podcast Hope Stories,<br />

Sister Josephine addressed our brokenness as<br />

humans and as a Church, but reminded those in<br />

attendance that Jesus the Divine Healer meets us<br />

in our brokenness. Sisters Marcelina Mikulska and<br />

Marcella Louise Wallowicz serve on the editorial<br />

board for the Heart of the Revival newsletter, a<br />

weekly blog on the Eucharistic Revival under the<br />

auspices of the USCCB.<br />

The National Eucharistic Congress marks a<br />

transition from the Year of Parish Revival to<br />

the Year of Mission in which we are called to<br />

be disciples. The Year of Parish Revival was the<br />

opportunity to renew or deepen our personal<br />

relationship with the Eucharistic Lord. Now we<br />

are invited to share the fruits of this year and the<br />

events of this summer and bring Christ’s love to a<br />

world still hungering for it.<br />

Sister Josephine as keynote speaker.<br />

The Cathedral of Saints Peter and Paul in Philadelphia,<br />

where the 41st International Eucharistic Congress’ opening<br />

day was held.<br />

The late Sister M. Jane Menzenska of Holy Family College<br />

staffing our Congregation’s booth at the Civic Center Exhibit<br />

in August 1976.<br />

14


We Remember<br />

Blessed M.<br />

Stella and<br />

Her Ten<br />

Companions<br />

In the summer of 1943, 120 people were arrested<br />

by the Gestapo in Nowogródek, a small town in<br />

German-occupied Poland (now Belarus) where the<br />

Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth had served<br />

families since September 4, 1929. The sisters prayed<br />

these captured men and women would be returned<br />

to their families: “O God, if sacrifice of life is needed,<br />

accept it from us who are free from family obligations.<br />

Spare those who have wives and children.”<br />

On August 1, 1943, 11 of the 12 sisters in<br />

Nowogródek were loaded into a truck and driven<br />

into the woods where they were executed by Nazi<br />

soldiers and thrown into a mass grave. Now 81 years<br />

later, we remember the sacrifice of these sisters and<br />

the love they showed for the families they served.<br />

We pray “that like them we may witness with our<br />

lives to the presence of the Kingdom of God’s love<br />

and extend it to the human family throughout the<br />

world” (from “Prayer through the intercession of<br />

Nowogródek Martyrs”).<br />

The Martyred Sisters of Nowogródek were beatified<br />

by Pope John Paul II (now St. John Paul II) on March<br />

5, 2000.<br />

To read more about Blessed M. Stella and her<br />

Ten Companions, please visit our website under<br />

the About Us section, titled Blessed Martyrs of<br />

Nowogródek. We also invite you to join us in prayer<br />

through the intercession of the Nowogródek Martyrs:<br />

O most blessed Trinity,<br />

we praise and thank you for the example of<br />

Blessed Mary Stella and Her Ten Companions,<br />

Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, who by imitating<br />

Jesus Christ, offered themselves as a sacrifice of love.<br />

God of mercy and compassion, through the merits of their<br />

martyrdom and by their intercession, grant us the grace<br />

we humbly ask…(insert intention here)…so that like<br />

them, we may witness with our lives to the presence of the<br />

Kingdom of God’s love and extend it to the human<br />

family throughout the world. We ask this through Christ,<br />

our Lord. Amen. Blessed Martyred Sisters of Nowogródek,<br />

pray for us.<br />

The Martyred Sisters of Nowogródek.<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

15


In Memoriam<br />

A TIME TO MOURN<br />

Sister M.<br />

Audrey Merski<br />

May 18, 1938 – May<br />

9, <strong>2024</strong><br />

“As long as your<br />

heart remains pure<br />

and docile, God<br />

dwells in you and<br />

establishes His<br />

Kingdom (there).”<br />

(Blessed Mary of<br />

Jesus the Good Shepherd, Journey with Her, p. 15)<br />

Sister Audrey was born May 18, 1938 in Erie, PA, and<br />

baptized on November 22 in the parish church of Saint<br />

Stanislaus. Her parents, John Merski and Eleanore Maras,<br />

welcomed her into their home as did her brothers,<br />

Norman and Leroy. The Merski family is well known in<br />

the city of Erie for their involvement in local businesses<br />

and even politics. When Audrey’s mother died in 1952,<br />

her father married Elizabeth Laskowski who had a son,<br />

John, and a daughter, Patricia, whom she continued to be<br />

in contact with throughout her convent life.<br />

Sister Audrey attended the parish grade school that was<br />

staffed by the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth.<br />

Upon graduation in 1952, she attended Saint Benedict<br />

High School staffed by the Erie Benedictine Sisters.<br />

When she voiced her interest in religious life, one of the<br />

Benedictine Sisters thought her calling may be better<br />

served by sharing in the family charism of the Sisters<br />

who taught her at Saint Stanislaus Grade School.<br />

Audrey agreed and requested to join the Sisters of<br />

the Holy Family of Nazareth and was accepted as<br />

a postulant at the Provincialate of Saint Joseph on<br />

September 8, 1956. She continued her formation<br />

program as a novice on September 11, 1957, receiving<br />

the name Carmelita. She continued to have a special<br />

devotion to Our Lady of Mount Carmel throughout<br />

her life and kept this as her feast day.<br />

She professed her First Vows on August 11, 1959, at<br />

the Provincialate in Bellevue, PA, and began her life<br />

of service and dedication to the members of God’s<br />

family wherever she lived and ministered. She chose<br />

to offer her life with her spouse, Jesus, our High Priest,<br />

professing her Perpetual Vows on August 11, 1965, in<br />

Bellevue, PA.<br />

Sister Audrey pursued her professional education<br />

through studies in Education at Saint John’s College in<br />

Cleveland, OH receiving her bachelor’s degree on May<br />

17, 1970. She did her graduate studies at the University<br />

of Pittsburgh, receiving her master’s degree in special<br />

education on August 8, 1972. In particular, her heart<br />

reached out to children with special needs whose lives<br />

she touched with hope and blessings as members of<br />

God’s family.<br />

Sister Audrey was a primary teacher and was also<br />

involved in the special education of students at Holy<br />

Family Institute. She became a principal of Saints Cyril<br />

and Methodius School in McKees Rocks, PA. From<br />

there, she served on the Pittsburgh Sisters’ Council,<br />

became the director of the Mount Nazareth Learning<br />

Center from 1996-2008, and volunteered at Nazareth<br />

Prep from 2018-2021. As in life, so in death, Sister<br />

Audrey reminded us that children show us the way to<br />

the Kingdom.<br />

Sister Audrey entered her final resting place on the feast<br />

of the Ascension on May 9, <strong>2024</strong>, and was welcomed<br />

home on May 13, <strong>2024</strong>, where she was buried at Saint<br />

Joseph Cemetery in Pittsburgh, PA.<br />

Donations in memory of a deceased sister may be mailed to: Development<br />

Office, Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth – USA, Inc., 310 N. River<br />

Road, Des Plaines, IL 60016. Please include a note with the name of the<br />

sister in whose memory you are giving. Donations may also be made<br />

online at nazarethcsfn.org/donate.<br />

16


DEVELOPMENT<br />

Thank You from Our<br />

Development Office<br />

A TIME FOR THANKS<br />

Often during the 17 years I have served as development director for the Sisters of the Holy Family of<br />

Nazareth, I have been humbled by the faithful and loving support of our friends and benefactors. Year after<br />

year, you have shown your unfailing generosity. We are so very thankful for each and every one of you!<br />

Because of you, we can support the needs of all our sisters, so they in turn may “further God’s kingdom by<br />

building communities of love and hope among ourselves and among the families of the world.” Thanks to your<br />

kindness, in 2023 we were able to purchase new dual temp valves and replace piping at Mt. Nazareth Convent<br />

in Philadelphia, PA, replace two sewer injector pumps at Holy Family Convent in Des Plaines, IL, and replace<br />

windows at Immaculate Heart of Mary Convent in Monroe, CT. These and many other important projects<br />

could not have been accomplished without you!<br />

You have not only become a part of our history, but a deep part of our lives. You are a gift to us — an<br />

incredible blessing — and we are thankful! Please know our sisters keep you, your loved ones, and your<br />

special intentions in their daily prayers.<br />

With Gratitude,<br />

Katherine Barth<br />

National Director of Development<br />

We Couldn’t Do It Without You!<br />

We in the Development Office don’t have enough words to express how grateful we are for the wonderful<br />

individuals who have served on our committees and all those who have been instrumental to the success of<br />

our fundraising programs! Thank you for the time and talents you have shared with us.<br />

NAZARETH RETREAT CENTER COMMITTEE, SOUTHWEST AREA<br />

Mary Jean Moloney, Tim Moloney, Andy Navarro, Bill Quinn, Polly Weidenkopf, Sister Francesca Witkowska,<br />

CSFN, Sister Mary Paul Haase, CSFN, Sister Mary Louise Swift, CSFN, Sister Monika Brulinska, CSFN, Sister<br />

Marietta Osinska, CSFN, Sister David Sibiski, CSFN, and Katherine Barth.<br />

SPRING FEST COMMITTEE<br />

Mary Chybicki, Gunther Dorth, Margaret Gorder, Michael Hoban, Jacqueline Hyzy, Jackie Pokorny, Mary<br />

Puente, Bob Neil, and Sister Clare Marie Kozicki, CSFN.<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

17


Below are listed our inaugural members<br />

of the Blessed Foundress Giving Society.<br />

NAZARETH CIRCLE<br />

Dr. Marilyn Lisowski<br />

JERUSALEM CIRCLE<br />

Ms. Moneta B. De Castro, MD<br />

Ms. Annette M. Marlinga<br />

Tom and Mary Meehan<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Robert A. Pietrandrea<br />

GALILEE CIRCLE<br />

Brad and Katherine Barth<br />

The Czarkowski Family<br />

Carol and Sharon Danieli<br />

Loretta M. Hennessey<br />

Naval and Diane Kapoor<br />

John and Betsey St. Louis<br />

Announcing the<br />

Blessed Foundress<br />

Giving Society!<br />

In 2023, we instituted the Blessed Foundress Giving Society to<br />

recognize our friends and benefactors who made cumulative<br />

donations totaling $1,000 or greater during a calendar year.<br />

We are all very grateful for their faithful generosity!<br />

2023 PROVI<strong>NC</strong>E FINA<strong>NC</strong>IALS<br />

BETHLEHEM CIRCLE<br />

Kevin and Kathy Bosworth<br />

Ms. Maria Bradley and Mr. Martin A. Pfister<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Douglas A. Clark<br />

Gary and Maureen Conover<br />

Mr. Ulysses J. De St Germain<br />

Ms. Kathleen DeMartino<br />

+ Ms. Mary Ann Modrowski<br />

Charlie and Cathy Hirst<br />

Mr. Norman S. and Catherine J. Landino<br />

Father Jack Lizewski<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Robert F. Lovezzola<br />

Linda McClung and Doug Workman<br />

John Palesano<br />

John and Kathleen Robbins<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Guadalupe Romo<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Prince Singh<br />

David Westerman<br />

Kathy A. Wyszynski<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Stanley V. Zawila<br />

As well as our Anonymous Benefactors<br />

18


<strong>2024</strong> Glimpsing Grace<br />

Stay-at-Home Social<br />

Add 7 p.m. EST/6 p.m. CST Wednesday, October 23, to your calendar to virtually join us at our <strong>2024</strong> Stayat-Home<br />

Social: Glimpsing Grace! This event will feature our sisters’ stories about ways they experience<br />

grace and recognize God in their everyday lives.<br />

For more information, contact Heidi Scheuer at hscheuer@nazarethcsfn.org, call (847) 298-6760,<br />

ext. 238, or go to the “News & Events” section of our website, nazarethcsfn.org.<br />

TO MAKE A DONATION TO SUPPORT OUR SISTERS<br />

• Mail: Send donations to the Development Office, 310 N. River Road, Des Plaines, IL 60016.<br />

• Website: www.nazarethcsfn.org — Click “Donate” to use a credit card or checking account.<br />

• Facebook: www.facebook.com/csfn.usa — Click “Donate.”<br />

• Call: (847) 298-6760, ext. 237, our Development Office<br />

• Text-2-Give: Text the word REGISTER to (847) 994-4483. You will then be asked to provide<br />

contact and credit card information.<br />

NAZARETH CONNECTIONS // SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />

19


310 N River Rd<br />

Des Plaines, IL 60016<br />

www.nazarethcsfn.org<br />

Non-profit<br />

Organization<br />

U.S. Postage<br />

Paid<br />

Des Plaines, IL<br />

Permit No. 340<br />

ORDER OPLATKI FOR<br />

YOUR CHRISTMAS EVE<br />

CELEBRATION<br />

We are once again pleased to offer our friends and family oplatki<br />

for the Christmas season. Oplatki (“oplatek” is the singular form)<br />

are paper-thin wafers of unleavened bread embossed with symbols<br />

from the Christmas story. Our oplatki (2 x 4 inches) are baked by<br />

our sisters in Nowogródek, Belarus. This symbol of unity is made<br />

available to you with the sincere prayer that you will find peace of<br />

mind and heart as you recall the sacred mystery of the Nativity of<br />

our Lord Jesus Christ, born of the Blessed Virgin Mary.<br />

You may order these special wafers by calling our<br />

Development Office at (847) 298-6760, ext. 137, or<br />

visit at nazarethcsfn.org/donate/request-oplatki.<br />

We, the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, are called to extend the Kingdom of God’s love among ourselves and<br />

others by living the spirit of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph whose lives were centered in the love of God and one another.<br />

We witness to this love through dedicated service to the Church, especially in ministry to the family.

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!