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Nazareth<br />
SISTERS OF<br />
THE HOLY<br />
FAMILY OF<br />
NAZARETH<br />
HOLY FAMILY<br />
PROVI<strong>NC</strong>E<br />
// VOL 18 //<br />
// NO 2 //<br />
SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />
CONNECTIONS<br />
FAMILY IS THE HEART OF OUR MISSION<br />
Eucharistic<br />
Congresses<br />
STORY ON PAGE 12
MESSAGE FROM THE<br />
PROVI<strong>NC</strong>IAL SUPERIOR<br />
“THERE IS A SEASON AND A TIME<br />
FOR EVERY PURPOSE UNDER<br />
HEAVEN.” (ECCLESIASTES 3:11)<br />
Times and seasons of our lives inspire us to look deeply<br />
into our experiences as one provincial administration<br />
completes its term of office and another courageously<br />
begins its ministry. In the musical “Fiddler on the Roof,”<br />
we recall the words from the song, “Sunrise, Sunset”:<br />
“Sunrise, sunset, swiftly fly the years, one season<br />
following another laden with happiness and tears.”<br />
During the past six years, through the publication of<br />
Nazareth Connections, we were able to share with you,<br />
our friends, the many joys and blessings we celebrated<br />
— and yes, some challenges — without forgetting God,<br />
the Creator of all that is good who knows our<br />
every need.<br />
The summer Olympic Games began July 26, <strong>2024</strong>, in<br />
Paris, France. We know a few months prior to the<br />
opening of the Olympic Games, a flame was lit at<br />
Olympia, Greece. From there, the flame was carried<br />
for numerous weeks to the host city, mainly on foot by<br />
runners but also using other forms of transportation.<br />
Throughout the torch relay, the flame announced the<br />
Olympic Games and spread a message of peace and<br />
friendship among people.<br />
On August 25, <strong>2024</strong>, unlike the Olympic Games, there<br />
won’t be a torch relay leading to the transition of the<br />
provincial administration, but rather a symbolic torch<br />
will be passed along. A torch with a flame that will<br />
burn brightly each day with the charism and mission<br />
of the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth; a flame<br />
that will radiate light to guide and direct the provincial<br />
administration in the responsibilities entrusted to them.<br />
Together, we as Holy Family Province stand on the<br />
threshold of transition. Just as in the time of Mother<br />
Foundress, the tides of time carry us through the<br />
mysteries lived by the Holy Family: joy, sorrow, blessings,<br />
and challenges. May we always reverence the passage<br />
of time and turn to God with gratitude for all that has<br />
been, for all that is, and for all that is yet to come.<br />
We transition each day. Some transitions are routine<br />
while others are life-changing and require courage,<br />
risk, and trust in God’s Divine Providence. In closing,<br />
I want to share with you a poem written by Joyce<br />
Rupp entitled “Crossing Over.”<br />
Crossing over into the unknown, crossing over from<br />
a secure land to one whose roads I never walked.<br />
Companion and Guide, you are my transition coach.<br />
You say to me: “Cross over the bridge. Go ahead,<br />
come on over. It’s sturdy enough.<br />
Don’t look down, though, or you might get terrified<br />
and never walk across.<br />
Don’t look back too long or you will lose courage<br />
and want to stay right where you are.<br />
Hang on. Keep going. That’s what bridges are for, to<br />
get you to the other side.Trust me to protect you.”<br />
For all of us, in transition who have bridges to cross,<br />
bless us, God of the journey, gift us with the desire to<br />
go ahead.<br />
Help us to trust that the bridge will be strong and<br />
the risk will be worth it.<br />
In the Holy Family,<br />
Sister Kathleen Maciej<br />
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VOLUME 18 //<br />
NUMBER 2 //<br />
SUMMER <strong>2024</strong><br />
Nazareth Connections is published<br />
three times a year by the Sisters of<br />
the Holy Family of Nazareth<br />
in the USA.<br />
Editor:<br />
Emily Dillon<br />
Contents<br />
JUBILARIANS<br />
4 Sister M. Bernadette Sznurkowska<br />
5 Sister Marietta Dudzinski<br />
Sister Rita Partyka<br />
6 Sister Theadora Krause<br />
ARTICLES<br />
7 Bethany House of Hospitality<br />
9 Associate Lisa Schiro<br />
12 Eucharistic Congresses<br />
15 Blessed M. Stella and Her<br />
Ten Companions<br />
IN MEMORIAM<br />
16 Sister M. Audrey Merski<br />
DEVELOPMENT<br />
17 Thank You from Our<br />
Development Office<br />
18 Announcing the Blessed<br />
Foundress Giving Society!<br />
2023 Province Financials<br />
19 <strong>2024</strong> “Glimpsing Grace”<br />
Stay-at-Home Social<br />
Sister Kathleen Maciej.<br />
Sister Cathy Fedewa advocating for migrants<br />
and refugees.<br />
CSFN Sisters in Nazareth Academy High School<br />
lobby ready to leave for the IEC programs in<br />
August 1976.<br />
Sisters Edyta Krawczyk, Molly Bernadette<br />
Spiering, Faustina Ferko, Josephine Garrett,<br />
and Hanna Paradowska at the <strong>2024</strong> National<br />
Eucharistic Congress.<br />
HOW ARE YOU CALLED TO LOVE?<br />
We invite you to pray with us, to listen to God’s call with us, and to<br />
love with us as we strive to recognize God in ordinary experiences.<br />
Learn more about our community life, our ministries, and our mission at<br />
nazarethcsfn.org/about-us. Contact Sister Emmanuela Le, CSFN, National<br />
Vocation Director, at 682-203-9675 or vocations@nazarethcsfn.org.<br />
Proofreaders:<br />
Sister Angela Szczawinska<br />
Sister Mary Ellen Gemmell<br />
Katherine Barth<br />
Sister Lucille Madura<br />
Amanda Giarratano<br />
Province Communications Committee:<br />
Sister Mary Ellen Gemmell<br />
Sister Angela Szczawinska<br />
Amanda Giarratano<br />
Katherine Barth<br />
Heidi Scheuer<br />
Sister Emmanuela Le<br />
Sister Marcella Louise Wallowicz<br />
Sister Michele Vincent Fisher<br />
Sister Rebecca Sullivan<br />
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Communications Department<br />
Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth<br />
310 N. River Road<br />
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JUBILARIANS<br />
Jubilarians<br />
A TIME TO CELEBRATE<br />
Sister M. Bernadette Sznurkowska – 75 Years<br />
Sister M. Bernadette Sznurkowska’s 75 years as a religious reflect the many<br />
rewarding opportunities to have served God, lay people, and the community in<br />
many places: Philadelphia, Florida, and Rome.<br />
Sister Bernadette grew up in her home parish of St. Stanislaus in New Haven,<br />
CT, and said the sisters in St. Stanislaus School influenced her decision to enter<br />
religious life. Starting in 1951, Sister Bernadette has ministered in education and<br />
local administration at the convents and schools in the Philadelphia area. From<br />
1960-1968, she also served in Florida with two other sisters at Plantation, FL,<br />
and opened St. Gregory School.<br />
Sister Bernadette enjoys growing flowers and working on puzzles with her current prayer ministry at Mount<br />
Nazareth, PA.<br />
“I was blessed with a family – mother, father, brothers, and sisters – who have always been supportive of me<br />
in my religious life.”<br />
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Sister Marietta Dudzinski – 75 Years<br />
The call to religious life for Sister Marietta Dudzinski blossomed from<br />
reading many books on the lives of the saints, which ignited a fire within<br />
her to become a sister. Working with the Nazareth Sisters had finally<br />
solidified the decision.<br />
Coming from her home parish of St. Stanislaus Church in Erie, PA, Sister<br />
Marietta praises the awesome, beautiful, and loving God she serves.<br />
Having experienced grace upon grace and blessings upon blessings<br />
through her many years of service in the field of education and<br />
community of the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, she is full of<br />
gratitude to the Lord for all the opportunities He has given her to<br />
grow spiritually.<br />
“I am blessed to have been a blessing to many students and people I encountered over the many years of<br />
plenty. I give God all the praise, honor, and glory for all He has done for me.”<br />
From 1989-2020, Sister Marietta worked in education in Cleveland, OH, as well as in Detroit, MI. From<br />
2011-2019, she focused more on spiritual needs and instilling values. Though she is retired, she still feels<br />
the call to evangelize by spreading the Gospel of Christ to those people whom God places in her path<br />
by praying for inspiration to help them in their spiritual needs and instilling biblical values. Since she<br />
is surrounded by many sick, lonely, and forgotten people, as well as workers and outside visitors,<br />
Sister Marietta hopes they know they are loved and cared for.<br />
“May my ministry be a blessing to them and give them strength, hope, and trust in God’s Word and in<br />
building a deeper relationship with Jesus.”<br />
Sister Rita Partyka – 75 Years<br />
In describing her 75 years in religious life, Sister Rita Partyka says, “My<br />
whole life has been a life of giving and receiving love from God and<br />
from others.”<br />
Growing up in Scranton, PA, at the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary<br />
Parish, Sister Rita said it was the Lord’s call, as well as her father’s<br />
sister, Sister M. Pancratilla Partyka, CSFN, that influenced her decision<br />
to enter religious life. After making her vows, Sister Rita taught at<br />
the elementary level for seven years in New York, then three years in<br />
McAdoo, PA. She went to the Novitiate in Meadowbrook, PA, afterward<br />
as the sub-mistress for three years before going to Colegio Espiritu Santo in Puerto Rico from<br />
1965-1978.<br />
Additionally, Sister Rita taught high school English, journalism, and religion before becoming the Superior<br />
of the convent and high school principal. She worked on vocation promotion at the high school and<br />
directed both the school newspaper and the National Honor Society. After her time in Puerto Rico, she<br />
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Sister Rita Partyka Continued<br />
transferred to the Novitiate as the Mistress of Novices, where she began the Association of the Holy<br />
Family Program with a group of women, calling it FIAT. From 1981-1983, Sister Rita then served as the<br />
Assistant Provincial until becoming the Provincial Superior of the then-Immaculate Conception Province<br />
in Philadelphia from 1983-1989. After finishing her term, she became the Superior of our mission in the<br />
Philippines and served there until 1992 when she was elected Assistant Superior General.<br />
Besides serving the congregation from 1992-2001 in Rome, Italy, as well as being the Assistant Superior<br />
General, Sister Rita was the CSFN General Liaison for Religious Formation, assisting the various<br />
provinces with their formation programs. She also served as the General Coordinator of the Association<br />
of the Holy Family and was involved in general Visitations. Upon returning to the U.S., she worked as the<br />
Assistant Archivist of the Philadelphia Province until the merge of the provinces in 2007. From 2002-2019,<br />
she also worked as the Director of the Association of the Holy Family, then as the Area Director of the<br />
Mid-Atlantic Area of the Association after the merge.<br />
As a prayerful, faithful, committed sister, Sister Rita continues to minister to other sisters in the<br />
community and to families through prayer and sacrifice. She is deeply grateful to God for calling her to<br />
religious life and has treasured every moment of sharing with her sisters in community, ministering to<br />
families through education of their children, and working with the associates for so many years.<br />
“God has blessed me abundantly. I have put my heart and soul into every ministry He has called me to.<br />
And He has not been outdone in generosity.”<br />
Sister Theadora Krause – 50 Years<br />
After being in religious life for 50 years, Sister Theadora Krause<br />
appreciates the willingness of the sisters to consider opportunities<br />
beyond their comfort zones.<br />
From 1981-2000, Sister Theadora served in healthcare as a nurse, nurse<br />
practitioner, Vice President of Patient Care Services, and an ethicist in<br />
Altoona, PA. From 1998-2007, she served on the CSFN Leadership<br />
Teams as a councillor of the former St. Joseph Province in Pittsburgh,<br />
PA, before serving at the James E. VanZandt VA Medical Center in<br />
Altoona, PA, as a nurse practitioner and facilitator of the Traumatic<br />
Brain Injury Clinic for veterans who have been deployed in recent wars and conflict zones. She also<br />
served as the chief ethics consultant/ethicist for clinical and organizational ethics issues that arise. In <strong>2024</strong>,<br />
Sister Theadora was elected Provincial Superior for the Holy Family Province, USA.<br />
As a compassionate, educated, and mission-driven sister, Sister Theadora enjoys travel, reading political<br />
histories, and discussing complex issues.<br />
“I was fortunate to be integral to the merging of our five American provinces from 2003-2007. During<br />
that time, I was honored to witness the struggles we experienced as well as the courage we had to<br />
overcome them to unite for a preferred future. My professional energies have been in healthcare, but<br />
facilitating the merger was by far the most surprising of opportunities for me.”<br />
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ARTICLES<br />
Compassionate<br />
Care for Migrants:<br />
Bethany House of<br />
Hospitality<br />
A TIME TO SERVE<br />
By Sister Cathy Fedewa<br />
There are those seeking a better, safer life in this<br />
country. Our Statue of Liberty declares, “Give me<br />
your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning<br />
to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming<br />
shore.” Those words originally addressed the crowded<br />
ships coming from Europe. Now they continue<br />
to come by sea, but also by land and air. Are they<br />
welcomed?<br />
Some come as a matter of CHOICE because they<br />
prefer our country’s opportunities, resources, beauty,<br />
freedom, and education. Thousands seek those<br />
same ideals because of the poverty, violence, and<br />
persecution they experience in their homeland. So, it<br />
is not a choice — it is a desperate NECESSITY, a<br />
matter of survival. And many know they will not be<br />
welcomed. They may be turned back. They may die<br />
trying to reach this land. But they still try; that is what<br />
desperation does.<br />
work today looks a little different, but it is achieving<br />
the same end — care and supporting and encouraging<br />
individuals, but also advocacy for the safety and<br />
security for their families, even to the point of simply<br />
keeping those families together. Faith and civic groups<br />
as well have been able to tap the generosity and selfgiving<br />
efforts of people willing to give generously of<br />
their time, talent, and treasure to help the newcomers<br />
in many ways, whether that be finding shelter, supplying<br />
physical needs, helping to educate, providing legal<br />
guidance, or simply befriending those “lost” in finding<br />
their way in this new and strange life.<br />
Our province is a founding member and sustaining<br />
community of Bethany House of Hospitality, a ministry<br />
offering housing and support services to young<br />
immigrant women as they journey to independence.<br />
When unaccompanied minors come into the United<br />
States, they are placed in shelters until they can be<br />
united with their family here. If they have no family<br />
and turn 18 years old, they can no longer remain in<br />
those shelters. They are on their own at that point.<br />
Bethany House takes in these young women and<br />
offers them the shelter and services (legal, educational,<br />
psychological, medical, etc.) to help them as they<br />
journey in their efforts to achieve asylum, become<br />
independent, and pursue their dream of living fruitful<br />
lives in this country. Some of our residents also come<br />
from border shelters as young, single mothers with<br />
small children. As a founding board member, I am<br />
privileged to assist in helping develop and support<br />
these programs. I also assist on the board of Viator<br />
House of Hospitality, which is a similar program serving<br />
young men.<br />
Mother Foundress knew in her heart why so many<br />
left their homelands to come to the land of promise,<br />
only to find themselves in squalid conditions with<br />
no medical help, no education, and no one willing to<br />
serve their needs. That is what prompted her difficult<br />
decision to bring half the community across the ocean<br />
to help those migrants.<br />
Sisters have assisted migrants since the days we<br />
first came to this country — sometimes directly,<br />
giving shelter, sustenance, and encouragement —<br />
and sometimes indirectly through the education,<br />
healthcare, and social services that dealt with the<br />
systems that kept so many in poverty. Much of the<br />
Sister Cathy Fedewa teaching ESL.<br />
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assistance with food, clothing, and translation that helps<br />
them move on in the next step of their journey. It also<br />
works with staffing some of the new shelters in the<br />
city popping up as a result of the busloads of migrants<br />
sent from Texas with nowhere to go and no resources.<br />
They have also managed to help some families find<br />
housing with the assistance of generous persons, some<br />
even willing to share their own homes.<br />
So many migrants know little or nothing of the English<br />
language. One group, as a sponsored ministry of the<br />
Dominican Sisters, established Aquinas Literacy Center,<br />
which offers classes at a low cost to adults in one area<br />
of the city. Right next to what is known as Chinatown,<br />
most students are Latino or Chinese. I’ve so often<br />
felt the limitation of not knowing another language to<br />
speak and share with immigrants, but I found I can help<br />
others learn English. I have been fortunate to assist<br />
students who spoke Spanish, Chinese, and Arabic. I may<br />
not be able to assist hundreds but I can help a few.<br />
I was fortunate to become acquainted within a year<br />
after I came to Chicago with a group called Sisters and<br />
Brothers of Immigrants. As a religious group in the<br />
archdiocese, we have provided advocacy, educational<br />
events, interfaith prayer, and public witness to help the<br />
public become aware of the circumstances immigrants<br />
face as well as offering options for ways they can join<br />
in these efforts. Many of the members of this group<br />
have also been part of other groups and efforts to<br />
address issues of immigration.<br />
The Interfaith Community for Detained Immigrants<br />
(now the Illinois Community for Displaced Immigrants)<br />
started with a ministry visiting immigrants detained by<br />
the government at centers in Illinois and Wisconsin.<br />
The main purpose for the visits was to let these<br />
immigrants — most of whom were undocumented —<br />
know someone cared about them and was willing to<br />
listen to their stories, and sometimes assist in some<br />
small way since so many were separated from their<br />
families and children and had no one to help them. It<br />
was a privilege to walk with these men and women,<br />
even for short visits.<br />
This group grew in several different directions,<br />
especially when all the detention centers in Illinois<br />
closed. ICDI now works with migrants passing<br />
through the city at the Greyhound station, needing<br />
The most recent group established is called the<br />
Sanctuary Working Group and is hard at work finding<br />
housing for newly arrived immigrants. Several faith<br />
groups are involved; one home they have been able<br />
to set up is the SWG House of Hospitality, where<br />
at this time, there are two families and three single<br />
men living in a group setting together. While receiving<br />
guidance from case workers, they are addressing legal,<br />
educational, and healthcare needs preparing them to<br />
be able to live independently.<br />
Funds are short and there is only one staff member, so<br />
volunteers like me spend a few hours on weekends to<br />
be present to these residents and sometimes help with<br />
language needs. Other volunteers help with driving to<br />
legal and healthcare appointments.<br />
Living in Chicago certainly affords numerous and<br />
diverse opportunities for assisting our brothers<br />
and sisters newly arrived in our country. It offers an<br />
opportunity to continue in the ministry that brought<br />
Mother Foundress and our sisters here to this city and<br />
this country. Our sisters in other parts of the country<br />
are also active in this ministry. I join with them in spirit<br />
and I am grateful I have a wealth of opportunities here<br />
as part of my retirement ministry.<br />
Sister Becky Sullivan and Sister Cathy Fedewa getting<br />
ready to participate in Walk for Refugee Kids.<br />
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“I came to Ascension Holy Family Hospital to<br />
interview for a public relations position. I was a year<br />
out of college and had interviewed all the way up the<br />
line when I found myself in front of Sister Patricia<br />
Ann Koschalke, who was starting to look at me<br />
funny. I thought I must have said something wrong,<br />
but when I asked about it, she said, ‘No, I just have<br />
a position open in the development office and I’ve<br />
interviewed a lot of people for it, and I think you<br />
might be a good candidate. Would you be interested<br />
in interviewing for that job instead?’” Lisa eventually<br />
acquired the development position, but was a little<br />
worried about her lack of skills needed for the role.<br />
Sister Patricia Ann only said, “I will teach you how I<br />
want it done.”<br />
Associate<br />
Lisa Schiro<br />
Our Association of the Holy Family nurtures the<br />
spirituality of lay individuals who have dedicated<br />
themselves to living Nazareth spirituality in their<br />
families, in their workplace, and in the world.<br />
These women and men help advance the mission<br />
and ministry of our Congregation through faithful<br />
listening, loving relationships, and recognizing<br />
God’s presence in their daily encounters. After a<br />
period of orientation and discernment, they make a<br />
commitment to daily prayer and living the values of<br />
the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth (CSFN)<br />
within their families and parish communities. While<br />
each member brings a unique perspective to the<br />
association, all associates are committed to advancing<br />
the mission and ministry of the Sisters of the Holy<br />
Family of Nazareth.<br />
Meet Lisa Schiro, an associate of 13 years, who<br />
first found herself face to face with one of our<br />
sisters at the beginning of her career in a most<br />
unexpected way.<br />
Sister Patricia Ann became Lisa’s mentor after that.<br />
Over the next 12 years, they would do everything<br />
together, from praying before every meeting to<br />
attending wakes, funerals, special occasions, and<br />
lunches with donors. “I learned the way Sister<br />
wanted the office run in her hospital,” Lisa explained.<br />
It was a wonderfully fulfilling career. We made many<br />
friends and held fun and very successful special<br />
events like gala dinners and golf outings.”<br />
While working at the hospital and raising her young<br />
family, Lisa’s first husband passed away.<br />
“The sisters really circled around me with emotional<br />
support,” Lisa said. When her daughter, Samantha,<br />
started struggling with separation anxiety in school<br />
as a new kindergartner, her good friend Tom, an<br />
electrical contractor at the hospital and a good<br />
donor to the sisters, said, “Call the sisters.”<br />
The next day, Lisa brought Samantha to meet Sister<br />
Julie Kozielska, the principal at St. Emily Catholic<br />
School in Mt. Prospect, IL. Sister Julie assured Lisa<br />
and Samantha that St. Emily’s was a good fit and<br />
there was nothing to be worried about. “You’re going<br />
to start coming to school here,” Sister Julie said.<br />
“You are going to be safe here. You know the sisters.<br />
Everything’s going to be OK.” Samantha never cried<br />
again and she was successful in kindergarten because<br />
of the sisters, said Lisa.<br />
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During that same time, Sister Sandra Marie<br />
Sosnowski asked Lisa how she was doing.<br />
“I’m really having a hard time,” Lisa said. “I’m still<br />
in this ‘angry’ phase and I can’t get things back to<br />
normal.” Sister Sandra Marie looked her in the eyes<br />
and said, “Oh Lisa, things are never going to go back<br />
to normal. You have to create a new normal.”<br />
“It was like a light bulb went on,” Lisa remembered.<br />
“It helped so much.”<br />
After the hospital merged with Resurrection and<br />
Sister Patricia Ann moved on to fulfill a new role,<br />
Lisa left the hospital and accepted a development<br />
position with The Little Sisters of the Poor in<br />
Palatine, IL, for the next five years. It was during this<br />
time in her life that she began her discernment to<br />
become an associate.<br />
“When I was approached about<br />
becoming an associate, it was an<br />
easy YES. I was already deeply<br />
connected and was familiar with<br />
their charism. And I missed working<br />
with the Sisters of the Holy Family.<br />
It was like the calling had always<br />
been there. It was a mere formality<br />
and a way I could make it more<br />
permanent.”<br />
- Lisa Schiro<br />
After working with Sisters Lauren Sosnowski and<br />
Dolores Kazmierczak discerning her membership, Lisa<br />
became an associate in 2011. “It was really meaningful<br />
for me because it was a much deeper dive into my<br />
feelings about it. And I was discerning without even<br />
realizing they were discerning me as well. You can’t just<br />
declare to everyone in the room that you want to be<br />
an associate. You need to make sure they’re going to<br />
honor your relationship with the sisters and treat it<br />
with respect. I truly embraced my discernment with<br />
Sisters Lauren and Dolores.”<br />
The sisters’ impact on Lisa’s life had gone way beyond<br />
her membership in the Association, however. “My<br />
adult children know the sisters and my husband has a<br />
relationship with the sisters as well.”<br />
Sister Michael Marie Franzak in particular was one<br />
of the sisters working at St. Emily’s when Samantha<br />
went to school there. When Lisa got remarried there<br />
in 2002, it was to Tom Schiro, the very electrical<br />
contractor who told her years before to call the sisters<br />
in her time of need. The entire church had been filled<br />
with sisters, including Sister Michael Marie and a few<br />
others who sang and played beautiful music at the<br />
wedding ceremony.<br />
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Lisa and Tom had become friends while working at<br />
Ascension Holy Family, though Sister Rosemarie<br />
Machalski in particular credits herself as their<br />
matchmaker. One day, Lisa was walking out of<br />
daycare after dropping Samantha off when she<br />
stopped Lisa and said, “I think you should date Tom<br />
Schiro. We collectively think that he would be a<br />
good husband.” Lisa and Tom were married two<br />
years later and each year get a handful of sisters<br />
who remember their role in pairing the couple up!<br />
“We always get an anniversary card now. During<br />
the pandemic, we finally realized after all these<br />
years, Tom and Sister Rosemarie share the same<br />
birthday. We never knew it!”<br />
Today, Lisa works as the Senior Director of<br />
Development for Presbyterian Homes, a Life Plan<br />
Community organization in the Chicago area.<br />
Though her whole career has centered around<br />
fundraising, she has been able to work with<br />
residents and their families every day. “I not only<br />
get to apply what I’m doing here for my own family,<br />
but for those families as well. Being able to transmit<br />
what I glean from the sisters and using that as a leg<br />
extension for the congregation and for the ministry<br />
keeps me engaged. If I can be a calming person in<br />
my family, more understanding and less judgmental<br />
when family tension occurs, then I’m supporting the<br />
family and by extension doing the sisters’ work to<br />
enhance families as well.”<br />
The Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth are<br />
called to extend the Kingdom of God’s love among<br />
themselves and others by living the spirit of Jesus,<br />
Mary, and Joseph, whose lives were centered in<br />
the love of God and one another. Their witness to<br />
this love through dedicated service to the Church,<br />
especially in ministry to the family, is what guides<br />
their mission and service daily.<br />
“I have always appreciated the way the sisters<br />
approach their ministries,” Lisa continued. “They<br />
really are invested and involved in a very subtle way.<br />
Even Sister Michael Marie, who uses a lot of her<br />
ministry through music, the extension of that to<br />
her own sisters, to her own path, and to others, is<br />
beautiful to witness. They all bring their individual<br />
talents to the table and nothing is ever diminished.<br />
Sister Patricia Ann in particular knitted my son’s<br />
baptismal jacket and has always had a green thumb.<br />
Whether it’s sewing, gardening, or baking, the<br />
sisters find a way to use that part of themselves<br />
and deliver it to others through their ministry.<br />
Sister M. Lucille Madura and Sister Sandra Marie<br />
Sosnowski used to deliver a small bag of cookies<br />
and bread every Christmas Eve, and my kids would<br />
use the bread for French toast every Christmas<br />
morning. Even today, they still make French toast<br />
every Christmas morning as a tradition. It was neat<br />
to have the sisters be a part of our Christmas like<br />
that. It’s very much to honor them.”<br />
For Lisa, being an associate means taking her role<br />
as an extension of their ministries. Even when life<br />
gets busy and her attention taken up by the busier<br />
seasons of work, the challenge to remain connected<br />
through the role of an associate guides her daily.<br />
“Staying involved and aligned with the sisters<br />
fuels my work.” From the witness of sharing their<br />
own talents and skills to maintaining relationships<br />
through investment of time and deep connection,<br />
there is no greater strength that keeps Lisa’s heart<br />
within the sisters’ mission.<br />
To learn more about our Association,<br />
visit our website, nazarethcsfn.org.<br />
1999(7), left to right: Sister Patricia Ann Koschalke, President,<br />
Holy Family Hospital; Bruno Cecchin, Golf Outing Co-Chair; Dr.<br />
Jim Naatz, DN Staff at Holy Family Hospital; Tom Schiro, Golf<br />
Outing Co-Chair; Lisa Schiro, Director of Development at Holy<br />
Family Hospital.<br />
Ascension Holy Family Hospital, known as Holy Family<br />
Hospital at the time, at the corner of Golf and River<br />
Roads in Des Plaines, IL, just east of the Provincialate.<br />
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Eucharistic<br />
Congresses<br />
From August 1-8, 1976, in conjunction with our<br />
country’s bicentennial, the United States hosted<br />
the 41st International Eucharistic Congress<br />
(IEC) in Philadelphia, PA. The event brought 1.5<br />
million Catholics, 44 cardinals, and 417 bishops<br />
to the birthplace of the U.S. Among the keynote<br />
speakers were two future canonized Saints:<br />
Cardinal Karol Wojtyla (later Pope John Paul II)<br />
and Mother Teresa of Calcutta. The theme of the<br />
Congress was The Eucharist and the Hungers<br />
of the Human Family. Conferences and events<br />
explored different aspects of physical and<br />
spiritual hunger.<br />
prelates, including Cardinal Wojtyla. This was<br />
Sister’s first encounter with the future Pope John<br />
Paul II, but not the last. In leadership capacity,<br />
Sister Janice — as Provincial Superior of our<br />
former Immaculate Heart of Mary Province and<br />
later as Provincial Superior of the former Blessed<br />
Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd Province —<br />
attended several General Chapters in Rome.<br />
During these Chapters, delegates met in a private<br />
audience with Pope John Paul II at the Vatican and<br />
attended Mass celebrated by him in his private<br />
chapel. Sister recalled another meeting with<br />
the future Saint at the time of the beatification<br />
of Mother Foundress in 1989. Sister had the<br />
privilege of meeting him during his visit to<br />
our generalate.<br />
Three key events highlighted the IEC: a candlelight<br />
procession from the Cathedral of Saints Peter<br />
and Paul along the Parkway, a day dedicated to<br />
various ethnic groups, and the closing liturgy in<br />
JFK Stadium. Along with the conferences and<br />
keynote talks, these parallel the highlights of the<br />
<strong>2024</strong> National Eucharistic Congress: the National<br />
Eucharistic Pilgrimage, the Spanish, English,<br />
Vietnamese, and Eastern-rite liturgies, and the<br />
closing liturgy at Lucas Oil Stadium.<br />
350,000 people processed a 1-mile route along<br />
the Parkway on one August evening in 1976.<br />
This summer, hundreds of thousands processed<br />
more than 2,600 miles over the span of two<br />
months from four corners of the United States to<br />
Indianapolis. At the IEC, the gift to the Church of<br />
the various ethnic cultures was celebrated in 22<br />
distinct liturgies.<br />
Sister Janice Kobierowski, although ministering<br />
in New England in 1976, was in the city for her<br />
summer home visit. Her family resided within<br />
Saint Adalbert Parish, which hosted the Polish<br />
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1976 was a special year for Sister Marguerite Therese<br />
Maguire not only because of the IEC, but it was also<br />
the year of her final vows. Sister reflected on her<br />
attendance at the closing liturgy, noting what a moving<br />
experience it was to hear more than 100,000 singing<br />
the official hymn, “Gift of Finest Wheat,” which has<br />
endured over the years. Another sister commented<br />
she was touched by the sending forth hymn, “To Jesus<br />
Christ Our Sovereign King,” an experience of the<br />
call to mission that this year’s Congress attendees<br />
also shared. Nearly 50 years after the IEC, the Holy<br />
Spirit is once again empowering Catholics to witness<br />
their faith in the Real Presence and invite others into<br />
relationship with Our Eucharistic Lord.<br />
On May 31, <strong>2024</strong>, Holy Family University was a stop<br />
along the Seton Route of the National Eucharistic<br />
Pilgrimage. Fifteen permanent pilgrims accompanied<br />
the Blessed Sacrament from Norwich, CT, along<br />
the eastern coast. The opportunity to pray with<br />
these pilgrims before the Blessed Sacrament in the<br />
university chapel was extended to our sisters in the<br />
Mid-Atlantic area. Our sisters were moved by the<br />
faithful witness of these young men and women.<br />
Ironically, on May 31 the Church celebrates the Feast<br />
of the Visitation, the first Eucharistic Procession, when<br />
Mary carrying Jesus in her womb visited Elizabeth.<br />
In 1976, another sponsored ministry, Nazareth<br />
Academy High School, was also a stop for Congress<br />
participants — in particular, the Polish delegation to<br />
the IEC, including the future Pope John Paul II.<br />
St. Teresa of Calcutta at the IEC Candlelight Procession.<br />
Left to right: Sister M. Annette Zajkowska, Sister M. Justine<br />
Petner, Sister M. Laurenta Blacharska, and Sister M. Charlotte<br />
Niemczyk.<br />
Detailed pen and ink drawing of the exterior of the<br />
Cathedral of SS. Peter and Paul.<br />
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In 1976, many of our sisters worked “behind<br />
the scenes” at the Congress, participating in the<br />
archdiocesan 1,000-voice choir and daily liturgies,<br />
hosting pilgrims and prelates, and preparing<br />
students for various roles in the week’s events.<br />
In <strong>2024</strong>, some of our sisters had a more visible<br />
role in the Congress and the Revival. Sister<br />
Josephine Garrett was a keynote speaker on<br />
Day 3 of the Congress. The author of Hope: An<br />
Invitation and host of the podcast Hope Stories,<br />
Sister Josephine addressed our brokenness as<br />
humans and as a Church, but reminded those in<br />
attendance that Jesus the Divine Healer meets us<br />
in our brokenness. Sisters Marcelina Mikulska and<br />
Marcella Louise Wallowicz serve on the editorial<br />
board for the Heart of the Revival newsletter, a<br />
weekly blog on the Eucharistic Revival under the<br />
auspices of the USCCB.<br />
The National Eucharistic Congress marks a<br />
transition from the Year of Parish Revival to<br />
the Year of Mission in which we are called to<br />
be disciples. The Year of Parish Revival was the<br />
opportunity to renew or deepen our personal<br />
relationship with the Eucharistic Lord. Now we<br />
are invited to share the fruits of this year and the<br />
events of this summer and bring Christ’s love to a<br />
world still hungering for it.<br />
Sister Josephine as keynote speaker.<br />
The Cathedral of Saints Peter and Paul in Philadelphia,<br />
where the 41st International Eucharistic Congress’ opening<br />
day was held.<br />
The late Sister M. Jane Menzenska of Holy Family College<br />
staffing our Congregation’s booth at the Civic Center Exhibit<br />
in August 1976.<br />
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We Remember<br />
Blessed M.<br />
Stella and<br />
Her Ten<br />
Companions<br />
In the summer of 1943, 120 people were arrested<br />
by the Gestapo in Nowogródek, a small town in<br />
German-occupied Poland (now Belarus) where the<br />
Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth had served<br />
families since September 4, 1929. The sisters prayed<br />
these captured men and women would be returned<br />
to their families: “O God, if sacrifice of life is needed,<br />
accept it from us who are free from family obligations.<br />
Spare those who have wives and children.”<br />
On August 1, 1943, 11 of the 12 sisters in<br />
Nowogródek were loaded into a truck and driven<br />
into the woods where they were executed by Nazi<br />
soldiers and thrown into a mass grave. Now 81 years<br />
later, we remember the sacrifice of these sisters and<br />
the love they showed for the families they served.<br />
We pray “that like them we may witness with our<br />
lives to the presence of the Kingdom of God’s love<br />
and extend it to the human family throughout the<br />
world” (from “Prayer through the intercession of<br />
Nowogródek Martyrs”).<br />
The Martyred Sisters of Nowogródek were beatified<br />
by Pope John Paul II (now St. John Paul II) on March<br />
5, 2000.<br />
To read more about Blessed M. Stella and her<br />
Ten Companions, please visit our website under<br />
the About Us section, titled Blessed Martyrs of<br />
Nowogródek. We also invite you to join us in prayer<br />
through the intercession of the Nowogródek Martyrs:<br />
O most blessed Trinity,<br />
we praise and thank you for the example of<br />
Blessed Mary Stella and Her Ten Companions,<br />
Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, who by imitating<br />
Jesus Christ, offered themselves as a sacrifice of love.<br />
God of mercy and compassion, through the merits of their<br />
martyrdom and by their intercession, grant us the grace<br />
we humbly ask…(insert intention here)…so that like<br />
them, we may witness with our lives to the presence of the<br />
Kingdom of God’s love and extend it to the human<br />
family throughout the world. We ask this through Christ,<br />
our Lord. Amen. Blessed Martyred Sisters of Nowogródek,<br />
pray for us.<br />
The Martyred Sisters of Nowogródek.<br />
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In Memoriam<br />
A TIME TO MOURN<br />
Sister M.<br />
Audrey Merski<br />
May 18, 1938 – May<br />
9, <strong>2024</strong><br />
“As long as your<br />
heart remains pure<br />
and docile, God<br />
dwells in you and<br />
establishes His<br />
Kingdom (there).”<br />
(Blessed Mary of<br />
Jesus the Good Shepherd, Journey with Her, p. 15)<br />
Sister Audrey was born May 18, 1938 in Erie, PA, and<br />
baptized on November 22 in the parish church of Saint<br />
Stanislaus. Her parents, John Merski and Eleanore Maras,<br />
welcomed her into their home as did her brothers,<br />
Norman and Leroy. The Merski family is well known in<br />
the city of Erie for their involvement in local businesses<br />
and even politics. When Audrey’s mother died in 1952,<br />
her father married Elizabeth Laskowski who had a son,<br />
John, and a daughter, Patricia, whom she continued to be<br />
in contact with throughout her convent life.<br />
Sister Audrey attended the parish grade school that was<br />
staffed by the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth.<br />
Upon graduation in 1952, she attended Saint Benedict<br />
High School staffed by the Erie Benedictine Sisters.<br />
When she voiced her interest in religious life, one of the<br />
Benedictine Sisters thought her calling may be better<br />
served by sharing in the family charism of the Sisters<br />
who taught her at Saint Stanislaus Grade School.<br />
Audrey agreed and requested to join the Sisters of<br />
the Holy Family of Nazareth and was accepted as<br />
a postulant at the Provincialate of Saint Joseph on<br />
September 8, 1956. She continued her formation<br />
program as a novice on September 11, 1957, receiving<br />
the name Carmelita. She continued to have a special<br />
devotion to Our Lady of Mount Carmel throughout<br />
her life and kept this as her feast day.<br />
She professed her First Vows on August 11, 1959, at<br />
the Provincialate in Bellevue, PA, and began her life<br />
of service and dedication to the members of God’s<br />
family wherever she lived and ministered. She chose<br />
to offer her life with her spouse, Jesus, our High Priest,<br />
professing her Perpetual Vows on August 11, 1965, in<br />
Bellevue, PA.<br />
Sister Audrey pursued her professional education<br />
through studies in Education at Saint John’s College in<br />
Cleveland, OH receiving her bachelor’s degree on May<br />
17, 1970. She did her graduate studies at the University<br />
of Pittsburgh, receiving her master’s degree in special<br />
education on August 8, 1972. In particular, her heart<br />
reached out to children with special needs whose lives<br />
she touched with hope and blessings as members of<br />
God’s family.<br />
Sister Audrey was a primary teacher and was also<br />
involved in the special education of students at Holy<br />
Family Institute. She became a principal of Saints Cyril<br />
and Methodius School in McKees Rocks, PA. From<br />
there, she served on the Pittsburgh Sisters’ Council,<br />
became the director of the Mount Nazareth Learning<br />
Center from 1996-2008, and volunteered at Nazareth<br />
Prep from 2018-2021. As in life, so in death, Sister<br />
Audrey reminded us that children show us the way to<br />
the Kingdom.<br />
Sister Audrey entered her final resting place on the feast<br />
of the Ascension on May 9, <strong>2024</strong>, and was welcomed<br />
home on May 13, <strong>2024</strong>, where she was buried at Saint<br />
Joseph Cemetery in Pittsburgh, PA.<br />
Donations in memory of a deceased sister may be mailed to: Development<br />
Office, Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth – USA, Inc., 310 N. River<br />
Road, Des Plaines, IL 60016. Please include a note with the name of the<br />
sister in whose memory you are giving. Donations may also be made<br />
online at nazarethcsfn.org/donate.<br />
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DEVELOPMENT<br />
Thank You from Our<br />
Development Office<br />
A TIME FOR THANKS<br />
Often during the 17 years I have served as development director for the Sisters of the Holy Family of<br />
Nazareth, I have been humbled by the faithful and loving support of our friends and benefactors. Year after<br />
year, you have shown your unfailing generosity. We are so very thankful for each and every one of you!<br />
Because of you, we can support the needs of all our sisters, so they in turn may “further God’s kingdom by<br />
building communities of love and hope among ourselves and among the families of the world.” Thanks to your<br />
kindness, in 2023 we were able to purchase new dual temp valves and replace piping at Mt. Nazareth Convent<br />
in Philadelphia, PA, replace two sewer injector pumps at Holy Family Convent in Des Plaines, IL, and replace<br />
windows at Immaculate Heart of Mary Convent in Monroe, CT. These and many other important projects<br />
could not have been accomplished without you!<br />
You have not only become a part of our history, but a deep part of our lives. You are a gift to us — an<br />
incredible blessing — and we are thankful! Please know our sisters keep you, your loved ones, and your<br />
special intentions in their daily prayers.<br />
With Gratitude,<br />
Katherine Barth<br />
National Director of Development<br />
We Couldn’t Do It Without You!<br />
We in the Development Office don’t have enough words to express how grateful we are for the wonderful<br />
individuals who have served on our committees and all those who have been instrumental to the success of<br />
our fundraising programs! Thank you for the time and talents you have shared with us.<br />
NAZARETH RETREAT CENTER COMMITTEE, SOUTHWEST AREA<br />
Mary Jean Moloney, Tim Moloney, Andy Navarro, Bill Quinn, Polly Weidenkopf, Sister Francesca Witkowska,<br />
CSFN, Sister Mary Paul Haase, CSFN, Sister Mary Louise Swift, CSFN, Sister Monika Brulinska, CSFN, Sister<br />
Marietta Osinska, CSFN, Sister David Sibiski, CSFN, and Katherine Barth.<br />
SPRING FEST COMMITTEE<br />
Mary Chybicki, Gunther Dorth, Margaret Gorder, Michael Hoban, Jacqueline Hyzy, Jackie Pokorny, Mary<br />
Puente, Bob Neil, and Sister Clare Marie Kozicki, CSFN.<br />
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Below are listed our inaugural members<br />
of the Blessed Foundress Giving Society.<br />
NAZARETH CIRCLE<br />
Dr. Marilyn Lisowski<br />
JERUSALEM CIRCLE<br />
Ms. Moneta B. De Castro, MD<br />
Ms. Annette M. Marlinga<br />
Tom and Mary Meehan<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Robert A. Pietrandrea<br />
GALILEE CIRCLE<br />
Brad and Katherine Barth<br />
The Czarkowski Family<br />
Carol and Sharon Danieli<br />
Loretta M. Hennessey<br />
Naval and Diane Kapoor<br />
John and Betsey St. Louis<br />
Announcing the<br />
Blessed Foundress<br />
Giving Society!<br />
In 2023, we instituted the Blessed Foundress Giving Society to<br />
recognize our friends and benefactors who made cumulative<br />
donations totaling $1,000 or greater during a calendar year.<br />
We are all very grateful for their faithful generosity!<br />
2023 PROVI<strong>NC</strong>E FINA<strong>NC</strong>IALS<br />
BETHLEHEM CIRCLE<br />
Kevin and Kathy Bosworth<br />
Ms. Maria Bradley and Mr. Martin A. Pfister<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Douglas A. Clark<br />
Gary and Maureen Conover<br />
Mr. Ulysses J. De St Germain<br />
Ms. Kathleen DeMartino<br />
+ Ms. Mary Ann Modrowski<br />
Charlie and Cathy Hirst<br />
Mr. Norman S. and Catherine J. Landino<br />
Father Jack Lizewski<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Robert F. Lovezzola<br />
Linda McClung and Doug Workman<br />
John Palesano<br />
John and Kathleen Robbins<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Guadalupe Romo<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Prince Singh<br />
David Westerman<br />
Kathy A. Wyszynski<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Stanley V. Zawila<br />
As well as our Anonymous Benefactors<br />
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<strong>2024</strong> Glimpsing Grace<br />
Stay-at-Home Social<br />
Add 7 p.m. EST/6 p.m. CST Wednesday, October 23, to your calendar to virtually join us at our <strong>2024</strong> Stayat-Home<br />
Social: Glimpsing Grace! This event will feature our sisters’ stories about ways they experience<br />
grace and recognize God in their everyday lives.<br />
For more information, contact Heidi Scheuer at hscheuer@nazarethcsfn.org, call (847) 298-6760,<br />
ext. 238, or go to the “News & Events” section of our website, nazarethcsfn.org.<br />
TO MAKE A DONATION TO SUPPORT OUR SISTERS<br />
• Mail: Send donations to the Development Office, 310 N. River Road, Des Plaines, IL 60016.<br />
• Website: www.nazarethcsfn.org — Click “Donate” to use a credit card or checking account.<br />
• Facebook: www.facebook.com/csfn.usa — Click “Donate.”<br />
• Call: (847) 298-6760, ext. 237, our Development Office<br />
• Text-2-Give: Text the word REGISTER to (847) 994-4483. You will then be asked to provide<br />
contact and credit card information.<br />
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310 N River Rd<br />
Des Plaines, IL 60016<br />
www.nazarethcsfn.org<br />
Non-profit<br />
Organization<br />
U.S. Postage<br />
Paid<br />
Des Plaines, IL<br />
Permit No. 340<br />
ORDER OPLATKI FOR<br />
YOUR CHRISTMAS EVE<br />
CELEBRATION<br />
We are once again pleased to offer our friends and family oplatki<br />
for the Christmas season. Oplatki (“oplatek” is the singular form)<br />
are paper-thin wafers of unleavened bread embossed with symbols<br />
from the Christmas story. Our oplatki (2 x 4 inches) are baked by<br />
our sisters in Nowogródek, Belarus. This symbol of unity is made<br />
available to you with the sincere prayer that you will find peace of<br />
mind and heart as you recall the sacred mystery of the Nativity of<br />
our Lord Jesus Christ, born of the Blessed Virgin Mary.<br />
You may order these special wafers by calling our<br />
Development Office at (847) 298-6760, ext. 137, or<br />
visit at nazarethcsfn.org/donate/request-oplatki.<br />
We, the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, are called to extend the Kingdom of God’s love among ourselves and<br />
others by living the spirit of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph whose lives were centered in the love of God and one another.<br />
We witness to this love through dedicated service to the Church, especially in ministry to the family.