The Parish Magazine December 2024
Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning & Sonning Eye since 1869
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Three Christmas questions . . .<br />
What do you do on<br />
Christmas Eve?<br />
Christmas Eve has its own customs,<br />
the most popular of which is going to<br />
Midnight Mass, or the Christ-Mas.<br />
This is the only Mass of the year that<br />
is allowed to start after sunset.<br />
In Catholic countries such as<br />
Spain, Italy and Poland, Midnight<br />
Mass is the most important<br />
church service of the entire<br />
Christmas season, and many people<br />
traditionally fast beforehand.<br />
In other countries, such as<br />
Belgium and Denmark, people dine<br />
during the evening, and then go on<br />
to the Midnight Service.<br />
<strong>The</strong> British are behind some<br />
countries when it comes to<br />
exchanging presents: in Germany,<br />
Sweden and Portugal the custom is<br />
to exchange on Christmas Eve.<br />
But the British are ahead of Serbia<br />
and Slovakia, where the Christmas<br />
tree is not even brought into the<br />
house and decorated until Christmas<br />
Eve.<br />
Yule logs are not so popular since<br />
the decline of the fireplace, but<br />
traditionally it was lit on Christmas<br />
Eve from a bit of the previous year’s<br />
log, and then would be burned<br />
non-stop until Twelfth Night (6th<br />
January).<br />
Tradition also decreed that<br />
any greenery such as holly, ivy or<br />
mistletoe must wait until Christmas<br />
Eve until being brought inside.<br />
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<strong>The</strong> Christmas<br />
challenges . . .<br />
Christmas is a great time of year,<br />
but it’s not without its challenges!<br />
After one family had put up 250,000<br />
Christmas lights outside, they didn’t<br />
dare boil a kettle for fear of blowing<br />
the system!<br />
<strong>The</strong> challenge of over-indulging<br />
Many of us remember the episode of<br />
the Vicar of Dibley, where she had to<br />
consume four Christmas dinners!<br />
Christmas is a time when we<br />
usually eat and drink far too much<br />
with the average person gaining six<br />
pounds in weight.<br />
But Christmas is not simply about<br />
gaining weight, but losing what<br />
weighs us down.<br />
‘Cast all your anxiety on Him,<br />
because He cares for you.’ (1 Peter 5:7).<br />
Whatever your concerns or<br />
worries this Christmas, bring them<br />
to God.<br />
<strong>The</strong> challenge of overspending<br />
In the rush to buy Christmas cards, a<br />
woman bought a pack of 50 identical<br />
cards. Without reading the verse, she<br />
hastily signed and sent them off, but<br />
for one. A few days later she read the<br />
message: ‘This card is just to say a little<br />
gift is on the way.’<br />
Christmas is not about getting<br />
into debt, but God getting us out of<br />
debt.<br />
He spent exactly what was needed<br />
on the first Christmas night: ‘You are<br />
to give him the name Jesus, because<br />
he will save his people from their sins.’<br />
(Matthew 1:21).<br />
<strong>The</strong> challenge is over too quickly<br />
Christmas doesn’t last very long,<br />
yet the effect of the first Christmas<br />
is long-lasting. ‘For God so loved the<br />
world that he gave his one and only Son,<br />
that whoever believes in Him shall not<br />
perish but have eternal life.’ (John 3:16).<br />
Jesus has come to bring us life in<br />
all its fullness, both for now and all<br />
eternity.<br />
How do we face the challenges of<br />
Christmas?<br />
‘Yet what I can I give? I give my heart’.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> — <strong>December</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 17<br />
Do you believe the<br />
Christmas story?<br />
<strong>The</strong> story is told of a farmer who<br />
didn’t believe in Jesus. One cold,<br />
snowy Christmas Eve his wife was<br />
taking the children to a service at<br />
their local church, but he refused to<br />
go with them.<br />
He said: ‘Why would God lower<br />
himself to come to Earth as a man?<br />
That’s ridiculous!’<br />
So, they left him at home!<br />
During the evening the winds grew<br />
stronger, and the snow turned to a<br />
blizzard.<br />
He heard a series of loud thumps<br />
on the window. In the field near his<br />
house he saw a flock of wild geese.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y had been migrating<br />
south when they got caught in the<br />
snowstorm.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y were lost and stranded on<br />
his farm, with no food or shelter.<br />
<strong>The</strong> man wanted to help the geese<br />
and so he opened the doors of the<br />
barn, hoping they would go inside for<br />
shelter.<br />
But the geese didn’t do anything,<br />
despite the man’s efforts to move<br />
them.<br />
He made a bread crumb trail<br />
leading to the barn and tried to shoo<br />
them toward the barn, but they only<br />
got more scared and scattered.<br />
Nothing he did could get them<br />
to go into the barn: ‘Why don’t they<br />
follow me?!’<br />
<strong>The</strong>n he realised: ‘If only I were a<br />
goose and become one of them, then I<br />
could save them.’<br />
Finally he understood the heart of<br />
the Christmas message.<br />
God has become one of us in<br />
Jesus.<br />
<strong>The</strong> eternal creator God has<br />
entered time and space as a baby, to<br />
show us who God is and how we can<br />
know him.<br />
This Christmas, let’s celebrate<br />
again this amazing truth that we<br />
have a God who knows and can meet<br />
our needs in Jesus.<br />
‘<strong>The</strong> virgin will conceive and give<br />
birth to a son, and they will call Him<br />
Immanuel, which means ‘God with us’’.<br />
Matthew 1:23.<br />
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