Wilmington Magazine Jan-Feb 2025
We highlight our top picks for romantic dining, to help you choose for your first date night or your 100th. We also showcase two beautiful coastal homes, with fabulous views all around.
We highlight our top picks for romantic dining, to help you choose for your first date night or your 100th. We also showcase two beautiful coastal homes, with fabulous views all around.
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JANUARY / FEBRUARY 2025
Romantic
Dining
Places With the
Perfect Blend of
Food and Ambiance
Local
Authors
Literary Legends
from UNCW
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HOWARD ART
OYSTER
SEASON
COASTAL
CUSTOM HOMES
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Valentine’s Day
Dining Guide
Wilmington’s most
romantically delicious
dining spots
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Departments » January / February 2025
Buzz
15 Kelsey Howard’s
Vibrant Paintings
16 Calendar
Our five highlights for
January–February
18 Events
What to do this winter
26 Entertainment
TV & Music Reviews
15
28 Staff Picks
Getting to know some of
the literary legends from
UNCW
30 Local Chatter
You don't have to
stop enjoying those
magnificent mollusks
when the season changes
41 81 101
Well Styled Food+Drink Travel
41 Coffee and Community
Understanding
Wilmington's coffee scene
42 Latte Life
How Wilmington’s coffee
shops brew community
and creativity
45 Home
Local experts weigh
in on toxic products
and alternatives for a
healthier home
47 Design
How to create a beautiful
and functional bar cart
81 Chipotle Lime Salmon
Wellness on a plate
82 Dining Review
Sugo Italian Steakhouse
84 Libations
Two local businesses
team up to achieve a
limited-release blended
beverage and, spoiler
alert, it’s a family affair
88 In the Kitchen
Bright dishes to beat the
winter blues
94 Restaurant Guide
Select spots for eating
and drinking in
Wilmington
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Discover the charm of
this Napa Valley gem,
from its historic hot
springs and revitalized
train depot to its
welcoming smalltown
vibe
Fundamentals
12 Reader Services
14 Editor's Letter
104 The Last Reflection
34 ArtSeen
Leaving nursing
behind, this artist
finds inspiration in
imperfection, nature, and
human connection
38 Southern Drawl
David Gessner shares his
gift for environmental
storytelling with the
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Romantic Dining | Local Authors | Oyster Season WilmingtonNCmagazine.com
Romantic
Dining
Places With the
Perfect Blend of
Food and Ambiance
Local
Authors
Literary Legends
from UNCW
KELSEY
HOWARD ART
OYSTER
SEASON
COASTAL
CUSTOM HOMES
ON THE COVER »
Executive Chef Thomas Calhoun at
Sugo Italian Steakhouse
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JANUARY / FEBRUARY 2025
Romantic
Dining
Places With the
Perfect Blend of
Food and Ambiance
Local
Authors
Literary Legends
from UNCW
KELSEY
HOWARD ART
OYSTER
SEASON
COASTAL
CUSTOM HOMES
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EVER SINCE I WAS
A little girl, I dreamt
of the day I’d have
a romantic life. I
remember going out to
the movies on weekend evenings with
family in the charmingly upscale
yet quaint outskirts of the Bay Area
in California. I can perfectly recall
scenes of young adults laughing with
glasses of wine in their hands, sitting
at tables outside restaurants draped
with string lights that hung from
their rooftops to the big oak trees that
surrounded them. It was a vibe, and
I always noticed it when I saw it. But
we walked past it, and I’d daydream
about when I’d be old enough to go out
with friends or on dates in places with
that je ne sais quoi ambiance.
Anyone who knows me well knows
I take ambiance seriously as an adult. Recreating that feeling created with beautiful
surroundings, just the right acoustics, warm and flattering lighting, good food, good
wine, and good company is my happy place. But between work, a young child, and a
busy spouse, date nights are rarer than I’d like in this phase of life, sometimes made
up by outings with close friends (thank you!).
All the more reason why I pay such close attention to the details of restaurants and
bars I get to experience. To a fault. Bad seats (even in the fanciest of restaurants),
unfriendly staff, or a bad view can ruin my night. I’m not proud of it. But how can
anyone enjoy a $200 meal while sandwiched within one foot of other diners and rotating
kitchen doors? The intimacy, the point, is lost. Details matter, from the interior design
elements to the attitudes of the staff that create the overall comfort of being out.
While I still have many more places to explore in Wilmington, my most “romantic”
picks for this issue were chosen based on personal experience (and sometimes second
tries). From fancier restaurants to more adventurous and unique experiences, these
spots fulfill my childhood dreams of what adult free time should look like: good
conversation heightened by dreamy surroundings. Never let go of romanticizing your
evenings.
Happy dining,
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JANUARY – FEBRUARY
Our five highlights from this issue’s calendar of events.
February 1
Coffee Crawl in Brooklyn
Arts District
Brooklyn Cafe & Market
Savor the flavors of coffee during this
afternoon celebration in the Brooklyn
Arts District. Sample creative coffeeinspired
treats, cocktails, and mocktails
across various venues. This caffeinefueled
event is a must for coffee lovers!
February 6
45th Annual NC
Jazz Festival
Hotel Ballast,
Tapestry Collection by Hilton
Enjoy one of the Southeast’s largest
traditional jazz festivals, running
February 6–8. The event features
nightly four-and-a-half-hour concerts
with rotating musician sets, each led by
different leaders. Performers from around
the globe will create an unforgettable
musical experience. Tickets range from
$65 to $240, with various pass options
available. Be sure to plan ahead, as this
event is expected to sell out.
February 8
Special Olympics
Polar Plunge & Run
Ocean Front Park & Pavilion
Embrace the chill for a great
cause at the Polar Plunge &
Run. Participate in a 5K Run-N-
Plunge, a one-mile fun walk, or a
brave dive into the Atlantic. The
event also features a costume
contest, music, games, vendors,
and food trucks. Registration
starts at 11am, with activities running throughout the day. Spectators enjoy free
admission, while participants should register online.
February 14
Wilmington Antique &
Vintage Market
BPO Elks Lodge
From February 14–16, explore one of
North Carolina’s oldest antique shows,
featuring over 25 dealers offering
fine furniture, jewelry, linens, silver,
glassware, and more. Admission is $10
and covers all three days. The event also
includes a silent auction with unique
collectibles. Check social media for the
latest details and enjoy a treasure-filled
Valentine’s weekend.
February 22
15th Annual Novant Health
Wilmington NC Marathon
Wrightsville Beach (Start)
to Riverfront Park (Finish)
Experience the thrill of marathon running
from Pier to Port! This 15th Annual event
draws participants nationwide and serves
as both a Boston Marathon and USATF
certified qualifier. The full marathon
starts Saturday morning at Johnnie
Mercers Pier in Wrightsville Beach and
finishes in historic downtown Wilmington
at Riverfront Park. Stay updated via
social media and plan to join the run or
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Surprise your sweetheart with a romantic private carriage
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experience includes a red rose, chocolates, and a French evening
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preferred time for this unforgettable Valentine’s treat.
Event Calendar
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MUSIC + SHOWS
Cameron Arts Museum (CAM)
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Floating Lantern Ceremony
January 5
Jazz@CAM: Kevin Beardsely Trio
January 9
Tift Merritt in Concert
January 16
Kids at CAM
January 19
CAM after dark
January 23
Rising Stars opening
February 1
Elisabeth Chant opening night
February 6
Contemporary Dance in Four Walls
February 8
Thalian Hall
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Cabaret
January 2-12
Mike Wiley Productions’ Breach
of Peace
January 16
The Adventures of Bonnie Reed,
Queen of the Pirate Ants
January 25
Lived in Bodies: Art by
Virginia Wright-Frierson
January 26
NY Gilbert & Sullivan Players
January 31
A Few Good Men
February 7-16
Ian Sherwood
February 13
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January 17-18
The Magic of Music
January 26
Ginuwine & Montell Jordan
February 7
Saint-Saëns Concerto No. 1
February 8
Riverdance 30
February 15-16
Aluminum Show
February 19
Chris Janson
February 20
Chris Botti
February 22
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February 26
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January 18
Donna the Buffalo
January 25
Chamber Music Wilmington presents
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January 26
Hot Tuna
January 31
Port City Ballet Theater presents
A Midwinter’s Dream
February 2
Garrison Keillor Tonight!
February 8
Romeo and Juliet
February 13
Caterina Jarboro Memorial Recital
February 14
Wilmington Symphonic Winds
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February 28
EVENTS
January 1
10th Annual
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Oceanic
Restaurant -
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Celebrate the New Year with a refreshing
plunge into the Atlantic Ocean at
Wrightsville Beach, Accesses #36 and
#37. Cheer on participants from the sandy
shore or Crystal Pier. After the plunge,
join the fun with a $10 registration for
the after-party. Start your year with
excitement and adventure!
January 1
First Day Hike
Carolina Beach State Park
Kick off the New Year with a two-mile
hike along the scenic Sugarloaf Trail.
Meet at the marina for this ranger-led
adventure to Sugarloaf Dune. Bring
water, sunscreen, and sturdy shoes for
this family-friendly trek through nature's
beauty.
January 4
Wilmington
Farmers
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producer-only market every Saturday
featuring fresh local produce, meats,
seafood, handmade gifts, and more.
Located midway between Historic
Downtown and Wrightsville Beach, this
vibrant market includes chef demos, live
music, and a community-driven shopping
experience.
January 18
Anniversary of
the Battle of Fort
Fisher
Fort Fisher State
Historic Site
Commemorate
the 160th Anniversary of the Second
Battle of Fort Fisher with living history
demonstrations, musket and cannon
firings, reenactments, and a tour of
restored earthworks. This family-friendly
event offers a vivid glimpse into a pivotal
Civil War moment.
January 24
Fourth Friday
Gallery Nights
Wilmington
Immerse yourself
in Wilmington’s
art scene during this monthly event.
Stroll through galleries showcasing a
variety of artistic genres, meet featured
artists, and enjoy a self-guided tour. Maps
are available at participating locations,
making it a perfect cultural outing.
January 30
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DENISE K. JAMES ON NEW FILMS AND MUSIC
The Cure
Songs of a Lost World
Proving the band’s timelessness, The Cure
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Fans of this melodic, melancholy group
will find new songs to love such as “Alone”
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One of the main differences between artistic cinema and movies made for entertainment
lies in whether an audience is directly addressed. As the film Blitz opens, a young single
mother and her son are lost in their own world of playing together and bonding—and we,
the viewers, are not there at all; nothing is done for our benefit.
Besides showing us how people behave outside of being watched, realistic films also
remind us how tough life is, and how tough it has been for decades, even centuries.
Written and directed by Steve McQueen, Blitz depicts the era of World War II when
Nazi Germans bombed the United Kingdom. It's a historical war piece, showing how
one small family – mother Rita, played by Saoirse Ronan; 9-year-old son, George, played
by Elliott Heffernan; and grandfather, Gerald, played by Paul Weller – is affected by the
horrors of war.
Some online reviewers, unsurprisingly, referred to this film as old-fashioned or
understated – but that’s what kept me engaged. Too often, I find today’s content has gotten
too shocking or flashy in an effort to keep up with competition, and the quiet perseverance
shown by film newcomer Heffernan was not only amazing, but it was also refreshing.
That said, perhaps the complexity of Blitz is in emotion more so than in action. When
George is placed on the train by Rita to escape the dangers of London, we see the layered
feelings of both mother and son as they part. We later experience all of George’s emotions
as he faces challenge after harrowing challenge, including the deceit of seemingly decent
adults and the rejection of his own peers. The truth about war and life from a child’s
perspective is done well here, and, despite George’s hardships, he is a hero, persevering
bravely for the sake of himself.
I won’t spoil the ending, except to say you will hold your breath multiple times wondering
if George will ever be safe again or reunited with those he loves most – and hoping that
he will. At its core, Blitz is a film driven by hope – as we hope for a child to find his way,
we also hope for ourselves.
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staff picks
Wilmington Authors
You Should Know
Getting to know some of the literary legends from UNCW
Last year, each issue featured top picks from the owners of beloved local bookshops around
town. Now that we’ve acquainted you with a handful of unique and charming locations to
visit, we thought we’d extend our readers’ journey by introducing some of Cape Fear’s great
writers (also on p.38). Hint: these all have UNCW in common.
Cape Fear Rising by Philip Gerard
Although Gerard passed away in 2022, his
legacy is ever-present at UNCW’s Creative
Writing Department. In 2019, he received
the North Carolina Award for Literature, the
state’s highest civilian honor, and wrote over
a dozen books, including Cape Fear Rising.
Based on real events, the story portrays a
tragedy emblematic of the South at the turn
of the century. In 1898, Wilmington was
a thriving center for middle-class Black
citizens, with a majority population of Black
professionals, tradesmen, and workers. However, white civic
leaders, tied to the antebellum aristocracy, resented their success
and the Republican "Fusionist" government that supported the
Black majority. Tensions grew as white supremacist groups
formed, violence simmered, and inflammatory speeches stoked
divisions. In November, these tensions exploded into gunfire,
leading to a violent coup that overthrew the government,
left citizens dead or displaced, and permanently altered
Wilmington’s future.
American Cosmic by D.W. Pasulka
D. W. Pasulka is a professor of religious studies
at UNCW, known for her internationally
acclaimed work in religion and new religious
movements (UAPs/UFOs) like American
Cosmic. More than half of American adults
and 75% of young Americans believe in
intelligent extraterrestrial life, a belief now
rivaling faith in God. Through a six-year
ethnographic study, Pasulka interviewed
prominent scientists, professionals, and
Silicon Valley entrepreneurs who believe in
alien intelligence, challenging the stereotype that UFO believers
are on society's fringes. She argues that factors like media
representations, such as The X-Files, and scientific discoveries
of potentially habitable planets fuel this belief. These media
influences shape memory and lend credibility to the idea of
extraterrestrial life, positioning the media as a new cultural
authority. The book explores how people interpret mysterious
experiences and suggests that the search for answers about
non-human intelligence reflects a broader shift in spiritual and
cultural paradigms.
Phone Calls from the Dead
by Wendy Brenner
Wendy Brenner is an award-winning
American writer of fiction and nonfiction
and a former Associate Professor at UNCW.
The author of two books, Brenner has also
published her work in numerous prominent
magazines and anthologies, earning
national recognition. (Do yourself a favor
and read about the story behind the fall
of downtown’s serpentarium in the Oxford
American: “Love and Death in the Cape Fear Serpentarium”).
Phone Calls from the Dead explores the intriguing phenomenon
of phone calls from people in alternate realities, covering three
scenarios: calls from the deceased, calls answered by alternatereality
versions of the living, and calls psychically made
without conscious intent. The subject, often avoided by others,
highlights the potential for communication across different
planes of existence. The author calls for deeper research to better
understand and expand these channels of connection.
The Christie Affair
by Nina de Gramont
Nina is the author of a collection of short
stories and novels and teaches creative
writing at UNCW. The Christie Affair—
an international and New York Times
best seller and a Reese Witherspoon Book
Club pick—tells the story of Nan O'Dea,
the mistress of Agatha Christie's husband,
set against the backdrop of Christie’s
infamous 11-day disappearance. Through
Nan's perspective, the novel delves into her
past as a young woman in Ireland who fell in love with a boy
she could never be with. Blending themes of love, revenge, and
the inescapable pull of the past, The Christie Affair imagines a
gripping narrative of what might have transpired during those
mysterious days. W
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Oysters All Year Long
You don't have to stop enjoying those magnificent mollusks when the season changes
By JUDY ROYAL
NORTH CAROLINA'S WILD
oyster season comes to an end
in March, but the good news
is you don't have to take a
break from enjoying the briny bivalves
when spring starts. Despite the commonly
repeated rule that oysters should only be
consumed during months that contain an
“r,” farmed local oysters may be harvested,
served, and eaten year-round. And the
reason for avoiding wild oysters during the
warmer months is not what many believe.
“The refrigeration process allows us
to eat oysters in summer months,” says
Bonnie Mitchell, Coastal Education
Coordinator for North Carolina Coastal
Federation. “Many years ago when there
was no refrigeration, it was dangerous to
eat wild oysters in summer months. Now
it's not about safety as much as it is a taste
issue. It's about what we're used to, and
wild oysters harvested in summer months
are not going to look like our typical oyster.
You could still eat those, but they are
not the oysters that we know them to be.
That's because local wild oysters reproduce
when the water is warm, and during this
spawning stage their meat quality and
yield are poor, resulting in a liquidy, gooey,
and not-so-firm texture,” Mitchell says.
However, farmed oysters are made to be
non-reproductive, allowing enjoyment all
year long, she adds.
“Farming oysters involves putting very
tiny oysters into floating cages within
estuaries where wild oysters occur and
growing them,” Mitchell says. “In two to
three years, they are ready to be harvested.
There's not a huge difference in taste
because farmed oysters are grown in the
same place wild oysters are grown.”
In fact, some oyster enthusiasts will
argue that farmed oysters have more
texture because when the cages get
shuffled around, this shapes the shells and
the meat inside, creating a juicier, fatter
yield, she says.
“In the wild, they grow to be tall and
slender, sometimes lacking the robustness
that farmed oysters have,” Mitchell adds.
In truth, most people's eyes – not their
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palates – will identify whether the oysters
on their tables are wild or farmed, she says.
“If they are clumped together and long
and narrow, like what you find at an oyster
roast, typically those can be identified
as wild,” Mitchell says. “If you're eating
individual two-shelled oysters, then those
are most likely farmed, although you can
see individuals in the wild.”
While there are a lot of negatives
associated with farm-raised fish, these
concerns are not applicable to oyster farms,
she explains.
“That's been one of the hardest things
to overcome,” Mitchell says. “With farmed
oysters here in North Carolina, it's the
most regulated seafood industry that we
have. The oyster farms are so regulated,
so you can feel really good about the
oysters you're eating. It's one of the most
sustainable seafood industries that we
have. It takes the demand off wild oysters
and helps restore habitat while helping
to clean the water. There's so much good
that's happening with farmed oysters.”
Due to moratoriums that prevent oyster
farms from operating in certain locations,
many operations have popped up in our
region over the past few years, especially
in the Stump Sound area around Sneads
Ferry and Topsail Island, and a few in
Masonboro Sound., she says.
“In the past decade, what we've seen are a
lot of commercial or recreational fishermen
switching over to oyster farming because
of issues within the farming community,”
Mitchell says. “Becoming an oyster farmer
is a more appealing way to be out on the
water and make a living. I think we're
definitely seeing more people turning to
oyster farming, especially when they're
already in that fishing industry.”
Whether farmed or wild, the NC Oyster
Trail (www.ncoystertrail.org) is the best
resource for finding ways to enjoy local
oysters from the coast of our state, which
is often referred to as “the Napa Valley
of oysters,” she says. The North Carolina
Coastal Federation and North Carolina
Sea Grant, in partnership with the North
Carolina Shellfish Growers Association,
administer the NC Oyster Trail, which
launched in 2020. Its mission is to provide
experiences that help sustain and grow
North Carolina oysters, resulting in
economic, environmental, and social
benefits to the state's seafood industry
and coastal communities. The trail map
includes events, seafood markets, and
shellfish farm tours as well as restaurants
that showcase the best of what our state's
waters have to offer.
Wilmington-area restaurants featured
on the trail map include:
● Catch, 6623 Market St., Wilmington
● Flying Machine Oyster Bar, 530
Causeway Drive, Wrightsville Beach
● Rx Chicken & Oysters, 421 Castle
St., Wilmington
● Seabird, 1 S. Front St., Wilmington
● Tidewater Oyster Bar, 8211 Market
St., Wilmington
“The NC Oyster Trail offers a taste of
the coast so you can try all different kinds
of oysters,” Mitchell says. “See what you
like and go from there. With oysters, there
are always safety concerns, but because it's
so regulated in North Carolina, you can
feel better about the risks. If people want to
enjoy oysters all year long, nothing needs
to be stopping them.” W
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Local artist Kelsey Howard
creates vibrant, colorful
paintings and, just
recently, scarves
The Vibrant World
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Leaving nursing behind, this artist finds inspiration in
imperfection, nature, and human connection
By MADISON BAILEY
BEFORE BECOMING A
full-time artist, Kelsey Howard
channeled her nursing salary
into art supplies, transforming
daily painting into a therapeutic ritual.
Eventually, she took the leap, leaving
nursing to focus entirely on art — a
decision she described as “very freeing
and very exciting.” Now, Howard’s work
conveys a sense of healing, offering both
a therapeutic release for herself and a
connection to the viewer's own experiences.
Whether through abstract depictions or
portrait work, her art is truly authentic.
Many spend a lifetime searching for the
thing that sets their soul on fire. For this
artist, creativity has always simmered
beneath the surface of a seemingly
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traditional path. Born and raised in
Wilmington, Howard initially charted a
course in the medical field, graduating
from Elon University with a dual focus in
Art and Biology before pursuing a nursing
career. Yet beneath her scrubs, an artistic
spirit called, leading her to realize that her
truest form of healing might come from a
paintbrush rather than a stethoscope.
Despite coming from a lineage of medical
professionals, Howard's creative impulses
gradually revealed a different calling. “I
was pulled so much in the direction of art,”
she explains. “I felt like it's really where I
got to blossom and grow as a person and
as a student in college. Science was always
something I found interesting, but I never
quite got it the way I felt like I got art.”
Today, Howard's art style can be
described as expressive, vibrant, and
deeply rooted in emotion. Working
primarily with heavy body acrylic paints,
oil pastels, and watercolors, her signature
style involves bold, energetic colors.
“I love using color. I want to bring energy
to the viewer and hope they can connect
with the work in a way that excites them
or lifts them up,” she explains.
Still influenced by her background in
biology, there's a subtle scientific precision
to her compositions, with an emphasis
on natural patterns and the human
form. However, her art is also personal:
“I've always been inspired by the world
around me, nature, people, and human
connection,” she says. “I want my work to
reflect the beauty and complexity of the
human experience.” In fact, her love of the
human form traces back to her childhood
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art seen
Howard’s art featured on
book covers in Europe
Howard’s first art cover
in the U.S. (available at
Barnes and Noble)
fascination with anatomy, where she
would spend hours copying images from
art books. And perhaps that's why her
signature pieces, including her latest
collection of portrait paintings, portray
women with strong eyes — each gaze an
invitation to connect, to feel, and to engage.
Nature also plays a role in her creative
process, with gardens serving not just
as visual inspiration, but as sanctuaries
of creative renewal. Local spots like the
New Hanover Arboretum and the Airlie
Gardens are amongst her favorite spaces.
“Finding somewhere peaceful and quiet
is so important to creativity,” Howard
reflects. “Sometimes you have to quiet
your mind.”
Her recent works, “One Blue, One
Green,” and “The Three Magnolias”
showcase her fascination with nature
and faces. As she explains, “They’re just
so unique and interesting. I love creating
faces that are imperfect and sort of wild
looking.” The latter painting, however,
stems directly from her southern roots.
“Growing up in Wilmington, I developed
a love for this beautiful flower,” Howard
recalls. “I spent summers climbing
magnolia trees, and their scent always
feels like summer. I took over 1,000 photos
of local magnolias and began figuring
out how to insert my love of color into
the subject.”
This intentional approach to artmaking
wasn't born overnight, but from a place
of exploration and creative intuition.
Because, according to Howard, “The most
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exciting moments happen when you listen
to your intuition.” She continues, “In
those early days, I was simply creating
what brought me joy. My approach was to
create without self-judgement, to explore
and trust my instincts.”
As 2025 approaches, Howard's
artistic journey continues to evolve with
remarkable milestones and moments
of reflection. Her vibrant pieces have
adorned book covers, been
celebrated through fashion in honor of
International Women’s Day, and earned
her a spotlight on prominent podcasts.
Looking ahead, Howard has carefully
crafted both creative and personal
goals. She plans to explore new artistic
directions, including a potential collection
of monochrome portraits inspired by a
recent commission that spoke to her.
Equally important is maintaining a
balanced approach to her art career,
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in the past. Next year, she’s heading
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residency abroad — a chance to immerse
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“Art will always be a part of my life,“ she
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more structured and take care of myself.” W
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UNCW Professor David Gessner with students
From Bestselling Books
to Lessons in
Environmental Writing
David Gessner shares his gift for environmental storytelling with the Cape Fear region
By VERA WILSON
MEET DAVID GESSNER.
Born in Massachusetts but
now calls Wilmington home
base, Gessner is the author
of 14 books, four of which have landed on
the New York Times Best Sellers list.
Gessner is a writer of memoir-style
nonfiction, but I hesitate to pigeonhole him
as he can also easily be described as an
investigative journalist, environmentalist,
historian, even humorist. He gravitates
to sharing stories about the outdoors, and
by immersing himself in the environs he’s
writing about, he’s able to offer readers his
up-close and personal ruminations about the
natural world and the animals and humans
that occupy it, and how their beauty and
purpose are increasingly being threatened.
Gessner didn’t always plan to write
nonfiction. After graduating from Harvard
and the University of Colorado, he, like so
many creative writing graduates before him,
set out to write the great American novel.
“I was working on these novels, and not
really getting anywhere,” Gessner says.
“But what was happening was, I was
trying to write fiction, and on the side, I
was keeping journals. And I was living in
these beautiful places, first in Cape Cod
in the off season and then in Colorado.
So more and more my writing, even my
fiction, started to be about nature.”
His journeys can be deeply personal, as
in his first book, A Wild, Rank Place: One
Year in Cape Cod, that details the time he
spent caring for his terminally ill father
in their family cottage. Under The Devil’s
Thumb journals his importunate pushback
against his own cancer.
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Gessner won the Association
for Study of Literature and the
Environment’s award for best book
of creative writing, the Reed Award
for Best Book on the Southern
Environment, and hosted the
National Geographic Explorer show,
The Call of the Wild (2017).
“I guess in a way both of those cancers
shaped my writing,” Gessner says. “I
was going to say my father more, simply
because my first book was really about
nature and about Cape Cod, it was really
also about his death. … What really ended
up happening is his voice was ending, he
was dying, and mine was kind of growing.”
“My own recovery occurred in the
[Colorado] mountains,” he continues,
“and I'll always associate Boulder…
with that return to health. The books
are dark in a way, but they're also these
celebrations that come from my recovery
and getting healthy.”
Every writer has a motus operandi.
Gessner tends to write in the stillness of
the morning.
“I’m a fanatic, early morning,” he
says. “Yeah, get up at four. I'm writing
by five. And, you know, I'm done by 10 in
the morning.”
That dovetails nicely with his job as a
UNCW professor in the creative writing
department by allowing him to devote
time and energy to his students. He’s also
founder of the school’s literary journal,
Ecotone, and this fall, he was awarded
the Thomas S. Kenan III Distinguished
Professorship of Writing. Later next
year, he plans to introduce a number
of Environmental Writing workshops
and electives.
But making the move to Wilmington
wasn’t in Gessner’s life plan. In what
he refers to as his breakthrough book,
Return of the Osprey: A Season of Flight
and Wonder, he emphatically stated that
he will never leave Cape Cod.
“I've got a kind of running joke with
that, in that, you know, the book kind of
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ends on this Wendell Berry-esque note
where I say, ‘I will stay on Cape Cod
forever.’ And that, indirectly, is how I got
my job at UNCW when a professor there
read the book and asked me to apply for a
job,” says Gessner.
His more recent books seem to have
taken on a greater urgency about the state
of the planet as climate change and other
man-made disasters continue to make
their indelible mark. His sometimes-grim
account of his travels to climate hotspots
isn’t so much a call to action as it is about
creating awareness.
As he explains on his website, “One of
the challenges of writing about climate
change for me is you're expected to do it as
kind of a fact-filled book report or warning
of doom.… I think what we need to do is
kind of shake out writing about climate.
You don't read a novel because at the end
there are takeaways and a things-to-do
list, or you're supposed to save the world.
You read it because it permeates your
awareness. That’s what I want to do.”
His newest work, The Book of Flaco:
The World’s Most Famous Bird, chronicles
Flaco, a Eurasian owl who was illegally
freed from his enclosure at the Central
Park Zoo. Averting capture, he was left
to his own devices in the urban wild and
became an international sensation.
The book garnered the attention of
People Magazine which published a shoutout
about the book this past summer. The
book’s release date is set for February 11,
2025, the anniversary of Flaco’s death.
For more information on Gessner
or to order one of his books, please
visit davidgessner.net. W
Gessner founded UNCW’s literary
journal, Ecotone, and will introduce
workshops in Environmental Writing
within the university’s Creative
Writing MFA program next fall.
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latte life
From Central Perk
to Coastal Perks
How Wilmington’s coffee shops brew community and creativity
By JEN REED
IN THE 1990S, THE ICONIC SITCOM FRIENDS GAVE AUDIENCES AN INDELIBLE
image of the coffee shop as a social hub. Central Perk wasn’t just a place to grab a latte—it was the
backdrop for camaraderie, life updates, and even romance. That depiction changed the cultural
vibe of coffee shops, transforming them from transactional pit stops into vital community spaces.
Fast forward to today, and Wilmington, NC, is witnessing a remarkable evolution in its coffee shop
culture, one that reflects a vibrant and dynamic shift in what these spaces offer.
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The coffee scene in Wilmington has grown
beyond the traditional model of brewing
beans and serving pastries. Now, coffee
shops have become destinations—places
to gather, relax, work, and experience local
culture. Across the city, establishments
like The Ibis, Brooklyn Café, Drift, Social,
Blue Cup Roastery, and Casa Blanca
exemplify this shift. And this handful of
eclectic shops merely scratches the surface
of what can be found – and experienced –
right here in the Port City. Each offers a
unique twist, turning a simple cup of coffee
into something memorable.
Art and Ambiance
Wilmington’s coffee shops have embraced
the arts, often doubling as galleries for
local artists and hosting live music.
Social Coffee and Supply Co., for instance,
regularly features acoustic performances
and open mic nights, turning a caffeine
fix into a cultural outing. These events
aren’t just about drawing crowds; they
build community. Similarly, Blue Cup
Roastery offers rotating art exhibits,
giving emerging local artists a platform
to share their work while patrons sip on
meticulously brewed pour-overs.
The artistry isn’t limited to walls or
stages. Wilmington’s baristas are bringing
creativity to the cup, mastering the craft
of latte art. At Blue Cup Roastery for
instance, baristas often showcase intricate
designs—from hearts and rosettes to
elaborate swans and beyond. For barista
Matthew Creech, whose background in
graphic design helped him transform his
coffee canvases into works of art, it has
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The burgeoning coffee culture has even inspired a dedicated
event: the Wilmington Coffee Fest. Held annually, the festival
brings together coffee enthusiasts, local roasters, and baristas
for a celebration of all things coffee. Attendees can sample unique
brews, watch live latte art demonstrations, and participate in
workshops on everything from coffee tasting to home brewing
techniques. Creech is the reigning champion of the 2024 latte
throwdown art competition.
According to organizer Amy Heggen, Coffee Fest is an event for
the community run by the people of the community and provides
a chance to get together, share stories, and learn more about the
thing they love – coffee. But the festival represents more than the
delicious beverage served hot or iced – a decade ago, Wilmington
didn’t have the kind of variety and innovation we see now. Today,
it’s not just about coffee; it has become about community, creativity,
and experience. That sense of camaraderie has extended to the
Brooklyn Arts District on North Fourth, where, on Saturday,
February 1 from 12-5 p.m., the annual Coffee Crawl will take
to the streets. The diverse network of shops and restaurants will
be offering everything from coffee, latte, espresso martinis, and
everything in between.
Beyond Coffee: Full Bars and Nightlife
The modern coffee shop in Wilmington often moonlights as a bar.
The Ibis, for example, offers craft cocktails alongside its espresso
menu, catering to customers from morning to evening. The
shop is located in Wilmington’s Soda Pop District and couples
its libations with regular entertainment and an ever-changing
themed menu for maximum enjoyment. These hybrid spaces have
turned coffee shops into versatile venues, perfect for everything
from casual brunches to late-night meetups.
This blend of offerings has made coffee shops more of a
destination than a necessity. Customers no longer stop by simply
to grab a quick cup on their way to work; they linger, socialize,
and explore what each venue has to offer.
From Necessity to Destination
What’s driving this transformation? Part of it is Wilmington’s
growing population and the influx of younger residents seeking
unique and engaging spaces. Another factor is the broader
cultural shift toward valuing local businesses and the stories
behind them. Each coffee shop in Wilmington has a distinct
personality, often shaped by its owners’ passions and the
community it serves.
A Thriving Future
As Wilmington’s coffee culture continues to evolve, it’s clear
that these spaces are more than just places to grab a cup of joe.
They’re hubs of creativity, connection, and community. From the
artistry of latte designs to the lively events and diverse offerings,
Wilmington’s coffee shops are redefining what it means to share
a cup of coffee. The next time you walk into a local spot, don’t just
order your drink—take a moment to soak in the atmosphere and
appreciate the artistry, both in the cup and beyond. W
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home
The Toxic Truth
Local experts weigh in on toxic products and
alternatives for a healthier home
By JEN REED
PHOTO PEXELS ELLIE BURGIN
THEY’RE IN OUR HOMES,
they promise to make our
lives easier - the products
we use every day—cleaners,
air fresheners, and even
cookware—may seem harmless. Yet,
beneath their polished marketing and
reassuring labels lie hidden dangers, with
long-term implications for both human
and animal health.
Recent insights from Wilmington-area
experts Amanda Wilcox, founder of The
Uncensored Nurse, Emily Donovan, cofounder
of Clean Cape Fear, and Jayna
Crittenden, founder of Squeak all-natural
cleaning products, reveal the toxic truths
about household items and provide a
roadmap for safer living.
Hidden Dangers in Your Home
Amanda Wilcox, a nurse turned advocate
for holistic living, began her journey when
she realized the impact of toxic products
on health. A pivotal moment came when
she read a study showing that using
national brand cleaners just once a week
could damage lung capacity as much as
smoking a pack of cigarettes daily.
“I knew we had to pay more attention
to what we were bringing into our home,”
Wilcox shares.
According to the study, published in
the American Journal of Respiratory and
Critical Care Medicine and investigating
women who regularly used cleaning sprays
or other products experienced a decline in
lung function comparable to smoking 20
cigarettes a day for 10 to 20 years.
Wilcox concurs, identifying phthalates,
parabens, formaldehyde, ammonia,
quaternary disinfectants, and chlorine as
some of the most concerning ingredients
in household products. These chemicals,
common in cleaners, air fresheners,
and personal care items, are linked to
respiratory problems, hormone disruption,
and skin irritation.
For Emily Donovan, her focus lies in the
environmental and health risks posed by
PFAS—“forever chemicals” found in nonstick
cookware, stain-resistant fabrics,
and even food packaging.
“PFAS do not degrade naturally and
are linked to serious health concerns,”
Donovan explains. These include cancers,
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fertility issues. Alarmingly, the Cape Fear
region in North Carolina, where Donovan
lives, has residents with blood PFAS
levels two to three times higher than the
national average due to decades of water
contamination.
First Steps
For those looking to reduce their exposure
to harmful substances, Wilcox suggests
starting with cleaning products. “It’s the
easiest thing to swap out and will make
the biggest difference in your health,” she
advises. Air care products like candles
and plug-ins should also be scrutinized, as
many contain synthetic fragrances loaded
with harmful chemicals.
Jayna Crittenden could not agree more.
“We are breathing in so many chemicals
in our homes that we can’t do anything
about – chemicals in paints, flooring,
insulation – we don’t need to add to that,”
she says. Her company was born through
her adoption of creating cleaning products
using simple ingredients of water and
essential oils, most notably lemon. She
said she found her products cleaned just as
well as commercial products but without
the hidden dangers.
Donovan emphasizes the importance of
knowing your water quality. “Research
if your tap water contains PFAS,” she
says. Installing water filters specifically
designed to remove PFAS and avoiding
fast-food packaging are practical steps
families can take to minimize exposure.
What to Look For
Safer alternatives do exist, but
navigating labels can be tricky. Wilcox
and Crittenden caution against relying
solely on “clean product” websites, which
may lack transparency. Instead, avoid
specific chemicals and supporting brands
with clear ingredient policies. Donovan,
meanwhile, highlights organizations like
Green Science Policy Institute and Toxic
Free Future, which provide consumer
guides to avoid PFAS-containing products.
Homemade products, such as vinegarbased
cleaners or baking soda scrubs,
are also an option. While they may not
last as long as commercial products, their
simplicity and lack of harmful chemicals
can offer peace of mind. However, both
Wilcox and Crittenden acknowledge the
challenge of making the switch, noting it
felt daunting at first, but the benefits to
health have been undeniable.
All three experts agree that taking
small, informed steps is key. Start by
evaluating the products you use most
frequently and replacing them with safer
options. Seek out credible resources and
connect with communities that share your
goals. “Having someone to take you on
this journey is super helpful,” Wilcox says.
“You’re going to feel alone, but you’re not.”
For those in areas like Cape Fear with
known environmental risks, advocacy
is critical. “We need laws that will end
all PFAS exposures and make polluters
pay for cleanup,” Donovan emphasizes.
Joining local activism groups can amplify
efforts to hold industries accountable.
The journey to a healthier, toxin-free
home may seem overwhelming, but every
step makes a difference. As Wilcox,
Crittenden, and Donovan have shown,
knowledge is power—and so is community.
By making informed choices and pushing
for systemic change, we can protect not
only ourselves but also the environment
and future generations.
In the end, it’s not just about the
products we use, but the legacy we leave
behind. As Donovan puts it, “If you truly
love something, you fight for it. We are
worth the fight.” W
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design
At-Home Bartender
How to create a beautiful and functional bar cart
By EMILY SHIFFER
PHOTO LOUIS HANSEL
ALTHOUGH THE HOLIDAY
season and parties have come
and gone, there are still plenty
of celebrations to come in the
new year. Whether you love a traditional
nightcap or are participating in Dry
January, a stocked bar cart is a fun way
to display beverages of all types along
with unique glassware that normally gets
tucked away.
“Bar Carts have always been popular,”
says Kellie Sirna, interior designer and
founder of Studio 11 Design. “Many bar
carts are on wheels which makes it easy to
use and pull out when entertaining, and
when you are done, you can tuck it back
into the corner.”
Not only are bar carts practical yearround
for imbibing but they can also serve
as a conversation piece.
“The bar cart is where you can select
a standalone and stand-out piece,” says
Sirna. They are fun and functional and
can be a focal point in the room.”
Ready to invite your friends over and
whip up your favorite cocktail so you can
show off your new bar cart? Below are a
few things to consider when searching for
the perfect bar cart for your space.
Appealing Aesthetic
Bar carts come in a plethora of designs–
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style and complements existing pieces in
the room.
“I have found the most incredible bar
carts in my favorite vintage stores in
brass and acrylic,” says Sirna. “I have
also seen stunning bar carts in matte
black, chrome, and wood. The legs or sides
could have an interesting detail, like overscaled
metal circles that act as a place to
hold and move the cart, or even soften the
cart by adding a curtain installed to the
bottom level. “That way the guest's eye
stays on the top service where you can
mix cocktails.”
Smooth casters and wheels
Ensuring your bar cart is set with
balanced and fully functioning casters
and wheels is important to prevent spills
and make transportation around your
home easy.
“There is nothing worse than a cart
that doesn’t have a smooth ride and all
your accessories falling off the shelves. I
would avoid buying any bar cart (vintage
or new) that does not have good wheels,”
says Sirna. “Make sure that when you
are moving the cart that it’s smooth.
You do not want to knock bottles and
glasses over.”
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Consider storage
In addition to showing off your bottles on
top, your bar cart should also come with
convenient storage options to help you stay
organized and neatly display standout
glassware and even pitchers.
“I would select a cart that has handles
and 2-3 shelves,” says Sirna.
Take measurements
Make sure you also take note of its
dimensions–especially height, so that
it’s comfortable to stand near to mix
up beverages.
“I would suggest that the cart is at least
30 - 36” high,” says Sirna.
Curate a lovely display
Presentation is important for your guests
to see your spread and what you have
to offer.
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“Keep the items you use the most on the
top shelf of the bar cart,” says Sirna. “I
would recommend adding a bar tray and
styling the glasses on the tray with cut
citrus in a separate dish.”
Organize your bottles, and don’t forget
an ice bucket.
“Use crystal decanters next to the
glasses in different shapes and sizes,”
suggests Sirna. “Store the bottles on the
shelf underneath in an organized display
based on their height. Pre-make a fun
cocktail and serve it in a beautiful pitcher
on the cart and voilà - you are ready
to party!” W
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BIPPITY BOPPITY
BOOZE
The ultimate recipe for dry January
By FANNY SLATER
LET’S GET ONE THING STRAIGHT. SOBER PEOPLE ARE NOT
drink shamers. We just have a collective mentality that cutting alcohol out of
our lives has made us happier overall. If you’re a normal drinker—meaning
you can take booze or leave it—congratulations! I’m jealous you got to taste
this year’s annual batch of Highland’s Cold Mountain Winter Ale and I didn’t.
Don’t worry, I’ll be okay. As a sober person, I couldn’t care less what’s in your
cup. I’m only focused on mine and making sure it’s always half-full.
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You likely flipped to this page for one of a few reasons. Maybe
Dry January appeals to you because seasonal sobriety is super
approachable. Maybe you’re sober-curious and desire to dip your
toe into the occasional stretch of being AF (alcohol-free). Maybe
you’re already on a recovery journey.
Whatever the reason, I’m happy you’re here.
It can be easy to stop drinking for a few days after a rough
night, but how do you sustain that for a week or even a month?
I’ve got good news. There was a 50% increase in Dry January
participants from 2023 to 2024, so things are trending in the
right direction. If a month-long goal of ditching drinking is
uncharted waters, don’t worry. That’s where I come in.
I’m breaking it down in the way I know best: in the form of
a recipe. Think of the formula below as a delicious, insightful
compass that points you towards a successful alcohol-free month.
Don’t take it too literally—as onions and garlic are not actually
the first step towards sobriety, but rather a metaphor for building
a strong foundation. I’ll do my best to steer clear of sappy, dadesque
idioms such “a dash of determination” or “a sprinkle of
serenity”—but we are talking about living your best life here so
cut me some slack. Most importantly, this is a choose-your-own
adventure scenario. Take what you learn and carry it into 2025
in whatever form that fits your lifestyle. It’s your tale, I’m just the
kitchen wizard-slash-sober-fairy-godmother helping you wave
goodbye to the bippity-boppity-booze.
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BASE: SETTING CLEAR INTENTIONS
There’s a reason that most recipes begin with onions and garlic
and most sobriety stories start with moderation attempts.
Onions and garlic are the pillars in classic savory dishes because
they build the base (or first layer of flavor). If cutting out alcohol
has crossed your mind, you’ve likely thrown moderation and a
concrete goal into your pot.
Instead of aimlessly declaring “I need to drink less,” now is the
time to lay out the structure and set an attainable goal. Being
grounded in purpose at the kickoff of my journey was essential. I
concluded that drinking would always push me out of the driver’s
seat of my life and I wanted to indefinitely regain control of my
decisions. In my sobriety recipe, the onions and garlic were the
phone call to my parents asking for support. I set the intention
that I wanted help, and then made choices to support that goal.
AROMATICS: LEANING INTO SUPPORT
These are specialty ingredients that add depth of flavor to the
base. Like fresh ginger and lemongrass or oregano and orange
zest, aromatics release their fragrance and flavor to help form
the foundation of the dish.
Everyone’s aromatics look different (i.e.: the level of support
you may need will vary). If completing Dry January is the goal,
find an accountability buddy who will participate with you. If
removing alcohol from your life on a larger scale feels detrimental
to your mental and physical health, call out for professionals and
those who have always had your back. My parents and sister are
the reliable rosemary in my recipe that keep me grounded and
give me sage advice.
MAIN INGREDIENT: SELF-LOVE
Whether it’s the chicken in the chicken Piccata or the eggplant
in the baba ganoush, every recipe has a star. These central
components often define the overall profile of the dish. Its
significance is central to the way everything else comes together.
Before shifting towards sobriety, the main ingredients of my
life were self-loathing and regret (plus beer and more beer). I
didn’t care enough about myself to make healthier choices, so my
character was often overshadowed by shame. If you’ve already
got a solid relationship with yourself, you’re on the right track
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Attitudes Toward
Drinking are Changing
A 2024 Gallup study, Alcohol
Consumption Increasingly Viewed
as Unhealthy in U.S., highlights
a generational shift in attitudes
toward alcohol:
› 45% of Americans believe
drinking one or two drinks daily
is unhealthy, a record high since
Gallup started tracking this in
2001.
› The CDC states there are no
health benefits to moderate
drinking, noting it may increase
risks for cancer and heart
disease.
› The CDC defines moderate
drinking as up to two drinks per
day for men and one for women.
› Young adults are more likely
to recommend reducing or
stopping alcohol consumption
for health benefits.
› Young adult drinking rates have
dropped significantly—from
72% in 2001-2003 to 59% today.
› Drinking rates among adults
aged 55+ (58%) are now
comparable to those of young
adults, while middle-aged
adults (69%) report the highest
consumption.
to make healthy choices that foster your sobriety goal. I had to
rekindle self-love in order to regain self-trust. This would be a
good place for an analogy about capers, but I’ll spare you.
SAUCE: AF DRINKS
Not all recipes require sauce, and not all recovery journeys
embrace non-alcoholic drinks. When a recipe contains a liquid
(broth, stock, soy, cream), it’s typically to bind everything
together and provide moisture or richness.
For those not triggered by boozy dupes (NA beers, zero proof
spirits, alcohol-removed wines, etc.), the AF drink category is
as luxurious as a velvety red coconut curry sauce. Nonalcoholic
options nowadays are dynamic and impressive, and for me—
provide the perfect solution for FOMO of any kind. If you’re
an occasion-based drinker and worried you’ll miss margaritas
on Mexican night, turn to your trusty Google device for a list
of alternatives that offer the burn of tequila without the postapocalypse
of Taco Tuesday.
SIMMER TIME: LET IT SETTLE
Whether your marinara is bubbling on the stove or your casserole
is in the oven, there’s often a part of the cooking process that
allows flavors to meld and ingredients to heat through.
In sobriety, simmer time is about reflection and balance. The
joy, the discomfort, the re-entry into a world where the focus is
a bit sharper and a lot louder. Flowers are brighter, but dancing
feels awkward without the encouragement of a few bourbons. Hey,
no one said this was easy, but you can always prepare yourself for
social situations. Ask for mocktail menus, BYO-sparkling water,
make plans for early the next morning, and unapologetically
perform Irish goodbyes.
Now is also the time to rev up your childlike delight in simple
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pleasures and self-care. Life is short. Make time to play. Here is
a list of activities you likely once loved, but either paired with
drinking or stopped doing because they didn’t involve drinking:
• Biking
• Bowling
• Roller skating or ice skating
• Going to a movie and buying the big tub of popcorn
• Visiting a zoo
• Going to a museum
• Picnicking at a park
• Drinking coffee outside
• Reading a book in a bubble bath
• DIY crafting
• Walking on the beach at sunrise
• Dancing at a concert and remembering the music
• Cooking with friends
• Exploring a farmer’s market
While mocktails are not
suitable for everyone’s sober
journey, some can be a
healthier alternative without
sacrificing the taste
FINISHING TOUCHES: PASS IT ON
I believe wholeheartedly that a garnish completes the meal. My
food-obsessed family taught me that a beautiful plate usually
“needs a little green.” Thanks, mom. A dusting of basil and
parmesan on pasta brings everything full circle just as sharing
your journey can help someone else. No one will ever force you to
add a pinch of parsley, but if it feels right—just go with it.
Almost four years ago, I made the conscious choice to share
my sobriety out loud. I knew it would hold me accountable and
possibly give voice to another person not yet ready to speak.
Maybe my words will give you the confidence to master the month
of Dry January. Maybe your choice to opt of out happy hour will
inspire your best friend. Maybe we’re all just hungry now.
Whatever the reason, I’m still happy you’re here.
PHOTO FANNY SLATER
Fanny Slater is a nationally
published cookbook author,
sobriety mentor, and the winner
of Rachael Ray’s Great American
Cookbook Competition. Her
cookbook, Orange, Lavender &
Figs: Deliciously Different Recipes
from a Passionate Eater was
published by Simon & Schuster
in 2016. Fanny co-hosted the Food
Network series, Kitchen Sink and
was a regular on Cooking Channel’s longtime popular series, Best
Thing I Ever Ate.
Today, Fanny is 4 years sober and working on her second
book–a sobriety memoir structured like a cookbook. Using
recipe-inspired storytelling and fusing vulnerability with wit, it
chronicles her transformation from a self-destructive addict to
a passionate advocate for recovery and self-love. She works as
a food and beverage writer specializing in recipe development,
food photography, and content creation for social media. Fanny
uses her Instagram platform @fannyslater to share her story and
encourage others to speak up about their struggles. W
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Valentine’s Day
Dining Guide
Wilmington’s most romantically delicious dining spots
By CARIN HALL
IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT PLACE TO ENJOY A NIGHT OUT
with friends or a special someone, Wilmington’s dining scene is as diverse as it is unique.
From upscale, dimly lit backdrops with live music to restaurants with fascinating histories,
balcony views, burlesque shows, and award-winning chefs, the Port City does not disappoint.
This list is not exhaustive but is editor-experienced and approved as a great guide for date
nights or girls’ nights, offering excellent food, ambiance, and cocktails.
For an Extra Classy Evening
Olivero
❤ Circa 1922
Wilmington has seen many trendy restaurants
come and go, but longtime favorites like Circa 1922
have remained steadfast. Nestled in a refurbished
historic bank in downtown Wilmington, Circa 1922
is celebrated for its exceptional wine list, globallyinspired
small plates, and an unbeatable happy
hour. A favorite among locals of all ages, it’s a top
pick for Valentine’s Day, when its rotating prix fixe
four-course menu features indulgent dishes like
filet mignon, confit duck, and decadent desserts
crafted with care. For a lighter dining experience,
the regular menu offers shareable tapas, such as
steamed mussels in saffron cream. Depending
on the night, live piano music takes the experience to the
next level.
❤ Olivero
Olivero, located at Third and Castle Street, has quickly become a
favorite in Wilmington, thanks to its fresh ingredients, creative
menu, and thoughtfully paired cocktails. But what truly sets it
apart is the ambiance, designed by Jamie Meares, founder of
Furbish Studio. Meares, known for her bold and unique design
Circa 1922
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Tarantelli’s
Quanto Basta Italian
Eatery & Wine Bar
Indochine
style, collaborated with Olivero’s owner, Sunny Gerhart—a
James Beard nominee and owner of St. Roch Fine Oysters + Bar
in Raleigh. Together, they created a space that reflects Gerhart’s
Italian and Spanish heritage while showcasing his edgy and
vibrant personality.
Key design features include a striking Moroccan mosaic tile
installation, a gallery wall of family photos, and carefully chosen
lighting and decor. These elements complement Gerhart's bold,
unexpected, and flavorful dishes, making Olivero a standout
dining experience where exceptional design and food come
together seamlessly.
❤ Tarantelli’s
When Tarantelli’s opened its doors on Second Street, it wasn’t
just another restaurant—it was the realization of a family legacy
rooted in love, tradition, and incredible food. Inspired by their
grandparents, Anthony “Tony” Salvatore Tarantelli (“Papa”)
and Mabel Tarantelli, the family behind Tarantelli’s sought to
create a place where diners could experience the warmth and
connection that comes with sharing a home-cooked meal. Tony’s
passion for Italian cuisine was born in Abruzzo, Italy, where
his father introduced him to the rich flavors and traditions of
authentic Italian cooking. Many of the recipes at Tarantelli’s are
lovingly passed down from Tony and Mabel, brought to life using
the finest ingredients from Italy and paired with celebrated
Italian wines.
❤ Quanto Basta Italian Eatery & Wine Bar
Quanto Basta brings the charm of high-end Italian cuisine to N.
2nd Street. Inspired by their family’s Italian heritage, owners
Lynette Matthews-Murphy and her son, Vance Matthews,
transformed a historic building into a vibrant space featuring a
formal dining room, a courtyard, and a grotto. The menu, crafted
by Chef Joe Heskin and partner Chef Timothy Grandinetti,
highlights authentic recipes like Spaghetti al Formaggio
Parmigiana and locally inspired creations such as seared scallops
over chickpeas. Signature dishes like beef short ribs barbaresco
and the Fettucine John Angelo keep diners returning. With a
welcoming team, stunning design, and exceptional food, Quanto
Basta is already a beloved downtown destination.
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For the Adventurous
Sorrow Drowner
❤ Indochine
Indochine is a beloved Asian restaurant in Wilmington, known
for its vibrant atmosphere and mouthwatering cuisine. Whether
you're seated in their lush outdoor garden or inside the ornate
dining room, you're in for an unforgettable experience. The rich,
coconut-based curries and signature dishes like Vietnamese
Wraps with pickled veggies are perfect for sharing. Indochine’s
ambiance goes beyond just dining—it transports you to Southeast
Asia, with tropical plants, rickshaws, thatched roof huts, and
a koi pond creating an exotic backdrop. The extensive menu
features Thai and Vietnamese favorites such as banh mi, pho,
curries, and chicken satay. Whether you're celebrating a special
occasion or enjoying a casual meal, Indochine offers a unique
blend of flavorful dishes and a charming, immersive atmosphere
that makes every visit memorable.
❤ The Sorrow Drowner
This immersive tiki-noir bar in Wilmington is a locals’ best
kept secret. Tucked away at the corner of 10th and Dock Street,
its unique charm offers a captivating escape from the typical
downtown bar scene. Inspired by adventurous spots like the
Sorrow Drowner
Indochine
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Covey
Little Dipper Fondue
Covey
Adventurers Club, its two-level design
immerses patrons in a quirky story about a
fictional explorers’ club. The menu impresses
with high-quality food and meticulously
crafted drinks, while vaudeville-style
performances, burlesque shows, and movie
nights add to the fun. The Sorrow Drowner
is a vibrant, evolving space, perfect for both
intimate dates and lively group outings, and
remains a standout in Wilmington's nightlife.
To Cozy Up
❤ Covey
Covey, a cozy neighborhood gem in midtown Wilmington,
combines rustic charm with a menu of comfort food crafted from
local ingredients. Open since mid-2023, it quickly became a
favorite spot for regulars, offering a relaxed atmosphere where
guests can enjoy creative takes on Southern classics. The menu,
which changes seasonally, includes standout dishes like chicken
and dumplings, sweet potato gnocchi, and shrimp and grits.
Covey also boasts a full bar and an impressive wine list, with
monthly wine events and food pairings. The restaurant’s inviting
design features natural wood tones and intimate nooks, reflecting
the owner’s vision of a lodge-like, wooded escape. With a focus on
excellent service and community, Covey is a place where comfort
and creativity meet.
❤ Little Dipper Fondue
Little Dipper Fondue, a beloved downtown Wilmington
institution, has been serving up delicious cheese and chocolate
fondue since 2005. Located in a historic building at 138 S. Front
St., the restaurant quickly became a favorite for its inviting
atmosphere, outdoor dining, and interactive dining experience.
After 17 years of ownership by Pete and Kristen Gruodis, the
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Tortelloni Mignon
at Florian
Seabird
restaurant is now in the hands of Rachel and Jason McGhinnis,
a couple with a passion for hospitality and digital marketing.
While continuing the restaurant's cherished concept, the
McGhinnises aim to elevate the dining experience, making
Little Dipper a premier destination for celebrations and special
occasions in Wilmington.
❤ Dram Yard
Located in a historic building in Wilmington, Dram Yard blends
rich local history with globally inspired cuisine. The building was
once visited by Topsy the elephant in 1922 during her infamous
escape, adding an intriguing element to the restaurant's charm.
The culinary experience is led by Executive Chef Kat Myhand,
Oysters at Dram Yard
who draws on global influences while sourcing ingredients
locally. The menu is divided into snacks, mains, and desserts,
offering a “shared experience” for diners.
To Taste Award-Winning Plates
❤ Floriana
OpenTable Diner’s Choice award winner (2024) Floriana, has
been a beloved Washington D.C. staple since 1979, expanding
to Wilmington, offering authentic Italian cuisine with a focus on
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Espresso martinis at
Concorde Espresso Bar
Seabird
fresh, locally sourced ingredients. Located in
the historic Marsello space, Floriana provides
stunning riverfront views and a cozy, intimate
atmosphere. The menu features both Northern
and Southern Italian classics, including their
famous homemade lasagna, tortelloni mignon
(stuffed with filet mignon), and seasonal dishes
like diver sea scallop and shrimp risotto. The
chefs embrace Wilmington's vibrant food scene,
offering a menu that changes with the seasons.
(Balcony seats are available on a first come first
serve basis within a reservation).
❤ Seabird
Seabird, located in Wilmington, North Carolina,
offers an unforgettable dining experience
centered around sustainability and the region's
rich coastal food culture. Led by award-winning
chef Dean Neff and his wife Lydia Clopton, the
restaurant specializes in seasonally driven,
locally sourced dishes that highlight fresh
seafood, foraged ingredients, and produce from
nearby farmers. Seabird’s menu features inventive
creations like the Catfish & Oyster Pie, a local
favorite made with NC catfish and oysters. The
ambiance is warm and inviting, with a modern,
coastal aesthetic that reflects Wilmington’s vibrant
maritime community. With a focus on exceptional
service and community, Seabird delivers both a
culinary and atmospheric experience that has
earned it widespread acclaim, including multiple
James Beard nominations.
For a Night Cap
❤ Concorde Espresso Bar
CONCORDE PHOTO CARIN HALL
Concorde Espresso Bar, located inside the Front
Street Inn, is the perfect cozy date night spot with
its unique mix of craft coffee and espresso-inspired
cocktails. The aviation-themed bar, with walls of
memorabilia and an inviting outdoor space with fire
pits, creates a warm, nostalgic atmosphere ideal
for unwinding. Whether you're sipping on a classic
Espresso Martini or indulging in their fall-inspired
S’mores Martini, each drink is a carefully crafted
experience. For a truly cozy experience, try their
savory s’mores by the fire. With options for both
cocktail lovers and non-drinkers, it’s a charming
spot to enjoy quality drinks, great company, and
the crisp night air.
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Alex and Terry Piscitelli
worked with Liberty
Homes to create their
dream home.
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Designed
With Amore
The third time's the charm
for the Piscitellis
By BRITTANY CONLEY
Photos by G. FRANK HART
ALEX AND TERRY
Piscitelli met and fell in love
in the 1980s. They had big
dreams and the ambition
to make those dreams their
shared reality. Their sights were set on
New York, they bought a house on Long
Island and, for 33 years, they made that
house a home. It's where they raised their
son, celebrated all the milestones in life,
and forged their careers. But as they got
older and their son moved off to California
to pursue his own dreams, the Piscitellis
saw their goals shifting, naturally.
Suddenly, the blustery New York winters
felt colder. They ached for sunshine
instead of snow. They wanted to figure out
how to retire earlier and enjoy it longer.
And, while New York will always hold a
special place in their hearts, they knew it
was time to look elsewhere.
"When [our son] graduated college, we
realized we didn't need to be in New York
any longer," says Terry. "Living in New
York was hard. We worked a lot and we
really didn't need to. I have a sister in
Wilmington, so we were familiar with the
area and loved it so we started looking."
One thing the Piscitellis were certain
of was they wanted to live in a planned
community. Something that would offer
them the chance to learn new things,
like golf and pickleball. "We really liked
Leland and Brunswick Forest," she says.
They found a builder model home in
Shelmore that they liked, and in 2016 they
finally made it home. They were happy
there, eventually mastering pickleball
and making great strides in their golf
game. There were opportunities for Terry
to use her expertise in finance to work
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Working with an atypical
lot, the Piscitellis needed
to build their garage on
the back of the house
and work with certain
challenges that came with
its positioning.
with the homeowners association and
make a difference in her own, brand-new,
community. They weren't officially retired
yet, but it was more clearly on the horizon
than ever before. Life was looking up in
Shelmore. There was only one area that
needed some improvement.
The longer they lived in their new
house, despite its obvious charms and the
attention to detail the builders had taken,
it was custom…but not Piscitelli custom.
"We enjoyed the house and the life we
were building, but over time we realized
there were some things we would have
done differently," says Terry. And after all
the hard work they'd put into their careers
and time spent in their Long Island home,
they knew that to fulfill all they had
worked toward, they needed something
truly built with them in mind. It was time
to shop for land and a builder who could
make their custom dreams come true.
It didn't take long to find the right
spot. "We found this lot in the Cape Fear
neighborhood. We looked at it and said,
'gee we could really build our dream home
right there," says Terry. "We bought it in
2020." With stunning lake views, it may
have been easy to imagine their dream
home there, but the lot they fell in love
with proved to have its challenges.
"There were some challenges because
the lot we are on is not typical for
the neighborhood because it is on an
alleyway," says Alex. "For instance, we
needed to have the garage on the back of
the house." With plenty of ideas and the
parameters they had to work with in mind,
the Piscitellis started interviewing local
builders. Among those they interviewed,
Liberty Homes stood out as a premier
custom home builder with a reputation for
excellence in the Wilmington area. Known
for their meticulous craftsmanship and
client-focused approach, Liberty Homes
gave the Piscitellis confidence they had
found the right partner.
Just like the Piscitellis were making
some big changes, so had Liberty Homes
not long before taking on this project.
The founder, Roger James, was getting
ready to retire, looking to pass the torch
to his son Bryan. And in 2023, he did just
that. Under Bryan, Liberty Homes has a
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While the plans for
the perfect build took
about six months,
construction took just
over one year (even
during the pandemic).
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With a deep love for
cooking and wine, the
kitchen, island and wine
storage were all incredibly
important to the Piscitellis.
sense of freshness but is still committed
to maintaining the integrity and demand
for quality that his father built into the
company from day one–the principles that
drew the Piscitellis to the company in the
first place.
Like the Piscitellis, Bryan James was
born and raised on Long Island. His
grandparents first left Long Island 40
years ago, followed a decade or so later by
his parents who expressed a desire to leave
behind the snow and slush and the everincreasing
population, choosing to make
the move to Wilmington. After his parents
left Long Island, Bryan stayed behind a
couple of years as he was fresh out of high
school and the appeal of independence was
just too much to pass up–until he visited
his parents a handful of times in their
new Wilmington home and he decided
it was time to make the move as well. "I
really just loved it and made the leap–one
of the best things I ever did," says James.
With a long and rewarding career as
a mechanic, James found another lifechanging
opportunity in 2015: working
with his father at Liberty Homes. He
soaked up all the knowledge and studied
his father's talents, from his eye for detail,
creativity, leadership, and values. "One
thing Dad always says that sticks out to
me is, basically, if I see a former client in
the grocery store, do I want to feel like
I need to hide or can I walk up and say
hello? It's about building relationships
and trust with people," says James. He
wants everyone at Liberty Homes to be
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Natural lighting complements
the bright and light colors used
throughout the home.
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Special attention
to the details is on
full display through
elegant elements in
the bedrooms and
bathrooms.
able to stop and say hello, knowing they
have given their clients their best, as they
would for family. "We treat everybody like
family," he adds.
The Piscitellis were happy to team up
with the Liberty Homes family. "We met
with all the builders, but Liberty was the
one builder who made what we wanted to
do possible. They were ready to take the
challenge. We worked very hard with them
and did multiple revisions on floor plans
and elevations and they were incredibly
accommodating," says Alex. Liberty
Homes' team collaborated tirelessly with
the Piscitellis, navigating the unique
challenges of their lot while ensuring
every detail of the design met their vision.
Multiple revisions to the floor plans and
elevations showcased the team's flexibility
and commitment to delivering a home that
truly reflected their clients' desires. It
took roughly six months for the plans to be
finalized. Of course, during the pandemic,
everything moved a little more slowly
than anyone would like, but construction
only took just over a year to complete.
Considering the high standards Liberty
Homes has for their builds, that timeline
is astonishing, especially considering
the logistical nightmares everyone faced
during the pandemic.
"One thing we do differently is stick
frame our roofs," says James. "Basically,
that means we have the lumber delivered
to the site and we cut and assemble
that ourselves rather than trucking in
a load of roof trusses built off-site." This
enables Liberty Homes to provide their
homeowners with an expansive attic for
storage since the area isn't conducive
to basements. The real key for Liberty
Homes, however, is the team. Mr. James
gives a lot of the credit for the success of
the Piscitelli home to Cecee Poe, their
custom home design specialist who, he
says, worked countless hours, sometimes
well into the night, perfecting every
detail. Truly everyone at Liberty Homes
mirrors Cecee's keen eye and unwavering
commitment to customer satisfaction.
It may come as no surprise given his
background as a mechanic, but one of
James' favorite features of the Piscitelli
home is the three-car garage. "[Mr.
Piscitelli] is a car guy, so it was extremely
important to get the garage right," says
James. And, as garages go, this one
certainly is a work of art with three
arched doors that exude craftsmanship.
Just off of the garage, the Piscitellis
have a gorgeous space for entertaining
and enjoying the sunny skies they longed
for while in New York, and is another of
James' favorite features. "The [lanai] is
incredible. Gorgeous beams and trim,
glass enclosure. It's fantastic," says James.
The Piscitellis are in emphatic
agreement. "The lanai is where we spend
the most time, I think. It's enclosed, where
we watch TV and eat our meals, and
where I have my coffee. It's such a pretty
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Ultimately, the Piscitellis have a
gorgeous space for entertaining
and enjoying the sunny skies
they’ve longed for.
space," says Terry. "It's just such a
comfortable room. I have access to
the swimming pool, the bar, and the
fireplace. It's just a perfect space."
Alex, however, says for him the
kitchen is the space he is most drawn
to. Having been born and mostly
raised in Italy, he has a deep love
of food and 'amore per il vino.' So, it
was paramount to design a kitchen
that would allow him to prepare
food the way he was taught and
also elegantly house his collection of
fine wines. "I love to cook. Even just
being by the stove. I love sitting at
the island and looking at the stove
and arches and bar. It's where I have
my coffee and catch up on the news.
By glancing at the wine, the stoves,
and the alcove, it just makes me feel
very calm and alive," says Alex.
Wine is important to both of
them. The pair have traveled the
world, tasting and enjoying all
kinds of vineyards, large and small.
While they are primarily red wine
drinkers, they have two large
wine coolers in their kitchen, one
dedicated to reds and the other to
white. It's something very special to
them and now they can house their
collection in style and in a space
meaningful to them–a space truly
built for them.
The Piscitellis are quick to
admit their first home in the area
was beautiful, but it just didn't
have the touches they had always
longed for. Liberty Homes was
able to make their dreams come
true with a home that was built,
truly, on a foundation of 'amore.' It
incorporates the love the Piscitellis
have for each other, the things and
activities they love, and a place
they love. If you have been longing
for your dream home, now is the
time to contact Bryan and his team
at Liberty Homes and have them
bring your vision to life. They've
forged a legacy of unmatched
quality, innovation and client
satisfaction and are eager to help
you design your new home. Visit
libertyhomesandbuilding.com or
call to get started on your journey. W
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Natural
Beauty
Big views and organic
design elements are the
crowning jewels of this
Creekside property
By KAT FORD
Photos by G. FRANK HART
CAROLINA WRENS SLEEP
in the nook above Jack and
Wendy Prins' front door at
their Creekside at Porters
Neck home. Through the
great room's 8-foot French doors, the
Prinses enjoy watching the marsh's
migratory birds. One Christmas, they
woke up to a hundred egrets. “They are
wonderful to watch through the seasons,”
Wendy admires. A friend once said the
Prins home felt like a tree fort because of
the great room's incredible wooded marsh
view. When Jack and Wendy purchased
the lot in 2017, finding a design with
outdoor spaces to enjoy its beauty was the
top priority.
Wendy Prins lived in Wilmington in her
late 20s after graduating from physical
therapy school. Though her career led her
away, when she married Jack, she brought
him back to coastal North Carolina
to visit. They purchased the land at
Creekside while still living in northern
Virginia and found a home design in a
magazine that they felt would capture the
lot's natural allure. “It's the design we
found, but thankfully not the one we ended
up with,” says Wendy. Soon, neighbors
introduced the couple to Mack Braxton
of RMB Building & Design. A Certified
Professional Building Designer through
the American Institute of Building and
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The Prins enjoy their
incredible wooded marsh
view poolside beneath a
canopy of trees.
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The one-story Porters Neck
Creekside home came together
thanks to RMB Building &
Design, a one-stop design/
build service.
Design, Mack is no stranger to embracing
the beauty of Creekside; he lives just
down the street. Over the next two years,
Jack and Wendy worked with Mack,
“ultimately, we redesigned a previous
RMB build to achieve the Low Country
Craftsmen design they were looking for,”
says Mack.
The Prinses decided to proceed with
construction in 2019, but the COVID-19
pandemic presented unforeseen hurdles.
“The price of everything soared,” Wendy
remembers. “But Mack was great at
reworking the design, ensuring our
dreams and the cost were attainable.”
The Prinses had a list of musts. “Jack
is in construction and likes wood and
an organic feel; a covered and screenedin
porch with cedar posts to enjoy the
outdoors was important to him. He also
wanted a big island to gather around in
the kitchen,” recalls Wendy. “It's only us,
so we wanted a high-quality home, but not
a big one. We like the feeling of everything
being connected; I wanted a claw foot
bathtub and a little bit of shiplap.”
“When you walk in the foyer, you
want to look through and see the creek;
we accomplished that with clerestory
windows, cathedral ceilings, 8-foot
windows and French doors,” says Mack.
The great room extends effortless
connectivity with a large kitchen island
looking over the dining area into the living
space centered around a shiplap fireplace.
Mack notes, “It's not a big kitchen, more
of a galley kitchen, but it is an excellent
use of space with a glazed herringbone tile
backsplash and a recessed niche.” While
propeller ceiling fans feature throughout
the house, the 10-foot propeller fan over
the living area became one of Jack's
favorite design elements. For Wendy, the
woven metal light fixtures over the thickedge
countertop became an unexpected
highlight. “It was a whirlwind picking
everything, and when they came in,
I thought, 'What have I done?' I was
expecting them to be 1/3 that size! But
it works because the island is so big, and
they cast pretty shadows in the evening.
Guests say they look like a bird's nest or
a beehive.” Glass French doors connect
the great room to a study with two-story
ceilings and built-in bookcases framing
windows showcasing the tranquil outdoor
landscape. Two desks allow ample work-
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The great room includes
8-foot French doors and
a 10-foot propeller fan.
The kitchen was designed
with glazed herringbone
tile backsplash and a
recessed niche.
at-home space for the couple, while
natural lighting from clerestory windows
produces a bright and peaceful reading
environment.
The one-story home provides maximum
privacy, with the primary bedroom on one
end and the two secondary bedrooms with
a Jack and Jill bathroom on the other.
A bonus room and bath are positioned
over the garage. Windows of the primary
bedroom present marsh views, which may
be enjoyed in the evening with outdoor
lighting from the pool, angled slightly to
be positioned within the lot's conservation
setback. “The pool is an important
feature of the house and is visually
harmonious with the trees,” says Wendy.
The primary bath displays a clawfoot
tub and checkerboard floor, which Mack
lists as one of his favorite elements in the
Prins home. “This is the only house I've
ever built without a vanity,” he mentions,
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referring to the console sinks used in all
the bathrooms.
A palette of soothing blue-greens and
grey paint is used throughout the home,
which Wendy says she agonized over. “It's
coastal, but it's not a beach house; I wanted
a little bit of that vibe without overdoing
it. It just seemed right to have the muted
green and greys.” Reducing client stress
when making big choices is one of the
reasons RMB introduced interior design
as an offering. “It can be hard to be
subjective when the house is your own
because you are so involved personally,
and it brings reassurance to the decisions
you are making. As part of our design/
build process, a client coordinator will
take the client to pick out appliances and
other key design elements. Making those
preliminary selections early on helps the
project to stay on budget,” says Mack. For
Wendy, the home's white oak flooring is an
exemplary form of this helpful decisionmaking.
“We were considering alternative
treatments and Mack said to leave them
clear; they are beautiful,” Wendy agrees.
Outside, covered and screened-in
porches provide extra living space. “Jack is
a porch guy, and instead of using treated
posts wrapped in cedar boards we found
solid cedar posts and yellow balau for the
decking, which is unique,” says Mack.
Design selections were made remotely and
during Wilmington visits. “It was a lot of
fun; while they were in town we were very
busy making decisions. Jack and Wendy
were easy to work with.” As a professional
also in construction, “Jack always had a
list of questions and things he wanted to
talk about.”
A family-owned business since 1987,
RMB Building & Design remains a
(left) Wall colors create a subtly coastal vibe with soothing blue-greens and grays. (below) The
primary bedroom sits on one end of the house, while the two secondary bedrooms with a Jack and
Jill bathroom are situated on the other. A bonus room and bath are positioned over the garage.
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Two desks allow ample
work at-home space for
the couple, while natural
lighting from clerestory
windows produces a
bright and peaceful
reading environment.
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boutique builder creating extraordinary
homes with Southern hospitality. Their onestop
design/build services include everything
from building plans to interiors. “I've chosen
to stay small and hands-on so we can take
care of all of our client's needs,” Mack
emphasizes. For the Prinses, this included
submitting design plans to the Porters Neck
Creekside Architectural Control Committee,
considering conservation requirements, and
engaging in erosion control practices during
construction. “You have got to know your
local requirements for building in natural
conservation areas,” stresses Mack. As a
Certified Green Professional through the
NAHB, RMB built homes, including the
Prins home, receive a two-step inspection by
a third party for energy efficiency. This level
of consideration and professionalism means
that when clients like the Prinses ask for
a home that embraces the natural beauty
of their lot, they receive a home built using
sustainable practices that also protect it.
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Console sinks were used in
all the bathrooms.
The master bathroom includes a
claw foot bathtub and shiplap.
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The covered and screenedin
porches include solid
cedar posts and yellow
balau for the decking.
The pool is nestled perfectly
under the trees against the
view of the marshes.
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Sugo Italian
Steakhouse
301 N Water Street
Wilmington, NC
910-834-5960
sugoitaliansteakhouse.com
Elevated comfort food meets prime beef
By JUDY ROYAL » Photos by G. FRANK HART
WHEN THE COVID-19
pandemic allowed Ace and
Jamie Alfalla to transform
their New York marketing
business into a fully remote operation, they
began looking to move south. The couple
explored several East Coast cities but
eventually picked Wilmington, relocating
in 2021. Since then, they have launched
several hospitality projects, the latest
of which is Sugo Italian Steakhouse in
downtown Wilmington. They say the
restaurant allows them to bring a taste of
home to the Port City.
“We wanted to find a growing coastal city
that we could invest in and grow with, and
Wilmington really just has been the perfect
place for us the past three years,” Jamie
says. “We became very passionate about
hospitality, and that is what inspired us to
open Sugo Italian Steakhouse. We’re proud
of the space, we’re exceptionally proud of
the menu, and I feel like Wilmington is very
receptive to the concept and enjoying it.”
Sugo, which opened in September, does
not strive to re-create the cuisine of any of
the regions of Italy, says Dave Gerin, Chief
Operating Officer of Alfalla Hospitality
Group. It’s more about serving Italian-
American food typically found in the
Northeast United States, he says.
“Recipes passed down for generations,
classic dishes that have over time grown
as staples in American culture, that’s
the style we mixed with being a prime
steakhouse,” Gerin says. “We wanted to
find a way to meld those concepts together
and bring those flavors that we grew up
with to Wilmington. It’s a highly elevated
comfort-style Italian food.”
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This includes pasta dishes topped with
sauces such as sugo – their own version of
classic tomato with garlic and a touch of
sweetness – pink vodka, meaty Bolognese
and creamy Alfredo. Cheesy lasagna is
shaped into pinwheels, perfect for sharing,
while Beef Wellington showcases the
kitchen’s commitment to excellence.
“This is a very difficult and highprep
item that is not easy to implement,”
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Tomahawk Ribeye
Jamie says. “Being able to deliver a Beef
Wellington that tastes amazing and is
cooked perfectly is a huge accomplishment
and something unique that we offer.”
Then there is the lineup of prime steaks.
Sugo offers various beef cuts, including
dry-aged Kansas City Strip, Tomahawk
Ribeye and Porterhouse.
“Dry-aged is not something Wilmington
has had a lot of experience with, and I think
that certainly sets us apart,” Jamie says.
This results in steaks with a different
flavor profile than those that are wet-aged,
Gerin says.
“We wanted to really bring that New
York style, whether Peter Luger or Smith
& Wollensky, that lines the Meatpacking
District, and we felt nobody here was
focusing on that,” he says. “Of course, there
are also a lot of pasta options, so diners can
try the best of both worlds. We see a lot of
sharing and people coming together, and
that’s really what Italian cuisine is meant
to be.”
Expect a lively fine dining experience
with spectacular views of the Cape Fear
River, especially during sunset, Ace says.
Aranci'Cacio e Pepe
“Being able to root ourselves in the past
but bring a modern feel to it is something
we really enjoy,” Jamie adds. “We also take
a lot of pride in the amount of continuous
training that our staff gets. We are putting
the right people through training so we can
give an elevated level of service.”
Although the restaurant has only been
open a few months, Sugo is already seeing
a following of regulars, Ace says.
“It’s been above and beyond our
expectations,” he says. “We want people to
come here and say it’s like home.”
While Sugo already has cocktails and
desserts on its menu, the Alfallas are
expanding on those offerings with a new
concept coming soon. They are leveraging
the pastry experience of Executive Chef
Thomas Calhoun by creating The Drawing
Room, a standalone space that will open
downstairs from Sugo in late January.
“Guests can retire to The Drawing Room
for a nightcap or dessert,” Jamie says.
“There will be more experiential cocktails,
more mixology and speakeasy-type vibes.
Our chef will be making all the desserts,
and while he will be using inspiration from
Italian-American cuisine, they won’t be
anything predictable.”
The Drawing Room will be unlike anything
Wilmington has ever seen, Gerin adds.
“We are really going to focus on
cocktails that will blow people away with
presentation,” he says. “It’s not going to be
your quick-slinging drink place. Cocktails
will have thought and time put into them
so you can sit and enjoy.” W
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libations
Calling Beer Fans
and Coffee Lovers
Two local businesses team up to achieve a limited-release blended
beverage and, spoiler alert, it’s a family affair
By JOE JANCSURAK » Photos by EMMA GRACE
A
COLLABORATIVE
EFFORT
involving two family-owned
businesses—Outer Dunes
Brewing and Bitty & Beau’s
Coffee—has resulted in what some may
consider a ‘stout-standing’ achievement:
The newly introduced, limited-release Sol
(Latin for sun) Brew. The craft offering
blends Sundance dark roast coffee by
Bitty & Beau’s with Outer Dunes base
beer, lactose (milk sugar), cacao nibs, and
vanilla, resulting in an imperial stout with
a rich mocha latte flavor.
What makes this a ‘brew-tiful’ story that
leaves one feeling ‘hoppy’ (no more puns
—promise!) is that two sisters and their
husbands made the collaboration happen,
making it a family affair. Ellie and Phil
Mabe own Outer Dunes Brewing at 7976
Market Street. Amy and Ben Wright own
Bitty & Beau’s at 4949 New Centre Drive.
To hear Ellie and Amy tell it, the sisters
caught the entrepreneurial spirit from
their dad, who started several businesses
while they were growing up in Wilmington.
Fast forward to 2009 when Ellie and Phil,
who met while students at The University
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TOAST TO
RAISE THE STEAKS
THE
THIS VALENTINE’S
TWO
DAY
OF YOU
244 N. WATER STREET
WILMINGTON, NC
919.343.1818
SCAN TO MAKE
YOUR RESERVATION
THIS IS HOW
VALENTINE’S DAY
IS DONE.
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libations
Ben and Amy Wright next
to Ellie and Phill Mabe
of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, went to
Lake Tahoe for a single ski season then
stayed for a decade. It was there that
they worked and partnered at local event
venues and breweries. When they moved
back to their hometown of Wilmington in
2019, they knew they would soon open a
brewery of their own.
Two year later, that’s what they
did. But before doing so, they worked
alongside Amy and Ben at Bitty & Beau’s
Coffee roasting beans, packaging product
and performing office tasks. Since its
opening in 2016, the venue has become
known throughout the area for its hot
and iced coffees, frappes, smoothies and
eats as well as its celebrated workforce,
comprised of talented individuals
with intellectual and developmental
disabilities. Amy was named CNN Hero
of the Year in 2017, and the business has
grown to 19 locations in 11 states with
more than 400 employees.
Ellie is grateful for the business lessons
learned from her older sister and brotherin-law
while working at Bitty & Beau’s.
“Gaining that experience, along with Phil’s
longtime passion for brewing beer and my
event-planning and catering experience,
prepared us for opening a brewery of our
own,” she says.
Today, Outer Dunes carries a selection
of 10 beers, wines and kombucha, and has
an “outdoor oasis” for about 200 persons.
There one finds a range of flowering
shrubs and trees, including ancient oaks
and a loquat tree that produces fruit to be
harvested for a microbrew, as well as that
local musicians and food trucks. Its indoor
venue, the Beach House, seats 50. All this
is a far cry from where Outer Dunes was
during its early days when it began with a
one-barrel pilot system as construction of
their 2,400-square-foot production facility
its current 10-barrel brewhouse, which
opened in early 2023.
“Choosing to open in May 2021 toward
the end of a pandemic,” Ellie recalls,
“taught us a lot about resiliency as we
contended with ever-changing guidelines
and supply-chain issues. Through it all we
adapted and never lost sight of our goal to
collaborate with Bitty & Beau’s.”
“It really was a natural fit for the
families to combine the brewing expertise
of Outer Dunes with a Bitty & Beau
signature roast coffee,” says Amy. “As the
beer-brewing experts and masterminds of
the Sol Brew recipe, Outer Dunes made
the coffee selection, recognizing that its
bold flavor complements the complex notes
of the stout, and we worked to ensure that
the quality of the roast met their needs. It’s
been exciting to see how they brought our
coffee into something entirely new.”
“It took just a couple of blending trials
and the beer itself takes two weeks to
ferment,” explains Ellie. “Then we add the
coffee beans at the end for conditioning.”
Both sisters are hopeful for more
future family collaborations. “We’d love
to collaborate with Outer Dunes again,”
says Amy. “The success of Sol Brew shows
how well our brands complement each
other.” Ellie concurs, adding, “We remain
excited to explore possible collaboration
opportunities.”
If you’d like to sample Sol Brew, Ellie
says you will find it at most Lowe’s Foods,
Total Wine and in many local bottle shops
and restaurants. She adds that you can
also use the Untapped app to discover the
nearest location.
Cheers! W
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Every Dish Tells a Story.
From our traditional Italian pastas to premium,
dry aged steaks, each plate is crafted with care
and precision. Whether you’re indulging in our
signature Chicken Parmigiana, savoring the
rich flavors of Mushroom Ravioli, or treating
yourself to a perfectly cooked filet mignon,
our menu offers something for every palate.
Our signature sauce—the heart of our
restaurant—is carefully prepared using the
same recipe that has been perfected over
countless family dinners, bringing authenticity
and warmth to every dish.
Sugo.
Italian Steakhouse
301 N Water St, Wilmington
910-834-5960
sugoitaliansteakhouse.com
@sugoitaliansteakhouse
Wed-Thur: 4-10pm | Fri-Sat: 4-11pm | Sun: 4-9pm
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Colorful Comfort
Bright dishes to beat the winter blues
Recipes and Photos by FANNY SLATER
AN OCCASIONAL SEVENTY
degree day in January isn’t
wildly off brand for Wilmington,
so I know y’all aren’t begging
for hearty, stick-to-your-ribs comfort food
to keep you warm this time of year. That in
mind, ‘tis still the season for chillier days
and dreary, dark-by-five-o’clock evenings.
To combat these drab winter blues,
I suggest we all look on the bright
side—literally.
This issue, I’m bringing colorful comfort
(and a boatload of roasted garlic) to your
plate by leaning on radiant ingredients
and various forms of spice to shake
your taste buds back to life after all
that turkey and ham. Think: electric
tangerine chicken, butternut squashtinted
mac and cheese, a rich, orangeyred
tortilla soup simmering with smoky
chilis, and a crimson parsnip and beet
puree with coconut milk, rosemary, and
ginger. A zippy lime zest and chipotle
roasted salmon takes center stage for
lunch or dinner, while a 15-minute glossy
cardamom-strawberry syrup is glorious
over breakfast or dessert. The recipes
are all of varying complexity so you can
choose your own adventure level.
Also, one can of chipotle peppers in
adobo goes a long way, so I stretched it
into two meals. You’re welcome.
The skies may be dull and your toes
cold, but this menu will fill your kitchen
table with dazzling dishes your family
will want to play on repeat all year long.
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Creamy Veggie
Tortilla Soup
Yield: 6 – 8 servings
• 1 medium sweet onion, roughly chopped
• 1 yellow bell pepper, quartered
• 2 small jalapeno peppers, seeds and ribs
removed and halved
• 3 large cloves garlic, unpeeled
• 3 tablespoons olive oil, divided
• 1 teaspoon coarse salt, divided
• 1 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper,
divided
• 1 chopped canned chipotle pepper in adobo
plus 2 teaspoons of sauce from the can
• 1/2 teaspoon dried oregano
• 1 teaspoon chili powder
• 1 teaspoon ground cumin
• 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar
• 1-14 ounce can diced fire roasted tomatoes
• 1/2 teaspoon granulated sugar
• 3 cups low sodium vegetable stock
• Juice of 1 lime (plus additional lime
wedges for garnish)
• 1/2 cup half-and-half, room temperature
• Garnishes: tortilla strips, sour cream,
avocado, fresh cilantro
1. Preheat the oven to 400°F.
2. On a large rimmed baking sheet, toss
the onions, peppers, and garlic with 2
tablespoons of the olive oil and season
with 1/2 teaspoon each of salt and pepper.
3. Roast until the garlic cloves are golden
brown, 10-12 minutes, and then remove
them from the baking sheet. Toss the
remaining veggies and return to the oven.
Cook until the peppers and onions are
lightly blistered, about 5-8 more minutes.
4. Slide the garlic cloves out of their skins.
Rough chop all of the vegetables.
5. In a medium-sized saucepot over medium
heat, add the remaining 1 tablespoon
olive oil. Add the chopped roasted onions,
peppers, garlic, chipotle pepper and adobo
sauce and season with the oregano, chili
powder, and cumin. Pour in the apple
cider vinegar, scraping up any brown bits
from the bottom. Stir in the fire roasted
tomatoes, sugar, and vegetable stock.
6. Bring the soup to a boil, and then reduce
the heat to low. Cover and simmer on low
heat for 1 hour. Transfer about 3/4 of the
soup to a blender and puree, or puree with
a handheld immersion blender until it’s
smooth but still has some texture. Whisk
in the lime juice and half and half and
season to taste with additional salt.
7. Divide the soup among bowls and garnish
with your choice of toppings.
Parsnip, Beet & Coconut Milk Puree
Yield: 6 – 8 servings as a side
• 1/4 cup unsalted butter
• 4 large cloves garlic, tips sliced
• 1-inch-thick round fresh ginger, peeled and smashed but still intact
• 1-pound parsnips, peeled and cut into 1-inch chunks of the same thickness
• 2 small red beets, peeled and cut into 1-inch chunks (about 6 ounces)
• 3 sprigs fresh rosemary
• 1 teaspoon coarse salt
• 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
• 1 cup canned unsweetened coconut milk (plus more for garnish if desired)
• 1 teaspoon honey
1. In a medium saucepot over medium-low heat, melt the butter. Add the garlic
cloves and ginger and cook, turning every few minutes, until the garlic and
ginger are golden-brown on all sides. Using a slotted spoon, remove the garlic
and ginger and set aside to cool. Reserve the butter.
2. Once cooled, remove the skins from the garlic by pushing the cloves out of the
sliced tips. Mash the cloves with the flat side of a large knife.
3. In a large pot, cover the parsnips, beets, and rosemary sprigs with cold salted
water. Bring to a boil over high heat, reduce the heat to medium, and then
simmer until the parsnips and beets are very tender and a knife slides right
through their centers, about 15-20 minutes.
4. Reserve the colorful starchy cooking water and transfer the beets and parsnips
to a food processor.
5. Add the salt, pepper, roasted garlic and ginger, coconut milk, and honey and
pulse until the veggies are broken down. Pulsing as you pour, add in a few
tablespoons at a time of the reserved cooking water until the purée is velvety
and whipped.
6. With the motor still running, stream in the reserved butter, and then season
to taste with additional salt and pepper if necessary. Divide the puree among
plates and serve.
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Bacon Butternut Mac and Cheese
Yield: 6 servings
• 1 pound (16 ounces) cavatappi pasta
• 1 whole head garlic, tips sliced off
• 3 tablespoons olive oil, divided
• 1 butternut squash, about 2 pounds
• 1 1/2 cups half and half
• 6 ounces bacon, diced in 1/4-inch cubes
• 1/2 cup chopped shallots
• 1 teaspoon coarse salt, plus more to taste
• 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
• 2 1/2 cups (about 10 ounces) shredded mild cheddar cheese
• 1 teaspoon ground mustard
• 1/4 teaspoon ground cayenne pepper
• 1 cup panko breadcrumbs
• 1 tablespoon minced fresh parsley, for garnish
1. Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. Cook the cavatappi, stirring occasionally, until al dente according to package
directions, about 9-11 minutes. Drain the pasta and toss with 1 tablespoon oil to prevent sticking. Reserve the pot for the sauce.
2. To make the sauce: Preheat the oven to 350°F. Place the garlic in a small baking dish, drizzle the exposed cloves with 1
tablespoon oil, and cover with foil. Bake the garlic until the cloves are golden brown and tender, about 40-50 minutes. Once
cooled, squeeze the cloves from their skins and add them to a food processor.
3. Slice the squash in half lengthwise. Using a spoon, scrape out the seeds and inner membrane. Rub the flesh with the remaining
1 tablespoon oil, then place the squash halves cut-side down on a baking sheet lined with tin foil. Bake until knife-tender,
about 50-60 minutes. Cool, then scoop out the flesh and add it to the food processor with the roasted garlic. Puree, dripping in
1 tablespoon of water at a time if the mixture is too thick, until smooth and velvety.
4. Add the butternut squash puree and the half and half to the pot where you cooked the pasta and place over medium-low heat.
Whisk to combine. Stir in the ground mustard, cayenne, salt, and pepper.
5. Fold in the cheese about 1/2 cup at a time, stirring between additions to combine thoroughly and ensure that it melts. Season to
taste with additional salt and pepper if necessary. Keep the sauce over low heat, stirring occasionally.
6. Increase the oven’s heat to 400°F and spray a 9-by-x13-inch baking or 3-quart casserole dish with non-stick cooking spray.
7. Place a skillet on the stove over medium heat. Add the bacon and cook, stirring occasionally, until crispy and golden-brown.
Using a slotted spoon, transfer the cooked bacon to a paper-towel lined plate to drain. Transfer 1 tablespoon of the bacon fat to
the breadcrumbs and stir to combine.
8. Add the shallots to the remaining bacon fat left in the skillet and cook, stirring occasionally, until fragrant and lightly
caramelized, 8-10 minutes.
9. To assemble the mac and cheese: Combine the cooked pasta, shallots, and half of the bacon with the sauce, and stir until wellcoated.
Season to taste for salt and pepper and then transfer the pasta to the prepared baking dish.
10. Top with the breadcrumbs and remaining bacon. Bake until golden-brown, about 20-25 minutes. Rest the mac and cheese for 5
minutes to allow everything to set, garnish with the parsley, and serve.
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Tangerine Chili Chicken
Yield: 4 servings
• 5 tablespoons low sodium soy sauce, divided
• 2 tablespoons tangerine zest, divided
• 1 1/4 cups strained tangerine juice, divided
• 1 small bunch green onions, white and green
parts chopped, divided
• 2 tablespoons fresh grated ginger, divided
• 4 large cloves garlic, grated, divided
• 1 1/2 pounds chicken breast, cut into 1-inch pieces
• Pinch coarse salt and freshly ground black pepper
• 1/3 cup low-sodium chicken stock
• 2 tablespoons rice vinegar
• 2 1/2 tablespoons packed light brown sugar
• 1/2 cup cornstarch
• 1/4 – 1/3 cup vegetable oil
• 2-3 Thai chilies, de-seeded for less heat and thinly
sliced (or 1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes)
• Garnish: tangerine wheels and toasted sesame
seeds
1. In a large bowl, mix 2 tablespoons soy sauce, 1/2
tablespoon tangerine zest, 1/4 cup tangerine juice,
half of the chopped green onions, 1 tablespoon
ginger, and 2 cloves of the grated garlic. Add the
chicken pieces, a pinch of salt and pepper, and
toss until thoroughly coated in the marinade.
Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour.
2. Make the orange sauce. In a small mixing bowl,
whisk the remaining soy sauce, tangerine zest,
chicken stock, tangerine juice, rice vinegar, and
brown sugar.
3. Place the cornstarch in a large bowl. Remove the
chicken pieces from the marinade, dredge them in
the cornstarch, and shake to remove any excess.
4. In a heavy-bottomed saucepot, heat the oil
over medium-high heat. Working in batches
and adding more oil if necessary, cook the
chicken until golden brown on all sides, about
3-5 minutes. Using a slotted spoon, remove the
chicken pieces from the pan and set them aside
on a paper towel-lined plate. Reduce the heat to
medium-low.
5. Add the remaining ginger, garlic, and the chilies
to the oil and sauté until very fragrant, about 30
seconds. Pour in the orange sauce, scraping to
remove any brown bits stuck to the bottom of the
pan. Bring the sauce to a boil, reduce the heat to
simmer, and cook for 5 minutes until thickened,
reduced, and syrupy. Return the chicken to
the pan and toss to coat. Stirring occasionally,
continue to cook until the chicken is fully warmed
back through, 2-3 minutes.
6. Transfer the chicken to a platter and garnish
with the remaining green onions, tangerine
wheels, and toasted sesame seeds. Serve over
steamed white or brown rice.
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Chipotle Lime Salmon
Yield: 4 servings
• 2 limes
• 2 tablespoons olive oil
• 1 canned chipotle pepper in adobo plus 1 teaspoon of sauce from the can
• 1 tablespoon honey
• 4 6-ounce skin-on salmon fillets
• 1 teaspoon coarse salt
• 1 1/2 tablespoons minced fresh cilantro, divided (optional)
1. Preheat the oven to 375°F and line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
2. Zest and juice one lime and slice the other into wedges and set aside.
3. In a small food processor or high-speed blender, add the olive oil, chipotle pepper and adobo sauce, honey, lime juice, and lime
zest. Pulse until the pepper is broken down and then blend the sauce until smooth. Set aside.
4. Pat the salmon dry and season both sides with the salt. Place the fillets skin-side down on the prepared baking sheet. Spoon
about half of the chipotle-lime sauce onto the fillets. Bake for 15-20 minutes, or until the flesh easily flakes with a fork.
5. Stir 1 tablespoon of the cilantro into the remaining sauce. Using a clean basting brush, brush the top of the fillets.
6. Divide the salmon among plates and garnish with the remaining 1/2 tablespoon cilantro. Serve with the lime wedges and
steamed white or brown rice.
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Cardamom-Strawberry
Syrup
Yield: 1 cup
• 1-pound fresh strawberries, hulled and
sliced (about 3 cups)
• 1/4 cup water
• 1/2 to 1 cup granulated sugar
• 1/8 teaspoon ground cardamom
1. Mash the strawberries and water, or
combine in a food processor or blender,
until the berries are broken down.
2. In a medium saucepan over
medium-high heat, add the mashed
strawberries and bring to a boil.
Reduce the heat to a simmer and cook,
stirring occasionally and skimming
any foam off the top of the mixture,
until the strawberries are soft and
mostly liquified, about 5 minutes.
3. Using a fine mesh sieve or colander,
strain the strawberries into a small
bowl to separate the liquid from the
pulp. Gently press the strawberries
into the strainer with a rubber spatula
to extract as much juice as possible.
4. Rinse the saucepan and then return
the strawberry juice to the pan over
medium heat. Whisk in an equal
amount of sugar and bring the syrup
to a boil. Reduce the heat to low
and simmer, skimming off any foam
that rises to top, until the syrup has
slightly thickened, but is still runny,
about 1 minute. Stir in the cardamom.
5. Transfer the finished syrup to a
serving bowl and serve warm over ice
cream, waffles, and breads. Refrigerate
the syrup in an airtight container for
up to 2 weeks. Serve chilled over ice
cream, gelato, crackers and cheese, and
yogurt parfaits.
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Smoke on the Water
Ready to Eat?
Use our restaurant listings to find the best
eating and drinking in Wilmington.
AMERICAN
Blue Surf Café 250 Racine Dr.,
523-5362. Serving breakfast, lunch
and dinner while striving to use as
many locally sourced ingredients as
possible, plus a dog-friendly patio.
Bluewater Grill 4 Marina St.,
256-8500. Offers panoramic views of
the Intracoastal Waterway. Dinner
options include fresh seafood, baby
back ribs, char-grilled steaks and
homemade desserts. Lunch and
dinner daily.
Butts-n-Such 802 Lake Park Blvd. S.,
458-2667. Made-to-order breakfast you
can enjoy inside, and a window that
makes it easy to pick up their menu
of house-made barbecue, fried shrimp,
burgers and more.
CheeseSmith 624 S 17th St.,
399-3253. Sandwiches that ooze with
distinction depending on what cheesy
combo is featured. Don’t miss one of
their french fry specialties either.
Copper Penny 109 Chestnut St.,
762-1373. More than a sports bar,
offering an eclectic mix of appetizers,
salads and sandwiches along with
an array of mixed drinks and beers.
Lunch and dinner daily.
Covey 1610 Tiburon Drive,
399-3501. New American restaurant
with focus on service, wine and
ingredients from local partners
and farmers. A hidden gem nestled
discreetly off Independence Blvd.
Dixie Grill 116 Market St., 762-7280.
A casual dinette known for great
breakfasts and brunch in the heart of
downtown Wilmington. Breakfast and
lunch daily.
Famous Toastery 6722 Wrightsville
Ave, 256-7030. Breakfast and
lunch served all day. Try one of
their Benedicts!
Front Street Brewery 9 N. Front St.,
251-1935. Offering great food and micro
brews including gourmet sandwiches,
burgers and entrees like their famous
Scottish Ale Brew-B-Q Ribs. Lunch
and dinner daily.
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Fresh | Local | Relax | Enjoy
Three of Wilmington’s favorite places...
Monkey Junction
5226 S. College Road • 910-799-7077
Porters Neck
140 Hays Lane, Unit 140 • 910-681-1140
Waterford
143 Poole Road • 910-399-6739
CapeFearSeafoodCompany.com
Stop in for a simple bite
at the bar, date night,
special occasions and
corporate events. We
have four rooms for
private occasions and
a wine bar space that
perfectly accommodates
dinner for 20–30.
Covey is an
ideal option
for holiday
parties with
private spaces.
We also offer
holiday/business
luncheons on a
request basis.
1610 Tiburon Drive
Wilmington
coveyilm.com
info@coveyilm.com
910-399-3501
Open Mon-Sat
Dinner 5–9pm
(Bar opens at 4pm)
Henry’s 2508 Independence Blvd.,
793-2929. Locally sourced classic
American fare in an inviting and
casual environment with outdoor
dining available. Lunch and
dinner daily.
Midtown Deli & Grill 2316 S 17th
St. #100, 791-4630. Quick service
fresh sandwiches, salads and wraps.
Midtown Wilmington's Boar's Head
Based fresh deli.
Molly Pitcher's American
Grill 4001 Wrightsville Ave,
769-1070. From bacon-wrapped
meatloaf to a fried green tomato BLT
sandwich, Molly Pitcher’s serves classic
American food with a twist.
Pink Baking Co. 4545 Fountain Dr,
Wilmington, NC 28403, 343-4727.
Breakfast, lunch and dessert.
Platypus & Gnome 9 S Front St, 769-
9300. Bi-level restaurant featuring
homey-chic digs lined with art & an
imaginative New American menu with
something for everyone.
PT's Olde Fashioned Grille 4544
Fountain Dr.; 2420 S 17th St A; and
1437 Military Cutoff Rd. Local chain
dishing up burgers, sandwiches and
fresh-cut fries in a laid-back setting.
Jerry’s Food, Wine and Spirits 7220
Wrightsville Ave., 256-8847. Fine
dining in a casual bistro atmosphere
with an ever-changing, creative menu.
Jester’s Café 607 Castle St.,
763-6555. Breakfast, lunch and Sat/
Sun brunch in a casual, fun downtown
location. Quiches, salads, soups,
sandwiches and more.
Mess Hall 2136 Wrightsville Ave,
604-4927. Vibrant spot in an industrialstyle
venue, offering hearty burgers,
bowls & outdoor seating.
Oceanic 703 S. Lumina Ave.,
256-5551. Situated on the beach
overlooking the Atlantic Ocean. Enjoy
fresh seafood, exciting land lover’s
dishes and breathtaking views.
Outdoor seating is available.
Rooster & The Crow 225 S Water
St. in Chandler’s Wharf, 399-4780.
Easygoing restaurant, serving hearty
Southern staples in an industrial
brick building.
Rucker Johns 5564 Carolina Beach
Rd., 452-1212. High-quality food served
up in a fun, relaxing atmosphere.
Burgers, steak, chicken and salads.
Lunch and dinner daily.
Salt Works (The Original) 6301
Oleander Dr., 350-0018. Comfort food
cooked to order. Breakfast and lunch.
Savor Southern Kitchen 3704
Carolina Beach Rd, 769-8112. Serving
up a taste of Southern hospitality,
with fan-favorites like chicken and
waffles, omelets, benedicts, burgers,
fried chicken and more. Breakfast
and lunch.
Solstice Oceanfront Kitchen +
Cocktails 1706 N Lumina Ave.,
344-6802. Located inside the Holiday
Inn Resort, serving crab cakes to beef
and vegan burgers to shrimp and
grits, with craft cocktails to tempt the
palate, too.
Sweet & Savory Café 1611 Pavilion
Pl., 256-0115. A full menu breakfast,
lunch and dinner restaurant with
dishes made from scratch.
The Basics 319 N. Front St., 343-1050.
Traditional Southern fare with a twist,
including fried green tomatoes, smoked
pork BBQ, grilled pimento cheese
and a fried chicken BLT. Breakfast,
lunch and dinner daily, as well as
Sunday brunch.
The Pilot House 2 Ann St., 343-0200
Overlooking the Cape Fear River with
a large outside deck, this longtime
favorite serves traditional Southern
fare with a contemporary twist.
True Blue Butcher and Barrel 1125
Military Cutoff Rd., 679-4473 and 110
Greenfield St. Suite 114, 769-7010.
From hearty dinner salads to an array
of snacks, shareables and entrees,
dine on the open patio as you pick up
tomorrow’s meal in their butcher shop.
White Front Breakfast House 1518
Market St., 762-5672. Historic downtown
diner—a local favorite. Biscuits and
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ASIAN
Bento Box Sushi 1121 Military
Cutoff Rd., 509-0774. Asian street
food with a combination of Japanese,
Korean, Vietnamese and Thai dishes.
Sushi bar.
Big Thai 1319 Military Cutoff
Rd., 256-6588. Famous for authentic
Thai cuisine. Don’t miss the coconut
cake as a sweet and savory finale.
Café Chinois 3710 College Rd.
#123, 769-3193. One of Wilmington's
favorite Asian-Fusion restaurants,
featuring Thai food and dishes from
Vietnam, Korea and China, served in
a stylish setting.
Double Happiness 4403 Wrightsville
Ave., 313-1088. A great mix of
traditional Chinese dishes, including a
dim sum menu, served amid traditional
décor with a formal touch.
Indochine 7 Wayne Dr., 251-9229.
Enjoy the finest Thai-Vietnamese
cuisine in a beautifully decorated
environment. Voted best Asian
restaurant 10 years in a row.
Szechuan 132 419 S. College
Rd., 799-1426. For over 30 years, the
longstanding restaurant has been
serving fine contemporary Chinese
dining in a relaxed atmosphere.
Tokyo 101 880 Town Center Dr.,
399-3101. Traditional Japanese with
fresh sushi, diverse noodle dishes,
combination plates, and appetizers.
Umaii Thai Restaurant 8209
Market St, Porters Neck, 821-8474.
A menu rich with traditional Thai
entrees, seasonal specials, fresh sushi,
diverse noodle dishes, combination
plates and appetizers. Sushi bar and
outdoor dining.
Yosake Downtown Sushi Lounge 33
S. Front St., 763-3172. Lacquered walls
and unique art surround guests as they
dine on sushi and Pan/Asian fare.
CAJUN
Bourbon Street 35 N. Front St.,
762-4050. Experience authentic
Cajun cuisine in a uniquely decorated
setting that has the appeal of being
in New Orleans. Try the famous
charbroiled oysters.
FINE DINING
Circa 1922 8 N. Front St., 762-1922.
An ever-changing seasonal menu with
locally sourced seafood and produce
and house-made pasta. Craft cocktails
and an extensive wine list.
East Oceanfront Dining 275
Waynick Blvd., 344-2513. Awardwinning
cuisine accompanied by the
sounds of breaking surf and a soothing
coastal breeze. Enjoy fresh local
seafood or grass-fed beef while you
dine under a canopied, oceanfront deck
or inside.
Manna 123 Princess St., 763-5252.
Serving New American cuisine with
European flare, with an emphasis on
the freshest ingredients from local
farmers.
Origins 102 Autumn Hall Dr. #120,
769-0041. Featuring an uptown menu
and atmosphere including a raw bar,
local seafood, pasta and beef classics
from steak frites to a bone-in ribeye.
Patio seating available.
Port Land Grille 1908 Eastwood
Rd., 256-6056. Progressive American
regional cuisine served in a casual yet
elegant coastal setting.
Ruth’s Chris Steak House 244 N
Water St., 343-1818. The upmarket
steak house is located in River Place
steps away from Thalian Hall and the
Riverwalk, offering river views and
outdoor seating.
Rx Restaurant & Bar 421 Castle St,
Wilmington, 399-3080. Relaxed eatery
in a converted drugstore featuring
seasonal changing menus with
local sourcing.
FRENCH
Brasserie Du Soleil 1908 Eastwood
Rd., 256-2226. French café with both
patio and inside dining. Pick your own
salad ingredients from a wide selection
of items.
Caprice Bistro 10 Market St.,
815-0810. Authentic French bistro.
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Elegant dining downstairs with sofa bar
upstairs and a great martini selection.
Our Crepes & More 3810 Oleander
Dr., 395-0077. Family-owned French
creperie. Authentic homemade cuisine.
The Little Dipper 138 S. Front St.,
251-0433. Unique, fun fondue menu
includes premium meats, seafood,
vegetables, appetizers, desserts and
homemade dipping sauces.
GERMAN
The German Café 316 Nutt St. (at the
Cotton Exchange), 763-5523. Familyowned,
incorporating many recipes from
their native Germany. Wursts, schnitzels,
sauerbraten and more.
ITALIAN
Fat Tony’s Italian Pub 131 N. Front
St., 343-8881. Great family-friendly
restaurant. Offers fantastic views of the
Cape Fear River. A mix of Italian and
American fare and a full bar, including
25 beers on tap.
Floriana 2 Market St., 504-0160.
Floriana’s fluently Italian cuisine
features handmade pastas, decadent
cheeses and authentic dishes. Enjoy
dining on a private balcony overlooking
the Riverwalk.
Freddie’s Restaurant 105 K Ave,
458-5979. Quaint, red-checkered
tablecloth Italian bar and grill with
American chop and steak dishes.
Italian Bistro 8211 Market St.,
686-7774. A local favorite in the Porter's
Neck / Ogden area, offering a variety of
homemade dishes and pizza.
Jay's Incredible Pizza 3600 College
Rd A, 791-7080. Versatile pizza styles
including deep-dish Chicago made by a
seasoned “pie” chef.
Kornerstone Bistro 8262 Market St.,
686-2296. Traditional Mediterranean
fare and wood-fired pizzas.
Nicola’s 5704 Oleander Dr., 798-2205.
An Italian eatery with daily homemade
pasta, sausage, baked breads and more.
Osteria Cicchetti 1125 Military Cutoff
Rd., 256-7476. Serving a variety of pasta
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dishes, pizza, salads and antipasti.
Pizzetta’s II 1144 E. Cutler Crossing
(Leland), 371-6001. Hottest spot for pizza
by the slice, offering dozens of pizza
choices with a New York flair.
Quanto Basta: Italian Eatery & Wine
Bar 107 N 2nd St., 395-6120. An uptown
family-owned Italian restaurant serving
exquisite authentic dishes.
Roko Italian Cuisine 6801-105 Parker
Farm Dr., 679-4783. Features authentic
northern Italian cuisine. Reservations
are often necessary at this intimate spot
in Mayfaire.
Tarantelli’s Ristorante 102 S. 2nd
St., 763-3806. Charming old-world
atmosphere serving dishes passed down
from the Tarantelli family for three
generations with a large selection of
Italian wines.
MEDITERRANEAN
Kipos Hellenic Cuisine, Lumina
Station 1900 Eastwood Rd, 492-2893.
An extension of Giorgios Bakatsias'
wildly popular Kipos brand, enjoy an
authentic Greek menu – including Greek
wines, as well as a convivial, bright white
and airy Mediterranean setting.
Olympia Restaurant 5629 Oleander
Dr #116, 796-9636. Known for using
a wide variety of fresh vegetables and
seafood with a Mediterranean flair in a
comfortable atmosphere.
MEXICAN
Nollie’s Taco Joint 3 Pelican Ln,
707-0455. Casual Mexian eatery serving
tacos, nachos and beer in a funky space
with skateboards on the wall.
Taco Baby 125 Grace St, 399-5629.
Funky, hip spot downtown, serving an
array of unique tacos, appetizers and
delicious margaritas.
Tequila Comida & Cantina 5607
Carolina Beach Rd., 399-1643. A unique
Mexican experience, serving new and
authentic dishes alongside a Tex-Mex
section.
Zocalo Street Food 1474 Barclay Pointe
Blvd., 833-5142. Modern Mexican food in
a stylish, airy space with outdoor seating.
ORGANIC
Lovey’s Market & Café 1319 Military
Cutoff Rd., 509-0331. A health food store
and café with fresh, delicious, healthy
organic food and baked goods.
Tidal Creek Co-op 5329 Oleander
Dr., 799-2667. An organic grocery store
with an inside café offering organic and
vegan-friendly options for casual dine-in
or take-out.
SEAFOOD
Black Sea Grill 118 S. Front St.,
254-9990. Mediterranean-style eatery in
a quaint downtown location. Lamb chops,
seafood and vegetarian options.
Bridge Tender 1414 Airlie Rd.,
256-4519. Fresh seafood and
certified Angus beef steaks. Dine
on the outdoor patio overlooking the
Intracoastal Waterway.
Cape Fear Seafood Company 5226 S.
College Rd., 799-7077; 140 Hays Lane,
681-1140; 143 Poole Rd., 399-6739.
Regional American cuisine featuring
seafood, hand-cut fish, steaks and
chicken served in a comfortable, relaxed
atmosphere.
Catch 6623 Market St., 799-3847. Wildcaught
and sustainably raised seafood,
with a modern approach to coastal cuisine
with an acclaimed wine list.
Ceviche’s 7210 Wrightsville Ave,
256-3131. A Panamanian cafe offering
Latin-inspired fare and tropical drinks
in a relaxed, vibrant setting.
Dockside 1308 Airlie Rd., 256-2752.
Casual marina spot with an eclectic,
seafood-heavy menu and full bar. Boat
docking available.
Elijah’s 2 Ann St., 343-1448. Casual
American grill and oyster bar overlooking
the Cape Fear River. Seafood, steaks,
chicken and salads.
Fish House Grill 1410 Airlie Rd., 256-
3693. A landmark seafood restaurant for
decades, enjoy waterfront casual dining
overlooking the Intracoastal Waterway.
Hieronymus 5035 Market St., 392-6313.
Come enjoy locally sourced seafood and
fresh vegetables in a casual atmosphere
- a local favorite for more than 30 years.
Savorez 402 Chestnut St. #4026,
833-8894. Come enjoy a unique dining
experience drawing from traditional
Latin American inspired cuisine. Fresh
seafood, chicken and grilled pork, tacos,
salsas and dessert.
Seabird 1 S Front St., 769-5996.
Seafood restaurant serving oysters, fish,
a yummy breakfast and cocktails amid a
retro, white-tiled interior.
Seaview Crab Company Kitchen 1515
Marstellar St, 769-1554. Fresh seafood
over salads in tacos and in made-to-order
po’boys, plus prepared foods to go.
Shuckin’ Shack Oyster Bar 127 N.
Front St., 833-8622; 6A N. Lake Park
Blvd., 458-7380. Come watch your
favorite sports team while enjoying
oysters, shrimp, crab cakes, po’ boys
and fresh salads. Casual, familyfriendly
atmosphere.
The George 128 S. Water St.,
763-2052. Waterfront dining with a
diverse selection of steak, pasta, salad
and fresh seafood. Dock your boat at the
only dock ‘n dine restaurant downtown.
TAPAS
The Fortunate Glass 29 S. Front St.,
399-4292. A wine bar at heart, the focus
is on wines from all regions, with 50 wines
by the glass and 30+ craft beers. Serving
a small menu of fine cheeses, Italian
cured meats, and decadent desserts.
PLANT-BASED OR VEGAN
The Green House 1427 Military Cutoff
Rd., 679-4994. A plant-based menu
with an emphasis on sustainability
and seasonality.
Panacea Brewing Co. 4107
Oleander Dr., 769-5591. Laid-back
eatery serving plant-based Southern
fare, plus kombucha, local beers and
Sunday brunch.
Sealevel City Vegan Diner 1015 S Kerr
Ave., 833-7196. Low-key, locally owned
restaurant offering a global menu with
lots of vegetarian/vegan options.
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In a nod to gold rush
prospectors, the bar at
Calistoga Depot Distillery
is crafted from well-worn
shovel heads.
Calistoga Reimagined
Discover the charm of this Napa Valley gem, from its historic hot springs
and revitalized train depot to its welcoming small-town vibe
By KATIE McELVEEN
PHOTOS CALISTOGA CVB
IN CALISTOGA, CALIFORNIA, EVERYTHING OLD IS
new again
In early 1848, Sacramento, California shop owner and
newspaper publisher Sam Brannan heard a rumor that gold had
been discovered in the nearby town of Coloma. But instead of
rushing to the site with a pickaxe, Brannan did something even
more ingenious: after confirming the story, he procured every piece
of mining equipment available for sale in the region and added it
to his shop’s inventory. Next, he set out for San Francisco and,
displaying a shiny vial of gold, initiated the first frenzy of what
would become the California Gold Rush. Within a few weeks, he
had made $36,000—a fortune in the mid-19th century—selling
the spades, shovels, picks, and baskets he had amassed. By June,
his newspaper, The California Star, reported that towns were
emptying as workers and their families flocked to the mining sites;
four days later, the paper ceased publication due to a lack of staff.
By 1850, Sam Brannan was not only the richest man in
California but the state’s first millionaire. In 1859, he made his
way to what is now Calistoga, where he became so enamored of
the region’s volcanic hot springs that he decided not only to build
a resort but also to facilitate travel to and from San Francisco by
founding the Napa Valley Railroad Company.
Although Brannan was soon forced to sell his shares in the hotel
and railroad company—he eventually died penniless—the city he
created continued to thrive. Today, shops, restaurants, and small
hotels line the downtown streets; a few blocks away, luxury resorts
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Jean-Charles Boisset
(pictured) launched the
Calistoga Depot in 2024.
Outdoor art decorates the
gardens that surround the
vines at Raymond Vineyards.
The Depot’s elegant
Parlor Car
Local art and other
merchandise fill the
shelves at Calistoga
Depot Provisions.
with manicured gardens and private hot springs offer views of
vineyards and, in the distance, the Mayacamas Mountains.
On a recent trip to Calistoga, I cycled through the residential
neighborhood surrounding the seven or so blocks of Lincoln Avenue
that form the city’s compact downtown. Along the way, I passed
not only the expected tasting rooms and tourist boutiques but also
bookstores, sweet-smelling bakeries, a drugstore, a grocery store,
and, at the end of the road, a former gas station turned winery
called the Tank Garage. It was unpretentious and welcoming—the
kind of place where I never had to lock my bike.
But what really sets the town apart are the hot springs bubbling
beneath the surface, creating mineral-rich mud and water that
detoxify, soften skin, and even help ease achy joints. Access
abounds: Indian Springs Calistoga Resort’s pools are fed by onsite
geysers, and the mud used in the resort’s signature mud baths
is also harvested on the property. At Dr. Wilkinson’s Spa & Baths,
tubs are filled with a proprietary mixture of steamy composted
botanicals, peat moss, mineral water, volcanic ash, and other
organics. It’s the same recipe that wellness pioneers John and Edy
Wilkinson developed in 1952 when they opened the spa and began
offering therapeutic mud baths to tourists. Solage Calistoga’s
Mudslide treatment trades the tub for a bucket of mud, which is
slathered on, left to dry, then rinsed off in a private garden shower.
The newest and coolest addition to Calistoga’s downtown is also
steeped in history. In 2023, the train depot that was part of Sam
Brannan’s long-defunct Napa Valley Railroad Company reopened
as the Calistoga Depot, a shopping and dining space that utilizes
not just the historic structure but also the platform and several
train cars.
The complex is the brainchild of Jean-Charles Boisset, who
fell in love with California when he first visited the state as an
11-year-old on a family trip. In 2003, he began acquiring wineries
in Napa and Sonoma; in 2021, he purchased the depot.
The main building is entered through a retail shop that’s also
home to a vegan deli; just beyond is the Calistoga Depot Distillery,
where you can sit at a bar constructed from old shovelheads and
sip spirits with names that harken back to Sam Brannan’s life—
Calistoga Star brandy, First Millionaire whiskey, and Fame &
Misfortune rye. Just past an outdoor beer garden, four railroad
cars have been transformed into separate restaurants where décor
and cuisine come together to create a multi-sensory experience.
The Parlor Car, for instance, serves caviar, Champagne, and icy
martinis under an iridescent ceiling, while Casa Obsidiana’s
Oaxacan dishes are as authentic as the artifacts and artwork that
decorate the train car.
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First Millionaires’ Saloon
is just the place for a
tasting of Calistoga
Depot Distillery’s wide
range of spirits.
Artifacts on display at
Casa Obsidiana, handcrafted
by artisans
Calistoga might be the northernmost city in Napa,
but I found it to be a convenient jumping-off point
for exploring the region. The town of St. Helena and
wineries like Raymond, Frank Family, Duckhorn,
and Rombauer are all within easy striking distance.
Even better, at the end of the day, heading north, I
traveled against the traffic battling south toward
Napa and San Francisco. But you might even
find yourself charmed, as I was, by Calistoga’s
low-key vibe.
Where to Stay
Sprawling through gardens planted with olive trees,
fragrant cedars, and wild orchids, Auberge Solage
Calistoga feels like a private estate. Rooms open onto
private outdoor spaces set with arbors and fireplaces;
the spa includes a number of hydrotherapy pools.
Town is just a five-minute bike trip away.
Resembling a vintage motor lodge, the justrenovated
Dr. Wilkinson’s Backyard Resort &
Mineral Springs is filled with trendy extras like
tree swings in the grassy backyard, retro Galanz
refrigerators, and mushroom-infused medicinal teas
as part of the in-room coffee service. W
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the last reflection
No Stress
Learning to be thankful for what is
By ANNE POSTIC
THOSE WORDS HAVE
been in my head and my
heart every day since I heard
them in a recent sermon
by Dean Dane Boston at
Trinity Episcopal Cathedral in Columbia.
When our children were still at home, we
were regular churchgoers. As they grew
up and ventured out into the world, we
attended less and less often, favoring more
sleep or a round of golf over occupying
our regular balcony pew. On that recent
Sunday, although I knew in theory that the
entire congregation wasn’t consumed by
speculation over where we’d been, I couldn’t
help but feel a little self-conscious as we sat
in church that morning.
Boston’s words eased that anxiety and
helped me feel thankful for the quiet time
of reflection. (And instead of missing
the kids and worrying about them, I felt
grateful for the ease with which we were
able to leave the house and arrive on time.)
In the weeks that followed, his words came
to mind often. Irritation over slow-moving
traffic transformed into gratitude for the
podcasts I love listening to in my sporty
convertible. Frustration over a cooking
mistake turned into joy at improvising and
appreciating my good fortune—having time
to cook and the budget to buy food I love.
Random phone calls, instead of inducing
anxiety about everything else I had to do
that day, sparked feelings of gratitude for
my wonderful friends and family, most of
whom I don’t see nearly as often as I’d like.
All this delight took away the power of any
minor irritation.
Changing your usual approach to various
situations takes practice. Deciding to greet
the day with gratitude instead of fear is a
hard habit to develop. But I’m determined.
My New Year’s resolution is to focus on
living in the moment and reminding myself
of everything that’s going well (or well
enough, as the case may be). Is it cheating
that I started in November? Am I doomed
to fail at everything I try? Does that make
me a bad person? To quote Britney Spears
(because why not?): “Oops, I did it again.”
True: I may have had a head start, and I
may fail. But I’m grateful that I prepared
ahead of time and that I’ve succeeded in
the past in changing some of the things I
don’t love about myself. And I’m not a bad
person—because is anyone wholly terrible
or entirely good? To quote another artist,
Kanye West (also neither perfect nor
completely flawed): “You’re not perfect,
but you’re not your mistakes.” Today, I’m
grateful to be myself—a person flawed
enough to empathize with others and kind
enough to want to.
So far, so good. To be fair, as I write this,
the holidays are still a few weeks away, and
that’s not always an easy time. But this
year, instead of worrying that I’m failing
to provide magical holiday memories for
our sons, or that I should go to more parties
(and be a more interesting guest), or that
whatever we eat won’t be good enough, I’m
determined to do better. For the first time
in a couple of years, all our sons will be
here. They make me laugh, they get along
well and love each other, and we have a new
puppy! Also, I actually like fruitcake, and
this is the only time of year I can get my
hands on that sticky, booze-soaked treat. It
may be January by the time you read this,
but you can bet I’ll be gratefully eating a
little slice. Because no one else wants it,
and the liquor means a fruitcake never
really goes bad. Hooray!
Will choosing gratitude in the face of
anxiety mean nothing bad ever happens?
Or that stress will never rear its head? Of
course not. But this year, I’ll be grateful
for everything in my life that helps me get
through those less-than-perfect moments.
Or at least I’ll do my best. Here’s to friends,
family, and everything that makes the
tough times bearable. And here’s to hoping
we can all live in the moment, able to
acknowledge the bright spots—even in the
darkest corners—that bring us joy. W
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