The Good Life – March-April 2025

DAD LIFE
EmbrAcing AI
How Dads Can Use New Tech to Simplify Life at Work and Home
WRITTEN BY: PAUL HANKEL
As a dad, a wannabe journalist, and a busy working
professional, life often feels like a juggling act. Between
deadlines, meetings, and making sure my kid gets to
school with his backpack and a coat on, there are days
when I wish I had a personal assistant. Luckily, I do –
just not in human form. Artificial intelligence has quietly
become an indispensable part of both my professional
and personal life, helping me stay organized, efficient, and
even a little more present as a parent.
AI in My Work Life
My work requires a lot of research, writing, and
communication, and AI has streamlined nearly every
aspect of that process. I often need to dig through reports,
find reliable sources, and draft articles on tight deadlines.
AI-powered search tools and summarization features help
me quickly sift through mountains of information, saving
hours I would have otherwise spent combing through
documents.
For my communications work, AI has been equally helpful.
It allows me to manage campaigns, track voter sentiment,
draft speeches, and analyze policy positions. AI-powered
data analytics help me gauge public opinion, social media
engagement, and polling trends, allowing me to craft more
targeted messaging. Additionally, AI-assisted content
creation tools help me draft press releases, emails, and
social media posts in a fraction of the time, freeing me up
for more strategic planning.
AI in My Family Life
One of the biggest lifesavers has been AI-powered
scheduling tools. Between school events, extracurricular
activities, and my own deadlines, keeping track of
everything can be overwhelming. AI-integrated calendars
help by sending reminders, suggesting the best times for
meetings, and even syncing family schedules so I can plan
ahead.
AI also plays a role in meal planning and grocery shopping.
With a busy schedule, figuring out what’s for dinner can
be a daily struggle. AI-powered apps suggest recipes
based on what’s in my fridge and even create grocery lists
that I can order with a single click. This saves me from
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last-minute drive-thru runs and ensures my child eats
something that isn’t just boxed mac and cheese.
Then there’s the homework. While I’d love to say I
remember everything from high school algebra, the
reality is that my kid’s homework sometimes stumps
me. AI tutoring apps and prompts help bridge that gap,
offering explanations and step-by-step solutions so my
child can learn without me frantically Googling how
to solve quadratic equations (I’m more of a left-brain
learner).
Finding Balance
Of course, AI isn’t a magic solution for everything. It can’t
replace the importance of human interaction, creativity,
or the personal touch required in my work. However, it
does help me cut through the noise, automate repetitive
tasks, and focus on what truly matters – being present
for my child and being able to seamlessly operate within
the various career fields that I do.
For many, AI might seem like a scary or futuristic
concept, but for me, it’s a daily companion that keeps my
life running smoothly. Whether it’s helping me craft a
political strategy, manage an event, or simply get dinner
on the table, AI has proven to be an invaluable tool in
both my career and family life. And while it won’t ensure
my child wears a jacket when it’s cold (yet), it does
help ensure I have the time and energy to remember
everything as we hurtle out the door on our way to that
day’s activities.
Getting Started: AI Doesn’t Have to Be Complicated
If AI sounds overwhelming, don’t worry – you don’t need
to be a tech expert to use it. Just start small. Pick one or
two AI-powered tools that could help with your biggest
pain points, whether that’s work organization, meal
planning, or keeping up with the kids.
As a dad, your time is one of your most valuable
resources. By leveraging AI, you can reclaim hours in
your day, reduce stress, and spend more quality time
with your family. After all, being a great dad isn’t about
doing everything, it’s about focusing on what truly
matters: being present. •
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DAD LIFE - EMBRACING AI
How Dads Can Use New Tech to
Simplify Life at Work and Home
GET IT DONE
WITH LABOR MASTERS
SUPERFRUIT
Elderberry and Aronia
INSPIRATION, NOT INCARCERATION
Veterans Treatment Court Removes
the Bars from Mental Health
Accessibility
HOW WOMEN KEEP THEIR HUSBANDS
ALIVE
ON THE COVER - MIKE HULL
NO DREAM TOO BIG
Pastor Mike Hull Talks About Growing
a Church From the Ground Up
HOMEWARD ANIMAL SHELTER
Your Adventure Buddy Awaits!
HAVING A BEER WITH
- BONNIE & FRIENDS
Bonnie Amistadi and Jace Denman
LOCAL HERO - NATE NIEMAN
FROM BATTLEFIELD TO BADGE
Putting People First is Key for
Lieutenant Nieman
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WITH LABOR MASTERS
WRITTEN BY: BEN HANSON
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Elderberry and Aronia
WRITTEN BY: JEFFREY MILLER
It’s hard not to notice the emergence of
the “superfruits” in the last few years.
Superfruits are fruits high in nutrients and
antioxidants, with numerous other health
benefits. Though many superfruits, like
mangosteen, papaya and pomegranates
don’t grow, there are a couple that thrive
in our climate. They are the American
Elderberry and Aronia.
On our small homestead, Cottonwood
Bend Farm, we have experimented
with a variety of native and introduced
fruit-bearing shrubs and trees. Aronia
and elderberry have become our main
producers, both for our use and for sale.
Elderberry
The American Elderberry (Sambucus
canadensis) is a native deciduous shrub,
generally found along streams and in
damp areas. Growing to 10 feet tall and
10 feet wide, Elderberry will sucker and
form dense thickets. Many wildlife species
utilize the plant, from birds eating the fruit
to bees and butterflies on the flowers.
Elderberries are easy to plant and can
be purchased from Soil Conservation
Districts for a few dollars each. Though
there are named varieties, such as Adams
and York, they are much more expensive.
There is a tremendous amount of variation
in American Elderberry, with some plants
producing huge crops while the plant next
to it may not be nearly as fruitful.
During the middle part of summer, small
white flowers are formed in dense clusters.
The beautiful flowers are stunning and
aromatic. Best of all, elderberry will flower
for a good part of the summer. Though I
love lilacs, the flowers are only present
for a few weeks each spring. Elderberry
flowers can be enjoyed for much longer.
During the late summer, the flowers are
followed by drupes. The elderberry fruit
starts off green and turns a dark purple,
to almost black, when ripe. Though birds
enjoy the ripe fruit, the heavy heads of
berries hang down, making them work for
it. Healthy plants produce an abundance
of fruit, and there is plenty for people and
birds alike.
Flowers and fruit can be harvested.
Elderflower is best harvested as soon as
the first flowers blossom. Select only the
fresh flower heads and avoid damaged
flowers. Begin harvesting as soon as the
morning dew has burned off and cut the
base of the flower head. Give it a shake
to remove bugs and place the flowers in
a basket.
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PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: JEFFREY MILLER
Elderflowers can be used in a variety of
ways. They can be dried and seeped in hot
water for a tea, tinctured in alcohol for an
herbal remedy or made into a cordial for
use as a drink or as a baking ingredient.
Cocktail enthusiasts can turn it into St-
Germain, a French liqueur. The fragrant
flowers add a flavor utterly unique to any
preparation.
Elderberries have been used for a variety
of medicinal uses for much of human
history. It has been used for skin care
and medicines. Modern science has
discovered elderberry is high in Vitamin
C, fiber, phenolic acids, flavonols and
anthocyanins.
Elderflowers can be used
in a variety of ways:
• seeped in hot water for
tea
• tinctured in alcohol for
an herbal remedy
• made into a cordial for
use as a drink
• turned into a French
liqueur
• skincare and medicines
High in Vitamin C, fiber,
phenolic acids, flavonols
and anthocyanins.
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Harvest the fruit when it is dark and full. I like to
squish a berry, and if the resulting juice is thin and
watery, the fruit is not ripe. Dark, thick juice means
it’s ready to harvest.
Once the heads are cut from the plant, I will freeze
them for a few days. Collecting a few frozen heads
in a plastic bag, I’ll shake it until the fruit falls off.
The stems are discarded.
Elderberry should not be consumed raw, unless
tinctured. I like to make a simple elderberry
syrup, both for mixing into drinks and for a cough
suppressant. When a throat tickle begins, a daily
shot of elderberry syrup seems to help immensely.
Elderberries can be used in baking and
make excellent jelly. I prefer to freeze
gallon-sized bags for later use.
BLACK
CHOKEberry
Also known as Aronia berry,
black chokeberry (Aronia
melanocarpa) is a native
shrub most often found
in woodlands and along
streams and marshes. Short in stature, it grows to
6 feet tall and 6 feet wide.
Soil Conservation Districts carry bare root aronia
shrubs, and many healthy plants can be purchased
for a small financial outlay.
In the spring, soft white flower clusters cover the
plant, later turning into dark purple pomes during
the late summer.
The fruit appears ripe by early August, but the
flavor will deepen the longer they remain on the
bush. Fresh fruit possesses a very tart, astringent
flavor. Though they look like a blueberry, one bite
is all it takes to realize the similarities end there!
Harvesting is very easy. Last year I was averaging 30
pounds every half hour for hand-picking. A mature
plant sags with fruit and is highly productive.
Fruit can be used in a variety of ways. My favorite
use is to make a liqueur. I simply infuse frozen fruit
with vodka and sugar and let it sit for a month. The
resulting liqueur is smooth and fruity, perfect over
ice mixed with tonic.
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PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: JEFFREY MILLER
Though I’m not a winemaker, several local wineries
use aronia berries for a delicious semi-sweet wine.
Once juiced, aronia makes great jelly. I’ve also used
my steam juicer to make pure juice. Sweetened
with honey, it’s great served over ice on a hot day.
Much like elderberry, aronia is high in antioxidants
and has been used in folk remedies for many years.
PLANT YOUR OWN
The best part of aronia and elderberry is they
can be grown nearly anywhere. Small enough
for an urban backyard, nearly any home has
enough space for a few plants. They also do well
in rural windbreaks and yards. This year, plan on
incorporating superfruits into your backyard! •
Chokeberries can be used to make:
• jellies
• juices
• syrups
• liqueurs
• wine
HIGH IN
ANTIOXIDANTS!
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WRITTEN BY: AMY WIESER WILLSON
PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA
Most crimes aren’t black and white. When it comes to
combat veterans especially, extenuating circumstances
often intertwine with the actions they take. Many turn
to drugs and alcohol as a way to self-medicate for posttraumatic
stress, which only leads to more problems –
such as ending up in court with charges filed.
For many, treatment, not incarceration, is what they
really need. A new program in Cass County will provide
that option.
EXPANDING TO CASS COUNTY
Veterans Treatment Court began a little over a year
ago in Grand Forks County, and their first veteran
recently graduated from the program. Judge Constance
Cleveland kicked off the effort in Cass County in April
2024, and the momentum grew when it was taken to the
Cass County Commission in June. Next up is to request
funding for the program from the State of North Dakota
and to begin training.
“Judge Cleveland took the initiative and is the driving
force behind getting a Veterans Treatment Court in
the East Central Judicial District,” said Dan Bertsch, a
veteran and attorney working on the project. “She did
all the work to have the North Dakota Supreme Court
approve a Veterans Treatment Court in the District,
met with all the players to get the needed support, met
with the Cass County Commission, and has spoken
with veteran groups and the media in order to garner
support.”
While Veterans Treatment Court will have similarities
to Drug Court, it’s not limited to those with substance
abuse disorders. Rather, those who choose to participate
will receive treatment for mental health concerns.
“Service in the military is done by very few in our
society, and so many don't understand the cost and
the impact on those who serve and on the family,”
Cleveland said. “Sometimes, the impact is negative and
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SOMETIMES, THE IMPACT IS NEGATIVE
AND LIFELONG. I BELIEVE WE OWE IT TO
OUR VETERANS TO PROVIDE WHATEVER
SERVICE WE CAN TO SUPPORT THEIR
RETURN TO CIVILIAN LIFE.
lifelong. I believe we owe it to our veterans to provide
whatever service we can to support their return to
civilian life. Veterans Court is a part of that. Servicerelated
trauma, mental health issues, and addiction can
be the aftereffects, and I am humbled to play any role
I can in working to make positive change in the lives
of veterans who experience these as a result of service
and have then ended up in the criminal justice system.”
A VETERAN HELPING VETERANS
Bertsch will be the defense attorney for the Veterans
Treatment Court, advocating for the participants, who
are told they can ask him any legal question. They
should feel in good hands. Bertsch likely holds the
record for the most deployments among North Dakota
service members.
“Making the right choices, networking well, and being
a good team player got me deployed 17 times,” he
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IT’S PERSONAL. THE VETERANS HAVE
ISSUES THEY DID NOT NECESSARILY
CREATE FOR THEMSELVES. THEY ARE
REACTING. THEY DESERVE ALL THE
ASSISTANCE WE CAN PROVIDE THEM.
said. “… I was in leadership positions in which taking care
of my people was at least as important as our missions.
I had a forte for taking care of people. I am still getting
calls from people who recall my advice made a difference
in their lives, and they are looking for someone who
understands. There are issues they encountered years
ago that still affect them today. It’s personal.”
While Cleveland didn’t serve in the military, she’s seen
how it impacts families. Her father was a disabled veteran,
three of her four uncles served, two of her three children
serve in the Air National Guard, and her son-in-law is
active duty in the Air Force.
“While I am not a veteran, I have always had a deep
respect and appreciation for the values instilled in the
military and believe we should honor those who serve our
country in this way,” she said.
HOW IT WORKS
When a veteran is charged with a crime that’s not
considered a violent crime – typically one that doesn’t
involve a firearm – they are given the opportunity to apply
for Veterans Treatment Court if they meet a number of
parameters. For example, if they are currently in the Armed
Services, they must be available in the district without
a change of station for 18 months, which is how long it
takes to complete the program. They must be assessed
to be at high risk, and they must agree to the rules and
regulations of the system. All participants must also meet
with the Fargo VA Veterans Justice Outreach Coordinator
to complete a clinical needs assessment and be willing to
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take part in the evidence-based
treatment program.
That program involves numerous
partners invested in helping
the veteran. The Department
of Veterans Affairs may provide
substance abuse and/or mental
health treatment and may make
referrals for medical, housing,
employment and other unmet
needs. Veterans must have weekly
meetings with their probation
officer and mental health
providers as well as attend two
meetings specific to their needs
to help improve their resiliency,
such as Alcoholics Anonymous,
Narcotics Anonymous, or rape
and abuse counseling. They
must also maintain a job or
full-time education. There’s a
requirement, as well, to maintain
a daily journal. Throughout the
program, they have a mentor
for support in addition to the
treatment providers and a
defense attorney.
“Veterans court is not a free
pass; it challenges people and
holds them accountable but
provides support and resources
to reconnect individuals to the
skills and beliefs that they have
demonstrated and deployed on
behalf of our country,” Cleveland
said. “It is my hope that this will
benefit these individuals and
ultimately our community."
It's a heavy but worthwhile
commitment, and one that
Bertsch is dedicated to, as well.
“It’s personal. The veterans have
issues they did not necessarily
create for themselves. They are
reacting. They deserve all the
assistance we can provide them,”
he said. •
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How Women Keep
Their Husbands Alive
WRITTEN BY: MEGHAN FEIR WALKER
Your wife is a biohacking tool for longevity, and you don’t
even have to pay a monthly subscription.
Men, I know what you’re thinking. “Oh, I PAY every
month!” But here’s the thing: She has undoubtedly saved
your car, your home, your health, and your life on more
than one occasion.
From making sure you’re eating more than pizza to
pressuring doctor, dental, and other appointments when
necessary, from alerting you when you’re about to hit a car
to snuggling you on the couch, wives are a huge reason
men live healthier, longer, happier lives.
A few studies and polls have proven this phenomenon true.
In 2019, a survey featured in Harvard Health Publishing
of 127,545 Americans highlighted how married men
are healthier than lifelong bachelors, divorcees, and
widowers. This just confirmed what we already knew:
The guys with the golden bands on their fingers,
commitment written on their hearts, and a honey-do
list live longer.
Besides the love, care, loyalty, encouragement,
companionship, and nurturing a good woman
(emphasis on “good”) can provide for a good
man (emphasis on “good”), we cannot forget one
of the biggest factors in this equation: Women
have a startling amount of caution and insight.
The perpetual anxiety ingrained in most women’s
psyches may shorten their own lifespans, but
it extends the lives of their
husbands. Call it vigilance or
a mental health issue, but it
balances out the time men and
women share on earth.
In general, women develop higher
levels of empathy and frontal
lobe development earlier than
men. Our capacity to imagine
cause and effect, stepping into
imaginary (but highly possible)
scenarios of pain, has saved the
lives of billions upon billions of
children and adult males.
Just the other day, I heard what
sounded like a hammer hitting the house
every few minutes. I mentioned it to my
husband Tim, who said, “Stop being so
paranoid. It’s just a woodpecker.”
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The perpetual anxiety ingrained in most
women’s psyches may shorten their own
lifespans, but it extends the lives of
their husbands.
As usual, that accusation
wasn’t enough to stop me. I
had to check for myself.
Lo and behold, our electric water
heater was sparking. And when I say
“sparking,” I mean a shocking ball of blue light
illuminated the connection between the wires
and our water heater.
and pain, but I know many couples who are determined
to stick it out together, and that’s worth more than any
biohacking tool money can buy.
When God created women, He called females a “helpmate”
for men, meaning “a person who provides needed help
and assistance.” That is precisely what we’re doing. We’re
helping you live longer through our love. •
Tim fixed it (thank you, Tim), but imagine if I hadn’t been
there. Had this incident not been caught early, it may
have resulted in an action-movie-like explosion, sending
my dear husband and I flying from our home through
the frigid air – without coats, even. We could have
landed on the power lines outside our house.
We could have died.
Imagine if I hadn’t been there to protect
him as a harbinger of potential danger,
a herald of caution.
Paranoia saves lives.
For additional proof, take your own wife as
an example. I’m sure she reminds you to get
your teeth cleaned, have your prostate and heart
checked, and call your mom on her birthday.
She doesn’t do all this because it’s fun. Your
wife responds to these calls of matrimonial
duty because she doesn’t want your teeth to
fall out, doesn’t want you to die prematurely,
and doesn’t want your mom to think she’s a
bad daughter-in-law.
While marriage exposes the good, the bad, and
the selfishness in everyone, when two people
are devoted to making their marriage a haven
of love, safety, and friendship for each other, it’s
no wonder years are added to one’s life.
I don’t know any married couples who haven’t
had their fair share of trials, arguments,
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ON THE COVER | MIKE HULL
no dream
TOO BIG
Pastor Mike Hull Talks About Growing a Church
From the Ground Up
WRITTEN BY: DANIELLE TEIGEN
PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA
Mike Hull didn’t always plan to be a pastor.
In college, he thought he’d be a history teacher and a
football coach. It made sense – he loved history and he
played tight end for Mid-America Nazarene University in
his hometown of Olathe, Kansas, for five years.
So it made sense.
Except … it didn’t.
Because God had a
different plan for him, no
matter how much Mike
tried to ignore it. And
God’s plan wasn’t just for
Mike to be a pastor.
He was going to grow a church from the ground up.
And that’s exactly what he’s doing, along with a group of
devoted team members, his supportive wife and son, and
a whole lot of faith.
“I knew in the recesses of my heart that
God was calling me to lead, but it was
hard to envision myself doing this.”
– Pastor Mike Hull
‘God was calling me to lead’
Mike grew up in a Christian home with his parents Bob
and Marsha and a younger brother Brett.
They attended church weekly and his parents taught
Sunday school. Three of his uncles served as lead pastors
and an aunt and uncle served as missionaries. The faith
of his family was a guiding principle all his life, yet seeing
firsthand the demands and
challenges of ministry, a
lead pastor was not where
he envisioned himself.
However, he recalls
numerous moments over
his life where God was
preparing him for this
adventure. While on a mission trip in seventh grade, he
was moved to lead a group of middle schoolers in prayer,
and two years later he started leading a bible study at
school. Yet it wasn’t until college when he finally said “yes”
to a call to ministry full time.
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ON THE COVER | MIKE HULL
“I knew in the recesses of my heart that God was calling
me to lead, but it was hard to envision myself doing this,”
he said.
After graduating with a degree in ministry, he worked
numerous jobs. One of Mike’s coworkers, who knew about
his call to ministry, told him about a youth pastor position
in Topeka, Kansas. Mike applied and a few weeks later, he
had the job.
That was the start of a journey that led Mike and his wife
Kristen to various churches in California, Colorado, and
back to Kansas where he decided to move away from
youth ministry and step into the lead pastor role.
During those years of being a solo pastor, learning from
leaders and models, and welcoming their son, Judah, in
2014, Mike and Kristen realized it was taking a toll.
“I remember we were driving with our son asleep in the
backseat and we were processing leaving ministry. Kristen
looked at me and said, ‘I know this is hard, but you were
created to be a pastor, and I don’t think you’ll be happy
doing anything else. Maybe we need to dream about doing
church differently,’” Mike recalled.
This was a turning point for Mike, where he began to
dream about a church where instead of hiring people to
do the work, the church members were equipped to share
the role of ministry and leadership capitalized on an
individual's strengths and passions. A church that impacts
lives 7 days a week, in every area of their life – where they
live, work, learn, and play.
Mike reached out to Jon Hauser, a fellow member of the
Nazarene Church who had started a church in Fargo in
2000 called Prairie Heights. By the time Mike reached out
to him in 2017, Prairie Heights had grown from services
with a few hundred people in various community locations
and the Fargodome to its current 41,000-square-foot
location in West Fargo with several thousand people at
its services.
Through this mentorship, Mike was invited to come to
Fargo and start learning how to start a church. As the
Hull family adjusted to their new life in Fargo, Mike was
learning various roles within the church. In 2019, Jon
Hauser announced he and his wife would be stepping
away from the church they founded. Mike was named lead
teaching pastor.
Then Covid hit. “That was an eye-opener for everyone,”
Mike said. “Not just for the entire world, but for me
personally, as it became clear that church needed to be
re-imagined in order to meet the needs of people who are
full of fear and without hope.”
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Growing a church
“I knew God was calling us to do ministry as a family,” he said. “I
was not meant to be ministering alone … Jesus sent his disciples
together as pairs.”
As a former college football player, Mike said being part of a
cohesive team working toward a common goal just made sense
to him. He also cited Moses and his brother Aaron, who were
a team of teachers leading the Israelites from Egypt to the
Promised Land. He pointed out that in Exodus 17:12, Moses
grew tired so Aaron and another man brought something for
him to sit on and then stood beside him to hold up Moses’ arms
despite his fatigue.
“There’s an expectation in some churches that one person can
do it all, but 5,000 pastors leave the ministry every month,” Mike
shared. “The structure of how ministry is done needs to change,
they need someone to hold up their arms.”
But who would be on his team? Who would help him when he
grew weary?
One of his first calls was to Stephen Abbott, whom he had met
in Colorado where they served on staff together at the same
church. Stephen, and his wife Stephanie, had experienced
their own highs and lows in ministry over the years, and were
instrumental in flushing out the vision of not doing ministry
alone.
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ON THE COVER | MIKE HULL
PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: MIKE HULL
But what would they call it?
Although Restoration Church was a leading contender
after workshopping the name, another name made more
sense.
“In Deuteronomy 2:3, God said, ‘You have made your way
around this hill country long enough; now turn north,’”
Mike said. “This became the driving force for our name,
because so many people are lost and God is the one who
calls us to turn north and point our lives in the direction
that He leads us.”
Thus, True North Church was born.
In July 2021, they held an interest event in a Fargo park
and more than 400 people showed up. They were on to
something, but they needed more team members. They
eventually added eight more team members to their staff,
all with the shared goal of raising up “faith-filled risk
takers who impact the world where they live, work, learn
and play.”
“What a gift our team is,” Mike said. “I’m just blown away
by their commitment to see this dream realized. It’s really
humbling.”
True North Church has grown enough that last year in
June, it purchased the former Pepsi call center building
in south Fargo to transform it into its permanent home,
which should be ready in April. The building will offer a
540-seat sanctuary with ample space for kids and room
for additional expansion.
‘Your dream is not too big’
Now that he’s in the middle of this – growing a church
from the ground up – Mike can reflect on the journey so
far and see the divine intervention guiding him along the
way.
Mike comes back to the words of one of his mentors,
Dwayne Deskins, who told Mike, “God has anointed you
to do something phenomenal … your dream is not too big,
and in fact, it may not be big enough.”
Mike talks about being a faith-filled risk taker, and he
certainly is that. When he talks about his church, he’s
talking about a family of believers who love Jesus and
want to live their faith every day, not just on Sundays.
“We want to do church differently,” he said. “I tell people
that they need to get used to different if they’re going to
join us at True North.”
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“What an honor it is to get to do
this, to build something unique
with God’s help.”
– Pastor Mike Hull
That difference is resonating with people as
hundreds join each Sunday at the three services (and
approximately 500 stream services online each week);
on Christmas and Easter, attendance has swelled to
nearly 3,000 people.
“What an honor it is to get to do this … to see God build
something unique,” he said.
And he emphasizes over and over that this is a team
effort, not just with the staff but with his own family,
whose support of him has never wavered.
“Kristen is just amazing,” Mike said. “After putting
off getting her master’s in counseling for years as we
moved across the country, she is now finally living her
dream as a school counselor. She is one of the most
hilarious, kind, direct, and most gifted people I know.”
And Judah? He’s a fourth grader who loves his friends,
playing football and baseball, and Jesus, obviously. After
all, his name means “worshipful warrior” and when
the family was preparing to move to Fargo, Mike and
Kristen simply explained to him that “Jesus had opened
a door for us” and they were going to “follow the dream
that God has laid on our hearts.”
And what a dream it is. And the best part? The dream is
not nearly finished yet, but it’s all part of God’s greater
plan for Mike and his life.
What does the good life mean to Mike?
“Getting to live a life as a faith-filled risk-taker. Making
an impact where we live, work, learn and play. Spending
time with my wife and son. Watching him grow into the
man God has called him to be.” •
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Your Adventure Buddy Awaits!
Every face you see here represents one of the many pets in our care, patiently
waiting for their perfect match. Each of them has a story, a heart full of hope,
and a forever family out there somewhere. And for every pet featured on
these pages, countless more are waiting in our shelter and foster homes,
dreaming of the day their lives will change forever.
Perhaps one of them has been waiting all this time … to rescue YOU. Adopt
a shelter pet today and give them the second chance they deserve!
Our Mission: Rescue. Shelter. Protect. Rehome.
To donate or learn more about adopting, volunteering, fostering,
or other ways you can help, visit: homewardonline.org
PHOTOS SUBMITTED BY: HOMEWARD ANIMAL SHELTER
Orville
Male | 2 years old | White & Tabby DSH
Hi there! I’m Orville, a big, solid brown-and-white tabby boy, about 2 years old, with
stunning golden eyes. I used to be a stray and ended up at the pound, but luckily
Homeward found me, and they’re taking great care of me now. I’m still healing
from my tough time living outside. My face has some red, raw spots from the
cold weather, and I still have some scars and scabs on my head and rough paw
pads. But don’t worry, I’m a total lover despite it all. I’ll roll over for belly rubs and
absolutely love being scratched on my head, ears, and chin. I’m a calm, laid-back
guy just looking for someone to call my own. Please adopt me!
BRISBY
Male | 3 years old | Husky
Hello there! My name is Brisby. I’m a dashing Husky with striking blue eyes and a
playful, goofy personality. I’m on the lookout for my forever home – one where I’ll
be showered with love, affection and a steady supply of delicious treats! I enjoy
playing, snuggling, napping and going for car rides. I’m happiest when I’m near my
people and will become your best companion.
I can be selective about my doggy friends and usually prefer the company of
females, but I am currently fostered with another male dog who has become a
good buddy! Unfortunately, I’m not a fan of cats, so I’d do best in a cat-free home.
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I’m a smart guy, leash-trained, and ready to embark on a life filled with fun and
adventure with my forever family. If you think we might be the perfect match, why
not come meet me? I’d love to win your heart!

BEE
Female | 7 months old | Mountain Cur Mix
Hello there! My name is Bee, and I’m buzzing with excitement to meet you! I’m a
little bearer of joy - a playful, happy-go-lucky pup ready to share my love with my
perfect forever family.
Since I’m still a puppy, I have plenty of energy and a big love for fun! I enjoy playing
with squeaky toys, chew toys, and of course – treats are always a welcome bonus.
I get along great with other dogs and love having friends to play with. But as much
as I love playtime, I adore my people. Even though I’m not the tiniest pup, I’m a lap
dog at heart and will happily snuggle up for a cuddle session.
I’m also smart and eager to please. I do great on a leash and love learning new
things. Now, all I need is that special someone to love me as much as I’ll love them!
Feliz
Male | 2 years old | Black & White DSH
Hi there, I’m Feliz, a handsome, thoughtful boy who would make a great addition
to any family. I’m calm and a little on the thin side, but don’t worry, we can work on
that together! I love rolling around, exploring, and of course, hunting! The red dot is
my absolute nemesis, and bird watching? Well, it makes me chatter and trill with
the best of them! Needless to say, I’d love these fun activities even more with some
human companionship. If you’re looking for a gentle, affectionate, and playful kitty
who’s up for just about anything, look no further. I’m your guy!
Margaret
Female | 2 years old | Mixed Breed
Hey there, I’m Margaret! A spunky, athletic girl looking for my perfect match. If you
want a dog with energy, agility, and a touch of herding instinct, I might be the
one for you! I love to run, play, and keep busy, so I need an active owner who
understands a smart pup like me.
I get along with other dogs but play rough, so I need friends who can keep up. A
confident, dog-savvy owner would be best to help channel my energy. Since I can
get a little mouthy when excited, a home with older, dog-experienced kids (think
teens) is ideal.
Even though I’m full of energy, I love to snuggle up after playtime. I’ve had sleepovers
with volunteers and proved I can settle in quickly and sleep soundly. I’ve been at
the shelter for a while and am more than ready for a home. Just one thing – I’m not
a fan of cats! If you’re looking for a fun, loyal, and active companion, I can’t wait to
meet you!
POLLY
Female | 8.5 years old | Black DMH
Hi there, my name is Polly, but my foster calls me Raven. I'm really looking for my
one and only person. I'm what you would call a "lap cat"; cuddling, snuggling and
laying around are what I like to do best. I am really laid back and spend most of
my day relaxing and finding a sunny spot to snooze in, so a household without a
lot of hustle and bustle would suit me best. I currently share my foster home with
other animals, but dogs are not really my favorite. I like other cats that give me my
space, but I would also be happy to have a home of my very own, with no other
animals.
Unfortunately, I don't have a lot of teeth left, but don't worry, I still love my food, and
although I prefer canned food, I will still gobble down dry food any chance I get. If
you think I might be the girl for you, please fill out an adoption application and find
out how you can meet me!
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HAVING A BEER WITH | BONNIE & FRIENDS
HAVING A
BEER WITH
BONNIE & FRIENDS
Bonnie Amistadi
and Jace Denman
WRITTEN BY: DAWN SIEWERT AND DARREN LOSEE
PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA
In this lively interview with The Good Life Magazine,
Bonnie Amistadi and Jace Denman (hosts of WDAY’s
morning radio show, Bonnie & Friends) take us on
a rollercoaster of quirky questions and hilarious
answers, all while enjoying sodas and beers at
Brewhalla.
From receiving jars of sauerkraut to debating the
merits of a pet dinosaur versus a dragon, these two
are a whirlwind of humor and heart. Bonnie reveals
her no-nonsense side (she'd happily munch on a
penguin from her freezer), while Jace drops wisdom
with a side of sarcasm (his preferred alien travel
companion? A chastity belt). Through it all, their easy
camaraderie shines, reminding us that the good life is
about appreciating the little things, like family, health,
and maybe a little fire-breathing dragon — just as long
as it doesn't destroy the cupboards. Cheers to that!
WHAT IS THE STRANGEST GIFT YOU HAVE
RECEIVED FROM A LISTENER?
Bonnie: Some guy brought in jars of sauerkraut.
Jace: What was the stuff, those dumpling things? Oh,
klubb. I never had klubb before.
The Good Life: What is klubb?
Bonnie: It's like a dumpling. Like a pierogi, and it
usually has ham in it.
IF YOUR SHOW TURNED INTO A SITCOM, WHICH
ACTOR WOULD YOU WANT TO PLAY YOU?
Jace: Well, the only one that I've ever been probably
slightly compared to is Stephen Baldwin.
The Good Life: Oh, I see it now.
Bonnie: I often got compared to Carla from Cheers.
Because she just kind of told it like it is.
Jace: But if we were to really cast ourselves, I'd
probably pick someone like Ryan Reynolds.
IF YOU HAD TO CHOOSE BETWEEN PLAYING
"BABY SHARK" ON A LOOP FOR 24 HOURS OR
READING THE PHONE BOOK ON AIR, WHAT
WOULD YOU PICK?
Bonnie: I like to sing, so "Baby Shark.”
Jace: For 24 hours? Nah, I'm gonna read the phone
book.
Bonnie: You're so boring!
Jace: I can make up nicknames for the people and
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What was the stuff, those dumpling things? Oh,
klubb. I never had klubb before. – Jace Denman
then add imaginary middle names.
Bonnie: Have fun reading the phone book.
Jace: 867-5309.
The Good Life: You would go insane after 24 hours of
"Baby Shark".
Jace: She might already be insane.
IF ALIENS LANDED HERE TOMORROW AND
OFFERED YOU A RIDE ON THEIR SPACESHIP, YOU
CAN ONLY BRING ONE OBJECT WITH YOU. WHAT
IS IT?
Bonnie: My phone. I would die without my phone. I
gotta be surfing news stories all day long.
Jace: Probably a chastity belt. No probes.
The Good Life: That's a safe bet. I think that's more
practical than the phone.
Jace: Nobody is gonna believe me anyway. So at least
I'll be safe. You'll be out of your service area, though.
Bonnie: Who's gonna answer anyway? We don't
answer our phones.
WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE A PET DINOSAUR OR
A PET DRAGON? BOTH ARE HOUSEBROKEN BY
THE WAY...
Jace: Pet dragon.
Bonnie: The dragon will start stuff on fire! Cupboards
will melt. Linoleum, bye-bye!
Jace: But he's house-trained. It’s fine.
Bonnie: He's still gonna breathe fire.
The Good Life: The dragon could also give you rides.
Jace: Depends on the dragon. You know, they got
wings and can fly. Maybe they do. Maybe they don't.
Bonnie: I'm thinking that cute dinosaur show, like
from the 90s. Remember the dinosaur family?
The Good Life: Oh yeah, the TV series Dinosaurs.
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HAVING A BEER WITH | BONNIE & FRIENDS
You would just have to listen to Jay swear as he
climbs the coconut tree. – Bonnie Amistadi
IF ANIMALS COULD TALK, WHAT SPECIES
WOULD BE THE MOST ANNOYING TO HAVE A
CONVERSATION WITH?
Jace: A cat. The dog would be very repetitive.
The Good Life: Why cats?
Jace: Because you know how cats are. They can be
very rude and standoffish. You would probably get
more than enough of them talking.
Bonnie: Is a snake an animal? I don't like snakes. They
irritate me, and I just wouldn't want to talk to them to
begin with.
Jace: Sssssso, what's up?
Bonnie: What'ssssss happening?
The Good Life: That's exactly what a snake would
sound like. That's the greatest human snake voice.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND A PENGUIN
IN YOUR FREEZER?
Bonnie: Probably eat it. We don't want to let good food
go to waste. It's in the freezer. Wait... Is it dead or alive?
Jace: She just assumed it was already butchered.
Bonnie: It's in my freezer. I'm eating it!
Jace: It's a nice Italian dish. A penguin paesana or
something.
The Good Life: She just killed an innocent penguin!
Bonnie: It couldn't breathe if the freezer door was
shut, right?
Jace: If there was a penguin in there at this time of
year, I'd let it outside in the backyard.
The Good Life: A much more humane answer. PETA
approved.
WOULD YOU RATHER BE STRANDED ON AN
ISLAND WITH JAY THOMAS OR DEAN WYSOCKI?
Bonnie: Jay Thomas. Wysocki would drive us crazy.
Jace: Especially if you’re on the island for an extended
period with Dean. That could be dangerous.
Bonnie: You would just have to listen to Jay swear as
he climbs the coconut tree. We know Dean would be
on the prowl.
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Jace: “I just saw a chic over
there! She's got a lake place
too.”
The Good Life: Quick answers
for Jay. Kudos to Jay. Poor
Wysocki is gonna feel bad.
Bonnie: We love Dean – but not
a whole island with Dean!
The Good Life: He's on in the
morning with you. You guys are
doomed.
Bonnie: Yeah. They would
probably combust if there
was no beer on the island.
They would feed each other
coconuts.
Jace: Ferment them, and drink
it.
The Good Life: Jay would have
a filtration system to make his
own coconut beer.
WHAT DOES THE GOOD LIFE
MEAN TO YOU?
Jace: Well, obviously it's being
here. Being able to experience
those little things – and some
of the big things as well. Going
through what I went through,
you're just happy to be here.
You don't see something like I
had happen, happening to you.
I had some history of that [heart
issues] in my family, but you
don't think it's gonna happen at
52 as opposed to 67. You have
to be thankful for the stuff that's
in your life. If you have tough
times, you have to remember
there's someone who probably
has it worse than you. When
anything is bad, you’re gonna
work your way through it. You
can't give up.
Bonnie: I'm living a good life.
I've got no complaints. My
three grown children all have
turned out great. I have a little
grandbaby, got my little kitty
cat, grand dog, several grand
cats. Peace and quiet. Life is
good. Bills are paid. Family's
happy, everybody's healthy. I
still have my parents in my life.
My mom and dad are well into
their 90s. I'm living the good
life. No complaints. •
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LOCAL HERO | NATE NIEMAN
FROM BATTLEFIELD
TO BADGE
Putting People First is Key
for Lieutenant Nieman
WRITTEN BY: EMMA RIEKE
PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA
According to decades of research conducted by
the Center for Creative Leadership, there are 12
characteristics that are essential in creating a “good”
leader – traits like compassion, vision, collaboration
and resilience that are developed over many years.
For Nate Nieman, honing his leadership skills started
decades before he became a Criminal Investigations
Lieutenant for the Fargo Police Department.
Communicating the Vision
“I always wanted to be a soldier,” said Nieman.
“I always wanted to be in the military. It was just
something that was always kind of in my blood. It’s
just part of who I was.”
While he always wanted to serve his country, Nieman’s
journey truly began in 1998.
“I joined the military right after high school,” he said.
“I knew I wanted to be an infantry soldier. I wanted to
be on the ground and fight for my country. It was just
part of who I always wanted to be – I think it’s why
God made me, honestly.”
After enlisting, he went to Fort Benning, Ga., for
training and was deployed on a hardship tour in
Korea, where he served 12 months without going on
leave. Once back stateside, he served in Washington
state until coming off active duty in late summer 2001.
He moved to the Inactive Ready Reserve and enrolled
in college at North Dakota State University, where he
majored in Human Performance and Fitness (now
known as Exercise Science).
In 2004, Nieman joined the Minnesota National
Guard, where he served throughout his final year of
college.
“And then we were activated to go to Iraq,” Nieman
said.
He got married and five weeks later was down in
Camp Shelby, Miss., for six months of training.
“Then we went straight over to Kuwait and then right
up to Camp Fallujah,” he said.
Nieman’s unit (1st Brigade Combat Team, 34th
Infantry Division “Red Bulls”) spent 16 months
overseas on an extended deployment, 22 months total
– making them the longest-serving Military unit Since
World War II.
Influencing Means You Can’t Do it Alone
During his time overseas, Nieman rose through the
ranks, eventually becoming a Staff Sergeant. In 2011,
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I want to leave things better
than I found them and
genuinely impact people in
a positive way.
he transitioned to the officer
ranks after a Direct Commission
and became Lieutenant
and Platoon Leader of his
Mechanized Infantry Unit.
Nieman’s squad conducted
more than 130 combat
missions during their
22-month deployment.
Nieman says he was shot
at, dodged numerous
IEDs and was even
part of a mission that
resulted in the rescue
of two men from a
torture house in the
Al Anbar province of
Iraq.
“I would say my
path in the military
was completely nontraditional,”
Nieman
said. “I was 24 or 25
when I went (to Iraq). I
was a lot older than some of
the guys that were in my squad.
I had a little more life experience
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PHOTOS SUBMITTED BY: NATE NIEMAN
than those guys, but I still felt pretty green because
none of us had any combat experience before we went
over there.
But because I did that 13 years of enlisted time (before
becoming an officer), I also had that experience being
on the other side. I always valued that because I
was the guy who was digging the foxhole, filling the
sandbag, pulling the guard shifts and doing the grunt
work.”
Nieman says working his way through the ranks while
he was enlisted helped him gain valuable perspective
when he moved to the officer side.
“Having that experience gave me a little bit more
maturity,” he said, “It gave me the respect from (the
guys I was in charge of) because I also knew that I
don’t know everything and I could rely on them.
And just because I’m in charge doesn’t mean I know
everything, I don’t always have to be the expert in the
room.”
It humbled him too.
“I could check my ego and realize that I can ask for
someone’s opinion when I need it and value that
opinion,” said Nieman. “Or I could pause for a second
and ask ‘hey, does anybody else see any issues with
the plan?’
When you’re able to do that, the message is delivered
a little bit better. I always respected that from my
mentors and leaders and I always tried to pass that
on to other people.”
Gratitude is the Attitude
Non-traditional seems to be the way Nieman does
most aspects of his life.
“When I went into the military, my goal was never
to do 23 years,” he said. “My plan was to do three or
four years and then come back (to Fargo) and have a
career here.”
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While he was going to school for a Human
Performance degree, Nieman completed a threemonth
internship at MeritCare Cardiac Rehab. In
the summer of 2005, at the end of his internship,
he was offered a job with the clinic – despite not
being done with his degree until December.
There was also his deployment to Iraq in October.
His boss at the time was able to pull a few strings
and by the time he stepped on the plane to Camp
Shelby, he had finished his bachelor of science
degree.
“They held my job for the 22 months I was
deployed,” said Nieman. “And when I came back, I
transitioned right into MeritCare Cardiac Rehab,”
He worked as a Cardiac Rehab Specialist from
the time he returned from Iraq in 2007 until the
2009 merger of MeritCare and Sanford Health.
Nieman then transitioned to a full-time Army
National Guard position in Moorhead.
But it was his brother-in-law, Officer Dean
Jordheim (along with military friends), who
influenced his decision to join law enforcement.
“I (took the Fargo PD) test and ended up passing
that – it was a pretty rigorous test at the time too,”
he said with a chuckle.
He completed all the necessary tests and training
and was offered a job with the Fargo Police
Department in 2010.
I always respected that from
my mentors and leaders and I
always tried to pass that on to
other people.
Over the past 15 years, Nieman has made his
way through the department in a variety of roles:
five years on patrol working nights in south
Fargo, three years as a Detective in Narcotics in
the Criminal Investigations Division, time as a
Training and Admin Officer – he even did a short
stint helping in the evidence room. In 2020 he was
promoted and spent four and a half years working
both on Night Shift and Evening Shift as a Patrol
Sergeant.
He moved back into the Criminal Investigations
Division in August 2024 as a Sergeant and
was promoted to his current role as Criminal
Investigations Lieutenant in December.
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LOCAL HERO | NATE NIEMAN
In addition to his laundry list of roles within the
department, he has also served as an Operator, Team
Leader, and currently the Assistant Commander of
the Red River Valley SWAT team.
Good Leadership Never Stops
Throughout his career, both in the military and
his working life, one theme has continually shined
through.
“As a leader in the military I always tried to put my
people as my first priority,” Nieman said. “I’ve always
thought it should be people first, people first, people
first, no matter what organization you’re in. Because
whether it’s the safety of the citizens or the people
you’re working with, if you always put people above
any priority, and everything else will get taken care of.
I thought that in the military, if I could take care of
your guys out there and think ‘I’m always going to
take care of my guys,’ they’re going to go to hell and
back for you. And it’s the same thing (at the police
department) – if you always take care of your people,
you give them 110% and you never ask them to do
something you wouldn’t do yourself, there’s nothing
they wouldn’t do for you.”
Nieman’s “people first” approach even extends into
his home life.
“I promised to retire (from the military) when my
oldest daughter was 11,” he said. “I was involved in
I’ve always felt like it’s my
mission to serve others.
It’s what gets me up in the
morning, keeps me moving
forward, keeps me going.
I believe that is my
God-given true purpose.
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Narcotics and SWAT along
with many other duties and
responsibilities, and one
weekend a month with the
military ended up being closer
to five or six days per month.
As a company commander, my
phone would never stop ringing.
Even when I was at work or
on my off time. It was tough. I
felt like I was never home and
when I was home it was hard
to be present. Retiring from the
military was one way I could
put my family first and keep my
promise to my daughter.”
Living the Good Life
Nieman says his experience in
the military and with the Fargo
Police Department have helped
shape who he is.
“I’ve always felt like it’s my
mission to serve others,” he
said. “It’s what gets me up in
the morning, keeps me moving
forward, keeps me going. I
believe that is my God-given
true purpose. I want to leave
things better than I found them
and genuinely impact people in
a positive way.”
But the Good Life? Now that’s
something he’s forever chasing.
“I think the good life is living
a life of purpose” Nieman
said. “I think it’s
something I want
to try and attain
every day. I want
to try and help as many people
as I possibly can. I want to
continue to try and be gracious
and kind to everybody and try to
make a difference, for as many
people as I can, while I still have
air in my lungs.
The Good Life is my goal every
day.” •
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