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One of the most important meetings

of my 23 years in Cape May

happened in the bathroom of the

pool bar at Congress Hall during

the summer of 2002. That’s when

I was introduced to a young Latvian man

named Aleksey Moryakov. I met him

through his younger brother Leo, whose job

at that time was gathering all of the used

towels from Congress Hall customers on

the beach and around the pool, and getting

them laundered. At the time, I was manager

of the pool bar, a role I performed with

a fairly consistent level of mediocrity.

These days, Leo’s job is mixing drinks

and pouring wine and beer for customers

at the Ebbitt Room at The Virginia hotel,

where he’s been holding court for two

decades.

As for Aleksey, maybe you heard that

he ended up being the photographer for this

little rag you are holding in your hands (or

reading online!). It’s a job he’s been doing

for 20 years, and I’m paying tribute to him

this week by calling this the Photo Issue

and running an interview with him (pages

10-12). Aleksey is probably the most reliable,

diligent and efficient person I’ve ever

worked with (although I need to add that

my office colleague Kayla Jordan is right up

there, too). The fact that Aleksey always has

a smile on his face doesn’t hurt, either.

I’ve been asking Aleksey to shoot jobs

ever since April of 2005. In that whole time,

he’s only ever said no because he was either

shooting a wedding or traveling abroad

(usually back to Riga, Latvia). Not once has

Ramblings From The Editor

Ideas, idle gossip and occasionally important odds ’n’ ends... by Jack Wright

he said he’s not feeling well or has something

else going on. Not once has he failed

to answer a call or text. It’s unbelievable,

really, especially since I’ve endured 10 years

of the restaurant business, which must

attract the most unreliable people of all, the

type of folks who think they should receive

a medal for turning up five days in a row,

and who think nothing of failing to show up

for work without so much as a call or even

a pathetic little text (and yet will actually

walk into work the next day and expect that

everything will be just dandy). Anyway, I

digress. Aleksey is a force of nature, possibly

from a dying breed (though I hope I’m

wrong about, ahem, the youth of today).

If I hadn’t met Aleksey, I would likely

be on to my 15th photographer by now, and

no doubt we would miss half of the jobs

we were hoping to cover. In this season

of being thankful and all that good stuff,

I’m extremely glad he swept and mopped

his way into my life back in the summer

of 2002. His younger brother’s not so bad,

either. I hope to see you at the Ebbitt Room

bar soon, Leo.

I spent Saturday evening riding a float

³ with the wife and kid for Stone Harbor

and Avalon schools. The occasion was the

Stone Harbor Christmas Parade, which is

to the West Cape May version what David is

to Goliath. My wife prefers her parades on

the smaller side, with the fire truck quotient

at a very manageable handful, as opposed to

the 325 which turn up on our island. As for

me, I’m looking forward to this Saturday’s

Big Kahuna and am already plotting how I

can drive home in less than two-and-a-half

hours. There is still time for you to donate

to the West Cape May Christmas Parade,

and there really is a need for it. I’m glad to

say there is now a giant DONATE button on

their home page (westcapemay.us) so get

on there and add your two cents, or $50.

As I write, I’m preparing, for the second

time, to take a trip to Manhattan so the kid

can see The Lion King on Broadway. (He’s a

big theater fan but has never been to NYC

before.) I say “second time” because our

first trip had to be abandoned after I spilled

boiling hot water over the most vulnerable

part of a man’s body (while I was attempting

to make tea), suffering second-degree

burns. After two weeks of extremely painful

rehabilitation, my manhood is once

again intact, I’m pleased to say. And, yes, I

am still making myself hot tea. Some things

are impossible to give up.

Maybe I’ll see you at the Christmas

parade. Enjoy!

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Q&A

Aleksey Moryakov, The Man

Behind The Lens At Exit Zero

It’s the Photo Issue, so Jack Wright chatted with Aleksey

Moryakov, who first picked up a camera for this magazine

20 years ago. The rest is Cape May photographic history.

When did you first arrive in Cape May? It

was June of 2002. One of my friends in Latvia had

been in the US to work the previous summer and it

sounded like a great idea. I would rather spend the

summer making money in the US than just going to

the beach every day in Latvia.

So this was the J1 work program. Had you ever

been in the US before? No. This was my first time.

We flew from Latvia to JFK, spent the night somewhere

in New York then got the bus to Wildwood,

where we were staying for the summer.

So you only stayed in New York for one night?!

Yeah, but we went back to visit a couple times.

So what was the job you had? I worked the

night shift stacking shelves from 11 to 7 at ShopRite

in Rio Grande. Then I quickly got another job at

Congress Hall. I think I worked from 3-11 at Congress

Hall, then went to ShopRite. And I biked

everywhere! I had no idea there were buses.

From Wildwood to Cape May then back to Rio

Grande every day. That’s a lot of miles. I know, tell

me about it!

What job did you do at Congress Hall? Houseman.

Basically cleaning the floors, and changing

the bags in the trash cans.

That’s when I met you for the first time. I was

managing the pool bar at Congress Hall and you

were cleaning the floors of the toilets. Yeah, like 23

years ago, it’s crazy.

What did you study in Latvia before coming

here? Electrical engineering, with a master’s

degree in environmental engineering. Crazy, right?

Were you always interested in photography,

though? Yeah. My dad used to be photographer for

a newspaper and my grandad was a photographer

for the army during World War Two.

When were you born? In 1980.

So, the Berlin Wall was still up, and you were a

Communist! Ha-ha, no, I was never a Communist!

I guess I was about eight or nine when the Soviet

Union started to fall apart. I remember Soviet tanks

in the street and lots of shooting.

Do you remember Latvia regaining its independence?

Yeah, I do. It was 1991. It was scary, a lot

of uncertainty at the time.

How often do you go back to Latvia? I try once

a year, but it’s difficult with the two kids.

What would people from Cape May enjoy

about the capital city, Riga? The whole town is

beautiful, very historic. It’s beautiful right now —

you know, Riga was the first place in the world to

have a Christmas market!

I did a Google check, and it wasn’t the first

Christmas market but it WAS the first place to

have a public Christmas tree, in 1510 apparently.

Oh, okay, I was almost correct.

How did you get the job at Exit Zero? I think

it was back in April of 2005. Someone from your

office called and asked if I could take a couple pictures

at the Pilot House because the regular photographer

wasn’t available any more.

Why did we ask you? I honestly can’t recall.

You knew that I had a camera — you had seen me

with it at Congress Hall and I told you I had started

taking some pictures.

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In those early days, did a lot of people

refuse to have their pictures taken, maybe

not knowing what Exit Zero is? No, not

really. That’s never been much of a problem. I

mean, sometimes even today people will say

they don’t want their picture taken because

they’re with someone they’re not supposed

to be with!

Has anyone ever asked you out on a date

while you were shooting? Oh, many times.

Most recently about two weeks ago at Congress

Hall and this girl was like, “Come have

a drink with me.” And I’m like, first of all, I’m

on the job. And I’m married with kids. She’s

like, “That’s okay, come have some champagne.”

I had to walk away. It used to happen

a lot, back in the day.

Did you ever say yes? Back in the day,

sure! That was a long, long time ago.

What is the best thing about being Exit

Zero photographer? Everyone is alway so

happy to see you. And you’re usually surrounded

by people in a good mood. It’s

always positive.

What’s the worst thing about being the

Exit Zero photographer? Having to be in

five places at once and, in July, trying to find

parking. I have my ways and my secret places

to park, but it’s becoming really tough.

You’ve been our photographer for 20

years. How many more years before you

retire? I don’t know. I guess as long as I can

keep moving.

When did you start doing weddings?

Back in 2017. Before that, I used to help Tim

Joyce and Mary Pat Myers with their weddings,

and I learned a lot of stuff from them.

I’m still doing weddings and family photos

on the beach in the summer, almost every

night. Sometimes in the morning, too.

How many weddings do you shoot every

year? My biggest year I did about 80 and I

would never want to do it again. I almost

killed myself. These days, it’s usually around

30-35.

Are they always in Cape May? Oh no.

I’ve shot weddings in California and Mexico,

and I have one in Baltimore next year.

What do you do when you’re not shooting

photography? I’m pretty much taking

pictures every day, except in January, which

is when I like to reorganize my stuff. In the

summer, though, I will try to make time to go

to the beach a lot.

Do you have a favorite beach? I like

Broadway and behind Convention Hall — I

discovered that they call that the Bulgarian

Riviera!

Have you noticed big changes in Cape

May in the 23 years you’ve been here? Oh,

yeah, a lot of changes. Some I like, some I

don’t. I prefer to see families running their

own businesses and when you come to the

business, you see them and say hello. But

I think these days, Cape May is becoming a

little more corporate and in danger of losing

its soul.

Got any exciting travel plans? I want to

go back to Japan. I loved it there. And I want

to go to Fiji and Spain. I would love to be able

to travel two, three times a year if I could.

What would be your last meal on earth?

That’s such a strange question. I don’t want

to think about that. I want to live till I’m 100.

Okay, but you still have to answer it.

Everybody does. If I have to cook it myself,

I’ll make myself a steak or a swordfish. If I

go out, I would have sushi from Port, if they

are still in business when I’m 100. Or halibut

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Enjoy the quiet beauty of this 62-acre farm in West Cape

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The Boiler Room has a chic industrial vibe with exposed

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Comfy joint in the middle of the mall, featuring a raw bar,

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The Kulkowitz family’s latest culinary adventure. They’re

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After 10 years of serving curries (initially as Exit Zero

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The magazine (and online retail store) will continue,

in an office on the Washington Street Mall. Adieu!

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11/22: CM County Soroptimist Girlz

Rule At Lower Cape May Regional

Ladies of Soroptimist International of Cape May County

The legendary, intimate hangout where locals

& guests mingle over domestic & imported

beers, fine wines & classic cocktails. Join us!

LIVE MUSIC & LITE BITES

Two courses for $35 Wed - Sat from 5pm

THURSDAY NIGHT “The Hoot” 7-10pm

Featuring members of

the Howard Street Ramble Band

FRIDAY NIGHT Live Music 7-10pm

12/5: Toni Teshner

Alicianna, Aliyah, Patricia

WEDNESDAY NIGHT Movie at 7pm

12/10: National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation

Free Entry & Free House-Made Popcorn!

Olivia, Larkyn, Katarina, Paige

Buffet breakfast with Santa on

12/6, 12/7, 12/13 at 9am

301 Howard Street, Cape May

609-884-8409 • chalfonte.com



What You Need

To Know About

The Food And

The Ambience

Meals

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BYOB?

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Kids?

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LUCKY BONES

1200 Route 109, Cape May

(609) 884-BONE

luckybonesgrill.com

A huge hit and locals’ favorite for a reason. Excellent

food (the thin-crust pizzas are excellent), great bar

vibe and service. Lucky Bones gets it right every time.

B, L, D

$6-$25

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MAD BATTER


(609) 884-5970

madbatter.com

It’s the original fine dining restaurant in Cape May.

The food is always creative and the breakfasts and

brunches, hard to beat — hence the lines.

B, L, D

$26-$37

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

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MARIO’S PIZZA

Washington Commons

(609) 884-0085

mariosofcapemay.com

MUDHEN BREWING COMPANY

127 W. Rio Grande Avenue, Wildwood

(609) 846-7918

mudhenbrew.com

OCEAN 7

7 Ocean Street, Cape May

(609) 884-5555

innofcapemay.com/ocean-7

OCEAN VIEW

Beach and Grant Avenues, Cape May

(609) 884-3772

oceanviewrestaurant.com

OUT THERE COFFEE

315 Ocean Street, Cape May

www.outtherecoffee.com

Homemade specialties and secret sauces, from classic

pizza (using homemade dough daily) to paninis,

garlic knots and pasta dishes.

Sip on craft beers inside this rustic brewpub while

enjoying delicious and casual fare including their

BBQ smokehouse menu, juicy burgers and specialty

mac-and-cheese dishes. Great outdoor space!

Located at the Inn of Cape May, stop in to enjoy breakfast,

lunch and dinner paired with specialty cocktails.

A large and very reliable menu. Classic diner food,

oversized portions, and very reasonably priced. A

locals’ favorite for a reason.

Start every morning with their home-roasted coffee,

super-food lattes, gluten free baked goods and

varieties of toasts and frozen drinks.

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toast and

snacks

$6-$20

Cards:

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AE, D

$14-$35

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$9-$30

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$5-$10

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OYSTER BAY

615 Lafayette Street, Cape May

(609) 884-2111

oysterbayrestaurant.com

PETER SHIELDS INN


(609) 884-9090

petershieldsinn.com

PIER HOUSE


(609) 898-2244

capemaylamer.com

POPPI’S

4709 New Jersey Avenue, Wildwood

(609) 600-3964

poppisbrickoven.com

Eat in the lovely, airy dining room or in the adjoining

bar area with a fun vibe. There’s also a daily bar menu,

happy hour, great martinis and classic, generous

dishes.

The Georgian Revival mansion is magnificent and the

modern American menu matches it all the way. And

now the restaurant is able to serve wine, cocktails

and beers!

This cozy, elegant restaurant in La Mer Beachfront

Resort offers a welcoming ambiance serving

American fare with innovative twists and inspired

recipes, just steps from the beach.

Enjoy their old-world recipes in a relaxed atmosphere

with rustic charm. They select the finest local ingredients

for each dish and welcome your family to be a

part of their family.

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$12-$29

Cards:

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$22-$39

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$12-$60

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COASTAL CULINARY BLISS

Discover a curated selection of appetizers, entrées, and desserts inspired by

American, Italian, and French cuisine—crafted by our new Executive Chef,

Miguel Ferrer. With over a decade of experience at the Washington Inn & Wine Bar,

Chef Ferrer brings his culinary expertise and passion to every dish on the menu.

breakfast Saturday & Sunday 8-11:30am

lunch Friday & Saturday 12-4pm

dinner Friday & Saturday from 5-8:30pm

seasalt indoor bar Friday & Saturday 12pm-Close

LOCATED IN THE OCEAN CLUB HOTEL

SEASALTCAPEMAY.COM

1035 BEACH AVENUE, CAPE MAY

609-884-7000



What You Need

To Know About

The Food And

The Ambience

Meals

Served

Price Of

Entrées

Bar Or

BYOB?

Should I

Book?

Food For

Kids?

Other

Details

QUINCY’S LOBSTER ROLLS


(609) 600-3571

quincysoriginal.com

Bringing a little taste of New England to Cape May.

Indulge in classic lobster rolls, lobster salads, crab

rolls and other quick-bite favorites at either of their

locations including Beach Avenue.

L, D

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

BYOB NO YES

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SAPORE ITALIANO

416 South Broadway, West Cape May

(609) 600-1422

saporeitalianorestaurant.com

Located in a magnificent Victorian mansion, with

plenty of outdoor dining, and the food does it justice.

Excellent Italian food and a lovely family-style

ambience.

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TACO CABALLITO TEQUILERIA


(609) 884-4800

tacocaballitotequileria.com

Enjoy this two-story, vibrant beachfront restaurant

that offers authentic Mexican dishes and handcrafted

margaritas made with artisanal tequilas.

L, D

$10-$18

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

FULL BAR NO YES

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TISHA’S


(609) 884-9119

tishasfinedining.com

This local favorite serves delicious food for lunch

and dinner. And they have a pet-firendly patio too.

Check out their sister restaurants, 5 West Pub and

The Local Tavern, too.

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$18-$35

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

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TOMMY’S FOLLY CAFE


(609) 884-6566

caperesorts.com

Filled with everything you need to keep you going

all day long. Enjoy fresh-brewed La Colombe coffee,

specialty drinks and an assortment of baked goods

and breakfast paninis.

B, D

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

BYOB NO YES

b

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THE UGLY MUG


(609) 884-3459

uglymug.bar

A Cape May legend. Inside, you’ll enjoy a classic

pub atmosphere. Outside, it’s a great spot for

people watching. Check their ad for upcoming live

entertainment.

L, D

$12-$25

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

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UNCLE BILL’S PANCAKE HOUSE

Beach Avenue and Perry, Cape May

(609) 884-7199

Reliably good food — there is a reason why people

wait in line. You can sit outside with ocean and

beach views — and dine with your dog if the

weather is nice.

B, L

$4-$9

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

BYOB NO YES

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VIGGIANO’S ON SUNSET

109 Sunset Blvd, West Cape May

(609) 435-5026

viggianosbyob.com

A family-friendly Italian restaurant, from the same

owners as the popular Conshocken restaurant.

Expect classic Italian food done right and a welcome

as hearty as the pasta dishes.

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$15-$45

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

BYOB YES YES

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VINCENZO’S LITTLE ITALY


(609) 889-6610

vincenzoslittleitaly.com

If you want to bring the family for a fine and fun

Italian meal, look no further. The kids will love it.

Excellent pasta dishes, and they’ve recently expanded

their pizzeria.

L, D

$10-$31

Cards:

V, MC,

AE, D

BYOB YES YES

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WASHINGTON INN


(609) 884-5697

washingtoninn.com

Superb gourmet food, and a cool-but-cozy bar. Check

out an amazing wine list of over 10,000 bottles;

they’ve got the largest wine cellar in South Jersey.

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$18-$34

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

FULL BAR YES YES

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WESTSIDE MARKET

517 Broadway, Cape May

(609) 884-3061

westsidemarketwestcapemay.com

Breakfast, lunch, deli counter, butcher, groceries,

baked goods... Westside has it all! Pick up a few

sandwiches to bring to the beach or grab some steaks

to grill up for dinner.

B, L

$7-$22

Cards:

V, MC, AE, D

BYOB NO YES

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11/21: Harpoons On The Bay Employee Christmas Party

Brian, Christine, Jeff

Bar Besties

Emily, Joe, Ryan

Eileen, Marge, Jeff

Joe, Ron


DJ Christoph aka Chris Raiczyk Don, Jane Mary, Robert

Joe

Canal’s

OF CAPE MAY & RIO GRANDE

DISCOUNT Liquor Outlet

Visit joe-canals.com - click on Cape May location

to place orders for curbside pickup.

918 RTE 9, CAPE MAY @ END OF PARKWAY • 609-884-7676

& RIO GRANDE @ 1613 RTE 47 SOUTH • 609-886-9786


11/21: Harpoons On The Bay Employee Christmas Party

Joe, Debbie, Ginny, Hugh

Rob, Darien, Mikey, Jared

Donna, Dee, Denise, Des

Dottie, Kristen, Anthony, Des



11/21: Cape May Shelters Lutsk, Ukraine 3rd Annual Cocktail Open House

Helen, Jim, Bill, Nancy

Zachary and Amanda Burgin, Charity, Patrick

Mike, Steve, Chita

Karen, Chris, Nancy


11/21: Cape May Shelters Lutsk,

Ukraine Annual Cocktail Open House

Sarah, Vesna, Mitko

Curtis, Helen, Will

Frank, Lexi, Jim


11/21: Cape May Shelters Lutsk, Ukraine 3rd Annual Cocktail Open House

Patrick, Patrick Rich, Paul Ann Marie, Darleen

Tom, Anne Rose, Chris Nancy, Mark


The Answer Lady invites inquiries

from gentle readers on all manner of

relationship quandaries, matters of

the heart and ethics. If you’d like to

send a query, write to info@exitzero.

us. Or, simply sit back, enjoy a cup of coffee

and contemplate the wisdom herein.

Dear Answer Lady

I very much want to enjoy the West

Cape May Christmas Parade. I have always

gone house to house along the parade and

enjoyed a cocktail or two along the way.

I also intend to go to Congress Hall and

enjoy the tree-lighting ceremony. I’ll see a

lot of friends at both these events. The difference

is that I now realize I have a history

of enjoying cocktails way too much and six

months ago swore off the stuff. How do I

resist the temptation and not be pressured

by good-intentioned friends who want to

buy me a drink? — Teetotaler

Dear Teetotaler

The holidays are always tough, not just

regarding alcohol consumption but stray-

The Answer Lady

Wise answers to life’s perplexing questions

ing from a diet essential to good health. The

Answer Lady thinks the solution to traveling

house to house is easy — ask for a soft drink.

You can share that you are cutting back on

the booze without going into detail. Otherwise,

just say a soda will be good. As to Congress

Hall, order a Virgin Bloody Mary. It

looks festive. Your friends can buy you one if

they insist, but make sure they understand

the “virgin” part. Bonus, it’s pretty healthy.

Dear Answer Lady

My mother died earlier this year. Dad

died a couple of years ago. Mom always

hosted Christmas. She was Martha Stewart

on steroids and my dad not far behind. He

could make a mean Old Fashioned. Thanksgiving

we ate at Hemingway’s, but we want

Christmas to be in one of our homes. There

are five of us and we are going back and forth

about who should host. We all inherited our

parents’ love of entertaining. How do we

settle this so there are no hurt feelings? —

Holiday Hosts

Dear Hosts

Put your names in a hat and pick out all

the names and decide who’s next based in

order of selection. That way, you’ll be set

for a few years. Or... pick a host but all the

siblings can contribute. Not quite pot luck.

The host would supply the main entrée. The

other brothers and sisters contribute the

rest, and you decide collectively the menu.

Make sure someone stops at Sunset Liquors

and brings the Old Fashioned components.


11/21: Screen To Table “Wicked For Good” Dinner At Pier House

Annie Lananteer, Mary Watson Taylor Carr, Ally Thorp Krystina, Stew

Jenna and Sharon Andrews Wendy, Nancy Krystina, Gab

Falling for a book

Open Thu-Tue 10:30-5:00 closed wed

Cape May’s Full-Service Jeweler

Offering Custom Designs,

Watch Batteries & Repairs

510 CARPENTERS LANE l 609-854-4489

Shop online at trinketscapemay.com

Cape Atlantic

Book Company

OPEN @ 10am

City Centre Mall 2nd floor

Washington Street Mall, Cape May

609-846-7688 • capeatlanticbookco.com



11/21: Screen To Table “Wicked

For Good” Dinner At Pier House

Beth, Amelia, Lara, Patti

Donna, Jillian, Dottie, Francesca, Cheryl, Don, Gary


Nicole, Amanda

11/21: The Annual West Cape May Hospitality Night

Joe, Sue Sharon, Ken Amy, Analysise

Sue, Steve Leann, Steve Susan, Pat


11/21: The Annual West Cape May Hospitality Night

Diane, Herb Tish “Electric Blue” Roussos, Jim Roussos Lincoln, Amy

Pat, Donna Sam, Lynsie Dana, Joe


Classic American Tales

CHRISTMAS IN THE BARN!

Friday, December 12 from 5:00pm - 8:00pm

Rea’s Farm, Rea’s 400 Farm, Stevens 400 Stevens Street, West Street, Cape West May, Cape NJ May, Admission NJ Free!

Enjoy Admission dinner Free! in the Join heated us in barn; the heated Bottles barn available for dinner for purchase (BYOB), from shop Cape at vendors’ May Winery booths

AND Enjoy CAT’S Artistic Director Gayle Stahlhuth presenting

“A Great Tree” at 6:00pm and “The Gift of the Magi”at 7:30 pm

Enjoy hors d’oeuvres, hot and cold drinks, and wine and Michèle LaRue presenting

“The Christmas Sing in Our Village” and “Hoodoo McFiggins Christmas”

Location: 121 Fourth Avenue, West Cape May

All for only $20! Purchase tickets here: https://www.ClassicAmericanTales.org/schedule.html

For more information: 917-623-4965 - ClassicAmericanTales@aol.com - ClassicAmericanTales.org

Funding is possible in part by NJSCA/Dept. of State, the NEA, & Cape

May County Board of County Commussioners through the Cape May

County Division of Cuture & Heritage. Season Sponsor OceanFirst Bank.

CHRISTMAS CHEER!

Sunday, December 14 from 4:00pm - 6:00pm

The story unfolds on Christmas Eve

when a kind young woman, new

to the neighborhood, attempts to

return a misdelivered package, and

in doing so, meets her elderly neighbor

experiencing a quiet loneliness. What

begins as a small act of kindness blossoms

into a shared adventure as they try to fulfill

his one Christmas wish: to catch Santa

Claus.

The simplicity of that premise belies the

emotional depth of the play: it’s about connection,

trust, vulnerability and believing

in something bigger than ourselves. Right

from the opening moments, the chemistry

between the two leads is unmistakenable.

They bring authenticity and warmth to

their characters, and their evolving relationship

carries an emotional weight that

genuinely moved me.

As their trust builds and their shared

sense of wonder grows, I found myself

swept up in their hope, laughter, and rediscovery

of child-like belief.

Visually, the production sparkles and

the stage feels alive and festive. In this inti-

The Theater Column

Cape May Stage’s “Let’s Catch Santa” is reviewed by Carol Emmens

mate theater setting, the creative set design

and holiday lighting craft a cozy, magical

world with a shimmering glow, warm

windows of the neighborhood home, and

touches of whimsy that evoke a nostalgic

Christmas Eve. Every detail transports the

audience directly into a moment of holiday

wonder.

At its core, Let’s Catch Santa delivers a

message that resonates deeply: the idea of

believing in something bigger than yourself;

opening your heart, to genuine connection,

and embracing hope even when loneliness

or doubt creeps in. Watching these two

characters go on this journey together is a

great reminder that when we believe, miracles

can feel within reach. That message

of hope, magic, and connection stayed with

me long after the curtain fell.

Let’s Catch Santa is a holiday triumph

filled with heart and hope. It’s funny, tender,

and magical, and it reminds us all why the

holiday season matters. The show put me

in the Christmas spirit, and I left the theater

smiling and humming a holiday tune.

I highly recommend it to anyone looking

for a Christmas experience that’s genuine

and uplifting. And if you need a reason to

believe in Santa again, you just might find

that too..

Written by Dan McCormick and

directed by Roy Steinberg, Let’s Catch Santa

runs now through December 28, with performances

Wednesday through Saturday at

7pm and Sunday at 3 pm. Tickets are available

at capemaystage.org or by calling 609-

770-8311.

Sydnei SmithJordan: Pop Fusion & The Power Of Legacy

Meet the artist on Monday, December 8 at Cape May Stage

Discover the work of local artist Sydnei SmithJordan in a new one-hour film showcasing her bold

“Pop Fusion” style – a blend of graphic elements, abstraction, collage, and traditional mediums.

This documentary is part of the acclaimed series “Art Titans, Masters of the New Era.”

Begins at 6pm. Doors open at 5:30pm. Seats are first-come, first-served.

$10 Suggested Donation at the Door – Proceeds go directly to the Artist.


EXIT ZERO

11/21: The Annual West Cape

May Hospitality Night

Delivered To Your Inbox!

Sue, Bill, Grace

upcoming events

photo of the week

online store updates

property of the week

Gloria, Jane, Pam, Joanie

+ MORE!

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weekly updates

from cape may

Harry, Grizzly Bear, Belle

Melanie


H oliday

Trolley Rides

Cape May MAC launched its first

Christmas tour in 1974 and ever

since this tour has been a beloved

annual tradition and a highlight

of the holiday season in America’s

only National Historic Landmark

City. This self-guided walking tour

celebrates the best of Cape May at

Christmas, as you travel Cape May’s

gaslit streets, hear musicians and

carolers, and visit homes, inns, B&Bs,

churches and hotels where you’ll

step inside to see both Victorian and

more modern interiors beautifully

decorated for the holidays. Don’t

miss Cape May’s longest running

and most popular Christmas tour.

Saturdays, Dec. 6, 13, & 20

5:30-8:30 PM

Tickets are limited!

Order yours online now at

ChristmasCapeMay.com

or scan the code below

Celebrate the magic of the season with

Cape May MAC’s Holiday Trolley Rides!

Join us for an unforgettable holiday

experience as we journey through

Cape May’s scenic streets and immerse

ourselves in the charm of this

historic town.

Choose from our festive tours:

• Holiday Lights Trolley Rides

• Santa’s Trolley Rides

• Spirited Cape May Christmas

Trolley Ride

• All That Glitters: Victorians Ring in

the New Year Trolley Tour

Bring family and friends, and make lasting

holiday memories in Cape May! Reserve

your seats now for a season to remember.

Tickets are limited!

Order yours online now at

ChristmasCapeMay.com

or scan the code below

CapeMayMAC.org

An Old-Fashioned Christmas

FREE Holiday Display. Located in the Carroll Gallery at The Emlen Physick Estate

Open Daily Nov 21-Jan 4*; check online for times

*Closed Thanksgiving Day and Christmas Day


Tabernacle

UNITED METHODIST CHURCH



Please join us at

Tabernacle United Methodist Church,

720 Seashore Road

Wednesday, December 10 at 12pm

Hear from Jennifer Hand, an Educator from

the Alzheimer’s Association,

Sponsored by Brookdale Senior Living

We don’t give a flying... fish! Matt, Eliza, Sue, Megan.

This course helps recognize the 10 warning

signs of Alzheimer’s. Learn the common

signs of the disease, and identify next steps

to take, including how to talk to a doctor.

SPONSORED BY

DIAMOND: The ARC of CMC, Brookdale Senior

Living, Tabernacle UMM, DRBA, Exit Zero, South

Jersey Aids Alliance, Cape May Astro, Knights of

Columbus - Stella Maris Council #3546, Shore

Women in Ministry (S.W.I.M.)

PLATINUM: Options for Her

GOLD: The Branches, Cape Assist, Wednesday

AM Men’s Prayer Group, Acenda, Family Promise,

St Mary’s Council Knights of Columbus 6202

SILVER: Lower Township Chamber of

Commerce, Visiting Angels, Resources for

Independent Living

Peter, Tammy, Hank, Amy

Tabernacle strives to bring in speakers on topics

of interest to the community. The entire Cape May

Community is invited to attend! There is no charge…

But donations are appreciated to help cover expenses.

For a complete list of upcoming community

events go to capemaycommunityoutreach.com

For additional info bistaksp@gmail.com


Nancy, Brenda, Kathy




DENNIS J. SPILKER

Manager/Funeral Director NJ Lic. No. 4038

KEVIN J. BEARE

Funeral Director NJ Lic. No. 3806

Diane, Herb, Andi, Marcus, Lucas and Doug Marandino

Cherishing Life’s Moments

609-884-3793

spilkerfuneralhome.com

Continuing a 90-Year Tradition of Serving

the Cape May and Lower Township Area

Justin, Chris, Patti, Donna, Tom

Flying Fishers

General, Cosmetic & Restorative

Dentistry for the Whole Family

• Crowns, Fillings etc

• Oral Surgery, Root Canals, Implants

• Invisalign

• Teeth Whitening — Kor, Opalescence

• Same-Day Emergencies

• Botox and Dermal Fillers

Call or message us online to schedule

your appointment with Dr Evan!

Dr Evan Cauterucci

411 Park Boulevard, Cape May

609-884-5335 • capemaydental.com provider


11/19: Trivia Fundraiser For Cape May Radio WCFA 101.5 At Gusto Brewing

Ellen, David, Jeffery, Penelope, Deb

Movin’ On Up team

Mike, Adriana

Rob, Beth, Kristen

The Magic

Returns.

Get your elves ready...

Winter Wonderland returns

to Congress Hall.

LEARN MORE


November 28 — December 31, 2025

Breakfast with Santa, Vendor Village, Carousel Rides & More

When Europeans first landed on

these shores, “bustards,” as wild

turkeys were mistakenly called,

were common. But by the mid-

1800s, they were gone from New

Jersey, the victims of unregulated hunting

and deforestation. By the 1970s a few wild

birds from Pennsylvania had reestablished

in northwestern New Jersey, but it wasn’t

until active NJ-based reintroduction efforts

began, in 1977, that wild turkey populations

rebounded.

Flocking birds, turkeys spend much of

their time on the ground, foraging for acorns

and other nuts. When searching for tubers,

the birds can turn a lot of soil in a garden but

remain for the most part in woodlands and

adjacent fields where males gather to display

for females as early as March. At night, the

birds take to the safety of trees, perching as a

flock above the leap range of coyotes.

While not aggressive, the males have

been known to attack their reflections in car

hubcaps and well-polished car doors. And

Bird Droppings

Dispatches from the nation’s birdwatching capital… by Seymore Thanu

I am aware of one bird tour leader who was

gored in the thighs by a displaying male ocellated

turkey, a Central American relative of

our bird. Trying to shoo the displaying bird off

the road, the guy made the mistake of turning

his back on the hormonally fueled bird.

It should be noted that the regal turkey

was likely not the celebratory centerpiece at

that first thanksgiving feast between the Pilgrims

and Wampanoag people in 1621. More

likely it was the then common (now extinct)

Heath Hen that served as the feast’s centerpiece.

It wasn’t until 1863, when Lincoln proclaimed

the last Thursday in November a day

of Thanksgiving to celebrate the Union victory

at Gettysburg, that the turkey assumed

celebratory status. What you may have heard

about Benjamin Franklin’s advocacy of turkey

as our national bird over Bald Eagle is apparently

false. The myth seems to stem from a

letter to his daughter in which he extolls the

noble virtues of the turkey while vilifying the

low character of the eagle.

While a noble bird, the handsome

bronze-colored fowl is better represented on

a platter surrounded by dressing, cream-pearl

onions and baked sweet potato than superimposed

upon a presidential podium. And while

Thanksgiving has become a battleground

pitting family members of differing political

persuasions against each other, in our house

the only battle is the one waged between

white meat vs dark. More gravy always solves

the problem.


11/19: Trivia Fundraiser For Cape May Radio WCFA 101.5 At Gusto Brewing

Annie Walsh, Mark Allen Deanna, Bill Emily, Paul

Bob, Jim Larry, Cindy Ellen, Liz




It’s easy to get caught up in “the way we’ve

always done it” at holiday time, but some

traditions are newer than we realize.

Although December gift giving predates

Christianity — the early Romans

exchanged gifts during Saturnalia, after all

— the details change. Queen Victoria’s gifts

weren’t wrapped, and Santa didn’t visit her

kids.

The “something you want, something

you need, something to wear and something

to read” notion sounds like something Ma

Ingalls might have espoused, but it gained

traction on early 2000 parenting blogs. The

Icelandic people have an ancient story-loving

history, but the Christmas Book Flood,

or Jolabokafloo, is relatively recent. It began

because paper wasn’t rationed during World

War II. The “Yankee swap” or “white elephant”

gift exchange probably dates to about

1890 but game moved to the workplace in the

middle of the twentieth century, and now is

often conducted completely online.

Your gift traditions can also change.

The Activity Column

Catherine Dugan’s guide to getting out there and enjoying this island

Start or end a grab bag. Cut off the adults, or

don’t. Add a dollar limit — the spirit remains

the same. For the littlest, consider experiences,

like a trip to the zoo or to play mini

golf, perhaps conveniently timed to allow

Santa to wrap gifts. The Gen Z folks embrace

sustainability, so they, too, welcome experiences

— consider tickets to Cape May

Stage for 2026. A popular tech gift this year

is anti-tech — the “Brick” which disables

time-wasting apps for a set period. Show

your reading friend you were listening when

she bemoaned the end of her book series —

introduce her to a new series, preferably one

with many, many books. For the beach lovers

in your life, consider upgrading that rusty

beach chair, or adding a basket to the trusty

beach bike — try the Beach and Kite Shop on

the way into town on Route 109.

Seniors, meanwhile, might appreciate

a payment on a subscription, 2026 seasonal

beach tags, or a house cleaning or landscaping

service.

Visit Winterwood for an ornament to

mark the milestones of the year and Just for

Laughs for comic relief. Good Scents has

incense, home decor and more. Visit Beach

Bling for fun accessories, or the Great White

Shark or Flying Fish Studio for the uncle

whose tee shirts need updating. Try Red Oak

for caps, or Willow and Stone for cozy sweaters.

Cape May Cigars and Wine is perfect for

a little male bonding. Start a charm tradition

with a visit to Henry and Harry’s and make

future gift-giving decisions easier.

START WITH A LOWER RATE

AND A LENDER WHO’S RIGHT HERE AT HOME

With today’s lower adjustable-rate mortgages,

you can buy more for less.

Our ARMs start with a lower initial rate,

helping you save on monthly payments

while planning for the future.

And because we’re your local community bank,

decisions are made right here by neighbors

who know you and your goals.

Talk to a Sturdy Savings Bank Mortgage Specialist today!

R

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NMLS #410428

609-463-5210


11/19: Trivia Fundraiser For Cape May

Radio WCFA 101.5 At Gusto Brewing

John, Craig, Rob

Anne, Susan, Jane, Bill


Paul, Richie, Mike



Mark, Mary Ann

Drew Richardsen, Anthony Napolitano

Robert Panaccio, VMD

Robert Moffatt, VMD

Nancy Reilly, VMD

Patricia J. Link, DVM

Lisa Hammett, DVM

Nour Hussaein, DVM

694 Petticoat Creek Lane, Cape May

609-884-1729 • capemayvet.com

Billy, Kelly, Kirstin

hours by appointment





Cape Harbor Shell

GASOLINE

DIESEL

PROPANE

TOWING

TIRE CHANGES

Bryan, Jamie

OIL CHANGES

MOST CARS REPAIRED SAME DAY!

Located At Exit 0 on the Garden State Parkway

609-898-0855 capeharborshell.com

Animal Outreach

of Cape May County

Ben, Ken

Our mission is to provide shelter, care and love

for the unwanted, abused, and abandoned

animals of Cape May County. We are a

no kill organization. Our adoption program

has helped to greatly reduce the numbers of

homeless animals in our county.

Your generous donation will help provide love, shelter,

food, and medical services to helpless animals. All

contributions are tax-deductible, as allowed by law.

Annie Walsh, Zack, Eddie

aocmc.org/getinvolved

600 Park Blvd, Unit 3, West Cape May

609-898-1738 | info@aocmc.org


11/17: World War Two Veterans

Dinner At The Mad Batter

941 Columbia Avenue,

Cape May, NJ

D 609-846-5376

O 609-884-5005

Holli Cappelli ABR, SRS

Realtor Sales Associate

hollicappelli@coastlinerealty.com

hollicappelli.com

Are you interested in renting out your property? I’d love to

help! I make the rental process easy and hassle-free—with

no upfront fees. We offer booking services with optional

Airbnb and VRBO, professional photography, print & online

advertising. We handle everything-- leases and payments to

guest communication and calendar management.

You’ll have a dedicated rental agent (that’s me!). Already

working with another office? No problem—we can seamlessly

sync calendars for greater exposure and increased bookings.

More visibility = More rentals.

Let’s connect and make the most of your rental property!

Carl, Mary, Dan

BOB HARTMAN JR


Cell 609-780-4626

BobHartmanJr@CoastlineRealty.com

Contact me for all your sales

and rental needs!

23 BEECHWOOD AVENUE, VILLAS

Kim, Pat, Father Miles

Beautifully maintained 3-bedroom, 2-bath home in the

picturesque Bayside Village community with fenced back

yard and 30 x 24 detached garage. $559,000.

941 Columbia Avenue, Cape May 609-884-5005


Roy, Marie, Chuck

Enrich Your Life... Adopt An Animal

Three cat-tastic felines from the Cape May County Animal Shelter and Adoption Center... call 609-465-8923

ICHABOD is two months old and under

three pounds. He was found alone at a trailer

park and brought to the shelter for some

much needed TLC. His eye was ruptured

when he arrived and he is scheduled to have

it surgically fixed at the end of December. It

would be ideal for him to be adopted before

surgery so he can recover in his new home.

SQUID spent many years living at a campground,

being chased away. He was found

hungry and injured. It is believed he was once

a domestic cat that had to become “feral” for

survival. Squid has FIV and suffers a viral

infection called Stomatitis. It is treatable an

Squid is doing great. All he needs now is to

find a quiet, kind, loving home.

SKITTLES is a friendly and affectionate cat

who loves having a companion nearby. She

enjoys gentle attention and settles in quickly

with people she trusts. This adorable girl is

house-trained and easy to care for. With her

vaccinations up to date and already spayed,

Skittles is ready for her forever home. Contact

the shelter today to meet her!


11/17: World War Two Veterans

Dinner At The Mad Batter

Rich, Lora, Lia, John

We're Here

When you can’t be

Captain Amanda Lee, Coast Guard, Ralph Galati, Johnny Walker, Mark Kulkowitz

organizing

kitchen & bath remodeling

interior trim projects

interior & exterior remodels

maintenance

winter preparation

info@lotusandbirchllc.com | 609-408-6900


John Ross, Crosby Paul Russo (102 years old), Dirk Bulson, Cristina Cruz

Enrich Your Life... Adopt An Animal

Three dog-tastic pooches from the Cape May County Animal Shelter and Adoption Center... call 609-465-8923

DUKE was surrendered when his previous

owners realized they did not have the experience

to manage his training needs. Potential

adopters should expect to visit him several

times before he feels fully comfortable. Once

Duke trusts you, he is incredibly affectionate.

He would do best in an adult home with

German Shepherd experience.

HONEY B is a shy girl who came to the shelter

when her owner could no longer care

for her. Now she spends her days watching

people pass by her kennel. Honey B wags

her tail softly when it’s time to go outside

and explores the yard with curiosity.

She would do best in a calm home with older

children and a peaceful routine.

ARROW is searching for a new home after

being left with a family member by his previous

owner. He lived happily with a woman

and her six-year-old grandson, who adored

him but could not keep him long term. Arrow

has lots of energy, is easy to harness, and

walks nicely on a leash. He will thrive with

someone who can keep him busy.


11/17: World War Two Veterans Dinner At The Mad Batter Restaurant

Pam and Mark Kulkowitz

Dawn, Shawn

Aleks, Tony Kaci, Joanna Patricia Hendricks, Mark Kulkowitz


BUYING & SELLING

WITH INTEGRITY

& TRUST

Jersey Cape

Realty

SALES & RENTALS

Heijung Park-Colameco

Broker Salesperson

609-602-8641 (c)

Market Expert

Experienced Negotiator

Results Driven

Contact “Heijung”

for your next

Real Estate Move!

Jersey Cape Realty, Inc.

Dolores Lanzalotti, Broker / Owner


609-884-5800 www.JerseyCapeRealty.com

PROPERTY PAGES

Discover modern luxury in this newly constructed

Dutch Colonial, finished with Hardie Board siding,

and designed for effortless living. The open

concept first floor showcases coffered ceilings,

gas fireplace, mudroom with a washer and dryer,

and a chef’s kitchen that flows into an inviting

sunroom room for relaxing or entertaining.

The first-floor primary bedroom with an en

suite offers comfort and convenience, while the

second level provides another en suite bedroom

plus three additional bedrooms and a full hall

bath. Outside, experience your outdoor oasis,

boasting a brick patio, beautifully landscaped

yards, a 12’x8’ storage shed, an outdoor shower,

and a charming covered front porch. This home

provides an attached, covered carport. $2,489,000

317 STITES AVENUE, CAPE MAY POINT

Contact Dee Lanzalotti, Broker/Owner of Jersey Cape Realty at 609-226-5000.




11/17: World War Two Veterans Dinner At The Mad Batter Restaurant

Kathy Tweed, Sydnei Smith Jordan Brad, Pam Captain Amanda Lee, US Coast Guard, Paul Russo

Paul, Lou John, Carla Linda, Bill


Are your house guests gone yet? Did

you give them all kinds of hints

they didn’t take? I got news for you.

Frank and Betty are not leaving!

Hey, here’s an idea. Go see a movie

without inviting them! There’s plenty to

see. Wicked for Good, Zootopia 2, and the third

installment of a franchise you didn’t want:

Now You See Me, Now You Don’t. All three are

being well received.

The other strategy is to stay home and

play a movie that is terrible, but that makes

you have to sit through something unwatchable.

So here is a movie that’s quite good but

may have your guests scratching your heads

asking themselves why you chose it.

The only reason I watched last year’s

The Good Half is because of its mixed scores

on Rotten Tomatoes. Audiences gave it a 96.

Hello, that’s a 96, pretty impressive. Critics

gave it a score of 48, a big-time splat. You

know what that means. I’m probably going

to like it, even love it. And, indeed, I did rate

it pretty high.

The Movie Column

By arts columnist Tom Sims

The movie stars Nick Jonas — yep, from

the poppy band Jonas Brothers. I like their

music, some of it’s really catchy. But can he

act? It turns out he really can. He plays Ren,

a struggling comedy writer in LA. But it’s

the first scene that captured me and didn’t

let me go for the rest of the movie.

Ren, as a young boy (played beautifully

by Mason Cufari), sits sulking in the car

with his mother, played by Oscar-nominated

Elisabeth Shue. She is begging for

his forgiveness because she left him abandoned

in a mall. This hit a nerve for me, as

I lost my daughter Aly in a mall when she

was little for just a few seconds. It was hell

for me. Eventually, young Ren forgives his

mother, but makes her pinky swear that she

will never leave him in the mall again. Actually,

he makes her pinky swear that she will

never leave him. Like ever.

Heaven help me, I just had to grab a couple

tissues. You know what happens next.

In the very next scene, a grown-up Ren

(Jonas) receives the phone call. His mother

has died after a battle with cancer. He needs

to fly back to Cleveland and face his stepfather,

as well as his sister who has been caring

for his mother all along.

So this may not be the lightest movie to

watch, but it has its laughs — and ultimately

it’s an outstanding relationship flick.

And your houseguests might actually

not get it…and leave.

Hey, it’s a win-win!


MARGARET KITTNER BETHEL


CAPE MAY COUNTY

ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS

2023 REALTOR OF THE YEAR

7-Time Winner of the

11/7: Marriage Of Elese Tiné And

Shawn Sawyer At Star Of The Sea

609-408-1012 MBethel@CoastlineRealty.com

VACATION RENTAL WITH HARBOR VIEWS

1534 Yacht Avenue,

Unit 4, Cape May

2 Bedrooms,

2 Baths, Sleeps 6

Take in views of the

harbor from the

porch, bedroom, or

living room!

Within walking distance to several restaurants, short bike

ride or drive to the beach and shopping.

941 Columbia Avenue, Cape May 609-884-5005

VACATION RENTAL

HOLLY O’DONNELL


Life is short, buy the beach house! Contact

me for a free Comparative Market Analysis.

609-846-4819

Holly@CoastlineRealty.com

2022-2024 Bronze

2021 Silver

2020 Bronze

2017 Bronze

Thank you clients, contractors

& property home owners !

PRICE REDUCTION

515 Sandalwood Rd,

Villas

4 beds, 3.5 baths, sleeps 12

pet-friendly, saltwater pool

& close to bay path.

323 Alexander Avenue,

Cape May Point

3 beds, 2 baths, 50x110 lot,

parking, half block to beach.

Offered at $1,799,000

941 Columbia Avenue, Cape May 609-884-5005 ext 112


11/7: Marriage Of Elese Tiné And

Shawn Sawyer At Star Of The Sea

Courtney@CoastlineRealty.com

New Jersey State Licensed professional

representing buyers and sellers!


Visit JerseyCapeRealty.com

Your source for Shore Real Estate

Jersey Cape Realty ~ Your Cape May Connection

For Everything Real Estate

SALES • VACATION RENTALS • COMMERCIAL

INVESTMENT PROPERTY • NEW CONSTRUCTION

Jersey Cape Realty is your trusted connection

for all things real estate in Cape May. With a

team of seasoned and experienced agents, we

provide clients with invaluable local knowledge

and expert market insights to gain a distinct

advantage whether buying, or selling, ensuring

your real estate goals are met with success.

Put us to work for you!


Dolores Lanzalotti, Broker/Owner

739 Washington Street, Cape May, NJ 08204 Info@JerseyCapeRealty.com

www.JerseyCapeRealty.com 609-884-5800

Your SHORE Experts

519 Franklin St, Cape May

7 Bedrooms, 5 Baths - $3,499,000

5600 Seaview Ave, Wildwood Crest

1 Bedroom, 1 Bath Units - From $319,000

933 Washington St, Cape May

9 Bedrooms, 5 Baths - $2,890,000

Magnificent Craftsmanship

Renovated to the studs with modern

innovations while maintaining

charm. Town center with parking.

Costa Del Sol Condominium

Beautifully updated, low maintenance

condos in a seasonal complex. Just

steps to beach. Community pool.

Historic Thomas Webster House

Masterpiece in the heart of town

with landscaped gardens, private

parking. Single or multi-family use.

795 Route 109 B, Lower Township

Commercial - $2,499,000

Thriving Business – Stellar Location

Excellent opportunity! Gas, retail and

auto repair shop. High traffic area,

real estate, business, equipment.

118 Shadeland Ave, Villas

3 Bedrooms, 2 Baths - $599,000

Jersey Cape Realty

Your Cape May

Connection

1321 A Vermont Avenue, Cape May

2 Bedrooms, 1.5 Baths - $729,900

892 Weeks Landing Rd, Erma

5 Bedrooms, 4.5 Baths - $2,150,000

Your Own Private Sanctuary

Picturesque farmhouse on a double

lot backing up to golf course. Pool, inhome

theater, finished basement.

11 S 9th Street, Del Haven

3 Bedrooms, 2.5 Baths - $399,900

Stellar Renovation

Thoughtfully updated rancher

walkable to the bay. Enjoy a new

kitchen, bathrooms & ample storage.

Lovingly Maintained

Bright and cheerful streetside quad in

Cape May’s Village Greene. Close to

attractions, with great rental potential.

Seashore Getaway

Deceivingly spacious cottage with

generous gathering spaces. Steps

from the bay with large deck.

Open Mon-Sat 9am-5pm

Closed Sundays in December

With our full-time professional Realtors & a fully dedicated rental team

609-884-5800


Around The Avenues And Alleyways Of Cool Cape May

Staff of the Mad Batter restaurant, celebrating its 50th anniversary next year, on Jackson Street.




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