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The
Parish
Magazine
Magazine
Parish Te
1869
157
YEARS
2026
Serving Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye
Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning & Sonning Eye since 1869
May 2026 — Ascension Day, Pentecost, Trinity Sunday
The church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF
CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY
Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning & Sonning Eye since 1869
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Serving Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye
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Contents May 2026
THE parish noticeboard
— Westy says worry not, 5
— Images of Easter, 7
— The Persecuted Church, 9
— Flying together, 9
— Young People, 10-11
Around the Villages
— Family albums, 13
— Bourne Again concert, 15
— Sonning Scouts, 15
— Sonning Art Group, 17,
— Charvil Female Singers, 17
— Swan Upping diary date, 17
— Maiden Erlegh Inner Wheel, 17
— Scarecrows, 19
— Big Lunch Project, 19
— Coral Concert, 19
— Coffee morning, 19
— FoStAC update, 19
THE ARTS
— Visual meditation, 21
— Book Reviews, 21
HISTORY
— Pachomius, 23
— Was it really? 23
FASHION
— Mary Bennet, 24
AFOOT IN THE Garden
— May time for Chelsea, 25
PUZZLE PAGE, 27
CHILDREN'S PAGE, 39
INFORMATION
— Church services, 3
— From the registers, 3
— Classified, 28
— Parish contacts, 30
— Advertisers' index, 30
This ISSUE's FRONT COVER
The
Parish
Magazine
May 2026 — Ascension Day, Pentecost, Trinity Sunday
Magazine
Parish Te
1869
157
YEARS
2026
The church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF
CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY
The Flame of Pentecost
by Valeev Rafael,
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St Andrew's Church tower
Tom Farncombe
EDITORIAL DEADLINE
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of The Parish Magazine is 12 noon on
the sixth day of the month prior to the
date of publication.
The deadline for the June 2026
issue of The Parish Magazine is:
Wednesday 6 May at 12 noon
Recent issues of The Parish Magazine
can also be read online at
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magazine from 1869, please contact:
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From the Registers
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Services in
St Andrew's
Church Sonning
Fifth Sunday of Easter 3 May
— 8.00am Holy Communion (BCP)
— 10.30am Family Service
— 4.00pm Choral Evensong
Sixth Sunday of Easter 10 May
— 8.00am Holy Communion (BCP)
— 10.30am Parish Eucharist with
Sunday Club
— 6.00pm STAY Youth Communion
Service
Seventh Sunday of Easter 17 May
— 8.00am Holy Communion (BCP)
— 10.30am Parish Eucharist
— 3.00pm Messy Church in The Ark
Pentecost Sunday 24 May
— 8.00am Holy Communion (BCP)
— 10.30am Parish Eucharist with
STAY and Sunday Club
Trinity Sunday 31 May
— 8.00am Holy Communion (BCP)
— 10.30am Parish Eucharist with
STAY and Sunday Club
5.45pm Sunday at Six in The Ark
OTHER REGULAR SERVICES
Mid-week Communion in The Ark is
held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea
and coffee follows the service.
Home Communion at Sonning
Gardens Care Home is held on the first
Monday of each month at 11.00am.
BAPTISMS
— Sunday 8 February, Florence Milly Apsey-Brown
— Sunday 8 March, Toby George Baer
FUNERALS
—Monday 9 February, Dorothy Gloria Cleverly, service in St
Andrew's Church and burial in the churchyard
— Thursday 26 February, Joan Pratt, service in St Andrew's Church
followed by cremation
— Tuesday 17 March, Daphne Verona Forward, interment of ashes
in St Andrew's churchyard
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DEAR FRIENDS,
As May arrives, there’s a noticeable shift in the air. The days feel longer, the sun lingers a little more kindly,
and creation seems to burst into life around us. For many young people, this season brings its own mixture of
anticipation and challenge. With SATS, GCSEs and A-Level exams on the horizon, transitions between school years,
and big questions about the future quietly taking shape. Philippians 4:6 is helpful when it says: 'Don't worry about
anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God'.
From a youth minister’s perspective, this time of year is always deeply meaningful. I regularly see young people
standing at the edge of change wondering who they are, where they belong, and what truly matters. It is easy to assume
that being young is carefree, but in reality, many carry pressures that are unseen: expectations to succeed, to fit in, and
to have everything figured out far sooner than feels possible. They have their whole life to be an adult, so I say, always
be young at heart.
What continues to inspire me is the young people’s openness. When given space, young people ask honest, searching
questions about faith, purpose, and hope. They are not looking for perfect answers, but for authenticity for a faith that
feels real and lived, not distant or abstract. Having just finished our third Alpha Youth Course, they remind me that
Church is not simply a place we go, but a community where we can belong, be known, and grow together in faith. In
Matthew 18:20 Jesus reminds us: 'For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.'
May also invites us to reflect on growth-not just in the natural world, but within ourselves. Growth rarely happens
all at once. It comes in small steps: in acts of kindness, in moments of courage, in choosing to keep going even when
things feel uncertain. For our young people, these small steps are shaping who they are becoming. For us as a wider
community, they are opportunities to walk alongside, to encourage, and to listen.
I would gently encourage us all this month to take a moment to notice the young people in our community. Whether
it’s offering a word of encouragement, showing interest in their lives, or simply holding them in prayer, these small
gestures matter more than we might realise. As Philippians 2:4 teaches us:
'Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.'
As we continue through this season of renewal, may we all be reminded that growth-spiritual, personal, and
communal is a shared journey. And perhaps, like the unfolding Spring around us, we might find ourselves becoming
something new, in ways both quiet and profound.
Finally I want to encourage us to remember it is in the middle of this month that Jesus ascended into Heaven. But
he didn’t leave us to fend for ourselves. He gave us the gift of the Holy Spirit to guide, comfort and advocate for us. If
you are finding yourself in need of any of those things, take a moment now to ask for the Holy Spirit to be present for
you. Then pause and wait. As Romans 8:26 encourages us: 'The Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to
pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groaning too deep for words'.
With every blessing,
Westy, Youth Minister
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FOR YOUR PRAYERS IN MAY
— Christians in Ethiopia & Yemen
— Peace in the Middle East
— Plans for our Youth Charity
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THE PERSECUTED CHURCH
Ethiopia and Yemen Update By Colin Bailey
Ethiopia: The Ethiopian Orthodox Church forms a large
part of the nation’s religious identity. Open Doors research
indicates an emerging pattern of targeted attacks against
Orthodox Christians specifically.
20 Orthodox Christians, and a Muslim guard, were
killed and some disappeared in an attack on a market in
February. Many residents fled to nearby towns for refuge.
Two days later more attackers struck the community,
killing seven inside a church. The area, in the Oromia
Region in Ethiopia, is described by locals as an historically
peaceful area with Muslims and Orthodox Christians.
Open Doors has called on the Ethiopian government to
protect vulnerable communities in Oromia and to ensure
those responsible are held accountable.
16.2 million Christians have been driven from their
homes by violence and conflict in sub-Saharan Africa.
Please continue to lift to God in prayer brothers and
sisters facing violence and persecution in Africa.
Yemen: There are only a small number of Christians in
Yemen. The country is number three on the Open Doors
World Watch List of countries where Christians face the
highest level of persecution.
There are threats from authorities and family. Converts
from Islam could face the death penalty for apostasy.
Islamist extremist groups attack Christian communities.
If those who gather in secret are discovered, they face
grave consequences.
The country has an ongoing civil war since September
2014 when Houthi forces took over the capital city Sanaa
and subsequently the government.
The Houthis are an Iran-backed Shia Islamist politicalmilitary
organisation. Their political slogan, the Sarkha, is
'God is great, Death to America, Death to Israel, Curse on the
Jews, Victory to Islam'.
For Christians in the Houthi-controlled north western
regions, pressures are particularly severe. These areas are
heavily policed and dissent is brutally repressed.
Open Doors reports that there is an unprecedented
crackdown with more than 50 believers arrested recently,
including one who memorised scripture in preparation
for his inevitable arrest. This believer said, 'I want to be a
walking Bible, so that wherever I’m taken I can share about
Jesus.'
Please pray for this believer and for strength and
protection for all imprisoned, and for peace and hope for
their family and friends.
References and further reading
Ethiopia – Orthodox Christians: https://www.opendoorsuk.org/news/latestnews/ethiopia-orthodox-church-attack/
Amhara people of Ethiopia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amhara_people
Open Doors on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/opendoorsuk/
Open Doors World Watch List – Yemen: https://www.opendoorsuk.org/
persecution/world-watch-list/yemen/
Yemeni Civil War: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yemeni_civil_war_
(2014-present)
Houthis: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Houthis
UNICEF: https://www.unicef.org.uk
Open Doors Yemen news: https://www.opendoorsuk.org/news/latestnews/yemen-crackdown/
A thought for May . . .
Flying together
By Margaret Bevis
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In Celtic Christianity, the symbol for the Holy Spirit is
the wild goose. By flying in a V-formation, as each bird
flaps its wings the whole flock adds 70% more flying
range than if each bird flew alone.
People who share a common direction and sense of
community can get where they want to go more quickly
and easily because they are all travelling on the thrust
generated by all.
Whenever a goose falls out of formation it quickly
gets back so that it can continue to take advantage of the
lifting power of the bird immediately in front. If we have
as much sense as a goose we will stay in formation with
those who are headed where we want to go.
When the lead goose gets tired, it moves back into the
formation and another goose flies at the point position.
It pays to take turns at doing the hard tasks - sharing
leadership and maintaining interdependence.
The geese in formation ‘honk’ from behind to
encourage those up front to keep up their speed. We
need to be sure that our ‘honking from behind’ is an
encouragement to those who lead us.
When a goose gets sick, or wounded, or shot down, two
geese drop out of formation and follow the one to help
and protect it. They stay until it is able to fly again or dies.
In our fellowship as Christian people, we stand by each
other in all circumstances.
. . . and a thought from Phil Mason, our cartoonist . . .
They are copying us again!
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Westy
EASTER SATURDAY
Easter Saturday, on the 4th April, was full of an Easter service, Easter
egg hunts, bouncy castles, a free BBQ, Messy Church activities, tower
tours, outdoor games and more!!! We had around 250 people gather
for the family fun day.
EASTER STAY
Over the Easter holidays we planned some super fun youth activities,
with bowling, Thorpe park, a village wide litter pick and a golf taster
session at Sonning Golf Club. With over 50 young people involved it
was well worth the effort for all the memories made.
STAY ON FRIDAY
The St Andrew's weekly youth club is on every Friday night in term
time in The Ark from 6.45pm — 8.15pm for secondary aged young
people. We enjoy games, take part in sports, baking, using the
consoles, and playing pool, Foosball and basketball. We are looking
forward to the lighter evenings so we can play more outdoor sports
and games.
On the fourth Friday of each month we welcome Year 6 pupils to
aid their transition to Year 7.
YOUTH ALPHA
We recently finished our Youth Alpha videos series to introduce the
Christian faith to those who want to ask questions in a safe and
warm space. We ate pizza, had snacks as we asked some of life’s big
questions such as: who created the world, why are we here, does God
have a plan for our life and what can we do to follow Jesus each day?
STAY ON SUNDAY
Our Sunday young people met during March a few times to look at
several topics including: Mothering Sunday where we shared what is
amazing about our mothers, and we had another great service Sunday
where the young people made cookies and served the congregation
tea and coffee. STAY on Sunday meets every Sunday at various times
depending on which Sunday of the month it is:
First Sunday: Family Service in the Church at 10.30am with a talk for
children and the young people.
Second Sunday: STAY youth service at 6pm in the Church, followed
by food in The Ark until 7pm.
Third Sunday: A youth led meeting in The Ark at 10.30am, when the
young people choose the content, theme, games and prayers.
Fourth Sunday: We meet in the upper room of The Ark from 10.30am
with Westy leading a Biblical topic.
Fifth Sunday: We do an 'act of service' from 10.30am in The Ark.
STAY YOUTH SERVICE
On the second Sunday of each month we hold a special service
for young people at 6pm in St Andrew's Church. The service
includes singing, a Bible reading, a short reflection, and Holy
Communion. Afterwards, in The Ark, we have dinner cooked
for us by two amazing volunteers.
STAY ON MONDAY
Our Monday youth group meets every week from 6-7.15pm,
alternating between The Ark and a home of one of the young
people. The meeting ends with snacks, drinks and a look at
faith based topics in a fun and relaxed way. In March, for
example, we had topics on the Exodus of the Israelites and who
does God say we are?
STAY IN SCHOOLS
Our schools work continued with mentoring, assemblies, and
prayer meetings at Blue Coat, Piggott, Charvil and Sonning
schools. Plus in March I met Years 3 & 4 in Sonning school to
answer their Easter questions, such as: Who were the women in
Jesus’s life and what role did they play? I also had the privilege
of speaking about the Easter message at the Sonning School
Easter service, and two new schools — The Link in Maidenhead
and Shiplake in Henley, which went down well.
READING YOUTH NIGHT
In March we took the young people to join in with the next
Reading Youth Night when over 100 youth from across the area
gathered at Lower Earley Baptist Church for worship, a talk and
prayer.
MARCH EXTRAS
During March I also had the honour of leading a Year 13
assembly at Blue Coat School on anxiety and stress. I also spent
an evening showing the local Beavers round the Church for their
faith badge, and three days taking a bush craft session for local
8-12 year olds at Blue Coat School. I also met on Zoom with the
appointments secretary to the Prime Minister and the Diocese
appointments officer about the next Bishop of Oxford. Along
with other youth workers, shared our thoughts on young
people in the hope that the next Bishop will make them a
priority.
As always please get in touch with any ideas or to chat on
youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk
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Sonning Scouts spring term update
BEAVERS
March got off to a lovely start when our Beavers ran
a Mother’s Day café. They decorated their lodge with
bunting, set up tables, and served their mothers tea
and biscuits. It was a great success — the mothers were
absolutely delighted, and the Beavers took their hosting
duties very seriously.
Later in the month they had a visitor from Feathers
and Fur, who arrived at the lodge with a Barn Owl, Eagle
Owl, Kestrel and a Harris Hawk. All four took turns flying
around the lodge — to considerable excitement — and the
Beavers handled the two smaller birds. It was one of those
evenings that nobody went home talking about anything
else!
CUBS
During a wall climbing session, the cubs learnt about
ropes, knots and safety before putting it all into practice.
Everyone tried it and left having learned something new,
although some took to the heights with rather more
enthusiasm than others!
They also worked on their cooking badge in two
different ways. On Shrove Tuesday the cubs made, and
enthusiastically ate, pancakes, with the kitchen only
moderately chaotic!
In a later session they produced vegetarian loaded
nachos, which were, we are happy to report, excellent.
Their badges were thoroughly earned.
SCOUTS
The scouts also had their own climbing session in March
and rose to the challenge admirably. Elsewhere they
explored radio communications to learn how signals
travel and to get to grips with the kit. Next, they turned
their hands to Easter egg making. The results were
impressive, although very few made it home intact!
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EASTER EGG HUNT
To round off the term, all the beavers, cubs and scouts,
met for an Easter egg hunt in Ashenbury Park. Eggs were
hunted in the light and puzzles solved in the dark to
unlock the chocolate.
It was exactly the kind of chaotic, joyful, slightly
competitive evening that Scouting does best, and a
wonderful way to finish the month.
LOOKING AHEAD
The big event for the coming weeks will be the Sonning
Scarecrow Trail, when all three sections will be taking
part. Their display is entitled ‘Scout Camp’ and they look
forward to seeing you there!
Beyond that, there is more to look forward to. The
beavers will be going on badger wildlife walk, the cubs will
be building and putting up bird boxes, and the scouts will
be fire lighting and launching bottle rockets. And in June,
all sections will be off to a family camp!
If you have a child who would like to join any of the
sections — Beavers (ages 6–8), Cubs (8–10½) or Scouts
(10½–14) — they would love to hear from you.
Could you help your local scout group?
The Sonning Scout group is looking for adult volunteers.
If you are a little older than their young people, have a
couple of evenings a month to spare, and fancy doing
something genuinely rewarding with them — whether
you have Scouting experience or none at all — go to:
sonningscouts.org.uk/contact-us/
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SONNING ART GROUP
Lynda Tolworthy (left) won Sonning Art Group's latest
Chairman's Cup award for her 'Harbours and Headlands'
water colour painting. With her (right) is Sue Bell, the
art group's chairman.
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CHARVIL FEMALE SINGERS
Suzanne Newman is currently planning a singing
session for girls between the ages of 8 - 16. It will be held
in Charvil Village Hall from 6.00-7.30pm on Sunday 5
July.
The session will be devoted to a medley called 'Songs of
a Disney Princess' and will include: A dream is a wish your
heart makes, Part of your world, A whole new world, Colours
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Recently the group also supported International Women’s day with a soup lunch at a member’s home. The money raised
was given to Water Aid. They meets on the third Thursday of the month at Sonning Golf Club for fun, friendship and
fundraising. More from: https://sites.google.com/site/innerwheelrme
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Scarecrows 2026
Sunday - Monday 24-25 May
A big thank you, writes Barbara Carr,
to those who have offered to open their
gardens, but we could do with more …
if you are willing to help please get in
contact (see details below).
There is still time to enter a Scarecrow
(contact details below) if you do it before
Thursday 7 May!
If you are not registered you will not be on the Scarecrow Trail Map so email
Barbara.carr71@hotmail.co.uk, or contact@sonningscarecrows.com, 0779 91 21167
Editor's note: We will be pleased to receive your photographs and comments
about the Scarecrow Weekend for our July/August issue.
Coffee, tea, cake and chat!
at Pearson Hall
on Wednesday 6 May
10.30am — 12.00 noon
Why not pop in!
Always there on the first
Wednesday of the month!
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An invitation to enjoy
a free choral concert
in St Andrew's Church
4.00pm Saturday 13 June
Members of the Fulham and
Hammersmith Choral Society will
be enjoying a choir away day by
performing some choruses from
Vivaldi's Gloria and other choral
favourites in St Andrew's Church
Sonning.
Please come along to enjoy this
free concert of approximately 45
minutes. Everyone welcome!
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The Big
Lunch Project
is coming in
June
The Big Lunch is the UK's largest
annual community celebration,
held every June to bring together
neighbours for food, friendship and
fun.
It began in 2009 when the Eden
Project created it with the aim of
reducing loneliness by boosting
community spirit and encouraging
people to talk to each other.
Over 9 million people have taken
part in it in recent years and over
70% of them say they feel a stronger
sense of community and feel
inspired to become involve in other
community projects,
It is funded by the National
Lottery Community and supported
by the Pears Foundation. Free digital
resources, planning packs and advice
on hosting are available.
Events can range from small
picnics to large street parties.
More from:
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FoStAC UPDATE
Gardiner’s Homecare is an established family
business that has been serving the local community
since 1968. Proudly supporting people to continue
to enjoy living independent lives in their own homes
for as long as possible.
Our team of experienced care workers can provide
help with personal care, medication, overnight stays,
housework, companionship and much more. You will be
assigned your own Care Manager who will work closely
with you to ensure you receive the care and support
that is tailored to your personal wishes and needs.
For more information, contact us on
0118 334 7474
After a full house for the Friends of St Andrew’s Church (FoStAC) Bourne Again Shadows event earlier in the year,
over 40 of its member met for its AGM with a Quiz Night in late March — from which they raised another £500 for
St Andrew’s Church. Honorary treasurer Keith Nichols stood down after four years in his post, and was replaced by
FoStAC's outgoing chairman Magnus Smyly. Charles Hubbard succeeded him as chairman. The honorary secretary,
Sally Wilson, presented an excellent set of quiz questions for us the members to enjoy over a fish and chip supper.
During Sonning Scarecrows in May FosStAC will be hosting refreshments in The Ark and welcome home-baked
cakes for them to sell! If you are able to help, contact Sally Wilson on mustangsallywilson41@gmail.com. For more
information about FoStAC: www.fostac.org
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The people who let the light shine through
Rev Michael Burgess continues to meditate in and around church buildings
You may know the story of the little
girl with her family during a guided
tour around a cathedral. As the
bright sun streamed through one of
the windows, she asked the guide
who were the people depicted there.
'Those are the saints,' he said.
Later that evening the girl told her
mother, 'I know who the saints are.' '
Do you, dear? Who are they?' the
mother asked. The little girl replied:
'They are the people who let the light
shine through.'
When the summer sun rises,
its light catches the east window
of a church I look after. It shines
through the figures and colours of
The Annunciation scene to bathe the
chancel in a warm glow.
Later as the sun sets, it shines
once again through the west window
showing Christ surrounded by
angels, with the same wonderful
effect.
They are two stained glass
windows by the Victorian designer,
Kempe.
In St Mary’s Church, Fairford,
Gloucestershire, there are an
incredible 28 windows of medieval
glass that have survived the
centuries and continue to astonish
the visitor.
As the sun catches this array of
windows, the colours take on a new,
vibrant life. We see scenes in the
life of our Lord and our Lady, Old
Testament prophets, New Testament
apostles and the communion of
saints.
The eye moves round and we reach
the west window portraying Christ
in majesty and the day of judgement.
This great work has been
attributed to the royal glazier,
Barnard Flower, who was influenced
by the late medieval illuminated
prayer books. The windows are a
living witness to his skill and faith.
George Herbert has a poem that
calls us to shine out like the church
windows. It is easy, he says, to be
'brittle crazy glass', but in God’s good
grace we can become like a window
where colours and light, belief and
life can combine and mingle to
radiate out into the world.
St Mary's Fairford
BOOK REVIEWS
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Held in God’s Gaze – Keeping Company with the Saints and Mystics By Jill
Duff & Nicholas Heale, SPCK, £15.99
Discover the wisdom, prayer, and spiritual insight of saints
and mystics across Christian history. Those featured reflect
the wide Christian spiritual heritage: some are from the
ancient and Celtic background; others reflect medieval
spirituality and some from more recent times. The authors
invite readers to share in their experience of friendship
with holy figures, from ancient and Celtic saints to medieval
mystics, women spiritual leaders, the Spanish Mystics, and
modern voices of faith. The authors explore how saints encountered God and
provide reflections that help readers grow in spiritual maturity.
Pilgrim Places, Holy Lives – A Gospel Journey with the English Saints
By various Church of England writers, CHP, £3.99
The greatest story ever told is of God becoming human in Jesus
to offer us a transforming relationship with him. It explores
how this amazing story took root in Anglo-Saxon England, and
how those who responded to it can still inspire and encourage
us today. It has 24 days of Bible readings, reflections, questions
and prayers on the ancient practice of pilgrimage. and will help
you reflect on what it means to live as a pilgrim on a purposeful
journey through life. The Contributors include: Sarah Mullally, Stephen Cottrell,
Dee Dyas, James Shelton, Sammi Tooze, Sally Welch, Jenny Wright and
Alexandra Zhirnova.
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Pachomius,
the father
of getting
things done
for God. . .
Have you ever worked for a
disorganised organisation?
You know the scene: your
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your goals and deadlines
keep being changed,
your colleagues whisper
darkly in corners, emails
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The Fourth Century St Pachimius
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Pachomius should be the patron saint of administrators
everywhere. For back in the 4th century, without a
computer or even a mobile he managed to run 11 separate
monasteries like clockwork.
Pachomius was born into a pagan family in Upper
Egypt at the end of the third century, and as a youth
conscripted into the army. On his release in 313 he
became a Christian and a hermit — probably because he
craved some peace and quiet!
But Pachomius was not a loner, and when other monks
sought him out, he did with them what he did best —
he organised them. By 320 he had founded his first
monastery.
Pachomius had exceptional powers of administration,
probably perfected by his years of a disciplined army life.
By the time of his death, in 346, he presided over nine
large monasteries for men, and two for women. Each
monastery was divided into houses, according to its craft,
such as agriculture, tailoring or baking.
He also knew how to delegate, each house having its
own leader, and he knew how to keep in touch, so he held
team leaders’ meetings twice a year.
Pachomius created supply chains so that food and
drink never ran out, and he used his marketing skills to
find found buyers for their produce in Alexandria.
Above all else, Pachomius knew knew how to deliver
a vision. A daily pattern of work, prayer and sleep was
set in place to make sure that the monks and nuns
could devote themselves to God every day in prayer, and
memorising the Psalms and other Bible passages.
In short, Pachomius knew how to help people get
things done. No wonder his rule went on to influence that
of Basil and Benedict.
The gift of administration is listed by St Paul as a
genuine gift of God, and prudence and clear forward
planning are highly prized in the Proverbs.
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Was it really...?
. . . 400 YEARS AGO on 4 May 1626 that the Dutch
explorer Peter Minuit arrived on the east coast of what
is now the USA. He bought Manhattan Island from the
Lenape Native Americans for $24 worth of cloth and
buttons, which is equal to about $1,150 today.
. . . 300 YEARS AGO on 25 May 1726 that the world’s
first lending library was launched by Scottish poet and
bookseller Allan Ramsay at his bookshop in Edinburgh.
. . . 250 YEARS AGO on 4 May 1776 that Rhode Island
became the first of the colonies to renounce allegiance to
the British Crown by declaring independence.
. . . 200 YEARS AGO on 29 May 1826 that Ebenezer
Butterick, American tailor was born. He and his wife
invented tissue paper dress patterns in multiple sizes and
so revolutionised home dressmaking.
. . . 175 YEARS AGO from 1 May — 15 October 1851 that
the first world Great Exhibition was held in The Crystal
Palace, Hyde Park. More than 10,000 exhibitors attended.
. . . 100 YEARS AGO from 4 — 12 May 1926 that the UK’s
General Strike was held in support of 1.2 million coal
miners. The strike lasted nine days, and had little effect.
. . . 90 YEARS AGO on 7 May 1936 that British aviator
Amy Johnson made fastest-ever (until then) solo flight
from England to Cape Town, and on 27 May 1936 that the
RMS Queen Mary began her maiden voyage by sailing
from Southampton to New York.
. . . 80 YEARS AGO on 11 May 1946 that the first CARE
packages for Europe arrived in Le Havre, to help people
who were starving after WWII.
. . . 75 YEARS AGO, on 3 May 1951 that the Festival
of Britain and the Royal Festival Hall in London were
opened. Also, on 9 May 1951, the Lake District National
Park was established as Britain’s second national park, and
on 25 May the same year that British spies Guy Burgess
and Donald Maclean fled to Moscow. They were members
of the infamous Cambridge spy ring.
. . . 70 YEARS AGO on 24 May 1956 that the first
Eurovision Song Contest was held in Lugano, Switzerland.
It was won by Switzerland.
. . . 60 YEARS AGO on 6 May 1966 that the 'Moors
Murderers' Ian Brady and Myra Hindley were sentenced to
life imprisonment for killing five girls, aged 10 to 17.
. . . 40 YEARS AGO on 9 May 1986 that Sherpa Tenzing
died. This Tibetan/Nepalese mountaineer had been with
Sir Edmund Hillary of New Zealand when in 1953 they
became the first people to reach the summit of Mount
Everest.
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FASHIon BY HARRIET NELSON
Mary Bennet: overlooked sister to stylish confidence
After writing about the Bridgerton
series in the March issue, I found
myself drawn back into the world
of Regency-era books and TV
adaptations.
A few years earlier, I had read The
Other Bennet Sister by Janice Hadlow,
a novel that imagines the life of
Mary Bennet, one of Elizabeth
Bennet’s often-overlooked sisters
from Jane Austen’s Pride and
Prejudice. I absolutely adored this
book, and it has remained a favourite
of mine ever since.
Recently, the BBC brought
the story to life in a television
adaptation, offering a fresh
perspective on a character who has
long been underestimated, yet whose
journey is quietly compelling.
IN THE THE SHADOWS
Even within the glamorous world
of Jane Austen’s adaptations, Mary
begins her story in the shadows.
Often portrayed as the 'duller'
Bennet sister, her wardrobe and
manner reflect her reserved
personality and lower social
confidence.
In early depictions, Mary’s
clothing is muted, plain, and
conservative: high collars, simple
gowns, and minimal accessories.
Unlike her sisters, who favour
flowing silks, delicate patterns, or
bold accessories, Mary presents
herself as calm and reserved, the
quieter sister who spends her time
reading and playing the piano.
At social gatherings, these
choices highlight her serious nature
and her tendency to blend into the
background.
TRANSFORMATION
However, in'The Other Bennet
Sister' and the recent BBC
adaptation, we witness a remarkable
transformation in Mary’s character,
beautifully reflected in her wardrobe.
As she grows more self-assured
and begins to assert herself within
society, particularly after her move
from Longbourn to London, her
fashion becomes a clear expression
of her developing confidence.
Muted gowns give way to richer
fabrics, subtle embellishments, and
thoughtfully chosen accessories,
pieces selected by Mary herself
rather than imposed by others.
Her wardrobe begins to
incorporate more vibrant colours,
including shades of purple, red, and
green, often enhanced with delicate
floral designs. They are choices that
signal not only a shift in style but a
deeper sense of self-awareness and
presence.
EVOLUTION
While in London, as she forms
new friendships and meets new
people, her clothing becomes an
essential part of how she presents
herself to the world.
Through her evolving style, Mary
quietly redefines how she is seen,
transforming from an overlooked
figure into someone who gains
confidence and individuality while
remaining true to herself.
It is a shift that reflects more
than just taste; it tells the story
of Mary’s personal growth. Her
evolving wardrobe communicates
sophistication, individuality, and
quiet strength, allowing her to
command attention without the
flamboyance of her sisters.
In essence, her fashion becomes
an extension of her personality, a
visual expression of her intelligence,
poise, and newfound confidence. The
brighter colours she chooses may not
align with typical expectations of the
time, but they reflect her personal
taste and help her feel more like
herself.
SUBTLE SHIFTS
Mary’s transformation
emphasises the power of clothing
as a storytelling device in Austen
adaptations.
Subtle shifts in colour, fabric, and
accessory choices illustrate social
mobility and personal development,
while reflecting her personality as
portrayed in the novel.
Where her early attire suggests
restraint and modesty, her later
choices convey self-expression and
empowerment.
Through these visual changes,
audiences witness her journey from
an overlooked sister to a woman who
is respected and admired.
SUPERIORITY
In contrast, characters such as
Caroline Bingley use fashion to
assert status rather than express
personal growth.
Frequently dressed in rich
reds and adorned with elaborate
jewellery, Caroline’s wardrobe is
designed to signal wealth, class, and
social superiority.
Her bold colours and extravagant
accessories immediately draw
attention, but they also highlight
the difference between her outward
display of status and Mary’s more
understated, evolving elegance.
While Caroline’s fashion reflects
confidence rooted in privilege,
Mary’s transformation is far more
meaningful; her style develops
alongside her character, making her
eventual sophistication feel earned
rather than simply displayed.
CONFIDENCE
Ultimately, Mary Bennet’s story
and her fashion evolution show
that period dramas are about more
than glamour or historical accuracy.
They explore character, identity, and
personal growth. Her wardrobe is
not merely decorative; it reflects her
growing confidence and happiness.
AFOOT IN THE GARDEN BY RAY PUDDEFOOT
May?
Time for
Chelsea!
The greatest flower show on earth! When I was young I helped build
the National Farmers Union display in the marque. Later I grew plants
specifically for Chelsea and assisted with plant displays. But my biggest task,
with a colleague, was buying specimen plants for a Chelsea Garden.
Flowering Rhododendrons were
deemed ideal and via a contact of
a contact we were given the name
(long and eastern European) of a
gentleman, his telephone number and
address in Kensington!
By phone a ‘Rhodo’ viewing was
arranged at his nursery in the Surrey
Weald.
As we drove up a long gravel drive,
through a stand of eucalyptus trees,
we were met with what could easily
been a scene from The Hobbit!
In the middle of the drive was a
brightly dressed dwarf with a long,
pointed beard consulting hidden
forces with a dangling spinning
crystal. Even when standing he was
not very tall.
But the real magic was in the
nursery which was high up on a
sandstone ridge with magnificent
views over the Weald and a hundred
or more six foot+ tall specimen
‘Rhodos’ growing in 6 inches of
compost, which turned out to be
Silver gilt treasure.
PRUNE AND FEED
May is the time to prune early
flowering shrubs such as forsythia,
ribes and Japanese quince.
Remove seed heads from
hellebores, stake perennials and tie in
climbers as required.
Apply liquid feed around spring
bulbs and top dress your borders and
roses with granular fertilizer.
BEST JOB
One of gardening’s best jobs
is planting up summer bedding
plants. There is the shopping trip to
a nursery or garden centre and the
feel of friable compost in your hands
when you plant.
Always water your plants well in
advance of planting and again once
planted.
WEED AND FEED
Other tasks for May include
-weeding, feeding and mulching
borders, deadheading daffodils and
hellebores, tying in climbing plants
and setting supports for tall and
heavy headed perennials.
Flowers to look out for in May
are lilacs, rhododendrons, azaleas,
wisterias, iris and early roses such as
canary bird and x cantabrigiense.
TOP TIPS FOR MAY
— Prune spring flowering shrubs.
— Tie in climbers.
— Weed, feed and mulch.
— Plant summer pots.
— Replace hose washers.
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Crossword
Solution
Ralph's grid this month has the names of 29
elements with the initial letters of: A, B, 3C, 3D,
3E, H, I. L. O, 5P, R, 7S, and V.
The unused letters will spell out a relevant verse
from The Good News Bible Can you also find the
verse?
ANSWERS FOR RALPH'S APRIL
'FOOTBALL TEAMS' VERSE SEARCH
ARSENAL
ASTON VILLA
BARCELONA
BOURNEMOUTH
BURNLEY
BURY
CELTIC
CHELTENHAM
COVENTRY
DERBY
HUDDERSFIELD
JUVENTUS
LEEDS
LEICESTER
LIVERPOOL
LUTON
MANCHESTER
MILAN
NEWCASTLE
Ralph's April hidden verse was
Philippians 3: 14:
So I run straight towards the goal
SUDOKU
NORWICH
NOTTINGHAM
RAITH
READING
REAL MADRID
SUNDERLAND
WREXHAM
YEOVIL
YORK
ACROSS
1 Overpowered (Deuteronomy 11:4) (11)
9 ‘The — are mantled with corn’ (Psalm 65:13) (7)
10 ‘Each man—a sword to his side’ (Exodus 32:27) (5)
11 On the death of Jesus the curtain in the temple
was torn from— to bottom (Matthew 27:51) (3)
13 Stagger (Isaiah 28:7) (4)
16 ‘Anyone, then, who knows the good he
ought——and doesn’t do it, sins’ (James 4:17) (2,2)
17 Stir up or provoke (Acts 13:50) (6)
18 Burden (Luke 11:46) (4)
20 ‘As far as the east is from the—, so far has he
removed our transgressions from us’
(Psalm 103:12) (4)
21 Sign (Luke 23:38) (6)
22 ‘After that, Jesus poured water into a basin
and began to—his disciples’ feet’ (John 13:5) (4)
23 The nature of the seven ears of corn which
swallowed up the good ears in Pharaoh’s dream
(Genesis 41:23) (4)
25 Has (anag) (3)
28 ‘This is the account of Shem, Ham and
Japheth, —sons’ (Genesis 10:1) (5)
29 ‘I will...make them drunk, so that they...sleep
for—and— awake’ (Jeremiah 51:39) (4,3)
30 Paul said of him, ‘he often refreshes me and is
not ashamed of my chains’ (2 Timothy 1:16) (11)
DOWN
2 Worth (Matthew 13:46) (5)
3 ‘A bruised — He will not break’ (Matthew 12:20) (4)
4 ‘Suddenly a great company of the heavenly —
appeared with the angel’ (Luke 2:13) (4)
5 Slip (anag) (4)
6 ‘Take an awl and push it through his — — into
the door, and he will become your servant for life’
(Deuteronomy 15:17) (3,4)
7 Bountiful (2 Corinthians 8:2) (11)
8 ‘Therefore, as we have —, let us do good to all
people’ (Galatians 6:10) (11)
12 Acquire (2 Timothy 2:10) (6)
14 Container cover (Numbers 19:15) (3)
15 ‘He...became obedient to death, even death
on——!’ (Philippians 2:8) (1,5)
19 Refrain (1 Peter2:11) (7)
20 ‘She began to—his feet with her tears’ (Luke
7:38) (3)
24 One who worships Brahma, Vishnu or Shiva (5)
25 ‘Give to everyone who—you’ (Luke6:30) (4)
26 ‘I lift up my eyes to the hills; where does my—
come from?’ (Psalm 121:1) (4)
27 One of those whom the Lord said would be
taken from Jerusalem and Judah as judgment on
them (Isaiah 3:2) (4)
MAY MAZE
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BIG HEART TREE CARE
Reliable and friendly service for all tree care
NPTC qualified — Public Liability of £10 million
0118 937 1929 0786 172 4071
bighearttreecare.co.uk info@bighearttreecare.co.uk
THAMES CHIMNEY SWEEPS
0779 926 8123 0162 882 8130
enquiries@thameschimneysweeps.co.uk
http://www.thameschimneysweeps.co.uk
Member of the Guild of Master Sweeps
Rendezvous in
The Ark
TUESDAY 12 & 26 MAY
Now in our 8th successful year, Rendezvous in
the Ark continues to welcome everyone from
12 noon to meet for lunch followed by tea and
coffee on the second and fourth Tuesday of
every month.
For more details or to reserve your seat call:
0118 969 3298
office@sonningparish.org
WATCHMAKER - WE REPAIR THE UNREPAIRABLE
All grades of Watches and Clocks
repaired and restored.
Free estimates and valuations.
0794 485 4378 dncard@ntlworld.com
DRONE HOUSE SURVEYS
Surveys on houses with a drone
Most jobs undertaken
Please call Phil on: 0797 950 3908
QUALIFIED AUDIOLOGIST HCPC REGISTERED
Do you have blocked ears or difficulty hearing?
Mobile earwax removal by microsuction
Lucinda Ellis 07795 268866
lucinda@hearingscreening.co.uk
CAROL GREEN GARDENER
Borders, pots, pruning and mowing.
Local, reliable and affordable.
One off or regular visit.
Carol.green01@ntlworld.com 0772 409 1627
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Parish contacts
Ministry Team
— The Vicar: Rev Jamie Taylor (Day off Friday)
The Parish Office, Thames Street, Sonning, RG4 6UR
vicar@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298
— Associate Priest (PTO), Rev Sam Thandi / 0798 328 1962
— Youth Minister: Chris West (Westy)
youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk / 0794 622 4106
— Youth and Children's Minister: Corinne
childrenswork@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298
— Pastoral Assistant/Verger: Richard Hogg, 0118 969 3298
Churchwardens
— Liz Nelson, liz.nelson1@ntlworld.com / 0779 194 4270
— Ruth Jeffery, ruth@jefferyfamily.net / 0797 101 8730
Deputy Churchwardens
— Kevin Wilson, kevinmichaelwilson@gmail.com / 0118 969 3298
— Sue Peters, mail@susanjpeters.com / 0118 377 5887
Parish Office Manager
— Hilary Rennie, office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298
Parochial Church Council
— Secretary: Hilary Rennie 0118 969 3298
— Treasurer: Jerry Wood 0118 969 3298
Director of Music, Organist and Choirmaster
— Richard Meehan MA ARCO
music@sonningparish.org.uk
Safeguarding Officer
— Nicola Riley: nic.nige@sky.com / 0742 517 3359
Sonning Bell Ringers
— Tower Captain: Pam Elliston
pam.elliston@talktalk.net / 0118 969 5967
— Deputy Tower Captain: Rob Needham
r06needham@gmail.com / 0118 926 7724
St Andrew's Church Parish Website
https://www.sonningparish.org.uk
The Parish Magazine: https://www.theparishmagazine.co.uk
— Editor: Bob Peters
editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk / 0118 377 5887
— Advertising: Ian and Lauren McCann
ianmacpne@outlook.com / 0776 815 1100
— Print and Distribution: Gordon Nutbrown
gordon@caxtonhouse.co.uk / 0118 969 3282
Advertisers' index
Abbeyfield Care 16
Abbey School 31
AB Walker Funeral Directors 8
Active Security 26
All Aerials 28
All Digital TV 31
AMS Water Softeners 12
Avery Collection Care Home 4
Audiologist 28
Barn Store Henley 18
Berkshire Stump Removals 36
BHR Maintenance 6
Big Heart Tree Care 28
Blandy & Blandy Solicitors 12
Blue Moose Quality Graphics 22
Bridges Meals on Wheels 20
Canon Tree Care 26
Carol Green Gardener 28
Clark Bicknell Plumbing and Heating 28
Crosfields School 8
Drone House Surveys 28
Fit 20 16
Gardiner’s Homecare 18
Good Oaks Home Care 22
Handyman and Decorating Services 28
Haslams Estate Agents 2
Hicks MOT and Service 14
Home Stairlifts 18
I Plumber 8
Kingfisher Bathrooms and Kitchens 26
Lock Fit 6
MC Cleaning 28
Molly Maid 32
Mossinator Roof Cleaning 6
Muck and Mulch Garden Supplies 6
PC Help Support 22
Professional Tree and Hegde Services 36
Reading Blue Coat School 12
Richfield Flooring 8
Right at Home 20
S Green Plumbing and Heating 22
Shiplake College 18
Smallwood Landscaping 28
Sonning Golf Club 14
Sonning Scouts 24
Thames Chimney Sweeps 28
Thames Valley Water Softeners 20
The Bull Inn Sonning 24
The Great House Coppa Club 24
The Mill at Sonning 28
The Window Cleaner 6
Tomalin & Son Funeral Directors 12
Tudor Chimney Sweeps 28
Villars Hayward Chartered Accountans 6
Watchmaker 28
Water Softener Salt 6
The Parish Magazine May 2026
The Parish Magazine is produced by St Andrew’s PCC and delivered
free of charge to every home in Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye.
The Parish Magazine is printed in the United Kingdom by
Sarum Graphics Ltd, Old Sarum, Salisbury SP4 6QX.
The Parish Magazine template was designed in 2012 by
Roger Swindale rogerswindale@hotmail.co.uk
and David Woodward david@designforprint.org
Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements
Senior School and Sixth Form Open Day
Saturday 9 May
Junior School Open Morning
Saturday 16 May
Book on here
theabbey.co.uk/events
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Why all-girls?
Book onto one of our events to see why.
All Digital TV
• Multi television/telephone/network points
• Installed.
• Flat screen TV mounting.
• Sky TV and home cinema.
• All work guaranteed.
Putting Girls First
Your trusted & local TV, Aerial
Satellite installer.
TEL – 01189791818
Mobile - 07500081505
• Bad reception problems solved.
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From £25
Book now for the world premiere of JACK & SARAH - a hilarious and
heart-warming comedy starring actor and comedian RUFUS HOUND,
SARAH MOYLE (Doctors), NEIL ROBERTS (Holby City)
and GEORGE BANKS (Coronation Street).
Choose the full Mill experience with dining, or simply come along for
the show.