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BGFC Magazine May 2026 Edition

Bloom Into Advocacy is a powerful celebration of survivorship, community, and the voices creating change in the cancer space. In this May 2026 edition of Black Girls Fighting Cancer Magazine, we highlight stories of resilience, self-advocacy, prevention, and purpose while honoring the volunteers, supporters, healthcare partners, and survivors helping us build a movement rooted in awareness, access, and hope. From personal survivor journeys to community-centered healthcare initiatives, this issue reminds us that advocacy blooms in many forms — and no one fights alone.

Bloom Into Advocacy is a powerful celebration of survivorship, community, and the voices creating change in the cancer space. In this May 2026 edition of Black Girls Fighting Cancer Magazine, we highlight stories of resilience, self-advocacy, prevention, and purpose while honoring the volunteers, supporters, healthcare partners, and survivors helping us build a movement rooted in awareness, access, and hope. From personal survivor journeys to community-centered healthcare initiatives, this issue reminds us that advocacy blooms in many forms — and no one fights alone.

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MAY 2026

CLEVELAND CLINIC

TAUSSIG CENTER

A Community Approach to

Cancer Prevention

CERVIVOR

AMBASSADOR SPEAKS

Tiera Wade shares her story of

purpose and transformation

SISCARE THE MOVEMENT

BGFC Founder speaks on a

movement of advocacy, awareness,

and access.

Bloom Into

ADVOCACY

COVER MODEL ASHA MILLER SHARES

HER STORY OF SELF-ADVOCACY


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Letter from the Editor

By Staci “PurPose” Kirk, Founder & Editor-in-Chief

Dear Readers,

There is something powerful about blooming after

hardship. “Bloom Into Advocacy” is deeply personal

to me because advocacy was born from my own

journey through cancer. It came from the moments I

needed support, understanding, representation, and

community. It grew from realizing how important it

is for Black women to feel seen, heard, and

empowered throughout every stage of survivorship.

At Black Girls Fighting Cancer, advocacy is not just what we do — it is who we are.

Every Warrior Box, support circle, resource, and conversation is rooted in the belief

that our voices matter and our stories deserve space in the healthcare conversation.

As you move through this issue, I hope you see advocacy in many forms: sharing your

story, supporting another woman, asking questions, showing up, speaking out, and

refusing to give up. Every act matters.

This movement continues to grow because survivors, caregivers, supporters, and

partners continue choosing compassion, visibility, and action. Together, we are

creating spaces where Black women are not only surviving but healing, thriving, and

blooming with purpose.

To every Warrior reading this: your voice matters, your journey matters, and your life

matters.

With love, faith, and fierce gratitude,

Staci PurPose Kirk

Founder, Black Girls Fighting Cancer

Editor-in-Chief, BGFC Magazine


Contributors

Thank you to all of the contributors to our inaugural edition of BGFC Magazine.

Our Staff:

Photographer - Nisi Ezell Photography

Administrative Assistant - Jasmyne Yarbrough

Editor in Chief - Staci PurPose Kirk

Advisor - Denise West

Contributing Writers:

Asha Miller

Tiera Wade

Chandol Anderson

Tee Elder

Shanise Pearce

Amber Jackson

Cleveland Clinic Community Outreach and Patient Navigation

To our sponsors, donors, and community partners — thank you. Your support helps

Black Girls Fighting Cancer continue creating spaces of hope, advocacy, support, and

sisterhood for women and families impacted by cancer.

Because of your generosity, we are able to provide meaningful programs, resources,

and community-centered initiatives that remind Warriors they do not have to

navigate this journey alone.

As we continue to grow, we welcome partnerships with individuals and organizations

who believe in the importance of awareness, equity, compassion, and survivorship.

Together, we are making a lasting impact and helping more women feel seen,

supported, and empowered through every stage of their journey.


Table of Contents

Meeting Women Where They Are (Cleveland Clinic) 6 - 7

Survivor Story: Tiera Wade 8

Golden Glow Salmon & Sweet Potato Plate 9

Survivor Story: Tee Elder 11-12

Gentle Exercises for Cancer Warriors 15

Survivor Story: Shanise Pearce 16

Worrier to Warrior (Cleveland Clinic) 18 - 19

Cover Survivor Story: Asha Miller 21-24

Survivor Story: Amber Jackson 27

Survivor Story: Chandol Anderson 29

Thank You Volunteers & Supporters 31

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Meeting Women Where They Are: A Community Approach to Cancer Prevention

The path to better health for women across Northern Ohio, from the neighborhoods

of Cleveland to the lakeshore communities of Lorain and Ashtabula, requires more

than just awareness; it requires access, trust, and the ability to navigate a complex

system.

At Cleveland Clinic Taussig Cancer Center, the Community Outreach & Patient

Navigation team is organized to serve across geographic areas and the many diverse

populations that reside throughout Northeast Ohio. Each Program Manager focuses

on the unique needs of their communities, with a shared goal of reducing barriers to

care and making cancer screening more accessible and easier to understand.

As Program Manager Mark Ribbins explains, “Stopping Cancer in Its Tracks (SCIIT) is

one of our outreach initiatives that works with local faith congregations and

community organizations. We equip trusted advocates to educate their communities

about early detection, screening, and healthy lifestyles. A local pastor experienced the

impact of our program, sharing that her breast cancer was first detected at a SCIIT

screening event, something that may have otherwise gone unnoticed.”

Screening may not be something that has been part of routine care for many women.

Often, it’s about simply not knowing where to start or what is even recommended. The

team makes that first step of getting screened easier to understand, easier to access,

and easier to follow through on.

For most women, breast cancer screening with a mammogram begins around age 40.

Cervical cancer screening, including Pap and HPV testing, typically starts earlier,

around age 21. Colorectal cancer screening now begins at age 45 for those at average

risk. Even with growing awareness, taking that next step is not always easy, but if

cancer is found early, treatment is often less invasive and outcomes are significantly

better.

Cost, transportation, time off work, and competing responsibilities can all get in the

way of following through on care. This is where the work of patient navigation comes

in, whether that means scheduling appointments, coordinating transportation, or

simply walking someone through the process step by step. The patient navigation

program assists women through a process that can otherwise feel overwhelming.

Across Northern Ohio, outreach is not one-size-fits-all. Each community requires a

different approach, shaped by its needs and barriers. Program Managers across the

region approach this work in ways that reflect the people they serve and the spaces

where trust already exists. Scheretta Jeffries highlights how partnerships expand

reach into vulnerable populations: “With our HOPE Grant, we extended breast health

education and screening services into shelters and transitional housing programs,

reaching women who might otherwise be overlooked.”

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In communities with strong Hispanic populations, access and language can be major

barriers. Eliannie Marrero-Ortiz explains, “We recognize that many individuals cannot

access care during standard hours, so we’ve introduced Saturday clinics and expanded

partnerships with community health centers to create more opportunities for

screening.” These flexible scheduling options include partnerships with Federally

Qualified Health Centers.

This same approach extends into Lorain and surrounding communities, where bilingual

outreach and trusted partnerships are essential. As Lucas Velez shares, “With our

mobile units and partnerships with local schools and community organizations, we are

able to meet women where they feel most comfortable and provide screening in a way

that fits their lives.” A key part of this work includes partnering with the Lorain City

Schools mobile unit, bringing health screenings directly into the communities and

creating easier access for families.

On the west side of Cleveland, the approach often centers on stability and trust within

supportive environments. Ty Stimpert describes this approach through partnerships

with supportive housing communities, including the Edna House, a sober living

environment for women in recovery. “By offering education and screening

opportunities on-site, we are able to have meaningful conversations with women about

cancer risk.”

In another part of our service area, outreach takes a workforce-centered approach. As

Ray Jackson puts it, “Our approach is simple: meet women where they are and remove

barriers before they become outcomes.” Mobile mammography services operate

multiple days each week, bringing screenings directly into the community.

Partnerships with employers like Amazon allow women to access care without

disrupting their workday, while locations like Palmeros & Co., a local beauty salon,

create space for open and comfortable conversations about breast health.

And in Ashtabula and Lake County, Phil Tomko reflects on what stands out most:

“Women sharing that they did not know services like this existed, and how meaningful

it is to have someone walk them through the process without confusion. Those

moments of connection often lead to continued care, stronger trust, and a different

outlook on their health.” Tomko also points out that outreach efforts continue to

evolve, with innovative approaches such as VR-based education being introduced to

make information more engaging, personal, and easier to understand.

Across Northern Ohio, this work continues to grow through partnerships with

community leaders, advocates, and organizations who understand what their

communities need. In alignment with the mission of Black Girls Fighting Cancer, the

goal is not just to provide services, but to expand access, build trust, and create real

pathways into care.

Because no woman should have to figure this out alone.

7Meeting Women Where They Are: A Community Approach to Cancer Prevention


Tiera Wade’s story is one of purpose and transformation, but more than that,

it is a reminder of what can happen when lived experience becomes a

catalyst for change and a refusal to be silent.

After surviving advanced-stage cervical cancer, Tiera made a decision that

would redefine not only her life, but her mission. Instead of keeping her

journey private, she chose to speak up honestly, openly, and with intention.

What began as survival has grown into advocacy rooted in education,

empowerment, and ensuring that others are not left without the information

or resources she once had to fight for.

Today, Tiera serves as a Cervivor Ambassador, using her voice to elevate

awareness around cervical cancer prevention, early detection, and the

importance of routine screenings. Her advocacy work extends far beyond

storytelling. She actively participates in community health events, speaks on

panels, and contributes to conversations that bridge the gap between

patients and providers. Through these spaces, she works to ensure that lived

experiences are not only heard, but valued in shaping better care and

outcomes.

Tiera’s work is deeply educational and resource-driven, focused on reaching

communities that are often underserved or overlooked in women’s health

conversations. She is intentional about creating spaces where people feel safe to ask

questions, learn, and take action. Whether she is speaking to survivors, caregivers, or

individuals navigating fear and uncertainty, her message remains consistent: awareness

saves lives, and self-advocacy is a necessity, not a choice.

As the founder of SetTrendz, Tiera also merges advocacy with entrepreneurship. What

began as a creative outlet has evolved into a wellness-centered brand that reflects her

belief in self-love, mindfulness, and body awareness. Through her handcrafted waist

beads and designs, she encourages women to reconnect with their bodies and engage

more deeply in their personal health journeys. Her work often serves as an entry point

into larger conversations about reproductive health, preventive care, and intentional

living.

T i e r a W a d e

Faith also plays a central role in her journey. It is the foundation that carries her

through both the difficult and defining moments of her life. That grounding has

allowed her to show up consistently in spaces of advocacy, even when the

conversations are heavy or the work is demanding.

Through every role she holds — survivor, advocate, entrepreneur, mother, and

community voice — Tiera Wade continues to turn her experience into impact.

Her work is a living example of what it means to transform pain into purpose

and to ensure that cervical cancer awareness is not just a message, but a

movement rooted in education, access, and empowerment.

Beyond her professional and advocacy efforts, Tiera is a devoted

wife and mother of three daughters. Her family is at the core of

everything she does, grounding her purpose and strengthening

her commitment to building a healthier future. She often speaks

from the perspective of legacy — what it means to not only

survive, but to create change that impacts the next generation.

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Healing from the Inside Out

A Cancer-Fighting Recipe to Nourish Your Body and Spirit*

Golden Glow Salmon & Sweet Potato Plate

(Anti-Inflammatory • Protein-Rich • Nourishing for Recovery & Strength)

This comforting meal is packed with ingredients known to support immune health,

reduce inflammation, and provide sustained energy during treatment, survivorship,

or recovery.

Ingredients

1 salmon fillet

1 medium sweet potato, cubed

1 cup broccoli florets

½ avocado, sliced

1 tsp olive oil

½ tsp turmeric

½ tsp garlic powder

¼ tsp black pepper

Pinch of sea salt

Fresh lemon wedges

Optional: pumpkin seeds or hemp hearts for

topping

Directions:

Preheat oven to 400°F.

Toss sweet potatoes with olive oil, turmeric, garlic powder, pepper, and sea salt.

Roast for 20 minutes.

Add salmon and broccoli to the baking sheet. Lightly season salmon with garlic

powder, pepper, and a squeeze of lemon.

Roast an additional 12–15 minutes, or until salmon flakes easily.

Plate with avocado slices and sprinkle with pumpkin seeds or hemp hearts if

desired.

Finish with fresh lemon juice before serving.

Warrior Wellness Tip

Healing is not about perfection — it’s about nourishment, grace, and giving your body

support one meal at a time.

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One in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her

lifetime. I am one.

T e e E l d e r

January 19, 2021 — a day that had already carved a permanent space in

my heart, committed to grief, memory, and someone I loved deeply —

became the day my life split into before and after, introducing me to a

loss that taught me some days don’t just hold pain, they expand it.

I was 33 years old when I read the words in MyChart: stage 0

ductal carcinoma in situ and stage 1 invasive ductal carcinoma.

I didn’t hear it sitting in a doctor’s office with someone gently explaining it. I

read it physically alone while on the phone, staring at a screen, trying to make

sense of language that didn’t feel applicable to my life.

“Cancer?” I whispered, stammering, phone in hand, as everything around me

blurred.

The disbelief was not hubristic, but I did believe I was being proactive and

preventative about my health.

Still, I had an inkling. I noticed subtle differences

between my first and second mammograms. The

biopsy process was chaotic, almost telling in its

urgency, and I’ll never forget the nurse’s words

afterward: “If you see anything concerning in

MyChart, wait until Dr. Jones calls you.”

When the diagnosis came, I asked the question that

echoes for so many: Is this a death sentence?

I knew about treatment advances, yet anxiety doesn’t

wait for logic. Moreover, being diagnosed young adds

layers often unconsidered: questions about fertility,

sexuality, motherhood, career disruption, and the

demands of long-term survivorship.

Life became a series of appointments — MRIs, CT

scans, consultations, treatment plans. Moving at

godspeed, I felt like I had been dropped into a world I

didn’t ask to enter but had no choice but to navigate.

Telling my children and loved ones was one of the

hardest moments. Watching their faces process fear

and uncertainty was unbearable. But even in that

moment, I told them, “Y’all can cry later. If you’re going

to stand on the frontlines with me, I need you to lock

in, because either way the pendulum swings, I am

going to beat cancer and I need fighters alongside me.”

This was about survival.

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Surgery and recovery were brutal. I couldn’t lay flat, use my arms, or even wash my own body without

help. I had drains stitched beneath my skin, a visiting nurse twice a week, and loved ones caring for me

around the clock. Yet somehow, even during that season, we still found reasons to laugh.

Then my pathology changed. What was initially caught early had spread into multiple lymph nodes,

reaching my neck. Chemotherapy followed, and Taxotere and cyclophosphamide nearly took me out. My

body no longer felt like mine. Less than two weeks after my first infusion, my hair began falling out, and I

decided to cut it before cancer could take that choice from me too.

Radiation came next. My skin burned. My body endured. I rang the bell. People celebrate that moment,

and understandably so, but survivorship is not the absence of struggle. In many ways, it is the beginning of

a different kind of battle.

During treatment, survival mode keeps you moving. Once treatment ends and life quiets down, you finally

begin processing everything you carried — the anxiety, trauma, hormonal changes, fatigue, medications,

cognitive fog, and the constant awareness of every ache in your body. Breast cancer changed me in ways I

never expected.

Re-learning your body is a grief people rarely talk about.

My breasts were amputated, and I chose not to have

cosmetic surgery. There were moments I felt angry at my

body, questioning how something I cared for so deeply

could betray me. At the same time, the world around me

celebrated survival while I was still trying to understand

my new normal.

People often ask what carried me through. The answer is

simple: my will to live and my village. At no point did I

become interested in dying. The love people poured into

me during this season is something I will never fully have

words for. Even during tears, I kept adjusting my crown

and pressing forward because I’m bendable, never

breakable. I refused to allow cancer to overpower me or

define my life more than it already had. I never asked,

“Why me?” Why not me?

Cancer taught me to slow down, to lean on people, to

release hyper-independence, and to appreciate moments

I once rushed through. It taught me to live.

And if there’s one thing I want every woman to take from

my story, it’s this: get personal with your body. Learn it.

Listen to it. Advocate for it. Do your self-exams. Go to

your appointments. Ask questions. And if something

doesn’t feel right, push harder.

Because you are your biggest advocate.

Tee Elder

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Move With Love:

Gentle Exercises for Cancer Warriors*

The Sunset Reset (5–10 minutes)

Goal: Release tension and calm the nervous system before

rest.

Sit comfortably or lie down with a pillow supporting your

head. Close your eyes and slowly inhale for 4 counts, then

exhale for 6. Gently rotate your ankles and wrists to release

built-up tension. Place one hand on your chest and one on

your stomach.

Repeat softly: “My body deserves rest. My healing matters.”

Best for: evening relaxation, anxiety relief, sleep support

Wall Push Strength Flow (5 minutes)

Goal: Rebuild gentle upper-body strength and confidence.

Stand facing a wall with your hands shoulder-width

apart.

Slowly bend your elbows and lean toward the wall, then

push back gently.

Repeat 8–10 times at your own pace.

Roll your shoulders afterward and stretch your arms

across your chest.

Finish with one deep breath and a smile for yourself.

Best for: rebuilding strength after treatment, movement

confidence, and circulation.

Bedside Mobility Flow (3–5 minutes)

Goal: Gently wake up the body before getting out of bed.

Before standing up, stretch your arms overhead and point your

toes forward. Slowly bend and straighten your knees one at a

time. Roll onto your side gently and take three deep breaths. Sit at

the edge of the bed for a moment before standing.

Best for: fatigue, stiffness, slow mornings, low-energy days

*Be sure to check with your doctor or care team before starting any exercise regime. 15


My Story — What I Carry, I Refuse to Pass Down Unchanged

There are moments in life that change you. And then there are

moments that introduce you to a version of yourself you never

knew you would have to become.

My journey with cancer began with knowledge.

I carry BRCA2 and PMS2 gene mutations connected to Lynch

Syndrome, placing me at increased risk for multiple cancers.

Because of that, I was placed on a path of early detection that

would ultimately save my life.

In October 2023, after a normal mammogram earlier that year, an

MRI revealed what the mammogram did not. I was diagnosed with

Stage 1, Grade 3 Triple Negative Breast Cancer, along with DCIS.

Within two weeks, I began chemotherapy — twelve rounds, twelve

weeks, a fight that required every part of me mentally, physically,

and emotionally.

But cancer did not just impact me. It impacted my entire family. My

husband became my caregiver while still being my partner. My son

had to process what it meant to watch his mother face a lifethreatening

illness. My daughters, who carry these same genetic

mutations, were forced to confront their own realities far too early.

S h a n i s e P e a r c e

Cancer reshapes families. It shifts roles, introduces fear,

and exposes gaps in care, access, and understanding,

especially in Black and Brown communities.

I completed chemotherapy in January 2024, underwent a

double mastectomy in February, and by March, I was in

remission. But survivorship is not the end. It is a new

beginning that comes with responsibility.

Through my work with The Advocate’s Table, I advocate for

early detection, genetic awareness, and equitable access to

care. I share my story as a living legacy to my children — to

my daughters, so they are equipped with the knowledge

that can save their lives; to my son, so he understands the

emotional weight of illness and how to process it; and to

my husband, who carried me through it all.

Early detection saved my life. Sharing my story is how I

help save others.

Shanise Pearce

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Worrier to Warrior: How Outreach Efforts Help Warriors Worry Less

Community Outreach Team - Cleveland Clinic Taussig Cancer Center

Do you remember learning

how to ride a bike for the first

time? The thoughts of “What if

I fall?” and “Where do I go

once I start?” are not

uncommon. The same can be

true for patients learning to

take hold of their healthcare.

Cleveland Clinic’s Taussig

Cancer Center Community

Outreach (CO) is home to a

team of lay navigators and

program managers who serve

as your set of training wheels.

Not every patient is

experienced in managing their

cancer screenings. The C-

word is likely the reason

patients are most

subconsciously apprehensive.

No one wants to hear the C-

word, which makes meeting

patients where they are at the

time they need us crucial.

Through Cancer Community

Outreach, patients can access

a wealth of person-specific

education, concierge

appointment scheduling

services with upcoming

appointment reminders, and

clinical guidance from CO’s

dedicated CNP (certified nurse

practitioner) to help eliminate

barriers that prevent patients

from receiving the care they

need.

The CO program offers

services such as financial

assistance, translation,

education, transportation,

and a host of other services to

help patients when they need

it most. Non-Englishspeaking

patients and

LGBTQ+ patients, for

example, are provided

specialized education and are

able to directly communicate

with caregivers who have

lived experience in those

communities, free from the

fear of discrimination, bias,

not feeling heard, lack of

empathy, and other

experiences that can deter a

patient from approaching or

staying upright in their

healthcare management.

Fear can prevent even the

most courageous everyday

people from ever hopping on

a bike; the same can be true

for patients embarking on

their healthcare journey. CO

knows this to be true. For

instance, a recent patient who

began care with us back in

2025 was very afraid of

doctors, needles, and

hospitals, but she desperately

needed a colonoscopy. She

didn’t have any family or

friends who could support her

journey, so she was referred

to the CO team for support.

Our patient navigator listened

to her concerns and not only

scheduled her for the screening

she needed but also provided a

door-to-door chaperone

service that picked her up from

her home, waited through the

appointment, and escorted her

home safely. This patient

expressed that our team set

expectations for the

appointment, which helped her

feel more comfortable

completing her screening. She

also mentioned that the

chaperone service arrived in a

timely manner, the vehicle was

nice and clean, and the

chaperone was friendly and

personable. “The chaperone

made things easy and relaxing.”

What sets us apart from the

pack is our dedication to

making every patient feel seen,

heard, and understood. Every

patient’s journey is different,

and no two patients travel the

same path. We have identified

nine service area zones across

Northern Ohio, from Cleveland’s

east, west, and south sides to

Lorain County, over to the

Sandusky area, Akron and

Canton, down to Mansfield, as

well as Ashtabula and

Youngstown, as places where

CO’s help could be most

utilized.

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Worrier to Warrior: How Outreach Efforts Help Warriors Worry Less

Community Outreach Team - Cleveland Clinic Taussig Cancer Center

By intentionally creating service area zones, it allows us to zero in on how we provide specialized

care to specific populations and create safe spaces for our most vulnerable community members.

Riding a bike for the first time can be scary, but CO is here to help you grab your health by the

handlebars. Our mission is to help create a community of well-educated and confident health

champions, individuals who can take the values, methods, and attitudes we express and not only

apply them to themselves but also share them with those they love.

So, whether you choose to embark with us or another qualified care facility, don’t be afraid of

falling. Cleveland Clinic’s Community Outreach is here to catch you if you fall and keep you

headed in the right direction.

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Be the Reason Someone Feels Seen.

At Black Girls Fighting Cancer and Stiletto Boss Foundation, we know healing takes

more than treatment. It takes community. It takes support. It takes people willing to

show up with compassion, love, and action.

Every program we offer, every support circle we host, every Warrior Box we pack,

and every family we encourage is possible because someone decided to care enough

to give.

Whether you choose to donate, volunteer your time, become a community partner,

or simply share our mission with others, you become part of something bigger than

yourself. You become part of a movement centered on advocacy, awareness, healing,

and hope.

There are so many ways to make an impact:

Donate: Help us continue providing support programs, educational initiatives,

wellness experiences, and resources for individuals and families impacted by cancer.

Volunteer: Join our village of compassionate volunteers who help at events, support

outreach efforts, assemble Warrior Boxes, and create safe spaces for survivors and

thrivers.

Partner With Us: Businesses, organizations, and community leaders can collaborate

with us to expand awareness and increase access to support services.

No act of kindness is too small. Sometimes healing begins simply by knowing

someone cares.

Together, we are creating spaces where people impacted by cancer feel heard,

supported, represented, and never alone.

To donate, volunteer, or learn more, visit:

Black Girls Fighting Cancer

Follow us:

@BlackGirlsFightingCancer

@TheStilettoBossFoundation

Serve with compassion. Lead with purpose. Fight with hope.

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Asha Miller

I Trusted My Body Before the System Did

I found the lump in the shower.

Warm water running down my back, steam filling

the room, everything ordinary... until it wasn’t.

It was small. Subtle. Easy to dismiss.

And for a moment, I almost did.

The ultrasound said everything looked normal.

Nothing to worry about. Words that are supposed

to bring relief... but instead, they sat heavy in my

chest.

Because something in me wouldn’t settle.

It wasn’t loud. It wasn’t panic. It was quiet,

persistent... a knowing I couldn’t shake.

So I asked for a biopsy anyway.

That decision changed everything.

Because a few days later, my life split into a before

and after.

Cancer.

Not whispered. Not softened. Just there. Real and

undeniable.

And what I didn’t know then was that this diagnosis

wouldn’t just reshape my body... it would stretch

me, strip me, and slowly teach me how to come

back to myself in ways I never had before.

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I was in my early 30s. A mother.

Moving through life, raising

babies, holding everything

together... until

suddenly I wasn’t.

I remember the waiting rooms.

The quiet. The way time felt

thick and slow.

I remember being the youngest

one there.

And I remember the moment a

doctor walked in, looked past

me, and began speaking to my

mom as if

she was the patient.

As if I wasn’t sitting right there.

As if this wasn’t happening

inside of my body.

I had to stop him.

“No... it’s me.”

It was a small sentence. But it

carried everything.

Because in that moment,

something shifted.

I realized I was going to have to

speak for myself in spaces that

weren’t built to immediately

hear me.

I was going to have to advocate

for my own life.

There were moments that

broke me open.

Moments where I was in pain

and didn’t feel believed.

Moments where I felt like I had

to prove what my body was

already telling me.

And as a Black woman, that

weight is not unfamiliar. We are

often taught to be strong, to

endure

quietly, to not question too

much.

But I learned quickly that

silence can cost you.

So I began to use my voice.

Even when it shook.

Even when I didn’t have the

right words.

Even when I was tired.

I asked questions. I pushed

for answers. I changed

providers when I needed to.

Not because I wanted to be

difficult... but because I could

feel, deep in my bones, that

my life depended on it.

And still, the hardest parts

weren’t always what people

expect.

It wasn’t just the treatments.

It was what came after.

Because healing didn’t arrive

all at once. It didn’t bloom

overnight.

It came slowly. Unevenly.

In layers.

My body kept changing.

Surgery after surgery.

Decisions I never imagined I

would have to make.

I had to grieve the body I

once knew while learning how

to live inside the one I had.

To stand in front of the mirror

and see something

unfamiliar... and still choose

to stay.

To soften toward myself when

everything felt sharp.

To rebuild a relationship with

my body that wasn’t rooted in

what it looked like... but in

what it had

carried me through.

And somewhere in that

process... something began to

grow.

Not loudly. Not all at once.

But quietly. Steadily.

Like something breaking through

soil after being buried.

I wasn’t just surviving this.

I was becoming.

Becoming someone who trusted

herself.

Becoming someone who spoke

sooner.

Becoming someone who

understood that advocacy isn’t just

something you do for others... it

begins

with how you show up for yourself.

Now, when I speak about advocacy,

it comes from a place that is lived,

not learned.

It’s telling women to trust their

bodies... even when everything

around them says they’re fine.

It’s encouraging us to talk about

family history, to break the silence

that has lived too long in our

communities.

It’s reminding us that we are

allowed to ask questions, to get

second opinions, to take up space

in rooms that weren’t designed

with us in mind.

Because access matters.

Awareness matters.

But being heard... being believed...

that matters just as much.

And for Black women, it can change

everything.

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Photo Credit

Adrienne Gerber Photography

I think about the version of me in that shower

often.

The one who could have ignored it.

The one who could have accepted the first answer

and moved on.

But she didn’t.

She listened.

She trusted herself.

And because she did... I’m here.

Still healing.

Still growing.

Still blooming in ways I never expected.

Advocacy didn’t begin as something I chose.

It began as something I needed.

But now, it’s something I carry.

Something I offer.

Something I live.

And if my story reaches even one woman standing

in her own moment of uncertainty, I want her to

know this:

You are allowed to trust what you feel.

You are allowed to speak up.

And even in the hardest, most uncertain seasons...

there is still something within you that is growing.

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-Asha


U R V IV O R S

A R R I O R S

A R R I O R

T H R IV E R S

U R V IV O

T H R IV E R

U R V IV O

T H R IV E R

S U R V I V O R S . T H R I V E R S . W A R R I O R S .

R O A

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Young, Married, and Diagnosed

Amber Jackson was 30 years old, newly married, and preparing

to leave for her honeymoon when she found a small lump in her

right breast. At first, breast cancer was the last thing on her

mind. She was young, healthy, excited about marriage, and

looking forward to the life she and her husband, Josh, were

building together.

But something inside her told her to take it seriously.

After returning home from her birthday trip, Amber scheduled appointments

and eventually had a biopsy. While still on her honeymoon, she received the

call that changed everything: the biopsy was positive for breast cancer.

A m b e r J a c k s o n

In an instant, her newlywed season became filled with

doctor visits, treatment decisions, fear, and uncertainty.

Cancer did not care that she was young, a mother, newly

married, or still full of dreams for the future.

Amber’s journey included chemotherapy, fertility

preservation, hair loss, hospital visits, emotional lows,

physical weakness, and nights when she wondered how she

would make it through. Undergoing IVF before treatment

was especially emotional, forcing her to think about

motherhood, fertility, and the future at a time when she was

simply trying to survive.

Through it all, Amber says her faith became her anchor. God

carried her through every hospital visit, every tear, every

setback, and every uncertain moment. Her husband Josh

stood beside her, and her son Nico gave her another reason

to keep fighting.

Today, by the grace of God, Amber has been cancer-free

since December 2024. Even more beautifully, she and Josh

are now expecting their first child together, and Nico is

preparing to become a big brother.

Her journey inspired her memoir, In Sickness and In Health,

written for those walking through cancer, survivors,

caregivers, and loved ones supporting someone through

treatment.

Amber hopes her story reminds younger women to listen to

their bodies, speak up, and advocate for themselves. Breast

cancer does not have an age limit.

And to the woman who is fighting, grieving, afraid, or

exhausted, Amber wants you to know: there is still hope.

Your story is not over.

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Amber Jackson


CANCER RESOURCES

Care and Support for: Patients. Families. Communities

FINANCIAL

ASSISTANCE

Facing treatment can bring

unexpected expenses. These

organizations help ease the

financial burden so patients

can focus on healing.

Pink Fund – Covers essential non-medical bills for patients in

active treatment. pinkfund.org

CancerCare – Offers co-pay assistance, transportation grants,

and counseling. cancercare.org

Breast Cancer Fund of Ohio – Provides emergency assistance

to Ohio residents in treatment. bcfohio.org

JD Breast Cancer Foundation – Northeast Ohio nonprofit

helping with utilities, groceries, and prescriptions.

jdbreastcancer.org

Josette Beddell Memorial Foundation – Grants for families

facing financial hardship during cancer care.

josettememorial.org

Cancer Support Community – Free groups, workshops,

and survivorship programs (virtual and local).

cancersupportcommunity.org

CancerCare – National online and in-person groups led

by oncology social workers. cancercare.org

OhioHealth & Summa Health Support Groups –

Programs for newly diagnosed patients, survivors, and

young women.

SisCare Support Circles – A community of sisterhood

and strength for women of color navigating survivorship.

SUPPORT +

COMMUNITY

Healing is more than medical

treatment—it’s connection,

care, and conversation. These

groups offer safe spaces for

emotional and peer support.

MEDICAL

GUIDANCE +

SECOND OPINIONS

Knowledge is power. These programs

connect patients with trusted

specialists and quality care resources.

Cleveland Clinic Breast Center – Comprehensive care,

second opinions, and virtual consultations.

clevelandclinic.org

OSUCCC–James Cancer Hospital – Patient navigation,

support services, and clinical trials. cancer.osu.edu

ODH Breast & Cervical Cancer Project (BCCP) – Free

screenings and navigation for eligible Ohio women.

ADVOCACY +

EDUCATION

Stay informed, empowered,

and connected to the larger

fight for awareness and

equality in cancer care.

American Cancer Society (ACS) – Offers patient services,

lodging, and advocacy. cancer.org

National Coalition for Cancer Survivorship (NCCS) –

Policy advocacy and survivorship education.

canceradvocacy.org

Black Girls Fighting Cancer (BGFC) – Advocacy, survivor 28

storytelling, the Warrior Support Line, and care initiatives.

stilettobossfoundation.net


I am a Stage 3 breast cancer survivor.

In October 2021, while getting dressed, I felt two lumps in my

right breast. As a nurse, I immediately sought medical attention.

I was initially told I had dense tissue and calcium deposits,

something commonly found in Black and Brown women.

However, over the next several months, the lumps continued

growing and eventually became visible externally.

After additional testing and a biopsy, I was diagnosed on August

23, 2022, just days after my 43rd birthday, with HER2-positive

invasive ductal carcinoma in my right breast and lymph nodes.

Although I was first told I had Stage 2 breast cancer, I later

learned it was actually Stage 3.

After being examined again and told it was likely a cyst, I was referred to

a breast surgeon for further evaluation and a biopsy. Before my biopsy

results even came back, my surgeon looked me in the eyes and said,

“Once you receive these results, your life is going to start moving very

rapidly.” In that moment, I knew it was cancer.

On August 23, 2022, just eight days after my 43rd birthday, I was

diagnosed with HER2-positive invasive ductal carcinoma in both my right

breast and lymph nodes. Initially, I was told I had Stage 2 breast cancer,

but later learned it was actually Stage 3. That truth became a heavy

burden I quietly carried, even keeping it from some of my closest friends

and family.

At the time, my son had just started his junior year of high

school. Within weeks of my diagnosis, I had a port placed

and began chemotherapy, completing treatment in

January 2023. Because my cancer was aggressive, I later

underwent a double mastectomy and reconstruction.

By May 2023, I had returned to work while undergoing

radiation treatments five days a week. Severe burns

eventually forced me to stop treatment early, but through

the pain and exhaustion, I continued showing up for my

son as he prepared for college. He remained my “why”

through every difficult moment.

Complications from radiation and reconstruction later led

to infections, emergency surgery, and removal of my

implant, forcing me to face one of the hardest emotional

moments of my journey. Still, I kept fighting.

C h a n d o l A n d e r s o n

Today, I share my story to inspire hope, encourage

women to trust their bodies, and remind others to never

stop fighting for their lives.

Chandol Anderson

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B E C A U S E Y O U B E L I E V E D

S o m e g a v e t h e i r t i m e .

S o m e g a v e t h e i r h e a r t s .

S o m e s h o w e d u p q u i e t l y

a n d b e c a m e p a r t o f t h e

h e a l i n g .

Vo l u n t e e r s , d o n o r s ,

s u p p o r t e r s , a n d b e l i e v e r s —

y o u a r e p a r t o f e v e r y s t o r y

o f h o p e w e s h a r e .

We Love our Volunteers! Thank you Angie & Peaches!

B e c a u s e o f y o u ,

Wa r r i o r s f e e l s e e n ,

s u p p o r t e d , a n d n e v e r a l o n e .

T h i s m o v e m e n t c o n t i n u e s t o

b l o o m

b e c a u s e y o u c h o s e t o

b e l i e v e i n u s .

“We Honor Every Volunteer, Supporter, Donor, and Advocate Who Chooses to Stand Beside Our

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