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L E T T E R S<br />

Calling All Readers...<br />

We often hear from survivors that the most important<br />

thing <strong>Stroke</strong> Connection does for them is remind them<br />

that they are not alone.<br />

Readers Room (see pages 12-14) is a prime spot<br />

where you can feel comfortable sharing your funniest<br />

and saddest, best and worst, most frustrating and most<br />

enlightening life-after-stroke experiences. And you<br />

can be sure that what you share will touch many other<br />

readers who have shared the experience called stroke.<br />

Please send your poems, letters and stories to the<br />

following address:<br />

Readers Room<br />

<strong>Stroke</strong> Connection Magazine<br />

7272 Greenville Avenue<br />

Dallas TX 75231<br />

214-706-5231 (fax)<br />

strokeconnection@heart.org (e-mail)<br />

I am writing in response to Scott<br />

Bonagofsky’s letter (January/February 2006). First,<br />

he asks whether the magazine deals with coping, loss<br />

and emotional aspects. I say yes. When I first had my<br />

three strokes, I felt like I was the youngest person<br />

alive going through this, until your magazine came<br />

my way. It helped me see the ifs, ands and whys of<br />

what I was going through.<br />

Here I was 33 years old being told I would never<br />

walk or talk again — both of which I can do. Losing<br />

your job, driver’s license and income, raising a<br />

daughter? How does one get over that? Simple, put<br />

one foot in front of the other.<br />

<strong>Survivor</strong>s need to realize life has changed and<br />

you need to deal with that and go on. I still have<br />

seizures, loss of vision in both eyes, right hand and<br />

leg paralysis. Do I get down? Of course, but I’m still<br />

here, living my life one day at a time.<br />

My words of advice are “never give up.” I could<br />

have done that, but I refused. I even started a stroke<br />

support group because there weren’t any around here.<br />

I now have 13 members.<br />

Brian Kromer, <strong>Survivor</strong><br />

Dillsburg, Pennsylvania<br />

Connecting You to Us<br />

I am writing in response to Irwin<br />

Bierhans (March/April 2006). As a caregiver for my<br />

husband the past three years, I can understand the<br />

frustration and anger at the medical system. Even if<br />

you are lucky to have health insurance, you still have<br />

to fight for every rehab benefit because the company<br />

will have a preconceived idea that all stroke patients<br />

are the same and should have the same treatment.<br />

<strong>Stroke</strong> families know that is not the case because there<br />

is no “average” stroke. I hope he realizes that any<br />

progress at all is great.<br />

My husband has surprised a lot of medical<br />

personnel with how far he has come these past three<br />

years. We feel it was due to the prayers from all<br />

who were involved, our faith and his strong will to<br />

survive. My husband says, “<strong>Stroke</strong>s are not for sissies<br />

because it involves hard work to keep learning and<br />

re-learning, and to stay involved with your life.” What<br />

we appreciate from the magazine are the stories from<br />

the survivors and their hard work and determination to<br />

recover, whether they are successful or not.<br />

Virginia Stanhope, Caregiver<br />

Joliet, Montana<br />

I would like to comment on the letter<br />

from Irwin Bierhans (March/April 2006). The life of<br />

a caregiver is very difficult, and I thank God every<br />

day for my wife Lee. I believe being a caregiver is<br />

every bit as hard, if not more so, than being a stroke<br />

survivor. I feel compassion for Mr. Bierhans.<br />

I firmly believe that focused on God we each need<br />

to push ourselves to do all that we can with what<br />

we have and not let our attention be diverted to the<br />

negative.<br />

Mike Dennis, <strong>Survivor</strong><br />

Longwood, Florida<br />

We Want To Hear From You<br />

mail: c/o Editor-in-Chief<br />

<strong>Stroke</strong> Connection Magazine<br />

7272 Greenville Ave.<br />

Dallas, TX 75231<br />

fax: 214-706-5231<br />

e-mail: strokeconnection@heart.org<br />

Letters may be edited for length and scientific integrity. The opinions presented are those of the individual and do not reflect those of the <strong>American</strong> <strong>Stroke</strong> <strong>Association</strong>.<br />

September/October 2006

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