Survivor Louise Ingram - American Stroke Association
Survivor Louise Ingram - American Stroke Association
Survivor Louise Ingram - American Stroke Association
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L E T T E R S<br />
Calling All Readers...<br />
We often hear from survivors that the most important<br />
thing <strong>Stroke</strong> Connection does for them is remind them<br />
that they are not alone.<br />
Readers Room (see pages 12-14) is a prime spot<br />
where you can feel comfortable sharing your funniest<br />
and saddest, best and worst, most frustrating and most<br />
enlightening life-after-stroke experiences. And you<br />
can be sure that what you share will touch many other<br />
readers who have shared the experience called stroke.<br />
Please send your poems, letters and stories to the<br />
following address:<br />
Readers Room<br />
<strong>Stroke</strong> Connection Magazine<br />
7272 Greenville Avenue<br />
Dallas TX 75231<br />
214-706-5231 (fax)<br />
strokeconnection@heart.org (e-mail)<br />
I am writing in response to Scott<br />
Bonagofsky’s letter (January/February 2006). First,<br />
he asks whether the magazine deals with coping, loss<br />
and emotional aspects. I say yes. When I first had my<br />
three strokes, I felt like I was the youngest person<br />
alive going through this, until your magazine came<br />
my way. It helped me see the ifs, ands and whys of<br />
what I was going through.<br />
Here I was 33 years old being told I would never<br />
walk or talk again — both of which I can do. Losing<br />
your job, driver’s license and income, raising a<br />
daughter? How does one get over that? Simple, put<br />
one foot in front of the other.<br />
<strong>Survivor</strong>s need to realize life has changed and<br />
you need to deal with that and go on. I still have<br />
seizures, loss of vision in both eyes, right hand and<br />
leg paralysis. Do I get down? Of course, but I’m still<br />
here, living my life one day at a time.<br />
My words of advice are “never give up.” I could<br />
have done that, but I refused. I even started a stroke<br />
support group because there weren’t any around here.<br />
I now have 13 members.<br />
Brian Kromer, <strong>Survivor</strong><br />
Dillsburg, Pennsylvania<br />
Connecting You to Us<br />
I am writing in response to Irwin<br />
Bierhans (March/April 2006). As a caregiver for my<br />
husband the past three years, I can understand the<br />
frustration and anger at the medical system. Even if<br />
you are lucky to have health insurance, you still have<br />
to fight for every rehab benefit because the company<br />
will have a preconceived idea that all stroke patients<br />
are the same and should have the same treatment.<br />
<strong>Stroke</strong> families know that is not the case because there<br />
is no “average” stroke. I hope he realizes that any<br />
progress at all is great.<br />
My husband has surprised a lot of medical<br />
personnel with how far he has come these past three<br />
years. We feel it was due to the prayers from all<br />
who were involved, our faith and his strong will to<br />
survive. My husband says, “<strong>Stroke</strong>s are not for sissies<br />
because it involves hard work to keep learning and<br />
re-learning, and to stay involved with your life.” What<br />
we appreciate from the magazine are the stories from<br />
the survivors and their hard work and determination to<br />
recover, whether they are successful or not.<br />
Virginia Stanhope, Caregiver<br />
Joliet, Montana<br />
I would like to comment on the letter<br />
from Irwin Bierhans (March/April 2006). The life of<br />
a caregiver is very difficult, and I thank God every<br />
day for my wife Lee. I believe being a caregiver is<br />
every bit as hard, if not more so, than being a stroke<br />
survivor. I feel compassion for Mr. Bierhans.<br />
I firmly believe that focused on God we each need<br />
to push ourselves to do all that we can with what<br />
we have and not let our attention be diverted to the<br />
negative.<br />
Mike Dennis, <strong>Survivor</strong><br />
Longwood, Florida<br />
We Want To Hear From You<br />
mail: c/o Editor-in-Chief<br />
<strong>Stroke</strong> Connection Magazine<br />
7272 Greenville Ave.<br />
Dallas, TX 75231<br />
fax: 214-706-5231<br />
e-mail: strokeconnection@heart.org<br />
Letters may be edited for length and scientific integrity. The opinions presented are those of the individual and do not reflect those of the <strong>American</strong> <strong>Stroke</strong> <strong>Association</strong>.<br />
September/October 2006