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April 2012 - Alumni News - Williams College

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Friend and sometime neighbor<br />

Wally Bernheimer had lunch with<br />

Paul Boire and Nancy together<br />

with another friend, a Red Sox<br />

exec who had worked with Paul<br />

in the Cape Cod League baseball<br />

many moons ago. Stories floated<br />

about funny back-room sports<br />

happenings, including one about<br />

Lou Guzzetti after a game getting<br />

into a scuffle with a UMass<br />

basketball player that led to our<br />

terminating basketball relations<br />

with them and several about Paul<br />

being ejected from ball games<br />

after throwing down his clipboard<br />

to protest a ref’s call in Al<br />

Shaw fashion. Wally also had fun<br />

phone conversations with Fred<br />

Mayer on Red Sox baseball and<br />

Bruce Shilling, who had attended<br />

a Minneapolis lecture by Wally’s<br />

writer daughter, Kate (Wesleyan<br />

’88), on her fairy tale research.<br />

Jack Heiser certainly caught<br />

my attention with his note:<br />

“Planning to attend a Big<br />

Meeting proved harmful to<br />

my health. I was packed and<br />

ready in June but ended up in a<br />

hospital. My doctors ignored my<br />

plea for emergency performance<br />

enhancing drugs. Eight months<br />

and a knee surgery, followed by<br />

much rehab, a total-knee replacement,<br />

yet more rehab, a second<br />

total-knee replacement scheduled<br />

for late March followed by<br />

even more rehab later, I am also<br />

completing an almost complete<br />

body rebuild with a 50-year perfect<br />

health expectation (more a<br />

guideline than a guarantee).Most<br />

distressing about this is the burden<br />

(me) on my caretaker wife.<br />

Much of my career has been<br />

spent managing stress and strain.<br />

Now I am the stress straining my<br />

wife. I hope to return to work<br />

in May. I look forward to seeing<br />

everyone at the centennial, unless<br />

I end up in the hospital again.”<br />

Lastly, on a bittersweet note,<br />

I would personally like to<br />

acknowledge that Pete Raisbeck’s<br />

beloved wife Peggy passed away<br />

in August after a long battle<br />

with cancer. (Peggy resisted the<br />

spotlight, and Pete wanted to<br />

respect her wishes, but I insisted<br />

on a notice here.) Many of us<br />

knew Peg from back in college<br />

days but perhaps didn’t know<br />

all that she accomplished in outreach<br />

over the years. She was a<br />

model of volunteerism, including<br />

Shelter Inc., finding housing for<br />

the poor, founding the Becklam<br />

Foundation to fund a number<br />

of projects for the underprivileged,<br />

being active with Loaves<br />

& Fishes and soup kitchens,<br />

tutoring mentally challenged<br />

kids and assisting in the Oakland<br />

schools, helping to settle Laotian<br />

and Cambodian refugees back in<br />

Vietnam days in Connecticut and<br />

looking after desperate families<br />

at Christmas. She was a great<br />

lady, and our condolences go out<br />

to Pete in his loss.<br />

Onward to September, when<br />

I hope more of you will emerge<br />

from the closet about the election.<br />

We are of a generation that<br />

votes, so take the opportunity<br />

to speak to the <strong>Williams</strong> community,<br />

whatever your stripes.<br />

Cheers, all!<br />

1962<br />

50 th<br />

REUNION JUNE 7–10<br />

William M. Ryan<br />

112 Beech Mountain Road<br />

Mansfield Center, CT 06250<br />

1962secretary@williams.edu<br />

I will begin with a quick<br />

procedural note. Now that my<br />

visits and the reporting of them<br />

are complete, I will be soliciting<br />

information for future class notes<br />

via email. The college has email<br />

addresses for over 80 percent of<br />

the class. If you think they may<br />

not have yours (and you care),<br />

please contact the alumni office<br />

and provide it. If you do not<br />

have access to email, please let<br />

them know that as well, and I<br />

will make certain you receive a<br />

hard copy of all requests.<br />

Thirty-one classmates, most<br />

with partners, attended the mini<br />

in October. We now are the<br />

official holders of the baton,<br />

received from the Class of ’61 by<br />

our president Spike Kellogg at a<br />

first-class dinner at the Faculty<br />

House. In other words, it is time<br />

to make your contribution to<br />

the 50th reunion fund. It was<br />

a fun-filled and educational<br />

weekend, with several <strong>Williams</strong><br />

faculty speaking to us and lots<br />

of athletic events taking place.<br />

We were entertained, amused,<br />

and learned much from President<br />

Adam Falk and former President<br />

John Chandler. Rufus Jarman led<br />

us in a stirring rendition of “The<br />

Mountains” (all four verses)<br />

at our Friday night dinner. I<br />

enjoyed seeing all classmates but<br />

especially ones I hadn’t seen in a<br />

while, including Bob Jackson and<br />

Mike Scott.<br />

Rufus also deserves credit for<br />

tracking down former classmate<br />

Pete Hayes and turning him into<br />

a current classmate. Pete began<br />

with us but graduated in ’63<br />

and was officially a member<br />

n 1961–62<br />

of that group until he changed<br />

his affiliation. He immediately<br />

wrote his bio for our book and<br />

will be attending the 50th. He<br />

and wife Melissa live in Santa<br />

Fe, N.M., and have a total of<br />

five children and five grandkids.<br />

If you remember Pete, you will<br />

not be surprised at the many<br />

twists and turns in his life. He<br />

began his post-<strong>Williams</strong> life in<br />

the Peace Corps in Peru, served<br />

as an A.P. photographer in New<br />

York and moved to New Mexico<br />

to manage a new outdoor store<br />

founded by friends. Then he<br />

started his own firm, Omniverse<br />

Research, of Los Gatos, Calif.,<br />

based on inventions Pete had<br />

devised for a battery-powered<br />

MIG Welder (I don’t know what<br />

that is, either). “By the early ’90s<br />

I was exhausted with commuting<br />

to Silicon Valley so I took a<br />

job at the local Boys and Girls<br />

Club, helping transform ‘at risk’<br />

kids into computer whizzes with<br />

real prospects. Utterly fantastic!”<br />

Welcome back, Pete. Get out<br />

your wallet.<br />

It is always special for me to<br />

reunite with classmates, but the<br />

minis are a real treat, as one can<br />

mingle with members of adjacent<br />

classes. I ran into Clyde Buck ’61,<br />

who asked me to contribute to a<br />

testimonial book he was preparing<br />

for former coach and one<br />

of my all-time favorite persons,<br />

Clarence Chaffee. I assented and<br />

now have a copy of the book.<br />

(John Botts is also a contributor.)<br />

It is an amazing tribute to<br />

an amazing man. Contact the<br />

alumni office if you would like to<br />

purchase a copy.<br />

Three weeks after our mini,<br />

the college staged another huge<br />

weekend to honor Mike Reily ’64<br />

and officially retire his number.<br />

(Too long a story to relate here,<br />

but read the early November<br />

Sports Illustrated story.) Over<br />

300 of Mike’s classmates and<br />

football players returned to<br />

campus, including all seven of<br />

the living members of our class<br />

who played with Mike in our<br />

senior year: Rawson Gordon,<br />

Dan Crowley, Choppy Rheinfrank,<br />

Price Gripekoven, Carl Davis, John<br />

Newton and Bruce Grinnell. (Tovi<br />

Kratovil also played but passed<br />

away earlier in the year.) Price<br />

and Bruce both wrote to me that<br />

it was one of the “most memorable,<br />

emotional and enjoyable<br />

reunions” they ever attended.<br />

Kudos to Ben Wagner ’64 for<br />

organizing the event!<br />

Now the sad news, which<br />

unfortunately is becoming a<br />

staple of this column. Two of<br />

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