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The Burning Bush Vol 9 No 2.pmd - Far Eastern Bible College

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FILIAL PIETY AND BURIAL CUSTOMS<br />

In the <strong>Bible</strong>, bowing involves kneeling or prostrating oneself to the ground,<br />

and not just stooping the head while standing. A progression from the Old<br />

Testament to the New Testament may be noticed, in which bowing<br />

becomes increasingly associated with worship. (Matt 4:9, Mark 15:19). In<br />

the <strong>Bible</strong>, the number of occasions of bowing to God and the Lord Jesus<br />

Christ is far more than the cases of bowing to creatures. Godly individuals<br />

always forbade others to bow down to them (Esth 3:1-5, Acts 10:25-26,<br />

Rev 19:9-10, 22:8-9). From this we conclude that worship is due only to<br />

God, and Christians must not bow to any persons. 14<br />

If we want to show our respect, we can always stand for a minute before<br />

the altar. <strong>The</strong>re is no need for us to bow before the altar or photo of the<br />

deceased.<br />

It is always good for a Christian’s testimony if he were to go straight<br />

to the altar to show respect for the deceased when attending a wake. Let<br />

us not follow the non-Christian during such time when “joss-sticks are<br />

burned to worship the dead and to make contact with the soul of the<br />

deceased.” 15 “<strong>The</strong> people who follow this custom know that this practice<br />

has this meaning.” 16 Christians must not use joss-sticks at all. This is not<br />

a matter of custom or culture but is religious in nature. We are not to<br />

worship a person.<br />

Band in a Funeral Procession<br />

<strong>The</strong> funeral procession is normally headed by a band of musicians.<br />

<strong>The</strong> music is meant to frighten away malicious spirits lurking around the<br />

funeral site. <strong>The</strong>y are also meant to announce the arrival of the deceased<br />

to the spirit world and to bid him into their midst. Such bands should not<br />

be employed in Christian funerals. Christians should not adopt non-<br />

Christian rituals.<br />

Some Related Superstitions<br />

Visitors to the wake as well as to the funeral are usually given a<br />

strand of red thread or small red packets containing two coins to ensure<br />

that they get rid of any bad luck.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are also several common items served during such occasions<br />

because they are deemed to bring good luck to everyone: “Sweets are<br />

served to remove the bitterness (bitter taste in the mouth) of the loss.<br />

Groundnuts and melon seeds (commonly used to signify fertility) is<br />

served so that the living might have more children to help “replace” the<br />

loss.” 17<br />

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