Volume 8 Number 2 FALL 2008 - American Vegan Society
Volume 8 Number 2 FALL 2008 - American Vegan Society
Volume 8 Number 2 FALL 2008 - American Vegan Society
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to make a salad. Give a man tools<br />
(a knife and a cutting board) and<br />
tell him he can use his hands (to<br />
toss the greens) and he’s good to<br />
go. What Michael loves most<br />
about making salads is that he can<br />
be creative, and there’s really<br />
nothing “wrong” that he can do.<br />
He doesn’t have to worry about<br />
precise timing or burning anything,<br />
and salads are just plain<br />
fun to construct.<br />
The next thing I taught him how<br />
to make was marinara sauce. Using<br />
fresh or canned ingredients,<br />
he can go as wild as he pleases<br />
with it. Michael really gets into<br />
chopping and sautéing onions and<br />
then adding tomatoes and whatever<br />
else he likes to the sauce.<br />
He’s big on hot chiles, hot sauce,<br />
black pepper, cayenne, and capers,<br />
so I know that whenever<br />
he’s making pasta sauce, it’s going<br />
to be spicy and have plenty of<br />
flavor and zip.<br />
The last dish I taught him how<br />
to prepare was soup. Again, since<br />
there’s no wrong way to make<br />
soup, it was easy for him to feel<br />
confident about his creations.<br />
Granted, he doesn’t always come<br />
up with flavor combinations that<br />
are common (and sometimes this<br />
is with good reason!), but his soups<br />
are always original and inspired.<br />
I would advise anyone (man or<br />
woman) starting off in the kitchen<br />
to begin with these three dishes.<br />
They can be made without any<br />
hard and fast rules to follow, so<br />
novice cooks can be creative, have<br />
fun, and let go of their fear of cooking.<br />
That’s what happened to Michael,<br />
and now he loves it whenever<br />
I ask him to prepare dinner.<br />
Anne: What is the secret to a successful<br />
relationship?<br />
Jo: Michael and I believe there<br />
are several components to a successful<br />
relationship, each<br />
weighted the same: respect (for<br />
yourself and each other), trust,<br />
shared values, listening well,<br />
willingness to compromise, appreciation,<br />
kindness, gratitude,<br />
letting go of having to always be<br />
right, and picking your battles<br />
carefully.<br />
We also firmly believe that<br />
there are three essential parts to<br />
every relationship that must be<br />
given equal consideration and<br />
care: the two individuals themselves,<br />
and the bond they form<br />
together.<br />
Anne: What do the two of you<br />
enjoy doing together on a “date”<br />
now?<br />
Jo: Our favorite “dates” usually<br />
entail a long walk or bike ride,<br />
lunch at a restaurant, or watching<br />
a movie together at home. It<br />
doesn’t take much to please us—<br />
we’re happy just sharing each<br />
other’s company.<br />
Anne: How would you describe<br />
your job? His?<br />
Jo: I have two jobs, each quite<br />
demanding in its own right. I am<br />
a senior editor with Book Publishing<br />
Company and primarily<br />
edit vegan and vegetarian recipe<br />
books, books on natural and alternative<br />
health, and occasionally<br />
books on Native <strong>American</strong> culture,<br />
history, and spirituality. I<br />
love being able to mentor new<br />
authors as well as work with seasoned<br />
ones. My job is the ideal<br />
extension of my own skills in recipe<br />
development and writing, and<br />
it is wonderful to be able to pass<br />
on what I’ve learned.<br />
My other job is in alternative<br />
dispute resolution. I work for a<br />
privately held company as an<br />
online mediator for international<br />
business conflicts. It can be very<br />
stressful work, but it is also rewarding<br />
to know I am playing<br />
some small role in contributing to<br />
a more peaceful world.<br />
Michael works for a grassroots<br />
environmental organization<br />
where he coordinates programs<br />
involving household hazardous<br />
waste, recycling and waste minimization,<br />
and environmentally<br />
preferable purchasing.<br />
Although we have had some<br />
rocky times over the years, we<br />
both are very proud that we have<br />
stuck by our ideals and continued<br />
to do what we feel is “right work,”<br />
even to this day. Just as we won’t<br />
compromise on our diet and lifestyle,<br />
we feel equally as strong<br />
when it comes to our livelihoods.<br />
Anne: What are your hobbies?<br />
His?<br />
Jo: My work envelops a lot of<br />
my personal interests—writing,<br />
reading, editing, and conflict<br />
resolution. When time permits, I<br />
write advice columns for my<br />
website, and occasionally poetry<br />
and haiku. Of course, I also enjoy<br />
preparing food. I do artwork (pen<br />
and ink, colored pencil, and needle<br />
art) and enjoy doing Sudoku<br />
and playing Scrabble. We both<br />
like walking and biking and getting<br />
outdoors whenever we can.<br />
Michael also enjoys car and<br />
bike maintenance, home repair,<br />
taking care of plants, landscaping,<br />
and playing the “bones” (a percussion<br />
instrument—the vegan<br />
version, of course). He is also an<br />
avid reader and music aficionado.<br />
Anne: What are the psychological<br />
aspects of being vegan that<br />
you would like to share with vegan<br />
and non-vegan readers?<br />
Jo: We’ve been vegan for so<br />
many years now that it is no<br />
longer what we do, it is simply<br />
who we are. We do not respond<br />
to someone challenging our veganism<br />
any more than we respond<br />
to someone challenging<br />
our being left-handed or having<br />
brown eyes. When veganism infiltrates<br />
every part of your being,<br />
there is no way to separate it from<br />
any other part. To us, being vegan<br />
seems like the most natural thing<br />
in the world.<br />
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