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Volume 8 Number 2 FALL 2008 - American Vegan Society

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to make a salad. Give a man tools<br />

(a knife and a cutting board) and<br />

tell him he can use his hands (to<br />

toss the greens) and he’s good to<br />

go. What Michael loves most<br />

about making salads is that he can<br />

be creative, and there’s really<br />

nothing “wrong” that he can do.<br />

He doesn’t have to worry about<br />

precise timing or burning anything,<br />

and salads are just plain<br />

fun to construct.<br />

The next thing I taught him how<br />

to make was marinara sauce. Using<br />

fresh or canned ingredients,<br />

he can go as wild as he pleases<br />

with it. Michael really gets into<br />

chopping and sautéing onions and<br />

then adding tomatoes and whatever<br />

else he likes to the sauce.<br />

He’s big on hot chiles, hot sauce,<br />

black pepper, cayenne, and capers,<br />

so I know that whenever<br />

he’s making pasta sauce, it’s going<br />

to be spicy and have plenty of<br />

flavor and zip.<br />

The last dish I taught him how<br />

to prepare was soup. Again, since<br />

there’s no wrong way to make<br />

soup, it was easy for him to feel<br />

confident about his creations.<br />

Granted, he doesn’t always come<br />

up with flavor combinations that<br />

are common (and sometimes this<br />

is with good reason!), but his soups<br />

are always original and inspired.<br />

I would advise anyone (man or<br />

woman) starting off in the kitchen<br />

to begin with these three dishes.<br />

They can be made without any<br />

hard and fast rules to follow, so<br />

novice cooks can be creative, have<br />

fun, and let go of their fear of cooking.<br />

That’s what happened to Michael,<br />

and now he loves it whenever<br />

I ask him to prepare dinner.<br />

Anne: What is the secret to a successful<br />

relationship?<br />

Jo: Michael and I believe there<br />

are several components to a successful<br />

relationship, each<br />

weighted the same: respect (for<br />

yourself and each other), trust,<br />

shared values, listening well,<br />

willingness to compromise, appreciation,<br />

kindness, gratitude,<br />

letting go of having to always be<br />

right, and picking your battles<br />

carefully.<br />

We also firmly believe that<br />

there are three essential parts to<br />

every relationship that must be<br />

given equal consideration and<br />

care: the two individuals themselves,<br />

and the bond they form<br />

together.<br />

Anne: What do the two of you<br />

enjoy doing together on a “date”<br />

now?<br />

Jo: Our favorite “dates” usually<br />

entail a long walk or bike ride,<br />

lunch at a restaurant, or watching<br />

a movie together at home. It<br />

doesn’t take much to please us—<br />

we’re happy just sharing each<br />

other’s company.<br />

Anne: How would you describe<br />

your job? His?<br />

Jo: I have two jobs, each quite<br />

demanding in its own right. I am<br />

a senior editor with Book Publishing<br />

Company and primarily<br />

edit vegan and vegetarian recipe<br />

books, books on natural and alternative<br />

health, and occasionally<br />

books on Native <strong>American</strong> culture,<br />

history, and spirituality. I<br />

love being able to mentor new<br />

authors as well as work with seasoned<br />

ones. My job is the ideal<br />

extension of my own skills in recipe<br />

development and writing, and<br />

it is wonderful to be able to pass<br />

on what I’ve learned.<br />

My other job is in alternative<br />

dispute resolution. I work for a<br />

privately held company as an<br />

online mediator for international<br />

business conflicts. It can be very<br />

stressful work, but it is also rewarding<br />

to know I am playing<br />

some small role in contributing to<br />

a more peaceful world.<br />

Michael works for a grassroots<br />

environmental organization<br />

where he coordinates programs<br />

involving household hazardous<br />

waste, recycling and waste minimization,<br />

and environmentally<br />

preferable purchasing.<br />

Although we have had some<br />

rocky times over the years, we<br />

both are very proud that we have<br />

stuck by our ideals and continued<br />

to do what we feel is “right work,”<br />

even to this day. Just as we won’t<br />

compromise on our diet and lifestyle,<br />

we feel equally as strong<br />

when it comes to our livelihoods.<br />

Anne: What are your hobbies?<br />

His?<br />

Jo: My work envelops a lot of<br />

my personal interests—writing,<br />

reading, editing, and conflict<br />

resolution. When time permits, I<br />

write advice columns for my<br />

website, and occasionally poetry<br />

and haiku. Of course, I also enjoy<br />

preparing food. I do artwork (pen<br />

and ink, colored pencil, and needle<br />

art) and enjoy doing Sudoku<br />

and playing Scrabble. We both<br />

like walking and biking and getting<br />

outdoors whenever we can.<br />

Michael also enjoys car and<br />

bike maintenance, home repair,<br />

taking care of plants, landscaping,<br />

and playing the “bones” (a percussion<br />

instrument—the vegan<br />

version, of course). He is also an<br />

avid reader and music aficionado.<br />

Anne: What are the psychological<br />

aspects of being vegan that<br />

you would like to share with vegan<br />

and non-vegan readers?<br />

Jo: We’ve been vegan for so<br />

many years now that it is no<br />

longer what we do, it is simply<br />

who we are. We do not respond<br />

to someone challenging our veganism<br />

any more than we respond<br />

to someone challenging<br />

our being left-handed or having<br />

brown eyes. When veganism infiltrates<br />

every part of your being,<br />

there is no way to separate it from<br />

any other part. To us, being vegan<br />

seems like the most natural thing<br />

in the world.<br />

<strong>American</strong> <strong>Vegan</strong> 8—2, <strong>FALL</strong> <strong>2008</strong> 27

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