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Chapter 2: Sidewalk Behavior<br />
It is easy to spot individuals that are comfortable in the city. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
exude a casual, business-as-usual presence. Some may dart and weave<br />
their way through the crowd, trying to make time, while others<br />
casually stroll along, unaffected by the enveloping hustle. Unwavering<br />
hard-core city people walk with their gaze fixed straight ahead, their<br />
eyes locked and motionless — like taillights on a midnight train. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
may glance sideways to check for oncoming traffic but because they<br />
know the terrain, they rarely pay attention to landmarks. In focusing to<br />
get from one place to another, people moving with purpose<br />
demonstrate that they have no time for nonsense. Silently, their actions<br />
tell others to leave them alone. Because confident people are not<br />
absorbed in their immediate travel, many have the mental capacity to<br />
deal with whatever circumstance may come their way. A reservoir of<br />
defense.<br />
However, image only goes so far. It may save somebody from being<br />
targeted for petty street crime but being able to manage precarious<br />
situations only comes with preparation, coaching, experience, the right<br />
tools, and most of all, a fearless demeanor to escape, stare down, beat<br />
back, or break whatever is threatening you. Day-trippers need to learn<br />
what street-savvy individuals already know. A key to avoiding trouble<br />
is perception. You want to be perceived as dangerous prey. You do not<br />
want to be looked at as a “given.” Goons and street thugs want an easy<br />
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