Marriage Preparation and Guidelines - St. John the Evangelist Parish
Marriage Preparation and Guidelines - St. John the Evangelist Parish
Marriage Preparation and Guidelines - St. John the Evangelist Parish
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II. PLANNING THE CELEBRATION OF MARRIAGE<br />
A booklet ''Toge<strong>the</strong>r for Life" will be given to each couple to aid <strong>the</strong>m in choosing options <strong>and</strong><br />
in planning <strong>the</strong>ir marriage ceremony/liturgy.<br />
The church has always insisted that <strong>the</strong> minister of <strong>the</strong> Sacrament of Matrimony is not <strong>the</strong><br />
priest, but <strong>the</strong> couple <strong>the</strong>mselves. So, it is only fitting that <strong>the</strong> couple, with <strong>the</strong> guidance <strong>and</strong><br />
encouragement of <strong>the</strong> pastoral team, prepare <strong>the</strong>ir marriage liturgy.<br />
The couple should choose <strong>the</strong>ir prayers, religious songs, <strong>and</strong> scriptural readings to express<br />
<strong>the</strong> depth of <strong>the</strong>ir relationship <strong>and</strong> commitment to God <strong>and</strong> to each o<strong>the</strong>r. Because <strong>the</strong><br />
sacrament of marriage is an act of public worship, people attending <strong>the</strong> Liturgy should not<br />
merely be considered as guests. The Liturgical assembly is called to its role of actual<br />
participation, <strong>and</strong> any planning must take this into account.<br />
The wedding should include those ministers needed to serve in <strong>the</strong> Liturgical Celebration. This<br />
includes: Minister of Music, Lectors, Readers of petitions, Ministers of <strong>the</strong> Eucharist, o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
musicians (Soloists, Cantors <strong>and</strong> Instrumentalists).<br />
When celebrating faith certain actions are most appropriate <strong>and</strong> need to be stressed; while<br />
those actions that do not express <strong>the</strong> faith of <strong>the</strong> community need to be avoided.<br />
With this in mind. <strong>the</strong> followinq quidelines for <strong>St</strong>. <strong>John</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Evangelist</strong> <strong>Parish</strong>. Essexville are<br />
presented:<br />
A. Liturqy - The sacramental celebration of marriage between two baptized<br />
Catholics will usually take place within <strong>the</strong> Eucharistic Liturgy (Mass).<br />
1. Wedding Party - The wedding party should be willing <strong>and</strong> able to<br />
participate in <strong>the</strong> prayer of <strong>the</strong> church as we celebrate this great<br />
sacrament. With that in mind, <strong>the</strong> age of participants, especially ring<br />
bearers <strong>and</strong> flower girls, comes into question. They should be of an age<br />
<strong>and</strong> maturity to be attentive <strong>and</strong> pray with us, recognizing <strong>the</strong> ceremony<br />
takes an hour. (That is, if <strong>the</strong>y are not going to church on a regular basis,<br />
or are unable to remain in <strong>the</strong> congregation during <strong>the</strong> service, <strong>the</strong>y are<br />
not old enough to be in a wedding.)<br />
B. Place - Being a community celebration, <strong>the</strong> marriage must take place within <strong>the</strong><br />
parish church building. It is also possible for this celebration to take place in <strong>the</strong><br />
church of <strong>the</strong> non-Catholic person once permission is given <strong>and</strong> preparation for<br />
marriage completed.