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These few cases <strong>of</strong> child marriage prevention <strong>in</strong>volved community members, police <strong>of</strong>ficers and local<br />

leaders cooperat<strong>in</strong>g to prevent the marriage. This illustrates the importance <strong>of</strong> coord<strong>in</strong>ation between the<br />

different stakeholders and the need to <strong>in</strong>volve both the formal structures <strong>of</strong> the state and the community<br />

for a strong social movement aga<strong>in</strong>st child marriage.<br />

Role model girls and parents: cases <strong>of</strong> positive deviance<br />

The study also identified cases <strong>of</strong> young girls and parents who could be seen as cases <strong>of</strong> positive deviance<br />

and role models <strong>in</strong> their communities because <strong>of</strong> their position aga<strong>in</strong>st child marriage. These role models<br />

were found both <strong>in</strong> Plan’s programme and non-programme areas.<br />

Plan / Bernice Wong<br />

Ruj<strong>in</strong>a from Bangladesh is 16 years old. She was married<br />

at 12 and had a baby at 14. She loved attend<strong>in</strong>g school and<br />

speaks fondly <strong>of</strong> those days. After her marriage, she had to<br />

give up her education to be a mother and homemaker.<br />

Parents who delayed their daughter’s marriage <strong>in</strong> the face <strong>of</strong> social pressures did so because they did not<br />

want a marriage before the girl had completed at least high school or university. Clearly, these role model<br />

parents have <strong>in</strong>ternalised the value <strong>of</strong> education. In addition, many <strong>of</strong> them felt that marry<strong>in</strong>g a girl early<br />

was detrimental to her physical and psychological health.<br />

Young girls identified as role models <strong>of</strong>ten had to resist parental pressure for an early marriage. These girls<br />

held the conviction that they did not want an early marriage and their response to pressure from their<br />

parents ranged from confrontation to negotiation. In all these cases, the girls were f<strong>in</strong>ally able to br<strong>in</strong>g their<br />

parents around to share their po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> view. Girls <strong>in</strong> this category did not subscribe to traditional gender<br />

roles and aspired to higher education, employment and economic <strong>in</strong>dependence.<br />

Most <strong>of</strong> the role model girls had to face significant parental and social pressure. Other girls <strong>in</strong> the<br />

community look up to these girls, and they are cited as examples by younger girls who want to follow suit.<br />

“I want to marry only after I get a job. If I get a good job then I will earn money and I can improve<br />

my life and then marry. After marriage it’s not possible to get a job; some people don’t allow [you<br />

to get a job] and say do housework only. My family told me to get married now, but I told them<br />

that I want to first get a good job and then marry. So, now they have agreed.”<br />

(Unmarried girl above 18, India)<br />

24 <strong>Child</strong> <strong>Marriage</strong> <strong>in</strong> Bangladesh, India and Nepal

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