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attic room..and there is an air of electricity. Footsteps, and she announces that it is the math<br />

teacher—paunchy older man <strong>to</strong>tally absorbed in his hunt for other objects in another part of the<br />

large room. Cornered as she pulls out a long roll of map, Stig envelopes her with his arms and<br />

kisses her. Startled she pushes away—.but not a whole lot. He embraces her again, and gives her<br />

soft little kisses , on and around her mouth, and she responds in kind. Arias from the Handel<br />

composition are heard and indeed for the next parts of the movie which will show their<br />

lovemaking, we also hear the exquisite Handel arias—the music of their love.<br />

But not right away. They go back down <strong>to</strong> the classroom. The next few days she is in deep<br />

reflective thought at her desk, and he is having a sexual awakening. They don't talk.<br />

One day he knocks at her door at her home. She is in a robe, surprised <strong>to</strong> see him but lets him in.<br />

They start kissing each other; the Handel aria sings its soulful verse.<br />

Next we see them sitting on the couch, laughing. Her hair is loosened, she is very girlish looking,<br />

and very happy. They both are and the Handel music crescendos.<br />

She tells him he must not arrive unannounced as her husband could be home. He says he didn't<br />

see a car parked. "It's not that easy", she explains, as she tells him the make of the car, and the<br />

four places he must check where it could also be parked. She says when her husband comes<br />

home, he mostly sits in the kitchen, drinks and listens intently <strong>to</strong> classical music. If it happens <strong>to</strong><br />

be Beethoven, he is oblivious <strong>to</strong> the world—no one dares <strong>to</strong> speak.<br />

Her husband is a traveling salesman—and we find him <strong>to</strong> be a likable , lonely man, finding<br />

solace in alcohol, and a deep immersion in classical music.<br />

One day he sees Stig in the apartment. Stig is frozen, but Kjell, the husband pleasantly asks<br />

"what language?" Stig doesn't get it, but the husband explains that he knows Stig is being tu<strong>to</strong>red<br />

and "what language is he learning? English?"<br />

After this he accepts Stig's presence, and welcomes it. The boy and the man like each other and<br />

become friends Kjell becomes a loving sensitive father <strong>to</strong> Stig as we shall see.<br />

This relationship is the main plot of the movie.<br />

Stig lives with his mother and father in an apartment building in which a 15 year old classmate<br />

of Stig's also lives. Her name is Lisbet. She is a pig tailed, virginal school girl, small, just starting<br />

adolescence. She has a huge crush on the handsome, worldly Stig, who she watches all of the<br />

time. She notes what a good person he is, helping his mother with chores, and taking over a<br />

manly role with his family as his father is an alcoholic, and his brother is in the navy. Stig has a<br />

good companionable relationship with his mother, an attractive young woman, resigned <strong>to</strong> a boor<br />

of a husband, very little money, one son already out of the house, and the other approaching<br />

manhood and separation.<br />

Stig, a model son, gets good grades, helps his mother in a loving way, and works everyday after<br />

school in the cinema, selling chocolates . He carries a tray around his neck filled with sweets and<br />

wears a red <strong>to</strong>y soldier looking uniform with a pillbox of a red hat that has elastic under the chin<br />

which he despises. He looks silly and juvenile, and much prefers his lover role with Viola. But

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