ndodk3s

opening your hearts to balance the masculine and feminine polarities within
your being.
First of all, know that it all begins with you. Your "significant other" is
simply a mirror for you to evolve with and learn from. No one can love you
more than you can love yourself. Neither can you really love anyone else,
within the meaning of true love, more than you can love yourself. Consider
this:
Whenever you are looking for someone to
give you the love that you are not willing
to give to yourself, you create need.
You do not embody the appropriate balance that will magnetize to you the
type of relationship you are yearning for. The relationship you so desire is
then based on neediness rather than oneness. This, my friends, will never
work, at least not for very long. Remember that in an unbalanced
relationship both partners mirror to each other these imbalances of
neediness, of ownership, of unrealistic expectations, control, manipulation
and so on. You know the entire litany of complaints about relationships in
your dimension even better than we do.
Whenever two people are whole and complete within Self, with a balance
between their feminine and masculine energies, they are so much in love
with themselves that they are not needy for someone else to fulfill their
emotional needs. They feel whole, happy and successful. They exude the joy of
life with or without a partner. They do not feel the lack of love and the
emptiness within that those who are needy and unbalanced feel.
When this balance is achieved, then and only then will the "I AM" of your
being issue the call for the right relationship to show up in your life, and only
if it is your desire and your present pathway. This "divine union" with the
twin flame of your heart can manifest in your life only by the intervention of
your Higher Self.
In Telos we honor ourselves to the extent that none
of us would "ever" accept or settle for a relationship
that is less than 100% fulfilling on all levels.
In our society, we consider each other equals and we honor each other's
divinity and soul path. Though your society is gradually changing, and