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Alumni News<br />

Hoopla<br />

Continued from page 39<br />

“I was 13 when I<br />

left my family, my<br />

friends, and my<br />

comfort zone and<br />

moved about six<br />

hours away to be<br />

in good company<br />

and received a wellrounded<br />

education.<br />

It would become<br />

one of the most<br />

important decisions<br />

of my life.”<br />

In Good Company<br />

You would be surprised by how much easier it<br />

is to accomplish a dream<br />

When among inspirational people, places, or<br />

things<br />

Our expectations for ourselves grow and<br />

become more detailed<br />

Our friendship and relationships grow in depth<br />

as well.<br />

Bruce wrote me that “one of the major<br />

challenges in writing the book was to<br />

try to incorporate my life into a book,<br />

being as detailed as possible on each<br />

point of transition.” Bruce continued<br />

to brainstorm but had difficulty<br />

starting to write. The idea that the<br />

lottery was an analogy to life broke<br />

a long period of writer’s block, and<br />

the most challenging moment finally<br />

arrived – writing the first word – and<br />

from here he knew that the rest of the<br />

words would come.<br />

I was impressed that a man as young<br />

and busy as Bruce – completing<br />

college and gaining admission to a<br />

prestigious law school – could still<br />

have the time and desire to write a<br />

book. It took me many attempts and<br />

many more years before I was able<br />

to do so, but I didn’t have Bruce’s<br />

desire, his need to repay an important<br />

friend. I asked Bruce if he had always<br />

written so well and so easily and he<br />

replied that he always felt that he was<br />

creative, that he enjoyed poetry, music,<br />

and other art forms. Bruce concludes<br />

each chapter with a poem that circles<br />

back on the meaning of the chapter.<br />

Bruce is quick to point out that<br />

financial profit was not a factor in<br />

his decision to write and publish<br />

131 Box: Path of Purpose and that he<br />

was satisfied in knowing “… that in<br />

my view I made a quality work that<br />

should motivate<br />

others to give their<br />

best.” As the book’s<br />

jacket states, “Many<br />

people speak of<br />

the importance of<br />

leading a purposedriven<br />

life, but<br />

it is not an easy<br />

task for those<br />

who live in abject<br />

poverty.” Bruce<br />

describes how he<br />

forgot to realize his dreams in a world<br />

defined by crime, drugs, death, and a<br />

pervasive sense of hopelessness.<br />

Bruce mentioned to me that he had<br />

attended the private Bethlehem<br />

Baptist <strong>Academy</strong> in Brooklyn starting<br />

at the age of three. I didn’t make the<br />

connection until much later when I<br />

realized the school is now called The<br />

Trey Whitfield School, in memory<br />

of a member of <strong>Brewster</strong>’s class of<br />

1989 (see page 6.) With the close<br />

connection between Trey’s parents<br />

and <strong>Brewster</strong> <strong>Academy</strong>, Bruce’s<br />

decision to attend <strong>Brewster</strong> made<br />

sense. When I asked him if he looked<br />

at other schools and why he chose<br />

<strong>Brewster</strong>, Bruce replied, “I decided<br />

to attend the school because it was<br />

future-oriented, and because of the<br />

computer model, the professional<br />

look of the <strong>Brewster</strong> students, and the<br />

emphasis on academics, all of which<br />

attracted me to <strong>Brewster</strong> over other<br />

prep schools.” He continued, “I was<br />

13 when I left my family, my friends,<br />

and my comfort zone and moved<br />

about six hours away to be in good<br />

company and received a well-rounded<br />

education. It would become one of the<br />

most important decisions of my life.”<br />

While <strong>Brewster</strong> <strong>Academy</strong>’s campus<br />

was beautiful, Bruce points out that it<br />

was also quiet – almost too quiet. He<br />

was used to hearing ambulances, fire<br />

trucks, police cars, and even gunshots<br />

throughout the night. “There were<br />

noises that penetrated my walls from<br />

upstairs, downstairs, or next door.<br />

The total silence that I experienced at<br />

<strong>Brewster</strong> actually frightened me for<br />

awhile.”<br />

When asked how he felt as a minority<br />

in a predominately white school of<br />

350 students, Bruce replied that he<br />

fielded many questions concerning<br />

controversial issues such as slavery,<br />

42<br />

<strong><strong>Brewster</strong>Connections</strong> • Spring 2007

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