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wives <strong>of</strong> those adopted sons would be lawful for <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r if <strong>the</strong>y came to be divorced, and that <strong>the</strong><br />
adopted son would not inherit <strong>from</strong> <strong>the</strong> family’s share <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r’s wealth.<br />
When this rule was revealed, <strong>Muhammad</strong> (saaw) was <strong>the</strong> first to implement it, and go against <strong>the</strong><br />
social taboo <strong>of</strong> marrying one’s adopted son’s wife, by marrying Zainab after she came to be<br />
divorced <strong>from</strong> his adopted son Zaid. This action by <strong>the</strong> Prophet (saaw) not only illustrates <strong>the</strong><br />
leadership qualities that he (saaw) had, but also his resolve to undermine <strong>the</strong> Jahili customs which<br />
may have continued to exist in <strong>the</strong> minds <strong>of</strong> some Muslims. In ano<strong>the</strong>r incident, <strong>the</strong> Prophet (saaw)<br />
said, regarding <strong>the</strong> cutting <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> hand <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> thief, that even if his own daughter, Fatimah, were to<br />
steal, he would cut her hand. This shows that <strong>the</strong> family bond would not be exempt <strong>from</strong> <strong>the</strong> justice<br />
<strong>of</strong> Islam. This redefined <strong>the</strong> way in which family relations were structured. Prior to Islam, family<br />
loyalty was supreme. The Shariah reordered family loyalty. Allah (swt) says,<br />
“0 you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even though it be against<br />
yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, be he rich or poor, Allah is a better Protector for both<br />
(than you)...” (An Nisaa 4:135)<br />
Thus Allah (swt) made <strong>the</strong> family ties to be based on <strong>the</strong> belief in Allah (swt) first, thus negating <strong>the</strong><br />
absolute loyalty <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> individual to his family or tribe and replacing it with <strong>the</strong> loyalty to Allah<br />
(swt).<br />
Islam confined bro<strong>the</strong>rhood and close friendship exclusively to <strong>the</strong> Believers when Allah (swt) said:<br />
“The believers are but a single bro<strong>the</strong>rhood (Al Hujurat 49: 10).<br />
Also, Islam forbade close friendship between Believers and Unbelievers <strong>from</strong> among <strong>the</strong><br />
Mushrikeen, Jews or Christians, even if <strong>the</strong>y were <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>rs, bro<strong>the</strong>rs or sons <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Believers, and<br />
that any Believer who did so had committed a grave sin, when <strong>the</strong> Qur’an mentions,<br />
“0 you who believe, take not for protectors your fa<strong>the</strong>rs and bro<strong>the</strong>rs if <strong>the</strong>y love infidelity above<br />
faith; if any <strong>of</strong> you do so, <strong>the</strong>y do wrong (Al Tawbah 9: 23).”<br />
Islam placed all <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Muslim’s worldly interests and relationships beneath his love for Allah (swt)<br />
and His Messenger (saaw). It has warned <strong>the</strong> Believers against preferring <strong>the</strong>ir social interests and<br />
relationships to <strong>the</strong>ir obligations as Muslims, when Allah (swt) mentions explicitly,<br />
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