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Musings from a
Matchmaker:
Three Keys to Finding Love
By Nancy Miller, MA
Love is what we live for. At the end of the day, it’s not about how
much money you have, or what material gains you achieved in life
– it’s really only the love and the experiences you’ve had with those
you love that make life meaningful. To give an idea of how much
desire is out there for loving relationships – a recent study showed the
online dating industry is currently worth over $4 Billion world wide!
So, why does it seem that with so many people looking for romantic
love – actually finding it can be so challenging? Clearly, there are
plenty of single peeps out there, regardless of whether you live on a
tiny island or in the concrete jungles of a major city.
As a relationship coach and matchmaker, I have
noticed there are 3 essential keys to keep in mind
that may help simplify the search for that special
someone.
1. Confidence – Let’s think back to our earliest
ancestors – the Cavemen and women. It was all
about survival for them. If they weren’t confident
– they didn’t survive. Everything we are as humans
today – we inherited from our cave dwelling friends,
and on some primal level we still link confidence
to survival. So, really – you want love? You must
put your fears aside and let your confidence shine
– even if you have to fake it till you make it. It’s
attractive. It’s sexy, and people WILL notice you.
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CRANIAL THERAPY
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by Glenn Thering
Today, more than ever, with the increasing levels
of personal and environmental stress that we are
encountering in our lives, it is important that we are
capable of dealing with and adapting to that stress
in a way that allows us to not only survive, but more
importantly, thrive!
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On the physical level, the more stress that we
encounter the more time we need to de-stress. Sleeping,
resting, eating right and exercising are no longer
enough to completely neutralize the negative effects
of these increasing levels of stress. In our bodies, it is
the components of the autonomic nervous system that
govern our interaction with, and ability to neutralize,
the effects of stress on our bodies and being. How long
can we continue to use something before we wear it out
and/or break it?
Fortunately, cranial therapies provide us with
a way to counteract the negative effects of stress
2. Clarity - You have to know what you are looking for. What are the
core qualities and characteristics you’re seeking in a partner? What
are the deal breakers? The more you know, the easier it will be sort
through the vast sea of love-seeking singles.
3. Consistency - Tell the truth! Ever notice how
much harder it is to remember a lie than it is to
remember the truth? Be who you are. Don’t say
you’re 42 if you’re really 50. If you don’t keep
your story straight, you will lose credibility fast.
Be confident. Know what you want, and tell the
truth every time. Follow these keys and you’ll stand
out in the crowd.
Nancy Miller, MA is a Relationship Coach,
Certified Matchmaker, and Online Dating Profile
Writer. To schedule a free consultation, email
nancy@consciousromance.com
or call 808-635-3463.
For more information visit
www. Consciousromance.com
that accumulate within us whenever we fail to fully
neutralize them. John Upledger, D.O., O.M.M., creator
of cranio-sacral therapy and a leading proponent
of the benefits of receiving cranio-sacral therapy,
states: “CranioSacral Therapy works by helping the
natural healing properties of your body to dissipate
the negative effects of stress on your Central Nervous
System.”
I have been studying and practicing cranial therapies
for over twenty years and have repeatedly seen
the benefits of receiving cranial oriented therapies.
In those twenty-some years I have also developed
an approach that focuses primarily on accelerating