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‘They challenge me but they don’t judge me.’<br />

The general feeling was that judgement seemed to be left outside the front door <strong>of</strong> any Circle<br />

contact. Each Core Member stated that they enjoyed the meetings <strong>and</strong> looked forward to them.<br />

Meeting with volunteers in their Circle <strong>and</strong> consequently building relationships helped their selfesteem<br />

<strong>and</strong> confidence. Being able to practise these skills helped them deal with other social<br />

situations.<br />

Their first thoughts <strong>and</strong> expectations <strong>of</strong> what it would be like being in a Circle were how it would<br />

help their transition <strong>and</strong> reintegration back into the community <strong>and</strong> support them in areas such as<br />

housing <strong>and</strong> employment.<br />

The Core Members felt that the Circle would be there for any general queries, issues <strong>and</strong> questions<br />

they may have, <strong>of</strong>fering advice <strong>and</strong> support. It was positive to hear that <strong>Circles</strong> met the Core<br />

Members’ expectations ‘<strong>and</strong> more’; in each case comments like ‘they wanted to help me’, ‘they<br />

gave me positive feedback’, ‘we got to know each other’, ‘I felt like an equal.’<br />

There were, as always, some unexpected feelings, one <strong>of</strong> which was that one Core Member was<br />

not expecting <strong>Circles</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Support</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>Accountability</strong> to be so closely linked with the Thames Valley<br />

Project or the Probation Service, but has since found this beneficial as he felt that he has more<br />

support if everyone is involved <strong>and</strong> knows what is going on.<br />

One particular Core Member felt that having a Circle (instead <strong>of</strong> just one person such as the key<br />

worker) helped because ‘I can talk to a certain member about one issue <strong>and</strong> likewise about another<br />

issue with another member.’<br />

Each Core Member felt that the Circle had helped them achieve changes on a personal level. They<br />

said the volunteers <strong>of</strong>fered encouragement, acceptance, ideas <strong>and</strong> advice which encouraged them<br />

to become more confident, moving forward in positive ways, becoming less isolated <strong>and</strong> more<br />

accepting <strong>of</strong> how positive the future could be.<br />

‘When I am advised/told something which does not necessarily make me feel comfortable, I<br />

do listen because I know that it is honesty in order to benefit me.’<br />

‘Coming out <strong>of</strong> prison was an emotional period for me. If I had not had the Circle it could<br />

have led to re-<strong>of</strong>fending when feeling emotionally down. They have helped me to focus in<br />

on the way I think so that I do not get into a situation <strong>of</strong> re-<strong>of</strong>fending.’<br />

‘Without the <strong>Circles</strong> support I think I could have re-<strong>of</strong>fended, they <strong>of</strong>fered me support <strong>and</strong><br />

advice at one <strong>of</strong> my lowest points <strong>and</strong> were there to help <strong>and</strong> support me.’<br />

Each Core Member felt that their Circle had accepted them as people. This enabled them to feel<br />

comfortable concerning disclosing information about their <strong>of</strong>fending <strong>and</strong> treatment programme<br />

(one core-member however did not have any treatment but was still able to feel they could open<br />

up <strong>and</strong> be honest).<br />

‘My relapse programme, with the support from volunteers, has real meaning. I feel that I<br />

can continue with my main aim <strong>of</strong> not re-<strong>of</strong>fending.’<br />

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