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Five Steps to Choosing a Qualified Mediator.pdf - Direction Service

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divorce involving an emotional child cus<strong>to</strong>dy decision? The approach or model that commercial<br />

disputants might prefer may differ greatly from the one preferred by a mother and father.<br />

Consider your budget. How much you can spend might limit your choice of media<strong>to</strong>r or<br />

mediation program.<br />

Many media<strong>to</strong>rs and dispute resolution firms or services can help you understand what services<br />

would be best for your dispute. Some will contact the other party <strong>to</strong> the dispute <strong>to</strong> introduce the<br />

concept of mediation.<br />

2. Compile a List of Names.<br />

You can get a list of media<strong>to</strong>rs from the Locate A Media<strong>to</strong>r database.<br />

Word of Mouth. Ask a friend, your at<strong>to</strong>rney, your therapist, or another professional. Describe<br />

your case <strong>to</strong> a media<strong>to</strong>r and ask, "Other than yourself, who are the most skilled media<strong>to</strong>rs in this<br />

kind of case?" Talk <strong>to</strong> people who have been in a mediation with the media<strong>to</strong>r (you can ask the<br />

media<strong>to</strong>r for names of clients). What was their case about and what were their impressions of the<br />

media<strong>to</strong>r?<br />

Written Lists. Check local listings in the Yellow Pages. Many local mediation organizations<br />

maintain direc<strong>to</strong>ries of member-media<strong>to</strong>rs.<br />

Referral <strong>Service</strong>s. Many national media<strong>to</strong>r membership organizations and trade organizations<br />

keep lists of practitioner members and offer referral services. Some may charge for the referral<br />

services.<br />

3. Evaluate Written Materials.<br />

Call or write several media<strong>to</strong>rs on your list and ask them <strong>to</strong> send you their promotional materials,<br />

resume, references and a sample of their written work. These materials should cover most of the<br />

following <strong>to</strong>pics.<br />

Mediation Training. How was the media<strong>to</strong>r trained? Some media<strong>to</strong>rs receive formal classroomstyle<br />

training. Some participate in apprenticeships or in men<strong>to</strong>ring programs. While training<br />

alone does not guarantee a competent media<strong>to</strong>r, most professional media<strong>to</strong>rs have had some type<br />

of formal training. How many hours of training has this media<strong>to</strong>r had? How recent was the<br />

training?<br />

Experience. Evaluate the media<strong>to</strong>r's type and amount of experience (number of years of<br />

mediation, number of mediations conducted, types of mediations conducted). How many cases<br />

similar <strong>to</strong> yours has the media<strong>to</strong>r handled? A media<strong>to</strong>r's experience is particularly important if he<br />

or she has limited formal training.<br />

Written Work. Some media<strong>to</strong>rs will write up notes about agreements or even draft agreements<br />

for the parties. Other media<strong>to</strong>rs do not prepare written agreements or contracts. If your media<strong>to</strong>r

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