205198 The Porn Trap - Lillenas.com
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14 THE PORNOGRAPHY TRAP<br />
Fantasy/Preoccupation<br />
Despair<br />
Ritual<br />
Acting Out<br />
FIGURE 1<br />
desired result. We can have many kinds of fantasies including athletic,<br />
financial, social, academic, and professional. Sexual and romantic<br />
fantasies are what we might consider to be ideal sexual or<br />
relationship situations. Fantasies are not abnormal. However, they<br />
be<strong>com</strong>e a problem when we be<strong>com</strong>e preoccupied with them. Sexual<br />
or relational fantasies usually involve images of the ideal people<br />
to be with. This may include their appearances, their behaviors,<br />
where the activities occur, and what happens sexually or<br />
romantically.<br />
Fantasies alone can raise or lower moods. When we think of<br />
exciting or new situations, perhaps even dangerous situations, our<br />
moods can be elevated. When we think about warm and nurturing<br />
situations, our moods can be calmed. Fantasies contain emotional<br />
and spiritual longing. We long for nurture, affirmation, and touch.