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UPSTART NOVEMBER 2011<br />
LETTERS<br />
3<br />
Advice column<br />
Dear Auntie Stella<br />
I am a 17-year old boy and I have a girlfriend at my school<br />
who I love very much. I am doing my O levels and I really want<br />
to do well. But now I love my girlfriend so much that I am becoming<br />
dull in class. I find everything boring, even books, as<br />
she comes into my mind all the time. At one time I decided I<br />
should drop her and get on with my work but I couldn’t- afterall,<br />
she hasn’t done anything wrong to me. So what is the best<br />
thing to do Please help me, Auntie. I am worried that I will<br />
fail my exams.<br />
Farayi<br />
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Dear Farayi<br />
Love at the age of 17 can be as serious as love at 27. But you<br />
do need to keep the rest of life going while also feeling all<br />
dreamy and romantic inside. Fortunately, millions of lovers<br />
have found that the first few crazy months of love do change<br />
into something calmer and deeper, so you may soon find it<br />
easier to concentrate on your books.<br />
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Dear <strong>Upstart</strong>ers<br />
Dear <strong>Upstart</strong><br />
Say no to drugs and yes to a drug free society<br />
At school I’m part of the Peer Education project and as a result<br />
I’m trained as a Peer Educator. Peer education is about<br />
Maybe you take drugs because you’re sad, maybe you take<br />
them because you’re stressed or maybe you take them because<br />
you feel alone, you want to feel cool or your friends are. breaktime every Thursday at my school. We have someone<br />
peers teaching their peers. We have hourly sessions during<br />
But let me tell you this: you’re not alone. We all have problems,<br />
big and small but that doesn’t mean that we must turn to are young people because we all feel free to talk amongst<br />
who facilitates during the sessions and all the facilitators<br />
drugs. We all have to confront our problems in a manner that out peers.<br />
will not harm others, our loved ones or even ourselves.<br />
At these sessions we talk about issues such as HIV/Aids,<br />
You also have to do the same and live your life without drugs. teenage pregnancy, suicide, depression, drug abuse, family,<br />
STIs and school problems.<br />
Drugs kill you on the inside, financially and socially. You will be<br />
living a better and healthier life when you quit using drugs. Say I find peer education very useful. It’s very good to help other<br />
people with the problems they have. I feel good once<br />
no to drugs and contribute to making our society a drug free<br />
environment.<br />
I’ve helped someone. One of the most important lessons<br />
From Ziphozihle Goje • Grade 9, Nombulelo High School<br />
I learnt in this program is to look on the positive side of<br />
things rather than the negative.<br />
In October we attended a peer education conference<br />
which was a success. I left the conference knowing that the<br />
choices I make today will determine my tomorrow.<br />
From Aviwe Menze • Grade 10, TEM Mrwetyana High School<br />
SHOUT OUTS<br />
Just wanna say hi to my parents, my sisters,<br />
Nana, Pakama, everyone in Grade<br />
8A and everyone who knows me. I love<br />
you all. From Zikhona Faku • Grade 8,<br />
Archie Mbolekwa Higher Primary School<br />
Hey all, I’d like to halla to the following:<br />
Tisetso, Luyolo, Kamva, both my<br />
brothers Khanyisa and Anathi, Serolela,<br />
Carter, Ciara, Tsohle, Thembsie, all<br />
my classmates, my family, Sinosihle,<br />
<strong>Upstart</strong>ers and all those who know and<br />
love me. Love you all. From Ziphozihle<br />
Goje • Grade 9, Nombulelo High School<br />
Hi guys, I’d like to send a shout out to<br />
Sis’Zandi to thank her for encouraging<br />
us to join the debating club at<br />
school. Also hi to my peeps at school:<br />
Sipho, Anez, Sodacious, Nonilicious,<br />
Vongolicious, Sinazo, Onilicious, Akhona<br />
and my cousin. You guys rock. From<br />
Siphosethu Pama • Grade 9, CM Vellem<br />
Higher Primary School<br />
I would like to send a shout out to<br />
my mom Maxobho, my aunt Nyamie,<br />
Khazimla, Athule, Thembela, Ta Ace,<br />
Mimi, Entle and everybody who knows<br />
me. Ndinithanda nonke yazi. From<br />
Sinovuyo Geelbooi • Grade 9, Nombulelo<br />
High School<br />
Hi guys, I would like to send my shout<br />
out to my sisters, my brothers, my class<br />
teacher Mrs Fobe, Siya Basi, Athi, Okza,<br />
Kanzi, Yolanda, Luvuyo, Wasa, Spokie,<br />
my classmates, friends and everybody<br />
who knows me. From Babalwa Tyobeka •<br />
Grade 8, CM Vellem Higher Primary School<br />
Hey peeps, I would like to send my<br />
shout out to my mother, Vuyokazi<br />
Ndabangayi, Ntombekhaya, Norie and<br />
Olwethu aka Oskido. Wish you all the<br />
best and love you all. From Lindokuhle<br />
Vellem • Grade 8, CM Vellem Higher<br />
Primary School<br />
I would like to send a shout out to<br />
Neliswa Mjeje, Sisipho Pongolo,<br />
Nqatyiswa Ncwadi, Asandiswa Ngqoba,<br />
Nwabisa Kepe, Emihle Tsili, Unathi<br />
Nelani, Nosifundo Faba and everyone<br />
who knows me. From Nolusindiso Mpehlo<br />
• Grade 9, Nathaniel Nyaluza High School<br />
Hey guys I would like to send my shout<br />
However, being aware of the problem is a great first step towards<br />
solving it. Talk to your girlfriend about your feelings<br />
and discuss how you can be together AND carry on with your<br />
studies.<br />
Maybe you can set aside special times to see each other. Or<br />
agree that you’ll only see each other when you’ve finished<br />
studying a certain subject. Or, if she’s got exams too, you<br />
could try studying together- as long as you can keep your<br />
eyes on your books and your hands off each other. If your relationship<br />
is good, even boring tasks like weeding can be fun<br />
if you do them together.<br />
Whatever you decide, you and your girlfriend can encourage<br />
each other to do your schoolwork. Your dreams in life- romantic<br />
and otherwise- will have a better chance if you can get<br />
through those exams.<br />
Auntie Stella<br />
Reprinted from: Auntie Stella: Teenagers talk about sex, life and<br />
relationships published by Training and Research Support Centre,<br />
Harare, Zimbabwe<br />
out to Olwethu, Babcie, Okza, Nomesi,<br />
Esethu, Asanda, Anelisa Valela, Onela,<br />
Siphosethu, Belinda, Miss Frans and<br />
Miss Fobe. I love you all. From Athenkosi<br />
Makele • Grade 8, CM Vellem Higher<br />
Primary School<br />
Halla everyone, I’d like to send a<br />
shout out to my lovely classmates<br />
Siyamthanda Dyantyie, love and miss<br />
you a lot. I’d like to greet my beautiful<br />
cousins Zoleka, Nombulelo and everyone<br />
who knows me around G-town.<br />
From Amanda Kepe, Grade 9, CM Vellem<br />
Higher Primary School<br />
Hey there, I’d like to send a shout out to<br />
Mntane, Ntuku, Zapkoza, Sima, Sgaqa.<br />
Love you all. From Asemahle Mankayi •<br />
Grade 9, CM Vellem Higher Primary School<br />
I’d like to send my shout out to my fellas:<br />
Lefa, Bora, Aya, Aya Jr and my family.<br />
Love you all. From Thabang Troops<br />
Leemisa • Grade 9, CM Vellem Higher<br />
Primary School<br />
Beauty tips<br />
guide for your pets<br />
I told you my tips aren’t just for you.<br />
They are for your pets as well.<br />
Little ladies<br />
We all want to be liked by our friends<br />
and that takes manners and loads of<br />
consideration. The same goes for our<br />
pets, so make sure you take them to<br />
training classes to learn just that. But<br />
you don’t have to take them to training<br />
classes, TRAIN them yourself!<br />
Fab Nails<br />
Keep an eye on those claws to make<br />
sure they are buffed and as great<br />
looking as yours are. If they start to<br />
get long, get your vet to trim them.<br />
By Jasmine Kümm • Grade 8, Hoërskool<br />
PJ Olivier<br />
Dear <strong>Upstart</strong>ers<br />
This goes out to each and every member<br />
of <strong>Upstart</strong>. You should try and<br />
behave yourselves especially in public<br />
because the way we behave reflects<br />
the whole <strong>Upstart</strong> name. We as<br />
<strong>Upstart</strong>ers should be really grateful to<br />
be a part of this project because many<br />
children in the whole of South Africa<br />
would love the chance we are given.<br />
Please guys let us behave ourselves.<br />
From Zikhona Faku • Grade 8, Archie<br />
Mbolekwa Higher Primary School<br />
Dear <strong>Upstart</strong><br />
I write this letter to wish all the Grade<br />
12s the very best of luck with their exams.<br />
Being where you are is not easy<br />
and you’ll find that there are many<br />
obstacles in your way . But with hope<br />
you can do it. Remember hope is just<br />
a small flame that gives you enough<br />
light when it is dark around you. Even<br />
if you fail, it is not the end of the<br />
world.<br />
We all want you to pass and become<br />
something in life. Surely God created<br />
you for a reason and to find out what<br />
that is, is up to you. If you believe<br />
you’re going to pass then strive to.<br />
You may fail today but remember tomorrow<br />
is another day to try. We are<br />
right behind you as you are approaching<br />
the finish line. All I can say to you<br />
is good luck.<br />
From Xola Joni, Grade 10, TEM<br />
Mrwetyana High School<br />
Grooming<br />
W 2 word worth knowing<br />
K<br />
acclaimed<br />
type of word: verb<br />
To acknowledge publicly the excellence of a person