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UPSTART NOVEMBER 2011<br />

LETTERS<br />

3<br />

Advice column<br />

Dear Auntie Stella<br />

I am a 17-year old boy and I have a girlfriend at my school<br />

who I love very much. I am doing my O levels and I really want<br />

to do well. But now I love my girlfriend so much that I am becoming<br />

dull in class. I find everything boring, even books, as<br />

she comes into my mind all the time. At one time I decided I<br />

should drop her and get on with my work but I couldn’t- afterall,<br />

she hasn’t done anything wrong to me. So what is the best<br />

thing to do Please help me, Auntie. I am worried that I will<br />

fail my exams.<br />

Farayi<br />

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Dear Farayi<br />

Love at the age of 17 can be as serious as love at 27. But you<br />

do need to keep the rest of life going while also feeling all<br />

dreamy and romantic inside. Fortunately, millions of lovers<br />

have found that the first few crazy months of love do change<br />

into something calmer and deeper, so you may soon find it<br />

easier to concentrate on your books.<br />

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Dear <strong>Upstart</strong>ers<br />

Dear <strong>Upstart</strong><br />

Say no to drugs and yes to a drug free society<br />

At school I’m part of the Peer Education project and as a result<br />

I’m trained as a Peer Educator. Peer education is about<br />

Maybe you take drugs because you’re sad, maybe you take<br />

them because you’re stressed or maybe you take them because<br />

you feel alone, you want to feel cool or your friends are. breaktime every Thursday at my school. We have someone<br />

peers teaching their peers. We have hourly sessions during<br />

But let me tell you this: you’re not alone. We all have problems,<br />

big and small but that doesn’t mean that we must turn to are young people because we all feel free to talk amongst<br />

who facilitates during the sessions and all the facilitators<br />

drugs. We all have to confront our problems in a manner that out peers.<br />

will not harm others, our loved ones or even ourselves.<br />

At these sessions we talk about issues such as HIV/Aids,<br />

You also have to do the same and live your life without drugs. teenage pregnancy, suicide, depression, drug abuse, family,<br />

STIs and school problems.<br />

Drugs kill you on the inside, financially and socially. You will be<br />

living a better and healthier life when you quit using drugs. Say I find peer education very useful. It’s very good to help other<br />

people with the problems they have. I feel good once<br />

no to drugs and contribute to making our society a drug free<br />

environment.<br />

I’ve helped someone. One of the most important lessons<br />

From Ziphozihle Goje • Grade 9, Nombulelo High School<br />

I learnt in this program is to look on the positive side of<br />

things rather than the negative.<br />

In October we attended a peer education conference<br />

which was a success. I left the conference knowing that the<br />

choices I make today will determine my tomorrow.<br />

From Aviwe Menze • Grade 10, TEM Mrwetyana High School<br />

SHOUT OUTS<br />

Just wanna say hi to my parents, my sisters,<br />

Nana, Pakama, everyone in Grade<br />

8A and everyone who knows me. I love<br />

you all. From Zikhona Faku • Grade 8,<br />

Archie Mbolekwa Higher Primary School<br />

Hey all, I’d like to halla to the following:<br />

Tisetso, Luyolo, Kamva, both my<br />

brothers Khanyisa and Anathi, Serolela,<br />

Carter, Ciara, Tsohle, Thembsie, all<br />

my classmates, my family, Sinosihle,<br />

<strong>Upstart</strong>ers and all those who know and<br />

love me. Love you all. From Ziphozihle<br />

Goje • Grade 9, Nombulelo High School<br />

Hi guys, I’d like to send a shout out to<br />

Sis’Zandi to thank her for encouraging<br />

us to join the debating club at<br />

school. Also hi to my peeps at school:<br />

Sipho, Anez, Sodacious, Nonilicious,<br />

Vongolicious, Sinazo, Onilicious, Akhona<br />

and my cousin. You guys rock. From<br />

Siphosethu Pama • Grade 9, CM Vellem<br />

Higher Primary School<br />

I would like to send a shout out to<br />

my mom Maxobho, my aunt Nyamie,<br />

Khazimla, Athule, Thembela, Ta Ace,<br />

Mimi, Entle and everybody who knows<br />

me. Ndinithanda nonke yazi. From<br />

Sinovuyo Geelbooi • Grade 9, Nombulelo<br />

High School<br />

Hi guys, I would like to send my shout<br />

out to my sisters, my brothers, my class<br />

teacher Mrs Fobe, Siya Basi, Athi, Okza,<br />

Kanzi, Yolanda, Luvuyo, Wasa, Spokie,<br />

my classmates, friends and everybody<br />

who knows me. From Babalwa Tyobeka •<br />

Grade 8, CM Vellem Higher Primary School<br />

Hey peeps, I would like to send my<br />

shout out to my mother, Vuyokazi<br />

Ndabangayi, Ntombekhaya, Norie and<br />

Olwethu aka Oskido. Wish you all the<br />

best and love you all. From Lindokuhle<br />

Vellem • Grade 8, CM Vellem Higher<br />

Primary School<br />

I would like to send a shout out to<br />

Neliswa Mjeje, Sisipho Pongolo,<br />

Nqatyiswa Ncwadi, Asandiswa Ngqoba,<br />

Nwabisa Kepe, Emihle Tsili, Unathi<br />

Nelani, Nosifundo Faba and everyone<br />

who knows me. From Nolusindiso Mpehlo<br />

• Grade 9, Nathaniel Nyaluza High School<br />

Hey guys I would like to send my shout<br />

However, being aware of the problem is a great first step towards<br />

solving it. Talk to your girlfriend about your feelings<br />

and discuss how you can be together AND carry on with your<br />

studies.<br />

Maybe you can set aside special times to see each other. Or<br />

agree that you’ll only see each other when you’ve finished<br />

studying a certain subject. Or, if she’s got exams too, you<br />

could try studying together- as long as you can keep your<br />

eyes on your books and your hands off each other. If your relationship<br />

is good, even boring tasks like weeding can be fun<br />

if you do them together.<br />

Whatever you decide, you and your girlfriend can encourage<br />

each other to do your schoolwork. Your dreams in life- romantic<br />

and otherwise- will have a better chance if you can get<br />

through those exams.<br />

Auntie Stella<br />

Reprinted from: Auntie Stella: Teenagers talk about sex, life and<br />

relationships published by Training and Research Support Centre,<br />

Harare, Zimbabwe<br />

out to Olwethu, Babcie, Okza, Nomesi,<br />

Esethu, Asanda, Anelisa Valela, Onela,<br />

Siphosethu, Belinda, Miss Frans and<br />

Miss Fobe. I love you all. From Athenkosi<br />

Makele • Grade 8, CM Vellem Higher<br />

Primary School<br />

Halla everyone, I’d like to send a<br />

shout out to my lovely classmates<br />

Siyamthanda Dyantyie, love and miss<br />

you a lot. I’d like to greet my beautiful<br />

cousins Zoleka, Nombulelo and everyone<br />

who knows me around G-town.<br />

From Amanda Kepe, Grade 9, CM Vellem<br />

Higher Primary School<br />

Hey there, I’d like to send a shout out to<br />

Mntane, Ntuku, Zapkoza, Sima, Sgaqa.<br />

Love you all. From Asemahle Mankayi •<br />

Grade 9, CM Vellem Higher Primary School<br />

I’d like to send my shout out to my fellas:<br />

Lefa, Bora, Aya, Aya Jr and my family.<br />

Love you all. From Thabang Troops<br />

Leemisa • Grade 9, CM Vellem Higher<br />

Primary School<br />

Beauty tips<br />

guide for your pets<br />

I told you my tips aren’t just for you.<br />

They are for your pets as well.<br />

Little ladies<br />

We all want to be liked by our friends<br />

and that takes manners and loads of<br />

consideration. The same goes for our<br />

pets, so make sure you take them to<br />

training classes to learn just that. But<br />

you don’t have to take them to training<br />

classes, TRAIN them yourself!<br />

Fab Nails<br />

Keep an eye on those claws to make<br />

sure they are buffed and as great<br />

looking as yours are. If they start to<br />

get long, get your vet to trim them.<br />

By Jasmine Kümm • Grade 8, Hoërskool<br />

PJ Olivier<br />

Dear <strong>Upstart</strong>ers<br />

This goes out to each and every member<br />

of <strong>Upstart</strong>. You should try and<br />

behave yourselves especially in public<br />

because the way we behave reflects<br />

the whole <strong>Upstart</strong> name. We as<br />

<strong>Upstart</strong>ers should be really grateful to<br />

be a part of this project because many<br />

children in the whole of South Africa<br />

would love the chance we are given.<br />

Please guys let us behave ourselves.<br />

From Zikhona Faku • Grade 8, Archie<br />

Mbolekwa Higher Primary School<br />

Dear <strong>Upstart</strong><br />

I write this letter to wish all the Grade<br />

12s the very best of luck with their exams.<br />

Being where you are is not easy<br />

and you’ll find that there are many<br />

obstacles in your way . But with hope<br />

you can do it. Remember hope is just<br />

a small flame that gives you enough<br />

light when it is dark around you. Even<br />

if you fail, it is not the end of the<br />

world.<br />

We all want you to pass and become<br />

something in life. Surely God created<br />

you for a reason and to find out what<br />

that is, is up to you. If you believe<br />

you’re going to pass then strive to.<br />

You may fail today but remember tomorrow<br />

is another day to try. We are<br />

right behind you as you are approaching<br />

the finish line. All I can say to you<br />

is good luck.<br />

From Xola Joni, Grade 10, TEM<br />

Mrwetyana High School<br />

Grooming<br />

W 2 word worth knowing<br />

K<br />

acclaimed<br />

type of word: verb<br />

To acknowledge publicly the excellence of a person

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