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Community<br />
egan’s ant<br />
Maybe Mom<br />
was right<br />
I’m not as deprived as I<br />
once thought<br />
by Regan White<br />
regan@unioncountyweekly.com<br />
When I think back on my childhood<br />
and try to recall things my parents<br />
denied me, the list is very short. Sure,<br />
there were the everyday things that my<br />
parents said no to – unlike my sister,<br />
who never asked for anything, I was a<br />
mouthy kid who took a shine to most<br />
anything my eye alighted on, from grocery<br />
store checkout air fresheners to<br />
key chains and stuffed animals. None of<br />
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these denials stand out, because these<br />
were things I didn’t really want. I was<br />
just running my mouth. And for a girl<br />
who liked pretty much everything she<br />
saw, it was prudent of my parents to<br />
put their feet down on a regular – if not<br />
hourly – basis.<br />
That said, I was spoiled and I know<br />
it. It’s crazy and deliriously wonderful<br />
to know that in my entire childhood I<br />
only can think of two things I never had:<br />
Candy Land and Sea-Monkeys.<br />
I really wanted Candy Land. All my<br />
friends owned it (one of the primary reasons<br />
my mom refused to buy it). She also<br />
pointed out repeatedly that there was<br />
nothing to the game. One didn’t learn<br />
anything playing it past the age of 3. Or<br />
that was her argument anyway.<br />
We would later learn the game was<br />
created by a polio survivor, Eleanor<br />
Abbot, as a game that could be enjoyed<br />
by children suffering from the disease.<br />
Who’s the bad guy now Then again,<br />
as mom might point out, I didn’t have<br />
polio and was fully capable of running<br />
around over settling into a board game<br />
that didn’t even require simple math.<br />
For a mom who made it her mission to<br />
make everything educational, a game<br />
that included a character with the gross<br />
misspelling “King Kandy” just rubbed<br />
her the wrong way.<br />
It didn’t matter. Anytime I saw that<br />
candy cane-striped lettering peeking out<br />
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from friends’ closets, I’d beg them to take<br />
it out so we could play. You should’ve<br />
seen the looks. They didn’t know I was<br />
making up for years without Princess<br />
Lolly and the Gingerbread People. (Is it<br />
a coincidence that sounds like the name<br />
of an awesome band I think not.)<br />
And still, my Candy Land void wasn’t<br />
felt acutely.<br />
It wasn’t until the other day at work<br />
that I was reminded of the only other<br />
thing I was ever deprived of, so I guess<br />
I’m not really scarred.<br />
I knew what they were the moment<br />
the tank showed up on my co-worker<br />
Debbie’s desk. “Are you breeding Sea-<br />
Monkeys in there” I asked, curiously<br />
looking at the clear plastic tank.<br />
“Yes!” Debbie said. “Isn’t it<br />
wonderful”<br />
Staring at the empty water, I nodded<br />
slowly. She explained that the water<br />
needed to be purified for 24 hours before<br />
the eggs could be added. The official<br />
Sea-Monkey Web site said bottled water<br />
is best to start the tank before adding<br />
“water purifier” to create a safe Sea-<br />
Monkey environment. The site adds,<br />
“If you cannot afford (bottled water), or<br />
bottled water is not available, boil tap<br />
water and let it stand overnight before<br />
using it.”<br />
I would argue that if you can’t afford<br />
a $1.29 bottle of water, then maybe you<br />
shouldn’t be shelling out $8.99 plus tax<br />
for a starter kit of your very own brine<br />
shrimp.<br />
So we waited 24 hours. And Debbie<br />
added the “Instant Live Eggs.” It took<br />
another five days before we could make<br />
out the tiny things. Thank goodness the<br />
wait occurred largely over a weekend.<br />
So we all came in on a recent Monday<br />
and I can’t even tell you what they<br />
looked like. Not that the cartoonish,<br />
flesh-colored creatures on the Sea-<br />
Monkey box are anything to get worked<br />
up about. The drawings make them look<br />
like two-legged aliens with merman fins.<br />
These don’t look like that. They don’t<br />
even look like shrimp.<br />
They just look unnatural.<br />
“Aren’t they adorable and absolutely<br />
magical” Debbie asked.<br />
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“I think my mom was right – they’re<br />
filthy little things,” was all I could<br />
muster.<br />
Despite a couple days of dormancy<br />
when we thought they all bit the big one,<br />
the Sea-Monkeys continue to grow bigger<br />
and more disgusting. They’ve proven<br />
to be quite educational around the<br />
office. It’s hard to focus on story editing<br />
when two Sea-Monkeys have been having<br />
relations for two days straight in the<br />
next room. I hear they can copulate for<br />
three days, a goal Debbie’s Sea-Monkeys<br />
seem to be attacking.<br />
What’s so wonderful about Debbie<br />
is that she’s the most beautiful parent,<br />
even to creatures as ugly as these<br />
Sea-Monkeys. She doesn’t have children<br />
yet, but you can tell even if they<br />
emerge looking like the briny offspring<br />
she raised first, she’ll still love them<br />
unconditionally.<br />
She’ll argue with the rest of us about<br />
their amazing biology. Sometimes she<br />
waxes poetic about their (very wide-set)<br />
black eyes and the nasty way they move<br />
their bodies. (Think millipede but in the<br />
water – and stranger.) But to her, they’re<br />
beautiful.<br />
According to the Sea-Monkeys distributors,<br />
this tank could last around two<br />
years if Debbie plays her cards right and<br />
feeds and aerates the tank properly. I’ve<br />
been tempted to buy her an upgraded<br />
tank – maybe with a light on top, and a<br />
castle or spaceship inside – but I feel as<br />
though I’d be condoning the activity.<br />
And while the miracle of life takes<br />
place on a daily, maybe hourly, basis on<br />
Debbie’s desk, I can’t help but think my<br />
mom was right in never buying me my<br />
own tank of Sea-Monkeys. I also keep<br />
wondering how many tanks of failed critters<br />
have been poured mournfully into<br />
our water systems. The Sea-Monkey site<br />
assures: “Sea-Monkeys are in no way<br />
harmful to humans or the environment.<br />
If they somehow find their way into natural<br />
waterways or sewer lines, they simply<br />
will not be able to survive outside of<br />
the formula.”<br />
Yeah, but that doesn’t mean I want to<br />
swallow one of the little buggers, either. q<br />
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