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Smiles that are Touching Generations<br />

When you meet Paul Nelson, you know instantly that you are in the company<br />

of a good person. He has a quality about him that is at once caring, inspiring and<br />

positive. His personality pours out as he speaks of the two very special people in<br />

his life that he lost to cancer.<br />

Paul’s youngest son, Mark, died in 2003 at 30 from complications from Hodgkin<br />

lymphoma, a cancer originating in lymph nodes, which are part of the immune<br />

system. Earlier this year, he lost his wife Donna to spindle cell sarcoma, a rare<br />

connective tissue cancer.<br />

Paul Nelson, Donna Nelson, their son Craig and grandsons Ethan and Ryan pose earlier this<br />

year for a photo taken by daughter-in-law Judy at Lake Shelbyville in Shelbyville, IL.<br />

“Everyone tells me they remember Mark most by his warm smile,” says Paul. “He<br />

was a smiler—just like his mother.”<br />

While he misses his smile too, it is Mark’s support of the community that Paul<br />

remembers the most. Many nights after work, Mark volunteered his time to help<br />

parents coach their children’s soccer teams. Mark did not have kids of his own,<br />

but loved soccer and was great with children. But Mark’s dedication to serving his<br />

community did not end there. In honor of his grandfather and cousin who both<br />

successfully battled cancer, Mark participated in events to fundraise for and raise<br />

awareness about cancer in his hometown of Perryville, Mo.<br />

Give Honor and Remembrance as Holiday Gifts this Season<br />

Looking for a gift that will be remembered this holiday season? Please consider giving your loved ones<br />

the gift of saving lives and being honored.<br />

Make a tribute gift to the <strong>Barnes</strong>-<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Hospital</strong> Foundation today by calling our Tributes Line at<br />

(314) 286-0445. We will send you special holiday cards that you can personalize for the occasion.<br />

Your recipients will know their gift is going to help one of America's elite Honor Roll hospitals<br />

continue providing patients and their families with one of the latest treatments, best outcomes, safest<br />

experiences and best care and service possible.<br />

www.Giving<strong>Barnes</strong><strong>Jewish</strong>.org<br />

“When Mark died, Donna and I wanted to provide opportunities for ourselves and<br />

other people to give to cancer research like Mark did,” says Paul. “Can you imagine<br />

the new treatments that could be available if all 325 million people in the United<br />

States would give $<strong>10</strong> yearly to support cancer research? It would be wonderful.”<br />

In memory of Mark’s spirit and dedication to others, Paul and Donna started<br />

the Mark Alan Nelson Cancer Research Fund at the <strong>Barnes</strong>-<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Hospital</strong><br />

Foundation. To inspire their family and friends to support the fund, they created<br />

business cards explaining that <strong>10</strong>0 percent of dollars given to Mark’s fund go to<br />

lymphoma and leukemia research at the Alvin J. Siteman Cancer Center, where<br />

Mark received his care.<br />

“When Mark died, Donna and I wanted to provide<br />

opportunities for ourselves and other people to<br />

give to cancer research like Mark did,” says Paul.<br />

“Can you imagine the new treatments that could<br />

be available if all 325 million people in the United<br />

States would give $<strong>10</strong> yearly to support cancer<br />

research? It would be wonderful.”<br />

–Paul Nelson<br />

When Donna died earlier this year, Paul requested that family and friends give<br />

in Donna’s honor to the fund that she had helped establish in honor of their son,<br />

Mark. �e support of loved ones totaled $<strong>10</strong>,825.<br />

Paul also made a gift in Donna’s honor to support the research of Washington<br />

University oncologist Matthew Ellis, MD, who cared for her at Siteman (Dr. Ellis<br />

receives funding from the <strong>Barnes</strong>-<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Hospital</strong> Foundation as the Anheuser-<br />

Busch Endowed Chair in Medical Oncology).<br />

“When Donna was diagnosed, she immediately signed up as a cancer research<br />

participant,” says Paul. “She truly wanted to be sure that others did not have to<br />

deal with what our family has gone through. �at’s why it’s so important to keep<br />

giving to Mark’s research fund. Donna was a giver just like Mark, and it was a<br />

blessing to see so many family and friends give to Mark’s fund in honor of Donna<br />

this year.”<br />

To give to the Mark Allen Nelson Cancer Research Fund, please use the<br />

envelope included in this publication, visit us at www.Giving<strong>Barnes</strong><strong>Jewish</strong>.org<br />

or contact David Sandler at (314) 362-3499 or dhs1634@bjc.org<br />

This summer, Donna Nelson treasured many days she<br />

spent with her oldest grandson, Ryan, while she was<br />

going through cancer treatment. On many of his visits,<br />

Ryan would often bring with him art that he made for her.<br />

To see Ryan’s gallery of art for his grandma, please go to:<br />

www.Giving<strong>Barnes</strong><strong>Jewish</strong>.org/RyansArt<br />

Card features Kathleen<br />

McClure, whose dream<br />

of becoming a professional<br />

ballet dancer was almost<br />

destroyed by thoracic<br />

outlet syndrome, a painful,<br />

debilitating condition that can<br />

affect the nerves or blood<br />

vessles to the arm. But,<br />

thanks to vascular surgeon<br />

Robert W. Thompson, MD,<br />

whose work is supported<br />

in part by gifts to the BJH<br />

Foundation, her dream<br />

was saved.

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