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Smiles that are Touching Generations<br />
When you meet Paul Nelson, you know instantly that you are in the company<br />
of a good person. He has a quality about him that is at once caring, inspiring and<br />
positive. His personality pours out as he speaks of the two very special people in<br />
his life that he lost to cancer.<br />
Paul’s youngest son, Mark, died in 2003 at 30 from complications from Hodgkin<br />
lymphoma, a cancer originating in lymph nodes, which are part of the immune<br />
system. Earlier this year, he lost his wife Donna to spindle cell sarcoma, a rare<br />
connective tissue cancer.<br />
Paul Nelson, Donna Nelson, their son Craig and grandsons Ethan and Ryan pose earlier this<br />
year for a photo taken by daughter-in-law Judy at Lake Shelbyville in Shelbyville, IL.<br />
“Everyone tells me they remember Mark most by his warm smile,” says Paul. “He<br />
was a smiler—just like his mother.”<br />
While he misses his smile too, it is Mark’s support of the community that Paul<br />
remembers the most. Many nights after work, Mark volunteered his time to help<br />
parents coach their children’s soccer teams. Mark did not have kids of his own,<br />
but loved soccer and was great with children. But Mark’s dedication to serving his<br />
community did not end there. In honor of his grandfather and cousin who both<br />
successfully battled cancer, Mark participated in events to fundraise for and raise<br />
awareness about cancer in his hometown of Perryville, Mo.<br />
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“When Mark died, Donna and I wanted to provide opportunities for ourselves and<br />
other people to give to cancer research like Mark did,” says Paul. “Can you imagine<br />
the new treatments that could be available if all 325 million people in the United<br />
States would give $<strong>10</strong> yearly to support cancer research? It would be wonderful.”<br />
In memory of Mark’s spirit and dedication to others, Paul and Donna started<br />
the Mark Alan Nelson Cancer Research Fund at the <strong>Barnes</strong>-<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Hospital</strong><br />
Foundation. To inspire their family and friends to support the fund, they created<br />
business cards explaining that <strong>10</strong>0 percent of dollars given to Mark’s fund go to<br />
lymphoma and leukemia research at the Alvin J. Siteman Cancer Center, where<br />
Mark received his care.<br />
“When Mark died, Donna and I wanted to provide<br />
opportunities for ourselves and other people to<br />
give to cancer research like Mark did,” says Paul.<br />
“Can you imagine the new treatments that could<br />
be available if all 325 million people in the United<br />
States would give $<strong>10</strong> yearly to support cancer<br />
research? It would be wonderful.”<br />
–Paul Nelson<br />
When Donna died earlier this year, Paul requested that family and friends give<br />
in Donna’s honor to the fund that she had helped establish in honor of their son,<br />
Mark. �e support of loved ones totaled $<strong>10</strong>,825.<br />
Paul also made a gift in Donna’s honor to support the research of Washington<br />
University oncologist Matthew Ellis, MD, who cared for her at Siteman (Dr. Ellis<br />
receives funding from the <strong>Barnes</strong>-<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Hospital</strong> Foundation as the Anheuser-<br />
Busch Endowed Chair in Medical Oncology).<br />
“When Donna was diagnosed, she immediately signed up as a cancer research<br />
participant,” says Paul. “She truly wanted to be sure that others did not have to<br />
deal with what our family has gone through. �at’s why it’s so important to keep<br />
giving to Mark’s research fund. Donna was a giver just like Mark, and it was a<br />
blessing to see so many family and friends give to Mark’s fund in honor of Donna<br />
this year.”<br />
To give to the Mark Allen Nelson Cancer Research Fund, please use the<br />
envelope included in this publication, visit us at www.Giving<strong>Barnes</strong><strong>Jewish</strong>.org<br />
or contact David Sandler at (314) 362-3499 or dhs1634@bjc.org<br />
This summer, Donna Nelson treasured many days she<br />
spent with her oldest grandson, Ryan, while she was<br />
going through cancer treatment. On many of his visits,<br />
Ryan would often bring with him art that he made for her.<br />
To see Ryan’s gallery of art for his grandma, please go to:<br />
www.Giving<strong>Barnes</strong><strong>Jewish</strong>.org/RyansArt<br />
Card features Kathleen<br />
McClure, whose dream<br />
of becoming a professional<br />
ballet dancer was almost<br />
destroyed by thoracic<br />
outlet syndrome, a painful,<br />
debilitating condition that can<br />
affect the nerves or blood<br />
vessles to the arm. But,<br />
thanks to vascular surgeon<br />
Robert W. Thompson, MD,<br />
whose work is supported<br />
in part by gifts to the BJH<br />
Foundation, her dream<br />
was saved.