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<strong>ECHO</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong> Issue 65<br />

<strong>Newsletter</strong><br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

Inside this edition: Meet our new members of staff | Safe and Sustainable decision announced – how it<br />

will affect your family | Dr Owen Miller becomes <strong>ECHO</strong> Patron!<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> FAMILY DAY<br />

On Saturday 16th June we held our<br />

fourth <strong>ECHO</strong> Family Day at the Grange<br />

City Hotel in London, overlooking the<br />

Tower of London.<br />

The event was attended by over sixty<br />

families. Members enjoyed informative<br />

presentations, a delicious lunch followed<br />

by afternoon workshops and a<br />

wonderful three course evening meal.<br />

The children were kept busy and<br />

entertained all day and evening! It was<br />

a fantastic event and gave members the<br />

opportunity to learn, share experiences<br />

with other families and socialise in a<br />

lovely setting.<br />

The highlight of the day for many was<br />

Hannah Phillips's amazing one-woman<br />

show Hannah's <strong>Heart</strong> Beat. Turn to<br />

page 22 to read Hannah's story, so far!<br />

We would like to thank Dr Owen Miller<br />

and Monica McCaffrey for their<br />

interesting and informative<br />

presentations. Also we would like to<br />

thank the four workshop facilitators:<br />

Suzie Hutchinson, Michelle Miles,<br />

Louise Derbyshire and Monica who<br />

very kindly gave a presentation and a<br />

workshop!<br />

Finally, thank you to Amanda Pipe and<br />

her team Creche on Location for<br />

keeping the under-fives happy. Clare<br />

Perrett and many volunteers from the<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> who looked after the six to ten<br />

year olds and took them on an exciting<br />

trip to London zoo for most of the day!<br />

Jon Brunskill, the Youth Leader for Little<br />

<strong>Heart</strong>s Matter, gave a huge amount of<br />

assistance, not only in planning and<br />

organising activities and an outing for<br />

the ETC gang, but also in running the<br />

day. He, along with Olivia Hutchinson<br />

and Rich Wilson,<br />

plus some<br />

volunteers from<br />

the <strong>Evelina</strong>, gave<br />

the teens a<br />

wonderful day to<br />

remember! To<br />

read more<br />

about the day<br />

from Rachel<br />

Ward, an ETC<br />

member, turn<br />

to page 23.<br />

Jessica<br />

Cattermole<br />

Wheldal kids<br />

Turn to pages 22 and 23 to read the latest ETC news!<br />

Main photo: Valentina See pages 6-9<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> member Jodie Mills with<br />

Dr Owen Miller<br />

Nathan with Obama<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> (<strong>Evelina</strong> <strong>Children's</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation Ltd) is a registered charity, no. 1146494.<br />

Registered as a company limited by guarantee in England and Wales, no. 7867592.<br />

All correspondence PO Box 597, Chatham, ME4 9DS. Registered Address 145 – 157 St John Street, London, EC1V 4PW


CONTENTS<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> NEWS<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> NEWS<br />

Page 2-5 <strong>ECHO</strong> News<br />

Page 6-9 Valentina's story<br />

Page 10 Milestones<br />

Page 11-13 Hospital news<br />

Page 14-21 Fundraising<br />

Page 22-23 ETC news<br />

Page 24 <strong>ECHO</strong> Contact details<br />

Coffee morning in Brighton<br />

New Area Contact Nicki Morgan is holding<br />

a coffee morning at her home in Brighton<br />

on Tuesday 16th October. For more details<br />

please email Becky at Becky@echoevelina.org.uk<br />

Christmas Party<br />

The <strong>ECHO</strong> Christmas party will be on<br />

Sunday 9th December, please keep the<br />

date free, and more information will be<br />

sent to you in November.<br />

Coffee morning in Lewisham<br />

Area Contact for London, Eleanor Beardsley,<br />

will be holding a coffee morning at her<br />

home in Lewisham on Wednesday 12<br />

September 10am - midday. Please contact<br />

her on south.london@echo-evelina.org.uk<br />

for more details.<br />

Get together in Gillingham<br />

Monday 20th August, 10.30am - 12.30pm.<br />

All members invited to FUN DRUM an<br />

indoor children’s play area. Please contact<br />

Emma Orpin on or at admin@echoevelina.org.uk<br />

for more details.<br />

Fundraising Bag Pack in Chatham<br />

Emma Orpin is holding a Fundraising Bag<br />

Pack at Asda Superstore Chatham, Friday<br />

24th August, 11am–<br />

4pm. Email<br />

admin@echoevelina.org.uk<br />

if<br />

you would like to<br />

help!<br />

Dates for<br />

your Diary<br />

AREA CONTACTS<br />

NEW SUSSEX AREA CONTACT<br />

Sadly I need to pass on my 'Area Contact for Sussex' role, but I have<br />

found a wonderful member Nicki Morgan to take over. Nicki came to my<br />

last coffee morning, heard me talking about needing to pass on the role,<br />

and kindly offered to take over!<br />

Hi, I'm Nicki and I live in Brighton with my husband Mark and our two<br />

children, Joe and Finley.<br />

Finley was born in June 2011, and had open heart surgery when he was<br />

4 months old to repair a large VSD, PDA<br />

and Aortic co-arctation, just a week after<br />

being diagnosed. He is now doing really<br />

well and smiling again!<br />

Nicki<br />

I look forward to welcoming new <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

members in the Sussex Area and invite<br />

existing and new members to the next<br />

coffee morning on Tuesday 16th<br />

October in Brighton.<br />

For details about Nicki's coffee<br />

morning please contact Becky.<br />

I would like to thank Rosie Wheldal for sharing the role of<br />

Area Contact for Sussex with me for so many years and for<br />

her help in supporting so many members.<br />

WE ARE LOOKING FOR A NEW AREA<br />

CONTACTS FOR KENT AND NORFOLK<br />

Fran Wintour has been Area Contact for Kent for many years. We are<br />

looking to replace her with preferably two Area Contacts, to share the<br />

role, as it is such a large area with so many members! We would like<br />

to say a huge thank you to Fran for all the support she has offered to<br />

members in Kent over the last few years.<br />

Molly Crisp has also been Area Contact for a few years so we would<br />

like to thank her for her help in supporting members in Norfolk. If you<br />

live in Norfolk and would like to take over from Molly, then please<br />

contact Becky for more details.<br />

If you would like to become Area Contact for Kent or Norfolk, please<br />

contact Becky for more details. The role is very rewarding and does not<br />

require too much of your time. It involves welcoming new members by<br />

email or phone (details of new members will be passed on to you by<br />

Emma) and it is good to hold a coffee morning twice a year so that<br />

local members get the opportunity to meet each other.<br />

Jessica Cattermole<br />

Please make sure we have an up-to-date email address for you to<br />

ensure you get all our email updates and invitations.<br />

Send to Emma Orpin on admin@echo-evelina.org.uk<br />

INTRODUCING EMMA<br />

Hi, everyone – I’m Emma Orpin and I am the<br />

Administrative Assistant for the <strong>ECHO</strong> team.<br />

My nephew was diagnosed with TGA at his<br />

22 week anomaly scan and my sister and<br />

her husband had to go through the very<br />

difficult and challenging situation of facing a<br />

life saving operation on their small son. They were extremely<br />

Emma and her<br />

sister Jodie<br />

grateful for the support that <strong>ECHO</strong> provided them during that<br />

time, and since, and this role felt like the perfect way to give<br />

something back to <strong>ECHO</strong> and use my skills to help other families<br />

in similar circumstances.<br />

My role is to provide high quality administrative support to Jo,<br />

Becky and the other members of the <strong>ECHO</strong> team. I hope that the<br />

work that I do can make a difference to other families when they<br />

need it.<br />

My entire working career has been in the NHS working for local<br />

organisations in Kent, and I continue to work for the NHS on a<br />

part time basis as well as working for <strong>ECHO</strong>. I am married with<br />

three children and a step son so I have plenty to keep me<br />

occupied. In what free time I have, I<br />

enjoy reading, the cinema and<br />

walking but I am also part of a<br />

mums Street Dancing group! My<br />

usual working hours will be 9 - 3<br />

Monday to Wednesday and you<br />

can reach me on 07715208077<br />

or emma@echo-evelina.org.uk.<br />

GOODBYE FROM JESSICA<br />

Emma’s family<br />

I would like to take this opportunity to say thank you to all the lovely<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> members that I have worked with over the last eight years. I<br />

have thoroughly enjoyed meeting so many of you, offering support to<br />

you and putting you in contact with other members. Having the<br />

opportunity to meet so many of you at the <strong>Summer</strong> and Christmas<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> events is always very rewarding and it has been great to see<br />

so many of you getting so much out of being part of <strong>ECHO</strong>.<br />

New contact details for <strong>ECHO</strong>!<br />

To contact Becky:<br />

becky@echo-evelina.org.uk or<br />

call 07730 146154<br />

To contact Emma:<br />

admin@echo-evelina.org.uk or call<br />

07715 208077<br />

NEW <strong>ECHO</strong> STAFF!!<br />

INTRODUCING BECKY<br />

I am delighted and honoured to be the<br />

new <strong>ECHO</strong> Membership Services<br />

Manager. Our family have been<br />

members of <strong>ECHO</strong> for over 8 years since<br />

one of our twin daughters was diagnosed<br />

with TAPVD. Until 2004, we had no idea how people cope<br />

when their child faces life-saving surgery. It was the very most<br />

frightening time and we were given tremendous support at Guys<br />

and at the Ronald McDonald House where we stayed. I didn’t<br />

look back much initially but when I dared to do so, I knew that<br />

the people we met along the way would always remain dear to<br />

me.<br />

For me, being at an <strong>ECHO</strong> event means being with people who<br />

know this often tough experience and so immediately you’re on<br />

a similar wavelength and amongst friends. In my work I will<br />

continue to offer these opportunities to everyone at <strong>ECHO</strong> and so<br />

feel free to contact me with your ideas and hopes for <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

events.<br />

My work before children was in financial services, for a regional<br />

development agency and as a lobbyist in Brussels. Amongst<br />

other things, I have been a school governor, helper at my church<br />

and twins club newsletter editor since<br />

becoming a mum. Currently I’m also<br />

a Brownie leader and always enjoy<br />

any opportunity to be with my<br />

family out and about in the<br />

beautiful Hertfordshire countryside.<br />

My usual working hours will be 9<br />

‘til 3 Monday to Wednesday and<br />

Fridays and you can reach me on<br />

07730 146 154 or becky@echoevelina.org.uk<br />

Francesca and Josephine<br />

I will miss working with Jo and the <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

team, and for all of you, but you will be<br />

sure to still see me and my family at<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> events, my children will make sure<br />

that we still attend them all!<br />

Love to you all. Jessica x<br />

Becky works 9am-3pm Monday to Wednesday and Friday<br />

Emma works 9am-3pm Monday to Wednesday<br />

The new PO Box address for all<br />

donations/fundraising/membership forms:<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong>, PO Box 597,<br />

Chatham ME4 9DS<br />

Becky<br />

Jessica and family<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 03<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> NEWS<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> NEWS<br />

RAYS OF SUNSHINE<br />

GRACE MALPASS<br />

Royal Albert Hall<br />

Rays of<br />

Sunshine<br />

contacted<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> in May<br />

to offer some<br />

of our <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

family<br />

members’ a<br />

limited number<br />

of tickets for<br />

their Royal<br />

Albert Hall<br />

concert this<br />

year. What a<br />

lovely<br />

opportunity!<br />

I don’t<br />

know<br />

which one<br />

of us was most excited<br />

about the Rays of Sunshine tickets<br />

when they arrived just before half term. My 8<br />

year old daughter Francesca and I were<br />

thrilled to receive our tickets and the<br />

excitement only grew stronger in the run up<br />

to the big day. On arrival, Francesca was<br />

delighted to be given her light-up wand and<br />

flag and then to choose her raffle bears. Even<br />

before all the performances began, Francesca<br />

and I loved the wow of the Royal Albert Hall<br />

experience.<br />

Elliott Collict<br />

It is a little tricky to say ‘what was our<br />

favourite moment?’ at the June 7th Rays of<br />

Sunshine concert.<br />

Was it the moment that Leona Lewis was<br />

showered with glittery pink confetti-like paper<br />

or was it when Spelbound made one of their<br />

amazing dance performances? Or could it<br />

have been when the hosts Miss FM’s Melvin<br />

Odom and Rochelle Wiseman from The<br />

Saturdays invited some children on to the<br />

stage?<br />

Liz Quinnell told us “Thank you so much to<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> for the tickets to the rays of sunshine<br />

concert. Thomas had an amazing time. He<br />

loved all the acts & JLS are his favourite group<br />

& they were even better than he had<br />

imagined. Leigh went with him & also really<br />

enjoyed it although I think he felt rather<br />

old!!!! Thanks again.”<br />

“It was a great evening and one we’re<br />

extremely proud of! “ said Katie Clark, Wish<br />

Manager at Rays of Sunshine, a charity and<br />

friend of <strong>ECHO</strong> which grants wishes for<br />

seriously ill children and teenagers in the UK<br />

aged 3 – 18.<br />

Sophie Bartlett was also lucky to receive<br />

tickets and took her Dad along “Thanks so<br />

much for the concert tickets. I loved it (and I<br />

think Dad liked it too!). My faves were Conor<br />

Maynard, JLS and Pixie Lott. Thanks again, x”<br />

The journey up to town for Claire Collict and<br />

her son Elliott started from Polegate midafternoon.<br />

After their train and several notably<br />

exciting trips in the train station lifts, they had<br />

arrived at the Royal Albert Hall, got their<br />

wand, raffle ticket bear and were making<br />

friends with Jason and his Mum. Claire<br />

explained to <strong>ECHO</strong> “Jason has been suffering<br />

from cancer and has a brain tumour plus<br />

other complications. Jason was absolutely<br />

adorable and Elliott and him really hit it off<br />

and had the same type of daft humour!” For<br />

Claire, the artists were brilliant, “Elliott loved<br />

Pixie Lott, he now loves Stooshe and is always<br />

singing their song, Black heart, and of course<br />

JLS” Although by the end of their performance<br />

both Jason and Elliott were very tired and had<br />

to sit on their Mum’s laps. Elliott and his Mum<br />

want to say a huge thank you to all the<br />

organisers, the artists and especially Rays of<br />

Sunshine for giving the children such a lovely<br />

time, it was truly appreciated.<br />

Francesca and I sat and danced alongside<br />

Karen Stuart and her son James. We<br />

agree with Karen that it was “a fantastic<br />

evening, albeit a really late one!” The music,<br />

the performances were all stunning and I<br />

think Francesca’s favourite has to be<br />

Spelbound. I thought Pixie Lott was terrific and<br />

Leona Lewis gave the most wonderful<br />

performance too. Thank you Rays of<br />

Sunshine for a most lovely memorable<br />

musical experience.<br />

Becky Kelway<br />

Thomas Quinnell<br />

James Stuart<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> member Grace Malpass was born<br />

with Tricuspid Atresia. Grace featured in a<br />

previous <strong>ECHO</strong> newsletter when, in 2009<br />

she got married and her and her husband<br />

asked guests to donate to <strong>ECHO</strong> in lieu of<br />

wedding gifts and donated £800. In<br />

March she wrote me this lovely letter:<br />

I wanted to write as I feel strongly that some<br />

parents of children with heart conditions and<br />

adult congenital patients may need some hope<br />

and inspiration.<br />

Grace, Jon and Charlie at<br />

Charlie's baptism<br />

I was always told that I<br />

would never be able<br />

to have children due<br />

to my heart<br />

condition. I was told<br />

that I would find it<br />

almost impossible<br />

to fall pregnant<br />

and should I ever<br />

fall pregnant that<br />

the baby would<br />

not survive due<br />

to the very low<br />

oxygen levels<br />

Each year, between 5,000<br />

and 6,000 babies are born<br />

with a heart condition in this<br />

country. Whilst some of those<br />

(up to 35%) would have been<br />

diagnosed during pregnancy,<br />

the majority won’t be until after birth. For some<br />

of these babies, the fact that there is something<br />

seriously wrong with them will be obvious quite<br />

quickly and, hopefully, staff in the maternity unit<br />

will recognise the symptoms and the baby will<br />

be speedily referred to an expert Cardiology unit<br />

for assessment and treatment. For others, they<br />

will remain reasonably well just after birth and<br />

present with no obvious symptoms or signs<br />

before being discharged from the maternity unit<br />

with their unsuspecting parents.<br />

The baby might not show any really obvious<br />

signs at first, but may be slightly sleepy and slow<br />

to feed with very slow weight gain (or even some<br />

weight loss). Their hands and feet might feel<br />

slightly cold to the touch and they may look a<br />

grey, dusky colour. These signs may be<br />

particularly difficult to pick up for first-time<br />

parents, who don’t have other “healthy” children<br />

to compare their baby with, and sadly, all too<br />

often, GP’s, community midwives, health visitors<br />

and even doctors in Emergency departments<br />

also fail to pick up on the fact that a baby has a<br />

heart condition which, if left undiagnosed and<br />

treated, could ultimately (and quite quickly)<br />

become fatal. We frequently hear from parents<br />

whose new baby hasn’t been quite right, but<br />

they’ve been fobbed off with a diagnosis of a<br />

that my body runs on. Because of this, I would<br />

not be able to support fetal growth.<br />

So my husband and I were shocked when in<br />

January 2010, I discovered I was pregnant. Sadly,<br />

this pregnancy did not last and we carried on<br />

with our lives thinking it was just a freak thing to<br />

happen. We started the adoption process and<br />

were looking forward to having a family in some<br />

way. Imagine our surprise when I discovered I<br />

was pregnant again! Once again, we found out<br />

too late to offer maximum support to the baby<br />

(ie changing my medications, and taking things<br />

easy) and we lost this pregancy early on too.<br />

However, I am now delighted to tell you that last<br />

year I fell pregnant again and we now have a<br />

beautiful, happy healthy 4 month old son called<br />

Charlie.<br />

I am writing to you as even though it was a<br />

rocky road to have our boy, I wanted to inspire<br />

others not to give up. There is still little<br />

understood about the long-term lives of people<br />

with congenital heart conditions. Indeed I believe<br />

I am amongst one of the 1st generations to<br />

survive my particular condition into adulthood.<br />

When I fell pregnant with Charlie, I gave up<br />

work, adjusted my medications to "safe" ones<br />

“THINK HEART” CAMPAIGN<br />

cold, chest infection or even just being tired,<br />

and it’s not at all unusual for parents to be<br />

accused of being overly anxious about<br />

something which is “nothing” only to find their<br />

baby being retrieved and blue-lighted into the<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> days or even hours later, critically ill and<br />

fighting for life.<br />

During Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Week in May this year,<br />

Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Federation (CHF) launched their<br />

“Think HEART” campaign to raise awareness of<br />

the signs and symptoms of congenital heart<br />

disease, particularly in newborn babies . The<br />

campaign aims to make GP’s, clinicians, health<br />

visitors, midwives and nurses in the local<br />

community more aware of what to look out for in<br />

a newborn infant and also to empower parents<br />

with the knowledge to enable them to be able to<br />

press for the investigations and treatment that<br />

their child may need urgently.<br />

Think HEART:<br />

• <strong>Heart</strong> rate - too fast or<br />

slow? (normally 100 to<br />

160 beats per minute)<br />

• Energy & Eating -<br />

sleepy, quiet, too<br />

tired to eat, falling<br />

asleep during feeds?<br />

and went on<br />

oxygen 24<br />

hours a day.<br />

All of these<br />

things had<br />

no hard evidence<br />

that it would help my baby to<br />

survive, in fact, my cardiac obstetrician said that<br />

having oxygen wont make any difference at all. I<br />

don't know if it helped or not (it only increased<br />

my O2 levels by a few %), but I was willing to try<br />

anything and now I have my baby.<br />

Grace as a toddler<br />

The medics that look after us heart patients are<br />

absolutely wonderful and extremely skilled and<br />

knowlegable, but some things are about more<br />

than medicine. We all know as heart patients<br />

that hope and faith, and the love and support of<br />

our family are key to surviving congenital heart<br />

problems. They are also key to living a happy<br />

and fulfilled life. Never give up hope, and don't<br />

always take no for an answer! I just have to look<br />

into my baby's eyes to know that miracles can<br />

happen, even in the most unlikely places.<br />

Kind Regards, Grace Bevan (was Malpass)<br />

Congratulations Grace and thank you for sharing<br />

this wonderful news with us!<br />

• Arterial Saturation - a<br />

blue, dusky or grey<br />

colour (normal oxygen<br />

saturations 95-100%)?<br />

• Respiration - breathing<br />

too fast or slow?<br />

(normally 40-60 breaths<br />

per minute)<br />

• Temperature - cold to<br />

touch - particularly<br />

hands and feet<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> fully supports this campaign and is doing<br />

all we can to promote the message, so if you<br />

would like to do your bit and get involved,<br />

leaflets and posters are available directly from<br />

CHF, which you can distribute to your local GP<br />

surgery, Children’s Centre, Schools, local hospital<br />

and anywhere else you can think of where the<br />

health professionals there might come into<br />

contact with a baby with a potential cardiac<br />

condition.<br />

Please contact Danny Beales at CHF on<br />

dannyb@chfed.org.uk for more information and<br />

to order an awareness pack. For more<br />

information about the campaign in general and<br />

the work CHF do, please visit their website:<br />

www.chfed.org.uk. Jo Wilson<br />

04 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 05<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> VALENTINA’S STORY<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> VALENTINA’S STORY<br />

Valentina’s story<br />

I fell pregnant with Valentina quickly, we had only been trying for<br />

about 6 weeks and Matt and I stared with shock and surprise at the 3<br />

positive pregnancy tests one Saturday morning in early October 2011.<br />

I had no indication that I was pregnant, apart from slightly sore<br />

breasts, physically I felt the same, I suffered no morning sickness at<br />

all throughout the pregnancy, but for some reason I just knew that<br />

something was different.<br />

We were both thrilled to have a baby on the<br />

way, and the first 20 weeks of my pregnancy<br />

passed in a blissful haze, I was feeling great,<br />

really enjoying being pregnant, it was the<br />

perfect pregnancy.<br />

On 19 January we went along to Eastbourne<br />

DGH for my 20 week scan, our only worry was<br />

making sure we did not find out what the sex<br />

of the baby was, we wanted it to be a surprise.<br />

The fact that this was a scan to check for<br />

anomalies hadn’t really registered, we just<br />

assumed everything would be ok.<br />

Our sonographer Bob started the scan and<br />

pretty quickly we sensed that something was<br />

not right. Bob was scanning the baby’s head<br />

and told us that he thought there was<br />

excessive fluid on the brain, our hearts sank.<br />

My stomach just became a knot and I was<br />

trying really hard to keep control and not just<br />

burst into tears. Then Bob scanned the heart<br />

and spent a long time over this particular area.<br />

My world just crumbled when he said that he<br />

was pretty certain there was an anomaly with<br />

the heart, and he went off to try and find a<br />

specialist who could confirm his findings.<br />

Unfortunately the doctor we needed to see was<br />

off that day, and we were advised that Miss<br />

Sinah could see us on the Friday at the<br />

Conquest in Hastings.<br />

We were taken to a side room where a lovely<br />

lady called Sabine spoke to us about what was<br />

happening, she did her best to try and reassure<br />

and comfort us, however I was<br />

hysterical at this point. I could not believe how<br />

things had changed in the space of 30<br />

minutes, and was struggling to comprehend<br />

what we had been told. Matt was being strong,<br />

telling me we must wait until we had seen the<br />

specialist at the Conquest, that we needed to<br />

fully understand what the problems were.<br />

We went back to Matt’s parents straight from<br />

the hospital and I was inconsolable, just crying<br />

and hugging my tummy. The evening passed in<br />

a daze as we told my parents and Matt’s sister<br />

the news. The next day we tried in vain to get<br />

a private appointment with a specialist, and<br />

were told that the earliest we could see<br />

someone was Friday. We therefore had to just<br />

wait. It was the longest 24 hours I had ever<br />

waited.<br />

We saw Miss Sinah at the Conquest on the<br />

Friday and she confirmed that there was<br />

definitely a problem with the baby’s heart, and<br />

we needed to be referred to the <strong>Evelina</strong><br />

Children’s Hospital ASAP. She said that there<br />

was a small amount of excess fluid on the<br />

brain - but she maintained throughout the<br />

pregnancy that this was not an issue. She told<br />

us the heart was the main area of concern,<br />

and an appointment was made for the<br />

Monday up at the <strong>Evelina</strong>.<br />

Matt and I set off for London from Eastbourne<br />

on Monday, with his parents who had come<br />

along to support us. My Mum also travelled to<br />

London and we arrived en mass for the first of<br />

many echocardiograms. The scan seemed to<br />

take forever, and the wait that we had to<br />

endure while the doctors studied the images<br />

seemed to take forever.<br />

Finally we all were taken into a small room<br />

where we all squeezed together on the sofa<br />

and 2 chairs, and Dr Sharland confirmed that<br />

our baby had a large Ventricular Septum Defect<br />

(VSD) and a Coarctation of the Aorta. She said<br />

that we were very lucky that the sonographer in<br />

Eastbourne had picked up on the anomalies,<br />

and more importantly, she said that they were<br />

treatable. At this point I felt a small amount of<br />

relief, but when Dr Sharland went on to explain<br />

that our baby would need open heart surgery<br />

within 48hrs of birth, followed by weeks in<br />

hospital, my world just fell apart. To make<br />

matters worse, we were also advised that it<br />

would be wise for me to have an<br />

amniocentesis to check that the heart problems<br />

were not linked to any other syndromes such<br />

as Downs, and an appointment was made for<br />

me that afternoon.<br />

As Matt walked me down the corridor to have<br />

the amnio test, I said to him that I wanted to<br />

find out what sex the baby was - I don’t know<br />

why but I just needed to know if it was a boy or<br />

a girl, I just couldn’t go on thinking of it as “it”<br />

when we knew it had these problems. Matt<br />

said whatever I wanted to do was ok with him,<br />

and we were told that we were having a girl.<br />

When we walked back into the room and told<br />

our parents that the baby was a little girl,<br />

everyone cried. At that point I just had this<br />

overwhelming urge to protect my little girl, and I<br />

just knew she would be a fighter, she would<br />

have to be.<br />

We left via the main entrance to St Thomas’s, all<br />

of us huddled together, upset and trying to<br />

digest the news. We were just outside the front<br />

of the hospital when Matt’s Mum collapsed<br />

clutching her head, crying out in pain. It was<br />

almost farcical how difficult it was to find a<br />

doctor at that point, a passer by suggested we<br />

called 999! Matt went into work mode, being a<br />

Policeman meant that he had undertaken first<br />

aid training, and he got his Mum into the<br />

recovery position while his Dad found someone<br />

who could help. Matt’s poor Mum ended up<br />

staying in St Thomas’s for nearly a week as the<br />

stress of the days events had triggered a<br />

cardiac surge – a massive rush of blood to the<br />

head which had made her collapse.<br />

Poor Matt was torn between worrying about<br />

me and the baby, and worrying about his Mum<br />

who he had to leave in London. Having<br />

travelled up together as a family, we had to go<br />

home alone leaving his Mum in St Thomas’s –<br />

miles away from home. Thankfully she made a<br />

full recovery.<br />

We were told it could take up to 3 weeks for the<br />

amnio test results to come back, and I have to<br />

say these were some of the darkest days of my<br />

life. I was signed off work and spent my days<br />

trying not to think about the test results, but in<br />

reality it was all I could think about. Matt<br />

banned me from using the internet as I was<br />

upsetting myself looking at various syndromes<br />

and diseases that we didn’t even know our little<br />

girl had, I was just trying to prepare myself for<br />

the worst. I kept thinking over and over in my<br />

head, why us?…was it my age (37), was it my<br />

lifestyle, working long hours, commuting to the<br />

city….was I to blame? The doctors had told us<br />

that it was just a case of Mother Nature getting<br />

it wrong, but I still felt responsible.<br />

Every time the baby kicked, every day that<br />

passed, I was more and more aware that this<br />

was my daughter inside me, a little person. At<br />

24 weeks pregnant, the thought of having to<br />

terminate the pregnancy was too horrific to<br />

contemplate. I began to try and switch off my<br />

feelings, not wanting to talk to my baby, afraid<br />

of connecting with her any more than I already<br />

had, as it would only make things harder if the<br />

amnio tests came back showing there was<br />

something wrong. Matt’s birthday came and<br />

went, we just were consumed with worry and<br />

every day I watched my phone like a hawk,<br />

praying for it to ring with news, but also<br />

dreading the call at the same time.<br />

We got the call we were waiting for on the way<br />

back from Brighton, we were in the waiting<br />

room at Lewes Station when Sabine called to<br />

say that the amnio came back negative, our<br />

baby was fine apart from the heart problems. It<br />

was rush hour and in the middle of the waiting<br />

room Matt and I sank to our knees and cried<br />

our eyes out on the sofa. It was the best news<br />

ever. We knew that we still had a tough journey<br />

ahead but this was such a positive moment<br />

and from that day onwards, we were<br />

determined to try and enjoy the pregnancy as<br />

much as possible.<br />

We began talking about names for the baby,<br />

and I had read in a magazine about an actress<br />

who had called her little girl Valentina. I thought<br />

it was beautiful. When I googled it, I discovered<br />

that it was Italian, and it meant strong and<br />

healthy. That seemed like a good omen. Then I<br />

had a scan on Valentines Day, and it was the<br />

first scan for weeks that we walked out of<br />

having been told no more bad news, our little<br />

girl was in fact doing well, growing nicely, and<br />

Miss Sinah was happy with her progress. This<br />

made the name all the more appropriate.<br />

I was scanned regularly both at the Conquest<br />

in Hastings and the <strong>Evelina</strong>, and each trip to<br />

London became a family outing, with Matt’s<br />

parents and my Mum or my Dad coming up to<br />

support us. Both hospitals got used to 5 of us<br />

turning up for the scans, they were very<br />

accommodating. We just had to be quiet!<br />

At around 32 weeks I was told that I should<br />

have an MRI of the baby so that they could see<br />

what was happening with the fluid on the<br />

brain. This had always been an area of slight<br />

confusion as Miss Sinah always maintained<br />

that this was not an issue, yes there was fluid<br />

there, but it had not changed during the<br />

pregnancy and it was only just over the<br />

“normal” level. The MRI was undertaken at St<br />

Thomas’s, and was a very uncomfortable<br />

procedure, lying on your back for a long period<br />

of time when heavily pregnant is not easy.<br />

There was another 2 week wait for results, and<br />

I was on the train home from work when I got<br />

a call telling me that there was a large amount<br />

of fluid on our little girl’s brain, but at this stage<br />

they couldn’t really say what this would mean.<br />

We would need to wait and see how she<br />

developed. I was devastated; I felt like the<br />

scan had been worthless as we were no<br />

further forward, if it was a case of wait and<br />

see, why go through all this pain and worry<br />

now, so far into my pregnancy. It just seemed<br />

unnecessary. Matt continued to be wonderfully<br />

positive, saying that until we actually knew<br />

what we were dealing with, he was not going<br />

to let the thought of “what ifs” get us down.<br />

There were days when his positivity used to<br />

irritate me, I could not understand how he<br />

could be so positive. It is only now that I realise<br />

he had to be positive, it was the only way to<br />

keep us both going, anything else and I would<br />

have sunk into the depths of despair. He really<br />

was my rock during those dark days.<br />

We were told that the baby would need to be<br />

delivered at St Thomas’s at 38 weeks, and we<br />

attended an antenatal day at St Thomas’s<br />

which was run by <strong>ECHO</strong>, which went over what<br />

we could expect on the day of our baby’s birth.<br />

It was here that we met other families all<br />

expecting babies who had cardiac problems. It<br />

was a humbling day, and as we left that room<br />

we realised that our baby’s’ problems were<br />

actually rather straight forward compared to<br />

what some of the other parents were facing.<br />

We had never heard of conditions such as<br />

Tetralogy of Fallot, or Hypo plastic Left <strong>Heart</strong>.<br />

We went home that night feeling very drained.<br />

We were now part of a world we had never<br />

really knew existed. Why would we know about<br />

these things? Looking around that room, at the<br />

mix of people, all of different ages, different<br />

races, I realised that no one is spared from<br />

Mother Nature.<br />

There were so many sad stories in that room,<br />

but also there was so much hope, and so<br />

many brave parents who were all facing very<br />

tough times ahead. It felt strangely comforting<br />

to know that we were not alone.<br />

My waters broke the morning I was due to call<br />

the hospital to find out if they had a bed for<br />

Valentina in neo-natal; luckily they were ready<br />

for us. We arrived at St Thomas’s about 4pm<br />

and Valentina arrived at 8.51am on Monday 23<br />

May weighing 3.53kg, after 2 epidurals and a<br />

spinal block for me, and 2 failed ventouse<br />

attempts for Valentina. Unfortunately Valentina<br />

had turned around and was back to back - she<br />

managed to get herself well and truly stuck.<br />

The ventouse cap ripped off a chunk of poor<br />

Valentina’s skin on her forehead and her scalp,<br />

and when they tried it again, more of the same<br />

happened. In the end she had to be delivered<br />

by a specialist using Kielland Forceps, and after<br />

all the trauma in theatre she was rushed away<br />

to Neo Natal where she was placed on a<br />

Prostin drip. This kept the ductus arteriosus<br />

blood vessel in her heart open, until such time<br />

that she had her surgery.<br />

Originally the surgery was planned to take<br />

place within 48 hours of Valentina’s birth, but<br />

due to the damage to her head from the<br />

delivery, the surgeons were not prepared to<br />

operate on her until her head had healed<br />

sufficiently. This was a massive blow to us, and<br />

it was awful to see the state poor Valentina<br />

was in. She was in tremendous discomfort from<br />

the delivery and was on round the clock pain<br />

relief. It was several days before I could even<br />

pick her up, and all I wanted to do was to hold<br />

my baby. This was so difficult for me, I was<br />

unable to try breastfeeding or enjoy skin-to-skin<br />

contact. Hugs with her were precious and very<br />

few and far between in those first few days.<br />

Valentina finally had her operation on June 1st,<br />

when she was 9 days old. We arrived on the<br />

ward at 6am so that we could bathe her and<br />

get some much-needed cuddles before taking<br />

her down to theatre. She had a slight<br />

temperature that morning but thankfully it was<br />

not high enough to stop the surgery. We got<br />

the call at 8.30, and I carried her down<br />

wrapped in her pink blanket. Matt and I placed<br />

her on the operating table and were there to<br />

give her a kiss before watching her go to sleep.<br />

Walking away and leaving her was the hardest<br />

thing we have ever had to do. We had made a<br />

pact not to cry in the theatre room and I was<br />

struggling to keep my part of the deal. We both<br />

made it out of the room and by the time we<br />

reached the lift we were both in pieces.<br />

The next 5 hours dragged and dragged. We<br />

walked along the Thames and on the way back<br />

we got the call from Mr Salir, Valentina’s<br />

surgeon. The operation had gone well, they<br />

had repaired the Coarctation and patched up<br />

the hole in her heart. We could go to PICU in an<br />

hour once she was out of recovery.<br />

Seeing Valentina in PICU was scary. We had<br />

been shown pictures beforehand so we had an<br />

idea what to expect, but it was still a sight I will<br />

never forget. She was surrounded by 6 or 7<br />

doctors and there were lines and drains<br />

coming out all over her. As we would come to<br />

learn, this is normal for PICU when a baby<br />

comes out of surgery, but at the time it was<br />

very scary.<br />

06 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 07<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> VALENTINA’S STORY<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> VALENTINA’S STORY<br />

Valentina had 3 days in PICU, her chest drain<br />

came out on day 2 but she did not come off the<br />

ventilator until day 3 as she had been a little<br />

slow at breathing for herself and the alarm on<br />

the ventilator kept going off, not very reassuring<br />

for anxious Mum and Dad at her<br />

bedside! By the end of day 3 she looked like a<br />

different baby, the only tubes remaining were<br />

her nasal gastric (NG) tube, and a line in her<br />

arm and groin. Picking her up was much<br />

easier now, I remember the first cuddle I had<br />

when she was still on the ventilator and I was<br />

just petrified I would pull one of the drains or<br />

that one of the lines would catch on something,<br />

it felt so awkward. Her surgeon checked on<br />

her and was pleased with her recovery, fingers<br />

crossed she would be back on the ward the<br />

next day.<br />

Thankfully Valentina came out of PICU and<br />

back up to Savannah on Saturday 4th June,<br />

she looked so much better now the bloating<br />

from the ventilator had subsided. That night<br />

she gave us a scare, going blue and dropping<br />

her sats to 80. She was given oxygen and<br />

morphine as the nurses suspected she was in<br />

pain following the operation, and they<br />

managed to find her a baby airbed to make<br />

her extra comfortable. It definitely helped, and<br />

to this day we say she is like the Princess and<br />

the Pea, she definitely likes a comfortable<br />

bed!!!<br />

In total Valentina spent 10 days on Savannah<br />

Ward following her release from PICU. The<br />

main issues for us were feeding and weight<br />

gain. She was too small and weak to<br />

breastfeed, although thankfully I was<br />

successfully expressing milk which was mainly<br />

being fed via the NG tube. She just tired so<br />

easily when we tried to bottle-feed her, and we<br />

could not take her home until a better feeding<br />

routine had been established. Over the 10 days<br />

in Savannah the grandparents were finally able<br />

to cuddle their granddaughter, she had been in<br />

such a state following her birth that Mum and<br />

Dad hardly had any cuddles, never mind the<br />

rest of the family. Needless to say there were<br />

lots of happy Grandparents once they had all<br />

had a cuddle.<br />

During this time Valentina was also seen and<br />

tested by the genetics department, as there<br />

were concerns that her heart problems could<br />

be genetic; thankfully her tests came back<br />

showing she was a normal female. We also<br />

saw a neurologist who suggested an MRI scan<br />

could be beneficial in order to establish exactly<br />

what was happening with the fluid on her<br />

brain. The MRI attempt had to be aborted, as<br />

Valentina would not lie still enough for the scan<br />

to be effective. This is something that will need<br />

to be done when she is older, at around 2<br />

years old, so that the neurologists can get a<br />

good understanding of what is going on in her<br />

brain. In the meantime we have to wait and<br />

see how her development progresses. The<br />

early signs were good, but we were told it was<br />

too soon to know what impact the surgery and<br />

the fluid on the brain would have on our<br />

darling girl.<br />

We were discharged from <strong>Evelina</strong> on my<br />

birthday, 13 June, to the Eastbourne District<br />

General Hospital (DGH). I was scared to leave<br />

the cocoon of the <strong>Evelina</strong> with Valentina,<br />

uncertain of what the DGH would be like<br />

compared to the top class care Valentina had<br />

received at the <strong>Evelina</strong>. We had been lucky<br />

enough to stay at the wonderful, amazing<br />

Ronald MacDonald house for the entire length<br />

of our stay at <strong>Evelina</strong>; I can honestly say I do<br />

not know what we would have done or how<br />

we would have coped without our room there.<br />

The nurses who met us at Eastbourne could not<br />

have been more welcoming, they very kindly<br />

gave Valentina her own room which we very<br />

quickly made our own. I slept every night at the<br />

hospital, doing the feeds round the clock, with<br />

the nurses very kindly doing the 3am feed each<br />

night so that I could get some sleep. Matt also<br />

did a fair share of night shifts during the 3<br />

weeks that Valentina was in Eastbourne, he<br />

was so hands on and really wanted to bond<br />

with Valentina, which was amazing.<br />

We had to be shown how to feed Valentina<br />

using the NG tube as her weight gain was<br />

painfully slow, and the bottle feeds were still<br />

slow progress. After 3 weeks in Eastbourne we<br />

were finally able to take Valentina home, she<br />

still had the NG tube in but under the watchful<br />

eye of the dietician and the Speech and<br />

Language Therapist, we were allowed to take<br />

her home as long as she kept improving with<br />

her feeding. Finally walking into our house, over<br />

5 weeks after her birth, was a massive<br />

milestone for us. Over the next few months,<br />

Valentina continued to put on weight and her<br />

initial cardiac review back at <strong>Evelina</strong> was good.<br />

We also saw the Neurologist in September and<br />

he advised us that she was displaying all the<br />

right signs for a baby of her age.<br />

We had grown used to our baby’s foibles, the<br />

way she used to sleep mid feed was the norm<br />

for us, so was the length of time it used to take<br />

to feed her – up to an hour for 3oz of milk. She<br />

had always been like this so we never thought<br />

much of it. Little did we know that around<br />

where the patch had been placed over the hole<br />

in her heart, her little heart had started to grow<br />

excess muscle and scar tissue, which was now<br />

blocking her aortic valve. We attended a routine<br />

check up in October, making the family trek up<br />

to <strong>Evelina</strong>, all of us breezing in thinking<br />

everything was going to be ok again, only to be<br />

left devastated by the news that she would<br />

need another big operation, sooner rather than<br />

later, to remove the excess tissue.<br />

That night, I went in to check on Valentina and<br />

looking at her sleeping, so peacefully and<br />

unaware of what was coming, just broke my<br />

heart. I sank to my knees by her cot and<br />

sobbed my heart out. I just could not face the<br />

prospect of her undergoing another operation,<br />

and I could hardly bear to think about all the<br />

stress and heartache that went along with it. I<br />

practically kept Valentina under house arrest for<br />

the few weeks leading up to her operation, not<br />

wanting to risk her picking up any bugs that<br />

might delay proceedings.<br />

We arrived back at the <strong>Evelina</strong> on 14 November,<br />

Valentina’s required an Echo before her<br />

surgery, the plan was to do get this done<br />

without sedation, however true to form our little<br />

monkey would not lie still, and her cardiologist<br />

Aaron Bell advised us that we would have to<br />

return the next day for the Echo to be done<br />

under sedation. We stayed the night in Gassiot<br />

house, very kindly provided for us by <strong>ECHO</strong>,<br />

and Valentina’s Echo was carried out without<br />

any problems the next morning, confirming the<br />

original diagnosis in October. We met with Mr<br />

Salir, Valentina’s surgeon, and signed the<br />

necessary consent forms, and were advised<br />

Valentina was first on the operating schedule<br />

for Wednesday; hopefully she would go down<br />

to theatre at around 8am, which we were<br />

pleased about as we just wanted it to be over<br />

and done with so we could focus on her<br />

recovery.<br />

I stayed with Valentina on the ward that night,<br />

hardly getting a wink of sleep in between the<br />

night feeds which she still needed. We met her<br />

anaesthetist at 7.30am and ran through what<br />

was going to happen, bathed her in the<br />

antiseptic wash and dressed her in her theatre<br />

gown. The walk down to theatre is just the<br />

longest walk, and I hate every step. Matt and I<br />

showered her with kisses all the way to theatre,<br />

and I held her while she was given gas and air<br />

to make her sleepy. Typically her cannula had<br />

not worked and she fought off the gas and air,<br />

holding her breath and trying to wriggle out of<br />

the mask, being the stubborn little fighter she<br />

is. I was proud of her efforts! Walking away<br />

from her again, leaving her in that room, took<br />

super human effort. I could barely hold it<br />

together. Matt propped me up as always,<br />

telling me she was going to be fine, this was<br />

what she needed to be healthy, and we had to<br />

be strong for her. Of course he was right.<br />

We got the call from Mr Salir at 12.15 to say the<br />

surgery had gone well and we could come to<br />

PICU in an hour to see her. On arrival in PICU,<br />

we saw a group of doctor’s frantically working<br />

on Valentina, and I felt a moment of pure<br />

panic. We later learned that they were trying to<br />

regulate Valentina’s heart rate as it was<br />

beating too fast, and her blood pressure was<br />

very low. Valentina was dressed in a white<br />

“cool suit” to reduce her temperate and slow<br />

down her heart rate, she had to have a blood<br />

transfusion as she had lost a lot of blood out of<br />

her chest drain. This all seemed really bad to<br />

us, but thankfully Aaron Bell was close by and<br />

re-assured us that this was all normal and we<br />

should not worry, she was going to be ok.<br />

We arrived back in PICU the next day, 17th<br />

November, and learned that her blood test<br />

results showed a big improvement compared<br />

to the day before, the ventilator had been<br />

turned down so that Valentina was doing most<br />

of the breathing herself, and she was now on a<br />

dopamine drip to assist with her low blood<br />

pressure. Her chest drain was taken out and<br />

she barely flinched when it was done, it was<br />

incredible. We were so proud of her.<br />

Over the next 24 hours her blood pressure<br />

came back to normal and her heart started to<br />

function more effectively, which was great<br />

progress. She needed another blood<br />

transfusion as her little body was working so<br />

hard to mend itself and it just couldn’t make<br />

enough new red blood cells. Throughout this<br />

time Valentina showed what a tough little<br />

fighter she is, getting so cross with the doctors<br />

when they moved her to try and x-ray her chest<br />

that her blood pressure shot up, and she<br />

needed morphine to calm her down. That’s our<br />

girl!<br />

Valentina came off the ventilator on 18th<br />

November, and having been on rations of milk,<br />

she desperately wanted more milk which she<br />

was not allowed to have. We had not weaned<br />

her at this point, so she had a very rapid<br />

introduction to solids that day. She either ate<br />

the apple puree or went hungry….no surprises<br />

which option she went for. It wasn’t quite the<br />

introduction to food that I had planned, but<br />

there you go! She had a bit if a temperature<br />

which had been yo-yoing up and down over<br />

the last 24 hours, and her blood infection<br />

markers were up which was not a good sign.<br />

Since she had been weaned off of the<br />

morphine she had been much more awake<br />

and fidgety, hence the decision to take her off<br />

of the ventilator. By the 19th November, all her<br />

long lines had been removed, but due to her<br />

temperature she was now on antibiotics.<br />

Poor Valentina now had some fluid on her<br />

chest, and at this point we started to get quite<br />

concerned. She had definitely taken a turn for<br />

the worse, she had a developed a nasty chest<br />

infection and was really quite poorly. She just<br />

lay there, not moving, her eyes were sunken<br />

and hollow. She looked worse now than when<br />

she did after her operation. We were reassured<br />

that she would start to make some<br />

improvement once the anti-biotics kicked in. We<br />

were worried sick, she looked dreadful. She<br />

was so listless and unresponsive, it was a<br />

really scary 24 hours for us. Thankfully the<br />

antibiotics kicked in and on the Sunday<br />

evening, 20th November, we left PICU and took<br />

Valentina up to Savannah. That first night back<br />

on the ward was one I will always remember.<br />

My little girl, who is happy to be cuddled by<br />

anyone and everyone, who has a strong<br />

independent streak and likes her own time,<br />

was suddenly really really clingy. She had this<br />

panicked look on her face whenever she woke<br />

up and she wanted me there next to her all the<br />

time. I had never known her to be like this<br />

before, she just looked really scared. I have<br />

never felt the bond between us more strongly<br />

than I did that night, bless her heart, she just<br />

wanted her Mummy.<br />

The next day we got our first smile from her<br />

since Wednesday, 5 days prior. It was a very<br />

welcome sight. Valentina was now on betablockers<br />

to help her heart function properly,<br />

and we were told she could be on these<br />

indefinitely, it all depended how her heart<br />

responded following the surgery. Due to the<br />

obstruction in her heart, the bottom of her heart<br />

had been working extra hard to pump the<br />

blood through to the top chamber, and it had<br />

become really big and muscly. The betablockers<br />

were slowing down her heart, making<br />

it fill up more effectively, and this would in time<br />

shrink the heart back down to the appropriate<br />

size. Now all we had to do was wait and see<br />

how quickly it would get back to normal.<br />

During our stay at <strong>Evelina</strong> the doctors had also<br />

picked up on what appeared to be a squint in<br />

her right eye. In addition to this she had<br />

developed stridor breathing, which meant she<br />

really sucked in her throat when she took a<br />

breath at times, and snored terribly most of the<br />

time. In addition to all this, the wounds on her<br />

head that were inflicted during her delivery had<br />

still not healed, and we were finally referred to<br />

a dermatologist, and an ENT specialist for her<br />

breathing, and also to the eye clinic.<br />

Thankfully we have since been discharged from<br />

all 3 clinics, after several trips up to London it<br />

has been confirmed that she does not have a<br />

squint, her vision is 20/20. ENT are not<br />

concerned about the noisy breathing. She has<br />

a floppy windpipe, which is quite possibly a<br />

result of being intubated, and this is a condition<br />

that she should just grow out of. The wounds<br />

on her head are also now much better, she<br />

was prescribed a powerful steroid cream from<br />

the dermatologist, who actually asked for<br />

pictures of Valentina at birth to use in teaching<br />

cases, as her injuries were so bad.<br />

We took Valentina home on Thursday 24<br />

November. Once the antibiotics kicked in, the<br />

change in Valentina was remarkable; we<br />

definitely had our little girl back.<br />

The relief we felt was palpable when we got<br />

her home and tucked up into her cot that night.<br />

It was another difficult phase of her life over<br />

with. Now we need to wait and see how the<br />

beta-blockers work. Her check ups in<br />

December and April were very promising, the<br />

heart muscle is getting smaller which is great<br />

news. We felt sick with worry at these<br />

appointments, terrified that we would get the<br />

news that the blockage had come back, and I<br />

think we will probably feel that way at every<br />

check up; maybe it will get easier as time goes<br />

by and her heart continues to remain healthy.<br />

The changes in Valentina since her last<br />

operation are so noticeable. She is a better<br />

colour, peachy in fact! She feeds so much<br />

faster, taking a bottle in minutes rather than an<br />

hour. She is so much more responsive and<br />

interactive. We had become so used to how<br />

she used to be and accepted this as the norm,<br />

it is only when we look back now that we<br />

realise how poorly she was.<br />

Valentina remains under the care of the<br />

neurologist, and as far as her development is<br />

concerned, we have to watch and see. She<br />

celebrated her first birthday on 23 May, and<br />

she is still not sitting up unaided yet. We do not<br />

know at this point if this is related to the fluid on<br />

the brain, or if she is simply just behind with<br />

her development due to the operations and the<br />

time she spent recovering. The neurologist<br />

wants her to have an MRI scan when she is 2<br />

so that they can determine whether there has<br />

been any neurological impact as a result of her<br />

surgeries in addition to the matter of the fluid<br />

on her brain. She is very floppy which is a<br />

possible side affect of the beta-blockers, and<br />

she is also a rather skinny little rabbit, with a<br />

small appetite, so building her strength up and<br />

fattening her up is no easy task. She is to<br />

receive some physiotherapy soon in the hope<br />

that this will assist her sitting up. She is trying to<br />

crawl which is interesting, and she really wants<br />

to sit up she just can’t seem to get her balance<br />

and stay rigid enough to do so. In the<br />

meantime we are enjoying having her as a<br />

baby for that bit longer.<br />

Our darling Valentina is without doubt the<br />

happiest, kindest, most loving and trusting<br />

baby you could ever meet. Everyone who<br />

meets her falls in love with her. We will never<br />

ever be able to express to her how much we<br />

love her and how proud we are of her after all<br />

she has gone through. She has inspired us to<br />

be strong, she has made us laugh, cry, and<br />

worry, and we would do anything for her. She<br />

is the most important thing in our lives and we<br />

cannot wait to watch her grow up into a big<br />

strong healthy girl. Lucy Crane<br />

08 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 09<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> MILESTONES<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> HOSPITAL NEWS<br />

This is your opportunity to share<br />

your happy events and<br />

children's milestones with us<br />

all. Thank you to all of you who<br />

sent in such lovely photos and<br />

wonderful news.<br />

Rachel Riley sent this beautiful photo of<br />

her daughter Alexandra and said: "I<br />

wanted to share with everyone that my<br />

daughter Alexandra Dyer turned one on<br />

13th June.<br />

I just wanted to say "Happy first birthday<br />

to our superstar. This time last year we<br />

never imagined reaching this milestone.<br />

She is so brave and a true blessing. You<br />

make us smile every day."<br />

Love Mummy, Daddy, Nickyle & Kyra<br />

xxx<br />

Neil Loughnane sent this fantastic photo<br />

of his sons Thomas and Connor.<br />

Thomas (Captain Hook) turned 5 on 13th<br />

April and Connor (Peter Pan) celebrated<br />

his third birthday on 15th June.<br />

Thomas and Connor<br />

Nick and Di de Naeyer's children Jack<br />

and Alice went to their prom and Alice<br />

wrote: "For our prom we got a coach<br />

from our school in Totteridge, to Tower<br />

Pier by the Tower of London. We got on<br />

the boat there for our prom and during<br />

our time on the boat it travelled down<br />

the Thames, with Jack pointing out all<br />

the attractions as we went past them. It<br />

was such an amazing prom everyone<br />

enjoyed it so much, I would love to do it<br />

again." You both look fantastic!<br />

Lucy and Paul Salmon's son Ashton<br />

celebrated his third birthday on April<br />

9th. He has also taken his first steps,<br />

and grandad, Keith had his camera<br />

ready! Well done Ashton!<br />

This is a photo of <strong>ECHO</strong> member and<br />

volunteer Julie Jackson's son Daniel at<br />

his 10th birthday on Sunday 27th May.<br />

To celebrate his birthday he had a<br />

football party in the sunshine and then<br />

party food with his friends. Sounds<br />

great fun Daniel!<br />

Kathy Turner sent this lovely<br />

photo of her daughter Amy<br />

in her first theatre<br />

performance, "The<br />

Wizard of Oz". She<br />

was a robin!<br />

Jessica<br />

Cattermole<br />

Alice and Jack<br />

Ashton<br />

Daniel<br />

Amy<br />

Alexandra<br />

SAFE AND SUSTAINABLE – THE DECISION IS MADE<br />

As most of you will have already seen and<br />

heard in the news recently, the Joint Committee<br />

of Primary Care Trusts (JCPCT) met in public on<br />

the 4th July and made their decision on the<br />

future of children's cardiac surgery we have all<br />

been waiting for. This means that the number<br />

of hospitals which can provide heart surgery for<br />

children will be reduced from the current 11 to<br />

7. The units which will retain their surgical<br />

status are <strong>Evelina</strong> <strong>Children's</strong> Hospital, Great<br />

Ormond Street, Southampton, Bristol,<br />

Birmingham, Liverpool Alder Hey, and Freeman<br />

Hospital in Newcastle.<br />

The changes will have to be implemented by<br />

2014, but at this time it is still unclear how soon<br />

any of us will notice any difference (including to<br />

those hospitals who will eventually be treating<br />

more patients). <strong>ECHO</strong> has been closely involved<br />

in the Safe and Sustainable process for many<br />

years and has fully supported the drive to<br />

reduce the number of units, thereby increasing<br />

the size of the remaining hospitals undertaking<br />

heart surgery, which we firmly believe will result<br />

in an even better standard of care and safety<br />

for all heart-children in the country, so we are<br />

delighted that this pivotal decision has finally<br />

been taken. We hope to be working closely<br />

with the management team at the <strong>Evelina</strong> to<br />

influence the work they undertake to expand<br />

the cardiac unit there and also with the<br />

Specialised Commissioning Group for London<br />

and the South East to establish a seamless<br />

“<strong>Children's</strong> Cardiac Network”, which will<br />

encompass the <strong>Evelina</strong>'s Outreach Clinics and<br />

which will be key in providing care for children<br />

with heart conditions close to their home.<br />

The morning after the decision, we shared with<br />

you by email a statement from Dr Owen Miller,<br />

Head of Service/Clinical Lead for Paediatric<br />

Cardiology at the <strong>Evelina</strong>. One of the key<br />

messages from Dr Miller was “We look forward<br />

to working with our network partners to ensure<br />

a smooth transition to new ways of working”.<br />

We anticipate that it will take some time to fully<br />

understand the practical impact on us all. At<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong>, we recognise that many of you will have<br />

questions and in this section of the <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

newsletter, we will try to answer your questions<br />

as much as we can over the coming months.<br />

Here are a few we have already been asked:<br />

Will appointments at outreach clinics change<br />

as a result of this decision? Outreach clinics<br />

will form a key part of the service offered to<br />

support patients whose care is under the<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong>, and the aim will be to form a<br />

“Children’s Cardiac Network” amongst the<br />

Outreach Clinics. Dr Miller explained in his<br />

statement, “By working closely with local<br />

hospitals to strengthen clinical networks, we<br />

will also ensure [children and young people]<br />

receive the best possible care close to home.”<br />

We have always been patients at the <strong>Evelina</strong>;<br />

does that mean we always will be? We live in<br />

north London? This will not change. So-called<br />

referral patterns may change for new patients<br />

in the future but that has yet to be determined.<br />

How will the <strong>Evelina</strong> cope with the increase<br />

in patient numbers? The <strong>Evelina</strong> already has<br />

robust plans to expand the Cardiac unit with<br />

full backing from the Trust board. We will be<br />

consulted throughout to ensure that we have<br />

plenty of input and influence so we will<br />

continue to push for sufficient, good quality<br />

parent/family accommodation as well as all<br />

the other services and support which are<br />

necessary when one's child in hospital. All the<br />

other units in the country which have been<br />

designated as surgical centres will have had to<br />

make a firm commitment to expansion too.<br />

Also, it must be remembered that the changes<br />

won't occur for at least 2 years, and there's lots<br />

of work to be done in the meantime to ensure<br />

a smooth transition and implementation.<br />

How will this decision affect patient choice?<br />

Patient choice remains a key component of the<br />

NHS and the JCPCT decision should not affect<br />

this important principle. Families and patients<br />

will continue to have a say in deciding which<br />

unit treats their child. The hope is that by<br />

reducing the number of surgical centres and<br />

concentrating skills and expertise, all the<br />

hospitals providing children’s cardiac surgery in<br />

this country will be world-class.<br />

When will the <strong>Evelina</strong> start taking the patients<br />

from the other hospitals? It is possible that<br />

patient flow into the <strong>Evelina</strong> may increase<br />

gradually and slowly at first over the coming<br />

months as some families choose to have their<br />

child treated at the <strong>Evelina</strong> even if other units<br />

continue to offer cardiac surgery during the<br />

implementation period. This will increase as<br />

surgical services begin to wind down in those<br />

units who will ultimately lose their surgical<br />

designation. The changes will have to be<br />

complete by April 2014.<br />

If you have any questions, please send them to<br />

becky@echo-evelina.org.uk and we will do<br />

our utmost to clarify any areas of concern as<br />

part of our regular liaison meetings with the<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong>.<br />

Holly Richardson aged 7, raised a fantastic £1,000 for the <strong>Evelina</strong>. Her mum<br />

Frances Richardson said: "Holly raised the money by doing a sponsored swim at<br />

Horsted Health Spa in Uckfield. She asked three of her friends to help her and together<br />

they swam 6280m. She donated the money to the <strong>Evelina</strong> as she wanted to raise money for<br />

children with poorly hearts like her brother Sam. We took Holly up to the <strong>Evelina</strong> in February so that she<br />

could present Dr Owen Miller with the cheque. All of Holly's family and friends are very proud of her for<br />

raising such a fantastic amount." Well done Holly!<br />

THANK YOU<br />

Dr Owen Miller<br />

FRACP, FCSANZ, FRCPCH<br />

We are delighted to<br />

welcome Dr. Owen Miller as<br />

Patron of our charity. Dr<br />

Miller took over from<br />

Professor Shakeel Qureshi<br />

as Head of Service and<br />

Clinical Lead for<br />

Paediatric Cardiology at<br />

the <strong>Evelina</strong> earlier this<br />

year.<br />

Dr Owen Miller attended the University of<br />

Newcastle, NSW in Australia and trained in<br />

Paediatrics at the Children’s Hospital in<br />

Sydney.<br />

After completing training in General<br />

Paediatrics, he went on to complete specialist<br />

training in Paediatric Intensive Care and then<br />

Paediatric Cardiology. His postgraduate<br />

training was in Sydney, Zurich and London.<br />

His first consultant post in 1993 was to the<br />

Children’s Hospital, Sydney, followed by<br />

further training at Great Ormond Street,<br />

returning to Sydney Children’s Hospital as a<br />

Consultant in Paediatric and Fetal Cardiology<br />

in 2000.<br />

In 2005, Dr Miller was appointed to the<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> as a Consultant in Paediatric and Fetal<br />

Cardiology moving to the current <strong>Evelina</strong><br />

Children’s Hospital when it opened in 2005.<br />

Dr Miller’s main clinical interests are<br />

advanced cardiac imaging, fetal cardiology<br />

and cardio-pulmonary exercise testing. In<br />

<strong>2012</strong> he was appointed as Head of Service<br />

for Paediatric and Fetal Cardiology.<br />

Dr Miller is married with three children and<br />

when not at work is passionate about sailing<br />

and sailing boats.<br />

We are looking forward to working closely<br />

with Dr Miller during this time of change and<br />

development in the world of Paediatric<br />

Cardiology and to continuing the excellent<br />

regular meetings which have become a vital<br />

component in the liaison and collaboration<br />

between the hospital and <strong>ECHO</strong>.<br />

Owen, Sam and Holly<br />

10 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 11<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> HOSPITAL NEWS<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> HOSPITAL NEWS<br />

When I was pregnant with my eldest daughter<br />

Melissa in 1994, I couldn’t wait to attend the<br />

course of antenatal classes provided by the<br />

hospital where she was going to be born. In fact<br />

I was SO keen that I even went to another set of<br />

classes given by the midwives at my GP practice.<br />

It was such an exciting time – the anticipation of<br />

entering the world of motherhood, making new<br />

friends at the antenatal classes and learning all<br />

the tools I would need to get my husband and I<br />

through the early days and weeks with our new<br />

baby. To this day, I still keep in contact with some<br />

of the friends I made and we look back with<br />

nostalgia at those heady days of planning,<br />

reading “baby manuals”, buying baby clothes<br />

and nursery furniture.<br />

When I became pregnant for the second time,<br />

five years later, I thought I’d be doing it all again<br />

(although with the experience I’d already gained,<br />

I would was looking forward to sharing my<br />

knowledge as an “old hand”!). And then the<br />

bombshell dropped… at my 20 week scan it was<br />

discovered that my baby had a serious and<br />

complex heart condition. The world as we knew<br />

it shifted on its axis and everything changed. We<br />

were no longer able to look forward with the<br />

same excitement to our baby’s birth, and I was<br />

definitely not going to go to a series of antenatal<br />

classes and sit alongside mums who nothing<br />

else to concern them apart from what sex their<br />

baby was and what the latest buggy to buy was!<br />

Every year, 5000 – 6000 babies are born in the<br />

UK with a heart condition. On average, up to<br />

35% of those babies will have been diagnosed<br />

after a 20 week anomaly scan, and the<br />

remainder will be diagnosed fairly soon after<br />

birth, often in emergency circumstances. The fetal<br />

cardiology service at <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s Hospital is<br />

one of the largest in the UK and internationally,<br />

specialising in the diagnosis and management of<br />

congenital heart disease before birth. This<br />

includes structural heart defects, functional<br />

abnormalities of the heart and rhythm<br />

disturbances. The unit receives referrals from a<br />

wide area, seeing patients from 50-60 different<br />

obstetric units. Approximately 2000 pregnant<br />

women are scanned each year and between 150<br />

– 200 cases of fetal cardiac abnormalities are<br />

diagnosed and managed per annum.<br />

Six years ago we conceived the idea of holding a<br />

special Antenatal Education Day with the aim of<br />

providing a sort of one-stop condensed class for<br />

parents who were expecting a “heart-baby” and<br />

working in collaboration with Fetal Cardiology<br />

and the Thames/Tower Team Specialist Midwives,<br />

the first “<strong>ECHO</strong> Antenatal Education Day” was<br />

held. <strong>ECHO</strong> sponsored the day by funding the<br />

midwives to facilitate the class and also provided<br />

lunch and refreshments throughout the day. I<br />

went along to the inaugural class and sat in to<br />

observe how it worked. I also did a short talk to<br />

the parents at the end of the afternoon session<br />

about my experiences with my own heart-baby<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> ANTENATAL CLASSES AT ST THOMAS’<br />

SUPPORTING PARENTS THROUGH AN ANTENATAL DIAGNOSIS<br />

as well as informing them about the support and<br />

services <strong>ECHO</strong> provides. We were all a little<br />

unsure of how these classes would be received<br />

by parents… would they be well attended; would<br />

parents find them useful; would the parents feel<br />

more positive about their baby’s impending birth<br />

if they went to one of the classes?<br />

To this day, I can still remember how positive that<br />

first class felt to observe. It was clear that the<br />

parents there were really going to benefit from<br />

the expert guidance the midwives were able to<br />

give - just because they were expecting a baby<br />

with a heart problem didn’t mean that they<br />

should not be prepared properly for the baby’s<br />

birth, to be informed about the benefits of and<br />

techniques for breastfeeding, to understand the<br />

different stages of labour and birth or how pain<br />

relief would be able to help them through it if<br />

they so chose. However, without doubt, the most<br />

impact came from seeing the parents sit<br />

together, getting comfort from knowing that they<br />

weren’t going through the worry and fear about<br />

their baby’s future alone and that others had<br />

exactly the same emotions as them. Not only<br />

that, but being able to listen to an experienced<br />

parent speak about actually having had a baby<br />

with a heart condition (or “one I made earlier” as<br />

I jokingly referred to the photos I showed them of<br />

my daughter Cissy) quite clearly made a big<br />

difference to them all.<br />

Manjit Randhawa, Matron and Lead Midwife for<br />

the Thames/Tower Team at St Thomas’ was one<br />

of the key people responsible for the introduction<br />

of the classes and says that the midwifes have<br />

always enjoyed facilitating the classes as they<br />

really know it makes a difference to the patients’<br />

journey and experience - there is always at least<br />

one parent who says, “We thought we were the<br />

only ones and felt so alone”. She continues, “The<br />

feedback has been always been consistent in<br />

that parents-to-be find the day very useful and<br />

the most enjoyable parts of the day are without<br />

doubt the tour of the neonatal unit and listening<br />

and talking to the <strong>ECHO</strong> representative”.<br />

From the positive feedback we had we knew the<br />

classes had to become a regular feature and<br />

over the past six years the <strong>ECHO</strong> Antenatal days<br />

have become an integral part of the “care<br />

pathway” which parents who are expecting a<br />

baby with a heart condition can expect, and have<br />

become a key part of the support which the<br />

hospital and <strong>ECHO</strong> offers. We are able to work<br />

with the Fetal Cardiology department to provide<br />

support and friendship from the earliest days<br />

after diagnosis for those parents who want it.<br />

Sherrida Rollings, Nurse Counsellor in the Fetal<br />

Cardiology Dept at the <strong>Evelina</strong> says “<strong>ECHO</strong> offers<br />

invaluable support and information to parents<br />

who have just been told that their unborn baby<br />

has a heart problem. This is two-fold, with a<br />

comprehensive rota, where specially trained<br />

volunteers offer telephone and email support. All<br />

newly diagnosed parents can contact someone<br />

who knows what they are going through. The<br />

specialist antenatal classes sponsored by <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

have also been a huge success, and are<br />

extremely well evaluated. Not only do they<br />

provide invaluable emotional support and<br />

practical information, but parents are also able to<br />

see the birth centre where their baby will be<br />

born, and the neonatal unit where the baby will<br />

be taken immediately after the delivery. Parents<br />

also meet others at a similar stage of pregnancy,<br />

and many will keep in contact and meet up<br />

again after their babies are born. These classes<br />

are open to all who are seen here with an<br />

antenatal diagnosis, regardless of where they will<br />

eventually deliver the baby.Both of these<br />

resources can make a real difference in helping<br />

parents come to terms with the often devastating<br />

diagnosis of congenital heart disease.”<br />

We estimate that up to six hundred parents have<br />

attended an <strong>ECHO</strong> Antenatal Day over the past<br />

few years and it is very gratifying to know that<br />

they have been of real benefit, not only in<br />

preparing parents for their baby’s birth and,<br />

possibly, for surgery or intervention very shortly<br />

after baby’s arrival but also that many great<br />

friendships have begun at the classes, allowing<br />

parents to support each other through the<br />

inevitable ups and downs to come once their<br />

baby arrives. <strong>ECHO</strong> member Caroline Jeal<br />

remembers “My husband and I attended the<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> Antenatal day a couple of months before<br />

our daughter Keira was born with TGA. We<br />

arrived there feeling quite nervous and<br />

apprehensive but we immediately felt at ease<br />

when we got chatting to other parents and<br />

realised we weren't alone. The midwives that ran<br />

the group were so nice and very informative. This<br />

was invaluable to us and we came away feeling<br />

much more positive about the challenges ahead.<br />

We are still in touch with other parents we met<br />

that day and over the past couple of months our<br />

children have all turned 3. We meet up regularly<br />

and the children now look forward to seeing<br />

each other as much as us parents do! It's great<br />

to see them running around together, knowing<br />

they have something very special in common. It's<br />

thanks to <strong>ECHO</strong> running these antenatal days<br />

that we all got to meet each other in the first<br />

place.<br />

Dr Gurleen Sharland, Consultant Fetal<br />

Cardiologist at the <strong>Evelina</strong> says “As a fetal<br />

cardiologist I often have to give bad news to<br />

parents about their baby’s heart. They are<br />

naturally devastated to hear that their baby has a<br />

heart problem and may find it difficult to accept<br />

or come to terms with this. Whilst we try and be<br />

sensitive and supportive, there is no doubt in my<br />

mind that the support and contact of members of<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> is invaluable to parents at what can be an<br />

extremely emotional and distressing time and to<br />

be able to give them the opportunity to attend an<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> Antenatal Day, to reinforce that they are<br />

not alone and that other parents are going<br />

through a similar situation can provide<br />

tremendous encouragement and support. I<br />

regard the work of <strong>ECHO</strong> as a very important<br />

component of our prenatal cardiology service and<br />

all parents should have the opportunity to access<br />

this type of support when a prenatal diagnosis<br />

has been made”.<br />

Joanna Blewett volunteers to attend the Antenatal<br />

days as an <strong>ECHO</strong> parent rep to share her<br />

experiences of having a heart baby – “Although it<br />

has been 3 years since my husband and I<br />

attended the <strong>ECHO</strong> Antenatal day we can still<br />

remember it as though it were yesterday. We<br />

were very anxious and felt like the only expectant<br />

parents to be having a heart child. The day was<br />

extremely informative, hosted by the Tower<br />

midwife team with a heart parent joining at the<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> member, Maxine<br />

Reece tragically<br />

passed away in April<br />

this year. Her sister<br />

Gemma has written<br />

this lovely piece<br />

about Maxine. Trish<br />

Kenney and Eric<br />

Rosenthal also<br />

wanted to share<br />

their memories of<br />

Maxine. Maxine’s<br />

family and friends<br />

generously donated the amazing sum of<br />

£2303 raised in memory of her, to be divided<br />

between <strong>ECHO</strong> and the <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong><br />

Fund<br />

Maxine Reece<br />

When Maxine was born in 1981 with complex,<br />

inoperable congenital heart disease and doctors<br />

told my parents that the outlook for their new<br />

baby was not good, they could not have dared<br />

to imagine the beautiful, successful and<br />

independent woman their daughter was to<br />

become.<br />

To deny that it was a rocky road for my sister<br />

would be to be untruthful. There were very<br />

difficult times for us as a family, and many<br />

challenges for her to overcome. Learning to live<br />

with a life-threatening condition is the biggest<br />

challenge of all. Yet Maxine, throughout the<br />

course of her 30 years, showed that a sense of<br />

humour, stoic determination and most of all, a<br />

true love of life can be invaluable tools in<br />

negotiating a path through the years.<br />

At Guy’s Hospital as a teenager, she was a<br />

smiling face on the paediatric ward and was<br />

always visiting the babies to cheer her up during<br />

long, painful stays. Her love of the little ones<br />

developed into a career, when Maxine decided<br />

to pursue childcare after leaving school. She<br />

worked at children’s clubs and nurseries and<br />

was fiercely proud of her commitment to<br />

earning a living. It is testament to her work ethic<br />

that, on receiving the doctor’s prognosis during<br />

her final hospital stay, Maxine’s first words were:<br />

end to tell you their story. It also gave us the<br />

opportunity to meet with other parents in the<br />

same situation as ourselves and made us feel<br />

less isolated, less "different". This is why I<br />

volunteered to take part in the days; to provide a<br />

small insight into the life of a heart parent, to<br />

share our experience and to show that there is<br />

light at the end of the tunnel. As well as helping<br />

other parents-to-be I found my first time<br />

volunteering at an Antenatal Day really emotional;<br />

the last time I'd been in that room I was sitting<br />

there with all the fears and anxieties they now<br />

felt. However, it also reinstated to me how far our<br />

family had come. Giving up a few hours of my<br />

time, I knew, had made the world of difference to<br />

those soon to be parents and travelling home<br />

that afternoon I was pleased to have given<br />

something back to the heart community at a time<br />

when they need it most.”<br />

We are extremely proud of this groundbreaking<br />

initiative which has, no doubt, made a huge<br />

difference to so many parents at a time in their<br />

lives when they may have felt isolated and<br />

frightened about the future for them and their<br />

unborn baby. We would like to see the day when<br />

similar classes are offered to ALL parents who are<br />

expecting a heart baby, no matter where they live<br />

or where their baby will be born in England and<br />

Wales!<br />

JO WILSON<br />

A LIFE LESS ORDINARY – MAXINE REECE<br />

‘Will it affect my ability to work with the<br />

children?’<br />

Maxine’s true love was theatre and she was a<br />

well-known amateur actress in her hometown,<br />

Tring in Hertfordshire. Her performance of Alice<br />

in the production of The Vicar of Dibley had the<br />

audience in fits of laughter and will always be<br />

remembered. In fact, Maxine was such a<br />

prolific actress that we counted 28 shows in<br />

which she had appeared over the years. She<br />

loved the shows, the social side of the theatre,<br />

the dressing up and the banter.<br />

When Maxine passed away in April this year,<br />

after becoming ill with unrelated bowel<br />

problems and sadly not making it through the<br />

three operations she underwent, a huge surge<br />

of love and support poured forward from family<br />

and friends. Maxine had become such a wellloved<br />

face in Tring, that one friend remarked:<br />

‘She was a huge part of our culture.’ As the<br />

tributes poured in, one word kept appearing<br />

over and over again: ‘inspirational.’ So many<br />

people were touched by Maxine’s joie de vivre<br />

in the face of adversity, that it seemed her<br />

attitude had a lot to teach many of us in more<br />

fortunate positions.<br />

In turn, I hope that hearing about all the things<br />

that Maxine had achieved can be inspiring for<br />

you, too. Gemma Reece<br />

Back in 1996 when Maxine was an inpatient, I<br />

was one of the sisters on Rothschild ward. I was<br />

sorry and sad when Eric told me that Maxine<br />

had died. I immediately thought back to the<br />

time when Maxine spent many weeks on<br />

Rothschild and was very unwell. Maxine pulled<br />

through after a lot of determination. I remember<br />

Maxine’s mother Eileen, father Dave and sister<br />

Gemma who all gave constant encouragement<br />

to Maxine and were a positive and strong<br />

family. As Maxine got better there was lots of<br />

fun and laugher as Maxine had an amazing<br />

character and humour. The other person I<br />

remember was Grandma who used to arrive<br />

with yummy home-made cakes.<br />

I remember Maxine on other admissions before<br />

she moved into the adult service - but Eric was<br />

still her consultant and kept us informed of how<br />

she was doing - getting a job, learning to drive<br />

and getting a flat!! Maxine always loved the little<br />

babies on the ward and I was not surprised<br />

when she became a child care assistant. From<br />

what I understand Maxine lived life to the full.<br />

The Maxine I remember loved fashion, had a<br />

beautiful smile and was lovely. My thoughts are<br />

very much with the family. Trish Kenney,<br />

Paediatric Cardiac Outreach Sister<br />

Maxine was born with a double inlet left<br />

ventricle and unfortunately despite palliation<br />

with a duct ligation and pulmonary artery band<br />

she developed early pulmonary vascular<br />

disease that prevented her proceeding to a<br />

Fontan operation. And as if the anatomical<br />

problem was not enough her condition was<br />

complicated by heart block requiring pacing<br />

from an early age. She developed a serious<br />

infection on her pacemaker lead and required<br />

surgery and prolonged medical treatment to<br />

cure it. With support from her family and the<br />

nursing staff on Rothschild ward she maintained<br />

her spirit through this exceptionally difficult time.<br />

It was a privilege and a pleasure to look after<br />

her for over 20 years and watch her grow from<br />

a child, through adolescence into a mature and<br />

independent adult. She coped admirably with<br />

her condition and was very successful in leading<br />

a full and productive life. Her e-mail alias<br />

“mightymaxibaby” said it all! Her e-mails were<br />

always interesting – even when not challenging<br />

medical advice which she frequently did and her<br />

visits were also highly anticipated.<br />

The celebration of her life drew hundreds and<br />

was a fitting tribute to her and of course her<br />

family. She was one special girl and I will miss<br />

her.<br />

Eric Rosenthal, Consultant Paediatric & Adult<br />

Congenital Cardiologist<br />

12 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 13<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

Fundraising<br />

Thank you to all our members<br />

and their families and friends<br />

who have continued to fundraise<br />

and donate to <strong>ECHO</strong> over the<br />

past few months. We have<br />

received too many contributions<br />

for me to be able to mention you<br />

all, but here are a few I would<br />

like to share with you.<br />

Annie Gale's daughter Minnie<br />

celebrated her 6th birthday and<br />

donated sweetie money to <strong>ECHO</strong>! On<br />

each party bag they put a little sticker to<br />

say 'instead of having some extra<br />

sweeties in your party bag, we have<br />

given a bit of money to a charity called<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong>, from you. This will help children<br />

with poorly hearts. Thank you xxx'. Such<br />

a wonderful idea, thank you to the<br />

Gales for their donation of £40.<br />

Thank you to friends and family of Violet<br />

May Westover for their kind donations<br />

totalling £200. Joan Westover arranged<br />

donations to <strong>ECHO</strong> in memory of her<br />

mother in law Violet.<br />

James Hook<br />

Thank you to the Hook family. In the<br />

half term holiday James Hook, aged 12,<br />

decided he wanted to hold a cake sale<br />

to raise funds for <strong>ECHO</strong>, which he calls<br />

'his charity'! Along with a friend, and his<br />

brother William and sister Heidi-Louise,<br />

they raised £200. James's mum Jane<br />

writes: "James has HLHS and is doing<br />

amazingly. He loves rugby and hockey<br />

at school. He started senior school in<br />

September and loves to get to school<br />

early so he has more time to play<br />

football with the year 11 boys!"<br />

Elissa Holloway held a girls night at her<br />

friend Caroline's house and raised<br />

£320. They charged £10 per person<br />

which included fizz and nibbles on<br />

arrival and a two course dinner. They<br />

sold raffle tickets for prizes donated by<br />

local shops and restaurants and family<br />

and friends, as well as <strong>ECHO</strong> teddies<br />

and t-shirts. Elissa said: "We organised<br />

a couple of silly games with more <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

teddies, badges and key rings as<br />

winners prizes. We also put together a<br />

great playlist so there was plenty of<br />

dancing later too!" Thank you Elissa for<br />

such a great fundraising idea!<br />

Thank you to Martin Pavey who raised<br />

£640 by holding a charity quiz night on<br />

18th February at his local sports club<br />

Crofton Albion. Martin writes: "The<br />

evening was very well attended with<br />

around 60 people forming 10 teams<br />

battling to become the latest quiz<br />

champs and take home bottles of wine<br />

for the winners. Questions such as 'how<br />

many hairs are there on the average<br />

human adult body?' and 'Thomas<br />

Wedder is attributed with the longest<br />

nose at how many inches?' kept the<br />

contestants on the edge of their<br />

seats…. or was that just them straining<br />

to get to the bar at the interval?!"<br />

Thank you to Hayes School in Bromley,<br />

for raising £101.73 during their<br />

Dancefest.<br />

Anwen Morris, friend of member<br />

Magali Gauthier, raised £1043 for<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong>. Magali writes: "Thanks to the<br />

very generous donations from friends<br />

and family, our friend Anwen Morris has<br />

managed to raise over £1000 for <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

by running the Reading half-marathon<br />

at the beginning of April. Her<br />

determination and hard training paid off<br />

as she completed the race in just over 2<br />

hours. She is pictured here with our son<br />

Samuel of 5 months who was born at<br />

the <strong>Evelina</strong> in October 2011 and<br />

underwent successful open heart<br />

surgery to correct his TGA heart<br />

condition at only a week old." Thank you<br />

Anwen.<br />

Anwen and Samuel<br />

Thanks to Joyce Schofield for donating<br />

£400 in lieu of gifts for her husband's<br />

70th birthday.<br />

Thank you to Bam Grey who celebrated<br />

her 40th birthday this year and held a<br />

party on 21st April. She asked for<br />

donations to <strong>ECHO</strong> in lieu of gifts. She<br />

has donated a fantastic £950!<br />

Thank you to member Simon Baker<br />

who raised £3,400 through raffle ticket<br />

purchases, competition entries and<br />

other donations at the South Coast Slam<br />

at The Charmandean in Worthing .<br />

Thank you to all the organisers for all<br />

their hard work in making it such a<br />

successful event.<br />

David Stokes raised a fantastic<br />

£2337.63. David writes: "Lifting a car for<br />

charity with 6 weeks notice. I have finally<br />

lost the plot, or have I????<br />

As many of my friends, family and<br />

colleagues know my world was blown<br />

apart two years ago when Natalie and I<br />

received the news that no parents<br />

would want to hear. At our 21 week<br />

scan, our unborn son was diagnosed<br />

with a major heart defect and we were<br />

sent immediately to the <strong>Evelina</strong><br />

children’s hospital for the first of what<br />

would be many visits, unfortunately<br />

Congenital heart disease was confirmed<br />

and he was diagnosed with Tetralogy of<br />

Fallot, a rare condition which would<br />

require corrective surgery when he was<br />

born.<br />

Kai was born on the 23 March 2010 at<br />

the Conquest Hospital by planned<br />

caesarean section as the consultants<br />

were unsure as to how Kai’s heart<br />

would cope with a normal delivery. Kai<br />

was transferred to the <strong>Evelina</strong> soon after<br />

where he was given a thorough check<br />

David<br />

Kai<br />

and given the all clear to come home<br />

but would continue to be monitored with<br />

a view to commence corrective surgery<br />

once he had gained the required<br />

weight.<br />

When Kai was 8 months old and after<br />

many appointments at the <strong>Evelina</strong> they<br />

decided the time was right for his<br />

surgery and on the 10 December 2010<br />

he underwent successful open heart<br />

surgery to correct his heart.<br />

We all have a tendency to think we are<br />

having a tough day or seen a few<br />

challenges in our lives but this was the<br />

hardest time of our lives and without the<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Hospital, the amazing nurses,<br />

consultants, surgeons and the support<br />

of echo, I cannot begin to imagine<br />

where we would be today and this is<br />

the start of me trying to say thank you<br />

for a service and gift money cannot buy.<br />

So, all this considered am I really that<br />

crazy to raise money for these people??<br />

I don’t think so and I am training to lift a<br />

car so don’t argue with me!"<br />

David managed a total of 11 lifts in the<br />

60 seconds. Well done David!!<br />

Thanks to <strong>ECHO</strong> member and volunteer,<br />

Debbie Houghton's daughter Charlotte<br />

and her class Form 7N at Newstead<br />

Woods School for Girls, for raising<br />

£66.97 through holding a sponsored<br />

silence. Charlotte recommended <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

as one of the charities to receive the<br />

money raised. Debbie said: "Everyone in<br />

her class did a sponsored silence for the<br />

whole day (bet the teachers loved that)!"<br />

Thank you also to Debbie's mum for her<br />

kind donation of £25.<br />

Sharne Kelly held a pamper<br />

evening raising a fantastic<br />

£1093.30 for <strong>ECHO</strong>. She said:<br />

"The money was raised through<br />

ticket sales, donations<br />

from therapists and<br />

raffle tickets. Defluo<br />

plumbing and<br />

drainage<br />

sponsored the<br />

event by providing<br />

2 glasses of wine<br />

for every ticket<br />

brought." Thank<br />

you Sharne.<br />

Emma Orpin, our<br />

lovely Admin Assistant's brother in law<br />

Martyn Monk took part in the Three<br />

Peak Challenge and raised a wonderful<br />

£700 for <strong>ECHO</strong>. Thank you to Martyn<br />

and his team: Adam Jamieson, Andrzej<br />

Chec, Chris Hoskison, David Peters,<br />

Simon Ashley and their driver Piers<br />

Cooper<br />

Martyn and his team<br />

At the top!<br />

And last, but by no means least, thank<br />

you to Emily Ellis, Sister on Savannah,<br />

and her friend Liz, who ran 10K on the<br />

5th May and raised £440 for ECH0.<br />

Thank you Emily and Liz!!<br />

Jessica Cattermole<br />

Bam Grey and<br />

her boys<br />

14 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 15<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

Fundraising<br />

We had twelve runners take part in<br />

the London Marathon on 22nd April<br />

<strong>2012</strong> using <strong>ECHO</strong> places and another<br />

two runners who ran with their own<br />

places. We also had a friend of a<br />

member take part in the Brighton<br />

Marathon the week before! Here are<br />

some of their accounts of the day.<br />

Nat Scott<br />

Cree, <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

member and<br />

father of Lucy,<br />

ran for <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

with his brother<br />

Paul. Nat<br />

writes: "It was<br />

their first<br />

marathon and<br />

after the long,<br />

cold winter of<br />

Nat and Paul training, a day<br />

of glorious<br />

sunshine welcomed them to Blackheath<br />

for the start. Some four hours and fortythree<br />

minutes later, they crossed the line<br />

in Westminster, worse-for-wear, but in<br />

one piece having resisted the<br />

temptation to walk on several<br />

occasions! It was a truly wonderful<br />

experience and a great team of<br />

supporters was there to cheer us the<br />

last few hundred yards on Birdcage<br />

Walk (including Lucy). A big thank you<br />

to them! We had many generous<br />

sponsors, and to date we have raised a<br />

grand total of £3277.74, with donations<br />

still trickling in."<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> Member, Steve Caine writes:<br />

"Thanks for giving me a place to run. It<br />

was amazing and even more so as I<br />

have raised just under £3000 for <strong>ECHO</strong>."<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> Member David Paling writes: "I<br />

ran this years marathon to raise money<br />

for <strong>ECHO</strong> as it is such a great<br />

organisation. We (my wife and I) have<br />

been members for several years now<br />

since my<br />

eldest son<br />

Sebastian was<br />

born with TGA<br />

in 2004.<br />

Sebastian was<br />

very excited<br />

about me<br />

running and<br />

often asked if I<br />

thought I'd<br />

win! I'm not<br />

Steve Caine really a runner<br />

so started my<br />

training last summer starting at about 4<br />

mile runs and gradually building up in<br />

the lead up to the big day. What a<br />

fantastic day it was, hats off to the<br />

organisers for it all going so smoothly.<br />

The spectators were great and the<br />

many comments about the 118 tache<br />

(dyed red) I'd grown for the run and all<br />

the other encouragement really helped<br />

and added to the whole atmosphere. I<br />

saw my family twice, once at Canary<br />

Wharf where I still felt reasonably fresh<br />

and then again near Westminster by<br />

which point it was getting very painful,<br />

in fact the last six miles were painful but<br />

I was determined not to stop or walk. I<br />

completed the run in 4hrs 14 mins which<br />

I was very happy with and even better<br />

David with Thomas and Sebastian<br />

Meet Our<br />

Marathon<br />

Runners!!<br />

than that I have so far raised over<br />

£2,700 with more still owed. Meeting<br />

my family at the end was such a good<br />

feeling and I even managed a couple of<br />

pints after stretching off. I'm so glad I<br />

managed to raise the money for <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

and give something back for all the help<br />

they have given to us and others. By the<br />

way the moustache came off that night."<br />

Nev Niyazi, friend of <strong>ECHO</strong> member<br />

Grant Taylor, and his friend Ben O'shea,<br />

both ran for <strong>ECHO</strong>. Nev writes: "Running<br />

the London Marathon was not only a<br />

personal ambition of mine but also an<br />

opportunity for me to raise money for a<br />

worthy cause. Echo is particularly<br />

important to me as it helped my very<br />

close friends when their son, Charlie,<br />

who was diagnosed and treated for<br />

severe heart defects. Fortunately, Charlie<br />

is now a happy, healthy, amazing 5 year<br />

old boy but I know that they all<br />

benefitted greatly from the support of<br />

this amazing charity. So when the<br />

opportunity arose and Grant said that I<br />

may be able to run for <strong>ECHO</strong> I was<br />

thrilled. Before I knew it myself and Ben<br />

were signed up and the training was<br />

under way. Come race day and meeting<br />

some of the other echo runners before<br />

and during the race really added to the<br />

electric atmosphere created by the<br />

thousands who lined the streets.<br />

However, the only downside to the day<br />

was that I missed selection for team GB<br />

for this year's Olympics by 2 and a half<br />

hours. Never mind better luck next time.<br />

:)"<br />

Greg Edwards, whose niece Charlotte is<br />

treated at the <strong>Evelina</strong> writes: "The<br />

Marathon was a truly amazing<br />

experience. I can’t really describe the<br />

feeling of being a part of such a<br />

prestigious event and being able to<br />

raise money for such a worthy cause.<br />

There was a point before the marathon<br />

where I thought that I would be unable<br />

to run. Three days before the event I<br />

had bronchitis and my doctor advised<br />

me not to run. I thought I would rest up<br />

and see how I felt on the day. When I<br />

started the race I didn’t feel 100% and so<br />

I decided to take it slow and just try to<br />

enjoy the experience. I’m really glad I<br />

did as I was able to take in the whole<br />

atmosphere of the day. It was tough at<br />

times and there were occasions that I<br />

thought I may have to drop out, but the<br />

crowd cheering my name really lifted<br />

me during the tough times and I was<br />

able to push on. I also had some friends<br />

and family with me who I saw every few<br />

miles after the halfway point and my<br />

wife and daughter were waiting for me<br />

at mile 24, my daughter had a banner<br />

that said “Run daddy run! I think<br />

knowing that they were waiting for me<br />

is what got me to the finish in the end.<br />

I managed to finish in 4hrs 58mins,<br />

which is about an hour outside what I<br />

was aiming for, but I am very pleased to<br />

have been given the opportunity to take<br />

part.<br />

I have managed to raise a total of<br />

£2078."<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> member Ian Littlewood ran for<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> and has raised £5248 and his<br />

friend Nick Ralph also ran, and raised<br />

£2050. Ian writes: "I decided to run the<br />

marathon to raise money for <strong>ECHO</strong> after<br />

receiving such amazing care for my son,<br />

Jude, when he was born with<br />

Transposition of the Great Arteries (TGA)<br />

in September last year. We knew about<br />

his condition in advance so it seemed to<br />

me like he would be born, whisked<br />

away, fitted with a few tubes and given<br />

some drugs which would stabilise him<br />

for a few days. Then he would have an<br />

operation that would fix him and we<br />

would all live happily ever after. As it<br />

turned out, things didn't quite go to plan<br />

as Jude went downhill very quickly<br />

when he was born. He had to have an<br />

emergency balloon septostomy,<br />

although this didn't quite go to plan<br />

either. After the septostomy I went<br />

down to see him in NICU but two<br />

Doctors were in the middle of doing<br />

something to him. The look on their<br />

faces told me things weren't going well<br />

at all. I said I would come back later<br />

and wandered back to see my wife,<br />

Deirdre, who was in recovery from her C<br />

section. As I left NICU I felt sick. For the<br />

next few hours we waited in the<br />

recovery room together wondering what<br />

was happening. I can't now remember<br />

whether I told Deirdre the full extent of<br />

what I felt seemed to be happening or if<br />

I tried to protect her in the hope<br />

everything would be OK. After what<br />

seemed like an age we saw a Doctor<br />

who explained part of what had<br />

happened and that Jude was to be<br />

transferred to PICU. We went down to<br />

see him just before he went across to<br />

PICU. It was the next day before I<br />

discovered the full extent of what had<br />

happened to Jude. He simply hadn't<br />

been getting enough oxygen and each<br />

of his organs began to shut down in<br />

order. This culminated in his heart<br />

stopping for some thirty seconds before<br />

his was brought back to life by CPR.<br />

"Just like on the telly" as Doctor<br />

explained to me later. This also meant<br />

that his brain was starved of oxygen for<br />

half a minute. He slowly got better over<br />

the next few days but then would have<br />

little episodes where his blood oxygen<br />

levels would drop suddenly. On Jude's<br />

sixth day I woke up thinking that today<br />

would be the day, even though it wasn't<br />

planned to be. As it turned out I was<br />

right. It was decided that the best<br />

course of action given his circumstances<br />

was to operate that day and that it was<br />

to be that afternoon. I was quite<br />

relieved that it would happen and just<br />

wanted to get it over and done with. At<br />

about 4 or 5 pm he was taken down to<br />

surgery. Deirdre and I then went off to<br />

have what we both hoped would be an<br />

incredibly slow dinner. We received<br />

probably the fastest dinner that Locale<br />

have ever served. This left us at a bit of<br />

a loose end for a while so we went and<br />

had a coffee and a beer in the bar at<br />

the Marriot. At about 9pm we<br />

wandered slowly back to our room<br />

in the Ronald McDonald House<br />

within the <strong>Evelina</strong>. After only around<br />

ten minutes we got the call from the<br />

nurse at PICU that Jude was back<br />

and that everything had gone well.<br />

We raced up to see him. He looked<br />

a bit puffy and remarkably similar to<br />

some of the other post op pictures<br />

I have seen in <strong>ECHO</strong> newsletters.<br />

Over the next few days he got<br />

stronger and the next step was<br />

from him to be taken off his ventilator.<br />

This also didn't go well at the first<br />

attempt but he got there in the end. We<br />

also spoke to a neurologist to discuss<br />

the brain scan that Jude had had to see<br />

what might have happened when he<br />

was starved of oxygen. It turns out that<br />

there was very little damage considering<br />

what had happened but that bold truth<br />

was that they didn't really know what<br />

that would mean and we might not<br />

know until he is much older. Not exactly<br />

the black or white answer that we<br />

wanted. There were quite a few other<br />

ups and downs along the way but after<br />

a month or so we got Jude home. He<br />

seems to be developing "normally",<br />

although perhaps a little behind which<br />

is "normal" for what he went through.<br />

Anyway, I digress, I was only going to<br />

write a sentence or two about Jude to<br />

give a little background... I have to<br />

admit, part of the reason I wanted to do<br />

the marathon was simply to feel just a<br />

little of the pain that he must have gone<br />

through. This was quite useful during<br />

training as the sleet, snow and hail that<br />

felt like daggers in my face during subzero<br />

runs across Blackheath made me<br />

feel good. It also meant that I was<br />

never, ever going to stop or give up, just<br />

like Jude didn't. I was also spurred on<br />

by the incredibly generous donations<br />

from friends and colleagues that were<br />

mounting up on justgiving.<br />

The day itself was a truly remarkable<br />

experience that I would recommend to<br />

anyone. To be<br />

cheered on<br />

by<br />

random<br />

strangers<br />

over and<br />

over again<br />

really<br />

Ian<br />

Littlewood<br />

with Jude<br />

16 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

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<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 17<br />

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<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

Ian and Nick<br />

operations…..again reminding me that<br />

not everyone is so fortunate. That said,<br />

by working together like we did, vital<br />

funds have been raised, hopefully<br />

improving chances for others through<br />

research, equipment and expertise."<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> member Simon Fricke writes:<br />

"Choosing to run the London marathon<br />

this year for <strong>ECHO</strong> was an easy<br />

decision. My wife Alex and I had never<br />

heard of <strong>ECHO</strong> until our baby daughter<br />

Meredith was born in June last year.<br />

Meredith was diagnosed with Wolff-<br />

The marathon itself was nothing new to<br />

me but it's always a challenge. I had<br />

my cheer team at various points on the<br />

course to help me along the way. My<br />

parents have it down to an art now as I<br />

see them at the 6, 14 and 21 mile<br />

marks. I managed to glimpse Alex's<br />

head above the crowd at Tower Bridge<br />

but Meredith was unfortunately hidden.<br />

Still, the thought of running for Meredith<br />

and so many other babies and children<br />

really kept me going."<br />

Simon Openshaw completed marathon<br />

in 4 hrs 40, and raised over £3,000.<br />

Simon's son Sam was at the <strong>Evelina</strong> at<br />

Alan<br />

out! As you are aware I ran in memory<br />

of Harrison Smith, when my knee was<br />

causing me such pain I kept telling<br />

myself it is nothing like the pain Caroline<br />

and Jake have experienced over the last<br />

year. This and seeing my family along<br />

The Embankment at 24.5miles kept me<br />

going. I can honestly say it is the most<br />

physically demanding thing I have ever<br />

done, but a truly amazing experience! I<br />

actually saw Caroline's brother<br />

(Harrison's uncle), Alan Border, before<br />

we started, we hadn't arranged to meet<br />

up so how amazing that we were<br />

running for the same person and saw<br />

each other for a chat! I have raised over<br />

£1,100 for <strong>ECHO</strong> and have memories to<br />

last me a lifetime!" Alan also raised over<br />

£1,100!<br />

Geoff Manns friend of members Karen<br />

Beynon and Mandy Head, ran the<br />

Brighton marathon on the 15th April and<br />

raised over £800 for <strong>ECHO</strong>. Geoff writes:<br />

"I originally applied for the Brighton<br />

Marathon <strong>2012</strong> in May 2011, It’s funny<br />

how the months race past and you<br />

realize the reality sets in that you are<br />

going to have to start some serious<br />

training at least 4 months before The<br />

Day.<br />

Having only run a few 10k races (6.2<br />

miles) to think of over 26 miles was<br />

arduous to say the least. Training went<br />

quite well by increasing my mileage by<br />

an extra one each week. My worst<br />

experience was running 15 miles and<br />

getting home with pains below both<br />

knees, even jumping up road curbs was<br />

a struggle….only to be told by my 10<br />

year old daughter. I will have to run<br />

another 11 plus miles on the day. An<br />

experienced running neighbor of mine<br />

told me when I get to 20 miles in the<br />

race you're about half way there!<br />

Meaning the remaining 6 will be<br />

tough…Sobering thought.<br />

The day itself was great with amazing<br />

support and a really good vibe around<br />

the course. To see friends and family<br />

around the route gives you a much<br />

needed extra energy boost. I must<br />

admit the last 6 miles were like running<br />

in treacle, with your running shoes<br />

scuffing on the road as you lose the<br />

power to lift up your legs. The finishing<br />

post was a great sight for my tired legs.<br />

I finished the race in 3 hours 53 minutes<br />

and 18 secs. I hope the money raised is<br />

useful in many ways for this deserving<br />

Charity".<br />

Thank you Jo, Alan, Geoff and all of<br />

our fantastic runners for choosing to<br />

run for <strong>ECHO</strong>.<br />

Ian Littlewood with Jude<br />

helped a lot. I planned to get around<br />

London in 4 hours and I did exactly that,<br />

after a "sprint" over the last few hundred<br />

metres meant that I crossed the line in<br />

4.00.00. I waited for my friend Nick<br />

who was also running for <strong>ECHO</strong> and<br />

then we went for a drink and bite to eat<br />

at the Marriot. Somehow, it seemed<br />

appropriate." and Nick writes: "Your<br />

experience put things into perspective<br />

for me, especially in relation to the birth<br />

of my baby daughter, Nina. Child birth<br />

is not something that we should take for<br />

granted, nor should we ever forget how<br />

skilled and professional people are in<br />

the NHS. Supporting you and Jude was<br />

the least I could do. No matter how long<br />

or painful. Throughout the marathon I<br />

bumped into other runners supporting<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong>, one with a story of on-going<br />

Simon Fricke<br />

Parkinson-White syndrome when she<br />

was two weeks old after having spent<br />

four days in intensive care at Kings<br />

College Hospital. The <strong>Evelina</strong> <strong>Children's</strong><br />

Hospital took on the care of Meredith<br />

and we have been provided with great<br />

support by all the staff whenever we<br />

have to stop by for check ups. We also<br />

enjoyed the fantastic Christmas party<br />

held at the Den and look forward to this<br />

year when Meredith can explore a bit<br />

more on her own. Raising the<br />

sponsorship money was great fun. Alex<br />

and I managed cake sales at both of<br />

our offices which went down a storm.<br />

Friends and family also gave generously<br />

and the final tally will be around £2000.<br />

Simon Openshaw<br />

the time of the marathon, so Simon<br />

returned to the hospital after the event<br />

to see his family. Tragically Sam died on<br />

the 18th May. Simon would like to say<br />

thank you to everyone who sponsored<br />

him and to everyone who has<br />

supported them since Sam's death. Our<br />

thoughts go out to Simon, Helen and<br />

Izzy at this desperately sad time.<br />

Thanks also to <strong>ECHO</strong> member Paul<br />

White who also ran using an <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

place.<br />

Jo Codling<br />

Jo Codling ran with her own place, in<br />

memory of <strong>ECHO</strong> members Caroline<br />

and Jake Smith's son Harrison. Jo<br />

writes: "I did it! It took me 4hrs 38mins, I<br />

am pleased with my time as I had to<br />

run with my knee strapped due to an<br />

injury I picked up training. From 10miles<br />

my knee was really unhappy, but there<br />

was just no way I was going to drop<br />

Geoff Manns<br />

OUR MARATHON RUNNERS RAISED OVER £25,000!!!!<br />

18 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

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<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 19<br />

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<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> FUNDRAISING<br />

Fundraising<br />

Our Son Ellis was born in January 2011 with<br />

Transposition of the great arteries and was<br />

treated and cared for at <strong>Evelina</strong>.<br />

After some tough times Ellis has made a full<br />

recovery and is now a bubbly and very<br />

determined little toddler.<br />

ANDREA DEANS FUNDRAISING<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> member Anna Campbell and Petts Wood Pavilion Preschool in Kent<br />

raised over £1,400 for <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

We felt so grateful for our little miracle that we<br />

like many before us decided to give<br />

something back.<br />

Fun and Games!<br />

“Wheelie Fundraising Event” – over<br />

£1,400 raised by little legs!<br />

Zoe in the <strong>Evelina</strong><br />

Go Zoe!<br />

On 23rd and 24th May, the Petts Wood<br />

Pavilion Preschool in Kent raised over<br />

£1,000 for <strong>ECHO</strong>. Each child was asked to<br />

complete 8 laps of the bowling green by<br />

form of a “wheel” (bike, scooter or<br />

pushing a pram) and they were<br />

sponsored by friends and family.<br />

It was one of the hottest 2 days of the<br />

year and despite the increasing red<br />

cheeks, all the children took part and<br />

completed the event. They got a sticker a<br />

lap and then much deserved ice lollies!<br />

This event happens annually and this year<br />

the prechool kindly agreed to give the<br />

proceeds to <strong>ECHO</strong>, as my daughter Zoe,<br />

attends the school.<br />

29 of my pregnancy. Being small for<br />

dates, I was examined at Kings Hospital<br />

and they diagnosed that our little girl had<br />

“Tetralogy of Fallot’’. This is a congenital<br />

heart defect where complete repair of four<br />

areas of the heart is required, one of<br />

which is more commonly known as a<br />

“hole in the heart”. We were told that she<br />

would need open heart surgery within<br />

days of being born.<br />

Zoe arrived three weeks early in St<br />

Thomas Hospital by emergency<br />

caesarean weighing a tiny 3lbs 11. All the<br />

medical team were on standby but Zoe<br />

showed us from the start what we now<br />

recognise as her stubbornness and<br />

determination. After a great deal of<br />

scanning and examining they decided she<br />

should get stronger before any further<br />

intervention. So she came home three<br />

weeks later but was regularly monitored<br />

by the cardiologists at the <strong>Evelina</strong>’s<br />

Children’s Hospital. It was a very nervous<br />

time for us all.<br />

At 10 months they decided that it was the<br />

right time for Zoe to have major heart<br />

surgery. We kissed our little girl good bye<br />

and waited an agonising 5 hours. The<br />

operation was successful but we had a<br />

terrifying second night when we nearly<br />

lost her. Two weeks later we were all back<br />

home and trying to lead a normal life.<br />

Zoe remembers nothing of course but it<br />

took us, as parents, a little bit longer to<br />

recover!<br />

Zoe has since gone from strength to<br />

strength. For a three year old she is still<br />

very little but you wouldn’t know the start<br />

she has had in life by just looking at her.<br />

Her favourite game is running and she<br />

can out run her daddy around the house!<br />

It is amazing to watch after everything she<br />

has been through.<br />

Zoe will need further surgery later in life<br />

and continues to have annual check- ups<br />

but in the meantime I wanted to be able<br />

to give something back to say “thank<br />

you”. I do not feel I could ever do enough<br />

to thank the <strong>Evelina</strong> Children Hospital and<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> for saving Zoe’s life and for helping<br />

us as parents to cope with it all.<br />

Thank you to the Petts Wood Pavilion<br />

Preschool for helping to support this<br />

charity.<br />

Anna (Mummy to Zoe)<br />

I started to raise money for <strong>ECHO</strong> by baking<br />

some traditional slovak Christmas biscuits,<br />

which was very successful.<br />

I however had bigger things in mind and<br />

started to organize a big summer event.<br />

Ellis and Fearne<br />

Whilst still in the planning phase I got to know<br />

Michelle Kingston, who also lives in<br />

Edenbridge. Michelle has little girl called<br />

Fearne. Fearne has Hypoplastic left heart<br />

syndrome and she has had norward<br />

procedure stage 1&2 and waiting for stage 3.<br />

She is doing really well.<br />

Michelle and I started to organize our big<br />

event which was challenging having never<br />

done anything like this before; however we<br />

had so much support and encouragement<br />

from our friends and family and the event was<br />

coming along nicely.<br />

Fundraising face painting<br />

Leading up to the event I did a fundraising<br />

face painting at our local Rotary Fete raising<br />

£130 and Ellis's nursery organized a<br />

sponsored Dance and Wriggle which raised<br />

amazing £790. I attended a number of Rotary<br />

Club meetings; these taught me a great deal<br />

about organizing an event and I was<br />

overwhelmed by the support and<br />

encouragement they gave me not to mention<br />

their left over drink from their own summer<br />

festival.<br />

Our event took place on Sunday 8th July at<br />

Crockham Hill Village Hall in Edenbridge Kent.<br />

We had lots planned for the day, but<br />

unfortunately the weather wasn't on our side.<br />

The rain was relentless in the morning which<br />

scrapped a number of my plans and<br />

frightened off the Bouncy castle Company; we<br />

had to improvise and fortunately the venue<br />

had great indoor space.<br />

Still the turn out was very good considering<br />

the rain, Murray in the Wimbledon final and<br />

the F1 Grand Prix. We sold about 120 adult<br />

tickets and people seemed to enjoy<br />

themselves. We had stalls selling lovely things,<br />

lots of donated clothes, books, plants were<br />

also sold. We had lovely cake stall which sold<br />

out, face painting and a princess make over;<br />

kids could also make paper hearts and forest<br />

creatures, garden games and competitions for<br />

kids and even welly wanging which was very<br />

popular when the sun finally smiled down on<br />

us.<br />

We had live music playing all day including my<br />

husband and neighbors doing their first public<br />

guitar jam as well as 3 fantastic local bands;<br />

this made a really nice atmosphere. The raffle<br />

went really well we sold over 1000 tickets this<br />

made all the relentless cold calling on local<br />

shops and businesses worth while. Michelle<br />

even got Peter Andre to donate a signed book<br />

(we secretly hoped he might turn up but it<br />

wasn't to be.<br />

Over all on the day we collected just over<br />

£3,000 which hugely exceeded our<br />

expectations. Our friends and friends of<br />

friends were incredibly supportive. On a<br />

day like this you realize just how<br />

important loyal and hard working your<br />

closest friends are.<br />

The fundraising doesn't stop there,<br />

we still have money coming in<br />

from people who couldn't make it<br />

and also have been promised some<br />

more form some businesses.<br />

Our online donation is currently at £1,500, so<br />

adding everything up we are hoping to reach<br />

£5,000.<br />

We still have ongoing fundraising activities like<br />

Pampered Chef online, where you can shop<br />

your quality kitchen products and 15% of every<br />

purchase will go to <strong>ECHO</strong>.<br />

If you would like to do some shopping just go<br />

to<br />

http://www.pamperedchef.biz/jobanks?page<br />

=host-search-results&showId=3687321<br />

We also have World War 2 military vehicle<br />

driving experiences available, from which all<br />

money will go to <strong>ECHO</strong>.<br />

If anyone is interested in having a really good<br />

day out exploring over 20 different vehicles,<br />

have a ride in them, drive them and have bbq<br />

on top, please let us know!<br />

I would like to say a huge thank you to all who<br />

came but most of all to those who helped to<br />

make it happen, I could not do it without<br />

them!<br />

Andrea x<br />

Ellis<br />

My Story……..<br />

Zoe’s condition was diagnosed at week<br />

20 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

The children having a well-earned rest!<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> member Andrea Deans is hoping to reach her target of<br />

£5,000 through her fantastic fundraising events!!<br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 21<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


<strong>ECHO</strong> ETC NEWS<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> ETC NEWS<br />

For<br />

those of you who<br />

may not have seen my previous<br />

article or who don’t already know me, this is a<br />

little bit about me. My name is Hannah Phillips<br />

and I turned seventeen on the 23rd May. I<br />

finished my GCSE’s last year and was very<br />

pleased with my results; I am currently<br />

studying Drama, Spanish, French and<br />

Sociology at college. I enjoy cooking & I’m a<br />

total chocaholic! I love acting and taking the<br />

time to meet new people. Travelling and<br />

learning new languages is my passion. I’m a<br />

huge fan of charity work and will get involved<br />

in any way that I can. I’m very girly, and love to<br />

have a good time; I’m bubbly and (as you can<br />

probably already tell) a huge chatterbox!<br />

After being born three months premature, at<br />

six months I was diagnosed with the heart<br />

disease Ebstien’s anomaly. Since then, like<br />

many other heart patients I have had several<br />

operations and hospital visits over the years.<br />

After surgery in 2008 I suffered from bad<br />

arrhythmia problems and after three years of<br />

trying to cope with it and trying out different<br />

medications, we decided that a pacemaker<br />

would be the best way forward; this was fitted<br />

October last year.<br />

When I was told that I was going to have a<br />

pacemaker fitted I felt really unsure about<br />

what it would be like and I really hated the fact<br />

that this meant more surgery. I thought that it<br />

would be nice to find a creative way of<br />

preparing myself for surgery; however, I also<br />

wanted to be able to help other heart patient’s<br />

deal with the same pacemaker process.<br />

With the help of the <strong>Evelina</strong> we came up with<br />

the idea of creating a video diary of my<br />

pacemaker journey. It shows the weeks<br />

leading up to, during and after surgery. The<br />

diary entries cover how I was feeling before,<br />

during and after, the process as a whole, what<br />

I did to keep calm and load more.<br />

I found that doing the video really helped me<br />

keep calm and remind myself of how it would<br />

help me in the long run. I wanted the video to<br />

have a greater impact and so I have been<br />

working with The <strong>Evelina</strong>, who are editing the<br />

video for me. This will be finished within the<br />

next few weeks and be handed out to<br />

hospitals, charities, organisations and<br />

patients, across the UK (hopefully) and used<br />

as a helpful resource for fellow pacemaker<br />

HANNAH PHILLIPS<br />

patients. It’s a way of showing that you’re<br />

never alone!<br />

Since having the pacemaker I have been<br />

feeling more myself, I waited a long time to<br />

have one implanted and so far I don’t regret it.<br />

Like any teenager, I have my ups and downs<br />

but over all I am happy with the result.<br />

Over the past year and a half I have been<br />

working closely with one of my mum’s friends<br />

and together we have created a one woman<br />

show, based around my life.<br />

‘Hannah's <strong>Heart</strong> Beat’ is a poignant multicharacter<br />

solo show based on Hannah's<br />

experiences while living with a rare congenital<br />

heart defect called Ebstein's anomaly. During<br />

the 40 minute show, we journey with Hannah<br />

and meet her mother, a proper South London<br />

nurse, an American wedding planner,<br />

insensitive classmate, a therapist and<br />

Hannah's idol Jessie J. Interspersed between<br />

these characters Hannah talks and sings<br />

about her life experiences, we meet a<br />

teenager who has integrity, a zest for living life<br />

and a quirky sense of humour.<br />

The ultimate aim of the show is to give people<br />

like me and not like me a different perspective<br />

of life. I want to be able to share my story and<br />

what matters to me with the young and old.<br />

The show was performed for the first time on<br />

the 18th February in front of close friends and<br />

family and is still a working progress, however,<br />

will never really be ‘complete’ as my life is<br />

forever changing. It was also performed on<br />

the 25th May at a festival and the 16th June as<br />

part of <strong>ECHO</strong>’s family fun day.<br />

The response I got on the 16th June was over<br />

whelming. I had so much fun performing at<br />

the event, in front of parents and the <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

teen group. It was an amazing experience<br />

and a huge opportunity given to me by <strong>ECHO</strong>,<br />

which I am very grateful for. The feedback and<br />

comments were very touching and a real eyeopener<br />

for me as I was unsure as to how<br />

people would react. Even so, I came away<br />

having had a lot of fun but feeling that I’d<br />

done some good and given a sense of ‘hope’<br />

to people at the same time. Thank you to<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> for taking that project on board and<br />

helping ‘Hannah’s <strong>Heart</strong> Beat’ grow that little<br />

bit extra.<br />

The show was performed on the 14th and 18th<br />

July at The <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s Hospital in the<br />

Medi-Cinema.<br />

You can keep up to date with my show by<br />

liking our page on Facebook, just search for:<br />

Hannah’s <strong>Heart</strong> Beat.<br />

What’s next for me? After college I am taking a<br />

gap year, I’m going to work at Disney land<br />

California for six months and when that’s over,<br />

I will be flying out to a third world country (still<br />

undecided as to where)for eight months with<br />

project trust, to volunteer in education and<br />

health care for children. I hope to gain new<br />

skills and experiences but not forgetting to<br />

have fun and explore the world whilst as<br />

much as I can. Depending on how that goes I<br />

will then either go University or into<br />

employment, however, that’s a little too far<br />

ahead to think about now. Ha-ha.<br />

Over the years I have learnt a great deal and<br />

feel I’ve really grown as a person. I believe<br />

that if you’re determined and work hard you<br />

can achieve what you want no illness should<br />

bully or stop you from doing what you want<br />

and love.<br />

There will be times were I feel like giving up or<br />

wishing it would all go away, everyone has<br />

those moments, of course we do (especially us<br />

teens) but overall living with my condition has<br />

given me such a different view of life and a<br />

zest for living it to the full! Looking back over<br />

the years, Ebstein’s Anomaly is something I<br />

wouldn’t change about myself.<br />

There are three sayings that I like to remember<br />

and try my best to go by, they are as follows:<br />

• Humour is just as important as<br />

medication and surgeries<br />

• “Be young, be foolish, but be happy”<br />

• “Just be true to who you are”<br />

I would love to hear from some of you, if you<br />

wanted to get to know me more, ask about<br />

the play and further updates regarding that or<br />

simply just wanted a chat, I would be more<br />

than happy to do so. Here is my E-mail;<br />

hannahlouloute@yahoo.co.uk I hope to hear<br />

from some of you soon, have a great summer,<br />

and enjoy it while you can.<br />

Hannah Phillips x<br />

Rachel Ward<br />

Joe Jackson and Lewis<br />

Hamilton!<br />

Saturday 16th<br />

June was the<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong><br />

conference<br />

and family<br />

day. For the<br />

<strong>ECHO</strong> teen<br />

club, it<br />

was<br />

basically<br />

a fun<br />

day out<br />

but a good way to meet<br />

new people, make<br />

new<br />

friends<br />

and to<br />

learn more<br />

about how<br />

to cope with<br />

a heart<br />

condition in<br />

everyday life<br />

as a teen.<br />

We were put<br />

into groups and<br />

then started<br />

with some ‘ice-breaker’ games. Our<br />

group leader cut up a piece of fruit and<br />

then we had to put it back together with<br />

toothpicks – harder than it sounds… then<br />

Morgan Hawkins, aged 11, took part in The Grand Hotel<br />

Mini Mile Race and raised £120 for <strong>ECHO</strong>!<br />

His mum Tracy Hawkins said: "My son<br />

Morgan Hawkins participated in The Grand<br />

Hotel Mini Mile Race. At two weeks old he<br />

had to undergo corrective surgery, he was<br />

born with TAPV (Total Anomalous Pulmonary<br />

Venous Corrections). He is now a fit and<br />

healthy 11 year old. He wanted to do the<br />

race and collect<br />

sponsorship for <strong>ECHO</strong>,<br />

ETC MEMBER, RACHEL WARD, HAS WRITTEN THIS<br />

GREAT REPORT ABOUT THE FAMILY DAY<br />

we played a few rounds of hangman,<br />

and then we played a weird murder<br />

game, a really complicated version of<br />

wink murder, but really fun.<br />

During the day there was a girl called<br />

Hannah, a 17 year old who came in and<br />

performed some of her extracts from her<br />

show, ‘Hannah’s <strong>Heart</strong>beat’ She amazed<br />

everyone, including the parents with her<br />

confidence and talent, while teaching<br />

everyone there a lot. She was a lot easier<br />

to relate to because she was our age. It<br />

was really useful and boosted a lot of<br />

our confidences.<br />

After lunch, we went to Madame<br />

Tussaudes!! It was really fun! Especially<br />

because hardly any of us had been there<br />

before. We went round in small groups<br />

and we saw everyone! It was amazing!<br />

When we got back, some people went<br />

home and some people stayed for<br />

dinner. There was also a swimming pool<br />

that some people used. The whole day<br />

was really fun and really worth going! All<br />

the people were really nice and made<br />

the day more exciting.<br />

Rachel Ward<br />

A huge thank you goes to Merlin’s Magic Wand Charity who provided all<br />

the tickets for the wonderful trip to Madame Tussauds free of charge!<br />

as you had been a great help to us during<br />

his stay at Guy's and he reads all the <strong>ECHO</strong><br />

newsletters and also thinks you do a<br />

fantastic job. He managed to complete the<br />

race in 9:28 and we are all very proud of<br />

his achievement.<br />

We thank you all for all your hard work and<br />

the time that you give to so many parents<br />

and children when they most need it. "<br />

Nathan with David Cameron<br />

Thank you Tracy<br />

and thanks and<br />

well done to<br />

Morgan, what<br />

an amazing<br />

achievement!!<br />

Volunteer Olivia<br />

Morgan Hawkins<br />

If you are over 11 and haven’t already joined ETC (<strong>ECHO</strong> Teen Club) then don’t delay, you might be<br />

missing out! Email your name, date of birth, postal address, email address and mobile phone<br />

number to Emma at emma@echo-evelina.org.uk or text/call 07715 208077 for more info!<br />

22 <strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>Evelina</strong> Children’s <strong>Heart</strong> Organisation 23<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2012</strong>


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