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How Much is Enough? - The Tithing and Stewardship Foundation

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A Deeper Look at <strong>Stewardship</strong> in an Age of Abundance<br />

APPENDIX A:<br />

Writing a Money Autobiography<br />

Use the following questions to help you recall your story of the formation of<br />

your relationship with money in three stages.<br />

Your Past Story<br />

o What was the prevailing attitude about money in your family during your<br />

childhood <strong>and</strong> adolescence: Never enough? Plenty? Talked about? Secretive?<br />

o Who controlled the money in your family of origin? Why?<br />

o As a child, how did you come to have money? Did you get an allowance? Did<br />

you work? Did you ask for money when you needed it? <strong>How</strong> do you remember<br />

feeling about th<strong>is</strong>?<br />

o As a young adult (high school, college) how did you come to have money?<br />

Did you get an allowance? Did you work? Did you ask for money when you<br />

needed it? <strong>How</strong> do you remember feeling about th<strong>is</strong>?<br />

o <strong>How</strong> did the amount of money you had as a young adult influence your feelings<br />

of self-worth? Did it impact your lifestyle?<br />

o What do you remember seeing <strong>and</strong> hearing about giving to others, including<br />

the congregation? Who taught you about charitable giving?<br />

o Who st<strong>and</strong>s out as your primary role model for what you learned about money<br />

management?<br />

Your Present Story<br />

o <strong>How</strong> would you describe your present attitude toward money?<br />

o Do you d<strong>is</strong>cuss your financial situation with any other person? <strong>How</strong> comfortable<br />

are you talking about your personal finances?<br />

o Who controls the money in your family now? Are there differing attitudes in<br />

your family around money?<br />

o <strong>How</strong> does the amount of money you have now influence your feelings of selfworth?<br />

<strong>How</strong> does it impact your lifestyle?<br />

o What <strong>is</strong> your current charitable giving? Are you tithing? Why or why not?<br />

Your Future Story<br />

o In what directions do you sense the Holy Spirit <strong>is</strong> leading you in your relationship<br />

with money? What would you like to experience differently about your<br />

relationship with money?<br />

o What values <strong>and</strong> beliefs inspire you in your relationship with money?<br />

o What obstacles <strong>and</strong> beliefs hinder you in your relationship with money?<br />

o What are the next steps in your relationship with money?<br />

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