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<strong>DOGGIES</strong><br />

<strong>MAGAZINE</strong><br />

TIPS ON HOW TO BE A<br />

POSITIVE SIDELINE PARENT<br />

UPCLOSE AND<br />

PERSONAL WITH<br />

ADAM GOODES<br />

SUPERFOODS YOUR KIDS<br />

SHOULD BE EATING<br />

BROUGHT TO YOU BY EASTERN BULLDOGS JUNIOR AFL CLUB<br />

Isuue 1 - JUNE 2015


putting your neighbours to work


From The Editor<br />

Welcome! We are so exciting to<br />

be launching the very first issue<br />

of Doggies Magazine – the first<br />

of many more to come!<br />

Contents<br />

••<br />

We find out what is going on<br />

at the club and within the<br />

community from the club<br />

president.<br />

••<br />

Catch up on other news<br />

with “A Moment with<br />

Marelle!”<br />

••<br />

Adam Goodes from the<br />

Sydney Swans hits the<br />

Doggies Hot Seat.<br />

••<br />

We feature a delicious<br />

and super easy chicken,<br />

bacon and pea risotto –<br />

the perfect dinner for busy<br />

parents.<br />

••<br />

Dr Joanna McMillan<br />

explains the importance of<br />

low GI food for kids.<br />

••<br />

We meet John Shim,<br />

Executive Director of<br />

Road Runner Mobile Tyres,<br />

and our first ever Doggies<br />

“Supporter in the Spotlight”.<br />

••<br />

Discover 10 super foods that<br />

your child should be eating!<br />

••<br />

Get some tips on how to be<br />

a positive sideline parent.<br />

Doggies, is all about providing families<br />

with helpful information, useful ideas<br />

and lots of tips and tricks that will<br />

help our kids both on the field and<br />

off!<br />

As a busy working mum with three<br />

young children myself I am all too<br />

aware of how busy life can be. I know<br />

how hard it is to keep all those balls<br />

in the air and I know how helpful any<br />

extra tips, titbits or information can<br />

be – anything that makes life just a bit<br />

easier.<br />

And that’s what Doggies aims to do!<br />

Each issue will be packed with<br />

articles covering a range of topics<br />

from nutrition and health, to fitness,<br />

to children’s behaviour, to positive<br />

parenting strategies and much more.<br />

A big thank you to all of those<br />

who have helped make Doggies<br />

Magazine happen – we look forward<br />

to bringing you an exciting, fun and<br />

comprehensive magazine.<br />

Enjoy!<br />

GEORGINA SENES<br />

ABOUT OUR EDITOR<br />

Georgina Senes has had more than 15<br />

years as a journalist writing for some of<br />

Australia’s leading parenting and family<br />

magazines including: Australian Parents<br />

Magazine, Pregnancy Magazine, Family<br />

Living Magazine. As well as that she has held<br />

editorial roles at one of Australia’s largest<br />

niche lifestyle publishers. A mother of three<br />

girls she lives and breathes parenting…<br />

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PG. 3


GALLERY<br />

The <strong>DOGGIES</strong> IN ACTION


PRESIDENTS REPORT<br />

Welcome to Season 2015.<br />

I would like to take this opportunity to welcome all returning and new members to the East<br />

Bulldogs Club for this upcoming 2015 season.<br />

I am pleased to announce that we have a record 196 ‘Auskickers’ and over 300 youth players at<br />

the club this year.<br />

Although it has been a soggy start to the season we are now getting into the swing of things<br />

with some great footy being played across the age groups.<br />

On behalf of the committee we wish all players, parents, coaches, team managers and volunteers<br />

the very best for the season.<br />

We encourage all families to Like our Facebook Page:<br />

www.facebook.com/eastsydneybulldogs?fref=ts and Follow our Twitter Account<br />

www.twitter.com/EastBulldogs and upload photos of your kids enjoying their AFL week in and<br />

week out.<br />

We are also working closely with the Sydney Swans this year and look forward to providing you<br />

various discounted offers throughout the year.<br />

All the very best for 2015 from myself and the rest of the committee,<br />

I am also pleased to announce that Robyn Gipters has signed on as our Communications<br />

Manager. She had already worked her magic setting up new up-to-date mailing lists which can be<br />

segmented into specific age groups as well as the club as a whole. Fingers crossed this should<br />

result in those families with more than one player not getting multiple emails on the same topic.<br />

If you still get more than one please let her know: robyn.gipters@gmail.com.<br />

We are also close to launching our new website which will also incorporate both Facebook<br />

and Twitter.<br />

We hope you enjoy ‘The Doggies Magazine’ first issue!<br />

Regards<br />

Iain Dunstan<br />

President<br />

PG. 5


LOW<br />

Any reasonably informed<br />

parent knows that too<br />

much added sugar in their<br />

child’s diet is not good for<br />

them. However too much<br />

refined starch in their diets<br />

is just as harmful, yet it<br />

slips under the radar. The<br />

simple thinking of ‘complex<br />

carbs are good and sugar is<br />

bad’ abounds and leads us<br />

to making many incorrect<br />

choices when it comes to the<br />

best foods for our kids. The<br />

glycaemic index research<br />

over the last few decades<br />

has shown us that the actual<br />

affect of a food on our<br />

blood glucose levels is not<br />

determined by whether that<br />

food is a complex carb (i.e.<br />

starch) or a simple sugar.<br />

In fact many foods rich<br />

in starch cause far bigger<br />

effects on blood glucose<br />

than many foods containing<br />

sugars. Why does any of this<br />

matter for kids?<br />

Swap this high GI food<br />

Majority of breakfast cereals<br />

White & wholemeal bread<br />

Potatoes<br />

White rice<br />

Rice crackers & potato snack foods<br />

PG. 6<br />

GI For Kids<br />

• Blood glucose fuels the brain<br />

and so it follows that rapidly<br />

fluctuating blood glucose levels<br />

has the potential to negatively<br />

carbohydrate. This is not a normal<br />

situation and the body does not<br />

deal with it well. If it continues<br />

the pancreas can simply fail to<br />

impact concentration and meet demand.<br />

cognitive function. This also has • Having too much insulin around,<br />

the potential to affect their mood, too much of the time also has the<br />

behavior and energy levels. potential to affect fat metabolism,<br />

• We also know that blood glucose<br />

‘spikes’ that occur after eating high<br />

GI meals, damage blood vessels. If<br />

this starts during childhood then<br />

the accumulation of damage after<br />

years of such eating will surely<br />

with the end result being more<br />

fat being stored and less being<br />

burned as fuel. In this way not<br />

just the overall kilojoules in the<br />

diet, but where they are coming<br />

from can affect the risk of obesity<br />

cause cardiovascular problems and overweight<br />

earlier in life.<br />

• We are seeing children in their<br />

The glycaemic index is simply<br />

a ranking of foods containing<br />

teens being diagnosed with type carbohydrates, comparing the<br />

2-diabetes. High blood glucose effect on blood glucose levels. The<br />

levels means the pancreas has to good news is that you don’t need<br />

work hard to produce enough to know the actual GI number to<br />

insulin to get glucose out of<br />

the blood stream and into cells<br />

around the body. A high GI diet<br />

therefore requires a lot more<br />

insulin to be dealt with than a low<br />

GI one with the same amount of<br />

follow a low GI diet. All you need<br />

to know are the best low GI food<br />

choices for your family, and learn<br />

the best swaps you can make for<br />

the higher GI foods you currently<br />

have. Here are my suggestions:<br />

For this low GI food<br />

Porridge made from traditional rolled oats<br />

Muesli – while many kids might not like natural muesli (although don’t make<br />

that assumption – they might surprise you) they might well enjoy Bircher muesli<br />

(soaked overnight in fridge) or a crunchier muesli. Best breakfast cereals are<br />

wholegrain and when combined with fruit, yoghurt and/or milk they still make a<br />

good breakfast choice for kids.<br />

Wholegrain breads (look for lots of ‘bits’ in the bread), stoneground breads,<br />

sourdough breads, wholegrain tortillas, sprouted grain breads. There are a couple<br />

of low GI white breads now available if your kids really won’t eat wholegrain or<br />

rye. Dense fruit breads also have a low GI.<br />

Smaller potatoes tend to have a lower GI. Alternatively choose sweet corn, beans,<br />

lentils, chickpeas or sweet potato (moderate GI). Yam & taro are also low GI &<br />

great foods to experiment with if you haven’t tried them before.<br />

Basmati & Doongara rice have lower GIs, although I still prefer brown rice for<br />

it’s higher nutritional value, but is not however always low GI. Look for brown<br />

basmati or the wonderful range of red, black and wild rice now widely available.<br />

Low GI options include barley (makes a wonderful nutty risotto), bulgur, quinoa,<br />

noodles & pasta (I like to use wholegrain).<br />

Wholegrain or rye crackers, oatcakes or oat based muesli bars, dense fruit breads<br />

or popcorn (watch for added sugar & salt). Most whole fruit is also low GI. Dairy<br />

foods are all low GI. Yoghurt or a smoothie made with milk, yoghurt & fruit is an<br />

ideal snack. Nuts contain very little carbohydrate and therefore don’t have a GI –<br />

outside of school include these foods more.


NB You can also<br />

use the search engine on<br />

www.glycemicindex.com<br />

for foods and products. For<br />

those with a low GI search<br />

for equal to or less<br />

than a GI of 55.<br />

A sample kid’s day might<br />

look like this:<br />

Breakfast: porridge with yoghurt,<br />

mixed berries & slivered almonds<br />

Morning tea: oatcakes with cheese<br />

Lunch: wholegrain stone-ground<br />

bread sandwich with chicken &<br />

avocado, an orange & a bag of<br />

popcorn<br />

Afternoon tea: berry & banana<br />

smoothie<br />

Dinner: Salmon and veggie Pasta,<br />

followed by homemade custard<br />

(then you control the sugar content)<br />

with sliced banana or stewed fruit<br />

When you consider the low GI<br />

foods above, you can see that for<br />

the most part they are wholesome,<br />

minimally processed foods. To me<br />

the GI is really just scientists working<br />

out one of the reasons these foods<br />

are better for us! But one word of<br />

warning: Just because a food has<br />

a low GI, doesn’t automatically<br />

make it a good choice. The GI is<br />

just one tool to help us make better<br />

food choices for our families, but<br />

there are many other nutritional<br />

considerations. Ice-cream has a low<br />

GI, but clearly we understand why<br />

this is a ‘sometimes’ and not an<br />

everyday food. Instead use the GI<br />

to help you make the best choices<br />

within each of the above categories<br />

and above all keep your focus on<br />

foods that are as close to how<br />

nature intended as possible.<br />

Dr Joanna McMillan<br />

Registered Nutritionist, Accredited Practising Dietitian, & Mum to Oliver (year 4) and Lewis (year 2).<br />

For more information on 'The Dr Joanna Plate' go to www.drjoanna.com.au, your trusted nutrition and healthy lifestyle hub.


PG. 9


PG. 10<br />

TIPS For Being a Positive<br />

SIDELINE PARENT<br />

Every year we hear stories about sideline fighting between parents. We witness<br />

some mums and dads constantly yelling at the coaches or at their own children or<br />

even worse at other people’s children. We see parents on the sideline behaving badly.<br />

Good sideline behaviour by parents not only makes the sporting experience more<br />

enjoyable for all involved but it also sets the right example for your children.<br />

Attend your child’s games<br />

Don’t put your child on a pedestal<br />

Be positive<br />

+<br />

by Georgina Senes<br />

Here are some ways that you can demonstrate good sportsmanship on the sidelines<br />

at your child’s game:<br />

When you show up to your children’s games you are showing them that they are important to you<br />

and that you value their participation. All kids need to feel supported by their parents and there is no<br />

better way to do it than by being there on the sideline cheering them on.<br />

Try and refrain from instructing<br />

from the sidelines<br />

Remember to respect the role of the coach and to support them. Try and refrain from instructing your<br />

child from the sideline – you might be saying one thing whilst the coach another. Your intervention<br />

and instruction might actually be confusing your child and inhibiting their performance.<br />

Be careful not to brag about your child’s abilities as this can cause a whole lot of problems. Not only<br />

will it make you unpopular with other parents but it can also place a lot of pressure of your child to<br />

perform.<br />

Don’t criticise the players<br />

No one likes a “know-it-all” parent who spends the whole time critiquing the players and the<br />

coaches. In most cases it is best to keep your criticisms to yourself – they wont make you any friends<br />

and they wont improve the quality of play.<br />

Always relate positively to your child’s efforts. Even if your child drops the ball or misses a goal try<br />

and react in a positive way. Tell your child “better luck next time” or “good try” – this is far more<br />

beneficial to your child than any negative response. As a parent you should be your child’s main cheer<br />

squad. They should always feel that you have their back and that you are proud of them regardless of<br />

their on field performance.


Think about how others perceive you<br />

Think about how your sideline behaviour is perceived by other parents, coaches and players. Imagine<br />

if you where to watch a video play back of your behaviour – ask yourself how would you feel, would<br />

you be happy with your reactions?<br />

Display good sportsmanship<br />

and have fun<br />

If you are supportive and positive in the way you behave it will flow over to the children. Don’t<br />

treat the opposing team as the enemy. Chat to the parents from the opposing side, be friendly and<br />

congratulate any player that does a good job – regardless of what side they are on. If your child<br />

sees you behaving in a positive way and being friendly and having fun they will get the important<br />

message that the game is not life or death and that how you conduct yourself both on field and off is<br />

important.<br />

Whatever you do never condone poor sportsmanship. If you see your child behaving in an<br />

unsportsmanlike way make sure you pull them up on their behaviour. Likewise if you see a coach<br />

reacting badly to an umpire or referee’s call don’t cheer them on or encourage the behaviour. If we as<br />

parents lose our perspective then how can we expect our children to keep theirs!<br />

Thank the officials<br />

Take the time at the end of the game to thank the coaches and umpires. You might not always agree<br />

with their calls or plays but it is very important that you are always respectful and that you teach your<br />

children to respect the role of the coach, umpire and any other officials.<br />

Be constructive post match<br />

After any game regardless whether it’s a win or loss, point out the positives. Offer constructive<br />

criticism and suggestions for improvement. If your child is having difficulty with a particular aspect of<br />

their sport then offer to help them practice so that they can strengthen their skills and feel positive<br />

and excited about the next game.<br />

Acknowledge your child’s feelings<br />

It’s important that you let children express<br />

themselves after a game. Some kids might<br />

be frustrated or annoyed after a loss or a<br />

disappointing performance. Let your child vent<br />

their feelings and acknowledge them and offer<br />

support.


PG. 13


crazy SIMPLE<br />

CHANGES THAT<br />

YOU CAN MAKE<br />

FOR YOUR FAMILY<br />

TO HELP THEM<br />

GET BACK ON<br />

THE HEALTHY<br />

10<br />

0<br />

0TRACK!<br />

Life is so insanely busy that it is only<br />

natural that we drop a few balls along the<br />

way. When you are stressed out and time<br />

poor it’s all too easy to grab a quick takeaway<br />

for dinner, to skip your morning walk<br />

and to throw the kids a packet of chips as<br />

their after school snack. All these things are<br />

fine to do once in a while but it’s important<br />

to make sure that they don’t become regular<br />

habits.<br />

1<br />

Prioritise your food and exercise<br />

There is always an excuse or another job to do<br />

but if you are really serious about instilling healthy<br />

lifestyle practices within your family then you need to<br />

make food and exercise a priority.<br />

2<br />

Resurrect<br />

family meal time and<br />

actually sit at the table!<br />

Our busy schedules can sometimes make sitting<br />

down to a meal let alone sitting down to a meal as<br />

a family difficult. But it needs to be made a priority.<br />

Research has shown that family meals not only<br />

help teenagers to perform better both socially and<br />

emotionally but that sitting down at the table to eat<br />

dinner as a family without the distractions of TV or<br />

electronic devices, promotes weight control.<br />

PG. 14<br />

When you find yourself slipping and things<br />

spiraling out of control it’s really important<br />

to regroup, re focus and make a few simple<br />

changes to your family’s lifestyle that will<br />

help them get back on the “healthy lifestyle”<br />

track!<br />

3<br />

3Cut back on takeaway<br />

by Georgina Senes<br />

Have a good look at how much takeaway<br />

your family actually eats. This includes work<br />

lunches, school tuck shop, afterschool treats and<br />

quick-fix dinners. You will be surprised by the amount<br />

of takeaway that the average family consumes. Being<br />

organised and planning your family’s meals and snacks<br />

can minimize the amount of hidden fats and sugars<br />

found in take away and processed foods that your<br />

family consumes.<br />

4<br />

4Make the rule that its water during<br />

the week and juice and fizzy<br />

drinks are weekend treats<br />

Most of us don’t regularly drink enough water each<br />

day. Get into the habit of encouraging your child to<br />

try and drink plenty of water each day. The occasional<br />

juice or fizzy drink is ok as a special treat but should<br />

not be made a regular part of either your or your child’s<br />

weekday routine.


5<br />

5Increase the family’s<br />

vegetable intake<br />

You might think it’s great if you manage to eat<br />

half a plate of veggies a few nights a week whilst the<br />

truth of the matter is that your body actually needs that<br />

amount each and every day! You need to establish some<br />

regular vegetable eating habits that simply become<br />

part of your family’s daily routine. Every couple of days<br />

cut up capsicum, celery and carrots and put them in<br />

plastic containers in the fridge. Offer the veggies along<br />

with humous or another healthy dip as an afternoon<br />

or pre dinner snack. Add a zip lock back of veggies to<br />

your child’s lunchbox each day and take some with you<br />

when you go out.<br />

6<br />

6Lead by example<br />

It’s not rocket science – if you want healthy<br />

kids, you have to be healthy yourself. Children,<br />

particularly school-aged ones, model their behaviour on<br />

their parents so if you want them to eat well, exercise<br />

and live a healthy lifestyle then you need to set a good<br />

example.<br />

7<br />

7Enjoy the sunshine<br />

Make sure that all the family gets at least 10<br />

minutes of sunlight every day. Whilst not directly<br />

linked to nutrition, getting enough vitamin D each<br />

day is vital for strong bones and optimal mood.ay and<br />

processed foods that your family consumes.<br />

8<br />

8Only eat food you love<br />

We have all heard the saying “life is too short<br />

to eat bad food” – well it’s true! If you know<br />

that certain foods are full of bad fats, preservatives and<br />

additives then why choose to eat them and put them<br />

in your body? The occasional treat is fine but eating<br />

rubbish regularly just because you are too lazy to find a<br />

healthy alternative is a poor excuse. The more you look<br />

after your body and feed it properly the better you will<br />

feel and the better you will look!<br />

9<br />

9Change your families favourite<br />

meal to a healthier version<br />

If your kids favourite meal is chicken schnitzel<br />

and chips look at healthier versions like oven baked<br />

crispy chicken and baked potatoes that they will also<br />

enjoy but which are better for them. It’s not hard to<br />

tweak a meal and make a healthier version you just<br />

need to get creative and plan ahead.<br />

10<br />

a physical activity that the<br />

whole family loves<br />

10Find<br />

Find ways to incorporate movement and<br />

activity into your family’s weekly routine. Look for<br />

activities like stand up paddle boarding, swimming or<br />

backyard cricket that are fun and entertaining for the<br />

whole family but also get you moving.<br />

PG. 15


Why Do You Need<br />

To Take Youth & Kids<br />

Sports Injuries Seriously?<br />

40% of all youth (children, teenager and<br />

adolescent) injuries are sports-related.<br />

Injuries related to sports participation<br />

fall into two types of trauma:<br />

• Macro (due to a single traumatic event eg<br />

fracture) and<br />

• Micro (due to repetitive overuse trauma).<br />

Injuries in young athletes are often<br />

trivialised. They are usually asked or<br />

encouraged to “toughen up and play<br />

through the pain.”<br />

This approach is not in the young<br />

athlete’s best interest for the following<br />

reasons:<br />

• It often leads to delayed healing and return to<br />

sports,<br />

• It can turn an easily treatable injury into one that<br />

becomes difficult to treat and<br />

• In some cases, it can result in a permanent injury<br />

that precludes sports participation.<br />

An Accurate Diagnosis is Essential<br />

In most cases, your physiotherapist can<br />

make the diagnosis via the injury history<br />

and performing a physical examination.<br />

The adolescent’s age, sex, and level of<br />

participation in sports are important. A<br />

description of how the injury occurred is<br />

valuable. Your physiotherapist will want to<br />

know if there was a “pop,” swelling, history<br />

of previous injury, family history of similar<br />

injury, locking or giving<br />

way, or other signs or<br />

symptoms.<br />

While special tests can be helpful, in certain<br />

circumstances an accurate diagnosis can be made<br />

90% of the time by taking a good history and<br />

performing a systematic examination of the injured<br />

joint.<br />

Most overuse injuries, such as stress fractures<br />

and tendinopathy, are preventable. If your child<br />

suffers any overuse injury, the first choice of<br />

treatment is rest until a medical opinion<br />

can be sought.<br />

PG. 16


In young athletes, this means avoiding the activity that is causing<br />

the problem, or reducing the intensity, until the discomfort resolves.<br />

Bed rest or immobilisation are rarely needed.<br />

• Allow kids to play at their own intensity and pace.<br />

• Encourage your child to start getting in shape and conditioning<br />

a month before any team sports are to begin.<br />

• Emphasise stretching and flexibility exercises.<br />

• Make sure fields are in reasonably good condition and that<br />

protective equipment fits correctly (helmets, shoulder pads,<br />

shin guards, etc.).<br />

Adolescents have a lot of enjoyable sporting<br />

years ahead of them. It would be a shame to<br />

see this enjoyment ended too soon. When<br />

in doubt, seek expert medical advice. It’s<br />

better to be safe than sorry. In general,<br />

kids are motivated to play sports<br />

because it is fun. Parents and coaches<br />

who demand too much may be putting<br />

their children at risk.


Sibling Rivalry<br />

All siblings are bound to fight – its part<br />

of growing up. But listening to your<br />

children bicker, argue and tease each<br />

other can be upsetting and frustrating.<br />

Here are some simple strategies that will<br />

help to minimise conflict between your<br />

children and help them to get along.<br />

Steps every parent can take to help their kids get along<br />

by Georgina Senes<br />

Set the standard of behaviour:<br />

As parents we are responsible for setting<br />

the standard of behaviour that we find acceptable<br />

within our family. Make sure that all of your<br />

children clearly understand what you consider<br />

to be acceptable and unacceptable behaviour<br />

and what the consequences are for when these<br />

standards are not adhered to.<br />

Avoid comparisons:<br />

One of the greatest mistakes any parent<br />

can make is to compare their children – especially<br />

if it is done in front of them. Comparing your<br />

children’s abilities can breed resentment, insecurity<br />

and frustration. Avoid discussing any differences<br />

between your children in front of them.<br />

PG. 18<br />

Respect their individuality:<br />

Every child is different – that’s what<br />

makes each one of them so special. That is why<br />

as parents it is essential that we parent each of<br />

our children individually. Treating your children<br />

uniformly is for the most part impractical and<br />

more often than not ineffective because each<br />

child has different tastes, talents and needs. Just<br />

because one child loves playing soccer does not<br />

automatically mean that your other children do<br />

too.<br />

Stay out of the conflict:<br />

As a parent you need to be Switzerland.<br />

It is vital as parents that we encourage our<br />

children to settle their differences and resolve<br />

their disputes by themselves. At times, especially<br />

with younger children, it might be necessary to<br />

step in and help them to resolve the problem<br />

but even then try not to take sides. If you need<br />

to discipline one of your children, try and do<br />

it privately and not in front of their siblings as<br />

this can cause embarrassment, resentment and<br />

further exacerbate the rift between your children.<br />

Look ahead and avoid potential<br />

disputes:<br />

As parents we are well aware of our children’s<br />

little idiosyncrasies and the things that will get<br />

them worked up. Consider the areas or the things<br />

that your children regularly fight about and devise<br />

solutions to these issues that will prevent the<br />

conflict from continuously reoccurring.


Promote good behaviour and praise<br />

conflict resolution:<br />

All children love to be encouraged so when you<br />

see your kids playing nicely together, sharing<br />

without complaint or being considerate of each<br />

others feelings, acknowledge the good behaviour<br />

to them. Likewise, when your children have<br />

an argument or disagreement and manage to<br />

resolve it without your involvement (or minimum<br />

involvement) verbalise to them how proud you<br />

are of them and how well they have handled the<br />

situation.<br />

Listen to what your children have to<br />

say:<br />

Being a kid can be hard and being a sibling<br />

can be incredibly frustrating. Understand that<br />

it is normal for your children to feel anger and<br />

resentment towards each other so allow them<br />

to communicate this with you. Listen when they<br />

want to express themselves to you and talk about<br />

the negative feelings they are experiencing.<br />

Acknowledge and accept how they feel and try<br />

and talk about ways they can handle situations<br />

in the future to avoid these feelings. A good<br />

technique is to talk about your childhood and to<br />

tell your child stories about experiences that you<br />

had with your own siblings whilst growing up.<br />

Let them know that they are not alone – that all<br />

siblings feel this way at some time or another.<br />

Try to have some one on one time:<br />

It is not always possible and it is not<br />

always practical but it is none the less very important<br />

to spend some quality one on one time with each of<br />

your children. Spending time individually with each<br />

of your children helps to make them feel special and<br />

helps them to feel connected to you. Try and make<br />

an effort to take a little time out every once in a<br />

while and spend some quality one on one time with<br />

each of your children.<br />

The important thing to remember is that all siblings fight. They always have, they always<br />

will – it is completely normal. However if you are able to implement some of the above<br />

strategies; if you are able to communicate with them, treat them as individuals and help<br />

them to resolve their own problems, you will go along way in reducing the amount of<br />

sibling rivalry between your children and will help to enforce positive, strong relationships<br />

between them.


Grand Designs<br />

is reality TV, but not how it really works<br />

If you’ve ever watched this popular TV<br />

home building show, you may have<br />

noticed that only a handful of homes<br />

are elegant, achieve planning approvals<br />

relatively smoothly and are not<br />

constantly amended during construction.<br />

More often than not, these projects are<br />

architect-designed.<br />

Trouble is, a smooth sailing project just doesn’t<br />

make great TV and goes against the aims of the<br />

show’s producers. They’re under pressure to serve<br />

up a heightened level of drama and uncertainty<br />

to attract viewers and keep them watching. They<br />

know that watching real people aiming to create<br />

their dream home and stuffing up is TV gold.<br />

Unfortunately, one of the by-products of this<br />

approach is that the role of the architect is often<br />

concealed or entirely absent. This is particularly<br />

evident in well-executed projects where an<br />

architect is involved. This erasing of the architect’s<br />

role often becomes a very obvious ‘elephant in the<br />

room’. It perpetuates the myth espoused by much<br />

of the building industry, not to mention that missinformed<br />

‘brother in law’ of yours, who says that<br />

you don’t need an architect.<br />

Actually, you do. Here are just a few reasons why:<br />

• Appoint an architect to your project and you’ll<br />

gain a home designed for the way you want to<br />

live. The alternative is a builder-designed home<br />

that suits what the builder is used to building.<br />

Good builders ask for plans and specifications to<br />

be thoroughly documented so that they can go<br />

ahead and do what they do best, which is build.<br />

Working out with the owner what you’re going<br />

to build and why is the architect’s role.<br />

• An architect manages planning approvals. This<br />

process is complex, often arbitrarily applied<br />

by many Councils, fraught with pitfalls for the<br />

novice and is ramped up every year with new<br />

hoops to jump. If you want a professional on<br />

your side who knows the territory, will go in to<br />

bat for you and will forge a way through this<br />

minefield, you need an architect.<br />

• If you’d prefer to put the works to tender to a<br />

number of builders rather than having to accept<br />

the quote of the builder you started the process<br />

with, you need an architect.<br />

• If you’d prefer to protect yourself with a<br />

proper, architect-managed ABIC contract that<br />

works equally for both parties and is legally<br />

enforceable, you need an architect.<br />

• An architect will minimise costly changes during<br />

construction as he or she will produce a proper<br />

level of drawings (expect 20 x A3 pages for a<br />

new home, rather than the 1-2 pages you’ll<br />

receive from a drafting service.). The reasons for<br />

this is that you have on paper exactly what you<br />

want to build. Without this, you are entering a<br />

contract with a builder with none of the details<br />

resolved. You wouldn’t do that if you were<br />

buying a house, so why do it when spending an<br />

equally significant amount of money?


Unfortunately, some builders see this approach<br />

as an opportunity to happily accept constant<br />

changes from ‘project managing’ owners<br />

because it’s just another variation that he can<br />

charge for. The longer he is there, the better for<br />

his margins, particularly when there’s no contract<br />

to speak of.<br />

• Despite the constant reference to it on TV shows,<br />

there is no such thing as a project manager on<br />

single house residential projects. What you have<br />

is an owner and the builder who manages his<br />

contractors. The owner in this scenario should<br />

simply let the builder do his job. A better use<br />

of the owner’s time and money would’ve been<br />

to have an architect design and document it<br />

properly first, which would’ve streamlined the<br />

process. There is a role for a representative on site<br />

who protects the interests of the owners – the<br />

architect.<br />

• ‘Architecturally-designed’ is a phrase real<br />

estate agents love to use. Reason being that<br />

professional design input invariably adds<br />

considerable value to a property. Architectdesigned<br />

buildings are more desirable and sought<br />

after by an increasingly sophisticated, designconscious<br />

market seeking the benefits of living<br />

with good design.<br />

• Finally, an architect is a specialist with a<br />

professional duty of care, irrespective of financial<br />

gain. In other words, they’re there to support and<br />

protect you, without benefit to themselves. No<br />

one else in the building industry can provide this.<br />

So , whether you’re about to embark on<br />

a renovation or new build, ignore the<br />

myths, reality TV and your brother-inlaw.<br />

You know what you need to do.<br />

Robert Harwood<br />

Director, My Architect<br />

www.my-architect.com.au<br />

0427 236 252


y Georgina Senes<br />

10Every parent knows that children should be eating a ‘balanced<br />

diet’ but what exactly is a balanced diet and how can you make<br />

sure that your child is getting all the nutrients and vitamins that<br />

they need?


Even more so than adults, children need nutritionally dense foods and healthy fats to help both their body and<br />

mind grow and develop.<br />

All too often we think of ‘kids food’ as those quick and easy meal options that will be consumed without<br />

complaint or fuss, when what we should really be thinking about is what foods can we feed our kids that pack<br />

the most powerful nutritional punch?<br />

Here are some simple ‘Super-Foods’ that can easily be incorporated into your child’s diet and which will help them<br />

to get all the vitamins and minerals that they need in a day:<br />

Eggs<br />

The unassuming egg is not only a little protein power<br />

ball but it is also one of the few foods that naturally<br />

contain vitamin D, which helps the body absorb<br />

calcium. Eating protein for breakfast helps kids to feel<br />

satisfied for longer and prevents those mid morning<br />

hunger pangs.<br />

Oatmeal<br />

Fiber-rich whole grains, like oatmeal, digest slowly,<br />

providing kids with a steady stream of energy.<br />

Blueberries<br />

Packed with antioxidants, blueberries also help ward of<br />

cancer and other diseases.<br />

Sweet Potatoes<br />

This is a vey versatile vegetable that can be easily<br />

incorporated into many a meal. Loaded with beta<br />

carotene, vitamin E, vitamin B6, potassium and iron,<br />

they pack a huge punch.<br />

Avocados<br />

These are a fantastic source of monounsaturated or<br />

‘good’ fats which are essential in aiding growth and<br />

development in children.<br />

Broccoli<br />

This green goodness is chock full of vitamins and<br />

minerals and helps ward off cell damage and helps<br />

eyesight in kids.<br />

Yogurt<br />

A great kid friendly snack that is full of calcium, protein,<br />

vitamin B, zinc and phosphorus.<br />

Tuna and Salmon<br />

Some kids are hesitant to try tuna or salmon but if you<br />

can convince them to give it a go it’s worth it as it’s<br />

completely packed with Omega-3 which is a healthy<br />

fat that helps brain development and sets your child up<br />

for a healthy heart.<br />

Beans and Legumes<br />

There are such a variety of beans available that the<br />

chances are your child will like one type or another.<br />

Beans are a fantastic source of fiber and actually<br />

promote good blood sugar by releasing glucose slowly<br />

which helps to stabalise mood and energy levels.<br />

Seaweed<br />

Packed with loads of Amino acids, vitamins and<br />

minerals seaweed is said to be one of the most dense in<br />

nutrient foods on the planet – perfect for the growing<br />

brains and bodies of children!<br />

Try and incorporate some of these foods into your child’s daily food intake and you will be setting them up with<br />

good future food habits and helping their young bodies to get all the vitamins, minerals and energies that they<br />

need to develop and function at an optimum level.


Name: Adam Goodes<br />

Your nickname: Goodesy<br />

One word to describe you: Honest<br />

Favourite player to watch growing up:<br />

Gilbert McAdam<br />

Who has had the most influence on your<br />

career: My coaches<br />

Toughest individual opponent: Chris Judd<br />

Thriftiest player at your club: Kieren Jack<br />

The next big thing at your club: Aliir Aliir<br />

The smartest thing you have been told:<br />

Train smarter<br />

If you could be anywhere in the world<br />

right now, where would you be:<br />

SCG, Saturday night, huge crowd<br />

Do you have any strange phobias: Nope<br />

Your can’t-miss TV shows: None<br />

Your favourite cartoon as a kid: X Men<br />

If you had to choose another career, what<br />

would it be: Professional soccer player<br />

What do you normally eat for breakfast:<br />

Porridge with banana and honey<br />

Your last meal would be:<br />

Cadbury Marvelous Creation Block<br />

Your favourite holiday destination:<br />

South Coast NSW, Jarvis Bay, Gerringong<br />

In the movie of your life, you’d be played<br />

by: Luke Carrol<br />

What are your three essential items:<br />

Keys, Icebergs membership, premiership medals<br />

Best subject at school: Maths methods<br />

Which big ticket sporting event would<br />

you love to attend: NFL Super Bowl<br />

PG. 24


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Orthodontists receive an additional two to three<br />

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complete this formal education may call<br />

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When Is The Best Time To Seek<br />

Treatment For Your Child’s Teeth?<br />

While orthodontic treatment most often begins<br />

between the ages of 9 and 14, some children’s<br />

orthodontic problems can benefit from earlier<br />

treatment. If it appears that your child will need<br />

treatment at some point, your orthodontist can<br />

advise you about the best time to begin.<br />

If early treatment is indicated, it can give your<br />

orthodontist the chance to:<br />

• Guide jaw growth<br />

• Lower the risk of trauma to protruded front<br />

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• Correct harmful oral habits<br />

• Improve appearance and self-esteem<br />

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What Are The Sign’s My Childs Bite Is<br />

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Signs the Bite’s Not Right It’s not always easy to<br />

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Even teeth that look straight may be hiding an<br />

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• Early or late loss of baby teeth<br />

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Osteoarthritis is the<br />

most common form of<br />

arthritis. It is known as<br />

the ‘wear & tear’ of joints<br />

causing symptoms of<br />

pain, swelling, and loss<br />

of function. It can affect<br />

any joint of the body but<br />

is commonly seen in the<br />

knees and hips. Building<br />

control and strength in<br />

the hips, core and feet<br />

can make a huge positive<br />

impact on both pain<br />

and function. Although<br />

joint damage cannot be<br />

reversed it can definitely<br />

be delayed further with<br />

improved lower limb<br />

alignment and strength.<br />

Ursula from Paddington has<br />

been suffering from OA for<br />

many years and started physio<br />

led Pilates classes to try to<br />

prevent the inevitable knee<br />

replacement.<br />

Here’s what she has to say...<br />

“When I told my husband the other day that our Pilates class had<br />

been asked to identify tangible improvements he looked doubtful,<br />

and assumed I couldn’t come up with anything. On the contrary, I<br />

could think of several improvements, even very basic ones such as<br />

being able to get dressed without having to hang on to a chair.<br />

A few years ago the osteoarthritis in my knees could be so painful<br />

at times that I had to give up tennis, had trouble doing long walks,<br />

dreaded getting off buses with a big gap down to the pavement,<br />

and I remember an invitation to a wedding where there would be<br />

dancing sent me off to my GP for help. Cortisone injections laced<br />

with anaesthetics the day before did the trick, but that was no<br />

long term solution. I’d been advised I would at some stage need<br />

knee replacements, but I wanted to put that off as long as possible<br />

so I took up Pilates classes in the hope of strengthening the leg<br />

muscles into taking much of the strain off the knees.<br />

After only 1 class a week with Pro-align, I can get up and down<br />

the stairs in our three storey terrace without pain, walk regularly<br />

from Paddington to Camperdown, and can get up from the beach<br />

without help from anyone else. I still cant kneel but last month we<br />

danced for hours at a wedding with no pain medication from the<br />

GP!.”<br />

“Nicest of all is that I can lift up my grandchildren to give<br />

them a big hug.”<br />

Pro-align offers Pilates based rehab classes under the supervision of physiotherapists.<br />

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A Moment with<br />

Marelle<br />

AUSKICK<br />

Another exciting Season ahead. Numbers from<br />

Under 5 to Under 9 sit nicely at 196 participants<br />

with a waiting list in each age group. Easts also<br />

have a large contingent of new players, which<br />

we welcome to the Club and hope they enjoy<br />

the community spirit which continues to grow<br />

each and every year.<br />

While we haven’t had a great start to the<br />

season with some wet conditions, we have had<br />

the opportunity to get out on the park and play<br />

some good footy.<br />

We wish all young footy superstars all the very<br />

best for Season 2015. All that the Club requires<br />

in Auskick, is that all our participants have a fun<br />

and safe time, enjoy making new friends and be<br />

part of a wonderful community of children and<br />

families.<br />

KICKABILITY<br />

Kickability is a specialized Aussie Rules program<br />

designed to allow boys and girls with a disability<br />

the opportunity to be involved in Australia’s<br />

game. A program which has been developed<br />

for children 5-17 years of age with a disability.<br />

The sessions are conducted by Daniel, a trained<br />

coach with an understanding of the limitations<br />

that each child with a disability may encounter.<br />

The focus is on the development of fundamental<br />

movement skills as well as teaching the players<br />

the basic AFL skills.<br />

If you know of anyone who may be interested<br />

and would like to be a part of our East Sydney<br />

Bulldogs Community, please pass on my details:<br />

marelle.sharpe@optusnet.com.au or 0405 109<br />

112. The program is on Monday at Trumper<br />

Park from 5.30pm-6.30pm. Cost is $100 which<br />

includes Shorts, Socks, Coach and Auskick Pack.<br />

PG. 27

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