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China<br />

“Adoption <strong>is</strong> like a journey. You travel<br />

beautiful mountains and valleys,<br />

but sometimes it’s hard too.”<br />

Above: A child in care, 2004 • Clockw<strong>is</strong>e from top: Bi Jian Jun, Executive Director of <strong>Holt</strong> China Children’s Services and<br />

Country Director for <strong>Holt</strong>’s China Program, enjoys the teamwork of her job and considers the work she does for children a<br />

privilege. She says she finds inspiration in those she works with and keeps the goal of finding families for children close to her<br />

heart. Here she hugs a child in care at Lanzhou, March 2005. • The childcare superv<strong>is</strong>or at the Nanchang Orphanage baby<br />

unit models affectionate care that helps children survive and develop, March 2005. • A foster mother holds a child, Fuzhou,<br />

2004. Foster families lav<strong>is</strong>h children placed in their care with love and attention, and then release them to their adoptive<br />

families. Despite the attachment that invariably grows between these children and temporary parents, most foster mothers<br />

and fathers continue to take in children. • At the White Swan Hotel, Renée Lemley gives daughter Emerson Gray her first<br />

bath after she received her, Autumn 2004. • <strong>Holt</strong> adoptees Grace Kirkpatrick, left, and Emily Young, right, play dress-up on<br />

<strong>Holt</strong> <strong>International</strong>’s first ever Family Tour to China, June 2005. • Jian Chen, <strong>Holt</strong>’s U.S. Director of <strong>International</strong> Programs for<br />

China, v<strong>is</strong>its a boy in care at a group home in Nanchang, March 2005.<br />

When <strong>Holt</strong> President, David Kim, and Director of <strong>International</strong><br />

Programs, John Williams, surveyed conditions in China in 1993,<br />

they came across a ward in one institution where nearly every<br />

child was dangerously weak.<br />

David picked up one especially malnour<strong>is</strong>hed child and asked<br />

for formula. At first the little girl wouldn’t feed, but holding her<br />

tiny body, he massaged her feet to stimulate circulation. The little<br />

girl’s l<strong>is</strong>tless eyes regained some luster as she looked at David and<br />

began to feed.<br />

<strong>Holt</strong> immediately began to mobilize for a significant effort in<br />

the People’s Republic of China, operating at first out of its small<br />

program in Hong Kong and ass<strong>is</strong>ting a privately run foster care<br />

project in Guangxi province.<br />

Building on concepts developed in th<strong>is</strong> program, <strong>Holt</strong> took a<br />

new and unique approach. Among its first efforts was to begin<br />

placing orphanage children into well-managed and loving local<br />

foster homes, combining th<strong>is</strong> with a “Baby Care Unit” that<br />

provided intensive care for the highest r<strong>is</strong>k children in the<br />

orphanage. <strong>Holt</strong> worked together as an equal partner with<br />

government-run orphanages to initiate programs that could<br />

26 50th Anniversary 2006<br />

— Bi Jian Jun, Executive Director of <strong>Holt</strong> China Children’s Services<br />

and Country Director for <strong>Holt</strong>’s China Program, speaking at an<br />

orientation for adoptive parents in China to receive their children,<br />

March 2005.<br />

gradually be taken over by local<br />

management and support,<br />

saving the lives of hundreds<br />

of children while protecting<br />

them from the debilitating<br />

effects of growing up in an<br />

institution.<br />

To th<strong>is</strong> day, <strong>Holt</strong> enjoys a relationship<br />

of trust with the Chinese government and <strong>is</strong> recognized as<br />

a pioneer in cooperative and culturally sensitive foster care and<br />

other support, reaching out to nearly 3,000 abandoned children<br />

every year around China in locations far from the larger well-traveled<br />

cities.<br />

<strong>Holt</strong> was one of the first American adoption agencies to facilitate<br />

adoptions from China and <strong>is</strong> among those officially sanctioned<br />

for placement of children by the China Center for Adoption<br />

Affairs, the government agency that oversees international adoption.<br />

Now with offices in Beijing and Guangzhou, <strong>Holt</strong> stands out<br />

with its team of full-time experienced local staff, who guide adoptive<br />

parents on their journey in China and oversee a host of efforts<br />

helping homeless children across China.<br />

Into Our Arms<br />

A father celebrates the joy and wonder of adoption<br />

Four years ago in a sun-dappled room in Wuhan, Hubei Province,<br />

China, 14 families waited to meet their daughters. A provincial official<br />

greeted us through a translator and explained the process we would go<br />

through over the next few days. She concluded her talk with: “We are<br />

giving into your care our daughters.”<br />

She explained that China expected us to love and care for these young<br />

girls. “They will become your daughters soon,” she said, “and when they<br />

do, you will be part of the family of China. I welcome you to our family.”<br />

That was the day we received Marit. Now 5 years old, she <strong>is</strong> a true<br />

wonder. She <strong>is</strong> tall and lithe, excels at ballet and loves to dance. Her<br />

bright, nearly black eyes are a window on a mind that <strong>is</strong> constantly at<br />

work. Smart, articulate, kind and sensitive, she loves to draw and <strong>is</strong><br />

rather good at it. She has been infinitely patient with us as we learn how<br />

to be the parents she needs and deserves. Since traveling to China with<br />

us in 2003 to bring Mattie home, she has grown into a fantastic big s<strong>is</strong>ter.<br />

Put simply, she has become the daughter we could only dream about a<br />

few short years ago. When she calls us Mommy and Daddy, we marvel at<br />

our good fortune to be the ones to bear those titles for her and her s<strong>is</strong>ter.<br />

Mattie was a tiny 15-month-old when we welcomed her in a hotel<br />

room in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province. Since then, Mattie has grown into a<br />

happy, self-assured 3-year-old with an infectious laugh, a personality that<br />

knows no strangers, and a smile that could light up any of the smaller,<br />

Eastern states. She thinks nothing of walking up to any person on the<br />

street and saying, “<strong>My</strong> name’s Mattie! What’s your name?” We try not to<br />

get too unnerved by th<strong>is</strong> little habit and, to date, the only result has been<br />

that several persons needing a kind word got their day brightened. She’s<br />

taught us quite a lot in two short years.<br />

As always on our “Forever Family Days,” we take a moment to remember<br />

the birth parents of our daughters. For unknown reasons they set<br />

our girls on their paths to us. For those acts of hope and love, we will<br />

always be thankful. We only w<strong>is</strong>h that some day we could meet them to<br />

thank them in person and tell them that everything has worked out just<br />

fine.<br />

To those of you who have been on a similar journey of your own, all<br />

we can say <strong>is</strong> “Ain’t life grand?” And to those of you waiting for that first<br />

moment with your child: May that wait be short, your journey safe and<br />

swift and may it bring you all the joy and wonder we have come to know.<br />

—Tim Chauvin<br />

Nacogdoches, Texas<br />

Top: Tim and Wynter Chauvin<br />

with Marit at the U.S. Consulate<br />

in China, 2001.<br />

That’s Marit Chauvin on the left<br />

and Mattie, with pigtails, on the<br />

right.<br />

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