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4 Parents’ Guide <strong>to</strong> Public School Discipl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong> Wash<strong>in</strong>g<strong>to</strong>n Parents’ Guide <strong>to</strong> Public School Discipl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong> Wash<strong>in</strong>g<strong>to</strong>n 5There are three basic steps most parents f<strong>in</strong>d helpful <strong>in</strong> understand<strong>in</strong>gand challeng<strong>in</strong>g <strong>school</strong> <strong>discipl<strong>in</strong>e</strong>:Step One: Gather InformationStep Two: Develop a StrategyStep Three: Advocate Your PositionEach step is described below, organized around the questions youshould be ask<strong>in</strong>g.STEP ONE: GATHER INFORMATIONTo respond effectively <strong>to</strong> <strong>school</strong> <strong>discipl<strong>in</strong>e</strong>, you will need <strong>to</strong> understandthe situation from both your child’s and the <strong>school</strong>’s po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong>view.Start by gather<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>formation about what happened. Some questions<strong>to</strong> ask are:1. What happened, <strong>in</strong> your child’s words?2. What has the <strong>school</strong> accused your child <strong>of</strong> do<strong>in</strong>g?3. What rule is your child accused <strong>of</strong> break<strong>in</strong>g?4. What punishment does the <strong>school</strong> want <strong>to</strong> impose?5. What will the last<strong>in</strong>g impacts be?As you gather your facts, keep careful notes! Before you forget,write down what you th<strong>in</strong>k happened.Make note <strong>of</strong>:Keep copies <strong>of</strong>:The timel<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> eventsWhom you met withor talked <strong>to</strong>What you talked aboutAll letters (<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g e-mails!)and forms from the <strong>school</strong>All letters you send <strong>to</strong>the <strong>school</strong>1. What happened – <strong>in</strong> your child’s words?Ask your child about what happened and who was <strong>in</strong>volved. F<strong>in</strong>d outwhat punishment the pr<strong>in</strong>cipal or teacher said they would impose(detention, suspension, expulsion, etc.). Use this opportunity <strong>to</strong> f<strong>in</strong>dout if your child feels misunders<strong>to</strong>od or wrongly accused. Also, askwhether there are problems at <strong>school</strong> that your child was react<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong>,like be<strong>in</strong>g bullied or hav<strong>in</strong>g trouble keep<strong>in</strong>g up <strong>in</strong> class.

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