In Times of Illness - Narcotics Anonymous

When people we love in NA are facing an illnessor injury, the outpouring of love they experiencefrom the fellowship can be overwhelming. Thisis a testament to the kind of bonds we form inrecovery. However, it is important to rememberthat some addicts’ families may not understand ourclose relationships to their loved ones. They mayfeel that their privacy is being invaded if groupsof unfamiliar people descend on their home ortheir loved one’s hospital room. We remember toextend them the same respect and empathy we giveto each other. Our experience has shown that theatmosphere of recovery we cherish in our meetingscan translate to these situations as well. Anonymityis also important to remember. In some cases, theremay be family members or other associates who areunaware of their loved one’s recovery in NA. We canbe examples of the spiritual principles of anonymity,integrity, and prudence no matter where we are. Indoing this, we display gratitude for our loved one,our life, and our recovery.In Times of IllnessWe remember that our loved ones need oursupport, not our pity.We can express love in a number of wayswhen our loved ones are facing an illness. Wecan call our friend on the phone, pick themup for a meeting, visit them, prepare meals,or assist them in other daily activities thatthey are unable to accomplish on their own.Dying is a natural part of life. When weapply the spiritual principles we learn inthe steps, we are able to face reality and bethere to support those we love.44