1950s, Bernice, who was a memberof the Church, gave Arlene and herfamily a copy of the Book of Mormon.In 1960, Arlene and her husband andchildren were baptized members ofthe Church. Later they were sealed ina holy temple of God.As a result of the compassionshown by Bernice as she went out ofher way to help one whom she didn’tknow but who was in distress andneeded assistance, countless individuals,both living and dead, now enjoythe saving ordinances of the gospel.Every day of our lives we aregiven opportunities to show love andkindness to those around us. SaidPresident Spencer W. Kimball: “Wemust remember that those mortals wemeet in parking lots, offices, elevators,and elsewhere are that portionof mankind God has given us to loveand to serve. It will do us little goodto speak of the general brotherhood92of mankind if we cannot regard thosewho are all around us as our brothersand sisters.” 6Often our opportunities to showour love come unexpectedly. Anexample of such an opportunityappeared in a newspaper article inOctober 1981. So impressed was Iwith the love and compassion relatedtherein that I have kept the clipping inmy files for over 30 years.The article indicates that anAlaska Airlines nonstop flight fromAnchorage, Alaska, to Seattle,Washington—a flight carrying 150pass<strong>eng</strong>ers—was diverted to a remoteAlaskan town in order to transport agravely injured child. The two-yearoldboy had severed an artery in hisarm when he fell on a piece of glasswhile playing near his home. Thetown was 450 miles (725 km) southof Anchorage and was certainly noton the flight path. However, medicsat the scene had sent out a franticrequest for help, and so the flight wasdiverted to pick up the child and takehim to Seattle so that he could betreated in a hospital.When the flight touched down nearthe remote town, medics informedthe pilot that the boy was bleeding sobadly he could not survive the flightto Seattle. A decision was made to flyanother 2<strong>00</strong> miles (320 km) out of theway to Juneau, Alaska, the nearest citywith a hospital.After transporting the boy to Juneau,the flight headed for Seattle, now hoursbehind schedule. Not one pass<strong>eng</strong>ercomplained, even though most of themwould miss appointments and connectingflights. In fact, as the minutes andhours ticked by, they took up a collection,raising a considerable sum for theboy and his family.As the flight was about to land inSeattle, the pass<strong>eng</strong>ers broke into acheer when the pilot announced thathe had received word by radio thatthe boy was going to be all right. 7To my mind come the words of thescripture: “Charity is the pure love ofChrist, . . . and whoso is found possessedof it at the last day, it shall bewell with him.” 8Brothers and sisters, some of ourgreatest opportunities to demonstrateour love will be within the walls ofour own homes. Love should be thevery heart of family life, and yet sometimesit is not. There can be too muchimpatience, too much arguing, toomany fights, too many tears. LamentedPresident Gordon B. Hinckley: “Whyis it that the [ones] we love [most]become so frequently the targets ofour harsh words? Why is it that [we]sometimes speak as if with daggersthat cut to the quick?” 9 The answers tothese questions may be different foreach of us, and yet the bottom line is
that the reasons do not matter. If wewould keep the commandment tolove one another, we must treat eachother with kindness and respect.Of course there will be timeswhen discipline needs to be metedout. Let us remember, however, thecounsel found in the Doctrine andCovenants—namely, that when it isnecessary for us to reprove another,we afterward show forth an increaseof love. 10I would hope that we would strivealways to be considerate and to besensitive to the thoughts and feelingsand circumstances of those around us.Let us not demean or belittle. Rather,let us be compassionate and encouraging.We must be careful that we do notVienna, Austriadestroy another person’s confidencethrough careless words or actions.Forgiveness should go hand inhand with love. In our families, as wellas with our friends, there can be hurtfeelings and disagreements. Again, itdoesn’t really matter how small theissue was. It cannot and should not beleft to canker, to fester, and ultimatelyto destroy. Blame keeps wounds open.Only forgiveness heals.A lovely lady who has since passedaway visited with me one day andunexpectedly recounted some regrets.She spoke of an incident which hadtaken place many years earlier andinvolved a neighboring farmer, oncea good friend but with whom she andher husband had disagreed on multipleoccasions. One day the farmer askedif he could take a shortcut across herproperty to reach his own acreage. Atthis point she paused in her narrativeto me and, with a tremor in her voice,said, “Brother Monson, I didn’t let himcross our property then or ever butrequired him to take the long wayaround on foot to reach his property.I was wrong, and I regret it. He’s gonenow, but oh, I wish I could say to him,‘I’m so sorry.’ How I wish I had a secondchance to be kind.”As I listened to her, there came tomy mind the doleful observation ofJohn Greenleaf Whittier: “Of all sadwords of tongue or pen, the saddestare these: ‘It might have been! ’” 11Brothers and sisters, as we treat otherswith love and kind consideration, wewill avoid such regrets.Love is expressed in many recognizableways: a smile, a wave, akind comment, a compliment. Otherexpressions may be more subtle, suchas showing interest in another’s activities,teaching a principle with kindnessand patience, visiting one who isill or homebound. These words andactions and many others can communicatelove.Dale Carnegie, a well-knownAmerican author and lecturer,believed that each person has withinhimself or herself the “power toincrease the sum total of [the] world’shappiness . . . by giving a few wordsof sincere appreciation to someoneMay <strong>2014</strong>93
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