NAMWDear Members and Friends,Serving the <strong>Eparchy</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Newton</strong> for 25 years: 1986 – 2011It is with gre<strong>at</strong> sadness th<strong>at</strong> we express our deepest symp<strong>at</strong>hy to our Treasurer, Carol Caven, and her family, on the passing<strong>of</strong> her husband, John. He was a prominent figure in the <strong>Melkite</strong> community for many years. While his physical presence will bemissed by all, we have our happy memories <strong>of</strong> John Caven to keep him alive in our hearts. May his Memory be Eternal!The next major event for NAMW will be the Annual Meeting on Friday, July 6, <strong>at</strong> the Hy<strong>at</strong>t Regency Dearborn, MI duringthe 2012 N<strong>at</strong>ional Convention. The agenda will include an introduction to our new Spiritual Advisor, Fr. Michel Cheble,approval <strong>of</strong> proposed changes in the By-laws, upd<strong>at</strong>e <strong>of</strong> membership d<strong>at</strong>a, parish contacts, sharing <strong>of</strong> ideas and the d<strong>at</strong>e for theordin<strong>at</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> our seminarian, Deacon Musil Shehadeh. Other business m<strong>at</strong>ters will be included as the agenda is finalized.Since the deadline for this issue was right after the celebr<strong>at</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> our feast day, there have not been any submissions yet fromvarious parishes to report. Please have someone drop us a brief note regarding how your parish spent the Sunday <strong>of</strong> the MyrrhBearers, the feast day <strong>of</strong> all women everywhere!In the last issue I asked for mothers, wives or children <strong>of</strong> our clergy to share their stories <strong>of</strong> how they felt when the sons, husbandsor f<strong>at</strong>hers in their lives expressed interest in dedic<strong>at</strong>ing their lives to the priesthood. I received one response from MaryBaroody <strong>of</strong> Holy Transfigur<strong>at</strong>ion Parish, VA who shared her story <strong>of</strong> two sons. It is reprinted on the next page. Please take thetime to read it. Their story is inspiring. Thank you, Mary, for putting your feelings on paper. I hope others will now do the same.Rosemary Shabouk, President Margo Sayegh, Vice President Carol Caven, Treasurer Susan Elek, SecretaryBouk1@aol.com margo_sayegh@verizon.net carol@cavenassoci<strong>at</strong>es.com elek70@comcast.net718-748-1235 626-359-3976 818-843-3905 586-939-0650Prayer for Voc<strong>at</strong>ionsby Rt. Rev. Philip RaczkaO Eternal F<strong>at</strong>her, You are the Lord <strong>of</strong> the Harvest who sent our Lord Jesus Christ to save us and theApostles to spread the good news <strong>of</strong> this salv<strong>at</strong>ion. <strong>Look</strong> now with mercy upon our <strong>Melkite</strong> <strong>Eparchy</strong> <strong>of</strong><strong>Newton</strong> and sustain our clergy in their voc<strong>at</strong>ion. Send us young men to serve the Church as priests anddeacons. Inspire others to serve your Church as monks and nuns and move the hearts <strong>of</strong> all <strong>of</strong> ourparishioners to serve their parishes in wh<strong>at</strong>ever way they are able. We praiseYou for all <strong>of</strong> Your blessingsnow and forever. Amen.Below is a chart <strong>of</strong> the membership dues received from our parishes as <strong>of</strong> Jan. 2012. Do not be alarmed by the numbers.These are the actual figures for the dues/don<strong>at</strong>ions since the names <strong>of</strong> those who are deceased and anyone whohas not paid for the past few years have been deleted from the totals. How is your parish doing? Let’s make 2012-2013even better…our seminarians are counting on us for support.CITY/STATE PARISH/MISSION JAN. 2012Phoenix, AZ St. John Of The Desert 1San Jose, CA St. Elias 1North Hollywood, CA St. Anne 21Sacramento, CA St. George 2Danbury, CT St. Ann 4W<strong>at</strong>erford, CT St. Ann 6Miami, FL St. Jude 59Augusta, GA St. Ign<strong>at</strong>ius Of Antioch 7Boston, MA Annunci<strong>at</strong>ion C<strong>at</strong>hedral 2Lawrence, MA St. Joseph 3Worcester, MA Our Lady Of Perpetual Help 1CITY/STATE PARISH/MISSION JAN. 2012Warren, MI Our Lady Of Redemption 26Manchester, NH Our Lady Of The Cedars 1Woodland Park, NJ St. Ann 8Brooklyn, NY Church Of The Virgin Mary 21Utica, NY St. Basil 5Akron, OH St. Joseph 50Cleveland, OH St. Elias 1Scranton, PA St. Joseph 16Lincoln, RI St. Basil The Gre<strong>at</strong> 9McLean, VA Holy Transfigur<strong>at</strong>ion 43Misc. Clergy/No Parish 2TOTAL: 28634 S ophia • Spring 2012
PLEASE PRINT:To join or renew your membership in the N<strong>at</strong>ional Associ<strong>at</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> <strong>Melkite</strong> Women,complete and mail this form with your Dues check for $10.00 made payable to NAMW to:Carol Caven, NAMW . 2030 N. Glenoaks Boulevard . Burbank, CA 91504NAME ________________________________________________________________________________________________NAMWADDRESS____________________________________________________________________________________________CITY, STATE, ZIP ________________________________________________________________________________________TELEPHONE ______________________________________ EMAIL ____________________________________________PARISH __________________________________________ Please Circle one: NEW MEMBER RENEWALRemember to keep our need for voc<strong>at</strong>ions in your prayers. Be an advoc<strong>at</strong>e, encourage our youth to particip<strong>at</strong>e in your parish.Calling All Mothers <strong>of</strong> ClergyIn order to research a new article about voc<strong>at</strong>ions, I am asking all mothers <strong>of</strong> our priests to tell me how you felt when yourson first told you he wanted to be a priest. How old was he? Wh<strong>at</strong> was your reaction? Were you happy <strong>at</strong> first or did it takea while for you to accept his decision? Wh<strong>at</strong> advice would you give mothers today? Do you have an anecdote about theday he left home? How was his first liturgy?Rev. F<strong>at</strong>hers, if your mothers need help transl<strong>at</strong>ing their stories, please do so. If your mother has gone to her EternalReward, would you tell the story for her? This request could also include wives and children <strong>of</strong> married clergy and deacons.This decision must have changed your lives very much. All are welcome to respond. I look forward to hearing from you.Thank you for sharing.Please send me your story, you may inspire other mothers.Rosemary Shabouk . 36-86 Street . Brooklyn, NY 11209 or email me <strong>at</strong> bouk1@aol.comA Mother’s Letter:Although I am not yet the mother <strong>of</strong> a priest, my story is one <strong>of</strong> two voc<strong>at</strong>ions and how they came to be. I humbly submit itfor your consider<strong>at</strong>ion for your article on voc<strong>at</strong>ions. My sons’ p<strong>at</strong>hs to their voc<strong>at</strong>ions have been straight and purposeful. Itry to keep my own pride in check, but they are truly wonderful examples <strong>of</strong> wh<strong>at</strong> kind <strong>of</strong> men we need in the <strong>Melkite</strong> clergy.Many thanks for the opportunity to share this with you. In Christ, Mary Baroody.My family became members <strong>of</strong> Holy Transfigur<strong>at</strong>ion<strong>Melkite</strong> Church in 1972, shortly after the parishwas founded. Our son, David, was eight years old<strong>at</strong> the time, a bright, boisterous and inquisitive child with agift for music, and the third <strong>of</strong> nine children. Our young pastor,Fr. Joseph Francavilla, loved all the children <strong>of</strong> our smallbut growing parish, and the children returned th<strong>at</strong> love withgre<strong>at</strong> enthusiasm. F<strong>at</strong>her had many friends among the youngpriests and seminarians <strong>of</strong> the church, so there were manyvisiting clergy and seminarians, whom the children alsogrew to know and love. David and his brothers becameacolytes, and grew in their love <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Melkite</strong> Church.By age 10, David was singing in the choir and learningthe liturgical music <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Melkite</strong> church. As a teenager, hewas active in NAMY, where he met his future wife, thelovely C<strong>at</strong>hy Marie Metta, <strong>at</strong> a <strong>Melkite</strong> convention. Overthe next 30 years, he completed high school and his undergradu<strong>at</strong>estudies, was tonsured as a reader in 1985 <strong>at</strong> age 21,married, had two wonderful children, built a successfulcareer, volunteered in the community, served as a reader,chaired the Parish Council, and acted as treasurer <strong>of</strong> thefood festival for many years. In 2000, he entered the DeaconForm<strong>at</strong>ion Program, and was ordained a deacon in 2003.Although Arabic was not spoken in our home, F<strong>at</strong>her Davidhas learned much <strong>of</strong> the language. It is beautiful to hear himspeak it when he takes the Eucharist to shut-ins who arefrom the old country.A Story <strong>of</strong> Voc<strong>at</strong>ionsAfter the repose in the Lord <strong>of</strong> our beloved ProtodeaconPaul Weyrich in 2010, F<strong>at</strong>her David was made Protodeacon.Shortly thereafter, he began his advanced theological studies.During the same year, F<strong>at</strong>her David’s brother, Andrew,entered the diacon<strong>at</strong>e program.Andrew has been a parishioner <strong>at</strong> St. George <strong>Melkite</strong>Church in Birmingham, Alabama, since he entered collegethere in 1985. He married the warm and loving SharonElaine Ritchey, a member <strong>of</strong> the large Ritchey clan, and theyare the parents <strong>of</strong> four sons. Since his arrival in Birmingham27 years ago, Andrew has sung in the choir, taught religiouseduc<strong>at</strong>ion, trained the acolytes, been a leader <strong>of</strong> the YouthGroup, and worked as a tireless coordin<strong>at</strong>or <strong>of</strong> St. George’sannual food festival. He is loved by all.These two wonderful men who are my sons grew in theirvoc<strong>at</strong>ions to the service <strong>of</strong> Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christsince they were eight and five years old respectively. R<strong>at</strong>herthan any sudden awareness <strong>of</strong> a voc<strong>at</strong>ion in either, I believeth<strong>at</strong> for both it was a quiet growth in their love <strong>of</strong> Christ ourGod, through their lives dedic<strong>at</strong>ed to Him and spent workingand worshipping with other <strong>Melkite</strong> laity and clergy, anddoing wh<strong>at</strong> they did, and did so well. Should it be God’s willth<strong>at</strong> F<strong>at</strong>her David become a priest and Seminarian Andrewbecome a deacon and perhaps priest, then it will indeed bedone. I thank God every day <strong>of</strong> my life th<strong>at</strong> He has blessedme with these sons whose desire it is to serve Him. And Ipray for them the prayer th<strong>at</strong> never fails, Thy will be done!Summer 2012 • SOPHIA 35