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Inselelo November 2012 - Diakonia Council of Churches

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INSELELO NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> - PG 5Healers get healingUsually when one asks caregivers how they arefeeling, they talk about their patients and theirpain, instead <strong>of</strong> paying attention to their ownsuffering. What is important to them is saving otherpeople's lives.In August, a group <strong>of</strong> Ithubalethu caregivers fromKwaMashu took time <strong>of</strong>f their usual work <strong>of</strong> caring for others,to take care <strong>of</strong> themselves. At the beginning <strong>of</strong> theworkshop, one woman said she did not even know whatstress is and yet she discovered later that she experiences itdaily. Domestic violence, poverty, child abuse and deathemerged as causes <strong>of</strong> that stress.In small groups the caregivers discussed theirunderstanding <strong>of</strong> stress and trauma as well as the differencebetween the two, using newspaper cuttings as their guide.They were able to identify their own experiences withpictures from newspaper cuttings.They spent time sharing their stories which led them tobetter understand one another's experiences. Manyremarked that it felt great to be listened to.At the end <strong>of</strong> the workshop, participants felt healed and atease that they were not alone in their situations. Theproject's coordinator, Zanele Mkhize said, “This workshophelped us to connect with each other and keptcommunication going as colleagues.”nokufundana kabusha. Ithuba lokwakha umphakathiomusha onesithunzi nenhlonipho nowazisanayo,” kushouMbhishobhi.Uphinde wanxusa izinhlangano zabakholwayo ukubazisukume ziziqhelelanise nezenzo zenkohlakalo.Ukungenzeki kwalokhu kuzoholela ekubhuntshiseniimizamo yokuthula, nasekuqedeni ukungalinganikwamazinga empilo nobulungiswa.“Thina bezenkolo nabantu balelizwe simelweukuphumela obala ngokungalungile okwenzekayosibhekise ngqo kwiziphathimandla zezwe nohulumeniongazifezi izidingo zabantu, kodwa ozenzela umathanda.Uma sedembesela ukukhuluma ngesibindi nokuxwayisasiyobesidicilela phansi iqhaza elabanjwa ngabafa, befelainkululeko yethu,” usho kanje eqhubeka.UMbhishobi Phillip unxuse izinhlangano zabakholwayoukuba zizibandakanye ezindabeni zikazwelonke ukuvalaisikhala sezwi labantu. Uthe lokhu kungase kudaleukuqubuka kwezehlo ezifuze inhlekelele yaseMarikana.Eqhubeka uthe, “Ibanga usizi indaba yaseMarikana.N g i k h o l w a u k u t h i i p h a p h a m i s a a b a k h o l w a y oa b a s e z i n h l a n g a n w e n i u k u b a b a z i q h e l e n a n i s enokukhuluma iqiniso, ukulinganiswa kwamazinganobulungiswa. Simele sixhumane nomphakathi ngendlelaentsha nevulelekile. Akumele sizithele ngabandayonjengokukhombana amaphutha abanye.”Enkulumweni yokwamukela amakholwa enkonzweniThe healers discuss in groups while observing Thursdays in Black.Sekuyisikhathi sokupholisa nokwakhaUSobaba Rubin Phillip uMbhishobhi webandlalamaSheshi eNatali ukhuthaze abezenkoloukuba babambe iqhaza ngethuba elivezweinhlekelele emayini Lonmin Platinum, ekupholiseniamanxeba kwisizwe esilimele. Ubedlulisa umyalezowokuthula nozwelo kulabo ababesenkonzweni yezinkoloezahlukene ababehlanganele ukududuza abashonelwe.Lokhu kwenzeke e-<strong>Diakonia</strong> ngomhlaka 24 Agasti.“Sekusemahlombe abezenkolo nabantu bonke balelizweukubamba iqhaza lokwakha, ukupholisa, ukubuyisanauSiHlalo woMkhandlu wamabandla i-<strong>Diakonia</strong>, uMfundisiIan Booth, uthe akusesona isikhathi sokwenzai n k o m b a n k o m b a n e n g o k o n a k e l e k o d w angesokuzimbandakanya nabasosizini, sihlumeleliseukholo, sibemunye nabalilayo.Uphinde waxwayisa ngokuthi lenhlekeleleiseyisixwayiso, njengesihloko sethumba. Eseqedelainkulumo yakhe uthe, “Ingozi wukuthi isengaba luphawulwesimo esingaba nomthelela omubi kakhulu. Kukekwabakhona izexwayiso zokuthi kungase kuqhume gulalinamasi. Manje sesibona ukuthi impela kungasekubekhona okunye okucathamayo,” kuphetha uMfundisiBooth.

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