EDITORIALA Message to <strong>the</strong> <strong>Pennsylvania</strong><strong>Family</strong> <strong>Institute</strong> Staff:“CONGRATULATIONS! —and thank you for taking <strong>the</strong>initiative to share real-life storiesabout people from across <strong>the</strong>commonwealth, who are makinga difference for families.We are blessed by many awesomepeople in our communities,who encourage and lift o<strong>the</strong>rs up.<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pennsylvania</strong> Families magazinewill add value to <strong>Pennsylvania</strong> as itinspires people and encourages<strong>the</strong>m to turn <strong>the</strong>ir eyes on makinga meaningful difference. <strong>The</strong>magazine also will be a resourcefor information and events.<strong>Pennsylvania</strong> Families magazinewill have a great impact on peopleand our communities. Thank you foryour effort, your passion for familiesand for your desire to serve.”Brian CampbellChairman <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Board<strong>Pennsylvania</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Institute</strong>Is New Always Better?BY EMILY SHAHEENWelcome to <strong>the</strong> premiere issue <strong>of</strong> <strong>Pennsylvania</strong> Families magazine! We are excitedabout unveiling this new publication (which replaces <strong>Pennsylvania</strong> Families &Schools) to our readers. Our staff has been working hard to develop inspiring storiesabout real people, with real families, like yours.Public policy is always important, but it is helpful to read examples <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> peopleon <strong>the</strong> front lines carrying those policies forward in <strong>the</strong>ir everyday lives. How are <strong>the</strong>yaffected personally? How did God bring <strong>the</strong>m to where <strong>the</strong>y are today? <strong>The</strong>se are <strong>the</strong> questionswe seek to answer in this new magazine.What do you think? We want to know what you, <strong>the</strong> reader, think about our newlook and stories. Which features do you like <strong>the</strong> best? What would you like us to dodifferently? Please send your comments and suggestions to our Mailbag address (ei<strong>the</strong>rvia e-mail or regular mail).<strong>The</strong> Truth About ConsequencesI recently started volunteering at a local pregnancy center, and I am surprised to hear<strong>the</strong> responses <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> women who come in for pregnancy tests. When asked how <strong>the</strong>ycould eliminate <strong>the</strong> chances <strong>of</strong> an out-<strong>of</strong>-wedlock pregnancy, <strong>the</strong>y begin listing everythingunder <strong>the</strong> sun except for, what seems to be obvious, abstaining from sex. Doesn’tpromiscuous sex carry consequences? <strong>The</strong> same goes for <strong>the</strong> HPV vaccine issue.<strong>The</strong> governor <strong>of</strong> Texas passed an executive order mandating <strong>the</strong> vaccine for every girl11-years-old and up. He didn’t seem to even think about <strong>the</strong> effects it could have onsexual behavior <strong>of</strong> young girls, who might think <strong>the</strong>y can have “safe” sex without consequences.Our “progressive” culture is so quick to try new medical procedures, try newforms <strong>of</strong> marriage or try new ways <strong>of</strong> pushing <strong>the</strong> moral boundaries <strong>of</strong> society.<strong>The</strong> media continually push moral boundary in regard to violence in movies, televisionand video games. <strong>The</strong> influence and prevalence <strong>of</strong> violent media were importantfactors in <strong>the</strong> Virginia Tech shootings. <strong>The</strong> videotape made by Cho Seung-Hui copieda South Korean movie, Oldboy, which included violent <strong>the</strong>mes <strong>of</strong> obsession andrevenge. Cho’s eBay page listed several violence-filled horror novels that were requiredtexts for a class at Virginia Tech. He was also a fan <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> violent video shootinggame, Counter-Strike.“We have raised a generation <strong>of</strong> barbarians who have learned toassociate violence with pleasure, like <strong>the</strong> Romans cheering andsnacking as <strong>the</strong> Christians were slaughtered in <strong>the</strong> Coliseum,”said Lt. Col. Dave Grossman. Grossman is a former infantry <strong>of</strong>ficer,Ranger and psychology pr<strong>of</strong>essor at <strong>the</strong> U.S. MilitaryAcademy. His book, On Killing: <strong>The</strong> Psychological Cost <strong>of</strong>Learning to Kill in War and Society, was nominated for a PulitzerPrize in 1996.By feeding this blood-thirst with more graphic horror films andviolent video games, are we training <strong>the</strong> very murderers we abhor?Actions and ideas have consequences, even if <strong>the</strong>y are called“progressive.” We need to be people <strong>of</strong> discernment in all areas<strong>of</strong> our lives.Emily Shaheen is <strong>the</strong> media/communications associatefor <strong>the</strong> <strong>Pennsylvania</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Institute</strong> and <strong>the</strong> new editor<strong>of</strong> <strong>Pennsylvania</strong> Families. She is honored to workwith her fa<strong>the</strong>r, Tom Shaheen, at PFI.4
Feature<strong>The</strong> mission <strong>of</strong>Pure Freedom is toequip men and women<strong>of</strong> all ages to live avibrant life <strong>of</strong> purity,to experience healingfrom past impurity if itexists in <strong>the</strong>ir lives,and to experience avibrant, passionatemarriage which portrays<strong>the</strong> love Christhas for his Bride<strong>the</strong> church.MINISTRY VERSE:Ephesians 5:31,32‘Not Even a Hint’B Y A M Y S M I T HDannah Gresh ispassionate aboutpurity — and <strong>the</strong> abundantlife teens can experienceif <strong>the</strong>y are committedto pursuing it asGod intended.“We settle for too little,”she said. “Abstinenceis not not havingsex. It’s waiting to haveit right.”Gresh, <strong>the</strong> founder <strong>of</strong><strong>the</strong> State College-basedministry, Pure Freedom,is also <strong>the</strong> best-sellingauthor <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> book And<strong>the</strong> Bride Wore Whiteand o<strong>the</strong>r books.When Gresh speaksabout purity, she referencesEphesians 5:3-4which says, “Butamong you <strong>the</strong>re mustnot be even a hint <strong>of</strong>sexual immorality, orany kind <strong>of</strong> impurity, or<strong>of</strong> greed, because <strong>the</strong>seare improper for God’sholy people. Nor should<strong>the</strong>re be obscenity, foolishtalk or coarse joking,which are out <strong>of</strong>place, but ra<strong>the</strong>rthanksgiving.”Gresh points out that<strong>the</strong>se verses encompassmental and emotionalpurity and not just <strong>the</strong>“virgin thing.”Pure Freedom grewout <strong>of</strong> Dannah and herhusband Bob’s workingwith teens in <strong>the</strong> church<strong>the</strong>y attended while livingin Missouri — andout <strong>of</strong> Dannah’s ownpain.At <strong>the</strong> age <strong>of</strong> 15,Dannah fell into sexualsin with her boyfriend.For <strong>the</strong> next 10 years,she did not believe thatGod had forgiven her.Finally, she confessedher sin to her husband,and in so doing, foundhis forgiveness and realizedGod’s.Her own healingmotivated her to reachout to teens as PureFreedom began. But hermotivation has changeda lot, she said.“It’s become moreabout obedience to Godas he puts a new thingin my heart,” throughScripture or friends oropen doors.Today, Pure Freedomconducts 60 events peryear, as different teamsgo out for differentevents. Dannah conductsabout two eventsper month but limitsher travels because <strong>of</strong><strong>the</strong> Greshes’ twoteenage children, Robbie,17, and Lexi, 14.Most, but not all, <strong>of</strong>Pure Freedom’s eventsare targeted to teens.“We love teenagers.Satan has <strong>the</strong>m in hiscrosshairs,” Gresh said.Pure Freedom’s websitesays, “Our events,<strong>the</strong> hallmark <strong>of</strong> ourministry, are about sexualpurity and yet <strong>the</strong>yare much more about<strong>the</strong> totality <strong>of</strong> a life submittedto <strong>the</strong> will <strong>of</strong>God in a quest to enjoy5