Across the Big Pond (<strong>and</strong> we’re not talking Mot<strong>le</strong>y’s):Nob<strong>le</strong>s Graduates in Engl<strong>and</strong>B Y T O M B A RT L E T T ’ 7 6From <strong>le</strong>ft: TomBart<strong>le</strong>tt ’76, VanessaBerberian ’95, BruceWeber ’79MOST OF US ENJOYtravel of one sort or another.Some of us have gone a bitfarther to sett<strong>le</strong> in one ofthe places to which we have trave<strong>le</strong>d.Engl<strong>and</strong>, for one, has always been apopular des<strong>tin</strong>ation for Nob<strong>le</strong>s folk,be they students, faculty members orgraduates, <strong>and</strong> it has become home,or home-away-from-home, for morethan a few.Having trave<strong>le</strong>d to these is<strong>le</strong>s anumber of times, as the son of a diplomat,my journey to London fromBoston in 1991 was not that unusual.I was planning to stay for a coup<strong>le</strong>of years, teaching at the American<strong>School</strong> in London.Well, as one of this isl<strong>and</strong>’s famouspoets once said, the best-laid plans….Here I am 17 years later, with a Britishwife <strong>and</strong> two kids whose accents are<strong>le</strong>ss Litt<strong>le</strong> Rascals than Litt<strong>le</strong> & Large(obscure reference to a British comedyduo) ensconced in the hills of NorthBuckinghamshire, a stone’s throw froma 17th-century pub, <strong>and</strong> a village churchof even older vintage. I frequent both,as does the vicar. That’s rural life inthis “green <strong>and</strong> p<strong>le</strong>asant l<strong>and</strong>.”Over the years I’ve observed thecomings <strong>and</strong> goings of various Nob<strong>le</strong>speop<strong>le</strong>, some from my own Class of ’76,with most making their way intoLondon. I’m sure others are scatteredaround the Kingdom, but I’m not personallyaware of any who, like me,sett<strong>le</strong>d here in the Home Counties,or further afield. It is said that Londonis like NYC, D.C. <strong>and</strong> Los Ange<strong>le</strong>s allwrapped into one—hence the attraction,perhaps to the exclusion ofthese provincial demesnes.As a long-term resident, I’ve naturallybeen drawn to those fellow gradswho have decided to stay for longerthan just the usual two- or three-yearwork s<strong>tin</strong>t, <strong>and</strong> I’ve sought out a fewto get their views on the expatriate life.Similar to my experience, KatieWalsh ’96 married into the U.K.…or at <strong>le</strong>ast into one fiercely proud U.K.nation: her husb<strong>and</strong> is a Welshman.Shortly after she <strong>and</strong> Gareth marriedon Cape Cod in 2004, they moved toLondon, where Walsh began a Master’sdegree in the War Studies departmentat King’s Col<strong>le</strong>ge. Gareth had been inthe U.S. for the five years prior <strong>and</strong> wasready to return, according to Walsh.But was she ready for London?“There seems to be more red tapeover here,” she says. “Just to get moneyout of my bank account…. I sometimeshad to have Gareth go <strong>and</strong> doit.” Then there was the storied Britishreserve; when she joined the <strong>School</strong> ofOriental <strong>and</strong> Asian Studies (SOAS), ittook Walsh nearly five months to getto know some of her British col<strong>le</strong>agues;with other nationalities, it was muchquicker.She has not been put off by thesechal<strong>le</strong>nges, however, <strong>and</strong> has appliedfor “indefinite <strong>le</strong>ave to remain” in theU.K. (a <strong>le</strong>gal status granted on the basisof a non-national being married to aBrit). Dual citizenship may follow,although not for Gareth: he wouldhave to give up his British citizenshipto become an American.26 l THE NOBLES BULLETIN l WINTER 2009–2010
Red tape? I’ve still got the “indefinite<strong>le</strong>ave…” stamp in my passport(intrigued by the mixed signals of“<strong>le</strong>ave” <strong>and</strong> “remain”), <strong>and</strong> manage toget through airports <strong>and</strong> other bureaucraciesfairly quickly. On ethnic monitoringforms for British jobs, I used tobe a WOE: “White Other than English.”Now “English” has been droppedfrom these forms, <strong>and</strong> I feel muchmore welcome.”Bruce Weber ’79 faced otherburdens when he moved to Londonfrom New York in 2002 with his wifeTeri <strong>and</strong> two young children, but he at<strong>le</strong>ast had the head start of having livedhere before. After earning his Ph.D.from the University of Pennsylvania in1990, Weber taught for a year at theLondon Business <strong>School</strong>. He <strong>and</strong> Terihad also come over beforeh<strong>and</strong> for a“neighborhood scou<strong>tin</strong>g visit.”“It was a big, exci<strong>tin</strong>g step to sella house, pack our possessions, get UKwork permits stamped into our passports,convert money into Britishpounds <strong>and</strong> board a plane,” he recalls.“Nob<strong>le</strong>s did have something to do withmy being excited to come here. Myfirst class at Nob<strong>le</strong>s was ‘Chinese History’with John Paine, so Englishaccents <strong>and</strong> mannerisms were familiarto me from an early age. Chris Mab<strong>le</strong>y[former math teacher <strong>and</strong> GraduateAffairs Director] spent a year atTonbridge <strong>School</strong> in Tonbridge, Kent,<strong>and</strong> I remember his impressions <strong>and</strong>photos of it being very appealing. Ioften hear from British friends thatthey find Boston far more ‘European’than other U.S. cities. I believe Boston<strong>and</strong> London are more similar than,say, Boston <strong>and</strong> Dallas.”I’m sure George Bush <strong>and</strong> TonyBlair would have some thoughts alongthose lines…. But back to us transplantedNob<strong>le</strong>men <strong>and</strong> -women. Theopportunity for personal <strong>and</strong> professionalgrowth seems to be a commonmotivator in the ex-pat experience,<strong>and</strong> may in some ways compensate forthose unsettling cultural differenceswhich spring up every now <strong>and</strong> then.We all seem to have developed cultureshockabsorbers.Vanessa Berberian ’95 is emphaticon how her move to Londonseven years ago changed her life:“I moved to London initially foran adventure; a new, interes<strong>tin</strong>g lifeexperience. As a photographer, I alsoknew that London would offer greatcareer opportunities. I would havefound it difficult to have this exci<strong>tin</strong>g<strong>and</strong> varied a career at my age in theU.S. Perhaps I st<strong>and</strong> out a bit morein London (as opposed to New York)as an American woman, but, whateverthe reason, I am grateful to have hadthese amazing professional experiences.“Living here has afforded me theexperience of immersing myself in adifferent culture (yes, Engl<strong>and</strong> has adifferent culture), the opportunity totravel to so many different countries soeasily <strong>and</strong> the invaluab<strong>le</strong> opportunityto look at one’s own country from theoutside. I miss things about the U.S.such as 8.5x11 paper, Cheerios, smilinghelpful sa<strong>le</strong>speop<strong>le</strong>, a mere fivepercentMassachusetts sa<strong>le</strong>s tax [nowover six percent], but the opportunities<strong>and</strong> experiences I’ve had living hereare things I never would have done/experienced in the U.S.“As you might imagine, back atNob<strong>le</strong>s, prin<strong>tin</strong>g hour upon hour inthe darkroom, I did ‘picture’ myselfsomeday traveling the world, photographingfor magazines. Living inLondon has definitely helped me toachieve this. At Nob<strong>le</strong>s the faculty,Dick Baker specifically, would encourageus con<strong>tin</strong>uously to ‘take risks,’which often meant travel. The messagesort of logged itself in the back of mybrain. I was never interested in <strong>le</strong>avingNob<strong>le</strong>s when I was there. As we allknow, Nob<strong>le</strong>s is an all-encompassingworld <strong>and</strong> I hated the idea of beingabsent for anything, <strong>and</strong> couldn’timagine missing a sports season! I amnow ‘taking risks’ all the time <strong>and</strong>wouldn’t live my life any other way.”Work opportunities <strong>and</strong> culturalvariety also prompted Henry Singer ’76to make the transatlantic shift.“I initially moved to London towork on a PBS/BBC co-production,a big eight-hour series that was acritique of modern medicine. Andon some very pragmatic <strong>le</strong>vel, I’veremained in Engl<strong>and</strong> ever since becauseit is the best country in the English-speakingworld to make documentaryfilms. I’m an independent filmmaker<strong>and</strong> make big, authored90-minute films for the BBC, alongWINTER 2009–2010 l THE NOBLES BULLETIN l 27