Study Leave Report Summer 2011 Ian Manson This is the first time I ...
Study Leave Report Summer 2011 Ian Manson This is the first time I ...
Study Leave Report Summer 2011 Ian Manson This is the first time I ...
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o<strong>the</strong>rs was striking.I know that any posts which are advert<strong>is</strong>ed for min<strong>is</strong>ters which do not involve par<strong>is</strong>h min<strong>is</strong>try willget far most applications than for any par<strong>is</strong>h post. Almost everyone I spoke to had as much faith in<strong>the</strong> gospel as ever, and in some cases more, but have little belief that <strong>the</strong> decline in <strong>the</strong>ircongregations can be turned around. One said that over <strong>the</strong> years h<strong>is</strong> faith in God had increasedwhile h<strong>is</strong> faith in human beings had decreased. That was said with some sadness but reflected a lotof what I was hearing.BreakdownAno<strong>the</strong>r strong memory that I have from <strong>the</strong> conference I attended for those five years into min<strong>is</strong>try<strong>is</strong> of one colleague telling of a serious breakdown in h<strong>is</strong> health. <strong>Th<strong>is</strong></strong> didn't surpr<strong>is</strong>e any of us ando<strong>the</strong>r stories emerged of marital breakdown and enforced <strong>time</strong> off. One man asked us to be honestand put our hands up if we felt our personal lives had been badly affected by <strong>the</strong> stress of our work.Every hand went up – including mine. The man who asked <strong>the</strong> question drew <strong>the</strong> logicalconclusion – ei<strong>the</strong>r <strong>the</strong>re just happens to be something wrong with every one of us or <strong>the</strong>re <strong>is</strong>something wrong with <strong>the</strong> job we are being asked do.The subject of min<strong>is</strong>terial breakdown has since become a big <strong>is</strong>sue, with terms like “burn out”coming in and out of fashion. The latest emphas<strong>is</strong> <strong>is</strong> on what it termed “life-work balance” withmin<strong>is</strong>ters being pushed towards operating office hours and take appropriate <strong>time</strong> to rest andrecuperate. One of <strong>the</strong> reasons for th<strong>is</strong> new emphas<strong>is</strong> <strong>is</strong> simply financial, a recognition that <strong>the</strong>church cannot go on losing so many men and woman in whom <strong>time</strong> and training has been invested.Naturally I wanted to ask people how <strong>the</strong>y had been affected over a longer term, and whe<strong>the</strong>r or not<strong>the</strong>y had ever come close to giving up. It <strong>is</strong> fair to say that th<strong>is</strong> <strong>is</strong> not a good sample group as thosewho had left min<strong>is</strong>try were by definition not on my l<strong>is</strong>t.First of all I should say that not every min<strong>is</strong>ter had experienced anything <strong>the</strong>y would describe as abreakdown. None<strong>the</strong>less most had been humbled and had some of <strong>the</strong>ir confidence broken downover <strong>the</strong> years. One in th<strong>is</strong> category said that he now felt less prepared for min<strong>is</strong>try than he hadwhen he left university, having less assurance and confidence than when he had started out. That <strong>is</strong>not necessarily a bad thing of course and can simply be a description of <strong>the</strong> natural process ofmaturing.More significantly some did speak of reaching a point of real cr<strong>is</strong><strong>is</strong> that did require medicalintervention. One spoke of taking panic attacks which came to head when he was taking funerals,forcing him into <strong>the</strong> vestry several <strong>time</strong>s in each Service to regain h<strong>is</strong> composure. Ano<strong>the</strong>r foundhimself on a Saturday night walking round in a figure of eight feeling unable to stop. For him itwas symbolic of feeling trapped, stuck in a pattern that he couldn't control or escape from. That<strong>is</strong>sue of feeling trapped seems to be a common one. Quite apart from feeling <strong>the</strong> weight ofexpectations placed upon <strong>the</strong>m, many min<strong>is</strong>ters are also aware that being of a certain age with littleexperience outside of <strong>the</strong> church <strong>the</strong>re are few o<strong>the</strong>r places where we could find employment, andliving in a tied house certainly adds to <strong>the</strong> limitations on our alternative options.Among those who had not had such a dramatic cr<strong>is</strong><strong>is</strong> were many who had come to a point ofreal<strong>is</strong>ation that <strong>the</strong>y could not carry on as before and had to make some changes in <strong>the</strong> way <strong>the</strong>yoperate. One in particular spoke at length about that moment, saying that <strong>the</strong> danger was knowingthat he could simply limp on, having picked up enough experience and professional<strong>is</strong>m to enablehim to keep performing h<strong>is</strong> duties even if h<strong>is</strong> heart wasn't in it. “My sermons weren't exciting me soI knew <strong>the</strong>y wouldn't be exciting anyone else, but I also knew that I could keep producing <strong>the</strong>m”.He knew that no one was ever going to come along and force him to change and that if he were to