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12345678910111213141516171819202122232425262728father's death I wanted to be there for my mother.There have also been numerous problems with the location for the exchanges.Ginny will tell me to pick up the children in one place but when I arrive they aresomewhere else. She expects me to pick up the three children from three differentplaces. She will tell me to make arrangements directly with the children but then shechanges their plans. I do not think this is a matter that should be arranged with thechildren. I am tired of the wild goose chase. It is a waste of my limited time with thechildren. I would like one location designated for the exchanges of all the children. Iam requesting that Ginny deliver the children to my home in University City. I will returnthem to her home or the children's schools.Another very significant issue is Ginny coming to Kessa's school on Fridayswhen it is my weekend. Kessa claims that she does not want to go with me. She nevergives me a reason except the other children are not required to go. She calls Ginnywho comes to pick her up. At the hearing in December the court specifically told Ginnythat she needed to make sure that Kessa went with me. I am not at all surprised thatGinny has continued to interfere and do anything but encourage my relationship withKessa or any of the children. I am requesting that Ginny not be permitted at the schoolor other exchange location when it is the start of my parenting time. She needs tomake it clear to Kessa that she has to go with me. I have no chance to have a realrelationship with Kessa if I am not given the opportunity to actually spend any qualitytime with her. I have not seen Kessa for a long time because of Ginny's interference.I am requesting that Ginny not be permitted to discuss with the children activitiesshe is doing with her family, including their step-siblings, during my time with thechildren. I am also requesting that, when the children are with me, Ginny not bepermitted to call the children and invite them to an event or tell them about the activitiesthat they are doing and what they are missing. Ginny uses the calls to tell Kessa aboutthe activities that they are doing and what she will be missing. Ginny does not tell me inadvance if there is something special going on like a friend's birthday, so I do not haveATTACHMENT 10 TO APPLICATION FOR ORDER - EXCHANGES2
1234567891013.12the opportunity to arrange to take Kessa myself or flip weekends with Ginny. She willput me on the spot when I pick up the children or call them while they are with me toinvite them to have dinner at their favorite restaurant with the other children. Therehave been a few occasions when I heard at the last minute about a special event and Isuggested that we swap weekends so Kessa could go with Ginny and her family butGinny refused. This only frustrates my relationship with Kessa who thinks I am themean one for not letting her go.Ginny has stated in the past that I do not love the children and that I do not reallyhave anything to offer them as a father. I have no doubt that she discusses thelitigation with them. Cody has refused to return my calls or e-mails since the hearing onJune 2 when the court made a monetary judgment against Ginny. I only want to have arelationship with all my children but Ginny makes it impossible.1314END OF DECLARATION1516171819202122232425262728ATTACHMENT 10 TO APPLICATION FOR ORDER - EXCHANGES3
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